WEBVTT - Just B Rant: Let's Talk About ICKS

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<v Speaker 1>Legitimate compassion space, moment of silence, thoughts, prayers, everything for

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<v Speaker 1>Teddy Mellencamp. For like, it's just I haven't heard of

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<v Speaker 1>anyone having brain surgery, Like I don't. I've met her,

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<v Speaker 1>I think once in person. That is serious shit, And

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<v Speaker 1>like it's probably bringing her closer to her husband who

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<v Speaker 1>she's split up with. She has children, it's so scary,

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<v Speaker 1>Like her anxiety for her kids is probably bigger than

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<v Speaker 1>her anxiety for herself. You know, Like my biggest fear

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<v Speaker 1>in life is not being here for my daughter because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the only one she has, and so in being

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<v Speaker 1>healthier and not drinking and just the way that I'm living,

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<v Speaker 1>it really is like a lot of it is because

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<v Speaker 1>of just my daughter. And so I don't even just

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<v Speaker 1>grace more than thot. I mean, like thoughts, great, prayers,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, great, but like grace, And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>there's been so much shit thrown around in that despicable

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<v Speaker 1>tox success pool that she left, and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>she's kind of wanted to go back to. She probably

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<v Speaker 1>has a lot of perspective on what matters, and so

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<v Speaker 1>does everybody else, people just trashing each other, and then

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<v Speaker 1>something like this happens, which is like in life. In life,

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<v Speaker 1>people trashing each other and then all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 1>something bad happens and everybody forgets that. So why don't

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<v Speaker 1>we just like fast forward into if the worst happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Would we want to be operating like this with whoever

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<v Speaker 1>this person is? And that's like a good sort of

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<v Speaker 1>barometer for us in general, like is it worth it?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it worth it? My ix on social media went

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<v Speaker 1>viral talking about X with guys like people were making

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<v Speaker 1>me cry. People were talking about velcrow wallets that a

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<v Speaker 1>man sat crisscross apple sauce and they broke up with them,

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<v Speaker 1>like people were chiming in with I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>once I wanted to break up with someone because they

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<v Speaker 1>ate overnight oats. Okay, that's what I said, and I

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<v Speaker 1>meant it, and I mean it now. GI a seed pudding, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a vagina. Not that there's anything wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>a man having a vagina. I'm just saying I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want a man in my relationships that has a vagina.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you ordered chia seed pudding, it doesn't work

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I can eat chiasted pudding every day, I

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<v Speaker 1>can overnight oats. I can put oats in a fucking

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping bag and have a slumber party with them. I

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<v Speaker 1>can live with oats, cuddle them, and wake up in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning with them. You're not allowed to have overnight oats.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not even allowed to have daytime oats and allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to have quick cooking oats. Oats are off. Men don't

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<v Speaker 1>eat oatmeal that date me. I don't know why. I

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<v Speaker 1>just it's an ick. So I thought I was crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and after people like, you're fucking crazy. Well, no, guess

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<v Speaker 1>not because women were. Like I broke up with a

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<v Speaker 1>man because he skipped once. Not like he was skipping,

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<v Speaker 1>he was walking, but like in one second he skipped,

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<v Speaker 1>wore birkenstocks over crisscross apple sauce. Goodbye, velcrow wallet peace out,

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<v Speaker 1>says yummy tummy belly or delightful. Goodbye, run it up

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<v Speaker 1>the flagpole park that impactful bye. Going out with my buddies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going what are you fucking twenty one? Going out

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<v Speaker 1>your buddies? Okay, are you playing darts in a bar?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it nickel beer night? Go have your fucking buddies.

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<v Speaker 1>You could keep going, go out your buddies and never

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<v Speaker 1>come back because a grown man should not be saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going out with my buddies. Okay, So we were

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<v Speaker 1>crying at all the icks, I mean they were endless,

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<v Speaker 1>the ickx were and he sung in the car. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, And I could sing Celine Dion and somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>over the rainbow at the top of my fucking lungs,

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<v Speaker 1>I could sing let it Go from by Elsa. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. You are not a let to sing a

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn lick in the car with me. Okay, shut the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck up. Don't smack your food, don't breathe, don't sit

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<v Speaker 1>close to me, don't order your own fucking duplicate entree

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<v Speaker 1>of mine, because that's goodbye. We're broken up, we're done.

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<v Speaker 1>We can be married for twenty five years with kids

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<v Speaker 1>and you order the same entree as me, or have

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<v Speaker 1>a velcrow wallet by People despise when men have fish

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<v Speaker 1>in their pictures, but that's more of a dating profile. Ick.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Beer Cozy's and those glasses that are

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<v Speaker 1>on the back of your fucking hat with the like

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<v Speaker 1>foam connectors. What are you doing? What exactly are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>You in like a perpetual state of fishing. Absolutely not

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<v Speaker 1>those are icks. I mean, a man can't say mommy,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you that right now, you'd be living

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<v Speaker 1>with your mommy real soon. Let's talk about lab grown diamonds.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of things I don't want, lab grown diamonds are

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<v Speaker 1>things that I do want. Why they are actual diamonds.

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<v Speaker 1>They're actual diamonds. It's like a vegetable grown outside or

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<v Speaker 1>inside in like inside, like it's still a vegetable, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's grown in a controlled environment. A lab grown diamond

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<v Speaker 1>is not naturally occurring in the middle of like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>another country, like a piece of coal that was condensed

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<v Speaker 1>and heated to be a diamond or whatever happens. But

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<v Speaker 1>like it's an actual diamond, and the prices are a fraction.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now I'm really confused because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>my natural diamonds more unrelatable content I'm scared to wear.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put a turtleleg over my head. The earring's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come out, Like I want the freedom of the

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<v Speaker 1>lab grown earrings, like I don't. I don't want the

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<v Speaker 1>stress I'm selling. I've sold all those bags, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I sold like fifty bags, and because of this luxury

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<v Speaker 1>revolution where I just think it's so stupid and overpriced.

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<v Speaker 1>I've kept some, but now I'm about to move into jewelry.

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<v Speaker 1>So i just sent a pair of earrings and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take a hit on them, a pair of diamond

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<v Speaker 1>big earrings that I just to hurt my ears. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to. I get worried I'm gonna lose them if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm traveling and they're not on my body. I worry

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<v Speaker 1>that they're in my purse, like it's just like having

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<v Speaker 1>an extra two children. I want to lean out. All

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff is making me crazy. But lab grown diamonds

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<v Speaker 1>are taking over, and girls who have real who have

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<v Speaker 1>natural diamonds are freaking out because there are other girls

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<v Speaker 1>in their friend group that have much bigger diamonds and

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<v Speaker 1>they're actual diamonds. They have certificates, they have much bigger

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<v Speaker 1>diamond rings. And now the girls who have the natural

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<v Speaker 1>diamonds are all annoyed because they're like, wait, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a natural diamond that's you know, costs so much more.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think in hears to come, it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be worth so much more. That's the problem. So people

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<v Speaker 1>will say there's always going to there are always there's

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<v Speaker 1>always gonna be the market for naturally occurring diamonds as

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<v Speaker 1>an investment, et cetera. I don't know. I'm just telling

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<v Speaker 1>you that diamond business is tay and a hit. So

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<v Speaker 1>have watches like the luxury space is feels like it's

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<v Speaker 1>in the upside down. I don't know for a fact,

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<v Speaker 1>but it feels like it is. Brennan and I experienced

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<v Speaker 1>a passive aggressive woman at the supermarket that we can't

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<v Speaker 1>stop talking about because it happens in many different places,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just want to talk about the way to

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<v Speaker 1>enrage someone. It's the same thing as like ignore by text.

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<v Speaker 1>We were in a store and there was a man

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<v Speaker 1>that was being checked out at the supermarket and she

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<v Speaker 1>was checking him out and we were standing right behind him,

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<v Speaker 1>and we said to the to the checkout person who

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't talking to him, where it do you know where

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<v Speaker 1>the blah blah blahs, I forget where were looking? There

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<v Speaker 1>was something we were looking pretzels, I think it was,

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<v Speaker 1>And so she ignored us, and we thought, there's no way,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way she doesn't hear us because we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>like a full volume. And then the guy checked out

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<v Speaker 1>and she was standing there and I think like she

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<v Speaker 1>had been annoyed that we had been talking to her

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<v Speaker 1>wash she was checking him out, and we asked the

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<v Speaker 1>question again, excuse me, and then like it was like hostile,

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<v Speaker 1>like you could tell she was doing it on purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were just like, excuse me to you. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was crazy because it happens in many different places.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know people are frustrated and they're frustrated with

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<v Speaker 1>their jobs, but like sometimes you ever noticed that a bartender

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<v Speaker 1>or someone just doesn't want to respond to you. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be it's always someone in like the service business,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've gotten into a situation where the customer is

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<v Speaker 1>always wrong, like with cancelation and the way things go now,

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<v Speaker 1>the customer's always wrong and not allowed to complain. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>let to say anything. It's always the customer's wrong. But

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell you there is nothing more frustrating than

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<v Speaker 1>when you catch someone who's pass ag and you can

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<v Speaker 1>you know the moment that you realize that they're definitely

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<v Speaker 1>fucking with you on purpose, but they're in the power

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<v Speaker 1>position because the customers always wrong. In twenty twenty five,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just like and we kept and Brim is

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm gonna Brim was like I'm gonna go louder

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<v Speaker 1>and louder. We're like, do you know what? Like it

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<v Speaker 1>was greaty see the woman just we talked about it

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<v Speaker 1>the whole vacation. She just never wanted to respond to us,

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<v Speaker 1>never wanted to respond to us. Oh my god, text responding?

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<v Speaker 1>How much does text suck? How much has text been

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<v Speaker 1>overused as a means of communication for everything? People are

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<v Speaker 1>expressing their feelings, people are really going through it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it becomes like addictive, like let me say this, let

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<v Speaker 1>me say something else, let me get this in. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get my full thought, and it is really just

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<v Speaker 1>the death of human interaction. Text is the worst, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can't resist. I mean, there are people that I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone out with that like I've gone out with, been

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<v Speaker 1>out with, been together with that we've really never spoken

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. You could be with someone, you could

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<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship and never speak to someone on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I'm at the point where I think FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>is critical, especially if you want to talk about something

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<v Speaker 1>like text is just the devil. And if someone doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>respond when you text, it's hostile. It's not necessarily intentionally hostile,

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<v Speaker 1>but let's put it this way. If you see that

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<v Speaker 1>someone responds to people they work with in a meaningful,

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<v Speaker 1>timely fashion, or their children or their parents, and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't respond to you in a meaningful fashion, then something's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something intentional, there's something blocked. There's something passive aggressive,

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<v Speaker 1>there's something hostile, there's something subconscious. People have to respond