Speaker 1: Legitimate compassion space, moment of silence, thoughts, prayers, everything for
Speaker 1: Teddy Mellencamp. For like, it's just I haven't heard of
Speaker 1: anyone having brain surgery, Like I don't. I've met her,
Speaker 1: I think once in person. That is serious shit, And
Speaker 1: like it's probably bringing her closer to her husband who
Speaker 1: she's split up with. She has children, it's so scary,
Speaker 1: Like her anxiety for her kids is probably bigger than
Speaker 1: her anxiety for herself. You know, Like my biggest fear
Speaker 1: in life is not being here for my daughter because
Speaker 1: I'm the only one she has, and so in being
Speaker 1: healthier and not drinking and just the way that I'm living,
Speaker 1: it really is like a lot of it is because
Speaker 1: of just my daughter. And so I don't even just
Speaker 1: grace more than thot. I mean, like thoughts, great, prayers,
Speaker 1: you know, great, but like grace, And you know what,
Speaker 1: there's been so much shit thrown around in that despicable
Speaker 1: tox success pool that she left, and I know that
Speaker 1: she's kind of wanted to go back to. She probably
Speaker 1: has a lot of perspective on what matters, and so
Speaker 1: does everybody else, people just trashing each other, and then
Speaker 1: something like this happens, which is like in life. In life,
Speaker 1: people trashing each other and then all of a sudden
Speaker 1: something bad happens and everybody forgets that. So why don't
Speaker 1: we just like fast forward into if the worst happened?
Speaker 1: Would we want to be operating like this with whoever
Speaker 1: this person is? And that's like a good sort of
Speaker 1: barometer for us in general, like is it worth it?
Speaker 1: Is it worth it? My ix on social media went
Speaker 1: viral talking about X with guys like people were making
Speaker 1: me cry. People were talking about velcrow wallets that a
Speaker 1: man sat crisscross apple sauce and they broke up with them,
Speaker 1: like people were chiming in with I was like, I
Speaker 1: once I wanted to break up with someone because they
Speaker 1: ate overnight oats. Okay, that's what I said, and I
Speaker 1: meant it, and I mean it now. GI a seed pudding, Okay,
Speaker 1: you have a vagina. Not that there's anything wrong with
Speaker 1: a man having a vagina. I'm just saying I don't
Speaker 1: want a man in my relationships that has a vagina.
Speaker 1: So when you ordered chia seed pudding, it doesn't work
Speaker 1: for me. I can eat chiasted pudding every day, I
Speaker 1: can overnight oats. I can put oats in a fucking
Speaker 1: sleeping bag and have a slumber party with them. I
Speaker 1: can live with oats, cuddle them, and wake up in
Speaker 1: the morning with them. You're not allowed to have overnight oats.
Speaker 1: You're not even allowed to have daytime oats and allowed
Speaker 1: to have quick cooking oats. Oats are off. Men don't
Speaker 1: eat oatmeal that date me. I don't know why. I
Speaker 1: just it's an ick. So I thought I was crazy
Speaker 1: and after people like, you're fucking crazy. Well, no, guess
Speaker 1: not because women were. Like I broke up with a
Speaker 1: man because he skipped once. Not like he was skipping,
Speaker 1: he was walking, but like in one second he skipped,
Speaker 1: wore birkenstocks over crisscross apple sauce. Goodbye, velcrow wallet peace out,
Speaker 1: says yummy tummy belly or delightful. Goodbye, run it up
Speaker 1: the flagpole park that impactful bye. Going out with my buddies.
Speaker 1: I'm going what are you fucking twenty one? Going out
Speaker 1: your buddies? Okay, are you playing darts in a bar?
Speaker 1: Is it nickel beer night? Go have your fucking buddies.
Speaker 1: You could keep going, go out your buddies and never
Speaker 1: come back because a grown man should not be saying
Speaker 1: I'm going out with my buddies. Okay, So we were
Speaker 1: crying at all the icks, I mean they were endless,
Speaker 1: the ickx were and he sung in the car. I'm
Speaker 1: like wow, And I could sing Celine Dion and somewhere
Speaker 1: over the rainbow at the top of my fucking lungs,
Speaker 1: I could sing let it Go from by Elsa. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You are not a let to sing a
Speaker 1: goddamn lick in the car with me. Okay, shut the
Speaker 1: fuck up. Don't smack your food, don't breathe, don't sit
Speaker 1: close to me, don't order your own fucking duplicate entree
Speaker 1: of mine, because that's goodbye. We're broken up, we're done.
Speaker 1: We can be married for twenty five years with kids
Speaker 1: and you order the same entree as me, or have
Speaker 1: a velcrow wallet by People despise when men have fish
Speaker 1: in their pictures, but that's more of a dating profile. Ick.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Beer Cozy's and those glasses that are
Speaker 1: on the back of your fucking hat with the like
Speaker 1: foam connectors. What are you doing? What exactly are you doing?
Speaker 1: You in like a perpetual state of fishing. Absolutely not
Speaker 1: those are icks. I mean, a man can't say mommy,
Speaker 1: I can tell you that right now, you'd be living
Speaker 1: with your mommy real soon. Let's talk about lab grown diamonds.
Speaker 1: Speaking of things I don't want, lab grown diamonds are
Speaker 1: things that I do want. Why they are actual diamonds.
Speaker 1: They're actual diamonds. It's like a vegetable grown outside or
Speaker 1: inside in like inside, like it's still a vegetable, Like
Speaker 1: it's grown in a controlled environment. A lab grown diamond
Speaker 1: is not naturally occurring in the middle of like you know,
Speaker 1: another country, like a piece of coal that was condensed
Speaker 1: and heated to be a diamond or whatever happens. But
Speaker 1: like it's an actual diamond, and the prices are a fraction.
Speaker 1: And so now I'm really confused because a lot of
Speaker 1: my natural diamonds more unrelatable content I'm scared to wear.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put a turtleleg over my head. The earring's
Speaker 1: gonna come out, Like I want the freedom of the
Speaker 1: lab grown earrings, like I don't. I don't want the
Speaker 1: stress I'm selling. I've sold all those bags, you know,
Speaker 1: I sold like fifty bags, and because of this luxury
Speaker 1: revolution where I just think it's so stupid and overpriced.
Speaker 1: I've kept some, but now I'm about to move into jewelry.
Speaker 1: So i just sent a pair of earrings and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take a hit on them, a pair of diamond
Speaker 1: big earrings that I just to hurt my ears. You
Speaker 1: have to. I get worried I'm gonna lose them if
Speaker 1: I'm traveling and they're not on my body. I worry
Speaker 1: that they're in my purse, like it's just like having
Speaker 1: an extra two children. I want to lean out. All
Speaker 1: this stuff is making me crazy. But lab grown diamonds
Speaker 1: are taking over, and girls who have real who have
Speaker 1: natural diamonds are freaking out because there are other girls
Speaker 1: in their friend group that have much bigger diamonds and
Speaker 1: they're actual diamonds. They have certificates, they have much bigger
Speaker 1: diamond rings. And now the girls who have the natural
Speaker 1: diamonds are all annoyed because they're like, wait, I have
Speaker 1: a natural diamond that's you know, costs so much more.
Speaker 1: I don't think in hears to come, it's going to
Speaker 1: be worth so much more. That's the problem. So people
Speaker 1: will say there's always going to there are always there's
Speaker 1: always gonna be the market for naturally occurring diamonds as
Speaker 1: an investment, et cetera. I don't know. I'm just telling
Speaker 1: you that diamond business is tay and a hit. So
Speaker 1: have watches like the luxury space is feels like it's
Speaker 1: in the upside down. I don't know for a fact,
Speaker 1: but it feels like it is. Brennan and I experienced
Speaker 1: a passive aggressive woman at the supermarket that we can't
Speaker 1: stop talking about because it happens in many different places,
Speaker 1: and I just want to talk about the way to
Speaker 1: enrage someone. It's the same thing as like ignore by text.
Speaker 1: We were in a store and there was a man
Speaker 1: that was being checked out at the supermarket and she
Speaker 1: was checking him out and we were standing right behind him,
Speaker 1: and we said to the to the checkout person who
Speaker 1: wasn't talking to him, where it do you know where
Speaker 1: the blah blah blahs, I forget where were looking? There
Speaker 1: was something we were looking pretzels, I think it was,
Speaker 1: And so she ignored us, and we thought, there's no way,
Speaker 1: there's no way she doesn't hear us because we're talking
Speaker 1: like a full volume. And then the guy checked out
Speaker 1: and she was standing there and I think like she
Speaker 1: had been annoyed that we had been talking to her
Speaker 1: wash she was checking him out, and we asked the
Speaker 1: question again, excuse me, and then like it was like hostile,
Speaker 1: like you could tell she was doing it on purpose,
Speaker 1: and we were just like, excuse me to you. And
Speaker 1: it was crazy because it happens in many different places.
Speaker 1: And I know people are frustrated and they're frustrated with
Speaker 1: their jobs, but like sometimes you ever noticed that a bartender
Speaker 1: or someone just doesn't want to respond to you. It
Speaker 1: could be it's always someone in like the service business,
Speaker 1: and we've gotten into a situation where the customer is
Speaker 1: always wrong, like with cancelation and the way things go now,
Speaker 1: the customer's always wrong and not allowed to complain. I'll
Speaker 1: let to say anything. It's always the customer's wrong. But
Speaker 1: I will tell you there is nothing more frustrating than
Speaker 1: when you catch someone who's pass ag and you can
Speaker 1: you know the moment that you realize that they're definitely
Speaker 1: fucking with you on purpose, but they're in the power
Speaker 1: position because the customers always wrong. In twenty twenty five,
Speaker 1: and you're just like and we kept and Brim is
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna Brim was like I'm gonna go louder
Speaker 1: and louder. We're like, do you know what? Like it
Speaker 1: was greaty see the woman just we talked about it
Speaker 1: the whole vacation. She just never wanted to respond to us,
Speaker 1: never wanted to respond to us. Oh my god, text responding?
Speaker 1: How much does text suck? How much has text been
Speaker 1: overused as a means of communication for everything? People are
Speaker 1: expressing their feelings, people are really going through it, and
Speaker 1: it becomes like addictive, like let me say this, let
Speaker 1: me say something else, let me get this in. I
Speaker 1: didn't get my full thought, and it is really just
Speaker 1: the death of human interaction. Text is the worst, and
Speaker 1: you can't resist. I mean, there are people that I've
Speaker 1: gone out with that like I've gone out with, been
Speaker 1: out with, been together with that we've really never spoken
Speaker 1: on the phone. You could be with someone, you could
Speaker 1: be in a relationship and never speak to someone on
Speaker 1: the phone. I'm at the point where I think FaceTime
Speaker 1: is critical, especially if you want to talk about something
Speaker 1: like text is just the devil. And if someone doesn't
Speaker 1: respond when you text, it's hostile. It's not necessarily intentionally hostile,
Speaker 1: but let's put it this way. If you see that
Speaker 1: someone responds to people they work with in a meaningful,
Speaker 1: timely fashion, or their children or their parents, and they
Speaker 1: don't respond to you in a meaningful fashion, then something's wrong.
Speaker 1: There's something intentional, there's something blocked. There's something passive aggressive,
Speaker 1: there's something hostile, there's something subconscious. People have to respond