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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha.

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Speaker 2: I hope your stuff. I never told you production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: And welcome to the return for twenty twenty five our

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Speaker 1: viewing and I guess our reaction to Sex and the City. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're coming back. I feel like, at the very least

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Speaker 1: will end season three this year. And those are my hopes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a goal, all right, But yes, we.

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Speaker 1: Were back when we are back in viewing Sex and

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Speaker 1: the City, some such as Annie for.

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Speaker 2: The first time, that's true, this is my first time. Also,

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Speaker 2: we have chosen our winner for the list who's going

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Speaker 2: to come on and view the next episode. I believe

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Speaker 2: with us, they've already been contacted. If you did not win,

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Speaker 2: please don't be discouraged, because we're going to do it again.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this is going to be at least the once

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Speaker 1: a season thing, if not more. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Who knows, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's so randomly.

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Speaker 2: I used my dungeons and dragons dice that's out. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I assigned numbers and yeah, I rollodize, so it's random.

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Speaker 2: But yes, if you didn't get it this time, please

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Speaker 2: feel free to try again, but.

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Speaker 1: In your name, yeah, do it through the social media's

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Speaker 1: whatever whatnot, because we will definitely we do include those.

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Speaker 1: So but yes, we are back. It is season three,

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Speaker 1: episode twelve. Now, but before we start, because this is

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Speaker 1: a happy hour. So if you're doing any of the

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Speaker 1: things that we talk about in happy hour times or

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Speaker 1: do so and participate in, do so responsibly. We love you.

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Speaker 1: Be good to yourself. We do one any are you

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Speaker 1: doing something responsibly? Are you sipping on anything or responsibly?

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Speaker 2: I am indeed, I'm still in my rose that I

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Speaker 2: mentioned last time. It is as we record this as

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Speaker 2: it comes out. It's Gallentine's Day and Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Happy Galentine's y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Happy Galentine's Day. So I just felt like it'd

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Speaker 2: be appropriate. Yeah, yeah, I have plans on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Not romantic plans obviously, I mean, obviously to.

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Speaker 1: People who don't be But.

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Speaker 2: Today they were like, I can't wait to celebrate Gallentines

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Speaker 2: with you, and I was like, I hope you know

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Speaker 2: that Gallentine's actually is a thing that happens the day

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Speaker 2: before Valentine's because I swear if you show up at

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Speaker 2: my apartment on the wrong day, I should just clarify

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Speaker 2: that I should make sure that you.

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Speaker 1: Need clarifying is good, Yeah, communication, but I mean further relationship.

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Speaker 2: Said, we have the date and it says Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 2: so I think they know, but I just want to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, verify. It's always good to verify. Yeah, all, I

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Speaker 1: love that. Well. I am actually gonna try one that

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Speaker 1: I had bought for us, and it's the Buzzkill, which

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Speaker 1: is the alcohol removed Cabernet Savignon. Buzz Kill is a

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Speaker 1: company owned by a woman, and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I don't have it pulled up. We'll probably talk a

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Speaker 1: point five percent. So I'm really excited because again, as

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Speaker 1: many of you regular listeners and those who are just

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Speaker 1: all period us up or two whatever, So this is

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Speaker 2: It's pretty romantic. Yeah, I would agree.

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Speaker 1: I would great a drink was romantic. Maybe, I don't

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Speaker 1: and as you know, we have a whole little system

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Speaker 2: Which is not an easy task because it has been

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Speaker 1: I want to be often as well as I quiz

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Speaker 1: you and you can't cheat. Yeah, so I believe.

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Speaker 2: In the last episode, so like one of the overarching

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Speaker 2: themes of this has been Carrie has found a happy

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Speaker 2: relationship with Aiden. It seems healthy, but she is used

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Speaker 2: his wife, his wife Natasha, Yeah, seeing her and being

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Speaker 2: Charlotte's about to get married to Trey, and she's she's

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Speaker 1: and that's kind of that bigger conversation and then he says,

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Speaker 1: It's okay, they'll find their way back home once they stray.

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Speaker 1: In her. She does, but she does exit and she's like,

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Speaker 1: We're so over one of those two things. I think

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Speaker 2: Well, I know I'm gonna be quizzed on it, so

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Speaker 1: With spring on you on a day we're not watching

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Speaker 1: be terrible if we love it? Well, we are coming

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Speaker 1: on episode twelve, a lot of climax I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: this season is just a season a lot of discovery,

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Speaker 1: really big turnaround. You would think it's like four seasons

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Speaker 1: in one. But this episode is titled Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

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Speaker 1: Can you give me a prediction of what you think

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Speaker 2: So I feel like that's when you know. It's like

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Speaker 2: no mission of it's when you lie. But if somebody

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Speaker 2: we both know maybe there's a lie happening here, but

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Speaker 2: go back. I think a lot of shoes will be revealed.

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Speaker 1: How about that truth? Truths? Okay? I heard shoes, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, in this show, maybe it could be oh brunch,

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Speaker 3: Okay, for Miranda, the only thing worse than being Charlotte's

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Speaker 1: Are your type gone now? But needing a date for

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Speaker 2: I knew, like, usually you come with somebody, but I

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Speaker 1: So either. I guess if your friend though, and all

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Speaker 1: your plus one. But that would be just as fun

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Speaker 1: to be fine. Yeah, I'm a lawyer at a mid

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Speaker 3: Actually I was recently made partner.

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Speaker 1: I'm a lawyer. None of them are going to like it.

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Speaker 1: They're like, she's too careful school, I'm a stewardess. Why

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Speaker 1: would you look at her that way?

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Speaker 4: Really?

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Speaker 1: I still think we could try to do a speed

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Speaker 1: dating for you, but why why not? Because we want

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Speaker 1: to know the experience.

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Speaker 2: Annie, Wait, I can't remember. Have you done it?

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Speaker 2: I feel like it would be rude to somebody because it.

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Speaker 1: It's like an experiment, and I'm trying to find somebody

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Speaker 1: to reject you. This is too much, and you're rejecting me.

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Speaker 5: This is mean, let's speak, drink and be married, eat,

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Speaker 5: drink and be married.

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Speaker 2: You know, I find marriages are full of like the

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Speaker 2: really cliche puns. So yeah, I get it should be

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Speaker 2: your will help it should be. But I like to

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Speaker 2: go for the stranger, dorkier things, not the romantic suite

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Speaker 2: His name was Galeb, right, wow seeah, I also know

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Speaker 2: it's a trope to like hook up at a wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yes, usually the guzman and a bridesmaid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I caught the bouquet ones and I did get

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Speaker 2: this is a superstition, I believe, right.

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Speaker 1: I've been in many weddings that was never my case.

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Speaker 3: That night, Harris got to make love to a stewardess

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Speaker 1: The end of dating, all right? Then it's also the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's not gonna go well. I don't

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Speaker 3: The sales up.

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Speaker 2: Can't bring it into the harbor.

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Speaker 1: when it comes to Trey. There's a lot of nautical

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Speaker 2: He's not leaving the picture at this point, I don't know, get.

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Speaker 1: Your sales up with excitement because it's coming. Stop flirting

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Speaker 3: I'm all I could think about was the fact that

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Speaker 2: It's a lovely. Yeah, exterior, but yeah, that's that would

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Speaker 2: And that'd be really funny. If somebody set up a

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Speaker 2: while for a while, would like, is there I think

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Speaker 2: if you were fraudy fraud I think would I don't know.

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Speaker 4: think you could get trouble if you were just like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: This aiden I slept with my ex boyfriend. You met

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Speaker 3: and I didn't tell you, And I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Weird way to announce that, And she does it in

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Speaker 3: M we were going out once, oh more than once,

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Speaker 2: I mean I guess, like, yeah, she should tell him,

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Speaker 1: It's also a selfish time, too, like for her to

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's because I was like I

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Speaker 1: I never wanted one. I've never There's never been nothing

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Speaker 1: to really pretend like I had a mount. There's nothing

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Speaker 2: I've seen that happen before with a bride's maid. She

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Speaker 1: What he slept together last night?

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Speaker 3: And he couldn't get it up?

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Speaker 1: Was he drunk? No, I was drunk.

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Speaker 3: He was fine. Well, then it must have just been

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Speaker 1: Time to have, like doubt happens to everybody.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just should have slept with them the first date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but it's true. It does happen to everybody.

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Speaker 1: It does it a weird like pressures like for women

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Speaker 3: I do love him and he loves you.

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Speaker 2: You can work on that stuff later and you got

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Speaker 2: plenty of time. Like, sometimes it doesn't work out. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: When you were watching this the first time, did you

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't you see them? Yeah, and wouldn't they be

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Like New Girl has this point where she's getting married

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Speaker 1: and then decides not to, and Taylor Swift pops up

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Speaker 1: that's pressuring her to get married, but you never see

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Speaker 1: had never met her. I'm like, how confusion. I shouldn't

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Speaker 1: know about this. I just wanted to be honest with you.

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Speaker 3: When people make mistakes.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that was not There was a lot of mistakes.

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Speaker 1: It was a choice that you made for months. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's not how that works. That's a mistake. Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: get over. That makes me angry actually, and she doesn't

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Speaker 1: know for quaw, I say, as if I do. I

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Speaker 1: have no dog in this right, you do as a viewer.

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Speaker 1: As a viewer, that's correct.

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Speaker 2: A shipper for sure, Non schipper.

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Speaker 1: Wow, the wedding episode, I told you this gets intense.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 2: It was intense.

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Speaker 1: I mean, so there was no brunch. I'm sorry to

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Speaker 2: Every time I feel like a wedding is a brunch situation.

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Speaker 1: You would think they would go, but she's pretty busy,

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Speaker 1: so a bachelorretpe party would probably make the sense. That's

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Speaker 1: what that was. I'm sorry, sorry to you for the

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Speaker 1: bad guess how dare you? I can't remember what your

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: I basically said like a truth would be revealed. That's right.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I got caught off by thinking that you

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Speaker 1: said choose. Yeah, yes, so there you go. That is correct.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and brunch and I got that one wrong. Yeah,

438
00:25:58,560 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 2: I missed it.

439
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 1: Fifty to fifty seventy five. We'll give you back.

440
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: I love your random grading, Rubric.

441
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: I never know makes it better? It does? No one

442
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: knows the scale, no one but you're anyway. So this

443
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 1: is one of those episodes. I'm like this this season

444
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: hits hard. You would think that was the finale about

445
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 1: what's going to happen next, how like all this, But

446
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: it's not. We're only halfway through a little more than

447
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: halfway through a little more. There's several more episodes come,

448
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:35,239
Speaker 1: including the one with Yes listener guests can can't wait

449
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 1: for that one. It's an interesting one. I try to

450
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 1: pick a more lighthearted one to uh do that with,

451
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: but yes, this one is like the fils Aiden's got hurt.

452
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: He was making a beautiful gift, you know. Uh, Miranda

453
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: played her games and she's still lost in that game

454
00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: somehow with a giant cut that kept bleeding apparently on things.

455
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

456
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: And then we've got Sam. She was triumphant, got her

457
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 1: Scottish man. That's true, you do you that's true. Charlotte

458
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: did get married. But we'll see what happens with this marriage. No, okay,

459
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,199
Speaker 1: there's a lot. There's a lot here. I kind of like,

460
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: I wonder how the estimated cost to that wedding. Oh,

461
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: it had to be really expensive. The church, the amount

462
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 1: of people.

463
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you're talking about the addresses in show cost

464
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 2: and not the like how to film.

465
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 1: It cost yeah, no, no, as in like if it

466
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: was an actual wedding. Yeah, I wonder how much that

467
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 1: would be.

468
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 2: She she did the Charlotte did the prenup and the.

469
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: She has a baby.

470
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, that's so strange to me.

471
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: And I think it has to be a son. You

472
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: get less the water. Oh my, I remember correctly. I

473
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,439
Speaker 1: might be mixing that up.

474
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: We need to do an episode on prenupts. We talked

475
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: about it in that episode.

476
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah.

477
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 2: That's so they have a lot of money. I'm sure

478
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 2: it was a very expensive writing.

479
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 1: Well I think about that a lot because people like

480
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: it's only going up obviously, cost the flowers is a

481
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,360
Speaker 1: huge amount, a photographer is a huge amount, a videographer

482
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: is a huge amount. And then those dresses, and you

483
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: know they're all designer tailor made for each one of

484
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: the bridesmaids. All the kilts I'm sure were also tailor

485
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: made because it was actually they have like their own style,

486
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: like they have to wear a specific pattern for their family,

487
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: like crest, all those things. It costs a lot of

488
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: money to come together, like and just planning a wedding today,

489
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: I could not imagine. I remember, like just having so

490
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: my sister when she first got married way back when,

491
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: was I like in the nineties, in the nineties, y'all. Yeah,

492
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: her budget was around seven thousand, and that included a

493
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: free church because you didn't have to pay for the

494
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: church that our church that we were at. That included

495
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: a friend of her or a friend of the family

496
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: making the dresses. And I think that they just bought

497
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: material and it was itchy material. Very peach and mint

498
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: were the colors. Peach and meant.

499
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Okay, it does feel like a very southern wedding.

500
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, so no alcohol, but they did have like foods.

501
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: But the food is like this is how I grew up,

502
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: was all like buffet level. Someone else made all those things,

503
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: and we all brought food together. My mom made a

504
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: bunch of like she makes these really good like wedding mints.

505
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: I loved those. I melt in your mouth wedding man.

506
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: So it's almost like a moose type. I guess it's

507
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: almost like a meringue, except not foamy, a little more

508
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: sturdy er. Okay, so I'm sure something specific I don't remember,

509
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: but anyway, that's the wedding that I knew. So that

510
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: was a lot covered that seven thousand went for flowers,

511
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: it went for photos, and it went for her dress

512
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: and his tuxato so clothing. I think this is a

513
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: little bit for the food, Like paid for the food

514
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: to be made, but it wasn't catered. I want to say.

515
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: The wedding cake was made by a friend as well.

516
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: So even with that, it still costs seven thousand. And

517
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: I know that's a very cheap wedding. And everybody's like,

518
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: huh what because now people spend around I think I

519
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: thought they needed to save about twenty to thirty thousand.

520
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: That would be like open bar, flowers, all these things. Yeah,

521
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: and then if you upgraded with more, with the decorations,

522
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: the location, all of that, like that's the cause. So

523
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: I can't imagine that makes me nauseous in New York

524
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: as well.

525
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like most of the weddings I've

526
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 2: been to recently with people who are relatively where I

527
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 2: am monetarily give or take. It's sort of a local

528
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 2: restaurant that's not fancy. They bought food from there, bring

529
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 2: your own alcohol to stalk the bar. Yeah, and then

530
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: the decorations are usually DIY a friend, maybe your friends

531
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 2: did it and I'm sure it was still expensive. But

532
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: I have seen a lot of people take these like

533
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: cost cutting measures, and they were all lovely, like all

534
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 2: of them no notes, had a great time. But I

535
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: can only imagine listeners, please write in what the situation

536
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: is like now.

537
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: Tell us your experience, because I find that fascinating again

538
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: as a person who has like no interest in getting

539
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: married anytime soon. But also like if I did, it

540
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: would not be like I've always said, we would like

541
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: do an elopement or like a small and me and

542
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: him and that'd be it and then have a giant party.

543
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: But even then, like I've had nightmares about like how

544
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,959
Speaker 1: to do it because my family is so straight laced

545
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: and very like against alcohol, very religious, like we have

546
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: to have these things. And then the sermon almost have

547
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: an altar call, as in like people to come pray

548
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 1: to be saved in the middle of their weddings, like

549
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: they they don't always, but it feels like it that

550
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: you have to have a sermon where it's interesting they

551
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: have to preach a sermon.

552
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: M h.

553
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: Oftentimes, maybe I'm wrong, Maybe it's been a long time

554
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: and that's exaggerated in my head since I've been to

555
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: a wedding like that, but like they have but they

556
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: go to that route versus like I believe, like Mike,

557
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: if it was my current partner, his family, not that

558
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,239
Speaker 1: they would expect anything, but they're more low kilter. They

559
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: just want to be there with the family and celebrate.

560
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: They do that with like drinking and dancing and like

561
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: I don't know if they would dance, but they would.

562
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: They would enjoy your typical wedding stuff. So I think

563
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: it would be an interesting mix and trying to put

564
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: that together and not trying to leave anybody out. Yeah,

565
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: but also like that would make me stressed out to

566
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: have Yeah, to think about that on a constant basis,

567
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: not the family portion of but like my specific families

568
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: like more so than anything else, and them feeling welcome

569
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: and feeling like they're a part of it in the

570
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: way I would want it, which would be which all

571
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: I would typically want would be to go do it

572
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: an elopement and then have my family together, or how

573
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: have my friends and family and people come together where

574
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm not cleaning, I'm not cooking, and we're just all

575
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: hanging around and someone else has done that and we

576
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: can all even no one clings like whoever I've paid

577
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: for has done it for me. Yeah, I feel like.

578
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 2: We have a friend. I don't want to say her

579
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 2: name unless in case I'm wrong, but she basically just

580
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 2: did like separate this this family is this way and

581
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: this family is this way, and sort of separated it

582
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: out like that. But she did she got the marriage

583
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 2: done first, and then that moves more of a hanging

584
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 2: out party situation. I'll also say, we didn't really talk

585
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 2: about this, but a lot of bridesmaids like there is

586
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: a cost to being a bridesmaid in times of the

587
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 2: dress and in terms of if there is a a

588
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 2: a bridal shower or whatever, like however you do it.

589
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: I would like that to be noted that out of

590
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,479
Speaker 1: all the damn weddings that I have been in, starting

591
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: in high schoo in college for my friends, you owe

592
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: me money. Damn it is a present or a present

593
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: of some sort. It's expensive.

594
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 2: I will say most of the ones I have ever

595
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: gone to have been really low key, and usually outside

596
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 2: of the one I mentioned with my cousin, the dress

597
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 2: is like they give you a color scheme or something

598
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: and you can go buy whatever dress you want and

599
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 2: it's instead of what hers was, which is this very

600
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: expensive specific dress at Dillard's.

601
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 1: I think it was. Oh, and we're not even talking

602
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: about like when you come together to throw a showers

603
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: together and you have clashing, like I remember we did

604
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: one with a friend who was barely a friend, but

605
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: she just wanted to be a part of the celebration,

606
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: which I find that odd. Like they centered themselves so

607
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: they could be the one that threw the thing, and

608
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: I was like, why you barely know each other, This

609
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,919
Speaker 1: is weird. You're not even a bridesmaid. Why are you here?

610
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: Like or and then they turned into a brizemaid because

611
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: they were doing so much so that might have been

612
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: the end goal, but like they were like I want

613
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: to do all these things and that were great. I

614
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: as a college was like, I can't afford that. And

615
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: so she literally was like, well, these are the things

616
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: we're gonna do and sent out a bill to the

617
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: rest of us and we were like, no, no, we

618
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: can't afford that. We did not say yes to any

619
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: of these things. And because she sent money from family

620
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: and she didn't have to have a job, and she

621
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: got all these things, and we are like working two

622
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: jobs to stay in college baby. No, so that was

623
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: a weird dynamic that was like, oh hell no, and

624
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: we never talked to her again. Yeah, but she took

625
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 1: over and that's what she wanted and wanted to be

626
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: classy and I was like what, But yeah, those are

627
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 1: the weddings bring out the weirdest things and test the

628
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: weirdest things.

629
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 2: I think they do, and that's why there are so many,

630
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 2: so many tropes, so much fertile ground to mine with them,

631
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 2: because they really do between all types of different groups.

632
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 2: I think I also would be interested if listeners would

633
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 2: write in, I'm pretty sure the last four weddings I've

634
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 2: been to I've been officiated by a friend. So I'm

635
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 2: just curious, just curious if that's like a trend or

636
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 2: just my my friend group.

637
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. No, I think so too. The people

638
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: who are not necessary or family, like someone that their

639
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: brother or someone. Oh so yeah, this was a heavy episode.

640
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: Ye lost to it. But we're coming on the second.

641
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: We're going to come back with the what happens now

642
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: for Carrie? What do you think will happen? Annie?

643
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 2: What do I think will happen? Okay, so we got

644
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: Charlotte's married honeymoon time TRAVELI getting away from.

645
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: Aiden. I don't know.

646
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 2: I think that they all are except for Charott, I

647
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: guess and Samantha never cares. But Miranda and Carrie need

648
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 2: to recalibrate.

649
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: Recalibrate, yees, reclibrate. That's a great way to face Well.

650
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: We will find out soon and with our listener guests.

651
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:17,720
Speaker 1: So I'm excited.

652
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: I'm excited too. I'm excited too. Well, listeners, look out

653
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 2: for that one. As we said, if you didn't get

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