1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: Food. I had the food later, and the food tasted fine. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: It was great. 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 2: You need sauce dip it there, you need salt, dipp 4 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 2: in the soy sauce. And problem solved. 5 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 3: What sauce what? 6 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 4: It was great after But in the process I was like, wow, 7 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 4: he's getting like he's close to the finish line and 8 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 4: I ain't seen that salt shake yet. 9 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: The chicken really white? You know what? 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 2: It was good? Who dare you? How dare you? Did 11 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: all of you feel fine afterwards? Yeah? 12 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: All of you? 13 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 5: Of me? 14 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 3: I was hammered. 15 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 4: But on the way home, okay, great, you ate it 16 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 4: in the car my leftover Ben Hannah, No, I didn't 17 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 4: with your hands. 18 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: I guess it wasn't spice correctly. 19 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 2: Then she was craving my Benny Hannah, right, craved your meat, 20 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: craise my bachi. 21 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 22 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: So anyway, so you were making what did what were 23 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 2: the contents of said castro? 24 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: Okay? 25 00:00:54,280 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 6: So it was ground beef, egg noodles, peas here, it's 26 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 6: some other vegetable that was green. So hamburger helper with 27 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 6: vegetables kind. 28 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: Basically with cheese on top. Oh my god, anything this 29 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: sounds actually horrible. But anyway, so you. 30 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I made it. 31 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: I was like, I can do this. 32 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 6: You just mix it all together and put in a dish, 33 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 6: like hell yeah, right, so I can't get out of 34 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 6: the oven, and so like I'm like filling up my 35 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 6: water cup and he walks in. Mike walks in and 36 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 6: he just stops like in front of it and is 37 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 6: just staring at it, like not like getting a plate, 38 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 6: not getting just staring at it. But he doesn't want 39 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 6: to say anything because I like have my you know, 40 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 6: sort of back to him. So I'm like, you know, 41 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 6: looking through my peripheral and I'm like I'm looking at 42 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 6: my peripheral, and. 43 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: So I see him just standing there. 44 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 6: So then he like takes the littlest scoop and puts 45 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 6: on his plate and he's just standing there in the 46 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 6: kitchen eating it. 47 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: Normally we make our plate, we go sit down and eat. 48 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 6: He's just like sitting there like sampling it, saying nothing, 49 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 6: saying nothing. 50 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: And I knew it was bad. 51 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 6: So I made a plate and I'm starting to eat it. 52 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 6: And it was the most silent dinner and neither of 53 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 6: us up anything to each other. And then two days 54 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 6: later he was like that was prison food, which you 55 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 6: just gave me literal prison food. 56 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: Wow, he accused you of giving him prison food? 57 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, how did you wait two days to say that? 58 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: Well, you wait until like I brought it up. 59 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 6: I made some comment about cooking, and he was like, 60 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 6: he was like, never made what you make? You know 61 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 6: again two days ago? Because that was awful giving me 62 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 6: prison food? 63 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: Wow? 64 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: How ungrateful that he cooks something for you? 65 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 7: Oh? 66 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 1: Never. I don't even think he knows how to turn 67 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: the other on. 68 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 2: I think if somebody cooks something for you, you you 69 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 2: have to you eat it and you don't say a thing. 70 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 8: What. 71 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 3: Oh okay, I thought you're going to see you have 72 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: to cook something for them. 73 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, don't you start that? 74 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 2: Well, I think that's a nice thing to do, because 75 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 2: your boyfriend you're obs Tell me the theory. 76 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 9: There are cookers and then there are personality hires that 77 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 9: stand there with the cooker, the chef, if you will 78 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 9: and entertain them. 79 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 3: They have a glass of wine, they tell jokes. Can I. 80 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: Personality higher in the kitchen? M Yeah? 81 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 10: So I thought you were about to say some crazy 82 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 10: each cooking you know? No, No, I'm sure you. I'm 83 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 10: sure you do your part. Uh, personality higher. 84 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 2: No, but you know if you if someone makes a 85 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: meal for you, you have to eat it and then 86 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: you have to just be quiet about it. 87 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: Yes. 88 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 2: Now, if if someone asks me and like like my mom, 89 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: my mom is she's a very very good like home 90 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 2: chef and she's taking courses and you've done all this stuff. 91 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: My dad's not. My dad is no dummy in retirement. 92 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: He has sent her to like various schools that's like 93 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: for a week at a time or whatever, because she 94 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 2: wants to do this. She wants to travel and how 95 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: to cook like food. So he'll be like, go and 96 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: then she comes home and she's, you know, making the 97 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 2: food for him. He's not an idiot, and she's really 98 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: really good. But like she'll make something and then she'll 99 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 2: ask for feedback, and I know in that case she 100 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: wants to know really what I thought, because she was 101 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: like actually concerned with you know, I don't know she 102 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 2: made it for other people, So I try and be 103 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: honest ish like if it but she never made me 104 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: anything really bad. But the point is, if so much 105 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 2: cooking for me, I eat it and I say thank you, 106 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: and that's the end of it. Like I'm not coming 107 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 2: back later and on, by the way, that was terrible. 108 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: The only problem is if he thought you thought it 109 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: was good, then it's happening again, like that will be 110 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 2: on the rotation of lazy dishes, and. 111 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 6: The rotation is small, so like we're, you know, every 112 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 6: two weeks eating the same thing. So I'm sure he 113 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 6: was probably like, we're not adding this into He could. 114 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 2: Have done it better. No, he could have been like, 115 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: you know, hey, I like these things. I didn't particularly 116 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: care for that one though. That's how you do that, 117 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: and you don't say you just fed me prison food. 118 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 6: Oh, just like my orange chicken. Oh that was so bad. 119 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 6: Don't ever try to make your own orange chicken. That 120 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 6: was a bad night too. 121 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 2: That to me sounds like something that I would just 122 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 2: run down the street and pick up. You know, there 123 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 2: are certain foods I'm just you know, I'm not making 124 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: orange chicken. 125 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't I'm not doing that worth it. 126 00:04:59,440 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 7: You know. 127 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: I have another theory while we're talking about food, and 128 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people would agree. But no 129 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: one ever cooks for me ever, really, because I either 130 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: order it or make it myself. It's just me at 131 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: the house, and I was at my friend Bruce's house 132 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 2: over the weekend, and this guy cooks everything like bist 133 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 2: like like it's it's ten o'clock at night, and there 134 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: may or may not have well, let's just say everyone 135 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: was a little hungry on Friday night at ten o'clock. 136 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 2: Maybe he's rhymes with munchies. And and he says to me, 137 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 2: do you want cookies? And I was like, do I 138 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: want chocolate chip cookie? 139 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 11: Like? 140 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 2: Okay, sure, And in my mind it's you know, slice 141 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: and bake. 142 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: No, no glass bowl. 143 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: Comes out, flour measuring cups, melted butter, chocolate chips. 144 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, No, we did a whole thing. The mixer. 145 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 2: I mean, I was handed like one of the little things, 146 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: that little blender things. 147 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 5: You know. 148 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 2: Maybe that may have been something he wanted to watch. 149 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 2: I don't know, but it doesn't matter at the point. 150 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: But where I'm going with this is he cooked all weekend. 151 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 2: I was eating food cooking. He made me a sandwich. 152 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 2: Sandwich is made by other people for you taste better 153 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: than the ones you make yourself. That is a that 154 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 2: is a proven They not even theory, it's a fact. 155 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: That's right. 156 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: Sandwiches somebody else makes for you tastes better than the 157 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 2: ones you can make yourself. 158 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: Why I don't know. 159 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I mean at home, because obviously you 160 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: go to like you know, Subway or Jimmy Johns whatever, 161 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 2: Jersey Mics, and then they make it for you. 162 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: It tastes good. 163 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: But I had to how someone gives you a sandwich 164 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: that may taste better than any other kind of sandwich. 165 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: Just so true. 166 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just used to tell him, next time you 167 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: make something that he doesn't like, be like, well, there's 168 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: lunch meat in the fridge. That's what my mom used 169 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: to say. I didn't like dinner. Ye, well then there's 170 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 2: bread and lunch meat. You should tell them just like 171 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 2: your mom. Okay, don't pick me up up Yeah, never mind. 172 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 2: I actually don't do that. I'm not equipped for that. 173 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 2: You can't live with me. It is The Fred Show. 174 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 2: Good morning, Thanks for having us the radio, on the 175 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 2: iHeart app Live and anytime Search put a fresh show 176 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 2: on demand. So last week I think we've talked about 177 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: the phrases that people misuse or say incorrectly, or that 178 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: we I don't remember exactly what that one was that 179 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 2: was long was several days ago. 180 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's cold as hall. It doesn't make sense, right, 181 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense. 182 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: So now this week on Reddit It's people are talking 183 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: about the phrases that annoy them every time they hear them, 184 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 2: and many of them come from overdone memes or I 185 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 2: don't know, a generation saying something too much over and 186 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 2: over again whatever eight five five five one three five, 187 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: you can call it text the same number. What comes 188 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: to mind immediately as soon as I say phrase that 189 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 2: annoys you? 190 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: What comes to mind? Hmm? 191 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 12: This is not like I hear when people say friya 192 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 12: or Friday eve, Friday eve, yeah, or happy friya, like 193 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 12: it's Friday. 194 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: Come on, it's not friye. Yeah, it's not. 195 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 3: No, it's not it's but like it's Friday. 196 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: I stop. 197 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: I think I said. I've said Friday Eve, I've said 198 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 2: weekend Eve. I don't think I've ever in my whole life, 199 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 2: except for right now, said Friday. It's just not something 200 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 2: that's ever come out of my mouth on purpose. 201 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 9: Or do we have to every birthday another trip around 202 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 9: the sun, like come on. 203 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 3: Happy birthday? 204 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 8: Right? 205 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: Okay, those are mine. 206 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 2: Those came quickly, that didn't take very long on the 207 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: tip of your tongue, like rise and grind when people 208 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 2: that I'm not trying to grind anybody. I have bad breath. 209 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 2: I need to breast my teeth. Nothing's being grinded right now, 210 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 2: let alone grind and no grounding going on right grinded grinding. 211 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to think of the right tense. Paulina, 212 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 2: you must have something, You must have something that you 213 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 2: hear the phrase that drives you nuts. 214 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: Nothing's coming to. 215 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 13: Mind, not really, because I'm always saying most of them, 216 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 13: to be completely honest, and I never said Friday though 217 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 13: I have tripped around the sun, for sure, I've done 218 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 13: that many of times. 219 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 3: This is not even a saying. 220 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 13: But I hate when my husband says I got to 221 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 13: see where their mindset is at. 222 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 3: I don't know why he says that, and I. 223 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: Don't think that's a I think that's a I think 224 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 2: he can make a sentence. I don't think I got 225 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 2: to see where their mindset does somebody? 226 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: It's not real. 227 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 3: But he says is what I'm saying, and it drives 228 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 3: me nuts. 229 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: I don't know why. What does that mean? When you're like, 230 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: do you thank you? 231 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 3: What does that mean? 232 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: Where do you want to go to dinner? I don't know. 233 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 2: I got to see, like where do our friends want 234 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 2: to go to dinner? I got to see where their mindsets? 235 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 2: A what does that mean? 236 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I hate it only he says 237 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: that no one else has ever said that. 238 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 3: No, thank God, don't say it. 239 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: But here are the ones, come to mine, just the one. 240 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 4: It's one that our friend Zach Book says to us 241 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 4: every morning. 242 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 14: When is it? 243 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 15: Like? 244 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: Shut up? What does that even mean? I don't know. 245 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: I thought he was setting me up to say something bad. 246 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 2: So to this day he's been saying it to us 247 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 2: for two years. And to this day, when he walks 248 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 2: by and says, I just say g R because I 249 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 2: don't know what he's trying to get me to say. 250 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, like grand rise. It's like a fancy way of 251 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: saying good morning, sy good morning, like a spiritual way. 252 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 1: And I hate a circle back. I don't want to say. 253 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: I want to finish whatever going on right now. 254 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: Well, that's an entirely different topic. That's that's all the 255 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 2: corporate catchphrases. Oh and my god, God bless this company 256 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 2: in some ways. But like the ways in which we 257 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 2: like get to eat and stuff. But boy, do those 258 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: guys at corporate love to use those phrases man, and 259 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,559 Speaker 2: it's like, oh and then once somebody at the very 260 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 2: top uses it, then all the little middle managers use 261 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: it too, because well, if Daddy Bob used it, then 262 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: you know, we got to be doing that. But a 263 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 2: lot of it's like I can breathe, like we got 264 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 2: to abbreviate everything, you know, It's like, why are you breathing? 265 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 2: Just say the word? How hard is it to say 266 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: two syllable words? 267 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: It's not. 268 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 2: Let me see here, chicken Tendy's someone doesn't like when 269 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: people say chicken tendy is guilty if you know worn out, Yeah, 270 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 2: I'm in my blank era. Somebody said one I will say, 271 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 2: if I'm being honest, is the phrase that drives them 272 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 2: nut oh nuts. What you're basically saying is I'm about 273 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: to say something unpopular or I'm about to say something 274 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 2: that isn't maybe gonna make you feel that good? Right, 275 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 2: So if I'm being honest, so it's I guess, or 276 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 2: it's you lie all the time. So now I'm gonna 277 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 2: tell you the truth just right now. But that's like, 278 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: and I'm guilty of this week, not to be an 279 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 2: a whole I'm the guilty of that one, but then 280 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 2: I'm about to say something that's pretty a r Yeah, 281 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 2: But like, I think there's a I think there is 282 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 2: a difference between saying something where you intend to be 283 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 2: an a hole and then when you're just saying something 284 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 2: that's not all that nice but you're not necessarily trying 285 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 2: to be a jerk. So I guess that's why I 286 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 2: say it, because it's like, here's something that's about to 287 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 2: be critical, but I'm actually not saying it from a 288 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 2: mean place. At least that's how I justified to myself. 289 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: But you're the one. Oh, Polly has one. Polly doesn't 290 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 2: like this one? Hi Polly, how you doing? 291 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 8: Hi? 292 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: Polly? You don't like this phrase good morning. 293 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 3: Good morning. 294 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 12: I don't like the phrase holy because beans are not cool. 295 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: I've heard that about beans. 296 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 2: I've never thought a bean was cool, to be honest 297 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 2: with you, If I'm being. 298 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: Honest, I get it. 299 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 2: Not to be an a hole, but cool beans is annoying. Yeah, 300 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 2: I agree with you. Yeah, And it's a special kind 301 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,719 Speaker 2: of person who says cool beans. By the way, it's 302 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 2: that person like who who smoked a lot of weed 303 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 2: in high school or like it was like the hippie, 304 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,319 Speaker 2: dippy kind of thing to say. Cool beans, man, Yeah, 305 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 2: I agree, yep, yeah, thank you. Probably have a good day. 306 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: So here's the ones from Reddit. These are the phrases 307 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: that annoy people every time they hear them. I was 308 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:42,319 Speaker 2: today years old. What I mean, I'm definitely guilty of 309 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 2: saying that. That doesn't mean it's not annoying guys. Let 310 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 2: me see here, well played, someone said I love that 311 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: for you. 312 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: I love that. 313 00:12:53,760 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I love that journey for you. 314 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: You tell me blank without telling me you blank. That 315 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 2: annoys people. Oh god, that's a good one. I hate 316 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: that one. Like tell me your mom. Don't tell me 317 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 2: your mom your mom? 318 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 1: Girl, I know same. 319 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 2: These are from Reddit annoying phrases. Not all heroes were capes, 320 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 2: finishing every sentence with you know what I mean? 321 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: I do that? Yeah, I do that. Yeah. 322 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 2: I try and reserve it to like when I actually 323 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 2: think I said something that didn't make sense. 324 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: But I guess, you know, you can't always be that one. 325 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 2: Let me see here, I did a thing annoys people 326 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 2: when people said I did a thing. When people say 327 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 2: supposedly instead of supposedly. 328 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:43,559 Speaker 3: Well yeah, that's just wrong. 329 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: Right. 330 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 2: Supposedly there's a D there is no b in supposedly. 331 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 2: I don't know if you knew them, living my best life. 332 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 2: People don't like that one. Yes, I'm in my blank era. 333 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: People don't like that one lives rent free in my head, 334 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 2: don't thing? This was Oh god, I've said this every 335 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 2: day in twenty twenty five. That wasn't on my twenty 336 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 2: twenty five bingo card. I mean, nothing has been on 337 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: my twenty trust me, nothing has been on my twenty 338 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 2: twenty five bingo cards so far. Not one thing. No, 339 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 2: let me see what else here? Yeah, I mean Carlton, Hi, Carlton, 340 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 2: how are you doing? What is the are we talking about? 341 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 2: You know a CB radio? Are you calling? 342 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: Are you a try? I? Oh no, I know, you're good. 343 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 2: I was just wondering if we were like we got 344 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 2: a smoky on our tail. I didn't know if something 345 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 2: like that was What is the phrase that drives. 346 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: You nuts at the end of the thing, at the 347 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: end of the day. I love that one. 348 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's that's what I'm trying to force myself 349 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 2: not to. 350 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: Say at the end of the day. 351 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with you, Thank you, carl I annoying myself 352 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 2: when I say that and the next time you hear 353 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 2: me say that, you're a going to call up here 354 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 2: and tell me that I'm an idiot. 355 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: Okay, are you in long? 356 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 2: I appreciate you, may you too, thank you. I'm all 357 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 2: good here? Then does that make sense? Yeah? 358 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: That's me again. 359 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: I feel like the angel texted I said, I feel 360 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 2: like for that one that's more about me. Like if 361 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: I ask you if that makes sense, I'm not because 362 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 2: she said, well, I'm not stupid. I get that. If 363 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 2: I say that to you, it's did I just make sense? 364 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: Like how I'm saying it. I can't speak right exactly. 365 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 2: It's like whatever's in my sometimes getting it from my 366 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 2: brain to my mouth is very difficult process. It's not 367 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 2: real far from here to there, but boy, can it 368 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 2: be a process. 369 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: Sure you're telling me, Claudia Hi, Claudia. 370 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 2: Hill, No, Paulina, you've made a whole career out of it. 371 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: Don't you change your thing? You don't change one thing. 372 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 1: I got my bag. 373 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 2: So, Claudia, what is it that the friend phraser saying? 374 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 2: Or do you just a noisy? You can't stand it? 375 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 8: It's actually just one word when people you like and 376 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 8: whenever they're talking to me. I'll start counting how many 377 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 8: times they say it, and especially when they text. 378 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 2: Like, so, Claudia, do you enjoy this show or do 379 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 2: you listen to it for torture? Because I feel like 380 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 2: there's a lot of like on on this show, Like 381 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 2: do you listen to it just to to like to 382 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: like be reminded of how annoyed you are. 383 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 8: I listen to you every day. 384 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 15: I love your show. 385 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, I let. 386 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 15: It pass with you. 387 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 2: Thank you, because I think there's a lot of that 388 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 2: going on here, Claudia, have a great day, thanks for calling, 389 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. 390 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: Hi, Sam, how you doing? Good morning? Are you Sam? 391 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: It's the phrase saying you did annoys? You can't stand it? Yo, yoo. 392 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 5: Go back. 393 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 16: I did not like it since today it came out, 394 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 16: and now my niece, my oldest nieces and like refews, 395 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 16: they're all. 396 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 2: Saying it yellow man, Yolo, give me feel old. 397 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 17: I'm like, I don't want to. 398 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: Do it, Yolo. Yeah, I know, I only live once. 399 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 2: I still dont want jump out of the airplane, like, 400 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 2: I don't feel like it. It's not a great idea, right, 401 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 2: I only live once, That's true, and I'm going to 402 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: keep living and I'm not gonna do the stupid thing 403 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 2: you're trying to get me to do. PA, thank you 404 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: stamp yellow, Like I don't know. 405 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,959 Speaker 1: No, Yeah, I'm with you on that one. 406 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 2: It's like, no, you're you're trying to get me to 407 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 2: do something stupid right now, and I'm not interested. 408 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: I have a good day. Actually, exactly, glad you called. 409 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: Here are the corporate ones. 410 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 2: I mean these are just and some of these are older, 411 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 2: but I mean, and they're constantly evolving, these corporate slang terms. 412 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 2: We got to move the needle, guys. We got to 413 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 2: think outside the box and be proactive. It's time to 414 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 2: get the low hanging fruit. It is what it is 415 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: at the end of the day. We got to get 416 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 2: our ducks in a row and go back to the 417 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 2: drawing board, the elephant in the room. We got to 418 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 2: hit the ground running and run the numbers and run 419 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 2: that up the flagpole. 420 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: And why are we running up a flagpole? What does 421 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: that mean? 422 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 6: I say that mean like if you don't want to 423 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 6: tell somebody no, Like if someone asks you for something 424 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 6: and I don't want to say no, I'll be like, oh, 425 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 6: I'm going to run it up the flagpole here and. 426 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 2: Run it up, like see what the higher ups think, 427 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: Like go up the chain. 428 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 1: Of the man as I could. 429 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, here's one. I've never heard this one before. See 430 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 2: if the cat licks it up. Oh, I'm going to 431 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 2: use that one today. I'm going to use that one. 432 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: I mean to see if the customers like it. You know, 433 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what. Let me let me see if 434 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 2: you know it's ridiculous. Reinvent the wheel, push the envelope, 435 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 2: putting lipstick on a pig. These are all the corporate 436 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 2: terms that like people used to wear vests to work 437 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: in Patagonia, too many cooks in the kitchen. 438 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: The iPod of the industry. 439 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 2: It so the iPod being like the revolutionary of whatever synergy, 440 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 2: the eight hundred pound gorilla. Don't throw the baby out 441 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 2: with the bath water, raise the bar. Well, that's the 442 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 2: sixty four thousand dollars question, hope, is that a strategy? 443 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: The eighty twenty rule? 444 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 2: If I have one more person this month, or I 445 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 2: guess we're in a new month, if one more person 446 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 2: last month, says to me, the eighty twenty rule, And anyway, 447 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 2: this context there, let's peel back the onion. I see 448 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 2: your mission critical full transparency circle. 449 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: Back there it is. Yeah, man, we got to boil 450 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 1: the ocean. Oh what what? 451 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,439 Speaker 2: Which I guess is like biting off more than you 452 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 2: can chew. We're looking for a needle in the haystack. 453 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 2: Game changer, it's on my radar. Drink the kool aid, 454 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: look under the hood. Lots of moving parts. Par for 455 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 2: the course. We got to call in the swat team. 456 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 1: Oh, hell's that's what's a radio swat team? Hey? Andre? 457 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 1: Hey Andre, Hey man, you. 458 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 2: Get to final say, bro that the phrase that just 459 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 2: drives you crazy. 460 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 11: Well, my brother says this all the time. 461 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: He's a truck driver. 462 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 3: Hey. 463 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 14: You know, I was hitting down the road and saw 464 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 14: this accident and world to the story is okay. 465 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, the more the moral of the story, yeah, it's like, thanks, 466 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 2: thank you. Yeah, no, no, no, it's either way. It's annoying. Yeah, thanks, 467 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 2: thanks for explaining to me. It's like, yeah, someone hit 468 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 2: another card. It's terrible. The moral of the story is 469 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 2: it's bad. Well, thank you, thanks, thanks for explaining it 470 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: to me. Andre, Thank you. 471 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: Hey, you guys, have a great day. 472 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 2: Hey you two burning the candle at both ends. The 473 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 2: fact of the matter is living the dream. 474 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just shut up. 475 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, yeah, I need to go back to 476 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 2: the drawing board. Maybe I'll start speaking in another language 477 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 2: or or something. It's the French show. 478 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: Good morning. Thank you so much for waking up with us. Well. 479 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 2: This is from Reddit's wedding shaming forum. Paulina sent me 480 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: this eight five, five, five, nine one one o three five. 481 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 2: You can call it text the same numbers, so. 482 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 15: Can you. 483 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,239 Speaker 2: I want to hear from both perspectives. Maybe you've had 484 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 2: to do this before, but since the COVID nineteen pandemic, 485 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 2: there is a couple that was getting married and another 486 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 2: couple I guess that had been hanging out at least 487 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 2: once a month. The four live in the same city 488 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 2: and spend a lot of time together. This is my 489 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 2: version of morality Monday. By the way, this is morality Monday, right. 490 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 2: So it wasn't surprising when the bride and groom sent 491 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 2: this couple saved the date a year in advance, and 492 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 2: then the wedding invitation, which was addressed to each of 493 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 2: them three months ago, and then suddenly, with the wedding 494 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 2: just a month away, the groom informed the partner that 495 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 2: I guess of the other couple one of the partners 496 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 2: that they would no longer be getting a plus one, 497 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 2: so now the couple's not a couple anymore, it's just 498 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 2: the person. I guess one of the people gets to 499 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 2: go now, even though because I guess that's how you 500 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 2: normally can tell, is that wedding invitation will say both 501 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 2: names or name plus guest, and if you're not sure, 502 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: then you should just ask, which can be awkward, but 503 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 2: I would. I think it's much better if you ask 504 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 2: then show up with somebody and nobody. 505 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: Was expecting that. That's really bad. 506 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 2: So anyway, so they come back and say, I'm sorry, 507 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 2: but only you can come now your partner can't come. Unfortunately, 508 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 2: this is the quote I was having my invite rescinded, 509 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 2: as they have declared that all plus ones have to 510 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:16,959 Speaker 2: be engaged or married, and the person later explained I 511 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 2: and several other girl boyfriends have been removed from the 512 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,479 Speaker 2: attendee list, and even some of their aunts and uncles 513 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 2: are being told that their partners can't attend anymore. 514 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: When ask why. 515 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 2: They have supposedly decided that they want their day to 516 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 2: be a true celebration of love and therefore only want 517 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 2: committed couples in attendance. 518 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: Oh, that is so ugly. 519 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 13: That is so ugly to say to somebody, or to 520 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 13: like not in by someone because they're not married or engaged. Like, yes, 521 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 13: as a married woman, obviously I took my commitment to 522 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 13: that level. 523 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean that's for everybody. 524 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,199 Speaker 2: So have you ever had to uninvite someone or like, 525 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 2: I mean, maybe there were too many people that are 526 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 2: MVP because I've never been married, But I have to assume. 527 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 2: I don't know, if you've got one hundred spots, maybe 528 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: you invite one hundred and thirty people or one hundred 529 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 2: and twenty. As soon as there's a number of people 530 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 2: that won't are SVP, right, they won't show up. True, 531 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 2: So but then what if everybody's like, oh, I want 532 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 2: to go wedding of the century or it's historic friend's 533 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 2: getting married. We never thought this would happen. I have 534 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 2: to see you with my own eyes, And so I 535 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 2: get one hundred percent attendance and now all of a sudden, 536 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 2: I'm too many. 537 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm over. 538 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 2: I feel like that's something I got to figure out 539 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,679 Speaker 2: now exactly right, Like I need to figure out how 540 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 2: to accommodate that because I invited. 541 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: You Well, up a table, get more chairs out, all right, more. 542 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 2: Tell lady break back into the mall, get them cinna 543 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: bunch and then get them ready for us. 544 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 1: Warm them up. 545 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 2: Let's do it, you know, send Kiky to camc get 546 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 2: in there. You know you remember it to work. 547 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure. It's just like riding a bike. 548 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 4: I really think you know that. I think that I 549 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 4: can still move the line. 550 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know that you were very proud of that. Yeah, 551 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I can still hold it down. 552 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 2: But I mean you can't. You cannot uninvite people you've 553 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 2: already invited. It's so weird. And because it's a celebration 554 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 2: of love. Well, you guys are getting married. You weren't 555 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 2: married until now, So then why I'm celebrating love too 556 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 2: with the person that I may marry someday, right. 557 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, you cannot. 558 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 2: You can't at the last minute, just saying no, sorry, 559 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 2: you can't come anymore. 560 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 13: Yeah, uninviting somebody is so weird, Like you have to 561 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 13: have a big reason to uninvite somebody. 562 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 3: I'm talking like we're about to fistfight, so you can't 563 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 3: calm uh yeah. 564 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 2: So people are saying that they didn't think they committed 565 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 2: couple's policy made any sense considering they've been in a 566 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 2: serious relationship with their partner for nine years, which is 567 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 2: three years longer than the bride and groom. And again, 568 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: if it's a money thing, like if there are enough 569 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: spots or something, then don't you then either have to 570 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 2: adjust or I don't think you just calm people up 571 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 2: and say. 572 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 4: I've heard of this happening before invitations are sent out, 573 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 4: So like when you're making your guests list, you're like, 574 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 4: you know what, we're only gonna give plus once to 575 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 4: marry couples. 576 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 1: You know, I've heard of that. 577 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 4: But to send out invites and then rescind the offer 578 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 4: is a diabolic code, like you yes, and it's very teching. 579 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: It's very cheap and very cheap. 580 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 4: If I was our friend, I would text all the 581 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 4: others single people that are invited in, like, let's take 582 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 4: a stand, stay the couple were going somewhere else. 583 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 2: If it's all of us or none of us exactly, 584 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: and we're canceling the gift card we sent you or 585 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 2: whatever whatever it is, send the china back exactly. 586 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: People still do that. 587 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 2: Someone texted to one night, what about the love of friendship. 588 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 2: They don't want to celebrate their marriage with the love 589 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 2: of their friends simply because they might be single. Well, 590 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 2: that's the thing, and how about that friendship, Like that 591 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 2: friendship is over because yeah, right, which one of us 592 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 2: gets to go? And why, well, how did you pick 593 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 2: one of the other? Huh? And then how are we 594 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 2: supposed to hang out, you know, and like go to 595 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 2: Applebee's on Friday night or whatever and do it? Well whatever, Hey, Maddie, 596 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 2: good morning, bye, good morning. So you're doing this. You're 597 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 2: only inviting committed people to the wedding, yes, and so. 598 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 5: Not that they have to be engaged or married. If 599 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,120 Speaker 5: they are a long term relationship, I'm more than happy 600 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 5: to have them have a guest come to the wedding. 601 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 5: But if it's like all my single friend's gonna plus 602 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 5: one and then they just bring random people who I've 603 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 5: never met, or they have no intention of staying in 604 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 5: a relationship with them for the sake of just a 605 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 5: plus one to the wedding, then no. 606 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: So I'm with you on that. I kind of been 607 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 2: with you on that. Like, if it is you know, 608 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 2: wedd is your expensive money is tight. If I have 609 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 2: five single friends now I don't. I don't know that 610 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 2: I would actually do this, Maddie. But if I mean, 611 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 2: in theory, I understand what you're saying. If I had 612 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 2: five single friends that aren't dating anybody, and let's say 613 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 2: it's I don't know how much it plate, I'm just 614 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 2: making this up. I'm making this up, whatever it is, 615 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 2: And so you're just gonna get on Tinder or Hinge 616 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 2: or you know, bumble or whatever, and you're gonna match 617 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 2: with somebody and invite them, and they're gonna come to 618 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 2: the wedding. 619 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: I've never met. 620 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 2: You, you have no context, you don't know anybody there, 621 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 2: and I got to pay for that simply because you 622 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 2: don't want to come by yourself. I know, I kind 623 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 2: of feel you on that. 624 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, yeah right, I mean no, no, I mean 625 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 1: it's like it's about one hundred and twenty buck. 626 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 3: To cle averaging. 627 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 2: So if I have ten single friends and you all 628 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 2: invite people, I'm never gonna see it again. That's a 629 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 2: g that I got to pay for your tender date, 630 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 2: you know what I know. I actually I kind of 631 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 2: see what you're saying with them. But the difference here, though, Maddie, 632 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 2: is that you're establishing that from the beginning, you're saying, hey, 633 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 2: if you're not seeing somebody, you don't get a plus one, 634 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 2: and you're sending the invitation Accordingly, these people just went 635 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 2: back and you know, selectively, then removed people from the 636 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 2: invitation list at the last minute because they didn't approve 637 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,160 Speaker 2: of the I don't know they weren't together long enough 638 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 2: or something. 639 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: You can't do that. 640 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 3: No, I agree with that that. 641 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 8: You cannot do. 642 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 2: All right, Well, Maddie, congratulations. I hope your wedding's great. 643 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 2: I hope your single friends still like you afterwards. Oh no, 644 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 2: thank you, glad you called by. 645 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 18: See. 646 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 13: But like I personally, like I know, my single friends 647 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 13: are my friends longer than I've even known my fiance 648 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,959 Speaker 13: who's not my husband, right, so, like, I want them 649 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 13: at my wedding. Those are my people. Like they've seen 650 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 13: me through my worst and my best. So I want 651 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 13: them single or not, and I will I will cough 652 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 13: up the money the little one hundred and twenty dollars plate, 653 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 13: you know, for their tender date, if that's what they're 654 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 13: gonna bring. But to be honest, you, most of my 655 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 13: friends wouldn't bring a tender date if they were going 656 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 13: to bring somebody. 657 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:10,879 Speaker 3: They bring somebody that they're seeing. 658 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 1: If not, I think they're comping up to come up. Well, 659 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 1: so you have fun with them. 660 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 6: I think it's about the guests, like you know, comfort too, 661 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 6: like who wants to go like I don't know. I 662 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 6: feel like I'm right, you know, like or at least 663 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 6: give somebody that option, right, that's your choice. 664 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna do it like you did it, Pouline, 665 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 2: except even because so Paulina got married a couple of 666 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 2: years ago, she got married in Vegas. Yes, I did, Okay, 667 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 2: So it was a destination wedding. It was a good time. 668 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, the iconic with little white wedding chap. Yeah, 669 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: it was an Elvis thing. And then the you know 670 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: the guy who put. 671 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 3: It in the air with the ibron, he said, we're 672 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 3: all married. 673 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 1: And then I want a g movee. 674 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 2: You rent to the private room at Magiano's, which I 675 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 2: couldn't have been happier because I remember what I ate 676 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 2: at your wedding. I mean too, I don't care anybody 677 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 2: says I remember what I ate at your wedding. 678 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: I don't. 679 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 2: I don't remember when I ate at my sister's wedding 680 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 2: and some caterer. Oh no, they were coming out with 681 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 2: all the classics. Yeah, oh the zucchini. Still talking about 682 00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 2: this to this day. I was excited bought. I see 683 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 2: what you did, because it's like, well, it's a commitment 684 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 2: to go. You had to buy airline ticket, you know, 685 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 2: you had to and you were probably less likely to 686 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,479 Speaker 2: get riff raff at your wedding because it was just 687 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: going to take that much more effort. I am going 688 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 2: to get married somewhere way further away. If I ever 689 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 2: get married, I'm thinking, yes, yes, I'm thinking as far 690 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,239 Speaker 2: away as possible. It's like ooh, you know, and then 691 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 2: the people that I don't want to go, they're not 692 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 2: going to make the effort. And then that you got 693 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: invited because I'm a little bit I'm in my you know, 694 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 2: early to mid forties, and which means I know a 695 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 2: lot of people, which means if I ever got married, 696 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 2: then I would have It would be a very difficult 697 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 2: process to figure out who gets to come and who doesn't, 698 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 2: because you know, you get to a certain part of 699 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 2: your life. I think everybody in this room could could 700 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 2: relate to this. Everybody that you know things they should 701 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 2: be at your big stuff but yet you don't. You 702 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 2: may not think that about them. Problems solved. I'm getting 703 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 2: married on an island in the middle of the Pacific. 704 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 2: You've now I'm getting married in Guam. Do you know 705 00:29:58,280 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: where that is? 706 00:29:59,080 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: Absolutely? 707 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 2: You know whether I need you there, though, Jason, you 708 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 2: have to go look at the map and figure out 709 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 2: where it is. Will go up in the city, my 710 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 2: last dame retiring. 711 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 3: You don't stop that, boy, I'm award to God. 712 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I've had enough Sabrina Carpenter with that single espresso. 713 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: But Kiki, you. 714 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 2: Got what Double Express nice spread show is on. I 715 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 2: think your mom younger than my mom, But I think 716 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 2: she's beginning to transition into that time of her life 717 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 2: where the craps begin to be fewer and fewer. 718 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: Oh no, but no, no, no, no, it'll get worse. 719 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 3: And I saw that with my nana. But yeah, no, 720 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 3: she's she's doesn't care. 721 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: I know she's in her late forties. You know, I'm 722 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 1: being kind. 723 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 2: She looks like she did her late It looks like 724 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 2: she's in her early forties, actually her sixties. 725 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 1: Is she really your mom experienced? I joke about this. 726 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 1: I joke. 727 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 2: I joke with you for the entire time. She's so 728 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 2: pretty about how hot your mom is, but she's a 729 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 2: very attractive woman. But no, okay, well then she's a 730 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: little bit behind my mom. But it's kidding, really, and 731 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: I love my mom, you know this, My mom is like, 732 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 2: there's no there's no convincing my mom in her mid 733 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: sixties that what she's saying won't be accepted the way 734 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 2: she intends it, or that like you're not supposed to 735 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 2: say that. 736 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, she doesn't care, no, and. 737 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: She just thinks that I'm over sensitive, which I probably 738 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 2: am because I have to do this every day where 739 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 2: if you if you say the slightest thing wrong, then 740 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 2: we have a real problem on our hands where people 741 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 2: dissect every other word you say and then determine what 742 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: it meant and then tell you what you meant. So 743 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 2: I guess I am a little sensitive to it. But 744 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 2: there's something that seems to happen to people when they 745 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 2: cross the sixty barrier where I think they just they 746 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 2: just think they've earned the right to do, you know, 747 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 2: just do whatever. Life's more than halfway over, So like 748 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 2: I'll just say what I want. 749 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: I don't care. 750 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 2: And I think it's this generation too, because like, the 751 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 2: way that we grew up is very different from the 752 00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 2: way that people are growing up now, and the way 753 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 2: they grew up is extremely different. 754 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 3: Goodness, my mom's a boomer. I like remind her every day, 755 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 3: you're a boomer. 756 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 2: Well, my mom and my parents, luckily, my whole family 757 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 2: think God doesn't subscribe to a lot of that stuff 758 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 2: from the fifties and sixties. And before you know, the 759 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,719 Speaker 2: stuff that they were supposed to when they were growing up, 760 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 2: they've adapted. My mom is one of the most inclusive 761 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 2: allies of all. She doesn't care about much of anything, 762 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 2: but like she also doesn't care about much of anything. 763 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 2: So because of that, you're supposed to know that when 764 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 2: you look at her, you're supposed to know she's a 765 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 2: great human being who's an ally and an advocate. And 766 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 2: then she can say whatever she wants after that, not 767 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 2: like hateful, but you know what I mean, Like she 768 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 2: can say anything. Like she loves to compliment people on 769 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 2: their appearance. She's complimenting them. I think it's a very 770 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 2: nice thing. But she's going to find the wrong person 771 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 2: one time and say something and they're gonna get in 772 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 2: their face about it. And she's only being kind. 773 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't have the same issue you do. Yeah, 774 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 4: as your mom. Like, I just think that what I'm 775 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 4: saying has I know my intent right, however you take it, 776 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 4: that's a you problem. But my take no, see, and 777 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 4: I love that because I used to feel over here. 778 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 2: I used to feel the same way like I used 779 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 2: to feel the exact same way. We're saying, Well, I 780 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 2: know what I meant, I know where my heart is, 781 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 2: I know where I'm coming from. But I've I've gotten 782 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 2: past the part where then I don't think that you 783 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 2: have to care. I've accepted that like people I don't know, 784 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 2: I've accepted it. No matter what you're intent is, people 785 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 2: are going to take it how they're going to take 786 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 2: it now to a certain extent. That's not my fault, right, 787 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 2: But I can also just avoid certain things, you know 788 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 2: what I mean? 789 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: No, No, what do you mean? 790 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 6: It seems like, okay, Jason, one way conversation, Like I'm 791 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 6: gonna say what I think I like is right, and 792 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 6: I don't really care how you take it, But I'm 793 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 6: okaying is right. 794 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 2: But have you Jason, Jason, have you ever have you 795 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 2: ever said something to someone that you meant entirely as 796 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 2: a kind benign thing. And because of the tone of 797 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 2: your voice or because of that I don't know, inflection 798 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: or the pace which you said it, at the timing 799 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 2: of which you said that, someone took it entirely wrong. 800 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 2: And you're like, how did you take that like that? 801 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 2: I think that's what she's talking about. That's what I'm 802 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 2: talking about, Like what and Calein and I have had 803 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 2: probably like fifty hours of conversation about this, but I 804 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 2: have the hardest time with people who go, well, that 805 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 2: made me feel like like when you said good morning 806 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 2: that way, that made me feel like you said you're 807 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 2: a terrible human being and that you should never have 808 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 2: gotten out of bed and don't leave your house anymore. 809 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: And I'm going, would what but good? 810 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 2: Why? 811 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 3: Like you want them to do that and not point 812 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 3: the finger at you and go. 813 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 13: You are at a hole when you said good morning. 814 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 12: That what you're saying, Well, you're saying that's how it 815 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 12: felt to me. You're not saying you did it on purpose. 816 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like that means but to Jason's points a therapist, 817 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 2: that means that I can I can then interpret anything 818 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 2: you say anyway that I choose, and then somehow you're responsible. 819 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 12: For that, but you're not deciding to feel a certain way, 820 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 12: and I think that's what you have a hard time with. 821 00:34:56,400 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 12: You're very pragmatic, like you don't your feelings don't rule 822 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 12: you at all, but some people are very you know. 823 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's entirely I know what you mean. 824 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 2: I don't if that's just tell I Drew, But I 825 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 2: My thing is that if I mean something kindly and 826 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 2: it's not, there's nothing controversial about what I said, or 827 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 2: there really isn't to. 828 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 12: Say controversial, like it's all in the eye of like 829 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 12: everyone runs. 830 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:17,720 Speaker 3: Something through their own filter. 831 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 1: We all do it. 832 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 3: So I can say hi and five people could think 833 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 3: it's different. 834 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I don't get to blow up at you 835 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 2: for saying hi because I didn't like the way you 836 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 2: say it, and people do. And people take that as 837 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 2: well because I interpreted it that way interpreted because that's 838 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 2: how I took it. That's how I get to feel 839 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 2: and I get to own my feelings. And so that's 840 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 2: a you problem, and it's not because like you know, 841 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 2: you catch I need to be aware you catch me 842 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 2: on the wrong day at the wrong time. I need 843 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 2: to be aware that I'm going to be set off 844 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 2: by a lot of things that people don't mean. That's 845 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 2: on me though, right like I got it, I got it, 846 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 2: manifest or this is too early for big words. But 847 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 2: I'm the one who has to figure that out. 848 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,320 Speaker 1: Not you. It's definitely I think it's a two way street. 849 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 6: But I think as I've gotten older, I have realized 850 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,479 Speaker 6: that if I say something that rubs someone the wrong 851 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 6: way or hurts them or make it no matter what 852 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 6: it is, I have to take ownership of that and 853 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 6: I have to mend the relationship. 854 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 1: I can't just be like, oh, well, you took it 855 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 1: the wrong way, so not my problem, and we just 856 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 1: like keep on moving. Not that I like hurt you. 857 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 2: I know I love you for this, but you're letting people. 858 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 2: You're allowing people, Jason, to then just put stuff on you. 859 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 2: That's not If you say something kind or you say 860 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,440 Speaker 2: something benign and somehow they're upset with you for it, 861 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,719 Speaker 2: they're projecting onto you whatever's going on within them. If 862 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 2: you say you should only get credit for the bad 863 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 2: stuff you say that's bad and I mean bad. 864 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 3: Is there a middle ground between what you both are saying? 865 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: Like I think, no, I mean it's not like. 866 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 6: If I say if someone says hi to me, or 867 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 6: I say hi to someone. 868 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: And that is like the extreme. It's like completely off 869 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 1: the road. 870 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 2: You're also in person that carries a lot of other 871 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 2: people's stuff around. I know this about you, and like 872 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,840 Speaker 2: that's that's something you do to yourself. That's unfair because 873 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 2: if you're genuine and get coming full circle here, if 874 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 2: you're genuine and you're kind and you mean well and 875 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,320 Speaker 2: someone else makes it poorly, and I'm not talking about 876 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 2: like anything that's gray area. I'm talking about if you 877 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,360 Speaker 2: mean well and you were saying well and someone doesn't 878 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 2: like that, then I think it's kind of on them. 879 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,080 Speaker 2: And it comes back to what my mom is. None 880 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 2: of this is like bad or controversial or hurtfulinting. She 881 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 2: just doesn't. She'll just say anything and it's just like. 882 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 13: Yeah, no, yeah, I'm heading that way because I've been 883 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 13: carrying bearing that cross for too long of like taking 884 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 13: people's feelings walking around with them. 885 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: Oh did I say this nice enough? 886 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 8: Oh? 887 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 13: I gave attitude that I wasn't even attitude, it was. 888 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 3: Just me replying that's how I talk. 889 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,479 Speaker 13: And now I'm like the bad guy at this point, 890 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 13: I just got to let go otherwise I don't know. 891 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 2: Because you can't fix everybody else's stuff, and you can't 892 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 2: take on everybody else's stuff either, zero. 893 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 1: One hundred ye. I think it is like killing. There's somewhere. 894 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,319 Speaker 6: Usually there's somewhere in the middle ground, like I you know, 895 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 6: I don't want to go around just saying whatever I 896 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 6: want and hurting people all the time, Like I don't 897 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 6: want to know that, So it's. 898 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,800 Speaker 1: Got to be a middle area. It's way street. 899 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,440 Speaker 2: Isn't there a differentiation between hurtfull stuff and then stuff 900 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 2: that people might take wrong but you didn't. There's no 901 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 2: it's all the the beholder. 902 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 6: I might not think I'm saying something that's gonna offend Kiki, 903 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 6: but if I say it, then like I want to 904 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 6: mend that because I may have had good intent, but 905 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 6: if it rubbed you the wrong way, like I don't 906 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 6: want you to then change how you're looking at me 907 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,680 Speaker 6: because of what I said to you with a different 908 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 6: like reason of saying it. 909 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? Like that's and. 910 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 2: I guess my argument is some of that would be 911 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:22,960 Speaker 2: on me. A lot of that would be on me, 912 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 2: Like if I know you to be a good person. 913 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 2: I know you to have good intent. I know that 914 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,399 Speaker 2: you would never I don't actually think you would say 915 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 2: it thing to hurt me intentionally. 916 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: I know that. 917 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 2: So for some reason you said something that was just whatever, 918 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 2: and it hurt me. I need I need to run 919 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:36,839 Speaker 2: that through my filter before I put that on you. 920 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 2: And I think that's the step that a lot of 921 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 2: people are missing, because most people would rather that it 922 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 2: just be somebody else's fault, Like everything they're feeling is 923 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 2: somebody else's fault, as opposed to like looking in the 924 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 2: mirror and going like, hey, maybe I need to work 925 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 2: on me a little bit, or maybe maybe my little 926 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 2: radar is off today, you know, cause again like I've 927 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,640 Speaker 2: come in here before where I know, like I'm not 928 00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 2: in a good mood, and so I got to try 929 00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,080 Speaker 2: and force myself to remember you know that, like the 930 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 2: stuff is going to come at me today that you 931 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 2: don't mean that I might not like and that's on me. 932 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 2: I can't stand but you for that, right, especially what 933 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:08,799 Speaker 2: ten years of therapy has done for me. 934 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 6: Said, self awareness is a spectrum, and everyone's at a different. 935 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 2: Self awareness doesn't exist. Self awareness is at a premium 936 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,800 Speaker 2: and I will pay for that up charge for anyone 937 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 2: trending stories will do him next. Good Morning's ever been 938 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,760 Speaker 2: left waiting by the phone? 939 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Hey Vanessa, Hey, Hi, good morning. 940 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. So waiting by the phone. 941 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,399 Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted here 942 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 2: you think maybe that's what happened. A dude named Jerry 943 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 2: might be the culprit. How did you meet this guy? 944 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then 945 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 2: where things are now? 946 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 17: Thanks so much, you guys. Yeah, no, I met this 947 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 17: really cool guy last weekend at a bar. Like we 948 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,279 Speaker 17: were just having some drinks and you know, yes for 949 00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 17: my number, which was really cool, and you know, this 950 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 17: nice and sort of ship overless and we talked for 951 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 17: a couple of days and then like he asked me 952 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 17: to grab dinner, which was really fun. The date was 953 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,759 Speaker 17: going well, conversation was flowing, like we were totally we 954 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,399 Speaker 17: were totally hitting it off, you know what I mean, 955 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,720 Speaker 17: Like just totally nice guy, totally normal, had some food, 956 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:18,320 Speaker 17: asked me to go back to his house and we 957 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,360 Speaker 17: hung out and like nothing happened. We didn't hook up 958 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 17: or anything like that. We just sort of watched a movie. 959 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 15: It was really. 960 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 17: Casual, like I don't I had I thought I had 961 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 17: a great date with him, and I just I haven't 962 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 17: heard from him at all and he doesn't like text 963 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:34,080 Speaker 17: me back or answer my text. 964 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 2: I mean, this all sounds good, right, I mean, you 965 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,280 Speaker 2: go have a good time, good chemistry, good conversation, wind 966 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 2: up hanging out. 967 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I mean that all sounds good. 968 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,800 Speaker 17: Yeah, nothing even happened like it was just like really 969 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,399 Speaker 17: like a really good first date totally just like buy 970 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 17: the book, and I don't know, I thought we could 971 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 17: be really keep together. We had a lot of similar interests. 972 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 17: So it's just kind of tough out there. 973 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. 974 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 2: Every time, Yeah, everybody out here trying to find somebody. 975 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,360 Speaker 2: It's like when you feel like you had to connection 976 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 2: some place and then don't call, it's frustrating. So that's 977 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 2: where we come, and we're gonna call this dude, Jerry. 978 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone. We'll see if we can 979 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 2: get him on the phone. We'll ask some questions. At 980 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:13,919 Speaker 2: some point, you're welcome to jump in on the call. 981 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 2: And the hope, as always is that we can straighten 982 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,399 Speaker 2: things out, figure out what's going on. Maybe he's been 983 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 2: busy or sums up and then we set you up 984 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 2: on another date that we pay for. 985 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,320 Speaker 1: Okay, awesome, thank you. 986 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,359 Speaker 2: Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by 987 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 2: the Phone after this song on the Fred Show. Good morning, 988 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the phone. Hey, Vanessa, Hey, 989 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 2: let's call this guy Jerry. You guys, you met in public. 990 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 2: You met in the wild, right, that's how this happened. Yeah, 991 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,280 Speaker 2: you met in the wild and then you exchange numbers 992 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:44,920 Speaker 2: and you want to going out and hanging out, and 993 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 2: you hung out at one of your places and watch 994 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,799 Speaker 2: the movie even right, Yeah, this is all good on 995 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 2: the first date, except you can't get ahold of this 996 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 2: guy Jerry, and you want to know why. 997 00:41:54,320 --> 00:42:02,320 Speaker 1: So we're gonna call him. Good luck, Thank you, Ella. 998 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:07,479 Speaker 1: Hi is this Jerry Jerry? Good morning. My name is Fred. 999 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,839 Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio Show, 1000 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on 1001 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,720 Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I do need your permission 1002 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 2: to continue with this call. You can hang up any time, 1003 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 2: but can we chat for just a second. 1004 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 1: I did think about me. I want something cool or something. 1005 00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 2: Well, I always say no, I always say no, but 1006 00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:31,399 Speaker 2: actually this could work out an abrupt no too. Now, man, 1007 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 2: this this could work out well for you. We're gonna 1008 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 2: find out right now. But we're calling on behalf of 1009 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,319 Speaker 2: someone you recently went on a date with. Apparently, her 1010 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,240 Speaker 2: name is Vanessa. Do you remember Vanessa? 1011 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I remember. 1012 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 2: All of a sudden, the winning aspirations are. So what 1013 00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,440 Speaker 2: happened with this woman? Because she called us and and 1014 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 2: she told us that she met you and thought there 1015 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 2: was chemistry and went out with you and had a 1016 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 2: great time and really expected that you would call her 1017 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 2: and ask her out again. But she believes she's being ghosted. 1018 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,960 Speaker 2: So what's your side of the story, Jerry? I mean, 1019 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,919 Speaker 2: I guess I could have handled it a little better. 1020 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 2: But she's she's cold, man, She's just made a stone. 1021 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 2: And I mean, what do you mean, Like, what do 1022 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 2: you mean? Give me an example of why you feel 1023 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:11,919 Speaker 2: this way? 1024 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 19: Okay, So we went out right and we met at 1025 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:19,240 Speaker 19: a bar. We had fun, YadA YadA, you know, for dinner. 1026 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 1: That seemed to go well. 1027 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 19: And then at some point during this interaction, she told 1028 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:25,280 Speaker 19: me that she had never seen. 1029 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 1: The movie Titanic. 1030 00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,479 Speaker 19: How was that possible, Like, how could you have never 1031 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 19: Like I didn't believe her. 1032 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,479 Speaker 2: So I'm glad that was impressent for that conversation because 1033 00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:35,840 Speaker 2: if Klen had heard that, we would have had to 1034 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 2: evacuate the building. We would have had a real scene 1035 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,319 Speaker 2: on our hands. Because that is it's just a part 1036 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 2: of being, I think, just a human being. Yeah, well, 1037 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 2: I would say worldwide. I would say I wouldn't even 1038 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even isolated, isolated to just that. I mean it, 1039 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,880 Speaker 2: she's part of part of breathing. He's seeing Titanic. She 1040 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 2: had never seen Titanic. 1041 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 19: Jerry, Well, the Titanic event is not an American event, 1042 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 19: like it happened in international waters. 1043 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 1: Everyone's aware of it, like you're a major Yeah, it 1044 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,959 Speaker 1: was a major world catastrophe at the time. 1045 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, did you multiple multiple governments or whatever ships 1046 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,799 Speaker 2: went to try to like help the survivors. Talking about 1047 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,799 Speaker 2: the movie, it was talking about the historical implications. But 1048 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 2: you know, I mean, Leono DiCaprio was not actually present. 1049 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 2: He didn't actually die. 1050 00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,360 Speaker 3: I don't want to break it to you, but nonetheless, back. 1051 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,439 Speaker 2: On track here, which we're still bad at, but listen, 1052 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,239 Speaker 2: you you wanted to go watch the movie. You're like, 1053 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 2: I cannot believe that you have not seen Titanic, So 1054 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 2: let's go watch it, right, So we went and watched it. 1055 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:41,360 Speaker 19: It is the saddest movie ever created. 1056 00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 15: I know. 1057 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 19: Some might say the the what's the old yeller where 1058 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:46,360 Speaker 19: the dog gets shot? 1059 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: This way worse? 1060 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:53,840 Speaker 6: Right spoiler alert, Well you've had like you described itself terrible, 1061 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 6: but wait to watch. 1062 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you did not listen. 1063 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:02,320 Speaker 19: She did not ship a single tear watching Titanic? 1064 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: What not? 1065 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,879 Speaker 19: Not when like, dude, you know, when like the mom 1066 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,280 Speaker 19: is reading the book to her kids as the ship's 1067 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,320 Speaker 19: going down, or like the old couple in the bed 1068 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 19: the water's coming through and you see them this gripping 1069 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:16,040 Speaker 19: like you. 1070 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: Know they're dying. 1071 00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:16,960 Speaker 11: Came. 1072 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,720 Speaker 2: I was about to cry right now description of the movie. 1073 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,839 Speaker 2: And you're telling me this woman Vanessa had in zero 1074 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 2: emotional reaction, none. 1075 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,879 Speaker 19: Cry as a bone, her eyes were I'm telling you, 1076 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,439 Speaker 19: the didn't shadow single tear. 1077 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 2: I mean not, what Come on? 1078 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 16: That's you're You're inhuman, You're a sociopath. 1079 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 1: Come on, you're not. 1080 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,880 Speaker 4: How to do like what It's a movie. You know 1081 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:46,960 Speaker 4: that you know it happens. 1082 00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 1: Have emotions? Are you free from emotionally. 1083 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I will say, I mean I'm an emotional 1084 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 2: guye Jerry, but I don't cry as much. It takes 1085 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,800 Speaker 2: a lot. It takes a lot for me to cry. 1086 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,279 Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that I'm emotionless. It just means that 1087 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,879 Speaker 2: Titanic's not going to make me cry. 1088 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 1: I don't think she. 1089 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 16: Didn't even get mad when he didn't. She didn't let 1090 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 16: him up on the door. Plenty of room on that door, 1091 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 16: plenty of room on that door. No, probably could have 1092 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 16: put some kids on there too, but didn't care. She 1093 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:16,920 Speaker 16: didn't care. 1094 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:21,479 Speaker 1: Doctor off and she was like, all right, nothing, well. 1095 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:25,439 Speaker 3: The necklace out of the jacket and gives his last name. 1096 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,520 Speaker 3: Jack's last name is her own. When she says Dawson 1097 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,959 Speaker 3: Rose Dawson, no tears. 1098 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,279 Speaker 2: I'm about to cry dramatical re enaction. Let me bring 1099 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 2: up Jerry. I forgot to mention that Vanessa is here. I'm 1100 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 2: very forgetful about this Vanessa. I mean no emotion with Titanic. 1101 00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 2: He believes that you are made of stone. He believes 1102 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,799 Speaker 2: that you're emotionless, and that's a problem for him. 1103 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 17: I've been listening to this and I'm just like my 1104 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 17: jaw is like dropped open. You cannot possibly be serious. 1105 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 17: That's the reason you're not more shocked at this. 1106 00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 19: And you're having more emotions to this than. 1107 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:10,839 Speaker 1: The band was playing. Oh yeah, right, what nothing? There 1108 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: is nothing. 1109 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 3: It's because I would be all seriousness. 1110 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,359 Speaker 12: I would be I would be interested to know why 1111 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:21,280 Speaker 12: someone had no emotion for one of the saddest movies 1112 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 12: of all time. 1113 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,320 Speaker 4: What are you You just crashed? 1114 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you know that point. 1115 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 19: You know that point in the movie where like the 1116 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,439 Speaker 19: ship breaks in half and you see like the guy falling. 1117 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 2: And we saw the part and like you mentioned, we 1118 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 2: got it, Jerry, Like I appreciate the Rotten Tomatoes review, 1119 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 2: but like we he yawned right, no. 1120 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,720 Speaker 1: When that happened she was born. 1121 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,440 Speaker 17: I just I mean, if you didn't like me, why 1122 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 17: didn't you just say that? 1123 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:52,799 Speaker 1: I mean? 1124 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,439 Speaker 17: And also, I know what happens on the Titanic. It's 1125 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 17: not something that is a huge surprise. The movie was fine, 1126 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,439 Speaker 17: but like you and not be telling me that. 1127 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 1: That it is? 1128 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 16: That is that is so I like to until I 1129 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:06,360 Speaker 16: found out you were so sypathic. 1130 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,759 Speaker 1: And I have. 1131 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,120 Speaker 2: To say this, Jerry, if she had just sat there 1132 00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:15,760 Speaker 2: and sobbed on the first date and uncontrollably emotional about 1133 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 2: this movie. Then you'd probably be complaining about that. So 1134 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,840 Speaker 2: I don't know that we necessary Well, I feel like 1135 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 2: you're I feel like you're go on a step too far. 1136 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,080 Speaker 2: You're saying that you know if her heart grew two 1137 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,480 Speaker 2: sizes of like the Grinch when she was watching it. 1138 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 1: That's man. 1139 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 17: You put Titanic on and you're looking at the cryometer 1140 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 17: on me to see like where I fall. Like, is 1141 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 17: this your sort of like your data monighty tool that. 1142 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:41,760 Speaker 1: You use to like date women. 1143 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:45,880 Speaker 17: This is the most ridiculous, Like, we need to grow up, dude. 1144 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 19: I've never met someone who's never seen Titanic, let alone 1145 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,520 Speaker 19: someone who watched it and was completely unaffected. 1146 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 1: Did you met. 1147 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 17: Someone who stares at someone for their reaction to a 1148 00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:58,280 Speaker 17: movie like a creep? 1149 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,360 Speaker 1: Did you, Jerry? I mean to know, were you emotional? 1150 00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:02,439 Speaker 20: Yeah? 1151 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:06,439 Speaker 1: I have a heart. It beats and therefore I cried. 1152 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 17: Oh my god, im when you didn't respond to me. 1153 00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:11,840 Speaker 17: I had a lot of emotion when you left me 1154 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 17: on Red. Does that also factory in or is it 1155 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,200 Speaker 17: only just like a Hollywood thing where you actually feel, 1156 00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 17: you know, momentum of anger? 1157 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:20,360 Speaker 1: What is going on? 1158 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 8: With it. 1159 00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,440 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, are you embarrassed as you cried? Jerry? 1160 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,400 Speaker 1: Is that what this is? That she didn't cry and 1161 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,839 Speaker 1: you did and that's the issue. No, not at all. 1162 00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:28,399 Speaker 2: I don't. 1163 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,919 Speaker 1: I don't think that emotions are bad. They just are 1164 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,439 Speaker 1: what they are, right. I'm not saying like like. 1165 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 19: Men should be able to cry, that whole old stereotype. 1166 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 1: Oh no, dude, shod never cry. That's that's why guys, 1167 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,560 Speaker 1: Di had heart attacks of like you know, at thirty 1168 00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: eight or whatever. Like that's just ridiculous. And now we're 1169 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,240 Speaker 1: learning about medicine. 1170 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:49,919 Speaker 3: So do any movies make you cry? 1171 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: Girl? 1172 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 3: Anything? 1173 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:52,799 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1174 00:49:52,800 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 17: Old Yeller thinks for the spoiler, guys. 1175 00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:00,680 Speaker 1: That was the most most we've heard from her. 1176 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:06,000 Speaker 2: Actually she is capable of that's actually twisted and I'm 1177 00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 2: starting to see it side. I don't normally pivot in 1178 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,120 Speaker 2: these things. But all right, Jerry, thank you for answering. 1179 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 2: I'm assuming that you don't want to go out with 1180 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,880 Speaker 2: her again. We'll pay for it if you do. 1181 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,359 Speaker 19: I mean, we're gonna go see Bambi and she's gonna 1182 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:20,279 Speaker 19: laugh at the beginning of. 1183 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:28,359 Speaker 2: All right, Jerry, I wish you the best. Vanessa, thank 1184 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:29,880 Speaker 2: you for calling. I'm sorry, it's not going to work out. 1185 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 2: Could look to you as well. It is the Freend Show. 1186 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 2: Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio. On 1187 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 2: the iHeart app live at anytime. Search for The Fred 1188 00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 2: Show on demand. All right, So Caitlin has a uh, 1189 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 2: she has a think. She has a thought about hotels 1190 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 2: because we're staying in a hotel this week on our 1191 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 2: little field trip. It's our little little romantic getaway. Yes, 1192 00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 2: and and you believe that there are certain things that 1193 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,280 Speaker 2: should not be in hotel rooms. 1194 00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 9: Yes, Like Okay, So I'm going to start with a 1195 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:02,279 Speaker 9: positive because you know, you're captain positivity and you're inspiring me. 1196 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,879 Speaker 2: Bet you No, I'm glad that you've noticed. I think 1197 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 2: I've been extremely positive. Why is that you have a 1198 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,600 Speaker 2: look on your face like you're not kidding? I mean, 1199 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,280 Speaker 2: I've been way more positive than you, guys. 1200 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,320 Speaker 3: I know that's you're more positive than me. 1201 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 1: I not honestly, which isn't saying much. 1202 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 2: But I've really I've been trying really hard and we're 1203 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:20,960 Speaker 2: like forty days into the month and it's been a 1204 00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,880 Speaker 2: really really difficult year so far. So for me to 1205 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 2: like stay above water with the positivity thing, at least 1206 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 2: eighty seven percent of the time. Yep, it's pretty good 1207 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,280 Speaker 2: now that thirteen is it's so low. It's a low place, 1208 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,080 Speaker 2: but you know anyway. 1209 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,560 Speaker 9: So yeah, so I'm starting out with a positive. I 1210 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 9: will say our hotel has wood floors, does your room Jesus? 1211 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:41,839 Speaker 15: Yeah? 1212 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,799 Speaker 2: Okay, well by what you mean it's more of a 1213 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 2: plastic wood. Well it's getting more like machine made. 1214 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:51,720 Speaker 3: But still yeah, positive. 1215 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,279 Speaker 1: It's not carpet from the nineteen sixty It is not. 1216 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:58,160 Speaker 9: I think carpet is discussing in general, let alone like 1217 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 9: being in a hotel room and thinking about all like 1218 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 9: skin cells or whatever's on that car. 1219 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,280 Speaker 3: But I know, I'm sorry. So that's a positive. 1220 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 9: But the negative is there are shower curtains, and I 1221 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,400 Speaker 9: don't think a hotel should ever have a shower curtain. 1222 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,919 Speaker 9: And it's not like a good curtain either, and it's 1223 00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,239 Speaker 9: just creeps me out and like whose butt cheeks have 1224 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,760 Speaker 9: rubbed up against it when they drop the soap. 1225 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:20,680 Speaker 6: I have a question because I don't know if I'm 1226 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,640 Speaker 6: doing it right, are you Am I supposed to split 1227 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:23,879 Speaker 6: the two halves or no? 1228 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,720 Speaker 9: Yes, but it wasn't built properly, so look, it gets 1229 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 9: wet on the floor. 1230 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 2: Wait, an, you don't know how to work a shower 1231 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:34,880 Speaker 2: This is the least surprising thing ever. You didn't know 1232 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 2: how mountains work. Okay, so you don't know how to 1233 00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:38,880 Speaker 2: work a shower curtain. 1234 00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 6: No, but like when there's the two like there's the 1235 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 6: two layers or whatever, are you supposed to split like 1236 00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 6: I've been splitting one, yes, but then it gets all wet. 1237 00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,960 Speaker 6: But it's clawed, it's not made. It's not like drying material. 1238 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:51,840 Speaker 6: It's clearly what I saw the point of it. 1239 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 2: It may get wet, but the point is that the 1240 00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 2: water would hit the curtain and then run down it 1241 00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 2: and stay on the inside. 1242 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 3: I'm doing it right, but it's not working the way. 1243 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,799 Speaker 1: But it's not supposed to like get out of. 1244 00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 6: Ry quickly, like I have a plastic shower curtain at home, 1245 00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,000 Speaker 6: like like a water right, you know what I mean? 1246 00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:10,800 Speaker 6: This is cloth like it's still like like my shirt, like. 1247 00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,840 Speaker 1: My shirt is like feels like the shower curtain. 1248 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:17,960 Speaker 2: So you're anti shower curtain. I'm very thankful you're happy 1249 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:18,960 Speaker 2: with the vinyl floors. 1250 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,360 Speaker 12: Yes, and now I have not used the TV, but 1251 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 12: the size of the TV is nice. 1252 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,040 Speaker 3: I've been using my iPad, but the size is nice. 1253 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's pretty normal. 1254 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 2: I have an ad in television at home, and I 1255 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 2: still watch on my tange iPad watch everything. I don't 1256 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,680 Speaker 2: know why, Like literally, I'm sitting in the same room 1257 00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 2: with the gigantic television, but I still watch everything on 1258 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:38,880 Speaker 2: an iPad. 1259 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:39,680 Speaker 1: I don't understand that. 1260 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 9: There's iPad shows and there's like TV, Like I wouldn't 1261 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,479 Speaker 9: watch like the super Bowl on an iPad at home, 1262 00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:45,279 Speaker 9: but I'm more of a. 1263 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 2: Live TV guy. And then I watch everything else on 1264 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 2: a small, tiny thing, which is why my I'm sure 1265 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,799 Speaker 2: my eyesight will it will be gone soon. Okay, so 1266 00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,760 Speaker 2: you don't want a shower curtain, but you got to remember, 1267 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,280 Speaker 2: like these are tub showers, so what are they supposed 1268 00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 2: to do? 1269 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 9: Whatever they did, do something different because, like Jason said, 1270 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 9: even though it's supposed to keep the water off from 1271 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:07,880 Speaker 9: the floor, it doesn't and it's stopping what And I 1272 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,160 Speaker 9: don't know if somebody's yabos rubbed against it. 1273 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,240 Speaker 1: Like mine, that room for a germophobe. 1274 00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,960 Speaker 2: I've had to let Jesus take the wheel for hotels 1275 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 2: for my whole life because that's been a hotel room 1276 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,520 Speaker 2: for fifty years. I mean that hotel is probably building 1277 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 2: the seventies and it's been remodeled, but like that that 1278 00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 2: room has been a hotel room for fifty years, so 1279 00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,840 Speaker 2: they're never gonna they can burn the building down and 1280 00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 2: probably still the DNA would be lingering somewhere. So there's 1281 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 2: no way around it. Like I'm not worried about a 1282 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 2: shower curtain or floors or it just is what it is. 1283 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,080 Speaker 2: You walk in the room, it just is like there's 1284 00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:49,040 Speaker 2: no way around it. Yeah, can you only imagine in 1285 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 2: fifty years what's happened in that building. They're ghosts everywhere. 1286 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, there is a microwave though, Kiki, I could. 1287 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 4: Because you know, I've thought about this, you know, as 1288 00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 4: we talk about hotels, I've never woken up in a 1289 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:03,040 Speaker 4: hotel and thoughts to make a cup of coffee. So like, 1290 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,719 Speaker 4: let's take the coffee machine out, Okay, take all of 1291 00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 4: that mess off the top of there, put the microwaves back, 1292 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:12,239 Speaker 4: get us some glass shower doors and move on. 1293 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:14,360 Speaker 1: But how do you put a glass shower door in 1294 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,640 Speaker 1: a tub shower? You don't. We're not gonna need a 1295 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:22,440 Speaker 1: tub shower, like taking a tub? Who's taking a. 1296 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:25,000 Speaker 3: Tub I wanted to take a tub, and I was like, 1297 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:25,839 Speaker 3: oh my god, I can't. 1298 00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:26,760 Speaker 16: I won't. 1299 00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 1: I won't, I won't. But I love a tub. 1300 00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:29,319 Speaker 17: Oh. 1301 00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:30,479 Speaker 3: I love to take a tub. 1302 00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,560 Speaker 2: And I think the coffee thing is like, okay, you 1303 00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 2: know here it is. I don't have to go downstairs. 1304 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:37,840 Speaker 2: I don't have to buy it. It's free. 1305 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:39,640 Speaker 1: Do you use it? Have you ever? 1306 00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 15: Yeah? 1307 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,319 Speaker 4: In my thirty years of life, I've never woken up like, 1308 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,280 Speaker 4: you know what, I'm gonna use this coffee machine, this sugar, 1309 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:48,319 Speaker 4: this little stir thing. 1310 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: We don't need because it's water. It just tastes like water. 1311 00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,160 Speaker 1: It's not good. You tried it? 1312 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:53,840 Speaker 4: Yes, I get very upset. 1313 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 3: If it's not in the room like I want to know. 1314 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:56,279 Speaker 6: I want it. 1315 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just want it there for the aesthetics. 1316 00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,319 Speaker 13: But I will not use it because I'll still go 1317 00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,200 Speaker 13: to get Starbucks cause I go to the lobby whatever, 1318 00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:02,040 Speaker 13: get Duncan. 1319 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you want it there for these they're so attractive. 1320 00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,880 Speaker 2: I've also heard that people use those things to boil 1321 00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,080 Speaker 2: water to like cook in and people do crazy stuff. 1322 00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,359 Speaker 1: What people use the irons to cook To give us. 1323 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:16,919 Speaker 4: A microwave and we won't have to do. 1324 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,920 Speaker 2: This Well, that's another thing is I looked inside that microwave. 1325 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:22,440 Speaker 1: I did know. 1326 00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 2: I don't want to see what we were working with. 1327 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:28,479 Speaker 2: And I'm like, you know, like I think I found 1328 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 2: a dinosauragon there, Like I don't know. 1329 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 3: We need them, right, And don't cook in your hotel room. 1330 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:33,719 Speaker 3: You're sick for that. 1331 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 1: Come on, people. 1332 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,759 Speaker 2: People do a lot of things to adapt when they're 1333 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,040 Speaker 2: on the go, and it concerns me a little bit. 1334 00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,160 Speaker 2: Like I've heard of people cooking with the iron, like 1335 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,720 Speaker 2: making like Benini sandwiches with the irons. 1336 00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:45,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do that. 1337 00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:48,040 Speaker 3: This country. 1338 00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's a hack. You know what other 1339 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,080 Speaker 2: hecks have I seen? You know how the curtains at 1340 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,319 Speaker 2: the hotel never really connect? They never truly connected. So 1341 00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,880 Speaker 2: if you go in the closet they have the hangars 1342 00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 2: have the little hooks on or the little clamps on 1343 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:03,799 Speaker 2: the bottom of them, you can clamp your pants on. 1344 00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:08,800 Speaker 2: You use the clamps to then seal the curtains together. 1345 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 2: But why do the curtains not connect? Like who mismeasured 1346 00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 2: for the whole hotel because they ordered those all at 1347 00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,800 Speaker 2: the same time. Yeah, so why do they never connect? 1348 00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:24,040 Speaker 1: Like did know? Like people just gas it's supposed to be. 1349 00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,120 Speaker 1: The size looks like eighty inches to me. I don't 1350 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. They want you up, they want you awake. 1351 00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:30,440 Speaker 3: You can't sit the day away. 1352 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,680 Speaker 2: There's also a hat to make your room even colder. 1353 00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 2: But it's like it looks like a like a Contra code, 1354 00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 2: like if you played Contra and Nintendo Aba B. You know, 1355 00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 2: it starts like starts like up down, updown. There's a 1356 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,520 Speaker 2: way that you can like get into the maintenance mode 1357 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,560 Speaker 2: of the thing, push a bunch of buttons, and then 1358 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:50,800 Speaker 2: you can override whatever settings they have and make it 1359 00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,960 Speaker 2: even colder. The problem is you can break the ac 1360 00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:53,440 Speaker 2: that way. 1361 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 1: Can you do that here? Because I'm sweating in the 1362 00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 1: radio station? 1363 00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 2: Yes? 1364 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 1: Well no, because it's on fire. 1365 00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:01,000 Speaker 3: So yeah, and you started it learned a place there? 1366 00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:01,880 Speaker 1: I did, I tried. 1367 00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:04,680 Speaker 2: I can't believe you made that confession this morning. We're 1368 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:08,720 Speaker 2: never gonna get invited back here. You started a fire. 1369 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 2: You're the reason nobody knew that. 1370 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,480 Speaker 1: All right, you ruined the tour. 1371 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,760 Speaker 2: The world show is on. Yeah, right, it's over. Now, 1372 00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,840 Speaker 2: forget about the new big city. We're getting. 1373 00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:23,479 Speaker 11: Order. 1374 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: It's a fresh show. It's all right. 1375 00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:31,720 Speaker 2: The Honorable is here, Judge Kiki, let's take it away. 1376 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,800 Speaker 4: Let's get in the courtroom. The gavel has been hit. 1377 00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,920 Speaker 4: This case says, hey Kiki, my name is Pam, and 1378 00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,280 Speaker 4: I need you to keep it real with me about this. 1379 00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:44,240 Speaker 4: My daughter is a senior in high school and she 1380 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:47,439 Speaker 4: landed her first job at a we'll say a local 1381 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,760 Speaker 4: fast food restaurant. I was against it at first, but 1382 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,240 Speaker 4: she promised me that she would not let it affect 1383 00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:56,000 Speaker 4: her school work. And after a month or so working 1384 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,720 Speaker 4: there after school, I noticed that when I would go 1385 00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:01,240 Speaker 4: pick her up from time to time, it got later 1386 00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:04,920 Speaker 4: and later each week. Sometimes she wouldn't clock out until 1387 00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 4: ten pm, although her scheduled time was from four pm 1388 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:12,080 Speaker 4: to nine pm. When I asked her why she was 1389 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,040 Speaker 4: clocking out so late, she kept saying, my boss said, 1390 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,840 Speaker 4: I can't leave until my prep work is done. I 1391 00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,160 Speaker 4: told her that I'm not okay with her working that 1392 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,880 Speaker 4: late and to tell her boss that she has to 1393 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:24,840 Speaker 4: leave by nine o'clock to get ready for school. 1394 00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:26,760 Speaker 1: Well, it only got worse. 1395 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,680 Speaker 4: My daughter started taking uber's home and would not come 1396 00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:33,240 Speaker 4: in the house sometimes until eleven PM. So I finally 1397 00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,200 Speaker 4: had enough. I went to my daughter's job and confronted 1398 00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,560 Speaker 4: her manager. It went bad real fast when the manager 1399 00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 4: told me, ma'am, you don't work here and you will 1400 00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,480 Speaker 4: not dictate how I manage my employees. We had a 1401 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:49,040 Speaker 4: tense exchange and I left. But when my daughter returned 1402 00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:52,040 Speaker 4: to work, she was fired and the manager completely threw 1403 00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:54,480 Speaker 4: me under the bus. And now my daughter is mad 1404 00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,200 Speaker 4: at me. She hasn't spoken to me in weeks. And 1405 00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,000 Speaker 4: although our agreement was that her grades would couldn't slip, 1406 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,840 Speaker 4: and they haven't. As a mother, I still feel that 1407 01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,640 Speaker 4: I did what was right. What do you think made 1408 01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:10,560 Speaker 4: judge Kky? Well, okay, she's a senior in high school. 1409 01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:13,480 Speaker 4: I don't know she's seventeen eighteen years old exactly. And 1410 01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,920 Speaker 4: I know for you and I, at sixteen, we were managers, 1411 01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:18,600 Speaker 4: that's right, Yeah, like I was. I was a manager 1412 01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:19,120 Speaker 4: at KFC. 1413 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,200 Speaker 2: Have you know I was managing a Blockbuster video I 1414 01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:23,600 Speaker 2: was sixteen years old. 1415 01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 1: I was the assistant manager. 1416 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,080 Speaker 2: There was a store manager, but I did have a 1417 01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,680 Speaker 2: key to the store and a coach of the safe. Yes, 1418 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,800 Speaker 2: at sixteen years old, which seems really like a terrible 1419 01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 2: idea in retrospect, But yeah, you know, I. 1420 01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:37,160 Speaker 4: Was managing like X cons, you know, shout out to them, and. 1421 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 2: You know I had I had grown men and women 1422 01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:45,760 Speaker 2: who I was mad. How must that have felt in retrospect, 1423 01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:47,280 Speaker 2: By the way that you go to work in a 1424 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,120 Speaker 2: sixteen year old it's telling you to mop the floor 1425 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 2: or go put those videos back. I never really thought 1426 01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:55,760 Speaker 2: about that in retrospect. How ridiculous. 1427 01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,600 Speaker 4: Anyway, So at that age, though, we took on those 1428 01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 4: responses abilities, and I feel like everything I did at 1429 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:06,640 Speaker 4: that age shaped me to be the responsible, somewhat responsible 1430 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,680 Speaker 4: adult that I am today. And so I can see 1431 01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:12,400 Speaker 4: if your daughter was fifteen sixteen, then maybe going to 1432 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:16,000 Speaker 4: the job to intervene is okay. But at this age, Mom, 1433 01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 4: she's getting ready to go off to college, she's getting 1434 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 4: ready to start her life. You can tell her how 1435 01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,640 Speaker 4: you feel, and you can tell her what you will 1436 01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 4: allow in your household, but to go to her place 1437 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:29,720 Speaker 4: of business, to me, is just overbearing and unnecessary. And 1438 01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:31,640 Speaker 4: I think you crossed the line with your daughter and 1439 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:34,120 Speaker 4: you didn't let her make her own decisions to kind 1440 01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:35,680 Speaker 4: of manage her life and figure out how to be 1441 01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:37,720 Speaker 4: an adult. And I think what you're doing is just 1442 01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:39,600 Speaker 4: gonna cripple her in the long run. You can't go 1443 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:41,280 Speaker 4: up to her job every time she's into it with 1444 01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 4: her boss or she doesn't like well you know what 1445 01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like you have to teach her how to 1446 01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:44,920 Speaker 4: handle that. 1447 01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:47,400 Speaker 2: Well, you guys are the jury eight five to five, 1448 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:49,400 Speaker 2: five nine to one, what oh three five? You can 1449 01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 2: call it text the same number eight five five five 1450 01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,920 Speaker 2: what oh three five? That's where for me going to 1451 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,560 Speaker 2: the to the job and talking to the boss, that's 1452 01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,240 Speaker 2: where I went sideways. Like you can say to your kid, 1453 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 2: here are the hours that I'm okay with you being 1454 01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:05,919 Speaker 2: out right, and so you need to find a job 1455 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:09,160 Speaker 2: that fits within that. But like going to the place 1456 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,160 Speaker 2: and saying, hey, I need you to run your business 1457 01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 2: differently because I don't want my kid out late is 1458 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,600 Speaker 2: not probably going to accomplish anything. If anything, it's going 1459 01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,520 Speaker 2: to inhibit your kid from success because they're just going 1460 01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 2: to probably fire him or her in this case, because 1461 01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,200 Speaker 2: it's like, well, I need somebody to be here until 1462 01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,040 Speaker 2: this time, and so if it's not her, then it 1463 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,040 Speaker 2: needs to be somebody else. 1464 01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 1: Absolutely. 1465 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 4: And you know these managers, they have a business to run, 1466 01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 4: and when your kid is working there, they're an employee. 1467 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:37,480 Speaker 4: You know, they're not your baby, they're not your little girl. 1468 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,880 Speaker 4: That's an employee. And you know, Jason runs a tight 1469 01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:43,640 Speaker 4: ship around here, so like I didn't imagine, you know, 1470 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,480 Speaker 4: somebody's mom coming up to you telling them they can't 1471 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:47,160 Speaker 4: work an event. 1472 01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 1: You know, well, my mom. 1473 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,600 Speaker 2: Knows it all the time. Actually, she calls uppear and says, 1474 01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:53,400 Speaker 2: where's the podcast. It's not up here soon enough and yeah, 1475 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,520 Speaker 2: dms everybody. Yeah, so that actually us, it does happen. 1476 01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 1: Well, she tells us to get to work, that's true. 1477 01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 13: Yeah, she's like she said, get up, and yeah, I 1478 01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 13: love your mama. 1479 01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:02,320 Speaker 15: Fred. 1480 01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, what if you had an employee Jason 1481 01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,240 Speaker 2: who was like whose parent was basically like, I'm fine 1482 01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,600 Speaker 2: with this, my kid working for you. I just needed 1483 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 2: to be between these hours. 1484 01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I think I wouldn't be able 1485 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,320 Speaker 6: to talk to them like they're not I can't discuss 1486 01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 6: an employment with someone that's not the employee, especially if 1487 01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 6: you're an adult. That's where like the line Teeter Totter's for me, Like, 1488 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,680 Speaker 6: I know she's a senior, so she could be seventeen 1489 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,120 Speaker 6: or eighteen. I feel like if she's seventeen, the parents 1490 01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,000 Speaker 6: still has a little bit of a right to like 1491 01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 6: engage in that because they are still the protective guardian 1492 01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:36,440 Speaker 6: of her right, right, But when she's eighteen, like I know, 1493 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 6: it's just like a year, so it sounds kind of arbitrary, 1494 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:41,600 Speaker 6: but like you're an adult now, like in the eyes 1495 01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:43,520 Speaker 6: of you know, the world, Like you're an adult now, 1496 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,160 Speaker 6: so you need to handle it and as a parent, 1497 01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,640 Speaker 6: you can no longer get involved or control that. 1498 01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:51,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because Blockbuster Video, which for those of you who 1499 01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 2: don't know what that is, and sadly there are probably 1500 01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,480 Speaker 2: other people who do. It was it all over the 1501 01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:56,760 Speaker 2: place and they had you know, you go in there 1502 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,280 Speaker 2: and you could ran to a movie. This is before 1503 01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,240 Speaker 2: everything was streaming, and they closed at midnight. They were 1504 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,400 Speaker 2: open I think ten to midnight, And so if you 1505 01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,200 Speaker 2: close the store at midnight, you were there till probably 1506 01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:09,320 Speaker 2: twelve thirty maybe one. Sometimes we would do inventory. Then 1507 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:12,040 Speaker 2: we were there all night. And so it got to 1508 01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:13,840 Speaker 2: the point where my mom's like, I don't want, I 1509 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:17,640 Speaker 2: don't need you in a store at midnight with cash, money, right, 1510 01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:21,840 Speaker 2: and other valuable items when you're sixteen years old. Tell 1511 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:25,880 Speaker 2: them that you can't close, which I did, and they obliged. 1512 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 2: They worked with me on that, but at the same time, 1513 01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,080 Speaker 2: it wasn't for me to tell them. I mean, I 1514 01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,640 Speaker 2: probably should have gotten fired for that because it's like, well, 1515 01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 2: then that means that of the you know, two other 1516 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:39,120 Speaker 2: managers there are that those two have to do all 1517 01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:42,040 Speaker 2: of the closings because you can't. And I understood her point, 1518 01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 2: but at the same time, it was like, this is 1519 01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:48,280 Speaker 2: not good for my ascension at Blacklister Video to district 1520 01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:50,160 Speaker 2: manager or whenever I was going to be at seventeen. 1521 01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm not crazy to be honest about the management 1522 01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,880 Speaker 13: of said plays. And I only say that because if 1523 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,640 Speaker 13: they know their employee is in high school, like, I'm 1524 01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:01,000 Speaker 13: not saying it's the responsibility to you kind of teeter 1525 01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:02,080 Speaker 13: taughter around them. 1526 01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:03,120 Speaker 1: But based on their. 1527 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,200 Speaker 13: Schedule, I would say, okay, maybe I'll schedule you to 1528 01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,080 Speaker 13: this time, knowing you can do your side work only 1529 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,479 Speaker 13: by this time, or put you for weekends only, because 1530 01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:11,200 Speaker 13: at the end of the day, I do believe that 1531 01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,120 Speaker 13: that students should be in school. I think majority of 1532 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:15,000 Speaker 13: us will had like jobs in high school. I get that, 1533 01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:16,840 Speaker 13: but now as a mom, I don't know if I'm 1534 01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,800 Speaker 13: comfortable with my daughter working in high school like that. 1535 01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:19,320 Speaker 1: I really don't. 1536 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:20,560 Speaker 3: I want her to focus on being a. 1537 01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:22,840 Speaker 13: Teenager, being a kid, getting good grades, and doing what 1538 01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,600 Speaker 13: she got to do in her life, whatever that might be. 1539 01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 1: But Paul, you guys say. 1540 01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:27,920 Speaker 2: That from the beginning, can't You can't take the job 1541 01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 2: correct knowing what the parameters are ahead of time. Now, 1542 01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:33,840 Speaker 2: if the manager changed it, if it was like, well 1543 01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:35,560 Speaker 2: we agreed to days and now you got me on 1544 01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:37,840 Speaker 2: at night, well then that's a conversation. But I also 1545 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,600 Speaker 2: think it's a conversation that the daughter needs to have 1546 01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:42,600 Speaker 2: and that mom doesn't need to come in there and 1547 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 2: handle it. For a lot of reasons. Hey Mike, how 1548 01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,280 Speaker 2: you doing good? How are you guys? 1549 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:47,440 Speaker 5: Mike? 1550 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:49,280 Speaker 1: Good morning? So this actually happened to you? 1551 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:54,360 Speaker 11: Yes, yes, my daughter software only at high school. I 1552 01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:57,880 Speaker 11: can't play school. She got a job at a local restaurant. 1553 01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,080 Speaker 11: I initially went with her, but I made her do 1554 01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:04,240 Speaker 11: all the time. And what then demanders started having her 1555 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,520 Speaker 11: call a kind of pie more than one or two 1556 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 11: times a week. I talked to my daughter, I said, 1557 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,280 Speaker 11: how do you feel about this? You got to handle 1558 01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:14,880 Speaker 11: the situation. I'm not gonna step that. I see the 1559 01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:18,240 Speaker 11: mom's point, how is there city? But you cannot get 1560 01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,240 Speaker 11: involved like that, embarrass your daughter like that. You've got 1561 01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:23,640 Speaker 11: to learn how to deal with these situations. 1562 01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:24,640 Speaker 1: I agree with. 1563 01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:28,880 Speaker 11: The mom didn't cut here? Was it the store? 1564 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:29,320 Speaker 10: Kiky? 1565 01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,560 Speaker 4: Another restaurant, a fast food restaurant, very popular one. 1566 01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:35,520 Speaker 11: I was just kidding because it's your story. 1567 01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:39,280 Speaker 1: The story only open on Wednesdays. 1568 01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:45,480 Speaker 11: Absolutely, absolutely, Yeah, So you gotta teach your kids to 1569 01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,040 Speaker 11: handle these situations. They're going to be rough, but that's 1570 01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:53,080 Speaker 11: only gonna make them grow and learn you can, baby, Yeah. 1571 01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,280 Speaker 2: I think you're doing a disservice. I mean, and obviously 1572 01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:58,120 Speaker 2: when they're young, but seventeen eighteen, yeah, I mean, you're 1573 01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:01,680 Speaker 2: considered an adult here in many in many ways, so 1574 01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,840 Speaker 2: you you would be doing them a disservice tape to 1575 01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 2: not let them handle it no matter what happens, because 1576 01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:08,680 Speaker 2: now would be the time, by the way, to go 1577 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 2: in there and say that and get fired. Honestly, if 1578 01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:12,200 Speaker 2: you're seventeen years old, not that that's a good thing, 1579 01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:14,800 Speaker 2: Like you still live at home whenever, whenever you're stand 1580 01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:16,479 Speaker 2: on your ground, if you're gonna get fired, like now's 1581 01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:19,080 Speaker 2: the time, I suppose because you're your parents are you know, 1582 01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:21,680 Speaker 2: you got a place to sleep hopefully whatever else. 1583 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:23,360 Speaker 1: Thank you, Mike, have a great day. 1584 01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:26,800 Speaker 11: Hey I'm number one. I'm number one. Then I'm telling 1585 01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:28,080 Speaker 11: you from day one I was you. 1586 01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:29,280 Speaker 1: Guys, Well, thank you. 1587 01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:33,280 Speaker 2: I'll let you and uh and I'll let you in Danida, 1588 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,200 Speaker 2: the undisputed listener number one of thirteen. I'll let you, 1589 01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:37,200 Speaker 2: guys fight it out. 1590 01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:39,320 Speaker 11: But trust me, I have a great thing. 1591 01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:43,240 Speaker 2: Okay, Mike, those words those are if you're new to 1592 01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:45,440 Speaker 2: the show. We only have thirteen listeners. We've only ever 1593 01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:47,960 Speaker 2: had thirteen listeners. They keep putting us on different places. 1594 01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:51,880 Speaker 2: We still only have thirteen listeners. But even listener number two, three, four, 1595 01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 2: Aaron mccavey, Meal, west Loop, Tom Missus Genessee, and the 1596 01:07:56,000 --> 01:08:00,240 Speaker 2: aj even they agree that Danide is listening number one. 1597 01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,320 Speaker 2: So the fact that Mike is coming in here out 1598 01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,320 Speaker 2: of nowhere, I'm not really hot like that. 1599 01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:06,640 Speaker 1: I just don't know. 1600 01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:10,080 Speaker 2: And then of course we only have two listeners or 1601 01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:13,440 Speaker 2: three we think, but two in Salt Lake City, Jerem 1602 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,519 Speaker 2: and when Bendy, so we we actually know them personally. 1603 01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 2: That's where we're at, you know, this is the stage 1604 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:21,280 Speaker 2: that we're at now. So today's our first day in 1605 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 2: West Palm Beach. If you listening, then go ahead and 1606 01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:24,519 Speaker 2: give us a text, and then you could be the 1607 01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:27,240 Speaker 2: first and only person listening. If you text us, there's 1608 01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:29,320 Speaker 2: a good chance. So there are zero people letter week. 1609 01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:33,200 Speaker 2: I was told that we are on the air in Florida. 1610 01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:35,880 Speaker 2: I was told that doesn't mean that anyone has us 1611 01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:44,200 Speaker 2: on the air. So, Hi, Natalie, how you doing Natalie? No, sorry, Rosalie. 1612 01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:47,000 Speaker 2: I'd rather go to the Rosalia first. Natalie can wait, Natalie, 1613 01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,839 Speaker 2: be patient, Rosalia, you go first, Hi, Rosalia. 1614 01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:52,519 Speaker 3: But yeah, Hi. 1615 01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:55,160 Speaker 2: See now there's the time when I tried to get 1616 01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:57,800 Speaker 2: fancy with him again and Rosalia and I just said 1617 01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:01,280 Speaker 2: it wrong. Anyway, Rosalia, they got to put something informatics 1618 01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:02,960 Speaker 2: for me on this thing, so I don't screw it up. 1619 01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:04,000 Speaker 1: What did you want to say? 1620 01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:08,519 Speaker 3: Agreed with Kiki one percent. 1621 01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:11,519 Speaker 14: I can't embarrass your kids like that. I have been 1622 01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:13,960 Speaker 14: working since I was fifteen. I've have been in a 1623 01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,720 Speaker 14: situation on the other end of that. If my were 1624 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 14: my parents were definitely upsetted working late and affecting my grades. 1625 01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:24,680 Speaker 14: But if my parents came to my job and did that, 1626 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:27,679 Speaker 14: I definitely would not be motivated to get a different 1627 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:28,599 Speaker 14: job at that age. 1628 01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:34,519 Speaker 18: But my advice to the mom and new mom of 1629 01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:39,439 Speaker 18: two now, especially girls, is open just have her If 1630 01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,719 Speaker 18: I was bothering her daughter working late, affecting her grades, 1631 01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:46,439 Speaker 18: she should have an open communication with her daughter saying, hey, listen, 1632 01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:47,040 Speaker 18: I know. 1633 01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:48,080 Speaker 14: You're working very late. 1634 01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:51,760 Speaker 3: Please talk to me if something's going on there. Let's 1635 01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,560 Speaker 3: have that open end communication. 1636 01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:57,479 Speaker 14: So if something is occurring that is inappropriate or whatever 1637 01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:59,400 Speaker 14: the case may be, she would be comfortable enough to 1638 01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:03,360 Speaker 14: go to her mom and you know, resolved. That's when 1639 01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:05,760 Speaker 14: I would step in and go to the manager, and 1640 01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,840 Speaker 14: you know, all hell would break loose should you too, 1641 01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:13,240 Speaker 14: something else going on? You know, that is just outside 1642 01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:15,560 Speaker 14: of working her responsilities. 1643 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:17,560 Speaker 2: Well, and I doubt, by the way, if if the 1644 01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 2: boss wasn't agreeable to the employee, you know, expressing her concern, 1645 01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:25,360 Speaker 2: then mom coming in over the top probably wasn't going 1646 01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,360 Speaker 2: to change his mind. If anything, it's just like, oh great, 1647 01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:29,120 Speaker 2: now I get to deal with two of them. Never mind, 1648 01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:33,759 Speaker 2: I'll find somebody else, right exactly, Yeah, thank you, Cindy. 1649 01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:36,559 Speaker 2: Excuse me, Rosalia, have a good day. I'm like very 1650 01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:39,640 Speaker 2: distracted today. I got so many people calling. Yeah, a 1651 01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,160 Speaker 2: lot of people call Rosalie, Cindy for sure, but let's 1652 01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:43,639 Speaker 2: Natalie Now, Hi, Natalie. 1653 01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:45,479 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just a lot of blinking things 1654 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:47,120 Speaker 1: in my face and I'm very I don't know. 1655 01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:51,400 Speaker 2: Hi. Hi, What did you want to say? Kikey's Court, 1656 01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,360 Speaker 2: by the way, uh in synopsis keiki. 1657 01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:57,679 Speaker 4: Yes, this woman, ma'am spout out the band. 1658 01:10:57,800 --> 01:10:58,400 Speaker 1: It's concerned. 1659 01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:00,760 Speaker 2: Her daughter was working at a fast food restaurant but 1660 01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:04,360 Speaker 2: working really late, and she wasn't comfortable with that. So 1661 01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:06,479 Speaker 2: she eventually went in and spoke to the manager on 1662 01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:08,680 Speaker 2: behalf of her daughter, and that did not go well. 1663 01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:11,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, she got our daughter fire from my first job. 1664 01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:12,720 Speaker 2: Because you didn't want a daughter at a fast food 1665 01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:14,360 Speaker 2: restaurant till eleven twelve o'clock at night. 1666 01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:14,880 Speaker 1: What do you think? 1667 01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:19,439 Speaker 15: Well, So, when I was seventeen, I started a job 1668 01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:22,840 Speaker 15: because I wanted to be as independent as possible, and 1669 01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:25,080 Speaker 15: my parents were fully on support of that, and they 1670 01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,680 Speaker 15: were always said that they were going to be in 1671 01:11:27,680 --> 01:11:30,000 Speaker 15: the background if they always if I ever needed them, 1672 01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:31,040 Speaker 15: but I was going. 1673 01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:32,160 Speaker 1: To resolve my own problems. 1674 01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:34,360 Speaker 15: By the time I was eighteen, I had three jobs. 1675 01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:36,439 Speaker 15: One was an externship that I didn't get paid for. 1676 01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:39,759 Speaker 15: And I was in two restaurant jobs and I had college, 1677 01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:45,080 Speaker 15: So me starting off being independent on my own actually 1678 01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:47,720 Speaker 15: gave me a boost up. And when I started doing 1679 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:51,439 Speaker 15: things completely on my own, And if I didn't have that, 1680 01:11:51,640 --> 01:11:55,439 Speaker 15: I probably would be very set back by the time 1681 01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:59,200 Speaker 15: I was nineteen twenty and actually doing my own stuff. 1682 01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:02,920 Speaker 15: But I mean, I can see if it was like 1683 01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:06,479 Speaker 15: a fifteen sixteen year old and parents, you know, me, 1684 01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:09,880 Speaker 15: to have like that waiver signed and everything. Sure, but 1685 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:13,960 Speaker 15: if they're trying to maybe they're kids forever, they're never 1686 01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:14,800 Speaker 15: going to grow up. 1687 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:16,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right, Thank you, Natalie, have a 1688 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,599 Speaker 1: great day, you two. 1689 01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:18,840 Speaker 2: Thank you. 1690 01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:19,920 Speaker 1: No, I think that's true. 1691 01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:21,760 Speaker 2: I mean at the same time, though, it's like, if 1692 01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 2: you don't want your kid out till midnight, then don't 1693 01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:25,639 Speaker 2: want them apply for a job at a place that's 1694 01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:29,200 Speaker 2: open until midnight, right, I mean, or just again specify 1695 01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:29,759 Speaker 2: from the beginning. 1696 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:31,479 Speaker 1: Hey, look, you can take. 1697 01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:32,840 Speaker 2: The job, but let them know I don't want my 1698 01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:36,479 Speaker 2: seventeen year old out until when at whatever time, And Crystal, 1699 01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:36,840 Speaker 2: you make it. 1700 01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:40,320 Speaker 1: We make a good point. Crystal, good morning, Hey, good 1701 01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:42,639 Speaker 1: morning guys. Hi, what did you want to say? Good morning, 1702 01:12:43,520 --> 01:12:47,360 Speaker 1: Hey ki ki, what's that girl? Oh no, you're on there. 1703 01:12:47,439 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 20: Let the record reflec. 1704 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:52,720 Speaker 1: Oh you know, and actually get out of here with 1705 01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:55,160 Speaker 1: your disrespect, you. 1706 01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:58,479 Speaker 20: Know, because no, no, no, no no, the mother had 1707 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:02,320 Speaker 20: spunk you. The mother said, not after nine pm. Okay, 1708 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,200 Speaker 20: I don't care about ten. I don't care about eleven. 1709 01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:12,240 Speaker 20: The mother said nine pm. I don't care about anything else. 1710 01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:16,360 Speaker 20: Nine pm is nine pm. So when I said you 1711 01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,639 Speaker 20: get off work at nine pm, that's it, that's all. 1712 01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 20: The daughter did not listen to my rules. No more jobs, 1713 01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:27,280 Speaker 20: whether the manager fires you or I fired you, and 1714 01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:29,400 Speaker 20: listen to my house, my rules and my house. 1715 01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:30,679 Speaker 1: Now I feel you on that point. 1716 01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:32,439 Speaker 4: I think the issue is she could have had that 1717 01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 4: conversation with her daughter instead of going directly to the 1718 01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:38,320 Speaker 4: daughter's manager, because now you put your daughter in an 1719 01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,840 Speaker 4: awkward situation that she didn't need to be in. You 1720 01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:42,880 Speaker 4: could have just said, hey, this is it, quit the job, 1721 01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,720 Speaker 4: you know, But now you've gotten her fired and she's like, 1722 01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:47,759 Speaker 4: now she doesn't even want to speak to her mom anymore. 1723 01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:49,599 Speaker 20: That's okay. 1724 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:51,519 Speaker 3: You should have listened to me in the first place. 1725 01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:56,880 Speaker 20: That predicament when you didn't get off at nine. 1726 01:13:56,800 --> 01:13:59,840 Speaker 2: O'clock, Crystal, So this, none of this would have happened 1727 01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:01,800 Speaker 2: if she had just followed directions to begin with. 1728 01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:03,080 Speaker 20: Correct. 1729 01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 3: You embarrassed both of us. 1730 01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 20: Now your manager had. 1731 01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:07,880 Speaker 3: To listen to me. 1732 01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:09,320 Speaker 1: Listen to Crystal. 1733 01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,960 Speaker 20: Your kids listen about twelve thirteen. 1734 01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:17,439 Speaker 2: Oh boy, all right, they get they're trying to get 1735 01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:19,360 Speaker 2: jobs at the fast food restaurant. 1736 01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:20,519 Speaker 1: I hope you can pick them up at midnight. 1737 01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:26,320 Speaker 20: I'll be up there too if this happens enough. 1738 01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:30,040 Speaker 2: Thank you, Crystal, have a great day, Love you. Honestly, 1739 01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:31,720 Speaker 2: I think it was Crystal's court, to be. 1740 01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:34,519 Speaker 1: Honest with you messing around. I don't think it was Crystal. 1741 01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:35,880 Speaker 1: I don't think it was kid us court at all. 1742 01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:39,679 Speaker 1: It is the Friend Show. Good morning. 1743 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:41,559 Speaker 2: Thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart 1744 01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:44,599 Speaker 2: app Live and anytime search for the freend Show on demand. Okay, 1745 01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:46,680 Speaker 2: so Belle's gonna tell her story then either text us 1746 01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:47,960 Speaker 2: or then she's gonna have to run any other room 1747 01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:50,840 Speaker 2: and call because our our intern Bellot, she answers the phone, 1748 01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,599 Speaker 2: does many things around here. She's doing a great job. 1749 01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:55,519 Speaker 2: Eight five five, five nine one one o three five. 1750 01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,240 Speaker 2: But you rode on the sheet today, Bello is something 1751 01:14:57,280 --> 01:15:00,760 Speaker 2: that really, Uh, I'm worried be Yeah. 1752 01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:04,519 Speaker 1: So a couple of days ago, I noticed that when 1753 01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:05,759 Speaker 1: I what is that called? 1754 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:07,599 Speaker 3: When you put that, what is that called? 1755 01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:10,519 Speaker 7: Like, not the windshield wiper but the fluid flu Yeah, 1756 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:15,679 Speaker 7: the spray and it was out and it was out. 1757 01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,280 Speaker 7: And usually I make Ben do what's my husband do? 1758 01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:19,840 Speaker 7: All like the car stuff, but I was like, you 1759 01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:21,880 Speaker 7: know what, I'm gonna impress him. I'm going to go 1760 01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:24,439 Speaker 7: to the gas station and I'm gonna do it myself. 1761 01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:27,240 Speaker 7: So I go to So you were out of windshield 1762 01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:28,080 Speaker 7: wiper fluid? 1763 01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:28,679 Speaker 3: Correct? 1764 01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:32,560 Speaker 1: So I went to the water basically, well is it? 1765 01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:33,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. 1766 01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:38,240 Speaker 7: So I went to the gas station guy and I 1767 01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:41,240 Speaker 7: was like, hey, can I get anti freeze and for 1768 01:15:41,479 --> 01:15:44,120 Speaker 7: my windshield? And he was really confused because I thought 1769 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,800 Speaker 7: windshield wiper fluid and anti freezer are the same thing 1770 01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:51,400 Speaker 7: because it doesn't freeze, it anti freeze, and so he 1771 01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:54,000 Speaker 7: stressed me out. He's like, you're gonna ruin your engine. 1772 01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:55,080 Speaker 6: I was like what. 1773 01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:57,120 Speaker 1: He's like, you need to know what kind it is? 1774 01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, you have to know what kind 1775 01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:01,320 Speaker 1: of fluid you need for that. 1776 01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:03,960 Speaker 2: I was sold because you guys were talking about two 1777 01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:06,559 Speaker 2: different things because anti freeze is used in the engine 1778 01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:10,800 Speaker 2: and winshield wiper fluid is silky water. Yes, And so 1779 01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:13,720 Speaker 2: he's like, well, wait a minute, you obviously got this 1780 01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:15,760 Speaker 2: mixed up. But you so you're telling me and you're 1781 01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:17,000 Speaker 2: twenty six. 1782 01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:18,799 Speaker 3: I'm yeah, twenty seven next Friday. 1783 01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:21,719 Speaker 2: In your twenty seven years of life, you never knew 1784 01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,519 Speaker 2: that anti freed anti freeze every want to say, and 1785 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,679 Speaker 2: whinshield wiper fluid were two separate things. 1786 01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:29,320 Speaker 1: I don't know a lot, fred. I did not know that. 1787 01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:32,880 Speaker 7: I did not, and so when I went home, I 1788 01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:34,880 Speaker 7: was like, damn, this guy is trying to make a 1789 01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:36,559 Speaker 7: buck off me. I think he's like trying to get 1790 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,040 Speaker 7: me to pie something I didn't need. And then my 1791 01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:42,000 Speaker 7: husband's told me I was stupid and that, well that 1792 01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:43,400 Speaker 7: that's not nice. 1793 01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,040 Speaker 9: Second, hello, not that I was doing a mechanic who 1794 01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,000 Speaker 9: would not confuse you or take advantage of you. 1795 01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:49,559 Speaker 8: Hello. 1796 01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:56,920 Speaker 3: No, it's so far I really am you wanted to 1797 01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:57,360 Speaker 3: handle it. 1798 01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:59,160 Speaker 7: I thought it was like I was going to impress 1799 01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,600 Speaker 7: my husband, like I got the anti freeze for the 1800 01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:03,519 Speaker 7: windshield wiper and. 1801 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:10,040 Speaker 13: Tell how to fluid you guys, it's been a week 1802 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,479 Speaker 13: But isn't that to put that in there? Because I 1803 01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:15,639 Speaker 13: think my husband did it by accident, because he changed 1804 01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:17,200 Speaker 13: it in the dark for some reason and he had 1805 01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:18,840 Speaker 13: to like go to the shop and they had to 1806 01:17:18,880 --> 01:17:19,800 Speaker 13: like flush it or something. 1807 01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:20,640 Speaker 1: I think that's what he did. 1808 01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:23,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you want to put that on 1809 01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:24,960 Speaker 2: your windshield. I mean, look, I don't I don't know 1810 01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:26,600 Speaker 2: what I'm talking about, except that I know those are 1811 01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:27,280 Speaker 2: two different things. 1812 01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:27,840 Speaker 1: I do know that. 1813 01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:30,280 Speaker 2: But I also love that everyone comes in here and 1814 01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:34,800 Speaker 2: complains about car problems. And Jason's partner owns a garage. 1815 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:38,400 Speaker 2: He is a he's a master mechanic. He owns the gayage. 1816 01:17:38,520 --> 01:17:40,680 Speaker 2: And for some reason people are like, I don't know 1817 01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:44,280 Speaker 2: my engine fell out? How will I possibly get this fixed? 1818 01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:50,280 Speaker 2: Nobody knows how to fix it. It's like someone right, right. 1819 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:53,360 Speaker 1: How do I, you know, stay alive? How am I supported? 1820 01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:53,560 Speaker 17: You? 1821 01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:53,840 Speaker 1: Guys? 1822 01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:54,000 Speaker 8: Need? 1823 01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:56,240 Speaker 6: This needs to be like a you know, circular thing 1824 01:17:56,320 --> 01:17:59,280 Speaker 6: here happening to support How I keep a roof over 1825 01:17:59,360 --> 01:17:59,639 Speaker 6: my head? 1826 01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I've been there many of times. 1827 01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:04,160 Speaker 1: And he won't rip you off. 1828 01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:10,320 Speaker 2: You don't have to pay well, as we learned, he'll 1829 01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:15,200 Speaker 2: accept livestock, he'll accept uh, you know, bananas, eggs right now, 1830 01:18:15,240 --> 01:18:16,280 Speaker 2: he'll take any of the eggs. 1831 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:19,120 Speaker 6: Literally, he gets paid him bread from one customer. You know, 1832 01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:22,400 Speaker 6: it's fine, Yeah, bread too. 1833 01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:24,800 Speaker 1: I love the one. No, I don't know if I 1834 01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:27,040 Speaker 1: should say this. I won't say it. I won't say it. 1835 01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 1: Can I say? 1836 01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,800 Speaker 2: Can I talk about I'm going to be nonspecific. But 1837 01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:33,280 Speaker 2: there is one customer of mics that owes him a 1838 01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:36,560 Speaker 2: lot of money, and you frequent a place where this 1839 01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:40,439 Speaker 2: customer works, and you tip this person a lot of 1840 01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:43,519 Speaker 2: money to do the job they do because they do 1841 01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:45,880 Speaker 2: a great job at it. But then somehow they don't 1842 01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:49,360 Speaker 2: pay you pay the bill. It's like you could tip 1843 01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:51,479 Speaker 2: them the number of the amount of money that the 1844 01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:53,840 Speaker 2: bill is and then be like, okay, just hand it 1845 01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:54,360 Speaker 2: back to me. 1846 01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:58,559 Speaker 6: Right, But I do have to say she is sorry, 1847 01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:02,280 Speaker 6: Well she she is paid. So there we go, right, 1848 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:04,960 Speaker 6: But I'm sure you know something will be broken soon. 1849 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:07,160 Speaker 6: But that's why we staged a coup because we were like, 1850 01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:10,360 Speaker 6: we're not We're not, you know, continuing the cycle until we, 1851 01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:12,240 Speaker 6: you know, get caught up on our bills. 1852 01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:14,600 Speaker 1: And I you know me, I'm supporting Mike. Yes, you know, 1853 01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:16,840 Speaker 1: people need to pay their bills. What about your person 1854 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:17,759 Speaker 1: because I don't. 1855 01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:20,599 Speaker 2: So well, yes, you know, well done. A Terra says, 1856 01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:23,840 Speaker 2: it's just wind decks. I guess, so looks like it 1857 01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:26,000 Speaker 2: does kind of look like that. And then they said 1858 01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:28,400 Speaker 2: someone else texted seven and eight they do put anti 1859 01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:32,040 Speaker 2: freeze in windshield wipe or fluid or it would be slushy. 1860 01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:37,600 Speaker 2: So you're kind of half right. Don't enable this, don't enables. 1861 01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we may have to. 1862 01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:40,120 Speaker 2: I'm gonna write this down. We may have to come 1863 01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:41,439 Speaker 2: back to this because we're out of time right now. 1864 01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:43,040 Speaker 2: But and I have a whole list of things that 1865 01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:45,000 Speaker 2: I found online. There's stuff that people like I guess 1866 01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:47,880 Speaker 2: just didn't know. And it's amazing to me all the 1867 01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:50,240 Speaker 2: stuff out there that just people are living there everyday lives, 1868 01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:54,639 Speaker 2: they grow to be, you know, uh, full, full grown, 1869 01:19:54,760 --> 01:19:58,160 Speaker 2: fully formed adults. And somehow they dismissed that those are 1870 01:19:58,200 --> 01:20:02,639 Speaker 2: two different things. For example, someone says, soapy water literally 1871 01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:05,200 Speaker 2: has no soap in it. It's water and rubbing alcohol. 1872 01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:08,240 Speaker 1: See are you sure? Why is it foam? 1873 01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:08,519 Speaker 11: Then? 1874 01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:14,200 Speaker 1: Where is it supposed to fall? Or did I put 1875 01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:15,640 Speaker 1: anti freezing? You know what? I don't know? 1876 01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:19,840 Speaker 2: Never mind, it's The fread show is on Fred's Fun 1877 01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:32,519 Speaker 2: Fact Fred's Fun learn so much. I've never heard of 1878 01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:34,880 Speaker 2: anything like this before. But let's go to South Korea? 1879 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:35,559 Speaker 2: Shall we come? 1880 01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:35,840 Speaker 5: Right? 1881 01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:36,000 Speaker 8: Right? 1882 01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:36,719 Speaker 1: Okay? 1883 01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:41,160 Speaker 2: Expect aircraft were forbidden from taking off or landing for 1884 01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:45,680 Speaker 2: thirty five minutes nationwide in South Korea last Thursday, as 1885 01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:47,880 Speaker 2: more than a half a million students took an all 1886 01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:52,800 Speaker 2: important college entrance exam. So this is so serious for 1887 01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:55,439 Speaker 2: the country that there could be no noise in the skies. 1888 01:20:56,000 --> 01:20:59,160 Speaker 2: So from one five to one, all domestic and international 1889 01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:03,440 Speaker 2: flights exclude emergencies, were barred from departing or landing at airports. 1890 01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,920 Speaker 2: This restriction ensured students would not be disturbed during the 1891 01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:11,080 Speaker 2: English listening section of the exam. I guess this is 1892 01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:14,800 Speaker 2: something that everybody has to take in Korea. Students taking 1893 01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:18,040 Speaker 2: exams in mathematics, English, and some chosen subjects including National 1894 01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:22,200 Speaker 2: Natural Science, Social Studies, and other four languages. Five hundred 1895 01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:26,200 Speaker 2: and twenty two thousand test takers at twelve hundred sites nationwide. 1896 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:28,080 Speaker 2: But they said, you know what, no airplanes in the 1897 01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:31,559 Speaker 2: air wow, So that nobody could be distracted. It would 1898 01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:33,479 Speaker 2: take a lot more than that not to distract me right, 1899 01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:38,080 Speaker 2: no sudden movements. It smells like something's burning in here, 1900 01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:42,160 Speaker 2: but it's not. It's just Paulina's hair straight mirror. Because 1901 01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:44,960 Speaker 2: apparently this is not only a radio station but a 1902 01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:46,080 Speaker 2: beauty salon as well. 1903 01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:48,320 Speaker 3: Hey man, I gotta do both, okay at the same time. 1904 01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:49,519 Speaker 4: Come on, that's you know what I mean. 1905 01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:54,120 Speaker 1: You don't have to, you know, but okay. More frend 1906 01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:55,200 Speaker 1: show next,