1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: Good morning. 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know about you, but I think this 3 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: first date is going great. 4 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 3: Wow. 5 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 2: I mean, is this even a wing doome? Because to 6 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 2: me it feels like heaven? 7 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: Side note? Is it coolfy split the bill because I'm 8 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: a little trapped for cash right now? 9 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: Ady? 10 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 3: Who? 11 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: Since it's our first date? 12 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 2: I just wanted to know a little bit about your family, specifically, 13 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,639 Speaker 2: are your parents still married? And would they approve of 14 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: us hooking up in this wingdow and bathroom? 15 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: Ah? 16 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: No, wrong answer to that, because if they would, we 17 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: can just keep it out or a little secret. You 18 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 2: and these living pepper wings be the only ones that know. 19 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, what's going on? 20 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: You have? 21 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: You're leaving, you haven't even paid your portion of the 22 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: bill yet. It's a double show. And let's face it, 23 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 2: first dates can be awkward and sometimes it's hard to 24 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 2: know what to talk about because you want to get 25 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 2: to know somebody, but you don't want to ask something 26 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: that will completely ruin the date. Well Around Relationship Expert 27 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: just published a list of the questions you should never 28 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: ask on a first date, and we'll go over it 29 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: right after this so you can know exactly what not 30 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: to say on your next date. 31 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: It's a jebile show. 32 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 2: I had a guy ask me once on a date 33 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 2: if i'd be with a man who had a third nipple. 34 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 2: Then he smiled at me and lifted up his shirt 35 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: and pointed at it. A We did not end the 36 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: date with a kiss, and yes, I ghusted him. That's 37 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 2: a text message that we just got in at four 38 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: to one oh six one. Text us with the worst 39 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 2: thing You've ever been asked on a first date? Because 40 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 2: a relationship expert has just released a list of the 41 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 2: top things you should never ask on a first date. 42 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: And I've heard stories of people saying ridiculous things on 43 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 2: first dates. But what are the top things that you 44 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 2: should never say on a first date? Here's the first 45 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: question they say you should never ask. How do you 46 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 2: think this date is going so far? That's a weird question. 47 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 3: I feel like if you have to ask it, it's 48 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 3: not going very well. Oh if you know what I mean, 49 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 3: Like it's kind of awkward, you. 50 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: Don't know what you're doing. 51 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: Yes, I should be like a lull in the conversation, 52 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: one of those awkward ones and when everybody just kind 53 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: of goes like after I laugh, just like, so, how 54 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: do you how do you think this date is going 55 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: so far? 56 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: The answer to that is usually going to be bad. 57 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it gives you an out. Ask that question. 58 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: If it's going that way, give yourself an out. I 59 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: gotta go. I'm thinking it's going very well. I've been 60 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: asked that, I but I've never used it as an out. 61 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: You've actually been asked that, Victoria. 62 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel bad saying oh, it's going terrible, Like, 63 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 4: what do. 64 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: You think it's about? Put somebody in a weird spot. 65 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: I think we just need to be empowered to be honest, 66 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 3: because otherwise we're wasting our time, their time. 67 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: And you know, you could just go home, go. 68 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 2: To sleep, exactly, it would be nice, especially if both 69 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 2: of you guys felt that way. 70 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: Exactly. How do you think this date is going right now? Terrible? 71 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 72 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: Me too? You want to just go? Yeah? It sounds 73 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: so nice, isn't it. I would respect you so much more. 74 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 2: Really, Yes, we're going over a list of the top 75 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 2: questions you should never ask on a first date. But 76 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: that doesn't happen to me anyway, keep mine. Are you 77 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: seeing anyone else right now? You can't not on a 78 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: first date. No, you just assume they are why are 79 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 2: you asking? 80 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 4: Also, you're only on one date with them, like nothing's exclusive? 81 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: How insecure are you? That is not a card to 82 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: play right right. 83 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 2: I've never had anybody ask me that on a first date, 84 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 2: but I imagine it probably does get asked a lot. 85 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: I've seen mostly dudes asking that question. 86 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: For some reason. 87 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 3: You ask that question, and it's usually not on a 88 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 3: first date, but it comes up with usually in like 89 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 3: then first like two to three, and you just look at. 90 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: Him and I'm like, what do you want me to say? 91 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I just go, what do you think? Are you? 92 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: Are you seeing anybody else? Because you are? I know. 93 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: I've had friends that like we're upset about it, like 94 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: she's totally dating other people, and I'm like, so are you? Yeah, 95 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 2: but like it's different. I'm like, no, it's not. It's 96 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: not different at all. It's just that you're jealous. Another 97 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 2: question that says you should never ask on a first date. 98 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: Do you want to split the bill? 99 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: Oh? 100 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: I think that's that bad, really bad. Yeah, I don't 101 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: mind that. 102 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 4: I also feel bad because I feel bad like making 103 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 4: the guy pay for everything that, like if he does 104 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 4: like say no to that and. 105 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: He gets the bill then I'll go get like ice 106 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: cream or something. 107 00:03:55,920 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: If if he does the sweet after, it means I 108 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 2: have more money, so I can go grab an ice 109 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: cream cone and go home. 110 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: That actually feels like it's more you. That really does. 111 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you buy it for both them, but we're 112 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: getting our separate ones, like. 113 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Split up it right, right right. 114 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: There's another question that says that you should never ask 115 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: on a first date. 116 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: Do you believe in marriage? They say it's a bad 117 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: question to ask on a first date. Why first? Why 118 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: do you ask that on the first date? Because why if. 119 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 3: You don't believe in marriage and you do, and then 120 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: you're already starting off this entire little whatever rendezvous depending 121 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: on what you want out of a relationship. But if 122 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: marriage is your endgame and that person doesn't want it, 123 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 3: don't you want to know sooner than later? 124 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: Not on a first date. I don't mind way too early. 125 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: It's probably good to know, I guess to get out 126 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: of the way. 127 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 2: So you're like, Okay, well, if I want marriage and 128 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: she doesn't, then I can still date her and we 129 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 2: can just kind of mess around. But I know it's 130 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: not gonna anything serious. 131 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, So you kind of at least know where 132 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 3: you're going with it. That one's not weird to me. 133 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 4: But then also I feel like that's like one of 134 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 4: those questions where like people could run from because like, oh, 135 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 4: she's trying to get married asap, Like I'm gonna try 136 00:04:59,040 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 4: to do that. 137 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: This is an age thing. 138 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: Oh you're twenty five, and therefore anybody would run away 139 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: from you right now. 140 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: That will be the one that says, do you believe 141 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: in marriage? Let's do it. 142 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: There's a courthouse right now. You got you kids, This 143 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 2: is great, We've got a family going. 144 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 1: We're good. 145 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 2: We're going over a list of the top things you 146 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 2: should never ask on a first date. According to a 147 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: relationship expert, why are you still single? 148 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: Oh? 149 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 4: A bad question to ask. I feel like guys think 150 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 4: that's a compliment when they. 151 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: Ask, I think they're trying to compliment, but it doesn't 152 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 2: sound good at all. No, Oh my gosh, you're still perfect? 153 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 2: How are you still single? Aka? You must be nuts? 154 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: But it's so loaded. 155 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 3: I'm finding that that question actually is even more loaded 156 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: than innocent, because I get it regularly in my DMS, 157 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 3: and I don't know. 158 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: These people what. 159 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 3: But the thing is is, like so many people have 160 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 3: lived lives that you know. Maybe you've had your heart broken, 161 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 3: maybe you need to be alone. Maybe you just feel 162 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 3: like you're just getting your bearings back, like there are 163 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 3: so many other things and what I don't want to 164 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 3: do when you ask me why I'm still single, this. 165 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: Is our crying. It could be like, you know what, 166 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of myself, right, it's fine while I'm 167 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: not divorced. Oh yeah. 168 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 2: I think guys are trying to say, like, I think 169 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 2: you're amazing and I would date you in a heartbeat. 170 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 2: I can't believe those other guys were idiots and let 171 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 2: you go. I think that's what they're trying to say, 172 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 2: but it comes off like, wow, you have to be 173 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: insane because that's the only reason you're single. 174 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 3: Like I'm crazy say that other part against people can 175 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: write it down. 176 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 2: I think you're amazing, and I'm baffled how anybody is not. 177 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 2: I think they're idiots. For I don't remember what I 178 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 2: said now, I'm I can't go back to that moment. Yeah, 179 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 2: I like it, I like something like that, but yeah, 180 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 2: I like basically I like you a lot, and I 181 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 2: think that if anybody let you go, they're dumb. 182 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: That's it. You could just say that, yeah, that is 183 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: the quickest way to get me. 184 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: And the number one question they say you should not 185 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: ask on a first date how much money do you make? 186 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: Oh? You kind of ballpark? You don't have to ask 187 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: that question. Just ask you about their job? Does it matter? 188 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: Look at their shoes? So what cars yours? 189 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 2: In the parking lot? The Ford Festiva? Hey, I gotta go.