Speaker 1: What's up is lip service. I'm ant like yee, I'm
Speaker 1: g G maguire, It's Jeordie George and I'm Quincy. He's
Speaker 1: a he's a trained actor the way you jump right
Speaker 1: in R Well, cheers to you. Congratulations, E T A
Speaker 1: E T A Earlier than anticipated. I tell people were
Speaker 1: coming up with their whole own acronyms for what it
Speaker 1: could stand for. Cheers G.
Speaker 2: I like to have fun all the time, and I
Speaker 2: feel like if you can't get through to somebody the
Speaker 2: first time through, you play with them a little bit
Speaker 2: so you can understand. So I was just really like
Speaker 2: introducing what redefining something really is, right because I look
Speaker 2: at something, well, I look at everything different like how
Speaker 2: the average person may look at something. I'm looking at
Speaker 2: it like the last thing they would have probably saw
Speaker 2: or thought of, almost like that's like my first thing.
Speaker 1: So I'm really your creativity works differently, yeah, and interpreting
Speaker 1: things the great matter is it a gift or is
Speaker 1: it a curse? You think because sometimes are you in
Speaker 1: your head a lot? Take sip.
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a gift, majority but it is
Speaker 2: a curse for sure, because I didn't expect somebody to
Speaker 2: like get it like me, and then sometimes I can
Speaker 2: just go so far over the head or just it
Speaker 2: loses the connection, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean that must be hard with data relate, Like
Speaker 1: where did he come up with that?
Speaker 3: Say?
Speaker 4: It's a Gemini fact, y'all?
Speaker 2: It's crazy, r I really really really, I mean I
Speaker 2: haven't been enough. I haven't been around enough signs really like, oh,
Speaker 2: I know you, I knew, but the Gemini. Yes, I'm
Speaker 2: a Gemini. You could as soon as you get around Jemis.
Speaker 2: You just know.
Speaker 1: Listen, I've had some Gemini experiences. Geminis can also be
Speaker 1: very like hot. Well, I guess that's by y'all have
Speaker 1: split personalities hot and cold.
Speaker 2: But what is the hot and cold for you? Like
Speaker 2: from experience, like.
Speaker 1: They could be the best thing that happened to you
Speaker 1: at times and then at other times the worst. It's
Speaker 1: like high highs and lo low.
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, you don't know which one you're gonna get, right, Well,
Speaker 4: it all depends on you because we reciprocate, So we're
Speaker 4: gonna get back now.
Speaker 1: I don't know about that.
Speaker 2: You know, she's major right there.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna let you geminis to write. There's four
Speaker 1: of us right now, of us, because sometimes and that's true,
Speaker 1: sometimes y'all interpret things the complete wrong way and you're like,
Speaker 1: that is not at all, Like I just you know
Speaker 1: what was happening here, And sometimes you'd be scared to
Speaker 1: tell a Gemini something like I don't even want to
Speaker 1: tell you. You don't know how they're going to be right.
Speaker 1: You don't know what twin you're gonna get. It could
Speaker 1: be something that's not your fault, but you don't know
Speaker 1: what type of side of the bed they woke.
Speaker 2: Up on, and you know what it is. I think
Speaker 2: it revolves around not being able to like read somebody instantly.
Speaker 2: Of course we want to like pick up and you know,
Speaker 2: I think we making the right move just because of
Speaker 2: how we catching the energy catch with us. You're not
Speaker 2: gonna like know at all. So you gotta really just
Speaker 2: be true to you. You gotta just come with your confidence.
Speaker 2: Don't think about us, think about you.
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, that's a good idea.
Speaker 2: Think that will put it in your because we can
Speaker 2: detect when you plot.
Speaker 1: But also I just feel like when y'all be mad,
Speaker 1: we just let you be mad. I can't even like
Speaker 1: trying to because we'll get over it. Yeah, be mad
Speaker 1: by yourself. It over quick.
Speaker 2: It takes me a lot to get mad. But then
Speaker 2: once I'm mad, it's a tough mad. But it ain't
Speaker 2: for long, like you said, But you're don't feel that mad.
Speaker 2: You gonna feel it. You gonna know I am not
Speaker 2: fucking with you for right.
Speaker 1: Now at this time. Well, let's talk about ETA for
Speaker 1: a second. The EPs out. It came out on August thirty,
Speaker 1: eth did you write, like, tell me about your writing
Speaker 1: process and how involved you were about that. I know
Speaker 1: sometimes people take songs, but also how much input did
Speaker 1: you have?
Speaker 2: I think with this project it was my first time
Speaker 2: really diving into something that I can say it's in house,
Speaker 2: fully produced by just my homides, produced by everybody who
Speaker 2: I really bang on the regular the saying know, like
Speaker 2: random feature here. Just because of this, I feel like
Speaker 2: the process is where I really really really get to
Speaker 2: like shine and really feel myself and be myself. And
Speaker 2: sometimes when you collaborate and you may not get that,
Speaker 2: you know, so with other projects. Not to say that
Speaker 2: it's a bad thing, but I've always like took the
Speaker 2: advice somebody was like, yo, work with this producer. I'm down,
Speaker 2: you know, what I mean, because I like to collaborate,
Speaker 2: but with this one, I think because I was really
Speaker 2: just focused on like where I was putting my time
Speaker 2: in space, and it was a process, but then it
Speaker 2: wasn't like it put me in an uncomfortable position, the
Speaker 2: fact that I was just working on it by myself. Okay,
Speaker 2: but I think that's where I found the funding it.
Speaker 2: That's why I was really like in my head and like,
Speaker 2: what do I really want to convey, you know what,
Speaker 2: because a lot of people still don't think or even
Speaker 2: though I do music, which I love.
Speaker 1: Right, you know exactly musician executives.
Speaker 2: So it's the gifts and all that as well. But
Speaker 2: I think this time I really took my time with it.
Speaker 2: I wanted to give, you know, some of the conception
Speaker 2: God conceptual, but at the same time too just something
Speaker 2: to connect with and be real relatable because I'm just
Speaker 2: like everybody else and people always oh my god, you're
Speaker 2: so different than what I thought you would be, and
Speaker 2: I'd be like, what does that really mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're quite nice perception versus reality.
Speaker 2: And it's like, I'm not doing nothing that puts that
Speaker 2: on me, So why did you.
Speaker 1: Even you know what I think you're not like out
Speaker 1: there as far as there's not a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: on you, you know, like you can't just be like,
Speaker 1: you know, Quincyton did this so you see him on
Speaker 1: the blogs, Like if we see you on the blogs,
Speaker 1: it's not for some drama that you're involved in, you know,
Speaker 1: and obviously like life LIFs and you have high profile
Speaker 1: family members and then that puts you in a position,
Speaker 1: but it's not because of you.
Speaker 2: And I guess what they don't know, that's what they
Speaker 2: formulate themselves, or at the end of the day, it
Speaker 2: just comes. Since we don't know this, we can only
Speaker 2: assume that, and I think over time and time it
Speaker 2: becomes something until they see otherwise. And that's kind of
Speaker 2: what I'm doing. Like with every move I make, I'm
Speaker 2: like trying to show the raw aspect of it and
Speaker 2: not be so polished. And I'm stylishing to do all this,
Speaker 2: but I'm like a superhero. I'll put the costume on,
Speaker 2: I take that shit right off, you know, I mean,
Speaker 2: and go handle some business.
Speaker 1: So it's that scary that you're exposing that part.
Speaker 2: Of yourself, No, because I think it's vulnerable and I
Speaker 2: feel like that's where people are going to connect with
Speaker 2: first before they know anything. You can tell when somebody
Speaker 2: is genuine, genuine, and it urts me when they're not.
Speaker 2: And now you know you can't y'all stop doing that yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so not a genuine business though. I think
Speaker 1: it's known for not being genuine. Like I've never heard
Speaker 1: anybody be like, man, this music business, boy, it's really
Speaker 1: very real, spiritual and real, and everybody's like, that's not
Speaker 1: what we get business. It's rare when you find people
Speaker 1: that you feel like, Okay, that person was man what
Speaker 1: they said, and then with this and I rock with them.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's like you got to play the game. And
Speaker 1: that's what it is like, because it is you know
Speaker 1: people always like I know people who have come from
Speaker 1: the streets and decided I'm want to start doing music
Speaker 1: and get into business, and they're like, man, I can't
Speaker 1: believe these people don't keep their word. This is going
Speaker 1: to do this, or if you fall off, people really
Speaker 1: don't mess with you. Like if it's all about being
Speaker 1: I think transactional, what can I get? What value does
Speaker 1: this person bring? And if they feel like you're not
Speaker 1: valuable anymore, that it don't matter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and That's how I've been moving even with this
Speaker 2: project it's called ETA Earlier than anticipated, with that translatingto
Speaker 2: like stripping away expectation, you know, just allowing yourself to
Speaker 2: like really be because the distractions are going to be there,
Speaker 2: you know, I mean regardless no matter what you do,
Speaker 2: you I mean, life is going life. So like my
Speaker 2: best advice is to just do you in the simplest way,
Speaker 2: put right, you know, and people like, what what does
Speaker 2: that mean? Respond off? Feel good? You know what feel good?
Speaker 2: You know it don't And if you know you think
Speaker 2: the negative stuff feels good, you got to work to
Speaker 2: do I feel like it takes more to go the
Speaker 2: other way. So it's like, imagine if you put your
Speaker 2: energy somewhere else, that kind of like translate to actually
Speaker 2: who you.
Speaker 1: Are in a positive play.
Speaker 2: And that's something I like to try and do with people.
Speaker 2: If I can, I feel like I got you a
Speaker 2: little bit. I want to be able to open whatever else.
Speaker 1: Next level, next level, like this so different route, yes,
Speaker 1: you know in a way, like everything that you're talking
Speaker 1: about right now kind of reminds me of that. But
Speaker 1: you know what you said in the song about not
Speaker 1: being all the way happy yet, and I want to
Speaker 1: talk about that because I know even for you doing music,
Speaker 1: you said there was a lot of distractions, and even
Speaker 1: when you came up here, I was like, Okay, did
Speaker 1: they say you can't talk about this? You can't talk
Speaker 1: about that? And so I wanted to make sure that
Speaker 1: we're aware because I know you have been going through
Speaker 1: a lot, whether or not people know it. I know
Speaker 1: that's not easy for you, Like you haven't done anything wrong,
Speaker 1: but it's hard. People think they're being funny, people are
Speaker 1: on social media, you know, saying crazy things, and you
Speaker 1: have sisters and brothers that you have to like protect,
Speaker 1: you know as well. And so do you feel like
Speaker 1: you've ever been all the way happy?
Speaker 2: I think happiness is a constant thing. I think you know,
Speaker 2: you constantly keep your happiness. It fluctuates. It's definitely a
Speaker 2: roller coaster. But I wouldn't say I've been happy a lot.
Speaker 2: But I feel like when you continue your life and
Speaker 2: you almost like checking to these new chapters and you know,
Speaker 2: allowing everything to happen, you got to like check in
Speaker 2: with yourself to like really see is what you're doing
Speaker 2: making you happy or still making you happy? Because everything
Speaker 2: got its time even with like what you're doing, not
Speaker 2: just people, you know. So that's also to something where
Speaker 2: I'm like really trying to listen to my gut because
Speaker 2: I got little sisters to protect, to give advice. So
Speaker 2: it's like if they ask me something, I want my
Speaker 2: answer to be perfect because I want to be able
Speaker 2: to like follow up with that check in and see
Speaker 2: if my advice is working because I went through what
Speaker 2: I went through, so I can only explain from my experience,
Speaker 2: you know, not you know, they girls and at seventeen
Speaker 2: about to.
Speaker 1: Be women age and all in the spotlight, you know,
Speaker 1: not willingly, but they are all in the spotlight.
Speaker 2: And my happiness lies there and only there, right, So
Speaker 2: everything I do, I feel like I can talk to
Speaker 2: them now as adults, you know, and it feels like
Speaker 2: the connection there is what's going to like amplify my happiness.
Speaker 2: You know. When I say I ain't all the way
Speaker 2: happy yet, it's because almost like next phase of happiness,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean now that my sisters are
Speaker 2: grown ups.
Speaker 1: Wait, I was going to say, the whole thing got.
Speaker 2: To be tough, way too late. They aren't even you.
Speaker 1: Met you met them?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Cool, cool, You sound like the body that put them
Speaker 1: to the side, or did they try letting process?
Speaker 2: We definitely had the had the little dinner. We definitely
Speaker 2: had a little chat.
Speaker 1: I love that. It's good, you know, and that must
Speaker 1: be so intimidating to date ether one of them.
Speaker 2: But they're not stupid, you know. I mean they so
Speaker 2: on point. They got each other. So it's like you're
Speaker 2: thinking you're gonna run any type of game. Good luck.
Speaker 1: That's right.
Speaker 2: They had last laugh every time.
Speaker 1: I love that and even for so what about acting?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: First of all, I was so sad on raising Canaan,
Speaker 1: you know, in.
Speaker 4: A way respectfully, I was not. I didn't like your character.
Speaker 1: I like a bad you know, we gotta look I
Speaker 1: like a bad character. But we knew that was gonna
Speaker 1: happen because we knew that he was trying, he wasn't
Speaker 1: moving too smart. It happened. I think it happened a
Speaker 1: little sooner than I expected it to. But Crown Como
Speaker 1: and just so you know, Lulu, who killed you? He
Speaker 1: was sitting right there twice. How crazy is it to
Speaker 1: get killed on like a show?
Speaker 2: Fun? Fun? Because you better not take the way out
Speaker 2: like I think sometimes the weight in to movies is
Speaker 2: to be like, hey, can I get killed?
Speaker 1: Wow, I don't mind.
Speaker 2: Nobody be liking to.
Speaker 1: Get killed because you want to keep your character going exactly.
Speaker 2: However, that's like a little undisclosed thing in the industry.
Speaker 2: People get their first shots by being a guy right there.
Speaker 2: It just be no words online, just get up, get murked,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: But how do you prepare for that though? Like, how
Speaker 1: do you prepare to pass away?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 1: What is a process?
Speaker 2: Let me see?
Speaker 1: What is it like to get choked?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't. But we did do rehearsals just to
Speaker 2: be all the way honest, it's just funny because we
Speaker 2: did a rehearsal, a safety rehearsal, and it just don't
Speaker 2: feel real at all doing it that way. So me
Speaker 2: and lou We was like, yeah, funk were they talking about?
Speaker 2: We know we gotta do the safety ship, but we
Speaker 2: know what we're doing because it just didn't feel real.
Speaker 2: So I was trying to react. But from the way
Speaker 2: that they.
Speaker 1: Was did you want to laugh? Like what do you
Speaker 1: think about it? Low?
Speaker 2: Key? Was funny before it was serious, And I was like,
Speaker 2: all right, we got to get serious, like my g
Speaker 2: go ahead, like just just you got about good twenty
Speaker 2: five seconds for real before I'm a panic so and
Speaker 2: he took it there like it was no regulation regulation
Speaker 2: follow in that one, just because, like I said, I
Speaker 2: wanted to make it believable, no matter what, whether I've
Speaker 2: never been strangled in my life.
Speaker 1: How you should giant? It enhances your orgasm with a
Speaker 1: rope with a no g Yeah right, I ain't talking
Speaker 1: about the hand, talking about extension our cave trying. Don't
Speaker 1: recommend that one.
Speaker 4: You did really good. The glasses fell off and every thing.
Speaker 2: I was convinced my head hit the ground. That was
Speaker 2: head hit ground. That wasn't really question.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like yo, bro chill out like you did a
Speaker 1: good job.
Speaker 2: Down, thank you. But it is scary to say, it's
Speaker 2: scary to prepare for that.
Speaker 1: And did you like when you watched it? You have
Speaker 1: parties where you're like myself? How how are you about
Speaker 1: watching yourself after you film? Some people don't like to
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 2: I don't get that. Why not?
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's cringey.
Speaker 2: It's a little why because it's you. Yeah, but that's
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Why are you doing it? I don't
Speaker 2: know why even do it? Because millions of people going
Speaker 2: to see it, you don't what's wrong with you.
Speaker 1: But when you put it that.
Speaker 2: Way, it's like when you hear your voice on like
Speaker 2: camera for the first few.
Speaker 1: Times or on the radio, something I still can't stand.
Speaker 2: I feel like we always want to have an uncomfortable
Speaker 2: space for ourselves. When we see ourselves in action, performing, speaking, anything,
Speaker 2: it's a.
Speaker 4: Self criticism because you know you're gonna notice every little
Speaker 4: thing like ooh, I could have done that better, or
Speaker 4: maybe I should have done this a B or C
Speaker 4: or made this decision. I think it's more that meditation.
Speaker 2: It always keeps you like chiseled right. If you feel
Speaker 2: like you it, you're not. So it's like there's that
Speaker 2: room to always try and do better. So you can't
Speaker 2: look at it and say it's perfect, but somebody else can. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so good as long as you don't think it's perfect.
Speaker 1: Improve better. Did you watch yourself on Summer House Martha's Vineyard?
Speaker 1: Were you watching the episodes? I did watch the episode.
Speaker 4: There were scenes that I skipped and I'm like, ugh,
Speaker 4: when I'm having a mental breakdown, I want to see that.
Speaker 4: Or when I was talking to my dad. Sometimes that
Speaker 4: was more difficult to see because, like photos of my mom.
Speaker 4: My mom also passed away, so that was more tough
Speaker 4: to see, but I.
Speaker 1: Watched most of it. I was like, oh, I look
Speaker 1: cute like that ain't going Yeah, and you too? Do
Speaker 1: you got the documentary? Yeah? Well I've only seen the
Speaker 1: first episode of that, the Magic City Documentary, but I
Speaker 1: love to see it myself. I was like yes, every
Speaker 1: time my popular heir, I was like, oh, I'm cute.
Speaker 1: That's good. That confidence to be able to do that,
Speaker 1: because I really do not like to. Really, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm on the radio every day. I don't really like
Speaker 1: to listen to myself or watch myself. I do it
Speaker 1: because I have to, but I really don't like it.
Speaker 4: Maybe it's the Capricornburg's Gemini thing. I don't know, because
Speaker 4: that's what you're giving.
Speaker 1: Y'all love it.
Speaker 2: We're like, but when you say you don't like it,
Speaker 2: you don't like it, or it's like you I just
Speaker 2: do you rather yourather somebody else?
Speaker 1: I just be like, especially if like I'm with somebody
Speaker 1: and they want to watch, I'm like, don't put that
Speaker 1: on right now. I don't want to see it. I
Speaker 1: don't like if you're with somebody and they want to
Speaker 1: watch it. I don't want to see that. I feel that.
Speaker 1: I know, you're right, I got to get over that.
Speaker 1: But even let's talk about the video as well, because
Speaker 1: that was a I want to talk about the concept
Speaker 1: behind the video, because it was art involved in that.
Speaker 1: You do you collect art at all?
Speaker 2: I started, I'm not in the major side of things yet,
Speaker 2: but now my house got are everywhere.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it don't have to be like expensive,
Speaker 1: not at all.
Speaker 2: But before I didn't know like what I liked, you know,
Speaker 2: and now I'm starting to gravitate towards something like I
Speaker 2: need this for the for the crib extead, like looking
Speaker 2: for art. What should I put here? Ship is screaming out?
Speaker 2: I mean even you know, in a little microdots rooms,
Speaker 2: some ship like.
Speaker 1: That's coming with me. I know exactly Where'm gonna put
Speaker 1: you in. It's so funny how shrooms is like, Okay,
Speaker 1: now people used to be so judgmental because I've been
Speaker 1: enjoying shrooms for like a lot. I always tell you, right,
Speaker 1: it's a nice, you know type of feeling. Yeah, isn't
Speaker 1: that crazy How people used to be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you're doing Now it's like Hey, can we get the
Speaker 1: chocolate with this, the mushroom tea and all of that.
Speaker 2: To be honest, I thought shrooms was like like worse
Speaker 2: than like acid or worse than something else.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but it's not.
Speaker 2: Until, yeah, until I tried it. It's actually so much,
Speaker 2: so much.
Speaker 1: It's fun, but I think it also elevates whatever mood,
Speaker 1: so it could not be fun to.
Speaker 2: You can't just do it just to do it. And
Speaker 2: I feel like that's where we're kind of getting that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think God, I never had club.
Speaker 4: I had one where I could not go to sleep
Speaker 4: for our words. I was up all day, all night,
Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, now I'm over this. We're just
Speaker 4: sitting at the ceiling like what am I doing now?
Speaker 1: I'm over see. I feel like they were off pretty quick,
Speaker 1: but I microdos like I wouldn't do, you know, because
Speaker 1: I don't smoke or nothing, so I don't try to
Speaker 1: do like too much of that.
Speaker 2: You remember that song Lou Wayne and Shoe keep Me up.
Speaker 2: As we said, shrooms keep me up?
Speaker 1: That was. It also can make you cry.
Speaker 2: It's emotional.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it enhances your emotions for sure, Like you could
Speaker 1: just and Ika if you're in a bad mood. No,
Speaker 1: but I was in a good mood. I actually was
Speaker 1: laughing so hard I was crying like zah laugh okay,
Speaker 1: like that laugh. Yeah, that was a fun experience. Like
Speaker 1: I was laughing so I couldn't stop laughing, and then
Speaker 1: I couldn't stop crying and laughing. That was a nice feeling.
Speaker 2: Technically, you're supposed to have one of those every like
Speaker 2: proper shroom trip. It's one of those like something that
Speaker 2: just take you overboard laughing where you can't breathe, like
Speaker 2: you telling them to stop. I can't breathe like that funny.
Speaker 1: But I did the first time I did it. That's
Speaker 1: this is a long time ago. I had a boyfriend
Speaker 1: at the time, and I actually went through his phone,
Speaker 1: which yeah, but I normally wouldn't have done that, but
Speaker 1: you know, the inhibitions were gone, and that's when I
Speaker 1: found out. Let me tell you what I saw now
Speaker 1: that that I'm thinking about this, let me tell you
Speaker 1: what I saw in his phone. Right, He clearly was cheating,
Speaker 1: and he told the girl that was texting him that
Speaker 1: he had gotten locked up. Mind you, we were like
Speaker 1: in the Poconos, not locked So he lied and said
Speaker 1: that like he just got out of he got locked
Speaker 1: up for some type of like speeding, some bullshit, and
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. He was like telling her, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got locked up something something I never would have
Speaker 1: seen that. I felt like God told me to look
Speaker 1: through his phone un locked up.
Speaker 2: I mean, like, look, I cannot be contacted, don't exactly,
Speaker 2: that's crazy.
Speaker 1: That was kind of a good one, though, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie because I feel like that's one guy's always
Speaker 1: that's I was about to say, that's a go too,
Speaker 1: locked up, So you can't use that because if you
Speaker 1: got locked up on right maybe like word and I
Speaker 1: think more back then because with the Internet and everything
Speaker 1: being searchable in public knowledge right now, it's accessible, but
Speaker 1: like back in the day, guys would definitely use that
Speaker 1: I was locked up, especially over the weekend, because if
Speaker 1: you get locked up on a Friday and you get
Speaker 1: at home, yeah, yeah, are you like when it comes
Speaker 1: to that, have you ever lied to women and gotten caught?
Speaker 2: No, I'm not because it hurt too much to have
Speaker 2: to like keep up with it and the like.
Speaker 1: When you were younger. I felt like at point.
Speaker 2: For sure, definitely in the past, absolutely three times you realize, Okay,
Speaker 2: now it's not worth This line is so not worth it,
Speaker 2: because it'd be like two three weeks stretched out of
Speaker 2: ship for one little moment, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Where keep the layers of the line.
Speaker 4: That's never just the one line.
Speaker 2: Other line. That's what I'm saying. You can't just do
Speaker 2: it once. It don't make sense if you do it once.
Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, it was a whole story. Who
Speaker 1: can keep up with that?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: And then you forget you lied about something, and then
Speaker 1: and they're like, wait.
Speaker 4: I thought you were saying something else.
Speaker 1: Right, receipts everything. And the funniest is when you get caught,
Speaker 1: like when you catch a guy and he's like when
Speaker 1: you're like, wait, I thought you said that you got
Speaker 1: locked up that weekend, and then you and they'd be
Speaker 1: like what you mean and they try to change the subject.
Speaker 1: I was lie for no reason. I wish they didn't.
Speaker 1: I wish more memoirs.
Speaker 2: I lie little. I mean, I lie a little bit,
Speaker 2: but like I'll tell somebody I'm somewhere else then I'm
Speaker 2: not why because I don't want you to know where
Speaker 2: I'm at.
Speaker 1: Okay, why do you want to know where? I'm at
Speaker 1: okay now now it's coming out.
Speaker 2: My locations are not shared by nobody on my phone.
Speaker 2: I got friends of mine who got thirty people locations.
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't have nobody. I have a lot of locations.
Speaker 1: You do have a couple.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 4: But the girls going out is different. It's like safety,
Speaker 4: you know for sure?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got my sister's location.
Speaker 1: Okay, there you go. But they don't have you. They
Speaker 1: don't have you, but.
Speaker 2: They could, but they don't care.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I hate the straight just what you're doing or where
Speaker 2: you're at?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because why yeah?
Speaker 2: Why? So? Now if I tell you something else and
Speaker 2: if it's not really what you thought, then it ain't
Speaker 2: gonna go nowhere. But if I say something that works
Speaker 2: out for the reason you was hitting me up, follow up,
Speaker 2: it's where you at scott Ivan school.
Speaker 1: You you terribalized cles.
Speaker 2: You know, if you need a favor or anything, maybe
Speaker 2: I can get to it after after sky out in school,
Speaker 2: But right now, what's going on? You can't tell me first?
Speaker 2: You want to what you have, where you are, and
Speaker 2: what you're doing first, like like.
Speaker 1: Are you busy tonight? And like it depends right, because
Speaker 1: then you'd be like no, what's going on? And then
Speaker 1: they actually do something you don't want to do and
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, yeah, I was second thought. I am busy.
Speaker 2: See a meme that said it perfectly. It was like,
Speaker 2: just because I'm free or just because I have free
Speaker 2: time does not mean I'm available.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I was like like like like like like share share share,
Speaker 2: share share.
Speaker 1: You think you're like a loaner. You like to be alone.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I figured that out early on, because like, I'm
Speaker 2: not like everybody else in like a lot of different ways.
Speaker 2: It could just be I'm simple, right, but so not.
Speaker 2: And I feel like the more and more I like
Speaker 2: got to hang around people and just like be around
Speaker 2: people and you know, say there's nothing to do, let's
Speaker 2: just go hang with the homies. There's nothing getting out
Speaker 2: of that. So it's like when I start being alone,
Speaker 2: being alone, I was doing mad shit. Like your mind
Speaker 2: be going, you know, and it goes to a million
Speaker 2: different places when you're alone. And I feel like that's
Speaker 2: a way to like actually just grow yourself without having
Speaker 2: to like step out to the world and experience this. Yes,
Speaker 2: do that too, but if you spend some time alone,
Speaker 2: you're gonna meet that shit in the middle, and you're
Speaker 2: gonna be up here next just because.
Speaker 1: You had time to figure it out.
Speaker 2: You had exactly you had your time when you got
Speaker 2: a friend over. When you're doing this, you haven't. That's
Speaker 2: your time, that's your time. So we need more of that.
Speaker 4: A lot of people don't get that though. That's what
Speaker 4: I'm learning. I'm an only child and I live by myself,
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I need that time to myself to
Speaker 4: really feel what I'm feeling or wanting to get my
Speaker 4: goal out or whatever it is.
Speaker 1: And people are like, oh, well.
Speaker 4: If you're not doing anything, I'm gonna pull up, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna you know whatever, And they don't get that. And
Speaker 4: then even when you're out and you're working, I'm trying
Speaker 4: to do something. I'm not really hang out, you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, And so they'll be like, oh, well,
Speaker 4: I saw your stories. I'm like, but that doesn't.
Speaker 1: Mean I'm not still grinding. This is the part of
Speaker 1: the worker picture.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I feel like people don't appreciate the being
Speaker 4: alone time.
Speaker 1: Right, I'm around people all the time, So when I
Speaker 1: get like a little bit of time to be by myself,
Speaker 1: I be I do value that, like to just be
Speaker 1: laying on the couch or you know whatever. But I
Speaker 1: still feel like I enjoy company a lot. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is about me, but I.
Speaker 2: Do like to and I love company as well.
Speaker 1: I like to entertain, and.
Speaker 2: I feel like, see that'd be me, I know, I know,
Speaker 2: I like I can bring shit out of people. Somebody come,
Speaker 2: they board whatever, we're gonna vibe, something's gonna you can
Speaker 2: just sit.
Speaker 1: I enjoy that, you know what I'm saying. And I
Speaker 1: feel like people don't go to clubs much anymore. We
Speaker 1: go to eat, or we go to like a little lounge,
Speaker 1: but people are not partying like we used to. The
Speaker 1: party the same. You're not really a partier.
Speaker 2: Right, Nope, it's I got a party with a purpose.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: It's like a purpose started start.
Speaker 1: For your reason. Yeah, we're celebrating something or it's work related,
Speaker 1: not just because.
Speaker 2: Because as soon as I started to do anything where
Speaker 2: the purpose is nowhere in sight, it just seemed like
Speaker 2: a waste of time. And then I literally go down
Speaker 2: a list of like things, what I could have did
Speaker 2: I I've been putting off for two three days.
Speaker 1: I just did this instead of you. So we were
Speaker 1: in Chicago and we had to go to our friend's
Speaker 1: birthday party I was hosting, and we went out there
Speaker 1: to support her. I was in the bed like until
Speaker 1: like I got dressed and she was running late. I
Speaker 1: got right back in the bed with my clothes like this, Yeah,
Speaker 1: took my boots, got right back in the bed. I
Speaker 1: was like, maybe we should go have it. We were
Speaker 1: staying at Soho house. I was like, maybe we should
Speaker 1: go have a drink and I was like, no, maybe
Speaker 1: I'll just lay here. And you know, time is so
Speaker 1: hard to motivate myself to do anything when you're as
Speaker 1: busy as you are. Every little minute that you can
Speaker 1: get the rest you need to take advantage of. And
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what you did in that moment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was laying there like watching ninety Dance. Yes, that's
Speaker 1: my guilty pleasure I got. Could you imagine dating somebody
Speaker 1: who doesn't speak English? Yeah, but you did it? I
Speaker 1: have Okay, how was that? It's very tough because was
Speaker 1: it like translator app they have those.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But it wasn't like completely lost, right, It was
Speaker 2: just very broken to the point where it's like, I know,
Speaker 2: this's not gonna last long, but I am very interested
Speaker 2: and eager to try and see how to make it work.
Speaker 1: So was it more of like a challenge for you?
Speaker 1: Did you learn a little bit of another language because
Speaker 1: you kind of have to?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, sure Spanish?
Speaker 1: Did you tell? I said, I know, you know how
Speaker 1: to say that right there? Does it matter to you
Speaker 1: if a woman has a boyfriend, have you been a
Speaker 1: side piece?
Speaker 2: I'm sure that I probably ain't know, but yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: sure it has happened.
Speaker 1: Like if if you said Tennis novio and she said,
Speaker 1: see pedal.
Speaker 2: No, listen, I the drama, leave me the furthest away
Speaker 2: from it.
Speaker 1: If that can only turn into some.
Speaker 2: Like even if that conversation goes anywhere, I'm not acting
Speaker 2: on it, you know, I mean like, I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you show your ass, but yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: not about to entertain.
Speaker 1: The last thing we need is to see Quincy on
Speaker 1: the blog some girl done some girl's boyfriend and hit
Speaker 1: him up.
Speaker 2: It's happened, and that's why I'm so far away from
Speaker 2: like entertaining any of it. Just be honest. As long
Speaker 2: as you're being honest, don't lie. And that's what happened.
Speaker 1: Allow me to decide to choose to involve myself in
Speaker 1: your situation. Don't know what you had somebody hit you
Speaker 1: up because you was dating their girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Well know like are you hit the blog? No? But
Speaker 2: hit me up, like damn like checking me in a sense.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what's happening here?
Speaker 2: So then I did my little ship that y'all do.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I was like, since I didn't specifically,
Speaker 2: you ain't tell me specifically.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's true that because that's what y'all do.
Speaker 2: You're right, You're right. I like to talk, but if
Speaker 2: you not, I'm not tell.
Speaker 4: You asking the right questions exactly?
Speaker 1: What are the right questions to ask when you first
Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship?
Speaker 4: Are you in a relationship? Do you think they're in
Speaker 4: a relationship with you?
Speaker 1: That part, that's the that's the follow up, Yeah, question,
Speaker 1: that's that Are you single? Does the person you're having
Speaker 1: sex with know you're a single? Because everybody got somebody
Speaker 1: or not.
Speaker 2: I've learned that the hard way. And even though you
Speaker 2: can fully be straight up and transparent in the beginning,
Speaker 2: and I say the beginning is that first time or
Speaker 2: second time if you're not speaking again, on it. Just
Speaker 2: because we on the fifteenth time don't mean like things
Speaker 2: are like headed now to the moon.
Speaker 1: I mean fifteen times, but fifteen times something though, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, y'all are dating it two times?
Speaker 2: Is I'm not saying that you want to just keep
Speaker 2: no for sure, y'all definitely dating in a sense. But
Speaker 2: I still think there's a there's this room to speak
Speaker 2: on it if we just like having sex and were
Speaker 2: not talking about nothing, that fifteen times is like one time.
Speaker 1: Because there's the communication, right, because sometimes people think that
Speaker 1: it is indicative, like if he keeps on calling me
Speaker 1: even though he hasn't taken me nowhere and I haven't
Speaker 1: been that of his friends. You know, some people feel like,
Speaker 1: what he's terrible. You said, what that's terrible?
Speaker 4: You don't even need to talk to that man ever. Again,
Speaker 4: he hasn't taken you anywhere. It's a dub. Y'all are
Speaker 4: definitely not dating at that point. Well, yeah, what's a
Speaker 4: date night for you? Like, if you were going to
Speaker 4: take somebody.
Speaker 2: Out, definitely somewhere eat spot, I eat good.
Speaker 4: Okay, So do you have a go to like that's
Speaker 4: my date restaurant?
Speaker 1: Where the host is like here he come again, Who's
Speaker 1: who's in the queue?
Speaker 2: That's that's my specialty, no go to. So I found
Speaker 2: somewhere new every time.
Speaker 1: That's nice, that's Gemini.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I found something new every time, And just because
Speaker 2: I'm such a foodie, I will like find it right,
Speaker 2: it's out there, and so if I can put you
Speaker 2: on the food that's one point added to the board.
Speaker 1: But sometimes you go to a restaurant that's not your
Speaker 1: go to, you've never been to, y'all experimenting and it's
Speaker 1: not not what it looked like.
Speaker 2: Yo, you're right. I definitely have some bad experiences, but
Speaker 2: I feel like I got good judgments now to where
Speaker 2: it's like I'm gonna tell you somewhere watch.
Speaker 4: Was like what was the worst? What was the worst experience?
Speaker 4: When you took someone somewhere new and you were like
Speaker 4: you done that?
Speaker 2: Mmmmmmm, let's see, should have done that?
Speaker 1: Indian food? And then.
Speaker 2: Right, oh yeah, I love it.
Speaker 1: But I have to go home.
Speaker 2: All right? Perfect you are? You just set the all.
Speaker 2: So I'm trying to figure out exactly what this allergy
Speaker 2: I got is? Oh, all right, check it out. So
Speaker 2: if I eat anything that just has like a combustion
Speaker 2: of spices. I literally start sweating, like something wrong with me,
Speaker 2: not like a little dry or I'm talking about face.
Speaker 2: You might want to like ask your friend like okay,
Speaker 2: you need a ben it's right, No, no, it's that bad.
Speaker 2: So that's been my like flaw lately. It ain't about
Speaker 2: the food, even because I like the food right my body,
Speaker 2: don't I love.
Speaker 1: It's hard for a lot of people to eat sometimes
Speaker 1: because it's so much spice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like don't let me go on that the hot ones,
Speaker 2: hot wings.
Speaker 1: So it's over. Fore I could do that. I love space.
Speaker 2: I would love to do it, but it will fuck me.
Speaker 1: So what's your cuisine of choice?
Speaker 2: Japanese sushi? Yeah, and my magic is putting people who
Speaker 2: hate sushi on to sushi and now you love sushi.
Speaker 2: I promise you. I promise you.
Speaker 1: I promise. Okay, I see it and that.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's it. That's what I like about
Speaker 2: my perspective. It is like I'm not thinking of this
Speaker 2: the normal first thing. So it's like I think everything
Speaker 2: I do with the approach is always like, oh, I
Speaker 2: might just taught you something new when it's just my
Speaker 2: regular day. And that's kind of fun to know.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, wow, what's the longest relationship You've been in?
Speaker 2: Longest like three three years? My first first relationship was
Speaker 2: quite long. That was like four out of high school. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean out of how it's crazy when you like
Speaker 2: in school and then out of high school. It's such
Speaker 2: a it's.
Speaker 1: Two different different, two different worlds.
Speaker 2: And something I struggle with, but I end up always
Speaker 2: any situation is long distance.
Speaker 1: Who move around and long distance relationships are hard already,
Speaker 1: but when you're somebody like you that is constantly probably
Speaker 1: traveling for work and things like that, it just throws
Speaker 1: a monkey wrench into the situation that makes it so
Speaker 1: much harder.
Speaker 2: And it's not like I'm meeting them long distance. Y'all
Speaker 2: meet me where I'm at.
Speaker 4: The Yeah, I have a question for you. So you
Speaker 4: and I matched once on Riah.
Speaker 2: I thought you looked familiar.
Speaker 4: Wait, I did not know that you didn't know this
Speaker 4: so well, we met because was my showrunner, Okay, and
Speaker 4: we met with John and will Over everybody.
Speaker 1: So neither of us side anything.
Speaker 2: We later it expire.
Speaker 4: We expired, And so what is the dating app etiquette? Like,
Speaker 4: who's supposed to say something?
Speaker 1: What are you supposed to say? I would wait to say.
Speaker 1: So you didn't get no cushi, you know nothing nothing.
Speaker 2: Let me just tell you to I mean dating etiquette.
Speaker 2: I don't know of. What I'm actually working on in
Speaker 2: the back end is a dating app. But I've been
Speaker 2: working on it for like sometime a year because I'm
Speaker 2: like trying to figure out what really is the I
Speaker 2: feel like they all got they all do, and I
Speaker 2: feel like it's because they're just trying to do too much.
Speaker 2: So it's like simplifying everything I think would be the
Speaker 2: new answer. But I'm gonna take it off. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: take you to some you know what that is. Yes,
Speaker 2: so I got this perfect, I got this new spot
Speaker 2: that I know of and I ain't never been so
Speaker 2: let me.
Speaker 1: Know. But if you, if you do the dating ap,
Speaker 1: I should be calling no response since you didn't you know.
Speaker 2: But no. But it's funny. When I saw you, she looks.
Speaker 1: She looks for me.
Speaker 4: It was me.
Speaker 2: But are what do you call it? The ship expired?
Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever it's supposed to be will always be.
Speaker 2: See we meet in person, And guess what I like
Speaker 2: the most is real in person organic ways to me.
Speaker 2: That's also to the fun up part about the day,
Speaker 2: it's like when do you meet this person?
Speaker 1: Like what how do you make it? But it's probably
Speaker 1: hard for you to go out and meet people, like
Speaker 1: in general, because you don't know what somebody's intentions are.
Speaker 1: You don't know anything about them. And when you go
Speaker 1: on to app, at least I could like see who
Speaker 1: you are Google you see a different picture, and see
Speaker 1: your likes, see if you can spell properly. Have you
Speaker 1: been on the data gap Angela? No, I haven't either.
Speaker 1: I've never, but I just tough. I'm like always in
Speaker 1: a relationship. I'm not, but either, but everybody always talks
Speaker 1: about how you know about Rya, So well, we'll see
Speaker 1: that's the one. It's like an invite only.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, And that's why I got on it, just
Speaker 2: because like not even for the dating purpose. But my
Speaker 2: boy bigged it up to be like yo vibe. I mean,
Speaker 2: you just meet people from all these companies this and that.
Speaker 2: This girl's on there too, but you can you know,
Speaker 2: And I was like, all right, and I don't even
Speaker 2: like I said, be on it for real, like that
Speaker 2: I got it.
Speaker 1: Did you respond to anyone?
Speaker 2: No, for sure, But that's what I'm saying. I don't
Speaker 2: be on it like that, so I'm not checking on
Speaker 2: it every day, And they got like a what is
Speaker 2: it six days or five?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you only have but a few days even.
Speaker 2: I may not open it for a week time. So
Speaker 2: even the way it works, I feel like it makes you.
Speaker 2: I mean, they want that retention, you know, but I
Speaker 2: feel like it needs to be a little more cater
Speaker 2: to you. Like, I agree, why are you going to expire?
Speaker 1: Yeah that's too fast. Give me time to get to it.
Speaker 2: I got a week to figure out if i want
Speaker 2: to engage you.
Speaker 1: Like, but if I'm busy this week, I mean, it's real,
Speaker 1: that's real. I feel like she was left on the shelf,
Speaker 1: kind of like how you left on the show.
Speaker 2: Get But I think it's time I start changing my ways.
Speaker 1: Next line step one, while you left J on the show.
Speaker 1: I love this. This is okay. I like this. So
Speaker 1: you said you're going to do your own dating app,
Speaker 1: and you're working on that, all right.
Speaker 2: And then what it is is more so a social
Speaker 2: experiment that I know is going to turn into a.
Speaker 1: Day now Okay.
Speaker 2: I don't want to say just because it's like a
Speaker 2: TV show too. It could be it could be easily
Speaker 2: and That's why I really want to like exercise my
Speaker 2: just knowledge first before I start really talking about it.
Speaker 1: What did you say you were looking for? Yeah? Like
Speaker 1: what if you have to say, you know, for somebody
Speaker 1: to match with you, Like, what are the things that
Speaker 1: you're looking for? Not to put any competition on you, Jordan,
Speaker 1: you know what my.
Speaker 2: Phrase is, no time to date, only create mm hmm.
Speaker 2: But that could be a child. Wow, we can create
Speaker 2: a baby.
Speaker 1: You definitely can't create a baby, but with no date,
Speaker 1: we can't.
Speaker 2: But I'm saying no time to date, but time to create.
Speaker 2: If we can stimulate each other somehow on a creative level,
Speaker 2: and that even brings us somewhere to talk outside of that,
Speaker 2: That's why I feel like we got space to do everything.
Speaker 2: You gotta find some something that brings us together first,
Speaker 2: even if it's something work related, even if it's something
Speaker 2: that did.
Speaker 1: And if it's something work related, but something.
Speaker 2: Got to be a common ground, like common denominator somewhere,
Speaker 2: but like a good one. It can't be we both
Speaker 2: like blue, we both.
Speaker 4: Like okay, things in common.
Speaker 2: So that's why it's like even with like on set,
Speaker 2: like when you got like a love interest and you
Speaker 2: start kissing and you all start having sex scenes, you
Speaker 2: all start doing like you start you're starting to actually
Speaker 2: like do things with this person, right, So that could easily.
Speaker 1: Be a connection.
Speaker 2: Connection, But just all of that, they didn't have nothing
Speaker 2: to do with nothing else. But that's why a lot
Speaker 2: of these actors, you know, they don't. You're not supposed
Speaker 2: to say actress no more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we say e's an act everybody.
Speaker 2: So that's why you know that ends up happening. And
Speaker 2: I feel like that's okay if it happens. So it's
Speaker 2: a work it's a workspace work relationship, but.
Speaker 1: The connection is there, there was a connection there. Do
Speaker 1: you feel like you're open, Like, do you feel like
Speaker 1: when it comes to a relationship, because you know a
Speaker 1: lot of us have like our own things that we're
Speaker 1: dealing with, But do you feel like you're open for
Speaker 1: love and to love somebody and to share and be
Speaker 1: vulnerable and have that you feel like you're open for that?
Speaker 2: Halfway? I feel like that's a no no because it's
Speaker 2: not because like the space that is taking up by it,
Speaker 2: it's like my family stuff, So it's I could easily
Speaker 2: let up. I'm just not because it's my family you know,
Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about it right now. However,
Speaker 2: once I really open up the other side, I'm not
Speaker 2: going to be able to focus so much on over
Speaker 2: there with the fan this and that. So that's why
Speaker 2: I feel like it's it's fair, but it could be
Speaker 2: unfair for the woman, you know what I mean at first.
Speaker 2: So it's like, as long as you we both got
Speaker 2: to sacrifice something somewhere. So it's like that'd be my
Speaker 2: first thing too. It's like I don't give a talk
Speaker 2: about you, but I do. But why I don't about you?
Speaker 2: It's because you're not respecting me, but give it. Giving
Speaker 2: my family my my my priority. Yeah, I tell you
Speaker 2: that you don't respect my time, my family.
Speaker 1: I saw you and you're little still love to post
Speaker 1: it up so cute, you know?
Speaker 2: Is weird?
Speaker 1: Is it hard for you to decide? Like, because sometimes
Speaker 1: I know that you don't post everything like that, and
Speaker 1: then people want to like weigh in and say, like, Cate,
Speaker 1: social media is a weird, crazy place, you know, and
Speaker 1: so how is that for you? Feeling like I can
Speaker 1: be open and do this because you have so much love.
Speaker 1: She's such a cute little girl and so innocent and sweet.
Speaker 1: But then is it like, oh my god, I post
Speaker 1: this it now people are gonna say crazy shit some
Speaker 1: of them.
Speaker 2: People gonna say shit regardless, you know. And I feel
Speaker 2: like you got to just have thick skin. If not,
Speaker 2: then don't involve yourself into it. You know, it's like,
Speaker 2: don't get in the ring. I mean, if you don't
Speaker 2: want to get hit. Don't get in the ring if
Speaker 2: you don't want to because the Internet is made up
Speaker 2: of a lot of fucking people. But what about the
Speaker 2: people who are not on who got just as much
Speaker 2: of an opinion it may be possible, who ain't saying something?
Speaker 2: You know, everybody get the when you're doing bad, you
Speaker 2: don't get the majority were good. So that's what the
Speaker 2: Internet is, That's what the commerce is. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: somebody may give you a pattern back when you did good,
Speaker 2: that's my majority. They're not doing that all the time.
Speaker 2: Every single time you're doing something good, you're not getting that.
Speaker 1: Even acknowledge it won't even get posted the Internet.
Speaker 2: It's actually that polar opposite, right. I feel like, you know,
Speaker 2: I grew up in a great household. I got rhino coat,
Speaker 2: thick skin, thick skin, and I feel like with my family,
Speaker 2: Like I'm so cut throat with that, like there's no,
Speaker 2: there's no, there's nothing that could.
Speaker 1: That's the thing, because I feel like people could talk
Speaker 1: shit about me, but if you say something about my family,
Speaker 1: that's what they know makes you mad. Listen, that's the thing.
Speaker 1: You say whatever you want about me, it's over.
Speaker 4: It's over with.
Speaker 2: I'm willing to like, yeah, I'll go to jail for
Speaker 2: the family right.
Speaker 1: Now. And also because you publicly did this letter to
Speaker 1: your father, did you guys ever, like you know, link
Speaker 1: up come to any type of yeah, be cool now.
Speaker 2: I want to just talk to him. A couple of
Speaker 2: days ago, he was congratulating me on the album. But
Speaker 2: this isn't like a I think we got a it's
Speaker 2: a cool relationship, right, It's not the he tends to
Speaker 2: like try and do like the dad thing a lot,
Speaker 2: but it's like that's not really where we're at in life.
Speaker 2: Like we homies more than anything. We're like, let's go
Speaker 2: do something, you know what I mean? And I feel
Speaker 2: like that's kind of where we're getting that now is
Speaker 2: actually knowing that we're two grown men, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. We can talk about anything and everything it's
Speaker 2: not about anything else.
Speaker 1: He would apologetic, which he took accountability, which I think
Speaker 1: is a that's hard, you know, because I think we
Speaker 1: hear from we see this parents who feel like they
Speaker 1: made mistakes and they weren't doing what they should have
Speaker 1: been doing. Make mistakes, yeah, but then you also have
Speaker 1: to think about how those actions affect somebody else. But
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you guys are doing that, and you
Speaker 1: wrote that open letter. What made you even say I
Speaker 1: want to do that?
Speaker 2: I was sharing my well, I went to dinner with
Speaker 2: somebody and I saw Russell Simmons there and he's like,
Speaker 2: how are you just a little quick catchup. I think
Speaker 2: we got on the topic of him, and he was like,
Speaker 2: what do you mean you haven't spoken to him? And
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I'm trying to figure out the
Speaker 2: best way to do so, you know. And I think
Speaker 2: that's kind of what he introduced me, almost, to like
Speaker 2: the way and to get your feelings out there, you know,
Speaker 2: and to not feel like nobody know what's going on,
Speaker 2: you know, because ever, of course say whatever, but then
Speaker 2: if I can actually say something.
Speaker 1: Control your own narrative exactly.
Speaker 2: It controls my own narrative and I feel like it
Speaker 2: was a little block before that, but it was just
Speaker 2: something I just wanted to just get off my chest
Speaker 2: and let people know because people always just you look
Speaker 2: just like your dad, and you look just like your dad,
Speaker 2: so it's like, you know, if you ain't even got
Speaker 2: no real like relationship with him, and you're hearing that.
Speaker 1: Everything here, you're just like, okay, okay, but you know, I.
Speaker 2: Love my dad, and like I said, we're way in
Speaker 2: a better place.
Speaker 1: I mean, that was years ago, but I think here's
Speaker 1: something that a lot of people are related to. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure, you know, and I commend you for even
Speaker 1: doing that and how he handled it too, I think was,
Speaker 1: you know, a positive thing. I feel like being in
Speaker 1: the space that you're in, as far as your start
Speaker 1: being so bright, you can inspire people who might be
Speaker 1: in that same situation to do and to be the
Speaker 1: first one to extend themselves to bridge that gap with
Speaker 1: the parent. That's the goal, really, because that's one of
Speaker 1: your superhero traits.
Speaker 2: I'm relatable in way too many ways, then, I guess
Speaker 2: you think, and if I can actually get through to
Speaker 2: somebody from that, I don't got a bad bone in
Speaker 2: my body. So It's like I feel like whatever I
Speaker 2: got to say or respond with, it's only gonna be
Speaker 2: a positive into however you take it. You know what
Speaker 2: I mean or perceive it.
Speaker 1: I never heard nobody say you were an asshole. And every
Speaker 1: time I seen you, you've always been really nice. And
Speaker 1: you know it's Gemini get that bad, especially the man
Speaker 1: the only Gemini men or can be assholes. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't heard that about you either.
Speaker 2: I will say no, I will say I can be an.
Speaker 3: You not gonna get it if you don't pull it
Speaker 3: out of nowhere near I'm never just even though I
Speaker 3: wake up on the wrong side of the bed, I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna give you.
Speaker 1: That that energy.
Speaker 2: But let's say you got something going on, Oh you're
Speaker 2: about to let him shine.
Speaker 1: How do you determine like who has good intentions with
Speaker 1: you and who doesn't when it comes to women and dating,
Speaker 1: is it hard or do you have some type of
Speaker 1: radar that kind of gives you you can your intuition.
Speaker 2: I got a good support system, like a good I
Speaker 2: got a great best friend. So it's like I got
Speaker 2: some questions advice. It's like coming from a different place.
Speaker 2: It ain't just coming from like what they may think,
Speaker 2: you know, so you can't read nobody one hundred percent anyway,
Speaker 2: so you got to like let him in, and like
Speaker 2: the quicker, you let him in the show themselves. But
Speaker 2: you still got to.
Speaker 1: Like feel it out, feel it out. You know, you
Speaker 1: meet the representative first, so you got to get through
Speaker 1: the representative first to really see the genuine person that's
Speaker 1: behind that.
Speaker 2: And sometimes I try and like fully fully fully show
Speaker 2: all size of me, all my colors whenever I can,
Speaker 2: especially in the beginning of something, because I hate when
Speaker 2: something happens and then it's like, oh, all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: you're brand new. Yeah, it's I hate to like feel
Speaker 2: like you're getting somewhere and then you just got to
Speaker 2: ship the black down and you like really into it.
Speaker 2: But you know, I feel like that's also too. You know,
Speaker 2: people don't meet you like you said where they meet you,
Speaker 2: and if you don't let them in, they gonna get
Speaker 2: like I said, show they ass or you got to
Speaker 2: start making your mature decisions. But I've been I've been
Speaker 2: played with a lot, you know, and I feel like
Speaker 2: I ain't got no time for that no more.
Speaker 1: So have you ever been dumped like somebody broke up.
Speaker 2: With you because they wanted, Oh.
Speaker 1: You want to have kids? Though I do, I'm just
Speaker 1: not with her.
Speaker 2: I was at the time. I did, but she was
Speaker 2: like eight years older and it was like, right in
Speaker 2: a time world. I couldn't even think about that, and
Speaker 2: I'm hungry.
Speaker 1: Her biological clock was ticking and you're just on snooze
Speaker 1: and you.
Speaker 2: Know, and it felt ultimatumy and I was like, Christy,
Speaker 2: think something.
Speaker 1: Like isn't scary for guys when a woman tells you
Speaker 1: she wants to have a baby, and now every time
Speaker 1: you have sex, you're thinking she about.
Speaker 2: To about Wow that thumb tach.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you just if somebody tells you that and
Speaker 1: you're like, I gotta want to. Women sometimes might be like, well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna just I know he's responsible.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 4: It's just like if you have to do all of that,
Speaker 4: it's not your person. And I want us as women
Speaker 4: to realize that it's just not for us in that moment.
Speaker 4: And sometimes it's just trusting the timing. It might be
Speaker 4: the right person, wrong time, but just trust the timing.
Speaker 4: It's not supposed to be right now.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes women think if I get pregnant, he'll come around, right,
Speaker 1: they think that, like they'll be.
Speaker 4: Like, well, you know, we just and I feel like
Speaker 4: it never works out that way, and then you trap
Speaker 4: somebody in something they don't want.
Speaker 2: To be in.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you need to get married first?
Speaker 2: No, but I do want to marry. Yeah, you know
Speaker 2: baby's mother.
Speaker 1: It's always ideal, Like.
Speaker 2: I'm not like thinking of.
Speaker 1: In specific order in.
Speaker 2: Musical Yeah, I'm not thinking about that first. Like I'm
Speaker 2: honestly just because I've been raised in such a household
Speaker 2: with kids and I see so many people with kids.
Speaker 2: I really see what that does and I feel like
Speaker 2: you can get to that and that be more effective
Speaker 2: than playing a wedding and all that like that comes
Speaker 2: with that.
Speaker 1: Do you think about your wedding? I know women do that,
Speaker 1: but do you think about your wedding?
Speaker 2: And I started. I just went to my boy Indian
Speaker 2: wedding in London last week.
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm sure that was the.
Speaker 2: Shenanigans.
Speaker 1: My brother went to an Indian wedding in India and yeah,
Speaker 1: he said it was while he was so it was crazy.
Speaker 2: But definitely definitely think about it. I don't know if
Speaker 2: I want to have it extravagant though, but you know, I.
Speaker 1: Can't see you not having an extravagant winning First of all,
Speaker 1: I know you're gonna be dressed like, uh, that's already,
Speaker 1: know what your suit ready? If anything, I don't know
Speaker 1: who the woman, but yeah, all right, so we can
Speaker 1: see all of that happening. And I know, like I
Speaker 1: so you never at some point when did you decide,
Speaker 1: like now if somebody you were dating and you would
Speaker 1: want to have a kidnaw, because previous.
Speaker 2: Especially since baby love around, baby fever, baby fever like
Speaker 2: no other.
Speaker 1: She is so cute, I'm sorry, Like she is adorable.
Speaker 1: I'm sure she's the sweetest thing.
Speaker 2: She looked fake life, She looks fake on Instagram.
Speaker 1: She's she seems like she's very smart already. You can
Speaker 1: tell how she's communicating with you, and she.
Speaker 2: Take everything in. Know how to act, yeah, you know
Speaker 2: how to like move like that.
Speaker 1: Imagine if you had a kid, that would be wild.
Speaker 1: Life would change so much.
Speaker 2: My favorite thing to do was sing sing with her.
Speaker 2: Every time I come around, I got like a little
Speaker 2: new jingle, new song, say like my last post, like
Speaker 2: she was, she was listening to the wheels on the
Speaker 2: bus goes around there around. So then we went outside
Speaker 2: and we got a little golf cart and I was like,
Speaker 2: the wheels on the bus go. She was like, but
Speaker 2: the first time she ever did like a call and
Speaker 2: response this. Yeah, I find just so much joy into
Speaker 2: like seeing how I mean, even she's so little, but
Speaker 2: they pick up babies back in the day. Wasn't picking
Speaker 2: up everything that you sat down, or maybe there was,
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean, it's a real different
Speaker 2: day and age. And I would love to raise kids today, not.
Speaker 1: In that later Where would you Okay, I.
Speaker 2: Don't know, or maybe somewhere in LA but nowhere near
Speaker 2: just like all the.
Speaker 1: City spot because a lot of people's kids go to
Speaker 1: school together, like all these people. It's actually probably great
Speaker 1: networking though.
Speaker 2: Very that school, yeah, Hurricane, Yeah, that school.
Speaker 1: Everybody's kids go to.
Speaker 2: Everyone. I'm talking, I'll be having like this. Friends from
Speaker 2: my town hit me, Hey, you're going to see Hurricane
Speaker 2: game to night like you. Yeah, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: let's go.
Speaker 1: Now, let's talk about this EP like you said, because
Speaker 1: I know you have to get out of here soon.
Speaker 1: But it took you a while. How long did it
Speaker 1: take you to decide it's ready to put out?
Speaker 2: It's a tricky question because I say I was working
Speaker 2: on it for real for like a year, but everything
Speaker 2: on there might have eight nine years of work on it.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, the.
Speaker 2: Last on the project it's ten years old. Oh wow,
Speaker 2: I recut it. I read not everything you fixed it up.
Speaker 2: Not everything though like a lot of it is there.
Speaker 2: But that was one of my most like meaningful songs.
Speaker 2: It's called set of Trap, and what it means is
Speaker 2: I was giving this girl, like my awe right, trying
Speaker 2: to like ask her every little thing so I can
Speaker 2: just make sure I'm feeling in the blanks because I
Speaker 2: don't know you at all, but we hit it off
Speaker 2: so crazy, and I know your lifestyle is similar to mine.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say her name because she married today,
Speaker 2: but y'all know her.
Speaker 4: AND's like doing the map like good luck you may
Speaker 4: but I'm.
Speaker 2: Not gonna say name. But so but I never really
Speaker 2: put that song out, but that song always spoke to me,
Speaker 2: you know. And really what it was is when you
Speaker 2: like come to just an understanding with somebody and they
Speaker 2: still feel like you aren't giving them your all. You
Speaker 2: feel like defeated, like wait, what what am I not done?
Speaker 1: What am I doing wrong? What's missing, you know.
Speaker 2: And that shit really be affecting you. If you really
Speaker 2: like love somebody and they telling you that, You're like, no, no,
Speaker 2: I'm giving you. Like what else? What do you? So?
Speaker 2: In the hook, I say I want to tell you
Speaker 2: something I don't want to yes or no? Right, we
Speaker 2: have to talk about it. No, yes, no answers, And
Speaker 2: I said, I need an explanation. Our situation is about
Speaker 2: to lose control on different levels going through the same phase.
Speaker 2: No matter where you move to, I'm going to always
Speaker 2: be in your way. Is it love or is it
Speaker 2: less with you? Either way, I hope you don't say
Speaker 2: this to other dudes. And if I'm tripping, then you
Speaker 2: must have set a trap because guess what, Q would
Speaker 2: never do like that. So it's almost like, are you
Speaker 2: putting something on me to not allow me to get
Speaker 2: closer to you? Are you? Are you sitting in the
Speaker 2: barricade because it's not me? But you got to actually
Speaker 2: say that because nothing else don't make sense right now.
Speaker 2: So this is like a check in to see hold on,
Speaker 2: you're blocking the blessing I mean, not me, And I
Speaker 2: feel like that's a common thing in relationships. It's like
Speaker 2: if you don't check in after that, Like, once you're
Speaker 2: doing your thing, you gotta just like have a check in,
Speaker 2: because everything got phases, like even a year what they
Speaker 2: call it a quarter, one, two, three, four.
Speaker 1: We've all.
Speaker 2: Change from last week to this week. But if you
Speaker 2: just existing and then not allowing it to exist together,
Speaker 2: you hurdles.
Speaker 1: Did you her hear it?
Speaker 2: Oh she heard it? She heard back in the day. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: yeah for sure.
Speaker 1: And how did she feel?
Speaker 2: I mean, she loved it. She definitely was like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, I her voice on it and ship. But
Speaker 2: I took that out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did it change anything? You know, I'm amazing. It
Speaker 1: must be to date somebody who's a singer that can
Speaker 1: write a song about you. It could be an awful
Speaker 1: experience or a great one, but for that that might
Speaker 1: have brought some understanding and changed. It did, And we
Speaker 1: definitely had sex.
Speaker 2: Right not right after, but I think we tried to,
Speaker 2: you know, figure it out, and then it just like
Speaker 2: I said, she was just getting into the industry and
Speaker 2: there was a lot of extras that would be talked
Speaker 2: about before.
Speaker 1: Obviously, Well you devastated when she got married.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I was.
Speaker 1: I was, he was already are you invited to the wedding.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, oh no, I'm not going to. I thought
Speaker 2: you may be thinking about that just now you invited.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to know ex WEDDINGSDA if they send
Speaker 2: me an invite, I'm not.
Speaker 1: Going friends with none of your exes, I am.
Speaker 2: But don't send invite to a wedding.
Speaker 1: On the invite just politely. Oh man, would you because
Speaker 1: sometimes you know y'all be lying, like the guy might
Speaker 1: not know that y'all dated, and you know, would you
Speaker 1: invite your excess to your wedding? Any of them?
Speaker 2: Maybe one? But no, I don't think that's okay.
Speaker 1: Just one? Maybe me? Right, Jordy Joe, you're ready because
Speaker 1: you know what, you got to ex her off the list. Wow,
Speaker 1: I'm a secure girl. Just you said, what excess? Being
Speaker 1: secure is very important and attracted for men and for
Speaker 1: women to by the way, So but listen, I know
Speaker 1: they're saying you gotta go, but honestly, like this is
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you because they were like Quincy's come,
Speaker 1: I said, is he really gonna come? Or is he
Speaker 1: gonna like at the last minute? But this practic people
Speaker 1: are gonna love it if they haven't had a chance.
Speaker 1: It just came out, you know, like when this comes
Speaker 1: out a week and a half ago. But congratulations, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you.
Speaker 2: I'm really about to just take a different approach and
Speaker 2: an aggressive approach, like with the music. Like people don't
Speaker 2: I do this every single day, Like I'm not on
Speaker 2: a movie set every week. People are like, Yo, why
Speaker 2: ain't you in this movie?
Speaker 1: Watch you anymore?
Speaker 2: Y'all know how this shit work. This ship is not
Speaker 2: just roll over and you be on the marble set, right.
Speaker 2: I'm trying. I'm trying to get there. But you know
Speaker 2: something where I really dedicate my mind, body, and soul
Speaker 2: into a craft is the music. And I work better
Speaker 2: for other people even than I do for myself. So
Speaker 2: even the space I've created at my home, I bring
Speaker 2: people in, I create with them. I'm executive producing, I'm producing.
Speaker 2: It ain't just about me.
Speaker 1: I'm second trying.
Speaker 2: That's about you first living up to that name, Quincy exactly.
Speaker 2: So I feel like that's kind of, you know, the
Speaker 2: direction I'm going in. You know, by the end of
Speaker 2: the year, I may drop two more projects. So it's
Speaker 2: gonna be oh.
Speaker 1: Wow, really almost the end of the year now exactly exactly,
Speaker 1: look they a little bit quarter okay, no games, quarter work, Lebron,
Speaker 1: some of that profile down.
Speaker 2: You're too busy for no time today. I only create.
Speaker 2: Do you remember? Do you remember what I said when
Speaker 2: we matched? Was it? Did it say that?
Speaker 4: It might have said that, might have said that, I
Speaker 4: wish I took a picture but you're not supposed to.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I tried before Tuesday.
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, strange, do it again. Wow, they're not playing.
Speaker 1: You got to give us a check, believe time. But
Speaker 1: honestly earlier than anticipated. I know you have other things
Speaker 1: going on. You definitely got here earlier than anticipated too.
Speaker 1: I love that, Yes, you really yeah on brand because
Speaker 1: you know me, I'm always ready for everything, so early
Speaker 1: it is on time, and on time is late, and
Speaker 1: late is lately. But thank you for your professionalism, but
Speaker 1: also thanks for just always being so kind and you know,
Speaker 1: just always wishing you the best, because I could tell
Speaker 1: even by some of the lyrics on this album, you
Speaker 1: definitely have been going through a lot and even the
Speaker 1: process of getting this done. So I'm happy for you,
Speaker 1: and we celebrate.
Speaker 2: You, and I appreciate you. I appreciate you all you
Speaker 2: know for even bringing me into the space because, like
Speaker 2: I said, it's been a lot going on and I
Speaker 2: just want to keep it consistent, keep it authentic, keep
Speaker 2: it genuine, and keep it moving. I'm not trying to
Speaker 2: do no pr stunt moves this that it's not who
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 1: No, I love you honestly, I told you. I was like,
Speaker 1: did I say it? Don't talk because I'm also respectful,
Speaker 1: So I ain't going to do nothing crazy. If you
Speaker 1: put something, yeah, we'll talk about it. But you know,
Speaker 1: I want you to be happy, comfortable, and we also
Speaker 1: want to make sure we focus on the music and
Speaker 1: acting all the amazing things you have going on, because
Speaker 1: you've always been a positive person. So again, I'll be back,
Speaker 1: Yes you will. You need a guess now, please anytime
Speaker 1: I feel we really going next time?
Speaker 2: This is what do you call it? Uh? You said earlier,
Speaker 2: this is the right. This is the fourth player said.
Speaker 1: I did not say that.
Speaker 2: No, you said you said this. The reference when you meet,
Speaker 2: when you meet a girl, represent representatives is the representative state.
Speaker 1: Next time, we're go get the We're gonna break them
Speaker 1: barriers down. Next time we're gonna get the raw and
Speaker 1: UNCUTD fraction. But thank you so much, for me. Congratulations
Speaker 1: E t A y'all, E t A