1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:01,920 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us. 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 3: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: Good morning, Sistey and Tanya. 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 3: Good morning, Good morning. 6 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: Well it looks like you're great week. Sunny today with 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: highs in the upper seventies supper eighties Inland. 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be hot. 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 2: It's gonna be hot. Yeah, I'm ready for the heat. 10 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 4: Same, bring it on. 11 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've had enough. I have enough times at night 12 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 2: where I've said to myself out loud while walking, Holy, 13 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 2: it's cold. Like I have that conversation with my I 14 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: like to have weather conversations to me about me by myself. 15 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 4: Always it's cold in the morning. 16 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 5: I'm sick of the cold in the morning at night 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 5: one night too, but it's more like I'm so cold 18 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 5: in the morning, but by eleven or noon then you're 19 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 5: like hot again. So just let's just be in the 20 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 5: one outfit from the morning you get stay hot. 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: So it looks like it's gonna be nice this week. 22 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: We have a Ryan's roses coming up this morning, if 23 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 2: you want to plan your morning. So I guess the 24 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: story goes. She overheard him talking on his headset while 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: playing video games. You can play with other people, communicate 26 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 2: with other people, strangers on your headset? Oh good, Yeah, 27 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 2: but the conversation it didn't seem to match the alleged situation. 28 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 2: Do any of your husbands play video games with headsets? 29 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 2: No kids? 30 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 3: They did, I don't think I would have married him. 31 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm pretty firm on the on the video games myself. 32 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: Is that true? That's a turnoff to you, videota turn off? 33 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 5: Yes, because it takes up so much time and it's such. 34 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 3: A like lonely haul hobby. 35 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 2: Well, I mean there are a lot of lonely hobbies, 36 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 2: but this is something that I have friends that are married, 37 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 2: friends that are in relationships, friends that are single. They're 38 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: big gamers. I mean, Easton, do you have a headset? 39 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: You're married, you go to a headset for you and 40 00:01:59,040 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: your games. 41 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 6: I do because I respect my wife and her peace 42 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 6: of mind. 43 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 5: You know, how many hours a day or a week 44 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 5: do you spend on video games? 45 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 3: Easton? 46 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: Not many? 47 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 3: Not that much, like two a week? Okay, see that 48 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: that's fine. 49 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 2: If that's truth. What do you play? 50 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 6: I like to play Donkey Kong, the original Donkey Kong. 51 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 6: Sometimes I'll play Grand Theft Auto. You know, get some 52 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:25,399 Speaker 6: aggression out. 53 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, those are you too? I Now, have you 54 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 2: ever gotten on your headset and spoken to a stranger 55 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 2: on the other end? Yes, I have. It's very intimate 56 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: and I don't like it. Why don't you like it? It 57 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 2: feels weird. 58 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 6: And they're mostly children on the other end of that line. 59 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: That could be a sign you play the role of games. Yeah, exactly, 60 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: I guess. So she overheard him saying something intimate or 61 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 2: romantic somebody on the other end. So we'll get to 62 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 2: the bottom of that one or two point seven. It's 63 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 2: kiss FM. 64 00:02:58,840 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 65 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: The next time your child was really upset, if you 66 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: tell them this, it's gonna calm them down. I don't know. 67 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to hear that in a few minutes. 68 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, breaking news. 69 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 2: A quote of the day for you too. On the 70 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 2: way here on this good looking weather week, and those 71 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 2: and those and those and those. Shall we go around 72 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: to highs and lows of the last twenty hours? Here 73 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 2: sits a'ty any highs in your life since we saw 74 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 2: each other last. 75 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: I woke up to a very clean kitchen. 76 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: That was a high, So who cleaned it for you? 77 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 3: I cleaned it? But last night it was one of. 78 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 5: Those things where I was like, if I don't do 79 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 5: this tonight, it's gonna suck to wake up to this. 80 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: I don't do it often, but I have also woken 81 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: up to the stuff that is still in the I'm 82 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: gonna rinse it out. It's still in the bowls right 83 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: still on the plates. And the other thing that I 84 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: sometimes let's sit in there is when I clean out 85 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 2: my coffee machine gunk from the filter, yep, and and 86 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 2: the pot. It sits there for a long time and 87 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: it is so gross, but it is a like a 88 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: refreshing feeling to wake up and have their b no 89 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 2: stack of stuff. 90 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 3: Exactly, so that'll be in there. 91 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: Tiny any highs in your life in the last twenty hours. 92 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 4: Yes, I bought this dessert. It's like frozen grapes and 93 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 4: they like coat them in some sort of sour candy. 94 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 4: I don't know what it's called, but I just got 95 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 4: it for the first time and tried it and they're amazing, 96 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 4: actually grapes, they're actual grapes, and I don't know how 97 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: they're coated with this like sour candy, but it's like 98 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 4: a hard, hard shell. Yes, I had these in Japan. 99 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 4: They're so delicious. So that is quite the high for me. 100 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 2: So it's a kind of a healthiest version of a 101 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: street Yeah. 102 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 4: I mean it's coated in candy, so it's not the best, 103 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 4: but yeah, the center is a grape all right. 104 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: Well, my high is I wrote something down in the 105 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 2: middle of the night instead of turning my clock upside 106 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: down to remember what it was I was thinking about. 107 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 2: Actually got a pad and in the dark I scribbled 108 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: down what my notes are and I could read it 109 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 2: this morning. In the past, I've taken my clock and 110 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 2: just turned it upside down to remind me that I 111 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: thought of something. But I can't remember what it was 112 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: that I thought of that made me turn the clock 113 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: upside down. 114 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 5: So my system money is tina string around your finger, 115 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 5: don't forget, don't forget, but forget what. So now I'll 116 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 5: get what proof pad? Right there? 117 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 2: Any loads for anybody, anything going through anything lest dare 118 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: So you know. 119 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 5: I just recently renewed my La Times subscription online and that, really, 120 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 5: for some reason is a low for me. 121 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 2: Whit kid, don't you have the app? 122 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,679 Speaker 5: I don't, Okay, so yes, I have it on my phone, 123 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 5: but when I'm on my computer it make and I 124 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 5: want to see an article. It's like, you need to 125 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 5: have your subscription. So I got the subscription. It's not 126 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 5: that it's like a dollar a week, but that's just 127 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 5: the thing. I'm like, why do I have to pay 128 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 5: for this? 129 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 3: Anyways, that's my low. 130 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,679 Speaker 2: Well, La Times, if you're listening, we're sorry. Sisney feels 131 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: like she used to pay for your hard work. 132 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 4: Sponsor me. 133 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 3: I will gladly tag you on Instagram. 134 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 2: Tin, how about for you? Yeah? 135 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 4: I got my car got hit by a hit and 136 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 4: run in the middle of the night last night. Oh 137 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 4: my god, on the street. Yeah. And they didn't just 138 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 4: hit my car. They hit the car behind me that 139 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 4: flew into my car, and then the car that's in 140 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 4: front of me, And they're. 141 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 2: All like, was it intentional? 142 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 4: No. I firmly believe that this was a drunk driver 143 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 4: that just hit a bunch of cars and fled. 144 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: And because it was night, nobody was watching it. In theory, 145 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: they could go are the camera. 146 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 4: Yes, we see, we know. Everybody on the street happened 147 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 4: to see the car on the very top of the 148 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 4: hill with like the scratches on the right side. So 149 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 4: everybody was coming down to our house to show us photos. 150 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 4: So yeah, we we we know. 151 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 2: You'll find this person to find a license plate too. 152 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. 153 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 2: So just take a look back at the weekends. His 154 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: name was what two hours late to Monster Jamany tell 155 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 2: us about it? So fine? 156 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought it went a lot later than it did. 157 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,679 Speaker 5: They must have really changed the time. And I didn't 158 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 5: pay close attention this year. So when we got there 159 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 5: there was no line to get in. Would you thought 160 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 5: was weird? And then the guy that was there was 161 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 5: no lines to like, have our tickets scanned. And then 162 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 5: the person that did scan our tickets goes, well better 163 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 5: late than never, And that's when I was. 164 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 4: Like, oh, what does he mean? 165 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: Was a family upset that you miscalculated the start time? 166 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 4: No, I didn't tell the kids. 167 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 5: It didn't real No, we saw forty five minutes a 168 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 5: Monster Jam, and to them, we went to Monster Jam and. 169 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 2: We turned away. So far I went more than forty 170 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: five minutes a Monster Jam. 171 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 5: Three kids under the age of seven. It was just 172 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 5: enough time. We saw all the freestyles, they saw all 173 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 5: their favorite trucks, and we were good all right. 174 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 2: So next time, you just planning to get there for 175 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 2: the last quarter. 176 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 5: It was Maxim's baseball game. That's why we were a 177 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 5: little late. But I was like, I don't think it'll 178 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 5: be a problem. And then we got there and I 179 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 5: was like, wow, it must have really started earlier. 180 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 2: And Tanya told us she was a victim of a 181 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: hit and run. This was Saturday night, while she and 182 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: Robbie were allegedly sleeping. Someone ran into your car. 183 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 4: They ran into the car behind me, my car, and 184 00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 4: then the car in front of me on the street, 185 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 4: which were all like many many feet apart. 186 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 2: You really do want to catch somebody that does this 187 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: and then flees. 188 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 4: I'm when I tell you again, it's thank god nobody 189 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 4: was in the like in the cars that were parked, 190 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 4: and nobody was hurt. It's all just cars that were damaged. 191 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 4: But to me, I'm like, I want justice. 192 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, yeah, But I think you'll put together 193 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 2: all the footage and you'll find the license plate and 194 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: try and track this person down. And they're not going 195 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: to get away. You cannot run from karma, right, So 196 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 2: they might have gotten away that night, but you do 197 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 2: not ever escape Karma. Car will catch you up to you. Hey, Roby, 198 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 2: you took the train of Santa Barbara right over the 199 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 2: weekend I did. 200 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 4: I went for my sister's birthday. 201 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 7: We just decided to kind of go on a whim 202 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 7: and it was it was so much fun. First of all, 203 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 7: I love Santa Barbara, but the way back, everyone was 204 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 7: just there's so many drunk people, so many drunk bachelors. 205 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 2: Lead back. 206 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 5: I love a buzz on a trainer, yeah, yeah. 207 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 2: And do they serve drinks on the way back too? 208 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 2: Could you keep the buzz? 209 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you could keep the buzz going. 210 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 7: You could bring your own drinks on the train, earned 211 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 7: food people had like pizza boxes with them. 212 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 2: Did you annoy any of the other patrons? 213 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, We kept it cool, but there's 214 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 7: it was definitely a vibe. 215 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: So or the weekend I crowned the next American Idol. 216 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 2: It was a season twenty three and saw Jessica Simpson 217 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 2: for the first time in a long time. 218 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 3: Major Sam. 219 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 2: She was telling me first time she's sung live in 220 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 2: fifteen years. 221 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 4: I read that, did you take the picture? Like? 222 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 2: I asked, Well, I have to tell you, I don't 223 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 2: remember what you asked. 224 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 4: I asked, I gusked you to take a picture with 225 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 4: her and then have her come on this show. 226 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 2: Well, she was Busy singing for the first time in 227 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 2: fifteen years. I'm sure there's a picture, but he did 228 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 2: not get around to having her come on this show, 229 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 2: and Bad Bunny was the music guests on snl Over 230 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 2: the Weekend got into a few sketches too, and the 231 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 2: Angels swept the Dodgers. Not many saw that common congratulations 232 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: to the Angels and Angels fans sistany as a mom, 233 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 2: see what you think of this? The next time your 234 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: child is upset, They say, you do this according to 235 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 2: a child psychologist, and you will calm them down. And 236 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: that is I see you're upset right now, I'm here 237 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: for you. It's just three things. It acknowledges their feelings, 238 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: reassures them that they're not alone, and creates space to 239 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 2: calm down without feeling judgment. 240 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 4: I mean, I would like that as an adult. 241 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 3: I do a hybrid of that. 242 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 2: What do you do? 243 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 5: I do acknowledge that they're upset, because I know that 244 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 5: that's important to acknowledge. But I'm almost more like, I 245 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 5: know you're upset and it really sucks, but we need 246 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 5: to get over it. 247 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but get over yourself. 248 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I get too harsh Towards the end, so 249 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 5: maybe I need to do that. 250 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 3: I'm here for you. 251 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I usually you're in a rush. She needed 252 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: to quiet down, right, I see her upset right now. 253 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 2: I'm here for you. That's what they say works almost 254 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: all the time. Today's quote for a Monday. You outgrow 255 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 2: people when you outgrow the version of yourself that kept 256 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 2: him around. So so air Taxi's coming to LA. You're 257 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 2: gonna see him in the sky soon. We'll get into that, 258 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 2: Jamie and Studio City. 259 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning. 260 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: So Jamie, your ex husband is about to move in 261 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: with his new girlfriend. Yes, and you're concerned. 262 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 8: Why I'm concerned because the kids were over at my 263 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 8: place the other day and they had their father's iPad 264 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 8: with him, and as soon as they connected to the 265 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 8: Wi Fi, a slew of text messages came in and 266 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 8: he is very clearly cheating on her with multiple women. 267 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 8: And wow. Yeah, so we get along and the new girlfriend, 268 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 8: we're fine. We're not best friends, but we're cordial, you know. Okay, Yeah, 269 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 8: But my concern is that if they're going to be 270 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 8: moving in together, my kids are going to grow more 271 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 8: attached to her, and if things blow up, which I 272 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 8: imagine they will. This is a pattern. So I just 273 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 8: don't know. You know, I don't want my kids to 274 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 8: be basically exposed to that. 275 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:35,359 Speaker 2: So the question is do you tell whom your ex girlfriend? 276 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 4: The girlfriend? 277 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 8: What do I do? I do I tell him that 278 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 8: I know what's going on? Do I tell her what's 279 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 8: going on? It's yeah, it's. 280 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 2: Because your kids that you're trying to protect by not 281 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 2: having them go through something difficult and challenging. Again, I 282 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 2: do think you should address it. I mean, what do 283 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: you have to lose? You address it with your ex 284 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 2: and day you should address it with his new girlfriend. 285 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 5: This is how you should meddling, medally. 286 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: Trying to protect your kids. 287 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 4: I think she should tell the girlfriends, not the act, 288 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 4: the cheating axs. Why don't you tell the cheating eggs. 289 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 8: There's one thing though that I'm afraid of letting the 290 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 8: girlfriend know too, is that he this is a pattern. 291 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 8: He has a history of it, and he's been to 292 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 8: you know, rehab for it. He got you know, he 293 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 8: got professional help for it. But I don't know if 294 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 8: she knows about that. 295 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 4: Well, you don't have to tell her all that. 296 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 5: It's also the fear of him using your kids against you, 297 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 5: because if you sabotage his relationship. 298 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 3: He might want to get back at you. 299 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 2: If I knew it, I wanted to save my kids 300 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: a heartache, I would go to him and I would 301 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: also probably go to her. And that's that's just what 302 00:13:57,200 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 2: I would do. Because you're you're protecting your kids from 303 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 2: going through something that might be, you know, hard on them. 304 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 3: Do it anonymously. 305 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 4: Why don't you go to him though he's a cheating. 306 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,719 Speaker 2: Loser, like he needs to be accountable. 307 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 3: Just write her a note. 308 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I will tell you this. It does reinforce it. 309 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 2: You made the right move. 310 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, Yeah. 311 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 8: That was well that was years in the making, but definitely. 312 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 313 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: Well, Jamie, I hope you get to the bottom of this, 314 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 2: and I hope that you know, he gets himself back together. 315 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 2: Good luck, good. 316 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 8: Luck, Thank you guys, thank you. 317 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 2: You take care. By bye. Why not reach out to 318 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 2: him and say, hey, look, I know you're cheating on 319 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 2: your new girlfriend, and I don't want our kids to 320 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 2: go through another emotional break up. And I'm gonna let 321 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 2: her know too, be done with it and move on 322 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: with it. 323 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 4: Because if she lets him know, then he has time 324 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 4: to come up with his plan to like lie cheat, steal, 325 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 4: whatever you say. 326 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 5: Go to the girlfriend, yes, anonymously, Sure, anonymously. 327 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 2: Who cares, because. 328 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 5: Then the tax won't know that she's the one that 329 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 5: blew up the relationship, even though he did technically by cheating. 330 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: Yes, but she's just trying to help. 331 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. I guess how you go? All Jersey 332 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 3: Shore anonymous note. 333 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: But first it is siciny air taxis. We've been hearing 334 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 2: about these for quite a while. They start with the 335 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: driverless cars that we thought were a little bizarre to see. 336 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 2: Now I see more and more of those out on 337 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 2: the streets. But electric air taxis to zip people around 338 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 2: the city. 339 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 5: Yes, this is very much gonna happen. We were talking 340 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 5: about this a couple years ago when this idea came up, 341 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 5: and it was just an idea. Back then, it was 342 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 5: a possibility of it coming to Los Angeles, et cetera, 343 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 5: et cetera. Now we're going full Jetson's for the twenty 344 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 5: twenty eight Olympics with these electric air taxis. The company 345 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 5: is called Archer Aviation and they're they're kind of sleek. 346 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 5: They look very modern. They're little aircrafts named Midnight and 347 00:15:55,640 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 5: can take off vertically and fly you from Lax to 348 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 5: the coliseum in like ten to twenty minutes versus the 349 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 5: hours of traffic that we would be sitting on the 350 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 5: four or five or the one ten to get to 351 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 5: these destinations, especially around the Olympics. 352 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 4: I don't know. 353 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 5: I really don't know what to expect when the Olympics 354 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 5: happens here. Traffic wise, Mayhem that is going to I 355 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 5: think be very shocking for all of us. So if 356 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 5: we can relieve some of that pressure with these air taxis, 357 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 5: I'm all for it. 358 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: So do these have specific routes you can't just get 359 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 2: it and say I want to go home. 360 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 5: I'm yes, They're going to probably be specific routes, probably 361 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 5: venue related, which I think would make the most sense, 362 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 5: and you'll order them just like an uber. You know, 363 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 5: they'll probably very expensive. There's I saw prices anywhere from 364 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 5: like one hundred to two hundred dollars a ride. But 365 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 5: if you don't want to sit in the traffic, or 366 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 5: if it's more convenient for you and you have the means, 367 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 5: I think people are going to take advantage of this. 368 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 2: I wonder if they're going to do it carpool style, 369 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 2: where you could get a lower price to stop and 370 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: pick up other people along the way, strangers along the way. 371 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 3: And fly maybe maybe I know so. 372 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 5: Right now they're aiming to have about fifty of these 373 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 5: flying around, and while they still need the FAA's official 374 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 5: stamp of approval, the goal is to have everything cleared 375 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 5: by the end of this year. 376 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: So this is something I would be interested in trying, actually, 377 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 2: especially if you could guarantee cutting down all that time, 378 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 2: because there's an unpredictability on the freeways, much more of 379 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 2: a predictability in the air, So look for those air 380 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 2: taxis coming soon. It's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan, 381 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 2: Sisney and Tania, and things have seemed off between us 382 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 2: for a while. Then a few nights ago I overheard 383 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 2: him talking to someone on his video game headset. Let's 384 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 2: get Cassandra on the line now to talk about this 385 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 2: with her and Whittier. It's not a very intimate I 386 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 2: think I heard him call her baby. Uh okay, I 387 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 2: don't have a video game headset, So Cassandra, tell me 388 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 2: what you overheard on your husband's headset. 389 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 9: I'm pretty sure I heard him say baby, baby. 390 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 2: All right, what does he normally doing his headset? 391 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 9: Well, I mean when I mean, he says that it's 392 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 9: just like all guys and he's just talking to guys 393 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 9: and they're just joking around. But I don't know, this 394 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 9: sounded different, This sounded intimate. This didn't sound like he 395 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 9: was talking about our baby and like he was calling 396 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 9: someone baby. 397 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 2: It's insut because I call strangely accidentally sometimes on purpose 398 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 2: of guys baby, hey baby. 399 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was more baby, like oh my god. 400 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 9: Intimately, like not something you'd call your bros. 401 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 2: Was a video game on the screen as well. 402 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 9: Right, And I think it was like call of call 403 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 9: of duty or something. I mean, actually, when he went 404 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 9: to work, I tried to log in to like kind 405 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 9: of figure out who. 406 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 4: This girl was. 407 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 10: Like I couldn't. 408 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: I couldn't figure it out. 409 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:50,679 Speaker 2: You does he know you heard him do all this? 410 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 7: Right? 411 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 9: And but he just played it off and like, oh, yeah, 412 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 9: it's just a bunch of guys. But I know what 413 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 9: I heard and that it wasn't guy talk. 414 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 2: What do you mean things have been off? You said 415 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 2: between you? What do you mean by that? 416 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,719 Speaker 9: I had a baby in September and that has been 417 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 9: a lot, and we basically seemed like roommates, And honestly, 418 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 9: I don't even remember the last time we just led together, 419 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 9: but it was probably before. 420 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: We had the baby. 421 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 2: Things have been off for a while. Cassandra just told 422 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 2: us out a Whittier and then she overheard him, her husband, 423 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 2: talking to someone on the video game headset, and I 424 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 2: guess I mean she said he was saying like, oh baby, 425 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 2: very intimately on the headset, and she wants to know 426 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 2: who's on the other end. She can't get an answer. 427 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,199 Speaker 2: Who's on the other end of that headset? Why is 428 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 2: he saying? And she did like, oh baby, like that? 429 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 3: Right? 430 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 2: How long you've been married, Cassandra? 431 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: Four years? 432 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 2: I need you to say, Ryan, you my permission to call? 433 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 2: And then his name? 434 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 9: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call. 435 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 2: All right, We're going to do it right now. Be 436 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: very quiet. We want to see who he sends roses to. 437 00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 2: Who's top of mind? Who's he thinking about? 438 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 8: Is it you? 439 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 2: Is it somebody else? Here we go, good luck? We're 440 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 2: calling them now. 441 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 3: Well, Hi, can I speak to Alex please? 442 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 10: This is him? Who's this? Hey? 443 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 2: What up? 444 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 5: My name is Amandam calling from the perfect pedal. We 445 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 5: deliver all over Wittier and surrounding areas, and today we're 446 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 5: offering a free promotion of a dozen red roses that. 447 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 3: You can send anybody like, Okay. 448 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 4: They're absolutely free. 449 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 5: I don't need cash from you or credit card info 450 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 5: or anything like that. Where we just hope that you 451 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 5: like our arrangements or whoever you send them to likes 452 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 5: them and you come back as a customer one day. 453 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, so how did you get my number? 454 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 5: You may purchase something online the last six to eighteen months, 455 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 5: and often to receive promotional. 456 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 4: Promotions from local vendors. 457 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 10: All right, like I clicked all right, yeah, Uh can 458 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 10: you send them to like a private mailbox? That's something 459 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 10: you can do. 460 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 4: I could do that. 461 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 5: Why don't we start with the name of the person 462 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 5: you want to send them to? 463 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 3: And then note. 464 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 10: I'm not even like quite sure who I want to 465 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 10: send Could you just like send them to the like 466 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 10: the private mailbox that I. 467 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, we just need a name. 468 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 5: No, No, that's no problem at all, Just just uh, 469 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 5: who do you want to send them to? 470 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 10: Well just send them at this point, like I don't 471 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 10: even really just send them to one one Boulevard. That's 472 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 10: the PMB five four two one like private mailbox. 473 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 5: Well, before we get to the address, I'm on a 474 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 5: page right now where I can't click out of it 475 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 5: yet because this is the note, and so I just 476 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 5: got to write the note and then we can get 477 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 5: on to the address delivery location. Like I don't there's 478 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 5: nobody you want to, I don't write it to. 479 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 10: Just like send the flowers to me and I'll give 480 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 10: the fowersy, Alex. 481 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 2: Your voice being broadcast on the radio. I got to 482 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 2: ask you a question and spinning and spinning, your voice 483 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 2: being broadcast in the radio, and we have your wife 484 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 2: on the line. You don't want to send roses to 485 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 2: your wife? Why? Why would you not want to send 486 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 2: free roses to your wife? What a romantic gesture for free? 487 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 2: My name is Ryan. I've told you three times, Alex. 488 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 2: Why are you sending roses to no one? 489 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 10: What gifts I give my wife is none of your business. 490 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 1: See. 491 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 2: Actually I did call you because she asked me to 492 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: call you. And the reason we're calling you is because 493 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 2: she overheard you moaning with another woman on your headset 494 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 2: where you're playing your video game the other night, and 495 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 2: she wants to know who was on the other end. 496 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 2: You're not sending roses to your wife, So clearly there's 497 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 2: something sketchy going on, Alex. Just tell her. She's listening. 498 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 9: I heard you on the video game thing and you 499 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 9: you were talking to someone and I heard you call 500 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 9: them baby? 501 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 3: Who is that? 502 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 10: I told him, So, what what do you what? 503 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 1: So? 504 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 9: I want to know what's for having an affair? 505 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 10: Well, I'm not having an affair. Okay, look, I gotta go. 506 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 2: But wait, Alex, Alex, you're not going. If you're not 507 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 2: having an affair, you would not be saying this. You 508 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 2: would not be saying I'm going. That's for sure. So 509 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 2: something's going on, Alex. We know what's going on. Just 510 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 2: tell your why you don't consenter. He hung up on us. 511 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 2: He hung up, He's gone. 512 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 3: He's guilty. 513 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 2: He's guilty. It seems like he's definitely talking to another woman. 514 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 2: I would say, we've done I don't know. I let's 515 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 2: say how many of these? Okay, you know, I don't 516 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:41,919 Speaker 2: want a real number because it'll. 517 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 4: Take fifty six weeks and a year. 518 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 2: Got off the air, do it off the air? 519 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 3: Fifty two weeks? 520 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you've done that every time. There's when 521 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 2: I'm not asking for the man, you're saying. We've had 522 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 2: tens of thousands of these right right. The point is 523 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 2: we Cassandra and Alex on the line, and uh, Cassandra 524 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 2: overheard her husband moaning saying and baby to some woman 525 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 2: on a headset playing a video game, and she knew 526 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,159 Speaker 2: that someone was on the other end. He didn't want 527 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 2: to send roses to anybody. He was very not nice 528 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 2: to say they. 529 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 4: Want to send to a po box and not even 530 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 4: to his home. 531 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 2: Right, not all weird, I don't. I mean, it's like 532 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 2: really simple, Oh, I have a wife, I'll send roses, 533 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 2: it's free done. This guy was not doing that, so 534 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 2: that's red flag one. Then he got real testy with 535 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 2: Sysney and testy with me. Yeah, and then he didn't 536 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 2: want to talk about it, want to hang up, and 537 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 2: got almost argumentative and defensive. So what I'm saying is 538 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 2: we've done this so many times. When you hear that, 539 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 2: you're not innocent. I don't know what the guilt is, 540 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 2: but you're not innocent. 541 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, maybe he's not physically cheating. 542 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 2: Maybe he's just talking to somebody on those headsets, Yeah 543 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: for sure. 544 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 5: And she's saying that things have been off lately. They 545 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 5: haven't been intimate in months since September, So. 546 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: Red Flag there, Red Flag to po box, Red Flag 547 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:58,439 Speaker 2: talking to strangers online shady already Red Flag got angry. 548 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is going on, but there's 549 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 2: definitely she's not barking up the wrong tree right. If 550 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 2: you are trying to get to the bottom of some 551 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 2: of your relationship, that's what Ryan's roses is a last 552 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 2: resort to get your peace of mind. You can reach 553 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 2: out to us here, tell us the story, RYANIKISSFM dot com, 554 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 2: and we'll see what we can do. I don't think 555 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: that couple lasts. I don't think a soundra if you 556 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 2: heard it. I don't think Issandra no a last. 557 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 4: With him, which makes me sack because you know they've 558 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 4: been married for four years. I just had a baby, 559 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 4: like that part of it. 560 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 2: But he just doesn't treat like. 561 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 3: That right. 562 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,959 Speaker 4: So, allegedly Taylor Swift and Blake Lively's friendship has been 563 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 4: halted the drama there amidst the Justin Baldoni lawsuit. I know, 564 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 4: like I read everything that comes out with like that. 565 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 2: It just it's have you seen the movie they were 566 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,119 Speaker 2: in together? 567 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 8: Yes? 568 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 2: Yes, and it's so. 569 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 4: Good and it makes me so sad because I can't 570 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 4: watch it. 571 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: The same. 572 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, but well there's supposed to be a sequel, I think, so, yeah, yeah, 573 00:25:59,280 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 5: that's not gonnappen. 574 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 2: I've been able to bring myself to watch it because 575 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 2: of all the outside drama. 576 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 4: I have the thing I watched it before. 577 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 3: I watched it before the drama. 578 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 4: It's such a shame. It's really such a shame because 579 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 4: the movie is beautiful and it's beautifully done, but it's 580 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 4: such a waste because of Swiss. 581 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 2: What else? 582 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 4: But who saw this cute little friendship blooming between Tom Holland, 583 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 4: Spider Man and Benson Boone? 584 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 2: So photos me? 585 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 4: I know, so photos were taken to Tom Holland going 586 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 4: into sohouse and who where he met up with his 587 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 4: new friend Benson Boone for dinner. People are saying that 588 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 4: the two of them are fans of each other, of 589 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 4: each other's work, and that this is a budding friendship. 590 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 4: But I don't know why. This got me thinking about 591 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,399 Speaker 4: adult friendships just in general, like grabbing dinner together. It's 592 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 4: so cute. I feel like I get asked a lot 593 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 4: like how do you make friendships as an adult? And 594 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 4: I feel like you kind of have to date people, 595 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 4: Like if you find someone that you get along with 596 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 4: then you have to like get coffee or maybe you 597 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,120 Speaker 4: get a drink, or maybe you do a double date 598 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 4: or like you have to start. It is kind of 599 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,439 Speaker 4: like date with new friends. 600 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,479 Speaker 2: Ault as an adult, it is fewer and far between 601 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,919 Speaker 2: that you do have the time to cultivate a new relationship. 602 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 2: Like I've got my go tos that have gotten kind 603 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 2: of less and less over the years. There's the core, 604 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 2: and if it's not that core, I'm not really out 605 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 2: searching to meet and make new friends. 606 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm in it right now, thick making new friends 607 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 5: because my kids are not forcing me. 608 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 3: But it's kind of I'm meeting new moms and parents 609 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 3: through them. 610 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah that's something It does happen when you are meeting 611 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 2: you know, your kids parents through school, but you're not 612 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 2: really out there seeking friendships on your own. That has 613 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 2: to do with them going to the same class, I know. 614 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 4: But in the opposite, Like I have a girlfriend who 615 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 4: all of her friends are getting married and having kids 616 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 4: and like starting that season of life, and she's still 617 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 4: single and she wants to find more single friends. So 618 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 4: she's like getting set up with people, like with their 619 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 4: single friends so that she can go out with these people. 620 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,959 Speaker 2: So Tom Holland and Benson Boone. But I guess if 621 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 2: you are Tom Holland or Benson Boone and you know 622 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 2: each other's fame, then it's pretty easy to make new 623 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 2: friends that way with the famous people, right. 624 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like ones in movies, ones and music like. 625 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 2: Ooh, Now I need everybody to lean in on this. 626 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 2: When Christian calling with an issue, Sisney Tany in Long Beach, Christian, 627 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 2: good morning. 628 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. How's it going. 629 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 2: It's going all right here? How can we help you? 630 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:29,479 Speaker 2: What's up? 631 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 1: All right? So I need a little advice. Basically, my 632 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 1: boyfriend is has been living with me, crashing with me 633 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 1: for a few months, and he doesn't pay rent, which, hey, 634 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: that's fine for me. I'm paying it all. I don't really, 635 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm not really complaining, but just recently, my sister needs 636 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: a place to stay. We have the space, and I'm like, 637 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,239 Speaker 1: it's my sister, of course, you can live with us 638 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 1: for as long as you need to to get on 639 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: your feet. And he's pissed because he's like, I don't 640 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: want to live with your sister. And I'm kind of like, 641 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: but you don't pay rent, you know what I mean? 642 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean for those who don't pay rent. Did 643 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 2: they get right? 644 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 4: It's not making him pay rent. 645 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of hard. I don't want to, Like, 646 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: I don't want him to be uncomfortable in like a 647 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 1: space that we're supposed to share. But I pay one 648 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 1: hundred percent. 649 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 3: Of the rent, you know, then it would be okay 650 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 3: for him to be upset. 651 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think if we were, like, if it was 652 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: an even split, it would be like, Okay, you have 653 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 1: every right this is your home to uh sure, let's 654 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 1: talk about it, let's come up with something. Or maybe 655 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: I would just say, okay, sorry to my sister, you 656 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: got to find another situation. But in this particular instance, 657 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 1: since I'm the only one paying and basically both of 658 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: them want to live there for free, I don't know. 659 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: I feel like blood is kind of thicker than water 660 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: in this case, and a little bit. 661 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 2: I'm with you. I think if you're funding one hundred 662 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 2: percent of the rent, then you get to call the shots, 663 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 2: no matter what the situation is. And if you're feeling Tanya, absolutely, 664 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 2: if you're paying one hundred percent of the rent, you 665 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 2: don't get to say, bro. 666 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 4: It's just not true. 667 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 2: Some people are just true. 668 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 4: It's just not true. 669 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 3: But you know what, I don't think it comes down 670 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,719 Speaker 3: to money. It's family period. 671 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 5: If he's gonna marry you, you guys gonna go the 672 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 5: distance or whatever like this, Things like this happen, you're 673 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 5: gonna have to take family in or help out or whatever, 674 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 5: and you gotta roll with the. 675 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: Punches, right. I think that's a good point. I mean, 676 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 1: you know, I hope that we're in this for the 677 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 1: long haul, but I don't know that yet. And my 678 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: sister is my sister, you know. 679 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like if this was me and my sister or 680 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 5: my brother had to come and live with us, whatever, 681 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 5: I would just tell Michael. It wouldn't be like we 682 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 5: need to talk about it and see if it works. 683 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 5: It was like, well, let's make it work. 684 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 2: I do think you, oh, it's your partner to make 685 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 2: it work together. And I do feel like if you're 686 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 2: funding rent, you call the shots. I just think that's 687 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 2: the way it goes. It's well, tell you, have you 688 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 2: ever funded all the rent? 689 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 4: Have I ever funded all the rent? 690 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 9: No? 691 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 4: But I think that it doesn't matter because I think 692 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 4: there's a lot of people in relationships where one person 693 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 4: works and one person doesn't. That person funds everything. But 694 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 4: they have equals, say in the relationship. Many people live 695 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 4: that way. It's a great point. Thank you, Mark. 696 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 2: Are you talking to yourself about making a great joint? Yeah, no, 697 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 2: it's like your own conversation over there, patting yourself on 698 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 2: the back. 699 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 4: Mark said, great point. 700 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 1: We hear that. 701 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 2: Thank you, Christian. Good luck with this situation. A tricky one, 702 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 2: but do what you feel it's best in your heart, 703 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 2: and thanks for calling. So mckael in the back room 704 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 2: was invited to a wedding a few days ago, and 705 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 2: you were invited but without a plus one. 706 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 11: Yeah, which this one was fine because a lot of 707 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 11: single friends were there. But I have three coming up, 708 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 11: and the group of friends that are going into these 709 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 11: weddings all have plus ones because they're relationships. So I 710 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 11: feel awkward when I go and I have no one else, 711 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 11: no one else to share a hotel chance with, maybe 712 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 11: a guy friend, or just that I don't know another 713 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 11: friend where I'm not like alone, like sitting by myself, 714 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 11: like at certain parts of the night. 715 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. 716 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 2: A lot of times when people are getting married, they 717 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 2: sort of a rule if you haven't been with the 718 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: person for three months or something like that, then we're 719 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 2: not really invited, right, they don't want strangers at their wedding. 720 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,719 Speaker 2: I mean, Tanya, I didn't want me to bring anybody. 721 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 4: No, I had a hard we had no plus ones. 722 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,560 Speaker 4: If you were the only people I gave plus ones 723 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 4: two were like people that were in the wedding, So 724 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 4: like two of my best friends that are single. I said, 725 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 4: if they wanted to bring somebody, Ryan, you. 726 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 2: Give me a deadline to have to, like tell you 727 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 2: if somebody was finding that. 728 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 4: Everybody gives a deadline for their wedding. 729 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 2: But she didn't really want me to bring somebody. I 730 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 2: could tell by the deadline everybody. 731 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 3: That's why they didn't bring anybody. 732 00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think that it's up to the bride 733 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 2: in the groom because if they don't want somebody, they 734 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 2: don't know what their wedding. I kind of get that, 735 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 2: Sisney Mikayla. 736 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 4: I mean I get that too. 737 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 11: I mean, instead a wedding that like I don't know 738 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 11: a lot of people I only know like that that 739 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 11: don't go. Well, I guess that's an option too, But 740 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 11: that is that's. 741 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 2: True, that's a great option. Don't let them take up 742 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 2: your weekend looking for somebody. Yeah, find somebody. 743 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 11: I never thought of that, but I also love the bride, 744 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 11: so I feel like I need to, Oh, you. 745 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 4: Know, not so much. 746 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 2: If she won't let you bring a friend. 747 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 5: Not true. It's not about her not letting her bring 748 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 5: a friend. It's just that you have these rules that 749 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 5: you just maxed out with the guest list. 750 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: There's a cutoff point too, but don't take it personally. 751 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 2: But you can also very easily, and I can give 752 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 2: you exactly what to say. I know how to blow 753 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 2: off weddings really easily. You can tell them as tany 754 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 2: you said tell people. For years she had to work 755 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 2: for me on America Out forty on weekends, which was 756 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 2: never true. She never had to work there true. 757 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 4: But I just get out of wedding that way. I 758 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 4: got out of spending the night with men that I 759 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 4: didn't want to spend the night with. 760 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 2: Well, you don't need me as an excuse to not 761 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 2: spend the night with a guy. It was an amazing excuse, MICHAELA. 762 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 2: You can always and if they I can leave you 763 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 2: a voice mail or something that says, hey, you got 764 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 2: to see it. See nine. We moved up to countdown 765 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 2: at eight forty Tomorrow Sunday, morning. Yeah, MICHAELA, you're always 766 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,320 Speaker 2: going through it. Did you anything go on with this 767 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 2: guy on Raya? 768 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,760 Speaker 11: No, Ever since I asked that, it's been like slow, 769 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,319 Speaker 11: like having gotten like the messages back kind of fizzled out. 770 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 2: So I think, oh, I don't know. Ever since you 771 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 2: asked if he was in a relationship because your friend 772 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 2: told you that he's guilty. 773 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, guilty unless he just doesn't like that, I like 774 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 11: kind of snooped. I guess I don't know. 775 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 3: Whatever. 776 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, not the one. He's not the one. There's 777 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 2: plenty of Garretts and Billies and Tommy's on. 778 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 3: Who will you end up with? 779 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:02,240 Speaker 4: Will it be a Trevor? 780 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 2: Maybe it's a Trevor, Oh, I love. 781 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:05,360 Speaker 3: It TRP and Andrew? 782 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 4: Oh or what Robert? 783 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: No? 784 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 4: Maybe a Michael What about Wyatt? 785 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 2: It will not be a Wyatt Xander. It's never a Xander. 786 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 3: No, never Isander. Might be a Gabe, Johnny Xavier Jack. 787 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 2: Well, just well, she'll tell us when you find somebody 788 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 2: in Rhya. 789 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 4: Maybe I'll find someone at the weddings. 790 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 2: D He's gonna do it for us. This morning on Monday, 791 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 2: May nineteenth, Tomorrow's second date update, he says he met 792 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 2: a guy in a dating app and they hit it 793 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,600 Speaker 2: off like crazy. They were supposed to go out, but 794 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 2: never did because the other guy canceled and he's got 795 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,279 Speaker 2: a theory as to why and wants us to call 796 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 2: the guy and find out if his theory is right. 797 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 2: So we'll do that tomorrow morning. It's seven twenty and 798 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 2: our second date update. Also tickets to go see Jonas 799 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 2: Brothers at Dodger Stadium. Everybody once does whom? That's right? 800 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 2: And if you miss anything from today's show, it's on 801 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 2: demand on the on air Rining Secrets podcast on iHeartRadio 802 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts. Sicini, what are you 803 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 2: taking until eleven? 804 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 3: Let's go NonStop kiss music? 805 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,800 Speaker 2: Next? All right? On this Devil's Food Cake Day. Happy Birthday, 806 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 2: Jojo Siwah, Happy Birthday. Sam Smith and Marshmall will also 807 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,959 Speaker 2: celebrate a birthday today. That weather looking great, sunny today, 808 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 2: highs in the upper seventies and upper eighties Inland. We'll 809 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 2: talk to you first thing. Until then, take a care