Speaker 1: You don't need nobody to give you an opportunity, go
Speaker 1: make it on your own.
Speaker 2: Wow, it all started with real talk. You see, you
Speaker 2: can't even talk straight as.
Speaker 1: A Sociologists theorized that in heterosexual relationship mothers are more
Speaker 1: unhappy with their marriages after they have children because they
Speaker 1: tend to take on more second shift work, child care
Speaker 1: and housework and begin to feel that their relationships are
Speaker 1: no longer fair. I can honestly say that is not true, unfiltered,
Speaker 1: honest and straight from the heart.
Speaker 2: And when my mom was like, you're moving my daughter.
Speaker 1: Weird quit where when she put the h from the
Speaker 1: W where I knew she was concerned, but I said,
Speaker 1: I got the crown height. We're good. I got this.
Speaker 1: Since then, we've gone on to become webbe award winning
Speaker 1: podcasters in New York Times bestselling authors.
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Speaker 2: of octemoron vive right, because if you're writing a relationship
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Speaker 2: think once you dive into the book, you see how
Speaker 2: imperfect we were in so many moments. Dead Ass was
Speaker 2: more than a podcast for us.
Speaker 3: It was about our growth.
Speaker 1: Grit is the mental fortitude that you have to have
Speaker 1: to say, you know what. It takes ten years to
Speaker 1: become an OVERNIGHTE.
Speaker 2: Level a place where we could be vulnerable.
Speaker 1: I don't know if people know this, but you you
Speaker 1: know you had to get emergency surgery and I could
Speaker 1: have lost you after having Jackson. That's why this is
Speaker 1: so important to me to have this discussion be wrong.
Speaker 3: I knew that this was gonna be my last time
Speaker 3: seeing her, so I said, So I said, love you
Speaker 3: and thank you for everything, and.
Speaker 1: Just watch over for us, but most importantly be us.
Speaker 2: And I just put everything in this zimplot back and
Speaker 2: I threw it into the bushes and then I went
Speaker 2: all my merry way. But the relief that I felt.
Speaker 1: After that, yeah, I'm never I've never heard this full story.
Speaker 2: But as we know, life keeps evolving and so do we,
Speaker 2: and through it all, one thing has never changed. Thing
Speaker 2: to me, Baby, I said, I'm geek.
Speaker 1: Damn hey, loyalty, loyalty, loyalty.
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Speaker 1: If you don't feel any pressure then that means it
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Speaker 1: wife that I love so much, and I'm really to
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