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Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However,

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Speaker 1: before we get to this week's episode, I want to

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Speaker 1: remind you guys to purchase my book No Holds Barred,

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Speaker 1: a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. So feel

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 1: That is No Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual

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Speaker 1: exploration and power, written by yours truly and my co

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Speaker 1: host of the Decisions Decisions podcast, Weezy. Make sure y'all

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Speaker 1: get that. Now, let's get to this week's episode. This

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Speaker 1: is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production of

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Speaker 1: The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. Hey guys, welcome

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Selective Ignorance with you girl me

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Speaker 1: Mandy B. And we are getting into all the t y'all.

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Speaker 1: I want to be our rapper so bad. This is

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Speaker 1: why I love making things rhyme. We're kicking it off

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Speaker 1: with talking about Don Lemon. This week. He's out here

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Speaker 1: telling black and brown folks to get they guns and

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Speaker 1: arm up against ice. First of all, the way my

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Speaker 1: anxiety is set up, y'all already know my thoughts on

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Speaker 1: gun policies, I'm not telling you this. But also I

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Speaker 1: have some words for Don Lemon, so y'all are gonna

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Speaker 1: hear that coming up. We are also talking about a

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Speaker 1: very white super Bowl halftime. Yes, I know we talked

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Speaker 1: about by Balney doing the super Bowl halftime show, but

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Speaker 1: there is another halftime show being brought to you by

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Speaker 1: Charlie Kirk's Turning Point USA channel, and they're doing a

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Speaker 1: theme programming around faith, family, and freedom. Now when we

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Speaker 1: think of whites, don't we already think of freedom. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why freedom has to be involved here. Maybe

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Speaker 1: take us from the shackles of this type of group chat.

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Speaker 1: We're also getting into Kim Kardashian talking about co parenting

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Speaker 1: with kan Ye West, and I'm gonna throw a trigger

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Speaker 1: warning out here. I don't know how I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: get canceled because I don't want to get canceled. But

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Speaker 1: the people who have to deal with people with mental

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Speaker 1: health disorders, it gets tricky when you have to talk

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Speaker 1: about it, And so I will talk about my thoughts

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Speaker 1: on Kim Kardashian and what she chose to share about

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Speaker 1: dealing with Kanye West and all of his manic episodes,

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Speaker 1: on top of sharing my personal experience with people who

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Speaker 1: are un freaking Well, then we're leaning into I guess

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Speaker 1: confirmation bias is now the new term for selective ignorance.

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Speaker 1: Tammy Roman sat on a podcast with Candy Burrs and

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Speaker 1: talked about how her storight daughter could bring all her

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Speaker 1: toxic boyfriends over to Thanksgiving Dinna, but her lesbian daughter

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Speaker 1: But then also, Tammy, I got some words for you too.

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Speaker 1: This is selective ignorance. We're getting into it. And I

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Speaker 1: am joined today by my Superfriendza. We got a king

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Speaker 1: joining me right here, looking very sad, looking very annoyed.

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Speaker 2: Already I'm fuddled.

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Speaker 1: And then we have journalistic Jason straight from He's from Jersey,

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Speaker 1: but we got him in the building to hopefully I

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Speaker 1: would say, correct me on if I'm wrong, I'll be

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Speaker 1: wrong sometimes a gentle nudge, a gentle nudge. Also, he

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Speaker 1: has his keyboard up and ready to not only play

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Speaker 1: us our clips, but again give us all the insights

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Speaker 1: so that we are highly informed. And it's so crazy

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Speaker 1: because I got a comment recently then let me know

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Speaker 1: that this show for them is how they keep up

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Speaker 1: with what's going on like in the world. And I said,

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Speaker 1: oh baby, don't let this show be that for you.

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Speaker 2: Do not it is that.

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Speaker 3: We come right. We cover so much because so much

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Speaker 3: is happening.

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Speaker 1: It's always happening, and it's what and what I love

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Speaker 1: to is like digging into like.

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Speaker 3: Everything what people get, you know, just all about.

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Speaker 1: So I wanted to start this week off actually because

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Speaker 1: thirty five. I'm about to just tell everyone I'm twenty eight.

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Speaker 2: Like, we won't remember twenty eight, and if you're thirty

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Speaker 1: But twenty eight is one of those where because I'm childish,

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Speaker 2: You still got some time to grow up, bitch like,

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Speaker 2: But I would count thirty one is better because then

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not gonna lie young enough that

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Speaker 4: are you guys like? And she said, you look thirty?

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Speaker 1: this is how my mind works, and looking at you

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Speaker 1: You look older when you're fatter, and so when I

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Speaker 3: That's not a hot take. That's that's that's not anybody.

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Speaker 3: If anybody takes offense to the then they just because

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Speaker 2: Look old that you be carrying that cholesterol in your cheeks.

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Speaker 1: Don't get ahead, don't you gransformation.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't big, but you could tell he took lifestyle face.

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Speaker 1: So are you gonna go on the Breakfast Club and

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Speaker 1: That is crazy you pointing. If y'all want to see

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Speaker 3: Was playing k Jason kJ listen, head on over to.

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Speaker 1: Our patreon's Patreon dot Combat Slash selected ignorance, So I

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Speaker 1: wanted to talk again. Birthday just passed, so thank you,

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Speaker 1: sure how I landed here. For anyone who knows me

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Speaker 4: And I said, bitch, no, this looks downtive.

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Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing when I when I when I

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Speaker 1: in my twenties, I used to always watch these movies

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Speaker 1: Like you ever see those goddamn movies where it's like, now, bitch,

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Speaker 1: And it's funny because I'm talking about my best friend Crystal,

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Speaker 1: and my mind immediately went to fucking Caviar, which is dumb,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know, I just really like Caviar lately,

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Speaker 1: Richie rich bitch shit. But I started genuinely thinking about

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Speaker 2: Nigga.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the zombies probably having more sex than

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Speaker 2: What three things I'm asking? Not right with three small with.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, deep one is like my daughter's laugh. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Let's be very clear. If I'm a zombie and another

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Speaker 3: They trying to get rid of the term rod to die.

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Speaker 6: That's equal for the man you have the dude this

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Speaker 2: Shows up song is called ride or die has always right.

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Speaker 1: It's never a writer die, dude, me, me and my

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Speaker 1: No like ride or die has always been how dumb

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Speaker 2: She's one of those dudes in the movie that goes

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Speaker 1: Listen, I'm gonna show up like Steve Harvey wife. I

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Speaker 1: out here. Okay, But you know, the the rider die

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Speaker 1: Please bring it up.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask my husband, Chutch ept gonna be like, sorry, man,

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Speaker 1: he cannot find that.

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Speaker 3: Three results j Grizela, they have a man.

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Speaker 2: They look at you.

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Speaker 1: Now you're going to a king Pinny.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't know who was who was her partner? Was

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Speaker 1: She probably had mad niggas? You going straight to Griselda?

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Speaker 1: Is that is that what you said?

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Speaker 2: That's crazy?

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Speaker 3: Queen Pinn.

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Speaker 1: Also say how wild it is, which I love and

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Speaker 2: Woman that I love. That that's powerful. No, that is

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Speaker 1: Are you looking up Brazilda's niggas?

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Speaker 4: Because I think I did see a docu docu series

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Speaker 1: Hold on.

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Speaker 2: Now, I thought it's funny that you said that women

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Speaker 1: We don't ever say that that's what we want from

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's just trying to say that maybe we need

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Speaker 4: to adapt to new methodology.

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Speaker 3: Is how we need to.

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Speaker 2: Adapt prior to their divorce, It's given prior prior to

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Speaker 2: the divorce. A king was Patpoofs, a writer died.

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Speaker 4: Dude, ma oh here we go, I would say, so

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Speaker 4: I think he I think he yes, I think he

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Speaker 4: understood the sign it and he was he was, he was.

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Speaker 3: He didn't have to do it. Based on the time.

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Speaker 2: They had she was they had yeah, that one. She

446
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Speaker 2: was locked up just before they got married, before they

447
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Speaker 2: had kids. And this is when I worked at MTV News.

448
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Speaker 2: And I remember I woke up one morning, I checked

449
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Speaker 2: my BlackBerry this I know how long ago you know

450
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Speaker 2: it was, and Patpoos wrote me this long message and

451
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Speaker 2: he was like we're married now, He's like, I got

452
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Speaker 2: married to her whatever, And I looked at my black parenty.

453
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Speaker 2: I was like, holy ship. I ended up breaking that story.

454
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Speaker 2: But yeah, but that that's that's you broke.

455
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Speaker 1: The story that Pappoos and remy Ma were married.

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Speaker 2: They got married when she was in jail, when she was.

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Speaker 3: Here, he was before the crime was my thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's but that is an example. There's not many.

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Speaker 7: You have to know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe at the time he really liked her pussy in

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Speaker 1: one of the conjugal visits he got married. But but

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Speaker 1: you know, you have to you have to be married

463
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Speaker 1: in order to have the conjugal visits.

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Speaker 2: Look at you putting something so love but you don't

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Speaker 2: get that the cold ass hard man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, cold right, Like that's the only way he could.

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Speaker 1: Have got Why did he marry her before she loved her?

468
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Speaker 1: He believed in who who she was, So y'all really

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Speaker 1: don't think that Pappoo's steps out at all wasn't That's.

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Speaker 3: Not my business. If he did, I don't know what

471
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Speaker 3: you got going on.

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Speaker 2: That's part of Ryder died. He stayed.

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Speaker 3: Even if he did, though if he did, it's quiet.

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Speaker 1: Well, all I know is he didn't continue to right

475
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Speaker 1: it because now but now he's riding with Clarissa shill Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean life, coops all is crazy. No, it's supposed

477
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Speaker 1: to be ride or like you're supposed to die.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Stepped is what he's saying.

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Speaker 3: You know, that's the part.

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Speaker 2: Of it that's so funny.

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Speaker 1: Us leading into patpoos as the ride to die example, that.

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Speaker 3: Is crazy.

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Speaker 4: Hit us up in the comments, let us know if

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Speaker 4: we missed somebody, Please, please.

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Speaker 2: Let us know. After we found out one example, let

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Speaker 2: us know if you missed anybody else.

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Speaker 1: Now really excited to bring y'all some new segments to

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Speaker 1: selective ignorance. Y'all hurt him probably last week. We're introducing here,

489
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Speaker 1: we're getting into it, but we're naming this this is America.

490
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Speaker 1: So this is America. This is going to be a

491
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Speaker 1: segment where we bring up anything political or anything just

492
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Speaker 1: happening in motherfucking America that makes us wonder why we

493
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Speaker 1: still live here and why we continue to call this

494
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Speaker 1: place home of the great.

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Speaker 2: It's like we're still talking about the zombies.

496
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Speaker 1: It is like really strange that we really like have

497
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Speaker 1: been warped and brainwashed to believe that this is the

498
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Speaker 1: best place in the world when bitch it ain't mind you.

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Speaker 1: This ain't even the creation of sushi. I cannot wait

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Speaker 1: to go to Tokyo. I love sushi so much. I

501
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Speaker 1: swear I'm Japanese.

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Speaker 3: You haven't have public sushi, We're not. I haven't. I

503
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Speaker 3: see it. But you know the pub self is dope,

504
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Speaker 3: so I don't know about the sushi.

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Speaker 1: First off, anybody who purchases sushi in the airport or

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Speaker 1: just in the grocery store, y'all are criminal. Y'all are

507
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Speaker 1: criminal gas the gas stations.

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Speaker 2: You think you'll think airport food is the same as

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Speaker 2: like gas food.

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Speaker 1: First off, I only go to the lounge. I don't

511
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Speaker 1: know about y'all. Y'all have to pay for stuff. I

512
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Speaker 1: get it for free.

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Speaker 3: I go the going to the zombie world.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we're.

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Speaker 1: Gonna talk about two topics in this week's segment. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do y'all want to start first with? Where do we

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Speaker 1: want to start? Y'all want my producers leave me what

518
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Speaker 1: we talk about first? Goddamn, let's have some fun.

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Speaker 2: I think we should do the we should, we should,

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Speaker 2: we should uh throw some names in the hat for performance.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're talking about so Charlie Kirk's turning points. USA

522
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Speaker 1: announced that they would put on their own Super Bowl

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Speaker 1: halftime show after the NFL culture Baby, they said, this

524
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Speaker 1: ain't very American if y'all, So after the NFL of

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Speaker 1: our Nation announced that bad Bunny would be performing. And

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Speaker 1: as y'all know, you now have less than four months

527
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Speaker 1: to learn Spanish in order to know what the hell

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Speaker 1: is being said, y'all, Jason is wrapping himself in his

529
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Speaker 1: Puerto Rican flag culture, which is crazy. Do you know

530
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Speaker 1: that this is probably why half of America doesn't know

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Speaker 1: that this is an American's territory because y'all got your

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Speaker 1: own flag.

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Speaker 2: Nigga. A deep story behind that though, too.

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Speaker 1: Wait, oh, what's the deep story behind why Puerto Rico

535
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Speaker 1: got their own flag?

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Speaker 3: Yees?

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Speaker 2: So, there was a there was a gag law in

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Speaker 2: Puerto Rico put in installed by the United States where

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Speaker 2: flying a Puerto Rican flag was illegal and so and

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Speaker 2: this is like in my dad's lifetime, Like this was

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Speaker 2: like when my dad was in Puerto Rico, like you

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Speaker 2: couldn't fire a flag. And that's what like you see

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Speaker 2: if you're in the video, if you watch the video,

544
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Speaker 2: like my flag is light blue. But then after America,

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Speaker 2: after that gag law was removed, the flag change and

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Speaker 2: it was this one that has like the America blue,

547
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Speaker 2: but it's supposed to be the real flag. Is this

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Speaker 2: light blue?

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Speaker 1: Not the real flag is turquoise. Okay, come on turquoise.

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Speaker 2: So because of that, that's why Puerto Ricans always, you know,

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Speaker 2: stay ready with the flag. It makes sense, it makes

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Speaker 2: it one in every bag I got.

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Speaker 1: Listen I grew up in. I grew up in a listen.

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Speaker 1: Is that what it is?

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Speaker 2: Rich Port I was about to say, there we go, there.

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Speaker 1: We go, and so yeah, I don't know, did we

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Speaker 1: do we have any further information Jason about where they

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Speaker 1: have time? Performance is going to take place doing it

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Speaker 1: in someone's backyard like the Soul Train Awards last year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So the group is a Turning Point USA, which

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Speaker 2: is Charlie Kirk's foundation. They're the ones who made the

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Speaker 2: announcement that they're going to do their own counter halftime show.

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Speaker 2: I think I think groups like that are better announcements

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Speaker 2: than executions like, well, here's my thing.

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Speaker 1: I want to know what their budget is because the

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Speaker 1: flyer that I just saw was given Camva, yes, and

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Speaker 1: so if they can't afford a graphic designer, like like

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Speaker 1: like here's the thing. We see what the people are

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Speaker 1: doing on Twitter, right, we see and it's funny because

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Speaker 1: I just saw y'all just got to stop posting R

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Speaker 1: I P to your loved ones because the angel wings

572
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Speaker 1: the AI making them fly off out of their own casket.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's it's it's going a little crazy. But

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Speaker 1: I do feel like they could have hired a graphic

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Speaker 1: designer to do just a little better job at this

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Speaker 1: goddamn I mean, it's the half a halftime performance here.

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Speaker 2: On the Simper. But I don't but design, I feel

578
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Speaker 2: like design is not their thing. Like Fox News graphics

579
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 2: are like mad old school and then CNNs are like

580
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Speaker 2: exploding off the screen. Or even if you look at

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Speaker 2: like Mamdani's like blue and orange or his thing, it's

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Speaker 2: like kind of fly design and Trump's thing is just

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Speaker 2: red and white. Like I don't think. I don't think

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Speaker 2: that's their bag.

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Speaker 1: Well, I wanted to talk about who we believe may

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Speaker 1: be performing. So we know Bob Boney is performing at

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Speaker 1: the super Bowl. Now this one is for freedom, family

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Speaker 1: and faith. Who do we think is performing besides kid Rock?

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Speaker 1: Everyone to throw out kiddine. We know that kid Rock

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Speaker 1: is headlining this. We know that it also may be

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Speaker 1: only about twelve minutes in length. So who is coming

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Speaker 1: out as a special guest?

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Speaker 2: We should get chew each? We should try and pick

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Speaker 2: chew each.

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Speaker 1: Okay, who you think coming out? Kid Rock?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, now we already said that. Who else is coming out?

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Speaker 2: God damn, she just said.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. No, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I just saw looking at the potential donors of this thing,

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Speaker 4: and it's conflicting. If it's if this is true, Jerry

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Speaker 4: Jones might have played seven million dollars.

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Speaker 3: That what Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Wait, but that's allegedly.

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Speaker 3: If if it's true, I don't know. I'm looking.

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Speaker 4: I was looking to see what other performers might be performing.

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Speaker 4: But I saw that come across this way.

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Speaker 3: Who else? Ship rappers? Oh?

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Speaker 8: Here we go?

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Speaker 3: Here we go? Called that black?

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Speaker 2: No, that's a good one. Yes, good guess.

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Speaker 4: These are some of the guys. I'm thinking that he's

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Speaker 4: the ones who who met who they supported.

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Speaker 1: You want to know why why I just said no

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Speaker 1: Florida Because I would actually probably tune into it to

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Speaker 1: watch over Bad Buddy Over up, I would you call

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Speaker 1: that black?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean I think I think what we're gonna do

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Speaker 4: culturally is we're gonna do versus were.

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Speaker 1: Not doing versus.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna meaning we're gonna watch.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna to watch the NFL halftime show, and then

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Speaker 4: we're gonna be on We're gonna be on X looking

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Speaker 4: at the bruh.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're not gonna te it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let me see. I think that Let's say

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Speaker 1: they set it up how Kendrick had how y'all know

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Speaker 1: how Kendrick had Samuel L. Jackson as as old boy.

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Speaker 1: So I think if they like try to spoof it,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna go Snoop Dogg for that. And you know

632
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Speaker 1: why Snoop dog will. Snoop will do anything for a bag.

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Speaker 3: We talked glass.

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Speaker 1: Snoop do anything for a bag, so they'll get I

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Speaker 1: feel like he gonna do it. And then so we

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Speaker 1: got Kent Rock coming out, and here's the three people

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Speaker 1: that I think are gonna bring it all together. So

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Speaker 1: Cat Rock's gonna do his performance, then he gonna look

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Speaker 1: to the side and you go see a little bitch

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Speaker 1: and Red bent over Sexy read about to do her

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Speaker 1: whole little performance, and then you know who else were

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Speaker 1: gonna have just as a quick little outro. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: have Little Pump and motherfucking Kanye West do their hit

644
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Speaker 1: single together. Is such a fucking h I love it.

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Speaker 1: I just think that that's what we're getting.

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Speaker 2: We're so we're getting.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna our host is gonna be Snoop Dogg. We're

648
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Speaker 1: gonna get Sexy Red bending it over for the girls.

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Speaker 1: Were gonna get Kid Rock doing it for the whites,

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Speaker 1: and then we gonna have Little Pump and Kanye West

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Speaker 1: do it as well because they love If it's anything

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Speaker 1: they love more. Did y'all see what what Trump just

653
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Speaker 1: said during his visit in Chicago. He said he said,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing more beautiful than seeing all these black women

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Speaker 1: walk around with.

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Speaker 2: Their maga hats. Like these black women in their maga hats, it.

657
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Speaker 1: Looks I want to insert the clip here. This nikka

658
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: literally talked about black women in maga hats in Chicago. Okay,

659
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: he is fucking crazy. What is wrong with that man?

660
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: Everything I can see Bruce Springsteen, I was about to say,

661
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Speaker 1: he's liberally right people on in.

662
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Speaker 3: The you do You I'm thinking about the song, but the.

663
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Speaker 1: US say he's he said it was never great. Yeah,

664
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Speaker 1: Bruce is a little Yeah he knowed Nigga This Saint

665
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Speaker 1: Land of the Free. Okay, anyways, I think I'm curious.

666
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: I just said, I just said my home.

667
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Speaker 2: I would say, in the Samuel L. Jackson role, I'm

668
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: gonna put John Voyd, Angelina Jolie's dad. He's super magot

669
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Speaker 2: be on the on the tweets going crazy kid rocks

670
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Speaker 2: the headliner, of course. I think. I think for the

671
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Speaker 2: young whites, Benson Boone.

672
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Speaker 1: The young whites is crazy.

673
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: I don't really know who he is, but his name

674
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 2: sounds really white. Oh my god, you just put it.

675
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: Before I saw him perform at the Grammys, he did

676
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: like a backflip. I was like, damn that white.

677
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Speaker 1: Don't just be putting all the whites as as like

678
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: super Republican either.

679
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 2: We got Boone. Benson Boone is a good guess that

680
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 2: he's probably that is hilarious. Not his family is that

681
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: is funny.

682
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I'm not gonna lie. Hold on, he has

683
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: the Andrew Schultz mustache.

684
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: Look at look at what this man looked like.

685
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he got the oh ship.

686
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 2: And then for the.

687
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: Having a mustache like that at twenty three years old

688
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: is insane. I need whoever's editing this throw up a

689
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: goddamn picture of Ben some moon right here, because what.

690
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,439
Speaker 2: For the for the Maga Blacks? This feels like draft

691
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 2: was like the Chappelle Show for the Maga Blacks. I'm

692
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 2: gonna do we should do Dojah Cat? Could she be

693
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Speaker 2: in the racial.

694
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Speaker 1: We're not doing that doj Jojah.

695
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 3: First off, there will be no do you think Steven?

696
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: Wait when I say there will be no Doja cat?

697
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: Steven? He could be, he could he could be your

698
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 2: Samuel L. Jackson Rolle.

699
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 3: I would throw every shoe collection everything.

700
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: That's a man that y'all like he's he is one

701
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: of those black men, I will say, like a Shannon Sharp,

702
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: like Joe Bodden, that can say and get away with anything,

703
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: and he will continue to get the support specifically of men,

704
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: specifically black men.

705
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 2: Steven A Smith people at has her hand pointing right

706
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 2: at She said that was completely y'all.

707
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's because he's still somebody that

708
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: most men would like to be able to be. You

709
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: want to be able to speak your mind, speak loudly

710
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: in spaces with white men on TV and all this

711
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: thing and get millions and millions of dollars for being

712
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: completely ignorant, loud.

713
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 4: And Wrongtive is a job too, you know, it is.

714
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: Mine you and I think that's the thing. He's mastered it.

715
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: The other two guys that I just said mastered it

716
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: in a way that I think they can genuinely do

717
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: no wrong. So even if it came out that he

718
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: voted for Trump, I still think he gonna get all

719
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: the money and y'all, y'all still gonna be supporting him.

720
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 4: But what's gonna be the excuse of when we see

721
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 4: a particular celebrity, because you know that's gonna happen when

722
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 4: they have to explain why they was on the All

723
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 4: American Halftop Show because.

724
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:00,919
Speaker 2: They it's the same.

725
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: It's the same explanation that we're getting from the comedians

726
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: that are going to perform in Saudi Arabi. Like again,

727
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: everybody got a price, bruh. And sometimes niggas gonna be like, hey,

728
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: eggs is thirty two dollars?

729
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: What you wanted me to do?

730
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: I got a family to feed. And that's just it,

731
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: literally is everyone got a price.

732
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Speaker 3: It's gonna be a lot of country singers. I believe though, I.

733
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: Mean, and we don't know that niggas like that. If

734
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: it ain't Shaboozi, I don't know it.

735
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 3: Anyways, you might see Drake, Drake.

736
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 1: Might you know what if listen, listen and now you're

737
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: making me want to burn?

738
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,919
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, seriously, that would be the anti because

739
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 4: they're still mad about the Kendrick things.

740
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Speaker 1: Some Drake wouldn't do that. Drake still wants too much

741
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: acceptance with the black community to do, you think, so? Absolutely,

742
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the next topic. We have

743
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,439
Speaker 1: Don Lemon who appeared on the left hook. He won't

744
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: be on there, and in a wide ranging conversation he

745
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: chose to say this, let's play the club.

746
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 3: Black people, brown people of all.

747
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 2: Whether you're an Indian American or a Mexican American or

748
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 2: whoever you are, go out in your plate where you live.

749
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 9: And get a gun legally, get a license to carry legally,

750
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 9: because when you have people knocking on your door and

751
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 9: taking you away without due process as a citizen, isn't

752
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 9: that what the Second.

753
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 3: Amendment was written for?

754
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 9: Go back and read what the Second Amendment says, and

755
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 9: perhaps it will knock some sense in the head in

756
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 9: the heads of.

757
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 2: These people who were saying, well, it's all great. I

758
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: don't believe they're doing it without due process.

759
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 9: They're asking people for papers, they're not really beating people up.

760
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 9: These people are doing things that are illegal. Nobody is illegal.

761
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 9: It is a misdemeanor to cross the border.

762
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 2: Say nobody is illegal. As crazy. God, here's okay, we'll

763
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: say Mandy scheffling of words.

764
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 1: Oh, I want to hear this one because I hate.

765
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 2: This because you hate guns, so you hate I hate guns.

766
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: Whoa whoas. I hate this because gearing up black and

767
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 1: brown people to be armed to go against federal agents,

768
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 1: which is what that is, is absolutely nuts to me.

769
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: It's just nuts.

770
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: Is the people who choose.

771
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: To get in fights in airports like there are just

772
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: certain people you don't go up against. And yes, I know,

773
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: we live in a democracy and you're not supposed to

774
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: fear the government and they're here to protect us and

775
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: all this bullshit, and I understand that ICE is not

776
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 1: anyone that is meaning to do well at this point. However,

777
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: urging black and brown people to go and buy guns

778
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: to be ready to shoot federal agents when they get

779
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: in the house to me, is a suicide.

780
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 3: Note, I don't as opposed to.

781
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, here's the thing. To be fair, Yes,

782
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: they are are going after illegal immigrants, so to be

783
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 1: also fair, not all the time, not all the time,

784
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:13,280
Speaker 1: well not all the time. However, as a quote unquote

785
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 1: illegal immigrant or someone who is a naturalized citizen, which

786
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 1: is what we're seeing. There are naturalized citizens that are

787
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: also being deported and swept up in this. They don't

788
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: have the right to get a legal gun license. So

789
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: he's talking to me from both sides of his mouth,

790
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: like you, they legally don't have the option to do so.

791
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: So then what are you really still going to urge

792
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: them to? Really, I guess go out and get gun.

793
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: Illegally, right, and they may try to buy a gun,

794
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: and that'll be the thing that says.

795
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 4: I don't think he's talking to those people. I think

796
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 4: he's talking about what we've been seeing in Chicago.

797
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, the larger conversations. He was saying it's time for

798
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: people to call MAGA for what it.

799
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 3: Is and that so I guess that's to me, why

800
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 3: listen to Second Amendment? Right? So ones who can.

801
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: Hurt you heard you?

802
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: But saying it in that way. Literally, all that came

803
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 1: to mind was civil rights war or civil war, civil

804
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: rights movement, but a civil war like and maybe this

805
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: is my biracialness speaking, but I don't want just but

806
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: it's not a black and white thing. And so for

807
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: it to even be a hey, black and browns, go

808
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: get your guns to go against this, and for you

809
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: to even bring it maga the way that you went

810
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: straight to country music for this performance, like, unfortunately Maga

811
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: looks like white when it's not. We see we see

812
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: other people that look just like us. Maybe you Puerto Rican,

813
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: but there's a lot of Cubans that look just like you.

814
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: And boy, they be acting like.

815
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 2: Front line, you know, to line sports.

816
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 4: To me, I think don was like, even if it's

817
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,919
Speaker 4: black ice and white ice a going.

818
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: I guess that's where when we have this conversation, that's

819
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 1: where it's it's nuanced, right, because yes, go against ice first,

820
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: that's you going against federal agents in the federal government.

821
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: So that sounds like a ward itself on what does

822
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 1: my my sister call them civilians? Civilians versus the government.

823
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 1: I don't think that's ever going to be anything that

824
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: ends well. And then again, when we lean into the

825
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: maga of it all and what the underlying stem from

826
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,919
Speaker 1: it is we see black versus white, which is why

827
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: he leaned in by saying blacks and browns. And then

828
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: I also don't like that he tried to group all

829
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: the browns with us, him.

830
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 2: Saying yes, Indians and this and that. I don't I

831
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 2: don't like the bipocket and brown I.

832
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 3: Think that's the immigration part of it.

833
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 4: Like they they're there their second generation American, you know,

834
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 4: by half the stance, But he's just speaking to those

835
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 4: people's potential targets of I.

836
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Speaker 1: Want to share. I want to share something that's I

837
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: haven't brought this up yet, but it's it's crazy because

838
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: when we talk about black white, we talk about immigrants.

839
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: I am Jamaican American and I just found out that

840
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: one of my family members is very very pro Trump

841
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: from a religious standpoint, which is also crazy because that

842
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,399
Speaker 1: nigga just sat on a plane and said, I ain't

843
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,800
Speaker 1: going to heaven. I did enough shit, I know I

844
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: ain't going to heaven, which is crazy because you also

845
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: have a lot of his followers come from like the

846
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: Christian belief system. And it's crazy because while we're talking

847
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 1: about black versus white. While we're talking about browns and

848
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: immigrants and all these things. My very black ass family,

849
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: it's interesting hearing their thoughts be delivered back to me

850
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: because they're Jamaican, they kind of don't consider themselves, especially

851
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: because some, you know, the ones that were born here.

852
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: Also crazy that there's these thoughts where most of my

853
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: family is here on a green card. My daddy, I

854
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: don't even know the status of his right now, but

855
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

856
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 2: I'm just saying.

857
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:57,439
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, that didn't go back. I don't see

858
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: him while he's in America. Anyway, he goes back to

859
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: Jamaica might see them more. I'm shit, But it's it's

860
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: just it's just interesting, like I said, And I guess

861
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: that's my issues with like making this a black and

862
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 1: white thing is because there are just all of these

863
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 1: layers of people that identify with MAGA that I identify

864
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: other words that aren't white. There are a lot of

865
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: white people that are woke and allies wanting to see us,

866
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,439
Speaker 1: you know, get past all of this, that didn't vote

867
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 1: for Trump, that believe that we should have rights, and

868
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: so I think it just gets tricky when I'm on

869
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: the Internet, and I'm reading everything and all these think pieces.

870
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 2: A part of me is really.

871
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: Scared as a biracial but no, just really scared as

872
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: a human being that this is becoming so polarizing and

873
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: becoming so black and white, when it's not just black

874
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 1: and white.

875
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 4: It has always been black and white. It's just that

876
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: there's this subsects of black and white.

877
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:56,479
Speaker 1: But those sub sexes have always been here. You know what,

878
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: now that I think about it, when we talk about

879
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: the eliminent nation of critical race theory, when we think

880
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 1: about how we are taught about black history and American history,

881
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 1: the parts that I think have failed us in today

882
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: is that it was just black and white. When we're

883
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: taught the history of America, we don't really have the

884
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: history of how Latinos had to deal with what slavery

885
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: looked like and the relationships between you know, how they

886
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: were viewed by the whites and blacks. Then you have

887
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: the Asians, which we do know like they had that

888
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: was a tricky one we learned. I learned about the

889
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: Asian nuance and what they had to deal with in

890
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: America as an adult, though it wasn't taught to us right.

891
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: And so when we even go into Asians, you have

892
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 1: the subsets like you just said, you have Indians, you

893
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: have Japanese, you have Koreans, you have Chinese, all of

894
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: which are treated completely different. Then when we get into

895
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: the Latinos, y'all all have all the different subsets. I

896
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: just want to say Latinos like.

897
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 8: For that.

898
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: But the Dominicans, the Cubans, Colombians, everyone who came in,

899
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: we've had all of this melting pot because that's what

900
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: America was.

901
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 2: What were the melting pot of all the cultures.

902
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: Everyone's welcome here when we're taught to history of from

903
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: the early nineteen hundreds. Up, I don't know y'all's history

904
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,240
Speaker 1: here like that, it's not taught to us.

905
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 3: The issue there is you said something very poignant.

906
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 4: You mentioned Japanese, Asia, you spoke to areas of the

907
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 4: world nations. Okay, the issue here is race is not

908
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 4: the black and white issue, is not a nationality issue.

909
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 4: That's why we don't know who That's why when you ask,

910
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 4: you don't know who he is because they erase his history.

911
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, but that's what I'm saying. But also look

912
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: at him, look at him. He can be a white presentent.

913
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 4: His indigenous ancestors didn't call each other by colors. They

914
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 4: call each other. They identified each other by their nationhood. Yes,

915
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 4: they dropped us from and put us undercolor doc not.

916
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 2: I mean race is very American.

917
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: Well, race is an American thing, but also at the

918
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: colonization but also but also the color coad. Yeah, no,

919
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: there is the color coat. But I guess that's.

920
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 3: All these they was looking at. I didn't want to

921
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 3: get too deep the microphone.

922
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,760
Speaker 1: So then what happened to the yellow and red? I'm red,

923
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: you kind of yellow, you know, do the color?

924
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 3: They did the color.

925
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 2: But that's that's that's why I earlier you're going to

926
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 2: say that your family, I thought you were going to

927
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 2: say your family doesn't identify as black.

928
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: No, no, no, let's be very clear. No, no, my family,

929
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 1: but they they a king color.

930
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I have family. This a king's color, you know.

931
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,720
Speaker 2: But in the Caribbean something, it's just like my island

932
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 2: is this? Your island is that. It's not until you

933
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 2: come to the States and then it's like, well, I guess.

934
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like when we when we black and

935
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: white conversations like this, to me, I just think it

936
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: leaves out so many people. And when I when I

937
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: think about it like this, I'm like, damn, where was

938
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: the Port of Rica? Is there with slavery? It's like

939
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: a part of me like literally feels like I, yeah,

940
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't know your history.

941
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 2: Coolly, you have your.

942
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 3: Well wait, wait, what did you do?

943
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 2: I gotta put my slaves back on?

944
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: You said you gotta put your flag. I thought slides.

945
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: I thought she was about to be real Puerto Rican

946
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: with us.

947
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 3: No.

948
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 2: But the education part is interesting too, like like did

949
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: y'all even know? Like because our education system, right, like

950
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 2: it what they teach us is so limited, right, and

951
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 2: sometimes it repeats in third grade again in fourth grade,

952
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 2: like the same things you do, but like you know,

953
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,800
Speaker 2: they'll be textbooks on the East Coast the same version,

954
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 2: the same year, the same year of the same topic,

955
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 2: but the one in like Texas and the Southwest will

956
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: be edited completely different. And so that means that, you know,

957
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: kids in the Southwest are learning a perspective of a

958
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 2: certain historical story different than kids on the Northeast might

959
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 2: be learning it. Right, So it's like, even like our history,

960
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 2: he has been politicized, and then you wonder, like, well,

961
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 2: who politicize it? Obviously it's like those in power, and

962
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 2: you know, sometimes that's Democrats, sometimes that's Republicans. And that's

963
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 2: why you get people like who refer to like, well,

964
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 2: I think they're both in cahoots.

965
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 3: And then you know it, I.

966
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 2: Think it leads to a lot of like low information

967
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 2: citizens and you know, and where it's like they won't

968
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,879
Speaker 2: know common things and it keeps it separate, right, because

969
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: it's like the strongest way for things to work would

970
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 2: be like the way I always view it is like

971
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 2: anything that happens with black folks, every other colored person

972
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 2: should be pushing and do that because anything that happens

973
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,399
Speaker 2: in advancement for them will then happen for the next

974
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: group after that.

975
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: No, think like that, you know why because they all

976
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: mean a lot of proximity to whiteness. No, a lot

977
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: of them feel like their proximity to whiteness grants them

978
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: more privileged than black people period.

979
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,280
Speaker 2: And that also comes from certain groups like the Cubans

980
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 2: having an affinity for it they white folks, or then

981
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 2: when they talk about Asians, like the Koreans are the

982
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 2: white people of Asian status. So it's like.

983
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 4: The status of whiteness. What that looks like from a

984
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 4: finan you know. And that's why we get don't look crazy.

985
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: They god damned Cubans think that way when they was

986
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: under goddamn for the out castrup for so long. You

987
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 1: go over there, they ain't even it's not like they're wealthy,

988
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 1: like they're just down.

989
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 2: But the thing is that castro Castro is communism, right,

990
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 2: and communists why that's why that's why politics, like Republicans

991
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 2: they use keywords, right, Tom, y'all say what they say

992
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 2: about I'm donnie communism right, yeah, a socialoc Listen.

993
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: That's why they be trying to brainwash.

994
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 3: Out what those ideas are.

995
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 4: We just they just say those things are talking points,

996
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 4: like oh, yeah, they're comedy, but what is that?

997
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and what's wrong with that or what's right.

998
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 2: Crazy? It's like like sports to me, sports are like socialists, right,

999
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: Like like if you're a sports owner and you're a

1000
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 2: sports franchise, your team doesn't even have to be good

1001
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 2: and they spread the money equally amongst everybody in the league.

1002
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 2: That's socialism, right, And so it's like Republican owners of

1003
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 2: sports teams will be like, oh, you know, won't give

1004
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 2: all this money to this candidate Cuomo who's against socialism

1005
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 2: and all this or whatever, but then when they run

1006
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: their business they take all that money just like they're socialists.

1007
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 2: It's crazy. It's nuts to me.

1008
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: Well, let's get into celebrities say the dorness things.

1009
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 2: We need to drop, we need Yeah, and because.

1010
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: I know we got a lot to get to, let's

1011
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: not spend too much time on these topics because I

1012
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: do want to introduce our last segment, which is am

1013
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: I ignorant? But let's get into Let's start with Kim

1014
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: k who recently was on call her daddy and she

1015
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: opened up about what co parenting with Kanye West is, Like,

1016
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: let's go ahead, I don't know which clip we want

1017
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: to play from this one.

1018
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,479
Speaker 2: Well, it's getting too but part of it is maybe

1019
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 2: we'll do half and half less.

1020
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: Okay, let's do it.

1021
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 10: Can we talk about the state of you and Kanye's

1022
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 10: co parenting relationship?

1023
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 5: What do you think co parenting with Kanye West is?

1024
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 2: Like?

1025
00:50:55,600 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 10: Well, yeah, I guess that's what I'm curious. I'm we're

1026
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 10: wondering how are you doing and how much is on you?

1027
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 2: Kim?

1028
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 5: Hmm, It's not easy, but I mean I raise the kids,

1029
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 5: you know, full time. They live with me, and I

1030
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 5: welcome a great, healthy relationship with my kids and their dad.

1031
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 5: And I think, you know, he knows that I push

1032
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 5: for it all the time, but I also protect them

1033
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 5: when you know it's time for that, and it goes

1034
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 5: in waves and phases and it's it's But like I

1035
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 5: said earlier, like I have the best memories and the

1036
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 5: best relationship you know, with my dad, and even like

1037
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 5: I love that, you know, I see Tristan puts you know,

1038
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 5: their kids to bed every night and takes them to

1039
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 5: school every day when he's not you know, in season.

1040
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 5: So I just welcome healthy relationships.

1041
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 3: She is a question.

1042
00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 2: I mean, I think she was really of him, probably

1043
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 2: because of their children.

1044
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: Well, she did go into and later in this thing,

1045
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 1: which I guess we don't have to dive into. Well,

1046
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to actually talk more about his manic episodes

1047
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: that she had to deal with. But in listening to this,

1048
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: it was very relatable to kind of my mom. My

1049
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: mom recently actually told me and apologized to me for

1050
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 1: her selection and who my dad is and said, I'm

1051
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: now you know I'm the oldest.

1052
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: Well also I have.

1053
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: A stepbrother as well, who's a little bit older than me.

1054
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: But my mom recently was just like, I'm sorry that

1055
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: you know, this is who I chose to have kids with,

1056
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,240
Speaker 1: that this is your dad. She's dealing with that responsibility

1057
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 1: because he's not the best dad. He's not someone that's

1058
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: showing up. And I think, I think my dad is

1059
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: probably narcissist. He's not someone dealing with actual like mental

1060
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: Actually it might be bipolar, think about it. And I

1061
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: don't want to diagnose him in that way. But my

1062
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: dad was always like you didn't know who you were

1063
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 1: gonna get, like when, and he didn't live with us

1064
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: very long, but even when we would go and stay

1065
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: with him for like a weekend, a month or something,

1066
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,280
Speaker 1: it would be like he would be the best dad

1067
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: one day and then the next day a completely different person.

1068
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: And so it's just like not knowing who you're gonna

1069
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: get when you enter the house, what you say to them,

1070
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: how they're gonna yeah, like act. And so it's interesting

1071
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: because I also have a sister who's diagnosed multiple personality

1072
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: to disorder, bipolar and something else.

1073
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 3: Older.

1074
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: She's a year and twenty days younger than me, and

1075
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:53,720
Speaker 1: we completely don't have a relationship because I can't I can't.

1076
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:58,800
Speaker 1: I don't have the capacity to take on the abuse,

1077
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: to take on the heverrbal abuse, to take on the

1078
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: mood swings, to take on walking on eggshells. And so

1079
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 1: what's crazy is it's one of those things where when

1080
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: we talk about mental health right now, we lean into

1081
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: having all of this what's the word grace and it's

1082
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: and it's a difficult thing to have with someone that

1083
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 1: you have to hold space for, that you have to

1084
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:23,439
Speaker 1: have empathy for, but that also is neurologically, you know,

1085
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: not there. And so it's it was interesting hearing Kim

1086
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: k talk about just what co parenting is, Like that's

1087
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: something I'm not doing, but I do know these stress

1088
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 1: of trying to figure out how to navigate a relationship

1089
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: with someone who is unwell and someone who chooses to

1090
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:46,800
Speaker 1: not want to take their medication. That becomes just really difficult,

1091
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: really really difficult. Yeah, it was, it was it was

1092
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: interesting for us to have that, Yeah, to have that

1093
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 1: conversation now specifically like as adults, like girl, I've tried,

1094
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: and you know, I've pushed, but that's just not going

1095
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: to be the thing that I do anymore. But yeah,

1096
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 1: and I guess speaking of that That's why I did

1097
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 1: like to attach this conversation to the one with Tammy Roman.

1098
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: So Tammy Roman was recently on the Candy Birth podcast

1099
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: with her daughter, and we have a clip to pull

1100
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 1: up because she has a way in which she navigates

1101
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: her relationship with one daughter differently from the second daughter

1102
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: based on sexuality. Let's hear what she had to say.

1103
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 8: This, I'm graduating right, getting my degree, and she can't

1104
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 8: she can't be there. Can do you get what I'm saying?

1105
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 8: My girlfriend can't beat exactly, there's moments that my people out.

1106
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:46,320
Speaker 1: Let's beat the body.

1107
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 2: We're gonna see about it. Let's watch about it there.

1108
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 8: And I knew not to even tell.

1109
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 2: I told her, but she knew.

1110
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 8: She was like, okay, scrats.

1111
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 2: With your other daughter.

1112
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: Oh she's straight, right her boyfriends in the past, she's

1113
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: never been allowed to bring her boyfriends around.

1114
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:07,439
Speaker 2: She would be, she would be, she would be.

1115
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 1: And why what's the difference? Because thank you, I love it.

1116
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 8: Now we talk and talking from what you did, you

1117
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 8: leaned in.

1118
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. Let's talk fair.

1119
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 7: Because there's something called confirmation bias, and when people think

1120
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 7: like you think, or appear to be how you are

1121
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 7: you're more drawn to those type of people. So my

1122
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 7: daughter is a heterosexual female. Confirmation bias allows me to

1123
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 7: accept whatever situation she's presenting, versus not really understanding this moment,

1124
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 7: and so I got to take a step back and

1125
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 7: figure out how it works for me and how I

1126
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:47,760
Speaker 7: can be comfortable in that moment, because there's something called

1127
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 7: mental health that we have to be concerned about.

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00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:57,720
Speaker 1: Now, this podcast is called selective ignorance, and it's giving

1129
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: it should be called confirmation bias, or are not confirmation biased?

1130
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: Because confirmation bias, let me put it in simple terms,

1131
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,760
Speaker 1: it is a person's tendency to process information by looking

1132
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:13,240
Speaker 1: for or interpreting information that is consistent with their beliefs.

1133
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: So basically what she's saying is I only want people

1134
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: around me that think like me, which is why the

1135
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: Internet was in the uproar, because essentially it is leaning towards.

1136
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 2: Bitch homophobia just a little bit.

1137
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: So, because your daughter wants to have relationships with women

1138
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 1: and you have had relationships with men, your decision is

1139
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: that you're the choice of your daughter's partner cannot be

1140
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 1: around because you don't sleep with women. Now here's the

1141
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: thing that I want to tell y'all, y'all didn't heart

1142
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: me talk about my daddy, my sister. Clearly, blood is

1143
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: not thinker than water to me, y'all need to learn

1144
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: how to just start walking away from your family members,

1145
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: any of the people that is in your life that

1146
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: is not for you. Clearly your mom saying that your

1147
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 1: partner cannot be there for your graduation because you gay.

1148
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

1149
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 4: Why Why is those conversations so public though? Why is

1150
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 4: not something that's happening.

1151
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: First off, because everybody's podcast.

1152
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 4: I ain't gonna lie when when when I when I

1153
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 4: heard talking, I was like, damn me, look up, if

1154
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 4: I could buy Road Shore mic Stocks, they're part privately,

1155
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 4: they're private company, So.

1156
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: Now I'm not gonna lie.

1157
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: Well, to me, what I do love about this is

1158
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: I like this type of conversation happening on a microphone

1159
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 1: because there's probably so many people literally dealing with this.

1160
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: And I do love that Candy and her daughter were

1161
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:39,919
Speaker 1: there to like question them about why this made any sense.

1162
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 2: And Tammy's daughter is almost thirty, Let's be very clear. Yeah,

1163
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 2: she's not graduating from high school.

1164
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 4: I was just eighteen, only getting her in degree, not

1165
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 4: in the house I was gonna say house rules always wins,

1166
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 4: because but no, that's that's different.

1167
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: I think. I think that's the thing. I'm here for

1168
00:58:56,280 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 1: these types of conversations because they to the deeper roots,

1169
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: specifically within our community. Clearly, we know that there are

1170
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: so many people who are able to live in their

1171
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: truth or be with the partners that they truly desire

1172
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 1: to be with because of let's say the church or

1173
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 1: family values, and a lot of times within the Black

1174
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: community specifically, Yeah, they want to lead towards heterosexual traditional

1175
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: values in terms of family and what that looks like.

1176
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: And two women dating and two men dating don't really

1177
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: align with how we view partnership to be. What's crazy

1178
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 1: is I was looking allegedly someone on the internet. Tammy

1179
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 1: has had a fling with a woman before, so it

1180
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 1: was also interesting that she has had her journey through

1181
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 1: her own sexuality and it's.

1182
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:53,479
Speaker 3: Not out Yo, that's clearly she don't count it. Yeah,

1183
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 3: because she ain't mentioned it. I would have mentioned that, like, yo, no, no, I.

1184
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 2: Ain't gonna hold you.

1185
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:58,920
Speaker 1: If I was a daughter, I would have been like somebomy,

1186
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: you ain't up eight nokuchi Now, whether you liked it

1187
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: or not, should not be well. And then that's another

1188
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: thing too. I guess there's certain things you're not supposed to.

1189
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: You know, there's still the ways you should talk to

1190
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 1: your parents as well, you.

1191
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

1192
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: I don't know her leaning into confirmation bias made it

1193
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: seem like she went to therapy and she got to

1194
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: this word and said, oh, yeah, that's see. So it

1195
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: almost as a way to take away from the accountability

1196
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: and how she's really harming her daughter, how she's showing

1197
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: up and to me, which is actual selective ignorance. Bro,

1198
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 1: you literally kind of know how you're showing up and

1199
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: that it's wrong, but you done found this little fancy

1200
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: word to be like, oh, confirmation bias. It just means

1201
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: I want like minded individuals around. And because my other

1202
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: daughter had a resexual and I had a resexual, that

1203
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: mean a homosexual. They got different views. It's so like

1204
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: to me, I think that's the double edged sword on

1205
01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 1: continued education and knowledge is what we do learn different

1206
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 1: words like y'all know over on decision decisions. I'm pride

1207
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:08,919
Speaker 1: in myself and being solo pilot because I haven't learned

1208
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 1: what solo poly being. I said, Oh, that's the word

1209
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: that describes me. But I mean, I don't know. I

1210
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: think that where you're like, oh my god, take the

1211
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:19,720
Speaker 1: fucking microphones away. I love that this conversation is being

1212
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: had publicly, and I hope that in weeks of her

1213
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: probably being dragged on the Internet, that it actually pushes

1214
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: them to happen. She's going to be dragged, human being dragged.

1215
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 2: But she feels like she's in the middle of a

1216
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 2: conversation with herself about it. That's why I don't know

1217
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 2: if she's been like, I know people are taking shots.

1218
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: You no, no, no, no, but I'm saying after that episode dropped, yes,

1219
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: but he being dragged for like filth filth.

1220
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 2: The internet is calling her homophobic.

1221
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: So that's the thing, because you have the Internet right now,

1222
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: especially between the people who care about Tammy Roman, which

1223
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: is us. You have the people calling out her homophobia

1224
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 1: that's probably the more queer leaning audience, and then you

1225
01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: have the conservatives that's like, yeah, you know, yeah, you

1226
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: can't bring same sex couples to Thanksgiving where I live either.

1227
01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 2: I just wonder, like, not that I agree with her stance,

1228
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 2: but it feels like it's thoughtful enough that she's like,

1229
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 2: like it doesn't feel like she's completed her feelings about it,

1230
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 2: and like even like the the first time I listened

1231
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 2: to it, when she mentioned the mental health part, I

1232
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 2: was like, oh, man, she's using all these like defenses

1233
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 2: to like to your point, to avoid accountability. But also

1234
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 2: but when I listen to it again, it also feels

1235
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 2: like she's like in the middle of a journey that

1236
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:29,919
Speaker 2: she's trying to get there with their daughter.

1237
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: But it doesn't It sounds like to me, she's trying

1238
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: to Oh, it sounds like to me she's trying to

1239
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 1: find an explanation where it doesn't have her in the wrong.

1240
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 2: Maybe actually, but it's like a public thing. I imagine

1241
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 2: it's challenging. It's like it's like the idea of like

1242
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 2: an older person being okay with you being in a relationship,

1243
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 2: but coming to Thanksgiving it is too much for them

1244
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 2: because they're and you know, that's more on them than

1245
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 2: than then they're like their daughter or whatever. But it's

1246
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 2: just challenging their beliefs that they've had for so long

1247
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 2: and they're older, you know what I mean, Like it's

1248
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 2: just great.

1249
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't understand parents being okay with their daughters getting

1250
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 1: in and out of toxic, abusive relationships with men and

1251
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: that being okay, but heaven forbid you go date a

1252
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: girl that actually treats you well and you know it's

1253
01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: just it's just weird. Before we get out of here,

1254
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: last thing, last thing, Am I ignorant? This is our

1255
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: segment where we want to bring you guys into the

1256
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: show by sharing how ignorant your mind works and the

1257
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: ignorant things you do. And so this week, how do

1258
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: we want to do this? Jason?

1259
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 2: Is this something you want to read?

1260
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: And I respond just because I feel like y'all hear

1261
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: my voice of goddamn enough. So this week am I ignorant?

1262
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 2: Now?

1263
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 1: This is the question that's posed. I am keeping something

1264
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: that's supposed to be a.

1265
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 2: Gift for myself, all right, So since here, let's.

1266
01:03:58,560 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 1: Get into it.

1267
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 2: In February of last year, I made a scarf for

1268
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 2: my grandmother intended to give it to her at Christmas.

1269
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 2: I wasn't able to do that, as I physically couldn't

1270
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 2: get to the gift to her before Christmas to put

1271
01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 2: it under the tree. However, during a family issue in August,

1272
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 2: my grandmother started spreading false information about me, which came

1273
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 2: into the which became a family issue. At Christmas, she

1274
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 2: greeted everyone who was there except for me. Then last

1275
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 2: month she invited everyone except me to her birthday party.

1276
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 2: This is on top of some other things that happened

1277
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 2: a couple of years ago. The person wraps it up

1278
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 2: by saying, I just don't feel like she deserves me

1279
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 2: or anything I make. I also don't want to put

1280
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 2: up a facade that I still like her and that

1281
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 2: her actions don't have consequences. I put a lot of

1282
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 2: work into this piece that I made for her, and

1283
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 2: it's one of the better things that I've ever made.

1284
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 2: At this point, I'd rather just keep it for myself

1285
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 2: than give it to her. Okay, is this an okay

1286
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 2: thing to do?

1287
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 1: They feel selfish for doing this. I ain't gonna hold

1288
01:04:56,240 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: you if I buy a gift for some or take

1289
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: time to make something for somebody and we fall out

1290
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: that person not getting that gift.

1291
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 2: No more.

1292
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at this. It's it's interesting because I've

1293
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 1: been having the dilemma of gift giving recently. So my

1294
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: birthday just passed thirty one thirty one, Thank you, hold

1295
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: on not not one of my little Booze gifted me.

1296
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 1: Mad shit, mad shit, spent hell of money. I hate everything,

1297
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:34,160
Speaker 1: and so a part of me wanted to regift it,

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Speaker 1: but he bought me shit that it becomes to my house.

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Speaker 1: I told him he has to hate me for buying

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Speaker 1: me these gifts. Now one of them I did, I did,

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Speaker 1: did No, I'm unpacking him in like yay. So he

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Speaker 1: got me. He got me four things, but all combined

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Speaker 1: well over one thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: I would have just took the cash.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like he also just bought things that

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Speaker 1: he likes and he's.

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Speaker 2: Like, well I like it, here you go.

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Speaker 1: So he bought me a slushy maker that was one

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Speaker 1: a ninja slushy maker. My first response was, Nigga, you've

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Speaker 1: known me for eleven years. Have you ever seen me

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Speaker 1: order a goddamn frozen drink?

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Speaker 3: Never?

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Speaker 1: This THINGA bought me an industrial sized slushy maker. The

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Speaker 1: big ship is served seven plus people. Okay, I'm like, nigga,

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Speaker 1: do you think I'm opening a club? Then he bought

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Speaker 1: me a five hundred dollars coffee maker? Like, do you

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01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: think my next career is a barista? I have an

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Speaker 1: espresso already, and I ordered cold brew already made, but

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Speaker 1: now I gotta figure out this goddamn.

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Speaker 2: This show counter.

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Speaker 1: He bought it on goddamn Amazon, so it just all

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Speaker 1: came to the house. I can't return it. Then he

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Speaker 1: bought me a treadmill, and I'm.

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Speaker 4: Like, Bro, you know what's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Naw, It's because I was sick on my birthday. He's like,

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Speaker 1: when I get sick, I go on the treadmill. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you don't have a treadmill in your house. Here's a treadmill.

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Speaker 1: I don't know because it's so heavy. I'm waiting for

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Speaker 1: my other nigga to come over to help me bring

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Speaker 1: it up with the wow because it's too heavy.

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Speaker 2: It's so doubt what what.

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Speaker 3: The other boyfriend noted? The other boyfriend bought it?

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Speaker 1: The other boyfriend about to get a slushie. Okay and listen.

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Speaker 1: And then the fourth thing he bought me, which is nuts.

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Speaker 2: Hold on.

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Speaker 1: I took a picture in it this morning and I said, oh,

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Speaker 1: you really hate me.

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Speaker 3: It's probably the best one.

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Speaker 1: Nigga.

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Speaker 3: He bought me some DJ equipment, A move move.

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Speaker 1: That says cat mom no lie Bro. I said, oh,

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Speaker 1: you hate me. This was in addition to everything I

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Speaker 1: just said.

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Speaker 2: First, that.

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Speaker 4: Is an over oversized bear hoodie. Bro, it's an oversize

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01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 4: hoodie that.

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01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 1: Says cat Mom, it's a hoodie dress.

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Speaker 3: Bro, for trying to domesticate you.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 1: I'm so confused when it comes to gift. When it

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Speaker 1: comes to gift giving and gift receiving, I don't think

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01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: there's a proper I know we talk about like etiquette

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01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 1: with gift giving gift receiving. It's one of the places

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Speaker 1: that I would rather just lean ignorant for the rest

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Speaker 1: of my life because in my mind, I don't care

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Speaker 1: if I seem unappreciative. My response to all these gifts

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Speaker 1: were you really hate me.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: My mom always would say as we got you know,

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Speaker 4: past teenage years, she say, yo, don't buy me no

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Speaker 4: shit that I know.

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Speaker 3: You gotta learn, she said.

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01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 4: She always made it learn me because if you buy

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Speaker 4: her some shit, she gonna maybe not right away, but

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01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 4: at some point you're like, damn, she let me know

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01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:35,400
Speaker 4: that that shit wasn't bruh. I didn't get money money.

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Speaker 1: Four years ago, he bought me a cure Rag drink

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Speaker 1: works machine sall save guy, Save Guy.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: He's a bad gift giver, which is crazy because I'm

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Speaker 1: like Nigga, I want titties. That could have been a

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Speaker 1: down payment for these titties that I want. And so

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Speaker 1: it's crazy because, yes, as you get older, I think

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Speaker 1: the etiquette for gift giving is completely gone. As a kid,

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Speaker 1: bit you better than joy whatever. You don't got a job,

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01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 1: take whatever you get. As an adult, though, I think

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Speaker 1: etiquette for gift giving is gone. I think as an

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01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: adult you can be selfish and keep your gift. You

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01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: can be resourceful and reak gift and you can actually

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01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: tell somebody why the fuck did you give me these gifts?

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Speaker 1: I hate it, and I think it's okay to tell somebody.

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01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,920
Speaker 1: I think I think you start communications.

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Speaker 4: Can you can learn somebody and listen for the clues,

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01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:25,600
Speaker 4: like if you said something like, oh shit, you know

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01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 4: when she says she want to curate, then you buy it.

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01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:31,519
Speaker 3: Otherwise, give cash, give me a gift card, give some We're.

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01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:32,000
Speaker 2: In a recession.

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Speaker 1: If y'all are not knowing what to give somebody as

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01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 1: a gift baby, give them a gift card or money.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: That is what you give gifts. If you are gift

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01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: giving to someone over thirty, kids are not give them

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01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 1: a gift card Baby Sophara, Amazon, Amax v Classics, the

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01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 1: Class six Starbucks, Like get them a gift card, get them,

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01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 1: But filling my house up with all these fucking gadgets,

1396
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: Like I'm fucking inspect your gadget is called the crew

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01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,559
Speaker 1: Nigga upset all these goddamn tools. And then you know

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01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 1: they're complicated when they have QR codes. I have to

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01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,720
Speaker 1: take a class on how to work these machines. I

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01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:14,599
Speaker 1: gotta scan the QR code so that I know how

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01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 1: to fuck to work it. I'm like, this is stressful. Anyways, Love,

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01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: you are not selfish, you are not ignorant, and sometimes

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01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: it's cool to let family members know you just don't

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01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 1: fuck with them no more. That is the moral of

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01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 1: this episode, the moral of this story. Fuck people, get money. Anyways. Guys,

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