Speaker 1: He with U. If you watch Coffee Time to Baby,
Speaker 1: you know the name Flame, my role also known as
Speaker 1: my role Flame. Come in with last and come in
Speaker 1: with then love lounds Baby. You better catch it when
Speaker 1: you can't drop a knowledge from fatherhood to politics, shouting
Speaker 1: now comics just paying homics. What's up? Tip? Yeah you
Speaker 1: know she raped shot towns on speaking to the grown
Speaker 1: a second. We're gonna last cut of the kicking and
Speaker 1: at the end we leave it, which is a lift
Speaker 1: spirit make you want to revisit. So your first like
Speaker 1: a listen you folks like you slip oh folks that
Speaker 1: we dig it good. No do what you do, nokish,
Speaker 1: do what you don't? No kids, do what I do.
Speaker 1: Welcome to laugh and learn. We're a little early because
Speaker 1: we have something to do, but we're glad that you
Speaker 1: guys are here to join us. So come on the end,
Speaker 1: Come on the end, come out in the room, and
Speaker 1: we have a special guest today. We do have a
Speaker 1: very special guest. Turn the camera. Look, child, my dog
Speaker 1: is here today. That's the lady Sky Sky Sky, Say hi,
Speaker 1: say hi to everybody. Sky. We also have Timmy in
Speaker 1: the room. But Timmy's in the room, but Timmy civilized,
Speaker 1: unlike my doughter. No Timmy just being territorial. Timmy feels like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're gonna add her in the room, but I can't
Speaker 1: have my punk hands up in here. Yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: having y'all. See. I was gonna put my head on.
Speaker 1: I got my blouse from Story at Beauty, thank you, Marjorie,
Speaker 1: and I was gonna put my head on, but it
Speaker 1: don't go with my it won't fit over the headphones.
Speaker 1: So I got my mama from Janet from Good Times
Speaker 1: Janet Jackson. Mama, I got that has stytle on right now.
Speaker 1: You know the one who burned Penny burned it with
Speaker 1: that and did not tell you little girls, not supposed Mama,
Speaker 1: Please please don't, mama. I got more information from that
Speaker 1: than we did from uh the documentary. Though. Okay, we're
Speaker 1: gonna get there, but we don't have to start. We
Speaker 1: don't have to start there, So let's do weekend recaps.
Speaker 1: That was your weekend. My weekend was pretty good. I
Speaker 1: got your car, she's cute. Lauren drove. Lauren drove Maxine.
Speaker 1: Now technically she didn't draft, she just turned it around
Speaker 1: and park. I had to go park here. But she
Speaker 1: did like you very cute, f y. Lauren is real
Speaker 1: high end and boogee fancy. So if she said it
Speaker 1: was cute, you believe her, honey, because you know she real.
Speaker 1: You know what, don't be telling people my business her
Speaker 1: Mercedes at cheap rang. I ain't like her, y'all. Mr
Speaker 1: Ruber call, don't even try it. That's the elitist of
Speaker 1: the elite jeep. Well well yeah, but yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: don't try to minimize it. Uh, it's hybrid. That was
Speaker 1: the attraction. It was hybrid. I ain't got no damn gas.
Speaker 1: Hey guys to the half of us, Hey everyone, hello,
Speaker 1: flame man's. We're gonna depend on you all today to
Speaker 1: come on the end to work with these topics with us. Lauren,
Speaker 1: how was your weekend? My weekend was actually really chill.
Speaker 1: I had to work on Saturday, a little bit pretty.
Speaker 1: I need to feel I'm getting one on Friday. It
Speaker 1: looks crazy, Um, I gotta keep the nail kill. Look
Speaker 1: at pretty Lauren's hands, a see, let me tell you
Speaker 1: what you get old. Let me look Miss Jenny was
Speaker 1: all painted their face. Jenny Jackson put her hand up
Speaker 1: on that special bitch. I thought it was a witch's
Speaker 1: hand I did. I didn't see, but they didn't count money,
Speaker 1: so you would notice things like that training train. No,
Speaker 1: my weekend was good. Um, I really didn't do anything.
Speaker 1: I worked a little bit on Saturday and then I
Speaker 1: went out to lunch with my coworkers afterwards. Y'all, yesterday
Speaker 1: I did grocery shop and I got my car washed,
Speaker 1: I washed my hair, I did some laundry, I cooked
Speaker 1: dinner woman stuff. I was very domesticated, very man. When
Speaker 1: she gets married so I can meet Mr uh whatever
Speaker 1: his name is. Yeah, whatever his name is, come mister Hogan.
Speaker 1: Because y'all don't know how aggressive this, let me just
Speaker 1: say it. Thank you, Joseph T. We got great, and
Speaker 1: I want to thank all my flame mats and all
Speaker 1: the followers who really did go in and watch and
Speaker 1: listen to my heart our episode from Laugh and Learned
Speaker 1: last week with the lady herself, Angela Stanton King, I
Speaker 1: thought that we came to a common ground and I
Speaker 1: was so glad that Lauren was here to be to
Speaker 1: mediate and ask questions that I wouldn't haven't even thought of,
Speaker 1: and it just was. It was a smooth conversation. Do
Speaker 1: you think you agree Lauren. I think it was. But
Speaker 1: I think the main take away that I got is that,
Speaker 1: you know, she's in a different headspace. I think if
Speaker 1: she was in the same space when she did Dr Phil,
Speaker 1: it could have gone real left, real quick. She might
Speaker 1: have reached through the internet and slapped because she wanted
Speaker 1: to left that other one. Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It wasn't It wasn't anything crazy. She was really engaged.
Speaker 1: Just seems like, you know, she's really had conversations with
Speaker 1: Jay and which is great. So I'm happy for them
Speaker 1: to see, you know, how they continue to grow and
Speaker 1: you know, men their relationship and I'm looking forward to
Speaker 1: interviewing with her on the nineteen. It's February, So what
Speaker 1: you guys need to know is that next month, which
Speaker 1: is February, which is tomorrow, is actually so we're going
Speaker 1: to do a Black History Moment every Monday, and if
Speaker 1: we like it, we'll do it. We'll continue. Black History
Speaker 1: ain't got to be one month. My Black History is
Speaker 1: every daymn day, just like my pride is every day,
Speaker 1: not just in June. I'm proud right now. I might
Speaker 1: not be proud of this hair, but I'm proud right, Well,
Speaker 1: I think too, And black history doesn't just have to
Speaker 1: be history. It could be what's going on today, which
Speaker 1: is going to end up being history. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Because that's kind of the uncontroversial black histery
Speaker 1: moment I got today. But where do you want to start? Oh?
Speaker 1: I want to start right here because I was cooking
Speaker 1: chicken for y'all this morning and watching the news and
Speaker 1: thank you Kendall. Has y'all say hello? To avoid Kendall?
Speaker 1: I can't rememan Ken Kendall was here. Hey, Kendall, let
Speaker 1: me tell you what I want to start with because
Speaker 1: I was cooking chicken and trying to rush to get here.
Speaker 1: Y'all see, ain't got no makeup on. I do get
Speaker 1: on a little live gloss though, is that Joe the
Speaker 1: ex president? Let me see it? Like Sonny Houston says
Speaker 1: one term twice impeach president. Ex President Donald J. Trump
Speaker 1: said that if he is put back in the White House,
Speaker 1: he would pardon all. The insurrection is one insurrection, ain't y'all?
Speaker 1: Ain't that the argument now? That there was no insurrection? Right?
Speaker 1: It was a White House tour exactly. So who are
Speaker 1: you gonna pardon or not? A White House. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it was a tour of the I'm just making sure
Speaker 1: y'all paying attention to what was said and what he
Speaker 1: said and what I'm saying. There was no insurrection according
Speaker 1: to the media and the gops that the trumplikins. But
Speaker 1: now he's saying that he's going to pardon all the
Speaker 1: people who showed up at the insuraction. It's interesting because,
Speaker 1: you know, but the story changes every week. Are we
Speaker 1: really surprised the story changes every week? Can we please
Speaker 1: put a charge on him so that he would not
Speaker 1: be allowed to run for president of the United States? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know how that's gonna work, uh, because I'm
Speaker 1: getting a little nervous because by the way things are going,
Speaker 1: Joe and getting reelected, and that slides into my black
Speaker 1: history moment. It may be a little unconventional, but I
Speaker 1: want to talk about the amaud are Very case and
Speaker 1: how the d J and the Biden administration gave both
Speaker 1: of these fools plea deals regarding their charges, and because
Speaker 1: of that, they now have the opportunity to go live
Speaker 1: out their life sentences in a federal prison instead of
Speaker 1: being in the state prison in Georgia, which is not
Speaker 1: a retreatment camp, because that's what happens in federal prison.
Speaker 1: You get a little more luxury rather than being thank you,
Speaker 1: rather than being in a state prison. And the family
Speaker 1: is upset about it. They should be because state prisons
Speaker 1: are terrible. I've been in state prison before. I know
Speaker 1: exactly what they do. They would have got we would
Speaker 1: have gotten justice one way or another in the state prison.
Speaker 1: And let me just say that, in the federal prison,
Speaker 1: it's like damn what they call it camp fit fit
Speaker 1: X or what they call that. Well, if you even
Speaker 1: look at the movie like Good Fellas, the difference, some
Speaker 1: of them wanted to go to jail to get away
Speaker 1: from their wives because it was like a little getaway.
Speaker 1: I know it's a movie, but there's some truth in
Speaker 1: every storyline. Um well, somebody said that's why they pleady guilty.
Speaker 1: Simply said, that's why they pleady guilty because they knew
Speaker 1: they were going to come back with that. Whatever the
Speaker 1: case may be, their freedom is still taken away. They
Speaker 1: still are incarcerated. I would like to have seen them
Speaker 1: in a state prison, especially in Georgia, because they would
Speaker 1: have gotten the business. And I'll say this too, it
Speaker 1: hasn't all been confirmed that this is going to happen,
Speaker 1: but supposedly the deal was signed and this is supposed
Speaker 1: to happen, So I'm looking ahead. I'm just saying, if
Speaker 1: you signed the damn deal, the next step is only inevitable.
Speaker 1: So the country we live and the decisions we make
Speaker 1: at the ballot boxes. Meanwhile, they are still moving and
Speaker 1: shaking the voting rights. We ain't gonna stay on politicis.
Speaker 1: I told you I want to be on positives. I
Speaker 1: want to talk about who pregnant right now because I
Speaker 1: think I'm Are we going in the hot topics officially? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I want you to do I want you to do
Speaker 1: it like when you don't want you to run into
Speaker 1: the thing. Speaking of Wendy, did y'all see me on
Speaker 1: Wenday Wednesday? I was on Wenday? I know how did
Speaker 1: you like it? Oh? My god? I hate that it
Speaker 1: was you know zoom, But it was such a good
Speaker 1: energy with Sherry Shepherd. Thank you Sherry Shepherd for inviting
Speaker 1: me on. And we thought we were doing hot topics.
Speaker 1: We actually ended up being interviewed and invited back, and
Speaker 1: Sherry supposed to be well, I don't know they got
Speaker 1: some coming guest They got a couple of guest hosts
Speaker 1: coming up for the first couple of weeks of February.
Speaker 1: But then Sherry will be back. Okay, no, no, I'm
Speaker 1: saying it's going to be a guest on our show.
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, for the month of February, Sherry Shepherd will
Speaker 1: be here. We're gonna also have the businessman Raheem Shabaz
Speaker 1: who um works in the adult entertainment industry, as well
Speaker 1: as the lady herself, our very own flame at the
Speaker 1: recording artist Teresa Griffin will be one of our guests.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna bring guests into banter, hot topic, talk shit,
Speaker 1: and just have a good time. I feel like we
Speaker 1: were more prepared this season. We got guests just lined up.
Speaker 1: Say that again, who got guests? We did? Okay, So
Speaker 1: one more time, did did y'all hear that producer? We did? Okay?
Speaker 1: I know this has been recorded, so here here that's
Speaker 1: your job. Player. But anyway, though, so we are going
Speaker 1: into season two. As you all know, we launched last week,
Speaker 1: but we've got a new structure, so we're gonna have
Speaker 1: our Black History moment, which we kind of just talked
Speaker 1: about a little bit. We're gonna do some hot topics,
Speaker 1: which is kind of like the select drama piece that
Speaker 1: we kind of like, right, and then we'll always kind
Speaker 1: of have to add a little bit of politics and
Speaker 1: at the end, but we will say this, y'all gotta
Speaker 1: stay on task with what we're doing. So we move
Speaker 1: on for a subject flame Mats. Y'all love to go
Speaker 1: back and make comments about something we moved on from,
Speaker 1: don't do that because you're gonna ruin the structure of
Speaker 1: the show. Actually, just put up a bunch of planes
Speaker 1: if you want to comment on, and we'll bring you
Speaker 1: in and have your comment while we're talking about it,
Speaker 1: because you know this has about about a forty second delay,
Speaker 1: right right, But just don't backtrack once we move on,
Speaker 1: because we gotta keep up with what we're doing. Hey,
Speaker 1: Marjorie is sorry our beauty look I got on, I
Speaker 1: got on my shirt and she's very she's very blinking
Speaker 1: today and I have on my my head that you
Speaker 1: sent me. And I also want to give a huge
Speaker 1: shout out before we go any further to my current city,
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, Rams for whooping that ass yesterday. Baby. We're
Speaker 1: going to the Super bowl, we are. I want to
Speaker 1: see what Mary gonna wear at that. I'm more excited
Speaker 1: to see what snow bring and what Mary is going
Speaker 1: to wear. So I'm gonna have to record it because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on a plane. She's always traveling. You
Speaker 1: gonna be on a plane, so she can quit her
Speaker 1: other job and she could just work with me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I said it all right. When that happens, say less,
Speaker 1: pay more, Say let's pay more. But anyway, so are
Speaker 1: we sliding into hot topics because I know you're intuing
Speaker 1: to be messy today, Go Rams, go Rams. I just
Speaker 1: want to say that again, go Rams. Tom Brady, I
Speaker 1: told you old as to retire last year when you
Speaker 1: was on top after them after they left the air
Speaker 1: of the balls and I need somebody come let the
Speaker 1: air on my balls. Let me just say that. But
Speaker 1: after the Air of the balls, you should have knew
Speaker 1: you were skating thing. And I said that, But tom
Speaker 1: Brady got plenty of money. What was so impressive about
Speaker 1: tom Brady? It's tom Brady was picked like way down
Speaker 1: the list when he did get drafted as as he
Speaker 1: was way down the list, like I want to say,
Speaker 1: like a hundred I don't know what his drafting ago,
Speaker 1: but that's just going to show you that when when
Speaker 1: it's in you though, when the fire is in you,
Speaker 1: it don't matter what number you get picked. As long
Speaker 1: as you get picked, then you have to prove yourself.
Speaker 1: Tom Brady has proven himself continuously for sure. I mean
Speaker 1: he's quite a talent. You know, he was an incredible quarterback.
Speaker 1: But just watching him in this last game, it looked
Speaker 1: like his arm was about to break. His age was
Speaker 1: starting to show. So yeah, I'm glad that he's finally retiring.
Speaker 1: He looked a little It wasn't even my dog this time.
Speaker 1: We got We got the dogs in the house, so
Speaker 1: it might be a little crazy. I'm sorry Timmy knocking
Speaker 1: over license ship um, but no, So I mean, actually
Speaker 1: I'm happy for him. I think it's time for him
Speaker 1: to hang up the cleats and just enjoy retirement. Lady
Speaker 1: Steelers said he was one night in that I knew
Speaker 1: he was waiting. That was way down. I didn't see.
Speaker 1: I was young. I was really young. I think when uh,
Speaker 1: Tom Brady was drafted and I got a I'm not
Speaker 1: a football fan either, I'm really a basketball and Lakers fan.
Speaker 1: I've been going to games since Lakers were playing at
Speaker 1: the Forum. So good guy. He've been playing football since Jesus.
Speaker 1: Part of the reason was this part of the rear
Speaker 1: c good guy. No, So I'm happy for him. I
Speaker 1: hope he enjoys retirement with his beautiful wife and kids.
Speaker 1: You know, despite him being a Trump sep order and
Speaker 1: all of his political views, he's done a lot for
Speaker 1: you know, his teammates. I will say, you know, I've
Speaker 1: never heard any of his teammates say anything bad about him.
Speaker 1: You know, he's taking dips in his salary so that
Speaker 1: that when there was more money to spend, you know,
Speaker 1: with other people on the roster. So he's he seems
Speaker 1: to be a good dude despite his political views. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with us in politics and life. Good God, they always say,
Speaker 1: don't bring up politics and religion at the dinner. It
Speaker 1: just turned it and make the meal just not be good.
Speaker 1: Thank you for letting us know that. She said that
Speaker 1: Tom Brady's mom purchases cakes from Claire's from miss claims
Speaker 1: Claire's crunch cakes, Claire's crunch cakes are amazing, and sam
Speaker 1: Mateo there from sam Mateo. Yeah, uh so are we
Speaker 1: going in the hot topics. I don't asked you about
Speaker 1: three dam times through the hot topics where we started that.
Speaker 1: Are we gonna start with the Jana documentary? I know,
Speaker 1: let's talk about the pregnancy. First of all. I used
Speaker 1: to say pregnancy is the disease, but I gotta stop
Speaker 1: saying that because I want to have kids one day.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's bad. Karmen and I think he
Speaker 1: started having babies for really, You're gonna have like a
Speaker 1: bunch of right back to back, like, oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: think it's gonna get good to you. And that's it.
Speaker 1: I just want to so I'm putting in the universe.
Speaker 1: But you know why you got three though, because you
Speaker 1: the pullout. The pullout wasn't strong. My pullout game is fired.
Speaker 1: I just I didn't want to pull out. I wanted
Speaker 1: to push in. It was we were making up. Look
Speaker 1: at all these excuses. But anyway, Rihanna is officially pregnant
Speaker 1: and I am very happy for her. I'm so happy
Speaker 1: for her. And then she looks beautiful pregnant and she's
Speaker 1: pregnant A step rocky. But let me tell you something
Speaker 1: about Brihanna, because Rihanna got a big as heat and
Speaker 1: so does sproblem baby going. The baby gonna have a
Speaker 1: big gass heat. I feel like I can't talk about
Speaker 1: people's unborn children because I don't have kids yet, and
Speaker 1: I don't want my kids coming out looking up. Came
Speaker 1: out baby baba, But that baby gonna be balling. Because
Speaker 1: miss Rihanna is a billionaire. I don't know much about
Speaker 1: a Sep Rocky, but whatever he got, she wanted it,
Speaker 1: you know. I just I'm excited to see all the
Speaker 1: fashion looks during her pregnancy. That's what I'm most excited about.
Speaker 1: Could you imagine what the baby gonna look like when
Speaker 1: she get all that that's very long and very high end,
Speaker 1: because you know how to put my kids in the threshop. Okay,
Speaker 1: you wined this week, but she's gonna win it next
Speaker 1: week because my kids were seven months apart so they
Speaker 1: could share. No, I think I'm excited for the looks
Speaker 1: while she's pregnant. I'm excited to see what the baby's
Speaker 1: gonna look like. And then even like Nicki Minaj, like
Speaker 1: you know, sent her a very beautiful message and was
Speaker 1: just like you've basically conquered everything. Motherhood is just one thing.
Speaker 1: It's just a beautiful gift that she's excited for her to,
Speaker 1: you know, have the opportunity to motherhood would be her
Speaker 1: greatest joy. And then she'll come out with a new
Speaker 1: album because she will be a mama. We've ben all
Speaker 1: been waiting on the new album when she had to
Speaker 1: have something to inspire her. I wonder what she's gonna
Speaker 1: name the baby, because you know somebody celebrities, Well, what
Speaker 1: what's the name? Named her baby? Apple? And then bananas
Speaker 1: and Blue Ivys and Red foest is cute though, Blue Ivy,
Speaker 1: that Blue Ivy the name is you Miss Blue Ivy
Speaker 1: didn't got you. She's really cute. She looks like she
Speaker 1: looks like her mama. She looks just like her mama.
Speaker 1: Because she came out. J put it on her, but
Speaker 1: it moved away because now she looked just like her mama.
Speaker 1: So she's gonna beautiful and she I wonder what that
Speaker 1: feels like to be born wealthy? And I told you
Speaker 1: the story the first I was the first time Beyonce's
Speaker 1: mom did the World of Art Gallant in downtown l A.
Speaker 1: I went and it was quite a sight to see
Speaker 1: Blue Ivy try to outbid Tyler Perry on a painting oh,
Speaker 1: I saw that on a clip on the videos there
Speaker 1: and to see that in real time and she was
Speaker 1: just like no, I'm gonna keep bidding like I got money.
Speaker 1: And she was like nine at the time. Damn must
Speaker 1: be nice. At one point, her dad, jay Z, was like,
Speaker 1: put the damn paddle down. Stop guy, Can you just
Speaker 1: call me back and let me go through Beyonce so
Speaker 1: I can be jay Z's daughter's on a training or something.
Speaker 1: Sh I don't care. You just want to be a
Speaker 1: part of the family. And I'm very happy for me
Speaker 1: and Nick Cannon. They's got another baby on the way
Speaker 1: and in her fiance Jessica do park right there. Let's
Speaker 1: go back to Nick before we get to the brat
Speaker 1: because the Brad ain't not nobody up. I don't know
Speaker 1: how it happened, but she ain't do it. That's still
Speaker 1: their kids. They still their kids. But let me just
Speaker 1: be honest. You want to talk about the Semen first, Well,
Speaker 1: it took some steament, it took some seeming to get
Speaker 1: the breast. My frignt. It just wasn't the Brad Semen.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it. We're gonna do it. I could
Speaker 1: be the woman all day but trust and believe. Ain't
Speaker 1: no baby's popping through me. They're coming through me, but
Speaker 1: they're not gonna pop out of me. Well, Nick, I
Speaker 1: don't know what number of kids. This is seven because
Speaker 1: he lost remember that and that was seven, So I
Speaker 1: think this will be seven again. Nick, you think they
Speaker 1: had me come and work with you and work for you?
Speaker 1: My tubes tad show. I don't. That's a lot of
Speaker 1: kids and it's a new baby mama. That's the parts
Speaker 1: killing me because what baby mama? Is this three or four?
Speaker 1: It's like six? Yes? Six? He so he's got the
Speaker 1: twins Mariah, he got the other twins with the Abbey girl. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know all their names. I think this is
Speaker 1: like I think this is five. But all the baby
Speaker 1: mamas are pretty. Let me just say that at least
Speaker 1: that all his best interest and Nick. If that picture
Speaker 1: that Nick had put up a cuple about a month ago,
Speaker 1: it's the real deal. Nick had a penitentiary piece of steel.
Speaker 1: So no, hey, listen, it's it's a lot of kids.
Speaker 1: And did you see I'm just saying, oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's hard to turn it down, ladies, when it's in
Speaker 1: the room like that. I mean it might look like this, Dad,
Speaker 1: when you wake it up and it's like this, you
Speaker 1: must speak into the microphone clearly play no, I mean
Speaker 1: And did you see Mariah Carey's interview with Entertainment tonight.
Speaker 1: Kevin Fraser asked her, you know, like, oh, for the holidays,
Speaker 1: are you gonna let the kids, you know, the step
Speaker 1: kids kind of get together? And Marid Carrey said, don't
Speaker 1: you have to like be married in order for them
Speaker 1: to be considered step So I don't you know her
Speaker 1: shady self? I loved last well, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I want to call that shady Loren because honestly, yes,
Speaker 1: very honest because because me and you have a children
Speaker 1: together and we have a good relationship with our kids,
Speaker 1: that don't mean that I want to bring your children
Speaker 1: from somebody else around my children, because everybody don't raise
Speaker 1: their kids the same, and you don't want me to
Speaker 1: chest has your kids because if your kids come over
Speaker 1: here saying abies wa by my kids or about my
Speaker 1: mama with your mama? Is this what could you imagine
Speaker 1: that in the house your daddy comes to because they
Speaker 1: mostly happen with daddy's and mostly have with dad or
Speaker 1: your daddy comes to get you this week. But now
Speaker 1: it's a whole bunch of different baby mamas. Which mama
Speaker 1: you belong to, Which mama you belong to? I just
Speaker 1: I know what I do. Come in Nick Canada about
Speaker 1: the fact is that he is responsible for his children.
Speaker 1: He takes care of his children. Because a lot of
Speaker 1: guys running right here. I got twenty four kids, couldn't
Speaker 1: name of them, all don't know their birthdays and don't
Speaker 1: do nothing for him. Niken is a full long man
Speaker 1: that he takes responsibility for his children. But that's a
Speaker 1: lot of work to That's a lot of birthdays to remember.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of birthdays to remember, and that's a
Speaker 1: lot of baby mama drama flying and because I feel
Speaker 1: like they all to live in the same city, but
Speaker 1: they don't. Yeah, that's a lot. That's a lot of work,
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. It's a lot of work. He
Speaker 1: got nickma running Nickelodeon for a long He got the financially,
Speaker 1: he got it. I don't know if he got the time,
Speaker 1: but he got time to knock them out because Nick
Speaker 1: is laying him down. Nick is fertile, Okay, So then
Speaker 1: the bratt and Jessica do part. First of all, let
Speaker 1: me tell you I'm in love with the brat Tad
Speaker 1: Tent she shot down with stor just like me. She's
Speaker 1: one of the greatest female rappers to me. Ever, wo,
Speaker 1: I didn't know you felt that. Well, oh, I love her.
Speaker 1: I think that the Brat was a beast. She just
Speaker 1: was so damned ghetto that she forgot to take don't
Speaker 1: take the streets into the boardroom. She kept taking the
Speaker 1: streets into the ballroom with hitting people in the head
Speaker 1: with guns, and she crazy. But when she when she's masculine,
Speaker 1: she's turns me on. But when she girl up, she's
Speaker 1: absolutely beautiful. She is beautiful when they do a makeup
Speaker 1: and pair and make a feminine good God, she is beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she is gorgeous for sure. So to them, you know,
Speaker 1: it's pregnancy is in the air and love. Well, don't
Speaker 1: don't say that. Sp Well, you're right, because my soldiers
Speaker 1: still marches. Well, pregnancy is in the air over there. Well,
Speaker 1: it's over there. My tubes just tad and hoods ain't
Speaker 1: ready to come on loose. So we're very correct about that. Child.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna live selfishly in my twenties, circle back when
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, it's a crucial time and and I wonder
Speaker 1: what it was, what it's like to have a baby
Speaker 1: in the midst of we are still in a damn pandemic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we really are. You know, you're getting a hospital and
Speaker 1: you you don't know what the nurse got and how
Speaker 1: they when they come and take your baby away. Don't
Speaker 1: take my baby away. Put it right here on this titty.
Speaker 1: Well that's what my mom just. She didn't let them
Speaker 1: take me out the room. That explains a lot, because
Speaker 1: this thing is amazing. He didn't let me. She did
Speaker 1: not let them people take me out the room. I
Speaker 1: stayed in there, so, you know. But on a you know,
Speaker 1: an unfortunate note, we do want to, you know, extend
Speaker 1: our condolences to the former Miss USA. They commit suicide.
Speaker 1: Let me look it up and give her get your
Speaker 1: name correct, I don't say it wrong. And the story, God,
Speaker 1: I hate to be a conspiracy theorist, but here's my thing,
Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna say this publicly, ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker 1: She was beautiful, thirty years old. And depression is everywhere
Speaker 1: right now because of the pandemic and people can't get
Speaker 1: to where they want to be, or bills or what
Speaker 1: have you, whatever the case may be. But am I
Speaker 1: supposed to share? Jazz pointed this out to me this morning.
Speaker 1: We were talking about it, and she was like flame.
Speaker 1: She was so beautiful, you know, do you think that
Speaker 1: she was pushed? She said, so much easier just to
Speaker 1: take appeal and just and she said, well she jumped
Speaker 1: out this number window was it was she on the
Speaker 1: nineteen four or something? Um? So her name was Chelsea
Speaker 1: Chris Chris, um, no, Chris Chris. Yes, she was thirty
Speaker 1: years old. Um. And it's supposedly it was the twenty
Speaker 1: nine floor terrorists the twenty ninth floor. And so mind
Speaker 1: you if she was an had any vanity, and of
Speaker 1: course she had to have. You know, she loved her beauty.
Speaker 1: She was a beauty queen. She did pageants and stuff.
Speaker 1: So don't think that, oh, I just did a beauty
Speaker 1: paget because I wanted. They do beauty pagets because they
Speaker 1: feel beautiful. She felt beautiful. It just seems a little
Speaker 1: sketchy to me that she would want to die like that,
Speaker 1: because then her face could be mess up. Because you
Speaker 1: don't know how you're gonna land in oh. I say,
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying that her bandy would have
Speaker 1: been like, let me just take some peels in that
Speaker 1: pretty I don't know though. The depression is real and
Speaker 1: its honestly, and I mean, I have to say too
Speaker 1: on a personal note, I really appreciate everybody that's been
Speaker 1: sending me, you know, condolences and prayers and well wishes
Speaker 1: and everything, but I you're all flames of water on herself.
Speaker 1: She's fine. Um, I've experienced some emotion ends in the
Speaker 1: last four months that I never thought I would. I
Speaker 1: would have to, you know what I mean. So you
Speaker 1: know I had to start going in therapy, so I
Speaker 1: have I have a therapist now, So how you like
Speaker 1: she's a black female. All of all of my therapists, doctors, O, B, G,
Speaker 1: Y N. Anybody that is health related to me is
Speaker 1: a black female. Period. I don't play about that. But
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, even from a personal experience, going from
Speaker 1: being fine and in control of my emotions to going
Speaker 1: to not knowing how I'm going to feel the next day,
Speaker 1: you you just never know. And if I'm feeling, if
Speaker 1: I have my days where I feel the way that
Speaker 1: I feel. And then there's somebody who's really suffering from depression.
Speaker 1: I don't know what that's like, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know where that could possibly take you. And
Speaker 1: we don't know if she was in therapy, We don't
Speaker 1: know she what she was suffering from, you know. So
Speaker 1: I think everybody's mental health is just in different stages
Speaker 1: that can just kind of push you over the edge.
Speaker 1: I agree with that, But can I be very honest
Speaker 1: and transparent with you right now? Of course, when when
Speaker 1: miss Marsha, my girl, your mom passed, I thought I
Speaker 1: was going to lose you, not die, no, but just
Speaker 1: going to just you know, flame, I can't do this.
Speaker 1: I need to go and do whatever I need to do.
Speaker 1: But then I thought about because I always talked about
Speaker 1: your mom, how the strength of who she was and
Speaker 1: how she raised you, and I thought about it. I said, Oh,
Speaker 1: she prepared Lauren for life, not death for life, which
Speaker 1: means that you know that death is a part of life.
Speaker 1: So your mom has set you up. So then I
Speaker 1: thought about that. I was like, yeah, she just needs
Speaker 1: some heal and time. She's gonna be all right. Look,
Speaker 1: I said to myself, that bit is strongest here. She
Speaker 1: always cussing me out, But we appreciate you. I don't
Speaker 1: want to lose you. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's like we don't we just don't know the circumstances
Speaker 1: of things. And as as much as I felt like
Speaker 1: my mom prepared me for everything that I wanted to do,
Speaker 1: I feel like there's I'm always kind of like second
Speaker 1: guessing myself. Now, Yeah, you know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: she was my my sounding board. I talked to my
Speaker 1: mom every day, several times a day today. Well, I
Speaker 1: mean she she visits me my dreams and everything, and
Speaker 1: I still feel like I get to communicate with her,
Speaker 1: But it's not the same thing. There's there's no there's
Speaker 1: not a day that goes by where something doesn't happen
Speaker 1: where I don't want to pick up the phone and
Speaker 1: call her, and I can't, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So saying all that to say, I know what I'm
Speaker 1: going through emotionally right now. I don't know what Chelsea
Speaker 1: Chris was going through to make her want to jumpy stories,
Speaker 1: you know, to her death. So mental health is real,
Speaker 1: and I really hope that if you have opportunity to,
Speaker 1: you know, get into therapy or to talk to someone.
Speaker 1: I really hope that we do because and like you
Speaker 1: even said, you're tired of being in a pandemic. And
Speaker 1: it's not because you know of the money or whatever.
Speaker 1: It is, like you're fine, but you're just tired of
Speaker 1: not being able to do what you want to do,
Speaker 1: you know. So there's there's always a little there's little
Speaker 1: things that can just kind of add up to take you,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, to a space that you
Speaker 1: never thought you would be mentally. Yeah, it's I'm learning.
Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that. But I told the Flamemaths
Speaker 1: when we were on you were going, I was like,
Speaker 1: I hope I don't lose my lorden, because you know
Speaker 1: that everybody. Death is different for everyone. And uh, this
Speaker 1: is so funked up, y'all, but I'm gonna say it anyway.
Speaker 1: This is laughing learning ship. So somebody Dad or one
Speaker 1: of the queens that we knew in Chicago, Dad, this week,
Speaker 1: May she rest in peace, kish Leroy. And they kept saying, oh,
Speaker 1: she's in a better place. She's in a better place,
Speaker 1: my iggor that's what I say. How you know you've
Speaker 1: been there, your vacation there because that's the one way trip.
Speaker 1: You can't come back. So how do you know what
Speaker 1: she was? Is it green grasses and blue waters? What
Speaker 1: is it? Oh? I'm not just saying that's what the
Speaker 1: preacher said. The preacher ain't been to the better place.
Speaker 1: When they go to the better place, they can't come
Speaker 1: back for the better place. Stop telling people, Oh, they
Speaker 1: ain't a better place. You ain't been there. You don't know,
Speaker 1: you don't know what hell here. And I said it jokingly,
Speaker 1: but I was with some love lounge lovely, so I
Speaker 1: ain't don't telling what I would have said it, But
Speaker 1: it was funny ship. It's okay. You were with the lord.
Speaker 1: Y'all had a special connection that was trying to bring
Speaker 1: some humor to us. A dark situation and death and
Speaker 1: death do we want to say always that's a dark situation.
Speaker 1: You don't want to see people suffering, go through the drama.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you'd be like, oh my god, I just don't
Speaker 1: want to see nobody in pain. I already told my kids.
Speaker 1: If I'm an incapacity to cut the cord, pull the plug,
Speaker 1: or flip the switch, I don't care what you do.
Speaker 1: I want nobody wiping my ass. It smells terrible. First
Speaker 1: of all, let me just tell you that. But Flint,
Speaker 1: you bathe today though, right, or you're clean today. I'm
Speaker 1: clean today. That she can put me on the spot. No,
Speaker 1: I it is the world is. You have to find
Speaker 1: solace in peace with you and find where your joy is.
Speaker 1: And it is not in somebody else. Yeah, it is not.
Speaker 1: And you keep looking forward and somebody else you ain't
Speaker 1: gonna never find it. That's very true. You have to
Speaker 1: find happiness within yourself before you can expect anything better within.
Speaker 1: I would feel like in you're surroundings, you have to
Speaker 1: find happiness with yourself first. I wholeheardly agree for sure. Girl,
Speaker 1: What were you going? Who else pregnant? Somebody else is pregnant?
Speaker 1: Oh that's all I heard about. Okay, no more pregnancies.
Speaker 1: Let me talk about Janet now, I get so lone less.
Speaker 1: What did I First of all, I thought the documentary
Speaker 1: was nice, but it didn't tell me nothing that I
Speaker 1: did not know. But my issue. Yeah, but my issue
Speaker 1: with because I'm a Janet fan, I like me some Janet.
Speaker 1: My issue with Janet and the Jackson playing before y'all
Speaker 1: attacked me. I still love my Jane now I'm just
Speaker 1: pointing out the obvious. Now, do y'all want us to
Speaker 1: hate Joe or love Joe? Because when Joe was alive,
Speaker 1: Joe was y'all painted Joe to be the biggest abusive
Speaker 1: nightmare monster. But remember remember now, y'all pointed out that
Speaker 1: y'all lived in a six hundred and seventy one square
Speaker 1: foot house, two bear rooms, with eleven people. Do you
Speaker 1: know how small six hundred and seventy one square feed is?
Speaker 1: Eleven he had eleven mouths to feed him, including himself
Speaker 1: and Catherine, and they had nine kids in a two
Speaker 1: bed room, and all the boys slept in one bear
Speaker 1: room and a girl sleep in the other room, and
Speaker 1: none of them kids, and none of them kids in jail.
Speaker 1: They're all famous. So I love the fact that y'all
Speaker 1: are making Joe to be this martyr now. And he's wonderful.
Speaker 1: He was great. But had Joe not been that Joe,
Speaker 1: that disciplinarian, or that person back there, y'all wouldn't be
Speaker 1: these Jackson so and I have no issue with that.
Speaker 1: I love that they're acknowledging that dead now, but I
Speaker 1: wouldn't He liked a little acknowledgment not to make it
Speaker 1: so ugly because when I was younger, when we heard
Speaker 1: those so I was really young, so I was very
Speaker 1: impressive on what I heard on the news, impressed back.
Speaker 1: So I hated Joe Jackson. I hated Joe Jackson because
Speaker 1: of what y'all put out. But now what y'all put out,
Speaker 1: I'm like, Damn, Joe was a Janius. I'm a little different.
Speaker 1: And I think it's because no, no, no, I'm saying
Speaker 1: I I don't take it as they ever put out,
Speaker 1: you know, the notion that you know, everybody should hate Joe.
Speaker 1: And I think maybe because I grew up in the
Speaker 1: creative space, like with Debbie Allen for instance. I've told
Speaker 1: you the first time I was ever embarrassed, I was
Speaker 1: seven years old and she made me cry and embarrassed
Speaker 1: me in front of room of two people. I would
Speaker 1: have yoked up. She mean, but that's just that's how
Speaker 1: I think old school creatives were. And I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't want to sound you know, rude when I say that,
Speaker 1: but I think that was just that era, is what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. You know what I mean. It
Speaker 1: was the disciplinarians. You know, you got hit, you know,
Speaker 1: you got checked and it was just a different type
Speaker 1: of upbringing. So I think that they told the honest truth,
Speaker 1: but through media and perception of people that were watching
Speaker 1: were like, oh my god, this was abusive. And I
Speaker 1: think now in retrospect, now now that they all have
Speaker 1: kids and they've looked back on their careers and see
Speaker 1: how fortunate they were, they're kind of given their father
Speaker 1: their flowers. But I think at that point in time
Speaker 1: they were probably like, I hate this man because everything
Speaker 1: has to be his way. He's so controlling and I
Speaker 1: have no freedom to do what I want to do.
Speaker 1: But now they're like, they're all fifty plus years old
Speaker 1: and they're like, he we wouldn't have the lives that
Speaker 1: we would have had now if it wasn't for him.
Speaker 1: I think it's an evolution of the relationship. I agree with.
Speaker 1: They didn't put out that they wanted to hate him,
Speaker 1: but we loved Michael and Janet and the Jackson five
Speaker 1: so much. They were people and they were protecting exactly,
Speaker 1: so we didn't want anybody hurt them. So that's but
Speaker 1: and like you said, so the media put it out
Speaker 1: like that, but they didn't fix it. They didn't say, well,
Speaker 1: he's no, he's wonderful. They was. They never said he
Speaker 1: was wonderful. They just said he was a creative genius.
Speaker 1: Where y'all y'all doing it. Don't really look good for
Speaker 1: set any one. Mr Reby said, I got one hit.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna live off the rest of your money on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm falling like us. They used to be. Mind, I
Speaker 1: used to get naked. You don't want to see me.
Speaker 1: I look like in some centipede hands all over. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's just what it is overall, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. They've got reflections that they're doing now.
Speaker 1: And they loved their father. They just hated some of
Speaker 1: his methods, which with any kid who agrees with everything
Speaker 1: that their parents do, I don't know one. Now I'm
Speaker 1: living that ship. Yeah, you're right. So so you tell
Speaker 1: me about the end? So what were you telling about
Speaker 1: the end of it? Because I didn't see that. I
Speaker 1: didn't watch the last so, oh you didn't watch Parson
Speaker 1: watch all of I watched it, but I was with
Speaker 1: Gods Part two. First of all, we found out Jermaine
Speaker 1: dupri cheated on Janet, which blew me. I was like
Speaker 1: Jermaine Duprie little self, you cheated on Janet Jackson. Really,
Speaker 1: First of all, Jermaine probably got the woo woo woo
Speaker 1: woo woo because from the mother, husbands and boyfriend she had,
Speaker 1: Jermaine was the most manly of all that group. Let
Speaker 1: me just say what I got to say. Jermaine was
Speaker 1: the thug zilla with it so well, she said, Jermaine
Speaker 1: was was great. He was the only one that really
Speaker 1: wasn't on drugs. He wasn't doing drugs. He had a
Speaker 1: good head on his shoulder, He was up and coming.
Speaker 1: He had some good heat. Oh are you good head?
Speaker 1: Not something head on his shoulders. There wasn't any of
Speaker 1: the other problems that she had in her previous marriages
Speaker 1: to like Renee and James was a motherfucker and Renee
Speaker 1: was another creative genius. She was saying. They had a
Speaker 1: spark of you know, they ignited a lot of creativity
Speaker 1: within each other. But Jermaine was this too, and he said,
Speaker 1: you know, Dad and Janet got me more women, and
Speaker 1: I just didn't know how to act. It's basically what happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Because you know that somebody wants you to somebody else
Speaker 1: got you. The earliest person in the world. But if
Speaker 1: they see you with somebody, what what he got? Why
Speaker 1: she with him? When he and they were like, well,
Speaker 1: what's the hype about? So let me go find out.
Speaker 1: And you know what, what is my adage love lounge?
Speaker 1: I'll tell you all the time. A smart man with
Speaker 1: a hard one and a dumbass man with a hard
Speaker 1: same target. If you don't believe me, Jermaine did preacheated
Speaker 1: on Janet, Bill Gates cheat on his wife and he
Speaker 1: got more money than God. Okay, I say what I
Speaker 1: see Jeff Bezos one Annie and things still doing overall
Speaker 1: the I love the documentary. Um, I would love to,
Speaker 1: you know, work with Jannet Jackson one day too. I
Speaker 1: got a picture with Janet. Oh well, I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: to post it one day back find um. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I think the documentary was phenomenal and I think she
Speaker 1: finally got to tell her story the way that she
Speaker 1: wanted to, which I think was great. You know, there
Speaker 1: was a lot of insight to a lot of the
Speaker 1: pain and the hurt that she had throughout the years
Speaker 1: and just kind of why how she navigated it and
Speaker 1: why she did some of the things that she did. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, she asked people to forgive Justin timber Lake
Speaker 1: for the whole Super Bowl situation. She said, you know,
Speaker 1: it wasn't his fault. It was a mistake and they're
Speaker 1: good friends to this day. And then you can show
Speaker 1: titties all day and anybody gonna say that the hype
Speaker 1: of this country is correct. I'll tell y'all what. Y'all
Speaker 1: better registered to vote, because I'm telling you I'm about
Speaker 1: to make not even two two two, and I already
Speaker 1: started off with the shebang bang, she snatching up left
Speaker 1: and right. I'm just hoping it's a two. I don't
Speaker 1: want to make that list. They're taking it by Oh
Speaker 1: you know who I want to hear from, Come on
Speaker 1: with Oh, we don't have any hold on I g
Speaker 1: updated so we can do this a lot easier. Now.
Speaker 1: I want to hear what t t Jan thinks about
Speaker 1: the Jena Jackson, the real t t Jan Hyjet Hello, Hello, Hello, Sorry,
Speaker 1: I had to pick up my dog. I was like,
Speaker 1: where did Lauren go? Child? Skuy is in here? Wine
Speaker 1: and that she's not up here. The little boogiself. She's
Speaker 1: sitting on my lap. Now you'll see you'll see it
Speaker 1: in the video anyway, Hi, t G. Jen. How are
Speaker 1: you all this way? Talk to us, Jen? Tell us
Speaker 1: something good? Yeah? What did you think about the Jane
Speaker 1: jack Stock? I thought the documentary was wonderful. I thought
Speaker 1: it was nice to hear her life in her own words. Um.
Speaker 1: And it wasn't like it was supposed to convince everybody
Speaker 1: because when um, she said that she told um justin
Speaker 1: not to make a statement after the Super Bowl, you
Speaker 1: could see her brother rolling his eyes. Was wrong, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, because that is his you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? And they had to deal with the page.
Speaker 1: So I just thought it was good. Um. And you
Speaker 1: know what, Jermaine had to strike when the urns were hot,
Speaker 1: but maybe he didn't because he had he was with Aaliyah,
Speaker 1: you know, so that was a poor excuse, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean to you know, all these women want
Speaker 1: to give themselves to you, because if he's been nothing else,
Speaker 1: he's been a true business person. You're talking about Jermaine Jackson. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about Jamaine. Okay, when he was like, well,
Speaker 1: you know what, so many women were offering themselves to
Speaker 1: me because I was jet But he had been with Aaliyah.
Speaker 1: You ain't know janet'n't read that an't she was a
Speaker 1: beautiful woman. It's not based on talent. She was hot.
Speaker 1: Everybody was with Aliga because of the visual she gave.
Speaker 1: So what no, you know, he was being offered up
Speaker 1: what he had been offered up in the past, and
Speaker 1: he probably told Aaliyah a lot of things about enhancing
Speaker 1: Z but the fact still remains. You know, he was
Speaker 1: just being amazing. And there it is. There, it is, Jane,
Speaker 1: And I'm saying, I'm telling you something. It's hard to
Speaker 1: it's hard to resist. And this is the man to me.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you be in love and you and you think
Speaker 1: about what I want to mess up with my wife Jama.
Speaker 1: But you be in a precarious situation. You'll be out
Speaker 1: of town, you'll be on the broad, you know, and
Speaker 1: it's there and you're feeling some kind of way and
Speaker 1: the phone sex or the FaceTime sex just don't cut
Speaker 1: the muster you. I need to feel something now, Hi, Jesse, Hi, Jesse. Hello,
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I was on. Apparently you can't
Speaker 1: send a request and I pay attention now, Jesse, come on,
Speaker 1: we never know we're gonna bring you in very unprofessionally
Speaker 1: very very unprofessional. I thought we were just going to
Speaker 1: do the T T jan moment for a while. So
Speaker 1: we want a handsome man and a beautiful woman, is it? Okay? Look,
Speaker 1: it's a handsome man and a beautiful woman at the top,
Speaker 1: so we want to hand them everywhere, you know, just what?
Speaker 1: Oh do? Come on, I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: But what did you think of the Janet Jackson A documentary?
Speaker 1: I loved it, as I have to thank they for
Speaker 1: allowing me to watch the entire thing because, uh, we
Speaker 1: watched you know, there were four separate episodes, right, it
Speaker 1: was they combined two episodes into one, so there was
Speaker 1: there was two segments basically, yeah, okay, all right, So
Speaker 1: so we watched the first one together and then by
Speaker 1: the second one, Bay was doing other things. But afterwards
Speaker 1: he had plenty to say because we had a discussion
Speaker 1: about it, and it was really interesting to hear her
Speaker 1: perspective on it. I'm I'm with flame, and I'm I'm
Speaker 1: with the general consensus of it's a good thing that
Speaker 1: she did it. People were asking, why is she doing
Speaker 1: it now? Who cares? Yeah, because she wanted to. She
Speaker 1: was ready to tell her stories and another thing that
Speaker 1: I thought was interesting, And we need to remember this
Speaker 1: when you do the right thing, or when you haven't
Speaker 1: done wrong, and you just keep to yourself and you
Speaker 1: don't crap on other people. Because super Bold is asking
Speaker 1: her again, I did see that. Yeah, super Bowl? Why? Why? What?
Speaker 1: What do I have to why? Yeah, it's like, what
Speaker 1: does she have to gain from that? And I agree, honestly,
Speaker 1: once you do the super Bowl, it's like, been there,
Speaker 1: done that. She got incredible backlash for it. Why would
Speaker 1: I come back? Right? Who wants to do all that
Speaker 1: preparation for three minutes or two minutes? And Jane's show
Speaker 1: is nothing small, you know, it's it's a lot of
Speaker 1: work to go into it. And you know, between the
Speaker 1: FCC coming after her and her having the pain fines,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put myself in that position again. And the
Speaker 1: only thing that's changed is society. Well yeah, well what
Speaker 1: she did was was probably gonna, you know, be breaking
Speaker 1: news in a positive light today considering you know, we
Speaker 1: got people like Megan the Stallion and Cardi b humping
Speaker 1: each other on the stage with the it's the irony, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all reprimanded Janet Jackson for a mistake of Sewan one
Speaker 1: of her breast on TV. But you rewarded Kim kardesh
Speaker 1: And and made her fucking damn the a billionaire. No,
Speaker 1: she is a billionaire billionaire. Her sex tape was wet
Speaker 1: because I watched that table and I couldn't get hard
Speaker 1: off of it at all. Let me just be honest, baby,
Speaker 1: it was dryss toast. I'm sorry. I'm telling you, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you who turned me on even more. And
Speaker 1: this just sounds up. Well, I ain't gonna say that
Speaker 1: you didn't open the door. Now you might as well
Speaker 1: say it, cause cause the little girl on the r.
Speaker 1: Kelly sex tape was she knew she had Maybe maybe
Speaker 1: we should. She was never at talking about the under age.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the other girl. Just say, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: maybe we should, baby. And that was like having to
Speaker 1: blow up down it was it was she might be rich,
Speaker 1: but that was dead cat to me. I don't like
Speaker 1: the cat. I need scaring it, dog child to jumped up, nervous.
Speaker 1: Let me let me just bring it all around like
Speaker 1: the same thing is still happening. The same thing is
Speaker 1: still happening for the same reasons. It's just more covert.
Speaker 1: It's like the racism that happens in northern California. It's
Speaker 1: so covert, it's not in your face like so um,
Speaker 1: Instagram is putting people of color in jail. Yeah, they're Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're putting white folks in jail because they're more white
Speaker 1: folks on here than people of color. But isn't it
Speaker 1: interesting how you can see so many examples of melanin
Speaker 1: challenged people doing the same thing or more than we're
Speaker 1: put in jail for. Yeah, that's definitely the history of
Speaker 1: this country. And I love that you said that, considering
Speaker 1: black history starts tomorrow. Jesse, so very on point for sure.
Speaker 1: Thank you. You better keep her. And you know, I
Speaker 1: get the tails every time you mentioned yes, so when
Speaker 1: I was with Debbie allen me out, I know you
Speaker 1: don't mean that. I don't know, because she is like
Speaker 1: and she is an icon. She is she is, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I honestly I forget that sometimes, you know, so
Speaker 1: because I talked to her on a regular basis. Oh
Speaker 1: who made a part of you? Yeah, she's She's definitely
Speaker 1: a key reason to why I am the way that
Speaker 1: I am. My mom wholeheartedly, but she's taught me an
Speaker 1: incredible amount that I will forever be indebted to her for.
Speaker 1: So let me let me just say from your h
Speaker 1: I also want to say that even as as the
Speaker 1: LGBT community is concerned, like even those online, um, those
Speaker 1: online will call them dating apps like Grinder and yeah,
Speaker 1: so they have things that you are and aren't supposed
Speaker 1: be able to do right, but for some reason they
Speaker 1: seem to call the people of color on them. And
Speaker 1: I can say back in my single days, I would
Speaker 1: not have nudes ever, but I did have uh, low
Speaker 1: rise jeans with no underwear on. You were showing the
Speaker 1: v cut, you were showing off that. Yeah, but that
Speaker 1: was too much because of my skin tone. Really yes,
Speaker 1: like they would say we can't approve this this photo.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, and but you'd see white folks
Speaker 1: with with that all the time. And more well, here's
Speaker 1: the lick, Jesse. If we think it's bad, now, let
Speaker 1: them put that food back in office. And when I
Speaker 1: tell you that the nightmare of this country. I'm wherever
Speaker 1: Janity is in London, move over here for because I'm
Speaker 1: moving to the next flat because I can't take it
Speaker 1: going to Europe time on my way, I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: I can't take it. The racism is unbelievable. And then
Speaker 1: for him to make such a bold statement, not that
Speaker 1: he has not made bold statements before, and say that
Speaker 1: if he wins, he was going to pardon all the insurrections.
Speaker 1: That is to me, that is just saying let's do more.
Speaker 1: Let's do more, cause it's also guaranteed that he's going
Speaker 1: to get back in if he gets nominated. He is
Speaker 1: saying he's going to do more because he's saying if
Speaker 1: they go on with this investigation and bring charges against him,
Speaker 1: that there's going to even be greater insurrection. He said
Speaker 1: that I would be so surprised if he gets reelected.
Speaker 1: Would they not me? Because I think that the Republican
Speaker 1: Party is not Excuse me, I'm choking, don't sorry for anyway. Anyway, Um,
Speaker 1: I would be really surprised if the Republican Party rallies
Speaker 1: around Trump like they did before. I would see them
Speaker 1: doing that for like Rhonda Santis. That's why I'm more
Speaker 1: so expecting not Trump, because he's young, he's charismatic, he
Speaker 1: actually knows the law, and he can manipulate, you know,
Speaker 1: the government. I feel like more in a charismatic way
Speaker 1: rather than Trump could. It wouldn't be so blatantly in
Speaker 1: your face, you know what I mean, so exactly. That's
Speaker 1: why I think he's more of a loaded gun than
Speaker 1: Trump could ever be just as dangerous as over you yeahous,
Speaker 1: because honestly, that's the one thing about Trump that I
Speaker 1: did appreciate is he brought out all of the closet
Speaker 1: a racist. Like when I walked down the street, I
Speaker 1: knew when I was encountering a racist, you know, versus
Speaker 1: what was happening before. It was very behind closed doors.
Speaker 1: I was even working in Atlanta, and you know, I
Speaker 1: had a co worker who I thought was great. She
Speaker 1: always talked about how she loved black people. And one
Speaker 1: day she goes, oh, yeah, I voted for Trump. And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, oh, so that was happening a lot,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Now, it was very I'm
Speaker 1: a racist, what you're gonna do about it? And and
Speaker 1: I've lived in California and I went to I went
Speaker 1: to college in northern California, and it is extremely racist.
Speaker 1: The extremely like and I'm talking like Northern California is
Speaker 1: extremely racist, but southern California, it's really built into the system.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say if you go to Orange County
Speaker 1: out here, you got your go to Newport Beach, go
Speaker 1: to Huntington's Beach, you don't do that. But but I
Speaker 1: took my white girlfriend with me. See, every black person
Speaker 1: needs one white friend for for face validation only because
Speaker 1: hear me. And I know this sounds fucked up to
Speaker 1: say in two but even when we rented this house,
Speaker 1: I brought the same white girl with me because when
Speaker 1: white folks, you can say what y'all want you about me.
Speaker 1: When white folks here a person of color with a
Speaker 1: white freend for something about that, let's down whatever it
Speaker 1: is that they have to say. Oh you must be okay,
Speaker 1: you got a white freend. I know that sounds racist
Speaker 1: and fund up, but if you're if you ain't gonna
Speaker 1: use your right privilege, I'm going to take advantage of it.
Speaker 1: And I here's the thing. We all get it, whether
Speaker 1: you want to admit it or not. Even as black folks.
Speaker 1: We get it because we've been trained to think the
Speaker 1: same way. That's why it doesn't matter if it's a
Speaker 1: black coup or white cup or Ansian cup. The cup
Speaker 1: is going to if you see a black person running
Speaker 1: down the street, as opposed to a white person running
Speaker 1: down the street both fully closed in jeans and a
Speaker 1: T shirt. One you might think is running to something
Speaker 1: and one you think is running away from something something,
Speaker 1: And that is the true. And that's because of the
Speaker 1: way that we've been suddenly trained in this country. And
Speaker 1: black folks are just as guilty as that. That's what
Speaker 1: we said. Yeah, black folks are just as guilty. And
Speaker 1: in fact, I see it more more prevalent with black
Speaker 1: folks now because when you walk in the store and
Speaker 1: you started taking out your credentials to buy or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like Flame was and brought her vehicle
Speaker 1: when they knew she was bankable, then they was ready
Speaker 1: to kiss her. But you know what I mean, it's
Speaker 1: so like, you know, but black folks, I think, you know, well,
Speaker 1: I gotta have a couple of white people here, you know, uh,
Speaker 1: because then they started crossing over, they started treating them.
Speaker 1: You know. The I'm saying, I'm saying, I'm saying that
Speaker 1: blame you. You may have been saying, you know, you
Speaker 1: may not agree with me, but I did blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. Know everyone, whether they agree with you, is
Speaker 1: not the case they understand that because we as black
Speaker 1: folks judge other black folks in general differently than we
Speaker 1: judge white folks. I would agree with that. I would
Speaker 1: agree with that, but on the flip side, and I
Speaker 1: have no problem saying this publicly though when I'm out,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think that I do this. I
Speaker 1: don't think. I'm more concerned when I see, you know,
Speaker 1: somebody looks like me that may be up to no good.
Speaker 1: I'm so nervous, regardless of who it is. If you
Speaker 1: look sketchy to me, you sketchy, you know. But the
Speaker 1: one thing that I do do that I don't know
Speaker 1: if I really should say this publicly, but I'm going
Speaker 1: to anyway, is when it comes to homeless people. Though
Speaker 1: I only give money to black people that are homeless.
Speaker 1: Is that rude? I know? I don't know if that's funny.
Speaker 1: I never thought about that. I realized that. I lized
Speaker 1: that one day and I was like, oh, when I
Speaker 1: see somebody that maybe white on the side, I'm like, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's so sad. But like when I see, you know,
Speaker 1: somebody that is black, I'm like, oh, do I have
Speaker 1: any money in my wallet? Do you smell the racism
Speaker 1: from no is that racist? I didn't realize I did
Speaker 1: it subconsciously. So one day I was like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to say that it's racist, but subconsciously it's
Speaker 1: like I'm helping us because nobody else helps us. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I have a little antecdote. This was my first time
Speaker 1: being in New York. It was I can't remember what
Speaker 1: year it was. It was the early nineties. I was
Speaker 1: here with my girlfriend and uh, we had had a fight.
Speaker 1: She was she was staying here because she was a
Speaker 1: muddel she. I had left the house in the middle
Speaker 1: of the night and I went to and I was
Speaker 1: on a subway station. There was this homeless woman who
Speaker 1: used to sing amazingly old woman, and I started singing
Speaker 1: with her. At the end, a bunch of people gave
Speaker 1: a lot of money, and I was flawed at the
Speaker 1: fact that this homeless woman who I had seen on
Speaker 1: the subways before, handed me money and told me, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's cold outside. Don't go into the train station at
Speaker 1: this stop because the police are over here. Go to
Speaker 1: such and such a train stuff. You can get into
Speaker 1: that one M see we look out for you know,
Speaker 1: you know, yes, it's plenty enough white people pays some
Speaker 1: bad black people just because we wear our hair natural now,
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't worry about that, Lauren, You know what
Speaker 1: I mean, if so many other things that we have
Speaker 1: to catch because you're still helping somebody. True, yeah, I
Speaker 1: always want to help the less fortunate. I just never
Speaker 1: realized I did it until day. It happened back to
Speaker 1: back and I said, oh, I didn't know I did that.
Speaker 1: But my sister asked me yesterday, she said, do you
Speaker 1: still pay ties in offering? I said, absolutely not. I said,
Speaker 1: I give money to homeless people all the time. If
Speaker 1: that ain't my tigs in office, and I don't know
Speaker 1: what he is. And I give money to everybody. If
Speaker 1: you look real bad or whatever, especially if you polite,
Speaker 1: I give you out. Baby, I get five teens or
Speaker 1: twenty dollar b or sometimes you don't get that twenty
Speaker 1: that office. So don't get exciting. Ship you gave me.
Speaker 1: You gave me a little something something. Are you saying
Speaker 1: I look bad? Wait a minute, we're not going to
Speaker 1: talk about that on laugh. But there was money that
Speaker 1: went money that I gave you. Play I want to
Speaker 1: shut out. Listen, Lauren bought me a Christmas gift to
Speaker 1: Christmases ago and that just brought it to her today.
Speaker 1: I'm opening it for y'all. What is it called? U? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a it's a massage you know. Flames. Kids be
Speaker 1: stressing her out, So I brought her this like nice
Speaker 1: massage gun. Two years of go. It's been sitting in
Speaker 1: my house and today I finally remembered to bring it.
Speaker 1: And you got different little heads and it got a
Speaker 1: big old head on it. Look like it's got a
Speaker 1: big old head thinking that he Now, where am I
Speaker 1: supposed to put this? Where do you put this? Don't
Speaker 1: ask me? But yeah, she's got a whole bunch of Look,
Speaker 1: she's got different types of heads that she can put
Speaker 1: on it, depending on depending on what areas she needs
Speaker 1: to attack. Nick cannon, paging cannon. It's great. I have one.
Speaker 1: I got my dad one for Christmas. If you if
Speaker 1: you don't know about massage guns, y'all get one. It
Speaker 1: helps the relaction. Everything else was easy. Wore my ass
Speaker 1: out yesterday, God that I needed yesterday. But thank you
Speaker 1: video to thank you God, because we was arguing on laugh.
Speaker 1: I ain't even know we was on laugh. Her crazy
Speaker 1: shoe flame company didn't even say good morning. She was like,
Speaker 1: please take down that video. I was like, what happened?
Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you, um uh ship,
Speaker 1: what's your name? Jane? And thank you Jesse for joining
Speaker 1: us being part of the conversation. I like. I like
Speaker 1: the new conversation that we are having with season two
Speaker 1: of laughing. I'm over just the I told you the
Speaker 1: politics was killing me. It was draining, it was sucking
Speaker 1: the life out of me. Yeah. I think this is
Speaker 1: more fun though. It's like it's a little bit of both. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a priest flowing conversation and nobody is trying to
Speaker 1: fix the world. It's just flowing. I like it. I
Speaker 1: come here for you too. I don't know. Oh, I'm
Speaker 1: only ready to end the lab because I got this
Speaker 1: Gunhead did something funny, So I'm just reading Laura has
Speaker 1: Laura has a meeting, so we have to end the lab.
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