1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota and this is Carly, your favorite 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: Okay Storytime host, and we've got some great stories coming up. 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: But before that, we have a quick two minute break 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 2: from the sponsors to keep the show alive. 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 3: My friend got caught as an Instagram mistress. Now she 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 3: wants me to help her. 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 4: Ooh, someone's being naughty. 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 3: My friend, Joanne twenty three female and I have been 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 3: friends since we were at university together. We both settled 10 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 3: where we attended university afterwards, and both got jobs in 11 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 3: the area. We have friends in the area from university, work, neighbors, 12 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 3: and so on. We're not best friends, but we have 13 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 3: been fairly close by the way. This comes from friend, 14 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 3: and if you want to submend your own stories, go 15 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 3: to the r slash Okay Storytime subreddit. I'm Savannah and 16 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: I'm Vincent, and we I hear to give some good 17 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 3: advice Goofley, but we do not have all of the 18 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 3: answers you freaking seek. We're only going to tell you 19 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 3: what we would do in this situation. But I would love, love, 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: love to hear what you would do in this situation. Truly, 21 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 3: As Opie says, Joanne actually got me my job she 22 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 3: had already been hired when she noticed another position that 23 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 3: suited me was available, so she told me and put 24 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 3: in a good word for me, and I got the job. 25 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 3: I'm very grateful for that and always will be. Last week, 26 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 3: Joanne was fired. I wasn't around at the time and 27 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 3: heard about it afterwards. There were many rumors floating around, 28 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 3: but the one most people seem to be sticking to 29 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 3: was that she had been running an Instagram mistress page. 30 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 3: Not good, honey. Honestly, I didn't believe it at first, 31 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 3: but when we spoke about it, she admitted it, and 32 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 3: I was pretty shocked. I could understand if she was 33 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 3: struggling financially and doing this, but we make a decent 34 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 3: salary for our age in our field. I had noticed 35 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 3: she had been able to get fancier things than me, 36 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 3: but I thought that was because I was just better 37 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 3: at saving money than her. I asked her why, and 38 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 3: she said the job wasn't pain enough, and she loved 39 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 3: the control she had over the men that sent her 40 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 3: money whenever she wanted. But she pointed out she had 41 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: never done anything in person, though I'm honestly not sure 42 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 3: whether to. 43 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 5: Believe that or not. 44 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 3: How our friends found out about this, and some didn't 45 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 3: really care, some were harsh, and some as just have 46 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: just stopped talking to her. I'm not going to do that, 47 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 3: because even though I don't necessarily agree with her choices, 48 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 3: she's still my friend. However, the problem this has caused 49 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 3: is that Joanne wants me to help convince our friends 50 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 3: that it isn't a big deal and to help her 51 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 3: get her job back, conveniently bringing up how she helped 52 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: me get my job. 53 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 4: Ooh oooh, she's pulling on the old ice. Scratch your back, 54 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 4: you scratch mine. Well, there's some quid pro quote. 55 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 3: Now I'm stuck. The friends who have decided to cut 56 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 3: her off. I see that as their choice to make 57 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 3: since they saw this as a deal breaker for their friendship, 58 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 3: and that's not something I want to interfere in since 59 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 3: they're grown adults, and I don't want to go to 60 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 3: them and try to tell them who to be friends with. 61 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 3: That's true, I wouldn't want to do that either. Also, 62 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 3: even though she did help me get the job, I 63 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 3: don't want to jeopardize my own career over something she 64 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 3: has done. But at the same time, she has made 65 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 3: me feel guilty by bringing up the job and other 66 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 3: ways she has helped me in the past. I'm pretty conflicted, really, 67 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 3: and there's an edit. I really want to know what 68 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 3: this page entails and why she would get fired from 69 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 3: her job for doing something else side of her job. 70 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 4: You know, yeah, well, I mean, like you can get 71 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 4: fired for your job for doing things outside of the job. 72 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 4: That's pretty common. If you're a jerk in the real world, 73 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 4: they can fire you. 74 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 5: Oh PI. 75 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 4: You shouldn't feel like you have to do anything because 76 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 4: of guilt. This person made their own choices and they 77 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 4: kind of have to live with it. Don't let them 78 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 4: guilt you into co signing, because that's another thing, like 79 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 4: if you are cool with them doing this stuff and 80 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 4: like potentially I don't know, like the ramifications, like if 81 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: she's like just like talk to guys like broken up 82 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 4: families that if you're cool with that, that means you're 83 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 4: co signing it. Don't feel like you need to do 84 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 4: anything for this person. They helped you, yes, in the past, 85 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 4: but don't let that guilt be the thing that holds 86 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 4: you to them. 87 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: An Instagram mistress is normally a financial dominax I call 88 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 3: it who uses Instagram to offer her services oh, there's 89 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: a second edit here. 90 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 4: Okay. 91 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 3: She was fired because she was uploading explicit photos and 92 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 3: videos to the Instagram page, and some of them were 93 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 3: apparently taken while she was at work. 94 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 4: Oh okay, so it's so spicy variety. 95 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, there are some relevant comments. When Toad 96 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 3: it sounds like her friend is a sugar baby. She 97 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 3: is not a sugar baby. An Instagram mistress is someone 98 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 3: who is a financial dominatrix over Instagram. She humiliates guys 99 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 3: and controls their finances from what I understand, and they 100 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: have to do as she says or she punishes thing. 101 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 3: I haven't personally seen the page, but there are numerous 102 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: adult photos and videos on it. It has to do 103 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: with her job because it looks bad for the business 104 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 3: that someone connected with it is basically doing adult content, 105 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 3: especially since she has to meet potential clients a lot. 106 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 3: I don't necessarily agree with the decision to fire her 107 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 3: over it, but I can see where the bosses are 108 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 3: coming from. Also, there were videos and photos that were 109 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 3: clearly taken at work, which is all secondhand information, but 110 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 3: she didn't deny it when I brought it up. One 111 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 3: through zero says she should have lost her job because 112 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: you just should know that you don't do that at work. 113 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 3: As for friends, I don't see what the big deal is. 114 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 3: The way I feel is we're all parties, consenting adults, 115 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 3: and it's not my business how you make your money. 116 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: Opie responds, Wilst I agree with the consenting adults part, 117 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: one of my friends, when I said this to her, 118 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 3: told me so two people who are cheating, but the 119 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 3: husband or wife isn't so. 120 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 4: Here it is it's like two people who are cheating. 121 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 4: They're are having a relation with each other who are 122 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 4: consenting adults, but the person who is being cheated on 123 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 4: is not a consenting adult. That is what they're saying. 124 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 6: That's great, there's an updates. 125 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 3: I would just like to say thank you to the 126 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 3: people who actually gave advice and didn't just criticize one 127 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 3: of the parties involved or get on my back about it. 128 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 3: I'm from England and this has developed overnight after a 129 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 3: night out. First, I would just like to clarify something 130 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 3: in my original post. I said that I felt she 131 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 3: deserved what happened to her, and people got on my 132 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 3: back about it. I didn't explain it properly, but my 133 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 3: thoughts were that she had a job she has wanted 134 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,679 Speaker 3: since she was a teenager and called it her dream job, 135 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 3: one that she could advance up in the latter and 136 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 3: for years to come, since she was lucky enough to 137 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 3: get it straight out of universe. I think she brought 138 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 3: it on herself because she should have known that if 139 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 3: she got caught, she was gone, especially since she had 140 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: her own face on the page that was My other 141 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 3: question is like, did it show her face or did 142 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: it not? But if you showed your face and you know, 143 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 3: kind of screwed did. 144 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 4: To yourself, that's real ramifications man consequences. Once you put 145 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 4: your face out there with all of that stuff, it's 146 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 4: out there forever. The internet never forgets. 147 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't really think she deserves to lose all 148 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: her friends, but they have completely different deal breakers to me, 149 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 3: so I can understand their stance. I wouldn't just be like, 150 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 3: I'm not friends with you anymore. My friend. Literally when 151 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 3: I visited her, she was like, I kind of want 152 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 3: to start a foot finders get extra cash. I'm like, 153 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 3: freaking do it? Why not? 154 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 4: I mean that one's a little bit safer because it's faceless. 155 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 3: Right, Just me toes, I went out to a bar 156 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: with some friends and had spoken to Joanne earlier and 157 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 3: she seemed upset, So I felt like I would get 158 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: to the bottom of why there was such hostility towards her. 159 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 3: The main reasons given by the group were as follows. 160 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 3: Joanne had a very good job that she had wanted 161 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 3: for years, and she had thrown it away for either personal fantasies, greed, 162 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 3: or both. They said this wasn't really a big deal 163 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 3: on its own, but it was a factor. They wouldn't 164 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 3: care if she was just a dominate trix. Says they 165 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 3: had done similar things in the past with their boyfriends, 166 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 3: not as paid dominatrixes. 167 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 6: The issue was that. 168 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 3: Her Instagram page was encouraging people to bankrupt themselves for her, 169 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 3: and was encouraging married men to make her their priority 170 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 3: over their wives and children. Based on how she titled 171 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 3: her photos and videos. Yeah, that's a pretty sticky situation 172 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: to get into. They also said they wouldn't speak to 173 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 3: her if she was pursuing a relationship with a married person, 174 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 3: and while they could understand if she didn't know someone 175 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 3: was married, actively seeking out married men as her primary 176 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 3: clients was something they found disgusting. Even if she was 177 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 3: just playing a role. 178 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree with that. 179 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's true because if she was like a mistress, 180 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 3: then she is going after already married men. So yeah, 181 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 3: I agree with A cat's name is Karen. That's called 182 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: a home wrecker. 183 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that has real world consequences with innocent bystanders 184 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 4: called chi Yeah. 185 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 3: I thought this was just like a thing for like 186 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 3: single people, but yet you can never know. I'm like, 187 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 3: i'd be like, dude, you're like actively putting yourself in 188 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 3: this situation though, So I don't feel bad for you. 189 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, I admittedly don't know much about financial domination, 190 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 3: but apparently they had made up their minds and there's 191 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 3: nothing I can do about that. Their minds, their lives. 192 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 4: You're being upfront with your friend, and the decision was like, hey, 193 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 4: I don't feel bad for you, but like I'm not 194 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 4: going to stand up because you kind of did something 195 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:34,599 Speaker 4: that's potentially very crappy. Yeah, Like, if it's anything like gambling, 196 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 4: I'm trying to equate it in my brain to something 197 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 4: else that I know what, like how it affects people. 198 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 4: I think if it's like gambling, where it's like this 199 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 4: can put these people in financial ruin, and if this 200 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 4: puts a family in financial ruin, that's not good. But also, yeah, ope, 201 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 4: you're fine. Just I don't know, have distance that you need. 202 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 4: Don't do anything because you feel bad for them. 203 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: I don't really feel bad for her because she's doing 204 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: it to herself. Like it's one thing to like do 205 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 3: it to people who are into that who are single, 206 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 3: but then it's another thing to do it too. And 207 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 3: obviously she wouldn't know. She's just doing it for the money. 208 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 3: So like that, I understand, Like, it's not like you're 209 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 3: asking your clients, so are you married? I mean maybe 210 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 3: she is. I'm not sure. 211 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 4: Could you ever know in the internet age unless you 212 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 4: know the person personally, could you ever know? 213 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 7: That's true? 214 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, So the problem this morning was that Joanne phoned 215 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 3: me after she saw a tagged photo of me on 216 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 3: Facebook from the night out the night before. She asked 217 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 3: me if I had managed to sort things out with 218 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 3: her friends, and I told her no, they had made 219 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 3: their decision, and I straight up told her I wouldn't 220 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 3: be involving myself with her job situation, as it was 221 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 3: her mistake that cost her and I didn't want to 222 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 3: damage my professional life over it, which is a great 223 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 3: thing to do. Ope, you should look out for yourself 224 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 3: because you don't want to be dragged down with her 225 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: from her decisions. I know she got you the job 226 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 3: and everything. That's very nice of her, but if she 227 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 3: starts making like crappy mistakes, then that's not someone you 228 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 3: want to associate yourself with. You know. 229 00:09:58,880 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 4: Absolutely. 230 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: She went on rant about what a pathetic person I 231 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 3: was and how nobody really liked me and they just 232 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 3: pitied me. I hung up and proceeded to block her 233 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 3: on everything without even reacting to what she said. I 234 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 3: was one of the only people who hadn't ditched her. 235 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,199 Speaker 3: But I'm not going to get treated poorly just because 236 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 3: she isn't getting her own way. And there are some 237 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 3: final comments deleted. Says, well, it seems everything and it 238 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 3: as best as a good Joyne messed up and refused 239 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 3: to accept the consequences of her actions. Everyone in your 240 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 3: group seems to have judged her for legitimate reasons like 241 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 3: encouraging cheating, and not out of prudishness. She seems like 242 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 3: an immature person all around, and your best without her 243 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 3: contact OPI responds, Yeah, I thought it was stupid for 244 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 3: her to turn on one of the only people who 245 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 3: had stood by her. I didn't really care about what 246 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 3: she did, even though I thought it was idiotic. But 247 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 3: I'm not getting spoken to like that for something she's done. 248 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 3: She showed her true colors. Mister Eck says, I'm not 249 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 3: sure if this is common for government, my job, or 250 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 3: just common sense, but my contract with my government employer 251 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 3: actually has a clause that you can be fired for 252 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 3: anything that could negatively affect the image or publicity of 253 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 3: the employer, regardless of whether it's personal or professional. On 254 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 3: the update, honestly, it worked out for the best of you. 255 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 3: It wouldn't take long for people to start questioning and 256 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 3: judging you for her actions if you were still friends there. Yeah, agreed. 257 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 3: I do respect that you didn't just cut her off, 258 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 3: but she needs to realize how massively she messed up. 259 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 3: Opie responds, Yeah, I went through my contract and that 260 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 3: was in there. I thought it was just an acceptable 261 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 3: use policy, but yeah, this was definitely part of it. 262 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 7: And that's the end of this story. 263 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 6: We're going to go to the next one. 264 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 4: My friend's future mother in law humiliated her, so I 265 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 4: poured a glass of wine on. 266 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 3: Her that's pretty hardcore. 267 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 4: I twenty five female have a best friend twenty six 268 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 4: female named Veronica. Veronica got engaged six months ago and 269 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 4: she and her fiance, twenty nine male, have been dating 270 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 4: for three years. Her fiance is a great guy and 271 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 4: treats her very well. However, his mom, on the other hand, 272 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 4: is a real pain. By the way, this comes from, 273 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 4: use her name Burley Spispam and if you want to 274 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 4: submit your own stories, go to our slash Okay storytime subreddit. 275 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: I'm Vincent and I'm Savannah. 276 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 4: Guys, and we're here to give good advice goofly, but 277 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 4: we only know what we would do. We don't have 278 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 4: all the answers. We barely know anything, So tell us 279 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 4: what you would do in the comments. 280 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 3: I actually know a lot. 281 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 6: And that's very offensive, says one person. 282 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 4: All right, never mind, so as Op says. Ever since 283 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 4: her fiance introduced her to Veronica, his mom has been 284 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 4: giving her heck. She even went as far as throwing 285 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 4: a birthday party for Veronica's fiance and didn't even invite 286 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 4: Veronica or me. And we didn't find out until Veronica's 287 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 4: sister in law told us and asked why weren't we there. 288 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 4: Veronica hates the way her future mother in law treats her, 289 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 4: but she stays quiet to keep the peace. She made 290 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 4: me promise to stay quiet, as well as to ensure 291 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 4: her fiance doesn't find out, because she fears he will 292 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 4: take his mother's side and break up with her. I 293 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 4: had been holding my tongue until recently when we both 294 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 4: had a dinner party with both sides of the family, 295 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 4: and Veronica invited me. While we were waiting for the 296 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 4: food to be ready, there was a knock at the door. 297 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 4: Veronica's future mother in law enthusiastically ran to get it 298 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 4: like she was expecting someone, but we all thought everyone 299 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 4: was already here. When she opened the door, it was 300 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 4: some woman we didn't recognize, or so I thought. Veronica 301 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 4: told me it was her fiance's ex. 302 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 6: Oh. 303 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 4: I was livid and was ready to say something, but 304 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,559 Speaker 4: Veronica begged me not to and I respected her wishes, 305 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 4: even though she looked like she was on the verge 306 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 4: of tears. We all sat down for dinner and I 307 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 4: could not think of a more awkward moment. No one 308 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 4: said a word until Veronica's future mother in law spoke 309 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 4: and introduced her son's X to everyone acting like it 310 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 4: was completely normal that she was there. I kept my 311 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 4: mouth shut until she started comparing Veronica to her fiance's ex, 312 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 4: saying things like I wish Veronica could cook like her, 313 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 4: and you look so in shape, unlike Veronica, who is 314 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 4: more on the chubby side, and you. 315 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,319 Speaker 6: And my son were great together. 316 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 4: You should try again and see if you could make 317 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 4: things work. Veronica ran to the bathroom crying. I lost 318 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 4: and started yelling at her that she was disgusting for 319 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 4: doing that to Veronica and that she deserved anything that 320 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 4: came her way. Then, without thinking, I picked up a 321 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 4: glass of wine and poured it on her. She screamed 322 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 4: at me, and Veronica's fiance demanded that I apologize, but 323 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 4: I ignored him, grabbed Veronica and took us home. I 324 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 4: expected Veronica to be angry at me, but she wasn't. However, 325 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 4: she and I have been getting attacked by her fiance 326 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 4: and his relatives, all demanding that she and I apologize 327 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 4: to his mother and everyone else for ruining the dinner party. 328 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 4: They are all calling me the bad guy, but Veronica 329 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 4: and my family think I did nothing wrong. So am 330 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 4: I the a hole? 331 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 5: WHOA? 332 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 6: That's crazy that's nuts. 333 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, so they're not getting married. Fiance didn't take Veronica's side, 334 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 4: This is a blessing in disguise. You're not gonna get married. 335 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 4: That means you're not gonna get divorced from this guy. 336 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 4: And when you marry someone, you marry their family. That 337 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 4: is fairal behavior. 338 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 3: Did the mother in law invite the X? 339 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 5: Yes? 340 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 4: The mother in law invited the X to the party 341 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 4: and then started comparing the fiance's ex to the friend 342 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 4: who is the current fiance and saying things like she's 343 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 4: more fit, she cooks better. You guys should really try 344 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 4: to work it out, and trying to break them up 345 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 4: on the spot. 346 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 3: Okay, who was the one that threw. 347 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 4: Them Veronica's friend, so Op dumped the protecting her friend 348 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 4: because her friend was trying to keep the peace, but 349 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 4: she was just getting beaten down. Wow. 350 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, this actually is a blessing in disguise, because my god, 351 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 3: what a freaking disaster that was. 352 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and also, I don't think you're the a hole 353 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 4: people misbehave. I once had a guy tell me, like, 354 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 4: sometimes when people are being dumb and they feel entitled 355 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 4: that they can treat people poorly, sometimes the only way 356 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 4: they learn a lesson. I don't want to say this. 357 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 4: They need to get a slap on the wrist or harder. 358 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 4: You know, consequences little to the good, consequences sticking people's. 359 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 6: Brains a little needs the overych Stella. 360 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 4: You're saying Op is underreacting, Yeah, and especially like her 361 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 4: friend is definitely underreacting. Her friend sounds like she has 362 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 4: like some like self worth that she needs to work on. 363 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 4: Like you, no one needs to stand for that. Yeah, 364 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 4: there's an update. I showed Veronica all of your comments 365 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 4: and she finally is seeing the light. She told me 366 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 4: she realizes that the treatment she has been getting from 367 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 4: her future mother in law and her fiance isn't going 368 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 4: to change, so she has decided to end the engagement good. 369 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 5: She said. 370 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 4: She's going back to the house tomorrow to talk to 371 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 4: both him and his mother about what happened and let 372 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 4: out everything she has been holding in for almost four years, 373 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 4: and trust me, it is a lot. She is also 374 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,959 Speaker 4: taking your advice about the house and getting a lawyer 375 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,439 Speaker 4: involved because it doesn't seem fair or logical for her 376 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 4: to leave when she's done nothing wrong. This is what 377 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 4: Veronica told me to tell you all. Thanks for all 378 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 4: your comments and advice, and I hope I will find 379 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 4: someone else who treats me right and doesn't have a 380 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 4: terrible mother. Those were her words exactly, and thank you 381 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 4: to everyone who said I am a great friend. I 382 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 4: just couldn't let Veronica take all of that from her 383 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 4: soon to be ex fiance and his mother. There's another 384 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 4: relatant update to discuss, thoughts. 385 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 3: Ah, I mean, mine's just the same as before. Blessing 386 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 3: to disguise, and you don't get out of it. And 387 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 3: I do think that you should take the house. 388 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 4: Okay, we're gonna get it right into the update. Then fine, Veronica, 389 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 4: her sister in law and I went to her fiance's 390 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,479 Speaker 4: house and confronted him. Oh you rolled up with the posse. 391 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 4: Let's go. Veronica let out everything she had been holding back, 392 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:08,199 Speaker 4: and as her best friend, I can say I have 393 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 4: never been prouder of her. She broke off the engagement 394 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 4: with her now ex fiance and has never been happier. 395 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 4: Her ex has been blowing up her phone and direct 396 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 4: messages trying to get back together with her, and has 397 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 4: even been following her around waiting for her outside of 398 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 4: her job. Don't worry, though, she is threatening him within 399 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 4: a restraining order. Don't threaten, just do. 400 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, seems like that's what needs to happen here. If 401 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 3: he's showing up at your work. 402 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 4: One thousand feet sir, goodbye, Never see me again. 403 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 7: And that's the end of this story. 404 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 3: We're gonna go to the next one. My friend's boyfriend 405 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 3: kept appearing everywhere I went and it's creeping me out. 406 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 4: Get away from me, dude, gross. 407 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 3: I have been in a few activities with Rory twenty 408 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 3: female over the past school year, and we grew close 409 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 3: though we were friendly before but didn't know a lot 410 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 3: about each other. I found out she had a boyfriend 411 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 3: of a year that to be from the same high 412 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 3: school I went to. Not super odd since a few 413 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 3: of my schoolmates from before are also now in my college, 414 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,919 Speaker 3: and I choked it up to one of those what 415 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 3: a small world kind of things. By the way, this 416 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 3: comes from Throwaway seven one nine two zero two two, 417 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 3: And if you want to submit your own stories, go 418 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 3: to the r slash Okay story times subreddit. I'm Savannah 419 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 3: and I'm Vincent, and we are here to give some 420 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 3: good advice in a goofy little manner. 421 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 4: But we don't know what we would do. 422 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 3: I would know what I would do, and I'm gonna 423 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 3: tell you right now, and you're gonna let me know 424 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 3: what you would do in the comments as op he says. 425 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 3: Rory and I got even closer this past semester since 426 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 3: we are both in the student government and the student paper. 427 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 3: We hung out a lot outside of activities, and I 428 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 3: include her in some of the hangouts of my Closer 429 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,719 Speaker 3: Friend group. In one of the hangouts, we met her 430 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 3: boyfriend Logan twenty mail. Ever since that hangout, I keep 431 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 3: meeting Logan in places where I would normally be, in 432 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 3: places where I plan to be. Again. I would normally 433 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 3: chalk this up to being a coincidence, but the city 434 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 3: where my college is in is he oooje. I don't 435 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 3: even see some of my closest friends on a random 436 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 3: day if not for it being planned. It happens on 437 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 3: my cafe spot where I study, or places I mentioned 438 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 3: to my friends I'll be doing errands in. It's starting 439 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: to feel scary how often I see him that I 440 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 3: get scared going outside and meeting him. Oh, you gotta sucker. 441 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 3: He is nice when we meet, but I get a 442 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 3: sick feeling whenever we talk and I feel like I'm 443 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 3: being scrutinized or watched. I don't know how it keeps happening, 444 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 3: but I haven't really told anyone because it sounds weird 445 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 3: in my own head, what more to others. I want 446 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 3: to speak to Rory about it, because maybe she has 447 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 3: an idea why he is essentially stalking me, but I 448 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 3: don't really know how to move from here or to 449 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 3: articulate what I want to say. I don't even know 450 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 3: if I should talk to Rory at all, because I 451 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 3: don't want to come across as a homewrecker or anything 452 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 3: that could blow up a really nice friendship. Any advice 453 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 3: Lee's would be really helpful. There are some comments. Ka 454 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 3: Got sixty three says check your bags and other items 455 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 3: for trackers. Do you post a lot on social media 456 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 3: telling people what you're up to? Change the roots you take? 457 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 3: Please remember you do not have to interact with him 458 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 3: just because he's your friend's boyfriend. There's no reason for 459 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 3: you to spend any time with him whatsoever. Oh pe response, 460 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 3: thank you. I'll leave if I ever spot him again. 461 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,400 Speaker 3: I'm pretty low key on social media, and my Instagram 462 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 3: has been private since I made it years ago. I 463 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 3: haven't even thought of checking for a tracker. Okay. Mathematician 464 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 3: two six' two, says does he approach you when you 465 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 3: see him in these? Locations and if, so does he 466 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,119 Speaker 3: try to keep communicating with you or just says hi 467 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 3: and goes on his. WAY i would definitely try to 468 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 3: ignore him or just say hi and go whenever it. Happens, 469 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 3: also are you sharing your location With rory or anyone 470 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 3: else that might be his mutual? FRIEND i would personally 471 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 3: turn off location, sharing accept a few most trusted. PEOPLE 472 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 3: i would also block him ON sns oh p, Response 473 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 3: i'll block him A. SAP i don't really share, location 474 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 3: BUT i do tend to talk about. PLACES i would 475 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 3: be like the, library this grocery, store et, cetera BECAUSE 476 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,199 Speaker 3: i happen to talk to my friends about. It the 477 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 3: first two TIMES i approached him Thinking rory was with, 478 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 3: him but after THAT i got the sense that he 479 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 3: would be alone IF i ever spot. Him since then 480 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,439 Speaker 3: he was the one approaching me or bumping into. Me 481 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 3: we used to talk about stuff we have in, common Mostly, 482 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 3: rory but as of RECENT i try to finish the 483 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 3: conversation eight sap and. Leave, okay so he does kind 484 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 3: of like. 485 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 4: He does initiate these. Conversations it's so. CREEPY i think 486 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 4: all those are great. Ideas, also you can start laying 487 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 4: hints of like the wrong places you'll. Be it's, Like 488 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 4: i'm gonna go boating in the middle of the. BAY 489 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 4: i see if he shows up. There if he shows up, 490 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 4: there that's a. 491 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 3: Problem i'm taking a trip to The Bermuda. Triangle oh, 492 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 3: Yeah i'm. 493 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 4: Going to the, moon going to The. Moon i'm just 494 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 4: gonna hang out for like the. Weekend might run into you. 495 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 6: There you're gonna be. 496 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 3: There you got tickets to. Them we won safe. 497 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 4: Flight that's so weird and stockery of. 498 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 3: You social networking. Sites thank, you, Petty, yeah thank. You 499 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 3: there's an update after five days before the actual. Update 500 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 3: here is some STUFF i wanted to assure you. ALL 501 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 3: i had my car checked by three shops and was 502 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,400 Speaker 3: dupally assured that there wasn't any. Trackers we even asked 503 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 3: a friend of mine who had a SKETCHY x in the, 504 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 3: past to use their bug sweeper on everything at. All my, 505 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,360 Speaker 3: car my thinks my apartment might, clothes et, cetera came out. 506 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 3: Clean someone asked what we normally discussed when we, mean 507 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 3: AND i can't say it's anything of. Note he normally 508 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 3: approaches me and asks HOW i am doing and WHAT 509 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 3: i was doing at the, place and sometimes about What 510 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 3: rory did that. Day some of it was WHAT i 511 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 3: liked or some questions friends would ask when we get 512 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,199 Speaker 3: to know each, other WHICH i wouldn't mind answering if 513 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 3: it weren't for the fact that he was showing up 514 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: in a lot of PLACES i frequent AND i was 515 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 3: suspecting him of stalking. Me here's the. UPDATE i followed 516 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 3: the advice some commoners, suggested which was to change my. 517 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 3: ROUTINE i felt it wasn't enough to randomize it just 518 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 3: to avoid, him SO i decided to do that police 519 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 3: tactic thing where certain specific info was given to suspects 520 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 3: to see who was the, snitch SINCE i honestly didn't 521 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 3: know how he could have stalked me on some, places 522 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 3: some were out of the, city some were pretty hidden, 523 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 3: spots et. Cetera, Oh so he was, like, What so 524 00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 3: he's just showing up like. 525 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 5: Every he's shown. 526 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 4: Out you got your favorite coffee, shop that sort of 527 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 4: thing that's like a hole in the. 528 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 3: Wall, yeah the fact that you're seeing him outside of 529 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 3: the city at specific, places and then also like little 530 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 3: places that are like hitting. Gems that's really. Weird so 531 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 3: this guy is stalking you, somehow which is just really. 532 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 4: Weird, Ah, god that seems too weird to be a. 533 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 3: COINCIDENCE i Told, rory my new, friend and his, girlfriend 534 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 3: THAT i would be in this cafe near school On 535 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 3: wednesday after we had a. MEETING i cleared my suspicion 536 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 3: for most of my friends at this, point so it 537 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 3: Was rory and another THAT i wanted to. TEST i 538 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 3: stayed with a front across the road in a bodega 539 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 3: and Saw logan come inside the cafe WHERE i SAID i. 540 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 3: Was after an, HOUR i SAID i would be. THERE 541 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 3: i didn't have the best mood after confirming That logan 542 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 3: was Using rory to stalk, me SO i didn't go 543 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 3: out of my house all Of thursday BECAUSE i was 544 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 3: stressed out of my mind and didn't know how to 545 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 3: move forward with a. Discovery, fortunately TODAY i Confronted rory 546 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 3: about it AFTER i mustered up all the courage and 547 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,879 Speaker 3: tried to see if she was unknowingly helping him and 548 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 3: she was just relaying info without. Malice we met AFTER 549 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 3: i texted her THAT i wanted to talk about the 550 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 3: agenda from The wednesday meeting in a mutual's friend dorm 551 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,919 Speaker 3: room who was also president as they were part of 552 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 3: the ES gov as, Well plus was aware of what's 553 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 3: happening with my, suspicions and she came an hour in 554 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 3: of me fiddling and trying to find the right moment 555 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 3: to start my. HINTING i followed one of the comments 556 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 3: of my last post and kind of stated THAT i 557 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 3: kept Seeing logan in all the Places i've been frequenting 558 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 3: for the past. Month it started out really, well but 559 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 3: WHEN i pressed that it was odd THAT i was 560 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 3: seeing him almost every, week she got this really odd 561 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 3: look on her face and asked me IF i was 562 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 3: trying to accuse her boyfriend of being attracted to the same, 563 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 3: gender which took me off. 564 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 4: Guard, ALL i Think op is a male Because rory 565 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 4: is a. Female, yeah So op is of the same. 566 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 3: A, Dude, YEAH i am attracted to the same. Gender 567 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 3: not to be, confused but it was weird how she 568 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,199 Speaker 3: went to that. DIRECTION i backtracked and said THAT i 569 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 3: wasn't accusing him of, anything but THAT i kept seeing, 570 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 3: him AND i brought up the fact THAT i told 571 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 3: HER i would be in a cafe On wednesday and he, 572 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 3: came after WHICH i then asked if he asked her 573 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 3: about my. WHEREABOUTS i think things got really out of 574 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 3: hand after, that and she then said that he did, 575 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 3: ask but it was more of a concerned boyfriend checking 576 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 3: on their girlfriend hanging out with the guy kind of 577 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 3: way instead of The stalkrish kind of. 578 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 4: Way so she's painting it more, like so Is logan 579 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 4: jealous Of? Ope is that what's going? On keep reading? 580 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 5: HERE i got. 581 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 3: Really confused here and tried to say that it gave 582 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 3: off stockersh vibes on my, perspective and she got really 583 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,719 Speaker 3: mad THAT i was on her mind accusing her boyfriend 584 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 3: of being interested in me and was attracted to the 585 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 3: same gender for the second. Time, okay So i'm thinking 586 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 3: That ope And logan like keep like meeting up in. 587 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 3: Places logan keeps like and like MAYBE i think Here 588 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 3: rory thinks That logan is and keeps Accusing ope of 589 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 3: like being, like, Oh you're trying to get with my. 590 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 3: Boyfriend he's, like, no, No i'm. Not he just keeps 591 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 3: showing up WHERE i. 592 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,880 Speaker 4: AM i Think rory is thinking that that's what ops 593 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 4: Accusing logan Of, yeah it's Like logan's obsessed with me 594 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 4: because he keeps on showing up Where i'm at and 595 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 4: he's asking about. Me But, Rory logan's girlfriend is also 596 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,439 Speaker 4: Telling Apparently logan is asking where he. 597 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 3: Is our mutual friend broke us off because things were 598 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 3: getting loud and, incoherent with no belief that we would 599 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 3: make sensible, conversation And rory left the. Dorm after, THAT 600 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 3: i did speak to my friend IF i was taking 601 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 3: it the wrong, way and she assured me that regardless 602 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 3: of my gender and, orientation men had stalkers, too and 603 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 3: that she supported me If rory tried to accuse me of. 604 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 3: ANYTHING i asked my close friends the same thing and 605 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 3: assured me THAT i was very public with my, giness 606 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 3: so it would be weird For logan to ASSUME i 607 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 3: would be a threat to their. Relationship i'm currently in 608 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 3: my apartment And i'm starting to wonder IF i was 609 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 3: taking it the wrong. Way what a guy keep tabs 610 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 3: on a dude his girlfriend was friends. With i'm once 611 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 3: again at my wits, end But i'm trying not to 612 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 3: spiral bec because all the important, people, friends, family et, 613 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 3: cetera support. ME i don't know what's going to happen, 614 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 3: next BUT i would be really appreciative for any. Advice. 615 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 3: Thanks i'm really confused about what's. 616 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 5: Happening here's WHAT i. 617 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 4: Think, YEAH i Think logan has been showing up around 618 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 4: WHEREVER op has been and keeping tabs on. Him AND 619 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 4: i think THAT opi and best Friend rory have a 620 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 4: really close friendship that Threatens. Logan logan feels threatened as, 621 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 4: like why are you so close to this? Guy it's 622 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 4: weird how you're so close to this, guy and he's 623 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 4: just like trying to keep tabs and suss him. Out, 624 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 4: okay but it's in a very, weird sort of like stockery, 625 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 4: way and instead of being like up, Front. 626 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 3: Yeah SO i agree with. YOU v says she probably 627 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 3: knows her boyfriend is Into ope but is in. Denial 628 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: but then Also sophoking, SAYS i Thinks logan is jealous 629 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 3: and is checking to make sure they aren't. Together SO i. 630 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 4: Think those are both very good. THEORIES i think those 631 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 4: BOTH i. 632 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 3: Think yours With Sofa king's, Theory mine IS u visually, 633 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 3: theory and now we're really going to get to the 634 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 3: bottom of it by finishing the. 635 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 4: STORY i, hope SO i want to know so. 636 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 3: Bad, yeah there's an update number. Two, unfortunately despite what 637 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 3: many of the comments have, SUGGESTED i am unable to 638 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 3: fully break off my tie With rory and subsequently her 639 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 3: boyfriend as the semester ends in Mid april for me 640 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 3: and we have a ton of year end stuff to 641 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 3: go through in the student government and the university. Paper, 642 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 3: FORTUNATELY i do have other friends in those two, organizations 643 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 3: SO i will be very much applying for their help 644 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 3: until the semester, ends SO i can be with someone 645 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 3: at all in case worse comes to. Reality once, again 646 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 3: thank you all so. Much and there are some. Comments 647 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 3: no lifeguard ninety one ninety four, says that's not the 648 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 3: behavior of somebody who's keeping tabs on his, girlfriend which 649 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 3: would be probably about again of. ITSELF i don't know 650 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 3: what that. Means, rather he's going out of his way 651 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 3: to meet up with. 652 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 6: You peter. 653 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 3: RESPONSE i said, this but for Reasons rory was hung 654 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 3: up on me accusing your boyfriend WHEN i genuinely and 655 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 3: fearing for my, safety and she kept denying a man 656 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 3: could stalk a. Hand there's something going on with, them 657 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 3: AND i don't know WHEN i can even hear her 658 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 3: side when she's pissed and Probably logan told WHAT i. 659 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 3: Said Brave refrigerator five five two, SAYS i want to, 660 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 3: say Maybe logan is, curious but there are much easier 661 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 3: ways to GO. Dl could he be jealous of your 662 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 3: relationship With, rory like trying to find out what is 663 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 3: so neat about? YOU i, MEAN i have no idea, 664 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 3: Hope he. RESPONDS i don't go out of my way 665 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 3: to hang out With, rory and we mostly hang out 666 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 3: for escov or the. Paper we are often surrounded by 667 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 3: mutual friends and very rarely when on one alone with each. 668 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 3: OTHER i think he may be down, low And i'm 669 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 3: hoping my friend AND i can find evidence that he 670 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 3: is or. Something and that's the end of that. Story, 671 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 3: hey It's, carly your favorite Axe loottel. 672 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 6: Host. Here we're going to get back to the. 673 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 7: Stories but here's three minutes of ads from our, sponsors. 674 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 4: Normal writers that they aided a. 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Camera 692 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 4: paris was a great, kisser and this story is always 693 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 4: a hit with my. FRIENDS a few months, later her 694 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 4: phone was hacked and nudes were. Leaked my number was 695 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 4: in her phone book AND i got spammed prank calls 696 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 4: from four chan or. Something, gosh you Guys Paris hilton's. 697 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 3: Number, well, yeah If i'm making out with, Someone i'm 698 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 3: probably gonna get their. 699 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 4: Number Zach, oh he's a, player, THOUGH i imagine it was 700 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 4: a lot worse for anyone who's actually. Famous basically lost 701 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 4: total contact after, that but still a fun. Story you, 702 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 4: know if it wasn't for that time when her phone got, 703 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 4: HACKED i would have still had contact With Paris. Hilton 704 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 4: that's so. Funny, hi so we got another one from 705 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 4: username Scheening night says not, me but my aunt Dated 706 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 4: matthew McConaughey before he was. Famous he ended up getting 707 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 4: invited to her wedding by my normal uncle and proceeded 708 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 4: to pass out wasted in the back of my family's. 709 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 4: Car he refused to, leave and now my dad refuses 710 00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 4: to watch his. Movies user name deleted says my wife 711 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 4: briefly Dated louis. C K. 712 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 3: Louis. 713 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 4: Ck he's the one that got canceled not too long 714 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 4: ago for his proclivities back in twenty, twelve and she 715 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 4: says it seems kind of awful to be. Famous anytime 716 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 4: they went out to eat or were in, public they 717 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 4: were just constantly interrupted or stared. At he came to 718 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 4: her birthday party at some little bowling alley In, brooklyn, 719 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 4: though and was pretty. Cool the story that always sticks 720 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 4: with me is that one day he went out and 721 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 4: bought a one hundred and fifty thousand dollars watch because 722 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 4: he felt. Sad, yo when you have like that kind 723 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 4: of money hard fifty thousand dollars that buys you houses 724 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 4: in some, Places. 725 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 6: Yeah that would be like, fantastic all, right use. 726 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 4: Her Name merk thirty five eighty. Two my uncle hooked 727 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 4: me up to See foreigner in nineteen eighty, one including 728 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 4: two backstage. PASSES i took a GIRL i really, like 729 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 4: but she ended up Eating Mick jones and disappeared with 730 00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 4: him into the dressing. 731 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 3: Room that'd be me my. 732 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 4: DREAM i didn't see her again that, night SO i 733 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 4: GUESS i could SAY i got taken out of the 734 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 4: picture By Mick jones. Ed her side of the story 735 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 4: was she went with him into another room while people 736 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 4: were drinking and, smoking and he ignored. Her after, that 737 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 4: she said she stayed for twenty, minutes then left and 738 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 4: couldn't find me and ASSUMED i had ditched. Her, so 739 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 4: just to be, Clear i'm not Accusing mick of doing anything. 740 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 4: Inappropriate that's her, story and her mother believed it enough 741 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 4: to call my mother to complain about. It so, yeah 742 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 4: that must have, happened is it weirdly that that's like 743 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 4: believable that LIKE i could totally see like a rock 744 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 4: star being, like calm of, Me my McJagger for some, 745 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 4: reason come of. Me you will have a good, time 746 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 4: and then you get to the place and they're just 747 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:43,760 Speaker 4: like a complete. 748 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 3: BORE i would love that circumstance Because i'd be, like, 749 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 3: guys has anyone ever like seen this or done this or? 750 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 3: Whatever blah. BLAH i would like get the party. 751 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 6: Started imagine a room full of rock. 752 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 4: Stars you're the life of the. Party imagine being able 753 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 4: to be like, boom yeah that's And. 754 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 3: I'd be, Like, elle, YEAH i do. 755 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 4: All, Right so next us your name, deleted says my 756 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 4: aunt went on a date With Jimmy buffett To. Margaritaville she. 757 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 4: Said he picked her, up stopped at a gas, station 758 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 4: bought a jar of, pickles and drove to the beach 759 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 4: and they ate pickles and he took her. 760 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:22,240 Speaker 6: Home perfect. 761 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,280 Speaker 4: Date you know you know, what they're just like, Us 762 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 4: just like, Us they're just, like oh, man there's a, 763 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 4: Reply lit'll let you. Know he went on many dates like, 764 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 4: this slowly eating each of the components of a. Hamburger 765 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,799 Speaker 4: on a subsequent, DATE i like that. Theory that was 766 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 4: like so like he went on like five, dates but 767 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,919 Speaker 4: each date he just, like today's the pickle. Date i'm 768 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 4: gonna start with a date where we go to go 769 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 4: to the grocery store and to get. Buns that means 770 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 4: he had to go on a date with someone and 771 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 4: just have. MUSTARD i like. 772 00:35:59,280 --> 00:35:59,400 Speaker 5: That. 773 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:04,760 Speaker 3: Lore, wait my older sister she matched With Leon bridges, 774 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 3: oh and has done many things with. Him she was 775 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 3: on like swiping On tinder or, whatever blah blah, blah 776 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 3: and he popped up and she was, like there's no 777 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 3: way he's like the real. 778 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 5: Thing. 779 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 3: Whatever she like matches him. Whatever and he messaged her 780 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 3: and was, like, Hey i'm in Town la la for 781 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 3: this like, concert like wanna like meet up after. Whatever 782 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 3: and she's like there's no way this guy is. Real 783 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 3: but she was like, whatever blah blah. Blah he ended 784 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 3: up coming to her, house Like Leon bridges was in 785 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 3: her house, yo and she was like the amount of 786 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 3: like gorgeous rings he had on was like. Insane and 787 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,359 Speaker 3: she was like and he was very just like very, 788 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:50,240 Speaker 3: polite very just like soft, spoken was just like, yeah. 789 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 4: All, right, anyway let's use her. Name Digital CITIZEN sd 790 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 4: says a few years, AGO i was getting on a 791 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 4: flight back To San diego after my cousin's, wedding very, 792 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 4: high ung over and judging. People AS i walked to my, 793 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 4: GATE i see this long haired man stride by me 794 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 4: in a purple button down and, think who's this? Cupcake 795 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 4: not a spicy proclivity, comment just a shirt color. Comment 796 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 4: he walks by AND i, realize holy, crap That's. FABIO 797 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 4: a bit, later after getting a, snack my brazen and 798 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 4: probably still wasted self saw him sitting at his gate 799 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 4: and just sat down next to. HIM i look away 800 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 4: and then ride at him and say You're, fabio and 801 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,799 Speaker 4: he says, coolly, oh YES i, am and shakes my. 802 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 4: Hand we proceed to talk for thirty minutes until he 803 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,880 Speaker 4: had to, leave and he was so. Intelligent he discussed 804 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 4: therapies in, depth AND i recall, thinking just nod and. 805 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,440 Speaker 4: Smile fabio is way smarter than you. Think just nod and. 806 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 4: Smile before, leaving he asked for my number and texted 807 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 4: me the next day for a. Date nothing ever came of, 808 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 4: it BUT i still have his number in my. Phone. 809 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,359 Speaker 4: Ps my dad followed up for weeks to make SURE 810 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 4: i wasn't dating the man on every romance cover moving 811 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 4: on us her name From brianna to Bre, mode says 812 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,160 Speaker 4: my college roommate's cousin went on a, date maybe a 813 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 4: couple of dates With Armie hammer before he blew up 814 00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 4: in the social, network and apparently he forgot all about 815 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 4: the date or dates they went. On when he tried 816 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:28,479 Speaker 4: to reintroduce himself to her at another, encounter she said 817 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 4: something along the lines, OF i know we used to. 818 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,320 Speaker 4: Date pretty sure the guy's married now, Yikes and didn't 819 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,319 Speaker 4: he like have a whole thing with no? 820 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 3: Idea who this man? 821 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 4: Is Armie? 822 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 6: Hammer that's not a real. 823 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 4: Name, yeah his name Is Armie. 824 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 3: Hammer isn't that like a brand of. 825 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 4: Like that's arm And. 826 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 5: Hammer so he's the baking. Soda, yeah he's baking us her. 827 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 4: Name, way not really. Dating BUT i hooked up With Stephen, 828 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 4: glover also known As STEVE o From Jack butt from 829 00:38:55,760 --> 00:39:00,400 Speaker 4: the critically acclaimed series Of, Yes Rank thanks for A 830 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 4: while When jack but was first starting AND i know 831 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,280 Speaker 4: this is not something to be proud. Of he didn't 832 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 4: really have any money, then and he was in Between 833 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 4: florida and la and he had a place to stay 834 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 4: for a. Time he was very full of, himself AND 835 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,879 Speaker 4: i stopped talking to him after he threw a chair 836 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,799 Speaker 4: out my kitchen. Window good to see that he cleaned himself, up, Though, 837 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:24,320 Speaker 4: okay moving. ON i think he had some substance. Problems, 838 00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 4: yeah WHEN i heard he's on the, men he's going. 839 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 4: Clean so good for, You steve use her, name Scotch 840 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 4: osaka says years, ago at a hotel bar, PARTY i 841 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 4: Saw Alicia. CUTHBERT i don't THINK i know this, one 842 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,080 Speaker 4: and sent her A blavoka to her. Table that's, Smooth, 843 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 4: hey take this. Ballavoka upon learning it was me who sent, 844 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 4: it she motioned me over and promptly asked me IF 845 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 4: i was a substance. 846 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 3: Dealer i'd ask the same. 847 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 4: Thing he told ME i was dressed like a, bum 848 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 4: and sent me back to my table with A batla. 849 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 4: Vodka that was my date With. ALICIA i guess we 850 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,040 Speaker 4: just weren't meant to be at. It to answer some 851 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 4: of your, QUESTIONS i don't think she was looking for, 852 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 4: substances she, says something, like besides dealing, substances what are 853 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 4: you doing? HERE i was like twenty at the time 854 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 4: and a bit. Overconfident and this was roughly thirteen years. 855 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 4: AGO i THINK i saw hostlarity and was a little 856 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 4: wasted and took a. SWING a lot of people are 857 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 4: saying she's a bad, person BUT i wouldn't say that 858 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 4: for turning down the advances of a random guy who 859 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 4: is four years younger than. Her and also LATER i 860 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 4: found out she was DATING nhl hockey player at the, 861 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 4: TIME i never shood a. Chance the kahone's on this, 862 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,600 Speaker 4: Guy The kahone's on this. Guy, yeah flutterfly for, you. 863 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 4: Yeaes steve has been cleaned for ten. Years good For. 864 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,280 Speaker 4: STEVE i think this was from before all that house 865 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:43,280 Speaker 4: of wax and girling. 866 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 6: Store and that's the end of this. 867 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 7: Story we're going to go to the next. 868 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 1: One my girlfriend quit her job AFTER i became a, 869 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: millionaire AND i don't support. 870 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 6: IT i don't care. 871 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:57,359 Speaker 1: MILLIONAIRE i twenty five, male met my, Girlfriend, kylie twenty five, 872 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,919 Speaker 1: female in community college seven years. Ago we became really 873 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 1: close friends and started dating two years. Later at the, 874 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 1: time she wanted to be a, nurse which is. Great 875 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,280 Speaker 1: she was really passionate about, it AND i fully supported. 876 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:12,320 Speaker 1: HER i ended up transferring to a four year university 877 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 1: in earning MY. 878 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,799 Speaker 3: Mba kylie supported me emotionally the entire time. 879 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,320 Speaker 7: Through, school WHICH i am grateful. 880 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 1: For kylie's parents ended up cutting her off financially because 881 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: of her spending. Habits uh, Oh kylie's in. Trouble she 882 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 1: ended up taking a year off to work to help 883 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,200 Speaker 1: with her. Bills by the, way this comes From Throwaway 884 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 1: atlanta in nineteen ninety, Nine and if you want to 885 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,240 Speaker 1: submit your own, stories go to the r Slash okay. 886 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 6: Storytime separate. 887 00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 1: It I'm, Angie I'm, Dakota i've said, it and we're 888 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:42,799 Speaker 1: here to give good. 889 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 3: Advice, Goofily but we don't have all the. 890 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,359 Speaker 1: Answers we just know what we would do in these, 891 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,880 Speaker 1: Situations so let us know what you do in the 892 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:53,319 Speaker 1: comments and op. Says in the, MEANTIME i invested all my, 893 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 1: savings time and energy into a startup platform with my 894 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 1: best friend in the automotive. Industry earlier this, year we 895 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,320 Speaker 1: were bought out for a life changing amount of. Money 896 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 1: we were both kept on as consultants with a high 897 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 1: paying salary as. Well kylie had kept her job at 898 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,400 Speaker 1: the jewelry store this entire. Time after the, buyout she 899 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 1: told me that she was handing her two weeks in. 900 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:18,319 Speaker 1: INTERESTING i offered to pay for her school and. Expenses at, 901 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: first she was excited to go back and earn her nursing. 902 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,239 Speaker 1: DEGREE i ended up purchasing a condo for us to live, 903 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 1: in big step up from the, apartment and it was 904 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 1: close to her. School over the, weekend we were talking 905 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,919 Speaker 1: and she threw out the fact that she wasn't sure 906 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 1: about wanting to go back to school and that she 907 00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:35,319 Speaker 1: could be a stay at home. 908 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:36,879 Speaker 7: Wife and we're not even. 909 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 6: Married she's, like. 910 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:43,720 Speaker 8: Yeah i've been thinking what IF i didn't do? Anything, 911 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 8: yeah AND i just spend all your? 912 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 1: Money, right sounds like a great team effort to spend that. 913 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,239 Speaker 7: Money you make it and THEN i spend. 914 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,840 Speaker 5: It it's, Right what else were you making that money. 915 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: FOR i didn't say anything in the moment BECAUSE i 916 00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: wasn't sure and how to. Respond part of what attracted 917 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,600 Speaker 1: me to her in the first place was her. Ambition 918 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:04,919 Speaker 1: it just doesn't sit right with me that she quit 919 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,880 Speaker 1: her job and career goals AFTER i came into. Money 920 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,400 Speaker 1: her shopping slash spending has also gone. 921 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,399 Speaker 6: Up she's been looking at new. 922 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: CARS i could be, overreacting but something just doesn't seem. 923 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 1: RIGHT i still love her AND i wanted to work, 924 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,160 Speaker 1: out BUT i don't like this new side of her 925 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 1: That i'm. 926 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 7: Seeing there are some relevant, comments but what do you? 927 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:25,239 Speaker 3: Think To, GOD i think you're. 928 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,960 Speaker 5: Right something does seem a little, wrong dug in. 929 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:28,919 Speaker 6: It something is very. 930 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: WRONG i don't know why she's like how fast she's 931 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: gonna blow through this million dollars or however. 932 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 7: Much money it? 933 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 6: Is, yeah like so? 934 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,279 Speaker 1: Fast this is not one million dollars is not enough 935 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: to live your whole life, period but then also. 936 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 3: Luxuriously, YEAH i. 937 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 8: Think you really need to call out that you've noticed 938 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,000 Speaker 8: this and be, like, SO i didn't plan on. 939 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 5: Just having you around like a house pet of some. Kind. 940 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 8: YEAH i thought you were going, to, like you, KNOW 941 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,320 Speaker 8: i thought you wanted to make something happen for. Yourself 942 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,560 Speaker 8: rasy for her to be LIKE i can be a 943 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 8: stay at home not even, mom stay at home. 944 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,320 Speaker 5: Wife why we are just? Dating? 945 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah we do have some comments. Here opie says 946 00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,719 Speaker 1: side story for the reason she got cut off by her, 947 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,960 Speaker 1: parents she ran over her friend with her. 948 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 6: CAR woa What kylie says it was. 949 00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: Unintentional the friend disagrees with that and the friend ends 950 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 1: up Suing kylie's parents on the basis of them owning 951 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: the car That kylie was. Driving, Anyways kylie's parents ended 952 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,320 Speaker 1: up settling with the friend for two hundred and fifty thousand. 953 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 1: Dollars they Told kylie she needed to get a job 954 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 1: and get her own car after. 955 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 6: This is she in debt to her parents. 956 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 7: For this this, SETTLEMENT i would. IMAGINE i can't look past. 957 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,239 Speaker 5: That the friend said it wasn't. Unintentional, Yeah i'm gonna 958 00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 5: need more. 959 00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:01,080 Speaker 8: INFO i break up with you when once there is 960 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 8: doubt in the air about whether or not you tried 961 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 8: to run someone over with your. 962 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 5: Car, yeah on, Purpose i'd break up with. YOU i 963 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 5: do that? 964 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:11,239 Speaker 7: Insane oh my. 965 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 6: God but we do have an. Update so. 966 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,280 Speaker 1: UPDATE i had a serious conversation with my Girlfriend kylie 967 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 1: about our Future thursday. NIGHT i told her that she 968 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 1: needed to figure out a plan for the, future whether 969 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 1: that be finding a job or going back to. SCHOOL 970 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: i told her if she goes back to, SCHOOL i 971 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 1: would support her, financially including paying for her, degree which 972 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:32,280 Speaker 1: is already so generous by the, way for nursing school. 973 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,760 Speaker 1: TOO i told HER i would give her Until december 974 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,319 Speaker 1: to figure out her. Plan she ended up getting really 975 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 1: defensive and told me that she's the Reason i'm in 976 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 1: the POSITION i am in. Life she said THAT i 977 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 1: should pay for her lifestyle since she was there from the. 978 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,280 Speaker 6: Start bye, bye, bye bye. 979 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: Bye then she proceeded to tell me that she wasted 980 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,399 Speaker 1: five years of her life With. 981 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 5: Well don't waste any, more, Girl why don't you go 982 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:56,440 Speaker 5: ahead and? 983 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:57,080 Speaker 6: Leave oh my. 984 00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 1: God she told me that she could have been married 985 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:03,319 Speaker 1: and had a family By now what. 986 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:03,400 Speaker 3: What is going? 987 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 8: On this is a very interesting tactic she's. Employing it's 988 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:12,000 Speaker 8: a very nuanced. Thing completely just blow. 989 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 6: It, yeah that's. 990 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 5: What she's doing. Now she's using the blow it entirely. Tactic. 991 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 992 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 1: YEAH i was shocked Because i've never seen this side of. 993 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 3: Her she was. 994 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 6: Having a complete. 995 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:27,120 Speaker 1: MELTDOWN i ended the conversation by telling, HER i tried 996 00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 1: my best to make this relationship, work but it won't 997 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 1: work like. This unlike, HER i come from a very 998 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: middle class. Family both of my parents had jobs and 999 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: contributed to the. House it was like she was a 1000 00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 1: completely different. Person that's WHEN i realized that the money 1001 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,279 Speaker 1: had really changed. HER i basically told her THAT i 1002 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,120 Speaker 1: had a business. Trip she knew about already and WHEN 1003 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,480 Speaker 1: i get back On, tuesday to have all your stuff 1004 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 1: moved and give a mutual friend THAT i trust the. 1005 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: KEYS i canceled her credit card the same. Night the 1006 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,319 Speaker 1: car she currently drives has six thousand left on the. Loan, 1007 00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,800 Speaker 1: luckily the car is in her, name So i'm not 1008 00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 1: responsible for. It i've been making the payments on it 1009 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 1: for her for the last six. Months, ALSO i don't 1010 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 1: feel too bad Like i'm booting her to the, streets 1011 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 1: since her parents would never let her be. Homeless fast 1012 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,480 Speaker 1: forward To, friday her sister called me a few times 1013 00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 1: AND i ignored, it but then decided to answer since 1014 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,040 Speaker 1: they were inside my. Condo sister basically told me That 1015 00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 1: kylie has been crying the whole day and wanted to 1016 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,839 Speaker 1: work things. OUT i told her it was too far 1017 00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 1: gone for, Repair. 1018 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:27,960 Speaker 5: Like that's the moment where you go that. 1019 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 8: SUCKS i haven't cried once AND i don't want to 1020 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 8: work things. 1021 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,279 Speaker 5: Out so where do we go from? Here? Right, oh, 1022 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,360 Speaker 5: gause she gotta get out of the, house LIKE i. 1023 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 5: Said right by that. 1024 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,359 Speaker 1: Time then today her best friend called me wanting to 1025 00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 1: know IF i was able to meet for some, drinks 1026 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 1: WHICH i thought was. Odd her best friend told me 1027 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 1: that she has some things to show me. 1028 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 3: Which were causing her to lose. 1029 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,160 Speaker 1: SLEEP i told her THAT i would think about, it but, 1030 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 1: HONESTLY i don't care at this. 1031 00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:55,839 Speaker 6: Point what could it. 1032 00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:59,880 Speaker 8: Be it's gonna be, like it's gonna be some, nonsense 1033 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 8: and it's, LIKE i want no more. 1034 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,560 Speaker 5: NONSENSE i want to move. 1035 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,319 Speaker 1: On finding out about Whatever kylie did behind my back 1036 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 1: would just cause more pain WHEN i get. Back i'm 1037 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 1: going to put the condo back on the market BECAUSE 1038 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 1: i have no use for it. ANYMORE i honestly have 1039 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 1: no interest in dating. Anymore it's way too difficult for 1040 00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 1: me to see the true intentions in. 1041 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 7: People give it some, Time, opie. 1042 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,200 Speaker 8: You just got to date someone who's already a. Millionaire, 1043 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 8: ooh there you. 1044 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 3: Go problems. 1045 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,799 Speaker 1: Solved just find one of. Those thanks again for all 1046 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,840 Speaker 1: the help and. Support this will probably be the end 1047 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,360 Speaker 1: of this, post. 1048 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 5: HOPEFULLY i, mean you know you did. It you did. 1049 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 1: It it, sucks but at least you found out what 1050 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:40,520 Speaker 1: her true intentions were before you got, married just or 1051 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 1: you gave her all this. 1052 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 5: Money you even gave her a chance. 1053 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,279 Speaker 8: Too you were, like which is fur more THAN i 1054 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:47,919 Speaker 8: would have. DONE i would have been, like, so after 1055 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 8: hearing you say what you, THOUGHT i feel LIKE i 1056 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,760 Speaker 8: don't know you anymore AND i think we need to. Separate, 1057 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 8: yeah and then if she freaked out from, that yeah 1058 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 8: we're breaking. 1059 00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 5: Up, yeah, real for, real but. INSANE i gotta get 1060 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 5: some time apart from you because what did you just? 1061 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 6: Say, oh he has a side. 1062 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,240 Speaker 1: NOTE i had a lot of questions About kylie running 1063 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:11,000 Speaker 1: over her. Friend, yes BUT i didn't Know kylie when this. 1064 00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,960 Speaker 1: Happened kylie originally spent her first semester of college out 1065 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,799 Speaker 1: of private. University she told me that she accidentally put 1066 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 1: the car in drive instead of reverse and. 1067 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:19,360 Speaker 3: Ended up hitting the. 1068 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,960 Speaker 1: Friend kylie was super, apologetic and the friend forgave her 1069 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,919 Speaker 1: on the. Spot then the friend's mom found out about 1070 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 1: her daughter being hit by a. Car they did research 1071 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: and learned That kylie's dad is a big TIME ceo 1072 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 1: of a major corporation and decided to sue her. Parents 1073 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,160 Speaker 1: the lawsuit was settled outside of court Between kylie's parents 1074 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,240 Speaker 1: and the friend for two hundred and fifty thousand. Dollars 1075 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 1: kylie had to leave the private college after that and join, 1076 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,839 Speaker 1: me since her parents wanted her living back at. 1077 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 6: HOME i don't think it was. 1078 00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 1: Intentional On kylie's, part, Honestly but then, AGAIN i saw 1079 00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 1: a different side of her for the first time in seven. 1080 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 6: Years of knowing. 1081 00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:55,040 Speaker 3: Her and that's the end of as. 1082 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 5: Story how do you accidentally put the car in drive 1083 00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 5: instead of? Reverse it's SO i don't know. 1084 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,680 Speaker 8: Skill, issue that's a, Yeah but also LIKE i love 1085 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 8: that there's still even after the, explanation just enough gray 1086 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,560 Speaker 8: area to be, like did you just momentarily be Like 1087 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,680 Speaker 8: i'm just gonna run her over and then went, like 1088 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 8: oh my, god oh my, God, no oh my, God 1089 00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:14,160 Speaker 8: i'm so. 1090 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 5: SORRY i don't know WHY i did. 1091 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,359 Speaker 8: That, yeah because like with the way that she switched up, 1092 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 8: now it's like seems to be the kind of person 1093 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:22,280 Speaker 8: who does. 1094 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 6: The switch, up, Right it just, yeah she switched up really. 1095 00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 8: Quick i'm gonna run her. Over oh my, GOD i 1096 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 8: can't BELIEVE i ran her. Over, NO i don't know 1097 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:30,919 Speaker 8: What i'm talking. 1098 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:31,880 Speaker 5: ABOUT i. Didn't i'm so. 1099 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,319 Speaker 3: Sorry, YEAH i don't. 1100 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 7: Know anything could happen at this. 1101 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,799 Speaker 1: Point but WHAT i, mean luckily the relationship is not 1102 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,040 Speaker 1: based on that, story because that's that could go either 1103 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 1: way in my. 1104 00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,480 Speaker 7: Eyes BUT i you have a. 1105 00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 1: Reason you have enough of reason to break, Up so 1106 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 1: that's good and you did great. 1107 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 6: Job and that's the end of the. 1108 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,399 Speaker 7: Story we're gonna go on to the next. 1109 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,840 Speaker 8: One, hey It's, dakota your favorite good time boy. 1110 00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:57,320 Speaker 6: Host. 1111 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,719 Speaker 2: Here we're gonna get back to the. Stories but here's 1112 00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:02,920 Speaker 2: three minutes of ads from our. Sponsors my sister in 1113 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,359 Speaker 2: law couldn't handle me wearing my girlfriend's. HOODIE i came 1114 00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 2: back wearing much. 1115 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:08,480 Speaker 6: WORSE i wore her. 1116 00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 7: Underpants how do you like? 1117 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:11,719 Speaker 3: That how do you like damn? 1118 00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:12,960 Speaker 5: Mondies, yes it's come. 1119 00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 8: Here. Yeah my girlfriend AND i went to my parents' 1120 00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 8: house last week for a. Visit my, brother his, wife 1121 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 8: and their son were also. Visiting my sister in law 1122 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:33,000 Speaker 8: AND i have never really gotten. Along she kept my 1123 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 8: brother from coming to my eighteenth birthday party BECAUSE i 1124 00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,480 Speaker 8: told her she couldn't bring her baby with her since 1125 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 8: it was a place full of wasted people and loud 1126 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 8: music and not ideal for a. 1127 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:44,879 Speaker 5: Baby by the, way this. 1128 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 8: Comes from User Nerdy sloth and if you want to 1129 00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,840 Speaker 8: submit your own, stories go to the r Slash okay 1130 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:49,760 Speaker 8: storytime subburn. 1131 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:54,440 Speaker 1: It I'm, Dakota I'm angie And I'm savannah and we're 1132 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 1: gonna read this. 1133 00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,400 Speaker 5: Story we're all a bunch of. 1134 00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 8: Goofballs so take what you hear with A graham soul 1135 00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 8: and let us know what you would do in the. 1136 00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:02,240 Speaker 5: Comments. 1137 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:06,160 Speaker 8: Okay opie says she also has issues with me being 1138 00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 8: a bye guy and my relationship with my, girlfriend though 1139 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 8: she doesn't like it WHEN i point out how illogical 1140 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,520 Speaker 8: her thinking. Is, anyway things were going well UNTIL i 1141 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 8: got a bit. CHILLY i had forgotten to bring a 1142 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,160 Speaker 8: jacket or hoodie with, me as it had been warm 1143 00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 8: when we. Left, thankfully my girlfriend is almost always too 1144 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,440 Speaker 8: warm and only wears hoodies because she looks gret and 1145 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,880 Speaker 8: them her, words not. Mine she offered me her. HOODIE 1146 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,480 Speaker 8: i put it, on and then everything broke. 1147 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:39,839 Speaker 5: Loose the juice is. Loose. Oh my sister in law 1148 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 5: started lecturing me about how a real man would never 1149 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:46,400 Speaker 5: wear his girlfriend's, clothes and Since. 1150 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 8: I'm normal, now which is her word for being, Straight 1151 00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 8: god should try that more lock. 1152 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:53,400 Speaker 6: Coman who is this? 1153 00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 5: Woman THAT'S i don't. KNOW i gave her that voice 1154 00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:57,319 Speaker 5: because it's very. Stupid she's. 1155 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:02,080 Speaker 8: Stupid my girlfriend is THAN i, am so her already 1156 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,799 Speaker 8: baggy hoodies look slightly baggier on me because of how 1157 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,560 Speaker 8: SHORT i. Am my girlfriend says she thinks it's, cute 1158 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 8: AND i think her hoodies are. Comfortable plus it's not 1159 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 8: LIKE i do it all the time. Anyway my sister 1160 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 8: in law had her rant about how it's gross and 1161 00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:22,040 Speaker 8: makes me less of than, man and how it makes her. 1162 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,640 Speaker 5: Uncomfortable she made. 1163 00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,960 Speaker 8: A few comments about how my nephew could be influenced 1164 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 8: by my. Behavior let's hope he's not influenced by your 1165 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:30,360 Speaker 8: behavior because you. 1166 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:30,880 Speaker 5: Suck. 1167 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:31,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1168 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:35,080 Speaker 8: Literally things were tense for a while after, that and 1169 00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,400 Speaker 8: we left a bit earlier than we had originally. Planned 1170 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,759 Speaker 8: so fast forward to yesterday. Again we were all at 1171 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,320 Speaker 8: my parents' house AND i had, decided with my girlfriend's, 1172 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 8: approval to wear her bright pink school. HOODIE i didn't 1173 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,279 Speaker 8: go to the same school as my, girlfriend and my 1174 00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 8: sister in law knows that she recognized the hoodie and went, 1175 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 8: quiet shooting us dirty looks whenever she could and making 1176 00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,840 Speaker 8: snarky comments every now and. THEN i later got a 1177 00:53:59,880 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 8: text from my brother SAYING i had made my sister 1178 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 8: in law really uncomfortable and THAT i was being inconsiderate 1179 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 8: for wearing SOMETHING i knew would upset. Her he texted 1180 00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 8: that and saw nothing wrong with. 1181 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,759 Speaker 7: That let's just like like read it back before we send, it. 1182 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:19,480 Speaker 8: PLEASE i would be so obnoxious in my. Response, yeah 1183 00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:21,919 Speaker 8: what would you? Say in like, ALL i would send 1184 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 8: it like a like a copy pasta style where it'd 1185 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,359 Speaker 8: be like like like deaf con, five like red. 1186 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,000 Speaker 5: Alert like sister in law's. Uncomfortable everyone dropped. 1187 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,000 Speaker 8: Everything we have to figure out how to make her 1188 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 8: comfortable at all. 1189 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:37,960 Speaker 7: Times someone else wearing a pink hoodie made her. 1190 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,279 Speaker 3: Uncomfortable we need we need all hands on. 1191 00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:41,360 Speaker 6: Deck all hands on. 1192 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,120 Speaker 8: Deck called THE, fbi called THE, cia call The Secret, 1193 00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:44,879 Speaker 8: service call. 1194 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,080 Speaker 5: Everybody we need to fix. 1195 00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:50,800 Speaker 7: This we need to focus on her comfort now. 1196 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,800 Speaker 5: Or maybe she. COULD i don't, know mind her own, business. 1197 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:55,680 Speaker 7: Honestly. 1198 00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 8: SO i KNOW i know it, was But i'm a 1199 00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 8: petty person AND i kind of feel like she started. 1200 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,360 Speaker 8: It most of my family are on my, side but 1201 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 8: there are a few who Think i'm in the wrong 1202 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,600 Speaker 8: for being petty and THEN i should have just let it. 1203 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,279 Speaker 5: Go so reddit AM i the a? Hole but what 1204 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,239 Speaker 5: did he even? Do he wore that pink hoodie he just, 1205 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:21,200 Speaker 5: wore just wore another hoodie that she's, like that's the wrong. 1206 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:25,280 Speaker 5: Color you're a, man you gotta wear man. 1207 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,720 Speaker 1: Colors it's just so crappy because it's LIKE i feel 1208 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:30,920 Speaker 1: bad for her in a way because it's like so 1209 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,719 Speaker 1: like this toxic. Masculinity it like not to go too 1210 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:39,279 Speaker 1: into all this, stuff but like it's based in misogyny as, 1211 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,680 Speaker 1: well because it's, like, oh why can't a man be 1212 00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:42,000 Speaker 1: like a? 1213 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 3: Woman why is being like a woman? Bad because it's. 1214 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,560 Speaker 1: Okay and acceptable for women to be like men in 1215 00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,160 Speaker 1: like the standards of you, know the clothes that you 1216 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,839 Speaker 1: wear and the way you are tough and, stuff all 1217 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,120 Speaker 1: of those like. Stereotypes but it's just like if especially 1218 00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 1: coming from. 1219 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 9: A, woman, now if a woman doesn't want men to 1220 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 9: be like like feminine and wear like feminine colors that 1221 00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:07,920 Speaker 9: we've decided are, feminine it's like. 1222 00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 3: It's just, like, girl it's, okay love. 1223 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,840 Speaker 7: Yourself it's okay to be a, woman it's okay to be. 1224 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,319 Speaker 1: Feminine that doesn't mean you're, weak and it's okay to 1225 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,839 Speaker 1: be like even if it does mean that you're, weak 1226 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 1: it's okay to be, weak you know WHAT i. 1227 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,479 Speaker 7: Mean it's just there's just so much that goes into 1228 00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:28,439 Speaker 7: it and it's LIKE. 1229 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 3: I just feel bad for. 1230 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:32,840 Speaker 5: Her well there's an. 1231 00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,960 Speaker 8: Addict thank you so much for the comments and. Advice 1232 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,520 Speaker 8: i've made an effort to read and upvote every, comment 1233 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 8: even IF i haven't managed to respond to. Them all 1234 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:42,719 Speaker 8: the kind words really mean a. 1235 00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 5: Lot also to those. 1236 00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,560 Speaker 8: Of you who mentioned wearing a skirt or something to 1237 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 8: the next, Gathering my girlfriend actually loved this idea and 1238 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,280 Speaker 8: picked out a pair of her boots with a smaller 1239 00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,720 Speaker 8: heel SO i don't break my, neck and a gorgeous 1240 00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,480 Speaker 8: pink sweater for me to. Wear she also suggested makeup 1241 00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 8: long story. Short if we do go through with, IT 1242 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,680 Speaker 8: i may update and we have one uh, Oh, NOW 1243 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:04,800 Speaker 8: i do think you're kind of dancing on the knife 1244 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:07,920 Speaker 8: edge of like what do you? Want like do you 1245 00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:11,080 Speaker 8: just want? Pete like do you want? Peace or like 1246 00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:12,799 Speaker 8: do you want to cause the problem to? 1247 00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,439 Speaker 5: Escalate you're gonna escalate the, PROBLEM i think. 1248 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 7: So BUT i think they know that they're just gonna 1249 00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:17,920 Speaker 7: mess with. 1250 00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,160 Speaker 6: Her, yeah, yeah. 1251 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:20,640 Speaker 5: It's gonna get. 1252 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,640 Speaker 8: Worse you, know like a lot of times people just 1253 00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:24,080 Speaker 8: want to win something and win it and win. It 1254 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,520 Speaker 8: but like, really like the best solution would just be 1255 00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:27,680 Speaker 8: to like kind. 1256 00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:28,160 Speaker 5: Of not care. 1257 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:29,320 Speaker 6: Truly. 1258 00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 8: Update this actually happened a week or two after my original, 1259 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 8: post but we've had a few unrelated family issues going 1260 00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 8: on AND i haven't been able to post until. Now 1261 00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,720 Speaker 8: like a few of you, SUGGESTED i did wear my 1262 00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 8: girlfriend's clothes at the next. Gathering nothing, major just some 1263 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 8: cute high heeled, boots her pink, sweater and a pair 1264 00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:50,040 Speaker 8: of her. Jeans she also painted my nails a beautiful 1265 00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:53,600 Speaker 8: shade of pink and helped style my. Hair let's just, 1266 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,920 Speaker 8: say by the end of, IT i wasn't looking like 1267 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:59,200 Speaker 8: a stereotypical manly. Man not that there's anything wrong with 1268 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:03,160 Speaker 8: people who do prefer more masculine. Clothes my girlfriend had 1269 00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 8: also decided to wear jeans and a button up shirt 1270 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:06,880 Speaker 8: just to annoy my sister in. 1271 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,560 Speaker 5: Law, anyway we went to. 1272 00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 8: My parents and immediately got glares and rude comments from 1273 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 8: my sister in. Law the comments started about how IF 1274 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:18,040 Speaker 8: i want to be the woman in a relationship so, 1275 00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 8: badly THEN i should just go back to using a. 1276 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 8: Slur she called, me and there were a bunch of 1277 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:29,160 Speaker 8: comments before, this but she got annoyed when we ignored 1278 00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,680 Speaker 8: them in favor of having an intelligent conversation with other family. 1279 00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 8: Members that was the comment that really got to my, 1280 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,640 Speaker 8: parents though it was partly the comment and partly the 1281 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,760 Speaker 8: fact that my brother didn't do anything other than. Laugh 1282 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,280 Speaker 8: i've told my parents to stay out of it in the, 1283 00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,439 Speaker 8: past as my brother has a history of stopping their 1284 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 8: contact with my nephew over petty things and they have 1285 00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:53,640 Speaker 8: enough to worry. About, yeah it sounds like your brother 1286 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 8: and sister in law are two stinky little peas in 1287 00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:56,560 Speaker 8: a stinky little. 1288 00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 5: Pod. 1289 00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 7: YEAH i don't like. 1290 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:02,600 Speaker 8: THAT i was bullied a bit in the past for 1291 00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 8: WHO i, am and my brother never stood by. Me to, 1292 00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:08,880 Speaker 8: him it was my own, fault and IF i didn't 1293 00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,400 Speaker 8: want to be, bullied THEN i should have stayed in the. 1294 00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 5: Closet, dude your, brother. 1295 00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,360 Speaker 6: That's, crazy that's. 1296 00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,240 Speaker 1: Crazy if you didn't want to be if you didn't 1297 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,160 Speaker 1: want these people to be mean to, you you should 1298 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:20,480 Speaker 1: have just hid part of. 1299 00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 8: Yourself if you didn't want these people to be, mean 1300 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 8: you should have stayed in the closet like. 1301 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:23,520 Speaker 2: Me. 1302 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, Literally maybe that's why the wife is so the 1303 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 8: sister in law is so upset is because she like 1304 00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 8: consents deep down that her husband is like the same. 1305 00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:39,440 Speaker 8: Way my parents completely lost, it and all the anchor 1306 00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 8: and resentment towards my sister in law that they had 1307 00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:44,400 Speaker 8: built up over the past few years came pouring. Out 1308 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:46,840 Speaker 8: they told her how they really felt about her and 1309 00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 8: how disgusted they were that my brother could allow someone 1310 00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 8: to treat his own brother so. Badly they told them to, 1311 00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,240 Speaker 8: leave and my sister in law is no longer welcome 1312 00:59:56,280 --> 01:00:00,400 Speaker 8: in their home until she. Apologizes my brother tries the 1313 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 8: threat of preventing them from seeing their, grandson but they 1314 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,120 Speaker 8: were tough with him and threatened to get a lawyer. 1315 01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:09,240 Speaker 8: Involved they now have scheduled, visits though now it's video 1316 01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,880 Speaker 8: calls as the rules are more strict. AGAIN i feel 1317 01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,439 Speaker 8: bad that they are no longer talking to my, brother 1318 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,800 Speaker 8: but they have assured me they will be. Okay, honestly 1319 01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:20,680 Speaker 8: this turned into my parents being absolute heroes rather than 1320 01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:24,320 Speaker 8: my girlfriend or me doing much other than looking absolutely. 1321 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:29,520 Speaker 8: Fabulous either, Way i'm glad we won't have to see 1322 01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:30,120 Speaker 8: my sister in. 1323 01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:31,640 Speaker 5: Law for a good long. 1324 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,960 Speaker 8: While we blocked her everywhere after this incident due to 1325 01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 8: the angry messages and voicemails we were. GETTING i know 1326 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:40,720 Speaker 8: this probably isn't the update a lot of people were hoping, 1327 01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 8: For but it's brought my family some peace of mind 1328 01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:44,080 Speaker 8: And i'm happy with. 1329 01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:48,200 Speaker 5: That and there's A nutther edit. Here oh my, god holy. 1330 01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:49,200 Speaker 5: Quap this blew up. 1331 01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 8: Seriously thank you for all the amazing comments and. Awards 1332 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 8: i've been trying to read all the. Comments i'm SORRY. 1333 01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 5: I can't reply to them. ALL i hope you influence 1334 01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 5: your nephew more because his actual parents. 1335 01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:03,480 Speaker 1: SUCK i hope that he if he grows up, to you, 1336 01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:06,680 Speaker 1: know not be. STRAIGHT i hope he can find peace with. 1337 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:08,640 Speaker 1: It AND i hope that his parents can. 1338 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,439 Speaker 6: Be Accepting oh, god. 1339 01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:12,240 Speaker 7: Yes OR i hope that he's training never has to 1340 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:12,520 Speaker 7: deal with. 1341 01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:13,560 Speaker 5: That, yeah can you. 1342 01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:16,240 Speaker 8: Imagine, oh either, Way i've seen a lot of people 1343 01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:17,960 Speaker 8: asking about my nephew's visits with my. 1344 01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:19,680 Speaker 5: Parents it was not done through a. 1345 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,160 Speaker 8: Court it is literally just a plan that my parents 1346 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,360 Speaker 8: and brother came up with so they can have regular 1347 01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 8: contact with my nephew without having to speak to his. 1348 01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,200 Speaker 8: Parents as for the lawyer, question, HONESTLY i don't know 1349 01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:32,520 Speaker 8: everything about how it, works And i'm going off what 1350 01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:35,440 Speaker 8: my parents have told. Me we live In scotland And, 1351 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:39,919 Speaker 8: technically grandparents don't have automatic legal rights to their. Grandchildren they, can, 1352 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 8: however get a lawyer, involved and the courts can decide 1353 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:45,200 Speaker 8: if contact with grandparents is in the best interest of the. 1354 01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:47,040 Speaker 5: Child due to the fact that. 1355 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,960 Speaker 8: My nephew is a bit older, now there is a 1356 01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:50,760 Speaker 8: good chance they could take his opinion into. 1357 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 5: ACCOUNT. WHOA i hope this sort of cleared things up 1358 01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 5: for you. All and that was the end of that. 1359 01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,400 Speaker 7: STORY i was so not expecting to consider. 1360 01:01:58,520 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 6: That. 1361 01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 8: YEAH i don't think you have a. Case you're like 1362 01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:04,320 Speaker 8: legally grandparents riots or. 1363 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,560 Speaker 7: Whatever, yeah unless they see other. 1364 01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:13,320 Speaker 8: Things but, yeah, yeah you have the connection the virtual virtual. 1365 01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 8: Meetups it's fine for. Now, YEAH i mean THOSE i 1366 01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,040 Speaker 8: don't want anything to do with. Them go live your best. 1367 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:20,760 Speaker 5: Life. Bye. 1368 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:25,560 Speaker 7: Guy yeah it sounds like your girlfriend's. Great sounds like 1369 01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:26,280 Speaker 7: your parents are. 1370 01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:32,320 Speaker 1: Great, yeah so you, know brother not, great not, great 1371 01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,240 Speaker 1: his wife not. 1372 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,040 Speaker 5: Great you don't want them to make fun of. You 1373 01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 5: stay in the, closet, Stupid. 1374 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, crazy that's. 1375 01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 5: Crazy why don't you be a real man Like Rock. 1376 01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,400 Speaker 5: Hudson keep that in the closet for the rest of your. 1377 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:49,600 Speaker 7: Life and that's the end of the. 1378 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:49,920 Speaker 5: Story