1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: On this week's episode of Cultivating her Space. 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 2: What I would love to see is that everybody who 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 2: reads a copy of the Merrick Maxwell Streek can go 4 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 2: out into the world and find someone else where they 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: can share their opinions and revelations with. Because that's how 6 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 2: stories live, that's how they become immortal, is through the 7 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 2: sharing of them. 8 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: Today's episode is sure to provide you with motivation, inspiration, 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: or a fresh perspective. If you have any AHA moments 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 1: or appreciate anything from this episode, please leave us a 11 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 1: review to let us know we're on the right track. Also, 12 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: we release episodes every Friday, so be sure to subscribe 13 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: on iTunes and visit cultivatingheirspace dot com to access our 14 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: exclusive after show and other bonus content from the Patreon tab. 15 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 3: Welcome to Cultivating her Space, a podcast dedicated to uplifting 16 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 3: women like you. We're your hosts doctor Dominique Bussard, a 17 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 3: college professor and psychologist. 18 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 4: And Terry Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker. In a 19 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 4: world where black women are often misrepresented and misunderstood, please 20 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 4: join us as we initiate authentic conversations on everything from 21 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 4: fibroids to fake friends and create a safe space where 22 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 4: black women can just be Lady. We have a very 23 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 4: special guest today that we believe is going to be 24 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 4: super inspiring, and we're so excited for this conversation. So 25 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 4: I'm going to go ahead and read her bio and 26 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 4: then we'll jump into our quote of the day and 27 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: get to this juicy conversation. Avery Cunningham is a resident 28 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: of Memphis, Tennessee, and a twenty sixteen graduate of DePaul 29 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 4: University's Master of Arts Writing and Publishing program. She has 30 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 4: over a decade of editorial experience with various literary magazines, 31 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 4: small presses, and bestselling authors. Avery grew up surrounded by 32 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 4: exceptional African Americans who strive to uplift their communities while 33 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 4: also maintaining a tenuous hold on prosperity and a starkly 34 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 4: segregated environment. The sensation of being at once within and 35 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 4: without is something she has grappled with since her childhood 36 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 4: and explores thoroughly in her work of historical fiction. When 37 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 4: not writing, Avery is adventuring with her Bernie's mountain dog, 38 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 4: Grizzly and waiting waist deep in research for her next novel. 39 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 4: She aspires to tell the stories of complex characters fighting 40 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 4: for their right to exist at the fringes of history. 41 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,839 Speaker 4: The Mayor of Maxwell Street is her debut novel, which 42 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 4: you can go get a copy of, So be sure 43 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 4: to take a look at the show notes and click 44 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 4: on that link. And without further Ado, Avery, welcome to 45 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 4: cultivating her Space. 46 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 2: Hi, Hello, thank you so much for having me. I'm 47 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: so excited to be here. This is it is a 48 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 2: wonderful honor, and I can't wait to talk with you 49 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 2: all about about the book. Yay, we're so excited. 50 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 5: To have you. 51 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 6: Yes, we are definitely looking forward to this conversation. And 52 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,959 Speaker 6: so I will start us with the quote of the day. 53 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 6: And Avery, you know we have been on your social 54 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 6: media as you have been on oppress for getting ready 55 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 6: for the lusch of your book, and so. 56 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 5: This quote will sound very familiar to you. 57 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 6: Okay, Oh dear either your words, all right, our quote 58 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 6: of the day. A part of me is still a 59 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 6: little girl staring up at her mother's collection of books, 60 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 6: dreaming of the day when my story could sit on 61 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 6: that shell. I'm gonna leave that one more time for 62 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 6: the people in the back so they really grasp what 63 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 6: we are going to be talking about today. A part 64 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 6: of me is still a little girl staring up at 65 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 6: her mother's collection of books, dreaming of the day when 66 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 6: my story could sit on that shell. Avery, how does 67 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 6: it feel to have your story sitting in your mother's 68 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 6: collection of books? 69 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 5: Well, and thank you so much for choosing that quote. 70 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 2: It's quite representative of my entire history, my entire journey, 71 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 2: my entire legacy. I owe so much of who I 72 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: am today to my mother. Her name is Cheryl pat 73 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 2: She Some of your listeners may actually be familiar with 74 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: her in the Memphis area. She's a pretty prominent entrepreneur 75 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 2: and influencer here in Memphis and owner of the show 76 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 2: Petcy lifestyle store. And without her, I doubt that this moment, 77 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 2: this place, in this time would have been possible. About her, 78 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: you know, constant and loving support. She knew I was 79 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 2: meant to be a writer from the start, and she 80 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: never faltered and encouraging that impuls in me. And along 81 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: with that story of her of her bookshelf that I 82 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 2: used to stare at for hours when when I was 83 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: a child, we also tell the story of when I 84 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 2: was maybe three or four, stand on a stool in 85 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:05,239 Speaker 2: our kitchen and just orried. I would just well, actually 86 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: what my teachers were called preaching. I would tell these 87 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 2: long and fantastical tales to an audience only I could see. 88 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: And one day my mom she stopped and she listened, 89 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 2: and she had a pretty prophetic realization. She heard what 90 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: I had to say and felt that there was some 91 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 2: meaning in it and some of our purpose in it. 92 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 2: And she picked up a piece of paper and wrote 93 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 2: it all down, preserving that moment, and that copy of 94 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 2: my first ever story still exists to this day. And 95 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 2: that's just one example of how she has nurtured this 96 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: side of me. The opportunities that led me to this 97 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: moment are are really due to the fact that she 98 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 2: never stopped believing in me. 99 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 5: That is so beautiful, Avery. 100 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 4: It just makes me think about the importance of investing 101 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 4: in our children and being so in tune with them, 102 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 4: recognizing their gifts, and being able to cultivate them at 103 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 4: a young age. 104 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 5: So close to Yoma. Shout out for my mom. Okay, 105 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 5: that is an icon and a hero. 106 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: She has everything that I could ever hope to be 107 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 2: ever in life and a huge inspiration. 108 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 5: That is so beautiful and Avery. Speaking of you know, 109 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 5: your mother and your upbringing. Tell us about your origin story, 110 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 5: like how did you become the Avery cunning hand that 111 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 5: sits here before us today. Yeah. 112 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 2: So I was born and raised in Jackson, Tennessee. For 113 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 2: those who are familiar, it's a relatively small town outside 114 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 2: by an hour outside of Memphis, four hours from Nashville. 115 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 2: And I was raised in a pretty predominant African American community. 116 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: You know, my father's a cardiologist. We're very connected to 117 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 2: you know, the c Inme church and Lane College. And 118 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 2: I grew up, as I said in my bio, really 119 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: surrounded by African Americans who were exceptional and truly striving 120 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: to make a place for for all of us in 121 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 2: you know, this incredibly oppressive and segregated part of the 122 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: country even to this day. And my parents are both 123 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: great supporters of the arts, and especially my mother, you know, 124 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: she was an English major and English teacher for a time. 125 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: So I've grown up always surrounded by the arts and 126 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 2: artistic media and artistic mediums, and always encouraged to enjoy 127 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: the arts and pursue them. I was a theater kid 128 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: for most of my real life, and so have a 129 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 2: lot of passions around the theater, as well, and growing 130 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: up in you know, such a small community like Jackson, 131 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: you really get a chance to connect with people, to 132 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 2: learn their backstories, their histories. You know, after a while, 133 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: you see how everyone's connected, how everyone's you know, related, 134 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: how everyone's gone through, you know, some similar trials, no 135 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: matter you know where exactly we lived or we grew up, 136 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 2: or who exactly our families were. And I think that 137 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 2: also had a lot to do with the type of 138 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: writer I became. How I love characters. I love people's histories. 139 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: I love to see characters really lean on their legacies, 140 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 2: lean on their past, not only for them individually, but 141 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 2: going back to you know, their ancestors, even to understand 142 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 2: the true implications of who they are and the decisions 143 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 2: that they've made and how that will be reflected, you know, 144 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: through the millennia. And growing up in a small town 145 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: where everyone is so interconnected and where one's history is 146 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: so important, I think that really did nurture that side 147 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 2: of me, and it made me the type of writer 148 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 2: that enjoys not only telling those types of stories, but 149 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 2: consuming those types of stories as well. And then from there, 150 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 2: I grew up in Jackson, and I was there for 151 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 2: most of my life and then as my biostates, I 152 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: attended to Paul University for undergrad and grad school in Chicago. 153 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: Was there about five to six years. And I like 154 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: to say that Jackson is a city that raised me, 155 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 2: but Chicago is a city that made me. It gave 156 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 2: me my first real professional opportunities. I wasn't really able 157 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 2: to stand on my own outside of, you know, my 158 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 2: parent heads and their influence in a brand new city 159 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 2: with brand new community. And truly, if not for my 160 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 2: professors and instructors at De Paul, I probably would not 161 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: have chosen to really pursue writing professionally. For the longest 162 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: time in college, I thought I wanted to be a 163 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: professor or an editor, you know, something practical. Even though 164 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: I loved writing, I just couldn't see the realism in it. 165 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 5: But my professors say they really encouraged me. 166 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 2: They said I had a skill, and if I nurtured 167 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 2: my talent and my craft, that I could be a 168 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: professional writer someday. So I truly owe this moment to 169 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: them as well, foreseeing that talent and me and allowing 170 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 2: me to really embrace it and to even dwell in 171 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 2: places of not being a pragmatist where I could really 172 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 2: see myself as a writer and know that if I 173 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 2: worked towards that craft, work towards that goal, it would 174 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 2: be a real possibility for me. Wow, thank you for 175 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: sharing that, and you know it just. 176 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 6: It brings to light the importance of community, and the 177 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 6: importance of having a village, and the importance of when 178 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 6: people the impact of when people poured into you. And 179 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 6: so first let me say congrats on your debut novel. 180 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 5: Oh that is a huge deal. 181 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 2: Thank you, It's it's incredible, it's exciting. I'm incredibly grateful 182 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 2: and overwhelmed and terrified, and then back to grateful. 183 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 5: God, I know how rare. 184 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 2: This moment is, and so I do, I know what 185 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 2: acknowledges that for me to be here at all is 186 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: a huge blessing and it's just been the most incredible experience. 187 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 7: Hey lady, it's Terry here, Dom and I want to 188 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 7: take a moment to thank you for choosing to listen 189 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 7: to our podcast. 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All right, lady, 227 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,319 Speaker 7: we'll hop right back into the conversation. 228 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 5: It is such a huge blessing. 229 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 6: And I know that we have so many listeners who 230 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 6: may be aspiring writers themselves, and so what advice would 231 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 6: you have for them in terms of keeping on the 232 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 6: path getting to the point of having a debut novel 233 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 6: right exactly. 234 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: Well, when it comes to the kind of the experience 235 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 2: of becoming a debut author, nothing can really prepare you. 236 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 5: I feel like you can read articles. 237 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 2: You can talk to writers, watch panels, but in the end, 238 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 2: everyone's experience is very unique. I am truly grateful for 239 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: the team that I have on my publishers at Hyperion Avenue. 240 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 2: Their willingness to collaborate and champion this novel and every 241 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 2: opportunity has really made a world of difference in writer's 242 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 2: programs and in writers' spaces. As an aspiring author, you 243 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 2: always hear about how you know your publishers are going 244 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: to be difficult and I'm compromising, and you have to 245 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: look out for all tier motives and all of these 246 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 2: things that you kind of go into the process prepared for. 247 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 5: But my publishers have been nothing but. 248 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 2: Holly transparent and excited and motivated, and I do feel 249 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 2: like if I didn't have that particular team behind me, 250 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 2: that this would be an entirely different process. I also, 251 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 2: of course want to shout out on my twenty twenty 252 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 2: four debut group many authors with the debuts launching this year. 253 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 5: We're all part of the. 254 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 2: Really large chet group where we support each other and 255 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 2: celebrate each other, vent to each other, and after going 256 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 2: through this experience with them, I really can't imagine going 257 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 2: through this experience alone. And as far as advice for 258 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 2: for writers who wish to become traditionally published, the old 259 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 2: saying just keep writing really does hold true. Before my 260 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 2: debut sold, I was in a really serious valley where 261 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: I considered giving up on writing. You know, I was thinking, 262 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 2: I really need to focus on, you know, the nine 263 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 2: to five, a stable career, you know, finally, you know, 264 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 2: grow up and kind of step into and step into 265 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 2: my life. However, I gave myself a deadline. I said 266 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: that if I wasn't published by thirty, then I would 267 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 2: commit myself to to something else. So I did continue. 268 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: Over those few years, I worked at my craft. I 269 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 2: wrote every day, I took on every opportunity to write. 270 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 2: I stayed determined and consistent. And now my debut was 271 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: launching a week before my thirty first birthday, so right 272 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 2: on schedule. 273 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, ma'am, yes man. 274 00:14:56,440 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 2: And so that that is truly the one constant I 275 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 2: think for all published authors and all writers who do 276 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 2: eventually achieve publication, is just to continue writing, even when 277 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 2: it's frustrating, even when you're seeing that we're feeling that 278 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 2: it's not going anywhere, when you see other people kind 279 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 2: of reaching certain milestones and you feel like you haven't 280 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 2: accomplished those goals yet, just to continue working on your 281 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: craft to continue getting words on a page, because every 282 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: idea you have is a potential best selling novel, but 283 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 2: the world can't be exposed to that unless you get 284 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 2: those words down on paper. And even now, it's one 285 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 2: thing that published authors always say to debuts is to 286 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 2: keep writing. 287 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 6: Great. 288 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 2: You have one book down, give us two more every 289 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 2: single year, working on improving your career and adding to 290 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 2: your list of books, because that's just the most important 291 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: part of this industry. You have avoids, you have something 292 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 2: to say, you have a talent, but if you're not 293 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: actively the one putting the words down on page, and 294 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: the world can't experience that. 295 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 5: So that's my biggest piece of a to writers. 296 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 4: I just want to say, look at God, Avery, because 297 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 4: right before your thirty first birthday, write your book is 298 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 4: their viewing and I kind of want to take a 299 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 4: little detour. Okay, Avery, So you gave some great advice 300 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 4: about aspiring or for aspiring authors, and it was you 301 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 4: were talking about your parents. I couldn't help but think 302 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 4: about my own experience not having parents who were so 303 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 4: influential or established or supportive, And I think about some 304 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 4: of the listeners who might also be writers who or 305 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 4: just have any goals in general, but they don't have 306 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 4: that support, and so I just want to dig into 307 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 4: like one, that's so amazing. I'm so happy for you, Like, 308 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 4: that's so awesome that you had that, because it's so 309 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 4: critical place, such a game changer. I want to know 310 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 4: how how else did your parents nurture your gifts when 311 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 4: you were younger, because hopefully they can give other folks 312 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 4: ideas on how they can read their own children when 313 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 4: they see that they have, you know, creative gifts or 314 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 4: they see different talents. So what else do they do 315 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 4: to young or for young avery to kind of give 316 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 4: you that confidence in the determination to reach these goals. 317 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, certainly. I think exposure was a huge part of it. 318 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 2: Simply it seem that there might be something available that 319 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 2: I would be interested in or that I could grow from, 320 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 2: and just making it available to me. Going back to, 321 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 2: of course, my mother, who was my champion. Am I 322 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 2: rock and am I everything? And another story, when I 323 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 2: was really young, maybe ten years old, she was watching 324 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 2: a marathon of Hamlet film adaptations on turned classic movies 325 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 2: the the old cable channel. And I was only ten 326 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 2: years old, But you know, I love my mom and 327 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 2: I wanted to hang out with her. So she told me, 328 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 2: she said, well, Avery, you really like writing and this 329 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 2: could be a good learning experience for you. So she 330 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 2: sat down a little ten year old me and we 331 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,360 Speaker 2: watched maybe five film adaptations of Hamlin, which of course 332 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: I didn't get it all I'm click going completely over 333 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 2: my head. 334 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 5: But but my mom was so encouraging and she's so 335 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 5: patient with me and talked me through the plot and 336 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 5: the language and the characters. And that moment. 337 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 2: I keep thinking back on is a critical moment for me, 338 00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 2: kind of a cornerstone where I realized, Wow, this is 339 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 2: such an incredible piece of art and literature and writing 340 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 2: and maybe one day I could tell a story like this, 341 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 2: I could create characters. 342 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 5: As impactful as this. 343 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 2: And that was just off of one afternoon of exposure 344 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 2: that that set, you know, a course from my entire life, 345 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 2: and in terms of I guess advice, And of course 346 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 2: I'm not a parent, so I can't speak to to this. Well, 347 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,199 Speaker 2: my Bernie's Mountain dog would debate that he is in 348 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: fact my child. But based on, you know, the experience 349 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 2: I've had with my parents and my mom, especially just 350 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,479 Speaker 2: being aware of the interests and the passions that your 351 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 2: child has. And even if you do not fully support them, 352 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: if you see that they're passionate, if you see that 353 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 2: they're talented, simply giving them exposure, one moment, one afternoon, 354 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 2: one day, one meeting, one interaction can give them the 355 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: inspiration and the motivation that they need to chart their 356 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 2: own course. And and you know, my parents were always 357 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 2: excited to take me to you know, theater production and 358 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 2: they were always excited. It's there was a local author 359 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 2: in town doing a book signing a for you like 360 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 2: to write, let's go meet and talk to this person. 361 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 2: Books that I was really interested in are stories that 362 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: I might have seen in a movie, and they're trying 363 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 2: to find, you know, similarities in text or in prose 364 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 2: that they could give to me. Really simple things in 365 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 2: the long run, I think, but these were all hugely 366 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 2: critical moments that were foundational for me. And I think 367 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 2: when people are willing and comfortable to step out of 368 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 2: their own comfort zone and say, you know, I may 369 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 2: not be an expert in this, but I want to 370 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 2: find an expert to assist you, to guide you, to 371 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: mentor you, I think that does make a world of difference. 372 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: Those tiny opportunities are really necessary for young people. 373 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 5: I think. 374 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 4: Amazing exposure sounds like that's the name of the game, 375 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 4: being aware of their interest and passions and exposure. 376 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 5: Thank you for that, Apriy. That was so helpful. 377 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: No, of course, of course, of course. And I worked 378 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 2: with young people in a nonprofit organization here in Memphis, 379 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 2: Memphis Challenge, where we work with high achieving sidents of 380 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 2: color and a kind of high school age group, and 381 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 2: that that's still very very true, you know, just for 382 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 2: young people especially, just acknowledging that you have a passion 383 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 2: and saying, well, here's a book or a story or 384 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 2: a person that could change the game for them. And 385 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 2: all you've done is just just open a door. Well, Avery, 386 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 2: we appreciate you. And this conversation is just getting started, 387 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 2: so we're not going anywhere yet, but we do want 388 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 2: to shift up the energy a little bit. Okay, So 389 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 2: get ready Avery, okay, because we recognize and we appreciate 390 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: and celebrate the multifaceted woman, and we hear we believe 391 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,959 Speaker 2: that it's okay to be bougie, classy and ratchet. We 392 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 2: believe that you can still be elegant and dance to 393 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: strip club music. So, Avery, we want to invite you. 394 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 4: To the oh you blatchet segment? 395 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 5: Do you take on the challenge? I do? I'm so excited. 396 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 4: Oh good, I thought you want to think nervous. I'm like, yes, no, 397 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 4: you excited. 398 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,880 Speaker 5: Maybe nerves turning into excitement. I don't know. We're good. 399 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 5: We're good. 400 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 6: I'm in it. I'm in it. 401 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 4: Okay, we got our down. So now that you've agreed, Avery, 402 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 4: we're going to tell you what to expect. So we're 403 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 4: going to ask you or questions. We have four sentence completions, 404 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 4: and we're going to close out by sharing with you 405 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 4: a photo from your social media that we have pulled up. 406 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 4: We're gonna share on the big screen and what we 407 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 4: want you to do. I'm laughing because of Avery's facial expressions. 408 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 2: Y'all. 409 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 4: So you have to go to our website to watch 410 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 4: the interview on Patreon. 411 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 5: So many things flashed before my eyes. Oh my goodness, 412 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 5: what pictures do they find? Which pictures? Which social media account? 413 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 5: Am I about to be exposed on this internet? On 414 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 5: the snow. 415 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 4: We will not be doing we will not be exposing you. 416 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 4: But these are cute pictures, I will say, Avery, They're 417 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 4: very cute. I think you're gonna have some good memories. 418 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 4: So what we'll do is we'll pull up one of 419 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 4: these photos after you choose a number from one to three, 420 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 4: and then give us some context about the photo that 421 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 4: we wouldn't know by looking at it. Oh right, Yeah, 422 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 4: sounds great. Okay, let's dig on it. And I actually 423 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 4: think I misspoke. We're going to do three questions and 424 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 4: three sentence completions. Okay, So here we go. What is 425 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 4: the best piece of wisdom or advice you've ever received? 426 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 5: It's an easy one. 427 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 2: The ease it in there. Yeah you would think it 428 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 2: is easy. But now, but I've received so many good 429 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 2: so many good lessons, and I suppose this is This 430 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 2: is one that I think another thing that came from 431 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 2: my mother, but I think she pulled it from someone else. 432 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 2: We're both big fans of the Godfather and something that 433 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 2: we always talk about in our family as a quote 434 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: from the Godfathers never let anyone outside the family know 435 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 2: what you're thinking. And I think since for so long 436 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 2: it was just me and my mom, we really kind 437 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 2: of embodied that piece of advice to to have each 438 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 2: other's backs and you know it's okay to disagree, but 439 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 2: to not show any kind of division to those people 440 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 2: who are on the outside of us. You might use 441 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 2: that to hurt us. And so it's very specific, very niche. 442 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 2: But but never let anyone outside the family know what 443 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 2: you think. And that's the first thing that comes to mind. 444 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 2: I know there's there are a lot of other wonderful 445 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 2: piece of advice, but but that's. 446 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 5: What's on my heart right now. I like that. 447 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 8: I like that. 448 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 6: Now this next question is not necessarily depend on how 449 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 6: you answer, not as classy or insightful. Okay, all right, Avery, 450 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 6: I have four words for you. 451 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 9: Twerk or two step, two step, two step, And doesn't. 452 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 5: This is Memphis or the two sy area. No, we're 453 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 5: having a good two step It is, it is, this is. 454 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,680 Speaker 2: This is definitely a two step capital, but it's also 455 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,640 Speaker 2: a twerking capital. Memphis is such a such hip hop nation, 456 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 2: you know, R and B, gospel, rock and roll, country, blue. 457 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 2: So many musical dramas came out of this area that 458 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 2: the city is. 459 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 5: Really an expert at everything. 460 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 2: But I think it's a bit of a two step nation, 461 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 2: especially for an old soul like me who has really 462 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 2: rough knees and cannot try to talk not anymore. 463 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 5: We understand girls, Yes, yes, we do. Ain't them a 464 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 5: two step? All right? 465 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 4: All right, we have one more question for you before 466 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 4: we move into the sentence completion. So this question is 467 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 4: what is the sexiest item you own? I have a guess, 468 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 4: but I'm gonna you have the microphone, so we love 469 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 4: to hear. 470 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, I wish my boyfriend was here he 471 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 5: could answer that question. 472 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: But sexiest Okay, Okay, So I just I got this 473 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 2: stress for the launch and it is emerald green velvet, 474 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 2: kind of an off the shoulder, and it's really slinky 475 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 2: and really form fitting, and it makes me feel amazing, 476 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,959 Speaker 2: gorgeous and beautiful. So I'm going to say that today 477 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:10,360 Speaker 2: is the sexiest thing I own. 478 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 5: And I don't wear it. I'm encasioning it. 479 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 4: And it's so I mean, it sounds amazing from what 480 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 4: I like. 481 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 5: It's such a great dress. Oh my god, I can't. 482 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, we see you in the green belfits. 483 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 10: Kay. 484 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 5: I have to match the cover. I have to match. Yes, 485 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 5: you go, as soon as you post that picture, we're 486 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 5: gonna be liking it. Okay, you're getting like waiting. 487 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 6: Okay, And so now we're going to do that sentence completion. 488 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 6: One question or topic I wish people asked me about 489 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 6: more often is. 490 00:25:53,840 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 5: H m hmm. I'm just gonna be honest. Avatar, the 491 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 5: Last Airbender. 492 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 2: That was my TV show as a kid, and I 493 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: know way too much about it, and I wish people 494 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 2: would talk to me more so I can get it 495 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 2: out of my head. 496 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 5: It is an into the world. I'm just going to 497 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 5: be honest. I'm going to be honest here, I'm gonna 498 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 5: be honest. 499 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 4: Yes, So tell us Avery, what's something you would want 500 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 4: to tell people about Avatar that you don't get to 501 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 4: share often, Whether it's like a realization, well, I don't 502 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 4: share oh yes, she ready, she ready, Easter eggs, whatever 503 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 4: it might. 504 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 5: Be, exactly. 505 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 2: Truly, I think that that show is a great recommendation 506 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: for aspiring writers if you want to perfect your characters, 507 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 2: if you want to perfect your plot, your world building. 508 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 2: Even though it's so called a show for kids, it's 509 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 2: incredibly mature and it's a perfect representation of how to 510 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 2: write a tight, concise, but still broad and thematically profound story. 511 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 2: And I think anyone who wants to be a writer 512 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 2: deserves least to watch it one time through and it'll 513 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 2: really help perfect your craft. Also, Dante Bosco voice is 514 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 2: one of the characters, and I swear that man has 515 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 2: an age. He looks exact same as he did twenty 516 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 2: years ago, and I'm okay with it. I'm fine with 517 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 2: it personally, Yeah, to look at it. 518 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, me too. Our final centis completion. What I 519 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 6: love most about myself is. 520 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 2: Mm oh wow, you put an introvert on the spot. 521 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 5: I love I love. 522 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 2: My my willingness to go on adventures. I love to 523 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 2: travel to new places, even if it's just a hike 524 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 2: in a new location here in Memphis or outside of Memphis. 525 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 2: I love to be swept away on a grand adventure. 526 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 2: And I think that's one of the really parts about 527 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 2: my character and one of the things that gives me 528 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 2: the most enjoyment in life. 529 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 5: Good answer, We love it, Avery. 530 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 4: Okay, So we have some photos, photo of a few, 531 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 4: and what we want to do, because we can only 532 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 4: share one, we would like for you to choose a 533 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 4: number out of one in three and once you choose 534 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 4: a number, we will reveal that particular photo on the. 535 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 5: Big screen for you. Okay, all right, I'm gonna go 536 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 5: right in the middle and say two. 537 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 4: Awesome, good choice. I can't wait to hear the context 538 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 4: behind this photo. So here we go, Avery, I'm gonna 539 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 4: go ahead and put the photo on the screen, and 540 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 4: feel free to describe the photo first, Avery, because some 541 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 4: folks are only going to be tuning into the audio, 542 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 4: so feel free to describe it and then give us 543 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 4: the context. 544 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 5: I see your face and I love this. Yes, Oh 545 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 5: this is good. This is good. 546 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: Okay, there's a nice story behind us. So, but the 547 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 2: photo that's on the screen is of me. I am 548 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 2: sitting at a table with a brick background, holding a 549 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 2: coffee mug and sitting in front of a typewriter looking 550 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 2: out the window. And this photo was taken maybe around 551 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 2: twenty sixteen, and the context is I was chosen by 552 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,959 Speaker 2: DePaul University as part of their campaign after they raised 553 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 2: some ridiculous amount of money I think just over a 554 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 2: million dollars in fundraising and they had a whole campaign 555 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 2: the kind of honor that that fundraising initiative, and I 556 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 2: was one of the handsful of students who was chosen 557 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 2: to be featured in all of the materials and the 558 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 2: ceremony materials to talk about, you know, all of the 559 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 2: good that this fundraising has done for students. And this 560 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,719 Speaker 2: all came about because one of the administrators for this 561 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 2: event was taking a master's class with me and he 562 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 2: really liked the way I presented myself and now how 563 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: I spoke about you know, DePaul, and how I got 564 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 2: to the school, and he felt like I'd be a 565 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 2: good representative. And they asked me, you know what I 566 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 2: was aspiring towards. I said, I want to be an author. 567 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 2: So they set up this whole really cool seen at 568 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 2: this great coffee shop that's around the corner from DePaul University. 569 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 2: And it was a great It was my first really 570 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 2: professional photo shoot and I use these photos for years 571 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 2: because they were just so beautiful and so well done. 572 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 5: And this is a really beautiful photo. 573 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 2: And I was a I think a baby twenty one 574 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 2: or twenty two year old at the time, but I 575 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 2: these photos were a huge inspiration for me for so 576 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 2: many years. Yes, this is what I can aspire towards, 577 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 2: This is what I can be one day. This will 578 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 2: be my author headshot until the day I was able 579 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: to get my official author headshots and start a whole 580 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 2: new journey. So thank you so much for choosing this photo. 581 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 2: It's gorgeous and I love it and I'm just happy 582 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 2: to share it. 583 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 5: Yay. 584 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 4: This picture is so beautiful and I love the typewriter 585 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 4: and sort of that it's just like this authentic writer feel. 586 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 4: So I'm glad you chose that picture. Thank you so 587 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 4: much for sharing that, Avery, and thank you for participating 588 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 4: in the oly Bleatchest segment with us. 589 00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,719 Speaker 5: This is fun. This was so much fun. Thank you. 590 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 4: We're going to get back into some of these questions 591 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 4: because we have got to know, Avery, how do you 592 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 4: research your books? And can you walk us through your 593 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 4: process of creating the story and the characters? 594 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 2: Yes, of course, and so talking about this the Marith 595 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 2: Maxwell Street in particular, what we uncovered research is often 596 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 2: so much more outstanding than anything we could ever capture 597 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 2: in fiction, especially when it comes to the nineteen twenties. 598 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 2: The twenties were boozy and flashy and provocative, but they 599 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 2: were also pivotal, and through writers such as Isabelle Wilkerson 600 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 2: of the Warmth of other Sons and Casts, I learned 601 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 2: just how transitional and pivotal this time was for Black 602 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 2: Americans all across the country. Her accounting of the Great 603 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 2: Migration took this period out of the not so distant 604 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 2: past and made it profoundly and intimately present and in truth. 605 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 2: Her narratives in the Warmth of other Sons were huge 606 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 2: inspirations for me when so much of her research became 607 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 2: foundational for what I was trying to capture in the 608 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 2: Mary of Maxwell Street. And then another great so orse 609 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 2: was Our Kind of People, by the late Lawrence Otis Graham. 610 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 2: For those who are familiar, it's a comprehensive history of 611 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: the black elite in this country. It doesn't overview of 612 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 2: its culture, it's customs, its traditions, key cities, key locations. 613 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 2: And this book in particular was so impactful for me 614 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 2: because even though I'm I'm a black woman, a Black American, 615 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 2: I was raised in, you know, a pretty prominent black community, 616 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 2: I had no idea about the true depths of our 617 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,480 Speaker 2: history from this face and from this angle, how far 618 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 2: back the wealthy black elite go and all of the 619 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 2: institutions that were built around this community and this and 620 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 2: this society. And it was just so uplifting to read 621 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 2: about and to because popular media loves to present us 622 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 2: through the lend of struggle and oppression, and it's so 623 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 2: inspiring to see how our existence is so much more 624 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,959 Speaker 2: than that, that we're multifaceted, that we existed in places 625 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 2: of wealth and prosperity and glamour and our kind of 626 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 2: people is just a great accounting of that and I 627 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 2: really recommend it for anyone who wants to learn more 628 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 2: about you know, about our history, about black history and yeah, 629 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 2: and the novel was filled with cameos of a lot 630 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 2: of notable individuals who lived during these times, like the 631 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 2: really notorious Gino Brothers, which were an Italian crime family, 632 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 2: the former Stelle CLOBs, who was one of the first 633 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 2: black opera singers, and then the gangster Dan Jackson, who 634 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 2: was one of the most prominent black gangsters in Chicago 635 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 2: at the time. And even though all these people aren't, 636 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 2: you know, the main characters in the novel, really incorporating 637 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 2: their lives and legacies into the story made the world 638 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 2: just feel a lot more vibrant and lived in. And 639 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: my huge hope is that people will pick up the 640 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 2: book and read it and see these names and think, oh, 641 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 2: I want to know more about this person, and then 642 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 2: look them up and educate themselves and learn more about 643 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 2: about their story and their history. Let's see in a 644 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 2: couple of other sources I can shout out. There's a 645 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 2: book on the Maxwell Street market, which is the kind 646 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 2: of behind the title of the entire book by Ara 647 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 2: Berkhou called Maxwell Streets Survivor and the Bizarre. If you're 648 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 2: wanting to learn more about the twenties, there's a great 649 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 2: kind of comprehensive history of the twenties called Anything Goes 650 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 2: by Lucy Moore. And then another source that I found 651 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,959 Speaker 2: really randomly but became hugely impactful for me, was called 652 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 2: The Negro in Chicago. And I apologize for the use 653 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 2: of that term that that is the title as it 654 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 2: was written in nineteen nineteen, but that was a I 655 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 2: think about nine hundred page report that was commissioned by 656 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 2: the City of Chicago in the aftermath of the nineteen 657 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 2: nineteen race riots, where the city the city administrators were 658 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 2: truly at a loss for how something so violent and 659 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:39,760 Speaker 2: so catastrophic could happen, So they commissioned the Chicago Committee 660 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 2: on Race Relations to really get to the bottom of 661 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,719 Speaker 2: what was the black experience in Chicago at the time, 662 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 2: how did this come to happen? And it's an incredibly 663 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 2: detailed and surprisingly unbiased report, talking about redlining, talking about 664 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 2: living situations. You know, what do black Americas Chicago do 665 00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 2: for work? How do they find that work? Where do 666 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 2: they live? Why do they live there? There's even an 667 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 2: entire section where someone interviewed the owners of banks and 668 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 2: was trying to get to the bottom of, well, why 669 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 2: aren't black Chicagoans getting these kinds of loans and getting 670 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: these just really stark and disturbing commentary on how, you know, 671 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 2: big owners believe that black Americans can repay loans, that 672 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 2: if you pay them alone, that they won't be able 673 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 2: to pay it back, even though black Americans are Black 674 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 2: Chicagoans were some of the most responsible of lenders that 675 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 2: these banks were lending to. 676 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,759 Speaker 5: And it's a really fascinating document. It can be a. 677 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,799 Speaker 2: Little unsettling sometimes, but the truth of it and the 678 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 2: fact that it's so incredibly detailed, it paints a vibrant 679 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 2: picture of what black life was like in Chicago at 680 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 2: the time. And if I could read the whole thing 681 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,440 Speaker 2: over again, I would because it's just that interesting and 682 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 2: just that educational. Also, and lastly, some of the most 683 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 2: poignant research for this project came from, you know, newspapers, 684 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 2: publications and the music of the time. Those sources, they 685 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 2: tapped directly into the minds of the individuals living through 686 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,840 Speaker 2: that era. What kind of songs were the top songs 687 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 2: of the time, what news stories were the most popular 688 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 2: or the most controversial, And that inside really did help 689 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 2: make these fictional characters, you know, all the more real. 690 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 5: Wow, Sorry, that was a lot. 691 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:27,160 Speaker 6: No, No, I it makes me appreciate. 692 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:29,760 Speaker 5: The work even more. 693 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 6: Right when as I'm listening to you share with us 694 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 6: all of the research that went into crafting each character 695 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:47,799 Speaker 6: in every setting within the book. It's amazing. Thank you 696 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 6: for doing all of that work. No, you would create 697 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 6: this amazing novel. And when you think about all of 698 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:05,879 Speaker 6: the research that tying the energy that you spit preparing 699 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 6: to even write this novel, and it's, you know, considered 700 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 6: a historical novel. 701 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 5: But when we write about people. 702 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:23,720 Speaker 6: Romance naturally or oftentimes comes into play. 703 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 5: And so. 704 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 6: What you consider The Mayor of Maxwell Street a romance novel? 705 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 5: That is a controversial question. 706 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 2: There are a lot of opinions on that currently from 707 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 2: early readers. And for me, I do consider this to 708 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 2: be a love story. But love story does not always 709 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 2: mean a romance. Our main characters do love each other, 710 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 2: and they have a romantic relationship, but they love each 711 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,399 Speaker 2: other in the way of all that all young people 712 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 2: who feel seen for the first time love each other. 713 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,280 Speaker 2: Our main character, Nellie Sawyer, is a young black woman 714 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 2: blessed with unparalleled wealthcome privilege. And then her counterpart, Jay Shore, 715 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 2: is a biracial black man who fled the South to 716 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 2: remake himself, and both are desperate for a chance to 717 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 2: prove their worth, and that breeds a kind of attraction 718 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 2: and even though it is complicated, it is no less real. 719 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 2: Nelly is drawn to Jay because he challenges her, he 720 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,920 Speaker 2: cares enough to take her seriously, where Nelly is a 721 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 2: character is accustomed to be ignored, which is something Jay 722 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 2: refuses to do, even when it's a best interest. And 723 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 2: Jay loves Nellie because he sees and heard that same 724 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 2: brutal ambition that drives him. Nellie is a kindred spirit 725 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 2: until Jay goes too far, as the readers will discover. 726 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 2: So yes, it is a love story, but not all 727 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 2: love stories have a happy ending. And I think that's 728 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 2: something that a lot of readers, when they got into 729 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 2: the book, they have to decide for themselves. Is the 730 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 2: love that these two characters have enough to outweigh some 731 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,879 Speaker 2: of the trials they put each other through. 732 00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 4: That was a great overview, and I just thought of 733 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 4: a question I wanted to ask you. I don't know 734 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 4: if this is in the works, but if your book, 735 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 4: or let's say, when your book let's put it out 736 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 4: in the innis a series or a movie, who would 737 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 4: you want to play Nelly and J Like? Are there 738 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 4: any actors where you're like, oh, they will be perfect 739 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:17,279 Speaker 4: for this. 740 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 5: It's interesting the actors that I would want to play this. 741 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 5: I feel like here so much. 742 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 2: Of my era and we're too old now. But if 743 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 2: I could go back in time, even just a little bit, 744 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 2: my ideal Nelly would be Denae Benton. Then your listeners 745 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,839 Speaker 2: and viewers might know her from Gilded Age, but she's 746 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 2: also a really popular Broadway star. She was part of 747 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 2: the original cast for Natasha Pierre in the comment of 748 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 2: eighteen twelve on Broadway a few years ago. And when 749 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,279 Speaker 2: I wrote Nelly story, Danae Dunton was my vision. She 750 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,720 Speaker 2: was who I wasn't visioning for that character the entire time. 751 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 2: And then my ideal Jay. I've thought about this a lot. 752 00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 2: I've spent a lot of time on Pinterest trying to 753 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:04,279 Speaker 2: find my ideal J. And I what I really think 754 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 2: about it the character I have to choose now? Now, 755 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 2: is it okay? If I pause real quick to look 756 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 2: up this person's exact name, I know we're for sure. 757 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 4: I'm looking at Denay right now. You're good, girl, put 758 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 4: visuals together. I know who this person is, and I 759 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,400 Speaker 4: only just recently. If anybody is out there, and you 760 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 4: remember when Tia and Tamara Lowry did this adaptation of 761 00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 4: thirteen again wherein man, Yeah, what. 762 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:36,840 Speaker 6: Is his name? 763 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,279 Speaker 5: I have a name. He's in my Pinterest board. Wait 764 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 5: a second, Mark Taylor. Mark Taylor is his name, and 765 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,879 Speaker 5: and he he was my crush for the longest time, 766 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 5: before I even knew what a crush was. He is 767 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 5: my J. 768 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 2: He is way too old to play him now, of course. 769 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 2: But if I could just go back in time and 770 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 2: take young Mark Taylor and put him in today, that 771 00:40:58,640 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 2: would be my ideal. 772 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 6: Yes. I love this and so and I love what 773 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 6: you pointed out that as you were writing, you envisioned 774 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:21,840 Speaker 6: who Nelly would be, right, and so, what it makes 775 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 6: me think of is what are some of your favorite 776 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 6: books and authors? And how have they inspired you not 777 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:40,240 Speaker 6: only in writing this particular novel, but as a writer 778 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 6: in general. 779 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 2: Right, let's see, well, the two that that that you know, 780 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 2: I owe so much to so many amazing authors in 781 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,360 Speaker 2: their books. It's honestly really painful to try to pick 782 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,359 Speaker 2: one that's more influential than another. And stead, I think 783 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 2: I'll talk about the two ones that that I that 784 00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 2: stay on my mind most often, that I think about 785 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 2: most and whenever I'm trying to work through something in writing. 786 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 5: And the first one has to be a book called. 787 00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,960 Speaker 2: American Gods by Neil Gaiman. It was a revelation for me. 788 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,800 Speaker 2: I remember the day I first read that book. And 789 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 2: for those who aren't familiar with the American Gods is 790 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,680 Speaker 2: we'll have to explain without spoiling. Essentially, the whole premise 791 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 2: is that when people immigrated or were brought to America, 792 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 2: they brought their religions with them, and they brought their 793 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,280 Speaker 2: gods with them. And it's a kind of a story 794 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,720 Speaker 2: of America where all of these kind of forgotten gods 795 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 2: have to figure out how to live in the country 796 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 2: and in the world that doesn't believe in them anymore. 797 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,960 Speaker 2: And it's one of the most influential books that I've 798 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 2: ever read. When I read it over the course of 799 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,360 Speaker 2: a day, and it truly was over the course of 800 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 2: a day, I couldn't put it down. Every sentence was 801 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 2: so impressively clever, and the world building was so immersive, 802 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,920 Speaker 2: and the story was so well crafted. It how was 803 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 2: shocked by how good of a novel this was. And 804 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 2: I was maybe nineteen years old at the time. And 805 00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 2: every time I sit down to write, I try to 806 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,279 Speaker 2: cap sure that same sensation that this book gave me. 807 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,919 Speaker 2: My deepest hope is that readers can read not only 808 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 2: in the Merrick Maxwell Street but future books and feel 809 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 2: inspired in the same way I was inspired. And the 810 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 2: second book that kind of lives run free in my head. 811 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 2: It is my Soul to Keep by Tanda to Redo. 812 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 2: It was a game changer for me. And my mom 813 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,920 Speaker 2: was already a huge fan of Tanna and Redo. All 814 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 2: of my undies were huge fans of Tanna and Redo, 815 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 2: and it wasn't until I was about twelve that she 816 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 2: actually let me read wanting her books. And for me, 817 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 2: it was not just the characters or the suspense of 818 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 2: the world building that I adored and my soul to keep, 819 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,359 Speaker 2: but the fact that these were all black characters, black 820 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 2: characters going on these really incredible and dangerous and terrifying adventures, 821 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,560 Speaker 2: and at that age I still wasn't accustomed to that 822 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 2: kind of diversity. I wasn't used to seeing those types 823 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 2: of stories portrayed in media, especially not books. And it 824 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,240 Speaker 2: was usually motivational, especially again when so much of popular 825 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 2: culture seems determined to portray the Black experience is one 826 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:04,240 Speaker 2: of suffering and oppression and hardship and trials and tribulations. 827 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 2: And My Soul to Keep was magical and fantastical, and 828 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,799 Speaker 2: it was about people truly living in the world. And 829 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,240 Speaker 2: yes they were black in their Black experience and formed 830 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 2: all of that, but it was so much more than 831 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 2: the story of our collective suffering. And those two books 832 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 2: meant so much to me at the time when I 833 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 2: was reading them, and to this day, whenever I feel 834 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,399 Speaker 2: stuck or frustrated or in need of some kind of 835 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,720 Speaker 2: motivation to continue writing, I turned to those two books 836 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 2: because they continue to spark something. 837 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:35,919 Speaker 5: At me even now. 838 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,680 Speaker 4: I read You are so inspiring. We cannot wait to 839 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 4: see just how far you Goink. It's just so incredible 840 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 4: to be able to just have this conversation and kind 841 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,440 Speaker 4: of get a peek behind the curtain and learn about 842 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 4: your process and your inspiration. 843 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,000 Speaker 5: Of course, your process, your background. Is there anything in 844 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,399 Speaker 5: particular that you would want to tell our listeners as 845 00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 5: being closed out that you maybe have it shared already, 846 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 5: just give them more context or something about your book, 847 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 5: or just anything in general, Like you have the mic, 848 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 5: the world is listening. What would you want to say? 849 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 2: Let's see truly, of course I want to say thank you. 850 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 2: This has been a wonderful experience and a wonderful opportunity. 851 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 2: And it's crazy when when you're a writer, you go 852 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 2: through the process of writing the book and drafting and 853 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,920 Speaker 2: crafting and outlining, you begin to think that you're in 854 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 2: it by yourself, that is just you, when your head 855 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:29,279 Speaker 2: and your thoughts and your computer. But in truth, these 856 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 2: stories are made to be shared and these topics are 857 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 2: made to be discussed. And it's only in situations like 858 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,879 Speaker 2: these talking to you, wonderful wonderful women, where you're really 859 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 2: able to enjoy what stories mean and what books mean. 860 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,000 Speaker 2: It's in the discussion, it's in the connection that people have. 861 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 2: It's in the realizations and revelations that people have, and 862 00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 2: that for those of you who have listened to this 863 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 2: podcast and you're like, I'm really interested in this book 864 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:57,880 Speaker 2: and you go to pick up The Merrith Maxwell Street, 865 00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 2: I really encourage you to read it with the or 866 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,399 Speaker 2: read it with a friend, someone who you can talk 867 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 2: to about all of the different themes, plots, and characters. 868 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:07,320 Speaker 5: It's a book that's. 869 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 2: Really made to challenge people, and these are themes that 870 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,879 Speaker 2: are made to be discussed. And what I would love 871 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 2: to see is that everybody who reads a copy of 872 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 2: The Merck Maxwell Street can go out into the world 873 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,640 Speaker 2: and find someone else, but they can share their opinions 874 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,480 Speaker 2: and revelations with because that's how stories live, that's how 875 00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:25,959 Speaker 2: they become immortal, is through the sharing of them. 876 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,880 Speaker 6: Yes, I am so glad that you said that angry, 877 00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 6: because as you were talking, what immediately came up for 878 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 6: me was the idea of like your book being read 879 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:38,280 Speaker 6: in a book club. 880 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,239 Speaker 5: Right, and so. 881 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,440 Speaker 6: For our listeners who are inevitably going to read the 882 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,479 Speaker 6: book and they're going to bring it to their book club, 883 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,840 Speaker 6: what would be the top two questions that you think 884 00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,480 Speaker 6: readers should discuss. 885 00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:06,160 Speaker 5: Yes, a question that I really love is and that 886 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 5: I post to a lot. 887 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,520 Speaker 2: Of people and a lot of book clubs is after 888 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,360 Speaker 2: reading the book and knowing that our main character, Nelly Sawyer, 889 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,960 Speaker 2: is a black woman, but she's also a black woman 890 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 2: that comes from incredible privilege and wealth and prosperity. I 891 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 2: would love for readers to discuss whether or not they 892 00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 2: feel that her background and her privileged upbringing had influenced 893 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 2: her decisions in any way, whether positive or negative. I 894 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 2: would love to see people really converse around whether or 895 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 2: not she made the right choices or how much of 896 00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 2: her own biases influence her decisions. Another question is kind 897 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,959 Speaker 2: of the question that you asked me. Do you feel 898 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:45,239 Speaker 2: that this is a romance or a love story? That's 899 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 2: another controversial topic, and I love to see people discuss 900 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,239 Speaker 2: whether or not they feel that the relationship between Nelly 901 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 2: and Jay is something to romanticize or something to ward against. 902 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 2: And I think that discussion would be really, really fun. 903 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:04,799 Speaker 5: Those are great questions. So now you have heard it 904 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 5: from the author herself. Okay, so add those questions to 905 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,360 Speaker 5: your book club when you check out this book. Avery, 906 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 5: We celebrate you. We are so excited for you, so 907 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:13,600 Speaker 5: proud of you. 908 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,560 Speaker 4: We can't wait to see you in your Emerald Green 909 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,439 Speaker 4: Dress and to see all the success that comes from 910 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 4: your book. So feel free to just remind listeners where 911 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,120 Speaker 4: they can purchase your book. We'll make sure to add 912 00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 4: links in the show does but feel free to share 913 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,320 Speaker 4: how they can connect with you on social media and 914 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,239 Speaker 4: any other call to actions that you might have. 915 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:30,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. 916 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,600 Speaker 2: Of course, in terms in terms of you know, purchasing 917 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,200 Speaker 2: the book anywhere and everywhere books are sold. 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