1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Second date, up date. We're going to do a fun 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: little experiment here that's exciting. Before you got together with 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 1: your husband, Mike, think about the last couple guys before 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: him that you dated. I need you to rate them 5 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: based on their attractiveness. Just simply one to ten. 6 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: The last two, Oh, they're both well, no, okay, one 7 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 2: of them are changing in your head. I'd give one 8 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,319 Speaker 2: of them an eight, and then i'd give one of 9 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 2: the other ones when he showered five. 10 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 1: Unshowered, I go, okay, so he had really greasy hair. Now, 11 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: a recent study says, if you average out the numbers 12 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: of your exes, that is what society deems your number is, 13 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: so Brooke, you would be a solid five. 14 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: Wow. 15 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,639 Speaker 1: I don't actually argue that. Yeah, okay, I didn't think 16 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: you would. It's like you are what you eat, you 17 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: are who you've dated. Hey, one of our listeners may 18 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: be dealing with a numbers crisis in his dating life. 19 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: His name and I apologize if I pronounced this wrong. 20 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: Is it Thom t h O M. 21 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's an h. 22 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 4: Hey. 23 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: Guys, So according to your email, it says that before 24 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: the date, you considered yourself to be a six, but 25 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: afterwards you considered yourself a four? Now why do you 26 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: feel that way? Did you fall face down on an escalator? 27 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: What's going on? 28 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 4: No? 29 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 3: No, I mean when I went out with her, I 30 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 3: thought she was a six easily, but she's like not 31 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: calling me back. So now I'm thinking I'm a four. 32 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 1: You know you you can't lock down a six? 33 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 4: Then? Yeah? What is that? 34 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: Right? 35 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: You just like put it out there that no woman, 36 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: no matter where you actually think they stand, ever be 37 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: called anything but a seven or eight. 38 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, at least off to their face. But 39 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: she's not on the phone right now. So what is it? 40 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 5: You failed? 41 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 3: I have absolutely no idea. I mean, look, I didn't 42 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:15,519 Speaker 3: put in like a ton of effort. 43 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 2: Maybe that was It's one big clue there, Listen, I 44 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 2: don't know what her name is? 45 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know what her name is? Do we 46 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: put that much effort in? 47 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 4: Yeah? 48 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: Tory to is it Tori or is it Thory? With an? 49 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: It's just yeah, okay, where did you meet Tory? 50 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 4: Dating app? 51 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 3: Which I normally it was. It was weird, Like I 52 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 3: normally I kind of aim higher. I'm going after seven 53 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: to eight. 54 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: Are saying hear, no, you gotta wait. 55 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 4: Listen, I mean that was the thing. I've been like 56 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 4: kind of going after. 57 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 3: These sort of I guess aesthetically more beautiful women, but 58 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 3: it wasn't really working. So I was kind of like, well, 59 00:02:58,480 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 3: you know, I'll. 60 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 4: Go out with this girl. She's probably six I. 61 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 2: Feel you do you always think of people on this 62 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 2: rating scale? 63 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: No? I mean, okay, all men think that way. Surprise flash. 64 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: We think beautiful women are beautiful. 65 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: Different. That's different than rating every single person. You mean, okay, 66 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 2: so here's my question. 67 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: Women do this? I know women rate guys. 68 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 2: I don't rate people in my head, like, yes, I 69 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 2: find them attractive or not attractive, for sure, but I 70 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: don't play. 71 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: Was one of your boyfriends? 72 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 5: Was the other one? 73 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: You don't rate people? Okay? I guess you. 74 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 4: Can. 75 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: I just ask them a question, go ahead. 76 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: I'm curious because it doesn't sound like you are attracted 77 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: to this woman, and it doesn't sound like you're interested. 78 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 2: Why are you calling us to getting in touch with her. 79 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 4: I mean it's not as if I wasn't unattracted to her. 80 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 3: I mean we were definitely getting along. 81 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: I guess the people you keep her he's being rejected 82 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 2: and he hates it, you know what I mean? Like 83 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: it's a what you can't have things? 84 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: That's true. 85 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 4: I don't know. 86 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 3: I mean, look, we just went to like a dive bar. 87 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 3: It wasn't like we did some big fancy dinner. I 88 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 3: wasn't exactly willing to spend a lot of money on it. 89 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 4: But I don't know. 90 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: If she was at seven or eight, then you would 91 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: have gone the extra mile and like paid it. 92 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 4: I probably would have. 93 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's for you. 94 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 2: Were you nice to her when you were on the. 95 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 1: Day, I'm being serious. 96 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 6: Did you compliment her a little bit? 97 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 3: I mean if we hung out, I mean we laughed 98 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: every once in a while. It was kind of cool. 99 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 3: The one thing that was kind. 100 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 1: Of strange, I guess after we. 101 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 7: Had been drinking a little bit, like went to the 102 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 7: bathroom and I came back and I was going to 103 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 7: give her like a surprise hug, but she was she 104 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 7: was sitting down on a bar stool, and I kind 105 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 7: of like gave her a hug from behind, and it. 106 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 3: Was almost like I got her in like a little headlog. 107 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: You're standing up and she's sitting, so, yeah, isn't right 108 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: really put her in a hand? 109 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 2: No, my husband's height. It's like whenever he hugs me 110 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: from behind. It is literally like a chokehold. 111 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: And I hate it. I hate it so much. Did 112 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: you let go? After thirty seconds consciousness? She literally false sleep. 113 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 4: I gave her like a little nuggie, you know, kind 114 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 4: of thing. 115 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 2: Like are you joking? 116 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 6: No, that's a joke. 117 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 4: No, it was just like stupid quick though. 118 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: That's a little friend. 119 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 4: Okay. 120 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 2: I would never call back. I don't care if he 121 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: was a twenty on whatether scale you're working on? 122 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 1: Ok and gave me a noogie. Okay, but you're a brook, 123 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: You're a five. You don't get to choose like that 124 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: we're talking about. 125 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: I went, what was her response to the new gie? 126 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, look, she seems startled at first, but we had 127 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: been drinking, so it kind of she just brushed it 128 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 3: off and we just got back to talking. 129 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 7: Okay. 130 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: When she realized it was you, everything. 131 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 2: Was okay, and her mood didn't change, like shouldn't become 132 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 2: more icy or cold towards you? 133 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 3: And now, to be honest, I didn't really notice because 134 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 3: I was sort of like not as interested anymore. I 135 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 3: suld have lost the desire to take it any further. 136 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 3: I was like, Eh, whatever. 137 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 2: Am trying to be a jerk right now. 138 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 3: No, look, I mean, I'm being honest with you. That's 139 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 3: totally how it was. On the date, I was just 140 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 3: like not into it. But then when I got home, 141 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 3: it was like I realized, out of all the dates 142 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 3: I've been on and all the dates that I don't like, 143 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 3: I kind of liked her the. 144 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: Most was that she was the best of the worst, 145 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: right right, Okay, Okay, I'm really concerned with myself that 146 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 2: I followed that. 147 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: Position that some of us have been in many many times. So, okay, 148 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: how long has it been since your date with Toy? 149 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 4: Then it's been a week. 150 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: Okay. Have you tried to put any effort in since 151 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: it doesn't sound like you put any in it initially. 152 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 153 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 3: I mean, look, I waited about four days. Then I 154 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 3: called once. I didn't leave a message or anything. I 155 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 3: just hung up and then I texted her after that. 156 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 2: Okay, good, And they say romance. 157 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: Is dead, Well, some people might think they're coming on 158 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: a little bit strong. Let it ring once broing, But 159 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: we'll see how Tory feels because we're going to come back. 160 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: We'll call her directly. 161 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 2: I'm actually really excited to hear her opinion of this 162 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: situation and maybe. 163 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: We'll maybe we'll have her rate you see, if you 164 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: guys strong, everybody rate everybody in this room. We're gonna 165 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: come back not healthy. It's a rape fast when we 166 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: come back for your second date update. Right after this 167 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: second date update, we've got an interesting situation on our 168 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: hands here with one of our listeners Thumb spelled like 169 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: Tom but with an h in there, and to a 170 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: few of us on the show, it sounds like he 171 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: only wants another date with this woman Tory because he's 172 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: kind of bored or. 173 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 2: He's being rejected and hates that. I can't decide which. 174 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: He doesn't see that into her, at least according to 175 00:07:58,320 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: some people in this room. 176 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 2: According to him. 177 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: To me, he said that, well, I don't know how 178 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: he feels personally. It sounds like he is passionately in 179 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: love that's trying to play at KOI. 180 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: He told us that he was being honest like eight times, 181 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 2: so I don't know. 182 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: That's what a KOY person would say. That tricked me 183 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: to true because there really weren't a lot of highlights 184 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: to cover from their dive bar hangout, except for when 185 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: he tried to hug her from behind and accidentally put 186 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: her into a mini headlock. That's a huge highlight. I mean, 187 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm or a low light for her. It's kind of 188 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 1: playful flirtiness there. It's not well to some it could 189 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: be almost like the I do kiss. It's very cute 190 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: and romantic. That's the potential for it. Anyway, we're hoping 191 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: to help cure Thomb of his you know, eternal boredness 192 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: and get him another date with here Brook. Is there 193 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: anything disparaging you'd like to say the thumb before we 194 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: begin here? 195 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 2: I feel like I covered it all. 196 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: Anything left? 197 00:08:58,400 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 7: Yeah? 198 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: What I want to ask sim is if he is 199 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 2: going to be embarrassed if he gets rejected on the radio. 200 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 4: No, honestly, not really. 201 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: Okay, no pressure. I mean she's already basically rejecting you 202 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 1: as it is. Sure can't be rejected. 203 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 3: I don't know how you know how much else I 204 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 3: can worry about that if it happened. 205 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So you just don't care about that either, Okay, 206 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 2: we're just fill apathetic. 207 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: I can sense the passion in Tom's voice, right, Sorry, 208 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: tom My bad? What if Thom's just killing time with 209 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: us right now? He's like, Man, I'm kind of bored. 210 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna call this maybe. Well, let's get it done. 211 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: We'll see what she asked to say. I'm gonna dial 212 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: her number right now. 213 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 4: You ready, you guys, are you asking me that? Yes? 214 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, never mind, let me just focus on Tori here. 215 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so many emails and this is the one we 216 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: chose to do. 217 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: I mean, Brook, We're not going to turn down the 218 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: chance to interview a hard four on his dating life. 219 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: So here we go. 220 00:09:54,440 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 5: This is for let's call her. 221 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Tory. 222 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is her. 223 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 2: No, it is a dumb joke. 224 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: Tory, what's up? You're on the radio with Brooke and 225 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. 226 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 4: Hey, Torri, Hi, it's weird. 227 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: You know it's gonna get a lot weirder. Second, we 228 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: don't know that for sure. We do want to try 229 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: into your personal life, just the tiniest bit and ask 230 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 1: you about a date that you went on the other 231 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 1: day with a guy named thomb. 232 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 4: Oh. 233 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: You probably met a lot of thombs, so this one, Uh, 234 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 1: he was the one that took you do a dive bar. 235 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 6: Yeah thomb Okay, I remember him. 236 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 2: Okay, weird, he's weird or it's weird that we're calling. 237 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 3: No, it's weird that you're it's weird that you're calling me. 238 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: Well, we're just trying to ask in general, how you 239 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: felt about the date and how you felt about Thomb himself. 240 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 6: I don't know, he's okay, fine. 241 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: You're going to ask your Alexis on a SCALEA. 242 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 1: Let's not let's not go to the super that's just weird, Okay, 243 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that. 244 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 5: I see. 245 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: What you want to ask, Like, we want to get 246 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 1: a sense of how you really feel about Thomb. Is 247 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 1: there like a chance that there might be another meetup? Maybe? 248 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 8: I mean, I. 249 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 4: Guess he did like text me. 250 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 6: I just I never texted him back, Like it was 251 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 6: a fine day. I mean I didn't really seem like 252 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 6: he wanted to be there, but like I didn't really 253 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 6: want to be there either. 254 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 2: So okay, why didn't you want to be there? 255 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 6: I mean, it wasn't like a bad date, it just 256 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 6: wasn't a great day. I don't know. I guess I've 257 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 6: been like going back and forth on how I feel 258 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 6: about him. 259 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 3: Okay, Like part of me is. 260 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 6: Like I can probably do better. Then there's another part 261 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 6: of me that's like, is it even worth trying to 262 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 6: find somebody else? You know, like, don't settle. 263 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: Don't settle for some boos our listener. He's asked us 264 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: for help. I don't want him to settle either. 265 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 2: He also, I just you didn't say that to him, 266 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 2: okay to her Tory. Is there any highlights or low lights, 267 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 2: any moments from the date that really stand out to you? 268 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 6: I mean not not really, like I haven't even really 269 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 6: thought about him. 270 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: What do you mean you haven't thought about him? 271 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,599 Speaker 6: I don't know, Just like you know, you have an experience, 272 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 6: it's like eh, and then you just kind of like 273 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 6: go about your life and don't give it much attention. 274 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: Maybe no highlights is a highlight? Like that's actually in 275 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: itself that's interesting. 276 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 4: I mean, wait, are you guys asking me. 277 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 2: That way? 278 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: The similarities are actually pretty striking. I know that's confusing me. 279 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 5: I seem like. 280 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: I can't wait to see the fireworks that explode out 281 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 1: of a convert when we tell you, toy that thumb 282 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: is actually on the other line right now listening to 283 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 1: this conversation. Oh yeah, and he wants he wants to 284 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: jump in and talk to you. 285 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 3: Huh hey, yeah, that stuff so we're just going to 286 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 3: back away and let you tube love birds talk this out. 287 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 6: Go ahead, matic, Sorry, I mean, I I don't want 288 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 6: to like hurt your feelings. I'm just being honest, Like, 289 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 6: I don't know. I just didn't feel like it was 290 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 6: that special. Really, no offense to you, like you're a 291 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 6: nice guy. 292 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 3: I mean, look, no offense taken. I agree, it was 293 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 3: it was fine. It's not like we we didn't hate each. 294 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 4: Other, you know. 295 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I don't know. I mean I guess, like 296 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 6: I said, I'm like going back and forth. Part of 297 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 6: me is like, yeah, why not? It was like fine, 298 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 6: and then the other part of me is just like 299 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 6: he's not even on my mind at all that we 300 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 6: even went out, you know. 301 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 5: Is this where dating's at? 302 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,439 Speaker 1: Is this what's happening? 303 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, look, I appreciate the honesty, and I'll 304 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 3: be honest with you. I mean I kind of only 305 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 3: thought about you when this radio show came on. They 306 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 3: sort of asked me if I wanted to do the 307 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 3: second date call. 308 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 8: So I mean, that's fair, that's totally fair. 309 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 6: Like I think back on their dates, there's nothing like 310 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 6: special about our date, you know, Like I get it. 311 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 3: Weird, like That's what I kind of liked about it, 312 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 3: Like the lack of interest, like there was no drama 313 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 3: and like that's kind of not bad. 314 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: That was actually the most positive thing that I've heard 315 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 2: any of them. 316 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: Say, the most romantic things I've spoken on the show. 317 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 8: Are you guys attracted to each other? 318 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: I thought, very long thought, I think you guys are 319 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: actually perfect for each other. You're madly in love and 320 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: you just don't care enough yet the bar is set 321 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: so so low for both of you, not even that 322 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: this might actually work. 323 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think there is a bar. 324 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 2: I think the bar is left. 325 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: Well, let's find out for sure, because Toy, we love 326 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: to offer you another date with Tom, and we would 327 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: pay for that date if you're willing to see him 328 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 1: one more time. 329 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 8: I mean, I guess, like the dating apps are just 330 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 8: so bad right now, Like I don't know if you 331 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 8: guys are on there, but there's just like herves and 332 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 8: weirdos and like I had like a group of three 333 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 8: things they wanted to add a fourth one time. 334 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 6: It's just like rock out there. So I guess, yeah, 335 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 6: like why not it doesn't like her to do another one? 336 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 2: All right? 337 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: Well? Tom, hold on, Brooke, he may have changed his mind. 338 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: Let's ask him, thomb, are you still up for this? 339 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 4: I mean, I think it's great. 340 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 3: I mean i'll take a free date, all right. 341 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: I'll take And why not? How much worse can it gets? 342 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 2: Sure? 343 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 7: What the heck? 344 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: Well, congratulate I don't even want to congratulate you. It 345 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: doesn't feel like it deserves a congratulations. 346 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 2: I have never been so depressed at the end of 347 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: a second date. 348 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: Now it's officially my favorite second date. 349 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 4: We've done. 350 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: Now that book's depressed. Good work, Thomb, and you're going 351 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: out one more time. 352 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 7: Good luck? 353 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 4: Thanks guys, Are we done? 354 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,