1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show Dominic. Fill listen, man, what's going 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: on with you and this woman Jillian? How did you meet? 4 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: then what's happening right now for you guys? 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So we met on Hinge and I was 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 3: so pumped, so I thought she was out of my 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 3: league actually, but you know, I got her number and 9 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 3: we went out and I thought it. 10 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: Went really well. You know, we got some drinks and 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened because I thought I thought 12 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: I did this as well, you know, and I thought 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: she was into it, and so now she's ghosting and 14 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: I really don't know. All right. 15 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 2: So you guys meet on the app, you chat normal stuff. 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 2: You wind up on this district state and you walk 17 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: out of the state and you're like, oh, this is 18 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: I'm excited about this. I'm gonna see Jillian again. You 19 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: you're planning dates in your head, and you know you 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: can't wait to reach out. That's the feeling. 21 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted to take like a minute to reach 22 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: out again. 23 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 2: But yeah, well no, but I'm saying, you know, you 24 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: leave the date with it was certain that you would 25 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 2: hear from her again and that there'd be a second date. 26 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 2: Except you can't get a hold of her now, exactly. 27 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm I'm really trying to figure that out. 28 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let's call this woman Jillian. We'll see if 29 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 2: we can get her on the phone, and you'll be 30 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 2: on the phone as well. We'll ask all these questions 31 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 2: and hopefully we can straighten this out and set you 32 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: guys up on a second date and we'll pay for that. 33 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 1: All right, Oh that'd be great, Thank you so much. 34 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 2: I'm going to play one song and we'll come back 35 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 2: and do it. So hang on, let's find out what's 36 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: going on. Part two of Waiting Metaphonei's next one hundred 37 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: and fifty bucks with show by Shelley and Moore coming up. 38 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 2: We're commercial free on the Freend Show. He's the frend Show. 39 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: Commercial free for the next forty minutes. You don't have 40 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 2: to go anywhere, dominic. Yeah, welcome back. Let's call Gillian. 41 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 2: You met on a Hinge, the dating app, and you 42 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: had a great first date, except you can't get a 43 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: hold of her now. She's ghosting you. And of course, 44 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 2: like anybody, you want to know why. Yeah, let's call 45 00:01:55,920 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: her now. Good luck man. Hello, Hi is this Chillian Jillian? 46 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: Good morning. It's Fred. The Fred Show is here, the 47 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: whole crew, and I have to tell you that we 48 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 2: are on the radio right now and I need your 49 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 2: permission to continue with the call. Can we chat for 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: a couple of minutes? I guess I know it's weird 51 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: and we do a lot of these. Maybe you've heard 52 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 2: him before, but this is called waiting by the phone 53 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: and we're calling on your half of a guy you 54 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: met named Dominic on Hinge and I guess you guys 55 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 2: had a drink dape Dominic right, you remember? Do you 56 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: remember him? 57 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, yeah, of course I remember him. He's 58 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 4: a creep. 59 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 2: He's a creep. Okay, Well, here's what we know. He 60 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: called us and said that he liked you and he 61 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: actually felt that your your date went really well. You 62 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: seem to have a different story. So what's going on? 63 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 4: Like he was recording me? 64 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: When was he recording you? 65 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 4: How everything was like? Uh? I thought everything was like 66 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 4: normal that I looked at his phone and he he 67 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 4: was like, you know, like like recording my voice and 68 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 4: he's like recording the audio. 69 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: Like a phone memoir a voice notoe or whatever? 70 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, like why on? Like I don't know, like, are 71 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 4: you positive? 72 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? 73 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 4: I am absolutely positive. Like I was so freached out 74 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 4: that I just like I just needed. 75 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: To get out of there. You ask him, did you 76 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 2: so you see this? And you're like, I think I'm 77 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: being recorded? Did you say something? 78 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: No? 79 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 2: It's just like. 80 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 4: Really like I was weirded out and I was like, 81 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 4: what he's like a private detective or something. 82 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: I don't know, you've never heard this one. Let me 83 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: bring Dominic in. I forgot you mention. I'm sorry because 84 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 2: now that you're he kind of creeps you out. I 85 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: don't mean to do this to you, but Dominic is 86 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: on the phone here he is listening again like a 87 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: creep But what are you doing? Why did you record her? 88 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: Are you recording her? 89 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: First of all, wait, I think there's a misunderstanding. I wasn't. 90 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: I was recording me, okay, like recording both of you? 91 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 2: Why well? 92 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: But the reason, the reason, like it wasn't. It wasn't 93 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: a creepy thing. I Oh my gosh, Jillian, I like 94 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: you so much and I want to make sure that 95 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: I was doing well on the date. And so I 96 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: was recording myself and I see where I was, you know, 97 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: doing well. 98 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 2: Like so like when you go home and then review 99 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 2: the film, I don't want to hear myself on a 100 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 2: date ever again, Oh my god. 101 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: But okay, So but I read something that like, you know, 102 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: if you can measure what you're doing, you can you 103 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: can get better at it. So if I if I 104 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: know that I'm I'm making some mistakes, then I can 105 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: address them and then. 106 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 4: Like here's the here's the thing you're like, I really 107 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 4: like aside from this very creepy thing that you have 108 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 4: dying like you. 109 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 3: Cannot do that. 110 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 4: You're very sweet, but like the facts that you think 111 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 4: that you need to like get better. But no, no, 112 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 4: it doesn't have to take You're in a different than 113 00:04:59,200 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 4: I am. 114 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 2: You know, Look, I appreciate what you're trying to do. 115 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: I guess for if that's your method, but you can't 116 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 2: do it and it's weird. It's gonna come off weird 117 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: every time. So I don't know. I mean, and I guess, 118 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: how how. 119 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: Do I get better. 120 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 4: Yourself or something? 121 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 2: But it sounds like you were fine, like I think 122 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: you would have been Jillian. Would he have been okay? 123 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 2: Had he not been recording you without your. 124 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 4: Knowledge actual not acted like a serial killer. 125 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: The y see, I've never I have never hurt any 126 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: any bus in my house. 127 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: Got it. It's a weird thing to do. And it 128 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 2: sounds like you're fine. It sounds like maybe you have 129 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 2: some anxiety or. 130 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 3: Or you're yes, yes, anxiety, Yes to the home. 131 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: And decompressed in a lot of ways without recording somebody, 132 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 2: because it's gonna come off the wrong way every time. 133 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: Doesn't everybody record everybody? There? 134 00:05:54,400 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 2: Actually no? So okay, yeah, well, I mean, yes, your 135 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 2: apple does, but that's different. That's totally different. Look, you're 136 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: sweet man. It sounds like you had the best intentions, 137 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 2: but it didn't come off the right way. And also sounds, 138 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 2: to say one more time, it sounds like you were fine. 139 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: So I don't think you should worry about you know, 140 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: I don't think you should overthink this. In the future, 141 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 2: you don't have to record your date, and it sounds 142 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 2: like maybe you'd be okay. 143 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: Well okay, Well what if we just tried it again 144 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: and there wasn't any recording, Like I could just leave 145 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: my phone at home. 146 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 2: That would be a good place to start. But is 147 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: there any way Jillian would you consider that go to therapy? Okay, 148 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: Chastise the guy. 149 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 4: I think therapy is great, and I I go therapy. 150 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 4: It just seems like you have like a crippling like 151 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 4: anxiety and you know. 152 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 2: Okay, guys, guys, guys, we're not going to solve this 153 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: in this segment here, but you know, I starting to 154 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 2: think about dominic. We wish you the best, Jillian. I'm 155 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 2: sorry you were freaked out. At least now you have 156 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: some answers and guys, thanks for your time. 157 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 4: Thank you. 158 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: Thanks The Entertainer Report at one hundred and fifty bucks 159 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 2: for show vis Shelley in the Showdown vault. Next is 160 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 2: The Fred Show.