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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with I R Radio. Everybody. I'm Ben, I'm actually this

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Speaker 1: is a big day. I'm sitting here in my house

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Speaker 1: podcast technology and now for the rest of our podcasting future.

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Speaker 1: I should be clear because of everybody's comments saying, get

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Speaker 1: been off the cell phone, get him in studio. So

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Speaker 1: what would you do? We bought a studio and we

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Speaker 1: moved to the Denver Thank Heaven's good to hear your

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Speaker 1: clear voice. Actually, yeah, it's good. It's better to hear

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Speaker 1: your clear voice. A little stuffy today, I'm gonna sniffle

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Speaker 1: a little bit. It's allergy season in Denver, Colorado, and

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Speaker 1: it is absolutely killing you. Yeah, we know you you.

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Speaker 1: Um that was the Ben Bitches allergy season. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 1: and it didn't go away, so I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: expected these these bitching segments to actually go somewhere and

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Speaker 1: make a difference in the world. But it's great. Um. Actually,

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Speaker 1: I'm also sore. I just gotta tell you about Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, we need to talk about how you did

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Speaker 1: a marathon yesterday. Yeah, my mom and I did together.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty awesome. Ben, tell me everything. Marathons are mind

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Speaker 1: So I do I I do sprints, So I do

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Speaker 1: thirteen miles sprints. So it's they're half marathons. Oh you

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Speaker 1: did a half marathon? Okay, yeah, so I did thirteen

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Speaker 1: My mom, who's fifty five, did eight minute thirty second

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Speaker 1: I'm hurting today, um, really bad. You know who was

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Speaker 1: there randomly? Dan Cox? Oh? Yeah, you took a picture

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Speaker 1: which are incredible. By the way, I took him before

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Speaker 1: the race, and um, he ended up doing the race.

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Speaker 1: He ran. I mean he could literally watch me run

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Speaker 1: the whole time, which I think was part of his plan.

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Speaker 1: Well he's she does Um one are those things called

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Speaker 1: the Matt Man things? Iron Man? Yeah, he does the

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Speaker 1: it's it's wild. Um. I mean, honestly, today my legs

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit down out today. Actually want to

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Speaker 1: ask you to just carry this podcast, take it through,

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Speaker 1: because we have a lot to talk about even outside

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Speaker 1: I think we call ourselves a pop culture Bachelor focused

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Speaker 1: podcast if we didn't talk about the Garrett controversy. You know,

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Speaker 1: when we whenever we have a big controversy, and this

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Speaker 1: our favorite guests, Jackie from the Hollywood Reporter. Shill Phillis

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Speaker 1: in all the details all the notes. But before we

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Speaker 1: bring Jackie on, actually I want to hear just a

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Speaker 1: little bit. What are your initial thoughts when you heard

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Speaker 1: that Garrett had liked pictures and memes on social media. Um,

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Speaker 1: But it's it's just not a good look. Do I

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Speaker 1: one thing that I think UM we want to get

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Speaker 1: we also want people to be free UM to express themselves,

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Speaker 1: I don't want us all to become the same. That's

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Hi, welcome back. It's always good to talk

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Speaker 1: to you. But there's always a secret, like darkness. We

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Speaker 1: know something has happened when Jackie, I know. So I'd

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Yes, it's a nice thing. Are you talking

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Speaker 1: about it all? Thanks? I get to see Ashley making

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Speaker 1: um and kind of his social media behavior over the

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Speaker 1: How in your opinion, Jackie, and I know this is

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Speaker 1: Do you mind sharing? Yeah? So I'm thinking, you know,

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Speaker 1: to this Garrett controversy. Yes, we have a couple of

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Speaker 1: reader emails, and of course we would expect those, uh,

428
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Speaker 1: and we're happy we have them. A lot of them

429
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Speaker 1: aren't very kind towards Garrett. This first one here I'm

430
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Speaker 1: not gonna read the whole thing, but the first one

431
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 1: here says I'm bummed Garrett is such a douchehert. What's

432
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: a douche? Come on? You know? Oh yeah I thought that. Yeah,

433
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 1: I thought I was thinking the product, not the name. Okay,

434
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 1: that's not a good thing, by the way, Okay, we

435
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: get it. This isn't good. This is not a good look.

436
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing here actually, and if we

437
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: just get honest, because I think Garrett makes it really far.

438
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: I think so too. He's such a front runner. Yeah,

439
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: he's the first impression Rose guy. If he if he

440
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: wasn't he kind of be like the Lee thing where

441
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: Lee made a huge splash with his comments on Twitter

442
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: and and they were wrong and they were terrible, but

443
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 1: it faded and it didn't become a main storyline post

444
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: show because he was gone way before the show ended.

445
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: I think this will be a lingering Okay, in all truth,

446
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 1: I think this will be a storyline even if the

447
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: show doesn't show it outside of the show or hanging

448
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: over the show for the rest of the season. I

449
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: think so too. And Garrett is the kind of guy

450
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: that if he doesn't end up with Becca in the end,

451
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: he's definitely Bachelor in Paradise material, like, this is the

452
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: kind of guy that that would hang around the franchise

453
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: for a while. I agree, And so I don't know,

454
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Speaker 1: in your opinion, if you were a publicist, how do

455
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 1: you do damage control? Right now? I think of what

456
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: you do is the apology that he already did, and

457
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: then you kind of hope it fades away. Well there's

458
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: anything else you can do. You know, there's there's a

459
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: couple of comments we have that we're sending also on

460
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Speaker 1: his apology. Jessica says, that's some decent accountability. Good on him.

461
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: Michelle says, well said he's definitely my favorite. So then

462
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Speaker 1: to change her opinion, Katie says, even though they're just likes,

463
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Speaker 1: I personally think that you like. Social media shows a

464
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: lot about you. This isn't even a political issue like

465
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Speaker 1: many are trying like many are trying to make it.

466
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 1: I'm more liberal, my boyfriend is conservative. I totally get

467
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: in respect that people are to have different views. That's

468
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 1: what we're talking about earlier. We don't all want to

469
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: agree and believe on the same thing. That doesn't make

470
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: life fun. However, these memes took things to a totally

471
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: different level. I would agree with that. I think we

472
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: all agree agree with that they were hateful, disgusting, and cruel.

473
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Speaker 1: No matter what we believe, we can still have respect

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Speaker 1: for others. I really appreciate that Geary apologize. I am

475
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: all four second chances, and I hope the situation will

476
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: educate him and help him become a more open minded person.

477
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: I think that's perfect. I think what I think, what

478
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 1: Katie said was everything that we think. I I completely agree.

479
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 1: I think there's there's a level here. Some of these

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Speaker 1: these things that he was he was liking, were like, Okay,

481
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: those are just political opinions. There's other things that we

482
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 1: all have to agree with, right, But some of these

483
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: go away beyond that. They go they are dark, and

484
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: they're they're hurtful, and they target certain people in certain

485
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: groups of people. Those things should never be liked. And

486
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: that's where I think his apologies coming from. That's why

487
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 1: I want to hear him apologize for or just talk about.

488
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back to something I talked about a

489
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: lot in this podcast. The only thing about his apology

490
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: that I don't like, and this is this is such

491
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: a personal um pet peeve of mine. I was thinking

492
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: the other day, Actually, i've by one of my best friends,

493
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,719
Speaker 1: just took a couple of weeks off of work and

494
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: and with that, I didn't talk to him for a

495
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: few weeks. I just want to give him in space.

496
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: And I'm feeling little bit not friendless. I have a

497
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: lot of friends, but I'm missing my friend right now.

498
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 1: And so it's allowed me to do a lot of

499
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: self reflection on how do I treat my friends, how

500
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,679
Speaker 1: do I treat people around me? And I notice at

501
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: times in my life, and we've talked about this, you know,

502
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: I do get irritable and I do get annoyed, not

503
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: because I don't like a person, just because my reaction

504
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: to things typically isn't good. One of the things that

505
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: annoys me to most about people, and I might need

506
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: to get over this, and I need you to tell

507
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: me if I do, is when they give themselves compliments

508
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: I've talked about in this podcast. Yeah, and I've read

509
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: Garrett's apology and it says things I'm not I don't

510
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: have it in front of me exactly, but I remember

511
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: saying things like I'm a happy person. I like to

512
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: make light of the situation. I'm a good person. Those

513
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: things are all great, but I could go without hearing

514
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: it because I don't want to hear you call yourself

515
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: a happy person. I don't want to hear yourself. I

516
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: don't want to hear you call yourself a person that

517
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: likes to make light a situation. I mean, what else

518
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? You're gonna right in there. You know,

519
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: I'm a pretty dark person. I really like to make

520
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: other people feel terrible about themselves. I really like to

521
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 1: make any fun situation as little amount of fun as possible.

522
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: And you know what, everybody thinks they're a good person. Everybody,

523
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: you know people think they're good people for the craziest reason.

524
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: So I think, if if this is a little bit

525
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: of a segment for me to express myself. I read

526
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: his apology and I think it's sincere, and I think

527
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: he did take accountability. Those are the two things that

528
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: I was looking for. But I I gotta be honest.

529
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: I did get annoyed with the self commentary. I don't

530
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: like that. I think it's am I am I crazy

531
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 1: for this? No, I don't think so. I just um,

532
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: I don't think you have to describe yourself in an apology.

533
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't elaborate on it, but you're right.

534
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: I mean, does it annoy anybody else out there? I

535
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: want you if it does, please email us at Ben

536
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: and Ashley at i heeart media dot com. I mean, honestly,

537
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: I need to hear from you because I either need

538
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,719
Speaker 1: to be um hold myself accountable and be convicted of

539
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: this and change and try to work through this, or

540
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: I need somebody to tell me, Ben, you're not completely wrong,

541
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: or maybe you're completely right. And when people self describe themselves,

542
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: it's really really annoying, so interesting that this is such

543
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: a pet peep of yours. It's just I haven't thought

544
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: of it much, so I wish I had a better answer.

545
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: But you're right. I don't go around saying like I'm

546
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: a good person. Yeah, I would never. I don't think

547
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: I would say that. Yeah. You hear it all the time.

548
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: You hear on the show a lot. You saw it

549
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: on this week's episode. This is where it kind of

550
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: comes from, too. I want to tie it into this

551
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: week's episode a little bit. You heard it a lot

552
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: where people self describe themselves. They sit down with Rebecca

553
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: and they get five minutes and the very first thing

554
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: they say is, you know, I'm just a very I'm

555
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: just a very open person. Yeah, or hey, you know,

556
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm one of those people that really

557
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: like to to laugh. It's like, well, of course you

558
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: like to laugh, Like are you human? Oh my god,

559
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: don't Now that's a pet peeve of mine When people

560
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: say I like to have a good time, I'm like,

561
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: what do you who does not like to have a

562
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: good time? To me? When you say that, that means

563
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: like you like the party, that's like code for I

564
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: drink a bit, or like it just doesn't like I

565
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: don't know, Ash, It's just I need to work through this.

566
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: I need to work through with you and our listeners.

567
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: I need to figure out how to either get over this,

568
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: to let it stop bothering me so much, or to

569
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: just continue to fight the good fight against people self

570
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: promoting and self describing themselves. I don't get it, and

571
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know. Maybe make your actions speak

572
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: for your you know, speak before your words. Can you

573
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: see my face right now? No? I can't. Oh, It's

574
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: like I might have such a face of ponder right

575
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: now because it's something I never think about but when

576
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: you when you're saying this like I'm an open person,

577
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 1: I'm this, I'm not like that is pretty weird to

578
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: say about yourself, especially to someone that you're still meeting.

579
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: If you're like talking to your friends, you're talking about

580
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: like your qualities your friends, I think it's a little

581
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: bit different. But if you're introducing yourself like that, it's weird.

582
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: It's very odd. Um. Anyways, right, it's your opinions. Let's

583
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 1: talk about it next week. Let's break down some emails

584
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: on people self describing themselves in a positive and not

585
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: even a native light. Just don't let people form their

586
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: own opinions. You don't need to tell them that you

587
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: you're you're somebody really likes to have a good time. Hey,

588
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: somebody really of the laft Like I'm a really yeah,

589
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: really genuine person, Like you know, I just I don't

590
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: like controversy. I don't like drama. Come on, you like

591
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 1: drama a little bit. We all do. That's we have

592
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: a podcast and you're listening to it right now. Hey, Ashley,

593
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 1: I speaking of drama. We we got a confront situation.

594
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: They do. Last week, I got the opportunity to spend

595
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: um five days at the Indianapolis You were there for

596
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: a long time. I was there for a long time.

597
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: I was there with andretti Otto, sports relay rewards and

598
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: the Indianapolis Five itself. It's it's a huge event and

599
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into the details. Has a

600
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: ton of tradition. It means a lot to me. My

601
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: grandfather was a big fan at the race, and so

602
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: obviously with him passing, this is a big deal for

603
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: us to go to at the race though. This is

604
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: the thing that ties back here. I was able to

605
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: spend an evening in an afternoon with Ari and Lauren,

606
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: and I will tell you one thing. I really want

607
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: to see him make it really bad. I really do.

608
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: I I just here's the thing. I can tell that this,

609
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: this whole thing is weighing on them, which obviously it

610
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: would there they I think, and they didn't say this.

611
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: I think they feel hated on and which which isn't

612
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: like oh crazy, like no, of course, And I know, yeah,

613
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: they've taken some heat, and I think it's weighing on them.

614
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: They seem really happy, they seem super supportive of each

615
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: other when they you know, when they looked at each other,

616
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: they're looking at each other like you and Jared do.

617
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: It's just that kind of like there's nobody else in

618
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: the room and all I want to do is hear

619
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: you talk, or hear your voice, or put my lips

620
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: around your lips. Um. But I can tell that this

621
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: whole thing made me. They brought them together, so let's

622
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: give the show that benefit. But I can tell that

623
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: this is weighing on them a little bit. And I

624
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: just want to say this now. They were nothing but

625
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: incredible to me. Um, we had a really good time. Um.

626
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: I got to talk to Lauren for a while. She

627
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: is a sweetheart, and um, just very engaged in conversation.

628
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: Was not too good to talk to me, you know,

629
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: it was not kind of when I when I was

630
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: talking and when she was talking, she was completely engaged

631
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: in the conversation. And UM, I don't know. I'm just

632
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a big fan of them, and I think

633
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: they've been through enough now, So can we ask all

634
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: of our listeners, I mean, do you support this actually

635
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: just to now get in the R and Laurent train. Totally. Yes.

636
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: It is sad to see how disinterested bat So Nation

637
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: is in them when I really do think that they're

638
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: going to be married forever. I do. I think that

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Speaker 1: It's your typical week two episode. Drama starts classic love

699
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Speaker 1: starts to blossom. We start to see all of the

700
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Speaker 1: Bachelor and Bachelott's little um tendencies. Let's call him that

701
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Speaker 1: my tendency. I licked my lips a lot, and I

702
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: I did, and I said, amazing, You're amazing. We're seeing

703
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: Becca as little tendency. She says, I don't want to lie.

704
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not

705
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Speaker 1: gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. But I like you.

706
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. But this is fun. I'm not

707
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: gonna lie. But you need to go home. It's it's it,

708
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy? Actually that when you put yourself on television,

709
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: you do start to see the tendencies and your nervous ticks.

710
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: Mine was looking at my lips. I licked my lips

711
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: all the time. My thing I on the podcast is

712
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: saying the thing is what's mine mine? I'm gonna say, um,

713
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: let's be honest. Yeah, you said, let's be honest. Let's

714
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: be honest. Let's be honest. Here's here's the deal. I

715
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: like talking to Ash. So Becca's is I'm not gonna lie.

716
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Speaker 1: Watch for it. Maybe you know, have a drink or

717
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: do a push up every time. I'm not gonna lie,

718
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: is said, all right. Moving into this week's episode, Uh,

719
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna grade Becca a to f on how she's doing.

720
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 1: So as far as the Bachelor at Ashley, be critical,

721
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:56,919
Speaker 1: be tough. What would you give her? Um? I give

722
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Speaker 1: her a b because everything's just like I don't know,

723
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: it's I think it's like sweet, but there's no spice.

724
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: I think there's gonna be some spice. N you know,

725
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: I would give her a beat as well. I would

726
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 1: disagree with you on the spice. You know why Why

727
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: Because I saw her make out with Blake and it

728
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: was intense. I liked her. I liked her make out

729
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 1: with Was it Jean Blanc? That was a good kiss.

730
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Speaker 1: When you just hear the name Jehan blonde, is just

731
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Speaker 1: sound like a guy or a girl or whatever a

732
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Speaker 1: name that you want to make out with Jean Blanc? Ye?

733
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Speaker 1: Just does you just want to wrap your lips all around?

734
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Speaker 1: And he smells good to remember he's cologne man. Yeah,

735
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,240
Speaker 1: that's impressive. We didn't we didn't highlight that enough. I'm

736
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 1: I'm in favor of somebody that takes pride in their sin.

737
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: Becca needs a man who smells good. That was such

738
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,479
Speaker 1: an adit, Ashley. What's your what's your what's your scent?

739
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Speaker 1: What is my scent? Yeah? What is my favorite just

740
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 1: on a normal day. Right, Okay, let's do two different things.

741
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Speaker 1: We all have this, um and anybody listening out there

742
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Speaker 1: join this little game, right us, right now, UM, let's

743
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Speaker 1: go to if you're going on a date night with Jared,

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Speaker 1: what do you wear? Um? I think it's I'll just

745
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Speaker 1: tell you what my favorite sone is because I don't

746
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Speaker 1: remember the actual I think it's called summer Night or sumhere.

747
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called. But I love anything

748
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Speaker 1: that's like summary or smells beachy. So one of my

749
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Speaker 1: favorites is Bobby Brown. I think it's called beach So

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Speaker 1: it smells like coconut, sundann lotion sand all. That is

751
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Speaker 1: what will make me feel all the fields Bobby Brown

752
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Speaker 1: is in like the singer No Bobby Brown, the makeup line,

753
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,959
Speaker 1: no clue. Okay, Actually, if you're coming into my Heart

754
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: Studios to do the podcast, what do you smell like? Nothing? Nothing? No,

755
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: I don't put perfume on unless it's like a night out. Okay,

756
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,959
Speaker 1: what do you do? Uh? No, you know I've gotten

757
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: this thing. I wear secret deodorant. It's a big deal

758
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: for me, it's a big deal for you. Yeah, I

759
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Speaker 1: switched over back in the day when I was reading

760
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Speaker 1: all this stuff about how deodorans are bad for you

761
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Speaker 1: and one of the only good ones is secret. So

762
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Speaker 1: I just I prop a little secret on. Um. If

763
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Speaker 1: I'm going out to eat, you know, going to a

764
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Speaker 1: fancy restaurants, a little bagaria. I think it's called it's

765
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Speaker 1: not spelled like that. I have no clue how you

766
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Speaker 1: spell it. The names all weird. Um, I get it

767
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Speaker 1: north some Rack, A big fan of the Rack. Um,

768
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Speaker 1: so I go to Norther some Rack buy my cologne.

769
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Speaker 1: I like the smell good. Um. But of course a

770
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Speaker 1: guy with the name of Ron Blanc would smell good also. Um. Okay,

771
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: So she has a steamy makeout session with Blake. It's intense.

772
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we can all say that was

773
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: that was something where it didn't a matter off cameras

774
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: around or not. They were going to go at it.

775
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: Oh wait, that was really hot when she was like, okay,

776
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: before you leave, and then she got him against the wall. Yeah.

777
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: So that brings up the question and some of our

778
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: our listeners have written and already about it. Is it

779
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: appropriate for the woman to make that move? How's yeah?

780
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: Well yes, I think so. Wow. That's steamy. That was hot. Yeah,

781
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: it's so hot when the girl doesn't because it takes

782
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: a little bit more guts and courage for the girl

783
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: to do it, so that means she really wants it. Now.

784
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: It's a little bit out of character, right Rebecca, do

785
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,959
Speaker 1: you think I would say so? Yeah, she's a little

786
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: more timid. Hm. But Blake do you think Blake should

787
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: have made that move or just was he was he

788
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,280
Speaker 1: going to I mean they were walking out pretty confidently,

789
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: looked like off in to the sunset. Was he going

790
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: to push her up against the wall? And probably not

791
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: against the wall, but he probably would have kissed her.

792
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,439
Speaker 1: They have been kissing all day long, you know that, right, Yeah,

793
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure they have. That was a special special moment

794
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: that was That was intense and she had the heart,

795
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: she had she had the hand around the head, he

796
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 1: had their hand around the head. There was like this

797
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: you know, what do you call It's like the worm

798
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: standing up. You know you're like kind of just like

799
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: both like groovy as you make out. You're right, that

800
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: was a spicy scene, spicy scene. So going off of

801
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: the makeout, I think Beck is doing great. She's fine.

802
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: I'm big back up. You know that. I know that,

803
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 1: I know that, But it seems like this episode and

804
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: no judgment good for her, But we have to point

805
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 1: out because we do it every season. Becca had her

806
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: way with a few. You know, she made up with

807
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: a lot of people this week she did there. Yeah, yeah,

808
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: I bet you. We didn't even see a lot of

809
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: the kisses. Yeah, you know, it's hard. I think as

810
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 1: the bachelor, Bachelor, how do you turn that down? Because

811
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: you're not against it, you know, but it's weird to

812
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: be making out with people all night every night, like,

813
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: person after person after person. It does It does wear

814
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 1: on you a bit. You know, which makeout scene I

815
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: did not expect to see? Um, I don't know what

816
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: you didn't expect to see, but I know which one

817
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 1: didn't look as great to me. Clay, Oh my god,

818
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: I didn't expect that at all. I did. I did

819
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: the hands over the face thing. Ash, How did they

820
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: even evolved to being able to kiss each other? Like?

821
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: They didn't seem to have anything romantic. It was such

822
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,760
Speaker 1: an awkward scene where he like did this little dance

823
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: and then they it was just too much and I

824
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: did that. You know, we've talked about it, like where

825
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: I have to turn my head and cover my eyes

826
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: because it just makes me feel all sorts of weird.

827
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,359
Speaker 1: That one was very awkward, but she seemed to be

828
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,320
Speaker 1: totally expecting it, like she didn't think it was weird,

829
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: but just the audience did. Yeah, maybe if you watch

830
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: everything anytime you, you know, watch something from a distance,

831
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 1: it's weird. Who who did you not expect? I didn't.

832
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: I expected her to kiss Lincoln, but I thought it

833
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: would be a better kiss. How was it bad? It

834
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: was just it seemed just like a very piece, if

835
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,439
Speaker 1: that makes sense. It wasn't like a fluid motion. Yeah,

836
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: you know. Okay, so this this is a good segue

837
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: for us. We're gonna have Sarah Heron on here in

838
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: a little bit and we're gonna talk. We're gonna dig

839
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 1: into a couple of these Bachelor topics from this week's episode,

840
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: but one that we can't skip over is the Lincoln

841
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: verse Connor uh controversy or fight? Is it? Is it

842
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 1: wrong of me actually to feel like Connor was definitely

843
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: too aggressive, but I was, I was feeling him. I

844
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: was annoyed. I can't figure out Lincoln yet, so I

845
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: almost don't even want to talk about him. Yet my

846
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 1: opinions on Lincoln like is he a good guy or

847
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: a bad guy? It is yet to be determined. It

848
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: could really swing either way. But Connor, I know it's ridiculous.

849
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 1: Come on. The way he reacted was as if he

850
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: were a bully on the playground. I get it, but

851
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: but I was annoyed also, So maybe that's where I

852
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: was like, I get it, Connor, but odd for you

853
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: to throw it out, and just odd for for you

854
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,919
Speaker 1: to let it bother you so much. You he got

855
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 1: Lincoln got under his skin. He was so aggressive about it.

856
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, what kind of anger do you have in

857
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: your soul from me to react about this man who

858
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: is being foolish in the first place. The dude is

859
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,720
Speaker 1: kissing and talking to a picture, so you should probably

860
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: be making fun of him and not be so angry

861
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: so weird. I hope people would make fun of me

862
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: if I was talking to a picture, because I hope

863
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 1: everybody behind my back would be like that Ben dude

864
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: is odd, Like he is a weird, a weird cat. Okay,

865
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: So if we break this down, are you team Lincoln

866
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: or tin Connor? Well, I would like to say that

867
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,479
Speaker 1: I'm not either. I'm not really a fan of either. Okay, fine,

868
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: in this battle, I would pick Lincoln, you pick Connor. Wow.

869
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: I know maybe it said something about me and my character.

870
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: I told you I react terribly the situation sometimes. But

871
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I thought Lincoln overreacted. Do you agree

872
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 1: with that? I mean, he was crying. It was weird.

873
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: It was weird, right, I mean, I don't know his backstory,

874
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: and I know that he really was excited about showing

875
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 1: his mom this picture. You could trust me. I'm close

876
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: with my mom. Thinks she's a great lady. Loved to

877
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: show off cool things to her, love to show off

878
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 1: pictures of me, paintings I've done. You know, it's ever

879
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: since elementary school. I've always been a big fan of

880
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 1: showing my mom arts and crafts that i've that I've accomplished.

881
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: It's a little bit odd to me that he was

882
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 1: so emotional. Maybe he's a really emotional guy, but it

883
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: was weird. And I when he did say we want

884
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: to show my mom, that was the only line that

885
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: made me go, oh, that's sad. No, it did that

886
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: made me go, oh, okay, maybe I get it now.

887
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: So here, this digs in a little bit and you're

888
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: the expert, you know, because you're in a relationship and

889
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: all in love and stuff. Now, is it attractive cry? No? No,

890
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 1: not when a man cries, because there's a thousand reasons

891
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: why man cry cry. I like cris I like crying. Okay,

892
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: So when Lincoln goes, I want to show my mom. Yeah,

893
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: in whatever context he was, he was crying and he

894
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: said it, and you go home. That's sweet. Is that

895
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 1: an attractive sweet? Or is it? Is it a turn off?

896
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: And I and more like, oh, that's just sweet? Like good,

897
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: that's that's tough. I want to console him because he's

898
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: hurt seeing it on TV, I go off. But if

899
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 1: Jerry were to do that, like if he cried over

900
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: a destroyed picture of us because he wanted to show

901
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: his mom, I'd be like Jared Kono, Yeah, like you

902
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: would give him some tough love and be like, Dared,

903
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 1: come on your I know this is an ideal. We'll

904
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 1: put the picture again, Yeah we can. Well, hey, let's

905
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: remake this picture. It's out there in the stratosphere. Well

906
00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: we'll redo this, right, like tough love because about him?

907
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: You love him? Yeah, yeah, I think that too. It

908
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: just it seems like Lincoln did a little tough love there.

909
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 1: I have a feeling I'd have no clue if I'm

910
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: right or wrong, that this isn't the last controversy Lincoln's

911
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: involved in. I agree. I think it's going to be

912
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: maybe something each week that it gets overly sensitive about. Yeah,

913
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 1: you know, we all have to work on it. I'm

914
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: a sensitive guy. I get I get hurt. Yeah, obviously

915
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: I can't speak either, but but I would say this

916
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: one was weird. It was a little odd to me,

917
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: a little much um and I'll leave it that, okay.

918
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: Moving on, breaking down the Dodgeball date Astley, I would

919
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: say this, maybe I'm crazy here. This was one of

920
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: the best dates ever done by the Bachelor. Wait, that

921
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: is so funny because I thought it was a snooze fast.

922
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:49,280
Speaker 1: I was on my phone the entire time. No way, Yeah,

923
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm like so good. Yeah, I don't

924
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: need to see you guys competing in sport doesn't say

925
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 1: anything to me. I don't learn anything, except for I

926
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 1: did learn that Leo is like kind of self aware

927
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: and he was playing along and it was funny. Yeah,

928
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: that was funny. He was good. He's an athlete too.

929
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: He played for US Baseball. Hurt Oh, okay, well that

930
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: makes sense. But you know, I was totally bored during

931
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: this part of the day. I don't know. It's just

932
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,439
Speaker 1: something that, like I think would be so much fun

933
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: if you were there and playing, but not super visually

934
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 1: compelling for the audience. Weird. I thought it was one

935
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 1: of the best dates. I thought this episode was incredible.

936
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: I thought the date just crushing things, even if it wasn't,

937
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 1: you know ri or not, I thought that was amazing.

938
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: The slow Moe video of it was just really well done.

939
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 1: In the Dodgeball day, having Chris Harrison up there commentating

940
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: it was just threw me back from my favorite movies

941
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: of all time, obviously Dodgeball. Um. It should be mentioned

942
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: that I was at that date, at the demolition date

943
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: where they crushed all of ori stuff, and it was

944
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: cool because I got to interview Little John for a

945
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: couple of minutes and The Bachelor has apparently been trying

946
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: to get him on the show for years and they

947
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 1: could never come up with the right timing or creative

948
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: and then fine, only they worked this out and Little

949
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: John was like, yeah, yeah, that's amazing. No, I thought

950
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: that was. It really was such a fun day. And

951
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: I'm always impressed year, every year, every year, And we

952
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 1: have to give the show credit for this, that this

953
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: date team continues to come up with new and interesting,

954
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: engaging concepts. And I know for them repeating dates, we

955
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: don't need new fresh dates every season every year. I

956
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: don't mind them pulling back old dates in the past.

957
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: I think that's a fine thing, but it is impressive

958
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: that they continue to come up with new ideas. These

959
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: people almost married their great daters. Um, all right, we're

960
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: gonna dig in now, right before we bring Sarah on

961
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:45,760
Speaker 1: to the biggest controversy within this podcast or within this episode,

962
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: one that we have a lot to talk about, one

963
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: that's not going to be leaving anytime soon, I don't think,

964
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 1: because we see it in the previews from the season.

965
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: Colton drops a bomb on bastelor Nation. He drops a

966
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:02,760
Speaker 1: bomb on Becca by saying that he dated per weekend

967
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: Tia a weekend for a weekend. He said it, we

968
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: had a weekend together. Oh I missed that line. Yeah,

969
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,320
Speaker 1: he had. They had a weekend together. So they're obviously talking.

970
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: I think the back stort of this is they were

971
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: talking they're chatting their messaging, which happens all the time

972
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: in Bachelor Nation, especially amongst contestants. And then at some

973
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: point they met up. They met up in person four

974
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: a weekend together and it didn't go well and he

975
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: decided to still go on the show to pursue Becca

976
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: because his relationship with Tia was not bostooning. To start

977
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: this out, Ashley, is this weird for you? Do you

978
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:34,799
Speaker 1: have a problem with it? If you put yourself in

979
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: the situation in Becca's shoes, how do you respond? There's

980
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 1: so many questions to be asked here. Um, Why did

981
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 1: he reach out to Tea in the first one? Did

982
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: he reach out to Tia? What was the extent of

983
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: their relationship? How long did they talk for? Um? How long? Um?

984
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: Did he reach out to Tia because she thought he

985
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: thought that she would be the bachelorette? And why did

986
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: things not work out with Tia? Is it because he

987
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,280
Speaker 1: got the far an a call to be on the show,

988
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: or is it and he wanted to go on the

989
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: show or did he really just not feel her? And

990
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,319
Speaker 1: it will be so so interesting if Colton isn't the

991
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: final standing guy and he's on Paradise and I think

992
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: we can basically say we can confirm that I think

993
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: Tia is on paradise. Yeah, I mean that would be insane,

994
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 1: you can. You mean, what better storyline to follow into

995
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: paradise is will Tia and Colton revive the romance that

996
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 1: once was? But there's so many unanswered questions here. I

997
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 1: like Colton a lot um, but in the way that

998
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: I am maybe disillusioned by his appearance and charm. And

999
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: I feel like if this were a random guy, if

1000
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: this were a guy named Jason or Ryan, who you

1001
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: guys probably don't even know who they are right now,

1002
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: would she say she would probably be like, oh, you

1003
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 1: did my friend and then you came on the show

1004
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: to date me goodbye. But Colton, he gets the past

1005
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 1: because of his looks and charms. Just my opinion, he's

1006
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,399
Speaker 1: that good looking. I don't know, I don't know. Don't

1007
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:07,240
Speaker 1: you think that he's like the best looking guy there? Yeah,

1008
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: I mean it's it's the bachelors, so they're they're all

1009
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 1: really good looking. Yeah. I think he stands out right,

1010
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: He's he's tall, presence, he's a presence. I definitely think

1011
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: Colton stands out amongst the crowd when it comes to

1012
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: just his overall presence and his aura, which begs the question.

1013
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I think if on the first night, if

1014
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,919
Speaker 1: we would have watched this, just like anybody, we would

1015
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 1: assume Colton's gonna be around a while, and if he wasn't, um,

1016
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: we'd be confused, kind of like we were confused honestly

1017
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 1: with the with the grocery guy from Chicago. We thought

1018
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: that guy is a presence, super good looking, gonna be

1019
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 1: around a while, but then he went home. So I actually,

1020
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: at this point I have no idea what beck is

1021
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: gonna do with Colton, but I would say that this

1022
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: would feel weird to me. It's it's definitely. I can't

1023
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: say that I wouldn't react the way she did. She

1024
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: she and are totally responded, would respond the exact same

1025
00:52:57,120 --> 00:53:01,280
Speaker 1: way she her face went dark, if lost her smile

1026
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 1: in her lighte for like the first time in the episode,

1027
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: and because you could tell how interested she was in Colton.

1028
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: And this is a blow too, like their potential relationship.

1029
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: So so Ashley, let's dig in deep little, let's go

1030
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 1: behind the scenes. I wish we had a theme music

1031
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: for when we want to go behind the scenes. If

1032
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: we laid down the timeline. Do we really think that

1033
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 1: Beckett didn't know that Colton and Tia had a thing?

1034
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: She was announcing the bachelorret she was still in the

1035
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,959
Speaker 1: public eye, she was able to communicate with her friends

1036
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: for a while. Colton probably was, you know, aware that

1037
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: he was going to be on the show, do you

1038
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know this, but do you really

1039
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: think that she didn't know that Tia and this guy

1040
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: had a thing when she went on to be the bachelorette? Yeah,

1041
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't think she knew. Wow, I think that he

1042
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: must not have told Tia that he got the final call.

1043
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Maybe I don't know. I just I

1044
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: was thinking, like, hey, I know how this plays out.

1045
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: Your closest friends probably know you're on the show. Maybe not.

1046
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: Maybe he didn't tell anybody. I'm interested to see how

1047
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,879
Speaker 1: this plays out. Here's one thing I think should happen,

1048
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: because we haven't seen any other episodes. I hope Tia

1049
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 1: handles this responsibly, Like I hope she doesn't make this

1050
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: a thing, because it doesn't sound like it needs to

1051
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: be a thing with Tea anymore. It sounds like it

1052
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: needs to be a thing with Becca and Colton. Yeah,

1053
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,760
Speaker 1: totally so. So it's interesting with Tia being so close

1054
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,960
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Speaker 1: to hear about it. Sarah here and are you out there?

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Speaker 1: I'm here? Thank you, Sarah, Oh my goes Hi. Guys,

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Speaker 1: how are you great? How are you? I mean you

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Speaker 1: guys are better than great? Actuley, You're definitely better than

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Speaker 1: great right now? Thank you? That is true. My life

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Speaker 1: worried because could it would be better? Probably not. It's

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Speaker 1: downhill from here, no girl, I mean, this is what

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00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: everyone's been waiting for and so happy to see happened

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Speaker 1: for you finally, so long she just wait waited and

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00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: waited and waited and made us. Is it ever going

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00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: to happen? Ever? Gonna find love? Is actually gonna marry

1131
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: somebody else? You know? Alone forever? Just absolutely selfish hump

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Speaker 1: with their parts um Sarah, thanks for coming on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: We have a lot to talk to you about today.

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Speaker 1: One thing I want to start out with saying is

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00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 1: we want to break down um this week's episode and

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00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: kind of Becca as a Bachelor at before we do,

1137
00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: I got a great email I actually just text you

1138
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Speaker 1: this morning, UM, from somebody who was a friend of mine,

1139
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: A great person, awesome person. She is writing an article.

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00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 1: She is a writer for a couple of magazines on

1141
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: a few people. So I guess she's trying to find

1142
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: the only people that have participated in Bachelor Nation who

1143
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 1: have then gone on to start their own nonprofits. And

1144
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: you're one of those people. And so let's start this

1145
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 1: podcast out in your segment by talking a little bit

1146
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: more about what you're doing with the Shelift program. Yeah, UM,

1147
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, thank you for thinking of me for that, UM.

1148
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: She list has definitely been a labor of love. UM.

1149
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: For the past two years, I decided to start an

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00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: organization that helps girls with physical differences discover confidence and

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00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: self esteem throughoutdoor recreation because ever since I appeared on

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00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, UM, I just I felt compelled to help

1153
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: girls that were in similar situations to me, as me

1154
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 1: that we're struggling with self esteem and and that can

1155
00:59:55,800 --> 01:00:00,120
Speaker 1: range from everything from like physical activities to dating and

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01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: just body image issues. And I really wanted to find

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Speaker 1: a way to connect girls who are going through the

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01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: same struggles with one another and to build that community.

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Speaker 1: So it's been two years and it's been totally rewarding

1160
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 1: but so so hard and challenging. But it's like it's

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01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: my life work and I'm obsessed with it. Now. Is

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Speaker 1: this your full time job? It is my full time job,

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01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 1: but I mean, um, doing nonprofits, there's obviously you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's tosten. We don't make a lot of money,

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01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 1: and so it's like definitely my focus. But you know,

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01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 1: I am a graphic designer and I'm a freelance art

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01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: director first and foremost. That was my job like way

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01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: before I ever went on The Bachelor. So um, yeah,

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01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like a content maker and creator

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01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: as far as my income goes. I guess you could say,

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01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: but she Lift is my my side project, my passion project,

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01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 1: and we got you go at us and you just

1173
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 1: started a podcast. I did, so I started to Steal

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01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 1: Lift podcast, which is an extension of the organization um,

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01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: but it's a little bit broader. So every week we're

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01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 1: interviewing women who are using their platforms and projects or

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01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: even just talent to inspire good and change in the world.

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01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:23,439
Speaker 1: So UM, I have guests lined up, you know, who

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01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: might have a celebrity following or in a huge UM

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Speaker 1: impact all the way to just your everyday woman who's

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01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: trying to do something to make an impact and a

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01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,920
Speaker 1: change for society. So we're talking about a lot of

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01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: creative projects, a lot of um just social impact projects

1184
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 1: and campaigns. And I'm obsessed with podcasting. I'm having so

1185
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: much fun. It's been a trip that's awesome. Do you

1186
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 1: ever talk about The Bachelor? Because we're gonna make you yeah,

1187
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, like like I'm not one of

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01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: those people who went on The Bachelor and then stopped

1189
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: watching it, Like I still love the frand size, and

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01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: I love of talking about it. So you know, it's

1191
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 1: it's definitely sprinkled in there. Did you watch the Sueks episode?

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Speaker 1: Of course? Of course, And I will remember, I will

1193
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 1: have you know. I'm camping right now. I'm in the

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01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: Grand Canyon, and I still was like, we have to

1195
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: stop in this town where I can have WiFi to

1196
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: watch this right now, so I make it work wherever

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01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: I am. That's amazing. You are always on an adventure

1198
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: and you're always with your new love, but it's not

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01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: new love anymore. It's a year long love. And I

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01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: think I think you're soul mate in your forever person. Huh. Yeah.

1201
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 1: We definitely lead a really crazy lifestyle, and I mean

1202
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 1: it's exhausting, um traveling. I'm not going to complain about it.

1203
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: I love it, but it's um. I mean, I'm sitting

1204
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: in this web blocks right now of like a hundred

1205
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:49,439
Speaker 1: and four degrees in the middle of Arizona. It's insane. UM.

1206
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm so in love and happy to be

1207
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: doing what I'm doing and I couldn't ask for anything better.

1208
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: If you were back up and your boyfriend wasn't in

1209
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: the picture, which of these guys would have made you

1210
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 1: would have given you would have given your first impression

1211
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Speaker 1: roads to? Oh gosh, Okay, honestly, I think I also

1212
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: would have chose Garrett because I'm always gone to the

1213
01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: funny guys. Um, somebody that you know a little bit

1214
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: quirky and um can make me laugh or just catch

1215
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: me off. Stard a little unexpected. So I'm like, so

1216
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 1: far right in line with Becca. Who would you if

1217
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: you were obsessist? Garret? And then good question, the question

1218
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: applies to you. I'm pretty I'm pretty much up there

1219
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: with Becca too. I think like the three guys that

1220
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Speaker 1: I would be most attention to would be Garrett, Blake

1221
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: and Colton. Yeah. I know well Colson, So he's a

1222
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 1: he's a Denver guy. Do you know him? Then? I do? Yeah, Yeah,

1223
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: I do know him. Um, not super well. Um, I

1224
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: know him enough. And he's great. I mean he's good.

1225
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 1: We went to a wedding together. He runs a great foundation.

1226
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: He's one of the four people that have started on

1227
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: profit that have participated in the franchise. Yeah, he's good looking,

1228
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: like ash and I were just talking about. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think he's up there obviously we're you know, he's

1230
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,320
Speaker 1: he is a front runner on this season. I'm a

1231
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 1: big fan of the grocer. I liked it. Yeah. Last

1232
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: year when Ari was the Bachelor, I wrote down my

1233
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: top five women and he what was Ashley like? He

1234
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 1: let three of the five go on the first night.

1235
01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 1: That seems to be your tendency. Yeah, I'm a big

1236
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm a Big Night One, go Homer. Wait, you know

1237
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: who Colton reminds me of? Like every time I look

1238
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: at him, he I think they're striking resemblance to Ben Scott.

1239
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 1: Do you remember Ben from des Ray season Chris Pratt. Oh,

1240
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: that's nice, it's Chris. Okay, here, okay, let's let's go

1241
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: off on a little side tangent. Let's not take too

1242
01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: long here. The Chris Pratt obsession is he that could look? No,

1243
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: I think it's like changed. I think yes, he's I

1244
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: think he's very attractive. I think he's a little overdone.

1245
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: But I do think he's sexy because he's funny, and

1246
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,439
Speaker 1: you like the guy who's funny and you can hang

1247
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: out with that. Overcame his like chubb face because he

1248
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: is pretty striking in Jurassic Park and when he's all

1249
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: tan and steady, I thought it was great. But I

1250
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: like him because he's like kind of he's like everyday

1251
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 1: guy kind of look you know what I mean? In

1252
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 1: Avengers when he's next to Um Hemsworth, Hemsworth, Chris Hemsworth,

1253
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 1: You're like, wow, poor Chris Pratt. But any other time,

1254
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:45,400
Speaker 1: but feel like if it were real life, Like there's

1255
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 1: no way I would ever have. I just wouldn't even

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01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: feel like I could strike up a conversation with hemns Worth,

1257
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,919
Speaker 1: but I could feel like I could hold my own

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01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: with Chris Pratt. I was. I met Chris Simsworth last week,

1259
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 1: and I got nervous, like it got weird. Guy's just

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01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 1: the guy's beautiful. He shines like light reflects off of

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01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:13,440
Speaker 1: him because he's looking. Um, Sarah, what is one storyline

1262
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:16,360
Speaker 1: right now during the Bachelor at season that you're most

1263
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: intrigued to follow? Um, that's a really good question. I'm

1264
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: always really intrigued just to follow the Colorado people. So

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Speaker 1: I think we have a lot of yeah, especially because

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Speaker 1: Um Blake is from Bailey, Colorado, which is the town

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01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 1: next to the town I grew up in, which is Evergreen, Colorado. Um,

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Speaker 1: So I'm just like naturally interested to see where that goes.

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01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: But as far as people, there's something about um, gosh,

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01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think, Um, Jordan's is going to

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01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 1: be an entertaining one, but I'm already he's driving me

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01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 1: crazy already, um, and I only not in a bad way.

1273
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 1: But I don't know if anyone totally hooked me yet.

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01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: Do you guys have someone I mean, I think there's

1275
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 1: a couple of storylines the Colton situation right now with

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01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: dating team super excited, very intrigued by that. Um you

1277
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: know this this whole Lincoln thing. I don't get the guy.

1278
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, don't get it. But here's one thing I'm

1279
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 1: confused about. I have watched this show now for a

1280
01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:27,479
Speaker 1: long time, but a part of it for a long time.

1281
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: There has never been anybody I've watched the show and

1282
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: felt like they're more of a character. Je He just

1283
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: seems he seems to be so much of a character,

1284
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,919
Speaker 1: Like he doesn't seem to be real. And we've watched

1285
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 1: the show many times and been like, oh, there's the villain.

1286
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:44,960
Speaker 1: Oh there's the person that says wild things. So that

1287
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 1: this person that's annoying. Do you both feel like George's

1288
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: just a character? He feels like Karen to me, Yeah,

1289
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 1: And I am curious if it's like, is he aware

1290
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 1: or is it intentional? You know what I mean? Is

1291
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 1: he playing up because you know he's going to get

1292
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 1: that edit if you will, or just that feedback, or

1293
01:08:06,680 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: is he like completely not self aware of I think

1294
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 1: he's totally self aware. You think so? Lincoln is another

1295
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: good one to talk about though, because when I watched

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01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 1: his hometown package, he was a stand out to me,

1297
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 1: Like I was like, Oh, I'm super intrigued by this guy.

1298
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 1: And then this week I just felt like, Yeah, this

1299
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:32,559
Speaker 1: is not going well, Like there's something a little Stevie

1300
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: cheaty going on about like his intentions or I'm not

1301
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 1: really sure, but that storyline I think is going to

1302
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: get weird. Sarah. That happened to me too, because I

1303
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 1: saw him on after the Final Rose and I was like, oh, wow,

1304
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: that's a front runner. And then I met him in

1305
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:56,799
Speaker 1: real life and I was like, I don't think so anymore. Really, Yeah,

1306
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:59,719
Speaker 1: I mean his hometown package is like such a seller,

1307
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: So that's too bad. But I mean I'm still excited

1308
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 1: to see where it goes. Obviously, the drama is crazy.

1309
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 1: I did think it was funny when the guys won

1310
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: the dodge ball game and then they brought the trophy

1311
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: back to the group date and they're like, is it

1312
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 1: okay we leave the trophy sitting here on the table.

1313
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:19,160
Speaker 1: Is that gonna offend you guys? I thought that's funny.

1314
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 1: Whoever said that? So good this season? Um, okay, last

1315
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 1: year at this time We're two episodes in. Are was

1316
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 1: the Bachelor? We're sitting here on this podcast, We're saying, Okay,

1317
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 1: we don't get it, We're not into it. We don't

1318
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 1: know where this is going. Do you all what do

1319
01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 1: you think? I mean outside of this being the Bachelor

1320
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: app and I mean, is this a good season so far? Like?

1321
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: Are we engaged? Are we into it already? After week two? Uh?

1322
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:43,760
Speaker 1: Do you want me to answer first? Or do you

1323
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 1: on it? I think you should? Okay, I think I

1324
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: think it always is a little bit of a slow

1325
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: roll every season. Um, and so I think it's just

1326
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 1: it's early. It's everyone is still super amped up on

1327
01:09:58,200 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: the new season of the Bachelorette, and so it's like

1328
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 1: we're tuning in. But I don't think there has been

1329
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:06,240
Speaker 1: any like major hook yet, but I think it will come.

1330
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: It's it's just always hard with the first few episodes.

1331
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: So no, I don't think there's been anything crazy to

1332
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 1: like reel it in yet. But um, maybe that's just

1333
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 1: because Beck is not like crazy. I mean, you guys

1334
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 1: just matter. You know. She seems like a pretty down

1335
01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: to earth, well rounded, awesome chick that isn't just going

1336
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 1: to have like a group of like, you know, crazy dudes.

1337
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, Ashley, what do you think? I kind

1338
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: of agree with her, like she's gonna be so even keeled.

1339
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 1: We definitely need the guys to bring the drama. So

1340
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,640
Speaker 1: we'll see which guy comes out of the woodwork to

1341
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 1: be the drama queen, because Jordan's just gonna be so

1342
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,720
Speaker 1: silly and um, he's just playing the role. And I

1343
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 1: think she knows he's playing the role. And then we

1344
01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: just need like our villain to emerge. Who do you

1345
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:56,720
Speaker 1: think it is? I think it might be Lincoln or

1346
01:10:56,840 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: Lincoln and Connor drama the entire time. Is there anyone

1347
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 1: we can picture being in Paradise already? Like no spoilers,

1348
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like I feel like Lincoln

1349
01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 1: will for sure be in Paradise. We can't get to

1350
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: the end. Oh yeah, and Connor, Mconnor Connor actually yes,

1351
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:21,560
Speaker 1: And then definitely Colton since he has some drama with

1352
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: Dia if he doesn't make it all the way. Oh

1353
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 1: my gosh, I just I look at I look at

1354
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,720
Speaker 1: these guys. Here's the thing, this is why I don't

1355
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 1: go on Paradise. I look at all these guys right now,

1356
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:34,160
Speaker 1: there episode where all they're all shirtless. I don't know

1357
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 1: how people get so many things to pop out of

1358
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: so many places on a human body. There's so many

1359
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 1: abs and they all should go on Paradise. I mean,

1360
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 1: just to inspire me, I need to sit on my

1361
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 1: couch with my halotop ice cream founding it and just go, Yeah,

1362
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 1: that's gonna be me one day. I might be nine,

1363
01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 1: but one day you'll see me in Paradise straight Perlexi

1364
01:11:56,360 --> 01:11:59,000
Speaker 1: on these dudes. Hey, Sarah, thank you so much for

1365
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,120
Speaker 1: coming on the podcast. We all ways appreciate you. Before

1366
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 1: you go, you're starting the she Lift podcast or you've

1367
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 1: already started. It's in It's it's in the running. Where

1368
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: can people find it? Yeah, you can find it on

1369
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 1: iTunes and Google Play soon to be Spotify, I promised. Um,

1370
01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: we've only had a couple episodes out, so please be

1371
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:21,639
Speaker 1: sure to subscribe and rate and review it. And Athlete,

1372
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 1: you're gonna come on my show right? Yes? Okay, yeah,

1373
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: I have to have you on, and then I would

1374
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:30,560
Speaker 1: love to like I mean, we have Leslie Murphy on,

1375
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 1: who actually gave Generous Coffee a great shout out and

1376
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: all the work that she had been doing with you guys,

1377
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:41,280
Speaker 1: down and hunders with hope for humanity. So lots of

1378
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 1: goodness going on and um yeah, thank you guys so much.

1379
01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: So She Lift Podcast awesome. Well, hey, make sure you

1380
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: go out there support Sarah Heron and the She Lift Podcast,

1381
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:54,600
Speaker 1: Support the organization, support what she's doing. She's awesome, She's incredible.

1382
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 1: She is a world changer, a life changer, a game changer.

1383
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:04,800
Speaker 1: Everybody round of a laws coming on the podcast, Ashley.

1384
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: Our favorite favorite time of year when we get to

1385
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:11,599
Speaker 1: read reader emails, and that's what we're gonna do right now.

1386
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:13,559
Speaker 1: I don't think we missed anything about the episode. If

1387
01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 1: we did, please write, as in at been and Ashley

1388
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: her meat dot com, you guys never lacked to get

1389
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 1: us really great criticism, really great love and feedback. So

1390
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 1: if we've missed anything this episode, please let us know.

1391
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:25,680
Speaker 1: We want to hear your opinions, your thoughts, UM, your reviews. UM.

1392
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, just tell ashually you're happy for everybody

1393
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 1: else's um and I'm so hey, ash I know, we

1394
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:34,000
Speaker 1: got a couple of emails that we really want to

1395
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 1: touch on before we go. Um, I gotta read one

1396
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 1: for you, Okay, it's called three Questions about josh Lee. Joshley.

1397
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:45,839
Speaker 1: Is that you Jared Nash That's what we're calling you, Joshley.

1398
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 1: That's so sweet, god a little bitter. You know, I'm

1399
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:50,840
Speaker 1: better because you made me wait for so long for this.

1400
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 1: Just sitting here, I'm like, man, of the last two

1401
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:55,559
Speaker 1: years of my life could have been so much less stressful.

1402
01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 1: If you and jaredy just would have got together. Then wait,

1403
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 1: well yeah, imagine my life. I'm gold. But then we

1404
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 1: never would have been able to do a show together.

1405
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 1: And I'm glad we got that. That was nice. I

1406
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:11,719
Speaker 1: enjoyed that a couple of weeks with you. So anyways, okay,

1407
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 1: says from Diana. I listened to this week's podcast, and

1408
01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:16,799
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for Ashley and Jared. It Surprise, Surprise,

1409
01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 1: honestly is the closest thing to a chick flick come

1410
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: to life. And I would definitely watch a movie based

1411
01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: on your story if it was made. I guess my

1412
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,439
Speaker 1: question was sort of alluded to in the story of Us,

1413
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:31,080
Speaker 1: but not really answered. Since you guys have been dating

1414
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 1: for a couple of months now, it's basically coincides pretty

1415
01:14:33,880 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 1: well with Ashley and Kevin's relationship ending. So my question is,

1416
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: if Jared hadn't come around and told Ashley his feelings,

1417
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 1: would Kevin and Ashley have kept dating? Essentially that Ashley

1418
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: and Kevin break up because of Jared. Such a good question,

1419
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 1: actually one I think we all, you know, would love

1420
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: an answer to um and then and then it goes

1421
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:54,960
Speaker 1: on to say this also, if Ashley hadn't gone on

1422
01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 1: win our games? Oh, this is such a good question,

1423
01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:00,599
Speaker 1: would it have taken even longer for Jared to realize

1424
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:05,800
Speaker 1: his feelings? And last, but not least, Ashley, there was

1425
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 1: was there ever a time you had completely gotten over Jared,

1426
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:11,960
Speaker 1: like accepted that you guys will be best friends? But

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01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 1: that's it. This is definitely one of the best real

1428
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: life love stories I've ever heard from Diana. Actually, let

1429
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 1: me close this by saying, I love this email. I

1430
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 1: think it asked a lot of questions that people have

1431
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 1: asked me. And you know, I think you have great

1432
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 1: answers to him and and and they're all truthful, honest.

1433
01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 1: But I do want to say that when she talks

1434
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 1: about your love story and a chick flick movie, I

1435
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:32,599
Speaker 1: wonder if there's ever like a subconscious thing that you've

1436
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:35,559
Speaker 1: helped create this, you know, because you've always dreamed of

1437
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: this chick flick storytelling or this this love story that

1438
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,240
Speaker 1: you know you really could be a movie, and you've

1439
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:44,960
Speaker 1: gotten it. How special are you? Like? Self manifested it?

1440
01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 1: It's so bizarre, it's kind of weird. I just wonder

1441
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:49,559
Speaker 1: that we can diagnose that a later podcast. Anyways, you've

1442
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 1: got some questions answer? Okay, So Diana, UM, it's you've

1443
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: you've seen the story of us, which Jared and I did,

1444
01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 1: because our story has so many details and nuances that

1445
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:02,240
Speaker 1: I'll a lot of which Bachelor Nation never saw. So

1446
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 1: we wanted to kind of put it together so that

1447
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 1: people wouldn't have to necessarily ask these questions. But you

1448
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 1: seem to have watched it, and if it wasn't clear enough,

1449
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:14,480
Speaker 1: then I will answer these are right here right now. Essentially,

1450
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:18,440
Speaker 1: did actually break up with Kevin because of Jared? Absolutely not. Um.

1451
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 1: I think my relationship with Kevin. Um, it was wonderful

1452
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:25,559
Speaker 1: in the Bachelor bubble, and then the more we hung

1453
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 1: out in real life, the more I realized that our

1454
01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:31,719
Speaker 1: interests were totally different. Um, we didn't have the type

1455
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:35,080
Speaker 1: of mental connection that I feel like I needed, and

1456
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:37,760
Speaker 1: I honestly I would have broken up, but I would

1457
01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 1: have had to break up with him to be fair

1458
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 1: to him and his feelings in March anyway. Um, would

1459
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 1: it have taken longer for Jared to realize his feelings.

1460
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say Jared didn't realize his feelings until Winter Games.

1461
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 1: I think that Winter Games and me coming out of

1462
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,799
Speaker 1: it with a relationship was the way was what forced

1463
01:16:56,880 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 1: him to come out about his feelings. It was kind

1464
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 1: of the push that he needed in order to express them.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't that they weren't harboring inside him. And then, um,

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Speaker 1: did you ever get over? I deservever time where you

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01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 1: completely got over Jared? And yeah, I talked about this

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01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:17,680
Speaker 1: in UM The Story of Us. I did definitely over

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Speaker 1: the past. Like nine months before he came out about

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Speaker 1: his feelings, I thought, I don't think this is ever

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01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 1: going to happen, because this is not even the guy

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01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 1: that I fell in love with in the first place,

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01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:29,640
Speaker 1: because he had gotten into such a dark hole. It

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01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 1: was weird. He Yeah, he wasn't the same anymore. So

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01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:35,240
Speaker 1: then I was. I was kind of over him as

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01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:39,519
Speaker 1: anything more than just a friend. Um. Yeah, but like,

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Speaker 1: I guess in the back of my mind, I was

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01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:42,679
Speaker 1: always like, hey, if I'm not married at thirty five

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01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:44,640
Speaker 1: and he's not, then we got that marriage packed and

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01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 1: then we can start having kids. At least we'll have

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01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 1: a family together and we'll enjoy each other's company. Maybe

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01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:52,800
Speaker 1: it won't be the most romantic of scenarios, but yeah,

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01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 1: but now, who would have thought Jared had so much

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01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 1: romance busting inside of him? When did you? Like? I mean,

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01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: I've wondered this. When did it? Kind of because I

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01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:03,840
Speaker 1: know that you had moved on you kind of like

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01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 1: I guess recited the fact that this wasn't gonna be

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01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 1: a thing that you're going to be good friends for

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01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 1: a long time, and you guys were friends, you would

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01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 1: hang out and you wouldn't kiss, you wouldn't hug, you

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01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:12,680
Speaker 1: want to do anything. You just hang out, which is

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01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 1: always weird to me. There had to be more. But um,

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01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 1: when did it finally said into you actually like, I

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01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,840
Speaker 1: really like this guy, like I love this guy? Like?

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01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:24,280
Speaker 1: When did that? How did that process work? Was it

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01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:27,840
Speaker 1: just an overwhelming feeling once he told you? Or I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess, I don't know. How does that love thing work? Well?

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01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 1: I always say that I was loved at first sight,

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01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 1: and like it was an intense feeling that I had

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01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:37,599
Speaker 1: for like a year and a half where even after

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01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 1: Paradise three, I knew that I had to stop feeling that,

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01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:43,799
Speaker 1: like I needed to stop expressing things to him because

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01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:46,120
Speaker 1: he was very clear with it, it's never going to happen,

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01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 1: So then I wouldn't. I would stop trying to like

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01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:53,720
Speaker 1: quote pursue it, and I just like kind of internalize

1506
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 1: it and talked to my friends about it, but I

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01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 1: never talked to him about my feelings. And then then

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01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 1: like March of two, that was in seventeen is when

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01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:03,679
Speaker 1: I feel like I lost feelings a bit. And then

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01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:07,520
Speaker 1: when he came out to me about his feelings in January,

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01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: I didn't know I was going to react the way

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01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:14,439
Speaker 1: that I did, which was very positively, because people would

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01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 1: be like, what if Jared came out about his feelings

1514
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 1: now now that you're with somebody else. I was like,

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01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 1: I'd be like, sorry, Susie, lose. But then when he

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01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:28,200
Speaker 1: told me, I thought, l you are something to me. Yeah.

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01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:29,840
Speaker 1: I didn't know what that like giggle was. I didn't

1518
01:19:29,880 --> 01:19:32,920
Speaker 1: know if it was like an evil giggle like like

1519
01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:35,000
Speaker 1: it was like, Hey, Jared, I love you man, You're

1520
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: You're my dude. Okay, we're gonna we want to take

1521
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 1: a second here while we read listener emails and and

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01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: just uh say thank you to our good friend, our

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01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 1: dear friends, Susie, who is a consistent listener to the

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Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast. She's also the chairman of the Almost

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01:19:56,120 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 1: Famous Podcast Facebook group. We we appreciate Susie and she's

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01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 1: going through a rough time right now. We understand that,

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01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:05,040
Speaker 1: and we just want to reach out to Susie and

1528
01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 1: say thank you for everything you've done for us and

1529
01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:09,599
Speaker 1: supporting us as people, as as a podcast, which means

1530
01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:14,040
Speaker 1: a lot to Ashna individually, UM, but also just thanks

1531
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: for the impact you're making by building a community of people.

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01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 1: You've done it for for a lot, uh a large

1533
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:21,920
Speaker 1: group at this point, and we know that you're struggling.

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01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:25,560
Speaker 1: We know that this is a tough season of life. UM,

1535
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 1: you've recently lost somebody very close to you, and we

1536
01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:29,080
Speaker 1: just want to reach out and say we're thinking of

1537
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 1: you're praying for you, we love you, we appreciate you.

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01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:33,559
Speaker 1: You always have a community with us, UM, and just

1539
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:36,040
Speaker 1: know that you're on our thoughts and our mind. You're

1540
01:20:36,040 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 1: a huge part of this podcast, so this podcast. Let's

1541
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:43,080
Speaker 1: dedicate this podcast, this one to Susie. We love you. Susie.

1542
01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,759
Speaker 1: You bring so much light into these um podcast groups.

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01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: Um you're always just smiling. I feel like everything you

1544
01:20:50,080 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 1: say it's with a smile, So we love you. Actually,

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01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:55,120
Speaker 1: any any emails that really stand out to you? Here?

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01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:57,960
Speaker 1: There's one more I would like to go through. All right,

1547
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 1: it says what about Rachel? It's from Tammy. Hello, Ben

1548
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:04,479
Speaker 1: and Ashley Avid listener here. I loved hearing Ashley's top

1549
01:21:04,479 --> 01:21:06,880
Speaker 1: five bachelorette picks from last week. However, I'm curious as

1550
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 1: to why Rachel Lizzie Lindsay wasn't on the list. What

1551
01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 1: were some things that you didn't like about her season?

1552
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 1: She's beautiful, well spoken, funny and a boss. What do

1553
01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:19,320
Speaker 1: you think it should have been done differently? Do you

1554
01:21:19,360 --> 01:21:21,120
Speaker 1: think that guys in her season were just super lame?

1555
01:21:21,160 --> 01:21:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to write my brain about how the queen

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01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 1: didn't make the cut. Ps. Ben didn't give his top

1557
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 1: five favorite picks, which is okay, but can he at

1558
01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 1: least share who his favorite bachelorette? Who his favorite Bachelorette

1559
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: of all time is keep killing the podcast game, guys,

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01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:39,640
Speaker 1: um Ben is your favorite Bachelor atte ever? Caitlin, I

1561
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:42,680
Speaker 1: would have to say so or or what if we

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01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:45,120
Speaker 1: didn't add Rachel Lindsay to the list because we were

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01:21:45,160 --> 01:21:48,720
Speaker 1: saving it for this podcast in this episode, because my

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01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 1: favorite bachelor at of all time is Rachel Lindsay, the Queen. No,

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01:21:54,640 --> 01:22:00,599
Speaker 1: it's it's kids. She's great, cal Caitlin a bachelor. I mean,

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01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 1: like we've talked about though, you know, you have Jojo,

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01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 1: who I think is awesome. You know, I have a

1568
01:22:04,040 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 1: lot of respect for Jojo. You have Caitlin, who is

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01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:10,760
Speaker 1: obviously incredible, Rachel, who is the queen, who is incredible

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01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:12,479
Speaker 1: and held her ground and did a great job on

1571
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:14,479
Speaker 1: a season that was tough, it was really hard. You

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01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:16,639
Speaker 1: have Becca right now, who's I think going to crush

1573
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 1: the game. Then you go back even years too. I mean,

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01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 1: you just have bachelor after bachelor after bachelor that are great.

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01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:24,760
Speaker 1: It's hard to pick just five. They they've all been

1576
01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:26,639
Speaker 1: really good. I don't think we have one that's bad

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01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 1: right right As a bachelor at herself, I think Rachel

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01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 1: really is a boss. I think she has everything going on.

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01:22:34,600 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 1: I think we didn't put him or her in the

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01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:40,360
Speaker 1: top five because her secure guys were so lame, like

1581
01:22:40,520 --> 01:22:42,559
Speaker 1: so lame that we couldn't even get a Bachelor out

1582
01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 1: of them, so lamb that I can only think about

1583
01:22:45,200 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: three guys from her season off the top of my

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01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 1: head right now. Yeah, and I mean, no, okay, never mind,

1585
01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:54,960
Speaker 1: of course. Now I'm thinking about the different guys, and

1586
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:57,760
Speaker 1: I think about Raven and Adam being like Raven Adam,

1587
01:22:57,800 --> 01:23:00,880
Speaker 1: they're not engaged. But you know, it's just it's tough.

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01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:03,200
Speaker 1: It wasn't a great season, not because of Rachel, but

1589
01:23:03,240 --> 01:23:05,200
Speaker 1: because mostly the guys in our season were great. We

1590
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 1: had a couple of really solid ones, but outside of that,

1591
01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 1: it just was kind of one of those. It was okay,

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01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:15,639
Speaker 1: it was, But she is bomb dot com, bomb dot com.

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01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 1: Speaking of bomb dot com, everybody, this has been a

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01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: bomb dot com podcast. We appreciate you. We have we

1595
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,719
Speaker 1: have now I think eclipsed. Uh. I think it's four

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01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:27,639
Speaker 1: million total lessens um in our time as a podcast.

1597
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: Absolutely insane. Absolutely, that's bigger than the state, almost as

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Speaker 1: big as the state I grew up in. Um, Indiana.

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Speaker 1: You're wondering, Um, Actually, we're happy with your love story.

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01:23:37,360 --> 01:23:40,759
Speaker 1: You're you're still You're still in a relationship, right, yes, Okay,

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01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 1: let us know, let us know if that changes. Until then, Hey, everybody,

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01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:48,760
Speaker 1: I've been been, I've been Ashley. I love you. Bye bye.

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01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: Followed the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on

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