WEBVTT - Premium Wagyu Beef 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:23.280 What's up, y'all? 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.360 It's your girl Lex Pete and it's your girl dre 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:29.240 in the cold, and you are tuned in to another 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:31.240 episode of Poor Minds. 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:33.880 Where's your mind speaks sober. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:37.960 We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:41.479 guests today. And I know they be happy when they 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:43.839 hear that. I kinda be happy a little bit too. 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:45.800 We need to get in a stewp. We do need 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:46.600 to get in the studio. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:48.640 You know what. That studio reached out to us. So 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:50.839 we're gonna do that, probably like in the next day. Well, 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.440 that's for a real rap song, though you want to Oh, 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:55.760 I thought it was just for fun. Yeah, but I 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.080 want o shit. I feel like if we're gonna do it, 0:00:58.080 --> 0:00:59.720 we might as well do it like you want to 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.920 do a real Yeah, I want to know a real song. 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:05.520 I just want to be up in there wasting time. 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:07.600 I don't know. I didn't know you wanted to go 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:08.600 to it like we can. 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:09.000 Make a heat. 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:12.679 I honestly feel like it would be my dream if 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.440 we went into this we hit wonder. I would love 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:17.920 it me too. Imagine if we did a one hit 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.080 wonder so good and just like want a Grammy and 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:24.839 never made a song again. I know goals. I feel 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:26.280 like we could do it. I feel like if anyone 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.040 could do it, it could be good. We gotta do it. 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:30.080 So poor crew. When we dropped this song, y'all gotta 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:31.640 support it. But I want to make like a shaking 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:33.880 ass track. Me too. I want to twark song, yeah, 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:36.559 like cause, I mean, but twark songs win Grammys. Yeah, 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.440 look at Savage. No, I don't agree, y'all. I'm not 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:41.640 saying that they don't win Grammys. I ain't agree with 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:44.520 you one hundred percent. I feel like we definitely have 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.399 to make a twork song because what other type of 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:48.600 songs we make. I mean, you be singing this shit? 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:53.640 I guess I could, but I'll be saying, but I'll 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:58.720 be singing this, but I'd be singing Okay, So they 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:02.320 be having twark songs like you know, I can bet 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:05.480 me on a chorus like remember that song we was 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:13.200 talking about the other day's Big Bank and Candy, Oh 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:16.640 how you got it? You got my bath me? Okay, 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:21.639 tried up? Try up? Yeah. So and we was mad 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:24.240 when we seen that clip to shout out to Big 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:28.400 Bank and Candy because they performed the song at twenty 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:31.040 one Savage Birthday party, and I'm sorry, but the crowd 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:34.480 was not hype enough for me. Y'all don't know. He 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:38.080 y'all do not know, because let me talk about this song. 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:40.200 This song came out when I was still living in Houston, 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:42.160 and this is like at a point where, like when 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:44.480 you weren't in Atlanta, you wanted to be in Atlanta 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:50.320 so bad. Like when this song dropped, it changed the world. Indeed, Okay, 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:55.480 won't you with my pivot tried out the world? It 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:58.680 changed our world? Shout out to big Bank. Don't do that. 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:07.040 I'm doing nothing, I say, but changed the world. When 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:09.720 I think about songs that change the world, I think 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:14.840 about where are the world right? I think about what's 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:19.520 that song by Whitney Houston. No, I think about that. 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:26.160 I think about Thriller. I think about cash flow I needed, 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.960 and I think about try it out. Those are the 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.680 songs When I think about songs that changed me, I 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:36.960 think about those songs. I'm telling you mine, I'm telling 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:41.880 your mine. Okay, anyways, bro back to what I was saying. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.800 So I brought that song up because I feel like 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.400 that's how our song was. Yeah, like don't need to 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:54.160 be we need we need a Tovin girls. Ain't he's 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:56.120 not about to come to no studio with us? 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:56.400 Why not? 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.400 I think he will immature. 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:03.160 Speak for yourself. I've been in the stool before. Do 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.120 you have a song? Yes, I told you I had 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:09.120 a song with b King Or I mean that somebody 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:13.800 my mama heard it, my sister. That's crazy. Three people 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:19.599 heard the song and two of them dead naze, damn, 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:24.440 dark humor leaks, dark storry. You know what we were 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.320 talking about dark in the comments, like these old songs 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:29.960 like lift this serious. So I was talking about dark 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:31.880 humor the other day with my best friend killer right, 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:35.120 So because we had saw somebody on Facebook, they made 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:37.320 a dark joke and it reminded me of that time, 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.640 like this guy not this guy, like my ex had 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:42.120 came to my house and I lived in my old 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:45.719 apartment and obviously my mom, I have my mom and 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.680 an urn whatever. So I have like this thing where 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:51.360 you walk in, it's like like my decorations, and she's 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.000 just like, you know, she's sitting right there with her 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.680 picture and like things that people sit me, you know, 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:58.479 sitting all around it. So like when he had walked in, 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:00.280 you know, he just walked in and we were just talking. 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:01.800 I was like, damn, you're not gonna speak to my 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:04.159 mama and he was like what And I was like, damn, 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:05.920 my mam is sitting right there. And he was like, 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.760 that's not funny. I just think that you need to 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:12.000 work through these feelings. I was like, hold on, hold on, 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:15.440 speak to my mother that we're fun. You're no fun, 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.839 That's what I'm saying. I hate people cannot pick up 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.640 on the joke. I like, literally, those are the worst 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:25.280 type of people. Yeah, we're making a joke and then 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:26.839 people can't pick up on it and they make it 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:30.480 like a serious so awkward I'm kidding. 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.719 He was like, you need to work through these emotions. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:37.279 Okay, you need to work on your ass my door 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:42.000 and he need to go, and he did because yeah, no. 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:43.839 I feel like we both kind of got like a 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.240 little dark humor. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:49.200 I think our humor is so bad that if people laugh. 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:51.920 That horrible quick, we wouldnts. 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.159 We can't talk about it. It's a lot of stuff 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:59.360 that we left at that we can't talk about. So 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.000 what have you been up to? Let's do a ketchup first, 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:03.680 cause I have to say something else too. Let's do 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:05.360 a ketchup what you've been up to now, you being 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:09.160 I been good, but I was see you were seen 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.400 I was. I mean, I feel like I'm just kind 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:15.360 of like getting it back together, like getting back to myself. 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:17.039 But I don't know. And I hate when I get 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:19.599 seek cause I never get sick. Like when I said, 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:22.159 I never get set. I heard it in your voice 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.520 when I called you, like, I feel like you can 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:25.480 still hear it a little bit, a little bit, a 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:27.240 little bit because I still was kind of coughing a 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:28.080 little bit this morning. 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:29.480 You're like, cain't on. 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:38.400 Yeah, I was just sounded and real nasally it was yeah, 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:40.480 Like I don't know. So I had went to Houston 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:45.440 for my mom's birthday. No fights is so no fights 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:47.760 for I don't know because last time when y'all went 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:49.880 to the g Z concert, they got real sticky in 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.839 the field. Oh, but I've been to Houston again, Helo, 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.279 Tom since I just had to make sure that you 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:57.880 wasn't out there scrapping and I wasn't with the people 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:04.520 I was fighting with. Although I didn't fight, I wasn't fighting. 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:07.880 I did not participate in the foolishness because when the 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:08.720 videos was. 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:10.920 On TikTok going viral. Remember people was in. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:15.080 The comics like that, and I was just standing in 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:18.760 there looking repose. Oh my god, like get me out 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:21.120 of here. But you know, I had to ride for 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:24.920 my people though. But don't get me wrong though about 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:28.280 that action. We know, we know about that action. 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:31.920 But you're like, I do. 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:34.640 I think I'm like a little pit bull. Yeah, And 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:36.880 I'm like a great name. I'm like big for no 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:41.560 reason because I'm not giving Yeah, like I'm definitely I'm 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:43.400 the one who'll be ready to fight. I'd be ready 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.480 to fight about legs. Something happened the other day and 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:47.559 I was so mad when we was on the phone. 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:49.680 I can't remember. You was telling me about something that 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:52.000 I was so mad and you was like, calm down, 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:53.880 Oh my god. I don't know what it was. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.920 I think was he I don't know, but. 0:07:58.040 --> 0:07:59.360 You know what, I think we were talking about that 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.960 old situation that had happened. We were talking about that 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:07.600 weird girl okay, yeah, and I was like, damn, I 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:10.760 haven't heard that name in the years. But you know, 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.560 I've realized, like me, I just don't like fighting. I 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:15.600 don't like confrontation. It's so funny when I think about 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.880 my friend, one of my closest friends, Schedule. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:19.040 Shout out to Schedule. 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:21.200 One time we was at the club and we heard 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:23.680 gunshots and this girl was like, girl, hold on, let's 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:27.080 go see what's happening. I said, bitch, I'm going. I ran, 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.280 she said. She turned around. All she see was the 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:32.800 back of my head. Babby, I don't like that girl. 0:08:33.000 --> 0:08:33.600 That's like me. 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.960 I don't get me wrong. If I hear some gunshots, 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.560 I'm a rain. I remember one time, shout out to 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:43.320 my best friend Lyn because I remember one time we 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:46.640 had went out and it was like gunshots and she 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:50.760 ran towards you cause she was like, drell, Wait, my 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:52.760 friend is over there. What are you gonna do? Get 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.840 shot too? Wonder woman? Look, why would you run over 0:08:55.880 --> 0:09:01.600 there towards the gun? Lenny, It's crazy. You've gotta love her. 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:04.400 I gotta love her. But now I was gonna ask 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.800 you a question, okay, because I had seen something online 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:10.680 recently where it said non confrontational people are the worst 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:12.160 type of people. 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:13.240 Do you believe that? 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.800 I'm you know what I think in my as i've 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:21.320 gotten older, Yes and no, because On one end, I 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.880 believe in waiting till that person is ready to talk 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:28.480 because I've realized, don't force me to have a conversation. Yeah, 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:32.720 but also, you can't avoid the conversation forever. Now. If 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.720 this person wants to wait to have a conversation, cool, 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:37.839 and they're telling you, Hey, I'm not in the mind's 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:39.880 space to talk right now, but eventually, yes, I do 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.160 want to talk about it. Just give me some time, 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:45.040 that's okay. But if they're just avoiding it and they're like, hey, girl, 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.120 what's up, what's tea? And they're trying to act like 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:49.960 nothing happened, then that gets a little weird. I think 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:53.959 I used to avoid conflict and confrontation, but now I've learned, Hey, 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.400 I gotta give me some time to calm down. I 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.960 need to think about things so I can approach the 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:01.920 situation logically. Because I am very sensitive and I am 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:05.520 very emotional. So I don't think they're the worst. I 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:10.199 think they're just people who don't understand how to approach conflict. Yeah, 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.480 that's what they basically was saying, though they were like, 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:17.079 non confrontational people are the worst because they don't know 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:20.200 how to have the conversation, and then it ends up 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.080 creating a lot of resentment, yeah, and built up and 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:27.520 pent up frustration, and it turns into like passive aggressive 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:33.000 oh yeah, versus people who are just like, look, beach right, 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.520 you got me fucked up, but. 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:35.840 I don't know whatever the issue is. 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:38.199 I don't like people who were like, okay, let's talk 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.199 about it. No, we need to talk about this now. 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:44.880 No wait, wait, like we don't got to talk about 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.559 this now. Let's just wait till I've calmed down, You've 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.400 calmed down, and we can both have a logical conversation. 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:52.920 So that's real. I did it to my mama to 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:55.280 like a few weeks ago, you made her talk you 0:10:57.480 --> 0:11:00.360 because she had called me while I was out and 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:02.959 she was like, I need to talk to you about something. 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.120 And then she was like, wait are you out? 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:06.960 And I was like yes, and she was like, well, 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:08.600 I'm gonna just call you when you get She was like, 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:10.640 call me when you get home. And I was like, no, 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:15.720 what's up. What's the problem? You having a lamb charge 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:17.800 she was? She was like, no, you're out. I said, 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:21.680 I could step outside real quick. So I remember last 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:24.160 time we had a little test and I was like 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.320 I was at my manhouse. I was just trying to relax. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:30.080 Oh yeah, I remember that. You was like, hey, what's up. Yeah, 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:34.000 because we need to talk about yesterday because obviously yeah, 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:38.000 I'm like I was like, obviously you wasn't gonna call me. 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:40.959 You was like, yes, I was. I was like, you 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:41.360 know you. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:44.679 Like three days later. 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:47.920 Okay, But I needed that time. I just wanted to 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:51.560 have a good Sometimes it's always on the floor with me. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.319 It was like, it's on my mind. I gotta get 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:59.800 it off my chase money because you have you coach 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.760 witch what you mean, Like you know how you hear 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:04.600 your mama she's on like your mama talk to you. 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:06.480 She'd be like, hey, what's up, and then she get 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:09.679 on the phone with her the bill company. High I 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:13.040 need to call about my bill. But you code switching 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:15.920 away to where like I know when you mean Besney's 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:17.920 and you ready to talk, you'd be like, hey, what's 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:24.120 up you normally, because so you know how you walk 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:29.480 when your booty be twisted. That's just how like I 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:32.200 know I can look at your body and tell when 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:34.880 you're mad, because like you already walk with that little 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:38.760 booty twist, but when that booty twisted extra hard. I 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:41.480 was like, ooh, she mad as fuck beach. Whoe did 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:44.280 it now? Because and then you walk like with yall 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.880 nose in the air, Hey, y'all, what's the what's the 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:52.800 It's very like hey, I'd be like, oh, like when 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.120 you walk through that double doors, I'm like, let's see 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:58.760 what we getting today. If it's like hey y'all, I'm 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:08.080 like yes, Like when you be like, what's up, hey. 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:07.080 Tad, what are we drinking? 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:12.120 Yeah? Girl, I need a shot cuz then she'll give 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:21.480 everybody a hug. I'll be like, hey, when I when 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:24.440 I'm mad at you, you cannot get a hood. For god, 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:27.600 You'd be like, and they lets so annoying because she'll 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:30.160 be like, I didn't get a hug, bitch. I know. 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:33.559 But sometimes even when we're not mad at each other 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.040 or not, you just still don't be hugging me. But 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:38.960 I think that's my fault though, you yeah, because I 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:42.200 feel like you're not an affectionate you know I used 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:45.080 to be. I feel like I'm different. I will say this. 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.800 I feel like I'm different with my different like with 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:51.440 different people. But it's because I've learned to accept what 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:55.520 different people need and what they're okay with. Like me 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:59.199 and you, I think it's an unspoken thing. We know 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:01.920 we love each we know that we care about each 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:04.080 other and stuff, but we just never really been the 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:07.320 type of friends to like be like get off the 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:07.880 phone and be. 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:09.120 Like, okay, love you bye. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.080 We say every now. I mean we do what we 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:12.760 say it every once in a while, but like I 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:16.120 have some friends where like every time we talk they say, 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:18.320 you know, Like with me and Jordan, every time we talk, 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:21.040 he says every time, or I say it first, you 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.240 know what I mean. Or same thing with Lenn me 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:25.560 and Lin every time we talk, she said first, So 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:27.400 I say it first before we get off the phone. 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:31.240 And some friends are like very much huggers and stuff. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.840 You just never really been that way. So I feel 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:38.360 like over the years it's been like a conditioning type thing. 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.880 So it's like it's almost sometimes kind of weird to me. 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:45.360 Whenever I do, I don't yet, like right, like sometimes 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:47.360 I guess when I come in and I hug because 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:50.080 sometimes people are hugging me first if that makes in 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:52.280 and so then I'm hugging people in there, and you 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.920 be right here, and I'll be like, go hey girl, 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.640 But I know it's something I consciously try to work 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:01.520 it because I'm that way like Lauren and Belin. Those 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.120 are my two friends. Like we get off the phone, 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:06.600 we say I love it. Yeah with Killer, Me and 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:08.800 Killa barely say I love you, and I think that's 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.480 how we are. But I'm learning to be more emotional 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:15.240 because I told you, not emotional, more saying I love 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:18.640 you to my friends and being more physical because that 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.600 was something that I let somebody break me and I 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:24.320 stopped being that way because I was in a horrible 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:26.440 relationship where he just wasn't and I was like, well, 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:28.880 maybe I need to be that way. And so that's 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:30.880 something that I'm trying to get out of and I 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:32.479 need to be more affectionate. 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:34.080 I need to tell people I love you. 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:36.560 It's like I said, Lauren always says I love you 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:38.680 before we get off the phone. Bling is the same way. 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.040 So I'm learning to be more like, Okay, I need 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.480 to tell my people I love them, even like little 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:48.440 shit like sending people like cute memes and stuff on 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:52.200 like TikTok or Instagram that's like just send this to 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.200 your best friend if you love them, or little stuff 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.320 like that. Like I'm just learning to like be more 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.880 affectionate and tell people that you love them, because that's 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.800 something that I do struggle with. No, yeah, I know, 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:03.560 and I feel like because I've been knowing you for 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.160 so long, like it's for I guess for me, it's 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:09.640 just become like, you know, a part of our relationship. 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:12.560 Like I don't take it personally because I'm like that 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.880 with everybody. Yeah, because you like that with everybody. But 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:16.920 I think that's why. But I'm gonna I'm gonna do 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.360 a better job because that now that you said that, 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:21.960 they're gonna sound rude a little bit. No, it's not rude, 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:24.200 but I'm saying is sound. I don't think you think 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.320 it's rude, but I'm saying, like, you know how you 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:27.960 say stuff out loud and you be like, oh, they're 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:30.040 gonna sound real a little bit like that because they 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:32.680 actually do, like I hug everybody else, but I don't thinking. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.240 But also I'm glad we're talking about this because I 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.840 was talking to be Laying the other day. We're actually 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.280 gonna have her on the show soon too, about the 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.880 importance of community, because I know everybody says, oh, you 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:46.720 need to learn how to be by yourself. You need 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:49.280 to learn to be alone. But one thing that I realized, 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:52.840 like living in Atlanta, I don't have community out here 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:56.480 outside of you, Like I'm talking about real community, Like 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.640 whenever I'm going through shit, I don't have nobody here. 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:01.520 I don't have family here. And like I said, outside 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:03.360 of you, like I have friends here, you know, like that, 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.280 I'm cool with that. I'd be like, Hey, I'm kind 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.600 of going through something. Can we go talk or have 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:10.399 drinks so they'll get me out the house. But to 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.200 say I have somebody where I can just go lay 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:13.760 on the couch and just stay for a couple of 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:15.960 days and just cry and being my feelings and they 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:19.200 cooking and making sure I'm straight, I really don't have that. Yeah, 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:22.760 So it's so important whenever you're going through these seasons 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:25.320 of change and seasons of things, Like I don't care 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:29.560 what anybody says. Being alone is okay to a certain extent, 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:32.359 Like sometimes you need people to rally around you and 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:36.000 pick you up during those dark days, and it'd be hard, 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:37.720 you know what I'm saying. I think I've learned to 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:40.719 isolate myself so much so when I go through things, 0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:43.840 I tend to isolate and just like depend on myself 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:47.119 to get out of these Yeah, but you can't do that, 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:49.040 you know. That's why I always feel like I called 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:51.200 a check on you and stuff. So if I don't 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:53.159 hear from you for like two days or so, then 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:54.760 I'd be like, oh, let me call it licks and 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:56.679 checks on her, because I always know when you be 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:58.880 upset too, Like I feel like we just know each other, 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:01.879 like whenever you come up here because one thing caught you. 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:05.000 When you be having shit going out, you be very disheveled. 0:18:05.560 --> 0:18:08.720 I be scatter brain. Yes, I be all over the place. 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:12.320 You can't focus your mind, just be a billion different 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:14.200 places and you could like see it on your face. 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:17.320 You be moving real fast, walking real well. You walk fast. 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:18.720 You know that. I used to say that when I 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:20.920 worked at my restaurant. What they used to be like, Lex, 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:23.119 are you in the weeds? Like when you work in restaurants, 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:25.879 that's a question you asked with somebody's behind. They be like, 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:28.120 are you in the weeds? And they would always ask 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.679 me that because I walk fast? You do you do? 0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:34.679 You walk fast? Normally? You be mad? You be walking 0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:37.080 real fast, and you know I'm pigeon told like that 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:42.200 three times. You know, I have a little pigeon toe. 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:44.240 Now what was the nameborhood movie? 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:51.159 Little feet, happy feet? That is you for sure. But 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:53.320 you just be disheveled though. You just be all over 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.600 the place, you can't find nothing. You be like, oh 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:57.040 my god, where did I put this? Where did I 0:18:57.080 --> 0:18:58.440 put this? And not just be knowing you be having 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:00.800 a whole Yeah, yeah, that is how I am. That 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:04.960 is how But I'm working on it, like I said, Yeah, 0:19:05.119 --> 0:19:06.320 Like I don't want to be on the phone. I 0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:09.000 don't want to I wanting to get but I will say. 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:12.800 You'll be like, okay, are you all ready? Okay, what's 0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:15.840 up y'all? He's sugar, XP, It's time to get to it. 0:19:16.240 --> 0:19:17.720 You turn it on for the camera. I think we 0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:19.840 both like that though. Oh now, one thing about me, 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:23.160 y'all and I love the poor crew, y'all will never 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:26.119 know what I'm going through on that unless I tweet 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:28.560 something or I get on Live and I say something 0:19:28.760 --> 0:19:31.159 when y'all watch poor minds, y'all will literally never know 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:33.920 I'm going through it. Yes, I think I'll talk about 0:19:33.960 --> 0:19:36.520 it like I feel like now what I've been going through, 0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:38.840 Like I'm on the other side of it, like my 0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:40.840 little little bouts that I go through, Like I'm on 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:45.600 the other side of it now. This morning, I took 0:19:45.640 --> 0:19:48.080 too much espresso today. So if y'all know, I'm just 0:19:48.080 --> 0:19:48.600 a little. 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:51.240 Like, yeah, I took too much expresso. 0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:55.639 I think he asked me. So when I ordered the drink, 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:59.000 I ordered an extra shot. I don't know what I 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:00.679 put on there, but he was like, like, you said 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:03.600 you wanted four shots of espresso, right, And I was 0:20:03.600 --> 0:20:05.439 on the phone. I think I said yeah, And I 0:20:05.440 --> 0:20:07.800 think he put four shots of espresso in there. That's 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:09.000 a lot. It's a lot. 0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:15.240 Yeah, it's a lot over there, like you know already. 0:20:15.480 --> 0:20:19.879 So anyways, we're gonna get really quick, Tie. Sorry, let 0:20:19.920 --> 0:20:23.359 me get to it before we forget so Tie, before 0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:25.840 we get into the drink. You know what I've really 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:29.080 been considering. I think we have to do an episode 0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:32.240 where Tie is on the couch because the people been asking. 0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:35.639 I think we're gonna do that pretty so where we 0:20:35.720 --> 0:20:37.680 have you on the couch, give you a mic. It's 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:40.760 time to chat with Tie because the people been asking. 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:42.639 And one thing about it, I love to listen to 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:45.639 the audience on what they want to see. Andy you 0:20:45.720 --> 0:20:48.359 got some ride or die. Yeah. I was at Howard 0:20:48.359 --> 0:20:50.560 home coming a couple of weeks ago and it was 0:20:50.600 --> 0:20:52.560 people walking up to me like, oh my god, I 0:20:52.600 --> 0:20:54.600 know this is weird, but I love you on poor 0:20:54.680 --> 0:21:02.480 mine Tie, You're sorry, You're also you're a household name, 0:21:02.640 --> 0:21:07.280 taking Startender to a new level. I'm telling you and BERNICEA. 0:21:07.320 --> 0:21:10.600 Gracie don't know about this start Tender now nothing on you. 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:13.200 So I think we are gonna do an episode. It's high. 0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:14.760 I just got to figure out like what that looks 0:21:14.800 --> 0:21:16.240 like and how we want to do it and things 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:18.240 that we want to talk about, because I know people 0:21:18.320 --> 0:21:19.240 do want to get to know you. 0:21:19.280 --> 0:21:21.360 But I think it'll be fun. I just feel because. 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:23.240 There's another episode that we're working on that's a little 0:21:23.240 --> 0:21:25.720 more person it's another episode yet I want to say 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:29.160 that we're gonna drop before the New Years had warm 0:21:29.240 --> 0:21:33.640 me yes, because you gets the chatty bitch. It's another episode, yeah, 0:21:33.640 --> 0:21:36.679 that we're working on it. We're probably gonna drop before 0:21:36.680 --> 0:21:38.840 the end of the New Year. But it's gonna be 0:21:38.960 --> 0:21:41.440 very personal and it's gonna be like a really good episode. 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:43.240 I think y'all are really gonna enjoy it, and I 0:21:43.240 --> 0:21:44.960 think it's gonna be the same thing we do an 0:21:44.960 --> 0:21:48.840 episode with you, like real personal with time. We'll have 0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:53.359 to have what's the girl y'all can really get. Yeah, 0:21:54.400 --> 0:21:56.400 so we're gonna have time. So y'all been asking, y'all 0:21:56.520 --> 0:22:00.800 get so anyway, we're drinking today. Okay, this is this one. 0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:11.080 It's called Nutty by Nature. I knew you was like that. Yes, perfect, 0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:13.439 the lines all does. So this one we have your 0:22:13.480 --> 0:22:15.920 spirit of choice, whether there's vodka, tequila. This will also 0:22:15.960 --> 0:22:17.719 be really good with like a bourbon or whiskey if 0:22:17.720 --> 0:22:18.200 you're at home. 0:22:18.440 --> 0:22:20.439 Well, we have some lime juice. 0:22:20.440 --> 0:22:23.760 We have some pistachio syrup, so that's what's given someone 0:22:23.840 --> 0:22:26.320 like kind of like that nuttiness and pistachio syrup in there. 0:22:26.600 --> 0:22:28.480 And then we added a little bit of anger store 0:22:28.560 --> 0:22:30.160 bitters just to kind of give it a little bit 0:22:30.200 --> 0:22:33.199 more of that herbal flavoring. And we garnish it with 0:22:33.280 --> 0:22:37.000 a toasted marshmallow because this bonfire season, can't wait to 0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:42.199 toast me some marshmallows and Graham crackers. Yes, yeah, so 0:22:42.320 --> 0:22:44.720 we have that one toasted with some marshmallows. And this 0:22:44.880 --> 0:22:49.720 is the Nutty by Nature. This is I really like this. 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:52.760 I love drinks that like step outside of the box 0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:55.000 because I feel like, you know, every time you go 0:22:55.040 --> 0:22:57.560 out to have a drink, they have the same typical stuff, 0:22:57.640 --> 0:22:59.600 you know, I feel like this is something different, Like 0:22:59.640 --> 0:23:01.080 this is then if I ordered it on to me, 0:23:01.160 --> 0:23:04.199 you'll be like, I never tasted anything else before. I 0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:05.960 drink the same thing when I go out, and y'all, 0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:08.120 I messed up. I found a bar by my house 0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:11.560 that has filed all of titos. I'll be going getting slizzard. 0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:14.359 She do, and she don't never invite me because I 0:23:14.440 --> 0:23:16.960 just go real quick. I don't stay long. I stay 0:23:16.960 --> 0:23:19.560 for like thirty minutes. I get drunk. I say, bring 0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:22.760 me two double titos, So I'll be having two doubles 0:23:23.160 --> 0:23:25.640 twenty dollars. Oh no, that's okay, baby, you could leave 0:23:25.680 --> 0:23:28.200 me out. I'll be get mine. I'll be walking home 0:23:28.240 --> 0:23:32.639 like this. So yesterday and I know exactly what place 0:23:32.640 --> 0:23:35.479 she talking about. So yesterday I tried to go and 0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:37.520 try to get drunk. Yeah you know why I couldn't go. 0:23:38.040 --> 0:23:41.399 They had an active shooter. Oh yeah, yeah, it's so 0:23:41.520 --> 0:23:44.040 crazy because I started to go on a walk yesterday 0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:47.640 and then I ended up seeing the post on Instagram 0:23:47.760 --> 0:23:50.280 on Ato school and I was like, oh, never mind, 0:23:50.320 --> 0:23:51.200 because you know I'd be going on. 0:23:51.160 --> 0:23:52.800 My little walks around the neighborhood. 0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:58.520 I had actually went, you know, I was outside. Oh yes, 0:23:58.960 --> 0:24:00.639 and you know what, but before we get to the 0:24:02.160 --> 0:24:05.160 hell could you go? This episode is sponsored by Better Help. 0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:08.200 What's Up y'all as your Girl XP and it's your girls. 0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:10.600 You're in the call, y'all know we are always going 0:24:10.640 --> 0:24:13.080 to talk about it, but go to therapy. 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She's probably my second or 0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:36.840 third therapist that I've had with Better Help. 0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:38.760 But they always make. 0:24:38.640 --> 0:24:41.000 It super easy to change therapists if you need to, 0:24:41.480 --> 0:24:43.640 and that's one thing I love about it. 0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:44.679 It's super affordable. 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:47.440 Yes, and also I want to give a shout out 0:24:47.480 --> 0:24:50.800 to my therapist doctor all deary we've been working together 0:24:50.840 --> 0:24:53.000 for over a year now and we are locked in. 0:24:53.320 --> 0:24:55.480 And also I want to give gratitude to myself because 0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:58.159 one thing about therapy is you have to stick to it. 0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:00.639 And I've seen so much growth, so much progress. So 0:25:01.000 --> 0:25:03.560 shout out to myself. 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You know, you could have 0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:42.840 just skipped that part and just did yourself, Like why 0:25:42.880 --> 0:25:45.040 you gotta take do all this and then you're gonna 0:25:45.040 --> 0:25:46.679 you know what I'm saying, Because I think it's just 0:25:47.520 --> 0:25:50.080 they want people to suffer with them that you know, 0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:52.919 they want to take people down. Weird, I mean, but 0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.359 that's just how people are by nature. You know, we 0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:57.240 talk about this all the time. I think that that's 0:25:57.280 --> 0:26:01.440 why when people are going through things, they spewed negativity 0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:06.879 and spewed line okay, because they want other people to 0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:09.080 and they want other people to feel it. So I 0:26:09.080 --> 0:26:11.399 feel like it's the same thing with that because for 0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:13.960 you to go and be an active shooter and you 0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:19.439 out shooting niggas for no reason. Wait, that was a 0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:24.359 little vulgar shooting in because they are they out shooting 0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:26.960 This is like okay, So I've been living in Midtown 0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:30.280 for a really long time. I've been living pretty in 0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:33.360 Midtown pretty much the whole time I've lived in Atlanta, 0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:36.120 so like seven years, because the first year I lived 0:26:36.119 --> 0:26:39.520 in Atlantic Station right there right which so pretty much 0:26:39.560 --> 0:26:43.120 the same area. So I have been living in Midtown 0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:45.960 for like seven years. And it's been like an active 0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:49.119 shooter in Midtown like three four times while I've been 0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:52.159 living there. That's crazy. That's a lot of time. And 0:26:52.200 --> 0:26:54.240 when I lived on the East Side, I was safe 0:26:54.240 --> 0:26:57.080 over there, remember know, you was not. I had an 0:26:57.119 --> 0:27:01.439 active shooter overs to be breaking I didn't feel it 0:27:01.480 --> 0:27:03.960 used to be. My car did not get broken into 0:27:04.080 --> 0:27:06.240 until I moved to Atlantic Station. Well, I don't know. 0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:08.399 I think a dude I was Dayton did that. 0:27:09.040 --> 0:27:09.159 Well. 0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:11.800 I ain't gonna say nothing because last time I said, 0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:15.880 you got mad at me? What when I talked about 0:27:19.280 --> 0:27:25.080 Oh I did, yes, but yes I was poured in 0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:28.840 so I probably got offend you stop talking about where 0:27:28.840 --> 0:27:31.600 I live. I wasn't talking about where you live. I said, 0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:33.639 what happened? And you guys so mad at me? And 0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:36.119 I'll get mad at you. Was like when the cameras 0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:38.400 turned off. You was like, dre, we need to talk 0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:41.040 and I was like, what about what? And this is 0:27:41.160 --> 0:27:42.600 we used to really get drunks. 0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:44.560 I mean, like, what do you want to talk about? 0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:48.199 Because yeah, don't we talking about the east Side. But 0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:52.960 I wasn't. I wasn't. I was just saying my experience. 0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:56.520 You lived with me for a little bit. We used 0:27:56.560 --> 0:27:59.640 to have a ball okrry in my little apartment. That's 0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:01.680 why I was only there for a month. I had 0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:05.920 to get you on that was a nice accommodation. Your 0:28:06.000 --> 0:28:11.199 apartment was yours, the actual apartment, Like when you walked 0:28:11.240 --> 0:28:16.200 in the apartment, beautiful home, oh, beautiful gown. I remember 0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:18.560 when my mom came over for the first time. She 0:28:18.720 --> 0:28:22.040 was like, oh God, where are you living? And she 0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.320 walked in she was like, oh okay. That's how I felt. 0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:26.879 Sweat clutched my furls. But then when I walked in, 0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:30.840 I said, this is nice girl, fix this up real 0:28:30.960 --> 0:28:35.040 nice you did. But anyways, like I was saying, I 0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:37.400 didn't live in Midtown for a long time. And it's 0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:40.760 been active shooters in Midtown a few times, like last 0:28:40.840 --> 0:28:43.480 year around this time, it was an active shooter in 0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:47.240 Midtown last year around this time, and then about six 0:28:47.280 --> 0:28:50.200 months ago it was a shooting at the marta station. 0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:54.719 Somebody got shot. It's, oh, lord, what we're gonna do? 0:28:55.240 --> 0:28:55.480 Move? 0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:57.400 Do you think they should make guns? And then it's 0:28:57.400 --> 0:28:59.560 time for us to going on the girl street for 0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:02.600 yourself unless I buy a house, and I really don't 0:29:02.600 --> 0:29:03.680 want to buy a house in Atlanta. 0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:05.200 I want to buy a house in Houston. 0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:08.600 First. I want a farm. I want a farm. I 0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:11.920 just want a small farm in Atlanta wherever I build 0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:14.360 a house, Like, I need a garden. I need like 0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:17.840 three chickens, and I need like I don't need a 0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.760 cow because I don't drink milk and I don't. I'm 0:29:20.760 --> 0:29:24.680 not a big I'm not into that. I'm not into that. 0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:26.720 I'm not trying to get into that business. I want 0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:29.080 to do things that I want to do. I want 0:29:29.080 --> 0:29:31.600 a few. Agriculture is a big market. It is, but 0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:33.680 I'm a lot of I get it. But if I 0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:38.000 do anything where I start to sell something, I give 0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:40.360 me a cow. You know, I always talk about him, 0:29:40.520 --> 0:29:49.000 Jason Murrad a one wagon. I got that in my pants. Yeah, yeah, 0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:55.240 I hate that. I nibbled, I nibbled, I nibbled on. 0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:00.640 But no, I'll say this if y'all always talk about 0:30:00.680 --> 0:30:03.360 Jason Moras all the time. Jason Moras was a popular singer. 0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:08.440 You remember that song? You don't remember? Okay, So anyways, 0:30:08.600 --> 0:30:11.800 Jason Moras, he was a singer. He probably still makes music, 0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:15.640 I'm not sure. Basically, long story short. He has a 0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:18.040 avocado farm. And if y'all know how hard it is 0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:22.000 to grow an avocado tree, it's very hard. It takes 0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:24.680 seven years for you to grow a tree and for 0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:27.760 it to even have the fruit of it on there. 0:30:27.840 --> 0:30:30.440 It's very hard to grow an avocado tree from scratch. 0:30:30.720 --> 0:30:33.320 Most of the time, people get the plants and they 0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:37.160 already have one that's already growing. Anyways, fast forward, Jason Moras. 0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:41.240 He has an avocado farm and he supplies avocados on 0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:46.640 like the West Coast. So basically, like all the chipotles, 0:30:46.680 --> 0:30:49.000 all a bunch of farms out there, a bunch of 0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:51.960 grocery stores, and he's like a multi millionaire off avocado. 0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:54.920 So if anything, y'all might catch me with like a 0:30:54.960 --> 0:30:58.240 tomato farm avocado farm, but like animals, that's not true. 0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:01.400 But no, but if I sell some IRBs, I just 0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:04.120 sold a little weed before I sell some stage. 0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:06.280 When the fuck did you sell weed? 0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:09.400 I mean it wasn't like I was selling it selling it. 0:31:09.600 --> 0:31:11.120 I had some and I was just like, hey, you 0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:14.800 want this, I ain't gonna smoke it. And I had 0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:16.560 a crackhead that I worked with and she was like, 0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:19.120 I get that. And you was comfortable selling drugs to 0:31:19.200 --> 0:31:21.120 a crack How do you know she wouldn't have robbed 0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:24.240 I didn't sell because she was my coworker. She was like, bro, 0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:26.800 I need to smoke and I was like, oh, I 0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:30.880 got some because it was like something from the dude 0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:32.840 I was talking to at the time. And we wasn't 0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:34.440 talking no more. He had left it in the car 0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:35.640 and I was like, you want this much? 0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:37.840 And how much you sold it? 0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:42.720 And it was some ridgid too. I know she was mad. 0:31:42.880 --> 0:31:43.840 She was smoking straight. 0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:45.880 Boo boo, flex. 0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:47.880 You've lived so many different lives. 0:31:49.760 --> 0:31:50.400 Drug dealer. 0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:53.880 I was a drug I was a drug dealer, drug dealer. 0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:56.400 Wa ain't let me up? Okay, So y'all were trying this. 0:31:56.720 --> 0:32:01.600 So yeah, so it's the war, he shout out to warheads. 0:32:01.640 --> 0:32:05.440 War war war, War, war War. 0:32:05.640 --> 0:32:11.400 You said, warheads, it's war. I started war at war. 0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:18.640 That's wrong, I think. But anyways, this is extreme sours, 0:32:18.800 --> 0:32:21.520 extreme sours. So I used to eat these as a kid, 0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:24.120 but like, I haven't ate these in age long. What's 0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:27.880 other old candy? If it's still as sour that I 0:32:27.960 --> 0:32:31.280 used to eat? Ring pops? Rollos? 0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:33.680 Do y'all remember rollos? I used to eat rollers. 0:32:33.720 --> 0:32:35.680 Oh my god, rollos. 0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:36.400 Were so good. 0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:42.080 Ring pops, the sour punch straws I used to do. 0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:45.680 They were nasty, but it were fun. The pets candy, Oh, 0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:47.520 I never liked that. I never liked it, but. 0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:48.120 It was just fun. 0:32:48.240 --> 0:32:54.040 Sweet tarts, bubble tape, the but that's still candy that's 0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:57.840 still available. I'm talking about candy people. They still have pets. 0:32:58.280 --> 0:33:00.880 They still have pis for real. You can probably order 0:33:00.920 --> 0:33:02.840 it on one now. One candy that I used to 0:33:02.920 --> 0:33:05.560 eat all the time that's still avable. The cookies and cream. 0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:07.440 I used to love the cookies and cream candy but 0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:10.600 Hershe's yes, that's something I used to eat all the time. 0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:13.680 But you know what's crazy? As I've gotten older, y'all. 0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:17.440 I this is how I know age thing is real. 0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:22.920 I love crossword puzzles. I love paydays. 0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:24.520 I love a good pay day. 0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:27.120 My mom love payday because me and your mom are 0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:29.320 damn near the same age at this point. No, y'all, nice, 0:33:29.400 --> 0:33:35.080 close enough. I'm ready, So let's try these chairs. Black 0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:43.360 cherry ready, and I have watermelon. Mhm mm hmm. 0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:44.520 That's all. 0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:51.840 Murky. But you know what, it ain't that it's tolerable, 0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:56.200 but like I feel like it burned my taste buds 0:33:56.240 --> 0:34:01.760 off for me. I still eight nerds, a lot the 0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:06.000 nerds clusters. I'm not gonna finish it. 0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:08.720 Yeah, my eyes started watering. 0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:13.480 I'm all right, m m. It's not good though. It's 0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:17.080 not a good candy. War heads aren't good. This is 0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:19.960 definitely for the kids. I feel like it's good. Especially 0:34:20.960 --> 0:34:23.799 it's good once you get the sour off. But that 0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.720 sour is like lingering. But anyways, let's get to these topics. 0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:28.799 Got into the first topic. But can I go ahead 0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:30.879 and get another shot? And I forgot to talk about 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:33.000 and I didn't even finish talking about me being sick. 0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:35.560 I will talk about you. I will talk let's talk 0:34:35.600 --> 0:34:38.000 about that. And then now I feel a little bit 0:34:38.080 --> 0:34:39.799 of good because I was in Houston, and you know, 0:34:39.840 --> 0:34:43.680 I was outside and I just feel like everything be 0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:45.880 outside in Houston. It be all type of stuff in 0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:50.600 the EU. So I called something and came back. Thank you. 0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:52.520 I don't think it was contagious though, because I've been 0:34:52.560 --> 0:34:55.719 around numerous people didn't. Nobody got it and got my 0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:58.080 cold or whatever. But yeah, I've been doing the de 0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:00.800 talks for the past seven day. I really I was 0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:04.839 gonna try to do thirty. But clearly that's all right, 0:35:05.600 --> 0:35:08.359 that's all right, that's all right. Well you look good, 0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:11.759 you look thank you. I normally always do like a 0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:14.200 little forty day. Is this the first time you record? No, 0:35:14.360 --> 0:35:15.920 you recorded with the Bob for Halloween? 0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:20.480 Yeah, I did thank you. The Bob is Bob it is. 0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:22.120 This is gonna be the last episode we did, though 0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:25.840 I'm switching to hair done. I might go to I 0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:28.480 might by the time y'all, by the time this episode drops, 0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:30.160 which I'm kind of happy that we're kind of behind 0:35:30.200 --> 0:35:32.560 on episodes in the can because this is dropping very soon. 0:35:32.600 --> 0:35:35.160 So by the time y'all see this, I might might 0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:38.000 possibly be in Barbados with Killa next week or by 0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:39.680 the time y'all see this. So I'm thinking about getting 0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:44.840 my hair braided real quick. Bid. Yeah, I'm gonna do 0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:47.680 the Bob again. The bib bohs. I need to have 0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:50.279 a viobe. What's eating? Yeah? I need I need my 0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:53.799 eat pray love moment for a second, I feel you 0:35:53.880 --> 0:35:56.640 on that we need to move. That's how licks I said. 0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:58.640 We need to move somewhere for like a month, but 0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:00.960 like ould get out. But I'm kind of think of 0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:02.480 where I want to go, because I want to go 0:36:02.560 --> 0:36:06.319 somewhere where it's about like wellness and mental health and 0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:10.160 eating good, exercising and just tuning in with oneself. Because 0:36:10.200 --> 0:36:11.880 for a while I did want to do the Miami 0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:14.520 for a month or yeah, I would like to go there. 0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:17.040 But even if we do something domestically, maybe like an 0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:20.800 Arizona like Sedona or somewhere, I'm like, yeah, like somewhere 0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:23.919 that's just like I can just relax. So I've really 0:36:23.920 --> 0:36:26.120 been thinking about like where I want to go, because 0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:27.799 wherever I want to do like, I want it to 0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:30.040 be intention It's not like an outside thing. It's a 0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:33.480 more like internal, let me focus and get myself together 0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:36.080 type thing. So I'm still definitely thinking about it because 0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:37.120 I still want to do it. 0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:38.240 I think we both should. 0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:40.960 But I just want to be intentional about wherever I 0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:43.080 go and make sure I have the resources to do 0:36:43.160 --> 0:36:45.000 the things that I want to do and need to do. 0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:47.759 That's like, you know, we're not getting any younger, you 0:36:47.840 --> 0:36:48.399 might as well. 0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:51.880 We ain't got nothing to lose. We can all and 0:36:51.920 --> 0:36:55.720 we got places in Atlanta. We can always come back. Facts. 0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:58.040 All right, Let's get into these topics today, all right, 0:36:58.080 --> 0:36:59.560 all right, all right, So I want to just talk 0:36:59.600 --> 0:37:02.800 about this today. Obviously, this is a hot topic that's 0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:06.480 going on right now, and I wanted to discuss it. 0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:09.160 One thing that I say, me, Andre are not TikTokers. 0:37:09.160 --> 0:37:11.479 We don't be on TikTok, But I love because because 0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:15.200 TikTok beyond us, there's always you know, I searched poor 0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:17.520 mine on TikTok the other day. There's so many videos 0:37:17.520 --> 0:37:20.919 of people like breaking down poor minds, like, oh my god, 0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:24.319 the poor minds. Girlies responded all the poor minds. Oh 0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:26.680 if I work for pr for poor minds, this is what. 0:37:27.000 --> 0:37:29.239 Let me tell y'all, I'll be seeing y'all. Y'all, don't 0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:31.440 be thinking I'll be seeing y'all, but I be on TikTok. 0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:37.239 So anyway, small but anyway, So basically there's a discourse 0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:42.960 on TikTok because Raymonte and Aliah J had a little speck. Now, 0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:45.359 if you know, if you're a makeup girly and you're 0:37:45.400 --> 0:37:48.200 into the makeup, and obviously I'm just gonna run down 0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:50.160 the situation, but there's another topic that I want to 0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:54.080 talk about that's more broad. But basically, Aliah J is 0:37:54.360 --> 0:37:58.799 an og YouTuber. She was the it girl at one 0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:01.879 point doing makeup blogs, all of that, all of that 0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:04.200 I was. I'm still a fan of Aliah J. Love 0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:08.239 her content, loved her content, all that good stuff. So 0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:13.239 Aliah J had this friend named Justin and he used 0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:16.040 to always appear on her YouTube and appear with her 0:38:16.040 --> 0:38:18.520 when she did her blogs. So recently, I guess they 0:38:18.560 --> 0:38:20.600 were doing like a makeup to toyal Q and A, 0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:24.600 and they were talking about influencers then versus influencers now 0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:29.800 and Justin God, he went on a little tangent about 0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:33.840 how being an influencer then in like twenty fifteen sixteen 0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:37.560 you had to actually be talented and versus now you 0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:39.919 can walk up to people in Walmart and be like, oh, 0:38:40.000 --> 0:38:42.160 you look cute, ma'am, you look beautiful today and get 0:38:42.200 --> 0:38:45.080 a million views on TikTok, and now you're viral. Obviously 0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:49.960 that was shade towards Raymonte, and Raymonte responded and he 0:38:50.040 --> 0:38:54.560 went off, so I love Raymonte again, and I want 0:38:54.560 --> 0:38:57.200 to touch on that on the show. Mother. I love Raymonte, 0:38:57.280 --> 0:38:59.359 and so I love him and his friends. I love 0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:01.560 him and his friend, but I also love Aleah j 0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:04.759 I'm not gonna lie I'm not too familiar. I like 0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:07.400 Aleah Jason, I love Aleah j I'm not too familiar 0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:10.800 with Justin And that's no shade because I never watched 0:39:10.800 --> 0:39:13.960 Aliah's blogs. I would more so watch her makeup like 0:39:14.080 --> 0:39:15.560 the girl taught me how to beat the face her 0:39:15.600 --> 0:39:18.719 and Jackie Aina. That's how I learned my makeup. So 0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:21.799 I'm not too familiar with Justin, but i will say this. 0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:26.520 I want to talk about Raymonte first because what I 0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:28.960 do notice online and like I said, I am a 0:39:29.000 --> 0:39:32.160 thirty five year old untie, Okay, I have nephews. I 0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:36.479 am a grown, grown woman, raised the generation. I didn't 0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:38.759 raise the generation though, because I was never an it 0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:41.920 girl back then. I think I am a little bit 0:39:41.960 --> 0:39:44.719 of an it girl now, but it's because I have 0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:47.400 wisdom and knowledge and I can spread it. So me 0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:51.400 being somebody that is in the space of content creating, 0:39:51.440 --> 0:39:55.359 I'll say this and I'll tell y'all while Raymonte bothers y'all. 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:57.560 And I'm not saying he bothers Justin. I just I'm 0:39:57.560 --> 0:40:01.080 talking to everybody. And this cause gonna lead into the topic. 0:40:01.280 --> 0:40:04.120 Raymonte bothers a lot of people because he is one 0:40:04.160 --> 0:40:07.600 of the very few that are in this circle who 0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:11.360 can do whatever the hell they want to do. And brands, 0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:15.680 major brands still love them because a lot of people 0:40:16.080 --> 0:40:19.000 told Cardi, oh, you're gonna have to clean it up. No, 0:40:19.120 --> 0:40:22.239 she didn't gloilla, Oh, you're gonna have to clean it up. 0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:27.120 No she didn't Raymonte clean it up. No he don't. 0:40:27.920 --> 0:40:30.520 And a lot of it's a select people in this 0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:33.200 life who are chosen to walk that path, but that 0:40:33.239 --> 0:40:36.520 path is for them. We are not going to see 0:40:36.600 --> 0:40:38.920 too many people that have to move like a Beyonce 0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:42.360 and everything's perfect like a Kim Kardashian. Not in twenty 0:40:42.360 --> 0:40:44.440 twenty four. I mean, well, I don't think Kim kardashi 0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:47.239 needs a good example, though I think she have because 0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:50.440 to me, she's another person who move how she wanted them. 0:40:50.480 --> 0:40:52.799 But I don't think she does because I do. Every 0:40:52.920 --> 0:40:59.560 but everything that Kim Kardashian posts now is strategic. I think. 0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:04.560 I think with age, I think with age and becoming 0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:08.200 a mother. I think that she cares way more now 0:41:08.400 --> 0:41:12.160 about how things look right, right right, But I think 0:41:12.239 --> 0:41:14.279 at one point in time she did not care, and 0:41:14.320 --> 0:41:17.399 she did exactly what she wanted. I mean that's fair. 0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:20.240 But back on the spect So, how do you feel 0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:24.200 about how Raymonte is perceiving how other people perceive him? 0:41:25.200 --> 0:41:29.560 I like Rae, but I also like people who are 0:41:30.239 --> 0:41:38.200 authentically themselves. I agree. I like people that don't conform. Yeah, 0:41:38.440 --> 0:41:42.839 people that don't conform to what society thinks that they're 0:41:42.920 --> 0:41:46.040 supposed to be. If you have an opinion and this 0:41:46.080 --> 0:41:48.760 is how you feel, you stand on how you feel 0:41:48.800 --> 0:41:51.120 and this is what I said, and this is what 0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:53.280 I mean, and this is what it is. And whoever 0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:55.320 don't like you, you don't like you. But I appreciate 0:41:55.360 --> 0:41:57.759 the people that do. I like the fact that he 0:41:58.920 --> 0:42:02.719 lives and thrives and who he is and people either 0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:05.440 have to accept it or they don't. And that's the 0:42:05.520 --> 0:42:09.160 thing about it. Like I always say, you don't have 0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:12.120 to follow people, you don't have to watch them, you 0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:14.880 don't have to look at their content if you don't 0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:15.359 like it. 0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:18.040 All of the outrage that. 0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.080 People be having when it comes to him and when 0:42:20.120 --> 0:42:23.440 it comes to other influencers that are like him, I 0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:25.680 think it's just ridiculous because at the end of the day, 0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:28.200 you don't have to consume content that you don't like. 0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:31.400 I think he is a breath of fresh air. I 0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:35.520 think he says a lot of controversial things that a 0:42:35.560 --> 0:42:38.000 lot of people won't say, but he be telling the 0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:41.719 truth what people be thinking. They just ain't bold enough 0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:44.920 to type it. And I feel like the audience that 0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:48.000 is meant for him is always going to gravitate towards him, 0:42:48.040 --> 0:42:50.319 and I feel like the opportunities that are meant for 0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:53.200 him are always going to gravitate towards him, because what's 0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:55.600 for you is for you. I think a lot of 0:42:55.640 --> 0:42:59.880 people don't like people who are bold. I think that 0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:01.799 makes people feel some type of way when people are 0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:06.839 so bold that they can just stand strongly in who 0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:10.000 they are and what they believe in in their opinions 0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:13.319 and not give two folks about what other people think 0:43:13.400 --> 0:43:16.040 because most people care. And I think we're in this 0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:22.040 whole era of influencers wanting to model after other influencers 0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:25.920 who are already successful. So it's like, oh, well, let 0:43:25.960 --> 0:43:27.600 me try to be more like and I'm not gonna 0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:29.520 say any names, but like, let me try to be 0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:32.400 more like this person because they give a soft life 0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:37.040 a study. Let me seriously, let me be more like 0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:40.759 this person because they're a little more docile and submissive. 0:43:40.920 --> 0:43:44.800 That's a good word. Let me write that down. Nick girls, 0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:47.920 shut up, but no, for real though, It's like, I 0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:51.279 think we live in this era of people trying to 0:43:51.400 --> 0:43:56.080 water themselves down to be what they think they because 0:43:56.120 --> 0:43:58.000 they see what other people are doing to get the 0:43:58.040 --> 0:44:01.120 brand deals. And I think Raymonte be like, fuck that, 0:44:01.640 --> 0:44:04.480 I'm me and the brand deals this for me. I'm 0:44:04.480 --> 0:44:06.120 gonna get them, and if I don't get one, I 0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:08.160 don't get it. But I'm still gonna be me online 0:44:08.200 --> 0:44:09.879 and I'm still gonna say what the fuck I want 0:44:09.880 --> 0:44:10.280 to say. 0:44:10.480 --> 0:44:12.279 I'm still gonna do what the fuck I want to do, 0:44:12.840 --> 0:44:16.080 and I'm proud and loud about who I am. 0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:18.480 And let me say this too. I want you to 0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:21.600 stop trying to make people that are special and know 0:44:21.680 --> 0:44:25.359 they're special feel like they're not special, because I hate 0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:28.400 when people even see us or see another influence that 0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:31.400 they be like, they're not doing anything special. It doesn't 0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:33.960 matter what they're doing. We ain't doing nothing special then 0:44:34.000 --> 0:44:37.080 why you know, Well, let me say it's about It's 0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:39.719 not about them not doing anything special, because maybe I'm not. 0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:42.080 I've been on the internet for the past month because 0:44:42.080 --> 0:44:45.759 I spit out a fucking cookie. Wasn't anything special, no, 0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:47.960 but people found it funny. Some people were mad at me. 0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:52.160 I mean, but if they would out a cookie exactly. 0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:55.000 So stop trying to make people feel like they aren't 0:44:55.000 --> 0:44:57.719 special when they are. Raymonte is special and that's just 0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:03.120 and that just is what it. Some people are just special. 0:45:03.160 --> 0:45:05.400 And I'm not saying nobody is better than other people, 0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:08.880 because you can find somebody who works a nine to 0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:11.640 five job and they are special in that field and 0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:13.719 they're gonna work their way up to be very high 0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:15.799 in this company because they're special at what they do. 0:45:15.840 --> 0:45:18.360 When nobody is better than other people, but some people 0:45:18.400 --> 0:45:24.440 are highly favored. People are chosen in certain fields in 0:45:24.480 --> 0:45:28.759 their calling. That's what I'm saying. Yeah, But at the 0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:29.880 end of the day, I don't know. 0:45:30.120 --> 0:45:30.600 I don't know. 0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:34.040 I hate talking about these because my opinions on certain 0:45:34.040 --> 0:45:37.080 things very comfortable. No, I feel like everybody has something 0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:39.000 special about them. But what I'm saying, yeah, but I 0:45:39.040 --> 0:45:42.640 don't think is necessarily what's gonna I don't think it's 0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:46.960 gonna necessarily set you apart or make you reach. I 0:45:47.000 --> 0:45:49.319 think some people what makes them special is what's gonna 0:45:49.360 --> 0:45:52.480 make them reach. Yeah, And that's what I'm saying. Everybody 0:45:52.480 --> 0:45:56.120 has something special about them, And since we're talking about Raymonde, 0:45:56.239 --> 0:45:59.440 what makes him special is why he's so successful. Some 0:45:59.480 --> 0:46:02.120 people are special in other ways. But I say I'm 0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:04.359 that not going to make you success, right. I say 0:46:04.400 --> 0:46:06.280 all that to say it stop trying to take away 0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:09.200 from people. We are in a different era. So that's 0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:12.240 gonna get into the topic of influencers in twenty fifteen 0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:13.319 versus influencers. 0:46:13.360 --> 0:46:15.319 Now, what is the criteria? 0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:18.839 Do I believe that in twenty fifteen and sixteen and 0:46:19.200 --> 0:46:23.120 before that you had to do something different? Yes, but 0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:25.840 that was just the times then. That doesn't mean you 0:46:25.840 --> 0:46:28.799 aren't talented. I think it still takes talent to be 0:46:28.880 --> 0:46:29.600 an influencer. 0:46:29.640 --> 0:46:29.799 Now. 0:46:29.920 --> 0:46:33.480 I think back in the day, people were more authentic. Honestly, 0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:37.000 that's the difference. Back then and now. To me, people 0:46:37.040 --> 0:46:39.359 were way more authentic. People were doing what the fuck 0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:42.600 they wanted to do with their content and just posting right, 0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:44.640 posting because this is what I want to do, this 0:46:44.680 --> 0:46:46.160 is what I'm this is my blog, this is what 0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:49.239 I'm doing today. They wasn't thinking twice about it. Oh 0:46:49.320 --> 0:46:54.080 let me post this makeup tutorial? Not thinking twice about it? Yeah. People, 0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:57.440 Now everybody is trying to be like the people that 0:46:57.560 --> 0:47:01.360 are successful, and it's annoying. It's fucked because where is 0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:04.840 the originality. Nobody is original anymore. All they do is 0:47:05.000 --> 0:47:08.320 copy off of what they see popular influencers, and it's working. 0:47:08.400 --> 0:47:12.640 It works. It's a lot of people who copy people's content. 0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:14.800 I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I'll be scrolling TikTok 0:47:14.840 --> 0:47:17.080 all day every day. There's this content creator. She has 0:47:17.120 --> 0:47:21.840 like sixteen million followers, not kidding. They caught her stealing 0:47:21.880 --> 0:47:24.719 a smaller creator. This girl has like ten thousand followers. 0:47:25.120 --> 0:47:27.160 They caught her with like three or four videos. And 0:47:27.200 --> 0:47:30.439 I'm not talking about copy, like, oh, word for word, 0:47:30.480 --> 0:47:33.120 bar for bar. They literally have video side by side. 0:47:33.200 --> 0:47:36.879 She memorized the girl's videos type shit like that's how 0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:39.960 bad it is. But nobody cares because she has the 0:47:40.000 --> 0:47:42.840 bigger following. It's the same thing in the music industry. 0:47:43.280 --> 0:47:45.600 If you work the bigger following. Does she get it 0:47:45.640 --> 0:47:49.080 from copying the other? Who knows? Probably from other copying 0:47:49.160 --> 0:47:53.360 other people, but they can't find them because it works. Now, 0:47:53.600 --> 0:47:56.680 it does work for some people, but that's why it's 0:47:56.719 --> 0:47:59.480 people who are jumbled in. Who are the people who 0:47:59.520 --> 0:48:03.800 are actually talented and the people who ain't, And it's 0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:07.000 everything gets mixed up. Yeah, and I can say that, 0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:09.240 But what I think about Raymonte, I think he's different. 0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:11.359 I don't think he copies off anybody, but y'all are 0:48:11.360 --> 0:48:13.120 trying to bunch him in with these people who do 0:48:13.200 --> 0:48:15.439 that fake shit. And I don't think that's fair to him, 0:48:15.560 --> 0:48:17.320 because at the end of the day, we can't lie. 0:48:17.360 --> 0:48:20.680 He's funny, he's witty, he got it, So stop trying 0:48:20.680 --> 0:48:24.040 to take that away just because other people they do 0:48:24.640 --> 0:48:27.759 stupid stuff or may copy off somebody, or there's a 0:48:27.760 --> 0:48:30.080 little bull who got shot because he was trying to 0:48:30.080 --> 0:48:33.000 do a prank on somebody. You can do anything to 0:48:33.040 --> 0:48:35.680 go viral nowadays, and everybody wants their viral moment. But 0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:37.839 I don't think Raymonte tries to go viral. I think 0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:41.280 he just no. I think he just said stuff online 0:48:41.360 --> 0:48:44.600 any go viral all the time. He can't help it. 0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:48.799 Did oh, he can't help it? So stop. I just 0:48:48.840 --> 0:48:51.480 felt like snop fit my drink. And like I said, 0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:53.759 I don't know much. This is not shade towards Justin 0:48:53.880 --> 0:48:56.200 or anybody, but this is not only I see a 0:48:56.239 --> 0:48:58.920 lot of people coming for raymonse online and a lot 0:48:58.960 --> 0:49:01.239 of people just coming for peace. People who are special, 0:49:01.920 --> 0:49:04.080 like some people just have the gift of gab and 0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:05.759 they can sit with their phone in their face and 0:49:05.800 --> 0:49:09.920 people are interested and people are just interested. So I 0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:13.279 think the difference between influencers then influencers now influencers. Then 0:49:13.560 --> 0:49:16.000 it wasn't as competitive, not a lot of people were 0:49:16.000 --> 0:49:17.719 trying to do it, so you had to stick out, 0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:21.880 you had to be different. Now not so much. You 0:49:21.880 --> 0:49:25.720 can do anything. People literally sit on their camera eating 0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:28.680 and make a living from just eating. I see the 0:49:28.719 --> 0:49:34.480 girl she made and mind you, no shade to the 0:49:34.560 --> 0:49:38.680 mok bang people, but shade, I don't want to see 0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:42.880 nobody eating. She ate foods and le bowl is seven bites. 0:49:43.160 --> 0:49:46.879 I saw that seven bites, but that was and washed 0:49:46.880 --> 0:49:49.320 it down with some drita. Well that was a little intriguing, 0:49:49.480 --> 0:49:51.279 just like that man who eat the pop Pye's be 0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.840 skinny in one bie. Oh my no, I like him, 0:49:54.560 --> 0:49:58.120 like friend, come on, come on, come on, come get 0:49:58.520 --> 0:50:02.160 I like him. I like him too. But it's very 0:50:02.200 --> 0:50:06.120 few influencers that do like the muck Bangs and the 0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:09.719 eating content that I actually like because I feel like 0:50:09.760 --> 0:50:15.080 it's just such low hanging fruit it is. I mean, 0:50:15.280 --> 0:50:18.120 I'm if you make money off of it, cool, but 0:50:18.160 --> 0:50:21.040 it's such low hanging fruit, Like it's like, oh, let 0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:24.160 me set the tropod up and eat every time. It's 0:50:24.200 --> 0:50:29.400 smack real hard and slurt real hard and like it. 0:50:29.920 --> 0:50:33.080 I do think it's obviously it is an audience for that. 0:50:33.080 --> 0:50:35.839 That's why a lot of those people become really successful, 0:50:35.920 --> 0:50:40.800 the as and R and stuff and you know, smacking 0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:43.759 and whispery what's the name? We got a credit the 0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:50.759 originator on that lady? Yes, with the wiyes, that's my favorite, 0:50:52.600 --> 0:50:54.120 y'all did y'all stole it from her? 0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:55.759 I remember her name? 0:50:56.239 --> 0:51:00.319 Yes? What is that lady name? She used to be you. 0:51:00.400 --> 0:51:02.719 I used to use her memes. I know, mean so 0:51:02.760 --> 0:51:05.080 she used to be typing. Yeah, I know exactly who 0:51:05.120 --> 0:51:09.040 you're talking about. The og Love No, well, be love 0:51:09.239 --> 0:51:09.759 is one of these. 0:51:09.880 --> 0:51:11.360 She's one of the ogs. 0:51:10.920 --> 0:51:12.840 Though, because she started she was the first person I 0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:14.000 seen breaking brab. 0:51:14.640 --> 0:51:16.799 And she made her own sauce and everything. 0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:17.080 Made her own. 0:51:17.200 --> 0:51:17.760 I lovely. 0:51:18.560 --> 0:51:20.759 But but yes, I think that's what and so that's 0:51:20.760 --> 0:51:23.360 what I was saying. Like some people that have gotten 0:51:23.400 --> 0:51:25.520 in that lane, they have done very well with it. 0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:28.560 But like now, in twenty twenty four, because be Lovely 0:51:28.640 --> 0:51:31.719 she started getting popping, like I don't know, maybe like 0:51:31.840 --> 0:51:37.200 twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen even before that. I think right 0:51:37.239 --> 0:51:39.680 now it's such low hanging fruit, is what I was 0:51:39.719 --> 0:51:41.920 getting at. Like, I think everybody is just trying to 0:51:41.920 --> 0:51:45.000 do it because they've seen the Pioneers, they've seen the ogs, 0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:49.080 the people like the Pioneer. Okay, but but no, are 0:51:49.080 --> 0:51:51.799 you not if you no? I know, but I'm saying, 0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:54.479 are you not if you've made millions of dollars from 0:51:54.520 --> 0:51:58.320 me and you have millions of subscribers on YouTube? Like, hey, 0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:01.880 I can't hate them. We're pioneers and talking ship. No 0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:04.920 we are. We talked that hot ship. We do. 0:52:05.040 --> 0:52:07.000 We do, and that's why people don't be liking It's 0:52:07.080 --> 0:52:07.480 we be. 0:52:07.680 --> 0:52:10.960 Damn people don't like, Oh my god, I guess who 0:52:11.000 --> 0:52:15.680 don't give a fuck me? Okay, okay, okay, so yeah, 0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:19.319 let us know what y'all think. Shout out to ray 0:52:19.360 --> 0:52:26.080 Monte Malik and and Aliah J and justin shout out 0:52:26.080 --> 0:52:27.360 to all y'all. We just had to use y'all for 0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:29.000 a little example. You know, we've been trying to be 0:52:29.040 --> 0:52:30.759 in the know with what you know, the streets got 0:52:30.800 --> 0:52:32.920 going on, because I feel like we just be so 0:52:33.239 --> 0:52:35.200 uninvolved and in our own little world. 0:52:38.480 --> 0:52:40.359 Don't tell me to take no shot then be taking 0:52:40.400 --> 0:52:41.480 all day to take this ship. 0:52:42.320 --> 0:52:45.560 But I've been trying to be in and talking. You 0:52:45.600 --> 0:52:49.120 know what talk. It's that espresso. Yeah, it's that espresso. 0:52:49.160 --> 0:52:51.440 And I was about to be the titos too. So 0:52:51.640 --> 0:52:55.200 we're talking topic number two. What's up, y'all? Is your 0:52:55.239 --> 0:52:57.920 girl XP and it's Sugarl draining the call. And y'all know, 0:52:58.000 --> 0:53:00.759 we always have a little financial for y'all, So we 0:53:00.840 --> 0:53:03.879 gonna tell y'all about Chime dot com. 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Times of conditions apply. 0:54:12.800 --> 0:54:14.520 Go to shine dot com slash this closures for details. 0:54:14.560 --> 0:54:16.440 Okay, soft a topic number two. 0:54:16.440 --> 0:54:22.800 I really want us to talk about the influencer to 0:54:23.640 --> 0:54:30.000 religious influencer pipeline like it's been happening a lot like 0:54:30.000 --> 0:54:32.040 like I think that you know, when people be feeling 0:54:32.080 --> 0:54:35.879 in other lanes, then they want to get all spiritual 0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:41.560 and it's nothing wrong with that if it's genuine, like 0:54:41.640 --> 0:54:45.520 if you genuinely have had a come to Jesus moment. 0:54:46.280 --> 0:54:47.960 Yeah, if you genuinely have had. 0:54:47.800 --> 0:54:50.640 A come to Jesus moment and you really are trying 0:54:50.680 --> 0:54:54.760 to grow closer in your walk with God and closer 0:54:54.840 --> 0:54:58.719 in faith and you know, walk the right path, then 0:54:58.760 --> 0:55:00.560 I'm all for it. But if you you doing it 0:55:00.600 --> 0:55:02.200 for a come up, or if you're doing it for 0:55:02.280 --> 0:55:03.040 money because you. 0:55:03.120 --> 0:55:04.840 Know, or even worse a man. 0:55:06.360 --> 0:55:09.799 They doing that too, Like, if you're doing it for 0:55:09.840 --> 0:55:16.120 the wrong reasons, then I'm just not we getting messy. 0:55:16.280 --> 0:55:19.759 I had to cheat my gun. If you're doing it 0:55:19.800 --> 0:55:24.080 for the wrong reasons, I'm just I'm just not here 0:55:24.160 --> 0:55:27.319 for that because one thing, I play about a lot 0:55:27.320 --> 0:55:30.640 of things, I don't think you should play about guys 0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:33.560 for real though, I really don't like. To me, that's 0:55:33.560 --> 0:55:35.680 not something to play with. Religion is not something to 0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:38.480 play with, and I feel like it's preying on people's weaknesses. 0:55:38.800 --> 0:55:41.880 Like influencers who are doing that now are no different 0:55:41.960 --> 0:55:46.040 from pastors who we have found out about back in 0:55:46.080 --> 0:55:50.040 the day who were like laandering money, stealing money. It's 0:55:50.080 --> 0:55:52.000 a pastor from Houston, popular. 0:55:51.680 --> 0:55:55.320 Pastor, remember we saw that pastor in the club at. 0:55:59.040 --> 0:56:06.560 You know who? We Oh, I don't. I'm gonna tell you. 0:56:06.560 --> 0:56:10.839 After we saw him at the party, Yes we girl, 0:56:10.920 --> 0:56:13.040 you know we did, cause I was like, he. 0:56:13.120 --> 0:56:15.239 Said, came to the party for the photos. 0:56:16.040 --> 0:56:21.480 He was like this bow bow bow bowl. He was nice. 0:56:21.840 --> 0:56:24.920 He was nice because I remember, I really would have 0:56:25.000 --> 0:56:28.200 remembered that he was doing all of that. But no, 0:56:28.520 --> 0:56:37.759 I said, you shut up. But now I feel like 0:56:38.080 --> 0:56:41.600 the pastors, I mean not the pastors, the influencers that 0:56:41.719 --> 0:56:43.680 been in there are no different from the pastors who 0:56:44.680 --> 0:56:47.839 be stealing money from the congregation. Agreed, It's like it's 0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:51.040 the same thing, same thing, different game. This is what's 0:56:51.719 --> 0:56:55.279 this is what's so hard. So I never talk about 0:56:55.320 --> 0:56:58.440 this on the show. I never I've mentioned it before, 0:56:58.520 --> 0:57:01.800 but I mentioned it to you. I have gone on 0:57:02.000 --> 0:57:05.960 and it's still going on a very personal, private, spiritual journey. 0:57:06.000 --> 0:57:08.480 I don't talk about it to nobody except my therapist. 0:57:09.960 --> 0:57:14.520 I just because it's not y'all business. And we talked 0:57:14.520 --> 0:57:16.680 about this on the episode. We were talking about desperation 0:57:16.760 --> 0:57:21.320 in your thirties. A lot of times these middlemen are 0:57:21.440 --> 0:57:23.640 messing up your journey. And when I say a middle man. 0:57:24.000 --> 0:57:27.400 It's because you're trying to connect through God. You're trying 0:57:27.400 --> 0:57:30.560 to connect to God through somebody. You need to go 0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:34.840 directly to the source. Okay, Sometimes y'all are listening to 0:57:34.920 --> 0:57:38.080 people who are not God sent to preach this word 0:57:38.200 --> 0:57:40.280 to you, and y'all are listening to people who have 0:57:40.520 --> 0:57:43.520 ulterior motives. And it gets scary to me because it 0:57:43.640 --> 0:57:46.240 was one particular person. I'm not gonna say no names, 0:57:46.880 --> 0:57:52.440 but I remember when she posted this shit. I remember 0:57:52.520 --> 0:57:55.800 our call dre because at the moment, unbeknownst to a 0:57:55.880 --> 0:57:58.080 lot of people around me, I was going through mine 0:57:58.320 --> 0:58:00.800 and I'm just you know, I'm seeing things, I'm noticing things, 0:58:00.840 --> 0:58:03.840 and I'm just like I just remember being so vocal 0:58:03.840 --> 0:58:05.160 about it to my friends. So I was like, this 0:58:05.360 --> 0:58:07.120 is so crazy, and I'm interested to see how this 0:58:07.240 --> 0:58:09.920 is going to turn out. And it turned out exactly 0:58:10.840 --> 0:58:12.920 like I thought. And I just think it's so crazy 0:58:13.040 --> 0:58:18.360 because I am afraid of people like that. I am 0:58:18.480 --> 0:58:21.320 afraid of people who can get on like I understand 0:58:21.320 --> 0:58:24.120 the responsibility of poor minds and that we have and 0:58:24.200 --> 0:58:26.520 we've created a safe space. That's why I try to 0:58:26.600 --> 0:58:28.720 be on here and be as careful as I am, 0:58:29.400 --> 0:58:31.400 and I know we get on here and I say 0:58:31.520 --> 0:58:34.280 jokes about Church and about God, but I always say 0:58:34.320 --> 0:58:37.200 God gave me my humor. So when I make jokes 0:58:37.200 --> 0:58:40.360 about Church or God, I don't care what y'all have 0:58:40.440 --> 0:58:43.320 to feel because I went directly to the source from it. 0:58:43.400 --> 0:58:46.040 I mean, but we've also never tried to capitalize off 0:58:46.080 --> 0:58:48.920 of our relation hello God, like Imona, never tried to 0:58:49.080 --> 0:58:53.040 make money off of the fact that we have a 0:58:53.120 --> 0:58:58.040 relationship with God, or like our spiritual journeys. I think 0:58:58.080 --> 0:59:04.400 it's so crazy and it's scary. Now do I want 0:59:04.440 --> 0:59:06.760 to meet your names or mom? I don't care. 0:59:07.440 --> 0:59:09.920 That's so do you Okay? So I gotta take that 0:59:10.080 --> 0:59:11.280 up with God. 0:59:12.160 --> 0:59:16.160 You right, You're right. I was interested in this person's 0:59:16.280 --> 0:59:20.680 journey because I have a different view than everybody else has. 0:59:20.800 --> 0:59:23.200 And since we're talking about TikTok and influencers today, that's 0:59:23.200 --> 0:59:27.560 gonna be the theme of today. The TikTok way they 0:59:27.640 --> 0:59:29.560 don't love you, No, that's a that's a challenge on 0:59:29.680 --> 0:59:33.919 TikTok right now, aunt tiv knowing no way, they don't 0:59:34.000 --> 0:59:37.000 love you like I love you. Come on now, catch 0:59:37.120 --> 0:59:44.360 up Mustard. So there's an influencer. She's extremely popular on TikTok. 0:59:44.440 --> 0:59:48.200 Her name is Amani, So Amani has a podcast. I 0:59:48.280 --> 0:59:52.360 don't personally know Amani. We've met her before, and Amiani 0:59:53.720 --> 0:59:57.160 is someone who talks about like relationship topics a lot. 0:59:57.280 --> 0:59:59.720 She used to talk about you know, oh we met her, 1:00:00.080 --> 1:00:01.840 That's what I said. I don't know her personally, but 1:00:01.920 --> 1:00:04.440 we've met her before. She was somebody who used her 1:00:04.520 --> 1:00:07.920 platform to talk about, you know, dating and dating somebody 1:00:07.960 --> 1:00:11.040 who is on your level or higher. You know, kind 1:00:11.040 --> 1:00:12.800 of the content that we used to do, same thing. 1:00:13.080 --> 1:00:15.600 I was never mad at the thing she said. She 1:00:15.800 --> 1:00:19.320 was another person who had controversial opinions that she stood 1:00:19.400 --> 1:00:23.760 on business. Now Amani's kind of changed her tone and 1:00:23.880 --> 1:00:27.680 she's kind of talking about religious things and people are like, oh, 1:00:28.120 --> 1:00:30.800 but you were just a bartender last week and you 1:00:30.880 --> 1:00:34.000 were just this last week, and you're I'm not gonna lie. 1:00:36.560 --> 1:00:43.080 I might bite, this might hit me in the ass 1:00:43.160 --> 1:00:46.160 later on. I don't think Amiani is I don't think 1:00:46.200 --> 1:00:49.280 she playing. I think this is really like her word 1:00:49.360 --> 1:00:52.120 and what she believes in. Who she was. You know. 1:00:52.240 --> 1:00:53.240 What I think was fake. 1:00:53.400 --> 1:00:56.160 I think was fake was her trying to speak on 1:00:56.400 --> 1:00:57.160 the dating shit. 1:00:57.600 --> 1:00:59.280 I think she was trying to do something in that 1:00:59.480 --> 1:01:03.560 moment to feel like, Okay, I'm not saying and this 1:01:03.680 --> 1:01:05.760 is just my opinion because I don't know her, but 1:01:05.880 --> 1:01:08.720 I think she was trying to conform to what society 1:01:08.760 --> 1:01:10.560 thought they could see from her because she's a beautiful 1:01:10.600 --> 1:01:13.480 woman living in Atlanta. She may be dating certain type 1:01:13.520 --> 1:01:15.560 of men to live a certain type of lifestyle. But 1:01:15.680 --> 1:01:18.360 I think this might be what she really was, because 1:01:18.360 --> 1:01:20.080 she was like I was raised in the church, Like 1:01:20.200 --> 1:01:22.560 this is what I really knew. And sometimes you get 1:01:22.640 --> 1:01:26.080 caught up in shit because I know me. I'm another example. 1:01:26.600 --> 1:01:28.440 When I first moved to Atlanta, I got lost in 1:01:28.480 --> 1:01:34.000 the sauce. I lost myself. I was like, yo, can 1:01:34.040 --> 1:01:37.240 get you abd day, go outside, smoke the hooks, eat 1:01:37.280 --> 1:01:40.360 the lamb chops. And I was eating them lamb chops, bitch, 1:01:40.960 --> 1:01:43.000 and I was shaking that lamb. Why are you shaking? 1:01:43.120 --> 1:01:45.040 Like That's how I used to do it. 1:01:46.040 --> 1:01:47.000 I used to be in the club. 1:01:48.560 --> 1:01:50.800 But I don't know though, Like, see, the thing to 1:01:50.960 --> 1:01:55.520 me what happened. The thing to me is I don't 1:01:55.560 --> 1:01:59.080 necessarily think that that's lost, Like I think being in 1:01:59.160 --> 1:02:02.400 your twenties and finding yourself and exploring different versions of 1:02:02.440 --> 1:02:07.520 yourself is normal, like me partying and being outside and 1:02:07.720 --> 1:02:10.560 like dating some of the people that I dated when 1:02:10.600 --> 1:02:13.520 I was in my twenties smoking who could eat lamb chops. 1:02:13.600 --> 1:02:16.000 I think that was a part of my lamb chop. 1:02:16.040 --> 1:02:18.160 By the way, ooh, it been a minie. 1:02:18.360 --> 1:02:20.840 Honestly lampop this week. 1:02:21.040 --> 1:02:26.439 I know, I know what to say. Minute. I haven't 1:02:26.480 --> 1:02:30.400 had a lamb chop in If you eat a lamb chop, 1:02:30.480 --> 1:02:33.360 I know you've been outside. Yeah, because if I ask you, like, 1:02:33.480 --> 1:02:36.960 because what's your favorite If I ask you lamb chop? 1:02:37.200 --> 1:02:40.120 If I ask you what's your favorite restaurant and you 1:02:40.200 --> 1:02:42.000 were like, oh girl, they got good lamb chops, bitch, 1:02:42.040 --> 1:02:45.240 I'm not going Yeah, that's a lamptop in Atlanta is 1:02:45.280 --> 1:02:48.240 a staple like if you having lamb chops, you outside, 1:02:48.680 --> 1:02:51.720 don't talk to me about you outside. You are you 1:02:51.880 --> 1:02:54.840 at the lounges, You at the Hookah lounges, cause that's 1:02:54.880 --> 1:02:57.480 why they be having the best lamb chops, mac and cheese, 1:02:57.520 --> 1:03:00.720 little broccolini on the side. You know, I loved me 1:03:00.800 --> 1:03:04.080 a good play. But what I'm saying is go back 1:03:04.120 --> 1:03:09.600 to the topic. It's okay. I just feel like that 1:03:09.800 --> 1:03:13.120 is a part of your journey, you know, like I 1:03:13.280 --> 1:03:17.440 had an outside moment when I was younger because and 1:03:17.560 --> 1:03:19.800 it's okay because to me in your twenties, that's what 1:03:19.840 --> 1:03:22.880 you're supposed to do. But it like outside dick keeping 1:03:22.960 --> 1:03:25.680 them it ain't keep me sick. Now, I'm talking about 1:03:25.720 --> 1:03:29.240 like when you was outside used to make them niggas mad. Well, 1:03:29.280 --> 1:03:31.720 when he said that outside did keep them hostick, I 1:03:31.800 --> 1:03:34.400 thought he meant like he gave hood you. No. I 1:03:34.520 --> 1:03:37.720 thought he meant like that outside dick, Like my dick 1:03:37.800 --> 1:03:40.880 outside is making you mad because I'm giving it. See, 1:03:40.920 --> 1:03:42.840 this is why we interpret that. This is why I 1:03:43.000 --> 1:03:46.760 love having conversations with people, because it's so interesting how 1:03:46.800 --> 1:03:48.040 the human brain works. 1:03:48.080 --> 1:03:50.720 It's crazy how we can hear the same thing and interpreting. 1:03:50.840 --> 1:03:53.560 Tom took it as I'm outside and I'm giving other 1:03:53.680 --> 1:03:58.200 holes that dick and you sick because you think I 1:03:58.360 --> 1:04:01.320 belong to you. No, I thought it. I thought that 1:04:01.440 --> 1:04:04.240 didn't mean that outside did keep them house sick because 1:04:04.800 --> 1:04:07.560 he'd be fucking everybody wrong and then he'd be bringing 1:04:07.600 --> 1:04:14.440 it back home and not everybody gotta take nobody and 1:04:14.640 --> 1:04:18.240 the little Penicillian shot. I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong, 1:04:18.960 --> 1:04:21.520 Maybe we're both from We need to have juvenile on 1:04:22.200 --> 1:04:24.240 because we can't ask the other one because he up 1:04:24.280 --> 1:04:29.320 there with Annie. Oh, Michael Jackson. So I'm just slim, 1:04:29.480 --> 1:04:35.400 but got his name? Wait? What who is Annie? My mama? 1:04:40.080 --> 1:04:42.520 You said you sat up there with any I don't 1:04:42.520 --> 1:04:44.360 know why I started thinking of Annie. Are you okay? 1:04:44.400 --> 1:04:50.640 Because she's not. She's okay, bitch. That's why I said, 1:04:52.480 --> 1:04:53.760 are you She fine? 1:04:53.800 --> 1:04:54.880 Because she with the Lord. 1:04:55.320 --> 1:04:58.560 She's also with the Lord. She was a motherfucker. She 1:04:58.640 --> 1:05:01.120 went on to be with the Lord. I thought she 1:05:01.280 --> 1:05:07.120 was talking about Michael Jackson because he had this home. Annie. Yeah, 1:05:08.280 --> 1:05:10.080 I didn't think he was talking about your mama though. Yeah, 1:05:10.120 --> 1:05:12.840 he was talking about your mama. Probably my mom used 1:05:12.840 --> 1:05:15.680 to set that thing out. Know, my mom used to 1:05:15.720 --> 1:05:18.560 be honest, what if Michael Jackson? What's my daddy? That's 1:05:18.600 --> 1:05:23.360 why I can no he came through. 1:05:24.960 --> 1:05:26.520 Now, your daddy was Teddy? 1:05:27.240 --> 1:05:29.880 My daddy, y'all. My daddy looked exactly like Teddy pint 1:05:29.880 --> 1:05:35.000 of grass. You do, that's crazy, It's really crazy. My 1:05:35.200 --> 1:05:36.720 uncle looked like, well, when I be looking at you, 1:05:36.840 --> 1:05:38.400 I don't know who you look more like, I don't 1:05:38.400 --> 1:05:40.320 know if you look more like your mama or your daddy, 1:05:40.400 --> 1:05:44.680 because you like a good mixture. I'm a good mixture. 1:05:44.720 --> 1:05:48.920 Now my sister looks like my dad. It's crazy because really, yes, 1:05:49.160 --> 1:05:50.880 people see my sister be like, oh, she looks like 1:05:50.960 --> 1:05:55.200 her mom. My sister has a very chiseled face. So 1:05:55.360 --> 1:06:00.480 my sister has almond shaped eyes. So the almond shape eyes, 1:06:01.320 --> 1:06:03.680 that's a trait that my dad had. I have, like 1:06:03.880 --> 1:06:07.360 the big face, the stuff face, that's my mom had that. 1:06:07.840 --> 1:06:10.360 So my sister looks like my dad. I look like 1:06:10.440 --> 1:06:12.560 my mom. Both did though. 1:06:13.840 --> 1:06:21.160 Anyways, bro amen crazy to them people? Then they used 1:06:21.160 --> 1:06:24.800 to do that back in the day. That's what the 1:06:24.920 --> 1:06:25.720 track stars do. 1:06:27.360 --> 1:06:30.960 Yeah for should they be doing that ship and be 1:06:31.040 --> 1:06:34.919 running the thirteen? Look y'all be slow as hell talking 1:06:34.920 --> 1:06:39.200 about shout out to my daddy too. He right now? 1:06:40.160 --> 1:06:40.520 He is? 1:06:41.480 --> 1:06:44.280 Did I ever tell you one time? Man? I don't 1:06:44.320 --> 1:06:46.760 want to get uncomfortable because he feels like he'd be 1:06:46.840 --> 1:06:48.800 looking at him, And why you be beating at me? 1:06:53.720 --> 1:06:55.320 I ain't gonna lie though. I try not to beat 1:06:55.360 --> 1:06:57.960 it with these hands, but you're right, yeah, I try 1:06:58.000 --> 1:06:59.440 to do it. I know he'd be mad Man. He 1:06:59.520 --> 1:07:01.880 was the right here. No, but that's why I feel 1:07:01.920 --> 1:07:03.600 like now I probably could do a lot of things 1:07:03.680 --> 1:07:10.320 with both ends, not you. What's it called ambidextris ambidextrous. Yeah, yeah, 1:07:10.360 --> 1:07:14.240 that's me learn I did. But anyways, how we started 1:07:14.280 --> 1:07:16.080 talking about beating Dick and we supposed to be talking 1:07:16.080 --> 1:07:23.560 about the Lord. This show is horrible, horrible, horrible. Back 1:07:23.640 --> 1:07:32.280 to what I was saying, I feel like people religious people. 1:07:32.680 --> 1:07:34.920 Will spend a lot of money on religion and on 1:07:35.040 --> 1:07:36.400 their beliefs, and. 1:07:36.440 --> 1:07:38.320 I want them people to start out. That's why. 1:07:39.160 --> 1:07:41.720 Yes, and so that's what I was about to say. 1:07:41.880 --> 1:07:44.720 I feel like that's why so many influencers are like 1:07:45.880 --> 1:07:49.120 following that pipeline and going that way because they know, 1:07:49.440 --> 1:07:52.280 like if I can convince people that I have changed 1:07:52.360 --> 1:07:55.200 my life around and I was just a sinner and 1:07:55.320 --> 1:07:57.000 I'm born again, you can do it too. 1:07:57.920 --> 1:07:59.120 And I got back up again. 1:08:00.040 --> 1:08:02.720 You should what's that ad? You? You should be here? Yeah, 1:08:02.800 --> 1:08:05.840 but it's and they will give their money to you 1:08:06.120 --> 1:08:08.680 because they feel like you are a changed woman, like 1:08:08.800 --> 1:08:09.800 you have been saved. 1:08:10.600 --> 1:08:14.400 I just think it's so I just think it's so 1:08:14.600 --> 1:08:16.160 messed up to take advantage. 1:08:16.280 --> 1:08:20.760 It's predatorial. Predatorial. Yeah, like you can be like you're 1:08:20.920 --> 1:08:23.960 a predator for different Yeah, you can pray on the 1:08:24.040 --> 1:08:26.240 week That's what it is, your predator. You're praying on 1:08:26.280 --> 1:08:29.240 the weekend. There's very few people that I believe their journey. 1:08:30.040 --> 1:08:32.400 There was another event that went on this past weekend 1:08:32.640 --> 1:08:34.720 and I didn't get to make it, and I saw 1:08:34.760 --> 1:08:36.280 a lot of clips from it. But this is another 1:08:36.320 --> 1:08:39.840 person who I have always loved from a distance, and 1:08:40.000 --> 1:08:43.439 I see everything that she's going through and I'm like, man, 1:08:43.600 --> 1:08:45.559 I think that's why a lot of people resonate with us, 1:08:45.640 --> 1:08:47.680 the people that really follow us and see how we 1:08:47.840 --> 1:08:50.360 talk on lives and they see how we talk on 1:08:50.400 --> 1:08:52.840 a daily basis, Like I get online. If you're not 1:08:52.920 --> 1:08:54.559 a part of the poor crew, I really don't want 1:08:54.560 --> 1:08:56.360 to talk to you because I'm not here for you. 1:08:56.760 --> 1:09:00.599 I have a message to send about feeling good about yourself, 1:09:00.600 --> 1:09:02.599 about mental health, and those are the people I need 1:09:02.680 --> 1:09:06.760 to reach about being a black woman and being unapologetically you. 1:09:07.400 --> 1:09:09.040 That's what I'm trying to talk to. I'm not trying 1:09:09.080 --> 1:09:10.720 to talk to the people who don't like me and 1:09:10.800 --> 1:09:13.200 don't understand me and they feel like, oh, lex Andrea 1:09:13.520 --> 1:09:15.519 All they care about is being bad at me and cute. 1:09:15.560 --> 1:09:17.280 I'm not for you because if you know me, you 1:09:17.360 --> 1:09:19.439 know I mean, that's not all I care about. But 1:09:20.240 --> 1:09:22.360 he's a good point. I mean either way, I don't 1:09:22.439 --> 1:09:25.479 get I'm not here for you. But this person's journey, 1:09:26.160 --> 1:09:29.479 you ain't wrong. If I wasn't bad and cute one day, 1:09:29.560 --> 1:09:31.519 I would be very upset, Like if I woke up 1:09:32.160 --> 1:09:34.320 and I was I was trying to preach the word 1:09:34.439 --> 1:09:38.599 and give a message and good I was at night 1:09:38.720 --> 1:09:43.519 and god, yeah, oh my god, why would he do that? 1:09:44.280 --> 1:09:48.320 That was another one take an advantage and god, he 1:09:48.439 --> 1:09:48.680 did that. 1:09:48.760 --> 1:09:51.439 On purpose to wake your his name past the Curney time. 1:09:51.560 --> 1:09:54.800 I don't know. But he was selling holy water, bro. 1:09:55.080 --> 1:09:58.559 You know you out of line. He was selling the water. 1:09:59.120 --> 1:10:01.880 Ain't nothing wrong with it? Man, sell water in the store. 1:10:02.040 --> 1:10:04.160 No, because but you know what you try to attack. 1:10:04.280 --> 1:10:07.120 They sell water in the stores. But don't try to sell. 1:10:07.200 --> 1:10:11.120 Don't put in water. Just sell water for you. But 1:10:11.200 --> 1:10:13.519 if you really think about it, selling water, period is 1:10:13.920 --> 1:10:17.519 up because water is free. Come on now, come on, capitalism, queens. 1:10:17.560 --> 1:10:20.080 I'm just saying you need to start a serious call 1:10:20.280 --> 1:10:23.320 and go down to your local spring and fill up 1:10:23.360 --> 1:10:27.040 your jas. We need to start a segment called capitalism 1:10:27.200 --> 1:10:29.559 Queens and talk about what people don't need to spend 1:10:29.600 --> 1:10:29.960 their money. 1:10:30.040 --> 1:10:32.680 They don't and we need to ruin capitalism. Now about that. 1:10:32.880 --> 1:10:36.560 It's gonna taste like minerals might taste a little. You 1:10:36.640 --> 1:10:43.360 might need to, but I mean so, and for water 1:10:43.520 --> 1:10:45.479 is paying for water is crazy. Paying for a lot 1:10:45.520 --> 1:10:47.280 of things is messed up. That's why I'm finna get 1:10:47.320 --> 1:10:53.840 some chickens. My man his having chickens offcause Eleventh Street 1:10:54.000 --> 1:10:56.880 is crazy. I'm not gonna have my chickens on eleven Street. 1:10:57.040 --> 1:10:59.240 Yes you are, no not. I'm gonna get my chickens 1:10:59.280 --> 1:11:04.639 when I move. Now, don't come over my house asking 1:11:04.680 --> 1:11:07.360 me for something basil, because I got my basil grown. 1:11:07.439 --> 1:11:09.080 I am well ask to basil. I'm not gonna ask 1:11:09.120 --> 1:11:13.040 for cheeky. I don't eat cheeky. Anyways, getting back to 1:11:13.120 --> 1:11:15.400 the point of the lady I was talking about. I 1:11:15.439 --> 1:11:19.600 was talking about Megan Ashley because I be in the 1:11:19.680 --> 1:11:21.880 know of a lot of things that's going on. She 1:11:22.040 --> 1:11:26.800 had the podcast with b Simone and you know everything. Okay, Yeah, 1:11:27.240 --> 1:11:29.240 Like I said, I like b Simone, I like making 1:11:29.280 --> 1:11:33.240 ash but like I said, with my spiritual journey, I 1:11:33.360 --> 1:11:35.040 have followed, I follow a lot of people, and I 1:11:35.160 --> 1:11:36.960 just like to see what people got going on. And, 1:11:37.040 --> 1:11:39.439 like I said, the only reason I felt this way 1:11:39.520 --> 1:11:41.560 to speak on it because I wanted to go to 1:11:41.640 --> 1:11:44.880 the Act two forty two event that happened this past 1:11:44.920 --> 1:11:49.120 weekend and I saw like clips of her speaking at 1:11:49.160 --> 1:11:52.320 the event, and I'm just like, I'm just enjoying watching 1:11:52.400 --> 1:11:54.880 her journey, you know what I'm saying. And I feel 1:11:55.000 --> 1:11:59.600 like their paths, you know, obviously separated, and you know, 1:12:00.080 --> 1:12:02.400 be someonea's still successful doing the things that she wants 1:12:02.439 --> 1:12:04.519 to do, and so it's you know, Megan. 1:12:04.560 --> 1:12:06.360 But I'm just glad because sometimes when. 1:12:06.240 --> 1:12:09.360 You depart from somebody who is like that huge, it's 1:12:09.439 --> 1:12:11.320 like you feel like where do I go next? So 1:12:11.479 --> 1:12:13.560 I always be interested in looking like kind of like 1:12:13.640 --> 1:12:15.880 at the underdog and what they're gonna do next, because 1:12:16.320 --> 1:12:20.559 you know, I've had situations where I split from people, things, companies, 1:12:20.640 --> 1:12:22.559 anything where I felt like, oh my god, I dropped 1:12:22.600 --> 1:12:24.880 the ball? How do I pick up the pieces? But 1:12:25.000 --> 1:12:27.920 She's one person that I feel like she is like 1:12:28.160 --> 1:12:32.120 true and pure in her you know, spiritual journey and 1:12:32.280 --> 1:12:34.800 like her words are interesting, and they can give you 1:12:34.920 --> 1:12:37.920 a perspective that's kind of like true to what she 1:12:38.040 --> 1:12:40.800 know she really feels. So I say all that to 1:12:40.920 --> 1:12:43.800 say is just be careful who you follow. And I 1:12:43.920 --> 1:12:47.160 always say when you trying to get the word, sometimes 1:12:47.240 --> 1:12:48.800 y'all just really need to sit down and just read 1:12:48.840 --> 1:12:53.760 the Bible directly. Yeah, I mean, I feel like that's 1:12:53.800 --> 1:12:56.559 the best way to do it. That's why the Bible 1:12:56.680 --> 1:12:59.679 is there. The Bible is literally the blueprint. It's literally 1:12:59.800 --> 1:13:04.320 in it's literally direction. Anything that you have any questions about, 1:13:04.479 --> 1:13:07.880 it's all there in the Bible. Anything that you need 1:13:08.040 --> 1:13:12.080 answers for you can get on Google. Oh i'm struggling 1:13:12.160 --> 1:13:15.320 right now with Fays. It'll oh, this is how I 1:13:15.439 --> 1:13:18.639 know God is real. Yeah, I'm struggling right now with Fays. 1:13:18.800 --> 1:13:21.040 It will tell you what scriptures you need to read. 1:13:21.439 --> 1:13:24.040 I'm struggling right now financially, it will tell you what 1:13:24.160 --> 1:13:28.439 scriptures you need to read. Let me, I'm struggling with betrayal. 1:13:29.439 --> 1:13:31.360 These are the scriptures you need to read. Like, the 1:13:31.479 --> 1:13:33.760 Bible is there for a reason so many people don't 1:13:33.760 --> 1:13:35.760 want to dig deep into it because at the end 1:13:35.760 --> 1:13:37.479 of the day, I think the problem with people is 1:13:37.840 --> 1:13:40.000 a lot of people don't want to dig deep into 1:13:40.080 --> 1:13:45.880 the Bible and into religion because they cool with living 1:13:45.920 --> 1:13:47.760 a life the way that they live in it. So 1:13:47.880 --> 1:13:50.640 it's like they rather just not know because it's like, 1:13:50.760 --> 1:13:54.880 once you know, you be in de so obedient or 1:13:54.960 --> 1:13:56.640 what you want to do, you be in disobedient. So 1:13:56.680 --> 1:13:58.800 it's better to just not knowing. And people don't like 1:13:58.840 --> 1:14:01.000 when that mirror held up to them. I had to 1:14:01.040 --> 1:14:03.000 hold that mirror up to me and it felt very uncomfortable. 1:14:03.040 --> 1:14:05.479 But you were talking about faith. So I literally sent 1:14:05.560 --> 1:14:07.360 this to one of my closest friends this morning. It's 1:14:07.360 --> 1:14:09.800 a scripture, and then we gonna move on because I 1:14:10.680 --> 1:14:12.679 when you the first thing you brought up was faith. 1:14:13.760 --> 1:14:16.160 And this is one of my favorite scriptures. Is very 1:14:16.280 --> 1:14:21.439 short just because of the underlying meaning. Right, So it's 1:14:21.600 --> 1:14:24.880 Matthew eight twenty six and it says he replied, you 1:14:25.080 --> 1:14:28.120 of little faith, why are you so afraid? Then he 1:14:28.280 --> 1:14:31.439 got up rebuked the winds and waves, and it was 1:14:31.560 --> 1:14:34.880 completely calm because one thing I know, if your faith 1:14:34.960 --> 1:14:38.000 is stronger than your doubt, you know everything is gonna 1:14:38.000 --> 1:14:39.640 work out in your favor, and you know everything is 1:14:39.680 --> 1:14:43.080 gonna be Okay, So sometimes you need to just be 1:14:43.280 --> 1:14:47.400 still and let things because if your faith was stronger 1:14:47.439 --> 1:14:50.519 than your doubt, you wouldn't worry, you wouldn't stress, you 1:14:50.520 --> 1:14:52.240 wouldn't feel this way, you wouldn't feel the need to 1:14:52.280 --> 1:14:54.519 get on TikTok, or you wouldn't feel the need to 1:14:54.760 --> 1:14:57.960 go through these people to give you the words. Sometimes 1:14:58.000 --> 1:15:01.400 you have to go directly and get the words. And look, 1:15:01.439 --> 1:15:03.880 I'm not gonna get to and deep into it. We're 1:15:03.920 --> 1:15:07.519 gonna get ratchet again. But like I said, you have 1:15:07.680 --> 1:15:12.200 to be very weary and just have discernment when it 1:15:12.240 --> 1:15:13.960 comes to the word, because you have to be careful 1:15:14.200 --> 1:15:16.439 and a lot of these influencers are, you know, just 1:15:16.479 --> 1:15:19.040 trying to get a quick check, and it's very scary 1:15:19.560 --> 1:15:22.040 what people will do. Money is the root of all evil, 1:15:22.080 --> 1:15:27.120 and I truly believe that. I agree. 1:15:27.560 --> 1:15:30.519 Damn that's a good point because it is the root 1:15:30.560 --> 1:15:31.080 of all evil. 1:15:31.160 --> 1:15:34.519 Everything will do anything for money. Everything evil, the most 1:15:34.680 --> 1:15:36.639 evil things I have seen because I used to work 1:15:36.680 --> 1:15:41.880 in the strip club. Can we take a pause, coughe 1:15:43.640 --> 1:15:49.840 they're trying to come out shape shape shape shape the 1:15:50.040 --> 1:15:56.880 devil in the name up geez, shake the devil, Come 1:15:56.960 --> 1:16:01.120 on I got you. I'm gonna sing it out of 1:16:01.200 --> 1:16:01.760 you every time. 1:16:01.880 --> 1:16:04.920 No, yeah, we just need to delete that. 1:16:05.160 --> 1:16:09.240 But I'm ah, no, we need to keep that in. 1:16:09.320 --> 1:16:12.600 And I need to see that, see way me coughing, No, 1:16:13.040 --> 1:16:13.800 they need to see it. 1:16:13.920 --> 1:16:17.240 I don't seen Carmelicious Cream in the strip club do 1:16:17.439 --> 1:16:20.120 some dirty things for a piece of chime it the. 1:16:20.160 --> 1:16:22.160 Fuck it is car Malicious Cream. 1:16:22.200 --> 1:16:26.200 The stripples because sometimes you know what I'm saying. You 1:16:26.800 --> 1:16:29.519 know what I'm saying. I don't. We don't seen people 1:16:29.600 --> 1:16:33.200 do some evil things and mean things behind money. So 1:16:33.360 --> 1:16:36.200 that's what I'm telling the people, the consumers be just 1:16:36.320 --> 1:16:40.240 be weary and be use your discernment. Now, That's all 1:16:40.280 --> 1:16:44.280 I'm saying. Yeah, that's true. I mean people definitely be 1:16:44.360 --> 1:16:47.880 doing weird stuff behind money. But what's the strangest thing 1:16:47.920 --> 1:16:49.439 you did for a piece of change? Me? 1:16:49.880 --> 1:16:52.599 Yeah, I really do letting weird for money? You ain't 1:16:52.640 --> 1:16:54.840 never done one little thing. We was like, maybe I 1:16:54.880 --> 1:16:55.360 shouldn't do. 1:16:55.400 --> 1:16:59.000 This, But bro, I know one thing that people hate 1:16:59.040 --> 1:17:01.599 about me sometimes that they feel like I just tried 1:17:01.680 --> 1:17:05.240 to like separate myself, but I really don't, Like I 1:17:05.439 --> 1:17:08.240 really feel like for a long time I've just known 1:17:08.280 --> 1:17:10.400 who I am and like a lot of shit, just 1:17:10.680 --> 1:17:12.400 like you ain't never sold even when you worked in 1:17:12.439 --> 1:17:14.439 the club, you never sold a bottle that wasn't really 1:17:14.520 --> 1:17:15.639 yours to your section. 1:17:15.800 --> 1:17:17.719 And he was like, yeah, I'll give you this little bottle. 1:17:18.000 --> 1:17:19.679 What do you mean? Like you know how you working 1:17:19.720 --> 1:17:21.960 in the club and it's not your section, but they 1:17:22.040 --> 1:17:24.200 may want a bottle from you, but it's another girl section. 1:17:24.320 --> 1:17:26.559 You maybe just sell a little bottle. You ain't need 1:17:26.680 --> 1:17:28.760 nothing or brought a nigga a drink. 1:17:28.640 --> 1:17:31.479 Bro But to me, that stuff is not evil stuff. 1:17:31.720 --> 1:17:33.280 Like when I think of people doing it, I didn't 1:17:33.320 --> 1:17:36.120 say evil, I said strange for a piece of To me, 1:17:36.240 --> 1:17:38.880 that's not even strange to me. It's just like, oh, 1:17:39.000 --> 1:17:40.680 you want to buy a bottle. Yeah, I'm gonna sell 1:17:40.680 --> 1:17:43.439 you the bottle. But they're not in your section, slow feet, 1:17:43.520 --> 1:17:46.240 don't eat. See that's that's not in your section though, 1:17:46.360 --> 1:17:49.280 it don't matter, No, it don't don't come to my 1:17:49.400 --> 1:17:51.400 section selling no shit. Well you should have been there, 1:17:51.439 --> 1:17:53.880 what if I was, But it's just because it wasn't 1:17:53.880 --> 1:17:58.200 because it's not about no I'm there. You just foner 1:17:58.280 --> 1:18:01.640 than me, that asspad, Now, why you be poking out 1:18:01.680 --> 1:18:04.040 the front. That don't go. Well. If that's the case, bitch, 1:18:04.080 --> 1:18:05.960 you would have sold the bottle because your weag goooby. 1:18:06.280 --> 1:18:10.320 Maybe baby, I got a little tuner. You said you 1:18:10.439 --> 1:18:13.599 got weg goooby. I'm not talking about me. I never 1:18:14.520 --> 1:18:17.120 we ain't ever been in that situation. I'm talking about you. 1:18:17.200 --> 1:18:20.800 Ain't never sold a bottle. I just said yes. But 1:18:21.000 --> 1:18:23.640 to me, that's not to me. 1:18:24.880 --> 1:18:27.959 You we got To me, that's not strange. 1:18:29.280 --> 1:18:32.640 To me, that's just like you know one tu tho, 1:18:33.720 --> 1:18:36.519 It's okay, It's really not would have been like, hey, 1:18:36.560 --> 1:18:38.360 this nigga wanna buy a bottle for me in your section. 1:18:38.400 --> 1:18:39.600 I'm gonna sell it to them, but we can. But 1:18:39.800 --> 1:18:43.240 to me, that's a prime example of preparation meeting opportunity. 1:18:44.640 --> 1:18:46.799 Stop using I don't agree. 1:18:47.680 --> 1:18:50.560 I think I think it was preparation meeting opportunity. 1:18:50.680 --> 1:18:52.280 I'm not wrong. At the end of the day, it's 1:18:52.320 --> 1:18:55.920 the club. It's about who the quiki is, Whoever the 1:18:56.000 --> 1:18:59.040 quicket is gonna make the most money. It ain't my fault. 1:18:59.320 --> 1:19:01.839 I know how to eat, no money. It's not about quickest. 1:19:01.920 --> 1:19:06.240 I'm talking a situation where you were finer and I'm 1:19:06.240 --> 1:19:09.000 supposed to feel bad for that. Feel bad. All I 1:19:09.080 --> 1:19:12.360 said was if the girl walking around and she like 1:19:12.960 --> 1:19:14.640 and you, all you have to say was, Hey, this 1:19:14.840 --> 1:19:17.120 dude want to sell me a bottle because he's trying 1:19:17.160 --> 1:19:19.080 to talk to me, I'm gonna sell it this brow. 1:19:19.200 --> 1:19:21.519 But you asking me this dumb ass question because you 1:19:21.680 --> 1:19:23.800 already know the answer because you used to do that 1:19:23.920 --> 1:19:27.519 shit too. Everybody did this shit in the club. Of course, 1:19:27.600 --> 1:19:29.400 if somebody walk up to you and they're like, oh, 1:19:29.479 --> 1:19:31.280 I want to buy a bottle from you, you're not 1:19:31.400 --> 1:19:33.519 gonna ask. You're not gonna try to find out who 1:19:34.280 --> 1:19:37.160 is this unless it's your friend? Okay? 1:19:37.560 --> 1:19:41.240 Are you unless it's your friends? Different? 1:19:41.320 --> 1:19:42.960 Did they walk back to the session? Who you got 1:19:43.000 --> 1:19:45.120 this bottle in Hennessy from? It's gonna be a fight, 1:19:45.240 --> 1:19:49.599 and it's gonna be a problem. I saw the That's 1:19:49.680 --> 1:19:51.639 why don't miss working in the club. 1:19:51.800 --> 1:19:51.880 Bro. 1:19:52.200 --> 1:19:55.360 It was so petty, like hoes really used to be 1:19:55.520 --> 1:19:58.720 arguing over seventy five dollars commission off of a bottle. Hey, 1:19:58.800 --> 1:20:02.360 but that meant a lot. It did that thing, and 1:20:02.520 --> 1:20:09.040 my bad still do But why what because it did? 1:20:09.680 --> 1:20:12.160 But it's just like, no, it's not that serious to me. 1:20:12.280 --> 1:20:13.640 But at the end of the day to me that 1:20:13.720 --> 1:20:16.559 it's not doing something evil for mine. I didn't say evil, 1:20:16.680 --> 1:20:19.479 I said strange you but you was trying to correlate 1:20:19.680 --> 1:20:21.880 to Yes, you would, trying to put them in the 1:20:21.920 --> 1:20:24.360 same I wasn't. I got a random thought, I said, 1:20:24.400 --> 1:20:26.760 have you ever done something strange for a people? To me, 1:20:26.880 --> 1:20:34.240 that's not strange. That's leveling up. I love, I love 1:20:34.360 --> 1:20:37.040 the way you were things. No, I'm serious, it is 1:20:37.280 --> 1:20:40.120 that's a talent. That's why you here and they there. 1:20:41.200 --> 1:20:46.160 They still getting a seventy five dollars for me. No, loo, 1:20:46.840 --> 1:20:53.759 all right, it's about taking advantage of the opportunities because 1:20:54.040 --> 1:20:59.439 because you asked me, because you are about a leading 1:20:59.560 --> 1:21:02.519 see you know, oh I'm not your waistress. You know, 1:21:02.760 --> 1:21:06.240 ain't who sold you this section. But you ask me 1:21:06.439 --> 1:21:11.040 for a reason, and I'm gonna take advantage of the reason. Okay, 1:21:11.360 --> 1:21:14.400 you know, get my little commission. I got what did 1:21:14.439 --> 1:21:17.080 you say earlier? I got bills to you said that 1:21:17.200 --> 1:21:23.000 on the phone earlier. I do y'all got by. 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I'm a little tipsy now. 1:23:06.600 --> 1:23:09.559 So this topic actually came from I'm not gonna say 1:23:09.600 --> 1:23:12.679 her name because you know she's a great employee of ours, 1:23:12.720 --> 1:23:16.799 because she's going through a personal situation. The topic today 1:23:17.000 --> 1:23:22.759 is I like you, but I'm not sexually that party. 1:23:22.840 --> 1:23:26.439 I mean, we have a lot of employees and people 1:23:26.479 --> 1:23:31.000 that you know, they can't pick them out. Okay, we 1:23:31.080 --> 1:23:35.280 want to say that. Nah, she'll be back. It's not me. 1:23:35.720 --> 1:23:38.640 It's not time. It's not time. So she said, I 1:23:38.960 --> 1:23:42.200 like you, but I'm not sexually attracted to you, but 1:23:42.320 --> 1:23:44.280 then I don't like you. Oh wait, hold on, let 1:23:44.360 --> 1:23:48.479 me present the situation so we can talk. You presented 1:23:48.520 --> 1:23:51.640 me already, but we gotta give them so we can. 1:23:51.800 --> 1:23:55.160 This is a talk show, bro, we gotta talk. If 1:23:55.200 --> 1:23:58.000 you want to give further contexts, do that. But I'm 1:23:58.040 --> 1:23:59.400 still gonna say what I said. 1:24:00.120 --> 1:24:03.240 I sid what I shit? Yeah, got out to need 1:24:03.400 --> 1:24:03.560 come on? 1:24:03.640 --> 1:24:09.960 True. So the context is it's this guy they vibe conversation. 1:24:10.200 --> 1:24:14.880 Is there cute guy? She likes him, she really likes him, 1:24:15.320 --> 1:24:19.000 but she said like sexually they messed around and she 1:24:19.160 --> 1:24:23.640 just wasn't into it, and she said they had a conversation. 1:24:24.040 --> 1:24:25.040 He was like, I don't know. 1:24:25.880 --> 1:24:29.800 I just feel like you pulling away from me. 1:24:32.080 --> 1:24:33.400 And I don't know what it is. And she was 1:24:33.479 --> 1:24:35.519 just like in her head, she's like thinking, like I'm 1:24:35.600 --> 1:24:38.360 just not there sexually with you. So do you think 1:24:38.400 --> 1:24:40.519 you can really like somebody? Like they check off all 1:24:40.560 --> 1:24:42.120 the marks, but sexually. 1:24:41.800 --> 1:24:45.120 They're not meeting your needs? Like, how do you feel 1:24:45.160 --> 1:24:45.479 about that? 1:24:45.640 --> 1:24:48.240 How does that happen? Though it don't it does. So 1:24:48.520 --> 1:24:51.800 say you went on four or five dates with a 1:24:51.840 --> 1:24:54.240 guy and you like, man, I'm really vibing with him. 1:24:54.280 --> 1:24:58.960 He's cute, he got money, he can dress, beautiful, home, 1:24:59.240 --> 1:25:03.280 no kid, he checks off all the marks. Y'all. Three 1:25:03.360 --> 1:25:05.880 months in, you finally decided to give it up. You 1:25:06.000 --> 1:25:08.160 finally decided to give that wag, you up that hot 1:25:08.200 --> 1:25:09.080 and gushie. 1:25:09.000 --> 1:25:10.200 Stick yick yek yiky. 1:25:10.760 --> 1:25:13.760 You decide to give it to him, and it's not good. 1:25:13.960 --> 1:25:14.400 What do you do? 1:25:16.280 --> 1:25:17.840 This is what I'm talking, This is what I did. 1:25:17.880 --> 1:25:19.639 I decide to give it a because you just said 1:25:19.680 --> 1:25:21.920 from the example that you gave, she had not gave 1:25:22.000 --> 1:25:24.240 it up. No, she gave it up eventually, and she 1:25:24.360 --> 1:25:28.479 said sexually she wasn't satisfied. But up until that, was 1:25:28.560 --> 1:25:32.240 she not satisfied? Or was she not sexually attracted to him? 1:25:32.320 --> 1:25:37.040 Because giving somebody pussy like you like? Okay, like I 1:25:37.320 --> 1:25:39.000 like you, and I'm a sexually attracted to you, and 1:25:39.040 --> 1:25:41.280 then I gave you some pussy and it wasn't good. 1:25:41.760 --> 1:25:45.600 That's completely different from not wanting to have sex with 1:25:45.680 --> 1:25:48.479 somebody because you're not sexually okay. So I'll say this, 1:25:48.600 --> 1:25:51.240 Maybe I worded it wrong, but this is what she said. Well, 1:25:51.600 --> 1:25:54.960 she said she had sex with him and it wasn't good. 1:25:55.040 --> 1:25:58.479 So now she's not sexually attracted to him after the fact, 1:25:58.520 --> 1:26:02.000 but she really does like him. But the sexual chemistry 1:26:02.040 --> 1:26:04.160 she knows for a fact isn't there, but she likes him. 1:26:04.560 --> 1:26:05.040 So what do you do? 1:26:05.200 --> 1:26:06.760 Like I said, in your situation, like I gave you 1:26:06.760 --> 1:26:09.840 an example, I'm talking to that nigga, but what if 1:26:09.880 --> 1:26:11.479 he checks off all the mark? You don't feel like 1:26:12.000 --> 1:26:13.320 what music soul y'all say? 1:26:13.479 --> 1:26:16.840 Teach me how we are, not teach me how to 1:26:17.160 --> 1:26:18.439 eat that puss? 1:26:19.400 --> 1:26:23.920 See yup? Let me hear it from the bag? You 1:26:24.080 --> 1:26:28.720 know this dick like that? Whatever he said? I know 1:26:29.000 --> 1:26:34.240 how you like your ass man? Yeah, that's the song now. 1:26:34.800 --> 1:26:36.519 So do you feel like you can teach a man 1:26:36.720 --> 1:26:40.759 or it's just like I'm not stow you fucking streak? 1:26:42.720 --> 1:26:45.040 What miss y'all feel like I'm too old to be 1:26:45.120 --> 1:26:49.439 teaching a nigga anything. I'm not gonna lie because I 1:26:49.600 --> 1:26:53.640 typically date guys that are older than me. I know 1:26:53.760 --> 1:26:59.400 how to beat it up. I'm laughing because I'm just 1:26:59.479 --> 1:27:06.400 thinking about the men that you've dated, and I'm like, okay, 1:27:06.720 --> 1:27:11.240 that's fair. Yeah, Like, I just feel like I'm too 1:27:11.400 --> 1:27:15.080 old to teach the old dog new trees. If you 1:27:15.160 --> 1:27:16.360 don't know the tricks, then. 1:27:16.320 --> 1:27:17.439 You is not my tree. 1:27:17.760 --> 1:27:22.920 Okay, that's fair, Like you just not for me, were 1:27:22.960 --> 1:27:23.640 too old for that. 1:27:23.920 --> 1:27:31.280 Like if I'm thirty three and you forty, you. 1:27:31.280 --> 1:27:34.680 Don't know how to eat with You don't know how 1:27:34.680 --> 1:27:36.920 to go, You don't know how to you don't have 1:27:37.080 --> 1:27:39.880 like a good stroke game, like I don't know what 1:27:40.120 --> 1:27:42.360 to tell you. You don't know how to for play, 1:27:42.720 --> 1:27:45.800 you don't know what you need to do. Like I'm 1:27:45.880 --> 1:27:48.720 just not I'm not interested in that, Okay. I think 1:27:48.800 --> 1:27:52.200 good sex is universal. I think that different people have 1:27:52.320 --> 1:27:54.400 different kinks that they might like. Like you might be 1:27:54.479 --> 1:27:59.439 into something a little like for example, like obviously this 1:27:59.520 --> 1:28:02.040 would never have but like me and you might have 1:28:02.200 --> 1:28:06.960 sex with the same dude, and I might like it 1:28:07.160 --> 1:28:09.439 a little softer. You might like it a little roofer, 1:28:09.560 --> 1:28:12.240 Like maybe you like yo, Maybe I like my nipples 1:28:12.360 --> 1:28:16.439 leaked and fleeked. Maybe you want maybe you want him 1:28:16.479 --> 1:28:19.720 to bite your el, Maybe you want him to bite 1:28:19.760 --> 1:28:28.840 your Yeah, you get what I'm saying. But like I 1:28:28.960 --> 1:28:34.439 took two far every time, every time, every time. You know, 1:28:34.600 --> 1:28:37.080 maybe I might like a soft choke, like maybe I 1:28:37.200 --> 1:28:43.320 might like a little right right, So that's what I'm saying, 1:28:43.439 --> 1:28:49.240 it's like, but the sex in itself is good either way. 1:28:49.960 --> 1:28:53.120 You just might like a little more pain then, I like, 1:28:53.880 --> 1:28:55.920 I might like to, I might like it a little softer, 1:28:56.080 --> 1:28:58.240 a little more you know, sensual. 1:28:59.000 --> 1:29:01.200 But I think if you got good sex, you got 1:29:01.320 --> 1:29:02.599 good sex. It's universe. 1:29:02.760 --> 1:29:06.880 Okay, I just think that. Yeah, I really see what 1:29:06.920 --> 1:29:08.880 I feel. I feel like you can kind of mold 1:29:09.040 --> 1:29:12.040 and shift certain things to fit the new, like the 1:29:12.160 --> 1:29:15.559 person that play though, to fit the person. You can 1:29:15.680 --> 1:29:17.880 kind of shift a little bit, you know. But if 1:29:17.920 --> 1:29:22.920 it's good, it's good. If it ain't, it ain't. And 1:29:23.040 --> 1:29:24.680 I don't think I could teach you that if you 1:29:24.880 --> 1:29:28.599 haven't figured that out in fifteen years, because just hypothetic. Fifty. 1:29:29.120 --> 1:29:33.679 If you thirty three, you've been fucking since you was eighteen, it's. 1:29:33.520 --> 1:29:41.559 A little yay. Hey, I'm just saying, if you thirty three, 1:29:41.600 --> 1:29:44.000 you've probably been fuckingsed since you was like eighteen, so 1:29:44.680 --> 1:29:47.519 fifteen years of experience, and oh. 1:29:47.400 --> 1:29:49.679 My gosh, you don't know how to fuck. 1:29:49.760 --> 1:29:52.400 Still, I can't teach you that. I'm not trying to 1:29:52.400 --> 1:29:55.240 be funny. This is not okay. I've been fucking for 1:29:55.320 --> 1:29:57.599 twenty I be wanting a nigga who's trying to get 1:29:57.680 --> 1:30:00.960 up in there. I've been fucking for twenty years. That's 1:30:01.120 --> 1:30:06.519 crazy to think about. I mean, now, I know you 1:30:06.720 --> 1:30:11.920 seasoned that puss. It good? That why you just it's 1:30:12.040 --> 1:30:15.280 falling off the bone. It's falling off the bone. 1:30:15.320 --> 1:30:18.000 And what marinated have a nigga on his knees. 1:30:18.360 --> 1:30:21.200 I already know. I heard how I used to. 1:30:22.120 --> 1:30:24.719 Break a nigga off. I'm gonna breaking them off. 1:30:27.360 --> 1:30:32.599 Anyway. No, but this is what I think now, now 1:30:32.680 --> 1:30:35.080 that you put it that way, I do agree with you, right, 1:30:35.720 --> 1:30:42.439 but I also feel like, uh, sex now is different though, 1:30:43.200 --> 1:30:47.360 So I'll say this though I'm not even now. Back 1:30:47.400 --> 1:30:51.040 in the day, you used to get that thing. What 1:30:51.160 --> 1:30:52.880 do you mean like I used to be like, Okay, 1:30:53.160 --> 1:30:55.080 I'm gonna give you a little sum sum just because 1:30:55.120 --> 1:30:57.120 we had a good time. I'm young, I'm dumb. 1:30:57.240 --> 1:31:00.400 I'm just doing whatever and full of come. Didn't want 1:31:00.439 --> 1:31:01.840 to take it there, young dumb. 1:31:02.080 --> 1:31:04.800 That's what the old people say, younger. But I say 1:31:04.880 --> 1:31:08.320 that because now at this age, you're not even getting 1:31:08.400 --> 1:31:12.439 in We're not even getting in the bed unless I 1:31:12.760 --> 1:31:16.400 have some kind of emotional feelings for you. So I 1:31:16.479 --> 1:31:18.599 will say this. I feel like if I have feelings 1:31:18.640 --> 1:31:21.360 for you and emotions for you like the sex, this 1:31:21.479 --> 1:31:22.200 is where I differ. 1:31:22.400 --> 1:31:24.800 I feel you and I agree with you, but I 1:31:25.160 --> 1:31:25.680 don't feel me. 1:31:26.040 --> 1:31:27.880 But I do though. But at the same time, if 1:31:27.920 --> 1:31:30.599 I have feelings for you emotionally and we have connected, 1:31:31.200 --> 1:31:34.120 I don't feel it anyway because I just like you. No, 1:31:35.439 --> 1:31:37.960 absolutely not. I think it's a real thing. I have 1:31:38.080 --> 1:31:42.599 seen the tweet this girl has said, the whole time 1:31:42.960 --> 1:31:44.960 I thought something was wrong with my Kouchi, I started 1:31:45.000 --> 1:31:49.120 taking slippery m mock a root, God tell you all 1:31:49.200 --> 1:31:51.000 this shit. She was like, well the whole time, I 1:31:51.080 --> 1:31:52.840 just didn't like this nigga no more because I started 1:31:52.880 --> 1:31:54.519 freaking the new nigga and I was with it's for 1:31:55.400 --> 1:31:59.479 it's the same. It ain't nothing changed but that nigga 1:31:59.520 --> 1:32:01.439 needed to But I'm not gonna lie. I haven't have 1:32:01.680 --> 1:32:05.120 like so long, I haven't met either. Well you know 1:32:05.240 --> 1:32:07.720 why I won't have bad sex. I will not allow it. 1:32:09.160 --> 1:32:13.400 But it's not gonna. But yes it could if you like, 1:32:13.560 --> 1:32:15.840 Like I said, in this scenario, she's dating this guy, 1:32:16.040 --> 1:32:18.760 she likes him. They had sex and it wasn't good. 1:32:18.920 --> 1:32:23.439 You don't know I had a good deck discernment. Come on, dog, 1:32:24.120 --> 1:32:28.240 I do I know, I just know, I know I'm 1:32:28.280 --> 1:32:30.240 not gonna lie for it. I have never I haven't 1:32:30.320 --> 1:32:34.960 had just like bad deck ever in my life. I've 1:32:35.000 --> 1:32:38.760 had great, haven't. I've had great I've had a great dick, 1:32:38.920 --> 1:32:42.519 and then I've had like medio. You've never had bad sex, 1:32:44.840 --> 1:32:48.080 probably in my probably in my broony, probably in my 1:32:48.200 --> 1:32:51.200 early twenties. Yeah, but I'm talking about like I haven't 1:32:51.320 --> 1:32:54.720 just had like, okay, not you. I ain't gonna put 1:32:54.720 --> 1:32:57.920 your business out there like that. But why, I mean, 1:32:58.160 --> 1:33:02.160 wag you in it? Because you told me never mind. 1:33:02.600 --> 1:33:05.720 But I have another friend who told me like she 1:33:05.920 --> 1:33:09.400 had some really bad sex with somebody, and she was like, 1:33:09.600 --> 1:33:12.080 but I knew it was gonna be trash now because 1:33:12.080 --> 1:33:14.719 I feel like, you know, I feel like some people 1:33:14.920 --> 1:33:17.560 just give off vibes like you know, they gonna bore you. 1:33:17.720 --> 1:33:20.040 You know they's gonna the boer is nuts. 1:33:21.200 --> 1:33:24.599 I'm not gonna lie. I've had situations where I've had 1:33:24.680 --> 1:33:26.960 good sex with this person and then I ended like, 1:33:27.040 --> 1:33:29.360 I'm not gonna lie. The last time me and my 1:33:29.479 --> 1:33:31.880 ex had sex, it was so bad and I'm but 1:33:31.960 --> 1:33:34.320 it was because I stopped liking him. I was turned 1:33:34.360 --> 1:33:36.439 off and I hated him at that point. I don't 1:33:36.479 --> 1:33:39.120 even know why I did it. Yeah, but I'm saying, like, 1:33:39.240 --> 1:33:42.000 sometimes that be happening. I feel like when you don't 1:33:42.080 --> 1:33:43.800 like people no more. And that's what I was gonna say, 1:33:43.960 --> 1:33:45.759 going back to what I was saying about the girl 1:33:45.920 --> 1:33:50.679 the initial tweet. If you don't like somebody no more 1:33:50.840 --> 1:33:53.320 and the sexual chemistry is not there, it's gonna be 1:33:53.439 --> 1:33:55.519 hard for you to get turned on by this person. 1:33:55.840 --> 1:33:58.240 And if you're not easily turned on by him, then 1:33:58.280 --> 1:34:00.479 the sex is not gonna be good. If YO, please, 1:34:00.520 --> 1:34:03.960 he not getting wet for him off the rib, then 1:34:04.000 --> 1:34:07.880 it's not gonna be good. I'm not saying going back 1:34:07.920 --> 1:34:09.880 to what you said because you were trying to be funny. 1:34:10.280 --> 1:34:14.160 I never said that I haven't had bad sex, but 1:34:14.240 --> 1:34:16.960 I feel like I have good dick discernment. 1:34:18.800 --> 1:34:19.160 It is. 1:34:19.400 --> 1:34:22.160 I don't like, I know when a nigga, I just 1:34:22.320 --> 1:34:24.719 it's like you could tell by the way a niggas 1:34:24.760 --> 1:34:29.240 give us three give us three things that y'all take notes. 1:34:29.560 --> 1:34:34.800 Give us three things that that is good dick discernments. Go. 1:34:36.000 --> 1:34:37.280 You was about to say, you said the way. Is 1:34:37.320 --> 1:34:38.760 he emotionally intelligent? 1:34:39.439 --> 1:34:41.000 That lets you know man got good there? 1:34:41.160 --> 1:34:44.960 If he yes, If he emotionally caters to your knees, okay, oh, 1:34:45.080 --> 1:34:48.920 that means he gonna cater to you you right, because if. 1:34:48.840 --> 1:34:51.400 He cares about you outside the bedroom and he can't, 1:34:51.800 --> 1:34:55.559 he gonna eat that coach up off the bone. Word 1:34:55.680 --> 1:35:00.479 to jez Tex, beat it up. Let me Yeah, all right, 1:35:00.960 --> 1:35:08.000 that's a good one. Number two Okay, Can I add one? Yeah? 1:35:09.200 --> 1:35:13.240 If he's chivalrous, that shows a lot too. When I 1:35:13.320 --> 1:35:15.599 say chivalry, I'm talking about traditional things. 1:35:15.720 --> 1:35:17.400 But I feel like that's kind of the same though 1:35:17.560 --> 1:35:18.320 as his first one. 1:35:18.400 --> 1:35:22.040 Oh No, emotional intelligence is very different frombvalry. I'm talking 1:35:22.040 --> 1:35:25.439 about basic things. Opening the door, you know, you're trying 1:35:25.479 --> 1:35:27.680 to take your shoes off. He helping you take your 1:35:27.720 --> 1:35:30.200 shoes off, He making sure you know what I'm saying, 1:35:30.520 --> 1:35:33.040 pulling out your chair, pushing it in. He's like, let 1:35:33.160 --> 1:35:37.439 me care go to you. Oh this is your day. 1:35:37.760 --> 1:35:41.960 That's gonna be my next one. Catering to your needs, 1:35:42.080 --> 1:35:44.519 how he talks to you, how he handles you, how 1:35:44.560 --> 1:35:49.040 he treats you, the things he say you got it do. 1:35:49.520 --> 1:35:51.960 Like even if he just because don't get me wrong, 1:35:52.840 --> 1:35:55.840 just because I have good dick discernment don't mean like 1:35:55.920 --> 1:35:58.880 a good nigga discernment, hey, cause it's two different things. 1:35:59.040 --> 1:36:05.200 Because just because he's him a good man, speak on it, 1:36:05.720 --> 1:36:09.000 because sometimes niggas will cater to all of those things 1:36:09.040 --> 1:36:11.240 that they know you need to hear so that they 1:36:11.280 --> 1:36:14.639 can get We're gonna talk about that next episode. We're 1:36:14.640 --> 1:36:17.439 gonna talk about how men will be a good man today. 1:36:17.600 --> 1:36:20.120 And he's courting you and treating you, but that doesn't 1:36:20.120 --> 1:36:22.400 mean he wants to be your boyfriend, because a lot 1:36:22.439 --> 1:36:24.680 of times women be like, you took me out, you 1:36:24.800 --> 1:36:26.880 treated me sweet, you did, why don't you want me? 1:36:27.080 --> 1:36:29.120 We're gonna talk about that next episode. But but but 1:36:29.200 --> 1:36:31.200 I said all of that to say, Yeah, it's just 1:36:31.320 --> 1:36:33.439 all about how a man caters to you, how he 1:36:33.600 --> 1:36:36.479 treats you, how much effort he's putting in. If he's 1:36:36.520 --> 1:36:39.360 putting in a lot of effort before y'all have six 1:36:41.360 --> 1:36:45.800 because he working for and I just feel like me 1:36:45.920 --> 1:36:48.080 and that work real hard for it. They ain't gonna 1:36:48.080 --> 1:36:49.960 they know what they they know they gonna come fuck 1:36:50.000 --> 1:36:52.160 your world up because they got that good dick. Yeah, 1:36:52.240 --> 1:36:56.640 and their pants hanging waiting to creep on you. The 1:36:56.760 --> 1:36:58.800 niggas will be like trying to like do the bear 1:36:58.920 --> 1:37:00.479 me and the mummy and she this. They got bare 1:37:00.600 --> 1:37:02.360 minimum deeds and they know it ain't finna hit for 1:37:02.400 --> 1:37:05.360 ship and they know they know that's why. Or they 1:37:05.479 --> 1:37:07.440 over compensating financially. 1:37:08.360 --> 1:37:11.280 Mm hmm. This is a good talk. 1:37:11.400 --> 1:37:11.680 It is. 1:37:11.840 --> 1:37:16.360 Are they over compensating financially? Good dick discernments? Good dick 1:37:16.439 --> 1:37:19.200 discernments the niggas with the good dick, they gonna do 1:37:19.280 --> 1:37:21.360 a little one too, But they ain't feeling like they 1:37:21.400 --> 1:37:25.040 gotta overly prove themselves. They just being theyself thought. They 1:37:25.160 --> 1:37:25.840 just being smooth. 1:37:26.240 --> 1:37:29.520 Wait, they just because you're finna be crazy about. 1:37:29.280 --> 1:37:35.720 Me and he is one when they don't boast and 1:37:35.800 --> 1:37:39.680 brag about their sex. Yeah, I know, because now I'm 1:37:39.760 --> 1:37:42.599 I done built a whole o my trying to tell 1:37:42.680 --> 1:37:45.160 me how good Joe Dick is. I know that ship pool. 1:37:46.040 --> 1:37:54.240 When I tell you, boobo, yeah girl, you ain't ready 1:37:54.280 --> 1:38:00.360 for this? God, I know y'all, won't that be okay? 1:38:00.640 --> 1:38:00.840 Yeah? 1:38:01.040 --> 1:38:06.120 Because I got ready for this, you ain't ready for this. 1:38:07.439 --> 1:38:08.920 That'd be the main one. As soon as you set 1:38:09.000 --> 1:38:13.719 that wag you on, hold. 1:38:13.560 --> 1:38:22.799 On, hold on, that's and you'll be like, oh, fucking brother, 1:38:24.840 --> 1:38:28.519 just give me teen minies, give me teen meanies real quick. 1:38:28.760 --> 1:38:32.080 I don't see. I hate every time. But the niggas 1:38:32.080 --> 1:38:34.479 that don't say nothing, you know, Oh my god, you 1:38:34.560 --> 1:38:38.320 know why the sass those the assassin sad. I should 1:38:38.360 --> 1:38:41.120 have known my man it was gonna do me bad 1:38:41.840 --> 1:38:45.360 because the first time we every not everybody sipping the 1:38:46.080 --> 1:38:48.960 y'all know if you see this, don't cut this into 1:38:49.040 --> 1:38:51.320 the clip, please don't. This is for the poor, the 1:38:51.439 --> 1:38:53.360 poor girls, because y'all deep in the episode. Now, I 1:38:53.400 --> 1:38:55.200 should have known my man was gonna turn me out 1:38:55.240 --> 1:38:58.040 because it was like our third date. 1:38:58.720 --> 1:39:01.960 This is when we was in DC for the DC Show. 1:39:03.000 --> 1:39:06.519 And remember I stayed to hang out with him, and 1:39:07.000 --> 1:39:09.960 that night, you know, we had I got so drunk 1:39:10.000 --> 1:39:11.720 and we had a great time and we was like 1:39:11.920 --> 1:39:14.880 in the hotel. I feel like I am imposing no, 1:39:15.160 --> 1:39:19.879 but listen, but nothing happened that night. Nothing nothing happened. 1:39:20.320 --> 1:39:22.679 So you're not feeling it's nothing nasty, but I saying 1:39:22.720 --> 1:39:26.000 I'm should have known because that night, you know, we drunk. 1:39:27.160 --> 1:39:28.920 We you know, finally we get in the bed, we 1:39:29.080 --> 1:39:31.639 talking we laughing, and then you know, we start kissing, 1:39:32.640 --> 1:39:34.479 and you know, like you know when you start when 1:39:34.479 --> 1:39:36.720 a man start kissing you usually what they do. They'd 1:39:36.720 --> 1:39:38.439 be like, come on, come on, they try to slide 1:39:38.439 --> 1:39:40.320 off your pants and you be like no, and they 1:39:40.479 --> 1:39:42.800 come on girl like and then you'd be like, yeah, 1:39:43.280 --> 1:39:46.639 you know what happened. You know what happened. We start kissing. 1:39:46.720 --> 1:39:49.519 I was like, no, stop. He was like okay, and 1:39:49.600 --> 1:39:51.200 he stopped and he roll over and went to sleep. 1:39:52.600 --> 1:39:55.280 He was like, all right, I should have known then, Yeah, 1:39:56.720 --> 1:39:57.680 I should have known it. 1:39:58.240 --> 1:39:59.720 I ain't gonna lie. That ain't what happened to me 1:40:00.000 --> 1:40:01.240 first time I had six money. 1:40:01.240 --> 1:40:02.760 Well, I didn't have sex with him that night because 1:40:02.760 --> 1:40:05.000 he was just like I'm not tripping because when I'm 1:40:05.000 --> 1:40:07.320 talking about like our first income, because that was your 1:40:07.400 --> 1:40:09.599 first sexual incounter. Yeah, like that was the first time 1:40:09.720 --> 1:40:12.200 like we actually kissed, kissed, and like you know, we 1:40:12.360 --> 1:40:14.360 was feeling on each other and things like that, and 1:40:14.439 --> 1:40:16.639 I was like he was just like all right, cause 1:40:17.360 --> 1:40:19.479 it's been situations were like men, you know how many 1:40:19.520 --> 1:40:21.439 be like come on, like, you know you won't this 1:40:21.600 --> 1:40:23.240 maybe trying to convince you. He was just like all right, 1:40:24.000 --> 1:40:26.360 because when I give it to you, I'm like to you, 1:40:27.800 --> 1:40:33.920 m hm m. We need to Okay, let's wait. You 1:40:34.000 --> 1:40:36.280 want to tell your story, No, because I don't have 1:40:36.360 --> 1:40:38.439 a story. The first time I had sex with my nigga, 1:40:38.479 --> 1:40:43.880 he ate my guccie off the bone. Same, I'm finna 1:40:43.920 --> 1:40:53.439 text him bone bone bone. I see you at the 1:40:53.640 --> 1:40:54.439 cross road. 1:40:55.160 --> 1:40:55.479 So you. 1:40:57.600 --> 1:41:03.559 Like my soul was leaving my body? You eat my cool. Okay, 1:41:03.640 --> 1:41:06.240 let's move on. So now so let y'all let us 1:41:06.320 --> 1:41:09.840 know in the comments, So what is y'all's good dick discernment? 1:41:09.960 --> 1:41:11.599 Like, how do y'all tell? Because that was a good 1:41:11.640 --> 1:41:13.240 one time that it was. 1:41:13.720 --> 1:41:17.559 So now it's time to get into the bout. Hey 1:41:18.880 --> 1:41:24.400 bow bow bow. This is definitely given wine down Wednesday 1:41:24.439 --> 1:41:30.759 episode because we yeah, we're finna rap this. We're finna 1:41:30.840 --> 1:41:36.720 rap this the fuck up because you couldn't know too much. 1:41:37.800 --> 1:41:39.320 I said I was gonna keep this ot hout like 1:41:39.439 --> 1:41:43.280 this was twenty nineteen. It is given nineteen. Okay, so 1:41:43.360 --> 1:41:46.120 now it's time to get into the bop. So obviously 1:41:46.320 --> 1:41:48.800 y'all know I usually do like low key bobs. I 1:41:48.880 --> 1:41:51.519 can't do it this week, Meg the Stallion dropped act 1:41:51.640 --> 1:41:56.840 two right, So Fire Project per usual. Y'all know, I'm 1:41:56.880 --> 1:42:00.400 a hotty, I'm a stand love my girl. So everybody 1:42:00.520 --> 1:42:04.479 is talking about let me dismiss that. So everybody is 1:42:04.479 --> 1:42:07.639 talking about her song Bigger in Texas because that's a bop. 1:42:07.760 --> 1:42:11.360 It's giving Tina Snow, it's giving you know, the man 1:42:11.479 --> 1:42:15.679 that everybody won't. But she got a song with Flow 1:42:15.760 --> 1:42:20.600 Milly called rock Steady. It is, It gives, it's They 1:42:20.720 --> 1:42:23.240 used the Sierra Goodies beat and when I tell you, 1:42:23.479 --> 1:42:27.840 her and Flow Milly just floated all over this beat 1:42:28.240 --> 1:42:30.240 and it's so good. And rock Steady is also the 1:42:30.320 --> 1:42:32.479 name of one of my favorite restaurants in at L. 1:42:33.400 --> 1:42:35.720 Shout out to rock, shout out to that snapper, Oh 1:42:35.840 --> 1:42:38.960 my god, and shout out to me, and shout out 1:42:38.960 --> 1:42:39.599 to that spin. 1:42:39.479 --> 1:42:42.840 It that that that collar green deal who snappers. 1:42:45.400 --> 1:42:47.960 Yeah, don't worry. We shouldn't get it done. We're gonna 1:42:48.000 --> 1:42:50.559 wrap this shut up, don't you fuck. We're gonna rap 1:42:50.640 --> 1:42:56.479 this shit fuck up. The snapper is bussy, both of them. 1:42:57.360 --> 1:43:01.200 Hey that's what the people said. But anyways, Yeah, rock 1:43:01.280 --> 1:43:03.560 Staddy Feature and Flow Milly. I love the fact that 1:43:03.800 --> 1:43:07.240 Meg can make good music with anybody. Just shows her versatility. 1:43:07.560 --> 1:43:09.519 And let me also say, y'all be talking about oh 1:43:09.680 --> 1:43:13.400 Med flow sound the same. First of all, she has 1:43:13.439 --> 1:43:17.760 a song because stop it. She has a song with 1:43:18.400 --> 1:43:22.960 spirit Box, which is a Canadian rock band, and they 1:43:23.080 --> 1:43:25.760 did the remix to Hiss, which was fire. But it's 1:43:25.800 --> 1:43:27.960 a rock song. It's literally a rock song. She's on 1:43:28.080 --> 1:43:31.720 there screaming like a fucking rock star and it is 1:43:31.880 --> 1:43:35.680 so fired. I mean, meg a. She did a Mamushie 1:43:36.200 --> 1:43:39.560 remix with That's why I was gonna say, Mamushi itself 1:43:39.920 --> 1:43:42.920 should have shown people that she can switch her flow up. 1:43:43.960 --> 1:43:46.839 Because y'all get let me tell y'all something. Since everybody 1:43:46.920 --> 1:43:49.800 on TikTok and Twitter is an A and R, there's 1:43:49.840 --> 1:43:54.120 a difference between cadence and flow. Her cadence stays the 1:43:54.200 --> 1:43:56.920 same because that is her accent. Okay, that is how 1:43:57.000 --> 1:43:59.640 she approaches a track of X y Z. Flow is 1:43:59.680 --> 1:44:04.760 completely different. Learn the difference before you get online. Y'all 1:44:04.760 --> 1:44:07.120 are not A and R's what you don't y'all don't 1:44:07.200 --> 1:44:10.080 know nothing about music. Now you can have an opinion. 1:44:10.120 --> 1:44:12.400 I'm not mad at that, But to sit here and 1:44:12.479 --> 1:44:15.639 listen to this woman's music and say, oh, it sounds 1:44:15.680 --> 1:44:18.080 the same because you don't like her, And that's okay. 1:44:18.880 --> 1:44:21.760 You don't have to like somebody, but don't discredit them. 1:44:22.360 --> 1:44:24.920 That's what we were talking about earlier. Stop discrediting people 1:44:24.960 --> 1:44:27.120 because you don't like them. It's a lot to say 1:44:27.160 --> 1:44:29.960 about Meg. We all know whatever however you feel, but 1:44:30.120 --> 1:44:34.400 to say this girl isn't dropping hit after hits, it's crazy. 1:44:34.760 --> 1:44:38.120 I agree, Meg the Stallion, actual rock Steady. 1:44:38.720 --> 1:44:44.360 You did your thing. Ate it up, Go ahead, Drea. Alright, 1:44:44.439 --> 1:44:47.400 Sombap of the Week is Summer Walker. 1:44:48.479 --> 1:44:49.200 She did it again. 1:44:49.400 --> 1:44:52.400 You're twin twin Do you know? That's what they say? 1:44:52.840 --> 1:44:53.760 Where have you been? 1:44:53.880 --> 1:44:54.000 Well? 1:44:54.040 --> 1:44:57.639 Apparently I'm a trip league. Oh yeah, it's you, Jada Summer. 1:44:57.720 --> 1:45:03.320 Y'all need to do a project together. Hmm. Can we 1:45:03.479 --> 1:45:03.960 all sing? 1:45:04.200 --> 1:45:05.479 I think some are the only one that can. 1:45:05.560 --> 1:45:07.720 I don't have to be a singing project. It could 1:45:07.720 --> 1:45:11.120 be y'all do a cooking episode something. Y'all just all 1:45:11.200 --> 1:45:13.000 three need to do something where y'all just sit down. 1:45:13.000 --> 1:45:15.400 I think that I need to rap. You can rap. 1:45:15.760 --> 1:45:16.840 You're gonna have to write it though. 1:45:17.080 --> 1:45:17.920 You gonna have to be my goal. 1:45:18.040 --> 1:45:18.840 I've got them bars. 1:45:19.520 --> 1:45:27.760 Yeah, yeah. The trio featuring Tony Brexley, because everybody say 1:45:27.800 --> 1:45:30.120 you like Tony Brexley, but anyway. 1:45:32.000 --> 1:45:32.439 Your box. 1:45:32.880 --> 1:45:36.720 Yes, So my bob is hard of a woman. By 1:45:37.360 --> 1:45:42.040 Summer Walker. It's giving Brandy vibe. It is. It is, 1:45:42.479 --> 1:45:47.560 Oh my god, when she stacked. You know, nobody be 1:45:47.680 --> 1:45:52.720 doing them run bible, yeah, vocal bible. Nobody can nobody 1:45:53.200 --> 1:45:56.760 out singing Brandy. I don't care who you're failing well, 1:45:56.840 --> 1:46:01.200 no New Generation personally, because I mean, like but Natti Labille, 1:46:01.360 --> 1:46:01.960 Anita Baker. 1:46:02.880 --> 1:46:04.400 We talk about backing. 1:46:04.560 --> 1:46:09.120 Harmonies and vocals. Nobody does it like Brandy. Braindy learned 1:46:09.160 --> 1:46:11.320 from the best. That's why Whitney Houston, out of her 1:46:11.360 --> 1:46:14.600 own mouth, said Brandy is the best singer of the 1:46:14.680 --> 1:46:17.720 New Generation. No, she is like Brandy. And it's so 1:46:18.040 --> 1:46:20.439 crazy to me because I've heard people say Brandy can't 1:46:20.479 --> 1:46:23.720 sing because they don't be like, what are you kidding me? 1:46:23.720 --> 1:46:25.479 Because these are the A and rs I'm talking about. 1:46:25.640 --> 1:46:27.519 You don't know music, you can't hear, you don't got 1:46:27.560 --> 1:46:32.000 that ear, but you know I would. I have an argument. 1:46:32.439 --> 1:46:35.400 I think that summer Walker might be our Brandy. I 1:46:35.439 --> 1:46:39.120 can I can hear that. Though I'm not bad at 1:46:39.160 --> 1:46:41.080 you for saying that, because at. 1:46:41.000 --> 1:46:43.760 The end of the day, let's chat about it real quick. 1:46:44.800 --> 1:46:49.800 Let's talk about how Overyas was a masterpiece from Front 1:46:49.880 --> 1:46:57.200 who still over eads masterpiece Front to bag both albums. 1:46:57.640 --> 1:47:01.200 So I have no doubt in my mind that this 1:47:01.439 --> 1:47:05.840 new album is not going to be a masterpiece, like 1:47:05.920 --> 1:47:10.000 it's gonna be no this like Summer Walker, she just 1:47:10.160 --> 1:47:11.240 never feels This. 1:47:11.360 --> 1:47:12.880 Is what I have to say about Summer Walker. 1:47:13.240 --> 1:47:15.200 Right. A lot of people feel some way about Summer 1:47:15.240 --> 1:47:20.679 Walker because of the decisions that she's made personally and exactly. 1:47:20.760 --> 1:47:22.439 But this is what I go back to saying earlier. 1:47:22.680 --> 1:47:27.160 Some people, their personalities make them different. Summer Walker is 1:47:27.240 --> 1:47:29.479 one of them people that she needs to have her 1:47:29.560 --> 1:47:32.600 team on her social media and she just needs to, 1:47:33.080 --> 1:47:35.880 you know what I'm saying, because she's so you don't 1:47:35.920 --> 1:47:36.919 have to do the extras. 1:47:37.479 --> 1:47:39.320 Your talent speaks for itself. 1:47:39.439 --> 1:47:41.280 You don't need to let us know who you're dating, 1:47:41.680 --> 1:47:44.759 who you pregnant by, what you're deciding. You don't because 1:47:44.800 --> 1:47:48.280 you don't have to. Your talent is, you know, making 1:47:48.400 --> 1:47:51.680 the music, and she needs to have one of those 1:47:51.760 --> 1:47:54.320 Beyonce approaches, and she's one of them chosen ones. Like 1:47:54.360 --> 1:47:56.840 I was talking earlier, Raymonte is one of them chosen 1:47:56.880 --> 1:47:59.639 ones who can do whatever with his personality. Summer Walker 1:47:59.720 --> 1:48:01.920 is one of the few chosen people. You don't have 1:48:02.000 --> 1:48:04.400 to show us your personality or whatever. All you gotta 1:48:04.439 --> 1:48:07.160 do is, you know, sing and give us that. And 1:48:07.200 --> 1:48:08.479 there's not a lot of people who can do that, 1:48:08.520 --> 1:48:10.640 because there's a lot of people who are talented, but 1:48:10.720 --> 1:48:14.000 they have to get on social media and entertain us, 1:48:14.120 --> 1:48:16.960 so we would listen to their music. Yeah, I don't know. 1:48:17.160 --> 1:48:20.679 I was in my house with my little wine, swiggling 1:48:20.680 --> 1:48:23.080 it around in my little wine glass and my robe 1:48:23.160 --> 1:48:26.320 and my first slippers or the and I felt like 1:48:26.360 --> 1:48:30.640 I was making nineteen ninety six when that was a 1:48:30.720 --> 1:48:35.160 great body, and I felty, Yeah, feilty, gun in one hand, 1:48:35.720 --> 1:48:37.280 wine glass in the other. Period. 1:48:37.360 --> 1:48:38.400 You know who else makes great? 1:48:38.439 --> 1:48:41.599 Me? Ready to shoot some shit up, but also ready 1:48:41.680 --> 1:48:44.240 to cry. I want to talk about two other artists too. 1:48:45.080 --> 1:48:48.240 I recently saw Mariah the Scientist. She did Karesha Please, 1:48:49.040 --> 1:48:53.240 and I was so pleasantly surprise to see how eloquently 1:48:54.000 --> 1:48:57.040 she relayed her message that she wanted to send, and 1:48:57.120 --> 1:48:59.680 it was so articulate, and it was so intelligent and 1:48:59.760 --> 1:49:01.479 it was so beautiful to see. 1:49:01.720 --> 1:49:02.720 I wasn't surprised. 1:49:03.160 --> 1:49:06.840 I'm not I wasn't surprised. It seems really emotionally intelligent, right, 1:49:07.120 --> 1:49:10.200 But again, she is somebody that's like her music is 1:49:10.320 --> 1:49:12.840 so good. But I was happy to see that side 1:49:12.880 --> 1:49:14.920 of her so she could talk, because a lot of 1:49:14.960 --> 1:49:17.920 people feel like, oh she's not smart. For daty young thug, 1:49:18.160 --> 1:49:20.040 he may not get out of this in X y Z. 1:49:20.600 --> 1:49:22.840 But she was very just like vocal, and it was 1:49:22.880 --> 1:49:26.040 good to see that side of her. Another person on 1:49:26.120 --> 1:49:27.960 the other end of the space getting out. 1:49:29.120 --> 1:49:30.880 Who cares what I'm saying. 1:49:30.920 --> 1:49:33.680 No, I'm just saying. But like for her, it's like, 1:49:33.800 --> 1:49:35.720 let's her business, let her do her you know what 1:49:35.760 --> 1:49:39.400 I'm saying. Ari Lennox. Ari Lennox dropped a new song 1:49:39.479 --> 1:49:42.640 called Smoke and the song is amazing. But she just 1:49:42.800 --> 1:49:44.479 had She went on live the other day and she 1:49:44.600 --> 1:49:46.960 had a whole instance. She had a breakdown. She was like, 1:49:47.280 --> 1:49:50.080 she tagged them, she said, I went out of my contract, 1:49:50.200 --> 1:49:54.040 and she tagged in her scope. She tagged Dreamville. People's 1:49:54.080 --> 1:49:55.960 in the comments like j Cole, what's up? What are 1:49:56.000 --> 1:49:58.760 you doing? Ari Lennox is another person where she just 1:49:58.840 --> 1:50:00.840 needs to give us our talent and she needs to 1:50:00.920 --> 1:50:03.800 have a team around her to you know, be on 1:50:03.960 --> 1:50:06.960 social media for her, because I just think it's so 1:50:07.360 --> 1:50:10.040 sad and we have people these days who are so talented, 1:50:10.400 --> 1:50:13.479 but the social media stuff has to it overwhelms them. 1:50:14.400 --> 1:50:17.519 And I hate that we are in this era because 1:50:18.280 --> 1:50:20.759 we just have to do better, not we these. 1:50:20.680 --> 1:50:21.880 Labels need to do better. 1:50:22.720 --> 1:50:26.840 Y'all aren't taking the time for artists development anymore and 1:50:26.960 --> 1:50:28.880 doing what y'all need to do for these artists. Because 1:50:29.080 --> 1:50:32.040 if our Lenox was surrounded by the proper team, there's 1:50:32.080 --> 1:50:34.400 no reason that she shouldn't be going down as a 1:50:34.520 --> 1:50:38.200 legendary like air Kabadu. That's how we should be viewing 1:50:38.360 --> 1:50:41.880 ri Lennox twenty years from now. Seriously, like y'all supposed 1:50:41.880 --> 1:50:44.040 to put teams around these people who y'all know that 1:50:44.160 --> 1:50:47.519 are special, but y'all being so fucking cheap and don't 1:50:47.560 --> 1:50:50.920 want to spend the budget because y'all worry about a TikToker. Well, 1:50:50.960 --> 1:50:54.240 one of our friends is a A and R yes 1:50:54.640 --> 1:50:56.840 in a music industry and I was just having a 1:50:56.920 --> 1:50:59.080 conversation with her last week. She works with a lot 1:50:59.120 --> 1:51:03.320 of popular artist too, but she was just saying, like 1:51:03.439 --> 1:51:04.960 right now, in the music industry, it's. 1:51:04.920 --> 1:51:06.799 Just really hard for the artists. 1:51:07.280 --> 1:51:10.719 It's extremely hard because if your music isn't going viral 1:51:10.840 --> 1:51:15.360 on TikTok, it's considered a flop. I'm not gonna lie 1:51:15.439 --> 1:51:18.280 to you. I'm not looking for no TikTok hit now. 1:51:18.360 --> 1:51:22.720 I do find some TikTok hits that I like that 1:51:22.800 --> 1:51:25.160 are R and B songs or like you know, eclectic 1:51:25.240 --> 1:51:28.240 type music. But a lot of the times, the best 1:51:28.360 --> 1:51:30.479 music is stuff that you can really vibe to. And 1:51:30.560 --> 1:51:32.880 that's why we're missing out on so much great music 1:51:33.280 --> 1:51:37.559 because the labels have put money in shit that doesn't 1:51:37.720 --> 1:51:41.600 really have longevity. That's why artists are dropping singles and 1:51:41.680 --> 1:51:45.000 they're not dropping albums. And that's why I'm so glad 1:51:45.040 --> 1:51:47.200 even Carti has taken the approach of I'm gonna do 1:51:47.240 --> 1:51:49.800 what I wanna do, because guess what, You're supposed to 1:51:49.920 --> 1:51:54.280 drop an album every now and then. Artists shouldn't feel 1:51:54.280 --> 1:51:57.400 the pressure to drop an album every year build up 1:51:57.439 --> 1:51:59.920 that anticipation. Let me tell you, when Cardi dropped this album, 1:52:00.040 --> 1:52:06.280 it's gonna go crazy. I wouldn't be a week because 1:52:06.560 --> 1:52:08.519 people have I'm waiting on it and I'm gonna listen 1:52:08.560 --> 1:52:12.800 to it front and better because Cardi Bitch love you s. 1:52:13.880 --> 1:52:17.639 We've been waiting. That's supposed that's what you supposed ready 1:52:17.680 --> 1:52:22.080 for the album? Let them stall, let them starving? Not 1:52:22.160 --> 1:52:24.280 we ready to eat because I'm ready to eat right now. 1:52:24.400 --> 1:52:26.439 Guess what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna tear a burger up. 1:52:28.000 --> 1:52:32.840 But I am what a me want all right. Now, 1:52:32.880 --> 1:52:35.240 it's time to get into our favorite sigment of the 1:52:35.320 --> 1:52:37.679 show because we're about to art house. 1:52:38.520 --> 1:52:39.880 I was just about to say we better call on 1:52:40.000 --> 1:52:41.640 tour because were about to. 1:52:41.680 --> 1:52:42.839 Be but I said. 1:52:44.560 --> 1:52:49.320 You like again. Okay, Now, something to get. 1:52:49.200 --> 1:52:50.880 Into our favorite sigment of the show, which is pour 1:52:50.920 --> 1:52:53.000 your heart out. If you have any questions, make sure 1:52:53.000 --> 1:52:55.639 you send them to ask for Minds at gmail dot com. 1:52:56.280 --> 1:52:58.640 That's a s K p o U R in my 1:52:58.840 --> 1:53:03.280 n B s at gmail dot com. Send us your questions, 1:53:03.360 --> 1:53:07.040 send us your testimonials. Let's get into a Bookie budd 1:53:07.280 --> 1:53:10.040 want me go first? So you oh, yours is over there, 1:53:10.080 --> 1:53:13.400 I'll go ahead. Hey, auntiease I love y'all. Here's the situation, 1:53:13.640 --> 1:53:15.519 me and this girl. We'll call her Jay have been 1:53:15.600 --> 1:53:18.600 mutual friends since high school. About five years ago, we 1:53:18.720 --> 1:53:22.160 became really close and started doing everything together. We meshed 1:53:22.200 --> 1:53:24.880 well because we already were in the same friend group 1:53:24.960 --> 1:53:27.720 and circles. Recently, she's been falling out with all of 1:53:27.760 --> 1:53:30.599 our friends over some real petty shit and no lies. 1:53:30.680 --> 1:53:32.800 She's been in the wrong a lot. There was even 1:53:32.840 --> 1:53:34.760 a time she had an issue with me, but I 1:53:34.880 --> 1:53:35.519 had to diet. 1:53:35.439 --> 1:53:36.120 It real quick. 1:53:36.400 --> 1:53:38.280 I told her that since we're grown, we're gonna talk 1:53:38.320 --> 1:53:41.479 out our problems around here. There was yet another situation 1:53:41.640 --> 1:53:44.400 she was venting to me about and she was dead 1:53:44.479 --> 1:53:47.040 ass wrong. I'm always willing to listen, but if you 1:53:47.160 --> 1:53:49.479 ask for my opinion, I'll tell it. I told her 1:53:49.520 --> 1:53:52.040 she was not doing the right thing. After I said that, 1:53:52.200 --> 1:53:54.320 she basically rushed off the phone, and it's been a 1:53:54.400 --> 1:53:57.080 week since I heard from her side. Note there will 1:53:57.120 --> 1:53:59.920 be several times where her attitude just switches up so quickly, 1:54:00.040 --> 1:54:03.000 league when we're on a trip, or she would be standoffish, 1:54:03.200 --> 1:54:06.120 not wanting to interact, etc. I'm at the point where 1:54:06.120 --> 1:54:09.640 I'm not apologizing for saying how I felt, but how 1:54:09.720 --> 1:54:12.439 she's been acting. I don't see her reaching out. Sometimes 1:54:12.479 --> 1:54:14.120 I feel we just might be growing apart. 1:54:14.280 --> 1:54:16.679 Any tips. Is she giving me bad vibes? 1:54:16.800 --> 1:54:21.360 Or is it just me? So I'll say these Obviously 1:54:21.439 --> 1:54:24.439 we don't have her perspective, and there's always two three 1:54:24.520 --> 1:54:27.439 sides to a story, whatever saying you believe. But I 1:54:27.479 --> 1:54:29.559 feel like if y'all are falling out over kind of like. 1:54:29.600 --> 1:54:30.720 Little shit and petty shit. 1:54:31.400 --> 1:54:34.720 I knew, for example, not trying to make it about me, 1:54:34.840 --> 1:54:37.720 but I had a situation where something happened and I 1:54:37.840 --> 1:54:40.280 called Draft for advice. She didn't say what I wanted 1:54:40.320 --> 1:54:41.880 her to hear, and I hung up in her face 1:54:41.920 --> 1:54:43.880 and I got mad. Why because I wasn't in a 1:54:43.960 --> 1:54:46.840 mature space. Stop asking people's opinion if you don't want 1:54:46.880 --> 1:54:49.040 to hear from it. And that situation taught me I 1:54:49.160 --> 1:54:51.760 have to grow as a person. So I took that 1:54:51.920 --> 1:54:53.920 as Once Drea said, yeah, bitch, you were being a 1:54:54.000 --> 1:54:56.040 fucking weird I was like, yeah, you're right, I'm being 1:54:56.080 --> 1:54:59.080 a weirdo. So a lot of times you may be 1:54:59.240 --> 1:55:02.760 growing apart because if she can't recognize that, and you 1:55:02.880 --> 1:55:06.240 can't recognize that, I think sometimes people need to realize 1:55:06.960 --> 1:55:09.680 if things are happening between you and somebody, it doesn't 1:55:09.720 --> 1:55:12.720 need to be a big situation for a blowout. Sometimes 1:55:12.760 --> 1:55:15.120 it's just God showing you, Hey, y'all don't need to 1:55:15.120 --> 1:55:17.840 be in each other's lives. It don't need to be 1:55:18.000 --> 1:55:21.080 a huge blowout. There's friends that I have been friends 1:55:21.120 --> 1:55:24.040 for for years and nothing happened. We just had different 1:55:24.120 --> 1:55:27.000 interests than we grew apart. So don't take this as 1:55:27.160 --> 1:55:28.960 you have to force a friendship just because y'all have 1:55:29.040 --> 1:55:31.720 been friends for so long, or oh, she's acting this 1:55:31.920 --> 1:55:34.680 way and looking at as a bad thing, because she 1:55:34.880 --> 1:55:37.240 may not be doing anything wrong. You just may not 1:55:37.360 --> 1:55:40.960 be perceiving it well because y'all are just growing apart. 1:55:41.040 --> 1:55:47.840 And that's okay. That's how I feel. Yeah, I don't know. 1:55:47.960 --> 1:55:51.200 I don't like people that can't take like constructive criticism right. 1:55:53.440 --> 1:55:56.080 That's not a friend that I want exactly If you 1:55:56.360 --> 1:55:59.600 ask me right, Like, if you ask me about something 1:55:59.640 --> 1:56:01.360 that you want, to give you my opinion and you 1:56:01.480 --> 1:56:03.880 don't take it the right way, I don't have to 1:56:04.480 --> 1:56:06.560 say something that you agree with. If you want to 1:56:06.640 --> 1:56:08.120 know how I feel, I'm going to tell you how 1:56:08.160 --> 1:56:11.400 I really feel. I just feel like that comes with 1:56:11.560 --> 1:56:16.959 emotional maturity sometimes and sometimes it don't come with emotional 1:56:17.320 --> 1:56:19.720 maturity because sometimes you and people are not meant to 1:56:19.800 --> 1:56:23.480 be in each other life. Like it's some people that 1:56:23.640 --> 1:56:25.800 I'm not cool with no more who when I was 1:56:25.880 --> 1:56:29.080 in my early twenties and stuff, I might have said 1:56:29.160 --> 1:56:32.040 something to them that made them feel some type of way, 1:56:32.640 --> 1:56:37.480 but our pasts misaligned for a reason because they was 1:56:37.560 --> 1:56:39.320 never meant to be on a path. And so I 1:56:39.440 --> 1:56:43.560 think that as a younger person, you just have to 1:56:44.760 --> 1:56:47.960 be okay with that and if it's meant to be 1:56:48.200 --> 1:56:50.640 you and that personal cross past again. I have a 1:56:50.720 --> 1:56:53.480 best friend right now who I stop being friends with 1:56:53.560 --> 1:56:56.800 her for over a year and now we like thinking 1:56:56.920 --> 1:56:59.840 thieves again, like we super cool again. If something is 1:57:00.280 --> 1:57:03.560 to be, it's gonna be. Don't force nothing. Lett shit 1:57:03.640 --> 1:57:05.920 be what it is. If you feel like it's bad vibes, 1:57:05.960 --> 1:57:08.640 it's weird energy, let her go her way, You go 1:57:08.800 --> 1:57:09.200 your way. 1:57:09.680 --> 1:57:11.640 Y'all focus on the things that y'all need to focus 1:57:11.720 --> 1:57:12.320 on in life. 1:57:12.560 --> 1:57:15.760 And if y'all are meant to be friends again, y'all 1:57:15.800 --> 1:57:17.760 all find y'all way back to each other after y'all 1:57:17.800 --> 1:57:20.240 have both healed, and the relationship will be even better, 1:57:20.560 --> 1:57:24.160 Like we did that too, because me and Lex did 1:57:24.320 --> 1:57:28.960 not like you. You don't got to emphasize about you 1:57:29.000 --> 1:57:31.920 don't got to emphasize it because everybody took it as shady. 1:57:31.960 --> 1:57:35.160 When Joe was like, because I don't talk about because 1:57:36.120 --> 1:57:38.640 obviously we did an episode with Melissa and Melissa was like, yeah, 1:57:38.680 --> 1:57:40.800 it's good to see people who get along and they're 1:57:40.840 --> 1:57:41.360 actually friends. 1:57:41.400 --> 1:57:43.720 And Joe was like now and everybody. 1:57:43.440 --> 1:57:47.720 Was like, oh, they I mean, but we talk about 1:57:47.760 --> 1:57:50.840 it all there. It ain't no tea there. They love 1:57:51.000 --> 1:57:54.960 Joe too, but like, it's not no tea. He wasn't 1:57:55.000 --> 1:57:57.280 being shady, So I don't know. I don't think that's 1:57:57.280 --> 1:57:58.840 why I said. That's why I felt the need to 1:57:58.880 --> 1:58:01.400 say we love Joe because I don't feel like he 1:58:01.640 --> 1:58:04.760 was being shady like he was around us at the time. 1:58:04.880 --> 1:58:07.920 They knew we wasn't getting along. So he's seen it 1:58:08.080 --> 1:58:10.560 firsthand and he like, well they get along now, like 1:58:10.640 --> 1:58:13.280 they built a relationship now. And since we're talking about it, 1:58:13.280 --> 1:58:15.200 because I've been name dropping a lot today, maybe it's 1:58:15.200 --> 1:58:16.320 a TV I don't. 1:58:16.200 --> 1:58:17.560 Know what, or espresso. 1:58:17.800 --> 1:58:20.000 I don't give a fuck. Don't blame that shit on tide. 1:58:20.160 --> 1:58:23.520 Blame that shit on that damn espresso. I have come 1:58:23.560 --> 1:58:27.040 to say though, so y'all make sure y'all share the content, 1:58:27.600 --> 1:58:30.400 like subscribe, follow all that good stuff. And let me 1:58:30.440 --> 1:58:33.480 say this before we close out, y'all. There is one 1:58:34.040 --> 1:58:36.920 Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds. It's p O. 1:58:37.160 --> 1:58:41.680 You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the 1:58:41.760 --> 1:58:45.000 wrong pour Minds page. If you see at poor Minds 1:58:45.040 --> 1:58:47.120 with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not 1:58:47.240 --> 1:58:51.280 follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the 1:58:51.360 --> 1:58:54.919 poor Mind's page on both so we only have one Instagram, 1:58:55.920 --> 1:59:00.160 one Twitter, one TikTok. It is p O, you are 1:59:00.280 --> 1:59:03.320 underscore in my nds. I and we gotta hell a 1:59:03.400 --> 1:59:07.240 fake Facebook page on the Facebook page it's our face. 1:59:07.440 --> 1:59:10.160 The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the 1:59:10.280 --> 1:59:12.480 least amount of follow So if you want face, the 1:59:12.560 --> 1:59:15.600 one that's ours got the least amount of but one 1:59:15.720 --> 1:59:17.960 that's not us it's got like two hundred and fifty. 1:59:19.040 --> 1:59:20.720 Make if you actually look at the content, because the 1:59:20.840 --> 1:59:23.920 caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because 1:59:23.920 --> 1:59:27.080 their captains are like bumba claude. Should men should men 1:59:27.160 --> 1:59:32.480 pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No, check answer 1:59:32.560 --> 1:59:38.160 below block block pull off, Like that's literally what the captions? 1:59:38.280 --> 1:59:41.960 I'm like, what that DG's bumba claude, bumba claud. 2:00:05.120 --> 2:00:08.640 All right, question number two, I just go ahead, all right, 2:00:09.440 --> 2:00:12.440 Hey lex Andrea. I've been watching you guys channel on YouTube, 2:00:12.520 --> 2:00:14.800 and first off, I just want to say you ladies 2:00:14.800 --> 2:00:18.560 are absolutely stunny, very beautiful and watching you guys really 2:00:18.640 --> 2:00:21.560 makes me laugh and smile during the difficult times when 2:00:21.600 --> 2:00:23.120 I don't want to smile, So thank you. 2:00:23.640 --> 2:00:24.360 I'm twenty eight. 2:00:24.480 --> 2:00:27.560 I've been single for seven years, but throughout those years 2:00:27.680 --> 2:00:30.720 I have had a lot of field relationships and situationships. 2:00:31.200 --> 2:00:33.160 I know having a man doesn't validate me. 2:00:33.640 --> 2:00:37.400 However, always being seen as good enough to have sex, 2:00:37.880 --> 2:00:40.360 but to have sex with but not good enough to 2:00:40.440 --> 2:00:43.160 settle down with as really taking a shot at my 2:00:43.280 --> 2:00:46.160 confidence and I don't know what to do or how 2:00:46.280 --> 2:00:48.640 to feel. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, and 2:00:48.720 --> 2:00:50.520 as a grown woman, I just want to know how 2:00:50.560 --> 2:00:53.240 to get my confidence back and feel like a bad bitch. 2:00:54.000 --> 2:00:59.520 Can you help me stop having situationships? 2:01:00.480 --> 2:01:05.480 Come on, if men, if you desire a relationship and 2:01:05.560 --> 2:01:08.280 you desire commitment, and men are letting you know that 2:01:08.400 --> 2:01:10.360 that is not the same thing that they desire. Don't 2:01:10.360 --> 2:01:13.840 get them, No, pussy, don't take it further than the day. 2:01:14.560 --> 2:01:16.640 That's where you've been going wrong. See, because I'm sure 2:01:16.640 --> 2:01:18.320 you're a beautiful girl, I'm sure you have a lot 2:01:18.400 --> 2:01:21.080 to offer. But at the end of the day, men 2:01:21.320 --> 2:01:25.520 are opportunities. Men love pussy me, Men love pussy, and 2:01:25.600 --> 2:01:29.360 men need sex unlike women. A lot of the time, 2:01:29.440 --> 2:01:32.440 I feel like people say, oh, women need sex, women 2:01:32.480 --> 2:01:34.640 need sex, We can live without sex. Though I really 2:01:34.720 --> 2:01:39.160 truly feel there's certain men who can live without sex too, monks. Okay, 2:01:41.040 --> 2:01:42.800 I think it's certain men who don't put it on 2:01:42.880 --> 2:01:44.400 a pedestal, but it's very small. 2:01:44.440 --> 2:01:47.640 It's certain men don't put it on a pedestal, for sure. 2:01:48.360 --> 2:01:53.240 However, though I feel like most men, like, okay, I'm 2:01:53.280 --> 2:01:57.240 talking about men who value relationship, Yeah, yeah, who want 2:01:57.280 --> 2:02:00.480 to be in relationship. Okay, Because if we're talking about again, 2:02:00.600 --> 2:02:02.720 like I said, monks, people who have taken a vow 2:02:02.760 --> 2:02:04.040 of celibacy. 2:02:04.040 --> 2:02:05.520 Obviously that's different. 2:02:05.840 --> 2:02:08.400 But a man who is longing to be in a partnership, 2:02:08.440 --> 2:02:11.440 a man who is looking for a wife, men want sex, 2:02:12.000 --> 2:02:15.800 men literally, men in relationships. It has been statistically proven, 2:02:16.240 --> 2:02:19.640 men that are in relationships, men that are married, they 2:02:19.840 --> 2:02:22.560 need sex to thrive and to be able to go 2:02:22.720 --> 2:02:24.560 out into the world and do what they need to do. 2:02:24.680 --> 2:02:28.360 They look to their women when they come home to refuel. 2:02:27.880 --> 2:02:28.960 Them and. 2:02:31.280 --> 2:02:38.600 Recharge girls us and recharge them. So I think that. 2:02:40.120 --> 2:02:43.960 A lot of the time the conquest for men be sex. 2:02:45.240 --> 2:02:47.480 It ain't nothing wrong with that, But if that's not 2:02:47.600 --> 2:02:52.040 what you own, then quietly, cutely nip that shit in 2:02:52.080 --> 2:02:54.600 the bud and move on to the next nigga, move 2:02:54.680 --> 2:02:56.800 on to somebody who wants more from you than that. 2:02:57.400 --> 2:03:00.760 You have to be the person that's like, Okay, if 2:03:00.960 --> 2:03:03.080 he not making me feel like he wants something serious 2:03:03.160 --> 2:03:05.600 for me, I'm gonna cut this shit off and I'm 2:03:05.640 --> 2:03:07.600 not gonna give him sex, and I'm not gonna give 2:03:07.680 --> 2:03:10.880 him that satisfaction because if you give a man sex, 2:03:10.960 --> 2:03:12.280 you're playing into. 2:03:12.120 --> 2:03:14.000 It, and you can't be mad when you don't get 2:03:14.040 --> 2:03:14.640 what you want. 2:03:15.240 --> 2:03:18.440 If you didn't stand on business from jump knowing that 2:03:18.560 --> 2:03:22.000 you want commitment and not standing on commitment, that be 2:03:22.120 --> 2:03:24.440 the problem. And I'm not trying to be hard on you, 2:03:26.160 --> 2:03:28.040 but I'm just saying, if you want to settle down 2:03:28.240 --> 2:03:30.760 and that's what you want, then you have to move 2:03:30.920 --> 2:03:34.440 like somebody who wants to settle down and who knows 2:03:34.520 --> 2:03:37.480 what they want, and I can't be getting tricky. They 2:03:37.600 --> 2:03:39.920 gonna trick you up a little bit. I can agree 2:03:39.960 --> 2:03:41.640 with that because being somebody like I was in a 2:03:41.680 --> 2:03:45.560 situation with this guy that I had dated before, mister Cabo. 2:03:46.400 --> 2:03:48.200 I was in a situation where like when we first 2:03:48.200 --> 2:03:51.280 started going out, he was like, okay. He asked me like, okay, well, 2:03:51.320 --> 2:03:53.360 what are you looking for a ball out? I was like, honestly, 2:03:54.040 --> 2:03:56.200 I knew at that time. I was like I did 2:03:56.320 --> 2:03:58.080 want a man, I wanted partnership, but I was trying 2:03:58.120 --> 2:03:59.520 to be the cool girl and be like, oh, I'm 2:03:59.560 --> 2:04:02.440 just having fun, I'm outside, and he took that literal. 2:04:02.840 --> 2:04:04.840 So when shit played out, I was like, damn, you 2:04:04.960 --> 2:04:06.560 hurt my feelings. He was like, but this is what 2:04:06.680 --> 2:04:08.440 you told me. He was like, if I would have 2:04:08.480 --> 2:04:11.200 known you wanted this, I would one hundred percent gave 2:04:11.240 --> 2:04:13.480 it to you, Like that wouldn't have been a problem. 2:04:13.760 --> 2:04:15.080 So I think a lot of times women are so 2:04:15.200 --> 2:04:17.560 afraid to say what we want because we're trying to 2:04:17.600 --> 2:04:21.320 be so laid back. No first date if y'all have 2:04:21.400 --> 2:04:23.840 this conversation, what are your intentions? What are you looking for? 2:04:24.400 --> 2:04:27.320 Say what you want and be very vocal and hold 2:04:27.360 --> 2:04:29.640 out until you get that, and then they're showing you 2:04:29.800 --> 2:04:32.400 that they want the same thing. And she said it 2:04:32.480 --> 2:04:34.680 took a shot at her confidence. I just feel like 2:04:35.240 --> 2:04:37.680 it shouldn't take a shot at your confidence because a 2:04:37.720 --> 2:04:40.520 lot of the time, what people want in the space 2:04:40.640 --> 2:04:42.800 that they're in has nothing to do with you. It's 2:04:42.840 --> 2:04:46.200 absolutely about their own paths and the type of time 2:04:46.280 --> 2:04:49.120 and it they own. It shouldn't take any shot at 2:04:49.200 --> 2:04:51.840 your confidence because I'm sure you're beautiful, I'm sure you're smart, 2:04:52.160 --> 2:04:54.200 I'm sure you have a lot to add value to 2:04:54.320 --> 2:04:57.560 a relationship into the right men that just ain't the 2:04:57.680 --> 2:05:01.440 right men or the right situation. How a person feels 2:05:01.440 --> 2:05:04.280 about you says nothing about your character and how valuable 2:05:04.360 --> 2:05:07.240 you are, because the one person will treat you like shit, 2:05:07.320 --> 2:05:08.920 the next person will be like, oh my gosh, I 2:05:09.040 --> 2:05:09.760 just struck gold. 2:05:10.000 --> 2:05:12.400 What's some confidence? What sometimes they do? 2:05:12.480 --> 2:05:17.000 Because people ain't she I feel about people sometimes because 2:05:17.680 --> 2:05:20.720 you really trade It doesn't matter that her though, But 2:05:20.840 --> 2:05:23.960 I'm confident should be within yourself. How people feel about 2:05:24.000 --> 2:05:25.960 you shouldn't have an effect on how you feel because 2:05:25.960 --> 2:05:28.600 even though yeah, some people may be right about certain 2:05:28.640 --> 2:05:30.880 people that they are trash, but they don't feel that 2:05:30.920 --> 2:05:33.960 way because they're confident within themselves. So you don't need 2:05:34.040 --> 2:05:36.879 to look for any outside sources to make you confident. 2:05:37.000 --> 2:05:39.960 But I do have a question. So that was our advice. 2:05:40.440 --> 2:05:41.560 But I do have a question. 2:05:41.680 --> 2:05:44.120 You don't feel like trash? People suggest know they trash. 2:05:45.560 --> 2:05:47.760 Let me tell you. That's the problem. So many people 2:05:48.320 --> 2:05:52.240 be like, oh, what a person's opinion to me? Let 2:05:52.280 --> 2:05:55.280 me it shouldn't matter. But what if you really trash? 2:05:55.400 --> 2:05:58.560 So I have something very important because I had went 2:05:58.600 --> 2:06:02.840 through something and that made me realize I got out 2:06:02.880 --> 2:06:05.640 of a situation because this person had did me so 2:06:05.800 --> 2:06:07.760 dirty and so wrong, and I finally was able to 2:06:08.160 --> 2:06:10.600 open my eyes and see. And I was so stuck 2:06:10.600 --> 2:06:12.600 in the place of you know what, Karma's gonna get him, 2:06:13.200 --> 2:06:15.600 Karma gonna shut him down, and he gonna see. And 2:06:15.680 --> 2:06:18.120 I was so wrapped up in the world and the 2:06:18.240 --> 2:06:20.400 universe getting at him so hard, and I'm not gonna lie. 2:06:21.160 --> 2:06:23.200 I don't know what's going on with this person. But 2:06:23.320 --> 2:06:25.880 somebody had updated me on him, which had pisced me off. 2:06:26.560 --> 2:06:28.600 But they were like, oh girl, he on vacation and 2:06:28.680 --> 2:06:31.200 he doing this in XYZ. So I'm like, you know what, 2:06:31.480 --> 2:06:34.640 maybe that person didn't get their karma. Maybe this person 2:06:34.760 --> 2:06:38.520 has moved on and they are extremely happy. But that's 2:06:38.600 --> 2:06:41.640 okay because that's a part of the healing process. Sometimes 2:06:41.680 --> 2:06:44.840 people do get they get back, but sometimes they really don't. 2:06:44.960 --> 2:06:48.880 Sometimes trash people they will hurt you and they will 2:06:49.000 --> 2:06:52.280 move on and live happy lives. The true thing about 2:06:52.360 --> 2:06:55.600 healing is that you cannot care and you cannot be 2:06:55.720 --> 2:06:58.120 concerned with that. But I didn't say nothing about to 2:06:58.200 --> 2:06:58.720 get back. 2:06:58.880 --> 2:07:00.400 I was just saying, do. 2:07:00.520 --> 2:07:02.440 Letting them know? Yeah, I let them know? But what 2:07:02.480 --> 2:07:04.680 does that do? Not letting them know? I'm just saying, 2:07:04.760 --> 2:07:07.400 do you think that that's a problem that like people 2:07:07.600 --> 2:07:10.600 be trash and may be feeling like they're not. It's 2:07:10.680 --> 2:07:13.040 not about you getting back at them, because at the 2:07:13.160 --> 2:07:15.640 end of the day, like that's stupid, that's childish, that's 2:07:15.640 --> 2:07:17.600 petty to waste your time. But what I'm saying is, 2:07:17.760 --> 2:07:19.720 but like it's so many people who go through like 2:07:19.880 --> 2:07:22.720 feeling like, well, I'm a great person, you know why 2:07:22.720 --> 2:07:26.640 I But guess what different things bring different things out 2:07:26.680 --> 2:07:29.080 of people. So this person may have been trash to me, 2:07:29.560 --> 2:07:32.240 but he may be a great person to that girl 2:07:32.360 --> 2:07:35.600 or that person. I don't know, but that's the part 2:07:35.720 --> 2:07:39.000 that's that I'm saying. That's why it's important to heal 2:07:39.560 --> 2:07:41.360 because I don't know how he's treating her. And I 2:07:41.480 --> 2:07:45.240 also don't care because maybe this person was bad to me, 2:07:45.760 --> 2:07:47.920 but he could be a great person or a friend. 2:07:48.360 --> 2:07:51.200 I had a friend who was trash to me, like 2:07:51.320 --> 2:07:53.080 we were talking about her earlier, but maybe she's a 2:07:53.200 --> 2:07:56.200 great friend to this other person. But the beauty about 2:07:56.240 --> 2:07:59.200 healing is I don't care. I let you know what 2:07:59.320 --> 2:08:01.040 you did to me, and I'll let you know how 2:08:01.160 --> 2:08:02.840 much of a fucked up person you were to me. 2:08:03.920 --> 2:08:07.960 All everything else, I'll just let go and I let god. So, yeah, 2:08:08.000 --> 2:08:11.040 you gotta tell people that they trash sometimes, but maybe 2:08:11.080 --> 2:08:13.840 that person was trashed to you. I don't know, different things. 2:08:14.120 --> 2:08:16.680 But you have to be okay with not caring as well. 2:08:17.080 --> 2:08:18.640 I think that's what it is, the best thing you 2:08:18.720 --> 2:08:21.640 can do. Let a person know how you feel and 2:08:22.080 --> 2:08:24.480 move on to heal. I agree, you know what I'm saying, 2:08:24.480 --> 2:08:28.360 because sometimes people want this karma. Oh the world gonna 2:08:28.360 --> 2:08:30.520 get you. But sometimes the world doesn't get that person. 2:08:30.640 --> 2:08:33.360 Sometimes it does. But the beauty about healing is I 2:08:33.440 --> 2:08:35.120 don't know if the world got back at you, but 2:08:35.200 --> 2:08:38.440 I also don't care. So that's what I was getting 2:08:38.480 --> 2:08:40.840 at as far as like, yeah, you gotta let people 2:08:40.880 --> 2:08:44.360 know they're trash. Sure, but that's more for you. They 2:08:44.480 --> 2:08:46.120 not gonna learn nothing because they don't care. They know 2:08:46.200 --> 2:08:48.640 how they did you right, that person that did they wrong, 2:08:48.800 --> 2:08:51.360 that did you wrong, they know what they did right. 2:08:51.560 --> 2:08:55.000 They're not oblivious to Oh I didn't know. They very 2:08:55.120 --> 2:08:58.160 much know. That's why I'm to the point now is 2:08:58.280 --> 2:09:00.960 I don't really tell people like, oh, you did some 2:09:01.080 --> 2:09:03.760 whole ship unless I really care about you, like cause 2:09:03.760 --> 2:09:06.280 sometimes like it'll be a situation where like you hurt 2:09:06.320 --> 2:09:08.960 my feelings, you really did not know. If you say, 2:09:09.080 --> 2:09:10.960 like you were talking about earlier, I was just saying 2:09:11.040 --> 2:09:13.080 my car got broken into. You didn't know that made 2:09:13.120 --> 2:09:16.080 me mad. People don't even know how I didn't bring 2:09:16.160 --> 2:09:19.080 it up. Well, you just no. But what I'm saying 2:09:19.280 --> 2:09:22.960 is you your intention wasn't to hurt me. Yeah, That's 2:09:23.000 --> 2:09:24.920 what I'm saying. So I say all that to say 2:09:26.080 --> 2:09:28.480 I was saying I didn't even say that. Shut that 2:09:28.680 --> 2:09:31.720 hell up. You know what I mean? Let me cross 2:09:31.800 --> 2:09:33.880 the T and dot my eye. Well, I was saying, 2:09:33.960 --> 2:09:36.040 maybe you might want have you to delete that port 2:09:36.320 --> 2:09:38.200 the list. I didn't never say nothing about the car 2:09:38.320 --> 2:09:41.200 you broken into. Oh it don't matter. No, I mean 2:09:41.280 --> 2:09:43.680 people know my come up. They know you don't know 2:09:44.000 --> 2:09:48.080 my stuggle, so so you can't feel my husband shout out. 2:09:48.920 --> 2:09:52.080 All right, booty, Okay, let's wrap this ship up. Let's 2:09:52.120 --> 2:09:55.320 wrap this shit up. Y'all know the vibes. Make sure 2:09:55.360 --> 2:10:00.320 y'all follow this on Patreon. Make sure y'all so go 2:10:00.560 --> 2:10:03.800 and shop mus Beauty Collection dot com. Make sure you 2:10:03.840 --> 2:10:07.000 get your lip glosses, your lip liners, your Matt Liqui lipsticks. 2:10:08.000 --> 2:10:12.040 Also Black Friday and Cyber Mondays coming up. 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Got 2:13:22.080 --> 2:13:25.440 you while and bother cause I talk her. 2:13:25.640 --> 2:13:30.400 If you're looking for the goods, keep on looking toy, hey. 2:13:31.840 --> 2:13:37.680 Oh oh oh, come on, just because you drive a bins, 2:13:37.760 --> 2:13:41.200 I'm not going way home with you. You at getting 2:13:41.240 --> 2:13:45.520 on Naki or the cookie gone, No nurky, sex in 2:13:45.960 --> 2:13:50.520 the pending einwall draw you already. No, I'm not being 2:13:50.600 --> 2:13:55.200 into dramatic. That's the way I got head. You think, 2:13:55.320 --> 2:13:59.520 you say, trying to hit, but I'm not I'm not 2:13:59.680 --> 2:14:04.640 being into dramatic. It's just so good heavy. I bet 2:14:04.720 --> 2:14:09.240 you want the goodies. Bet you thought about it got you. 2:14:09.480 --> 2:14:14.960 All hot and bother because if you're looking for the goodies, 2:14:15.080 --> 2:14:19.080 keep on looking, because they say in the job, oh 2:14:19.760 --> 2:14:21.640 oh oh. 2:14:22.640 --> 2:14:25.200 So them hot but so young. Still got im looking 2:14:25.200 --> 2:14:28.480 at your tongue, so down little what you ain't got 2:14:28.560 --> 2:14:33.200 it all? Hey, shaty, you don't bad between bad. I'll 2:14:33.240 --> 2:14:35.880 show you a baddis bad when you pint bullet beating 2:14:35.920 --> 2:14:37.960 the baddies. I've working at it every since I came 2:14:38.040 --> 2:14:40.840 this twenty. I ain't quite there, but I'm getting better. Yeah, 2:14:40.920 --> 2:14:43.360 driv on effect. Let me tell it to you one muggies, 2:14:43.560 --> 2:14:45.720 my lord to do a sell a girl who I am? 2:14:45.960 --> 2:14:50.200 Ain't I hit it. I can't have a way. 2:14:50.920 --> 2:14:55.240 You weren't singuating that I'm hot, but these goodies, boy, 2:14:55.400 --> 2:14:59.040 I'm not just for many of the many men that's 2:14:59.120 --> 2:15:02.520 trying to get on top. No, you can't call me lea, 2:15:03.280 --> 2:15:07.280 and I don't want your number. I'm not changing stories. 2:15:07.520 --> 2:15:09.520 Just respect the plan I'm calling. 2:15:10.320 --> 2:15:12.000 Bet you want the goodies. 2:15:12.680 --> 2:15:16.600 Bet your thought about it got you while hot and bothered. 2:15:17.440 --> 2:15:23.120 We gotta get in the line, look cause they you 2:15:23.240 --> 2:15:27.160 ready dry, were finna hit that hole? You remember here 2:15:27.200 --> 2:15:43.200 we go? Yeah, because period, because they you hit it hole. 2:15:43.480 --> 2:15:51.040 Hear that, I said, hit it hole. Hey, look at these, 2:15:51.080 --> 2:15:53.440 Look at these that work. That's all right, that's all right. 2:15:53.520 --> 2:16:09.680 Them goodies, she got them goodies. Period. That was a 2:16:09.800 --> 2:16:10.880 karaoke for that dy