Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?
Speaker 2: It's your girl Lex Pete and it's your girl dre
Speaker 2: in the cold, and you are tuned in to another
Speaker 2: episode of Poor Minds.
Speaker 1: Where's your mind speaks sober.
Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
Speaker 2: guests today. And I know they be happy when they
Speaker 2: hear that. I kinda be happy a little bit too.
Speaker 1: We need to get in a stewp. We do need
Speaker 1: to get in the studio.
Speaker 2: You know what. That studio reached out to us. So
Speaker 2: we're gonna do that, probably like in the next day. Well,
Speaker 2: that's for a real rap song, though you want to Oh,
Speaker 2: I thought it was just for fun. Yeah, but I
Speaker 2: want o shit. I feel like if we're gonna do it,
Speaker 2: we might as well do it like you want to
Speaker 2: do a real Yeah, I want to know a real song.
Speaker 2: I just want to be up in there wasting time.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't know you wanted to go
Speaker 2: to it like we can.
Speaker 1: Make a heat.
Speaker 2: I honestly feel like it would be my dream if
Speaker 2: we went into this we hit wonder. I would love
Speaker 2: it me too. Imagine if we did a one hit
Speaker 2: wonder so good and just like want a Grammy and
Speaker 2: never made a song again. I know goals. I feel
Speaker 2: like we could do it. I feel like if anyone
Speaker 2: could do it, it could be good. We gotta do it.
Speaker 2: So poor crew. When we dropped this song, y'all gotta
Speaker 2: support it. But I want to make like a shaking
Speaker 2: ass track. Me too. I want to twark song, yeah,
Speaker 2: like cause, I mean, but twark songs win Grammys. Yeah,
Speaker 2: look at Savage. No, I don't agree, y'all. I'm not
Speaker 2: saying that they don't win Grammys. I ain't agree with
Speaker 2: you one hundred percent. I feel like we definitely have
Speaker 2: to make a twork song because what other type of
Speaker 2: songs we make. I mean, you be singing this shit?
Speaker 2: I guess I could, but I'll be saying, but I'll
Speaker 2: be singing this, but I'd be singing Okay, So they
Speaker 2: be having twark songs like you know, I can bet
Speaker 2: me on a chorus like remember that song we was
Speaker 2: talking about the other day's Big Bank and Candy, Oh
Speaker 2: how you got it? You got my bath me? Okay,
Speaker 2: tried up? Try up? Yeah. So and we was mad
Speaker 2: when we seen that clip to shout out to Big
Speaker 2: Bank and Candy because they performed the song at twenty
Speaker 2: one Savage Birthday party, and I'm sorry, but the crowd
Speaker 2: was not hype enough for me. Y'all don't know. He
Speaker 2: y'all do not know, because let me talk about this song.
Speaker 2: This song came out when I was still living in Houston,
Speaker 2: and this is like at a point where, like when
Speaker 2: you weren't in Atlanta, you wanted to be in Atlanta
Speaker 2: so bad. Like when this song dropped, it changed the world. Indeed, Okay,
Speaker 2: won't you with my pivot tried out the world? It
Speaker 2: changed our world? Shout out to big Bank. Don't do that.
Speaker 2: I'm doing nothing, I say, but changed the world. When
Speaker 2: I think about songs that change the world, I think
Speaker 2: about where are the world right? I think about what's
Speaker 2: that song by Whitney Houston. No, I think about that.
Speaker 2: I think about Thriller. I think about cash flow I needed,
Speaker 2: and I think about try it out. Those are the
Speaker 2: songs When I think about songs that changed me, I
Speaker 2: think about those songs. I'm telling you mine, I'm telling
Speaker 2: your mine. Okay, anyways, bro back to what I was saying.
Speaker 2: So I brought that song up because I feel like
Speaker 2: that's how our song was. Yeah, like don't need to
Speaker 2: be we need we need a Tovin girls. Ain't he's
Speaker 2: not about to come to no studio with us?
Speaker 3: Why not?
Speaker 1: I think he will immature.
Speaker 2: Speak for yourself. I've been in the stool before. Do
Speaker 2: you have a song? Yes, I told you I had
Speaker 2: a song with b King Or I mean that somebody
Speaker 2: my mama heard it, my sister. That's crazy. Three people
Speaker 2: heard the song and two of them dead naze, damn,
Speaker 2: dark humor leaks, dark storry. You know what we were
Speaker 2: talking about dark in the comments, like these old songs
Speaker 2: like lift this serious. So I was talking about dark
Speaker 2: humor the other day with my best friend killer right,
Speaker 2: So because we had saw somebody on Facebook, they made
Speaker 2: a dark joke and it reminded me of that time,
Speaker 2: like this guy not this guy, like my ex had
Speaker 2: came to my house and I lived in my old
Speaker 2: apartment and obviously my mom, I have my mom and
Speaker 2: an urn whatever. So I have like this thing where
Speaker 2: you walk in, it's like like my decorations, and she's
Speaker 2: just like, you know, she's sitting right there with her
Speaker 2: picture and like things that people sit me, you know,
Speaker 2: sitting all around it. So like when he had walked in,
Speaker 2: you know, he just walked in and we were just talking.
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, you're not gonna speak to my
Speaker 2: mama and he was like what And I was like, damn,
Speaker 2: my mam is sitting right there. And he was like,
Speaker 2: that's not funny. I just think that you need to
Speaker 2: work through these feelings. I was like, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 2: speak to my mother that we're fun. You're no fun,
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I hate people cannot pick up
Speaker 2: on the joke. I like, literally, those are the worst
Speaker 2: type of people. Yeah, we're making a joke and then
Speaker 2: people can't pick up on it and they make it
Speaker 2: like a serious so awkward I'm kidding.
Speaker 1: He was like, you need to work through these emotions.
Speaker 2: Okay, you need to work on your ass my door
Speaker 2: and he need to go, and he did because yeah, no.
Speaker 1: I feel like we both kind of got like a
Speaker 1: little dark humor.
Speaker 2: I think our humor is so bad that if people laugh.
Speaker 1: That horrible quick, we wouldnts.
Speaker 2: We can't talk about it. It's a lot of stuff
Speaker 2: that we left at that we can't talk about. So
Speaker 2: what have you been up to? Let's do a ketchup first,
Speaker 2: cause I have to say something else too. Let's do
Speaker 2: a ketchup what you've been up to now, you being
Speaker 2: I been good, but I was see you were seen
Speaker 2: I was. I mean, I feel like I'm just kind
Speaker 2: of like getting it back together, like getting back to myself.
Speaker 2: But I don't know. And I hate when I get
Speaker 2: seek cause I never get sick. Like when I said,
Speaker 2: I never get set. I heard it in your voice
Speaker 2: when I called you, like, I feel like you can
Speaker 2: still hear it a little bit, a little bit, a
Speaker 2: little bit because I still was kind of coughing a
Speaker 2: little bit this morning.
Speaker 1: You're like, cain't on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just sounded and real nasally it was yeah,
Speaker 2: Like I don't know. So I had went to Houston
Speaker 2: for my mom's birthday. No fights is so no fights
Speaker 2: for I don't know because last time when y'all went
Speaker 2: to the g Z concert, they got real sticky in
Speaker 2: the field. Oh, but I've been to Houston again, Helo,
Speaker 2: Tom since I just had to make sure that you
Speaker 2: wasn't out there scrapping and I wasn't with the people
Speaker 2: I was fighting with. Although I didn't fight, I wasn't fighting.
Speaker 2: I did not participate in the foolishness because when the
Speaker 2: videos was.
Speaker 1: On TikTok going viral. Remember people was in.
Speaker 2: The comics like that, and I was just standing in
Speaker 2: there looking repose. Oh my god, like get me out
Speaker 2: of here. But you know, I had to ride for
Speaker 2: my people though. But don't get me wrong though about
Speaker 2: that action. We know, we know about that action.
Speaker 1: But you're like, I do.
Speaker 2: I think I'm like a little pit bull. Yeah, And
Speaker 2: I'm like a great name. I'm like big for no
Speaker 2: reason because I'm not giving Yeah, like I'm definitely I'm
Speaker 2: the one who'll be ready to fight. I'd be ready
Speaker 2: to fight about legs. Something happened the other day and
Speaker 2: I was so mad when we was on the phone.
Speaker 2: I can't remember. You was telling me about something that
Speaker 2: I was so mad and you was like, calm down,
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I don't know what it was.
Speaker 1: I think was he I don't know, but.
Speaker 2: You know what, I think we were talking about that
Speaker 2: old situation that had happened. We were talking about that
Speaker 2: weird girl okay, yeah, and I was like, damn, I
Speaker 2: haven't heard that name in the years. But you know,
Speaker 2: I've realized, like me, I just don't like fighting. I
Speaker 2: don't like confrontation. It's so funny when I think about
Speaker 2: my friend, one of my closest friends, Schedule.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Schedule.
Speaker 2: One time we was at the club and we heard
Speaker 2: gunshots and this girl was like, girl, hold on, let's
Speaker 2: go see what's happening. I said, bitch, I'm going. I ran,
Speaker 2: she said. She turned around. All she see was the
Speaker 2: back of my head. Babby, I don't like that girl.
Speaker 1: That's like me.
Speaker 2: I don't get me wrong. If I hear some gunshots,
Speaker 2: I'm a rain. I remember one time, shout out to
Speaker 2: my best friend Lyn because I remember one time we
Speaker 2: had went out and it was like gunshots and she
Speaker 2: ran towards you cause she was like, drell, Wait, my
Speaker 2: friend is over there. What are you gonna do? Get
Speaker 2: shot too? Wonder woman? Look, why would you run over
Speaker 2: there towards the gun? Lenny, It's crazy. You've gotta love her.
Speaker 2: I gotta love her. But now I was gonna ask
Speaker 2: you a question, okay, because I had seen something online
Speaker 2: recently where it said non confrontational people are the worst
Speaker 2: type of people.
Speaker 1: Do you believe that?
Speaker 2: I'm you know what I think in my as i've
Speaker 2: gotten older, Yes and no, because On one end, I
Speaker 2: believe in waiting till that person is ready to talk
Speaker 2: because I've realized, don't force me to have a conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but also, you can't avoid the conversation forever. Now. If
Speaker 2: this person wants to wait to have a conversation, cool,
Speaker 2: and they're telling you, Hey, I'm not in the mind's
Speaker 2: space to talk right now, but eventually, yes, I do
Speaker 2: want to talk about it. Just give me some time,
Speaker 2: that's okay. But if they're just avoiding it and they're like, hey, girl,
Speaker 2: what's up, what's tea? And they're trying to act like
Speaker 2: nothing happened, then that gets a little weird. I think
Speaker 2: I used to avoid conflict and confrontation, but now I've learned, Hey,
Speaker 2: I gotta give me some time to calm down. I
Speaker 2: need to think about things so I can approach the
Speaker 2: situation logically. Because I am very sensitive and I am
Speaker 2: very emotional. So I don't think they're the worst. I
Speaker 2: think they're just people who don't understand how to approach conflict. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's what they basically was saying, though they were like,
Speaker 2: non confrontational people are the worst because they don't know
Speaker 2: how to have the conversation, and then it ends up
Speaker 2: creating a lot of resentment, yeah, and built up and
Speaker 2: pent up frustration, and it turns into like passive aggressive
Speaker 2: oh yeah, versus people who are just like, look, beach right,
Speaker 2: you got me fucked up, but.
Speaker 1: I don't know whatever the issue is.
Speaker 2: I don't like people who were like, okay, let's talk
Speaker 2: about it. No, we need to talk about this now.
Speaker 2: No wait, wait, like we don't got to talk about
Speaker 2: this now. Let's just wait till I've calmed down, You've
Speaker 2: calmed down, and we can both have a logical conversation.
Speaker 2: So that's real. I did it to my mama to
Speaker 2: like a few weeks ago, you made her talk you
Speaker 2: because she had called me while I was out and
Speaker 2: she was like, I need to talk to you about something.
Speaker 1: And then she was like, wait are you out?
Speaker 2: And I was like yes, and she was like, well,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just call you when you get She was like,
Speaker 2: call me when you get home. And I was like, no,
Speaker 2: what's up. What's the problem? You having a lamb charge
Speaker 2: she was? She was like, no, you're out. I said,
Speaker 2: I could step outside real quick. So I remember last
Speaker 2: time we had a little test and I was like
Speaker 2: I was at my manhouse. I was just trying to relax.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I remember that. You was like, hey, what's up. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because we need to talk about yesterday because obviously yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm like I was like, obviously you wasn't gonna call me.
Speaker 2: You was like, yes, I was. I was like, you
Speaker 2: know you.
Speaker 1: Like three days later.
Speaker 2: Okay, But I needed that time. I just wanted to
Speaker 2: have a good Sometimes it's always on the floor with me.
Speaker 2: It was like, it's on my mind. I gotta get
Speaker 2: it off my chase money because you have you coach
Speaker 2: witch what you mean, Like you know how you hear
Speaker 2: your mama she's on like your mama talk to you.
Speaker 2: She'd be like, hey, what's up, and then she get
Speaker 2: on the phone with her the bill company. High I
Speaker 2: need to call about my bill. But you code switching
Speaker 2: away to where like I know when you mean Besney's
Speaker 2: and you ready to talk, you'd be like, hey, what's
Speaker 2: up you normally, because so you know how you walk
Speaker 2: when your booty be twisted. That's just how like I
Speaker 2: know I can look at your body and tell when
Speaker 2: you're mad, because like you already walk with that little
Speaker 2: booty twist, but when that booty twisted extra hard. I
Speaker 2: was like, ooh, she mad as fuck beach. Whoe did
Speaker 2: it now? Because and then you walk like with yall
Speaker 2: nose in the air, Hey, y'all, what's the what's the
Speaker 2: It's very like hey, I'd be like, oh, like when
Speaker 2: you walk through that double doors, I'm like, let's see
Speaker 2: what we getting today. If it's like hey y'all, I'm
Speaker 2: like yes, Like when you be like, what's up, hey.
Speaker 1: Tad, what are we drinking?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Girl, I need a shot cuz then she'll give
Speaker 2: everybody a hug. I'll be like, hey, when I when
Speaker 2: I'm mad at you, you cannot get a hood. For god,
Speaker 2: You'd be like, and they lets so annoying because she'll
Speaker 2: be like, I didn't get a hug, bitch. I know.
Speaker 2: But sometimes even when we're not mad at each other
Speaker 2: or not, you just still don't be hugging me. But
Speaker 2: I think that's my fault though, you yeah, because I
Speaker 2: feel like you're not an affectionate you know I used
Speaker 2: to be. I feel like I'm different. I will say this.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm different with my different like with
Speaker 2: different people. But it's because I've learned to accept what
Speaker 2: different people need and what they're okay with. Like me
Speaker 2: and you, I think it's an unspoken thing. We know
Speaker 2: we love each we know that we care about each
Speaker 2: other and stuff, but we just never really been the
Speaker 2: type of friends to like be like get off the
Speaker 2: phone and be.
Speaker 1: Like, okay, love you bye.
Speaker 2: We say every now. I mean we do what we
Speaker 2: say it every once in a while, but like I
Speaker 2: have some friends where like every time we talk they say,
Speaker 2: you know, Like with me and Jordan, every time we talk,
Speaker 2: he says every time, or I say it first, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Or same thing with Lenn me
Speaker 2: and Lin every time we talk, she said first, So
Speaker 2: I say it first before we get off the phone.
Speaker 2: And some friends are like very much huggers and stuff.
Speaker 2: You just never really been that way. So I feel
Speaker 2: like over the years it's been like a conditioning type thing.
Speaker 2: So it's like it's almost sometimes kind of weird to me.
Speaker 2: Whenever I do, I don't yet, like right, like sometimes
Speaker 2: I guess when I come in and I hug because
Speaker 2: sometimes people are hugging me first if that makes in
Speaker 2: and so then I'm hugging people in there, and you
Speaker 2: be right here, and I'll be like, go hey girl,
Speaker 2: But I know it's something I consciously try to work
Speaker 2: it because I'm that way like Lauren and Belin. Those
Speaker 2: are my two friends. Like we get off the phone,
Speaker 2: we say I love it. Yeah with Killer, Me and
Speaker 2: Killa barely say I love you, and I think that's
Speaker 2: how we are. But I'm learning to be more emotional
Speaker 2: because I told you, not emotional, more saying I love
Speaker 2: you to my friends and being more physical because that
Speaker 2: was something that I let somebody break me and I
Speaker 2: stopped being that way because I was in a horrible
Speaker 2: relationship where he just wasn't and I was like, well,
Speaker 2: maybe I need to be that way. And so that's
Speaker 2: something that I'm trying to get out of and I
Speaker 2: need to be more affectionate.
Speaker 1: I need to tell people I love you.
Speaker 2: It's like I said, Lauren always says I love you
Speaker 2: before we get off the phone. Bling is the same way.
Speaker 2: So I'm learning to be more like, Okay, I need
Speaker 2: to tell my people I love them, even like little
Speaker 2: shit like sending people like cute memes and stuff on
Speaker 2: like TikTok or Instagram that's like just send this to
Speaker 2: your best friend if you love them, or little stuff
Speaker 2: like that. Like I'm just learning to like be more
Speaker 2: affectionate and tell people that you love them, because that's
Speaker 2: something that I do struggle with. No, yeah, I know,
Speaker 2: and I feel like because I've been knowing you for
Speaker 2: so long, like it's for I guess for me, it's
Speaker 2: just become like, you know, a part of our relationship.
Speaker 2: Like I don't take it personally because I'm like that
Speaker 2: with everybody. Yeah, because you like that with everybody. But
Speaker 2: I think that's why. But I'm gonna I'm gonna do
Speaker 2: a better job because that now that you said that,
Speaker 2: they're gonna sound rude a little bit. No, it's not rude,
Speaker 2: but I'm saying is sound. I don't think you think
Speaker 2: it's rude, but I'm saying, like, you know how you
Speaker 2: say stuff out loud and you be like, oh, they're
Speaker 2: gonna sound real a little bit like that because they
Speaker 2: actually do, like I hug everybody else, but I don't thinking.
Speaker 2: But also I'm glad we're talking about this because I
Speaker 2: was talking to be Laying the other day. We're actually
Speaker 2: gonna have her on the show soon too, about the
Speaker 2: importance of community, because I know everybody says, oh, you
Speaker 2: need to learn how to be by yourself. You need
Speaker 2: to learn to be alone. But one thing that I realized,
Speaker 2: like living in Atlanta, I don't have community out here
Speaker 2: outside of you, Like I'm talking about real community, Like
Speaker 2: whenever I'm going through shit, I don't have nobody here.
Speaker 2: I don't have family here. And like I said, outside
Speaker 2: of you, like I have friends here, you know, like that,
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that. I'd be like, Hey, I'm kind
Speaker 2: of going through something. Can we go talk or have
Speaker 2: drinks so they'll get me out the house. But to
Speaker 2: say I have somebody where I can just go lay
Speaker 2: on the couch and just stay for a couple of
Speaker 2: days and just cry and being my feelings and they
Speaker 2: cooking and making sure I'm straight, I really don't have that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So it's so important whenever you're going through these seasons
Speaker 2: of change and seasons of things, Like I don't care
Speaker 2: what anybody says. Being alone is okay to a certain extent,
Speaker 2: Like sometimes you need people to rally around you and
Speaker 2: pick you up during those dark days, and it'd be hard,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I think I've learned to
Speaker 2: isolate myself so much so when I go through things,
Speaker 2: I tend to isolate and just like depend on myself
Speaker 2: to get out of these Yeah, but you can't do that,
Speaker 2: you know. That's why I always feel like I called
Speaker 2: a check on you and stuff. So if I don't
Speaker 2: hear from you for like two days or so, then
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, let me call it licks and
Speaker 2: checks on her, because I always know when you be
Speaker 2: upset too, Like I feel like we just know each other,
Speaker 2: like whenever you come up here because one thing caught you.
Speaker 2: When you be having shit going out, you be very disheveled.
Speaker 2: I be scatter brain. Yes, I be all over the place.
Speaker 2: You can't focus your mind, just be a billion different
Speaker 2: places and you could like see it on your face.
Speaker 2: You be moving real fast, walking real well. You walk fast.
Speaker 2: You know that. I used to say that when I
Speaker 2: worked at my restaurant. What they used to be like, Lex,
Speaker 2: are you in the weeds? Like when you work in restaurants,
Speaker 2: that's a question you asked with somebody's behind. They be like,
Speaker 2: are you in the weeds? And they would always ask
Speaker 2: me that because I walk fast? You do you do?
Speaker 2: You walk fast? Normally? You be mad? You be walking
Speaker 2: real fast, and you know I'm pigeon told like that
Speaker 2: three times. You know, I have a little pigeon toe.
Speaker 1: Now what was the nameborhood movie?
Speaker 2: Little feet, happy feet? That is you for sure. But
Speaker 2: you just be disheveled though. You just be all over
Speaker 2: the place, you can't find nothing. You be like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, where did I put this? Where did I
Speaker 2: put this? And not just be knowing you be having
Speaker 2: a whole Yeah, yeah, that is how I am. That
Speaker 2: is how But I'm working on it, like I said, Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like I don't want to be on the phone. I
Speaker 2: don't want to I wanting to get but I will say.
Speaker 2: You'll be like, okay, are you all ready? Okay, what's
Speaker 2: up y'all? He's sugar, XP, It's time to get to it.
Speaker 2: You turn it on for the camera. I think we
Speaker 2: both like that though. Oh now, one thing about me,
Speaker 2: y'all and I love the poor crew, y'all will never
Speaker 2: know what I'm going through on that unless I tweet
Speaker 2: something or I get on Live and I say something
Speaker 2: when y'all watch poor minds, y'all will literally never know
Speaker 2: I'm going through it. Yes, I think I'll talk about
Speaker 2: it like I feel like now what I've been going through,
Speaker 2: Like I'm on the other side of it, like my
Speaker 2: little little bouts that I go through, Like I'm on
Speaker 2: the other side of it now. This morning, I took
Speaker 2: too much espresso today. So if y'all know, I'm just
Speaker 2: a little.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I took too much expresso.
Speaker 2: I think he asked me. So when I ordered the drink,
Speaker 2: I ordered an extra shot. I don't know what I
Speaker 2: put on there, but he was like, like, you said
Speaker 2: you wanted four shots of espresso, right, And I was
Speaker 2: on the phone. I think I said yeah, And I
Speaker 2: think he put four shots of espresso in there. That's
Speaker 2: a lot. It's a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot over there, like you know already.
Speaker 2: So anyways, we're gonna get really quick, Tie. Sorry, let
Speaker 2: me get to it before we forget so Tie, before
Speaker 2: we get into the drink. You know what I've really
Speaker 2: been considering. I think we have to do an episode
Speaker 2: where Tie is on the couch because the people been asking.
Speaker 2: I think we're gonna do that pretty so where we
Speaker 2: have you on the couch, give you a mic. It's
Speaker 2: time to chat with Tie because the people been asking.
Speaker 2: And one thing about it, I love to listen to
Speaker 2: the audience on what they want to see. Andy you
Speaker 2: got some ride or die. Yeah. I was at Howard
Speaker 2: home coming a couple of weeks ago and it was
Speaker 2: people walking up to me like, oh my god, I
Speaker 2: know this is weird, but I love you on poor
Speaker 2: mine Tie, You're sorry, You're also you're a household name,
Speaker 2: taking Startender to a new level. I'm telling you and BERNICEA.
Speaker 2: Gracie don't know about this start Tender now nothing on you.
Speaker 2: So I think we are gonna do an episode. It's high.
Speaker 2: I just got to figure out like what that looks
Speaker 2: like and how we want to do it and things
Speaker 2: that we want to talk about, because I know people
Speaker 2: do want to get to know you.
Speaker 1: But I think it'll be fun. I just feel because.
Speaker 2: There's another episode that we're working on that's a little
Speaker 2: more person it's another episode yet I want to say
Speaker 2: that we're gonna drop before the New Years had warm
Speaker 2: me yes, because you gets the chatty bitch. It's another episode, yeah,
Speaker 2: that we're working on it. We're probably gonna drop before
Speaker 2: the end of the New Year. But it's gonna be
Speaker 2: very personal and it's gonna be like a really good episode.
Speaker 2: I think y'all are really gonna enjoy it, and I
Speaker 2: think it's gonna be the same thing we do an
Speaker 2: episode with you, like real personal with time. We'll have
Speaker 2: to have what's the girl y'all can really get. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so we're gonna have time. So y'all been asking, y'all
Speaker 2: get so anyway, we're drinking today. Okay, this is this one.
Speaker 2: It's called Nutty by Nature. I knew you was like that. Yes, perfect,
Speaker 2: the lines all does. So this one we have your
Speaker 2: spirit of choice, whether there's vodka, tequila. This will also
Speaker 2: be really good with like a bourbon or whiskey if
Speaker 2: you're at home.
Speaker 1: Well, we have some lime juice.
Speaker 2: We have some pistachio syrup, so that's what's given someone
Speaker 2: like kind of like that nuttiness and pistachio syrup in there.
Speaker 2: And then we added a little bit of anger store
Speaker 2: bitters just to kind of give it a little bit
Speaker 2: more of that herbal flavoring. And we garnish it with
Speaker 2: a toasted marshmallow because this bonfire season, can't wait to
Speaker 2: toast me some marshmallows and Graham crackers. Yes, yeah, so
Speaker 2: we have that one toasted with some marshmallows. And this
Speaker 2: is the Nutty by Nature. This is I really like this.
Speaker 2: I love drinks that like step outside of the box
Speaker 2: because I feel like, you know, every time you go
Speaker 2: out to have a drink, they have the same typical stuff,
Speaker 2: you know, I feel like this is something different, Like
Speaker 2: this is then if I ordered it on to me,
Speaker 2: you'll be like, I never tasted anything else before. I
Speaker 2: drink the same thing when I go out, and y'all,
Speaker 2: I messed up. I found a bar by my house
Speaker 2: that has filed all of titos. I'll be going getting slizzard.
Speaker 2: She do, and she don't never invite me because I
Speaker 2: just go real quick. I don't stay long. I stay
Speaker 2: for like thirty minutes. I get drunk. I say, bring
Speaker 2: me two double titos, So I'll be having two doubles
Speaker 2: twenty dollars. Oh no, that's okay, baby, you could leave
Speaker 2: me out. I'll be get mine. I'll be walking home
Speaker 2: like this. So yesterday and I know exactly what place
Speaker 2: she talking about. So yesterday I tried to go and
Speaker 2: try to get drunk. Yeah you know why I couldn't go.
Speaker 2: They had an active shooter. Oh yeah, yeah, it's so
Speaker 2: crazy because I started to go on a walk yesterday
Speaker 2: and then I ended up seeing the post on Instagram
Speaker 2: on Ato school and I was like, oh, never mind,
Speaker 2: because you know I'd be going on.
Speaker 1: My little walks around the neighborhood.
Speaker 2: I had actually went, you know, I was outside. Oh yes,
Speaker 2: and you know what, but before we get to the
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Speaker 2: wonder this with shooters, and I don't want to offend anybody.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be insensitive. I always wonder why
Speaker 2: when shooters go out and they do what they do,
Speaker 2: and then they do themselves. You know, you could have
Speaker 2: just skipped that part and just did yourself, Like why
Speaker 2: you gotta take do all this and then you're gonna
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Because I think it's just
Speaker 2: they want people to suffer with them that you know,
Speaker 2: they want to take people down. Weird, I mean, but
Speaker 2: that's just how people are by nature. You know, we
Speaker 2: talk about this all the time. I think that that's
Speaker 2: why when people are going through things, they spewed negativity
Speaker 2: and spewed line okay, because they want other people to
Speaker 2: and they want other people to feel it. So I
Speaker 2: feel like it's the same thing with that because for
Speaker 2: you to go and be an active shooter and you
Speaker 2: out shooting niggas for no reason. Wait, that was a
Speaker 2: little vulgar shooting in because they are they out shooting
Speaker 2: This is like okay, So I've been living in Midtown
Speaker 2: for a really long time. I've been living pretty in
Speaker 2: Midtown pretty much the whole time I've lived in Atlanta,
Speaker 2: so like seven years, because the first year I lived
Speaker 2: in Atlantic Station right there right which so pretty much
Speaker 2: the same area. So I have been living in Midtown
Speaker 2: for like seven years. And it's been like an active
Speaker 2: shooter in Midtown like three four times while I've been
Speaker 2: living there. That's crazy. That's a lot of time. And
Speaker 2: when I lived on the East Side, I was safe
Speaker 2: over there, remember know, you was not. I had an
Speaker 2: active shooter overs to be breaking I didn't feel it
Speaker 2: used to be. My car did not get broken into
Speaker 2: until I moved to Atlantic Station. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think a dude I was Dayton did that.
Speaker 3: Well.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna say nothing because last time I said,
Speaker 2: you got mad at me? What when I talked about
Speaker 2: Oh I did, yes, but yes I was poured in
Speaker 2: so I probably got offend you stop talking about where
Speaker 2: I live. I wasn't talking about where you live. I said,
Speaker 2: what happened? And you guys so mad at me? And
Speaker 2: I'll get mad at you. Was like when the cameras
Speaker 2: turned off. You was like, dre, we need to talk
Speaker 2: and I was like, what about what? And this is
Speaker 2: we used to really get drunks.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, what do you want to talk about?
Speaker 2: Because yeah, don't we talking about the east Side. But
Speaker 2: I wasn't. I wasn't. I was just saying my experience.
Speaker 2: You lived with me for a little bit. We used
Speaker 2: to have a ball okrry in my little apartment. That's
Speaker 2: why I was only there for a month. I had
Speaker 2: to get you on that was a nice accommodation. Your
Speaker 2: apartment was yours, the actual apartment, Like when you walked
Speaker 2: in the apartment, beautiful home, oh, beautiful gown. I remember
Speaker 2: when my mom came over for the first time. She
Speaker 2: was like, oh God, where are you living? And she
Speaker 2: walked in she was like, oh okay. That's how I felt.
Speaker 2: Sweat clutched my furls. But then when I walked in,
Speaker 2: I said, this is nice girl, fix this up real
Speaker 2: nice you did. But anyways, like I was saying, I
Speaker 2: didn't live in Midtown for a long time. And it's
Speaker 2: been active shooters in Midtown a few times, like last
Speaker 2: year around this time, it was an active shooter in
Speaker 2: Midtown last year around this time, and then about six
Speaker 2: months ago it was a shooting at the marta station.
Speaker 2: Somebody got shot. It's, oh, lord, what we're gonna do?
Speaker 3: Move?
Speaker 2: Do you think they should make guns? And then it's
Speaker 2: time for us to going on the girl street for
Speaker 2: yourself unless I buy a house, and I really don't
Speaker 2: want to buy a house in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: I want to buy a house in Houston.
Speaker 2: First. I want a farm. I want a farm. I
Speaker 2: just want a small farm in Atlanta wherever I build
Speaker 2: a house, Like, I need a garden. I need like
Speaker 2: three chickens, and I need like I don't need a
Speaker 2: cow because I don't drink milk and I don't. I'm
Speaker 2: not a big I'm not into that. I'm not into that.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to get into that business. I want
Speaker 2: to do things that I want to do. I want
Speaker 2: a few. Agriculture is a big market. It is, but
Speaker 2: I'm a lot of I get it. But if I
Speaker 2: do anything where I start to sell something, I give
Speaker 2: me a cow. You know, I always talk about him,
Speaker 2: Jason Murrad a one wagon. I got that in my pants. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I hate that. I nibbled, I nibbled, I nibbled on.
Speaker 2: But no, I'll say this if y'all always talk about
Speaker 2: Jason Moras all the time. Jason Moras was a popular singer.
Speaker 2: You remember that song? You don't remember? Okay, So anyways,
Speaker 2: Jason Moras, he was a singer. He probably still makes music,
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Basically, long story short. He has a
Speaker 2: avocado farm. And if y'all know how hard it is
Speaker 2: to grow an avocado tree, it's very hard. It takes
Speaker 2: seven years for you to grow a tree and for
Speaker 2: it to even have the fruit of it on there.
Speaker 2: It's very hard to grow an avocado tree from scratch.
Speaker 2: Most of the time, people get the plants and they
Speaker 2: already have one that's already growing. Anyways, fast forward, Jason Moras.
Speaker 2: He has an avocado farm and he supplies avocados on
Speaker 2: like the West Coast. So basically, like all the chipotles,
Speaker 2: all a bunch of farms out there, a bunch of
Speaker 2: grocery stores, and he's like a multi millionaire off avocado.
Speaker 2: So if anything, y'all might catch me with like a
Speaker 2: tomato farm avocado farm, but like animals, that's not true.
Speaker 2: But no, but if I sell some IRBs, I just
Speaker 2: sold a little weed before I sell some stage.
Speaker 1: When the fuck did you sell weed?
Speaker 2: I mean it wasn't like I was selling it selling it.
Speaker 2: I had some and I was just like, hey, you
Speaker 2: want this, I ain't gonna smoke it. And I had
Speaker 2: a crackhead that I worked with and she was like,
Speaker 2: I get that. And you was comfortable selling drugs to
Speaker 2: a crack How do you know she wouldn't have robbed
Speaker 2: I didn't sell because she was my coworker. She was like, bro,
Speaker 2: I need to smoke and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: got some because it was like something from the dude
Speaker 2: I was talking to at the time. And we wasn't
Speaker 2: talking no more. He had left it in the car
Speaker 2: and I was like, you want this much?
Speaker 1: And how much you sold it?
Speaker 2: And it was some ridgid too. I know she was mad.
Speaker 1: She was smoking straight.
Speaker 2: Boo boo, flex.
Speaker 1: You've lived so many different lives.
Speaker 2: Drug dealer.
Speaker 1: I was a drug I was a drug dealer, drug dealer.
Speaker 2: Wa ain't let me up? Okay, So y'all were trying this.
Speaker 2: So yeah, so it's the war, he shout out to warheads.
Speaker 1: War war war, War, war War.
Speaker 2: You said, warheads, it's war. I started war at war.
Speaker 2: That's wrong, I think. But anyways, this is extreme sours,
Speaker 2: extreme sours. So I used to eat these as a kid,
Speaker 2: but like, I haven't ate these in age long. What's
Speaker 2: other old candy? If it's still as sour that I
Speaker 2: used to eat? Ring pops? Rollos?
Speaker 1: Do y'all remember rollos? I used to eat rollers.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, rollos.
Speaker 1: Were so good.
Speaker 2: Ring pops, the sour punch straws I used to do.
Speaker 2: They were nasty, but it were fun. The pets candy, Oh,
Speaker 2: I never liked that. I never liked it, but.
Speaker 1: It was just fun.
Speaker 2: Sweet tarts, bubble tape, the but that's still candy that's
Speaker 2: still available. I'm talking about candy people. They still have pets.
Speaker 2: They still have pis for real. You can probably order
Speaker 2: it on one now. One candy that I used to
Speaker 2: eat all the time that's still avable. The cookies and cream.
Speaker 2: I used to love the cookies and cream candy but
Speaker 2: Hershe's yes, that's something I used to eat all the time.
Speaker 2: But you know what's crazy? As I've gotten older, y'all.
Speaker 2: I this is how I know age thing is real.
Speaker 2: I love crossword puzzles. I love paydays.
Speaker 1: I love a good pay day.
Speaker 2: My mom love payday because me and your mom are
Speaker 2: damn near the same age at this point. No, y'all, nice,
Speaker 2: close enough. I'm ready, So let's try these chairs. Black
Speaker 2: cherry ready, and I have watermelon. Mhm mm hmm.
Speaker 1: That's all.
Speaker 2: Murky. But you know what, it ain't that it's tolerable,
Speaker 2: but like I feel like it burned my taste buds
Speaker 2: off for me. I still eight nerds, a lot the
Speaker 2: nerds clusters. I'm not gonna finish it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my eyes started watering.
Speaker 2: I'm all right, m m. It's not good though. It's
Speaker 2: not a good candy. War heads aren't good. This is
Speaker 2: definitely for the kids. I feel like it's good. Especially
Speaker 2: it's good once you get the sour off. But that
Speaker 2: sour is like lingering. But anyways, let's get to these topics.
Speaker 2: Got into the first topic. But can I go ahead
Speaker 2: and get another shot? And I forgot to talk about
Speaker 2: and I didn't even finish talking about me being sick.
Speaker 2: I will talk about you. I will talk let's talk
Speaker 2: about that. And then now I feel a little bit
Speaker 2: of good because I was in Houston, and you know,
Speaker 2: I was outside and I just feel like everything be
Speaker 2: outside in Houston. It be all type of stuff in
Speaker 2: the EU. So I called something and came back. Thank you.
Speaker 2: I don't think it was contagious though, because I've been
Speaker 2: around numerous people didn't. Nobody got it and got my
Speaker 2: cold or whatever. But yeah, I've been doing the de
Speaker 2: talks for the past seven day. I really I was
Speaker 2: gonna try to do thirty. But clearly that's all right,
Speaker 2: that's all right, that's all right. Well you look good,
Speaker 2: you look thank you. I normally always do like a
Speaker 2: little forty day. Is this the first time you record? No,
Speaker 2: you recorded with the Bob for Halloween?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did thank you. The Bob is Bob it is.
Speaker 2: This is gonna be the last episode we did, though
Speaker 2: I'm switching to hair done. I might go to I
Speaker 2: might by the time y'all, by the time this episode drops,
Speaker 2: which I'm kind of happy that we're kind of behind
Speaker 2: on episodes in the can because this is dropping very soon.
Speaker 2: So by the time y'all see this, I might might
Speaker 2: possibly be in Barbados with Killa next week or by
Speaker 2: the time y'all see this. So I'm thinking about getting
Speaker 2: my hair braided real quick. Bid. Yeah, I'm gonna do
Speaker 2: the Bob again. The bib bohs. I need to have
Speaker 2: a viobe. What's eating? Yeah? I need I need my
Speaker 2: eat pray love moment for a second, I feel you
Speaker 2: on that we need to move. That's how licks I said.
Speaker 2: We need to move somewhere for like a month, but
Speaker 2: like ould get out. But I'm kind of think of
Speaker 2: where I want to go, because I want to go
Speaker 2: somewhere where it's about like wellness and mental health and
Speaker 2: eating good, exercising and just tuning in with oneself. Because
Speaker 2: for a while I did want to do the Miami
Speaker 2: for a month or yeah, I would like to go there.
Speaker 2: But even if we do something domestically, maybe like an
Speaker 2: Arizona like Sedona or somewhere, I'm like, yeah, like somewhere
Speaker 2: that's just like I can just relax. So I've really
Speaker 2: been thinking about like where I want to go, because
Speaker 2: wherever I want to do like, I want it to
Speaker 2: be intention It's not like an outside thing. It's a
Speaker 2: more like internal, let me focus and get myself together
Speaker 2: type thing. So I'm still definitely thinking about it because
Speaker 2: I still want to do it.
Speaker 1: I think we both should.
Speaker 2: But I just want to be intentional about wherever I
Speaker 2: go and make sure I have the resources to do
Speaker 2: the things that I want to do and need to do.
Speaker 1: That's like, you know, we're not getting any younger, you
Speaker 1: might as well.
Speaker 2: We ain't got nothing to lose. We can all and
Speaker 2: we got places in Atlanta. We can always come back. Facts.
Speaker 2: All right, Let's get into these topics today, all right,
Speaker 2: all right, all right, So I want to just talk
Speaker 2: about this today. Obviously, this is a hot topic that's
Speaker 2: going on right now, and I wanted to discuss it.
Speaker 2: One thing that I say, me, Andre are not TikTokers.
Speaker 2: We don't be on TikTok, But I love because because
Speaker 2: TikTok beyond us, there's always you know, I searched poor
Speaker 2: mine on TikTok the other day. There's so many videos
Speaker 2: of people like breaking down poor minds, like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: the poor minds. Girlies responded all the poor minds. Oh
Speaker 2: if I work for pr for poor minds, this is what.
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all, I'll be seeing y'all. Y'all, don't
Speaker 2: be thinking I'll be seeing y'all, but I be on TikTok.
Speaker 2: So anyway, small but anyway, So basically there's a discourse
Speaker 2: on TikTok because Raymonte and Aliah J had a little speck. Now,
Speaker 2: if you know, if you're a makeup girly and you're
Speaker 2: into the makeup, and obviously I'm just gonna run down
Speaker 2: the situation, but there's another topic that I want to
Speaker 2: talk about that's more broad. But basically, Aliah J is
Speaker 2: an og YouTuber. She was the it girl at one
Speaker 2: point doing makeup blogs, all of that, all of that
Speaker 2: I was. I'm still a fan of Aliah J. Love
Speaker 2: her content, loved her content, all that good stuff. So
Speaker 2: Aliah J had this friend named Justin and he used
Speaker 2: to always appear on her YouTube and appear with her
Speaker 2: when she did her blogs. So recently, I guess they
Speaker 2: were doing like a makeup to toyal Q and A,
Speaker 2: and they were talking about influencers then versus influencers now
Speaker 2: and Justin God, he went on a little tangent about
Speaker 2: how being an influencer then in like twenty fifteen sixteen
Speaker 2: you had to actually be talented and versus now you
Speaker 2: can walk up to people in Walmart and be like, oh,
Speaker 2: you look cute, ma'am, you look beautiful today and get
Speaker 2: a million views on TikTok, and now you're viral. Obviously
Speaker 2: that was shade towards Raymonte, and Raymonte responded and he
Speaker 2: went off, so I love Raymonte again, and I want
Speaker 2: to touch on that on the show. Mother. I love Raymonte,
Speaker 2: and so I love him and his friends. I love
Speaker 2: him and his friend, but I also love Aleah j
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie I'm not too familiar. I like
Speaker 2: Aleah Jason, I love Aleah j I'm not too familiar
Speaker 2: with Justin And that's no shade because I never watched
Speaker 2: Aliah's blogs. I would more so watch her makeup like
Speaker 2: the girl taught me how to beat the face her
Speaker 2: and Jackie Aina. That's how I learned my makeup. So
Speaker 2: I'm not too familiar with Justin, but i will say this.
Speaker 2: I want to talk about Raymonte first because what I
Speaker 2: do notice online and like I said, I am a
Speaker 2: thirty five year old untie, Okay, I have nephews. I
Speaker 2: am a grown, grown woman, raised the generation. I didn't
Speaker 2: raise the generation though, because I was never an it
Speaker 2: girl back then. I think I am a little bit
Speaker 2: of an it girl now, but it's because I have
Speaker 2: wisdom and knowledge and I can spread it. So me
Speaker 2: being somebody that is in the space of content creating,
Speaker 2: I'll say this and I'll tell y'all while Raymonte bothers y'all.
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying he bothers Justin. I just I'm
Speaker 2: talking to everybody. And this cause gonna lead into the topic.
Speaker 2: Raymonte bothers a lot of people because he is one
Speaker 2: of the very few that are in this circle who
Speaker 2: can do whatever the hell they want to do. And brands,
Speaker 2: major brands still love them because a lot of people
Speaker 2: told Cardi, oh, you're gonna have to clean it up. No,
Speaker 2: she didn't gloilla, Oh, you're gonna have to clean it up.
Speaker 2: No she didn't Raymonte clean it up. No he don't.
Speaker 2: And a lot of it's a select people in this
Speaker 2: life who are chosen to walk that path, but that
Speaker 2: path is for them. We are not going to see
Speaker 2: too many people that have to move like a Beyonce
Speaker 2: and everything's perfect like a Kim Kardashian. Not in twenty
Speaker 2: twenty four. I mean, well, I don't think Kim kardashi
Speaker 2: needs a good example, though I think she have because
Speaker 2: to me, she's another person who move how she wanted them.
Speaker 2: But I don't think she does because I do. Every
Speaker 2: but everything that Kim Kardashian posts now is strategic. I think.
Speaker 2: I think with age, I think with age and becoming
Speaker 2: a mother. I think that she cares way more now
Speaker 2: about how things look right, right right, But I think
Speaker 2: at one point in time she did not care, and
Speaker 2: she did exactly what she wanted. I mean that's fair.
Speaker 2: But back on the spect So, how do you feel
Speaker 2: about how Raymonte is perceiving how other people perceive him?
Speaker 2: I like Rae, but I also like people who are
Speaker 2: authentically themselves. I agree. I like people that don't conform. Yeah,
Speaker 2: people that don't conform to what society thinks that they're
Speaker 2: supposed to be. If you have an opinion and this
Speaker 2: is how you feel, you stand on how you feel
Speaker 2: and this is what I said, and this is what
Speaker 2: I mean, and this is what it is. And whoever
Speaker 2: don't like you, you don't like you. But I appreciate
Speaker 2: the people that do. I like the fact that he
Speaker 2: lives and thrives and who he is and people either
Speaker 2: have to accept it or they don't. And that's the
Speaker 2: thing about it. Like I always say, you don't have
Speaker 2: to follow people, you don't have to watch them, you
Speaker 2: don't have to look at their content if you don't
Speaker 2: like it.
Speaker 1: All of the outrage that.
Speaker 2: People be having when it comes to him and when
Speaker 2: it comes to other influencers that are like him, I
Speaker 2: think it's just ridiculous because at the end of the day,
Speaker 2: you don't have to consume content that you don't like.
Speaker 2: I think he is a breath of fresh air. I
Speaker 2: think he says a lot of controversial things that a
Speaker 2: lot of people won't say, but he be telling the
Speaker 2: truth what people be thinking. They just ain't bold enough
Speaker 2: to type it. And I feel like the audience that
Speaker 2: is meant for him is always going to gravitate towards him,
Speaker 2: and I feel like the opportunities that are meant for
Speaker 2: him are always going to gravitate towards him, because what's
Speaker 2: for you is for you. I think a lot of
Speaker 2: people don't like people who are bold. I think that
Speaker 2: makes people feel some type of way when people are
Speaker 2: so bold that they can just stand strongly in who
Speaker 2: they are and what they believe in in their opinions
Speaker 2: and not give two folks about what other people think
Speaker 2: because most people care. And I think we're in this
Speaker 2: whole era of influencers wanting to model after other influencers
Speaker 2: who are already successful. So it's like, oh, well, let
Speaker 2: me try to be more like and I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: say any names, but like, let me try to be
Speaker 2: more like this person because they give a soft life
Speaker 2: a study. Let me seriously, let me be more like
Speaker 2: this person because they're a little more docile and submissive.
Speaker 2: That's a good word. Let me write that down. Nick girls,
Speaker 2: shut up, but no, for real though, It's like, I
Speaker 2: think we live in this era of people trying to
Speaker 2: water themselves down to be what they think they because
Speaker 2: they see what other people are doing to get the
Speaker 2: brand deals. And I think Raymonte be like, fuck that,
Speaker 2: I'm me and the brand deals this for me. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna get them, and if I don't get one, I
Speaker 2: don't get it. But I'm still gonna be me online
Speaker 2: and I'm still gonna say what the fuck I want
Speaker 2: to say.
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna do what the fuck I want to do,
Speaker 1: and I'm proud and loud about who I am.
Speaker 2: And let me say this too. I want you to
Speaker 2: stop trying to make people that are special and know
Speaker 2: they're special feel like they're not special, because I hate
Speaker 2: when people even see us or see another influence that
Speaker 2: they be like, they're not doing anything special. It doesn't
Speaker 2: matter what they're doing. We ain't doing nothing special then
Speaker 2: why you know, Well, let me say it's about It's
Speaker 2: not about them not doing anything special, because maybe I'm not.
Speaker 2: I've been on the internet for the past month because
Speaker 2: I spit out a fucking cookie. Wasn't anything special, no,
Speaker 2: but people found it funny. Some people were mad at me.
Speaker 2: I mean, but if they would out a cookie exactly.
Speaker 2: So stop trying to make people feel like they aren't
Speaker 2: special when they are. Raymonte is special and that's just
Speaker 2: and that just is what it. Some people are just special.
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying nobody is better than other people,
Speaker 2: because you can find somebody who works a nine to
Speaker 2: five job and they are special in that field and
Speaker 2: they're gonna work their way up to be very high
Speaker 2: in this company because they're special at what they do.
Speaker 2: When nobody is better than other people, but some people
Speaker 2: are highly favored. People are chosen in certain fields in
Speaker 2: their calling. That's what I'm saying. Yeah, But at the
Speaker 2: end of the day, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I hate talking about these because my opinions on certain
Speaker 2: things very comfortable. No, I feel like everybody has something
Speaker 2: special about them. But what I'm saying, yeah, but I
Speaker 2: don't think is necessarily what's gonna I don't think it's
Speaker 2: gonna necessarily set you apart or make you reach. I
Speaker 2: think some people what makes them special is what's gonna
Speaker 2: make them reach. Yeah, And that's what I'm saying. Everybody
Speaker 2: has something special about them, And since we're talking about Raymonde,
Speaker 2: what makes him special is why he's so successful. Some
Speaker 2: people are special in other ways. But I say I'm
Speaker 2: that not going to make you success, right. I say
Speaker 2: all that to say it stop trying to take away
Speaker 2: from people. We are in a different era. So that's
Speaker 2: gonna get into the topic of influencers in twenty fifteen
Speaker 2: versus influencers.
Speaker 1: Now, what is the criteria?
Speaker 2: Do I believe that in twenty fifteen and sixteen and
Speaker 2: before that you had to do something different? Yes, but
Speaker 2: that was just the times then. That doesn't mean you
Speaker 2: aren't talented. I think it still takes talent to be
Speaker 2: an influencer.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 2: I think back in the day, people were more authentic. Honestly,
Speaker 2: that's the difference. Back then and now. To me, people
Speaker 2: were way more authentic. People were doing what the fuck
Speaker 2: they wanted to do with their content and just posting right,
Speaker 2: posting because this is what I want to do, this
Speaker 2: is what I'm this is my blog, this is what
Speaker 2: I'm doing today. They wasn't thinking twice about it. Oh
Speaker 2: let me post this makeup tutorial? Not thinking twice about it? Yeah. People,
Speaker 2: Now everybody is trying to be like the people that
Speaker 2: are successful, and it's annoying. It's fucked because where is
Speaker 2: the originality. Nobody is original anymore. All they do is
Speaker 2: copy off of what they see popular influencers, and it's working.
Speaker 2: It works. It's a lot of people who copy people's content.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I'll be scrolling TikTok
Speaker 2: all day every day. There's this content creator. She has
Speaker 2: like sixteen million followers, not kidding. They caught her stealing
Speaker 2: a smaller creator. This girl has like ten thousand followers.
Speaker 2: They caught her with like three or four videos. And
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about copy, like, oh, word for word,
Speaker 2: bar for bar. They literally have video side by side.
Speaker 2: She memorized the girl's videos type shit like that's how
Speaker 2: bad it is. But nobody cares because she has the
Speaker 2: bigger following. It's the same thing in the music industry.
Speaker 2: If you work the bigger following. Does she get it
Speaker 2: from copying the other? Who knows? Probably from other copying
Speaker 2: other people, but they can't find them because it works. Now,
Speaker 2: it does work for some people, but that's why it's
Speaker 2: people who are jumbled in. Who are the people who
Speaker 2: are actually talented and the people who ain't, And it's
Speaker 2: everything gets mixed up. Yeah, and I can say that,
Speaker 2: But what I think about Raymonte, I think he's different.
Speaker 2: I don't think he copies off anybody, but y'all are
Speaker 2: trying to bunch him in with these people who do
Speaker 2: that fake shit. And I don't think that's fair to him,
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, we can't lie.
Speaker 2: He's funny, he's witty, he got it, So stop trying
Speaker 2: to take that away just because other people they do
Speaker 2: stupid stuff or may copy off somebody, or there's a
Speaker 2: little bull who got shot because he was trying to
Speaker 2: do a prank on somebody. You can do anything to
Speaker 2: go viral nowadays, and everybody wants their viral moment. But
Speaker 2: I don't think Raymonte tries to go viral. I think
Speaker 2: he just no. I think he just said stuff online
Speaker 2: any go viral all the time. He can't help it.
Speaker 2: Did oh, he can't help it? So stop. I just
Speaker 2: felt like snop fit my drink. And like I said,
Speaker 2: I don't know much. This is not shade towards Justin
Speaker 2: or anybody, but this is not only I see a
Speaker 2: lot of people coming for raymonse online and a lot
Speaker 2: of people just coming for peace. People who are special,
Speaker 2: like some people just have the gift of gab and
Speaker 2: they can sit with their phone in their face and
Speaker 2: people are interested and people are just interested. So I
Speaker 2: think the difference between influencers then influencers now influencers. Then
Speaker 2: it wasn't as competitive, not a lot of people were
Speaker 2: trying to do it, so you had to stick out,
Speaker 2: you had to be different. Now not so much. You
Speaker 2: can do anything. People literally sit on their camera eating
Speaker 2: and make a living from just eating. I see the
Speaker 2: girl she made and mind you, no shade to the
Speaker 2: mok bang people, but shade, I don't want to see
Speaker 2: nobody eating. She ate foods and le bowl is seven bites.
Speaker 2: I saw that seven bites, but that was and washed
Speaker 2: it down with some drita. Well that was a little intriguing,
Speaker 2: just like that man who eat the pop Pye's be
Speaker 2: skinny in one bie. Oh my no, I like him,
Speaker 2: like friend, come on, come on, come on, come get
Speaker 2: I like him. I like him too. But it's very
Speaker 2: few influencers that do like the muck Bangs and the
Speaker 2: eating content that I actually like because I feel like
Speaker 2: it's just such low hanging fruit it is. I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm if you make money off of it, cool, but
Speaker 2: it's such low hanging fruit, Like it's like, oh, let
Speaker 2: me set the tropod up and eat every time. It's
Speaker 2: smack real hard and slurt real hard and like it.
Speaker 2: I do think it's obviously it is an audience for that.
Speaker 2: That's why a lot of those people become really successful,
Speaker 2: the as and R and stuff and you know, smacking
Speaker 2: and whispery what's the name? We got a credit the
Speaker 2: originator on that lady? Yes, with the wiyes, that's my favorite,
Speaker 2: y'all did y'all stole it from her?
Speaker 1: I remember her name?
Speaker 2: Yes? What is that lady name? She used to be you.
Speaker 2: I used to use her memes. I know, mean so
Speaker 2: she used to be typing. Yeah, I know exactly who
Speaker 2: you're talking about. The og Love No, well, be love
Speaker 2: is one of these.
Speaker 1: She's one of the ogs.
Speaker 2: Though, because she started she was the first person I
Speaker 2: seen breaking brab.
Speaker 1: And she made her own sauce and everything.
Speaker 2: Made her own.
Speaker 1: I lovely.
Speaker 2: But but yes, I think that's what and so that's
Speaker 2: what I was saying. Like some people that have gotten
Speaker 2: in that lane, they have done very well with it.
Speaker 2: But like now, in twenty twenty four, because be Lovely
Speaker 2: she started getting popping, like I don't know, maybe like
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen even before that. I think right
Speaker 2: now it's such low hanging fruit, is what I was
Speaker 2: getting at. Like, I think everybody is just trying to
Speaker 2: do it because they've seen the Pioneers, they've seen the ogs,
Speaker 2: the people like the Pioneer. Okay, but but no, are
Speaker 2: you not if you no? I know, but I'm saying,
Speaker 2: are you not if you've made millions of dollars from
Speaker 2: me and you have millions of subscribers on YouTube? Like, hey,
Speaker 2: I can't hate them. We're pioneers and talking ship. No
Speaker 2: we are. We talked that hot ship. We do.
Speaker 1: We do, and that's why people don't be liking It's
Speaker 1: we be.
Speaker 2: Damn people don't like, Oh my god, I guess who
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck me? Okay, okay, okay, so yeah,
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Speaker 1: Okay, soft a topic number two.
Speaker 2: I really want us to talk about the influencer to
Speaker 2: religious influencer pipeline like it's been happening a lot like
Speaker 2: like I think that you know, when people be feeling
Speaker 2: in other lanes, then they want to get all spiritual
Speaker 2: and it's nothing wrong with that if it's genuine, like
Speaker 2: if you genuinely have had a come to Jesus moment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you genuinely have had.
Speaker 2: A come to Jesus moment and you really are trying
Speaker 2: to grow closer in your walk with God and closer
Speaker 2: in faith and you know, walk the right path, then
Speaker 2: I'm all for it. But if you you doing it
Speaker 2: for a come up, or if you're doing it for
Speaker 2: money because you.
Speaker 1: Know, or even worse a man.
Speaker 2: They doing that too, Like, if you're doing it for
Speaker 2: the wrong reasons, then I'm just not we getting messy.
Speaker 2: I had to cheat my gun. If you're doing it
Speaker 2: for the wrong reasons, I'm just I'm just not here
Speaker 2: for that because one thing, I play about a lot
Speaker 2: of things, I don't think you should play about guys
Speaker 2: for real though, I really don't like. To me, that's
Speaker 2: not something to play with. Religion is not something to
Speaker 2: play with, and I feel like it's preying on people's weaknesses.
Speaker 2: Like influencers who are doing that now are no different
Speaker 2: from pastors who we have found out about back in
Speaker 2: the day who were like laandering money, stealing money. It's
Speaker 2: a pastor from Houston, popular.
Speaker 1: Pastor, remember we saw that pastor in the club at.
Speaker 2: You know who? We Oh, I don't. I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 2: After we saw him at the party, Yes we girl,
Speaker 2: you know we did, cause I was like, he.
Speaker 1: Said, came to the party for the photos.
Speaker 2: He was like this bow bow bow bowl. He was nice.
Speaker 2: He was nice because I remember, I really would have
Speaker 2: remembered that he was doing all of that. But no,
Speaker 2: I said, you shut up. But now I feel like
Speaker 2: the pastors, I mean not the pastors, the influencers that
Speaker 2: been in there are no different from the pastors who
Speaker 2: be stealing money from the congregation. Agreed, It's like it's
Speaker 2: the same thing, same thing, different game. This is what's
Speaker 2: this is what's so hard. So I never talk about
Speaker 2: this on the show. I never I've mentioned it before,
Speaker 2: but I mentioned it to you. I have gone on
Speaker 2: and it's still going on a very personal, private, spiritual journey.
Speaker 2: I don't talk about it to nobody except my therapist.
Speaker 2: I just because it's not y'all business. And we talked
Speaker 2: about this on the episode. We were talking about desperation
Speaker 2: in your thirties. A lot of times these middlemen are
Speaker 2: messing up your journey. And when I say a middle man.
Speaker 2: It's because you're trying to connect through God. You're trying
Speaker 2: to connect to God through somebody. You need to go
Speaker 2: directly to the source. Okay, Sometimes y'all are listening to
Speaker 2: people who are not God sent to preach this word
Speaker 2: to you, and y'all are listening to people who have
Speaker 2: ulterior motives. And it gets scary to me because it
Speaker 2: was one particular person. I'm not gonna say no names,
Speaker 2: but I remember when she posted this shit. I remember
Speaker 2: our call dre because at the moment, unbeknownst to a
Speaker 2: lot of people around me, I was going through mine
Speaker 2: and I'm just you know, I'm seeing things, I'm noticing things,
Speaker 2: and I'm just like I just remember being so vocal
Speaker 2: about it to my friends. So I was like, this
Speaker 2: is so crazy, and I'm interested to see how this
Speaker 2: is going to turn out. And it turned out exactly
Speaker 2: like I thought. And I just think it's so crazy
Speaker 2: because I am afraid of people like that. I am
Speaker 2: afraid of people who can get on like I understand
Speaker 2: the responsibility of poor minds and that we have and
Speaker 2: we've created a safe space. That's why I try to
Speaker 2: be on here and be as careful as I am,
Speaker 2: and I know we get on here and I say
Speaker 2: jokes about Church and about God, but I always say
Speaker 2: God gave me my humor. So when I make jokes
Speaker 2: about Church or God, I don't care what y'all have
Speaker 2: to feel because I went directly to the source from it.
Speaker 2: I mean, but we've also never tried to capitalize off
Speaker 2: of our relation hello God, like Imona, never tried to
Speaker 2: make money off of the fact that we have a
Speaker 2: relationship with God, or like our spiritual journeys. I think
Speaker 2: it's so crazy and it's scary. Now do I want
Speaker 2: to meet your names or mom? I don't care.
Speaker 1: That's so do you Okay? So I gotta take that
Speaker 1: up with God.
Speaker 2: You right, You're right. I was interested in this person's
Speaker 2: journey because I have a different view than everybody else has.
Speaker 2: And since we're talking about TikTok and influencers today, that's
Speaker 2: gonna be the theme of today. The TikTok way they
Speaker 2: don't love you, No, that's a that's a challenge on
Speaker 2: TikTok right now, aunt tiv knowing no way, they don't
Speaker 2: love you like I love you. Come on now, catch
Speaker 2: up Mustard. So there's an influencer. She's extremely popular on TikTok.
Speaker 2: Her name is Amani, So Amani has a podcast. I
Speaker 2: don't personally know Amani. We've met her before, and Amiani
Speaker 2: is someone who talks about like relationship topics a lot.
Speaker 2: She used to talk about you know, oh we met her,
Speaker 2: That's what I said. I don't know her personally, but
Speaker 2: we've met her before. She was somebody who used her
Speaker 2: platform to talk about, you know, dating and dating somebody
Speaker 2: who is on your level or higher. You know, kind
Speaker 2: of the content that we used to do, same thing.
Speaker 2: I was never mad at the thing she said. She
Speaker 2: was another person who had controversial opinions that she stood
Speaker 2: on business. Now Amani's kind of changed her tone and
Speaker 2: she's kind of talking about religious things and people are like, oh,
Speaker 2: but you were just a bartender last week and you
Speaker 2: were just this last week, and you're I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I might bite, this might hit me in the ass
Speaker 2: later on. I don't think Amiani is I don't think
Speaker 2: she playing. I think this is really like her word
Speaker 2: and what she believes in. Who she was. You know.
Speaker 2: What I think was fake.
Speaker 1: I think was fake was her trying to speak on
Speaker 1: the dating shit.
Speaker 2: I think she was trying to do something in that
Speaker 2: moment to feel like, Okay, I'm not saying and this
Speaker 2: is just my opinion because I don't know her, but
Speaker 2: I think she was trying to conform to what society
Speaker 2: thought they could see from her because she's a beautiful
Speaker 2: woman living in Atlanta. She may be dating certain type
Speaker 2: of men to live a certain type of lifestyle. But
Speaker 2: I think this might be what she really was, because
Speaker 2: she was like I was raised in the church, Like
Speaker 2: this is what I really knew. And sometimes you get
Speaker 2: caught up in shit because I know me. I'm another example.
Speaker 2: When I first moved to Atlanta, I got lost in
Speaker 2: the sauce. I lost myself. I was like, yo, can
Speaker 2: get you abd day, go outside, smoke the hooks, eat
Speaker 2: the lamb chops. And I was eating them lamb chops, bitch,
Speaker 2: and I was shaking that lamb. Why are you shaking?
Speaker 2: Like That's how I used to do it.
Speaker 1: I used to be in the club.
Speaker 2: But I don't know though, Like, see, the thing to
Speaker 2: me what happened. The thing to me is I don't
Speaker 2: necessarily think that that's lost, Like I think being in
Speaker 2: your twenties and finding yourself and exploring different versions of
Speaker 2: yourself is normal, like me partying and being outside and
Speaker 2: like dating some of the people that I dated when
Speaker 2: I was in my twenties smoking who could eat lamb chops.
Speaker 1: I think that was a part of my lamb chop.
Speaker 2: By the way, ooh, it been a minie.
Speaker 1: Honestly lampop this week.
Speaker 2: I know, I know what to say. Minute. I haven't
Speaker 2: had a lamb chop in If you eat a lamb chop,
Speaker 2: I know you've been outside. Yeah, because if I ask you, like,
Speaker 2: because what's your favorite If I ask you lamb chop?
Speaker 2: If I ask you what's your favorite restaurant and you
Speaker 2: were like, oh girl, they got good lamb chops, bitch,
Speaker 2: I'm not going Yeah, that's a lamptop in Atlanta is
Speaker 2: a staple like if you having lamb chops, you outside,
Speaker 2: don't talk to me about you outside. You are you
Speaker 2: at the lounges, You at the Hookah lounges, cause that's
Speaker 2: why they be having the best lamb chops, mac and cheese,
Speaker 2: little broccolini on the side. You know, I loved me
Speaker 2: a good play. But what I'm saying is go back
Speaker 2: to the topic. It's okay. I just feel like that
Speaker 2: is a part of your journey, you know, like I
Speaker 2: had an outside moment when I was younger because and
Speaker 2: it's okay because to me in your twenties, that's what
Speaker 2: you're supposed to do. But it like outside dick keeping
Speaker 2: them it ain't keep me sick. Now, I'm talking about
Speaker 2: like when you was outside used to make them niggas mad. Well,
Speaker 2: when he said that outside did keep them hostick, I
Speaker 2: thought he meant like he gave hood you. No. I
Speaker 2: thought he meant like that outside dick, Like my dick
Speaker 2: outside is making you mad because I'm giving it. See,
Speaker 2: this is why we interpret that. This is why I
Speaker 2: love having conversations with people, because it's so interesting how
Speaker 2: the human brain works.
Speaker 1: It's crazy how we can hear the same thing and interpreting.
Speaker 2: Tom took it as I'm outside and I'm giving other
Speaker 2: holes that dick and you sick because you think I
Speaker 2: belong to you. No, I thought it. I thought that
Speaker 2: didn't mean that outside did keep them house sick because
Speaker 2: he'd be fucking everybody wrong and then he'd be bringing
Speaker 2: it back home and not everybody gotta take nobody and
Speaker 2: the little Penicillian shot. I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong,
Speaker 2: Maybe we're both from We need to have juvenile on
Speaker 2: because we can't ask the other one because he up
Speaker 2: there with Annie. Oh, Michael Jackson. So I'm just slim,
Speaker 2: but got his name? Wait? What who is Annie? My mama?
Speaker 2: You said you sat up there with any I don't
Speaker 2: know why I started thinking of Annie. Are you okay?
Speaker 2: Because she's not. She's okay, bitch. That's why I said,
Speaker 2: are you She fine?
Speaker 1: Because she with the Lord.
Speaker 2: She's also with the Lord. She was a motherfucker. She
Speaker 2: went on to be with the Lord. I thought she
Speaker 2: was talking about Michael Jackson because he had this home. Annie. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I didn't think he was talking about your mama though. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he was talking about your mama. Probably my mom used
Speaker 2: to set that thing out. Know, my mom used to
Speaker 2: be honest, what if Michael Jackson? What's my daddy? That's
Speaker 2: why I can no he came through.
Speaker 1: Now, your daddy was Teddy?
Speaker 2: My daddy, y'all. My daddy looked exactly like Teddy pint
Speaker 2: of grass. You do, that's crazy, It's really crazy. My
Speaker 2: uncle looked like, well, when I be looking at you,
Speaker 2: I don't know who you look more like, I don't
Speaker 2: know if you look more like your mama or your daddy,
Speaker 2: because you like a good mixture. I'm a good mixture.
Speaker 2: Now my sister looks like my dad. It's crazy because really, yes,
Speaker 2: people see my sister be like, oh, she looks like
Speaker 2: her mom. My sister has a very chiseled face. So
Speaker 2: my sister has almond shaped eyes. So the almond shape eyes,
Speaker 2: that's a trait that my dad had. I have, like
Speaker 2: the big face, the stuff face, that's my mom had that.
Speaker 2: So my sister looks like my dad. I look like
Speaker 2: my mom. Both did though.
Speaker 1: Anyways, bro amen crazy to them people? Then they used
Speaker 1: to do that back in the day. That's what the
Speaker 1: track stars do.
Speaker 2: Yeah for should they be doing that ship and be
Speaker 2: running the thirteen? Look y'all be slow as hell talking
Speaker 2: about shout out to my daddy too. He right now?
Speaker 3: He is?
Speaker 2: Did I ever tell you one time? Man? I don't
Speaker 2: want to get uncomfortable because he feels like he'd be
Speaker 2: looking at him, And why you be beating at me?
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie though. I try not to beat
Speaker 2: it with these hands, but you're right, yeah, I try
Speaker 2: to do it. I know he'd be mad Man. He
Speaker 2: was the right here. No, but that's why I feel
Speaker 2: like now I probably could do a lot of things
Speaker 2: with both ends, not you. What's it called ambidextris ambidextrous. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's me learn I did. But anyways, how we started
Speaker 2: talking about beating Dick and we supposed to be talking
Speaker 2: about the Lord. This show is horrible, horrible, horrible. Back
Speaker 2: to what I was saying, I feel like people religious people.
Speaker 1: Will spend a lot of money on religion and on
Speaker 1: their beliefs, and.
Speaker 2: I want them people to start out. That's why.
Speaker 1: Yes, and so that's what I was about to say.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's why so many influencers are like
Speaker 2: following that pipeline and going that way because they know,
Speaker 2: like if I can convince people that I have changed
Speaker 2: my life around and I was just a sinner and
Speaker 2: I'm born again, you can do it too.
Speaker 1: And I got back up again.
Speaker 2: You should what's that ad? You? You should be here? Yeah,
Speaker 2: but it's and they will give their money to you
Speaker 2: because they feel like you are a changed woman, like
Speaker 2: you have been saved.
Speaker 1: I just think it's so I just think it's so
Speaker 1: messed up to take advantage.
Speaker 2: It's predatorial. Predatorial. Yeah, like you can be like you're
Speaker 2: a predator for different Yeah, you can pray on the
Speaker 2: week That's what it is, your predator. You're praying on
Speaker 2: the weekend. There's very few people that I believe their journey.
Speaker 2: There was another event that went on this past weekend
Speaker 2: and I didn't get to make it, and I saw
Speaker 2: a lot of clips from it. But this is another
Speaker 2: person who I have always loved from a distance, and
Speaker 2: I see everything that she's going through and I'm like, man,
Speaker 2: I think that's why a lot of people resonate with us,
Speaker 2: the people that really follow us and see how we
Speaker 2: talk on lives and they see how we talk on
Speaker 2: a daily basis, Like I get online. If you're not
Speaker 2: a part of the poor crew, I really don't want
Speaker 2: to talk to you because I'm not here for you.
Speaker 2: I have a message to send about feeling good about yourself,
Speaker 2: about mental health, and those are the people I need
Speaker 2: to reach about being a black woman and being unapologetically you.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to talk to. I'm not trying
Speaker 2: to talk to the people who don't like me and
Speaker 2: don't understand me and they feel like, oh, lex Andrea
Speaker 2: All they care about is being bad at me and cute.
Speaker 2: I'm not for you because if you know me, you
Speaker 2: know I mean, that's not all I care about. But
Speaker 2: he's a good point. I mean either way, I don't
Speaker 2: get I'm not here for you. But this person's journey,
Speaker 2: you ain't wrong. If I wasn't bad and cute one day,
Speaker 2: I would be very upset, Like if I woke up
Speaker 2: and I was I was trying to preach the word
Speaker 2: and give a message and good I was at night
Speaker 2: and god, yeah, oh my god, why would he do that?
Speaker 2: That was another one take an advantage and god, he
Speaker 2: did that.
Speaker 1: On purpose to wake your his name past the Curney time.
Speaker 2: I don't know. But he was selling holy water, bro.
Speaker 2: You know you out of line. He was selling the water.
Speaker 2: Ain't nothing wrong with it? Man, sell water in the store.
Speaker 1: No, because but you know what you try to attack.
Speaker 2: They sell water in the stores. But don't try to sell.
Speaker 2: Don't put in water. Just sell water for you. But
Speaker 2: if you really think about it, selling water, period is
Speaker 2: up because water is free. Come on now, come on, capitalism, queens.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying you need to start a serious call
Speaker 2: and go down to your local spring and fill up
Speaker 2: your jas. We need to start a segment called capitalism
Speaker 2: Queens and talk about what people don't need to spend
Speaker 2: their money.
Speaker 1: They don't and we need to ruin capitalism. Now about that.
Speaker 2: It's gonna taste like minerals might taste a little. You
Speaker 2: might need to, but I mean so, and for water
Speaker 2: is paying for water is crazy. Paying for a lot
Speaker 2: of things is messed up. That's why I'm finna get
Speaker 2: some chickens. My man his having chickens offcause Eleventh Street
Speaker 2: is crazy. I'm not gonna have my chickens on eleven Street.
Speaker 2: Yes you are, no not. I'm gonna get my chickens
Speaker 2: when I move. Now, don't come over my house asking
Speaker 2: me for something basil, because I got my basil grown.
Speaker 2: I am well ask to basil. I'm not gonna ask
Speaker 2: for cheeky. I don't eat cheeky. Anyways, getting back to
Speaker 2: the point of the lady I was talking about. I
Speaker 2: was talking about Megan Ashley because I be in the
Speaker 2: know of a lot of things that's going on. She
Speaker 2: had the podcast with b Simone and you know everything. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like I said, I like b Simone, I like making
Speaker 2: ash but like I said, with my spiritual journey, I
Speaker 2: have followed, I follow a lot of people, and I
Speaker 2: just like to see what people got going on. And,
Speaker 2: like I said, the only reason I felt this way
Speaker 2: to speak on it because I wanted to go to
Speaker 2: the Act two forty two event that happened this past
Speaker 2: weekend and I saw like clips of her speaking at
Speaker 2: the event, and I'm just like, I'm just enjoying watching
Speaker 2: her journey, you know what I'm saying. And I feel
Speaker 2: like their paths, you know, obviously separated, and you know,
Speaker 2: be someonea's still successful doing the things that she wants
Speaker 2: to do, and so it's you know, Megan.
Speaker 1: But I'm just glad because sometimes when.
Speaker 2: You depart from somebody who is like that huge, it's
Speaker 2: like you feel like where do I go next? So
Speaker 2: I always be interested in looking like kind of like
Speaker 2: at the underdog and what they're gonna do next, because
Speaker 2: you know, I've had situations where I split from people, things, companies,
Speaker 2: anything where I felt like, oh my god, I dropped
Speaker 2: the ball? How do I pick up the pieces? But
Speaker 2: She's one person that I feel like she is like
Speaker 2: true and pure in her you know, spiritual journey and
Speaker 2: like her words are interesting, and they can give you
Speaker 2: a perspective that's kind of like true to what she
Speaker 2: know she really feels. So I say all that to
Speaker 2: say is just be careful who you follow. And I
Speaker 2: always say when you trying to get the word, sometimes
Speaker 2: y'all just really need to sit down and just read
Speaker 2: the Bible directly. Yeah, I mean, I feel like that's
Speaker 2: the best way to do it. That's why the Bible
Speaker 2: is there. The Bible is literally the blueprint. It's literally
Speaker 2: in it's literally direction. Anything that you have any questions about,
Speaker 2: it's all there in the Bible. Anything that you need
Speaker 2: answers for you can get on Google. Oh i'm struggling
Speaker 2: right now with Fays. It'll oh, this is how I
Speaker 2: know God is real. Yeah, I'm struggling right now with Fays.
Speaker 2: It will tell you what scriptures you need to read.
Speaker 2: I'm struggling right now financially, it will tell you what
Speaker 2: scriptures you need to read. Let me, I'm struggling with betrayal.
Speaker 2: These are the scriptures you need to read. Like, the
Speaker 2: Bible is there for a reason so many people don't
Speaker 2: want to dig deep into it because at the end
Speaker 2: of the day, I think the problem with people is
Speaker 2: a lot of people don't want to dig deep into
Speaker 2: the Bible and into religion because they cool with living
Speaker 2: a life the way that they live in it. So
Speaker 2: it's like they rather just not know because it's like,
Speaker 2: once you know, you be in de so obedient or
Speaker 2: what you want to do, you be in disobedient. So
Speaker 2: it's better to just not knowing. And people don't like
Speaker 2: when that mirror held up to them. I had to
Speaker 2: hold that mirror up to me and it felt very uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: But you were talking about faith. So I literally sent
Speaker 2: this to one of my closest friends this morning. It's
Speaker 2: a scripture, and then we gonna move on because I
Speaker 2: when you the first thing you brought up was faith.
Speaker 2: And this is one of my favorite scriptures. Is very
Speaker 2: short just because of the underlying meaning. Right, So it's
Speaker 2: Matthew eight twenty six and it says he replied, you
Speaker 2: of little faith, why are you so afraid? Then he
Speaker 2: got up rebuked the winds and waves, and it was
Speaker 2: completely calm because one thing I know, if your faith
Speaker 2: is stronger than your doubt, you know everything is gonna
Speaker 2: work out in your favor, and you know everything is
Speaker 2: gonna be Okay, So sometimes you need to just be
Speaker 2: still and let things because if your faith was stronger
Speaker 2: than your doubt, you wouldn't worry, you wouldn't stress, you
Speaker 2: wouldn't feel this way, you wouldn't feel the need to
Speaker 2: get on TikTok, or you wouldn't feel the need to
Speaker 2: go through these people to give you the words. Sometimes
Speaker 2: you have to go directly and get the words. And look,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get to and deep into it. We're
Speaker 2: gonna get ratchet again. But like I said, you have
Speaker 2: to be very weary and just have discernment when it
Speaker 2: comes to the word, because you have to be careful
Speaker 2: and a lot of these influencers are, you know, just
Speaker 2: trying to get a quick check, and it's very scary
Speaker 2: what people will do. Money is the root of all evil,
Speaker 2: and I truly believe that. I agree.
Speaker 1: Damn that's a good point because it is the root
Speaker 1: of all evil.
Speaker 2: Everything will do anything for money. Everything evil, the most
Speaker 2: evil things I have seen because I used to work
Speaker 2: in the strip club. Can we take a pause, coughe
Speaker 2: they're trying to come out shape shape shape shape the
Speaker 2: devil in the name up geez, shake the devil, Come
Speaker 2: on I got you. I'm gonna sing it out of
Speaker 2: you every time.
Speaker 1: No, yeah, we just need to delete that.
Speaker 2: But I'm ah, no, we need to keep that in.
Speaker 1: And I need to see that, see way me coughing, No,
Speaker 1: they need to see it.
Speaker 2: I don't seen Carmelicious Cream in the strip club do
Speaker 2: some dirty things for a piece of chime it the.
Speaker 1: Fuck it is car Malicious Cream.
Speaker 2: The stripples because sometimes you know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I don't. We don't seen people
Speaker 2: do some evil things and mean things behind money. So
Speaker 2: that's what I'm telling the people, the consumers be just
Speaker 2: be weary and be use your discernment. Now, That's all
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Yeah, that's true. I mean people definitely be
Speaker 2: doing weird stuff behind money. But what's the strangest thing
Speaker 2: you did for a piece of change? Me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really do letting weird for money? You ain't
Speaker 1: never done one little thing. We was like, maybe I
Speaker 1: shouldn't do.
Speaker 2: This, But bro, I know one thing that people hate
Speaker 2: about me sometimes that they feel like I just tried
Speaker 2: to like separate myself, but I really don't, Like I
Speaker 2: really feel like for a long time I've just known
Speaker 2: who I am and like a lot of shit, just
Speaker 2: like you ain't never sold even when you worked in
Speaker 2: the club, you never sold a bottle that wasn't really
Speaker 2: yours to your section.
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, I'll give you this little bottle.
Speaker 2: What do you mean? Like you know how you working
Speaker 2: in the club and it's not your section, but they
Speaker 2: may want a bottle from you, but it's another girl section.
Speaker 2: You maybe just sell a little bottle. You ain't need
Speaker 2: nothing or brought a nigga a drink.
Speaker 1: Bro But to me, that stuff is not evil stuff.
Speaker 2: Like when I think of people doing it, I didn't
Speaker 2: say evil, I said strange for a piece of To me,
Speaker 2: that's not even strange to me. It's just like, oh,
Speaker 2: you want to buy a bottle. Yeah, I'm gonna sell
Speaker 2: you the bottle. But they're not in your section, slow feet,
Speaker 2: don't eat. See that's that's not in your section though,
Speaker 2: it don't matter, No, it don't don't come to my
Speaker 2: section selling no shit. Well you should have been there,
Speaker 2: what if I was, But it's just because it wasn't
Speaker 2: because it's not about no I'm there. You just foner
Speaker 2: than me, that asspad, Now, why you be poking out
Speaker 2: the front. That don't go. Well. If that's the case, bitch,
Speaker 2: you would have sold the bottle because your weag goooby.
Speaker 2: Maybe baby, I got a little tuner. You said you
Speaker 2: got weg goooby. I'm not talking about me. I never
Speaker 2: we ain't ever been in that situation. I'm talking about you.
Speaker 2: Ain't never sold a bottle. I just said yes. But
Speaker 2: to me, that's not to me.
Speaker 1: You we got To me, that's not strange.
Speaker 2: To me, that's just like you know one tu tho,
Speaker 2: It's okay, It's really not would have been like, hey,
Speaker 2: this nigga wanna buy a bottle for me in your section.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna sell it to them, but we can. But
Speaker 2: to me, that's a prime example of preparation meeting opportunity.
Speaker 2: Stop using I don't agree.
Speaker 1: I think I think it was preparation meeting opportunity.
Speaker 2: I'm not wrong. At the end of the day, it's
Speaker 2: the club. It's about who the quiki is, Whoever the
Speaker 2: quicket is gonna make the most money. It ain't my fault.
Speaker 2: I know how to eat, no money. It's not about quickest.
Speaker 2: I'm talking a situation where you were finer and I'm
Speaker 2: supposed to feel bad for that. Feel bad. All I
Speaker 2: said was if the girl walking around and she like
Speaker 2: and you, all you have to say was, Hey, this
Speaker 2: dude want to sell me a bottle because he's trying
Speaker 2: to talk to me, I'm gonna sell it this brow.
Speaker 2: But you asking me this dumb ass question because you
Speaker 2: already know the answer because you used to do that
Speaker 2: shit too. Everybody did this shit in the club. Of course,
Speaker 2: if somebody walk up to you and they're like, oh,
Speaker 2: I want to buy a bottle from you, you're not
Speaker 2: gonna ask. You're not gonna try to find out who
Speaker 2: is this unless it's your friend? Okay?
Speaker 1: Are you unless it's your friends? Different?
Speaker 2: Did they walk back to the session? Who you got
Speaker 2: this bottle in Hennessy from? It's gonna be a fight,
Speaker 2: and it's gonna be a problem. I saw the That's
Speaker 2: why don't miss working in the club.
Speaker 3: Bro.
Speaker 2: It was so petty, like hoes really used to be
Speaker 2: arguing over seventy five dollars commission off of a bottle. Hey,
Speaker 2: but that meant a lot. It did that thing, and
Speaker 2: my bad still do But why what because it did?
Speaker 2: But it's just like, no, it's not that serious to me.
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day to me that
Speaker 2: it's not doing something evil for mine. I didn't say evil,
Speaker 2: I said strange you but you was trying to correlate
Speaker 2: to Yes, you would, trying to put them in the
Speaker 2: same I wasn't. I got a random thought, I said,
Speaker 2: have you ever done something strange for a people? To me,
Speaker 2: that's not strange. That's leveling up. I love, I love
Speaker 2: the way you were things. No, I'm serious, it is
Speaker 2: that's a talent. That's why you here and they there.
Speaker 2: They still getting a seventy five dollars for me. No, loo,
Speaker 2: all right, it's about taking advantage of the opportunities because
Speaker 2: because you asked me, because you are about a leading
Speaker 2: see you know, oh I'm not your waistress. You know,
Speaker 2: ain't who sold you this section. But you ask me
Speaker 2: for a reason, and I'm gonna take advantage of the reason. Okay,
Speaker 2: you know, get my little commission. I got what did
Speaker 2: you say earlier? I got bills to you said that
Speaker 2: on the phone earlier. I do y'all got by. So
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take my little seventy five dollars and I'm
Speaker 2: a flirt a little bit and get a little extra
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Speaker 2: So this topic actually came from I'm not gonna say
Speaker 2: her name because you know she's a great employee of ours,
Speaker 2: because she's going through a personal situation. The topic today
Speaker 2: is I like you, but I'm not sexually that party.
Speaker 2: I mean, we have a lot of employees and people
Speaker 2: that you know, they can't pick them out. Okay, we
Speaker 2: want to say that. Nah, she'll be back. It's not me.
Speaker 2: It's not time. It's not time. So she said, I
Speaker 2: like you, but I'm not sexually attracted to you, but
Speaker 2: then I don't like you. Oh wait, hold on, let
Speaker 2: me present the situation so we can talk. You presented
Speaker 2: me already, but we gotta give them so we can.
Speaker 2: This is a talk show, bro, we gotta talk. If
Speaker 2: you want to give further contexts, do that. But I'm
Speaker 2: still gonna say what I said.
Speaker 1: I sid what I shit? Yeah, got out to need
Speaker 1: come on?
Speaker 2: True. So the context is it's this guy they vibe conversation.
Speaker 2: Is there cute guy? She likes him, she really likes him,
Speaker 2: but she said like sexually they messed around and she
Speaker 2: just wasn't into it, and she said they had a conversation.
Speaker 2: He was like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just feel like you pulling away from me.
Speaker 2: And I don't know what it is. And she was
Speaker 2: just like in her head, she's like thinking, like I'm
Speaker 2: just not there sexually with you. So do you think
Speaker 2: you can really like somebody? Like they check off all
Speaker 2: the marks, but sexually.
Speaker 1: They're not meeting your needs? Like, how do you feel
Speaker 1: about that?
Speaker 2: How does that happen? Though it don't it does. So
Speaker 2: say you went on four or five dates with a
Speaker 2: guy and you like, man, I'm really vibing with him.
Speaker 2: He's cute, he got money, he can dress, beautiful, home,
Speaker 2: no kid, he checks off all the marks. Y'all. Three
Speaker 2: months in, you finally decided to give it up. You
Speaker 2: finally decided to give that wag, you up that hot
Speaker 2: and gushie.
Speaker 1: Stick yick yek yiky.
Speaker 2: You decide to give it to him, and it's not good.
Speaker 2: What do you do?
Speaker 1: This is what I'm talking, This is what I did.
Speaker 2: I decide to give it a because you just said
Speaker 2: from the example that you gave, she had not gave
Speaker 2: it up. No, she gave it up eventually, and she
Speaker 2: said sexually she wasn't satisfied. But up until that, was
Speaker 2: she not satisfied? Or was she not sexually attracted to him?
Speaker 2: Because giving somebody pussy like you like? Okay, like I
Speaker 2: like you, and I'm a sexually attracted to you, and
Speaker 2: then I gave you some pussy and it wasn't good.
Speaker 2: That's completely different from not wanting to have sex with
Speaker 2: somebody because you're not sexually okay. So I'll say this,
Speaker 2: Maybe I worded it wrong, but this is what she said. Well,
Speaker 2: she said she had sex with him and it wasn't good.
Speaker 2: So now she's not sexually attracted to him after the fact,
Speaker 2: but she really does like him. But the sexual chemistry
Speaker 2: she knows for a fact isn't there, but she likes him.
Speaker 3: So what do you do?
Speaker 2: Like I said, in your situation, like I gave you
Speaker 2: an example, I'm talking to that nigga, but what if
Speaker 2: he checks off all the mark? You don't feel like
Speaker 2: what music soul y'all say?
Speaker 1: Teach me how we are, not teach me how to
Speaker 1: eat that puss?
Speaker 2: See yup? Let me hear it from the bag? You
Speaker 2: know this dick like that? Whatever he said? I know
Speaker 2: how you like your ass man? Yeah, that's the song now.
Speaker 2: So do you feel like you can teach a man
Speaker 2: or it's just like I'm not stow you fucking streak?
Speaker 2: What miss y'all feel like I'm too old to be
Speaker 2: teaching a nigga anything. I'm not gonna lie because I
Speaker 2: typically date guys that are older than me. I know
Speaker 2: how to beat it up. I'm laughing because I'm just
Speaker 2: thinking about the men that you've dated, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: that's fair. Yeah, Like, I just feel like I'm too
Speaker 2: old to teach the old dog new trees. If you
Speaker 2: don't know the tricks, then.
Speaker 1: You is not my tree.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair, Like you just not for me, were
Speaker 2: too old for that.
Speaker 1: Like if I'm thirty three and you forty, you.
Speaker 2: Don't know how to eat with You don't know how
Speaker 2: to go, You don't know how to you don't have
Speaker 2: like a good stroke game, like I don't know what
Speaker 2: to tell you. You don't know how to for play,
Speaker 2: you don't know what you need to do. Like I'm
Speaker 2: just not I'm not interested in that, Okay. I think
Speaker 2: good sex is universal. I think that different people have
Speaker 2: different kinks that they might like. Like you might be
Speaker 2: into something a little like for example, like obviously this
Speaker 2: would never have but like me and you might have
Speaker 2: sex with the same dude, and I might like it
Speaker 2: a little softer. You might like it a little roofer,
Speaker 2: Like maybe you like yo, Maybe I like my nipples
Speaker 2: leaked and fleeked. Maybe you want maybe you want him
Speaker 2: to bite your el, Maybe you want him to bite
Speaker 2: your Yeah, you get what I'm saying. But like I
Speaker 2: took two far every time, every time, every time. You know,
Speaker 2: maybe I might like a soft choke, like maybe I
Speaker 2: might like a little right right, So that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: it's like, but the sex in itself is good either way.
Speaker 2: You just might like a little more pain then, I like,
Speaker 2: I might like to, I might like it a little softer,
Speaker 2: a little more you know, sensual.
Speaker 1: But I think if you got good sex, you got
Speaker 1: good sex. It's universe.
Speaker 2: Okay, I just think that. Yeah, I really see what
Speaker 2: I feel. I feel like you can kind of mold
Speaker 2: and shift certain things to fit the new, like the
Speaker 2: person that play though, to fit the person. You can
Speaker 2: kind of shift a little bit, you know. But if
Speaker 2: it's good, it's good. If it ain't, it ain't. And
Speaker 2: I don't think I could teach you that if you
Speaker 2: haven't figured that out in fifteen years, because just hypothetic. Fifty.
Speaker 1: If you thirty three, you've been fucking since you was eighteen, it's.
Speaker 2: A little yay. Hey, I'm just saying, if you thirty three,
Speaker 2: you've probably been fuckingsed since you was like eighteen, so
Speaker 2: fifteen years of experience, and oh.
Speaker 1: My gosh, you don't know how to fuck.
Speaker 2: Still, I can't teach you that. I'm not trying to
Speaker 2: be funny. This is not okay. I've been fucking for
Speaker 2: twenty I be wanting a nigga who's trying to get
Speaker 2: up in there. I've been fucking for twenty years. That's
Speaker 2: crazy to think about. I mean, now, I know you
Speaker 2: seasoned that puss. It good? That why you just it's
Speaker 2: falling off the bone. It's falling off the bone.
Speaker 1: And what marinated have a nigga on his knees.
Speaker 2: I already know. I heard how I used to.
Speaker 1: Break a nigga off. I'm gonna breaking them off.
Speaker 2: Anyway. No, but this is what I think now, now
Speaker 2: that you put it that way, I do agree with you, right,
Speaker 2: but I also feel like, uh, sex now is different though,
Speaker 2: So I'll say this though I'm not even now. Back
Speaker 2: in the day, you used to get that thing. What
Speaker 2: do you mean like I used to be like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you a little sum sum just because
Speaker 2: we had a good time. I'm young, I'm dumb.
Speaker 1: I'm just doing whatever and full of come. Didn't want
Speaker 1: to take it there, young dumb.
Speaker 2: That's what the old people say, younger. But I say
Speaker 2: that because now at this age, you're not even getting
Speaker 2: in We're not even getting in the bed unless I
Speaker 2: have some kind of emotional feelings for you. So I
Speaker 2: will say this. I feel like if I have feelings
Speaker 2: for you and emotions for you like the sex, this
Speaker 2: is where I differ.
Speaker 1: I feel you and I agree with you, but I
Speaker 1: don't feel me.
Speaker 2: But I do though. But at the same time, if
Speaker 2: I have feelings for you emotionally and we have connected,
Speaker 2: I don't feel it anyway because I just like you. No,
Speaker 2: absolutely not. I think it's a real thing. I have
Speaker 2: seen the tweet this girl has said, the whole time
Speaker 2: I thought something was wrong with my Kouchi, I started
Speaker 2: taking slippery m mock a root, God tell you all
Speaker 2: this shit. She was like, well the whole time, I
Speaker 2: just didn't like this nigga no more because I started
Speaker 2: freaking the new nigga and I was with it's for
Speaker 2: it's the same. It ain't nothing changed but that nigga
Speaker 2: needed to But I'm not gonna lie. I haven't have
Speaker 2: like so long, I haven't met either. Well you know
Speaker 2: why I won't have bad sex. I will not allow it.
Speaker 2: But it's not gonna. But yes it could if you like,
Speaker 2: Like I said, in this scenario, she's dating this guy,
Speaker 2: she likes him. They had sex and it wasn't good.
Speaker 2: You don't know I had a good deck discernment. Come on, dog,
Speaker 2: I do I know, I just know, I know I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna lie for it. I have never I haven't
Speaker 2: had just like bad deck ever in my life. I've
Speaker 2: had great, haven't. I've had great I've had a great dick,
Speaker 2: and then I've had like medio. You've never had bad sex,
Speaker 2: probably in my probably in my broony, probably in my
Speaker 2: early twenties. Yeah, but I'm talking about like I haven't
Speaker 2: just had like, okay, not you. I ain't gonna put
Speaker 2: your business out there like that. But why, I mean,
Speaker 2: wag you in it? Because you told me never mind.
Speaker 2: But I have another friend who told me like she
Speaker 2: had some really bad sex with somebody, and she was like,
Speaker 2: but I knew it was gonna be trash now because
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, I feel like some people
Speaker 2: just give off vibes like you know, they gonna bore you.
Speaker 1: You know they's gonna the boer is nuts.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I've had situations where I've had
Speaker 2: good sex with this person and then I ended like,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. The last time me and my
Speaker 2: ex had sex, it was so bad and I'm but
Speaker 2: it was because I stopped liking him. I was turned
Speaker 2: off and I hated him at that point. I don't
Speaker 2: even know why I did it. Yeah, but I'm saying, like,
Speaker 2: sometimes that be happening. I feel like when you don't
Speaker 2: like people no more. And that's what I was gonna say,
Speaker 2: going back to what I was saying about the girl
Speaker 2: the initial tweet. If you don't like somebody no more
Speaker 2: and the sexual chemistry is not there, it's gonna be
Speaker 2: hard for you to get turned on by this person.
Speaker 2: And if you're not easily turned on by him, then
Speaker 2: the sex is not gonna be good. If YO, please,
Speaker 2: he not getting wet for him off the rib, then
Speaker 2: it's not gonna be good. I'm not saying going back
Speaker 2: to what you said because you were trying to be funny.
Speaker 2: I never said that I haven't had bad sex, but
Speaker 2: I feel like I have good dick discernment.
Speaker 4: It is.
Speaker 2: I don't like, I know when a nigga, I just
Speaker 2: it's like you could tell by the way a niggas
Speaker 2: give us three give us three things that y'all take notes.
Speaker 2: Give us three things that that is good dick discernments. Go.
Speaker 1: You was about to say, you said the way. Is
Speaker 1: he emotionally intelligent?
Speaker 2: That lets you know man got good there?
Speaker 1: If he yes, If he emotionally caters to your knees, okay, oh,
Speaker 1: that means he gonna cater to you you right, because if.
Speaker 2: He cares about you outside the bedroom and he can't,
Speaker 2: he gonna eat that coach up off the bone. Word
Speaker 2: to jez Tex, beat it up. Let me Yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: that's a good one. Number two Okay, Can I add one? Yeah?
Speaker 2: If he's chivalrous, that shows a lot too. When I
Speaker 2: say chivalry, I'm talking about traditional things.
Speaker 1: But I feel like that's kind of the same though
Speaker 1: as his first one.
Speaker 2: Oh No, emotional intelligence is very different frombvalry. I'm talking
Speaker 2: about basic things. Opening the door, you know, you're trying
Speaker 2: to take your shoes off. He helping you take your
Speaker 2: shoes off, He making sure you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: pulling out your chair, pushing it in. He's like, let
Speaker 2: me care go to you. Oh this is your day.
Speaker 2: That's gonna be my next one. Catering to your needs,
Speaker 2: how he talks to you, how he handles you, how
Speaker 2: he treats you, the things he say you got it do.
Speaker 2: Like even if he just because don't get me wrong,
Speaker 2: just because I have good dick discernment don't mean like
Speaker 2: a good nigga discernment, hey, cause it's two different things.
Speaker 2: Because just because he's him a good man, speak on it,
Speaker 2: because sometimes niggas will cater to all of those things
Speaker 2: that they know you need to hear so that they
Speaker 2: can get We're gonna talk about that next episode. We're
Speaker 2: gonna talk about how men will be a good man today.
Speaker 2: And he's courting you and treating you, but that doesn't
Speaker 2: mean he wants to be your boyfriend, because a lot
Speaker 2: of times women be like, you took me out, you
Speaker 2: treated me sweet, you did, why don't you want me?
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about that next episode. But but but
Speaker 2: I said all of that to say, Yeah, it's just
Speaker 2: all about how a man caters to you, how he
Speaker 2: treats you, how much effort he's putting in. If he's
Speaker 2: putting in a lot of effort before y'all have six
Speaker 2: because he working for and I just feel like me
Speaker 2: and that work real hard for it. They ain't gonna
Speaker 2: they know what they they know they gonna come fuck
Speaker 2: your world up because they got that good dick. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and their pants hanging waiting to creep on you. The
Speaker 2: niggas will be like trying to like do the bear
Speaker 2: me and the mummy and she this. They got bare
Speaker 2: minimum deeds and they know it ain't finna hit for
Speaker 2: ship and they know they know that's why. Or they
Speaker 2: over compensating financially.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. This is a good talk.
Speaker 3: It is.
Speaker 2: Are they over compensating financially? Good dick discernments? Good dick
Speaker 2: discernments the niggas with the good dick, they gonna do
Speaker 2: a little one too, But they ain't feeling like they
Speaker 2: gotta overly prove themselves. They just being theyself thought. They
Speaker 2: just being smooth.
Speaker 1: Wait, they just because you're finna be crazy about.
Speaker 2: Me and he is one when they don't boast and
Speaker 2: brag about their sex. Yeah, I know, because now I'm
Speaker 2: I done built a whole o my trying to tell
Speaker 2: me how good Joe Dick is. I know that ship pool.
Speaker 2: When I tell you, boobo, yeah girl, you ain't ready
Speaker 2: for this? God, I know y'all, won't that be okay?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Because I got ready for this, you ain't ready for this.
Speaker 2: That'd be the main one. As soon as you set
Speaker 2: that wag you on, hold.
Speaker 4: On, hold on, that's and you'll be like, oh, fucking brother,
Speaker 4: just give me teen minies, give me teen meanies real quick.
Speaker 2: I don't see. I hate every time. But the niggas
Speaker 2: that don't say nothing, you know, Oh my god, you
Speaker 2: know why the sass those the assassin sad. I should
Speaker 2: have known my man it was gonna do me bad
Speaker 2: because the first time we every not everybody sipping the
Speaker 2: y'all know if you see this, don't cut this into
Speaker 2: the clip, please don't. This is for the poor, the
Speaker 2: poor girls, because y'all deep in the episode. Now, I
Speaker 2: should have known my man was gonna turn me out
Speaker 2: because it was like our third date.
Speaker 1: This is when we was in DC for the DC Show.
Speaker 2: And remember I stayed to hang out with him, and
Speaker 2: that night, you know, we had I got so drunk
Speaker 2: and we had a great time and we was like
Speaker 2: in the hotel. I feel like I am imposing no,
Speaker 2: but listen, but nothing happened that night. Nothing nothing happened.
Speaker 2: So you're not feeling it's nothing nasty, but I saying
Speaker 2: I'm should have known because that night, you know, we drunk.
Speaker 2: We you know, finally we get in the bed, we
Speaker 2: talking we laughing, and then you know, we start kissing,
Speaker 2: and you know, like you know when you start when
Speaker 2: a man start kissing you usually what they do. They'd
Speaker 2: be like, come on, come on, they try to slide
Speaker 2: off your pants and you be like no, and they
Speaker 2: come on girl like and then you'd be like, yeah,
Speaker 2: you know what happened. You know what happened. We start kissing.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, stop. He was like okay, and
Speaker 2: he stopped and he roll over and went to sleep.
Speaker 2: He was like, all right, I should have known then, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I should have known it.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. That ain't what happened to me
Speaker 1: first time I had six money.
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't have sex with him that night because
Speaker 2: he was just like I'm not tripping because when I'm
Speaker 2: talking about like our first income, because that was your
Speaker 2: first sexual incounter. Yeah, like that was the first time
Speaker 2: like we actually kissed, kissed, and like you know, we
Speaker 2: was feeling on each other and things like that, and
Speaker 2: I was like he was just like all right, cause
Speaker 2: it's been situations were like men, you know how many
Speaker 2: be like come on, like, you know you won't this
Speaker 2: maybe trying to convince you. He was just like all right,
Speaker 2: because when I give it to you, I'm like to you,
Speaker 2: m hm m. We need to Okay, let's wait. You
Speaker 2: want to tell your story, No, because I don't have
Speaker 2: a story. The first time I had sex with my nigga,
Speaker 2: he ate my guccie off the bone. Same, I'm finna
Speaker 2: text him bone bone bone. I see you at the
Speaker 2: cross road.
Speaker 3: So you.
Speaker 2: Like my soul was leaving my body? You eat my cool. Okay,
Speaker 2: let's move on. So now so let y'all let us
Speaker 2: know in the comments, So what is y'all's good dick discernment?
Speaker 1: Like, how do y'all tell? Because that was a good
Speaker 1: one time that it was.
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the bout. Hey
Speaker 2: bow bow bow. This is definitely given wine down Wednesday
Speaker 2: episode because we yeah, we're finna rap this. We're finna
Speaker 2: rap this the fuck up because you couldn't know too much.
Speaker 2: I said I was gonna keep this ot hout like
Speaker 2: this was twenty nineteen. It is given nineteen. Okay, so
Speaker 2: now it's time to get into the bop. So obviously
Speaker 2: y'all know I usually do like low key bobs. I
Speaker 2: can't do it this week, Meg the Stallion dropped act
Speaker 2: two right, So Fire Project per usual. Y'all know, I'm
Speaker 2: a hotty, I'm a stand love my girl. So everybody
Speaker 2: is talking about let me dismiss that. So everybody is
Speaker 2: talking about her song Bigger in Texas because that's a bop.
Speaker 2: It's giving Tina Snow, it's giving you know, the man
Speaker 2: that everybody won't. But she got a song with Flow
Speaker 2: Milly called rock Steady. It is, It gives, it's They
Speaker 2: used the Sierra Goodies beat and when I tell you,
Speaker 2: her and Flow Milly just floated all over this beat
Speaker 2: and it's so good. And rock Steady is also the
Speaker 2: name of one of my favorite restaurants in at L.
Speaker 2: Shout out to rock, shout out to that snapper, Oh
Speaker 2: my god, and shout out to me, and shout out
Speaker 2: to that spin.
Speaker 1: It that that that collar green deal who snappers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't worry. We shouldn't get it done. We're gonna
Speaker 2: wrap this shut up, don't you fuck. We're gonna rap
Speaker 2: this shit fuck up. The snapper is bussy, both of them.
Speaker 2: Hey that's what the people said. But anyways, Yeah, rock
Speaker 2: Staddy Feature and Flow Milly. I love the fact that
Speaker 2: Meg can make good music with anybody. Just shows her versatility.
Speaker 2: And let me also say, y'all be talking about oh
Speaker 2: Med flow sound the same. First of all, she has
Speaker 2: a song because stop it. She has a song with
Speaker 2: spirit Box, which is a Canadian rock band, and they
Speaker 2: did the remix to Hiss, which was fire. But it's
Speaker 2: a rock song. It's literally a rock song. She's on
Speaker 2: there screaming like a fucking rock star and it is
Speaker 2: so fired. I mean, meg a. She did a Mamushie
Speaker 2: remix with That's why I was gonna say, Mamushi itself
Speaker 2: should have shown people that she can switch her flow up.
Speaker 2: Because y'all get let me tell y'all something. Since everybody
Speaker 2: on TikTok and Twitter is an A and R, there's
Speaker 2: a difference between cadence and flow. Her cadence stays the
Speaker 2: same because that is her accent. Okay, that is how
Speaker 2: she approaches a track of X y Z. Flow is
Speaker 2: completely different. Learn the difference before you get online. Y'all
Speaker 2: are not A and R's what you don't y'all don't
Speaker 2: know nothing about music. Now you can have an opinion.
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that, But to sit here and
Speaker 2: listen to this woman's music and say, oh, it sounds
Speaker 2: the same because you don't like her, And that's okay.
Speaker 2: You don't have to like somebody, but don't discredit them.
Speaker 2: That's what we were talking about earlier. Stop discrediting people
Speaker 2: because you don't like them. It's a lot to say
Speaker 2: about Meg. We all know whatever however you feel, but
Speaker 2: to say this girl isn't dropping hit after hits, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: I agree, Meg the Stallion, actual rock Steady.
Speaker 2: You did your thing. Ate it up, Go ahead, Drea. Alright,
Speaker 2: Sombap of the Week is Summer Walker.
Speaker 1: She did it again.
Speaker 2: You're twin twin Do you know? That's what they say?
Speaker 2: Where have you been?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: Apparently I'm a trip league. Oh yeah, it's you, Jada Summer.
Speaker 2: Y'all need to do a project together. Hmm. Can we
Speaker 2: all sing?
Speaker 1: I think some are the only one that can.
Speaker 2: I don't have to be a singing project. It could
Speaker 2: be y'all do a cooking episode something. Y'all just all
Speaker 2: three need to do something where y'all just sit down.
Speaker 2: I think that I need to rap. You can rap.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to write it though.
Speaker 2: You gonna have to be my goal.
Speaker 1: I've got them bars.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. The trio featuring Tony Brexley, because everybody say
Speaker 2: you like Tony Brexley, but anyway.
Speaker 1: Your box.
Speaker 2: Yes, So my bob is hard of a woman. By
Speaker 2: Summer Walker. It's giving Brandy vibe. It is. It is,
Speaker 2: Oh my god, when she stacked. You know, nobody be
Speaker 2: doing them run bible, yeah, vocal bible. Nobody can nobody
Speaker 2: out singing Brandy. I don't care who you're failing well,
Speaker 2: no New Generation personally, because I mean, like but Natti Labille,
Speaker 2: Anita Baker.
Speaker 1: We talk about backing.
Speaker 2: Harmonies and vocals. Nobody does it like Brandy. Braindy learned
Speaker 2: from the best. That's why Whitney Houston, out of her
Speaker 2: own mouth, said Brandy is the best singer of the
Speaker 2: New Generation. No, she is like Brandy. And it's so
Speaker 2: crazy to me because I've heard people say Brandy can't
Speaker 2: sing because they don't be like, what are you kidding me?
Speaker 2: Because these are the A and rs I'm talking about.
Speaker 2: You don't know music, you can't hear, you don't got
Speaker 2: that ear, but you know I would. I have an argument.
Speaker 2: I think that summer Walker might be our Brandy. I
Speaker 2: can I can hear that. Though I'm not bad at
Speaker 2: you for saying that, because at.
Speaker 1: The end of the day, let's chat about it real quick.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about how Overyas was a masterpiece from Front
Speaker 2: who still over eads masterpiece Front to bag both albums.
Speaker 2: So I have no doubt in my mind that this
Speaker 2: new album is not going to be a masterpiece, like
Speaker 2: it's gonna be no this like Summer Walker, she just
Speaker 2: never feels This.
Speaker 1: Is what I have to say about Summer Walker.
Speaker 2: Right. A lot of people feel some way about Summer
Speaker 2: Walker because of the decisions that she's made personally and exactly.
Speaker 2: But this is what I go back to saying earlier.
Speaker 2: Some people, their personalities make them different. Summer Walker is
Speaker 2: one of them people that she needs to have her
Speaker 2: team on her social media and she just needs to,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, because she's so you don't
Speaker 2: have to do the extras.
Speaker 1: Your talent speaks for itself.
Speaker 2: You don't need to let us know who you're dating,
Speaker 2: who you pregnant by, what you're deciding. You don't because
Speaker 2: you don't have to. Your talent is, you know, making
Speaker 2: the music, and she needs to have one of those
Speaker 2: Beyonce approaches, and she's one of them chosen ones. Like
Speaker 2: I was talking earlier, Raymonte is one of them chosen
Speaker 2: ones who can do whatever with his personality. Summer Walker
Speaker 2: is one of the few chosen people. You don't have
Speaker 2: to show us your personality or whatever. All you gotta
Speaker 2: do is, you know, sing and give us that. And
Speaker 2: there's not a lot of people who can do that,
Speaker 2: because there's a lot of people who are talented, but
Speaker 2: they have to get on social media and entertain us,
Speaker 2: so we would listen to their music. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I was in my house with my little wine, swiggling
Speaker 2: it around in my little wine glass and my robe
Speaker 2: and my first slippers or the and I felt like
Speaker 2: I was making nineteen ninety six when that was a
Speaker 2: great body, and I felty, Yeah, feilty, gun in one hand,
Speaker 2: wine glass in the other. Period.
Speaker 1: You know who else makes great?
Speaker 2: Me? Ready to shoot some shit up, but also ready
Speaker 2: to cry. I want to talk about two other artists too.
Speaker 2: I recently saw Mariah the Scientist. She did Karesha Please,
Speaker 2: and I was so pleasantly surprise to see how eloquently
Speaker 2: she relayed her message that she wanted to send, and
Speaker 2: it was so articulate, and it was so intelligent and
Speaker 2: it was so beautiful to see.
Speaker 1: I wasn't surprised.
Speaker 2: I'm not I wasn't surprised. It seems really emotionally intelligent, right,
Speaker 2: But again, she is somebody that's like her music is
Speaker 2: so good. But I was happy to see that side
Speaker 2: of her so she could talk, because a lot of
Speaker 2: people feel like, oh she's not smart. For daty young thug,
Speaker 2: he may not get out of this in X y Z.
Speaker 2: But she was very just like vocal, and it was
Speaker 2: good to see that side of her. Another person on
Speaker 2: the other end of the space getting out.
Speaker 1: Who cares what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying. But like for her, it's like,
Speaker 2: let's her business, let her do her you know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Ari Lennox. Ari Lennox dropped a new song
Speaker 2: called Smoke and the song is amazing. But she just
Speaker 2: had She went on live the other day and she
Speaker 2: had a whole instance. She had a breakdown. She was like,
Speaker 2: she tagged them, she said, I went out of my contract,
Speaker 2: and she tagged in her scope. She tagged Dreamville. People's
Speaker 2: in the comments like j Cole, what's up? What are
Speaker 2: you doing? Ari Lennox is another person where she just
Speaker 2: needs to give us our talent and she needs to
Speaker 2: have a team around her to you know, be on
Speaker 2: social media for her, because I just think it's so
Speaker 2: sad and we have people these days who are so talented,
Speaker 2: but the social media stuff has to it overwhelms them.
Speaker 2: And I hate that we are in this era because
Speaker 2: we just have to do better, not we these.
Speaker 1: Labels need to do better.
Speaker 2: Y'all aren't taking the time for artists development anymore and
Speaker 2: doing what y'all need to do for these artists. Because
Speaker 2: if our Lenox was surrounded by the proper team, there's
Speaker 2: no reason that she shouldn't be going down as a
Speaker 2: legendary like air Kabadu. That's how we should be viewing
Speaker 2: ri Lennox twenty years from now. Seriously, like y'all supposed
Speaker 2: to put teams around these people who y'all know that
Speaker 2: are special, but y'all being so fucking cheap and don't
Speaker 2: want to spend the budget because y'all worry about a TikToker. Well,
Speaker 2: one of our friends is a A and R yes
Speaker 2: in a music industry and I was just having a
Speaker 2: conversation with her last week. She works with a lot
Speaker 2: of popular artist too, but she was just saying, like
Speaker 2: right now, in the music industry, it's.
Speaker 1: Just really hard for the artists.
Speaker 2: It's extremely hard because if your music isn't going viral
Speaker 2: on TikTok, it's considered a flop. I'm not gonna lie
Speaker 2: to you. I'm not looking for no TikTok hit now.
Speaker 2: I do find some TikTok hits that I like that
Speaker 2: are R and B songs or like you know, eclectic
Speaker 2: type music. But a lot of the times, the best
Speaker 2: music is stuff that you can really vibe to. And
Speaker 2: that's why we're missing out on so much great music
Speaker 2: because the labels have put money in shit that doesn't
Speaker 2: really have longevity. That's why artists are dropping singles and
Speaker 2: they're not dropping albums. And that's why I'm so glad
Speaker 2: even Carti has taken the approach of I'm gonna do
Speaker 2: what I wanna do, because guess what, You're supposed to
Speaker 2: drop an album every now and then. Artists shouldn't feel
Speaker 2: the pressure to drop an album every year build up
Speaker 2: that anticipation. Let me tell you, when Cardi dropped this album,
Speaker 2: it's gonna go crazy. I wouldn't be a week because
Speaker 2: people have I'm waiting on it and I'm gonna listen
Speaker 2: to it front and better because Cardi Bitch love you s.
Speaker 2: We've been waiting. That's supposed that's what you supposed ready
Speaker 2: for the album? Let them stall, let them starving? Not
Speaker 2: we ready to eat because I'm ready to eat right now.
Speaker 2: Guess what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna tear a burger up.
Speaker 2: But I am what a me want all right. Now,
Speaker 2: it's time to get into our favorite sigment of the
Speaker 2: show because we're about to art house.
Speaker 1: I was just about to say we better call on
Speaker 1: tour because were about to.
Speaker 2: Be but I said.
Speaker 1: You like again. Okay, Now, something to get.
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Speaker 2: your heart out. If you have any questions, make sure
Speaker 2: you send them to ask for Minds at gmail dot com.
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Speaker 2: want me go first? So you oh, yours is over there,
Speaker 2: I'll go ahead. Hey, auntiease I love y'all. Here's the situation,
Speaker 2: me and this girl. We'll call her Jay have been
Speaker 2: mutual friends since high school. About five years ago, we
Speaker 2: became really close and started doing everything together. We meshed
Speaker 2: well because we already were in the same friend group
Speaker 2: and circles. Recently, she's been falling out with all of
Speaker 2: our friends over some real petty shit and no lies.
Speaker 2: She's been in the wrong a lot. There was even
Speaker 2: a time she had an issue with me, but I
Speaker 2: had to diet.
Speaker 1: It real quick.
Speaker 2: I told her that since we're grown, we're gonna talk
Speaker 2: out our problems around here. There was yet another situation
Speaker 2: she was venting to me about and she was dead
Speaker 2: ass wrong. I'm always willing to listen, but if you
Speaker 2: ask for my opinion, I'll tell it. I told her
Speaker 2: she was not doing the right thing. After I said that,
Speaker 2: she basically rushed off the phone, and it's been a
Speaker 2: week since I heard from her side. Note there will
Speaker 2: be several times where her attitude just switches up so quickly,
Speaker 2: league when we're on a trip, or she would be standoffish,
Speaker 2: not wanting to interact, etc. I'm at the point where
Speaker 2: I'm not apologizing for saying how I felt, but how
Speaker 2: she's been acting. I don't see her reaching out. Sometimes
Speaker 2: I feel we just might be growing apart.
Speaker 1: Any tips. Is she giving me bad vibes?
Speaker 2: Or is it just me? So I'll say these Obviously
Speaker 2: we don't have her perspective, and there's always two three
Speaker 2: sides to a story, whatever saying you believe. But I
Speaker 2: feel like if y'all are falling out over kind of like.
Speaker 1: Little shit and petty shit.
Speaker 2: I knew, for example, not trying to make it about me,
Speaker 2: but I had a situation where something happened and I
Speaker 2: called Draft for advice. She didn't say what I wanted
Speaker 2: her to hear, and I hung up in her face
Speaker 2: and I got mad. Why because I wasn't in a
Speaker 2: mature space. Stop asking people's opinion if you don't want
Speaker 2: to hear from it. And that situation taught me I
Speaker 2: have to grow as a person. So I took that
Speaker 2: as Once Drea said, yeah, bitch, you were being a
Speaker 2: fucking weird I was like, yeah, you're right, I'm being
Speaker 2: a weirdo. So a lot of times you may be
Speaker 2: growing apart because if she can't recognize that, and you
Speaker 2: can't recognize that, I think sometimes people need to realize
Speaker 2: if things are happening between you and somebody, it doesn't
Speaker 2: need to be a big situation for a blowout. Sometimes
Speaker 2: it's just God showing you, Hey, y'all don't need to
Speaker 2: be in each other's lives. It don't need to be
Speaker 2: a huge blowout. There's friends that I have been friends
Speaker 2: for for years and nothing happened. We just had different
Speaker 2: interests than we grew apart. So don't take this as
Speaker 2: you have to force a friendship just because y'all have
Speaker 2: been friends for so long, or oh, she's acting this
Speaker 2: way and looking at as a bad thing, because she
Speaker 2: may not be doing anything wrong. You just may not
Speaker 2: be perceiving it well because y'all are just growing apart.
Speaker 2: And that's okay. That's how I feel. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't like people that can't take like constructive criticism right.
Speaker 2: That's not a friend that I want exactly If you
Speaker 2: ask me right, Like, if you ask me about something
Speaker 2: that you want, to give you my opinion and you
Speaker 2: don't take it the right way, I don't have to
Speaker 2: say something that you agree with. If you want to
Speaker 2: know how I feel, I'm going to tell you how
Speaker 2: I really feel. I just feel like that comes with
Speaker 2: emotional maturity sometimes and sometimes it don't come with emotional
Speaker 2: maturity because sometimes you and people are not meant to
Speaker 2: be in each other life. Like it's some people that
Speaker 2: I'm not cool with no more who when I was
Speaker 2: in my early twenties and stuff, I might have said
Speaker 2: something to them that made them feel some type of way,
Speaker 2: but our pasts misaligned for a reason because they was
Speaker 2: never meant to be on a path. And so I
Speaker 2: think that as a younger person, you just have to
Speaker 2: be okay with that and if it's meant to be
Speaker 2: you and that personal cross past again. I have a
Speaker 2: best friend right now who I stop being friends with
Speaker 2: her for over a year and now we like thinking
Speaker 2: thieves again, like we super cool again. If something is
Speaker 2: to be, it's gonna be. Don't force nothing. Lett shit
Speaker 2: be what it is. If you feel like it's bad vibes,
Speaker 2: it's weird energy, let her go her way, You go
Speaker 2: your way.
Speaker 1: Y'all focus on the things that y'all need to focus
Speaker 1: on in life.
Speaker 2: And if y'all are meant to be friends again, y'all
Speaker 2: all find y'all way back to each other after y'all
Speaker 2: have both healed, and the relationship will be even better,
Speaker 2: Like we did that too, because me and Lex did
Speaker 2: not like you. You don't got to emphasize about you
Speaker 2: don't got to emphasize it because everybody took it as shady.
Speaker 2: When Joe was like, because I don't talk about because
Speaker 2: obviously we did an episode with Melissa and Melissa was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's good to see people who get along and they're
Speaker 2: actually friends.
Speaker 1: And Joe was like now and everybody.
Speaker 2: Was like, oh, they I mean, but we talk about
Speaker 2: it all there. It ain't no tea there. They love
Speaker 2: Joe too, but like, it's not no tea. He wasn't
Speaker 2: being shady, So I don't know. I don't think that's
Speaker 2: why I said. That's why I felt the need to
Speaker 2: say we love Joe because I don't feel like he
Speaker 2: was being shady like he was around us at the time.
Speaker 2: They knew we wasn't getting along. So he's seen it
Speaker 2: firsthand and he like, well they get along now, like
Speaker 2: they built a relationship now. And since we're talking about it,
Speaker 2: because I've been name dropping a lot today, maybe it's
Speaker 2: a TV I don't.
Speaker 1: Know what, or espresso.
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. Don't blame that shit on tide.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what that DG's bumba claude, bumba claud.
Speaker 2: All right, question number two, I just go ahead, all right,
Speaker 2: Hey lex Andrea. I've been watching you guys channel on YouTube,
Speaker 2: and first off, I just want to say you ladies
Speaker 2: are absolutely stunny, very beautiful and watching you guys really
Speaker 2: makes me laugh and smile during the difficult times when
Speaker 2: I don't want to smile, So thank you.
Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight.
Speaker 2: I've been single for seven years, but throughout those years
Speaker 2: I have had a lot of field relationships and situationships.
Speaker 1: I know having a man doesn't validate me.
Speaker 2: However, always being seen as good enough to have sex,
Speaker 2: but to have sex with but not good enough to
Speaker 2: settle down with as really taking a shot at my
Speaker 2: confidence and I don't know what to do or how
Speaker 2: to feel. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, and
Speaker 2: as a grown woman, I just want to know how
Speaker 2: to get my confidence back and feel like a bad bitch.
Speaker 1: Can you help me stop having situationships?
Speaker 2: Come on, if men, if you desire a relationship and
Speaker 2: you desire commitment, and men are letting you know that
Speaker 2: that is not the same thing that they desire. Don't
Speaker 2: get them, No, pussy, don't take it further than the day.
Speaker 2: That's where you've been going wrong. See, because I'm sure
Speaker 2: you're a beautiful girl, I'm sure you have a lot
Speaker 2: to offer. But at the end of the day, men
Speaker 2: are opportunities. Men love pussy me, Men love pussy, and
Speaker 2: men need sex unlike women. A lot of the time,
Speaker 2: I feel like people say, oh, women need sex, women
Speaker 2: need sex, We can live without sex. Though I really
Speaker 2: truly feel there's certain men who can live without sex too, monks. Okay,
Speaker 2: I think it's certain men who don't put it on
Speaker 2: a pedestal, but it's very small.
Speaker 1: It's certain men don't put it on a pedestal, for sure.
Speaker 2: However, though I feel like most men, like, okay, I'm
Speaker 2: talking about men who value relationship, Yeah, yeah, who want
Speaker 2: to be in relationship. Okay, Because if we're talking about again,
Speaker 2: like I said, monks, people who have taken a vow
Speaker 2: of celibacy.
Speaker 1: Obviously that's different.
Speaker 2: But a man who is longing to be in a partnership,
Speaker 2: a man who is looking for a wife, men want sex,
Speaker 2: men literally, men in relationships. It has been statistically proven,
Speaker 2: men that are in relationships, men that are married, they
Speaker 2: need sex to thrive and to be able to go
Speaker 2: out into the world and do what they need to do.
Speaker 1: They look to their women when they come home to refuel.
Speaker 2: Them and.
Speaker 1: Recharge girls us and recharge them. So I think that.
Speaker 2: A lot of the time the conquest for men be sex.
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing wrong with that, But if that's not
Speaker 2: what you own, then quietly, cutely nip that shit in
Speaker 2: the bud and move on to the next nigga, move
Speaker 2: on to somebody who wants more from you than that.
Speaker 2: You have to be the person that's like, Okay, if
Speaker 2: he not making me feel like he wants something serious
Speaker 2: for me, I'm gonna cut this shit off and I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna give him sex, and I'm not gonna give
Speaker 2: him that satisfaction because if you give a man sex,
Speaker 2: you're playing into.
Speaker 1: It, and you can't be mad when you don't get
Speaker 1: what you want.
Speaker 2: If you didn't stand on business from jump knowing that
Speaker 2: you want commitment and not standing on commitment, that be
Speaker 2: the problem. And I'm not trying to be hard on you,
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying, if you want to settle down
Speaker 2: and that's what you want, then you have to move
Speaker 2: like somebody who wants to settle down and who knows
Speaker 2: what they want, and I can't be getting tricky. They
Speaker 2: gonna trick you up a little bit. I can agree
Speaker 2: with that because being somebody like I was in a
Speaker 2: situation with this guy that I had dated before, mister Cabo.
Speaker 2: I was in a situation where like when we first
Speaker 2: started going out, he was like, okay. He asked me like, okay, well,
Speaker 2: what are you looking for a ball out? I was like, honestly,
Speaker 2: I knew at that time. I was like I did
Speaker 2: want a man, I wanted partnership, but I was trying
Speaker 2: to be the cool girl and be like, oh, I'm
Speaker 2: just having fun, I'm outside, and he took that literal.
Speaker 2: So when shit played out, I was like, damn, you
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings. He was like, but this is what
Speaker 2: you told me. He was like, if I would have
Speaker 2: known you wanted this, I would one hundred percent gave
Speaker 2: it to you, Like that wouldn't have been a problem.
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of times women are so
Speaker 2: afraid to say what we want because we're trying to
Speaker 2: be so laid back. No first date if y'all have
Speaker 2: this conversation, what are your intentions? What are you looking for?
Speaker 2: Say what you want and be very vocal and hold
Speaker 2: out until you get that, and then they're showing you
Speaker 2: that they want the same thing. And she said it
Speaker 2: took a shot at her confidence. I just feel like
Speaker 2: it shouldn't take a shot at your confidence because a
Speaker 2: lot of the time, what people want in the space
Speaker 2: that they're in has nothing to do with you. It's
Speaker 2: absolutely about their own paths and the type of time
Speaker 2: and it they own. It shouldn't take any shot at
Speaker 2: your confidence because I'm sure you're beautiful, I'm sure you're smart,
Speaker 2: I'm sure you have a lot to add value to
Speaker 2: a relationship into the right men that just ain't the
Speaker 2: right men or the right situation. How a person feels
Speaker 2: about you says nothing about your character and how valuable
Speaker 2: you are, because the one person will treat you like shit,
Speaker 2: the next person will be like, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 2: just struck gold.
Speaker 1: What's some confidence? What sometimes they do?
Speaker 2: Because people ain't she I feel about people sometimes because
Speaker 2: you really trade It doesn't matter that her though, But
Speaker 2: I'm confident should be within yourself. How people feel about
Speaker 2: you shouldn't have an effect on how you feel because
Speaker 2: even though yeah, some people may be right about certain
Speaker 2: people that they are trash, but they don't feel that
Speaker 2: way because they're confident within themselves. So you don't need
Speaker 2: to look for any outside sources to make you confident.
Speaker 1: But I do have a question. So that was our advice.
Speaker 2: But I do have a question.
Speaker 1: You don't feel like trash? People suggest know they trash.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you. That's the problem. So many people
Speaker 2: be like, oh, what a person's opinion to me? Let
Speaker 2: me it shouldn't matter. But what if you really trash?
Speaker 2: So I have something very important because I had went
Speaker 2: through something and that made me realize I got out
Speaker 2: of a situation because this person had did me so
Speaker 2: dirty and so wrong, and I finally was able to
Speaker 2: open my eyes and see. And I was so stuck
Speaker 2: in the place of you know what, Karma's gonna get him,
Speaker 2: Karma gonna shut him down, and he gonna see. And
Speaker 2: I was so wrapped up in the world and the
Speaker 2: universe getting at him so hard, and I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on with this person. But
Speaker 2: somebody had updated me on him, which had pisced me off.
Speaker 2: But they were like, oh girl, he on vacation and
Speaker 2: he doing this in XYZ. So I'm like, you know what,
Speaker 2: maybe that person didn't get their karma. Maybe this person
Speaker 2: has moved on and they are extremely happy. But that's
Speaker 2: okay because that's a part of the healing process. Sometimes
Speaker 2: people do get they get back, but sometimes they really don't.
Speaker 2: Sometimes trash people they will hurt you and they will
Speaker 2: move on and live happy lives. The true thing about
Speaker 2: healing is that you cannot care and you cannot be
Speaker 2: concerned with that. But I didn't say nothing about to
Speaker 2: get back.
Speaker 1: I was just saying, do.
Speaker 2: Letting them know? Yeah, I let them know? But what
Speaker 2: does that do? Not letting them know? I'm just saying,
Speaker 2: do you think that that's a problem that like people
Speaker 2: be trash and may be feeling like they're not. It's
Speaker 2: not about you getting back at them, because at the
Speaker 2: end of the day, like that's stupid, that's childish, that's
Speaker 2: petty to waste your time. But what I'm saying is,
Speaker 2: but like it's so many people who go through like
Speaker 2: feeling like, well, I'm a great person, you know why
Speaker 2: I But guess what different things bring different things out
Speaker 2: of people. So this person may have been trash to me,
Speaker 2: but he may be a great person to that girl
Speaker 2: or that person. I don't know, but that's the part
Speaker 2: that's that I'm saying. That's why it's important to heal
Speaker 2: because I don't know how he's treating her. And I
Speaker 2: also don't care because maybe this person was bad to me,
Speaker 2: but he could be a great person or a friend.
Speaker 2: I had a friend who was trash to me, like
Speaker 2: we were talking about her earlier, but maybe she's a
Speaker 2: great friend to this other person. But the beauty about
Speaker 2: healing is I don't care. I let you know what
Speaker 2: you did to me, and I'll let you know how
Speaker 2: much of a fucked up person you were to me.
Speaker 2: All everything else, I'll just let go and I let god. So, yeah,
Speaker 2: you gotta tell people that they trash sometimes, but maybe
Speaker 2: that person was trashed to you. I don't know, different things.
Speaker 2: But you have to be okay with not caring as well.
Speaker 2: I think that's what it is, the best thing you
Speaker 2: can do. Let a person know how you feel and
Speaker 2: move on to heal. I agree, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: because sometimes people want this karma. Oh the world gonna
Speaker 2: get you. But sometimes the world doesn't get that person.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it does. But the beauty about healing is I
Speaker 2: don't know if the world got back at you, but
Speaker 2: I also don't care. So that's what I was getting
Speaker 2: at as far as like, yeah, you gotta let people
Speaker 2: know they're trash. Sure, but that's more for you. They
Speaker 2: not gonna learn nothing because they don't care. They know
Speaker 2: how they did you right, that person that did they wrong,
Speaker 2: that did you wrong, they know what they did right.
Speaker 2: They're not oblivious to Oh I didn't know. They very
Speaker 2: much know. That's why I'm to the point now is
Speaker 2: I don't really tell people like, oh, you did some
Speaker 2: whole ship unless I really care about you, like cause
Speaker 2: sometimes like it'll be a situation where like you hurt
Speaker 2: my feelings, you really did not know. If you say,
Speaker 2: like you were talking about earlier, I was just saying
Speaker 2: my car got broken into. You didn't know that made
Speaker 2: me mad. People don't even know how I didn't bring
Speaker 2: it up. Well, you just no. But what I'm saying
Speaker 2: is you your intention wasn't to hurt me. Yeah, That's
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I say all that to say
Speaker 2: I was saying I didn't even say that. Shut that
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