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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: It's your girl Lex Pete and it's your girl dre

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Speaker 2: in the cold, and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Where's your mind speaks sober.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: guests today. And I know they be happy when they

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Speaker 2: hear that. I kinda be happy a little bit too.

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Speaker 1: We need to get in a stewp. We do need

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Speaker 1: to get in the studio.

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Speaker 2: You know what. That studio reached out to us. So

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Speaker 2: we're gonna do that, probably like in the next day. Well,

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Speaker 2: that's for a real rap song, though you want to Oh,

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Speaker 2: I thought it was just for fun. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 2: want o shit. I feel like if we're gonna do it,

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Speaker 2: we might as well do it like you want to

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Speaker 2: do a real Yeah, I want to know a real song.

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Speaker 2: I just want to be up in there wasting time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't know you wanted to go

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Speaker 2: to it like we can.

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Speaker 1: Make a heat.

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Speaker 2: I honestly feel like it would be my dream if

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Speaker 2: we went into this we hit wonder. I would love

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Speaker 2: it me too. Imagine if we did a one hit

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Speaker 2: wonder so good and just like want a Grammy and

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Speaker 2: never made a song again. I know goals. I feel

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Speaker 2: like we could do it. I feel like if anyone

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Speaker 2: could do it, it could be good. We gotta do it.

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Speaker 2: So poor crew. When we dropped this song, y'all gotta

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Speaker 2: support it. But I want to make like a shaking

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Speaker 2: ass track. Me too. I want to twark song, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like cause, I mean, but twark songs win Grammys. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: look at Savage. No, I don't agree, y'all. I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying that they don't win Grammys. I ain't agree with

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Speaker 2: you one hundred percent. I feel like we definitely have

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Speaker 2: to make a twork song because what other type of

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Speaker 2: songs we make. I mean, you be singing this shit?

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Speaker 2: I guess I could, but I'll be saying, but I'll

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Speaker 2: be singing this, but I'd be singing Okay, So they

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Speaker 2: be having twark songs like you know, I can bet

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Speaker 2: me on a chorus like remember that song we was

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Speaker 2: talking about the other day's Big Bank and Candy, Oh

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Speaker 2: how you got it? You got my bath me? Okay,

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Speaker 2: tried up? Try up? Yeah. So and we was mad

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Speaker 2: when we seen that clip to shout out to Big

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Speaker 2: Bank and Candy because they performed the song at twenty

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Speaker 2: one Savage Birthday party, and I'm sorry, but the crowd

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Speaker 2: was not hype enough for me. Y'all don't know. He

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Speaker 2: y'all do not know, because let me talk about this song.

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Speaker 2: This song came out when I was still living in Houston,

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Speaker 2: and this is like at a point where, like when

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Speaker 2: you weren't in Atlanta, you wanted to be in Atlanta

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Speaker 2: so bad. Like when this song dropped, it changed the world. Indeed, Okay,

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Speaker 2: won't you with my pivot tried out the world? It

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Speaker 2: changed our world? Shout out to big Bank. Don't do that.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing nothing, I say, but changed the world. When

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Speaker 2: I think about songs that change the world, I think

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Speaker 2: about where are the world right? I think about what's

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Speaker 2: that song by Whitney Houston. No, I think about that.

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Speaker 2: I think about Thriller. I think about cash flow I needed,

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Speaker 2: and I think about try it out. Those are the

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Speaker 2: songs When I think about songs that changed me, I

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Speaker 2: think about those songs. I'm telling you mine, I'm telling

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Speaker 2: your mine. Okay, anyways, bro back to what I was saying.

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Speaker 2: So I brought that song up because I feel like

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Speaker 2: that's how our song was. Yeah, like don't need to

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Speaker 2: be we need we need a Tovin girls. Ain't he's

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Speaker 2: not about to come to no studio with us?

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Speaker 3: Why not?

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Speaker 1: I think he will immature.

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Speaker 2: Speak for yourself. I've been in the stool before. Do

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Speaker 2: you have a song? Yes, I told you I had

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Speaker 2: a song with b King Or I mean that somebody

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Speaker 2: my mama heard it, my sister. That's crazy. Three people

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Speaker 2: heard the song and two of them dead naze, damn,

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Speaker 2: dark humor leaks, dark storry. You know what we were

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Speaker 2: talking about dark in the comments, like these old songs

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Speaker 2: like lift this serious. So I was talking about dark

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Speaker 2: humor the other day with my best friend killer right,

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Speaker 2: So because we had saw somebody on Facebook, they made

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Speaker 2: a dark joke and it reminded me of that time,

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Speaker 2: like this guy not this guy, like my ex had

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Speaker 2: an urn whatever. So I have like this thing where

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Speaker 2: I was like, damn, you're not gonna speak to my

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Speaker 2: mama and he was like what And I was like, damn,

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Speaker 2: my mam is sitting right there. And he was like,

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Speaker 2: that's not funny. I just think that you need to

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Speaker 2: work through these feelings. I was like, hold on, hold on,

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Speaker 2: speak to my mother that we're fun. You're no fun,

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I hate people cannot pick up

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Speaker 2: on the joke. I like, literally, those are the worst

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Speaker 2: type of people. Yeah, we're making a joke and then

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Speaker 2: people can't pick up on it and they make it

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Speaker 2: like a serious so awkward I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: He was like, you need to work through these emotions.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you need to work on your ass my door

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Speaker 2: and he need to go, and he did because yeah, no.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we both kind of got like a

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Speaker 1: little dark humor.

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Speaker 2: I think our humor is so bad that if people laugh.

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Speaker 1: That horrible quick, we wouldnts.

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Speaker 2: We can't talk about it. It's a lot of stuff

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Speaker 2: that we left at that we can't talk about. So

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Speaker 2: what have you been up to? Let's do a ketchup first,

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Speaker 2: cause I have to say something else too. Let's do

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Speaker 2: a ketchup what you've been up to now, you being

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Speaker 2: I been good, but I was see you were seen

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Speaker 2: I was. I mean, I feel like I'm just kind

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Speaker 2: of like getting it back together, like getting back to myself.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know. And I hate when I get

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Speaker 2: seek cause I never get sick. Like when I said,

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Speaker 2: I never get set. I heard it in your voice

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Speaker 2: when I called you, like, I feel like you can

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Speaker 2: still hear it a little bit, a little bit, a

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Speaker 2: little bit because I still was kind of coughing a

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Speaker 2: little bit this morning.

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Speaker 1: You're like, cain't on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just sounded and real nasally it was yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't know. So I had went to Houston

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Speaker 2: for my mom's birthday. No fights is so no fights

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Speaker 2: for I don't know because last time when y'all went

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Speaker 2: to the g Z concert, they got real sticky in

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Speaker 2: the field. Oh, but I've been to Houston again, Helo,

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Speaker 2: Tom since I just had to make sure that you

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Speaker 2: wasn't out there scrapping and I wasn't with the people

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Speaker 2: I was fighting with. Although I didn't fight, I wasn't fighting.

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Speaker 2: I did not participate in the foolishness because when the

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Speaker 2: videos was.

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Speaker 1: On TikTok going viral. Remember people was in.

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Speaker 2: The comics like that, and I was just standing in

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Speaker 2: there looking repose. Oh my god, like get me out

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Speaker 2: of here. But you know, I had to ride for

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Speaker 2: my people though. But don't get me wrong though about

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Speaker 2: that action. We know, we know about that action.

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Speaker 1: But you're like, I do.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm like a little pit bull. Yeah, And

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Speaker 2: I'm like a great name. I'm like big for no

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Speaker 2: reason because I'm not giving Yeah, like I'm definitely I'm

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Speaker 2: the one who'll be ready to fight. I'd be ready

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Speaker 2: to fight about legs. Something happened the other day and

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Speaker 2: I was so mad when we was on the phone.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember. You was telling me about something that

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Speaker 2: I was so mad and you was like, calm down,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I don't know what it was.

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Speaker 1: I think was he I don't know, but.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I think we were talking about that

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Speaker 2: old situation that had happened. We were talking about that

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Speaker 2: weird girl okay, yeah, and I was like, damn, I

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Speaker 2: haven't heard that name in the years. But you know,

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Speaker 2: I've realized, like me, I just don't like fighting. I

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Speaker 2: don't like confrontation. It's so funny when I think about

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Speaker 2: my friend, one of my closest friends, Schedule.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Schedule.

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Speaker 2: One time we was at the club and we heard

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Speaker 2: gunshots and this girl was like, girl, hold on, let's

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Speaker 2: go see what's happening. I said, bitch, I'm going. I ran,

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Speaker 2: she said. She turned around. All she see was the

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Speaker 2: back of my head. Babby, I don't like that girl.

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Speaker 1: That's like me.

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Speaker 2: I don't get me wrong. If I hear some gunshots,

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Speaker 2: I'm a rain. I remember one time, shout out to

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Speaker 2: my best friend Lyn because I remember one time we

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Speaker 2: had went out and it was like gunshots and she

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Speaker 2: ran towards you cause she was like, drell, Wait, my

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Speaker 2: friend is over there. What are you gonna do? Get

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Speaker 2: shot too? Wonder woman? Look, why would you run over

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Speaker 2: there towards the gun? Lenny, It's crazy. You've gotta love her.

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Speaker 2: I gotta love her. But now I was gonna ask

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Speaker 2: you a question, okay, because I had seen something online

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Speaker 2: recently where it said non confrontational people are the worst

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Speaker 2: type of people.

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Speaker 1: Do you believe that?

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Speaker 2: I'm you know what I think in my as i've

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Speaker 2: gotten older, Yes and no, because On one end, I

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Speaker 2: because I've realized, don't force me to have a conversation. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but also, you can't avoid the conversation forever. Now. If

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Speaker 2: this person wants to wait to have a conversation, cool,

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Speaker 2: and they're telling you, Hey, I'm not in the mind's

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Speaker 2: space to talk right now, but eventually, yes, I do

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Speaker 2: want to talk about it. Just give me some time,

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Speaker 2: that's okay. But if they're just avoiding it and they're like, hey, girl,

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Speaker 2: what's up, what's tea? And they're trying to act like

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Speaker 2: nothing happened, then that gets a little weird. I think

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Speaker 2: I used to avoid conflict and confrontation, but now I've learned, Hey,

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Speaker 2: I gotta give me some time to calm down. I

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Speaker 2: need to think about things so I can approach the

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Speaker 2: very emotional. So I don't think they're the worst. I

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Speaker 2: think they're just people who don't understand how to approach conflict. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what they basically was saying, though they were like,

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Speaker 2: non confrontational people are the worst because they don't know

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Speaker 2: how to have the conversation, and then it ends up

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Speaker 2: creating a lot of resentment, yeah, and built up and

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, versus people who are just like, look, beach right,

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Speaker 2: you got me fucked up, but.

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Speaker 1: I don't know whatever the issue is.

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Speaker 2: I don't like people who were like, okay, let's talk

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Speaker 2: about it. No, we need to talk about this now.

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Speaker 2: No wait, wait, like we don't got to talk about

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Speaker 2: this now. Let's just wait till I've calmed down, You've

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Speaker 2: calmed down, and we can both have a logical conversation.

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Speaker 2: So that's real. I did it to my mama to

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Speaker 2: like a few weeks ago, you made her talk you

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Speaker 2: because she had called me while I was out and

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Speaker 2: she was like, I need to talk to you about something.

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Speaker 2: It's like I said, Lauren always says I love you

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Speaker 2: You walk fast? Normally? You be mad? You be walking

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Speaker 2: Little feet, happy feet? That is you for sure. But

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Speaker 2: You turn it on for the camera. I think we

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Speaker 2: when y'all watch poor minds, y'all will literally never know

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Speaker 2: I think he asked me. So when I ordered the drink,

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Speaker 2: a lot. It's a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot over there, like you know already.

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Speaker 2: So anyways, we're gonna get really quick, Tie. Sorry, let

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Speaker 2: we get into the drink. You know what I've really

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Speaker 2: I think we're gonna do that pretty so where we

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Speaker 2: And one thing about it, I love to listen to

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Speaker 2: the audience on what they want to see. Andy you

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Speaker 2: got some ride or die. Yeah. I was at Howard

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Speaker 2: know this is weird, but I love you on poor

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Speaker 2: mine Tie, You're sorry, You're also you're a household name,

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Speaker 2: taking Startender to a new level. I'm telling you and BERNICEA.

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Speaker 2: Gracie don't know about this start Tender now nothing on you.

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Speaker 2: So I think we are gonna do an episode. It's high.

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Speaker 2: I just got to figure out like what that looks

429
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Speaker 2: like and how we want to do it and things

430
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Speaker 2: that we want to talk about, because I know people

431
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Speaker 2: do want to get to know you.

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Speaker 1: But I think it'll be fun. I just feel because.

433
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Speaker 2: There's another episode that we're working on that's a little

434
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Speaker 2: more person it's another episode yet I want to say

435
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Speaker 2: that we're gonna drop before the New Years had warm

436
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Speaker 2: me yes, because you gets the chatty bitch. It's another episode, yeah,

437
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Speaker 2: that we're working on it. We're probably gonna drop before

438
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Speaker 2: the end of the New Year. But it's gonna be

439
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Speaker 2: very personal and it's gonna be like a really good episode.

440
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Speaker 2: I think y'all are really gonna enjoy it, and I

441
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Speaker 2: think it's gonna be the same thing we do an

442
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Speaker 2: episode with you, like real personal with time. We'll have

443
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Speaker 2: to have what's the girl y'all can really get. Yeah,

444
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Speaker 2: so we're gonna have time. So y'all been asking, y'all

445
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Speaker 2: get so anyway, we're drinking today. Okay, this is this one.

446
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Speaker 2: It's called Nutty by Nature. I knew you was like that. Yes, perfect,

447
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Speaker 2: the lines all does. So this one we have your

448
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,920
Speaker 2: spirit of choice, whether there's vodka, tequila. This will also

449
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:17,719
Speaker 2: be really good with like a bourbon or whiskey if

450
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Speaker 2: you're at home.

451
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 1: Well, we have some lime juice.

452
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Speaker 2: We have some pistachio syrup, so that's what's given someone

453
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Speaker 2: like kind of like that nuttiness and pistachio syrup in there.

454
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Speaker 2: And then we added a little bit of anger store

455
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Speaker 2: bitters just to kind of give it a little bit

456
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Speaker 2: more of that herbal flavoring. And we garnish it with

457
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Speaker 2: a toasted marshmallow because this bonfire season, can't wait to

458
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Speaker 2: toast me some marshmallows and Graham crackers. Yes, yeah, so

459
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Speaker 2: we have that one toasted with some marshmallows. And this

460
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Speaker 2: is the Nutty by Nature. This is I really like this.

461
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Speaker 2: I love drinks that like step outside of the box

462
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Speaker 2: because I feel like, you know, every time you go

463
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Speaker 2: out to have a drink, they have the same typical stuff,

464
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Speaker 2: you know, I feel like this is something different, Like

465
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Speaker 2: this is then if I ordered it on to me,

466
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,199
Speaker 2: you'll be like, I never tasted anything else before. I

467
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 2: drink the same thing when I go out, and y'all,

468
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Speaker 2: I messed up. I found a bar by my house

469
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Speaker 2: that has filed all of titos. I'll be going getting slizzard.

470
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 2: She do, and she don't never invite me because I

471
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Speaker 2: just go real quick. I don't stay long. I stay

472
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Speaker 2: for like thirty minutes. I get drunk. I say, bring

473
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Speaker 2: me two double titos, So I'll be having two doubles

474
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Speaker 2: twenty dollars. Oh no, that's okay, baby, you could leave

475
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Speaker 2: me out. I'll be get mine. I'll be walking home

476
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 2: like this. So yesterday and I know exactly what place

477
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Speaker 2: she talking about. So yesterday I tried to go and

478
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Speaker 2: try to get drunk. Yeah you know why I couldn't go.

479
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 2: They had an active shooter. Oh yeah, yeah, it's so

480
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Speaker 2: crazy because I started to go on a walk yesterday

481
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Speaker 2: and then I ended up seeing the post on Instagram

482
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Speaker 2: on Ato school and I was like, oh, never mind,

483
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Speaker 2: because you know I'd be going on.

484
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Speaker 1: My little walks around the neighborhood.

485
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Speaker 2: I had actually went, you know, I was outside. Oh yes,

486
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Speaker 2: and you know what, but before we get to the

487
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492
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Speaker 2: I definitely want to show some gratitude to my therapist Carrie.

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Speaker 2: She's been my therapist for probably that last eight to

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Speaker 2: nine months and she is amazing. We have covered so

496
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Speaker 2: much ground, we have had so many different breakthroughs and yeah,

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Speaker 2: so shout out to her. She's probably my second or

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Speaker 1: But they always make.

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Speaker 2: And also I want to give gratitude to myself because

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Speaker 2: one thing about therapy is you have to stick to it.

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Speaker 2: And I've seen so much growth, so much progress. So

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Speaker 2: shout out to myself. So if you want to start

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518
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Speaker 2: wonder this with shooters, and I don't want to offend anybody.

519
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to be insensitive. I always wonder why

520
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 2: when shooters go out and they do what they do,

521
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Speaker 2: and then they do themselves. You know, you could have

522
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Speaker 2: just skipped that part and just did yourself, Like why

523
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Speaker 2: you gotta take do all this and then you're gonna

524
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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Because I think it's just

525
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: they want people to suffer with them that you know,

526
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 2: they want to take people down. Weird, I mean, but

527
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 2: that's just how people are by nature. You know, we

528
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 2: talk about this all the time. I think that that's

529
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Speaker 2: why when people are going through things, they spewed negativity

530
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 2: and spewed line okay, because they want other people to

531
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 2: and they want other people to feel it. So I

532
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 2: feel like it's the same thing with that because for

533
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 2: you to go and be an active shooter and you

534
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:19,439
Speaker 2: out shooting niggas for no reason. Wait, that was a

535
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 2: little vulgar shooting in because they are they out shooting

536
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 2: This is like okay, So I've been living in Midtown

537
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Speaker 2: for a really long time. I've been living pretty in

538
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Speaker 2: Midtown pretty much the whole time I've lived in Atlanta,

539
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 2: so like seven years, because the first year I lived

540
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: in Atlantic Station right there right which so pretty much

541
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Speaker 2: the same area. So I have been living in Midtown

542
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 2: for like seven years. And it's been like an active

543
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 2: shooter in Midtown like three four times while I've been

544
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 2: living there. That's crazy. That's a lot of time. And

545
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 2: when I lived on the East Side, I was safe

546
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Speaker 2: over there, remember know, you was not. I had an

547
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 2: active shooter overs to be breaking I didn't feel it

548
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 2: used to be. My car did not get broken into

549
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 2: until I moved to Atlantic Station. Well, I don't know.

550
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 2: I think a dude I was Dayton did that.

551
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 3: Well.

552
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna say nothing because last time I said,

553
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 2: you got mad at me? What when I talked about

554
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 2: Oh I did, yes, but yes I was poured in

555
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 2: so I probably got offend you stop talking about where

556
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: I live. I wasn't talking about where you live. I said,

557
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 2: what happened? And you guys so mad at me? And

558
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: I'll get mad at you. Was like when the cameras

559
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 2: turned off. You was like, dre, we need to talk

560
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, what about what? And this is

561
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 2: we used to really get drunks.

562
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Speaker 1: I mean, like, what do you want to talk about?

563
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 2: Because yeah, don't we talking about the east Side. But

564
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: I wasn't. I wasn't. I was just saying my experience.

565
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 2: You lived with me for a little bit. We used

566
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Speaker 2: to have a ball okrry in my little apartment. That's

567
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: why I was only there for a month. I had

568
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 2: to get you on that was a nice accommodation. Your

569
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 2: apartment was yours, the actual apartment, Like when you walked

570
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 2: in the apartment, beautiful home, oh, beautiful gown. I remember

571
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: when my mom came over for the first time. She

572
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: was like, oh God, where are you living? And she

573
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: walked in she was like, oh okay. That's how I felt.

574
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 2: Sweat clutched my furls. But then when I walked in,

575
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: I said, this is nice girl, fix this up real

576
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 2: nice you did. But anyways, like I was saying, I

577
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 2: didn't live in Midtown for a long time. And it's

578
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: been active shooters in Midtown a few times, like last

579
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 2: year around this time, it was an active shooter in

580
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: Midtown last year around this time, and then about six

581
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: months ago it was a shooting at the marta station.

582
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Speaker 2: Somebody got shot. It's, oh, lord, what we're gonna do?

583
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Speaker 3: Move?

584
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 2: Do you think they should make guns? And then it's

585
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: time for us to going on the girl street for

586
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 2: yourself unless I buy a house, and I really don't

587
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 2: want to buy a house in Atlanta.

588
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: I want to buy a house in Houston.

589
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: First. I want a farm. I want a farm. I

590
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: just want a small farm in Atlanta wherever I build

591
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 2: a house, Like, I need a garden. I need like

592
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: three chickens, and I need like I don't need a

593
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 2: cow because I don't drink milk and I don't. I'm

594
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 2: not a big I'm not into that. I'm not into that.

595
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to get into that business. I want

596
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 2: to do things that I want to do. I want

597
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 2: a few. Agriculture is a big market. It is, but

598
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: I'm a lot of I get it. But if I

599
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 2: do anything where I start to sell something, I give

600
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 2: me a cow. You know, I always talk about him,

601
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 2: Jason Murrad a one wagon. I got that in my pants. Yeah, yeah,

602
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 2: I hate that. I nibbled, I nibbled, I nibbled on.

603
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 2: But no, I'll say this if y'all always talk about

604
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 2: Jason Moras all the time. Jason Moras was a popular singer.

605
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: You remember that song? You don't remember? Okay, So anyways,

606
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 2: Jason Moras, he was a singer. He probably still makes music,

607
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Basically, long story short. He has a

608
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: avocado farm. And if y'all know how hard it is

609
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 2: to grow an avocado tree, it's very hard. It takes

610
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 2: seven years for you to grow a tree and for

611
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 2: it to even have the fruit of it on there.

612
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: It's very hard to grow an avocado tree from scratch.

613
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: Most of the time, people get the plants and they

614
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: already have one that's already growing. Anyways, fast forward, Jason Moras.

615
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Speaker 2: He has an avocado farm and he supplies avocados on

616
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 2: like the West Coast. So basically, like all the chipotles,

617
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: all a bunch of farms out there, a bunch of

618
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 2: grocery stores, and he's like a multi millionaire off avocado.

619
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: So if anything, y'all might catch me with like a

620
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 2: tomato farm avocado farm, but like animals, that's not true.

621
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Speaker 2: But no, but if I sell some IRBs, I just

622
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 2: sold a little weed before I sell some stage.

623
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: When the fuck did you sell weed?

624
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 2: I mean it wasn't like I was selling it selling it.

625
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: I had some and I was just like, hey, you

626
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: want this, I ain't gonna smoke it. And I had

627
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: a crackhead that I worked with and she was like,

628
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 2: I get that. And you was comfortable selling drugs to

629
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 2: a crack How do you know she wouldn't have robbed

630
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: I didn't sell because she was my coworker. She was like, bro,

631
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 2: I need to smoke and I was like, oh, I

632
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: got some because it was like something from the dude

633
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: I was talking to at the time. And we wasn't

634
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 2: talking no more. He had left it in the car

635
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: and I was like, you want this much?

636
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: And how much you sold it?

637
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 2: And it was some ridgid too. I know she was mad.

638
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: She was smoking straight.

639
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: Boo boo, flex.

640
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: You've lived so many different lives.

641
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: Drug dealer.

642
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: I was a drug I was a drug dealer, drug dealer.

643
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 2: Wa ain't let me up? Okay, So y'all were trying this.

644
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, so it's the war, he shout out to warheads.

645
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: War war war, War, war War.

646
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: You said, warheads, it's war. I started war at war.

647
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 2: That's wrong, I think. But anyways, this is extreme sours,

648
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 2: extreme sours. So I used to eat these as a kid,

649
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: but like, I haven't ate these in age long. What's

650
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 2: other old candy? If it's still as sour that I

651
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 2: used to eat? Ring pops? Rollos?

652
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: Do y'all remember rollos? I used to eat rollers.

653
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, rollos.

654
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: Were so good.

655
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 2: Ring pops, the sour punch straws I used to do.

656
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: They were nasty, but it were fun. The pets candy, Oh,

657
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: I never liked that. I never liked it, but.

658
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: It was just fun.

659
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 2: Sweet tarts, bubble tape, the but that's still candy that's

660
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 2: still available. I'm talking about candy people. They still have pets.

661
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: They still have pis for real. You can probably order

662
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: it on one now. One candy that I used to

663
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: eat all the time that's still avable. The cookies and cream.

664
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 2: I used to love the cookies and cream candy but

665
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 2: Hershe's yes, that's something I used to eat all the time.

666
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 2: But you know what's crazy? As I've gotten older, y'all.

667
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: I this is how I know age thing is real.

668
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 2: I love crossword puzzles. I love paydays.

669
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: I love a good pay day.

670
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: My mom love payday because me and your mom are

671
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 2: damn near the same age at this point. No, y'all, nice,

672
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 2: close enough. I'm ready, So let's try these chairs. Black

673
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 2: cherry ready, and I have watermelon. Mhm mm hmm.

674
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: That's all.

675
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 2: Murky. But you know what, it ain't that it's tolerable,

676
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 2: but like I feel like it burned my taste buds

677
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: off for me. I still eight nerds, a lot the

678
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 2: nerds clusters. I'm not gonna finish it.

679
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, my eyes started watering.

680
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 2: I'm all right, m m. It's not good though. It's

681
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 2: not a good candy. War heads aren't good. This is

682
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 2: definitely for the kids. I feel like it's good. Especially

683
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 2: it's good once you get the sour off. But that

684
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,720
Speaker 2: sour is like lingering. But anyways, let's get to these topics.

685
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: Got into the first topic. But can I go ahead

686
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 2: and get another shot? And I forgot to talk about

687
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 2: and I didn't even finish talking about me being sick.

688
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: I will talk about you. I will talk let's talk

689
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: about that. And then now I feel a little bit

690
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 2: of good because I was in Houston, and you know,

691
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 2: I was outside and I just feel like everything be

692
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 2: outside in Houston. It be all type of stuff in

693
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: the EU. So I called something and came back. Thank you.

694
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: I don't think it was contagious though, because I've been

695
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: around numerous people didn't. Nobody got it and got my

696
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: cold or whatever. But yeah, I've been doing the de

697
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 2: talks for the past seven day. I really I was

698
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 2: gonna try to do thirty. But clearly that's all right,

699
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 2: that's all right, that's all right. Well you look good,

700
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 2: you look thank you. I normally always do like a

701
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 2: little forty day. Is this the first time you record? No,

702
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 2: you recorded with the Bob for Halloween?

703
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did thank you. The Bob is Bob it is.

704
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 2: This is gonna be the last episode we did, though

705
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 2: I'm switching to hair done. I might go to I

706
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 2: might by the time y'all, by the time this episode drops,

707
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 2: which I'm kind of happy that we're kind of behind

708
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 2: on episodes in the can because this is dropping very soon.

709
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: So by the time y'all see this, I might might

710
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 2: possibly be in Barbados with Killa next week or by

711
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 2: the time y'all see this. So I'm thinking about getting

712
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 2: my hair braided real quick. Bid. Yeah, I'm gonna do

713
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 2: the Bob again. The bib bohs. I need to have

714
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 2: a viobe. What's eating? Yeah? I need I need my

715
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: eat pray love moment for a second, I feel you

716
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 2: on that we need to move. That's how licks I said.

717
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 2: We need to move somewhere for like a month, but

718
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 2: like ould get out. But I'm kind of think of

719
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: where I want to go, because I want to go

720
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 2: somewhere where it's about like wellness and mental health and

721
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: eating good, exercising and just tuning in with oneself. Because

722
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 2: for a while I did want to do the Miami

723
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 2: for a month or yeah, I would like to go there.

724
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: But even if we do something domestically, maybe like an

725
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 2: Arizona like Sedona or somewhere, I'm like, yeah, like somewhere

726
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,919
Speaker 2: that's just like I can just relax. So I've really

727
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: been thinking about like where I want to go, because

728
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 2: wherever I want to do like, I want it to

729
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: be intention It's not like an outside thing. It's a

730
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 2: more like internal, let me focus and get myself together

731
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: type thing. So I'm still definitely thinking about it because

732
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: I still want to do it.

733
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 1: I think we both should.

734
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 2: But I just want to be intentional about wherever I

735
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 2: go and make sure I have the resources to do

736
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 2: the things that I want to do and need to do.

737
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: That's like, you know, we're not getting any younger, you

738
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 1: might as well.

739
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 2: We ain't got nothing to lose. We can all and

740
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,720
Speaker 2: we got places in Atlanta. We can always come back. Facts.

741
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 2: All right, Let's get into these topics today, all right,

742
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: all right, all right, So I want to just talk

743
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 2: about this today. Obviously, this is a hot topic that's

744
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: going on right now, and I wanted to discuss it.

745
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 2: One thing that I say, me, Andre are not TikTokers.

746
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,479
Speaker 2: We don't be on TikTok, But I love because because

747
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 2: TikTok beyond us, there's always you know, I searched poor

748
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: mine on TikTok the other day. There's so many videos

749
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 2: of people like breaking down poor minds, like, oh my god,

750
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 2: the poor minds. Girlies responded all the poor minds. Oh

751
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: if I work for pr for poor minds, this is what.

752
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all, I'll be seeing y'all. Y'all, don't

753
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 2: be thinking I'll be seeing y'all, but I be on TikTok.

754
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 2: So anyway, small but anyway, So basically there's a discourse

755
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: on TikTok because Raymonte and Aliah J had a little speck. Now,

756
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 2: if you know, if you're a makeup girly and you're

757
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 2: into the makeup, and obviously I'm just gonna run down

758
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 2: the situation, but there's another topic that I want to

759
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 2: talk about that's more broad. But basically, Aliah J is

760
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 2: an og YouTuber. She was the it girl at one

761
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 2: point doing makeup blogs, all of that, all of that

762
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 2: I was. I'm still a fan of Aliah J. Love

763
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 2: her content, loved her content, all that good stuff. So

764
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 2: Aliah J had this friend named Justin and he used

765
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: to always appear on her YouTube and appear with her

766
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 2: when she did her blogs. So recently, I guess they

767
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: were doing like a makeup to toyal Q and A,

768
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: and they were talking about influencers then versus influencers now

769
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 2: and Justin God, he went on a little tangent about

770
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 2: how being an influencer then in like twenty fifteen sixteen

771
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 2: you had to actually be talented and versus now you

772
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 2: can walk up to people in Walmart and be like, oh,

773
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 2: you look cute, ma'am, you look beautiful today and get

774
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: a million views on TikTok, and now you're viral. Obviously

775
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 2: that was shade towards Raymonte, and Raymonte responded and he

776
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: went off, so I love Raymonte again, and I want

777
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 2: to touch on that on the show. Mother. I love Raymonte,

778
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: and so I love him and his friends. I love

779
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 2: him and his friend, but I also love Aleah j

780
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie I'm not too familiar. I like

781
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 2: Aleah Jason, I love Aleah j I'm not too familiar

782
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,800
Speaker 2: with Justin And that's no shade because I never watched

783
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 2: Aliah's blogs. I would more so watch her makeup like

784
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: the girl taught me how to beat the face her

785
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 2: and Jackie Aina. That's how I learned my makeup. So

786
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 2: I'm not too familiar with Justin, but i will say this.

787
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 2: I want to talk about Raymonte first because what I

788
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 2: do notice online and like I said, I am a

789
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 2: thirty five year old untie, Okay, I have nephews. I

790
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:36,479
Speaker 2: am a grown, grown woman, raised the generation. I didn't

791
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 2: raise the generation though, because I was never an it

792
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 2: girl back then. I think I am a little bit

793
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 2: of an it girl now, but it's because I have

794
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 2: wisdom and knowledge and I can spread it. So me

795
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 2: being somebody that is in the space of content creating,

796
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 2: I'll say this and I'll tell y'all while Raymonte bothers y'all.

797
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying he bothers Justin. I just I'm

798
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 2: talking to everybody. And this cause gonna lead into the topic.

799
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: Raymonte bothers a lot of people because he is one

800
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 2: of the very few that are in this circle who

801
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 2: can do whatever the hell they want to do. And brands,

802
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 2: major brands still love them because a lot of people

803
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 2: told Cardi, oh, you're gonna have to clean it up. No,

804
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 2: she didn't gloilla, Oh, you're gonna have to clean it up.

805
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: No she didn't Raymonte clean it up. No he don't.

806
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: And a lot of it's a select people in this

807
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 2: life who are chosen to walk that path, but that

808
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 2: path is for them. We are not going to see

809
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 2: too many people that have to move like a Beyonce

810
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 2: and everything's perfect like a Kim Kardashian. Not in twenty

811
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 2: twenty four. I mean, well, I don't think Kim kardashi

812
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 2: needs a good example, though I think she have because

813
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 2: to me, she's another person who move how she wanted them.

814
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 2: But I don't think she does because I do. Every

815
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 2: but everything that Kim Kardashian posts now is strategic. I think.

816
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 2: I think with age, I think with age and becoming

817
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: a mother. I think that she cares way more now

818
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 2: about how things look right, right right, But I think

819
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 2: at one point in time she did not care, and

820
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:17,399
Speaker 2: she did exactly what she wanted. I mean that's fair.

821
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 2: But back on the spect So, how do you feel

822
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 2: about how Raymonte is perceiving how other people perceive him?

823
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: I like Rae, but I also like people who are

824
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: authentically themselves. I agree. I like people that don't conform. Yeah,

825
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 2: people that don't conform to what society thinks that they're

826
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: supposed to be. If you have an opinion and this

827
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,760
Speaker 2: is how you feel, you stand on how you feel

828
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: and this is what I said, and this is what

829
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 2: I mean, and this is what it is. And whoever

830
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 2: don't like you, you don't like you. But I appreciate

831
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 2: the people that do. I like the fact that he

832
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 2: lives and thrives and who he is and people either

833
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: have to accept it or they don't. And that's the

834
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 2: thing about it. Like I always say, you don't have

835
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: to follow people, you don't have to watch them, you

836
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 2: don't have to look at their content if you don't

837
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 2: like it.

838
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: All of the outrage that.

839
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: People be having when it comes to him and when

840
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: it comes to other influencers that are like him, I

841
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 2: think it's just ridiculous because at the end of the day,

842
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: you don't have to consume content that you don't like.

843
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 2: I think he is a breath of fresh air. I

844
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 2: think he says a lot of controversial things that a

845
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 2: lot of people won't say, but he be telling the

846
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 2: truth what people be thinking. They just ain't bold enough

847
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 2: to type it. And I feel like the audience that

848
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 2: is meant for him is always going to gravitate towards him,

849
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 2: and I feel like the opportunities that are meant for

850
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 2: him are always going to gravitate towards him, because what's

851
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: for you is for you. I think a lot of

852
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 2: people don't like people who are bold. I think that

853
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 2: makes people feel some type of way when people are

854
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 2: so bold that they can just stand strongly in who

855
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: they are and what they believe in in their opinions

856
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 2: and not give two folks about what other people think

857
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 2: because most people care. And I think we're in this

858
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 2: whole era of influencers wanting to model after other influencers

859
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 2: who are already successful. So it's like, oh, well, let

860
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 2: me try to be more like and I'm not gonna

861
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 2: say any names, but like, let me try to be

862
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: more like this person because they give a soft life

863
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 2: a study. Let me seriously, let me be more like

864
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 2: this person because they're a little more docile and submissive.

865
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:44,800
Speaker 2: That's a good word. Let me write that down. Nick girls,

866
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 2: shut up, but no, for real though, It's like, I

867
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 2: think we live in this era of people trying to

868
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: water themselves down to be what they think they because

869
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: they see what other people are doing to get the

870
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 2: brand deals. And I think Raymonte be like, fuck that,

871
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: I'm me and the brand deals this for me. I'm

872
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: gonna get them, and if I don't get one, I

873
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 2: don't get it. But I'm still gonna be me online

874
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 2: and I'm still gonna say what the fuck I want

875
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 2: to say.

876
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna do what the fuck I want to do,

877
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: and I'm proud and loud about who I am.

878
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 2: And let me say this too. I want you to

879
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 2: stop trying to make people that are special and know

880
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 2: they're special feel like they're not special, because I hate

881
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 2: when people even see us or see another influence that

882
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 2: they be like, they're not doing anything special. It doesn't

883
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 2: matter what they're doing. We ain't doing nothing special then

884
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 2: why you know, Well, let me say it's about It's

885
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 2: not about them not doing anything special, because maybe I'm not.

886
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 2: I've been on the internet for the past month because

887
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 2: I spit out a fucking cookie. Wasn't anything special, no,

888
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 2: but people found it funny. Some people were mad at me.

889
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 2: I mean, but if they would out a cookie exactly.

890
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: So stop trying to make people feel like they aren't

891
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 2: special when they are. Raymonte is special and that's just

892
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 2: and that just is what it. Some people are just special.

893
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying nobody is better than other people,

894
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 2: because you can find somebody who works a nine to

895
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 2: five job and they are special in that field and

896
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 2: they're gonna work their way up to be very high

897
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 2: in this company because they're special at what they do.

898
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 2: When nobody is better than other people, but some people

899
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: are highly favored. People are chosen in certain fields in

900
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 2: their calling. That's what I'm saying. Yeah, But at the

901
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 2: end of the day, I don't know.

902
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: I don't know.

903
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: I hate talking about these because my opinions on certain

904
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 2: things very comfortable. No, I feel like everybody has something

905
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 2: special about them. But what I'm saying, yeah, but I

906
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: don't think is necessarily what's gonna I don't think it's

907
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 2: gonna necessarily set you apart or make you reach. I

908
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 2: think some people what makes them special is what's gonna

909
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 2: make them reach. Yeah, And that's what I'm saying. Everybody

910
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 2: has something special about them, And since we're talking about Raymonde,

911
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 2: what makes him special is why he's so successful. Some

912
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: people are special in other ways. But I say I'm

913
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 2: that not going to make you success, right. I say

914
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,280
Speaker 2: all that to say it stop trying to take away

915
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 2: from people. We are in a different era. So that's

916
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,240
Speaker 2: gonna get into the topic of influencers in twenty fifteen

917
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 2: versus influencers.

918
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: Now, what is the criteria?

919
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 2: Do I believe that in twenty fifteen and sixteen and

920
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: before that you had to do something different? Yes, but

921
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 2: that was just the times then. That doesn't mean you

922
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 2: aren't talented. I think it still takes talent to be

923
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 2: an influencer.

924
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 3: Now.

925
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 2: I think back in the day, people were more authentic. Honestly,

926
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 2: that's the difference. Back then and now. To me, people

927
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 2: were way more authentic. People were doing what the fuck

928
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 2: they wanted to do with their content and just posting right,

929
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 2: posting because this is what I want to do, this

930
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 2: is what I'm this is my blog, this is what

931
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: I'm doing today. They wasn't thinking twice about it. Oh

932
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 2: let me post this makeup tutorial? Not thinking twice about it? Yeah. People,

933
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 2: Now everybody is trying to be like the people that

934
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 2: are successful, and it's annoying. It's fucked because where is

935
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 2: the originality. Nobody is original anymore. All they do is

936
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,320
Speaker 2: copy off of what they see popular influencers, and it's working.

937
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 2: It works. It's a lot of people who copy people's content.

938
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I'll be scrolling TikTok

939
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 2: all day every day. There's this content creator. She has

940
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 2: like sixteen million followers, not kidding. They caught her stealing

941
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 2: a smaller creator. This girl has like ten thousand followers.

942
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: They caught her with like three or four videos. And

943
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about copy, like, oh, word for word,

944
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 2: bar for bar. They literally have video side by side.

945
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 2: She memorized the girl's videos type shit like that's how

946
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: bad it is. But nobody cares because she has the

947
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 2: bigger following. It's the same thing in the music industry.

948
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 2: If you work the bigger following. Does she get it

949
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 2: from copying the other? Who knows? Probably from other copying

950
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 2: other people, but they can't find them because it works. Now,

951
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: it does work for some people, but that's why it's

952
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 2: people who are jumbled in. Who are the people who

953
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,800
Speaker 2: are actually talented and the people who ain't, And it's

954
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 2: everything gets mixed up. Yeah, and I can say that,

955
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,240
Speaker 2: But what I think about Raymonte, I think he's different.

956
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,359
Speaker 2: I don't think he copies off anybody, but y'all are

957
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: trying to bunch him in with these people who do

958
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 2: that fake shit. And I don't think that's fair to him,

959
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, we can't lie.

960
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 2: He's funny, he's witty, he got it, So stop trying

961
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 2: to take that away just because other people they do

962
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 2: stupid stuff or may copy off somebody, or there's a

963
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: little bull who got shot because he was trying to

964
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 2: do a prank on somebody. You can do anything to

965
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 2: go viral nowadays, and everybody wants their viral moment. But

966
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 2: I don't think Raymonte tries to go viral. I think

967
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,280
Speaker 2: he just no. I think he just said stuff online

968
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 2: any go viral all the time. He can't help it.

969
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 2: Did oh, he can't help it? So stop. I just

970
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 2: felt like snop fit my drink. And like I said,

971
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 2: I don't know much. This is not shade towards Justin

972
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 2: or anybody, but this is not only I see a

973
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: lot of people coming for raymonse online and a lot

974
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 2: of people just coming for peace. People who are special,

975
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 2: like some people just have the gift of gab and

976
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 2: they can sit with their phone in their face and

977
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 2: people are interested and people are just interested. So I

978
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 2: think the difference between influencers then influencers now influencers. Then

979
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 2: it wasn't as competitive, not a lot of people were

980
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 2: trying to do it, so you had to stick out,

981
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 2: you had to be different. Now not so much. You

982
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 2: can do anything. People literally sit on their camera eating

983
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 2: and make a living from just eating. I see the

984
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 2: girl she made and mind you, no shade to the

985
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 2: mok bang people, but shade, I don't want to see

986
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 2: nobody eating. She ate foods and le bowl is seven bites.

987
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 2: I saw that seven bites, but that was and washed

988
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 2: it down with some drita. Well that was a little intriguing,

989
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 2: just like that man who eat the pop Pye's be

990
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 2: skinny in one bie. Oh my no, I like him,

991
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 2: like friend, come on, come on, come on, come get

992
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 2: I like him. I like him too. But it's very

993
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 2: few influencers that do like the muck Bangs and the

994
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 2: eating content that I actually like because I feel like

995
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 2: it's just such low hanging fruit it is. I mean,

996
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 2: I'm if you make money off of it, cool, but

997
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: it's such low hanging fruit, Like it's like, oh, let

998
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 2: me set the tropod up and eat every time. It's

999
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 2: smack real hard and slurt real hard and like it.

1000
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: I do think it's obviously it is an audience for that.

1001
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,839
Speaker 2: That's why a lot of those people become really successful,

1002
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 2: the as and R and stuff and you know, smacking

1003
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 2: and whispery what's the name? We got a credit the

1004
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: originator on that lady? Yes, with the wiyes, that's my favorite,

1005
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 2: y'all did y'all stole it from her?

1006
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: I remember her name?

1007
00:50:56,239 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 2: Yes? What is that lady name? She used to be you.

1008
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 2: I used to use her memes. I know, mean so

1009
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: she used to be typing. Yeah, I know exactly who

1010
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: you're talking about. The og Love No, well, be love

1011
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 2: is one of these.

1012
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 1: She's one of the ogs.

1013
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 2: Though, because she started she was the first person I

1014
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 2: seen breaking brab.

1015
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 1: And she made her own sauce and everything.

1016
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 2: Made her own.

1017
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:17,760
Speaker 1: I lovely.

1018
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 2: But but yes, I think that's what and so that's

1019
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 2: what I was saying. Like some people that have gotten

1020
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 2: in that lane, they have done very well with it.

1021
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 2: But like now, in twenty twenty four, because be Lovely

1022
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 2: she started getting popping, like I don't know, maybe like

1023
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen even before that. I think right

1024
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: now it's such low hanging fruit, is what I was

1025
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 2: getting at. Like, I think everybody is just trying to

1026
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 2: do it because they've seen the Pioneers, they've seen the ogs,

1027
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 2: the people like the Pioneer. Okay, but but no, are

1028
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 2: you not if you no? I know, but I'm saying,

1029
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,479
Speaker 2: are you not if you've made millions of dollars from

1030
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 2: me and you have millions of subscribers on YouTube? Like, hey,

1031
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 2: I can't hate them. We're pioneers and talking ship. No

1032
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 2: we are. We talked that hot ship. We do.

1033
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: We do, and that's why people don't be liking It's

1034
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: we be.

1035
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 2: Damn people don't like, Oh my god, I guess who

1036
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck me? Okay, okay, okay, so yeah,

1037
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 2: let us know what y'all think. Shout out to ray

1038
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: Monte Malik and and Aliah J and justin shout out

1039
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 2: to all y'all. We just had to use y'all for

1040
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 2: a little example. You know, we've been trying to be

1041
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 2: in the know with what you know, the streets got

1042
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 2: going on, because I feel like we just be so

1043
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 2: uninvolved and in our own little world.

1044
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 1: Don't tell me to take no shot then be taking

1045
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: all day to take this ship.

1046
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 2: But I've been trying to be in and talking. You

1047
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 2: know what talk. It's that espresso. Yeah, it's that espresso.

1048
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 2: And I was about to be the titos too. So

1049
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 2: we're talking topic number two. What's up, y'all? Is your

1050
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 2: girl XP and it's Sugarl draining the call. And y'all know,

1051
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 2: we always have a little financial for y'all, So we

1052
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 2: gonna tell y'all about Chime dot com. Yes, I love

1053
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 2: Chime because it makes it super easy to take control

1054
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,919
Speaker 2: of your finances. I love that they have fee free

1055
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: overdrafts up to two hundred dollars and they have spot

1056
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 2: me booze. So if you ever need a little cash

1057
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 2: and you strapped for it, Chime has your back. And

1058
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 2: the best thing that I like about it is if

1059
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 2: you have direct deposit, you can get your check up

1060
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 2: to two days early. I don't know about y'all, but

1061
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 2: I mean needing that little forty eight hours to get

1062
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 2: my money back. You know what I mean early? That's

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Speaker 1: Okay, soft a topic number two.

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00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:22,800
Speaker 2: I really want us to talk about the influencer to

1080
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 2: religious influencer pipeline like it's been happening a lot like

1081
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 2: like I think that you know, when people be feeling

1082
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:35,879
Speaker 2: in other lanes, then they want to get all spiritual

1083
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 2: and it's nothing wrong with that if it's genuine, like

1084
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 2: if you genuinely have had a come to Jesus moment.

1085
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you genuinely have had.

1086
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: A come to Jesus moment and you really are trying

1087
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 2: to grow closer in your walk with God and closer

1088
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 2: in faith and you know, walk the right path, then

1089
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 2: I'm all for it. But if you you doing it

1090
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 2: for a come up, or if you're doing it for

1091
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 2: money because you.

1092
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: Know, or even worse a man.

1093
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 2: They doing that too, Like, if you're doing it for

1094
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 2: the wrong reasons, then I'm just not we getting messy.

1095
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 2: I had to cheat my gun. If you're doing it

1096
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 2: for the wrong reasons, I'm just I'm just not here

1097
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 2: for that because one thing, I play about a lot

1098
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 2: of things, I don't think you should play about guys

1099
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: for real though, I really don't like. To me, that's

1100
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 2: not something to play with. Religion is not something to

1101
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 2: play with, and I feel like it's preying on people's weaknesses.

1102
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 2: Like influencers who are doing that now are no different

1103
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 2: from pastors who we have found out about back in

1104
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 2: the day who were like laandering money, stealing money. It's

1105
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 2: a pastor from Houston, popular.

1106
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 1: Pastor, remember we saw that pastor in the club at.

1107
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 2: You know who? We Oh, I don't. I'm gonna tell you.

1108
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,839
Speaker 2: After we saw him at the party, Yes we girl,

1109
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 2: you know we did, cause I was like, he.

1110
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: Said, came to the party for the photos.

1111
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 2: He was like this bow bow bow bowl. He was nice.

1112
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 2: He was nice because I remember, I really would have

1113
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 2: remembered that he was doing all of that. But no,

1114
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 2: I said, you shut up. But now I feel like

1115
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 2: the pastors, I mean not the pastors, the influencers that

1116
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 2: been in there are no different from the pastors who

1117
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 2: be stealing money from the congregation. Agreed, It's like it's

1118
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 2: the same thing, same thing, different game. This is what's

1119
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 2: this is what's so hard. So I never talk about

1120
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 2: this on the show. I never I've mentioned it before,

1121
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 2: but I mentioned it to you. I have gone on

1122
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 2: and it's still going on a very personal, private, spiritual journey.

1123
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 2: I don't talk about it to nobody except my therapist.

1124
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 2: I just because it's not y'all business. And we talked

1125
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 2: about this on the episode. We were talking about desperation

1126
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 2: in your thirties. A lot of times these middlemen are

1127
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 2: messing up your journey. And when I say a middle man.

1128
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 2: It's because you're trying to connect through God. You're trying

1129
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 2: to connect to God through somebody. You need to go

1130
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: directly to the source. Okay, Sometimes y'all are listening to

1131
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: people who are not God sent to preach this word

1132
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: to you, and y'all are listening to people who have

1133
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 2: ulterior motives. And it gets scary to me because it

1134
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 2: was one particular person. I'm not gonna say no names,

1135
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 2: but I remember when she posted this shit. I remember

1136
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 2: our call dre because at the moment, unbeknownst to a

1137
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 2: lot of people around me, I was going through mine

1138
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 2: and I'm just you know, I'm seeing things, I'm noticing things,

1139
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 2: and I'm just like I just remember being so vocal

1140
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 2: about it to my friends. So I was like, this

1141
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 2: is so crazy, and I'm interested to see how this

1142
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 2: is going to turn out. And it turned out exactly

1143
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 2: like I thought. And I just think it's so crazy

1144
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 2: because I am afraid of people like that. I am

1145
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 2: afraid of people who can get on like I understand

1146
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 2: the responsibility of poor minds and that we have and

1147
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 2: we've created a safe space. That's why I try to

1148
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 2: be on here and be as careful as I am,

1149
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 2: and I know we get on here and I say

1150
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 2: jokes about Church and about God, but I always say

1151
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 2: God gave me my humor. So when I make jokes

1152
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 2: about Church or God, I don't care what y'all have

1153
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 2: to feel because I went directly to the source from it.

1154
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 2: I mean, but we've also never tried to capitalize off

1155
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,920
Speaker 2: of our relation hello God, like Imona, never tried to

1156
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 2: make money off of the fact that we have a

1157
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 2: relationship with God, or like our spiritual journeys. I think

1158
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 2: it's so crazy and it's scary. Now do I want

1159
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 2: to meet your names or mom? I don't care.

1160
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,920
Speaker 1: That's so do you Okay? So I gotta take that

1161
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: up with God.

1162
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 2: You right, You're right. I was interested in this person's

1163
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 2: journey because I have a different view than everybody else has.

1164
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 2: And since we're talking about TikTok and influencers today, that's

1165
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 2: gonna be the theme of today. The TikTok way they

1166
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 2: don't love you, No, that's a that's a challenge on

1167
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:33,919
Speaker 2: TikTok right now, aunt tiv knowing no way, they don't

1168
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 2: love you like I love you. Come on now, catch

1169
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 2: up Mustard. So there's an influencer. She's extremely popular on TikTok.

1170
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: Her name is Amani, So Amani has a podcast. I

1171
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 2: don't personally know Amani. We've met her before, and Amiani

1172
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 2: is someone who talks about like relationship topics a lot.

1173
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 2: She used to talk about you know, oh we met her,

1174
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 2: That's what I said. I don't know her personally, but

1175
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 2: we've met her before. She was somebody who used her

1176
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 2: platform to talk about, you know, dating and dating somebody

1177
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 2: who is on your level or higher. You know, kind

1178
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 2: of the content that we used to do, same thing.

1179
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 2: I was never mad at the thing she said. She

1180
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 2: was another person who had controversial opinions that she stood

1181
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 2: on business. Now Amani's kind of changed her tone and

1182
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 2: she's kind of talking about religious things and people are like, oh,

1183
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 2: but you were just a bartender last week and you

1184
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 2: were just this last week, and you're I'm not gonna lie.

1185
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 2: I might bite, this might hit me in the ass

1186
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 2: later on. I don't think Amiani is I don't think

1187
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 2: she playing. I think this is really like her word

1188
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 2: and what she believes in. Who she was. You know.

1189
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 2: What I think was fake.

1190
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: I think was fake was her trying to speak on

1191
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: the dating shit.

1192
01:00:57,600 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 2: I think she was trying to do something in that

1193
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 2: moment to feel like, Okay, I'm not saying and this

1194
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 2: is just my opinion because I don't know her, but

1195
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 2: I think she was trying to conform to what society

1196
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 2: thought they could see from her because she's a beautiful

1197
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 2: woman living in Atlanta. She may be dating certain type

1198
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 2: of men to live a certain type of lifestyle. But

1199
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 2: I think this might be what she really was, because

1200
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 2: she was like I was raised in the church, Like

1201
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 2: this is what I really knew. And sometimes you get

1202
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 2: caught up in shit because I know me. I'm another example.

1203
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 2: When I first moved to Atlanta, I got lost in

1204
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 2: the sauce. I lost myself. I was like, yo, can

1205
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 2: get you abd day, go outside, smoke the hooks, eat

1206
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 2: the lamb chops. And I was eating them lamb chops, bitch,

1207
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 2: and I was shaking that lamb. Why are you shaking?

1208
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 2: Like That's how I used to do it.

1209
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: I used to be in the club.

1210
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 2: But I don't know though, Like, see, the thing to

1211
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 2: me what happened. The thing to me is I don't

1212
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 2: necessarily think that that's lost, Like I think being in

1213
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 2: your twenties and finding yourself and exploring different versions of

1214
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 2: yourself is normal, like me partying and being outside and

1215
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 2: like dating some of the people that I dated when

1216
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 2: I was in my twenties smoking who could eat lamb chops.

1217
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 1: I think that was a part of my lamb chop.

1218
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 2: By the way, ooh, it been a minie.

1219
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: Honestly lampop this week.

1220
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:26,439
Speaker 2: I know, I know what to say. Minute. I haven't

1221
01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 2: had a lamb chop in If you eat a lamb chop,

1222
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 2: I know you've been outside. Yeah, because if I ask you, like,

1223
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 2: because what's your favorite If I ask you lamb chop?

1224
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 2: If I ask you what's your favorite restaurant and you

1225
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 2: were like, oh girl, they got good lamb chops, bitch,

1226
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 2: I'm not going Yeah, that's a lamptop in Atlanta is

1227
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:48,240
Speaker 2: a staple like if you having lamb chops, you outside,

1228
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 2: don't talk to me about you outside. You are you

1229
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 2: at the lounges, You at the Hookah lounges, cause that's

1230
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 2: why they be having the best lamb chops, mac and cheese,

1231
01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 2: little broccolini on the side. You know, I loved me

1232
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 2: a good play. But what I'm saying is go back

1233
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 2: to the topic. It's okay. I just feel like that

1234
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 2: is a part of your journey, you know, like I

1235
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 2: had an outside moment when I was younger because and

1236
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 2: it's okay because to me in your twenties, that's what

1237
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 2: you're supposed to do. But it like outside dick keeping

1238
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 2: them it ain't keep me sick. Now, I'm talking about

1239
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 2: like when you was outside used to make them niggas mad. Well,

1240
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 2: when he said that outside did keep them hostick, I

1241
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 2: thought he meant like he gave hood you. No. I

1242
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 2: thought he meant like that outside dick, Like my dick

1243
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 2: outside is making you mad because I'm giving it. See,

1244
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 2: this is why we interpret that. This is why I

1245
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 2: love having conversations with people, because it's so interesting how

1246
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 2: the human brain works.

1247
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: It's crazy how we can hear the same thing and interpreting.

1248
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 2: Tom took it as I'm outside and I'm giving other

1249
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 2: holes that dick and you sick because you think I

1250
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 2: belong to you. No, I thought it. I thought that

1251
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 2: didn't mean that outside did keep them house sick because

1252
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 2: he'd be fucking everybody wrong and then he'd be bringing

1253
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 2: it back home and not everybody gotta take nobody and

1254
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 2: the little Penicillian shot. I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong,

1255
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 2: Maybe we're both from We need to have juvenile on

1256
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 2: because we can't ask the other one because he up

1257
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 2: there with Annie. Oh, Michael Jackson. So I'm just slim,

1258
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 2: but got his name? Wait? What who is Annie? My mama?

1259
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 2: You said you sat up there with any I don't

1260
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 2: know why I started thinking of Annie. Are you okay?

1261
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 2: Because she's not. She's okay, bitch. That's why I said,

1262
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 2: are you She fine?

1263
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: Because she with the Lord.

1264
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 2: She's also with the Lord. She was a motherfucker. She

1265
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 2: went on to be with the Lord. I thought she

1266
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 2: was talking about Michael Jackson because he had this home. Annie. Yeah,

1267
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 2: I didn't think he was talking about your mama though. Yeah,

1268
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 2: he was talking about your mama. Probably my mom used

1269
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 2: to set that thing out. Know, my mom used to

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Speaker 2: be honest, what if Michael Jackson? What's my daddy? That's

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Speaker 2: why I can no he came through.

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01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: Now, your daddy was Teddy?

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01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 2: My daddy, y'all. My daddy looked exactly like Teddy pint

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01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 2: of grass. You do, that's crazy, It's really crazy. My

1275
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 2: uncle looked like, well, when I be looking at you,

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01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 2: I don't know who you look more like, I don't

1277
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 2: know if you look more like your mama or your daddy,

1278
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 2: because you like a good mixture. I'm a good mixture.

1279
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: Now my sister looks like my dad. It's crazy because really, yes,

1280
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 2: people see my sister be like, oh, she looks like

1281
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 2: her mom. My sister has a very chiseled face. So

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01:05:55,360 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 2: my sister has almond shaped eyes. So the almond shape eyes,

1283
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:03,680
Speaker 2: that's a trait that my dad had. I have, like

1284
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 2: the big face, the stuff face, that's my mom had that.

1285
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 2: So my sister looks like my dad. I look like

1286
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 2: my mom. Both did though.

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01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 1: Anyways, bro amen crazy to them people? Then they used

1288
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 1: to do that back in the day. That's what the

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Speaker 1: track stars do.

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01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah for should they be doing that ship and be

1291
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:34,919
Speaker 2: running the thirteen? Look y'all be slow as hell talking

1292
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 2: about shout out to my daddy too. He right now?

1293
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 3: He is?

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01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 2: Did I ever tell you one time? Man? I don't

1295
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 2: want to get uncomfortable because he feels like he'd be

1296
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 2: looking at him, And why you be beating at me?

1297
01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie though. I try not to beat

1298
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 2: it with these hands, but you're right, yeah, I try

1299
01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 2: to do it. I know he'd be mad Man. He

1300
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:01,880
Speaker 2: was the right here. No, but that's why I feel

1301
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 2: like now I probably could do a lot of things

1302
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 2: with both ends, not you. What's it called ambidextris ambidextrous. Yeah, yeah,

1303
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 2: that's me learn I did. But anyways, how we started

1304
01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 2: talking about beating Dick and we supposed to be talking

1305
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 2: about the Lord. This show is horrible, horrible, horrible. Back

1306
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 2: to what I was saying, I feel like people religious people.

1307
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: Will spend a lot of money on religion and on

1308
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 1: their beliefs, and.

1309
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 2: I want them people to start out. That's why.

1310
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 1: Yes, and so that's what I was about to say.

1311
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 2: I feel like that's why so many influencers are like

1312
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 2: following that pipeline and going that way because they know,

1313
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 2: like if I can convince people that I have changed

1314
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 2: my life around and I was just a sinner and

1315
01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:57,000
Speaker 2: I'm born again, you can do it too.

1316
01:07:57,920 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: And I got back up again.

1317
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,720
Speaker 2: You should what's that ad? You? You should be here? Yeah,

1318
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 2: but it's and they will give their money to you

1319
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 2: because they feel like you are a changed woman, like

1320
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 2: you have been saved.

1321
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 1: I just think it's so I just think it's so

1322
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 1: messed up to take advantage.

1323
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 2: It's predatorial. Predatorial. Yeah, like you can be like you're

1324
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,960
Speaker 2: a predator for different Yeah, you can pray on the

1325
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 2: week That's what it is, your predator. You're praying on

1326
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 2: the weekend. There's very few people that I believe their journey.

1327
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:32,400
Speaker 2: There was another event that went on this past weekend

1328
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 2: and I didn't get to make it, and I saw

1329
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 2: a lot of clips from it. But this is another

1330
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,840
Speaker 2: person who I have always loved from a distance, and

1331
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 2: I see everything that she's going through and I'm like, man,

1332
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:45,559
Speaker 2: I think that's why a lot of people resonate with us,

1333
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 2: the people that really follow us and see how we

1334
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 2: talk on lives and they see how we talk on

1335
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 2: a daily basis, Like I get online. If you're not

1336
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:54,559
Speaker 2: a part of the poor crew, I really don't want

1337
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 2: to talk to you because I'm not here for you.

1338
01:08:56,760 --> 01:09:00,599
Speaker 2: I have a message to send about feeling good about yourself,

1339
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 2: about mental health, and those are the people I need

1340
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 2: to reach about being a black woman and being unapologetically you.

1341
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to talk to. I'm not trying

1342
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 2: to talk to the people who don't like me and

1343
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 2: don't understand me and they feel like, oh, lex Andrea

1344
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 2: All they care about is being bad at me and cute.

1345
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 2: I'm not for you because if you know me, you

1346
01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 2: know I mean, that's not all I care about. But

1347
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 2: he's a good point. I mean either way, I don't

1348
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 2: get I'm not here for you. But this person's journey,

1349
01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 2: you ain't wrong. If I wasn't bad and cute one day,

1350
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:31,519
Speaker 2: I would be very upset, Like if I woke up

1351
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 2: and I was I was trying to preach the word

1352
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:38,599
Speaker 2: and give a message and good I was at night

1353
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 2: and god, yeah, oh my god, why would he do that?

1354
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 2: That was another one take an advantage and god, he

1355
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:48,680
Speaker 2: did that.

1356
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 1: On purpose to wake your his name past the Curney time.

1357
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. But he was selling holy water, bro.

1358
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 2: You know you out of line. He was selling the water.

1359
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 2: Ain't nothing wrong with it? Man, sell water in the store.

1360
01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 1: No, because but you know what you try to attack.

1361
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 2: They sell water in the stores. But don't try to sell.

1362
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 2: Don't put in water. Just sell water for you. But

1363
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 2: if you really think about it, selling water, period is

1364
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:17,519
Speaker 2: up because water is free. Come on now, come on, capitalism, queens.

1365
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 2: I'm just saying you need to start a serious call

1366
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 2: and go down to your local spring and fill up

1367
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 2: your jas. We need to start a segment called capitalism

1368
01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:29,559
Speaker 2: Queens and talk about what people don't need to spend

1369
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 2: their money.

1370
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,680
Speaker 1: They don't and we need to ruin capitalism. Now about that.

1371
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:36,560
Speaker 2: It's gonna taste like minerals might taste a little. You

1372
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 2: might need to, but I mean so, and for water

1373
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 2: is paying for water is crazy. Paying for a lot

1374
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 2: of things is messed up. That's why I'm finna get

1375
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 2: some chickens. My man his having chickens offcause Eleventh Street

1376
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 2: is crazy. I'm not gonna have my chickens on eleven Street.

1377
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 2: Yes you are, no not. I'm gonna get my chickens

1378
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 2: when I move. Now, don't come over my house asking

1379
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 2: me for something basil, because I got my basil grown.

1380
01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 2: I am well ask to basil. I'm not gonna ask

1381
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 2: for cheeky. I don't eat cheeky. Anyways, getting back to

1382
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 2: the point of the lady I was talking about. I

1383
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 2: was talking about Megan Ashley because I be in the

1384
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 2: know of a lot of things that's going on. She

1385
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 2: had the podcast with b Simone and you know everything. Okay, Yeah,

1386
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:29,240
Speaker 2: Like I said, I like b Simone, I like making

1387
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 2: ash but like I said, with my spiritual journey, I

1388
01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:35,040
Speaker 2: have followed, I follow a lot of people, and I

1389
01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 2: just like to see what people got going on. And,

1390
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 2: like I said, the only reason I felt this way

1391
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,560
Speaker 2: to speak on it because I wanted to go to

1392
01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:44,880
Speaker 2: the Act two forty two event that happened this past

1393
01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 2: weekend and I saw like clips of her speaking at

1394
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 2: the event, and I'm just like, I'm just enjoying watching

1395
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 2: her journey, you know what I'm saying. And I feel

1396
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:59,600
Speaker 2: like their paths, you know, obviously separated, and you know,

1397
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 2: be someonea's still successful doing the things that she wants

1398
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 2: to do, and so it's you know, Megan.

1399
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: But I'm just glad because sometimes when.

1400
01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 2: You depart from somebody who is like that huge, it's

1401
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:11,320
Speaker 2: like you feel like where do I go next? So

1402
01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:13,560
Speaker 2: I always be interested in looking like kind of like

1403
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 2: at the underdog and what they're gonna do next, because

1404
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:20,559
Speaker 2: you know, I've had situations where I split from people, things, companies,

1405
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 2: anything where I felt like, oh my god, I dropped

1406
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 2: the ball? How do I pick up the pieces? But

1407
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,920
Speaker 2: She's one person that I feel like she is like

1408
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 2: true and pure in her you know, spiritual journey and

1409
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 2: like her words are interesting, and they can give you

1410
01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 2: a perspective that's kind of like true to what she

1411
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:40,800
Speaker 2: know she really feels. So I say all that to

1412
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 2: say is just be careful who you follow. And I

1413
01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 2: always say when you trying to get the word, sometimes

1414
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:48,800
Speaker 2: y'all just really need to sit down and just read

1415
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 2: the Bible directly. Yeah, I mean, I feel like that's

1416
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 2: the best way to do it. That's why the Bible

1417
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 2: is there. The Bible is literally the blueprint. It's literally

1418
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 2: in it's literally direction. Anything that you have any questions about,

1419
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 2: it's all there in the Bible. Anything that you need

1420
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 2: answers for you can get on Google. Oh i'm struggling

1421
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 2: right now with Fays. It'll oh, this is how I

1422
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:18,639
Speaker 2: know God is real. Yeah, I'm struggling right now with Fays.

1423
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 2: It will tell you what scriptures you need to read.

1424
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 2: I'm struggling right now financially, it will tell you what

1425
01:13:24,160 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 2: scriptures you need to read. Let me, I'm struggling with betrayal.

1426
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:31,360
Speaker 2: These are the scriptures you need to read. Like, the

1427
01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 2: Bible is there for a reason so many people don't

1428
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 2: want to dig deep into it because at the end

1429
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 2: of the day, I think the problem with people is

1430
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 2: a lot of people don't want to dig deep into

1431
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 2: the Bible and into religion because they cool with living

1432
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:47,760
Speaker 2: a life the way that they live in it. So

1433
01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:50,640
Speaker 2: it's like they rather just not know because it's like,

1434
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 2: once you know, you be in de so obedient or

1435
01:13:54,960 --> 01:13:56,640
Speaker 2: what you want to do, you be in disobedient. So

1436
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:58,800
Speaker 2: it's better to just not knowing. And people don't like

1437
01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:01,000
Speaker 2: when that mirror held up to them. I had to

1438
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 2: hold that mirror up to me and it felt very uncomfortable.

1439
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 2: But you were talking about faith. So I literally sent

1440
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 2: this to one of my closest friends this morning. It's

1441
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:09,800
Speaker 2: a scripture, and then we gonna move on because I

1442
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 2: when you the first thing you brought up was faith.

1443
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 2: And this is one of my favorite scriptures. Is very

1444
01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 2: short just because of the underlying meaning. Right, So it's

1445
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 2: Matthew eight twenty six and it says he replied, you

1446
01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:28,120
Speaker 2: of little faith, why are you so afraid? Then he

1447
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 2: got up rebuked the winds and waves, and it was

1448
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 2: completely calm because one thing I know, if your faith

1449
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 2: is stronger than your doubt, you know everything is gonna

1450
01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:39,640
Speaker 2: work out in your favor, and you know everything is

1451
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 2: gonna be Okay, So sometimes you need to just be

1452
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 2: still and let things because if your faith was stronger

1453
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 2: than your doubt, you wouldn't worry, you wouldn't stress, you

1454
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't feel this way, you wouldn't feel the need to

1455
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,519
Speaker 2: get on TikTok, or you wouldn't feel the need to

1456
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 2: go through these people to give you the words. Sometimes

1457
01:14:58,000 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 2: you have to go directly and get the words. And look,

1458
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get to and deep into it. We're

1459
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:07,519
Speaker 2: gonna get ratchet again. But like I said, you have

1460
01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 2: to be very weary and just have discernment when it

1461
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 2: comes to the word, because you have to be careful

1462
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 2: and a lot of these influencers are, you know, just

1463
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 2: trying to get a quick check, and it's very scary

1464
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 2: what people will do. Money is the root of all evil,

1465
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 2: and I truly believe that. I agree.

1466
01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 1: Damn that's a good point because it is the root

1467
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 1: of all evil.

1468
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:34,519
Speaker 2: Everything will do anything for money. Everything evil, the most

1469
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 2: evil things I have seen because I used to work

1470
01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 2: in the strip club. Can we take a pause, coughe

1471
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 2: they're trying to come out shape shape shape shape the

1472
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 2: devil in the name up geez, shake the devil, Come

1473
01:15:56,960 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 2: on I got you. I'm gonna sing it out of

1474
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 2: you every time.

1475
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 1: No, yeah, we just need to delete that.

1476
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 2: But I'm ah, no, we need to keep that in.

1477
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:12,600
Speaker 1: And I need to see that, see way me coughing, No,

1478
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:13,800
Speaker 1: they need to see it.

1479
01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 2: I don't seen Carmelicious Cream in the strip club do

1480
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 2: some dirty things for a piece of chime it the.

1481
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 1: Fuck it is car Malicious Cream.

1482
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 2: The stripples because sometimes you know what I'm saying. You

1483
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I don't. We don't seen people

1484
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 2: do some evil things and mean things behind money. So

1485
01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 2: that's what I'm telling the people, the consumers be just

1486
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Speaker 2: be weary and be use your discernment. Now, That's all

1487
01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Yeah, that's true. I mean people definitely be

1488
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 2: doing weird stuff behind money. But what's the strangest thing

1489
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 2: you did for a piece of change? Me?

1490
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:52,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really do letting weird for money? You ain't

1491
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 1: never done one little thing. We was like, maybe I

1492
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: shouldn't do.

1493
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 2: This, But bro, I know one thing that people hate

1494
01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 2: about me sometimes that they feel like I just tried

1495
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:05,240
Speaker 2: to like separate myself, but I really don't, Like I

1496
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 2: really feel like for a long time I've just known

1497
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 2: who I am and like a lot of shit, just

1498
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 2: like you ain't never sold even when you worked in

1499
01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 2: the club, you never sold a bottle that wasn't really

1500
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:15,639
Speaker 2: yours to your section.

1501
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:17,719
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, I'll give you this little bottle.

1502
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,679
Speaker 2: What do you mean? Like you know how you working

1503
01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:21,960
Speaker 2: in the club and it's not your section, but they

1504
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 2: may want a bottle from you, but it's another girl section.

1505
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 2: You maybe just sell a little bottle. You ain't need

1506
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 2: nothing or brought a nigga a drink.

1507
01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: Bro But to me, that stuff is not evil stuff.

1508
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,280
Speaker 2: Like when I think of people doing it, I didn't

1509
01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:36,120
Speaker 2: say evil, I said strange for a piece of To me,

1510
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:38,880
Speaker 2: that's not even strange to me. It's just like, oh,

1511
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 2: you want to buy a bottle. Yeah, I'm gonna sell

1512
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:43,439
Speaker 2: you the bottle. But they're not in your section, slow feet,

1513
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:46,240
Speaker 2: don't eat. See that's that's not in your section though,

1514
01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 2: it don't matter, No, it don't don't come to my

1515
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 2: section selling no shit. Well you should have been there,

1516
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:53,880
Speaker 2: what if I was, But it's just because it wasn't

1517
01:17:53,880 --> 01:17:58,200
Speaker 2: because it's not about no I'm there. You just foner

1518
01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:01,640
Speaker 2: than me, that asspad, Now, why you be poking out

1519
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 2: the front. That don't go. Well. If that's the case, bitch,

1520
01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:05,960
Speaker 2: you would have sold the bottle because your weag goooby.

1521
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 2: Maybe baby, I got a little tuner. You said you

1522
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:13,599
Speaker 2: got weg goooby. I'm not talking about me. I never

1523
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:17,120
Speaker 2: we ain't ever been in that situation. I'm talking about you.

1524
01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:20,800
Speaker 2: Ain't never sold a bottle. I just said yes. But

1525
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,640
Speaker 2: to me, that's not to me.

1526
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,959
Speaker 1: You we got To me, that's not strange.

1527
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:32,640
Speaker 2: To me, that's just like you know one tu tho,

1528
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 2: It's okay, It's really not would have been like, hey,

1529
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:38,360
Speaker 2: this nigga wanna buy a bottle for me in your section.

1530
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:39,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna sell it to them, but we can. But

1531
01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 2: to me, that's a prime example of preparation meeting opportunity.

1532
01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:46,799
Speaker 2: Stop using I don't agree.

1533
01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:50,560
Speaker 1: I think I think it was preparation meeting opportunity.

1534
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 2: I'm not wrong. At the end of the day, it's

1535
01:18:52,320 --> 01:18:55,920
Speaker 2: the club. It's about who the quiki is, Whoever the

1536
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 2: quicket is gonna make the most money. It ain't my fault.

1537
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:01,839
Speaker 2: I know how to eat, no money. It's not about quickest.

1538
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 2: I'm talking a situation where you were finer and I'm

1539
01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 2: supposed to feel bad for that. Feel bad. All I

1540
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:12,360
Speaker 2: said was if the girl walking around and she like

1541
01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:14,640
Speaker 2: and you, all you have to say was, Hey, this

1542
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 2: dude want to sell me a bottle because he's trying

1543
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:19,080
Speaker 2: to talk to me, I'm gonna sell it this brow.

1544
01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 2: But you asking me this dumb ass question because you

1545
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:23,800
Speaker 2: already know the answer because you used to do that

1546
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 2: shit too. Everybody did this shit in the club. Of course,

1547
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:29,400
Speaker 2: if somebody walk up to you and they're like, oh,

1548
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 2: I want to buy a bottle from you, you're not

1549
01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 2: gonna ask. You're not gonna try to find out who

1550
01:19:34,280 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 2: is this unless it's your friend? Okay?

1551
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 1: Are you unless it's your friends? Different?

1552
01:19:41,320 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 2: Did they walk back to the session? Who you got

1553
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 2: this bottle in Hennessy from? It's gonna be a fight,

1554
01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:49,599
Speaker 2: and it's gonna be a problem. I saw the That's

1555
01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 2: why don't miss working in the club.

1556
01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:51,880
Speaker 3: Bro.

1557
01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 2: It was so petty, like hoes really used to be

1558
01:19:55,520 --> 01:19:58,720
Speaker 2: arguing over seventy five dollars commission off of a bottle. Hey,

1559
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 2: but that meant a lot. It did that thing, and

1560
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 2: my bad still do But why what because it did?

1561
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 2: But it's just like, no, it's not that serious to me.

1562
01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:13,640
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day to me that

1563
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,559
Speaker 2: it's not doing something evil for mine. I didn't say evil,

1564
01:20:16,680 --> 01:20:19,479
Speaker 2: I said strange you but you was trying to correlate

1565
01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 2: to Yes, you would, trying to put them in the

1566
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 2: same I wasn't. I got a random thought, I said,

1567
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 2: have you ever done something strange for a people? To me,

1568
01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 2: that's not strange. That's leveling up. I love, I love

1569
01:20:34,360 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 2: the way you were things. No, I'm serious, it is

1570
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 2: that's a talent. That's why you here and they there.

1571
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 2: They still getting a seventy five dollars for me. No, loo,

1572
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:53,759
Speaker 2: all right, it's about taking advantage of the opportunities because

1573
01:20:54,040 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 2: because you asked me, because you are about a leading

1574
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:02,519
Speaker 2: see you know, oh I'm not your waistress. You know,

1575
01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 2: ain't who sold you this section. But you ask me

1576
01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:11,040
Speaker 2: for a reason, and I'm gonna take advantage of the reason. Okay,

1577
01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:14,400
Speaker 2: you know, get my little commission. I got what did

1578
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:17,080
Speaker 2: you say earlier? I got bills to you said that

1579
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 2: on the phone earlier. I do y'all got by. So

1580
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:26,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take my little seventy five dollars and I'm

1581
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 2: a flirt a little bit and get a little extra

1582
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Speaker 2: So this topic actually came from I'm not gonna say

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1618
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1619
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:22,759
Speaker 2: is I like you, but I'm not sexually that party.

1620
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Speaker 2: I mean, we have a lot of employees and people

1621
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Speaker 2: that you know, they can't pick them out. Okay, we

1622
01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 2: want to say that. Nah, she'll be back. It's not me.

1623
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Speaker 2: It's not time. It's not time. So she said, I

1624
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Speaker 2: like you, but I'm not sexually attracted to you, but

1625
01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:44,280
Speaker 2: then I don't like you. Oh wait, hold on, let

1626
01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:48,479
Speaker 2: me present the situation so we can talk. You presented

1627
01:23:48,520 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 2: me already, but we gotta give them so we can.

1628
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Speaker 2: This is a talk show, bro, we gotta talk. If

1629
01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:58,000
Speaker 2: you want to give further contexts, do that. But I'm

1630
01:23:58,040 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 2: still gonna say what I said.

1631
01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:03,240
Speaker 1: I sid what I shit? Yeah, got out to need

1632
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Speaker 1: come on?

1633
01:24:03,640 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 2: True. So the context is it's this guy they vibe conversation.

1634
01:24:10,200 --> 01:24:14,880
Speaker 2: Is there cute guy? She likes him, she really likes him,

1635
01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 2: but she said like sexually they messed around and she

1636
01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:23,640
Speaker 2: just wasn't into it, and she said they had a conversation.

1637
01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:25,040
Speaker 2: He was like, I don't know.

1638
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 1: I just feel like you pulling away from me.

1639
01:24:32,080 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 2: And I don't know what it is. And she was

1640
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:35,519
Speaker 2: just like in her head, she's like thinking, like I'm

1641
01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 2: just not there sexually with you. So do you think

1642
01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:40,519
Speaker 2: you can really like somebody? Like they check off all

1643
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:42,120
Speaker 2: the marks, but sexually.

1644
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 1: They're not meeting your needs? Like, how do you feel

1645
01:24:45,160 --> 01:24:45,479
Speaker 1: about that?

1646
01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 2: How does that happen? Though it don't it does. So

1647
01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:51,800
Speaker 2: say you went on four or five dates with a

1648
01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 2: guy and you like, man, I'm really vibing with him.

1649
01:24:54,280 --> 01:24:58,960
Speaker 2: He's cute, he got money, he can dress, beautiful, home,

1650
01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:03,280
Speaker 2: no kid, he checks off all the marks. Y'all. Three

1651
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:05,880
Speaker 2: months in, you finally decided to give it up. You

1652
01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 2: finally decided to give that wag, you up that hot

1653
01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:09,080
Speaker 2: and gushie.

1654
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 1: Stick yick yek yiky.

1655
01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 2: You decide to give it to him, and it's not good.

1656
01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 2: What do you do?

1657
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:17,840
Speaker 1: This is what I'm talking, This is what I did.

1658
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 2: I decide to give it a because you just said

1659
01:25:19,680 --> 01:25:21,920
Speaker 2: from the example that you gave, she had not gave

1660
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:24,240
Speaker 2: it up. No, she gave it up eventually, and she

1661
01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 2: said sexually she wasn't satisfied. But up until that, was

1662
01:25:28,560 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 2: she not satisfied? Or was she not sexually attracted to him?

1663
01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:37,040
Speaker 2: Because giving somebody pussy like you like? Okay, like I

1664
01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:39,000
Speaker 2: like you, and I'm a sexually attracted to you, and

1665
01:25:39,040 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 2: then I gave you some pussy and it wasn't good.

1666
01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:45,600
Speaker 2: That's completely different from not wanting to have sex with

1667
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:48,479
Speaker 2: somebody because you're not sexually okay. So I'll say this,

1668
01:25:48,600 --> 01:25:51,240
Speaker 2: Maybe I worded it wrong, but this is what she said. Well,

1669
01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:54,960
Speaker 2: she said she had sex with him and it wasn't good.

1670
01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:58,479
Speaker 2: So now she's not sexually attracted to him after the fact,

1671
01:25:58,520 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 2: but she really does like him. But the sexual chemistry

1672
01:26:02,040 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 2: she knows for a fact isn't there, but she likes him.

1673
01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:05,040
Speaker 3: So what do you do?

1674
01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:06,760
Speaker 2: Like I said, in your situation, like I gave you

1675
01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:09,840
Speaker 2: an example, I'm talking to that nigga, but what if

1676
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 2: he checks off all the mark? You don't feel like

1677
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:13,320
Speaker 2: what music soul y'all say?

1678
01:26:13,479 --> 01:26:16,840
Speaker 1: Teach me how we are, not teach me how to

1679
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:18,439
Speaker 1: eat that puss?

1680
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:23,920
Speaker 2: See yup? Let me hear it from the bag? You

1681
01:26:24,080 --> 01:26:28,720
Speaker 2: know this dick like that? Whatever he said? I know

1682
01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:34,240
Speaker 2: how you like your ass man? Yeah, that's the song now.

1683
01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:36,519
Speaker 2: So do you feel like you can teach a man

1684
01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:40,759
Speaker 2: or it's just like I'm not stow you fucking streak?

1685
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:45,040
Speaker 2: What miss y'all feel like I'm too old to be

1686
01:26:45,120 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 2: teaching a nigga anything. I'm not gonna lie because I

1687
01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:53,640
Speaker 2: typically date guys that are older than me. I know

1688
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:59,400
Speaker 2: how to beat it up. I'm laughing because I'm just

1689
01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:06,400
Speaker 2: thinking about the men that you've dated, and I'm like, okay,

1690
01:27:06,720 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 2: that's fair. Yeah, Like, I just feel like I'm too

1691
01:27:11,400 --> 01:27:15,080
Speaker 2: old to teach the old dog new trees. If you

1692
01:27:15,160 --> 01:27:16,360
Speaker 2: don't know the tricks, then.

1693
01:27:16,320 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 1: You is not my tree.

1694
01:27:17,760 --> 01:27:22,920
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair, Like you just not for me, were

1695
01:27:22,960 --> 01:27:23,640
Speaker 2: too old for that.

1696
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:31,280
Speaker 1: Like if I'm thirty three and you forty, you.

1697
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:34,680
Speaker 2: Don't know how to eat with You don't know how

1698
01:27:34,680 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 2: to go, You don't know how to you don't have

1699
01:27:37,080 --> 01:27:39,880
Speaker 2: like a good stroke game, like I don't know what

1700
01:27:40,120 --> 01:27:42,360
Speaker 2: to tell you. You don't know how to for play,

1701
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,800
Speaker 2: you don't know what you need to do. Like I'm

1702
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:48,720
Speaker 2: just not I'm not interested in that, Okay. I think

1703
01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 2: good sex is universal. I think that different people have

1704
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,400
Speaker 2: different kinks that they might like. Like you might be

1705
01:27:54,479 --> 01:27:59,439
Speaker 2: into something a little like for example, like obviously this

1706
01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:02,040
Speaker 2: would never have but like me and you might have

1707
01:28:02,200 --> 01:28:06,960
Speaker 2: sex with the same dude, and I might like it

1708
01:28:07,160 --> 01:28:09,439
Speaker 2: a little softer. You might like it a little roofer,

1709
01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:12,240
Speaker 2: Like maybe you like yo, Maybe I like my nipples

1710
01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 2: leaked and fleeked. Maybe you want maybe you want him

1711
01:28:16,479 --> 01:28:19,720
Speaker 2: to bite your el, Maybe you want him to bite

1712
01:28:19,760 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 2: your Yeah, you get what I'm saying. But like I

1713
01:28:28,960 --> 01:28:34,439
Speaker 2: took two far every time, every time, every time. You know,

1714
01:28:34,600 --> 01:28:37,080
Speaker 2: maybe I might like a soft choke, like maybe I

1715
01:28:37,200 --> 01:28:43,320
Speaker 2: might like a little right right, So that's what I'm saying,

1716
01:28:43,439 --> 01:28:49,240
Speaker 2: it's like, but the sex in itself is good either way.

1717
01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:53,120
Speaker 2: You just might like a little more pain then, I like,

1718
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 2: I might like to, I might like it a little softer,

1719
01:28:56,080 --> 01:28:58,240
Speaker 2: a little more you know, sensual.

1720
01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:01,200
Speaker 1: But I think if you got good sex, you got

1721
01:29:01,320 --> 01:29:02,599
Speaker 1: good sex. It's universe.

1722
01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:06,880
Speaker 2: Okay, I just think that. Yeah, I really see what

1723
01:29:06,920 --> 01:29:08,880
Speaker 2: I feel. I feel like you can kind of mold

1724
01:29:09,040 --> 01:29:12,040
Speaker 2: and shift certain things to fit the new, like the

1725
01:29:12,160 --> 01:29:15,559
Speaker 2: person that play though, to fit the person. You can

1726
01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:17,880
Speaker 2: kind of shift a little bit, you know. But if

1727
01:29:17,920 --> 01:29:22,920
Speaker 2: it's good, it's good. If it ain't, it ain't. And

1728
01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:24,680
Speaker 2: I don't think I could teach you that if you

1729
01:29:24,880 --> 01:29:28,599
Speaker 2: haven't figured that out in fifteen years, because just hypothetic. Fifty.

1730
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:33,679
Speaker 1: If you thirty three, you've been fucking since you was eighteen, it's.

1731
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:41,559
Speaker 2: A little yay. Hey, I'm just saying, if you thirty three,

1732
01:29:41,600 --> 01:29:44,000
Speaker 2: you've probably been fuckingsed since you was like eighteen, so

1733
01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:47,519
Speaker 2: fifteen years of experience, and oh.

1734
01:29:47,400 --> 01:29:49,679
Speaker 1: My gosh, you don't know how to fuck.

1735
01:29:49,760 --> 01:29:52,400
Speaker 2: Still, I can't teach you that. I'm not trying to

1736
01:29:52,400 --> 01:29:55,240
Speaker 2: be funny. This is not okay. I've been fucking for

1737
01:29:55,320 --> 01:29:57,599
Speaker 2: twenty I be wanting a nigga who's trying to get

1738
01:29:57,680 --> 01:30:00,960
Speaker 2: up in there. I've been fucking for twenty years. That's

1739
01:30:01,120 --> 01:30:06,519
Speaker 2: crazy to think about. I mean, now, I know you

1740
01:30:06,720 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 2: seasoned that puss. It good? That why you just it's

1741
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:15,280
Speaker 2: falling off the bone. It's falling off the bone.

1742
01:30:15,320 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 1: And what marinated have a nigga on his knees.

1743
01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:21,200
Speaker 2: I already know. I heard how I used to.

1744
01:30:22,120 --> 01:30:24,719
Speaker 1: Break a nigga off. I'm gonna breaking them off.

1745
01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:32,599
Speaker 2: Anyway. No, but this is what I think now, now

1746
01:30:32,680 --> 01:30:35,080
Speaker 2: that you put it that way, I do agree with you, right,

1747
01:30:35,720 --> 01:30:42,439
Speaker 2: but I also feel like, uh, sex now is different though,

1748
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 2: So I'll say this though I'm not even now. Back

1749
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:51,040
Speaker 2: in the day, you used to get that thing. What

1750
01:30:51,160 --> 01:30:52,880
Speaker 2: do you mean like I used to be like, Okay,

1751
01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:55,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you a little sum sum just because

1752
01:30:55,120 --> 01:30:57,120
Speaker 2: we had a good time. I'm young, I'm dumb.

1753
01:30:57,240 --> 01:31:00,400
Speaker 1: I'm just doing whatever and full of come. Didn't want

1754
01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:01,840
Speaker 1: to take it there, young dumb.

1755
01:31:02,080 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 2: That's what the old people say, younger. But I say

1756
01:31:04,880 --> 01:31:08,320
Speaker 2: that because now at this age, you're not even getting

1757
01:31:08,400 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 2: in We're not even getting in the bed unless I

1758
01:31:12,760 --> 01:31:16,400
Speaker 2: have some kind of emotional feelings for you. So I

1759
01:31:16,479 --> 01:31:18,599
Speaker 2: will say this. I feel like if I have feelings

1760
01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:21,360
Speaker 2: for you and emotions for you like the sex, this

1761
01:31:21,479 --> 01:31:22,200
Speaker 2: is where I differ.

1762
01:31:22,400 --> 01:31:24,800
Speaker 1: I feel you and I agree with you, but I

1763
01:31:25,160 --> 01:31:25,680
Speaker 1: don't feel me.

1764
01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:27,880
Speaker 2: But I do though. But at the same time, if

1765
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:30,599
Speaker 2: I have feelings for you emotionally and we have connected,

1766
01:31:31,200 --> 01:31:34,120
Speaker 2: I don't feel it anyway because I just like you. No,

1767
01:31:35,439 --> 01:31:37,960
Speaker 2: absolutely not. I think it's a real thing. I have

1768
01:31:38,080 --> 01:31:42,599
Speaker 2: seen the tweet this girl has said, the whole time

1769
01:31:42,960 --> 01:31:44,960
Speaker 2: I thought something was wrong with my Kouchi, I started

1770
01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:49,120
Speaker 2: taking slippery m mock a root, God tell you all

1771
01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:51,000
Speaker 2: this shit. She was like, well the whole time, I

1772
01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:52,840
Speaker 2: just didn't like this nigga no more because I started

1773
01:31:52,880 --> 01:31:54,519
Speaker 2: freaking the new nigga and I was with it's for

1774
01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:59,479
Speaker 2: it's the same. It ain't nothing changed but that nigga

1775
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 2: needed to But I'm not gonna lie. I haven't have

1776
01:32:01,680 --> 01:32:05,120
Speaker 2: like so long, I haven't met either. Well you know

1777
01:32:05,240 --> 01:32:07,720
Speaker 2: why I won't have bad sex. I will not allow it.

1778
01:32:09,160 --> 01:32:13,400
Speaker 2: But it's not gonna. But yes it could if you like,

1779
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:15,840
Speaker 2: Like I said, in this scenario, she's dating this guy,

1780
01:32:16,040 --> 01:32:18,760
Speaker 2: she likes him. They had sex and it wasn't good.

1781
01:32:18,920 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 2: You don't know I had a good deck discernment. Come on, dog,

1782
01:32:24,120 --> 01:32:28,240
Speaker 2: I do I know, I just know, I know I'm

1783
01:32:28,280 --> 01:32:30,240
Speaker 2: not gonna lie for it. I have never I haven't

1784
01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:34,960
Speaker 2: had just like bad deck ever in my life. I've

1785
01:32:35,000 --> 01:32:38,760
Speaker 2: had great, haven't. I've had great I've had a great dick,

1786
01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:42,519
Speaker 2: and then I've had like medio. You've never had bad sex,

1787
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:48,080
Speaker 2: probably in my probably in my broony, probably in my

1788
01:32:48,200 --> 01:32:51,200
Speaker 2: early twenties. Yeah, but I'm talking about like I haven't

1789
01:32:51,320 --> 01:32:54,720
Speaker 2: just had like, okay, not you. I ain't gonna put

1790
01:32:54,720 --> 01:32:57,920
Speaker 2: your business out there like that. But why, I mean,

1791
01:32:58,160 --> 01:33:02,160
Speaker 2: wag you in it? Because you told me never mind.

1792
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:05,720
Speaker 2: But I have another friend who told me like she

1793
01:33:05,920 --> 01:33:09,400
Speaker 2: had some really bad sex with somebody, and she was like,

1794
01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 2: but I knew it was gonna be trash now because

1795
01:33:12,080 --> 01:33:14,719
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, I feel like some people

1796
01:33:14,920 --> 01:33:17,560
Speaker 2: just give off vibes like you know, they gonna bore you.

1797
01:33:17,720 --> 01:33:20,040
Speaker 1: You know they's gonna the boer is nuts.

1798
01:33:21,200 --> 01:33:24,599
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I've had situations where I've had

1799
01:33:24,680 --> 01:33:26,960
Speaker 2: good sex with this person and then I ended like,

1800
01:33:27,040 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. The last time me and my

1801
01:33:29,479 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 2: ex had sex, it was so bad and I'm but

1802
01:33:31,960 --> 01:33:34,320
Speaker 2: it was because I stopped liking him. I was turned

1803
01:33:34,360 --> 01:33:36,439
Speaker 2: off and I hated him at that point. I don't

1804
01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:39,120
Speaker 2: even know why I did it. Yeah, but I'm saying, like,

1805
01:33:39,240 --> 01:33:42,000
Speaker 2: sometimes that be happening. I feel like when you don't

1806
01:33:42,080 --> 01:33:43,800
Speaker 2: like people no more. And that's what I was gonna say,

1807
01:33:43,960 --> 01:33:45,759
Speaker 2: going back to what I was saying about the girl

1808
01:33:45,920 --> 01:33:50,679
Speaker 2: the initial tweet. If you don't like somebody no more

1809
01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:53,320
Speaker 2: and the sexual chemistry is not there, it's gonna be

1810
01:33:53,439 --> 01:33:55,519
Speaker 2: hard for you to get turned on by this person.

1811
01:33:55,840 --> 01:33:58,240
Speaker 2: And if you're not easily turned on by him, then

1812
01:33:58,280 --> 01:34:00,479
Speaker 2: the sex is not gonna be good. If YO, please,

1813
01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:03,960
Speaker 2: he not getting wet for him off the rib, then

1814
01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 2: it's not gonna be good. I'm not saying going back

1815
01:34:07,920 --> 01:34:09,880
Speaker 2: to what you said because you were trying to be funny.

1816
01:34:10,280 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 2: I never said that I haven't had bad sex, but

1817
01:34:14,240 --> 01:34:16,960
Speaker 2: I feel like I have good dick discernment.

1818
01:34:18,800 --> 01:34:19,160
Speaker 4: It is.

1819
01:34:19,400 --> 01:34:22,160
Speaker 2: I don't like, I know when a nigga, I just

1820
01:34:22,320 --> 01:34:24,719
Speaker 2: it's like you could tell by the way a niggas

1821
01:34:24,760 --> 01:34:29,240
Speaker 2: give us three give us three things that y'all take notes.

1822
01:34:29,560 --> 01:34:34,800
Speaker 2: Give us three things that that is good dick discernments. Go.

1823
01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:37,280
Speaker 1: You was about to say, you said the way. Is

1824
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:38,760
Speaker 1: he emotionally intelligent?

1825
01:34:39,439 --> 01:34:41,000
Speaker 2: That lets you know man got good there?

1826
01:34:41,160 --> 01:34:44,960
Speaker 1: If he yes, If he emotionally caters to your knees, okay, oh,

1827
01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:48,920
Speaker 1: that means he gonna cater to you you right, because if.

1828
01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:51,400
Speaker 2: He cares about you outside the bedroom and he can't,

1829
01:34:51,800 --> 01:34:55,559
Speaker 2: he gonna eat that coach up off the bone. Word

1830
01:34:55,680 --> 01:35:00,479
Speaker 2: to jez Tex, beat it up. Let me Yeah, all right,

1831
01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:08,000
Speaker 2: that's a good one. Number two Okay, Can I add one? Yeah?

1832
01:35:09,200 --> 01:35:13,240
Speaker 2: If he's chivalrous, that shows a lot too. When I

1833
01:35:13,320 --> 01:35:15,599
Speaker 2: say chivalry, I'm talking about traditional things.

1834
01:35:15,720 --> 01:35:17,400
Speaker 1: But I feel like that's kind of the same though

1835
01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:18,320
Speaker 1: as his first one.

1836
01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:22,040
Speaker 2: Oh No, emotional intelligence is very different frombvalry. I'm talking

1837
01:35:22,040 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 2: about basic things. Opening the door, you know, you're trying

1838
01:35:25,479 --> 01:35:27,680
Speaker 2: to take your shoes off. He helping you take your

1839
01:35:27,720 --> 01:35:30,200
Speaker 2: shoes off, He making sure you know what I'm saying,

1840
01:35:30,520 --> 01:35:33,040
Speaker 2: pulling out your chair, pushing it in. He's like, let

1841
01:35:33,160 --> 01:35:37,439
Speaker 2: me care go to you. Oh this is your day.

1842
01:35:37,760 --> 01:35:41,960
Speaker 2: That's gonna be my next one. Catering to your needs,

1843
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:44,519
Speaker 2: how he talks to you, how he handles you, how

1844
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:49,040
Speaker 2: he treats you, the things he say you got it do.

1845
01:35:49,520 --> 01:35:51,960
Speaker 2: Like even if he just because don't get me wrong,

1846
01:35:52,840 --> 01:35:55,840
Speaker 2: just because I have good dick discernment don't mean like

1847
01:35:55,920 --> 01:35:58,880
Speaker 2: a good nigga discernment, hey, cause it's two different things.

1848
01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:05,200
Speaker 2: Because just because he's him a good man, speak on it,

1849
01:36:05,720 --> 01:36:09,000
Speaker 2: because sometimes niggas will cater to all of those things

1850
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:11,240
Speaker 2: that they know you need to hear so that they

1851
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:14,639
Speaker 2: can get We're gonna talk about that next episode. We're

1852
01:36:14,640 --> 01:36:17,439
Speaker 2: gonna talk about how men will be a good man today.

1853
01:36:17,600 --> 01:36:20,120
Speaker 2: And he's courting you and treating you, but that doesn't

1854
01:36:20,120 --> 01:36:22,400
Speaker 2: mean he wants to be your boyfriend, because a lot

1855
01:36:22,439 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 2: of times women be like, you took me out, you

1856
01:36:24,800 --> 01:36:26,880
Speaker 2: treated me sweet, you did, why don't you want me?

1857
01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:29,120
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about that next episode. But but but

1858
01:36:29,200 --> 01:36:31,200
Speaker 2: I said all of that to say, Yeah, it's just

1859
01:36:31,320 --> 01:36:33,439
Speaker 2: all about how a man caters to you, how he

1860
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:36,479
Speaker 2: treats you, how much effort he's putting in. If he's

1861
01:36:36,520 --> 01:36:39,360
Speaker 2: putting in a lot of effort before y'all have six

1862
01:36:41,360 --> 01:36:45,800
Speaker 2: because he working for and I just feel like me

1863
01:36:45,920 --> 01:36:48,080
Speaker 2: and that work real hard for it. They ain't gonna

1864
01:36:48,080 --> 01:36:49,960
Speaker 2: they know what they they know they gonna come fuck

1865
01:36:50,000 --> 01:36:52,160
Speaker 2: your world up because they got that good dick. Yeah,

1866
01:36:52,240 --> 01:36:56,640
Speaker 2: and their pants hanging waiting to creep on you. The

1867
01:36:56,760 --> 01:36:58,800
Speaker 2: niggas will be like trying to like do the bear

1868
01:36:58,920 --> 01:37:00,479
Speaker 2: me and the mummy and she this. They got bare

1869
01:37:00,600 --> 01:37:02,360
Speaker 2: minimum deeds and they know it ain't finna hit for

1870
01:37:02,400 --> 01:37:05,360
Speaker 2: ship and they know they know that's why. Or they

1871
01:37:05,479 --> 01:37:07,440
Speaker 2: over compensating financially.

1872
01:37:08,360 --> 01:37:11,280
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. This is a good talk.

1873
01:37:11,400 --> 01:37:11,680
Speaker 3: It is.

1874
01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:16,360
Speaker 2: Are they over compensating financially? Good dick discernments? Good dick

1875
01:37:16,439 --> 01:37:19,200
Speaker 2: discernments the niggas with the good dick, they gonna do

1876
01:37:19,280 --> 01:37:21,360
Speaker 2: a little one too, But they ain't feeling like they

1877
01:37:21,400 --> 01:37:25,040
Speaker 2: gotta overly prove themselves. They just being theyself thought. They

1878
01:37:25,160 --> 01:37:25,840
Speaker 2: just being smooth.

1879
01:37:26,240 --> 01:37:29,520
Speaker 1: Wait, they just because you're finna be crazy about.

1880
01:37:29,280 --> 01:37:35,720
Speaker 2: Me and he is one when they don't boast and

1881
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:39,680
Speaker 2: brag about their sex. Yeah, I know, because now I'm

1882
01:37:39,760 --> 01:37:42,599
Speaker 2: I done built a whole o my trying to tell

1883
01:37:42,680 --> 01:37:45,160
Speaker 2: me how good Joe Dick is. I know that ship pool.

1884
01:37:46,040 --> 01:37:54,240
Speaker 2: When I tell you, boobo, yeah girl, you ain't ready

1885
01:37:54,280 --> 01:38:00,360
Speaker 2: for this? God, I know y'all, won't that be okay?

1886
01:38:00,640 --> 01:38:00,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1887
01:38:01,040 --> 01:38:06,120
Speaker 2: Because I got ready for this, you ain't ready for this.

1888
01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:08,920
Speaker 2: That'd be the main one. As soon as you set

1889
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:13,719
Speaker 2: that wag you on, hold.

1890
01:38:13,560 --> 01:38:22,799
Speaker 4: On, hold on, that's and you'll be like, oh, fucking brother,

1891
01:38:24,840 --> 01:38:28,519
Speaker 4: just give me teen minies, give me teen meanies real quick.

1892
01:38:28,760 --> 01:38:32,080
Speaker 2: I don't see. I hate every time. But the niggas

1893
01:38:32,080 --> 01:38:34,479
Speaker 2: that don't say nothing, you know, Oh my god, you

1894
01:38:34,560 --> 01:38:38,320
Speaker 2: know why the sass those the assassin sad. I should

1895
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:41,120
Speaker 2: have known my man it was gonna do me bad

1896
01:38:41,840 --> 01:38:45,360
Speaker 2: because the first time we every not everybody sipping the

1897
01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:48,960
Speaker 2: y'all know if you see this, don't cut this into

1898
01:38:49,040 --> 01:38:51,320
Speaker 2: the clip, please don't. This is for the poor, the

1899
01:38:51,439 --> 01:38:53,360
Speaker 2: poor girls, because y'all deep in the episode. Now, I

1900
01:38:53,400 --> 01:38:55,200
Speaker 2: should have known my man was gonna turn me out

1901
01:38:55,240 --> 01:38:58,040
Speaker 2: because it was like our third date.

1902
01:38:58,720 --> 01:39:01,960
Speaker 1: This is when we was in DC for the DC Show.

1903
01:39:03,000 --> 01:39:06,519
Speaker 2: And remember I stayed to hang out with him, and

1904
01:39:07,000 --> 01:39:09,960
Speaker 2: that night, you know, we had I got so drunk

1905
01:39:10,000 --> 01:39:11,720
Speaker 2: and we had a great time and we was like

1906
01:39:11,920 --> 01:39:14,880
Speaker 2: in the hotel. I feel like I am imposing no,

1907
01:39:15,160 --> 01:39:19,879
Speaker 2: but listen, but nothing happened that night. Nothing nothing happened.

1908
01:39:20,320 --> 01:39:22,679
Speaker 2: So you're not feeling it's nothing nasty, but I saying

1909
01:39:22,720 --> 01:39:26,000
Speaker 2: I'm should have known because that night, you know, we drunk.

1910
01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:28,920
Speaker 2: We you know, finally we get in the bed, we

1911
01:39:29,080 --> 01:39:31,639
Speaker 2: talking we laughing, and then you know, we start kissing,

1912
01:39:32,640 --> 01:39:34,479
Speaker 2: and you know, like you know when you start when

1913
01:39:34,479 --> 01:39:36,720
Speaker 2: a man start kissing you usually what they do. They'd

1914
01:39:36,720 --> 01:39:38,439
Speaker 2: be like, come on, come on, they try to slide

1915
01:39:38,439 --> 01:39:40,320
Speaker 2: off your pants and you be like no, and they

1916
01:39:40,479 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 2: come on girl like and then you'd be like, yeah,

1917
01:39:43,280 --> 01:39:46,639
Speaker 2: you know what happened. You know what happened. We start kissing.

1918
01:39:46,720 --> 01:39:49,519
Speaker 2: I was like, no, stop. He was like okay, and

1919
01:39:49,600 --> 01:39:51,200
Speaker 2: he stopped and he roll over and went to sleep.

1920
01:39:52,600 --> 01:39:55,280
Speaker 2: He was like, all right, I should have known then, Yeah,

1921
01:39:56,720 --> 01:39:57,680
Speaker 2: I should have known it.

1922
01:39:58,240 --> 01:39:59,720
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. That ain't what happened to me

1923
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:01,240
Speaker 1: first time I had six money.

1924
01:40:01,240 --> 01:40:02,760
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't have sex with him that night because

1925
01:40:02,760 --> 01:40:05,000
Speaker 2: he was just like I'm not tripping because when I'm

1926
01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:07,320
Speaker 2: talking about like our first income, because that was your

1927
01:40:07,400 --> 01:40:09,599
Speaker 2: first sexual incounter. Yeah, like that was the first time

1928
01:40:09,720 --> 01:40:12,200
Speaker 2: like we actually kissed, kissed, and like you know, we

1929
01:40:12,360 --> 01:40:14,360
Speaker 2: was feeling on each other and things like that, and

1930
01:40:14,439 --> 01:40:16,639
Speaker 2: I was like he was just like all right, cause

1931
01:40:17,360 --> 01:40:19,479
Speaker 2: it's been situations were like men, you know how many

1932
01:40:19,520 --> 01:40:21,439
Speaker 2: be like come on, like, you know you won't this

1933
01:40:21,600 --> 01:40:23,240
Speaker 2: maybe trying to convince you. He was just like all right,

1934
01:40:24,000 --> 01:40:26,360
Speaker 2: because when I give it to you, I'm like to you,

1935
01:40:27,800 --> 01:40:33,920
Speaker 2: m hm m. We need to Okay, let's wait. You

1936
01:40:34,000 --> 01:40:36,280
Speaker 2: want to tell your story, No, because I don't have

1937
01:40:36,360 --> 01:40:38,439
Speaker 2: a story. The first time I had sex with my nigga,

1938
01:40:38,479 --> 01:40:43,880
Speaker 2: he ate my guccie off the bone. Same, I'm finna

1939
01:40:43,920 --> 01:40:53,439
Speaker 2: text him bone bone bone. I see you at the

1940
01:40:53,640 --> 01:40:54,439
Speaker 2: cross road.

1941
01:40:55,160 --> 01:40:55,479
Speaker 3: So you.

1942
01:40:57,600 --> 01:41:03,559
Speaker 2: Like my soul was leaving my body? You eat my cool. Okay,

1943
01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:06,240
Speaker 2: let's move on. So now so let y'all let us

1944
01:41:06,320 --> 01:41:09,840
Speaker 2: know in the comments, So what is y'all's good dick discernment?

1945
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:11,599
Speaker 1: Like, how do y'all tell? Because that was a good

1946
01:41:11,640 --> 01:41:13,240
Speaker 1: one time that it was.

1947
01:41:13,720 --> 01:41:17,559
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the bout. Hey

1948
01:41:18,880 --> 01:41:24,400
Speaker 2: bow bow bow. This is definitely given wine down Wednesday

1949
01:41:24,439 --> 01:41:30,759
Speaker 2: episode because we yeah, we're finna rap this. We're finna

1950
01:41:30,840 --> 01:41:36,720
Speaker 2: rap this the fuck up because you couldn't know too much.

1951
01:41:37,800 --> 01:41:39,320
Speaker 2: I said I was gonna keep this ot hout like

1952
01:41:39,439 --> 01:41:43,280
Speaker 2: this was twenty nineteen. It is given nineteen. Okay, so

1953
01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:46,120
Speaker 2: now it's time to get into the bop. So obviously

1954
01:41:46,320 --> 01:41:48,800
Speaker 2: y'all know I usually do like low key bobs. I

1955
01:41:48,880 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 2: can't do it this week, Meg the Stallion dropped act

1956
01:41:51,640 --> 01:41:56,840
Speaker 2: two right, So Fire Project per usual. Y'all know, I'm

1957
01:41:56,880 --> 01:42:00,400
Speaker 2: a hotty, I'm a stand love my girl. So everybody

1958
01:42:00,520 --> 01:42:04,479
Speaker 2: is talking about let me dismiss that. So everybody is

1959
01:42:04,479 --> 01:42:07,639
Speaker 2: talking about her song Bigger in Texas because that's a bop.

1960
01:42:07,760 --> 01:42:11,360
Speaker 2: It's giving Tina Snow, it's giving you know, the man

1961
01:42:11,479 --> 01:42:15,679
Speaker 2: that everybody won't. But she got a song with Flow

1962
01:42:15,760 --> 01:42:20,600
Speaker 2: Milly called rock Steady. It is, It gives, it's They

1963
01:42:20,720 --> 01:42:23,240
Speaker 2: used the Sierra Goodies beat and when I tell you,

1964
01:42:23,479 --> 01:42:27,840
Speaker 2: her and Flow Milly just floated all over this beat

1965
01:42:28,240 --> 01:42:30,240
Speaker 2: and it's so good. And rock Steady is also the

1966
01:42:30,320 --> 01:42:32,479
Speaker 2: name of one of my favorite restaurants in at L.

1967
01:42:33,400 --> 01:42:35,720
Speaker 2: Shout out to rock, shout out to that snapper, Oh

1968
01:42:35,840 --> 01:42:38,960
Speaker 2: my god, and shout out to me, and shout out

1969
01:42:38,960 --> 01:42:39,599
Speaker 2: to that spin.

1970
01:42:39,479 --> 01:42:42,840
Speaker 1: It that that that collar green deal who snappers.

1971
01:42:45,400 --> 01:42:47,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't worry. We shouldn't get it done. We're gonna

1972
01:42:48,000 --> 01:42:50,559
Speaker 2: wrap this shut up, don't you fuck. We're gonna rap

1973
01:42:50,640 --> 01:42:56,479
Speaker 2: this shit fuck up. The snapper is bussy, both of them.

1974
01:42:57,360 --> 01:43:01,200
Speaker 2: Hey that's what the people said. But anyways, Yeah, rock

1975
01:43:01,280 --> 01:43:03,560
Speaker 2: Staddy Feature and Flow Milly. I love the fact that

1976
01:43:03,800 --> 01:43:07,240
Speaker 2: Meg can make good music with anybody. Just shows her versatility.

1977
01:43:07,560 --> 01:43:09,519
Speaker 2: And let me also say, y'all be talking about oh

1978
01:43:09,680 --> 01:43:13,400
Speaker 2: Med flow sound the same. First of all, she has

1979
01:43:13,439 --> 01:43:17,760
Speaker 2: a song because stop it. She has a song with

1980
01:43:18,400 --> 01:43:22,960
Speaker 2: spirit Box, which is a Canadian rock band, and they

1981
01:43:23,080 --> 01:43:25,760
Speaker 2: did the remix to Hiss, which was fire. But it's

1982
01:43:25,800 --> 01:43:27,960
Speaker 2: a rock song. It's literally a rock song. She's on

1983
01:43:28,080 --> 01:43:31,720
Speaker 2: there screaming like a fucking rock star and it is

1984
01:43:31,880 --> 01:43:35,680
Speaker 2: so fired. I mean, meg a. She did a Mamushie

1985
01:43:36,200 --> 01:43:39,560
Speaker 2: remix with That's why I was gonna say, Mamushi itself

1986
01:43:39,920 --> 01:43:42,920
Speaker 2: should have shown people that she can switch her flow up.

1987
01:43:43,960 --> 01:43:46,839
Speaker 2: Because y'all get let me tell y'all something. Since everybody

1988
01:43:46,920 --> 01:43:49,800
Speaker 2: on TikTok and Twitter is an A and R, there's

1989
01:43:49,840 --> 01:43:54,120
Speaker 2: a difference between cadence and flow. Her cadence stays the

1990
01:43:54,200 --> 01:43:56,920
Speaker 2: same because that is her accent. Okay, that is how

1991
01:43:57,000 --> 01:43:59,640
Speaker 2: she approaches a track of X y Z. Flow is

1992
01:43:59,680 --> 01:44:04,760
Speaker 2: completely different. Learn the difference before you get online. Y'all

1993
01:44:04,760 --> 01:44:07,120
Speaker 2: are not A and R's what you don't y'all don't

1994
01:44:07,200 --> 01:44:10,080
Speaker 2: know nothing about music. Now you can have an opinion.

1995
01:44:10,120 --> 01:44:12,400
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that, But to sit here and

1996
01:44:12,479 --> 01:44:15,639
Speaker 2: listen to this woman's music and say, oh, it sounds

1997
01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:18,080
Speaker 2: the same because you don't like her, And that's okay.

1998
01:44:18,880 --> 01:44:21,760
Speaker 2: You don't have to like somebody, but don't discredit them.

1999
01:44:22,360 --> 01:44:24,920
Speaker 2: That's what we were talking about earlier. Stop discrediting people

2000
01:44:24,960 --> 01:44:27,120
Speaker 2: because you don't like them. It's a lot to say

2001
01:44:27,160 --> 01:44:29,960
Speaker 2: about Meg. We all know whatever however you feel, but

2002
01:44:30,120 --> 01:44:34,400
Speaker 2: to say this girl isn't dropping hit after hits, it's crazy.

2003
01:44:34,760 --> 01:44:38,120
Speaker 1: I agree, Meg the Stallion, actual rock Steady.

2004
01:44:38,720 --> 01:44:44,360
Speaker 2: You did your thing. Ate it up, Go ahead, Drea. Alright,

2005
01:44:44,439 --> 01:44:47,400
Speaker 2: Sombap of the Week is Summer Walker.

2006
01:44:48,479 --> 01:44:49,200
Speaker 1: She did it again.

2007
01:44:49,400 --> 01:44:52,400
Speaker 2: You're twin twin Do you know? That's what they say?

2008
01:44:52,840 --> 01:44:53,760
Speaker 2: Where have you been?

2009
01:44:53,880 --> 01:44:54,000
Speaker 4: Well?

2010
01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:57,639
Speaker 2: Apparently I'm a trip league. Oh yeah, it's you, Jada Summer.

2011
01:44:57,720 --> 01:45:03,320
Speaker 2: Y'all need to do a project together. Hmm. Can we

2012
01:45:03,479 --> 01:45:03,960
Speaker 2: all sing?

2013
01:45:04,200 --> 01:45:05,479
Speaker 1: I think some are the only one that can.

2014
01:45:05,560 --> 01:45:07,720
Speaker 2: I don't have to be a singing project. It could

2015
01:45:07,720 --> 01:45:11,120
Speaker 2: be y'all do a cooking episode something. Y'all just all

2016
01:45:11,200 --> 01:45:13,000
Speaker 2: three need to do something where y'all just sit down.

2017
01:45:13,000 --> 01:45:15,400
Speaker 2: I think that I need to rap. You can rap.

2018
01:45:15,760 --> 01:45:16,840
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to write it though.

2019
01:45:17,080 --> 01:45:17,920
Speaker 2: You gonna have to be my goal.

2020
01:45:18,040 --> 01:45:18,840
Speaker 1: I've got them bars.

2021
01:45:19,520 --> 01:45:27,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. The trio featuring Tony Brexley, because everybody say

2022
01:45:27,800 --> 01:45:30,120
Speaker 2: you like Tony Brexley, but anyway.

2023
01:45:32,000 --> 01:45:32,439
Speaker 1: Your box.

2024
01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:36,720
Speaker 2: Yes, So my bob is hard of a woman. By

2025
01:45:37,360 --> 01:45:42,040
Speaker 2: Summer Walker. It's giving Brandy vibe. It is. It is,

2026
01:45:42,479 --> 01:45:47,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, when she stacked. You know, nobody be

2027
01:45:47,680 --> 01:45:52,720
Speaker 2: doing them run bible, yeah, vocal bible. Nobody can nobody

2028
01:45:53,200 --> 01:45:56,760
Speaker 2: out singing Brandy. I don't care who you're failing well,

2029
01:45:56,840 --> 01:46:01,200
Speaker 2: no New Generation personally, because I mean, like but Natti Labille,

2030
01:46:01,360 --> 01:46:01,960
Speaker 2: Anita Baker.

2031
01:46:02,880 --> 01:46:04,400
Speaker 1: We talk about backing.

2032
01:46:04,560 --> 01:46:09,120
Speaker 2: Harmonies and vocals. Nobody does it like Brandy. Braindy learned

2033
01:46:09,160 --> 01:46:11,320
Speaker 2: from the best. That's why Whitney Houston, out of her

2034
01:46:11,360 --> 01:46:14,600
Speaker 2: own mouth, said Brandy is the best singer of the

2035
01:46:14,680 --> 01:46:17,720
Speaker 2: New Generation. No, she is like Brandy. And it's so

2036
01:46:18,040 --> 01:46:20,439
Speaker 2: crazy to me because I've heard people say Brandy can't

2037
01:46:20,479 --> 01:46:23,720
Speaker 2: sing because they don't be like, what are you kidding me?

2038
01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:25,479
Speaker 2: Because these are the A and rs I'm talking about.

2039
01:46:25,640 --> 01:46:27,519
Speaker 2: You don't know music, you can't hear, you don't got

2040
01:46:27,560 --> 01:46:32,000
Speaker 2: that ear, but you know I would. I have an argument.

2041
01:46:32,439 --> 01:46:35,400
Speaker 2: I think that summer Walker might be our Brandy. I

2042
01:46:35,439 --> 01:46:39,120
Speaker 2: can I can hear that. Though I'm not bad at

2043
01:46:39,160 --> 01:46:41,080
Speaker 2: you for saying that, because at.

2044
01:46:41,000 --> 01:46:43,760
Speaker 1: The end of the day, let's chat about it real quick.

2045
01:46:44,800 --> 01:46:49,800
Speaker 2: Let's talk about how Overyas was a masterpiece from Front

2046
01:46:49,880 --> 01:46:57,200
Speaker 2: who still over eads masterpiece Front to bag both albums.

2047
01:46:57,640 --> 01:47:01,200
Speaker 2: So I have no doubt in my mind that this

2048
01:47:01,439 --> 01:47:05,840
Speaker 2: new album is not going to be a masterpiece, like

2049
01:47:05,920 --> 01:47:10,000
Speaker 2: it's gonna be no this like Summer Walker, she just

2050
01:47:10,160 --> 01:47:11,240
Speaker 2: never feels This.

2051
01:47:11,360 --> 01:47:12,880
Speaker 1: Is what I have to say about Summer Walker.

2052
01:47:13,240 --> 01:47:15,200
Speaker 2: Right. A lot of people feel some way about Summer

2053
01:47:15,240 --> 01:47:20,679
Speaker 2: Walker because of the decisions that she's made personally and exactly.

2054
01:47:20,760 --> 01:47:22,439
Speaker 2: But this is what I go back to saying earlier.

2055
01:47:22,680 --> 01:47:27,160
Speaker 2: Some people, their personalities make them different. Summer Walker is

2056
01:47:27,240 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 2: one of them people that she needs to have her

2057
01:47:29,560 --> 01:47:32,600
Speaker 2: team on her social media and she just needs to,

2058
01:47:33,080 --> 01:47:35,880
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, because she's so you don't

2059
01:47:35,920 --> 01:47:36,919
Speaker 2: have to do the extras.

2060
01:47:37,479 --> 01:47:39,320
Speaker 1: Your talent speaks for itself.

2061
01:47:39,439 --> 01:47:41,280
Speaker 2: You don't need to let us know who you're dating,

2062
01:47:41,680 --> 01:47:44,759
Speaker 2: who you pregnant by, what you're deciding. You don't because

2063
01:47:44,800 --> 01:47:48,280
Speaker 2: you don't have to. Your talent is, you know, making

2064
01:47:48,400 --> 01:47:51,680
Speaker 2: the music, and she needs to have one of those

2065
01:47:51,760 --> 01:47:54,320
Speaker 2: Beyonce approaches, and she's one of them chosen ones. Like

2066
01:47:54,360 --> 01:47:56,840
Speaker 2: I was talking earlier, Raymonte is one of them chosen

2067
01:47:56,880 --> 01:47:59,639
Speaker 2: ones who can do whatever with his personality. Summer Walker

2068
01:47:59,720 --> 01:48:01,920
Speaker 2: is one of the few chosen people. You don't have

2069
01:48:02,000 --> 01:48:04,400
Speaker 2: to show us your personality or whatever. All you gotta

2070
01:48:04,439 --> 01:48:07,160
Speaker 2: do is, you know, sing and give us that. And

2071
01:48:07,200 --> 01:48:08,479
Speaker 2: there's not a lot of people who can do that,

2072
01:48:08,520 --> 01:48:10,640
Speaker 2: because there's a lot of people who are talented, but

2073
01:48:10,720 --> 01:48:14,000
Speaker 2: they have to get on social media and entertain us,

2074
01:48:14,120 --> 01:48:16,960
Speaker 2: so we would listen to their music. Yeah, I don't know.

2075
01:48:17,160 --> 01:48:20,679
Speaker 2: I was in my house with my little wine, swiggling

2076
01:48:20,680 --> 01:48:23,080
Speaker 2: it around in my little wine glass and my robe

2077
01:48:23,160 --> 01:48:26,320
Speaker 2: and my first slippers or the and I felt like

2078
01:48:26,360 --> 01:48:30,640
Speaker 2: I was making nineteen ninety six when that was a

2079
01:48:30,720 --> 01:48:35,160
Speaker 2: great body, and I felty, Yeah, feilty, gun in one hand,

2080
01:48:35,720 --> 01:48:37,280
Speaker 2: wine glass in the other. Period.

2081
01:48:37,360 --> 01:48:38,400
Speaker 1: You know who else makes great?

2082
01:48:38,439 --> 01:48:41,599
Speaker 2: Me? Ready to shoot some shit up, but also ready

2083
01:48:41,680 --> 01:48:44,240
Speaker 2: to cry. I want to talk about two other artists too.

2084
01:48:45,080 --> 01:48:48,240
Speaker 2: I recently saw Mariah the Scientist. She did Karesha Please,

2085
01:48:49,040 --> 01:48:53,240
Speaker 2: and I was so pleasantly surprise to see how eloquently

2086
01:48:54,000 --> 01:48:57,040
Speaker 2: she relayed her message that she wanted to send, and

2087
01:48:57,120 --> 01:48:59,680
Speaker 2: it was so articulate, and it was so intelligent and

2088
01:48:59,760 --> 01:49:01,479
Speaker 2: it was so beautiful to see.

2089
01:49:01,720 --> 01:49:02,720
Speaker 1: I wasn't surprised.

2090
01:49:03,160 --> 01:49:06,840
Speaker 2: I'm not I wasn't surprised. It seems really emotionally intelligent, right,

2091
01:49:07,120 --> 01:49:10,200
Speaker 2: But again, she is somebody that's like her music is

2092
01:49:10,320 --> 01:49:12,840
Speaker 2: so good. But I was happy to see that side

2093
01:49:12,880 --> 01:49:14,920
Speaker 2: of her so she could talk, because a lot of

2094
01:49:14,960 --> 01:49:17,920
Speaker 2: people feel like, oh she's not smart. For daty young thug,

2095
01:49:18,160 --> 01:49:20,040
Speaker 2: he may not get out of this in X y Z.

2096
01:49:20,600 --> 01:49:22,840
Speaker 2: But she was very just like vocal, and it was

2097
01:49:22,880 --> 01:49:26,040
Speaker 2: good to see that side of her. Another person on

2098
01:49:26,120 --> 01:49:27,960
Speaker 2: the other end of the space getting out.

2099
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:30,880
Speaker 1: Who cares what I'm saying.

2100
01:49:30,920 --> 01:49:33,680
Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying. But like for her, it's like,

2101
01:49:33,800 --> 01:49:35,720
Speaker 2: let's her business, let her do her you know what

2102
01:49:35,760 --> 01:49:39,400
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Ari Lennox. Ari Lennox dropped a new song

2103
01:49:39,479 --> 01:49:42,640
Speaker 2: called Smoke and the song is amazing. But she just

2104
01:49:42,800 --> 01:49:44,479
Speaker 2: had She went on live the other day and she

2105
01:49:44,600 --> 01:49:46,960
Speaker 2: had a whole instance. She had a breakdown. She was like,

2106
01:49:47,280 --> 01:49:50,080
Speaker 2: she tagged them, she said, I went out of my contract,

2107
01:49:50,200 --> 01:49:54,040
Speaker 2: and she tagged in her scope. She tagged Dreamville. People's

2108
01:49:54,080 --> 01:49:55,960
Speaker 2: in the comments like j Cole, what's up? What are

2109
01:49:56,000 --> 01:49:58,760
Speaker 2: you doing? Ari Lennox is another person where she just

2110
01:49:58,840 --> 01:50:00,840
Speaker 2: needs to give us our talent and she needs to

2111
01:50:00,920 --> 01:50:03,800
Speaker 2: have a team around her to you know, be on

2112
01:50:03,960 --> 01:50:06,960
Speaker 2: social media for her, because I just think it's so

2113
01:50:07,360 --> 01:50:10,040
Speaker 2: sad and we have people these days who are so talented,

2114
01:50:10,400 --> 01:50:13,479
Speaker 2: but the social media stuff has to it overwhelms them.

2115
01:50:14,400 --> 01:50:17,519
Speaker 2: And I hate that we are in this era because

2116
01:50:18,280 --> 01:50:20,759
Speaker 2: we just have to do better, not we these.

2117
01:50:20,680 --> 01:50:21,880
Speaker 1: Labels need to do better.

2118
01:50:22,720 --> 01:50:26,840
Speaker 2: Y'all aren't taking the time for artists development anymore and

2119
01:50:26,960 --> 01:50:28,880
Speaker 2: doing what y'all need to do for these artists. Because

2120
01:50:29,080 --> 01:50:32,040
Speaker 2: if our Lenox was surrounded by the proper team, there's

2121
01:50:32,080 --> 01:50:34,400
Speaker 2: no reason that she shouldn't be going down as a

2122
01:50:34,520 --> 01:50:38,200
Speaker 2: legendary like air Kabadu. That's how we should be viewing

2123
01:50:38,360 --> 01:50:41,880
Speaker 2: ri Lennox twenty years from now. Seriously, like y'all supposed

2124
01:50:41,880 --> 01:50:44,040
Speaker 2: to put teams around these people who y'all know that

2125
01:50:44,160 --> 01:50:47,519
Speaker 2: are special, but y'all being so fucking cheap and don't

2126
01:50:47,560 --> 01:50:50,920
Speaker 2: want to spend the budget because y'all worry about a TikToker. Well,

2127
01:50:50,960 --> 01:50:54,240
Speaker 2: one of our friends is a A and R yes

2128
01:50:54,640 --> 01:50:56,840
Speaker 2: in a music industry and I was just having a

2129
01:50:56,920 --> 01:50:59,080
Speaker 2: conversation with her last week. She works with a lot

2130
01:50:59,120 --> 01:51:03,320
Speaker 2: of popular artist too, but she was just saying, like

2131
01:51:03,439 --> 01:51:04,960
Speaker 2: right now, in the music industry, it's.

2132
01:51:04,920 --> 01:51:06,799
Speaker 1: Just really hard for the artists.

2133
01:51:07,280 --> 01:51:10,719
Speaker 2: It's extremely hard because if your music isn't going viral

2134
01:51:10,840 --> 01:51:15,360
Speaker 2: on TikTok, it's considered a flop. I'm not gonna lie

2135
01:51:15,439 --> 01:51:18,280
Speaker 2: to you. I'm not looking for no TikTok hit now.

2136
01:51:18,360 --> 01:51:22,720
Speaker 2: I do find some TikTok hits that I like that

2137
01:51:22,800 --> 01:51:25,160
Speaker 2: are R and B songs or like you know, eclectic

2138
01:51:25,240 --> 01:51:28,240
Speaker 2: type music. But a lot of the times, the best

2139
01:51:28,360 --> 01:51:30,479
Speaker 2: music is stuff that you can really vibe to. And

2140
01:51:30,560 --> 01:51:32,880
Speaker 2: that's why we're missing out on so much great music

2141
01:51:33,280 --> 01:51:37,559
Speaker 2: because the labels have put money in shit that doesn't

2142
01:51:37,720 --> 01:51:41,600
Speaker 2: really have longevity. That's why artists are dropping singles and

2143
01:51:41,680 --> 01:51:45,000
Speaker 2: they're not dropping albums. And that's why I'm so glad

2144
01:51:45,040 --> 01:51:47,200
Speaker 2: even Carti has taken the approach of I'm gonna do

2145
01:51:47,240 --> 01:51:49,800
Speaker 2: what I wanna do, because guess what, You're supposed to

2146
01:51:49,920 --> 01:51:54,280
Speaker 2: drop an album every now and then. Artists shouldn't feel

2147
01:51:54,280 --> 01:51:57,400
Speaker 2: the pressure to drop an album every year build up

2148
01:51:57,439 --> 01:51:59,920
Speaker 2: that anticipation. Let me tell you, when Cardi dropped this album,

2149
01:52:00,040 --> 01:52:06,280
Speaker 2: it's gonna go crazy. I wouldn't be a week because

2150
01:52:06,560 --> 01:52:08,519
Speaker 2: people have I'm waiting on it and I'm gonna listen

2151
01:52:08,560 --> 01:52:12,800
Speaker 2: to it front and better because Cardi Bitch love you s.

2152
01:52:13,880 --> 01:52:17,639
Speaker 2: We've been waiting. That's supposed that's what you supposed ready

2153
01:52:17,680 --> 01:52:22,080
Speaker 2: for the album? Let them stall, let them starving? Not

2154
01:52:22,160 --> 01:52:24,280
Speaker 2: we ready to eat because I'm ready to eat right now.

2155
01:52:24,400 --> 01:52:26,439
Speaker 2: Guess what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna tear a burger up.

2156
01:52:28,000 --> 01:52:32,840
Speaker 2: But I am what a me want all right. Now,

2157
01:52:32,880 --> 01:52:35,240
Speaker 2: it's time to get into our favorite sigment of the

2158
01:52:35,320 --> 01:52:37,679
Speaker 2: show because we're about to art house.

2159
01:52:38,520 --> 01:52:39,880
Speaker 1: I was just about to say we better call on

2160
01:52:40,000 --> 01:52:41,640
Speaker 1: tour because were about to.

2161
01:52:41,680 --> 01:52:42,839
Speaker 2: Be but I said.

2162
01:52:44,560 --> 01:52:49,320
Speaker 1: You like again. Okay, Now, something to get.

2163
01:52:49,200 --> 01:52:50,880
Speaker 2: Into our favorite sigment of the show, which is pour

2164
01:52:50,920 --> 01:52:53,000
Speaker 2: your heart out. If you have any questions, make sure

2165
01:52:53,000 --> 01:52:55,639
Speaker 2: you send them to ask for Minds at gmail dot com.

2166
01:52:56,280 --> 01:52:58,640
Speaker 2: That's a s K p o U R in my

2167
01:52:58,840 --> 01:53:03,280
Speaker 2: n B s at gmail dot com. Send us your questions,

2168
01:53:03,360 --> 01:53:07,040
Speaker 2: send us your testimonials. Let's get into a Bookie budd

2169
01:53:07,280 --> 01:53:10,040
Speaker 2: want me go first? So you oh, yours is over there,

2170
01:53:10,080 --> 01:53:13,400
Speaker 2: I'll go ahead. Hey, auntiease I love y'all. Here's the situation,

2171
01:53:13,640 --> 01:53:15,519
Speaker 2: me and this girl. We'll call her Jay have been

2172
01:53:15,600 --> 01:53:18,600
Speaker 2: mutual friends since high school. About five years ago, we

2173
01:53:18,720 --> 01:53:22,160
Speaker 2: became really close and started doing everything together. We meshed

2174
01:53:22,200 --> 01:53:24,880
Speaker 2: well because we already were in the same friend group

2175
01:53:24,960 --> 01:53:27,720
Speaker 2: and circles. Recently, she's been falling out with all of

2176
01:53:27,760 --> 01:53:30,599
Speaker 2: our friends over some real petty shit and no lies.

2177
01:53:30,680 --> 01:53:32,800
Speaker 2: She's been in the wrong a lot. There was even

2178
01:53:32,840 --> 01:53:34,760
Speaker 2: a time she had an issue with me, but I

2179
01:53:34,880 --> 01:53:35,519
Speaker 2: had to diet.

2180
01:53:35,439 --> 01:53:36,120
Speaker 1: It real quick.

2181
01:53:36,400 --> 01:53:38,280
Speaker 2: I told her that since we're grown, we're gonna talk

2182
01:53:38,320 --> 01:53:41,479
Speaker 2: out our problems around here. There was yet another situation

2183
01:53:41,640 --> 01:53:44,400
Speaker 2: she was venting to me about and she was dead

2184
01:53:44,479 --> 01:53:47,040
Speaker 2: ass wrong. I'm always willing to listen, but if you

2185
01:53:47,160 --> 01:53:49,479
Speaker 2: ask for my opinion, I'll tell it. I told her

2186
01:53:49,520 --> 01:53:52,040
Speaker 2: she was not doing the right thing. After I said that,

2187
01:53:52,200 --> 01:53:54,320
Speaker 2: she basically rushed off the phone, and it's been a

2188
01:53:54,400 --> 01:53:57,080
Speaker 2: week since I heard from her side. Note there will

2189
01:53:57,120 --> 01:53:59,920
Speaker 2: be several times where her attitude just switches up so quickly,

2190
01:54:00,040 --> 01:54:03,000
Speaker 2: league when we're on a trip, or she would be standoffish,

2191
01:54:03,200 --> 01:54:06,120
Speaker 2: not wanting to interact, etc. I'm at the point where

2192
01:54:06,120 --> 01:54:09,640
Speaker 2: I'm not apologizing for saying how I felt, but how

2193
01:54:09,720 --> 01:54:12,439
Speaker 2: she's been acting. I don't see her reaching out. Sometimes

2194
01:54:12,479 --> 01:54:14,120
Speaker 2: I feel we just might be growing apart.

2195
01:54:14,280 --> 01:54:16,679
Speaker 1: Any tips. Is she giving me bad vibes?

2196
01:54:16,800 --> 01:54:21,360
Speaker 2: Or is it just me? So I'll say these Obviously

2197
01:54:21,439 --> 01:54:24,439
Speaker 2: we don't have her perspective, and there's always two three

2198
01:54:24,520 --> 01:54:27,439
Speaker 2: sides to a story, whatever saying you believe. But I

2199
01:54:27,479 --> 01:54:29,559
Speaker 2: feel like if y'all are falling out over kind of like.

2200
01:54:29,600 --> 01:54:30,720
Speaker 1: Little shit and petty shit.

2201
01:54:31,400 --> 01:54:34,720
Speaker 2: I knew, for example, not trying to make it about me,

2202
01:54:34,840 --> 01:54:37,720
Speaker 2: but I had a situation where something happened and I

2203
01:54:37,840 --> 01:54:40,280
Speaker 2: called Draft for advice. She didn't say what I wanted

2204
01:54:40,320 --> 01:54:41,880
Speaker 2: her to hear, and I hung up in her face

2205
01:54:41,920 --> 01:54:43,880
Speaker 2: and I got mad. Why because I wasn't in a

2206
01:54:43,960 --> 01:54:46,840
Speaker 2: mature space. Stop asking people's opinion if you don't want

2207
01:54:46,880 --> 01:54:49,040
Speaker 2: to hear from it. And that situation taught me I

2208
01:54:49,160 --> 01:54:51,760
Speaker 2: have to grow as a person. So I took that

2209
01:54:51,920 --> 01:54:53,920
Speaker 2: as Once Drea said, yeah, bitch, you were being a

2210
01:54:54,000 --> 01:54:56,040
Speaker 2: fucking weird I was like, yeah, you're right, I'm being

2211
01:54:56,080 --> 01:54:59,080
Speaker 2: a weirdo. So a lot of times you may be

2212
01:54:59,240 --> 01:55:02,760
Speaker 2: growing apart because if she can't recognize that, and you

2213
01:55:02,880 --> 01:55:06,240
Speaker 2: can't recognize that, I think sometimes people need to realize

2214
01:55:06,960 --> 01:55:09,680
Speaker 2: if things are happening between you and somebody, it doesn't

2215
01:55:09,720 --> 01:55:12,720
Speaker 2: need to be a big situation for a blowout. Sometimes

2216
01:55:12,760 --> 01:55:15,120
Speaker 2: it's just God showing you, Hey, y'all don't need to

2217
01:55:15,120 --> 01:55:17,840
Speaker 2: be in each other's lives. It don't need to be

2218
01:55:18,000 --> 01:55:21,080
Speaker 2: a huge blowout. There's friends that I have been friends

2219
01:55:21,120 --> 01:55:24,040
Speaker 2: for for years and nothing happened. We just had different

2220
01:55:24,120 --> 01:55:27,000
Speaker 2: interests than we grew apart. So don't take this as

2221
01:55:27,160 --> 01:55:28,960
Speaker 2: you have to force a friendship just because y'all have

2222
01:55:29,040 --> 01:55:31,720
Speaker 2: been friends for so long, or oh, she's acting this

2223
01:55:31,920 --> 01:55:34,680
Speaker 2: way and looking at as a bad thing, because she

2224
01:55:34,880 --> 01:55:37,240
Speaker 2: may not be doing anything wrong. You just may not

2225
01:55:37,360 --> 01:55:40,960
Speaker 2: be perceiving it well because y'all are just growing apart.

2226
01:55:41,040 --> 01:55:47,840
Speaker 2: And that's okay. That's how I feel. Yeah, I don't know.

2227
01:55:47,960 --> 01:55:51,200
Speaker 2: I don't like people that can't take like constructive criticism right.

2228
01:55:53,440 --> 01:55:56,080
Speaker 2: That's not a friend that I want exactly If you

2229
01:55:56,360 --> 01:55:59,600
Speaker 2: ask me right, Like, if you ask me about something

2230
01:55:59,640 --> 01:56:01,360
Speaker 2: that you want, to give you my opinion and you

2231
01:56:01,480 --> 01:56:03,880
Speaker 2: don't take it the right way, I don't have to

2232
01:56:04,480 --> 01:56:06,560
Speaker 2: say something that you agree with. If you want to

2233
01:56:06,640 --> 01:56:08,120
Speaker 2: know how I feel, I'm going to tell you how

2234
01:56:08,160 --> 01:56:11,400
Speaker 2: I really feel. I just feel like that comes with

2235
01:56:11,560 --> 01:56:16,959
Speaker 2: emotional maturity sometimes and sometimes it don't come with emotional

2236
01:56:17,320 --> 01:56:19,720
Speaker 2: maturity because sometimes you and people are not meant to

2237
01:56:19,800 --> 01:56:23,480
Speaker 2: be in each other life. Like it's some people that

2238
01:56:23,640 --> 01:56:25,800
Speaker 2: I'm not cool with no more who when I was

2239
01:56:25,880 --> 01:56:29,080
Speaker 2: in my early twenties and stuff, I might have said

2240
01:56:29,160 --> 01:56:32,040
Speaker 2: something to them that made them feel some type of way,

2241
01:56:32,640 --> 01:56:37,480
Speaker 2: but our pasts misaligned for a reason because they was

2242
01:56:37,560 --> 01:56:39,320
Speaker 2: never meant to be on a path. And so I

2243
01:56:39,440 --> 01:56:43,560
Speaker 2: think that as a younger person, you just have to

2244
01:56:44,760 --> 01:56:47,960
Speaker 2: be okay with that and if it's meant to be

2245
01:56:48,200 --> 01:56:50,640
Speaker 2: you and that personal cross past again. I have a

2246
01:56:50,720 --> 01:56:53,480
Speaker 2: best friend right now who I stop being friends with

2247
01:56:53,560 --> 01:56:56,800
Speaker 2: her for over a year and now we like thinking

2248
01:56:56,920 --> 01:56:59,840
Speaker 2: thieves again, like we super cool again. If something is

2249
01:57:00,280 --> 01:57:03,560
Speaker 2: to be, it's gonna be. Don't force nothing. Lett shit

2250
01:57:03,640 --> 01:57:05,920
Speaker 2: be what it is. If you feel like it's bad vibes,

2251
01:57:05,960 --> 01:57:08,640
Speaker 2: it's weird energy, let her go her way, You go

2252
01:57:08,800 --> 01:57:09,200
Speaker 2: your way.

2253
01:57:09,680 --> 01:57:11,640
Speaker 1: Y'all focus on the things that y'all need to focus

2254
01:57:11,720 --> 01:57:12,320
Speaker 1: on in life.

2255
01:57:12,560 --> 01:57:15,760
Speaker 2: And if y'all are meant to be friends again, y'all

2256
01:57:15,800 --> 01:57:17,760
Speaker 2: all find y'all way back to each other after y'all

2257
01:57:17,800 --> 01:57:20,240
Speaker 2: have both healed, and the relationship will be even better,

2258
01:57:20,560 --> 01:57:24,160
Speaker 2: Like we did that too, because me and Lex did

2259
01:57:24,320 --> 01:57:28,960
Speaker 2: not like you. You don't got to emphasize about you

2260
01:57:29,000 --> 01:57:31,920
Speaker 2: don't got to emphasize it because everybody took it as shady.

2261
01:57:31,960 --> 01:57:35,160
Speaker 2: When Joe was like, because I don't talk about because

2262
01:57:36,120 --> 01:57:38,640
Speaker 2: obviously we did an episode with Melissa and Melissa was like, yeah,

2263
01:57:38,680 --> 01:57:40,800
Speaker 2: it's good to see people who get along and they're

2264
01:57:40,840 --> 01:57:41,360
Speaker 2: actually friends.

2265
01:57:41,400 --> 01:57:43,720
Speaker 1: And Joe was like now and everybody.

2266
01:57:43,440 --> 01:57:47,720
Speaker 2: Was like, oh, they I mean, but we talk about

2267
01:57:47,760 --> 01:57:50,840
Speaker 2: it all there. It ain't no tea there. They love

2268
01:57:51,000 --> 01:57:54,960
Speaker 2: Joe too, but like, it's not no tea. He wasn't

2269
01:57:55,000 --> 01:57:57,280
Speaker 2: being shady, So I don't know. I don't think that's

2270
01:57:57,280 --> 01:57:58,840
Speaker 2: why I said. That's why I felt the need to

2271
01:57:58,880 --> 01:58:01,400
Speaker 2: say we love Joe because I don't feel like he

2272
01:58:01,640 --> 01:58:04,760
Speaker 2: was being shady like he was around us at the time.

2273
01:58:04,880 --> 01:58:07,920
Speaker 2: They knew we wasn't getting along. So he's seen it

2274
01:58:08,080 --> 01:58:10,560
Speaker 2: firsthand and he like, well they get along now, like

2275
01:58:10,640 --> 01:58:13,280
Speaker 2: they built a relationship now. And since we're talking about it,

2276
01:58:13,280 --> 01:58:15,200
Speaker 2: because I've been name dropping a lot today, maybe it's

2277
01:58:15,200 --> 01:58:16,320
Speaker 2: a TV I don't.

2278
01:58:16,200 --> 01:58:17,560
Speaker 1: Know what, or espresso.

2279
01:58:17,800 --> 01:58:20,000
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. Don't blame that shit on tide.

2280
01:58:20,160 --> 01:58:23,520
Speaker 2: Blame that shit on that damn espresso. I have come

2281
01:58:23,560 --> 01:58:27,040
Speaker 2: to say though, so y'all make sure y'all share the content,

2282
01:58:27,600 --> 01:58:30,400
Speaker 2: like subscribe, follow all that good stuff. And let me

2283
01:58:30,440 --> 01:58:33,480
Speaker 2: say this before we close out, y'all. There is one

2284
01:58:34,040 --> 01:58:36,920
Speaker 2: Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds. It's p O.

2285
01:58:37,160 --> 01:58:41,680
Speaker 2: You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the

2286
01:58:41,760 --> 01:58:45,000
Speaker 2: wrong pour Minds page. If you see at poor Minds

2287
01:58:45,040 --> 01:58:47,120
Speaker 2: with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not

2288
01:58:47,240 --> 01:58:51,280
Speaker 2: follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the

2289
01:58:51,360 --> 01:58:54,919
Speaker 2: poor Mind's page on both so we only have one Instagram,

2290
01:58:55,920 --> 01:59:00,160
Speaker 2: one Twitter, one TikTok. It is p O, you are

2291
01:59:00,280 --> 01:59:03,320
Speaker 2: underscore in my nds. I and we gotta hell a

2292
01:59:03,400 --> 01:59:07,240
Speaker 2: fake Facebook page on the Facebook page it's our face.

2293
01:59:07,440 --> 01:59:10,160
Speaker 2: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

2294
01:59:10,280 --> 01:59:12,480
Speaker 2: least amount of follow So if you want face, the

2295
01:59:12,560 --> 01:59:15,600
Speaker 2: one that's ours got the least amount of but one

2296
01:59:15,720 --> 01:59:17,960
Speaker 2: that's not us it's got like two hundred and fifty.

2297
01:59:19,040 --> 01:59:20,720
Speaker 2: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

2298
01:59:20,840 --> 01:59:23,920
Speaker 2: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because

2299
01:59:23,920 --> 01:59:27,080
Speaker 2: their captains are like bumba claude. Should men should men

2300
01:59:27,160 --> 01:59:32,480
Speaker 2: pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No, check answer

2301
01:59:32,560 --> 01:59:38,160
Speaker 2: below block block pull off, Like that's literally what the captions?

2302
01:59:38,280 --> 01:59:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, what that DG's bumba claude, bumba claud.

2303
02:00:05,120 --> 02:00:08,640
Speaker 2: All right, question number two, I just go ahead, all right,

2304
02:00:09,440 --> 02:00:12,440
Speaker 2: Hey lex Andrea. I've been watching you guys channel on YouTube,

2305
02:00:12,520 --> 02:00:14,800
Speaker 2: and first off, I just want to say you ladies

2306
02:00:14,800 --> 02:00:18,560
Speaker 2: are absolutely stunny, very beautiful and watching you guys really

2307
02:00:18,640 --> 02:00:21,560
Speaker 2: makes me laugh and smile during the difficult times when

2308
02:00:21,600 --> 02:00:23,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to smile, So thank you.

2309
02:00:23,640 --> 02:00:24,360
Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight.

2310
02:00:24,480 --> 02:00:27,560
Speaker 2: I've been single for seven years, but throughout those years

2311
02:00:27,680 --> 02:00:30,720
Speaker 2: I have had a lot of field relationships and situationships.

2312
02:00:31,200 --> 02:00:33,160
Speaker 1: I know having a man doesn't validate me.

2313
02:00:33,640 --> 02:00:37,400
Speaker 2: However, always being seen as good enough to have sex,

2314
02:00:37,880 --> 02:00:40,360
Speaker 2: but to have sex with but not good enough to

2315
02:00:40,440 --> 02:00:43,160
Speaker 2: settle down with as really taking a shot at my

2316
02:00:43,280 --> 02:00:46,160
Speaker 2: confidence and I don't know what to do or how

2317
02:00:46,280 --> 02:00:48,640
Speaker 2: to feel. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, and

2318
02:00:48,720 --> 02:00:50,520
Speaker 2: as a grown woman, I just want to know how

2319
02:00:50,560 --> 02:00:53,240
Speaker 2: to get my confidence back and feel like a bad bitch.

2320
02:00:54,000 --> 02:00:59,520
Speaker 1: Can you help me stop having situationships?

2321
02:01:00,480 --> 02:01:05,480
Speaker 2: Come on, if men, if you desire a relationship and

2322
02:01:05,560 --> 02:01:08,280
Speaker 2: you desire commitment, and men are letting you know that

2323
02:01:08,400 --> 02:01:10,360
Speaker 2: that is not the same thing that they desire. Don't

2324
02:01:10,360 --> 02:01:13,840
Speaker 2: get them, No, pussy, don't take it further than the day.

2325
02:01:14,560 --> 02:01:16,640
Speaker 2: That's where you've been going wrong. See, because I'm sure

2326
02:01:16,640 --> 02:01:18,320
Speaker 2: you're a beautiful girl, I'm sure you have a lot

2327
02:01:18,400 --> 02:01:21,080
Speaker 2: to offer. But at the end of the day, men

2328
02:01:21,320 --> 02:01:25,520
Speaker 2: are opportunities. Men love pussy me, Men love pussy, and

2329
02:01:25,600 --> 02:01:29,360
Speaker 2: men need sex unlike women. A lot of the time,

2330
02:01:29,440 --> 02:01:32,440
Speaker 2: I feel like people say, oh, women need sex, women

2331
02:01:32,480 --> 02:01:34,640
Speaker 2: need sex, We can live without sex. Though I really

2332
02:01:34,720 --> 02:01:39,160
Speaker 2: truly feel there's certain men who can live without sex too, monks. Okay,

2333
02:01:41,040 --> 02:01:42,800
Speaker 2: I think it's certain men who don't put it on

2334
02:01:42,880 --> 02:01:44,400
Speaker 2: a pedestal, but it's very small.

2335
02:01:44,440 --> 02:01:47,640
Speaker 1: It's certain men don't put it on a pedestal, for sure.

2336
02:01:48,360 --> 02:01:53,240
Speaker 2: However, though I feel like most men, like, okay, I'm

2337
02:01:53,280 --> 02:01:57,240
Speaker 2: talking about men who value relationship, Yeah, yeah, who want

2338
02:01:57,280 --> 02:02:00,480
Speaker 2: to be in relationship. Okay, Because if we're talking about again,

2339
02:02:00,600 --> 02:02:02,720
Speaker 2: like I said, monks, people who have taken a vow

2340
02:02:02,760 --> 02:02:04,040
Speaker 2: of celibacy.

2341
02:02:04,040 --> 02:02:05,520
Speaker 1: Obviously that's different.

2342
02:02:05,840 --> 02:02:08,400
Speaker 2: But a man who is longing to be in a partnership,

2343
02:02:08,440 --> 02:02:11,440
Speaker 2: a man who is looking for a wife, men want sex,

2344
02:02:12,000 --> 02:02:15,800
Speaker 2: men literally, men in relationships. It has been statistically proven,

2345
02:02:16,240 --> 02:02:19,640
Speaker 2: men that are in relationships, men that are married, they

2346
02:02:19,840 --> 02:02:22,560
Speaker 2: need sex to thrive and to be able to go

2347
02:02:22,720 --> 02:02:24,560
Speaker 2: out into the world and do what they need to do.

2348
02:02:24,680 --> 02:02:28,360
Speaker 1: They look to their women when they come home to refuel.

2349
02:02:27,880 --> 02:02:28,960
Speaker 2: Them and.

2350
02:02:31,280 --> 02:02:38,600
Speaker 1: Recharge girls us and recharge them. So I think that.

2351
02:02:40,120 --> 02:02:43,960
Speaker 2: A lot of the time the conquest for men be sex.

2352
02:02:45,240 --> 02:02:47,480
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing wrong with that, But if that's not

2353
02:02:47,600 --> 02:02:52,040
Speaker 2: what you own, then quietly, cutely nip that shit in

2354
02:02:52,080 --> 02:02:54,600
Speaker 2: the bud and move on to the next nigga, move

2355
02:02:54,680 --> 02:02:56,800
Speaker 2: on to somebody who wants more from you than that.

2356
02:02:57,400 --> 02:03:00,760
Speaker 2: You have to be the person that's like, Okay, if

2357
02:03:00,960 --> 02:03:03,080
Speaker 2: he not making me feel like he wants something serious

2358
02:03:03,160 --> 02:03:05,600
Speaker 2: for me, I'm gonna cut this shit off and I'm

2359
02:03:05,640 --> 02:03:07,600
Speaker 2: not gonna give him sex, and I'm not gonna give

2360
02:03:07,680 --> 02:03:10,880
Speaker 2: him that satisfaction because if you give a man sex,

2361
02:03:10,960 --> 02:03:12,280
Speaker 2: you're playing into.

2362
02:03:12,120 --> 02:03:14,000
Speaker 1: It, and you can't be mad when you don't get

2363
02:03:14,040 --> 02:03:14,640
Speaker 1: what you want.

2364
02:03:15,240 --> 02:03:18,440
Speaker 2: If you didn't stand on business from jump knowing that

2365
02:03:18,560 --> 02:03:22,000
Speaker 2: you want commitment and not standing on commitment, that be

2366
02:03:22,120 --> 02:03:24,440
Speaker 2: the problem. And I'm not trying to be hard on you,

2367
02:03:26,160 --> 02:03:28,040
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying, if you want to settle down

2368
02:03:28,240 --> 02:03:30,760
Speaker 2: and that's what you want, then you have to move

2369
02:03:30,920 --> 02:03:34,440
Speaker 2: like somebody who wants to settle down and who knows

2370
02:03:34,520 --> 02:03:37,480
Speaker 2: what they want, and I can't be getting tricky. They

2371
02:03:37,600 --> 02:03:39,920
Speaker 2: gonna trick you up a little bit. I can agree

2372
02:03:39,960 --> 02:03:41,640
Speaker 2: with that because being somebody like I was in a

2373
02:03:41,680 --> 02:03:45,560
Speaker 2: situation with this guy that I had dated before, mister Cabo.

2374
02:03:46,400 --> 02:03:48,200
Speaker 2: I was in a situation where like when we first

2375
02:03:48,200 --> 02:03:51,280
Speaker 2: started going out, he was like, okay. He asked me like, okay, well,

2376
02:03:51,320 --> 02:03:53,360
Speaker 2: what are you looking for a ball out? I was like, honestly,

2377
02:03:54,040 --> 02:03:56,200
Speaker 2: I knew at that time. I was like I did

2378
02:03:56,320 --> 02:03:58,080
Speaker 2: want a man, I wanted partnership, but I was trying

2379
02:03:58,120 --> 02:03:59,520
Speaker 2: to be the cool girl and be like, oh, I'm

2380
02:03:59,560 --> 02:04:02,440
Speaker 2: just having fun, I'm outside, and he took that literal.

2381
02:04:02,840 --> 02:04:04,840
Speaker 2: So when shit played out, I was like, damn, you

2382
02:04:04,960 --> 02:04:06,560
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings. He was like, but this is what

2383
02:04:06,680 --> 02:04:08,440
Speaker 2: you told me. He was like, if I would have

2384
02:04:08,480 --> 02:04:11,200
Speaker 2: known you wanted this, I would one hundred percent gave

2385
02:04:11,240 --> 02:04:13,480
Speaker 2: it to you, Like that wouldn't have been a problem.

2386
02:04:13,760 --> 02:04:15,080
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of times women are so

2387
02:04:15,200 --> 02:04:17,560
Speaker 2: afraid to say what we want because we're trying to

2388
02:04:17,600 --> 02:04:21,320
Speaker 2: be so laid back. No first date if y'all have

2389
02:04:21,400 --> 02:04:23,840
Speaker 2: this conversation, what are your intentions? What are you looking for?

2390
02:04:24,400 --> 02:04:27,320
Speaker 2: Say what you want and be very vocal and hold

2391
02:04:27,360 --> 02:04:29,640
Speaker 2: out until you get that, and then they're showing you

2392
02:04:29,800 --> 02:04:32,400
Speaker 2: that they want the same thing. And she said it

2393
02:04:32,480 --> 02:04:34,680
Speaker 2: took a shot at her confidence. I just feel like

2394
02:04:35,240 --> 02:04:37,680
Speaker 2: it shouldn't take a shot at your confidence because a

2395
02:04:37,720 --> 02:04:40,520
Speaker 2: lot of the time, what people want in the space

2396
02:04:40,640 --> 02:04:42,800
Speaker 2: that they're in has nothing to do with you. It's

2397
02:04:42,840 --> 02:04:46,200
Speaker 2: absolutely about their own paths and the type of time

2398
02:04:46,280 --> 02:04:49,120
Speaker 2: and it they own. It shouldn't take any shot at

2399
02:04:49,200 --> 02:04:51,840
Speaker 2: your confidence because I'm sure you're beautiful, I'm sure you're smart,

2400
02:04:52,160 --> 02:04:54,200
Speaker 2: I'm sure you have a lot to add value to

2401
02:04:54,320 --> 02:04:57,560
Speaker 2: a relationship into the right men that just ain't the

2402
02:04:57,680 --> 02:05:01,440
Speaker 2: right men or the right situation. How a person feels

2403
02:05:01,440 --> 02:05:04,280
Speaker 2: about you says nothing about your character and how valuable

2404
02:05:04,360 --> 02:05:07,240
Speaker 2: you are, because the one person will treat you like shit,

2405
02:05:07,320 --> 02:05:08,920
Speaker 2: the next person will be like, oh my gosh, I

2406
02:05:09,040 --> 02:05:09,760
Speaker 2: just struck gold.

2407
02:05:10,000 --> 02:05:12,400
Speaker 1: What's some confidence? What sometimes they do?

2408
02:05:12,480 --> 02:05:17,000
Speaker 2: Because people ain't she I feel about people sometimes because

2409
02:05:17,680 --> 02:05:20,720
Speaker 2: you really trade It doesn't matter that her though, But

2410
02:05:20,840 --> 02:05:23,960
Speaker 2: I'm confident should be within yourself. How people feel about

2411
02:05:24,000 --> 02:05:25,960
Speaker 2: you shouldn't have an effect on how you feel because

2412
02:05:25,960 --> 02:05:28,600
Speaker 2: even though yeah, some people may be right about certain

2413
02:05:28,640 --> 02:05:30,880
Speaker 2: people that they are trash, but they don't feel that

2414
02:05:30,920 --> 02:05:33,960
Speaker 2: way because they're confident within themselves. So you don't need

2415
02:05:34,040 --> 02:05:36,879
Speaker 2: to look for any outside sources to make you confident.

2416
02:05:37,000 --> 02:05:39,960
Speaker 1: But I do have a question. So that was our advice.

2417
02:05:40,440 --> 02:05:41,560
Speaker 2: But I do have a question.

2418
02:05:41,680 --> 02:05:44,120
Speaker 1: You don't feel like trash? People suggest know they trash.

2419
02:05:45,560 --> 02:05:47,760
Speaker 2: Let me tell you. That's the problem. So many people

2420
02:05:48,320 --> 02:05:52,240
Speaker 2: be like, oh, what a person's opinion to me? Let

2421
02:05:52,280 --> 02:05:55,280
Speaker 2: me it shouldn't matter. But what if you really trash?

2422
02:05:55,400 --> 02:05:58,560
Speaker 2: So I have something very important because I had went

2423
02:05:58,600 --> 02:06:02,840
Speaker 2: through something and that made me realize I got out

2424
02:06:02,880 --> 02:06:05,640
Speaker 2: of a situation because this person had did me so

2425
02:06:05,800 --> 02:06:07,760
Speaker 2: dirty and so wrong, and I finally was able to

2426
02:06:08,160 --> 02:06:10,600
Speaker 2: open my eyes and see. And I was so stuck

2427
02:06:10,600 --> 02:06:12,600
Speaker 2: in the place of you know what, Karma's gonna get him,

2428
02:06:13,200 --> 02:06:15,600
Speaker 2: Karma gonna shut him down, and he gonna see. And

2429
02:06:15,680 --> 02:06:18,120
Speaker 2: I was so wrapped up in the world and the

2430
02:06:18,240 --> 02:06:20,400
Speaker 2: universe getting at him so hard, and I'm not gonna lie.

2431
02:06:21,160 --> 02:06:23,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on with this person. But

2432
02:06:23,320 --> 02:06:25,880
Speaker 2: somebody had updated me on him, which had pisced me off.

2433
02:06:26,560 --> 02:06:28,600
Speaker 2: But they were like, oh girl, he on vacation and

2434
02:06:28,680 --> 02:06:31,200
Speaker 2: he doing this in XYZ. So I'm like, you know what,

2435
02:06:31,480 --> 02:06:34,640
Speaker 2: maybe that person didn't get their karma. Maybe this person

2436
02:06:34,760 --> 02:06:38,520
Speaker 2: has moved on and they are extremely happy. But that's

2437
02:06:38,600 --> 02:06:41,640
Speaker 2: okay because that's a part of the healing process. Sometimes

2438
02:06:41,680 --> 02:06:44,840
Speaker 2: people do get they get back, but sometimes they really don't.

2439
02:06:44,960 --> 02:06:48,880
Speaker 2: Sometimes trash people they will hurt you and they will

2440
02:06:49,000 --> 02:06:52,280
Speaker 2: move on and live happy lives. The true thing about

2441
02:06:52,360 --> 02:06:55,600
Speaker 2: healing is that you cannot care and you cannot be

2442
02:06:55,720 --> 02:06:58,120
Speaker 2: concerned with that. But I didn't say nothing about to

2443
02:06:58,200 --> 02:06:58,720
Speaker 2: get back.

2444
02:06:58,880 --> 02:07:00,400
Speaker 1: I was just saying, do.

2445
02:07:00,520 --> 02:07:02,440
Speaker 2: Letting them know? Yeah, I let them know? But what

2446
02:07:02,480 --> 02:07:04,680
Speaker 2: does that do? Not letting them know? I'm just saying,

2447
02:07:04,760 --> 02:07:07,400
Speaker 2: do you think that that's a problem that like people

2448
02:07:07,600 --> 02:07:10,600
Speaker 2: be trash and may be feeling like they're not. It's

2449
02:07:10,680 --> 02:07:13,040
Speaker 2: not about you getting back at them, because at the

2450
02:07:13,160 --> 02:07:15,640
Speaker 2: end of the day, like that's stupid, that's childish, that's

2451
02:07:15,640 --> 02:07:17,600
Speaker 2: petty to waste your time. But what I'm saying is,

2452
02:07:17,760 --> 02:07:19,720
Speaker 2: but like it's so many people who go through like

2453
02:07:19,880 --> 02:07:22,720
Speaker 2: feeling like, well, I'm a great person, you know why

2454
02:07:22,720 --> 02:07:26,640
Speaker 2: I But guess what different things bring different things out

2455
02:07:26,680 --> 02:07:29,080
Speaker 2: of people. So this person may have been trash to me,

2456
02:07:29,560 --> 02:07:32,240
Speaker 2: but he may be a great person to that girl

2457
02:07:32,360 --> 02:07:35,600
Speaker 2: or that person. I don't know, but that's the part

2458
02:07:35,720 --> 02:07:39,000
Speaker 2: that's that I'm saying. That's why it's important to heal

2459
02:07:39,560 --> 02:07:41,360
Speaker 2: because I don't know how he's treating her. And I

2460
02:07:41,480 --> 02:07:45,240
Speaker 2: also don't care because maybe this person was bad to me,

2461
02:07:45,760 --> 02:07:47,920
Speaker 2: but he could be a great person or a friend.

2462
02:07:48,360 --> 02:07:51,200
Speaker 2: I had a friend who was trash to me, like

2463
02:07:51,320 --> 02:07:53,080
Speaker 2: we were talking about her earlier, but maybe she's a

2464
02:07:53,200 --> 02:07:56,200
Speaker 2: great friend to this other person. But the beauty about

2465
02:07:56,240 --> 02:07:59,200
Speaker 2: healing is I don't care. I let you know what

2466
02:07:59,320 --> 02:08:01,040
Speaker 2: you did to me, and I'll let you know how

2467
02:08:01,160 --> 02:08:02,840
Speaker 2: much of a fucked up person you were to me.

2468
02:08:03,920 --> 02:08:07,960
Speaker 2: All everything else, I'll just let go and I let god. So, yeah,

2469
02:08:08,000 --> 02:08:11,040
Speaker 2: you gotta tell people that they trash sometimes, but maybe

2470
02:08:11,080 --> 02:08:13,840
Speaker 2: that person was trashed to you. I don't know, different things.

2471
02:08:14,120 --> 02:08:16,680
Speaker 2: But you have to be okay with not caring as well.

2472
02:08:17,080 --> 02:08:18,640
Speaker 2: I think that's what it is, the best thing you

2473
02:08:18,720 --> 02:08:21,640
Speaker 2: can do. Let a person know how you feel and

2474
02:08:22,080 --> 02:08:24,480
Speaker 2: move on to heal. I agree, you know what I'm saying,

2475
02:08:24,480 --> 02:08:28,360
Speaker 2: because sometimes people want this karma. Oh the world gonna

2476
02:08:28,360 --> 02:08:30,520
Speaker 2: get you. But sometimes the world doesn't get that person.

2477
02:08:30,640 --> 02:08:33,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes it does. But the beauty about healing is I

2478
02:08:33,440 --> 02:08:35,120
Speaker 2: don't know if the world got back at you, but

2479
02:08:35,200 --> 02:08:38,440
Speaker 2: I also don't care. So that's what I was getting

2480
02:08:38,480 --> 02:08:40,840
Speaker 2: at as far as like, yeah, you gotta let people

2481
02:08:40,880 --> 02:08:44,360
Speaker 2: know they're trash. Sure, but that's more for you. They

2482
02:08:44,480 --> 02:08:46,120
Speaker 2: not gonna learn nothing because they don't care. They know

2483
02:08:46,200 --> 02:08:48,640
Speaker 2: how they did you right, that person that did they wrong,

2484
02:08:48,800 --> 02:08:51,360
Speaker 2: that did you wrong, they know what they did right.

2485
02:08:51,560 --> 02:08:55,000
Speaker 2: They're not oblivious to Oh I didn't know. They very

2486
02:08:55,120 --> 02:08:58,160
Speaker 2: much know. That's why I'm to the point now is

2487
02:08:58,280 --> 02:09:00,960
Speaker 2: I don't really tell people like, oh, you did some

2488
02:09:01,080 --> 02:09:03,760
Speaker 2: whole ship unless I really care about you, like cause

2489
02:09:03,760 --> 02:09:06,280
Speaker 2: sometimes like it'll be a situation where like you hurt

2490
02:09:06,320 --> 02:09:08,960
Speaker 2: my feelings, you really did not know. If you say,

2491
02:09:09,080 --> 02:09:10,960
Speaker 2: like you were talking about earlier, I was just saying

2492
02:09:11,040 --> 02:09:13,080
Speaker 2: my car got broken into. You didn't know that made

2493
02:09:13,120 --> 02:09:16,080
Speaker 2: me mad. People don't even know how I didn't bring

2494
02:09:16,160 --> 02:09:19,080
Speaker 2: it up. Well, you just no. But what I'm saying

2495
02:09:19,280 --> 02:09:22,960
Speaker 2: is you your intention wasn't to hurt me. Yeah, That's

2496
02:09:23,000 --> 02:09:24,920
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I say all that to say

2497
02:09:26,080 --> 02:09:28,480
Speaker 2: I was saying I didn't even say that. Shut that

2498
02:09:28,680 --> 02:09:31,720
Speaker 2: hell up. You know what I mean? Let me cross

2499
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Speaker 2: the T and dot my eye. Well, I was saying,

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Speaker 2: maybe you might want have you to delete that port

2501
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Speaker 2: the list. I didn't never say nothing about the car

2502
02:09:38,320 --> 02:09:41,200
Speaker 2: you broken into. Oh it don't matter. No, I mean

2503
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2504
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2505
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Speaker 2: of fabulous room on her back picking out a basket

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Speaker 2: of fruit.

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Speaker 1: I love you, boo freaking Fedi love you too.

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Speaker 2: Ha ha, you know how I do.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not just the younger baby.

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Speaker 2: This is one I'm looking for.

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Speaker 3: Sex in down the spirit they're kidding.

2571
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Speaker 2: I'm not being in too dramatic.

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Speaker 3: That's just so a gird I heaven.

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Speaker 2: I bet you hey bet you thought of Patty? Got

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Speaker 2: you while and bother cause I talk her.

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Speaker 3: If you're looking for the goods, keep on looking toy, hey.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, come on, just because you drive a bins,

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Speaker 2: I'm not going way home with you. You at getting

2578
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Speaker 2: on Naki or the cookie gone, No nurky, sex in

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Speaker 2: the pending einwall draw you already. No, I'm not being

2580
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Speaker 2: into dramatic. That's the way I got head. You think,

2581
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Speaker 2: you say, trying to hit, but I'm not I'm not

2582
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Speaker 2: being into dramatic. It's just so good heavy. I bet

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Speaker 2: you want the goodies. Bet you thought about it got you.

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Speaker 3: keep on looking, because they say in the job, oh

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Speaker 3: oh oh.

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Speaker 2: So them hot but so young. Still got im looking

2588
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Speaker 2: at your tongue, so down little what you ain't got

2589
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Speaker 2: it all? Hey, shaty, you don't bad between bad. I'll

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Speaker 2: show you a baddis bad when you pint bullet beating

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Speaker 2: the baddies. I've working at it every since I came

2592
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Speaker 2: this twenty. I ain't quite there, but I'm getting better. Yeah,

2593
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Speaker 2: driv on effect. Let me tell it to you one muggies,

2594
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Speaker 2: my lord to do a sell a girl who I am?

2595
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Speaker 2: Ain't I hit it. I can't have a way.

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Speaker 3: You weren't singuating that I'm hot, but these goodies, boy,

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Speaker 3: I'm not just for many of the many men that's

2598
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Speaker 3: trying to get on top. No, you can't call me lea,

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Speaker 3: and I don't want your number. I'm not changing stories.

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Speaker 3: Just respect the plan I'm calling.

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Speaker 2: Bet you want the goodies.

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Speaker 3: Bet your thought about it got you while hot and bothered.

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Speaker 2: We gotta get in the line, look cause they you

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Speaker 2: ready dry, were finna hit that hole? You remember here

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Speaker 2: we go? Yeah, because period, because they you hit it hole.

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Speaker 2: Hear that, I said, hit it hole. Hey, look at these,

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Speaker 2: Look at these that work. That's all right, that's all right.

2608
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Speaker 2: Them goodies, she got them goodies. Period. That was a

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Speaker 2: karaoke for that dy