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Speaker 2: Brandon is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her in Seef's house
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Brandon, how long has it been since you
Speaker 2: heard from Kaitlin.
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 4: Uh, it's been probably about a week or so.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, have you been trying to hit her up?
Speaker 3: Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing.
Speaker 2: Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about
Speaker 2: your date.
Speaker 4: So we were set up by a mutual friend. Man,
Speaker 4: I heard was right like, Caitlyn was beautiful and so
Speaker 4: fun and uh, instantly I was.
Speaker 5: I was hooked.
Speaker 4: So we took her or I took her out to
Speaker 4: uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool. That
Speaker 4: let you build your own pizza and put your own
Speaker 4: toppings and stuff and you get to be you know,
Speaker 4: creative with with your with your pie.
Speaker 6: And uh, that's that's all cool. But I'm you know, I'm.
Speaker 4: Really more of just like a Peperoni guy. So I
Speaker 4: just did that, but Caitlin, she actually convinced me to
Speaker 4: try some proscuto on my pizza, and I gotta hands
Speaker 4: her it was.
Speaker 3: It was delicious. I didn't know what I've been missing
Speaker 3: out on yours when.
Speaker 4: You ordered that, I did.
Speaker 3: Okay, I got to throw it a little bit.
Speaker 4: I love Italian so anytime I could say no, it
Speaker 4: was it was great so good.
Speaker 3: They were like, well, let's just keep this going.
Speaker 4: We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at a place
Speaker 4: next door. Fortunate enough, Caitlin loves a good whiskey too,
Speaker 4: so I treated her to an extra Japanese whiskey, and
Speaker 4: uh that opened the door to talking about travel and
Speaker 4: our hopes and dreams and.
Speaker 6: Places we've been, places we'd like to go.
Speaker 4: So then after that, I walked her home and actually
Speaker 4: ended the night with a kiss. It was I guess
Speaker 4: it was.
Speaker 2: A little awkward, but it was awkward.
Speaker 4: Well you just like I went in to kiss her,
Speaker 4: kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I
Speaker 4: ended up like kissing her lips, and it was It
Speaker 4: was kind of an awkwards last funny moment, but cool
Speaker 4: and okay, like.
Speaker 2: One of those weird first kiss moments where it's like
Speaker 2: some you're kind of kind of dancing trying to figure
Speaker 2: out where you're supposed to go with it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like it was. It was kind of like
Speaker 4: a funny moment, but I mean it turned into kind
Speaker 4: of a passionate kiss and and we're planning to see
Speaker 4: each other afterwards.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's good, But she hasn't gone back to you.
Speaker 2: What do you think? What do you think the reason
Speaker 2: is she goes on you?
Speaker 6: That's that's the thing.
Speaker 4: I don't know, Like, like, we had a great day,
Speaker 4: you know, piece was was great, The drinks afterwards were great.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 6: The kiss, although awkward, it was.
Speaker 4: Kind of funny, and she didn't seem put off by it.
Speaker 4: You know, she actually leaned into the kiss afterwards, so
Speaker 4: like it seemed like everything was happening. But then I
Speaker 4: don't know, I mean, just you know, how you seem.
Speaker 5: To go like any anything could have happened here in
Speaker 5: the night that she might have I don't know, just
Speaker 5: sound disgusting or off putting, and then just didn't want
Speaker 5: to make it aukward.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm kind of I've never been ghosted, so I'm just
Speaker 4: got I have all these questions when going home.
Speaker 2: But did nothing happen that's sticking out in your mind.
Speaker 3: No, No, and like even.
Speaker 4: At the like I said, like at the end of
Speaker 4: the night, like with the kiss, like I don't think
Speaker 4: anyone that didn't want to see me again would have
Speaker 4: engaged like that, you know.
Speaker 3: And then when we were.
Speaker 4: Done, she actually mentioned she was excited to see me again.
Speaker 4: So that's even more like trivial with the situation now,
Speaker 4: mm hmm.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 2: for you. Then we'll places On come back and then
Speaker 2: call her and see what yourself why she's ghosting you,
Speaker 2: and maybe get to another date. Okay, okay, corect all right,
Speaker 2: well place On, come back, get your first day follow
Speaker 2: up next if you're just joining us for today's first
Speaker 2: day follow up. But Brandon is on the phone and
Speaker 2: he's getting ghosted by Caitlyn. So we're about to call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: him and see if we can get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Brandon, before we call her, why don't you
Speaker 2: refresh our memory on your date with Kaitlin.
Speaker 4: So Cayl and I went on a date set up
Speaker 4: by mutual friends. We had pizza and wine and that
Speaker 4: was great, build your own, and then we went out
Speaker 4: for drinks afterwards, great conversation. That walked her home and
Speaker 4: we ended up kissing and it was great. And then
Speaker 4: she was excited to seemingly excited dissing me again. But
Speaker 4: after that, it's just been Nah, it's been no communication
Speaker 4: and you have no idea why. Yeah. Nothing. It's kind
Speaker 4: of disappointing because I really liked her. I thought we
Speaker 4: had great chemistry and it seemed to be mutual. So yeah,
Speaker 4: I'd be really bummed if it didn't work out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, you're ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4: Absolutely?
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man sweet to Caitlin.
Speaker 2: Please Caitlin, Hey, how are you? My name is Jewbel.
Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Caitlin,
Speaker 2: we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,
Speaker 2: and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much?
Speaker 3: Why are you calling me?
Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry, that's okay.
Speaker 2: You don't have to apologize. Maybe you will know that's
Speaker 2: we're calling you. We do a segment on the show.
Speaker 2: It's called the first day follow up. That's where if
Speaker 2: you go on a date with someone and then you
Speaker 2: ghost them, that person can email us and ask us
Speaker 2: to call you and see if we can figure out
Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about
Speaker 2: you from somebody that you went on a date with.
Speaker 3: Oh are you somebody?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 2: You are, but do you know who it is?
Speaker 3: Is it Brandon?
Speaker 2: Yes? Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit
Speaker 2: about your date, and he said he really likes you
Speaker 2: and he thought you were into him. So he's confused.
Speaker 2: So why you're ghosting him? Do you mind telling us?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 7: I did really like him. Okay, she's hot and smart
Speaker 7: and kind of awkward. It's actually kind of charming.
Speaker 2: So you liked him, but you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7: Well, he he texted me something after our date that
Speaker 7: I just like, haven't been able to get over.
Speaker 3: I didn't really know what to do with it.
Speaker 2: Well was it a picture or something? Oh?
Speaker 7: No, no, god, no, I mean that happens.
Speaker 3: I think he's a good guy.
Speaker 2: What did he text you?
Speaker 7: Okay, let me really find it. Uh, okay, the text
Speaker 7: is your and have awakened parts of my body that
Speaker 7: I have never felt before.
Speaker 6: Romantic.
Speaker 1: It's like on the line, you know, like I don't
Speaker 1: that's just that's a lot after one day and kiss,
Speaker 1: and like I don't know if he's like in a
Speaker 1: Shakespeare play, Like is he taking himself seriously?
Speaker 7: When he said that, I kind of was expecting another
Speaker 7: text that was like, you know, harks their maiden. I
Speaker 7: longed for another evening of your presence or something like that.
Speaker 2: You know, I could have been funny. You know, there's
Speaker 2: some people out there that believe in love at first night,
Speaker 2: So if they're laying I don't think that could be
Speaker 2: a good thing.
Speaker 3: It was just it was so earnest and it just
Speaker 3: kind of felt like too much.
Speaker 1: And I think he hasn't been in a relationship in
Speaker 1: a while, and so I was afraid he was in
Speaker 1: like this romantic, dreamy bubble and I I gott to
Speaker 1: be with someone who's in the world that I'm living in,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So it just hits you like a little bit too much.
Speaker 3: It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?
Speaker 7: Like I'm just a person, give yourself a little bit magic,
Speaker 7: but like I've awakened parts of his body they never saw.
Speaker 3: It was a little overwhelming to me.
Speaker 7: Okay, and then I don't know if I'm like on
Speaker 7: a pedestal.
Speaker 3: I just it just made me a little nervous.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well, thank you for telling us that.
Speaker 2: Now I got to let you know that Brandon is
Speaker 2: on the phone and has been listening whats his hawks on?
Speaker 6: Okay, Park? Yes, well I've dreamt of this pleasure of circasion.
Speaker 3: Again.
Speaker 1: Hi, Park, I'm sorry I just put your business out
Speaker 1: on the radio.
Speaker 3: But you didn't have them call me, so No, that's
Speaker 3: that's quite all right.
Speaker 2: What parts of the body were awakened, Brandon?
Speaker 4: I mean, I'd rather not discuss that.
Speaker 3: I think people understand.
Speaker 2: That was pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going
Speaker 2: on through your mind when you sent that text?
Speaker 3: I don't know I was awakened. No, I'm just I'm
Speaker 3: a playful guy.
Speaker 4: But Kaylyn just want to assure you that I do
Speaker 4: live in a reality and after our date, I was like, legit,
Speaker 4: I've never felt that way, and after my last relationship,
Speaker 4: I just that was lacking and I want another date
Speaker 4: and I want to be a part of your reality.
Speaker 4: Oh maybe I'm over the top, but this is how
Speaker 4: I was feeling.
Speaker 2: Honestly, Well, Caitlyn, would you like another date with Brandon?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh see Shakespeare's got gain Maiden. Congratulations Brandon, you did it.
Speaker 2: You got another day?
Speaker 7: Yes, I mean I I like that he has a
Speaker 7: good attitude and and could laugh at this, and I
Speaker 7: appreciate that we're more on the same page than I thought, Kaylen.
Speaker 4: And I can't say how I said it, am And
Speaker 4: I promise if if I'm going overboard with anything, you
Speaker 4: can always talk to me about it.
Speaker 3: But hard, Kaylen. My heart and the onions are in bloom.
Speaker 6: Await next year at the Outback Steakhouse.
Speaker 2: Soon, Roman, you will first date Fall