1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. 3 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in. I'm actually in Florida right now, 4 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: so we're doing like old school zoom where no one's together. 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: But I don't I don't love not having you next 6 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: to me. I'm not gonna lie, I understand. I also, 7 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: it's not preferable that we do it this way, and 8 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,279 Speaker 1: I do like to do it when we're together, but 9 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: it is what it is. I'm visiting family. My dad 10 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: turned sixty years old, and um I flew out here yesterday, 11 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: so it's just a party and a half down here. Yeah, 12 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 1: it's probably best you're not next to me today because 13 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: I honestly smell so bad right now. Like you know, 14 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: when you can smell yourself, it's bad and is it? 15 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: But is it the tan smell? It's the it's the 16 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: spray tan xed with boh, so it's like bad. Yeah. 17 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, because I mean you always talk 18 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: about like, oh, I smell whatever. I personally don't feel 19 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: like I'm a smelly person, Like I don't I sweat. 20 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: If I sweat, it's like more nervous anxiety type sweat. 21 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: If I'm gonna do something that, like if I had 22 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: to read a prompter or something, I'd be sweating. But 23 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: like I don't normally sweat like under my armpits, but 24 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: when I have a spring tan, it is I hate it. 25 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 1: It's like the worst. Yeah. So, like I smell pretty 26 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: pretty jank, and I'm also wearing, um, this top is 27 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: my pajama top. So I'm in my pajama top and 28 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: jeans right now. That's where I'm at. Happy Monday, he 29 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: she Kardashian cheek. So what happened was yesterday after I 30 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: finished at the Billboard Musical Words, Red Star took me 31 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: to dinner and I didn't want So I've been in 32 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: this dress and it's like very uncomfortable to sit ins. 33 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: I didn't want to go out to dinner in this dress, 34 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 1: and so I changed into like jeans and like a 35 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: T shirt and I ended up sleeping at his house. 36 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: But I didn't bring a change of clothes for to 37 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: come to work the next morning, so obviously like how 38 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: to like wake up and come straight to the morning show. 39 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: And so I literally had the jeans that I brought 40 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: to wear to dinner last night and then my pajama 41 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: top and I was like, this actually doesn't doesn't look terrible. No, 42 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: I like it. I haven't actually have a top. I 43 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: thought it was the same one, but mine's a body suit, 44 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,679 Speaker 1: so it's in my head. I was like, wait, is 45 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: that a pajama top and I've been wearing it that way, 46 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: but no, it's a body suit. Um wait, I mean, 47 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: we have so much to talk about, but before we 48 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: get into your weekend and the Billboard Music Awards, Um, 49 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: do you feel like you're like, would you be comfortable 50 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: like just like bring in a few pairs of clothes 51 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: over and just you know, stashing them somewhere in the 52 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: house there. Yeah. You know what's crazy is like the 53 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: clothes thing, I've it's never been an issue because I 54 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: always just pack what I need when I'm going over there, 55 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: and I don't really it's never I've never had this 56 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: issue before. It's the toilet trees that is the most 57 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: annoying thing to pack and like take over every time. 58 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: So I'm in the process of leaving a lot of 59 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: my toiletries there so I don't have to carry that 60 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: bag around all the time. Clothes has never been an issue, 61 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: but this morning was really And then last night I 62 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: wanted to take a shower and I didn't have a 63 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: hair tie, and I was just like, oh, she's like 64 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: it's like things like that that you don't even you 65 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like I was running a million 66 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: miles an hour all weekends, so I just I packed 67 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: my bag quickly. I didn't really think everything through, so 68 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: I had to, Like I took a shower, I wrapped 69 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: a towel around my head so I didn't get my 70 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: hair wet, and like, yeah, hot mess express. I don't 71 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: like even to like traveling here. I we got in late. 72 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: We just went straight to my parents, but my sisters 73 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: and I were saying in a kondo so that we 74 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: all have a bed. And we got to the airbnb 75 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: and they have like they have like that cheapy bar 76 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: soap and shampoo conditioner. But I was like, I don't 77 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: like not having my routine stuff, you know, like I 78 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: like my body wash, I like everything. But you know, 79 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: it's part of part of vacation and adjusting, you know, Yeah, 80 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: I guess, but you know what I do have to say, 81 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: it was so nice, like I feel like I pride 82 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 1: myself and saying, you know, I'm independent, I don't need anybody. 83 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: I can do it all on my own, and I can. 84 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: But this weekend it was so nice because I was working, 85 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: like I honestly never worked a weekend like I did 86 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: this one in terms of like when I left my 87 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: like I was gone from my house for like twelve 88 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: thirteen hours, and it was so nice to have him 89 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 1: like go to the grocery store because I didn't have 90 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: certain things, and then like he made breakfast one morning 91 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 1: for my you know, hair and makeup, been stylist, and 92 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: he was just kind of like taking care of me 93 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: in a way that like I didn't I did never. 94 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: I didn't think I needed you know what I mean, 95 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: Like I didn't need it because I would have figured 96 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: it out if I didn't have him, But it was 97 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: nice to have helping hand and like things I didn't 98 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 1: have to ask for, you know. Yeah, it's one of 99 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: those things of like of course you could do it, 100 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: like you could have ordered your groceries and stuff, but 101 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: having especially your partner step up and like kind of 102 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: take care of you and show up in those types 103 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: of ways. And I still don't know your like main 104 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: love language. But sometimes I think it's like acts of 105 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: service because it's for sure acts of service. Yeah, but 106 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: you're high on the other ones too, so it's like 107 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: hard to know which one is the most important. But 108 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: I do find that, what you know, like when we're 109 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: having girl talk and you're like venting about stuff, I 110 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: feel like acts of services where you really feel appreciated 111 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: and loved, it's acts of service. But it's because a 112 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: lot of things can be lumped into that too, you know, 113 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: like a lot of things kind of go in that realm. 114 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: Like he sent me flowers, and the flowers that he 115 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: sent me matched my dress, like they were the same 116 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: colors as the dress that I was wearing. And I 117 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 1: was like, that's, like, I guess a gift because you 118 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: would consider flowers a gift, but it was so thoughtful, 119 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: So to me, that was like an act of service. 120 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: Yeahs waight. So because it was a thoughtful gift, it's 121 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: an act of service. Yes, they get a little the 122 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: lines get a little blurry there with that, although sometimes 123 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: sometimes Tanya tells me stuff that like whatever, like when 124 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: she's spending I'm like, you might need to date a girl, 125 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 1: because like I don't know if guys think the way 126 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: that you're expecting to think. It's very true. It is 127 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,239 Speaker 1: very very true. And then like I also don't realize 128 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: it when like a girlfriend of mine told was commenting 129 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: to me. She was just like the fact that he 130 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: got flowers to match the dress you were wearing to 131 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: the you know, to the Billboard music words, that is 132 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: a whole another step that not many guys would think of. 133 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: And I was like, you're right, that is really can 134 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: confirm that. Yeah, it's awesome. And it wasn't even like 135 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: an easy color to match. It was like blue green, 136 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: so the flowers were a dip died and like blue 137 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: flowers are hard to find blue hydranges, and I was 138 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: just like, wow, that was It was really really nice. 139 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: And even last night, like we I think I wrapped 140 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: at seven and so he was like, no, we have 141 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: to go out to dinner and celebrate. I was like, 142 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: I didn't even think, you know what I mean, like 143 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: normally just come home and I shower and like I'm 144 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: up all night because I'm like on a high. But 145 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: it was nice to have and be like, no, we 146 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: need to go out to dinner and celebrate, and I 147 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: don't know, it was just really nice. We need to 148 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: talk about your weekend, because there are some things that 149 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: I am very jealous of. One in particular, you got 150 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: to talk to Pink herself, which I knew was happening, 151 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: but I saw the photo and I was like, I 152 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: need to know everything. I mean, first of all, you 153 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: looked amazing. You always do your glam team yourselves. Everyone 154 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: kills that you kill it. It's just like I feel 155 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: repetitive saying it. But to start out, you looked incredible, 156 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: and now I need to know the deeds what happened. 157 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: She is honestly like iconic, just the nicest person. And 158 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: I was actually saying earlier, I was really like nervous 159 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: because I was stepping into a new role that I've 160 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: never had before in terms of like I've never done 161 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: interviews like that by myself on that big of a show, 162 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: and so I was really nervous and I wanted to 163 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: be professional, and I was talking to think about this 164 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: specific song, and I started to get really emotional and 165 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: I cried, but like not like cry like sobbing, like 166 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: I think because the fact I had so much makeup on, 167 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: Like it's yeah, I teared up, but then she teared up, 168 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: and so it ended up being like a really sweet moment. 169 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: But I was so insecure about it because I was 170 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: just like, I'm supposed to be professional and like the 171 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: authority here and I'm like a weeping willow to pink, 172 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: you know. But it ended up being really special and 173 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: nice and um wait, glitter in the air, Oh, I 174 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: mean performance, it's like, how do you beat it? No? 175 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: And I was like that song, you know, I think, 176 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: And there's a a lyric in that song in particular 177 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: that just guts me. But I think anybody I don't 178 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: know what that song means to you. I think obviously 179 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,479 Speaker 1: music is up for interpretation. You kind of you associated 180 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: with something that happened in your life. But again, for me, 181 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: it was like the heart. It was my heartbreak anthem. 182 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: And there's this lyric where she says, like, waiting your 183 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: whole life for that ring to prove you're not alone chills. 184 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:03,439 Speaker 1: What a lyric, right, It's true, And I think so 185 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: many people relate to that, and it's weird because it's 186 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,959 Speaker 1: not even like the ring. And I think some people 187 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: just want the ring because they just want to feel 188 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: like they're not alone and they're not looking for the 189 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: right partner. Well, the ring too. I think a lot 190 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: of people feel the ring is like I've got that 191 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: commitment forever. But unfortunately I have a lot of friends 192 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: who had the ring and the relationships still. I have 193 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: a lot of friends who had the ceremony and it 194 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: didn't work out. And it's it's weird, how like, I 195 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: don't know what is society that has told us like, 196 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: once you get that ring, you will never be alone, 197 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: like you'll never feel alone. And it's like such a 198 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: lie that we've been told that that represents like companion, 199 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: like that that's the only way to feel content. I 200 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: guess it's the word I'm looking for. Safe totally. It's 201 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: such a like it's such a mind trip, you know, 202 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: Like I don't know, it's so weird. And she was 203 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 1: even like she was doing a lot of because it 204 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: was actually so interesting because the press room was so 205 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: quiet and there, you know, nobody could really it's not 206 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: like a normal red carpet. You could hear other interviews 207 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: that she was doing, and uh, she was talking about 208 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: how she doesn't need like she you know, she's just 209 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: celebrated her anniversary with Kerry, her husband, and she's like 210 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: I don't need him, but I want him, and I 211 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: was like, girl, girl, I had a combra, I had 212 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: a comb I've always said that that I never want 213 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: to be in a relationship where I feel like I 214 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: need that person, that I want them and that they 215 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: make me happy and they make my life better. I 216 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: tried to explain this to nine, and I don't know 217 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: if I worded it incorrectly or wasn't sensitive enough and 218 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: how I said it, but it wasn't it. I had 219 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: to go back and really re explain and say, like 220 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 1: I want to my my goal like being with someone 221 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 1: is that we're both at a hundred percent and we 222 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: get to be two rather than being half and needing 223 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: other half to like make us whole. And um, I 224 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: think it's so true, like there's this something like you 225 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: complete me, you know, and it's like, no, you just 226 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 1: like really enhance my life and make it better. Yeah. 227 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 1: If Eastern and Mark feel that way about their perspective, 228 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 1: spout I I do, sure, I'd like to throw that 229 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: in there. Yeah yeah, I mean me too, me too. 230 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like you both like independent women 231 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: who like are very grateful for y'all, but they don't 232 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: necessarily need y'all. I think that centro. I think I'm 233 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: in the way more than anything else. Yes, yes, I 234 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: need her much more than so interesting I know, but yeah, 235 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: it's but I love that lyric though, I mean, I 236 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: just love pink. And we went we actually went to 237 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: her the premiere for her new documentary last Um Monday, 238 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 1: and it was me you in Red Star and I 239 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: put I go to tag Red Star and I was like, hey, 240 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: this is okay, right, and he was like, yeah, yeah, sure, 241 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 1: no problem. And I have never gotten so many messages there, 242 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: like you just exposed Red Star And I was like, 243 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: has he not been tagged yet? I got a lot 244 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: of messages to being like Becca Savage, Becca, yeah if 245 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm not, like I triple checked. I was like, is 246 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: this okay? Everybody? I did start following him because of 247 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: that tag, and that man smashed follow back and I 248 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: feel great, that is pretty that's that's pretty major because 249 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: he is he's private on Instagram and he doesn't accept 250 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: people he doesn't know, and so it's just like you 251 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: can I don't tag him because I know he doesn't. 252 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: He's not you know what I mean, It's like he's private. 253 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: Well I had I had never followed him before because I, 254 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: you know, it was I didn't know how much Tanya 255 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: wanted to share, and so I knew it would be 256 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: obvious if it was like some random person. So anyways, 257 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: I never followed him, which I refer to as the 258 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: trigger event the breakup. I was like so happy I 259 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: didn't follow him because I obviously would have un followed 260 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:12,719 Speaker 1: him after that, and then I would have had to 261 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: follow him back. So I, you know, I just waited. 262 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: You really did the trigger event. That is so funny, 263 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 1: but yeah, we sell it. We celebrated the following of 264 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: each other, and we watched Pink and she's just I mean, 265 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just like a die hard Pink fan. 266 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: I love her, I know, and like she's just so good. 267 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: She just really good. She's talented, she's an amazing mom. 268 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: I just feel like she wants the world Like I 269 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: feel like she just wants people to like treat people better, 270 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah yeah, And you know what's so funny 271 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: is like you can tell, like you know how much 272 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: I love a cohesive moment, Like every time back and 273 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: I have to do anything together, I want to be 274 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: like matching or cohesive in some way. This just goes 275 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: to show you how in the zone I was and 276 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: everything I was cohesively matching the Jonas brothers and I 277 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: didn't I didn't even realize it until everybody was messaging 278 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: me saying, oh my gosh, cohesive. And I was like, 279 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: it's like I coordinated with them, Like it's like they 280 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: coordinated with you. Yeah. Nick was in green and Kevin 281 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: and Joe were wearing I don't know, Kevin was wearing 282 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: some sort of blue, and I was like, I could 283 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: fit right in the middle there. Yeah, I mean it 284 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: was I was like, Wow, Tanya's dream come true. She 285 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 1: is essentially cohesively dressed with the Jonas brothers. It really 286 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: wasn't dream come true. I want to hear more about 287 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: the Joe bros. And like the rest of your weekend. 288 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: But we do have a very special guest here and 289 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: I'm actually really excited to talk to him. Um, we 290 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: have Bobby Bones, which this is Is this his first 291 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: time scrubbing in? Yeah? Ever was he ever a co 292 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: host or anything? Because in my mind, I feel, I mean, 293 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: we've talked about him, we've always known, we've never heard. 294 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: I feel like he's been on. He's been on with 295 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: Janet Creamer on lying down okay. I just I felt like, okay, 296 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: but Becca Mark has an excuse because he works on 297 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: that podcast for you, Becca to happy questions. I thought 298 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 1: he was a co host with you when I was 299 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: out of town. One time that I was asked, I 300 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: remember when I've talked to people. I'm not that disassociated. 301 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, um, okay. On that note, we 302 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: have Bobby Bones scrubbing in today, and we're gonna take 303 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: a break and we'll be right back with him. All right, 304 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: you guys, we're back and we have Bobby Bones scrubbing 305 00:16:53,920 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: into the O R should I'm holding male microphone in 306 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 1: my hand because it's such a bootleg microphone that I broke, 307 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:09,159 Speaker 1: so really good, Thank you, Thank you, like like old 308 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: timey talk show host. So it's I like it. I 309 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know being called old timey. I guess I'll go 310 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 1: with that. Look at my mike. You have a microphone 311 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: like on TikTok when they're when they're holding it and 312 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: they're like, Okay, here are my top ten things that 313 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: I pete on yesterday, number ten, Like that's what that 314 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: looks like. Um TikTok stories. Anyway, thank you guys for 315 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: having me know the shape of your microphone looks like 316 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: who was that person you're thinking of? It's Sullivan. Oh wow. Okay, 317 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 1: well just learned visual for everybody watching, I mean listening. 318 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 1: That's where I'm at today. Me too. We did um 319 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: Idol last night, the finale, and then we got on 320 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: a plane of flu landed at four got into the 321 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: studio four one, started at five am, did the show 322 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm delirious. So you guys are probably gonna I'm gonna 323 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: say something that's gonna get me canceled for sure, So 324 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: let's go. We We don't want you to get canceled, 325 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: but we do love a delirious moment. So normally, when 326 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 1: Tanya is in this state of delirium, it's some of 327 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: our best podcasts. So I'm happy that y'all are both 328 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: on the same level today. I feel great. That's great. 329 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 1: That is great, okay, Bobby. So when you came on, 330 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: Tanya was lightly singing, and she was singing the song 331 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: the One that Got Away by Katie Perry. Because I 332 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 1: don't know if you know this about Tanya, but we 333 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: were really trying to make you a Tanya happen for 334 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: a minute. I don't know if you felt that, but 335 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: we were See. The thing is I never know what's 336 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 1: a bit and what's not, and when I would get it, 337 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: I would just assume it was a bit, and Bobby, 338 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 1: I don't Here's the thing. I don't do bits, like 339 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: in terms of my love life, I don't do bits 340 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: like if I'm interested in body, it is on this 341 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:08,120 Speaker 1: bad boy And that's just clear? Is is water? Did 342 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: that make sense? So nothing was a bit? And this 343 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: is genuine well, I mean, and I know you're engaged, 344 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 1: Tanya is in a relationship, So that's all just like 345 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 1: funny because I've never gotten to talk to you about it, 346 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: but we would all are you still in a relationship, Tanya, 347 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 1: because let me ask a couple of questions here. Thank 348 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: you for having me because I would Is it the 349 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: same guy that you wouldn't show on Instagram? Yes, same guy, 350 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: same guy. We did break up for a few months though, 351 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: so there was like a three month window where we 352 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: were not together. Have we seen him yet? He's been exposed? 353 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 1: He has been exposed. Okay, good, that's pretty cool because 354 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: I have I would watch and I would be like, 355 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: I wonder who this guy is, and then I'd stopped 356 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: seeing anything about him at all, and then I thought, okay, 357 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:59,239 Speaker 1: well maybe onto the next one. But to know that 358 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: there is somebody new now congratulating somebody the same guy, 359 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: but just new again. Congratulations on that correct, Thank you 360 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, it's interesting because uh, I, like you said, 361 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: like you know, you never know like what's a bit 362 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: and what's what's not. And then in all reality, this 363 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 1: is like my love life is never a bit, Like 364 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 1: I'm just totally authentic and honest about everything that goes on. 365 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: And uh, when I went through that breakup, it was 366 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: really really hard for me because I saw that relationship 367 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: going one way and then when it went another way, 368 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 1: I was like I didn't really know what was up 369 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: and what was down, and so the getting back together 370 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 1: and things like that, Like now it's almost like I want, 371 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, I want to find like a balance 372 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 1: because I'm like I'm more than just my dating life, 373 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I have so much 374 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: more to offer than that, and I felt like that's 375 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: all I had. When I wasn't dating anybody, I was 376 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: just like sad and not dating anybody, and then I 377 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: felt like nobody cared and it was just just like 378 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: I had this weird like life crisis, and so now 379 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find a balance. Do you feel like 380 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: this could be the one? Yeah, you do know, And 381 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 1: you said that pretty directly, like for the first time, 382 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: because with Kaylin it was the first time ever that 383 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: it made sense, because the rest was kind of like 384 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 1: something's just not quite there and I'm just gonna kill 385 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 1: some time. But with Kylin it was like, oh, yeah, duh, 386 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: like this this is obviously it did that you did 387 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: you know that early on? Yeah? I knew that it 388 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,880 Speaker 1: was way different early on. You know, I don't know 389 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: that I knew immediately it was like, hey, we're gonna 390 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: get married, But I knew that it was like, oh, yeah, 391 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: this this feels at this stage so much different than 392 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: anything I'd ever been a part of in my entire life. 393 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: And so there was that. I mean, it was quick 394 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: when I started to go, oh, this is actually something 395 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: that is significant. So so yes, but I can't act 396 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 1: like I met her and was like we're getting married. 397 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: But it was really quick. How did you meet her? 398 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 1: Her best friend or one of my best friends that's 399 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 1: pr for ABC, and so she was with her and 400 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: I know her friend, and I was like what's how CALLI? 401 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: And so she was like, Hey, this is my friend Kalin, 402 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 1: And that was really it. It was oddly organic and 403 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: an inorganic life and time. Yeah, I mean those those 404 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,439 Speaker 1: moments are rare, the organic meetings. But I'm I'm curious. 405 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't know if you've ever 406 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,880 Speaker 1: if you've even given it much thought. But like when 407 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: you say it was different in terms of other people 408 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:24,239 Speaker 1: that you've dated in what way. I never thought with 409 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 1: any other person, I never thought about investing into the future, 410 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 1: making decisions that we're going to matter three four seven 411 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 1: years down the road. And this is the first person 412 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 1: that ever made decisions going hey, I should probably do 413 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: this because I feel like we're gonna be together in 414 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: three four ten years and this is working towards that. 415 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: So everybody else was kind of like, and we'll see 416 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 1: how what happens next week, or we'll see what you know, 417 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: we'll probably together in three months. But with Klin, it 418 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I need to start figuring out life 419 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: things because I don't see us not being together. So 420 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 1: mostly it was about investment in future and not money, 421 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 1: but like life choices and moving and you know, figuring 422 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,880 Speaker 1: out do I wanna should we have these talks earlier 423 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: about lifetime decisions, kids, how we're gonna raise kids, and 424 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: stuff that I never wanted to talk about with anybody. 425 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 1: I never told a single person I loved them my 426 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: whole life until her. That is so wild to me. Yeah, no, 427 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,239 Speaker 1: I mean there was not. How I grew up, there 428 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 1: wasn't a lot of love. My my dad left when 429 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: I was five or six, and you know, my mom, 430 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: she tried as hard as she could, but she was 431 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: an addict and she died in her forties, and so 432 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 1: there wasn't really a close relationship there, and there was 433 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: no love. I was never told I was loved. I 434 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: never said it, and so I never had a girlfriend 435 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 1: that I told I loved Ever it was like, you 436 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: know you, I just wouldn't come out. I didn't mean it, 437 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: I didn't want to say it. Uh, the l didn't 438 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 1: even really didn't really come out, all the tongue quiet. 439 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: But with her, it was just like, yeah, obviously I 440 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: love you. And again it was just kind of like 441 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 1: that that that damn went down on the water was 442 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: just just kind of float out for the first time. 443 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: I have an interesting question because I think you've also 444 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 1: you've been somebody you've been like grinding it out in 445 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: terms of like career, and you put, you know, like 446 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: with yourself, and you can you can like you could 447 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 1: work yourself and do all the things because you really 448 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: just had the answer to yourself. Do you feel like 449 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: you've had to tailor that a little bit since being 450 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: in a relationship. Yeah, And it sucks to have to 451 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: to learn, but it doesn't suck, but it sucks not 452 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,479 Speaker 1: to learn it because you know, with I, I do 453 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 1: work too much to be in a healthy relationship. And 454 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 1: we're working on that where I would do, you know, 455 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 1: do radio five days a week and then be gone 456 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: six weekends in a row, so you would have, you know, 457 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 1: forty days. I wouldn't have a day off, and she 458 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: would go well, and she is a you know, a 459 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,719 Speaker 1: computer programmer who is like working with these businesses all 460 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: over the world to make sure that they can do 461 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 1: their commodity trading. And she's having to do all these 462 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 1: calls and she's like, I guess I can do them 463 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: if I go on the road with you. Because if 464 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 1: I don't go on the road with you, I'll never 465 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: see you. But so we finished breaking Bobby Bonce. We 466 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,439 Speaker 1: finished American Idol, and so now next year we have 467 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: a deal. For every weekend that I'm on the road, 468 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 1: i have to have a weekend off the road. And 469 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 1: even that's not that normal. I'm still probably working too much. 470 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: But that's a good question because I've had to answer 471 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: to somebody other than myself and actually care what they say, 472 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 1: because in the past I've had to answer to people. 473 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: But I'm like, you know what, I kind of don't 474 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: care what you say. But yes, it's it's a whole 475 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: I mean, and I'm forty one now and I'm I'm 476 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 1: starting to learn things like a nineteen year old learns 477 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: about life, and so it's it's a weird transition, but 478 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 1: it's a good one at the time. Sometimes I still 479 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 1: get so frustrated because I have been able to be 480 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 1: selfish my whole life. I've been able to just go 481 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:46,160 Speaker 1: my rules, my time, my ever. But I don't get 482 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,680 Speaker 1: to do that anymore. But I'm happy that there's somebody 483 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: that actually makes me not just want to do that anymore. 484 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I mean, living your whole life, 485 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 1: I've I'm kind of the same as you, Like I 486 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,360 Speaker 1: did not say I love you until my current relationship. 487 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: I'm thirty two, and I I was so careful about 488 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: it and so scared of like saying I grew up. 489 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: I did grow up with a lot of love, but 490 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 1: I still was fearful of saying that word to someone 491 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 1: and then like maybe it's not working out and feeling 492 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: like I wasted it, which is the weird mentality. But 493 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 1: I also am learning how to compromise my time and 494 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: like how I think, and that it's not always the 495 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: right way, even though, like you know, my therapist that 496 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 1: sometimes I'm wrong. Um, but it's weird, like getting to 497 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: a point where you have to just adjust, but then 498 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: realizing like, oh, it's so cool that I met someone 499 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 1: I want to do that for. Yeah, I would compare 500 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: it to you know, I'm at I think I'm at 501 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,919 Speaker 1: two good stages of my life where I'm finally in 502 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: my career. I'm able to be exhausted by doing what 503 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,879 Speaker 1: I want to do, which was always the goal. I 504 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: was always exhausted before. Now is all just exhausted trying 505 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: to hustle to be able to get to what I 506 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: want to do. Now I'm tired, but it's because I'm 507 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 1: doing what I want to do. I'm doing my own shows. 508 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 1: I'm doing my same thing in a relationship. I'm frustrated 509 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: at times at learning how to do a relationship. But 510 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 1: I'm so lucky to be able to be frustrated because 511 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: I'm learning how to do a relationship with somebody that 512 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: I want to do it with. And so I also 513 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: think that I'm in a good time in my life 514 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: to be smart enough. I'm mat sure enough to know 515 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: that that's a good thing and not push back from it. 516 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,959 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you have so much going on. They 517 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: sent us like the rundown of everything that I wish 518 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: they do that I don't have. Listen, I don't people 519 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 1: come on, they're like, oh, you're doing so much. I 520 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: don't have any talent. Like I literally just pushed the 521 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: gas pedal down in every direction and eventually something catches on. 522 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 1: But you know, with the new show that we have 523 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 1: coming out, uh, it's kind of like an adventure show 524 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 1: and I suck at it and that's the whole purpose 525 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: of the show, and that's how I figured out how 526 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: to beat the system. It's I don't have to be 527 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 1: good at it, but the premises you're not supposed to 528 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: be good at it. But I appreciate you saying that. 529 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: I just sometimes people are like, man, you're so good 530 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: at stuff who have no idea who even who I am? Like, man, 531 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 1: must not have read a single thing about me, because 532 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: I kind of suck at everything I do. I didn't 533 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: say you were good. I just think you're busy good. 534 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate that. But what I was gonna 535 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 1: say is that I'm so intrigued by your new series 536 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,400 Speaker 1: because I actually had this idea I was just gonna 537 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,199 Speaker 1: do like a YouTube type series where I got with 538 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 1: professionals who do things that I've never tried before, like 539 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: I've never Snowski and I've never I like, I wanted 540 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 1: to do like an ice skating thing and I have 541 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:29,199 Speaker 1: twenty four hours to learn how to do it or something, 542 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: and like kind of the same concept, but like you're 543 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 1: doing it on a much larger scale. What are some 544 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: of the things like what like what were you kind 545 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: of decent at and what were you absolutely horrible at? Well, 546 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: you know to me because Nagie let me create a 547 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: show and it turned into me being an idiot try 548 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: and stuff out. But mostly it was I wanted to 549 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: find people who had been hit really hard with adversity, 550 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 1: and they had kind of figured out how to fight 551 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: their way out of it, because I think, as you 552 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 1: guys know, you know, it's not if adversity hits, it's 553 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: winded hits. And then how do you the act because 554 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: at some point in our life, multiple times, we're gonna 555 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 1: get sideswiped by something. And you know, and in the 556 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: first step example, um, there is all the high bungee 557 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: four thousand feet of the Grand Canyon stuff, but it's 558 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 1: it's about Mike as a guy who was in a gang, 559 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: went to jail, was basically told you're never gonna amount 560 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: to anything, but he actually found what he was good 561 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 1: at and worked his way out of all the trouble 562 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: that he had been in. And so I found this 563 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: thing called rope access, and you know, so I spent 564 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: the first part of it telling his story, hopefully inspiring 565 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: people that whatever they're going through right now is not 566 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: the end, Like it's only the end if you make 567 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: at the end and you settle on it being the end. 568 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: And Mike didn't allow that, and so he found this 569 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 1: thing called rope access where they climb up into into 570 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,959 Speaker 1: buildings and you know, with ropes where humans can't actually 571 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 1: get naturally. So I had to go and clean the 572 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: bottom of a skybridge hanging on a rope four thousand 573 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: feet over the Grand Canyon, and it sucked. And uh, 574 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,959 Speaker 1: Caitlin was with me on this episode and she had 575 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 1: ears in and I was so scared. She was crying 576 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 1: from listening to me be that scared. Um. And the 577 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: thing about the show is I'm pretty awful at all 578 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: of this. Um. You know, there's a guy named Lonnie 579 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 1: who got shot in the face, lost his vision, completely 580 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: black out blind, and he whitewater kayaks through crazy rapids, 581 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: and so I put a blindfold on and tried to 582 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: do what he did. And so you know, if anything, 583 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: there's the hook of it is am I going to 584 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 1: be able to do this? But it's about really the 585 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: people that I'm with. And the goal when I put 586 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: the show together was if someone watches this show and 587 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 1: they don't feel better about what they're trying to tackle 588 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: in their life, that I didn't do my job and 589 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: so I didn't die, only got really badly hurt once. 590 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 1: I really wasn't good at anything that I tried, and 591 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 1: I was constantly uncomfortable. But that was kind of the 592 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: point of it. So each of them has a story 593 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: attached to it, So each episode is a different individual 594 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: that you met and has an incredible story. Yes, and 595 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: that was really what it was about. That's kind of 596 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 1: how it started. And then it got more adventury, which 597 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: is I hated um, but I was supposed to hate it, right. 598 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 1: I told them, I said, make me as uncomfortable as possible, 599 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 1: because I'm not an adventure person. And if people see 600 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 1: me being extremely uncomfortable and fighting through something, you know, 601 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 1: maybe that's like the exclamation point on watching the person's 602 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 1: story who I just sat with for four days being 603 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: completely uncomfortable and pushing through something. How long did it 604 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 1: take you to tow? So? Is this is this the 605 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: first season right that's coming out? It's we should actually 606 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: mention its coming out May thirty one, which is just 607 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: around the corner, and it's called Breaking Bobby Bones on 608 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: National Geographic. But is it this is the first season 609 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 1: going to be fully out? Are they coming out like 610 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: once a week? So they'll come out once a week. 611 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 1: It's we did sixteen episodes. They come out every Sunday night, 612 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: and then they get put on Disney Plus every four weeks. 613 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 1: So if you're if you're on Disney Plus, you can 614 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 1: just wait up be four weeks and we put out 615 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: like eight episodes, so they'll be all out on Disney Plus, 616 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: which I'm very excited about. But the live episodes are 617 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: on Nagio. How long did Y'allum, how long did it 618 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: take you to film everything? It took us about four 619 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: days to shoot each episode, and so we would you know, 620 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: I would do radio all week and then fly out 621 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: and do radio on Thursday from where I was worked 622 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: that evening on Friday's worked that evening Saturday and Sunday 623 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 1: out and then come back and start again on Monday. 624 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: So I was pretty tired when it was over. Um, 625 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 1: But and I was. But again, it's not like I'm 626 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 1: a great singer or I could actually have a real talent, 627 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 1: So my talent is hustling. But it was also COVID 628 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 1: and we were able to get through the whole season, 629 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 1: which none of the other shows that we were kind 630 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: of alongside were able to finish whole seasons. So I 631 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: was pretty excited about the fact that we just hold 632 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: up only went to work, and um, I was able 633 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,480 Speaker 1: to stay pretty healthy. That would be hard to start 634 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: dating someone like, if if I were your fiance, is 635 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: it Caitlin? If I were her and I started dating you, 636 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 1: and I knew that your job for the most part 637 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: was very safe, secure, we're gonna be home, and then 638 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: you did this show and we're like risking your life essentially, 639 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 1: like blindfolding through rapids is not no joke. I think, 640 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: you know. With her, she checks me a lot where 641 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: she's like your whole you're you're you're surrounded by people 642 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,959 Speaker 1: who work with you, but are trying to actually do 643 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: the things that you want to do, and so she 644 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 1: doesn't she checks me. And she was telling me this morning. 645 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 1: She was like, hey, listen, because I was complaining about 646 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: listen and you guys know, this is such champagne problems 647 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 1: that I was like, you know, we flew all the 648 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: way in, we did idle all night. She goes, you 649 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 1: did a show on ABC, you flew on a private plane, 650 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: you got to do your radio show that you did 651 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: a two hundred cities, and now you're doing press for 652 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 1: the show. Checks shut up, what are you complaining about? 653 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: And I'm going, all right, you're right, So you know, 654 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: as I think it's safe out there for the most part, 655 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,479 Speaker 1: but she does a pretty good job at at knowing. 656 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: She still gets emotional and worried about me, but in 657 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 1: the end I think she's she's extremely good for my balance. 658 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: That is key. Yeah, the balance your balanced specifically, Yeah, 659 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: I don't have balance. And it is an interesting it's 660 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: an interesting word. That word. Well, I think everyone. I 661 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 1: think that's why it's cool when like hearing stories with 662 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: someone like you, Bobby, who just kind of like dated 663 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 1: and you're like, yeah, it's fine, you're fine. I like you, 664 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,240 Speaker 1: and but my I'm gonna focus on this and myself. 665 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,319 Speaker 1: And then you meet someone who kind of like puts 666 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: you in your place, but you like it, you know, 667 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: like it it only increases the value in your life. Well, 668 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 1: I just you know, to to end, I just say 669 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: that I never thought it was actually a real thing 670 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:35,319 Speaker 1: that you could have. I mean I was thirty nine 671 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: years old when I met her, and at that point 672 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,840 Speaker 1: I thought, you know, I think this love stuff is 673 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: just to get people to read books and to follow 674 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,359 Speaker 1: along TV shows. For me, I never felt it. It's 675 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: just not something that that felt like some sort of 676 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: blanket that was completely covering me. Um, And so I 677 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: thought it was fictional. Honestly, and then when it finally 678 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 1: did happen, I was like, Oh, everybody hasn't been lying 679 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 1: to me my whole life. And that's what it felt 680 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 1: like because I did think that. I was like or 681 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, people are just settling and acting 682 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: like it's love. And I felt that way too, But 683 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: for the first time ever, Um, I don't feel like 684 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: that anymore. Now. I feel like the person that I 685 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 1: used to be annoyed and I was like, shut up, 686 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 1: that's stop telling me all the time about your love. 687 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,280 Speaker 1: It's funny, though, it's interesting because like, did you feel 688 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: you and because you're saying your thirty nine and I 689 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 1: think I hear from so many women that are just 690 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: like I'm twenty eight and I can't find my guy 691 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: and I just don't want to give up ended up. 692 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: But I feel like it's so different for men, like 693 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:34,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you were saying you 694 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 1: just thought it wasn't you thought it was fictional, You 695 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 1: didn't really think it was real, bla blah blah. And 696 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: for women it's like so different because they're like, where 697 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 1: is he, Why isn't he like showing up? What's happening? 698 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: Why is it taking so long. It's just to me, 699 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: the difference between men and women is so interesting. Well, 700 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: I would agree with that, and it's and it's completely 701 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 1: unfair by the way, I would be on record to 702 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,280 Speaker 1: say that as well, that we don't have the societal 703 00:35:55,320 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 1: pressure that you guys have, and frankly it kind of sucks. Um, 704 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: But here I am. We Well, I think it's great. 705 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: I think I honestly think a lot of people. I 706 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,720 Speaker 1: was actually more like I was never like, where where 707 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 1: is my person? Where they gonna come? I was just 708 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 1: kind of like, I think everyone's over exaggerating a little bit, 709 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 1: and I'm not one to over exaggerate. So I just 710 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: thought everyone was making a bigger deal of it than 711 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 1: they were until I experienced it, and then I was like, 712 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 1: I see, I get it. I see what I'm saying. 713 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,160 Speaker 1: When because everyone was like, it'll be different when it's 714 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,479 Speaker 1: the right person, and I was like, mmmm, I'm sure 715 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: when it's the right person, you don't mind putting up 716 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 1: with the crap more. You know, Yeah, when it's the 717 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,479 Speaker 1: wrong person, you're like this, first of all, I don't 718 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 1: feel that good and I don't want to deal with 719 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:41,239 Speaker 1: the bull crap when it's the right person. Your tolerance 720 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: raises because everything else has been raised. And so, um, 721 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: the only crap that I deal with her right now 722 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 1: is her not catering to every need and me, you 723 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: know so, but I'm learning, I'm learning. I'm learning, I know. 724 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 1: But it's true. It's like it's a habit. You've been 725 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,360 Speaker 1: single for so many years and you you know what 726 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: I mean. Like it's it's hard to break that habit. 727 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 1: So at least you recognize it. It's the first step. Um, Bobby, 728 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: thank you for I know you're exhausted, you have time 729 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,439 Speaker 1: to take a nap or just do eat. I don't 730 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: know what you do when you have free time when 731 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 1: that happens, but thank you for taking time to hang 732 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 1: out with us. And um, everyone can watch Breaking Bobby Bones. 733 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 1: It's on uh the thirty one and did you say 734 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 1: they're showing it on Nagio. So it's on Nagio on 735 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 1: May thirty one, which is Memorial Day evening at ten 736 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: nine Central. So what does that mean for you people 737 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,799 Speaker 1: on the West coast? Does that mean you get at 738 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 1: ten I think seven we won't be live everywhere. But 739 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: when they go like ten nine central, does that mean 740 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:46,840 Speaker 1: you get ten. I think that means we get I 741 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 1: don't know, I can help with it. Yes, that means 742 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 1: we get it at ten o'clock, ten o'clock everywhere, nine 743 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: in the Central time Zone. Thank you, Mark, appreciate it. 744 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,919 Speaker 1: I did not know that's okay? Cool? Um, But then 745 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 1: he said, every after Monday, it'll be on Sunday. Yes, 746 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 1: then it'll be on Sundays and then um, it'll be 747 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 1: on Disney Plus. Everything. They just start dumping episodes on 748 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 1: Disney Plus. But Kaylin and I did Running Wilder Bear 749 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,479 Speaker 1: Girls together and it's on Disney Plus. Now, Oh cool. 750 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 1: We're just like we were the first couple ever they 751 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 1: ever put on that show. And so it aired last 752 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,840 Speaker 1: week and if anyone wants to see her dominate me 753 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 1: in the wilderness, Running wild the Bear Girls the last 754 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 1: season where the season finale, and um, I think we're 755 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 1: the highest writed episode, which is crazy to me that 756 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:32,240 Speaker 1: people care and so um, pretty pumped about that. People 757 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 1: love you. That's why you're busy. I know you think 758 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: you're not good at anything, but people do love you 759 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: so that people just admire a hustler because I think 760 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 1: we're all hustling and not a lot of us are 761 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 1: blessed with skills to like be do math fast or 762 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:49,719 Speaker 1: seeing wonderfully. You know, Bobby, we love you seriously and 763 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: congratulations tell I met. I messaged you after you guys 764 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 1: got engaged. But I'm really happy for you and she 765 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 1: seems so lovely and you seem so in love and 766 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 1: happy for you and all your success you guys. Good 767 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:20,840 Speaker 1: to see you, guys. I feel like that's just great 768 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,319 Speaker 1: encouragement for people to hear, because whether you're a guy 769 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,720 Speaker 1: or a girl, I think here a lot of people 770 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 1: I feel like, if it's not happening at a certain 771 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 1: age range, that is never going to happen. And I 772 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 1: think that's such a great example of sometimes the reason 773 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 1: why it hasn't happened yet is because you're working on 774 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,319 Speaker 1: other things that that you want need to happen in 775 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,320 Speaker 1: your life. And like his dreams were, like it's funny 776 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: you see him everywhere now and like had he settled 777 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 1: for a relationship, maybe he wouldn't have been able to 778 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,320 Speaker 1: get to those things. You know. Yeah, it is interesting. 779 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:02,359 Speaker 1: It is very interesting because I also think too, like 780 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 1: when you are dating and you don't think that that 781 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 1: person is the one, like why like you know what 782 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 1: I mean, Like, why date them? Then? I guess because 783 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 1: it's just like you know, maybe you like keep going 784 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: and hoping, you know, the slow burner, like a grower, 785 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,879 Speaker 1: not a shower. Yeah, well that was the people really 786 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:31,160 Speaker 1: enjoyed that little segment. Um, okay, so do we go 787 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: into Gray's anatomy? Do we go into like? Where what 788 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 1: do we Where do we begin? I need to hear. 789 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 1: I need to hear a little bit more about your 790 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 1: weekend with the Joe bros. Did they acknowledge your outfit 791 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 1: matching or was that something? No, no, no, none of 792 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 1: us did, which is like so shocking to me that 793 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:50,839 Speaker 1: I didn't even think of that. But I was just 794 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: like so entranced because I haven't seen them in a 795 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 1: year and a half and I was just like telling 796 00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:00,120 Speaker 1: Joe congratulations on his child and telling them I'm was 797 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 1: passed out when they announced their tour, you know, like 798 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 1: just typical things, and they were like, we know, we 799 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 1: saw on Instagram. Yeah, like it's so good. I love 800 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,279 Speaker 1: the Jonas brothers, Like it's just not it's just not 801 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 1: normal how much I love them. Yeah, you really do 802 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 1: have a deep, deep affectionate love for them. Yeah, And 803 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: I was talking to Nick because Nick posted that he 804 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: heard his song leave before You Love Me like on 805 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 1: kiss f M when he was I don't know where 806 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 1: he was driving me in the car and he like 807 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 1: filmed it and posted on his Instagram, and I was like, 808 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,279 Speaker 1: is that crazy still for you? Like you're you've had 809 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: so many hits, Like, is that still crazy? He's like 810 00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: every time for the first time I hear it, like 811 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 1: a new song on the radio, it's that same feeling. 812 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, that is so cute. He's just 813 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,839 Speaker 1: like a little music nerd. You know, I love it 814 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:59,840 Speaker 1: music nerd, heart throb, pop star totally. Um, okay, Grey's anatomy. 815 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 1: I need. I have some thoughts, but I'm here to 816 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 1: hear your thoughts. It's gonna have to be you two. 817 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 1: I didn't watch it typical didn't Williams final episode just 818 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 1: no respect, no zero respect. Honestly didn't even it was 819 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 1: like one flu, one flu, one flu. How can we 820 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,399 Speaker 1: talk about it, because then we're just going to spoil 821 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,280 Speaker 1: it for you? That's fine, spoil it for me. Okay, 822 00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:35,720 Speaker 1: Well I know that you knew. Um, Jesse Williams is leaving, 823 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: but someone else left. Wait, this could be fun like 824 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 1: a guessing game. Okay, sure, okay, is it a big character? No, 825 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:51,160 Speaker 1: I would I would, I would say, yeah, Okay, I'm 826 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:55,399 Speaker 1: gonna go with Mark's and response on this one. Yeah, 827 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 1: I would go with the balance of that. Okay, it's 828 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 1: not a helm, but it's not you know, it's like 829 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: it's a middle character. Okay. Is it somebody that we like? Oh? 830 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 1: No oh no? Is it Teddy? No? No oh? Is 831 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 1: it somebody that I'll be happy? Is gone? I don't 832 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 1: think you'll be happy. Oh, but by the way, you're 833 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 1: gonna want to check this episode. We've got some really 834 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,480 Speaker 1: nice back freckle action. I know one in this week's episode. 835 00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: So really, Mark, I am devastated right now. I'm so 836 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: so with you literal back freckles because he is shirtless, Like, 837 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,799 Speaker 1: what's a brat freckle? I was like, what's a back freckle? Like? 838 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,239 Speaker 1: I like, I was like, what am I not knowing 839 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 1: understanding words? I'm thinking out is gonna love this? Oh? 840 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,880 Speaker 1: I can't wait? This is I mean, I don't have 841 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,880 Speaker 1: plants tonight, so this might be this might be the night. Okay, 842 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: keep guessing. Okay, Uh so it's a middle tier, is 843 00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:04,000 Speaker 1: it Uh, I'm not even uh Katherine Fox, No, interesting, 844 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,240 Speaker 1: I don't think we have we have like three characters 845 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,959 Speaker 1: left that he could guess that Joe. It's not Joe. 846 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 1: I would consider her like top tier. Yeah, oh is 847 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:20,239 Speaker 1: it link? No, this person has not been on our show. 848 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 1: That's which actually these days is kind of a clue 849 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: with Amelia who's left Clarrassic so long, Clorassic, we never 850 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: got to see him and Teddy and then he and 851 00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,320 Speaker 1: Teddy and oh and just like, did I miss chapters? 852 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:46,239 Speaker 1: What happened? That happened out of nowhere? For me? I 853 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: don't think so. They're their connection goes so deep that 854 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 1: it's it's there's just something there between them. There's a 855 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 1: magnetic force between them. Curiassic, where's he going? Like, what's 856 00:44:56,200 --> 00:45:01,360 Speaker 1: he doing? He's going with the Boston Oh he died. 857 00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: It's like, oh no, no, he's going. He just feels 858 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: like he wants to do more meaningful things. That's not 859 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 1: you know what though, that's blowny because he's probably just 860 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: needs to be away from Teddy like he's still in 861 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 1: love with her. No, no, he had it was a 862 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: moment where he really realized that he wants to do 863 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:26,359 Speaker 1: more and be the like help in the um, like 864 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,879 Speaker 1: what Jackson is going to do with racial equality and 865 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 1: the medical field. So he wants to do more because 866 00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 1: he felt like he was basically like the best in 867 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 1: his field, but he didn't really feel like he was 868 00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,719 Speaker 1: being fulfilled, so he left to go to Jackson. But 869 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:47,879 Speaker 1: this is my beef. I just did not like how 870 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 1: Jack's like. I didn't feel emotional. I just, oh, did 871 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,799 Speaker 1: you not cry? I got a little teary when he 872 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 1: was saying by to Meredith, and that was kind of it. Yeah, 873 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,520 Speaker 1: that was good. I didn't cry either, but I enjoyed it. 874 00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 1: I like a show with a lot of little flashbacks. 875 00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,920 Speaker 1: There weren't like full scene flashbacks, but little moments, and 876 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,560 Speaker 1: so I would pause it like, oh, oh was that 877 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 1: I remember that guy? Oh yeah, he died. You know. 878 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,279 Speaker 1: I did a lot of that action. So I like that. 879 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 1: I like when they acknowledge the rich history of this show. 880 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 1: I just felt like having April come back to the 881 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: hospital saying bye to everybody and then leaving together we 882 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: I felt like we could have just I just feel 883 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 1: like he has been on the show for so long 884 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,799 Speaker 1: that it felt a little lackluster for me. I didn't 885 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 1: think so. I enjoyed the flashbacks of his early days. 886 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 1: I thought that was great. His intern class was complaining 887 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 1: out the flashbacks and complaining about just the rest of it. So, 888 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,000 Speaker 1: if you had to write the episode one to tend 889 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:51,040 Speaker 1: one being garbage, tend being extraordinary, what would you rate 890 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:55,359 Speaker 1: this episode five? Because we've had some of each this season? Yes, 891 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,319 Speaker 1: we've had some loos better than that. I'd go six 892 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,880 Speaker 1: and a half. Okay, not much better though. Yeah, because 893 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 1: this is not Rave reviews for my Monday night viewing, 894 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,240 Speaker 1: I give it a solid B plus. Oh I definitely 895 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,920 Speaker 1: think see m Yeah, okay, well we got one more 896 00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 1: to watch. I mean the finale is Thursday week Yeah, okay, Thursday, Like, okay, 897 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 1: let's talk about Thursday. What do we do on Thursday? 898 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 1: We watched the Radio Music Awards, of course, we have 899 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 1: Friends Reunion, we have Grace anatomy finale, the Grace finale, 900 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,400 Speaker 1: and it's the same day that Jonas Brothers tickets go 901 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: on sale. Well, you'll be able to handle that on 902 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 1: your own. So yeah, who can are you acting like 903 00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 1: you have to wait on the queue in the queue 904 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:53,080 Speaker 1: to get your because I'm gonna potentially take somebody as 905 00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 1: a supressa me. I, I think it's got to be you. Becca. No, 906 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 1: it's not, it's not. They're not they're The tickets aren't 907 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 1: gonna be for me. I'm going to get tickets to 908 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,520 Speaker 1: give to somebody else. That's nice. I still think you 909 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 1: could probably wrangle those from someone, maybe Nick Jonas himself. 910 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, a banger. What do we do? Should 911 00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,960 Speaker 1: we wear scrubs? Should we? Are you gonna be back still? No? 912 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm like I'm gonna be late on everything. I know. 913 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:31,319 Speaker 1: I know, it's just life moves fast and it's hard 914 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:35,160 Speaker 1: to keep up when you come back. I haven't really 915 00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 1: booked my flight yet, but probably Friday or Saturday, so 916 00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 1: everyone Saturday, I have my to Like two of my 917 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: best friends got married and so, but they were in 918 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,319 Speaker 1: San Diego. And then I have booked my flight at 919 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 1: five thirty am to leave out of l a X 920 00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 1: and so we were driving home. Hayley and I were 921 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 1: driving home, both about to fall asleep, like it was awful, 922 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: like where she was like, you have to keep talking 923 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: to keep me awake, and I was like nodding off. 924 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 1: It was bad. And so I was going to get 925 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 1: maybe one hour of sleep before I had to get 926 00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 1: up and go to the airport, and I was like, 927 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,919 Speaker 1: what am I doing? Like, I'm gonna be physically sick 928 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:17,800 Speaker 1: if I do this. So I just changed my flight 929 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 1: to tend something. But yeah, I haven't booked ten pm. No, no, 930 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,800 Speaker 1: ten M. But it was at five thirties, so I 931 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: got a you know, extra, like five hours. Never in 932 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,080 Speaker 1: my life have I booked a flight someplace without booking 933 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,440 Speaker 1: a return flight. I've never done that. Oh my gosh, 934 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: you should live. It's a thrill. No, it's not. I 935 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,680 Speaker 1: just didn't know exactly what day I was coming back, 936 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,000 Speaker 1: all right, so quick? What I have commitment issues, market 937 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:50,080 Speaker 1: goes down. It's big things and it's little things. Yeah, 938 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,719 Speaker 1: I know. I'm the same way. I've never booked a 939 00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,840 Speaker 1: one way ticket, like to a trip or like a 940 00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,239 Speaker 1: you know, like I've booked a one way ticket to 941 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 1: maybe to Vegas knowing I was going to drive back 942 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: with somebody. But I've never liked booked it and then 943 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 1: been like, oh see how much but I'm having and 944 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 1: the look a fight back. No, that's so interesting. It 945 00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:12,279 Speaker 1: is interesting. It's very two distinct ways of living. Yeah, 946 00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:13,759 Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of people do it like 947 00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,360 Speaker 1: I do, but I think y'all are definitely the majority 948 00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 1: on this one. I'll give it to you all, okay, 949 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,440 Speaker 1: have a bigger picture. That means I'm not gonna watch 950 00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 1: the finale with you or should we save it to 951 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 1: watch together. I would be down if you want to 952 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,879 Speaker 1: save it, but I don't want to make you wait. 953 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 1: I mean, granted, you don't watch it on time anyway, 954 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: so that's true. I think you can wait they watch 955 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 1: the Friends with you and then wait for Becca to 956 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 1: watch graz I'm pretty upset I'm not going to be 957 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 1: there for the Friends with Union, but that's okay. I'll 958 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,520 Speaker 1: handle that. I deal with that. And I'm I was 959 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 1: gonna say I can wait to watch that with you, 960 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 1: but I don't think I can. Yeah, they're gonna everyone's 961 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:52,480 Speaker 1: gonna be talking about it. I have some seeing the trailer, Like, 962 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:57,920 Speaker 1: first of all, I don't like how are I was 963 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: reading just some of the comments and how rule people 964 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,840 Speaker 1: were being about, like how they've aged, and I'm like, yeah, 965 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: they've aged because it's been what like twenty years I know, 966 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 1: and I think I'm superficial. Well that's all I want 967 00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:13,200 Speaker 1: to talk about. That's That's what I find fascinating is 968 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,320 Speaker 1: the fact that for the first fact is that Phoebe 969 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:20,839 Speaker 1: looks identical. The women look way better than the guys 970 00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,479 Speaker 1: do for sure. Yeah, I mean the women like which 971 00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,719 Speaker 1: is normally the opposite, because normally I feel like men 972 00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,359 Speaker 1: age better and like women, you know, like we do 973 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:31,719 Speaker 1: like it's just like we've put in so much work 974 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 1: and everything. But the women look like incredible and then 975 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 1: the men. I just felt it was like almost, I 976 00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:43,279 Speaker 1: don't know. It made me sad every time see this 977 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:44,799 Speaker 1: is it. This is what I want to talk about, 978 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,319 Speaker 1: and that's what people want to talk about. Every time 979 00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 1: I've seen Swimmer, I felt like he's looked exactly the same. 980 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,919 Speaker 1: But on that trailer, I was like, oh, Swimmer, but yeah, 981 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 1: he looks were makeup on or something. No, to me, 982 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,880 Speaker 1: he didn't. He was the one out of all the 983 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 1: then that I felt was the most with it. No, yes, 984 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,120 Speaker 1: of the three, sure, but that's a little bar. I mean, 985 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,720 Speaker 1: Joey's a big boy now, which is fine, that's cool. 986 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,479 Speaker 1: Like I like that about him. It kind of fits 987 00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,360 Speaker 1: his personality. I kind of like, you's still confident in Joey, 988 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,840 Speaker 1: but he's all like barrel chested and Chandler, it almost 989 00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:20,760 Speaker 1: seems like in the trailer they're trying to avoid showing 990 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:26,680 Speaker 1: him honestly, Yeah, I know made me sad. And I thought, um, 991 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:28,799 Speaker 1: I thought Courtney Cox looked great and I and I 992 00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:31,400 Speaker 1: feel like, um, she's one that I didn't expect to 993 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 1: look so good because I feel like there's been a 994 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:37,439 Speaker 1: lot of activity happening surgically and looks amazed. I think 995 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 1: she looks so good. And the trailer she looks really good. Yeah, 996 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:45,360 Speaker 1: and Jennifer Anderson just like her every day since that 997 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:50,080 Speaker 1: showing off the air, I felt the same. I felt 998 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,120 Speaker 1: the same way about Chandler, like I was, it made 999 00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 1: me sad. Everybody's happy Saturday to him. Yeah, and now 1000 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, shoot, like I don't know, 1001 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,439 Speaker 1: maybe it really like it did something to my heart, 1002 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,200 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I just think it's like it's 1003 00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:11,640 Speaker 1: one thing to acknowledge, like, oh, yeah, they've changed, because 1004 00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,319 Speaker 1: we're human beings. That's what we do. But there were 1005 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,879 Speaker 1: some like cruel comments that I was like, if they're 1006 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: looking at like, can we just act like these people 1007 00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 1: are human beings and they might see these comments that 1008 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: are being made, I know, and it's like something that 1009 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 1: we've been like asking for for so long, you know, 1010 00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 1: like as a Friends fan, I'm like so appreciative and 1011 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:35,160 Speaker 1: grateful that they did this. I feel as though this 1012 00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:40,680 Speaker 1: is going to deter any future you know, reunions of sorts, 1013 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: possibly if they're particularly abused. But anyway, I thought it 1014 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:45,959 Speaker 1: was very exciting to see. And I think you guys 1015 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,239 Speaker 1: are spoiled, you know, working with Mark and Easton, you 1016 00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,880 Speaker 1: think all men age really well, I know, well, yeah, 1017 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,120 Speaker 1: I think that's what it is, like the two faces 1018 00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 1: we see on a weekly basis. Just honestly, it feels 1019 00:53:56,200 --> 00:54:00,920 Speaker 1: like you're aging backwards so lately. Can't relate Benjamin Buttons 1020 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 1: over here? Did you guys watch Benny Buttons? Did you 1021 00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:09,279 Speaker 1: guys watch Joey the spinoff sitcom? No? No, are we 1022 00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,799 Speaker 1: missing out. I'm the only one to watched Joey. Uh No, 1023 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:14,439 Speaker 1: you didn't miss anything. I think it was like half 1024 00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,719 Speaker 1: a season and it was it was it was only 1025 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:20,799 Speaker 1: spinoff from Friends, Is that right? Yeah? I think so, yeah, 1026 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,399 Speaker 1: it wasn't. It wasn't very exciting. But I'm just a 1027 00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 1: big I'm not like that being to Friends, but I 1028 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: love Matt le Blanc, and I like that he's barrel 1029 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,719 Speaker 1: chested out, like he's a big guy, and he was 1030 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 1: like kind of you could still feel like the sarcasm 1031 00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: and like humor as he was like making little one 1032 00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 1: liners like he and David Schrummer were like you could 1033 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:46,440 Speaker 1: tell they were probably just dying laughing the whole reunion show. Yeah, 1034 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,800 Speaker 1: I actually got a lot of people message me about 1035 00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 1: when we were talking about that scene and Friends, when 1036 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,440 Speaker 1: I was saying that Joey kept getting hit by the 1037 00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,600 Speaker 1: little girl and he was like whatever, and everybody has 1038 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,840 Speaker 1: that episode, so they were saying like, oh, that episode 1039 00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,560 Speaker 1: for me is like blah blah blah. And last night 1040 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,440 Speaker 1: actually when I was, uh, we were going to sleep 1041 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 1: and I watched Friends before I go to sleep, and 1042 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 1: obviously like could not fall sleep last night to save 1043 00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 1: my life because my adrenaline was just like off the charts. Uh. 1044 00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:16,239 Speaker 1: It was the Pivot couch episode and I was peeing 1045 00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 1: my pants and I was like, we actually were in 1046 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,319 Speaker 1: New York and they did this pop up and we 1047 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:24,960 Speaker 1: got to like move the couch around and like Red 1048 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 1: Star like does not get it. He's just like I 1049 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,200 Speaker 1: good for you, and I was like, no, you don't understand. 1050 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,319 Speaker 1: Like we got to like they had the staircase and 1051 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,839 Speaker 1: we and they had a couch there. That thing was amazing. 1052 00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:39,680 Speaker 1: That was a highlight of my life. Truly, truly. A 1053 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,960 Speaker 1: lot of people on Facebook reagon on you guys for 1054 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:47,200 Speaker 1: dissing Steinfeld last week. So just listen. I'm here to 1055 00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,440 Speaker 1: have an opinion now, to be scared to have an 1056 00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,960 Speaker 1: opinion on anything, because I would get ragged. You can't. 1057 00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,399 Speaker 1: You haven't seen it. You can't have an opinion. I'm sorry. 1058 00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,720 Speaker 1: I have an opinion that I don't think I like it, 1059 00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 1: and I have an opinion that Friends is like the 1060 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,479 Speaker 1: best episode, the best episode, best series of all time, 1061 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:06,080 Speaker 1: and I'm sticking to it. I agree. You're entitled of 1062 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:10,080 Speaker 1: that opinion because you've seen France. I've seen an episode 1063 00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 1: or two of Seinfeld. No, you can't do it. Also, 1064 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:14,640 Speaker 1: I have to watch a whole season. You can't have 1065 00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:16,200 Speaker 1: an opinion on. You can have an opinion on those 1066 00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:18,160 Speaker 1: two episodes, but you cannot have an opinion on the 1067 00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,680 Speaker 1: totality of the Seinfeld series. Okay, fine, you know what 1068 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Beck and I are gonna get together 1069 00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,680 Speaker 1: and we're gonna watch We're not, We're not, We're not. 1070 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,560 Speaker 1: We are we You and I are going to get 1071 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,359 Speaker 1: together and we're gonna watch five episodes in a row 1072 00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:36,960 Speaker 1: from season one of Seinfeld. No, no, no, not from 1073 00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:39,839 Speaker 1: season one? Can I give you can pick five? Sure? Can't, 1074 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,080 Speaker 1: because this is how any normal human were watching from 1075 00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 1: the beginning. No, no, Tony, this is not accurate, because 1076 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,680 Speaker 1: I would pick I would pick five episodes if I 1077 00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:50,719 Speaker 1: were trying to introduce someone to friends and they want 1078 00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:58,400 Speaker 1: to be consecutive episodes. Fine, fine, so Mark episode of Mark. 1079 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,279 Speaker 1: Mark's choosing, and we sit down and we watch them, 1080 00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: and then we can give a fair assessment. All right, 1081 00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,640 Speaker 1: So I throw it back to the scrubbers. Now, help 1082 00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,000 Speaker 1: me choose the five for them. By the way, this 1083 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,399 Speaker 1: will never happen. It's a fun little exercise. Wait, why 1084 00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 1: want to happen? Becca is not on board? Why? Becca? 1085 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,400 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I just there's a lot of shows 1086 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 1: that like to keep up with I've been busy, so 1087 00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,040 Speaker 1: like me, sitting down to watch episodes of Seinfeld is 1088 00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,959 Speaker 1: just not at the top of my list right now. 1089 00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 1: But I will. I'm not saying never half an hour long, 1090 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,200 Speaker 1: like we could. We could bang through that in like 1091 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:39,280 Speaker 1: an hour. So let me know. I'm definitely doing the contest. 1092 00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:42,720 Speaker 1: I'm definitely doing the Junior Mint. I'm probably doing the 1093 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 1: Marine Biologist. You guys, let me know the five that 1094 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 1: we should give them. All right, I'm opened, I'm opened. 1095 00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 1: I'm open. I tried ted Lasso, I did try it. 1096 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: No no, no, no, yeah, I can't it's coming back, 1097 00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 1: jull I cannot wait. I'm gonna put it in our calendar, 1098 00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 1: like we're gonna find it eight backup where we're gonna sit. 1099 00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:03,640 Speaker 1: Come on, It's so cute and are like cozies are 1100 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,680 Speaker 1: matching sweats and like we can go. I'm not opposed 1101 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 1: to the cozy's matching sweats and everything. It's just and 1102 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,200 Speaker 1: I'll do it. I'll do it. I'll do it for 1103 00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 1: the sake of scrubbing in and the scrubbers who have 1104 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,520 Speaker 1: who are not mad at me all time. I watched 1105 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:23,120 Speaker 1: that series so many times. I'm really excited about this. 1106 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,920 Speaker 1: Well what do you what? What episode would you show? Well, 1107 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:28,880 Speaker 1: here's the thing. My my favorite episode is the Alternate Side, 1108 00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:31,000 Speaker 1: which doesn't get a lot of love. Usually it's the 1109 00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 1: one with the reverse people's oh yeah, that's a good one. Yeah, yeah, 1110 00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,560 Speaker 1: that's the show pretty well. To appreciate that one, right, Yeah, 1111 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 1: but that's why I love That's why I love it. 1112 00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:43,960 Speaker 1: Somebody makes me cry laughing. Uh, it's I'm going to 1113 00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:47,320 Speaker 1: work this out with you, Mark. I'm excited about this. Okay. Um, 1114 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,880 Speaker 1: Tony and I are going to be guests on the 1115 00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,959 Speaker 1: Chicks in the Office podcast. We're doing that right after 1116 00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:55,920 Speaker 1: this podcast, and we're going to talk to them about 1117 00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,920 Speaker 1: you know, there's a little beef between the between us 1118 00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:02,439 Speaker 1: when the People's Choice Awards happened a couple of years ago. 1119 00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 1: So we're gonna bring it up the first year, the 1120 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:11,080 Speaker 1: first year. Ye. Tonio always likes to throw in like 1121 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 1: the first year to remind everyone that we want to Like, 1122 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't even gonna say, um, But anyways, I'm excited 1123 00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:24,400 Speaker 1: about that, and thanks for listening everybody. I'll see you 1124 00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,640 Speaker 1: when i'm back whenever. That is, when I fly home. 1125 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:31,760 Speaker 1: I can't wait. All right, have a good week, good bye, 1126 00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,600 Speaker 1: love you mine, I'm gone. My pajamas back on