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Speaker 1: Andie Martinez in Real Life Podcast. This episode is powered

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Speaker 1: by our friends at LG. Life's Good and of course

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Speaker 1: do say what's up everybody? Agie Martinez? Here another IRL Takeaway,

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Speaker 1: Come and Sing. These are the episodes where we discuss

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Speaker 1: our sit down interviews, what we learn from them, what

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Speaker 1: we take away. In this takeaway episode, we are discussing

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Speaker 1: the Lindsey Vaughan, She's so dope. Like sometimes we have

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Speaker 1: a guest and I'm like, I want to.

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Speaker 2: Be friends with her. No, actually that happens.

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Speaker 3: Does that happen?

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Speaker 2: It does happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is the best conversations that way.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Imagine you go somewhere, you go like and you meet

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Speaker 1: a friend at a party and you have a great conversation.

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Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I like that person. I might want

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Speaker 1: to be friends with them. That's what happens at my

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Speaker 1: job all the time. I have these people on my

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Speaker 1: podcast and I'm like, I really like them. Of course,

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Speaker 1: life starts lifing and you don't really have time for

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Speaker 1: all of your new friends. But I gotta say, most

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Speaker 1: of the people that have been on the on the pod,

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Speaker 1: if I leave with that feeling of like I would

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Speaker 1: like to hang out with them continue conversations anyway. Lindsay

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Speaker 1: of course falls into that group of people. Number One,

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Speaker 1: She's super competitive, which I can totally relate to.

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Speaker 2: She's a competitive maniac.

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Speaker 1: She she makes me seem like not a competitive person

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Speaker 1: because she is the I'm just competitive and like I

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Speaker 1: get a bad rap. By the way, we were talking

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Speaker 1: about Ron, they don't like to play games with me.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to beat anybody.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm competitive to myself. I always want to do the

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Speaker 1: best version of something that I could do for myself.

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Speaker 1: I'm not the person who was like I gotta obliterate

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Speaker 1: everybody where. Lindsey said that she don't even play a

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Speaker 1: game unless she could just like blow everybody to smithereens,

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Speaker 1: which I think is really funny. But you would have

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Speaker 1: just to be as successful as she's been at it,

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Speaker 1: for sure. When she talks about going up to the

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Speaker 1: like when they're about to what is I call it

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Speaker 1: at the beginning, I'm so nonskier. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: the ski terminologies. Oh, when they're about to go down there,

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Speaker 1: there's like a lineup, right, I don't know if that's

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Speaker 1: the right term. There's a lineup, and then she could

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Speaker 1: see people's fear on their face and she likes it.

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Speaker 2: She's like, Eh, that's crazy behavior. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: And the best way though, makes me like her so much.

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Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, it's scared. I'm gonna use this to

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Speaker 1: she wins, and yeah, but it really she really does

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Speaker 1: talk about that drive. And the funny thing is one

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Speaker 1: of the takeaways I have from her is that she

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Speaker 1: said that she tried to reprogram herself. She tried to

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Speaker 1: she can't. Like me, I could go and be like

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Speaker 1: let's just chill. Let me not get too competitive. I

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Speaker 1: I could be like, oh, it's just a chill. Lindsey

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Speaker 2: She just wants to.

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Speaker 1: Win all the time, and it's so deeply ingrained that

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Speaker 1: So much fun. I'm not really sure how that goes.

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Speaker 1: But there were a lot of takeaways from this episode.

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Speaker 2: What are some of yours, Brick.

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Speaker 3: I used to be like kind of jealous of people

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Speaker 3: who at a young age they already knew. Lindsay has

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Speaker 2: She don't know, she had clarity, she knew her agenda. Es, yes,

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Speaker 2: she did. That made you like you were jealous of that.

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Speaker 3: Because I always and maybe this is a product of

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Speaker 3: is that you see everybody's successes all the time, and

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Speaker 1: Like with you and golf, you're pretty good. I'm pretty good.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying someone a young skier right now now,

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Speaker 3: I look up to Lindsay Vaughn and be like, dang,

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Speaker 3: I gotta get to that.

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Speaker 2: No, I get it, I got I get it. So

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Speaker 2: you had jealousy of people who found their career that early.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's interesting, and then knocked me back in because

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my gosh, she's broken every damn

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Speaker 1: So she talks about I don't I know when she

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Speaker 2: Not just traveling anywhere.

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Speaker 3: She's going across the globe to these remote locations to

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Speaker 3: she said, to thirteen to eighteen or something people, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, little Lizzy. She's probably so cute too, little nine

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Speaker 3: But anyways, I love what you said about we only

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Speaker 1: Well, we know that, and that's the that's the downside

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Speaker 1: like aside from it being the highlight reel, and you

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Speaker 2: Things that have to go through it. It's really it's

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Speaker 2: not even the hard things.

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Speaker 1: Yes, there are hard times that you probably don't see,

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Speaker 2: The every day of it. It's like the every day.

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Speaker 1: You always make fun of me when I use the

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Speaker 1: you set yourself up to not have be happy. Right, Like,

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Speaker 1: if you're like, Okay, my dream in life is to.

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Speaker 2: Give me I don't know, give me one be Lebron James.

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Speaker 2: Yes my dream. No, that's that's ridiculous. By the way,

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Speaker 1: My dream is to dance at the I want to

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Speaker 2: And then that's all you like, or you all you

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Speaker 1: That means in the if it even if it happens

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Speaker 1: awful life that is. If you don't love getting up

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Speaker 1: not the dream you should be chasing.

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Speaker 2: Is the point. It's like, you really should learn to.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you do have to.

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Speaker 3: Most of the time, it might not be fun. It

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Speaker 2: No, Lindsey likes working out. That's what I'm saying is

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Speaker 1: That's why I will never be a professional skier because

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Speaker 1: Yes, things are hard, Yes they require sacrifice and discipline

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Speaker 3: And then it post always changes too.

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Speaker 1: So once you then there's there's an old interview with

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Speaker 1: and and pour into things that.

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Speaker 2: Fill you up for sure. Anyway back to Lindsay, what

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Speaker 2: other takeaways you.

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Speaker 3: Got Speaking of the goal post changing for Lindsay, the

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Speaker 3: goal post changed for her when she decided to retire

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Speaker 2: Were you at the Oscars?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was there.

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Speaker 2: We know the story.

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Speaker 1: We gotta go extra hard to get to get what's deserved,

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Speaker 3: It's not too late.

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Speaker 2: It's not it's not too late. You're right, I'm going back.

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