WEBVTT - A perfect Father's Day: Motorcycle mornings, Dragons, and Drinks 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.840 The folks. In this episode, Robes and I adopt a 0:00:07.000 --> 0:00:11.760 new morning routine. Too bad it involves her sleeping alone 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:14.840 for the last two hours of the morning. Also, are 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:18.400 we the only ones out there who've been binging season 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:21.560 one of House of the Dragon like crazy people in 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:24.400 the past few days? And what did you get your 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:30.000 dad for Father's Day? Survey says it was probably alcohol. 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:33.960 Plus minutes ago, Robes and I both got off the 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.760 phone with our dads and we asked them the advice 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:40.320 they'd want us to pass along to you all and 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:43.640 all dads in this episode. And with that, Welcome to 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:47.760 this episode of Amy and TJ. Robes sitting across a 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:50.000 table from me this time and not in studio. We 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:55.120 were recording on Father's Day at our dining room table. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:56.720 So a little different today. 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.480 That's right, And Happy Father's Day, TJ Ah, thank you 0:00:59.520 --> 0:00:59.760 for that. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.160 Weird I say it's a weird day because it's just 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:05.960 I don't feel like there's anything else extra that needs 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:06.560 to be done. 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:09.560 Well, no, I think that's very humble and sweet of you, 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:12.520 But it always does feel like that when you're you 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:15.880 don't want to set expectations, but you're also appreciative of anything, 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:18.520 or really just I don't know. Do you what do 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:20.600 you think of Father's Day? Do you think it's warranted? 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:21.520 Do you think it's needed? 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:25.319 I don't, I don't know. I'm not a It is weird. 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.600 We're going to get into it at the to close 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.360 it out when we talk about advice from our dads. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:34.640 But it feels so different from Mother's Day. Like Father's Day, 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:41.600 they both feel like duties. But you feel like if 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:44.400 you don't fulfill your duty on Father's Day, he's not 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:45.000 gonna mind. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.880 Right, there's a higher expectation set around moms. You gotta 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:52.040 you gotta take care of mom. There's no question, there's 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:52.560 no question. 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:55.520 And honestly, the sad thing is, or I don't know, 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:58.280 just the reality of it is. The financials back that 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.600 up because we were looking. It's very apparent and not 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:06.160 even up for debate. Americans spend billions of dollars more 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:09.800 on their moms than they do on their dads every year, 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:13.560 and we're spending more and more each year, but the 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:18.000 ratio remains the same. Moms just get about almost one 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:21.280 hundred dollars more in gifts or whatever per person when 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:25.120 you're whatever you're allotting towards these days, moms get the 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.280 lion's share for sure, without question. 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:29.400 I don't know, what'd you get your dad for a 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:29.960 father's name? 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:35.160 Well, this was pretty funny, so I know the full proof. No, 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:38.120 like it's always going to land as if I get 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:42.480 my dad alcohol. So he loves wine, he loves fine wine, 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:43.200 he loves champagne. 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:44.400 So this year I got champagne. 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.120 I got a rose, and I got a brute, and 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:50.240 I got a really pretty champagne bucket to go along 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.720 with it. And sure enough, I already got a picture 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:54.560 saying thank you. 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:56.320 But then I looked. 0:02:56.080 --> 0:03:00.680 Online and apparently we are twice as like to send 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:03.200 our father's alcohol as we are our mother. So that 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:06.400 is one of the big gifts, apparently that we give 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.480 our dads because we know it'll get used and it 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:10.280 will be enjoyed. 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:13.200 For the most part, it's easy, you know, right, Just 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:16.560 guys don't get the same don't get the same attention. 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:21.040 That's okay, Yeah, I think that's completely warranted. But just 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.040 wait as fall as they comes along, and what do 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:24.560 you want to do? And you guys do that. No, 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.640 I'm doing the same thing we always do I'm hanging 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:31.440 with my girls on Sunday, but I always do. I'm 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:34.400 always with you. Me and Sabine run around somewhere, were 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:37.960 going to lunch outside. It's the same. The day is 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:41.520 not different in the least bit. It doesn't feel different. 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.200 And maybe that is a good sign. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.200 So well, oh, I know, but you should feel special though, 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:49.840 I think, Yeah, it's nice to feel the love. 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:50.720 Sabine's coming over. 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:52.760 She's on her way to make me feel special tomorrow. 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.520 I want to make you feel special every day. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.560 Okay, then today's not a biggie. I don't. I don't 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:00.840 feel if somebody nobody said to me, be Father's Day 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:01.840 and it didn't acknowledge. 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.040 Really, I don't even know if I would notice. Oh, 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:05.800 it would bother me. 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:09.880 It would bother me if no one said happy mothers. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:10.320 Would it only bother you? 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:13.000 If the girl, oh yeah, I don't need anyone else 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:13.360 to say it. 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.320 Yes, but I would hope that at the very least 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:17.240 you'd get a hey, happy Mother's Day. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:19.320 I appreciate you, thank you for all that you do for. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.440 Me morning and yeah, so me and actually she was. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.560 She sent a text after midnight like why are you 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:27.120 why are you in your room texting. She wanted to 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:28.200 make sure she was. 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:33.160 That's really sweet. 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:36.160 Can I laugh though, because remember on Mother's Day I 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:38.880 got annoyed that you were saying whatever you want, it's 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.080 what do you want to do? And I was like, 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:42.560 I don't. I don't want to make it up. I 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:44.280 don't want to have to I don't want the pressure 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:46.719 of that. So today I was just joking a couple 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:48.280 of times. Today's your day. 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.280 I said that. I texted that scene, and what did 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:51.320 you expect to me? 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:52.560 Look it up? 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:56.160 Yeah, you had a very strong response to me, saying, 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.720 I said, today is your day, whatever you want to do. 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:03.359 And I believe you said if you say that to 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:06.080 me one more explitive time. 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.360 Oh, I'm are. 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:09.200 You looking it up? 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:11.920 Maybe let's yeah, let's get the actual verbatim of what 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:13.000 you sent back to me. 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:15.640 It's your day, you can do what. Okay, I'm just reading. 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.560 I'm just going to read this filter. Okay, you said 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.000 to me it's your day, you can do whatever you 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:24.920 want walking out from my place at eleven something. Okay, 0:05:24.920 --> 0:05:27.560 that was actually something else, So okay, there it is. 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:30.159 You said, it's your day, you can do whatever you want. 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.600 My response was say, that shit one more time and 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.440 you'll be sorry. 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:40.080 Okay, little insight, you can do. Yes, we have a 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:41.520 very playful relationship. 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:45.040 But you know, the funny thing is that text exchange 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.960 was at six twenty a film. 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.320 And how long have you already been up? I was gone, 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:53.440 you were gone two hours. We spent the night. 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.960 We spend pretty much every night together. It's a rare 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:59.800 thing if we don't. But yes, you're already out of 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.440 the apartment and doing your thing where we have to 0:06:03.520 --> 0:06:05.560 text each other back and forth at six twenty in 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:05.960 the morning. 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:07.840 Welcome to my life. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:11.239 Okay, this this has changed a little bit. I mentioned 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.719 our morning routine, but it's only changed because of the weather. 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:18.760 And it's changed because the weather is just glorious in 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:23.160 New York right now in mornings and nights are absolutely stunning. 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:29.360 We're talking mid sixties or even warmer at low six 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:32.200 in the morning and then at seven, eight, nine o'clock 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:34.839 at night. And for me that's a big deal because 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:37.680 I ride my bike through the well. 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:40.760 You say a bike, motorcycle, not a city bike. You 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:42.800 won't be caught dead on a city bike. Let's just 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:46.360 make that really clear. You want a bike actually sounds funny. 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.479 Blue isn't my color. That's why I don't ride city 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:52.159 bikes anyway. Right, But now that this is the case, 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:55.960 I like to get up and ride, take a ride 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.880 on the motorcycle in the morning or at night. And 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:01.799 morning is great because you get the city to yourself. Anybody, 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:04.440 if you live here, if I say to you you're 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:08.000 going to go from the Financial District to Central Park, 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:10.440 you start thinking, Okay, which train don't need to take? 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:12.520 Take the cars going to take me forty five minutes? 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:15.440 It really does. In the morning when there's no traffic 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.720 out when I'm out riding, it takes me twelve to 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:20.960 fifteen minutes to get from Lower Manhattan to Central Park, 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:23.640 straight shot, no traffic. And I love it. 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:25.400 That's remarkable. I know, I love it. 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.680 And now you're having so much fun coming back down 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:32.320 through Times Square. So now you're riding the motorcycle times 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:35.160 Square and you've got the whole place to yourself. 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:37.640 So if anybody yet, if you're in Times Square at 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:41.800 you know, six ish, and you see a streak going 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:46.480 through a white bike, leather jacket, white black helmet, that's me. 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:50.560 And you said you got every green light. That's so again, 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:51.880 something that's remarkable. 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:56.440 I went from Times Square to Lower Manhattan without missing 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:56.800 a light. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:58.120 That never happens. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:00.520 It just doesn't happen. So anyway, that's our new morning. 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.400 But I've come been coming back to your place and 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.560 I message you and say, hey, can you make me tea? 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:07.880 And the first couple of times I did that, You're like, 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:08.920 what the hell is going on? 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.600 There's me tea? I was like, what right? And now 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:12.960 I know. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.720 I jumped up, got your tea, my coffee. We sit 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:19.040 out on my balcony and you've got your motorcycle gear. 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:20.800 But yeah, it's kind of like a part two to 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:23.400 the morning because you leave. I mean you leave as 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:27.280 early as five fifteen sometimes and you're up since four 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.640 waiting for me to wake up, which does not happen. 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:34.360 But I've enjoyed it too, because while you're off experiencing 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:36.480 the city on your own, I get an extra hour 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:41.439 of sleep, and I'm grateful for that because no, I mean, 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:43.520 like I think I'm a six thirty seven am kind 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:45.800 of gal, You're just a four am kind of guy. 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:49.200 So yeah, that's a great way to spend the time 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.280 where I would be sleeping and you'd be anxious, like 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:52.240 when is you waking up? 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:53.520 Now you get to ride your bikes. 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.319 It's fun. And then I get it's stun I can 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.840 see you. But the funniest one was the morning I 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:00.360 messaged and said, can you make me tea? And I 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:03.320 think you wanted to have it. You were trying to 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:06.880 fool me, maybe into thinking you were already up moving around, 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:09.080 and you weren't. So I have a key, I will 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.480 come into the place. You apparently had just seen the message. Yes, 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:16.480 and I'm not kidding. I walk in. You don't know 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:18.360 I'm in the play. I walk in. I'm coming to 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.160 the back. You had seen the message. I didn't know. 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:23.920 But I walk in and you are doing You are 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.880 jumping up and down, trying to get tights on. 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:30.040 Oh yeah, my leggings, my run. I think we were 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:31.720 going to go running later, so I trying to get 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:32.400 my run. You're on. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.280 You were trying to get dressed to get the teenage. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.760 So I come in. I just see naked white cheeks 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:40.440 jumping you. 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.000 You gave me no lead time to get the tea ready, 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:44.600 I was like. And then there was the other morning, 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.640 plenty of time. There was the other morning where I 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.800 didn't get the text because I was sleeping and you were. 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:52.320 You stood over the bed, and funny enough, I didn't 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.600 even freak out. I was like, oh hey, but you 0:09:54.600 --> 0:09:56.199 would think someone would scream, but nope. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:06.920 I'm enjoying our new morning routine. 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:07.560 It's been great. 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.960 Yeah, our afternoon routine and kind of we haven't gotten 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:12.600 this yet, but we can't be the only ones. Isn't 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:14.760 everybody doing this? If you loved House of the Dragon 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:17.400 or HBO the first season, which is now seems like 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:18.520 it was what twenty eight, it. 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.600 Was two years ago, two years ago. 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.920 So the new season's coming dropping on Father's Day and 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:25.200 we are trying to get caught up. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.880 Yes, and it's very you know, it's complicated. It's like 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.280 Game of Thrones, and that's part of what I think 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:32.800 the love of it is that if you're in it, 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:33.440 you're in it. 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:34.560 You know all the details. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.600 You know that, you know all of the different houses 0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:38.920 and the fighting factions, but then you forget because it 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.520 is so complicated. So we're trying to refresh our memory 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.160 leading up to because you know what, there aren't many 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:48.000 things where you actually get excited about watching something live. 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.240 Game of Thrones was like that for me. House the 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.480 Dragon was like that for us because we did watch 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.560 it two years ago. I think it was our first 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:58.440 show we watched together, right, were we watching it? Like 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:00.640 we had moments where we got to watch show together. 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:04.520 Really might be the first show we watched together. 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:06.920 Yeah, so we were actually getting to watch that, and 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:10.480 now we get to see the second season, which is 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.600 super exciting. But yes, there is some catching up to do. 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:15.520 We're not there yet. It's nine o'clock tonight, Eastern time. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:19.880 Yeah, but you know it's weird on this because I mean, 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:23.880 anybody's familiar with the game with their ownes world, Like, 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:30.480 there's some pretty harsh, violent and I mean even dark 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:34.840 themes and if you're trying to binge that. I said yesterday, 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:36.760 we need a break, right, you know we were. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:38.120 I was like ready for the second, you know, we 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.280 started watching and he was like, it's really it's a 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:44.040 beautiful day outside. It's like eighty one degrees and sunny. 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:47.120 This feels really heavy and dark, and you weren't wrong. 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.319 I mean, you know, it is one of those things 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:51.640 where it might be more fun to watch on a 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:55.440 winter's night or you know, a stormy evening on an 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:58.800 eighty one sunny glorious day in Manhattan. It feels wrong 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:02.040 to be watching How the Dragon but trying really hard 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:03.120 to catch up for tonight. 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:05.960 We'll get there, we will. But this is again we're 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:11.480 recording on on Father's Day here and we, like I said, 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:12.960 we just got off the phone with our dads. But 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:16.200 it's I did. I'll ask you what you guys your 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:18.240 dad for Father's Day. I didn't get my dad anything. 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.640 I couldn't tell you the last year that I did. 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:24.080 But I make sure mama gets flowers. Right? Why are 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.880 we do that right? Why do we feel that kind 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:31.520 of that difference between that affection or that there's just 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:34.440 something sweeter about the relationship almost with the with the 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:37.600 mom that boys and girls feel like you need to shower. 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:38.680 It was interesting. 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:40.840 You looked up just to be like, it was just 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:44.160 a fascinating thing to see what reservations we could get 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:47.640 for brunch for Father's Day. And apparently we can go 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:51.360 anywhere at any time because the reservations are wide open. 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.320 And we laughed, because anyone everyone knows Mother's Day. 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:55.319 Quite the opposite. 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:58.120 If you haven't planned ahead of time to get brunch 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:00.880 at your favorite spot, you will not be attending it. 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:03.200 Just isn't gonna happen, because that's the first thing everyone 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:03.840 goes and does. 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:05.280 But you made a good point. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:06.720 I don't know if you read it or you thought 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:10.720 about it, but I think most families. Everyone's different, obviously, 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.440 but most families there is the role of the mother, 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:16.160 and the mother is the one who's cooking and cleaning 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:19.520 and doing a lot of the nurturing. So yes, to 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:21.480 take her out where she doesn't have to cook, she 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.800 doesn't have to clean. That makes a lot of sense, 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:27.120 whereas most people don't think of fathers in that way. 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:32.680 But you are an exception. You you cook ninety eight 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:36.280 percent of our meals, and I imagine that's been the case, 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:37.600 maybe ninety nine percent. 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:43.160 Okay, I cooked a meal on Friday night. I get say. 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:44.720 The thing is, you're look have been. 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:47.920 I have been cooking meals for my family for the 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:51.960 last two decades and they didn't have another choice. So 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:54.440 I always felt like I was a pretty decent cook. 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:58.040 But you're you're amazing, and so now I'm intimidated. I've 0:13:58.040 --> 0:13:59.840 said this like, oh, yours is better than mine, But 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.679 every now and then I'll step up and it's okay, 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:05.200 it's good, it's good. 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:09.120 You're not. We talked about this enough, but I hope 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:12.600 nobody's getting the impression that you are a bad suggestion. 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.400 But you're just You're exceptional. Like your eggs. You learn 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:19.280 from Gordon Ramsay, so like I've never tasted better eggs. 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:21.320 Like we've yet to taste eggs better than the ones 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:23.480 you cook. And you learned from the best. 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.400 And we should say I didn't read his cookbook, I 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:28.400 didn't look up anything online. I was in his house 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:31.640 in La and he showed me how to make these eggs. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:33.680 And it's been out there. People know his his egg 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:35.800 but I have done it for years and years now 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:39.840 to where I we won't say what restaurant, but it 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:40.720 was a restaurant that. 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.960 Had fabulous scrambled eggs. 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:44.640 I hope we don't give them away because that is 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:49.160 the exact name of the item on their menu. They 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:52.640 were not fabulous. That was tough. 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:54.400 And then you said, if we were to ever open 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.400 a restaurant, what you would name your scrambled egg dish 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:58.640 on our menu? 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:02.880 They would be called I learned these from Gordon Ramsey 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:07.200 Eggs to being honest about it, get it. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:09.960 Credit needs to be given where it's due. And yes 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:13.080 it involves crumb fresh. We'll just say that. It's I 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.360 never imagine because I always put cheese in my eggs 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:20.560 and like, and you don't need anything other than salt, pepper. 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:25.080 Pem fresh and butter. Butter. You do need butter and 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.440 then the scallions on the. 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:29.720 If anybody out there you make scrambled eggs, if your 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.520 eggs are ready in less than a minute, you're not 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:35.080 doing it right. And that's how I grew up seeing 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:38.160 scrambled eggs being made. You just throw them, suckles in there, 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.680 whip it up, and you're good to go. These these 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:43.960 take time, They take effort, and they take a lot 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.640 of stirring on and off the aisle. And again it's 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.560 out there. This is not some secret he I think 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:51.120 there's an instructional video out there about it. 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:53.040 But they are so good. 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:54.920 How do we get on this? We were talking about, well, we. 0:15:54.800 --> 0:15:56.760 Were talking about so the brunch reservations. 0:15:56.840 --> 0:16:00.720 We were talking so now like today it's why where 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.720 every and we were just like, why is that? And 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.800 I think just traditionally more women, but you deserve a 0:16:05.840 --> 0:16:08.760 lovely brunch. But we're going to the movies, which is 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:10.000 actually funny enough what I. 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:14.240 Did on Mother's Day? You came to a rom com. 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:14.960 Yeah, loved it. 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:20.120 Yeah, it was an action And do you want to 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:23.120 reveal the movie that you were going to? 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:26.040 No, we're going to or the one going Yeah this 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.640 is okay, this is a this is a Sabine thing. 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:32.240 This is a Sabine. Yes, this is a Sabine. Was like, yeah, 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:34.360 we gotta go. It was one because you and I 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:36.440 any movie. We were talking about the Ryan Gosling and 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:40.600 we want a fall Guy fall Gout, but we just 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.920 don't go to the theater unless it's a horror movie. 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:44.960 So if anybody suggests to me they want to go 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:46.960 to the theater and see anything other than I'm like, 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:49.680 not really, I'm not interested, And so I wouldn't have 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:52.560 gone to see any of this. But now this is 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:53.960 one Sabine and I gotta do our thing. 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:59.520 Okay, That's why I'm excited. A lot of dads in there, 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.760 didn't you say funny enough? It seemed like there were 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:04.840 a lot of people going to the movies because that 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:07.120 might be something that you're comfortable going to your dad with, 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:08.800 just sitting in a dark theater and not talking. 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.760 But that's say that and that is kind of and 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:16.240 I get it. We just have different relationships. Sabine was 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.600 even messaging me and she said, yeah, there's this is 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:20.280 gonna be a lot of dudes sitting on the couch 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.960 and enjoying that liquor that they were bought for a 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.080 Father's Day. I think that mindset, but it's just I 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:29.600 don't know that the day doesn't feel different. But yes, 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:32.560 dads are incredibly important. We just talked to our dads 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:34.960 and we talked about the money spent, right, you gave 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:37.800 that number already for the difference and the money we spend. 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:43.040 There's a difference in the amount of revenue. Almost doubles 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:45.760 in terms of the amount of revenue increase on Mother's 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:50.080 Day for restaurants versus Father's Day. And it is remarkable 0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:54.159 to go on to Rezi or open table and party 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:59.080 of three for today. We got any anywhere you wanted. 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:02.359 It was crazy like probably maybe even more so than 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:04.040 any other random Sunday. 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:09.399 I don't know what. 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:09.920 What would be a perfect Father's Day for you? If 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:11.720 you could from start to finish, what would it be. 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:17.040 It would be one that the day in June that 0:18:17.200 --> 0:18:22.639 feels just like a day in September. Or one in March, 0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:28.280 or one that your child doesn't feel like something special 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:32.159 is taking place in the relationship today because this is 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:33.680 just my dad all the time. If you want to 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.720 say thank you and hand me a card, that's on 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:40.679 the day. But I just with there there is nothing 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:42.640 today like wow, we have to do something super duper 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:46.960 special to honor the relationship with Sabine today. Sabine is 0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:49.520