1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,760
Speaker 1: This is the fread Show. Let's get you Hotel A

2
00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:03,480
Speaker 1: true for Tudi.

3
00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,560
Speaker 2: See Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer

4
00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:11,280
Speaker 2: Lopez Up All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth,

5
00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:14,880
Speaker 2: twenty twenty six at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace. Text

6
00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,279
Speaker 2: Palace to three seven three three seven right now for

7
00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:21,000
Speaker 2: a chance to win two tickets to the March thirteenth

8
00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,919
Speaker 2: show at two night hotels day March twelfth through the fourteenth,

9
00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,400
Speaker 2: Pat Keith Flamingo Hotel Casino, Las Vegas and Brown tre

10
00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,400
Speaker 2: Fair Fair. A confirmation text will be sent Dennert message

11
00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:31,680
Speaker 2: and data rates may apply.

12
00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:32,839
Speaker 1: All thanks to Live Nation.

13
00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,400
Speaker 2: Tickets are on sale now at ticketmaster dot com for

14
00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,000
Speaker 2: all shows running December thirtieth through January third, and March

15
00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,080
Speaker 2: sixth through the twenty.

16
00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,400
Speaker 1: Eighth mat Yeah, they talk better than they say. Tell me.

17
00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,879
Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like.

18
00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,400
Speaker 2: We're writing in our diaries, except we say them a lot.

19
00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,280
Speaker 2: We call them blogs. I'm taking this one. This is similar, Calen,

20
00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,160
Speaker 2: kinda to what you were saying earlier, dear blog, but

21
00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:58,120
Speaker 2: your birthday is coming up, and Paulina was asking you

22
00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,320
Speaker 2: and also out away this morning what you wanted for

23
00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:02,920
Speaker 2: your birthday?

24
00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:03,880
Speaker 1: And how did you do it? Again?

25
00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,560
Speaker 2: Explain you guys are coming up the elevator and Pauline

26
00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,000
Speaker 2: is so slick.

27
00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, me with this? And how did you say it

28
00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:10,080
Speaker 1: to her?

29
00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,480
Speaker 3: I looked at her right in the eye and I said, hey, girl,

30
00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:15,360
Speaker 3: what are you into these days?

31
00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:16,440
Speaker 2: What are you?

32
00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,039
Speaker 1: What are you into these days?

33
00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,720
Speaker 2: And that now, that could be interpreted a lot of

34
00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,800
Speaker 2: ways if somebody asked me, hey, for what are you

35
00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,120
Speaker 2: into these days? And it's the same thing I was

36
00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,759
Speaker 2: into yesterday? But I mean girls, But I mean, hey,

37
00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,920
Speaker 2: it could change the answer, could Jane?

38
00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:29,520
Speaker 1: You know it could it?

39
00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:29,800
Speaker 2: Really?

40
00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:33,080
Speaker 1: Could? You never know? I mean I might run out

41
00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,920
Speaker 1: of women to date and then I may have to Hey,

42
00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,600
Speaker 1: that's how it works. But speaking of which, you.

43
00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,680
Speaker 2: Know you were saying that we're talking about your birthday

44
00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:43,800
Speaker 2: present and Paulina basically asking you what do you want

45
00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,800
Speaker 2: for your birthday? I wish as a grown up people

46
00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,000
Speaker 2: she was asking me. I know, I hate to break

47
00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,800
Speaker 2: it to you, but that's what she was getting at. Sorry, Pauline,

48
00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,200
Speaker 2: don't even love up your spot. It was so so

49
00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,800
Speaker 2: it wasn't obvious at all, but I do kind of

50
00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,600
Speaker 2: wish adults would just say, like this is what I want,

51
00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:00,360
Speaker 2: because it would just be easier. And I get that

52
00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,400
Speaker 2: it's lazy, but it's also like I'm guaranteed to get

53
00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,640
Speaker 2: you something that you actually want, as opposed to just

54
00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,080
Speaker 2: getting you something that's just going to collect dust. Because

55
00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,000
Speaker 2: as adults, we tend to we have things, we have

56
00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,880
Speaker 2: adult money, and we may not have a lot of things,

57
00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:16,720
Speaker 2: or we may have a lot of things, but it's

58
00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,959
Speaker 2: just I don't know what you need or want to

59
00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,600
Speaker 2: what you'd actually use, so just tell me.

60
00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,960
Speaker 3: So Like I feel like I'm a hypocrite too, because

61
00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,840
Speaker 3: I would rather you tell me that you want, you know,

62
00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,280
Speaker 3: these shoes or you want this jacket whatever. But when

63
00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,519
Speaker 3: it comes to me, I don't think I'm being lazy.

64
00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,440
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm being tacky and that's just my

65
00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:35,040
Speaker 3: own thing. Like I say that, like, oh, here you go, please.

66
00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,280
Speaker 1: It's awkward me. I would agree.

67
00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,560
Speaker 2: It is awkward also to say because you don't necessarily

68
00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,240
Speaker 2: know how much people intend to spend.

69
00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:40,880
Speaker 1: That's what it is.

70
00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,359
Speaker 4: It's like, OK, That's why I was like, is it

71
00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,760
Speaker 4: a group Like I don't want to like send something

72
00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,560
Speaker 4: to you guys and feel I feel goofy sending it.

73
00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:48,040
Speaker 1: Well, we did.

74
00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,600
Speaker 2: I got the group text that you sent, and that

75
00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,519
Speaker 2: is a nice maserati that you sent us, but unfortunately

76
00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,200
Speaker 2: we won't be able. We don't have the funds currently

77
00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,320
Speaker 2: insufficient funds to be able to buy that for you.

78
00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:00,920
Speaker 1: Maybe so thing a little less.

79
00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I also got the porch that you sent

80
00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,240
Speaker 2: it a little less, but yeah, no, okay, I'm sorry.

81
00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,680
Speaker 1: We'll work on something though, like a vintage Bronco maybe. Yeah,

82
00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,440
Speaker 1: well sure, yeah, that's that's far more reasonable. Yeah we can,

83
00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:13,200
Speaker 1: we can probably do that.

84
00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. But I bring this up because when it comes

85
00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,400
Speaker 2: to dating, if you don't like when you're first meeting

86
00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,440
Speaker 2: someone and you know, if you meet on an app

87
00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,120
Speaker 2: or even if you meet in person and you you

88
00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:27,519
Speaker 2: don't really know somebody and you're planning a date, and

89
00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,679
Speaker 2: I just saw a TikTok about this about as a

90
00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,560
Speaker 2: guy and his wife. That dude tiktoks except he plays

91
00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,360
Speaker 2: her and she plays him fun and it's pretty funny.

92
00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,320
Speaker 2: It's you know me, I don't normally go for like

93
00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,480
Speaker 2: the cheesy stuff, but it's pretty funny because it's very

94
00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,520
Speaker 2: the way that guy portrays his wife is very relatable.

95
00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,640
Speaker 2: And this one scene I saw it was and he

96
00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,840
Speaker 2: wears like a he wears one of those one of

97
00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,160
Speaker 2: the fanny packs that women are wearing now, but they're

98
00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,400
Speaker 2: like crossbody. It's like, but it's a little fanny pets

99
00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,320
Speaker 2: glue Lemon sells him and he's always hold he's got

100
00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,720
Speaker 2: when he's doing her it's that and he's holding a

101
00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,720
Speaker 2: Stanley and walking around like them.

102
00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,120
Speaker 1: But it's like, I think we should go on a

103
00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:07,600
Speaker 1: date night.

104
00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,320
Speaker 2: And then she's him and he's like, okay, you know

105
00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,600
Speaker 2: what if we do and I want you to plan

106
00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,040
Speaker 2: it and he's like, okay, well then I think we

107
00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,159
Speaker 2: should do this and this and this, and she goes yeah,

108
00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:18,800
Speaker 2: but there's this place down the street, and by the

109
00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,960
Speaker 2: end of it, she's planned the date. So my thing

110
00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,240
Speaker 2: is as someone trying to plan dates. When I go

111
00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,120
Speaker 2: on them, I find myself basically just going what do

112
00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:33,840
Speaker 2: you want to do? Because people will complain or in general,

113
00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,040
Speaker 2: not people that I'm going out with, but in general

114
00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,480
Speaker 2: I hear people complain, well, guys don't plan date. It's

115
00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,320
Speaker 2: like meet me here for a drink and that's lazy,

116
00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,440
Speaker 2: or let's go for a walk that's free, like.

117
00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:43,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that. I don't know you,

118
00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:44,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to commit to that.

119
00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,240
Speaker 2: But then I've found sometimes I'll be like, great, this

120
00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,400
Speaker 2: place this time, and then the person's like, no, I

121
00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,360
Speaker 2: don't want to do that, I want to do this. Well,

122
00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,120
Speaker 2: then why don't you just It comes back to the

123
00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,320
Speaker 2: same thing, why don't you just tell me? You know,

124
00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,480
Speaker 2: Like I can't tell you how many times it would be.

125
00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,560
Speaker 2: It'll be like, well, why don't we go to this

126
00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,120
Speaker 2: restauran at this time? And it's no, I want to

127
00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:03,880
Speaker 2: go to this place. Well, it's because it's a block

128
00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,400
Speaker 2: from your house, Like you don't you just want you

129
00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,960
Speaker 2: You're just being like you just want something convenient for you.

130
00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,720
Speaker 1: But it's like that's a bed luck.

131
00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:15,320
Speaker 2: Ninety percent of the time when I suggest something, it

132
00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,240
Speaker 2: winds up being I don't really want to do that,

133
00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,360
Speaker 2: but what if we go here instead? And I don't

134
00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,960
Speaker 2: really care, but it defeats the purpose of me trying

135
00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,600
Speaker 2: to plan anything. Now, once I get to know you

136
00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,320
Speaker 2: pretty well, like if I'm married to you, I would

137
00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:28,760
Speaker 2: hope that I know you well enough to know how

138
00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:30,960
Speaker 2: to plan a date night and you might still tell

139
00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,280
Speaker 2: me that I'm wrong and do something different, but at

140
00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:34,960
Speaker 2: least I made the effort based on what I know

141
00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,960
Speaker 2: about you. But when you first meet somebody, how do

142
00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,720
Speaker 2: you plan a date that somebody wants to go on

143
00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,160
Speaker 2: without any input from them? Because I feel lazy, But

144
00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,680
Speaker 2: I'm often like, where do you want to go?

145
00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:47,760
Speaker 1: Just tell me?

146
00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,600
Speaker 2: And then the person's like, well, why don't you pick?

147
00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,679
Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, there's so many variables, what time,

148
00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,400
Speaker 2: what location, and I get a first or second date.

149
00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,880
Speaker 2: I'm more than happy to for the most part, if

150
00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,080
Speaker 2: you're being cool about it, I'm happy to make it

151
00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,440
Speaker 2: convenient for you right now. If you're kind of like

152
00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,800
Speaker 2: bitchy about it, then I you know, like, no, I

153
00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,880
Speaker 2: don't want that. I don't want to have to leave

154
00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,600
Speaker 2: my name. Like I've had people fight out say I

155
00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,960
Speaker 2: don't want to have to leave my neighborhood for this. Yeah,

156
00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,640
Speaker 2: but I'm sort of I'm like, it's not like a

157
00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,240
Speaker 2: middle point, it's not worth a middle point middle point.

158
00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:19,839
Speaker 1: But you're not willing to do anything?

159
00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,200
Speaker 2: Yes, you know like, I'm I'm going to plan the date,

160
00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to pay for the date, I'm going to

161
00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,720
Speaker 2: make the reservation I've suggested a place.

162
00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,480
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a lot of fun. I've been there.

163
00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,800
Speaker 2: I like it, you'll like it. I thought about, you

164
00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,760
Speaker 2: know whatever, and you just don't want to have to

165
00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,039
Speaker 2: go very far. Well that's that, honestly to your point earlier,

166
00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,400
Speaker 2: like a few seconds ago, that's a turn off to me.

167
00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,160
Speaker 1: You won't even meet me halfway.

168
00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,320
Speaker 3: Halfway is not like bad, I'm not going to Miwaukee

169
00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,360
Speaker 3: to meet you, but also like a first day, why

170
00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:45,720
Speaker 3: don't you come to me in a way?

171
00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,800
Speaker 2: And I will do that unless I get a certain

172
00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,559
Speaker 2: kind of response. Okay, then I'm sort of like turned

173
00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,520
Speaker 2: off by it. I'm like, oh, well, I was already

174
00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,000
Speaker 2: going to try and work with you here, but then

175
00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,320
Speaker 2: now you're like you won't even like you're not gonna

176
00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,160
Speaker 2: leave your block, like I'm gonna I have to sit

177
00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,040
Speaker 2: in an hour in traffic because you don't want to leave,

178
00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,080
Speaker 2: like you want to go to a restaurant in your building,

179
00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,440
Speaker 2: Like come on, like work with me a little bit.

180
00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:11,680
Speaker 2: But anyway, that point is I digress. Do you when

181
00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,600
Speaker 2: you're first meeting someone, do you just want us to

182
00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,120
Speaker 2: ask you, like where do you want to go?

183
00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:17,000
Speaker 1: What do you want to do?

184
00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,480
Speaker 2: And if we do, can you understand why and then

185
00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:21,760
Speaker 2: not go, Oh, he's lazy, he's not planning it. Here's

186
00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,720
Speaker 2: a very good chance you're going to reroot us anyway.

187
00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, the girlies are going to come from me, But

188
00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,560
Speaker 3: I'd rather you just ask me where I want to

189
00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,000
Speaker 3: go or what kind of food do I like kind

190
00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:30,320
Speaker 3: of thing, and we'll.

191
00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:30,760
Speaker 1: Figure it out from there.

192
00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,760
Speaker 3: Because here's the thing, like I I don't want to Like,

193
00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,280
Speaker 3: you can plan the date, but I'm probably not gonna

194
00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,040
Speaker 3: like it because I'm so simple and that's my own thing.

195
00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,280
Speaker 3: I'd rather go, you know this, to Hooters or Peppies

196
00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,920
Speaker 3: or whatever. I'd rather go to like a spot like that.

197
00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,800
Speaker 3: Then you know, go to like the five stars, five star,

198
00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,280
Speaker 3: four star steakhouse, like I'm not.

199
00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:47,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to get dressed up and do that.

200
00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,720
Speaker 3: Like when have and I met pandemic times, Yes, but

201
00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:52,800
Speaker 3: we talked about wings and how much we love them

202
00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,600
Speaker 3: and all these things that I was like, Hey, have

203
00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,080
Speaker 3: you been to Danny's Pizza? I guess? And I love

204
00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,080
Speaker 3: Danny's pizza And He's like, actually haven't. It's in their neighborhood.

205
00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,360
Speaker 3: Guess where we went. Then next time Danny's Pizza.

206
00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,840
Speaker 1: It was organic was a little take. Yeah, I kind

207
00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,240
Speaker 1: of flowed. You know, you're gonna be confused now with

208
00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,160
Speaker 1: my answer. Okay, what's your answer? You're gonna be confused.

209
00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,560
Speaker 1: So I personally, and this is maybe just a personal thing.

210
00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,880
Speaker 4: I feel like I make decisions all day long, like

211
00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,880
Speaker 4: I'm a strong woman, you know I'm doing I sometimes

212
00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,720
Speaker 4: don't want to have to make that decision, but I

213
00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,320
Speaker 4: will say I will eat anywhere, and I can always

214
00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,640
Speaker 4: find something, even a steakhouse, and I don't eat beef.

215
00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,280
Speaker 4: So I would love for you to go, uh, do

216
00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:28,480
Speaker 4: you want to go? Do you want to go to

217
00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,520
Speaker 4: the sushi spot at six? And then if I have

218
00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,360
Speaker 4: an issue at the time or don't eat sushi, then

219
00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,120
Speaker 4: I feel like a woman can say, but I would

220
00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,120
Speaker 4: rather you go, hey, do you want to go here?

221
00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:37,480
Speaker 1: And then at least put it out there.

222
00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:42,040
Speaker 4: But you're asking, you know, okay, like you want to

223
00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,679
Speaker 4: go get Italian at seven or whatever. I would like that,

224
00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:46,640
Speaker 4: But I'm also not going to be mad if you're like,

225
00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,520
Speaker 4: what kind of food you like? Let's figure it out together.

226
00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,240
Speaker 4: I mean, it's a good man is a good man,

227
00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:50,960
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter.

228
00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,240
Speaker 2: Well, then this is what I would say, based on

229
00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:57,959
Speaker 2: the vastly different answers. I would say this, and I'll

230
00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:59,960
Speaker 2: preface it by saying, and I've said this a thousand

231
00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,120
Speaker 2: times over the years, it is much harder to be

232
00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,480
Speaker 2: a woman, in my opinion, than a man. There is

233
00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,360
Speaker 2: no plight of the man in my opinion. I'm not

234
00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,800
Speaker 2: saying that, but what I will say is this. If

235
00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,240
Speaker 2: you're a woman who is constantly saying to your friends,

236
00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,120
Speaker 2: men don't approach me, or men don't plan dates, or

237
00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,760
Speaker 2: men it's the same script, then I would just ask

238
00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:23,800
Speaker 2: that when a guy does plan a date, maybe be

239
00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:28,199
Speaker 2: unless you're really offended by or can't eat whatever it is,

240
00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,920
Speaker 2: or really really have an objection for some reason, then

241
00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,280
Speaker 2: maybe just go with it, because I can tell you

242
00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,640
Speaker 2: guys will just learn to not plan dates after being

243
00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,719
Speaker 2: told every day they plan is not the date you

244
00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,120
Speaker 2: want to go on, and or every time you know

245
00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:43,959
Speaker 2: it takes a few times for a guy to walk

246
00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,920
Speaker 2: up and a girl to be and be respectful and

247
00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,080
Speaker 2: kind and appropriate and to be blown off or laughed

248
00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,319
Speaker 2: at or made fun of or whatever. And I'm just

249
00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,400
Speaker 2: speaking for all of mankind before they're not going to

250
00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,079
Speaker 2: do it anymore.

251
00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:54,840
Speaker 1: One hundred percent.

252
00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,679
Speaker 4: I think we as women very much need to if

253
00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,520
Speaker 4: we're letting someone down, do it kindly.

254
00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,640
Speaker 1: If we, you know, have criticism, Like I think it takes.

255
00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,760
Speaker 4: A lot to approach you, to hit on you, And

256
00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,240
Speaker 4: I think we need to be to good men who

257
00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:11,920
Speaker 4: are approaching us with good faith, be kind, be kind.

258
00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,439
Speaker 1: And I don't know, and there's no way to know

259
00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,199
Speaker 1: because they're probably people listening nuggle. I don't know.

260
00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,360
Speaker 2: If he's a good guy, if he's respectful in his approach,

261
00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:19,880
Speaker 2: that's me. Yeah, right exactly, like if he's not to

262
00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:21,959
Speaker 2: creep or weird. And then by the way, once we

263
00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,800
Speaker 2: get the if we get a know, we walk away.

264
00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:28,240
Speaker 2: We're done. No no, why you're not that hot anyway

265
00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:32,120
Speaker 2: or no stupid comment, Yes you're hot anyway, because I

266
00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,439
Speaker 2: walked up to you to begin with. I see guys

267
00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,559
Speaker 2: fumble this all the time, and I'm like, you're Bron's

268
00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,120
Speaker 2: shoot your shot in the d MS in person, whatever

269
00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,280
Speaker 2: gonna do. And then if you get a yes, so

270
00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:45,720
Speaker 2: you get a no, then we're done.

271
00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:49,199
Speaker 1: We're done. I agree, we're done, but I guess I

272
00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:50,440
Speaker 1: would ask on the other side.

273
00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,760
Speaker 2: You know, it's if you want people to do that,

274
00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,000
Speaker 2: then you're probably going to get people that you don't want,

275
00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:57,160
Speaker 2: you're not interested in it.

276
00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,640
Speaker 1: You gotta nice to them so the people who do

277
00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,360
Speaker 1: will do the thing where going