WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Smells Like… Love? 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:07.040 Brooking Jewels Second dat up day. Do you want to 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:10.879 know if you're absolutely terrible at dating? We can help 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:12.600 you with that with a second date update. It's Brook 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.360 and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving eighty two point five. 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:17.600 We have Cameron on the phone right now. Cameron, how 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:20.960 are you good? Are you done good? Now? Your email 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.520 said that you met a girl named Julia through friends, 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:25.240 and I do want to point out that your email 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:31.200 also said it felt like she just got you. It 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:35.520 sounds cornier when you say that. Wow, I did feel 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.360 like she got me, Like I thought we had a connection. 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.919 What do you guys do? During your date? We went 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:45.159 down to like Pioneer Area, sort of Stafeto Area. That 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:47.880 whole area is blown up. I love that distance. Okay, 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:53.159 we had dinner down there, and I was a gregarious 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:56.160 and fun and you know, she laughed at my joke. 0:00:56.440 --> 0:01:01.080 If I don't say so myself, I was outgoing and hilarious. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.680 But then again, I'm just doing what Cameron does. I'm 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.160 not Cameron. I'm not I'm not making fun of you. 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.000 I'm sorry. So anyway, you felt like she had a 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:09.480 good time. She was laughing at your jokes, She had 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:12.680 a good dinner with her. Yeah, like she was giving 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:14.959 me a good signs. Okay, like she was maybe like 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:21.479 touching your arm or well, okay, not exactly bad. But 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:24.920 when I dropped her off, we did have a steamy 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:30.520 makeout okay, okay, so there is physical contact, she's into it. 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:34.000 How'd the date end? I'm trying to think back if 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:37.240 she sort of said, hey, nice to meet you, or 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:41.400 she was like, hey, let's talk soon. I can't exactly remember, 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.560 but I felt like if I were to text her 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:47.760 the next day, she would I waited a few days, okay, 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:52.200 how many days? Five days? I waited until the following weekend, 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.960 like all Friday, and I sent her a text. That's 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.240 a long time. Five days does seem like a long time. 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.520 It seems like if I were a girl, that's something 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:03.120 I'm starting song I five w Aco anyway, but I 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:05.480 would think five days, like, maybe the guy has blown 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:08.760 me off? So do you think maybe that happened? Cameron? Uh, 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.120 that's hard to say. It's like you're you're losing your 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:14.959 forward momentum. If you come off a hot seeming makeout session, 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.120 a girl wants to know right away that you also 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:21.320 felt it was great. I mean maybe I should have midweeks, 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:24.280 you know, send her a message, or you can't think 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.200 of any reason why she wouldn't want to call you. 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:30.120 There were some lolls in the conversation, but we didn't 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:36.000 like clash politically. We avoided those subjects. All right, Okay, hey, kay, Cameron, 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.160 we are We're gonna get her on the phone right 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:40.160 after this song and see if we can get an 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:43.400 answer for you. Okay. Hopefully she doesn't really hate me 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:45.600 for doing that, all right, so just yeah, just hang 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.040 out for like three and a half minutes. We'll get 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:48.680 the second part of your second eight update. All right, 0:02:49.440 --> 0:03:02.040 thank you, h okay brooking jubil in the morning. Second Okay, 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:04.000 Cameron's on the phone with us. He emailed us about 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:06.720 a girl named Julia who he went on a date with. 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:08.720 They had dinner, made out at the end of the night. 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:11.200 You waited five days to try to get a hold 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:13.240 of her via text message. Do you think that maybe 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:17.880 you might have waited too long? I wonder? Okay, all right, 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:20.480 we'll call it right now. See we can get her 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.440 on the phone and ask her. Okay, awesome, and feel 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:25.720 free to go ahead and jump in on the conversation. 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:29.280 Whenever and bring out that confidence cameraon you got it 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:38.680 in you? I know it? Ll Hi is Julia? There 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.280 is Julia? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.280 and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five? 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:53.520 Oh hello, what's going on? Uh? Nothing yet? It's always 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:56.840 a weird follow up question. You say hi to see 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:59.200 what you're up to, you know, like, how thing's been? 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:01.560 How's life? We haven't talked in a while, Julia, or 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:07.960 ever have we? Yeah? I'm calling you because I wanted 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:12.520 to ask you a question about somebody you know? Okay, 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:15.600 do you have any idea of who I might want 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:21.279 to call you about? No? How familiar are you with 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:25.599 our show? Are familiar? Okay? Have you ever heard the 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:31.000 second date updates before? Yes? What if I were to 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:33.160 tell you that somebody emailed us about going on a 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:39.800 date with you? Oh? Now, can you guess who it 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:42.400 might be that wants to find out why you didn't 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.120 call them back after you guys went on a date? 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:51.040 Was it Mike? Oh it is not Mike. Can we 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.680 can narrow in downtmore? Sounds like there's a lot of options. 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:56.599 I'm not calling a lot of ben back. Okay, go ahead, 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:58.120 guess again. I want to see if you can guess 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:00.880 it now. It's not Mike somebody else that you went 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:07.080 on a date with recently. Uh, Cameron's I think, Oh, 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:12.000 I think Cameron. You think that's it. It's Cameron, It's 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:15.800 it's Cameron. Yes, he emailed us because he wants to 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:18.000 know why you, guys went out and you never called 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:19.680 him back. He said, he sent you a text like 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:24.320 five days after your date and yeah, okay, do you 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:28.400 mind telling us why it was a fine date? We 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:31.400 got along? Okay. He let us know that there was 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.720 kind of a hot and steamy makeout session at the 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:39.160 end of the night. Yeah, there was, I admit it. Okay, 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.400 it's okay. So you were into him, right, I mean 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:50.000 it was kind of weird because he smells like a girl. 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:56.320 He smelled like a girl, like he was wearing like 0:05:56.880 --> 0:06:01.640 women's perfume. I don't know, like he had been with 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:04.479 the girl earlier that day, or he just has like 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:11.440 a weird like lady perfume fetish or Julia guys cologne 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.480 sometimes could smell like women's perfume. Do you think that 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:18.479 maybe he just made a bad selection? No, this is 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:23.320 like flowery, like Mark Jacob smelling like my best friend 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:27.960 wears the same perfume. Hey, Julia, Yeah, Cam's on the 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:38.320 phone with us. What hery? What's up? I'll help you out, Cameron. 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.520 I'm not fond of men's cologne. I think it's too 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:47.559 musky and musty and weird. Okay, So you were wearing 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:51.919 you were wearing women's perfume. Okay, yeah, fine, whatever, whatever 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:55.400 your scent is, man, but sometimes I wear a little 0:06:55.440 --> 0:07:00.280 touch of, like a subtle women's perfume. So Camera, can 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:03.440 I ask you this? I think wearing women's perfume, that's fine, 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:09.920 like okay, but does it go beyond women's perfume ever? Um, 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:15.760 I'll answer that with a resounding no. It just because 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:20.240 the perfume doesn't match the underwears. What we're asking, all right? 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.320 Not so, Julia, you were just turned off by the 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:27.200 fact that Cameron smelled like a girl. Yeah, and that's 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:31.880 the reason he didn't call me, Julia. Uh? Yes? Is 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:36.840 that the only reason? Also, I didn't really think you 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:43.720 were that good of a kisser. Another thing that what 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.920 was bad about his kissing? Yeah, it's just like a 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:50.960 lot of like saliva. He just kissed like a woman, 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:56.520 didn't he butts were so soft. Well, Julia, we'll pay 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.360 for the second date. If you'll go out with Cameron again, 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:03.400 we will pay for it. That is so nice. However, 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:09.520 I don't think so. Really. I think it just would 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:16.080 be not What if he agrees not to wear a perfume? Yeah, 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:20.400 I mean, I just they just wasn't a connection, all Right. 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:22.320 You're scared that he's gonna show up for the date 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:23.520 and you guys have been wearing the same top and 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:28.200 it's gonna be awkward in the morning.