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Speaker 1: it for you. Here it is the Strawberry letter, Thank

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Speaker 1: your nephew. Subjects. I like big butts and I cannot

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Speaker 1: live Dear Stephen Shirley, I believe my wife is tripping

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Speaker 1: for no reason. The other day, we were in the

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Speaker 1: grocery store going down the aisle and there were two

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Speaker 1: said she saw what I was staring at. I have

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Speaker 1: to admit that I noticed the women's huge butts, but

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Speaker 1: I zoomed in on all of the groceries that they

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Speaker 1: had piled up. These women were the typical sisters you

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Speaker 1: see now, with always and big butts, which I see

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Speaker 1: all day long in my line of work. In my defense,

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Speaker 1: the women had on leggings that were thin, and I

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Speaker 1: could see all of the indentions in their butts. I

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Speaker 1: love the naturalness of a lump or two. I am

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Speaker 1: a forty four year old man and I've seen it all.

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Speaker 1: I like big butts, and I cannot lie. It is

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Speaker 1: my wife's insecurity that I can't deal with. She feels

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Speaker 1: disrespected if I look at something in front of me.

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Speaker 1: I didn't look back at the women or anything. The

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Speaker 1: butts were in front of us. She has made it

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Speaker 1: for days. I told her that God gave me two eyes,

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Speaker 1: and I like to watch what's going on around me.

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Speaker 1: It didn't matter if the women were fine as wine

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Speaker 1: or mud dirt ugly. It's a manly instinct to look

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Speaker 1: at booties. My wife has their own, very very nice

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Speaker 1: booty and compliment her daily on her figure, her hair,

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Speaker 1: and her beauty or her beauty. We've been married nine

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Speaker 1: years and her insecurity has gotten worse. I can't walk

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Speaker 1: around with my head down when I'm with her, So

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Speaker 1: I need your advice. How can I get her to

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Speaker 1: stop this nonsense. You're the one with the nonsense. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's be clear. You've got to be kidding me right here.

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Speaker 1: You have a wondering eye. You like to look at

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Speaker 1: other chicks butts. Okay, let's just call it what it is.

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Speaker 1: When you're when you're with your wife, and you blame

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Speaker 1: this on your wife's insecurities. No, keep your wife's insecurities

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Speaker 1: out of this. Okay, this has nothing to do what

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Speaker 1: you're doing. Who you think has made her insecure? Okay

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Speaker 1: about stuff like this, I think I've heard it all now,

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Speaker 1: I think I had. It's called disrespect, as you mentioned

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Speaker 1: in your letter, it's not called insecurity. You're being disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: She's not being insecure. The disrespect is definitely coming from you, husband.

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Speaker 1: How dare? I just can't believe you're blaming this on her,

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Speaker 1: but I know why you're doing it. I just think

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Speaker 1: you're out of line. She has every right to call

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Speaker 1: you out on your bad behavior. You're out of line here, sir.

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Speaker 1: You talked about the women's little ways, you know, and

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Speaker 1: you're doing way too much. You're doing way too much,

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Speaker 1: appreciate it every day like you do tell her every day. Uh,

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Speaker 1: My man is so much wrong in this letter. Yea,

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Speaker 1: why you're writing This letter has a lot of air

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Speaker 1: holes in it. Now, you say, I believe my wife

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Speaker 1: is tripping for no reason? Right there? What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: You believe she's tripping for no reason? And then you

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Speaker 1: got a page full of reasons why she tripping? Damn?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with you? Okay? Y'all? Little groceries stole going

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Speaker 1: I noticed all the stuff in their baskets. Now what

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Speaker 1: basket you talk, mom? Grocery basket? What groceries you talking? Mom?

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Speaker 1: Huh huh? See all that go both ways. You're stupid, man.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you you open. I noticed all the

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Speaker 1: stuff in the basket. When we come back, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: break this letter down and maybe you'll see what Shirley

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Speaker 1: saw in this letter. All right, see, we'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. I like big butts and I cannot lie.

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Speaker 1: There's the subjects. We'll be back right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters. Subjects. I like big, but I cannot lie. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm just can't believe this guy. He said. His opening

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Speaker 1: and then he gives me a page full of reasons

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Speaker 1: why she tripping. So I don't even know how you

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Speaker 1: wrote the letter, bro, But Shirley's answer was correct. So

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Speaker 1: now I'm gonna help you understand why Shirley gave you

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Speaker 1: her response. Maybe if I help you out this way.

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Speaker 1: When in the grocery store, going down the aisle, there

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Speaker 1: I noticed all the stuff in their baskets. First of all,

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Speaker 1: once again, what basket you're talking about? And when you

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Speaker 1: talking about? Because we know what basket mean and groceries

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Speaker 1: mean in the grocery store and in women's pains, we

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Speaker 1: both know what that is. Then you say, we turned

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Speaker 1: that they had piled up. Boy, boy, So you're telling

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Speaker 1: but you zoomed in on the groceries they had piled up,

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Speaker 1: and you stopped looking at the groceries that was in

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody stupid, bro Nobody everybody had a basket full

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Speaker 1: of groceries. We're that's intriguing to you. We got the

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Speaker 1: cart to put stuff into. That's what the grocery cars

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Speaker 1: is for. Hall of a sudden, that's fascinating. You gotta

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Speaker 1: be out chill, rabbit ass mind even tape this mess

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Speaker 1: to me? Man, These women were the typical systems you

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Speaker 1: see now, with small waists and big butts, which I

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Speaker 1: see all day long in my line of work. What

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Speaker 1: line of work? You're gone of colleges? What what you do? Dog?

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Speaker 1: Where in your line of work? It forces you. You

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Speaker 1: got to see all these small waist and what line

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Speaker 1: of work? What you mail man? They come to the dog?

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Speaker 1: What what? What? In my defense, the women had on

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Speaker 1: leggings that were thin, and I could see all the

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Speaker 1: indentations in their butt. So that's how hard you was looking.

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Speaker 1: You notice how thin they were, You notice indentations, and

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Speaker 1: you're trying to tell that you was focused on the

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Speaker 1: groceries piled up in the car. Boy, boy, I love

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Speaker 1: the naturalness of a lump or two for you in

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Speaker 1: this way too deep. I'm a forty four year old man,

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Speaker 1: and I've seen it all. I like big butts, and

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Speaker 1: I cannot lie. Is my wife's insecurity that I can't

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Speaker 1: deal with? What brother, when you're getting security from when

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Speaker 1: all you're doing is talking about what you like, and

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Speaker 1: then you get dumber. As the letter go on, she

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Speaker 1: feels disrespected if if I look at something in front

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Speaker 1: of me, that's what disrespect is. You're not supposed to

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Speaker 1: do that in front of your girl. That's disrespectful. I

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Speaker 1: got you looking at women, do ip a girl watching

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Speaker 1: how to do it. Teque. You don't turn it. You're stupid.

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Speaker 1: You zoom in on it followed, you stupid. You pick

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Speaker 1: Didn't do something else, not your dumbass. Though I didn't

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Speaker 1: She has made such a big deal and been ranting

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Speaker 1: about it for days. Because dog, you want me to

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Speaker 1: tell you why she's still ranting about it, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you at the end of this letter what's wrong

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Speaker 1: with your whole thing. I told her that God gave

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Speaker 1: me two eyes and I like to watch what's going

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Speaker 1: a manly instinct to look at booties or you stupid,

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Speaker 1: You stupid. My wife has her own, very, very nice booty,

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Speaker 1: and I compliment her daily on her figure, her hair,

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Speaker 1: all her beauty. We've been married nine years and her

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Speaker 1: insecurity has gotten worse. Her insecurity has gotten worse because

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Speaker 1: to stop the nonsense. It's her I wandering booty staring

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Speaker 1: women galking ass husband, you out of line dog, You're stupid. Man.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Man, don't be sorry. Apologize, fix it,

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Speaker 1: make her feel special and calm her insecurity or else. Brother,

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