WEBVTT - Josh and Chuck Make It Through Male Puberty

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Stuff you Should Know from House Stuff Works

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark,

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<v Speaker 1>This Charles W. Chuck Bryant. Jerry's over there, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if Jerry should be in here for this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not. We're talking male puberty. You and I we're

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<v Speaker 1>putting on our health class faces. Both of us got

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<v Speaker 1>crew cuts for this one. You're wearing a whistle around

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<v Speaker 1>your neck. I'm wearing knee socks and joys. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>was taught because I was raised in a pretty conservative

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<v Speaker 1>Southern Baptist home. I was taught this stuff by my

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<v Speaker 1>uh preacher. Nope, they didn't talk about this stuff. That's

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<v Speaker 1>my point. I was taught in health class. Yeah, um,

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<v Speaker 1>by my pe teacher. This lady who seemed to struggle

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<v Speaker 1>with teaching boys about puberty. I can I can't really

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<v Speaker 1>blame her. She tried her best, but this is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when the pe teachers had to teach health as well,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't think that she got into that profession

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<v Speaker 1>to teach health. She she was like, I like coaching volleyball,

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<v Speaker 1>but um, I don't like teaching boys about puberty. She

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<v Speaker 1>seemed very uncomfortable. It comes with the job. Lady t s. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are a Jim coach and you're teaching a

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<v Speaker 1>health class right now and you're using us to teach

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<v Speaker 1>for you, you you owe some money. Agreed. So we are.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a great job so far, if you ask me,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. And this is you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>we have a responsibility because I was raised in that

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<v Speaker 1>thing where like, you know, my parents didn't teach me

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. So I think it's important the kids. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>puberty is tough. I mean like it's important to normalize

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<v Speaker 1>it and that kids know that these changes are happening

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<v Speaker 1>and what they mean and healthy functions. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think this is a bit of a service. It was,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, it is. Yes, I was talking like we'd

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<v Speaker 1>already finished finished, and this this article, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>it was written by the great Tom Sheath, did a

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful job. Chuck. Yes, did you know that over the

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<v Speaker 1>last like hundred and fifty years, um, the average age

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<v Speaker 1>of puberty in girls has dropped by like five or

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<v Speaker 1>six years. Yeah, so in eighteen sixty the average age

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<v Speaker 1>of monarchy, oh yeah, yeah, sixteen point six years old.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty late. In two it was ten point five

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<v Speaker 1>years old. It seems young, right, and everybody's like, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? It's probably the milk, like there's some horrible

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<v Speaker 1>stuff going on, or they're saying, what's monarchy, Well, manarchy

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<v Speaker 1>is the onset of menstruach for the first time in

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<v Speaker 1>a girl. I think that came up in our totem Pole.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a long time ago. Um, so this on

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<v Speaker 1>side of monarchy has decreased by a lot and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are alarmed by it. But there are

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<v Speaker 1>some evolutionary biologists out there who are saying, actually, settle down.

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<v Speaker 1>We think that this is closer to the normal time

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<v Speaker 1>when puberty should come on, and that like sixteen points

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<v Speaker 1>six is way delayed, and it was actually a relic,

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<v Speaker 1>a remnant of changes that were brought about by a

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<v Speaker 1>transition to agriculture. The result of higher infections and poor

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<v Speaker 1>nutrition led to a later onset of monarchy. Well, it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty it's easy to say, well, the girls start puberty

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<v Speaker 1>here and boys it's not quite as defined, but they

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<v Speaker 1>think that probably boys age of onset for puberty has

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<v Speaker 1>gone back to as well. Yeah, so it's uh, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going through puberty younger as young boys as well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so even though it is very difficult to say this

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<v Speaker 1>is and a boy starts puberty, that didn't stop some research,

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<v Speaker 1>just especially a guy named Richard Tanner from trying. He

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<v Speaker 1>came up with the Tanner scale. It is a scale

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<v Speaker 1>of one to five and Roman numerals, and it's all

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<v Speaker 1>based on the growth of your genitalia and pubic hair. Interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's it's not completely subjective, but it's pretty subjective. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And you might have heard of the Tanner scale by

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<v Speaker 1>seeing the posters in restaurants all around the country. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>right next to the employees must wash hands before returning

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<v Speaker 1>to works exactly. All right, So we're talking about puberty,

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<v Speaker 1>which is that transition um that all kids go through.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about male puberty of course, in this case,

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<v Speaker 1>just male puberty and this one yea, even though I

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<v Speaker 1>already talked about female puberty. Well, we should probably tackle

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<v Speaker 1>female puberty at some point um. For for little boys,

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<v Speaker 1>they generally, like you said, the time has shifted perhaps,

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<v Speaker 1>but right now between the ages of nine in eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>is when it starts through completion generally typically typically you

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<v Speaker 1>can start earlier, it can go later, it can follow

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<v Speaker 1>different courses. Sure, it moves at different speeds and different guys. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna say this a few times. If you

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<v Speaker 1>are a boy out there and you're going through your

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<v Speaker 1>changes in puberty at different rates than your friends, that

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<v Speaker 1>is okay. Yeah, you're not a weirdo instincts, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is very normal, that's right. And you just may you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard of the term late bloomer. You may just be

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<v Speaker 1>a late bloomer, and that's okay because you will bloom

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<v Speaker 1>well and you might not even be a late bloomer

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<v Speaker 1>except for this month right next month. But it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like you know that horse race that you can

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<v Speaker 1>do with the spraying the Yeah, you squirt the water

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<v Speaker 1>in the hole in the horse's gap exactly, and they

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<v Speaker 1>kind of moved back and forth. That's a lot like puberty. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>once you've really got a bead on that water gun,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when the horse really starts moving. But practice all

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<v Speaker 1>you want. You can squirt water and where, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to help accelerate your puberty, that's right, all right, So, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what happens the beginning of puberty, no matter when it starts,

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<v Speaker 1>is going to get kicked off when a substance called

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<v Speaker 1>ganado tropin is released. Um, I'm sorry, Canada. Tropin releasing

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<v Speaker 1>hormone is released in the body. G n r H.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the big that's the one that starts at all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. And apparently you have that stuff in your hypothalamus. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>You've got all these things hormones in your body, just waiting,

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<v Speaker 1>waiting the coming one another, like nitro glycerin coming together basically,

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<v Speaker 1>so you've got g n r H and your hypothalamus

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently it has to move to the pituitary gland

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<v Speaker 1>for things to get triggered. So puberty is like a

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<v Speaker 1>Rube Goldberg esque process. Yeah. So, um, it takes something

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<v Speaker 1>called g p R fifty four, which is another hormone,

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<v Speaker 1>to coming contact with ganada trope and releasing hormone, and

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden things start up and that

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<v Speaker 1>actually brew when that process happens. That's called gody. Oh really, yes, interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the reason monarchy was such a funny word

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<v Speaker 1>to me back when we recorded that. I figured it

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<v Speaker 1>out all these years later because it sounds like malarkey. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is just a funny word to me, because no

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<v Speaker 1>one says malarkey, but I think it's a great word.

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<v Speaker 1>So monarchy and malarkey is just a little too close

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<v Speaker 1>for my taste to keep me from laughing, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, So the stages of puberty, they're generally five, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and they overlap and it's one just big awkward mess.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can kind of break it down into five stages.

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<v Speaker 1>The first one is gonna begin, like we said, around

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<v Speaker 1>nine or ten years old. Um, nine is a little early.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten is um what they would consider normal. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it might happen as late as twelve to get

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<v Speaker 1>things going, which by which time you're like, come on

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<v Speaker 1>right start. I'll just remember being in school and some

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<v Speaker 1>kids were like a foot taller than other ones, like

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<v Speaker 1>my buddy Jim, I said, you know, like he had

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<v Speaker 1>a mustache when he was like thirteen. Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a friend like that in third grade. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. Um. So again, different timetables for everybody, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's all okay. Uh So when this g n r

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<v Speaker 1>H is released in stage one, your testicles are going

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<v Speaker 1>to start to mature and grow, uh, your body, your height,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna start growing at about two inches per year

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, which is pretty significant. Yeah, yeah, for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>growing two inches in a year. When's the last time

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<v Speaker 1>you did that? I guess probably when I was like twelve, probably,

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<v Speaker 1>although I never hit one of those growth spurts like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of uh no did you? Yeah here there

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<v Speaker 1>really Yeah, I don't really just slow and steady wins

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<v Speaker 1>the race. Yeah, I don't remember any Like I remember

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<v Speaker 1>some of my friends that had um like they're owns

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<v Speaker 1>would hurt and they would actually have those growing pains.

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<v Speaker 1>I never had that. Yeah, yeah, no, it wasn't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I remember coming back from the summer and a

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<v Speaker 1>kid would have grown like six inches it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>in several months. Then it would just blew my mind

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<v Speaker 1>because I was and like I was a late bloomer

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<v Speaker 1>and like drank wine from a deer skin. Now a yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so your testicles are growing, and because your testicles are growing,

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<v Speaker 1>that means their house, the scrotum is also growing. And

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<v Speaker 1>all this is because that go and add a chopin

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<v Speaker 1>releasing hormone started up. That's right, And it's no um

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<v Speaker 1>accident that it starts with gonad of course, it's all

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<v Speaker 1>linked um. So um, your your testicles are growing and

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<v Speaker 1>maturing at this point, but you're not able to reproduce

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<v Speaker 1>just yet, No way, No, that comes with a little later.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had a question like, why aren't we born

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<v Speaker 1>capable of reproduction? And I thought like I would find

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<v Speaker 1>some stuff on it. All I could find was one

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<v Speaker 1>single Yahoo Answers question, and everybody was like, what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a stupid question is that? Basically, yeah, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it is kind of a stupid question. But the point

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<v Speaker 1>is because you're not capable of taking care of yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>therefore you you wouldn't be capable of taking care of baby.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to develop socially, psychologically, and physically. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>female body probably couldn't handle childbirth either, right, So it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense to not come out of the womb being

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<v Speaker 1>capable of sexual reproduction. It makes sense for that to

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<v Speaker 1>have to to develop at some point. Sure, agreed. So

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<v Speaker 1>they also in stage one, um, you're gonna start getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little fine pubic hairs and uh, that's that is

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<v Speaker 1>called pew barkie? Is it really? Not kidding? You just

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<v Speaker 1>add archie to anything very much. I got your hierarchy.

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<v Speaker 1>There's all sorts of things that come about, uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>you might start to get your first erections at this point, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not gonna have any idea what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>with your body. But it's gonna happen unless you take

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<v Speaker 1>an advanced health class that like nine years old, um,

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<v Speaker 1>or if you have like parents who are comfortable with

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<v Speaker 1>talking like this. Yeah, but boys, sometimes you're getting bad information.

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<v Speaker 1>Well there's to combat that kind of stuff there where.

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<v Speaker 1>There have always been, um, educational films about this kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff. I found one from the fifties called Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>Changes or something like that, and it's basically like a

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<v Speaker 1>track and field coach answering questions from the track and

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<v Speaker 1>field team like me, who all seem like plants frankly,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, I guess still yeah, but it's pretty it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good our podcast page, yeah for this episode. Al Right,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's stage one. You enter stage two around twelve

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<v Speaker 1>or thirteen. Your testicles are still a growing, yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing, and um, they they grow faster and

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<v Speaker 1>most prominently first. That's like the sign that you're in Puberta.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything else might not be happening, but your testicles are

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<v Speaker 1>probably growing pretty quick before your very eye making a

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<v Speaker 1>sound if you're listening closely. I knew we would be

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<v Speaker 1>just like two dumb little kids and crew cuts didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have any effect. Um, and this means you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>producing testosterone as well, which is gonna make you crazy

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<v Speaker 1>as well. Um, you're gonna start to grow quicker and

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<v Speaker 1>height two to three inches a year. And one of

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons why chuck is because that testosterone is being produced.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, the catatropin releasing hormone sources chain reaction and

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<v Speaker 1>it leads down to your testicles, and it basically says,

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<v Speaker 1>start producing testosterone, and then that floods the body and

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<v Speaker 1>has all sorts of crazy effects. But one of them

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<v Speaker 1>is your bone cells have testosterone receptors and they grow

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<v Speaker 1>in the presence of testosterone, So all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>they're being flooded with testosterone, which is why you grow

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<v Speaker 1>so quickly while you under growth. Person, it's because of

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<v Speaker 1>the testosterone having the impact on your bones. Um. And finally,

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<v Speaker 1>in stage two, those fine pubic hares are going to start,

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<v Speaker 1>as my gym teacher said, to become of course, and

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<v Speaker 1>curly and darker. Um, you're going to get more erections,

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<v Speaker 1>more frequently, and your body is just gonna start to

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<v Speaker 1>become a little leaner you're gonna start to look, um,

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<v Speaker 1>a little more like an adult. Um, like a tiny adult. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is funny. You know, by the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>fifth stage, they said, at this point you look like

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<v Speaker 1>a man. Your shoulders are broad. But you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>look back on your high school pictures and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I look like a little baby. Like I didn't start

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<v Speaker 1>looking like a man until I was in my thirties. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>But compared to like your six year old self, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>you resemble the male physique more than before. Absolutely, third

0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:59.679
<v Speaker 1>stage of puberty for boys is gonna be thirteen or fourteen. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>You're pubic hair is gonna get even darker and more full.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about the pubic hare. Well, it's a big change,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Well it's part of the Tanner scale. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why it's so um, it's very recognizable, that's right, that's

0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:15.480
<v Speaker 1>why it's on the poster and olive garden. Uh. Your

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<v Speaker 1>penis at this point is going to start to grow

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<v Speaker 1>in linked uh. And of course all the while your

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<v Speaker 1>testicles are still growing, You're getting more and more erections,

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<v Speaker 1>and your height is gonna grow at about three inches

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<v Speaker 1>per year at this point. And then your voice is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start cracking, which is super interesting. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>dug up exactly what's going on there with your voice cracking? Yeah,

0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:43.320
<v Speaker 1>it's really interesting. Um So, remember testosterone makes stuff grow, basically,

0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:45.520
<v Speaker 1>and one of the things that it makes grow is

0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:50.760
<v Speaker 1>your vocal cords, right, which are basically two um cartilaginous

0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:53.960
<v Speaker 1>bands that go over your trick ya your windpipe, so

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<v Speaker 1>that when air passes through your lungs past the the

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<v Speaker 1>your vocal cords, it makes them vibrate. And that vibration

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<v Speaker 1>is what your voices, that creates your voice. When you're

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<v Speaker 1>a younger kid and your vocal cords are still small,

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<v Speaker 1>they can vibrate, vibrate a really fast frequency, like say

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<v Speaker 1>two vibrations per second because they're smaller, right, But as

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<v Speaker 1>they grow in the presence of testosterone, they grow bigger

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<v Speaker 1>and thicker. They can't vibrate quite as fast, so they

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<v Speaker 1>might go down to like a hundred and thirty vibrations

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<v Speaker 1>a second. Well, that's a lower frequency, which eventually leads

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<v Speaker 1>to a deeper voice. It's like a guitar string. The

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<v Speaker 1>thicker guitar string is lower perfect analogy, that's exactly right, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Another thing that happens which creeps me out to no end.

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<v Speaker 1>But it it's part of it is your voice box,

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<v Speaker 1>that part of the the the top of your trachea

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<v Speaker 1>that holds your vocal cords grows in size and tilts forward.

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<v Speaker 1>And my friend, you have an atoms apple after that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not always. Um well, I mean you, some are more

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<v Speaker 1>prominent than other. Yeah, you know, it depends on like

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<v Speaker 1>the shape and structure of your next But even if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't see it, if you just kind of rub

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<v Speaker 1>your finger up and down from your chin to your chest,

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<v Speaker 1>it's in there. You're gonna feel your atoms apple. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's so creepy to me. It's kind of like it

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<v Speaker 1>produces the same emotional state as thinking about peeling a

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<v Speaker 1>fingernail back. Yeah, that's what atoms apples due to make interesting.

0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Like just the thought of my atoms apple. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even like to touch it, but I can't stop, so

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<v Speaker 1>so odd. Wow that is odd. Yeah, but anyway, that's

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<v Speaker 1>your atoms apple, and that's why your voice changes. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes from growing from very small to growing large

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<v Speaker 1>and it deepens. One of the other things too, Chuck,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought this one was really cool. The testosterone in

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<v Speaker 1>your skull, the facial bones. Yeah. So you know, testosterone

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<v Speaker 1>causes your bones to grow. That includes your facial bones

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<v Speaker 1>as well. And as they grow, UM, your sinuses grow.

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<v Speaker 1>So that means that there's more empty space for your

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<v Speaker 1>voice to resonate in, which also makes it deeper. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And they don't know, UM evolutionarily exactly why. But the

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<v Speaker 1>theory is, which makes perfect sense to me, is that

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<v Speaker 1>UM one to attract women or to intimidate other men

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<v Speaker 1>with that deep voice, which or just a signal I've arrived,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you hear my voice? Yeah, which sounds totally different

0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:27.040
<v Speaker 1>than when you say, right voice, Yeah, you haven't arrived. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's in stage three. UM, stage four, around fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>or fifteen, you're gonna start getting that armpit hair. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start maybe getting a little facial hair. Although I

0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:40.720
<v Speaker 1>didn't get facial hair until quite a bit later, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even remember when I got it. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I wasn't shaving, and I just can't get

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<v Speaker 1>rid of it. I know, look at me, I look

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<v Speaker 1>like Fidel Castro, especially when you wear that hat, the

0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:55.399
<v Speaker 1>Castro hat. Yeah, it's weird. Um. Your pubic hair is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get more coarse, your voice is gonna drop even

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<v Speaker 1>deeper and you're gonna start to get acne. Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 1>is really sad. Well that's part of the result of

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<v Speaker 1>um seem Yeah. We did a great podcast on acne. Yeah,

0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:13.280
<v Speaker 1>we did, and uh, look this up even September two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand eleven. The comito, which is Latin for worm, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff that you squeeze out of the center. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, should we discover what acne is real quick?

0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:25.480
<v Speaker 1>That build up of seebum, that oil, which is necessary

0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:28.199
<v Speaker 1>the water prouc your skin. Yeah, but you overproduce it

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<v Speaker 1>during puberty. Yeah. Plus you're also sloughing off skin cells

0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:34.440
<v Speaker 1>at a crazy rate. Yeah, that's a recipe for disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>All of those things are trying to exit through pores

0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:40.479
<v Speaker 1>and hair follicles and they can't always make it. So

0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:44.439
<v Speaker 1>when it gets built up, it blocks. It goes through

0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:46.840
<v Speaker 1>the three stooges syndrome and trying to get through the

0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:50.359
<v Speaker 1>door at the same time. Right, and then uh, certain

0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:54.359
<v Speaker 1>types of bacteria acne bacteria come in and infect it

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<v Speaker 1>and it swells and then you have a pimple. That's right,

0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:00.520
<v Speaker 1>that's all there is to it. It's fine and Tom

0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:03.840
<v Speaker 1>actually goes to the trouble of providing some advice on

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<v Speaker 1>what to do with it. And it's great advice because

0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:08.720
<v Speaker 1>you think you might want to scrub it to death

0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:14.080
<v Speaker 1>and use every super drying um product you can find

0:19:14.480 --> 0:19:17.320
<v Speaker 1>with a scouring pad. That's the exact opposite what you

0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.040
<v Speaker 1>want to do. Yeah, because that that can make it worse.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to gently wash your face or your shoulders

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<v Speaker 1>or your back or whatever or everything a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>times a day, keep it clean, which is a problem

0:19:29.040 --> 0:19:32.600
<v Speaker 1>because young boys aren't known for loving showers at this point. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>But if this is a thing to you and it's

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<v Speaker 1>bothering you, then go to the trouble of doing something

0:19:37.280 --> 0:19:40.560
<v Speaker 1>about it. It's pretty simple and straightforward. Just wash your

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<v Speaker 1>face gently with just lightly a couple of times a

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<v Speaker 1>day and that's it, um, And don't overdo it because

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<v Speaker 1>that just irritates it even more. It makes your face

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<v Speaker 1>so mad. Yeah, that showering thing is so funny to me.

0:19:53.440 --> 0:19:56.919
<v Speaker 1>In our buddy Mark Farley from the TV show played

0:19:57.040 --> 0:20:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Clint Kinking Beard Can't Kinking Beard Um said that he

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<v Speaker 1>had a Facebook post the other day about trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get his son to take a shower. It was just

0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:08.000
<v Speaker 1>like marching him to the you know, to the firing

0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:11.200
<v Speaker 1>squad or something. I remember that age was like, now

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to take a shower. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do anything. But now like the shower is the

0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:17.720
<v Speaker 1>best part of the day, you know, Yeah, it's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I still hate taking showers the process of it. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather be doing anything else. Then afterward, I'm like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I love showers. Interesting, it's just like going to the

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<v Speaker 1>trouble of taking it. It's just bothers. Well, sometimes I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Uh, have that thing around it. Just don't

0:20:34.000 --> 0:20:36.520
<v Speaker 1>want to be wet. Yeah, that's another one too. So

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<v Speaker 1>I want in the wintertime, you don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you're gonna be cold. Good point. And at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of stage four um euro Penis. At this

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<v Speaker 1>point we'll start to grow thicker and continue to grow longer.

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<v Speaker 1>But again, guys, this isn't happening at the rate that

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<v Speaker 1>you would like. Uh, don't worry about it. Just hanging there,

0:20:57.000 --> 0:20:59.120
<v Speaker 1>just hanging in there. You'll you'll be okay, you'll be fine.

0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:02.560
<v Speaker 1>And they been doing this for hundreds of thousands of years,

0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:06.479
<v Speaker 1>that's right. Uh, And finally stage five M fourteen to eighteen.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna grow most of your height at this point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>although you might grow in your twenties a little bit,

0:21:13.359 --> 0:21:15.800
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, but not. This is where you're growing the fastest.

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<v Speaker 1>Um you You are growing several inches a year basically,

0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:23.000
<v Speaker 1>whereas up to this point you're growing to two to three.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're growing up to maybe five inches in a year.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. Yeah, that's quick growth. Yeah. And that's like

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<v Speaker 1>when I see my nephew now he's like six one,

0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:34.920
<v Speaker 1>he is so tall, it's so weird. Um, he's not weird.

0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no, it's weird to see your nephew

0:21:37.160 --> 0:21:39.520
<v Speaker 1>like taller than you all of a sudden. Just want

0:21:39.560 --> 0:21:42.960
<v Speaker 1>to make sure we clarify that he knows he's not weird. Um.

0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:45.399
<v Speaker 1>Your shoulders are gonna be broader at this point, your

0:21:45.440 --> 0:21:49.000
<v Speaker 1>muscles are going to be more fully developed. Uh, you're

0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:52.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna have new muscle fibers, You're gonna everything is basically

0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:55.359
<v Speaker 1>just getting thicker on your body. Yeah, they call it

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<v Speaker 1>filling out. I think again, that's because its testosterone and

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<v Speaker 1>all of these other um hormones that you are producing.

0:22:02.480 --> 0:22:05.240
<v Speaker 1>You were producing them mainly at night while you slept before,

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<v Speaker 1>which is significant that it's released from the hypothalamus because

0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:14.240
<v Speaker 1>the hypothalamus also regulates sleep, right, um, so while you're sleeping,

0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:18.320
<v Speaker 1>the hypothalamus is like, I guess, keep myself busy by

0:22:18.359 --> 0:22:22.160
<v Speaker 1>having some of these new hormones produced. As you go

0:22:22.440 --> 0:22:26.440
<v Speaker 1>further along in the stages of puberty, you um actually

0:22:26.840 --> 0:22:30.560
<v Speaker 1>are producing them all the time and in vast quantities,

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<v Speaker 1>so that that would account for your muscles growing bigger

0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:37.000
<v Speaker 1>and your skeleton growing faster than ever, and all this

0:22:37.160 --> 0:22:40.920
<v Speaker 1>hair coming out everywhere and growing course and everything. You know. Well,

0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:43.240
<v Speaker 1>and that's since you mentioned it, I wasn't gonna bring

0:22:43.240 --> 0:22:45.400
<v Speaker 1>it up, but um, your pubic hair in stage five

0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:48.159
<v Speaker 1>is going to start to creep all over your body.

0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:50.320
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be in your inner thighs and creeping up

0:22:50.320 --> 0:22:53.760
<v Speaker 1>your stomach. You might get chest hair, and you're just

0:22:53.760 --> 0:22:56.720
<v Speaker 1>wondering what in the world is happening to me? Um.

0:22:56.760 --> 0:22:58.800
<v Speaker 1>So those are the stages and right for this, we

0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:02.480
<v Speaker 1>will come back with more on puberty, but not on

0:23:02.560 --> 0:23:05.480
<v Speaker 1>public care. No, We've got more on pubic care, more

0:23:05.520 --> 0:23:23.720
<v Speaker 1>on both. So Chuck, I've got a little more on

0:23:23.760 --> 0:23:29.200
<v Speaker 1>pubic hair. Um. So there's it's kind of an evolutionary

0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:32.720
<v Speaker 1>mystery to why we have it um because if you

0:23:32.720 --> 0:23:35.360
<v Speaker 1>think about it, it doesn't really do a whole lot

0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:42.080
<v Speaker 1>for guys. Doesn't protect anything, It doesn't keep vital stuff warm.

0:23:42.119 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Not really Okay, I thought it would warm stuff up. No,

0:23:45.200 --> 0:23:49.199
<v Speaker 1>it's like no, not really, not enough to explain, like

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:52.240
<v Speaker 1>why it's concentrated where it's concentrated, mostly you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. So they think probably what's going on is

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<v Speaker 1>Number one, it's an outward overt signal that the person

0:24:00.520 --> 0:24:04.160
<v Speaker 1>has gone through puberty and is capable of sexual reproduction.

0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:08.439
<v Speaker 1>Therefore he is a viable mate. That's one thing that

0:24:08.680 --> 0:24:11.280
<v Speaker 1>especially was a big signal when we weren't wearing clothes

0:24:11.400 --> 0:24:15.520
<v Speaker 1>back in the day, right um. And then secondly they

0:24:15.560 --> 0:24:21.160
<v Speaker 1>think also that is a transmitter of pheromones. Basically that

0:24:21.359 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>when you when you enter puberty and you start to

0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:27.280
<v Speaker 1>grow armpit hair and pubic hair and just hair everywhere,

0:24:27.520 --> 0:24:30.680
<v Speaker 1>you also start to to um open up a new

0:24:30.720 --> 0:24:34.639
<v Speaker 1>type of sweat gland, epicrine sweat glands, whereas before you

0:24:34.800 --> 0:24:37.639
<v Speaker 1>just smelled like a little angel because you didn't stink,

0:24:37.720 --> 0:24:41.080
<v Speaker 1>because you weren't producing weird types of sweat. Once you

0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>go through, um going at archy, all of a sudden

0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:47.000
<v Speaker 1>you start to stink and start get the little body

0:24:47.040 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 1>over here and there, right, And even though you don't

0:24:49.040 --> 0:24:51.119
<v Speaker 1>want to take a shower, everyone else wants you to

0:24:51.119 --> 0:24:53.639
<v Speaker 1>take a shower. So just go take a shower because

0:24:53.680 --> 0:24:56.080
<v Speaker 1>you stink, stinking a little teenager, right. And one of

0:24:56.080 --> 0:24:58.479
<v Speaker 1>the things that's making you stink is this new sweat

0:24:58.520 --> 0:25:00.399
<v Speaker 1>with these new hormones that are come going out. But

0:25:00.440 --> 0:25:05.399
<v Speaker 1>also supposedly you're still you're producing pheromones as well, and these, um,

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:08.800
<v Speaker 1>although we don't it's never been proven that humans are

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:13.119
<v Speaker 1>capable of sensing pheromones on other people, they think that

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:16.120
<v Speaker 1>there's a pretty high likelihood we do. And they think

0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:19.200
<v Speaker 1>that pubic hair and armpit hair serves just basically big

0:25:19.280 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 1>neon signs for these. Um, these odor molecules that were

0:25:23.960 --> 0:25:27.640
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily capable of sensing got you. So thank you

0:25:27.720 --> 0:25:32.399
<v Speaker 1>for that, for giving us body odor. Right, all right,

0:25:32.520 --> 0:25:35.040
<v Speaker 1>So your body is growing like crazy, growing like a weed.

0:25:35.080 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 1>As they say, um, you are probably going to start

0:25:39.040 --> 0:25:42.400
<v Speaker 1>growing taller than girls in your class, who were probably

0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>taller than you before that, because girls typically will grow

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:49.960
<v Speaker 1>um height earlier than boys will, right, I remember lots

0:25:49.960 --> 0:25:52.399
<v Speaker 1>of girls that were taller than me through most of

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:56.400
<v Speaker 1>my elementary school. Um, but don't worry, guys, You'll catch up,

0:25:56.680 --> 0:26:00.200
<v Speaker 1>and don't worry girls. Yeah, because it's awkward for girls

0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:02.160
<v Speaker 1>sometimes to be taller than a boy because all these

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:05.479
<v Speaker 1>weird societal norms, you know, societal norms that are not

0:26:05.520 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 1>only weird but wrong. Of course. Um, when you're an adults,

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 1>you realize it really doesn't matter when you are going

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:17.159
<v Speaker 1>through puberty. It is the exact opposite of realizing that

0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:19.639
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter. Yeah, it seems like it matters a

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>whole whole lot. Yeah, that is not the case in reality, however,

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:27.800
<v Speaker 1>it's just what you're going through that's right hanging there. Um,

0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 1>you're also going to be gaining weight between fifteen and

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:35.600
<v Speaker 1>sixty five pounds through puberty. Um, You're extremities are gonna

0:26:35.600 --> 0:26:38.399
<v Speaker 1>grow like crazy. That's why teenage boys have these big,

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.520
<v Speaker 1>clunky feet and these unwieldy hands, and they don't know

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 1>how to operate any of them. Right, That's why there's

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 1>like this associated clumsiness with puberty. It's a real thing, totally.

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:51.560
<v Speaker 1>It's not just this um character sketch that people use

0:26:51.600 --> 0:26:56.879
<v Speaker 1>for humor, like pe pubescent boys and girls are clumsier

0:26:56.920 --> 0:26:59.480
<v Speaker 1>than any other point in their life because their hands

0:26:59.480 --> 0:27:01.720
<v Speaker 1>and feet are bigger than the rest of their body.

0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>That and then also if you ask a psychologist why

0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:08.159
<v Speaker 1>they're clumsy, um, they will say that in addition to

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:11.160
<v Speaker 1>learning how to use these new bigger hands and feet

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 1>and deal with them, you're also acutely aware. You're going

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:17.679
<v Speaker 1>through the most self conscious phase of your entire life.

0:27:18.000 --> 0:27:21.760
<v Speaker 1>So you're suddenly having thoughts like do I look weird walking?

0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 1>And when you stop and think about walking while you're walking, right,

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:30.080
<v Speaker 1>that makes walking really hard. So that to the clumsiness

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:32.679
<v Speaker 1>as well. Yeah. Again with with my nephew, No, I

0:27:32.720 --> 0:27:35.760
<v Speaker 1>remember before he was even super tall. I remember seeing

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:38.639
<v Speaker 1>these feet one time when I visited, and I was

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:46.760
<v Speaker 1>just like, what in the world it's going on down there, buddy? Yeah,

0:27:46.760 --> 0:27:48.639
<v Speaker 1>you just had these huge, huge feet and then the

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:50.960
<v Speaker 1>body catches up and then you lose that clumsiness and

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:54.680
<v Speaker 1>you're like, Okay, everything's all proportioned now. Um, your chin

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:57.119
<v Speaker 1>is gonna get a little longer, your face is changing shape,

0:27:57.440 --> 0:28:02.359
<v Speaker 1>your nose thickens up. Uh. And these are just like

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:04.920
<v Speaker 1>the physical changes. There's things going on inside your body

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:09.920
<v Speaker 1>as well. Apparently your blood pressure increases. Yeah makes sense. Yeah, Um,

0:28:09.960 --> 0:28:13.360
<v Speaker 1>your metabolism decreases some, so you're gonna start to put

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:17.160
<v Speaker 1>on a little more weight. We already talked about. Um,

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 1>the you're gonna start getting a little more stinky. And

0:28:20.280 --> 0:28:22.760
<v Speaker 1>this is all like the normal course of things. If

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 1>you start going through puberty too young, that can be

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 1>a problem. Um, Like, if if you're super young and

0:28:29.000 --> 0:28:30.960
<v Speaker 1>going through puberty, you might want to see a doctor

0:28:31.240 --> 0:28:34.160
<v Speaker 1>because this could mean things problems later in life. It's

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:40.240
<v Speaker 1>called precocious pubescence. No, but it can be caused by

0:28:40.360 --> 0:28:46.320
<v Speaker 1>everything from a tumor too well. Yeah, they they it's

0:28:46.360 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily a medical problem, but they it does suggest

0:28:50.320 --> 0:28:53.360
<v Speaker 1>This article suggests that if you do, and the Mayo

0:28:53.400 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 1>Clinic did too, that if you have a really young

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 1>kid that's starting to show signs of puberty, you might

0:28:58.120 --> 0:29:00.200
<v Speaker 1>want to just point it out to a doctor and

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:02.600
<v Speaker 1>see what they say. Right. I wonder what ages if

0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I guess of nine is early than anything before nine. Okay.

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>Another thing that's going to happen with your erections is

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 1>you might have uh, wet dreams, nocternal emission, nocturnal emissions,

0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 1>that's right. And what dreams apparently is like a very

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>common term. They used it in that nineteen fifties educational film.

0:29:24.960 --> 0:29:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I remember them saying that in my health class.

0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a sequel the porkis or something that,

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, porkies to wet dreams. Like, yeah, no, internal

0:29:32.520 --> 0:29:35.640
<v Speaker 1>emissions is I mean, it just makes sense. That's right,

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 1>And that's when stuff right there. Yeah, that one's you.

0:29:39.440 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 1>That means you're you're sleep, you have a dream. Uh

0:29:42.680 --> 0:29:46.400
<v Speaker 1>that's sexual in nature. And uh, if it's a full

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:50.640
<v Speaker 1>wet dream, that means you ejaculate in your sleep. And uh,

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>the first time that happens in your little boy, you

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 1>have no idea what's going on. Um, you just wake

0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:58.560
<v Speaker 1>up and you're like, what in the world just happened? Right,

0:29:59.000 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 1>But nothing to be ashamed do. Hopefully your parents are

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 1>talking to you about this stuff. All very normal part

0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:06.640
<v Speaker 1>of the process. Yes, just quietly take the seats off

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:09.080
<v Speaker 1>your bed and tell your parents that you've decided to

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 1>start doing your own logary from now on. Exactly. Well.

0:30:12.800 --> 0:30:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I was a late bed wedder though, so I didn't

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 1>know what the heck was going on. I was just

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 1>leaking fluids at night. I had no idea what to do.

0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 1>That's fantastic. Um. And the erections you're gonna get erections

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:30.280
<v Speaker 1>when the wind blows. Um, you might get erections in

0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:33.239
<v Speaker 1>the boys locker room. And they said that is not

0:30:33.520 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 1>a uh indicator of sexual preference. Um. It is also

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>a very normal thing that happens. Pretty much. Anything can

0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:45.920
<v Speaker 1>do that to you, So don't don't worry about that

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of thing. Again. You really should not base your

0:30:50.600 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 1>worldview and your ideas about what life is going to

0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:57.880
<v Speaker 1>be like on the period of puberty, because it is

0:30:57.920 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 1>the weirdest time of your higher life and not just yours,

0:31:02.240 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 1>either of all of your friends, of your teachers, eventually

0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>your little brothers, sisters, your parents, everybody, everybody, the weirdest

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:15.200
<v Speaker 1>time in their life is puberty. It's just a really

0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:19.280
<v Speaker 1>odd experience. All right, you want to take another break?

0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Why not? Man? All right, we'll talk about these puberty

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:40.760
<v Speaker 1>hormones when we come back. So, Chuck, we talked about

0:31:40.800 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 1>that little time bomb of a hypothalamus holding the go

0:31:44.240 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 1>at a trope and releasing hormone, and it's just waiting

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 1>for the GPR fifty four to come along and trigger

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:55.680
<v Speaker 1>its release and the g n r H gon ada

0:31:55.720 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 1>trope and releasing hormone makes its way to the pituitary gland,

0:31:58.680 --> 0:32:01.960
<v Speaker 1>which is a little peace size plan that I think

0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:04.760
<v Speaker 1>it was Descartes thought where the soul resided. Yeah, I

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:07.560
<v Speaker 1>think so. He turned out to be wrong. But that

0:32:07.760 --> 0:32:12.800
<v Speaker 1>does actually trigger the production of two other important hormones, right, um,

0:32:13.040 --> 0:32:17.800
<v Speaker 1>lutinizing hormone and follicle stimulating hormone. And these two things

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:21.160
<v Speaker 1>are that they're kind of like the chemical messengers that

0:32:21.240 --> 0:32:25.320
<v Speaker 1>go down to the gonads the testicles and say, start

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:31.080
<v Speaker 1>growing and start producing testosterone and sperm. That's right. This

0:32:31.160 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>is the process by which you become able to reproduce.

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:39.000
<v Speaker 1>This is the process by which you grow a mustache.

0:32:39.280 --> 0:32:43.080
<v Speaker 1>That's right. Uh f s h um. When it reaches

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>those testicles and it's follicle stimulating hormone that is going

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 1>to cause the growth of what are called uh seminiferous tubules,

0:32:51.640 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 1>and those are the tubes basically where the sperm is

0:32:55.480 --> 0:32:58.000
<v Speaker 1>produced and all the stuff is in your body. Again,

0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:01.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just like it's waiting on the go sign exactly.

0:33:01.360 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 1>You know. It's like this boy needs to become a man,

0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:07.040
<v Speaker 1>all right, we're just waiting for the signal and it's

0:33:07.040 --> 0:33:09.720
<v Speaker 1>gonna take sixty eight years and then another thirty to

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 1>forty years after that. Right, So with the lutinizing hormone,

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 1>that UM goes to the tests and it says, hey,

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:22.720
<v Speaker 1>there's these things called lading cells and they produce androgens,

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:26.600
<v Speaker 1>which are hormones that basically help your development as well,

0:33:26.640 --> 0:33:30.880
<v Speaker 1>including testosterone, and they say start producing this. So these

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:34.320
<v Speaker 1>two things go down and you start producing sperm and

0:33:34.400 --> 0:33:39.240
<v Speaker 1>testosterone as a result, and the sperm seeks its way

0:33:39.280 --> 0:33:42.000
<v Speaker 1>out in any way shape or former can, whether you

0:33:42.040 --> 0:33:45.880
<v Speaker 1>like it or not. And then the testosterone just spreads

0:33:45.880 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 1>throughout the body and again it does everything from making

0:33:48.280 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 1>your the bones in your face grow to making your

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:55.960
<v Speaker 1>voice crack like Peter Brady, to making you grow afoot

0:33:56.120 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 1>in a couple of years, UM, to growing mustache. That's right,

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:05.600
<v Speaker 1>not ironically either, because when you did it, when you

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:08.160
<v Speaker 1>were thirteen, you were super cool. You know who was

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:11.920
<v Speaker 1>like the best example of a pubescent boy on television?

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 1>I think do you ever watch King of the Hill? Oh? Sure,

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 1>remember Joseph. I don't remember Joseph the Dale's son, but

0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:26.200
<v Speaker 1>really was John Redcorne son. Yeah, neighbor Bobby's friend Joseph.

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:28.799
<v Speaker 1>He was awesome. He started to go through puberty, he

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:32.040
<v Speaker 1>had like that little mustache. He didn't he get mad

0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:36.360
<v Speaker 1>for reasons he couldn't explain, just perfect. He was great.

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I was a big fan of Bobby too, of course.

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:41.839
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Oh here's another cool thing. Um. We talk

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot about the physiological things that happened, the body

0:34:45.320 --> 0:34:49.560
<v Speaker 1>actually physically growing, but there's also the mind and psychological

0:34:49.640 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 1>changes that happened. And your brain is developing in such

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:56.360
<v Speaker 1>a way that it's really really neat. You're gonna start

0:34:56.400 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 1>having interest in things that you never thought you had

0:34:58.560 --> 0:35:02.320
<v Speaker 1>interest in before. Um. Yeah, not just like riding the

0:35:02.360 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 1>bike down to the creek and teasing the girls. You

0:35:05.040 --> 0:35:08.680
<v Speaker 1>start thinking about life and why some people are poor

0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>and other people are rich. Yeah, all sorts of like

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:16.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of deep stuff all of a sudden now attracts

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.239
<v Speaker 1>your attention. Yeah, and you you are going to start

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:24.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of thinking about life beyond the three ft in

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:27.360
<v Speaker 1>front of your face, right or summer vacation. Yeah, exactly,

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:31.879
<v Speaker 1>although summer vacation still rules for a while. I don't

0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:33.759
<v Speaker 1>need to discount that. No, no no, no, but you're gonna

0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:35.719
<v Speaker 1>start thinking about like maybe what do I want to

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:37.880
<v Speaker 1>do with my life? And what kind of career do

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I want? Where do I want to go to college?

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:43.479
<v Speaker 1>Like these things naturally to start popping up in your head,

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 1>and with that comes a lot of anxiety because I've

0:35:47.000 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 1>never thought about what my places in the world. Right, well,

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:54.839
<v Speaker 1>what if I don't end up being rich? What will

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:57.200
<v Speaker 1>become of me? Then? Yes, you're gonna be confused, You're

0:35:57.200 --> 0:36:00.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna be anxious. Um, you're also I'm gonna find that

0:36:00.719 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 1>you're attracted to other people. That Yeah, that's when those

0:36:06.040 --> 0:36:09.160
<v Speaker 1>first seeds are planted, and that causes anxiety in and

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:11.800
<v Speaker 1>of itself. Do they like me? Am I good looking?

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:14.280
<v Speaker 1>What is good looking? What do I look? Dumb? Walking?

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 1>Right now? Right? What is walking? Is my stash coming

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:22.480
<v Speaker 1>in thick enough? What is a statue? Yeah? And you

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:25.640
<v Speaker 1>just but it's true, like when when your brain is

0:36:25.760 --> 0:36:28.920
<v Speaker 1>bathed in androgens for the first time, they find that

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:33.080
<v Speaker 1>not only does it restructure and reorganize the way you think,

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>which is why all of a sudden you're starting to

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:37.800
<v Speaker 1>think about deeper stuff and into the future and everything,

0:36:38.000 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 1>but also the way it worked already changes. So this

0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 1>reward pathway that used to get you to go eat

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:48.880
<v Speaker 1>more blow pops because they're so great. Um, all of

0:36:48.920 --> 0:36:54.480
<v Speaker 1>a sudden is now concentrating on finding a date. So

0:36:54.719 --> 0:36:59.719
<v Speaker 1>you're you're what you place value on changes and let's

0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:02.719
<v Speaker 1>be because your brain is literally saying like, go do

0:37:02.800 --> 0:37:06.040
<v Speaker 1>this because this is gonna feel great. Yeah. I definitely

0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:09.960
<v Speaker 1>even remember when self awareness sort of kicked in. You know,

0:37:10.040 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>when you didn't just walk by a mirror all of

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:14.640
<v Speaker 1>a sudden you looked at it and you're like, well,

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:16.799
<v Speaker 1>this is what I look like? Is that is am

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I handsome? Do I look funny? Uh? I just kind

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:23.799
<v Speaker 1>of short? Is that a bad thing? Um? Yeah, it's

0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:25.880
<v Speaker 1>self awareness is the best way to describe it. And

0:37:25.920 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 1>as a result of this, depression can sid in. Sure,

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:32.759
<v Speaker 1>there's such thing as pubescent depression, which yeah, and it

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:36.040
<v Speaker 1>is in many ways. It's a very natural result of

0:37:36.120 --> 0:37:38.719
<v Speaker 1>starting to question things and realizing you don't have all

0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:42.120
<v Speaker 1>the answers and it's just things getting more complex. Yeah,

0:37:42.200 --> 0:37:44.319
<v Speaker 1>that's why it's it's very important for parents to have

0:37:44.400 --> 0:37:47.719
<v Speaker 1>a to try to have a good line of communication

0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 1>as possible, but it's going to be even more difficult

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:54.479
<v Speaker 1>because there may be possibility that you're pubescent boy didn't

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:56.239
<v Speaker 1>want anything to do with you at this point. Yeah,

0:37:56.239 --> 0:37:58.759
<v Speaker 1>there may be a chance that that's the case. Well

0:37:58.800 --> 0:38:02.879
<v Speaker 1>not always though, Um, I was or my nephew. Again,

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I hate to keep picking on him, but he's super

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:07.120
<v Speaker 1>close to my brother and my sister in law, and

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, they have a great relationship. But I'm still

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's still some bit of that teenage stuff.

0:38:13.239 --> 0:38:15.319
<v Speaker 1>And that's that's a good thing to have to for

0:38:15.400 --> 0:38:19.240
<v Speaker 1>the most part. That when the when the boy strikes

0:38:19.280 --> 0:38:21.080
<v Speaker 1>out on his own or doesn't want to have anything

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 1>to do with you, or all of a sudden, your

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:27.920
<v Speaker 1>car is stupid, so drop me off two blocks from school. Yeah,

0:38:28.000 --> 0:38:31.080
<v Speaker 1>that that shows signs of like them forming an independent

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:33.320
<v Speaker 1>spirit or whatever. Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that. You

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:39.319
<v Speaker 1>should encourage that, um and discourage them being little jerks. Thought,

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:43.920
<v Speaker 1>fine line, right, So, UM, as a parent of a

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 1>pubescent boy, Um, you you have to give leeway, but

0:38:48.120 --> 0:38:54.200
<v Speaker 1>you also have to like curtail behavior that's problematic. Yeah, absolutely, Uh,

0:38:54.239 --> 0:38:57.080
<v Speaker 1>And we mentioned depression earlier. Of course, UM, keep an

0:38:57.120 --> 0:39:00.000
<v Speaker 1>eye on that kind of stuff. And there's nothing wrong

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 1>with having your young boy or girl go get like

0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:08.200
<v Speaker 1>talk to a counselor or something. Doesn't mean there's something

0:39:08.239 --> 0:39:10.160
<v Speaker 1>wrong with you. It just means you may need a

0:39:10.160 --> 0:39:14.680
<v Speaker 1>little outside help. No, shame, no, and chuck. We should

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:17.239
<v Speaker 1>say um because somebody will right in to let us

0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:21.280
<v Speaker 1>know if we don't. What we've just described the social

0:39:21.400 --> 0:39:25.960
<v Speaker 1>and psychological development of a person that's technically adolescence, and

0:39:26.040 --> 0:39:29.960
<v Speaker 1>adolescence is this whole broad change from childhood to adulthood

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 1>and actually includes puberty as a component. So puberty is

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:36.840
<v Speaker 1>part of adolescence. Yeah, we've been using them kind of

0:39:36.840 --> 0:39:39.480
<v Speaker 1>interchangeably for the last little bit, but yeah, I think

0:39:39.480 --> 0:39:42.960
<v Speaker 1>it works. Yeah, I agree, And it can be very

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 1>trying to raise an adolescent. Um so hanging their parents.

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:50.080
<v Speaker 1>You went through it too, and before you know it,

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:53.160
<v Speaker 1>you'll all be buddies again. You you have it coming

0:39:53.200 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 1>to you basically for what you did to your period.

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:57.799
<v Speaker 1>Pretty much, all right. I think we should finish with

0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:03.399
<v Speaker 1>some pretty interesting, um male puberty rights from different cultures. Yeah,

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:07.120
<v Speaker 1>here in America, when you enter puberty and your boy

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:10.480
<v Speaker 1>your dad just gives you this kind of awkward punch

0:40:10.560 --> 0:40:13.319
<v Speaker 1>in the arm and walks away, and I hope you

0:40:13.360 --> 0:40:15.920
<v Speaker 1>don't bring it up ever. Again, that's the right of

0:40:15.960 --> 0:40:19.000
<v Speaker 1>passage for puberty in America. Yeah, that's kind of what

0:40:19.040 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 1>happened to me. Um. If you're Islamic, your parents are

0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:28.480
<v Speaker 1>going to teach their sons um adulthood and basically say

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 1>that from the time you have your first ejaculation is

0:40:32.160 --> 0:40:35.319
<v Speaker 1>when you are responsible for your own actions. Yeah. I

0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:37.560
<v Speaker 1>guess you have a little more leeway before that. Yeah,

0:40:37.760 --> 0:40:42.279
<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Um. If you are Jewish, you might have

0:40:42.320 --> 0:40:45.440
<v Speaker 1>a bar mitzvah on your thirteenth birthday. Well, whether you

0:40:45.480 --> 0:40:48.280
<v Speaker 1>like it or not, you officially are a bar mitzvah,

0:40:48.360 --> 0:40:52.799
<v Speaker 1>a son of the Commandment. That's right, um. But there

0:40:53.320 --> 0:40:56.799
<v Speaker 1>new traditions have developed where like you do starting at

0:40:56.880 --> 0:41:00.440
<v Speaker 1>the synagogue and then your party afterward. But you're just

0:41:00.520 --> 0:41:05.440
<v Speaker 1>automatically on your thirdteenth birthday, that's right. Have you? Um?

0:41:05.600 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you watch Sharing out Live? Have you ever seen

0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Jacob the bar mitz a boy? No, it's really cute.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:13.480
<v Speaker 1>It's uh is it new? No, she's been around for

0:41:13.480 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 1>a while. It's a woman who Vanessa Bear does it though.

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:17.759
<v Speaker 1>She has a little curly wig and a and a

0:41:17.840 --> 0:41:20.520
<v Speaker 1>yamaka and sits down low in the chair and the

0:41:20.560 --> 0:41:23.920
<v Speaker 1>whole concept of The skid is that she UM is

0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 1>this awkward bar mits of a boy who can only

0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:29.279
<v Speaker 1>read like a prepared speech, and so they'll ask her

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:31.600
<v Speaker 1>questions and she'll just kind of bat her eyes and

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:35.080
<v Speaker 1>then start reading from her prepared speech again, and she's

0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:37.040
<v Speaker 1>like a New Yorker and it's it's really very cute

0:41:37.040 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 1>and funny. So Chuck, you know, we did a pretty

0:41:39.600 --> 0:41:43.400
<v Speaker 1>good episode on circumcision. Yeah, a male circumcision. We didn't

0:41:43.440 --> 0:41:48.520
<v Speaker 1>do female circumcision yet, UM, but in in that episode

0:41:48.520 --> 0:41:51.839
<v Speaker 1>we talked mostly about Western circumcision, but and a lot

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:56.360
<v Speaker 1>of cultures, including Malaysia and some parts of South Africa.

0:41:56.920 --> 0:42:01.480
<v Speaker 1>UM circumcision is part of the ritual of entering puberty,

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:05.920
<v Speaker 1>so you'll be circumcised when you're like eleven twelve, UM,

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>and it might be part of a larger ceremony as well.

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Like UM. Aborigines in Australia UM perform circumcision at puberty,

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:22.800
<v Speaker 1>but it's also paired with UM what's called a walk about. Yeah,

0:42:22.840 --> 0:42:25.799
<v Speaker 1>when they're sent out to walk right, basically they're like,

0:42:25.880 --> 0:42:28.680
<v Speaker 1>you go away from us and go learn to hunt

0:42:28.680 --> 0:42:32.720
<v Speaker 1>and survive on your own, but first we have UM

0:42:32.800 --> 0:42:35.680
<v Speaker 1>to do something to you. Yeah, well they also have

0:42:35.840 --> 0:42:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and I was trying to find out how if this

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:41.440
<v Speaker 1>is still done with great regularity. But they also the

0:42:41.440 --> 0:42:46.879
<v Speaker 1>Aborigines practice male birth control rituals. So after circumcision, they

0:42:46.920 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 1>will pierce a hole through the base of the penis

0:42:51.440 --> 0:42:54.880
<v Speaker 1>put a splinter in there to keep that hole open.

0:42:56.000 --> 0:43:01.759
<v Speaker 1>So basically you urinate and ejaculate not through the end

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.400
<v Speaker 1>of your penis, but through this hole, which makes it

0:43:04.440 --> 0:43:08.640
<v Speaker 1>really hard to reproduce. And uh, I imagine it does

0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:10.799
<v Speaker 1>make it hard to reproduce. Yeah, And I don't know

0:43:11.760 --> 0:43:15.719
<v Speaker 1>if this is like what the modern Aborigines do or

0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 1>if it's just an ancient custom. It's like there are

0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:22.200
<v Speaker 1>one child policy. Oh maybe so, I guess then when

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:25.080
<v Speaker 1>you pull the splinter out, it heals up enough to

0:43:25.160 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 1>restore reproduct Well, now the splinter is pulled out and

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 1>there's a permanent hole there, so then how how do

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:37.160
<v Speaker 1>you reproduce? Well, you plug it up with your finger,

0:43:37.200 --> 0:43:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I think compared to that, I'm sure if you're a

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Pueblo boy, you're like, oh, I just have to take

0:43:42.480 --> 0:43:45.399
<v Speaker 1>an ice bath, let's do it exactly, which is one

0:43:45.400 --> 0:43:48.959
<v Speaker 1>of their rituals. Um there's a tribe called the Toro

0:43:49.080 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 1>tribe of Papa Papua New Guinea, and they have um

0:43:54.920 --> 0:44:00.200
<v Speaker 1>forced homosexuality as part of the rights of passive for

0:44:00.280 --> 0:44:03.560
<v Speaker 1>a boy. What you essentially do is a boy is

0:44:03.600 --> 0:44:08.319
<v Speaker 1>paired with an elder man and they ingest semen and

0:44:08.400 --> 0:44:10.960
<v Speaker 1>that is part of the ritual to become a man

0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 1>from a boy with this tribe, so they just drink.

0:44:14.400 --> 0:44:17.759
<v Speaker 1>There's no sexual act. There's drinking of sperm. Oh no,

0:44:18.080 --> 0:44:21.040
<v Speaker 1>there's it's it's with the sexual act and then later

0:44:21.080 --> 0:44:24.719
<v Speaker 1>on you were paired as a man with another boy. Uh.

0:44:24.760 --> 0:44:26.440
<v Speaker 1>And that is I mean, it's a tribe of like

0:44:26.480 --> 0:44:29.839
<v Speaker 1>thirteen hundred people in Papua New Guinea and they become

0:44:29.840 --> 0:44:32.600
<v Speaker 1>a mentor. They believe that in the semen is your

0:44:32.840 --> 0:44:37.600
<v Speaker 1>most concentrated life force. So that has passed along to

0:44:37.719 --> 0:44:41.920
<v Speaker 1>a boy. I had not heard that one either. Um.

0:44:41.960 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 1>There's a tribe in East Africa where they shaved the

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:48.120
<v Speaker 1>boy's head and then cut them to the bone on

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:51.560
<v Speaker 1>their forehead, three deep horizontal cuts and they have a

0:44:51.600 --> 0:44:54.600
<v Speaker 1>scar called a gar and it's a symbol of manhood

0:44:55.600 --> 0:44:59.799
<v Speaker 1>lying on aunt beds. The Luceno Indian tribe um when

0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:03.160
<v Speaker 1>you become a manure too complete the ceremonial act of

0:45:03.560 --> 0:45:06.160
<v Speaker 1>laying on an ant bed and being you know, bitten

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:08.840
<v Speaker 1>and stung by ants without reacting. You just have to

0:45:08.880 --> 0:45:13.840
<v Speaker 1>keep like a stone face. Wow, that's one of their rituals. Um.

0:45:13.880 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 1>And they also are given a hallucinogenic drug to exacerbate

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 1>it or make it better. You think, No, this is afterward,

0:45:20.560 --> 0:45:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I think called tolo kahi, and that's supposed to help

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:27.560
<v Speaker 1>them see visions. Um. I guess it's kind of similar

0:45:27.600 --> 0:45:31.200
<v Speaker 1>to the vision quest of the Native American, which is

0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:33.560
<v Speaker 1>the thing too. Yeah. So those are some of the

0:45:33.600 --> 0:45:38.080
<v Speaker 1>more interesting ones thanks to correct magazine and um, do

0:45:38.120 --> 0:45:42.680
<v Speaker 1>you remember I gave up cultural relativism in some respects. Yeah,

0:45:42.719 --> 0:45:44.960
<v Speaker 1>but I also it's not really I don't feel like

0:45:45.000 --> 0:45:48.359
<v Speaker 1>it's my roller position to persuade other people to feel

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:51.200
<v Speaker 1>one way or the other about something. It's at the individual.

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I hear you. I got one more. The the m

0:45:54.239 --> 0:45:58.520
<v Speaker 1>A t I s the matisse or madis hunting trials. Uh.

0:45:58.560 --> 0:46:02.759
<v Speaker 1>This tribe, it's a Brazilian ribe. Um. When they send

0:46:02.800 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>their boys out to become in and hunt for the

0:46:04.400 --> 0:46:07.680
<v Speaker 1>first time, they put a bitter poison in their eyes

0:46:08.200 --> 0:46:13.239
<v Speaker 1>that's supposed to improve their vision and enhance their senses. Uh.

0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:16.080
<v Speaker 1>And if that wasn't enough, there's a series of beatings

0:46:16.080 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 1>and whippings that take place to make you a man.

0:46:19.600 --> 0:46:21.880
<v Speaker 1>And then at the end of that they burn an

0:46:21.960 --> 0:46:26.160
<v Speaker 1>area of your skin and put this ground up frog

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:29.520
<v Speaker 1>goop um and with a wooden needle. And it's a

0:46:29.560 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 1>poison that's supposed to increase your strength and endurance. So

0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:37.040
<v Speaker 1>I guess that Western American like light punched the arm,

0:46:37.120 --> 0:46:40.120
<v Speaker 1>we got a pretty good symbolism of all this other stuff.

0:46:40.480 --> 0:46:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll take that. But it's true boys are treated roughly

0:46:43.880 --> 0:46:48.799
<v Speaker 1>and definitely more rougher than girls are around the world. Absolutely,

0:46:49.719 --> 0:46:54.239
<v Speaker 1>although I saw some of the girls puberty rituals and

0:46:54.280 --> 0:46:57.359
<v Speaker 1>some of those aren't pretty either. Yeah, well we need

0:46:57.400 --> 0:46:59.960
<v Speaker 1>to cover that absolutely. We need to do female circum

0:47:00.000 --> 0:47:05.399
<v Speaker 1>decision and um, female puberty. I guess agreed. Well, those

0:47:05.440 --> 0:47:08.520
<v Speaker 1>will be coming right up, I'm sure. Uh. If you

0:47:08.680 --> 0:47:11.880
<v Speaker 1>want to know more about male puberty, you can type

0:47:11.880 --> 0:47:14.879
<v Speaker 1>those words in the search bart how stuff works dot com.

0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 1>And since I said search bar, it's time for a

0:47:17.320 --> 0:47:23.120
<v Speaker 1>listener and mail. I'm gonna call this coincidence. We get

0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:25.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of these where people experience coincidence is related

0:47:25.960 --> 0:47:29.000
<v Speaker 1>to what they're listening to. Um. And this is from

0:47:29.080 --> 0:47:32.680
<v Speaker 1>Andrew and Ohio. He said on December thirte That was

0:47:32.719 --> 0:47:34.400
<v Speaker 1>on the way home from work, and as I do

0:47:34.480 --> 0:47:36.680
<v Speaker 1>every morning, I'm sorry. On the way to work, I

0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:38.719
<v Speaker 1>load you guys up on my phone and I'm taking

0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:42.640
<v Speaker 1>to some learning adventure. Today's adventure was how broken bones work.

0:47:42.920 --> 0:47:45.359
<v Speaker 1>So I'm listening and thinking, Uh, you guys start talking

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:48.600
<v Speaker 1>about you've never broken a bone before, and I start thinking,

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:50.960
<v Speaker 1>neither of I and you guys both say knock on

0:47:51.000 --> 0:47:55.200
<v Speaker 1>wood exactly, and I think I don't need a knock

0:47:55.200 --> 0:47:57.160
<v Speaker 1>what it won't happen to me. I get to work,

0:47:57.239 --> 0:48:01.520
<v Speaker 1>still listening, walking towards the back of my walking towards

0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:02.959
<v Speaker 1>the back of the box in my hand, I trip

0:48:03.040 --> 0:48:05.279
<v Speaker 1>on the carpet fall and punched the ground with my

0:48:05.360 --> 0:48:10.160
<v Speaker 1>right hand. He broke his pinky bone clean into um,

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:12.239
<v Speaker 1>sort of where the palm of the hand is like

0:48:12.320 --> 0:48:14.680
<v Speaker 1>the bone just below the pinky. And he sent me

0:48:14.760 --> 0:48:16.640
<v Speaker 1>a picture and it was just snapped like a twig

0:48:17.320 --> 0:48:19.400
<v Speaker 1>and the break was so bad I had to have

0:48:19.480 --> 0:48:21.920
<v Speaker 1>surgery to put two screws in a plate in to

0:48:22.000 --> 0:48:24.560
<v Speaker 1>hold the bone together. As a healed um. As of now,

0:48:24.600 --> 0:48:26.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty much held up a whist, some feeling in

0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:29.160
<v Speaker 1>the pinky, some range of motion, but I can say

0:48:29.160 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I've got a titanium plate in my hand, so I

0:48:31.120 --> 0:48:33.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like it's a trade off forget iron man, I

0:48:33.640 --> 0:48:37.520
<v Speaker 1>am titanium plate handman. But she says it's a working name.

0:48:38.280 --> 0:48:40.840
<v Speaker 1>So uh, he said, Thanks a lot. Guys. If you

0:48:40.840 --> 0:48:43.239
<v Speaker 1>happen to read this, um, please shout out to my

0:48:43.320 --> 0:48:48.120
<v Speaker 1>fiance Ali Spence. We're getting married in June and I

0:48:48.160 --> 0:48:51.920
<v Speaker 1>couldn't be more excited. So that is Andrew Hall of Wooster, Ohio.

0:48:52.239 --> 0:48:57.560
<v Speaker 1>So congratulations Ali, and Andrew, congratulation. Watch where you're going, buddy. Yeah,

0:48:57.680 --> 0:49:00.839
<v Speaker 1>and don't tempt fate man. Nope, I don't need to knock.

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:05.560
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0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:09.480
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