WEBVTT - Six Shocking Stories - Fava Beans and a Nice Chianti 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:13.800 Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:23.479 Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows Death. Let's get 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:26.360 started with this week's six shocking stories. 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:28.760 So I don't even want to start off with what 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:30.880 this one's called because they don't want to give it 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.760 away because it will just ruin the outrageous nature of 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:36.640 this case. So, this forty eight year old guy was 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:40.519 riding his motorcycle crashed into a truck. Investigators and the 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:43.120 driver of the truck found that the accident was odd 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:46.440 because the guy on the motorcycle clearly had enough opportunities 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:49.440 to turn away. He hit the truck dead on. They 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.400 didn't know what happened. They're like, he just The truck 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.320 driver just said it came out of nowhere. He wasn't 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:58.400 expecting it because of all these other factors. So with this, 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:00.960 with this info, they decided they need to look further 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:02.840 into the case and try to decide if it was 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.080 purely an accident or a suicide attempt because it just 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:10.039 seems so bizarre. So in interviews, they had determined that 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:13.680 this guy had had body dysmorphia stemming back into his thirties. 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:16.720 He suffered from what's called small penis syndrome. Do you 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:18.640 want to explain what that is because it kind of 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:19.320 sounds fake. 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.440 I know, I couldn't even believe this was a real thing. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:27.800 But it's also referred to as penile dysmorphic syndrome or disorder, 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:31.640 and it's a subcategory. I think that now with all 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:33.640 the plastic surgery and stuff we hear about on the news, 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:36.959 we hear about body dysmorphic syndrome a lot, and this 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:40.759 is kind of a subcategory of it, where men feel 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:44.360 like their penis size is too small, even though their 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:47.600 penis size is completely normal. They just have this distorted 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:52.000 view of what it really looks like. Yeah, so why, 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.840 I guess you're asking, like, why is this relevant? 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:57.160 Right? So they're trying to figure out what was going 0:01:57.200 --> 0:01:58.600 on in this guy's head. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:02.720 Yeah, and trying to see because just based on the 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:06.280 testimony of the truck driver, they're trying to see if 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:09.639 he was suicidal. So it looked like he was suffering 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.960 from this syndrome. And it became so bad that his 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:16.040 job as a police officer was affected, and he lost 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:19.800 his job as a police officer and became estranged from 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:22.880 his wife and children. So it was that bad, all right, 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:26.240 So let's get to the autopsy. So first I want 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:29.280 to ask you, when you guys get a body that 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:33.120 is clothed, is it part of the external exam to 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.200 take the clothes off or it is like an assistant 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:36.880 do it and then you guys come in and look 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:37.280 at the butt. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:38.120 How does it work? 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:39.680 Yeah? 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:42.520 So in the hospital, obviously we always get someone that's 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:46.399 wearing a hospital gown or they're naked in the body bag. 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:48.960 That's how we get them there. But at the medical 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:52.920 examiner's office, people come in how they're found dead, So 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:56.480 we would describe exactly what clothes they're wearing, and if 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:59.480 there was any kind of damage or anything to the clothes. 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.120 You know, if somebody gets shot, you would obviously sometimes 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:08.480 see a gunshot entry or or exit through the clothes. 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:10.720 So it's important to document all that kind of stuff 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:14.120 and also just tells you a little bit about the 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.240 condition the person was living in. Like sometimes if a 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:20.520 person is wearing pants that clearly haven't been washed in weeks, 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.920 that are soaked with urine, they might they might be homeless, 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:25.960 or they might have some kind of a mental issue 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:27.800 that would cause them to be living in that kind 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:31.640 of condition. But yeah, we I mean, at some point 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.400 we have to take off their clothes to do the autopsy. 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:37.960 So that would be something when when I was interning 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.920 at the Medical Examiner's office, that's something that we actually 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:41.880 did as students. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:43.040 That was our job. 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.160 Or we would help the investigators or the text working 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:50.400 there do that. And it's it is kind of difficult 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.560 to undress a dead body because they don't cooperate with you, 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:57.720 obviously in their literal dead weight. So yeah, but we 0:03:57.760 --> 0:03:59.920 would we would take we would describe the clothes and 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:00.920 then take them off. 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.440 And I assume you can't just well, depending on the 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.240 state of the body, I assume you can't just like 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.960 cut them off. You have to actually try to preserve them. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.360 I don't know, we will cut them off sometimes, I 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:14.840 don't think. I mean, if your family member died and 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:17.599 was living in their decomp juice, do you really want 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:18.320 that shirt back? 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:18.920 You know what I mean. 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:22.480 It's I'm not sure. I never even I don't really know. 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:24.800 What happened at the Medical Examiner's office because it was 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:26.200 such a long time ago that I was. 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:29.599 There what they did with the clothes, But if we 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:32.120 ever had I'm trying to think. 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.280 We don't. I don't think I've ever had a situation 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:38.039 in the hospital where a person had personal clothing on, 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:41.680 with the exception of a ring or jewelry here and there, 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.920 which we would definitely make sure goes back to the family. 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:48.520 But I don't know what they do with the clothes there. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:50.839 They probably get rid of them because they're soiled in 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:54.360 body fluids, like a biohazard bag or something. All right, 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:57.240 So keep what we were talking about earlier in mind, 0:04:57.320 --> 0:05:00.040 with what's going on in his brain. So they we 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.640 start undressing him, I assume, on the table, and when 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:06.039 it gets to his pants, they take his pants off 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:09.279 and find the most shocking thing of all in this story. 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:15.479 So he has this giant fake penis attached to his body. 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:19.159 And you have to see the picture of it, because 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:24.000 that's what makes it so shocking, because it looks so ridiculous. 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:25.039 It looks homemade. 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.800 It was huge, it was ten inches long, so and 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.680 it's the it doesn't match his skin color. 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.480 It has this fake pubic. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:39.799 Hair kind of hot glued onto it, and the most 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.839 odd part of it is it's attached around his hip 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:47.040 by a wire that is similar to the thickness of 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:50.680 like a chain link fence. This it looks horribly uncomfortable 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:53.080 to think about wearing something like that around your waist 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:57.799 and wow, it imagine how shocked they were to find 0:05:57.839 --> 0:05:59.840 that when they undressed his body. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:03.320 Yeah, and ultimately, with all the information they had about 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.240 his mental health and everything, they couldn't determine if he 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.720 made suicidal attempts in the past. So I guess this 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.919 got ruled an accident, right, Yeah, I. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:16.400 Mean he didn't have any I don't know, because I 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.719 think that if he was suffering from such a mental 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:22.360 disorder like this and then they found this thing and 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:26.159 then his family he was estranged from his family, lost 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:30.120 his job, I would say he was dealing with documented 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:33.520 mental health issues, but he never really made the claim 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:37.239 that he had a suicidal ideation. So I'm not sure 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:40.560 where the threshold for that is. That that would probably 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:44.560 be based upon the medical examiner who's signing out the autopsy. 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:48.200 But this really has nothing to do with his cause 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.440 of death. He had a broken skull and a brain 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:55.400 bleed from the motorcycle accident, so his cause of death 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:58.240 was due to that. It's just more talking about the 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:02.240 manner of death was it was it accidental or was 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:02.599 it soon? 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:06.360 I'm wondering if the fake penis like got in his 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:10.400 way and distracted him and that's why he drove into 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:14.360 the truck. I'm not sure that the thing is just 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:18.080 it is outrageously it is outrageously huge. I can't imagine 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:21.600 wearing that in your pants. And because it's not like 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:24.320 a body part on you, it's a foreign object attached 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:26.720 to your body. How it might I don't know. You're 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.320 just not used to being there, so I just don't know. 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:32.200 I feel like it could have been very distracting. 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:36.920 So at the autopsy, so this is not a typical 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:40.120 thing we do at autopsy, they measured his penis and 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:45.240 it was four inches flaccid, which is completely within the 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:47.440 normal average of a penis. So it's not like he 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:51.720 had he really had some freakishly small penis and this 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.559 is why he was he was obsessive about the size 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:59.360 of it. Being flaccid at four inches is pretty average. 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:03.240 So I'm not sure that that really had to be 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:06.480 done for this case, Like, it's kind of weird to 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.600 think about measuring someone's penis, but it was done. 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.080 Yeah, all right, Well, that one's called dildo on the dead, 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:14.200 So I guess you could assume why I didn't want 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:15.440 to spoil it at the beginning. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:19.360 Yeah, and you really need to you really need to 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:22.320 see the picture. It's it really is shocking, all right. 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:25.440 Our next one's called Bloody Barbie. So a mother was 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:27.760 in another room while her seven year old twin daughters 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.360 were taking a bath, playing with barbies in the tub. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.160 Suddenly she heard a scream from one of her daughters, 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:35.680 so she rushes in the bathroom and finds her daughter 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:39.920 squatting over a barbie doll and she's bleeding. Yeah, So 0:08:40.000 --> 0:08:42.520 the mom takes her daughter out of the bathtub and 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:45.320 lays her on the bed and then sees that she's 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:49.080 bleeding out of her vagina, so they quick she quick 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.960 brings her a child to the urgent care center, which 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:55.520 then had said, okay, what they were asking the kid like, 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:59.280 what happened, and she said that she was playing in 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:02.880 the tub with her sister when she fell and got 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:07.240 this injury. So at urgent care they decided that this 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:10.080 should be something handled more by the hospital because she 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.800 had to have an internal exam to see what was 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:17.120 going on, or a pelvic exam, which is not usual 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:19.760 to do, especially on a child. So they sent them 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:20.600 to the hospital. 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:26.040 And what's interesting about this case is that it ends 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:29.320 up being it ends up being very innocent. But from 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:34.400 the perspective of the emergency room physicians, when someone comes 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.960 in with an injury like this, they have to not 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:42.439 always take the word of the parent, because of course 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:45.840 people do really horrible things to children, so they need 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:49.160 to interview the child separately and see if they get 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.839 kind of the same exact story that the mom's giving. 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:56.240 And in this case, they interviewed this child and asked 0:09:56.280 --> 0:10:00.200 her what happened, and she said that her barbies, we're 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.920 in the bathtub. She and one of them had their 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:06.600 legs pointing to the sky, and she slipped on another 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:10.000 one of them and fell and quote, the leg of 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:13.320 the barbie went inside of her body. So the story 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:16.959 was exactly what the mom had said. And when they 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:19.360 ended up doing the pelvic exam, they saw that she 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:23.160 had a laceration in her vagina, very close to her cervix. 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:28.280 So I think the most one of the most shocking 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.760 parts of this story, or I don't know if it's 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.600 necessarily shocking, but it's just kind of a crazy picture 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:36.360 to see is that. The photo that comes along with 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:39.400 this story is a bathtub that's got five Barbie dolls 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:41.720 laying across it. One has their leg up so you 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:44.160 could see which one caused the injury, and they're covered 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:44.640 in blood. 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:47.560 Yeah. I mean, it's a really disturbing sight to see 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:50.400 children's toys in blood. This is a complete freak accident. 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:54.840 It's so bizarre that it happened this way. I always 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:57.680 think of kids, just like, you know, when the girls 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:00.080 were like taking baths and stuff, they'd just be like 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:02.599 crazy in there. I'm like, dude, you're gonna fall. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:04.280 Be careful. Oh yeah, I know. 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:08.000 And my kids used to play with the barbies and 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:09.880 there was a point, remember there was a point that 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:11.760 there was like ten of them in the bathtub. 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:12.440 Oh my god. 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:15.440 And I let them do it. 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:18.120 And then after a couple of days, I was just like, dude, 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.400 we can't do this anymore because the fact that they're 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:22.640 sitting there and they're wet and they're drying out. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:23.920 Is just not good. 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.040 It could I can't because barbies aren't really meant to 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:30.679 be in the bathtub, so water could get into weird places, 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:33.760 and then that's when mold and bacteria and stuff could grow, 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:36.600 and you don't want your girls, especially like sitting in 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.319 a tub full of all of that junk when their 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:42.120 privates are exposed to that, you know what I mean? 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.760 Yeah, And I remember you kind of skiv it out. 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:48.440 You had one of those like you know, bar or 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:52.120 table tray, whatever it's called, that would go across the bathtub, 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.600 and it was just filled with their toys. I feel 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.439 like it would take longer to clean up afterworth than 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:00.240 the bath itself. And I don't know, they were just 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:02.880 always being crazy. Then they throw them on the floor, 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:04.840 so when you walk in, you're about to slip on 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:07.520 the toys too, and then they're You're like, cool, They're 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.800 gonna watch me crack my skull open right in front 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:10.120 of them. 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:15.600 Actually something I was just thinking about that. Remember a 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.440 couple of months ago, I was going to get in 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:21.600 the bathtub, so I have like a I have a 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:25.040 regular bathtub, Yeah, and I lift my leg over the 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:29.400 edge to get into the bathtub and I slid, like 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:32.600 my foot that was in the bathtub slid and did 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.920 like a split, but my other leg was still on 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:37.760 the other side of the vat tub and I was like, 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:42.200 what the fuck is this greasy shit all over the 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:46.040 bottom of the bathtub. So I get I have a huge, 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:50.880 I'm talking like at least six inch in diameter hematoma 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:52.680 on the side of my thigh now from. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:53.920 Banging against the vat tub. 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.520 And I know, like I one hundred percent know what 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:00.559 child is responsible for this. So I go out of 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:03.559 the shower and I'm like, I go up to lucea, dude, 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:05.920 what did you put in a shower? Did you like 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:09.679 pour a bottle of olive oil on the floor or whatever? 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:12.280 And She's like, no, it's lotion, Like duh. And I 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:14.679 was like, why would you bring lotion in the bathtub? 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:17.840 You know? So so, yeah, that's what happened, and that 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:19.280 was really hard to get up. You know. 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:21.560 The best is she said she always did it, and 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.000 You're like, you certainly have never done this before. 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:29.480 No exactly, but I just don't. They always just they're always. 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.520 Trying to reinvent the wheel, like soap isn't good enough, 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.200 Let me try to use lotion or whatever, and You're 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:38.040 just like, dude, so and she was like, oh, what 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:39.040 did they say now when. 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:39.760 They make a mistake? 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:45.080 Yeah, so that's that. Yeah, Oh my god. All right, 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:47.959 So this next one's called a fava beans and a 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:51.960 nice kiante. So I don't know if everybody's familiar with 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.959 that pop culture reference, but it's from Silence of the Lambs, 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:59.000 the scariest movie ever. I mean, even though scary movies 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:00.960 have come out after that, don't you feel like that 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:04.720 still holds up as one of the scariest movies. I 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:08.960 think it's scary because it's first it's semi based on 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.800 real events or you know, a combination of different people, 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:17.600 but it's very it seems like it could be very real, 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:21.000 and that's why it's it's so scary, Yeah, because there 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:24.400 are people that are that crazy, that do shit to people, 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:26.840 and it's just freaks you out thinking. I mean, I 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:29.520 think it's just so well made that even it's one 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:31.760 of those movies that I've seen a hundred times, but 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:34.640 every time I still have that like anxiety building up to, 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.840 you know, this confrontation scene towards the end of it. 0:14:37.920 --> 0:14:41.120 So I don't know, the whole thing just gives me 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.600 out so bad. But police got to call that a 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:46.960 sixty five year old homeless man in Miami was being attacked, 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.760 So it took them eighteen minutes to get to the scene, 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.600 don't you feel it. That's kind of a long time. 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:55.240 No, I just think I don't know if it took 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:58.440 eighteen minutes. I know that when they arrived they thought 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:02.320 that the guy was having what was happening to this 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:04.840 guy was going on for eighteen minutes, but I'm not 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:08.560 sure if he was not. I don't know who called 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:12.040 nine one one in this situation, so maybe it just 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:13.960 was that was a delay as well. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.640 Okay, so when they got there, they were surprised that 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:22.200 this attacker was eating this guy's face. Yeah, he was 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:28.080 apparently high on a psychoactive substance and he was eating 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:31.200 his face, literally eating his face covered in blood like 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:35.600 Hannibal Lecter style. And they were saying that it was 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:37.600 being done up to eighteen minutes. So I don't know 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:40.800 if witnesses at the scene solid or whatever happened. Because 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:44.480 think about this, like the guy's homeless. So you have 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:47.560 people that are just walking by around and then you 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:52.360 look across and see someone eating someone's face. It might 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:54.480 take you a couple minutes to be like, what the 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:57.840 hell is going on here? Oh my god, this is bad, 0:15:57.960 --> 0:15:59.720 Like I have to call nine on one, Like it 0:15:59.880 --> 0:16:02.520 just you don't see that every day. I'm trying to say, 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.720 I truly cannot imagine witnessing something like this. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.080 That's why we want you guys to share your stories 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:14.760 with us, because there's somebody that witnesses these things and 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:17.120 we want it. We just got to go one today actually, 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.360 but just right before we started recording, so we'll do 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:22.440 that one next week, but we are we really do 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.840 want to know if you guys have ever witnessed anything 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:25.800 insane like this. 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:29.320 Yeah, So, as if this guy's face getting eaten off 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.520 is not enough, the cops are having the hardest time 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:34.640 trying to get the attacker off of him, so they 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:37.360 had to resort to shooting him. So they shot him twice, 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:40.160 but unfortunately the victim got shot twice as well. The 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:43.000 attacker did end up dying, but you know, the other 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:46.400 guys survive. So he not only has his phase eaten off, 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.360 but he goes blind and he shot twice, all within 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:53.240 a matter of like a couple of minutes, essentially like 0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:56.960 less than an hour. A sow goes down, so he. 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:59.960 Gets to the hospital and basically all of his skins 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:04.400 and soft tissue and muscle are gone from his forehead 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:10.480 into his nose, his scalp is exposed. It's it's just 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:13.320 so shocking, even to the doctors that are there. His 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:17.920 what is left of his eyeball. So apparently this, this 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.960 person that attacked him ate one of his eyeballs and 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:22.720 there was like kind of a piece of it left, 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:26.400 but he was blind. They were not able to salvage 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:30.320 his eyeballs, and they were able to stabilize him and 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:34.240 keep him alive, and they wanted to give him They 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.479 met up with a bunch of surgeons and created a 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:40.000 team so they were able to reconstruct his face and 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:42.360 they so they thought maybe we could get on prosthetic 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:45.320 eyes and a prosthetic nose, and he declined to have 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:46.960 any more intervention at that point. 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:50.600 He declined it. But he ended up recovering pretty okay 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:53.000 within a month of this happening, and he went on 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:55.280 to live in the facility. He was working with an 0:17:55.280 --> 0:17:59.160 occupational therapist. He learned how to feed himself, get dressed again, 0:17:59.200 --> 0:18:01.600 and he's even playing guitar, which is kind of cool. 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:04.679 Yeah, that is really cool. I'm glad. 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:07.679 It seems like such a horrible thing, but maybe it 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:10.840 almost It gave him kind of a new lease on 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:14.560 life and he you know, he was able to enjoy 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:16.760 the rest of his life like that, you know what 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:18.800 I mean. I think it's kind of cool. If if 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:20.959 he was just homeless and stuff, it might have just 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:23.520 been you know, sometimes people have to have this like 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:28.320 near death experience to get their stuff together a little 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:28.800 bit more, you know. 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:34.240 Yeah, absolutely, all right. Our next one is one of 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:38.080 the wildest deer Abbey submissions I've ever seen. So a 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:41.000 person wrote into deer abby which is an advice column, 0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:43.760 so you could write in and get advice. So they 0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:47.440 had a pretty complicated predicament. They said they were close 0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:50.360 with their neighbors, and their neighbors had three adult children, 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:53.359 so the parents wanted to have more of a friendly 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:56.320 dynamic with the kids, not as harsh parenting. I feel 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:58.320 like you and I have a pretty good balance of that, 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.880 where like we're best friends, but at the same time 0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:03.520 you know where to step in and be my parent 0:19:03.640 --> 0:19:06.240 and discipline me over my life. I mean, not that 0:19:06.280 --> 0:19:07.359 you've had to do that much of it. 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:10.280 And it's the same with your Yeah, well well you're 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:12.800 you were kind of an easy kid, but I it's 0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:15.200 the same with the kids now. Like I had I 0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:16.920 I try to be friends with them. I want them 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:18.439 to come to me and like want to hang out 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:19.919 with me and want to be around me. But at 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:21.480 the same time, like you got to keep them in 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.560 line a little bit, you know. Yeah, so these people 0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:25.359 and still have to keep your kids in line even 0:19:25.400 --> 0:19:29.680 when they're thirty years old. There's no time that there's 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:32.199 no time to cut that off, you know, because the 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:35.080 only way you get better in life is if people 0:19:35.200 --> 0:19:38.919 are constantly checking you and putting you in your putting 0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:41.240 you in your place, right cause if you always have 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:43.520 somebody that's like you're the best, I agree with you, 0:19:43.520 --> 0:19:45.159 you're just gonna suck as a person, you know. 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:47.160 I mean we've been talking about that theme a lot 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:49.040 over the last couple of weeks, just how we're like 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:52.919 thankful our husbands, you know, are very much okay with 0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:56.160 telling us when we did something wrong and we suck. Yeah, 0:19:56.200 --> 0:19:58.760 but you need that in your life because, like you said, 0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:00.960 if somebody's you know, just telling you you're the best 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:03.080 thing in the world, you're just gonna become a monster 0:20:03.200 --> 0:20:05.760 and just not know how to treat anybody, or you're 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:09.879 gonna just be totally negligent like these people. So basically 0:20:09.920 --> 0:20:12.240 one of their kids who was nineteen years old. She 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:15.560 was having a severe drug and alcohol problem. The parents 0:20:15.600 --> 0:20:17.439 had been called one night because she was at a 0:20:17.440 --> 0:20:20.600 friend's house and she was absolutely melting down having a 0:20:20.640 --> 0:20:23.480 freak out. They had to go pick her up, so 0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:27.199 on the way back, they call this neighbor and they're like, 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:30.160