1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: All right. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: and more. Please, baby, please, baby baby, Please submit your 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: on there, just like I didn't. I didn't get to 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: do this last week's. Sure buckle up and hold on tight. 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: We got it for you here it is from letters. Okay, 9 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: we'll revisit that in a second. You know, Steve, you 10 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: don't want to answer, cuts me out. I'm out, all right, 11 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: all that, thank you, nephew. Subject my husband needs to 12 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: learn a few things. Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband and 13 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: I have been married for four years and the sex 14 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 1: is terrible. We dated for two years before we got married, 15 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: and we agreed to wait until our wedding night to 16 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: have sex for the first time. I was focused on 17 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: us having a great friendship as well as a spiritual connection, 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: which would lead to a great sex life. He romanced 19 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: to me and did things to me physically that satisfied me, 20 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: so I just knew he was going to be a 21 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,639 Speaker 1: great lover whenever he got freaky. He'd tell me all 22 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: the things he was going to do to me. I 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: had no reason to think he was as inexperienced as 24 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: he is. I found out on our wedding night that 25 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: he had only had sex twice, and his last girlfriend 26 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: with hell sex from him for religious reasons. He couldn't 27 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: do half of the stuff he told me he was 28 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: going to do to me. He tried to get the 29 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: party started, if you know what I mean, and then 30 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: he got so overheated that it was finished before it started. 31 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: I have taught him all that I can about positions 32 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: and what turns me on, but he is not able 33 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: to last long enough to try them. I have a 34 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: high sex drive, so I end up finishing on my own. 35 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: This man is only twenty nine and I'm twenty eight, 36 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: so I need him to get some help with his 37 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: inability to perform before this ruins our marriage. I suggested 38 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: that he I suggested that he talked to some of 39 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: his friends or a doctor about ways to improve sexually, 40 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: and he blamed me for being overly experienced and impatient 41 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: with him. I was celibate two years before the wedding, 42 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: and I have suffered through four years of bad sex 43 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: so I'm not the one with the problem. I need 44 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: that intimate connection with my husband. How can I help 45 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: him be a better man in the bedroom without making 46 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 1: him feel like he's a total loser? All right? First 47 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: of all, I got to commend you because you withhell 48 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: sex until marriage. Now, Biblically, you know that's what you're 49 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: supposed to do. I said that, you know from a 50 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: Christian perspective. Now I'm going to tell you that you 51 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: do have a major problem on your hands though, because 52 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: bad sex is really worse than no sex, It really is. 53 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: I mean, you get yourself all worked up. You know, 54 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: you as his wife. For years, you've been listening to 55 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: him making all those empty promises about what he was 56 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: going to do to you. Then you find out he 57 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: can't keep his promises because he's so inexperienced. But you know, 58 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: there is a problem there. There is definitely a problem. 59 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: Is the problem that he finishes before he starts, as 60 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: you say, or is it just a lack of skills? 61 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: I think it's a bit of both. It sounds like 62 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: it's both and learning to you know, please your partner 63 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: a woman that just you know, it just involves skills. 64 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: You have to be taught that. You try to teach 65 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: him that, and you know he got mad at you 66 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:44,279 Speaker 1: or blamed you. But I think being you know, premature 67 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: sexually should I think involve a doctor. You mentioned that 68 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: in a letter, some sort of professional and older gentleman 69 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: to talk to to learn what should what should you do? 70 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: What moves you should make. I think he's young. Well, 71 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: actually both of you guys are young. He's twenty nine, 72 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: you're twenty eight. You know, you guys don't have much 73 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: prior experience, so you know you can learn these things 74 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: things together. I definitely again think you need to talk 75 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: to someone, especially him. He needs to sit down and 76 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: talk to someone about this. What should he do? And 77 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: go see a doctor about his finishing before he starts 78 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: problem premature ejaculation. I think your marriage is worth it. 79 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: I don't think you want you're ready to go because 80 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: you said before it ruins our marriage. I don't think 81 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: he should be blaming you. I think the focus should 82 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: be on him. I think him blaming you is just 83 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 1: a defense mechanism. I think he's wrong for doing that. 84 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: I really do. He's just, you know, probably at his 85 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: WIT's end now because he can't please you and you 86 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: guys have been married for four years and it's a problem. 87 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: He knows it's a problem. So get some help. When 88 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: you have a problem, you should try and solve it. 89 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: Get some help with you know, someone like you said 90 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: you mentioned that in your letter. I think that's a 91 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: great idea and I think it can help your marriage. 92 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: Steve nice response. Surely, thank you. Ready, you can't come 93 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: the truth, Lord Jesus, my husband needs to learn a 94 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: few things. Well, it's later been married to her husband 95 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: for four years. This is the first line in the letter. 96 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: We've been married four years and the sex is terrible. 97 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: This is some bad sex. Fuck, you're olten the line ain't. No, 98 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: I love my husband. We've dated. He means the world 99 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: to me. He's a great father. No, I've been married 100 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: four years and the sex is terrible. Then she went 101 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: on the start. We dated two years before we got married. 102 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: Then they agreed that the way to have sex today 103 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: wed tonight. For the first time, you was focused on 104 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 1: having a great friendship as well as a spiritual connection, 105 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: which would lead to a great sex life. So you 106 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: thought that's what you thought. You figure, if we buddies 107 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: and we go to church together, we ought to have 108 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: some good sex. Were in buddy in church? Do you 109 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: see great sex? I don't see that at all. Because 110 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: you can talk, don't mean you can walk the walk 111 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: through when we come back, the walk is shoup well 112 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: at first. Two of Steve's responds coming up at twenty 113 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. My husband needs to learn 114 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: a few things is the subject. We'll get back into 115 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 116 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's 117 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters. Subject my husband needs to learn a few things. 118 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: Lady been married four years in the sexist terrible. That's 119 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: how to let us start it being waste no time. 120 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: They ain't n we're no lines in there about we 121 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: love each other, we love the Lord. Nothing. We've been 122 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: married four years of sexist terrible, full ragged as years 123 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: of sex. I've never had four years of bad sex 124 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: in my life. You got two times with me. You 125 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: got the first time. I figure, okay, just the first time. 126 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: Maybe look nervous all this year. If the next time 127 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: is bad, we through. But you're not married to that. 128 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: We through, We threw, We're not We're not getting married. 129 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: They are married. We through, it's over. We have no kids, 130 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: none of that we got. We ain't gotta go to counseling. 131 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: This ain't gonna work. Okay. So now you decided to 132 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: have weight to have sexy where night folks is having 133 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: a great friendship and spiritual connection, and you said it 134 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: would lead to great sex. My response was, that's what 135 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: you thought, nan, he goes on say he romanced me, 136 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: and he did things to me physically that satisfied me. 137 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: So I just knew he was gonna be a great lover. 138 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: What did he do pre marriage to you physically? That 139 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: was not sex that made you think the sex was 140 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: gonna be outstanding? How hard was y'all kissing? Was he 141 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: grinding in a way that made you think this fitting be? 142 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: This dude right here fitting the rock the boat? When 143 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: I let him in the ocean, I'm hif in the town? 144 00:08:52,000 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: Whoa girl? He kissed hard, he grind hard, he watching me, 145 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: it's everything well, And then you said whenever he got freaky, 146 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: he'd tell me all the things he was gonna do 147 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: to me. I had no reason to think that he 148 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: was as inexperienced as he was. See that's pre game height. 149 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: Oh you don't even understand what I'm You think that 150 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: was something? H Well, you like that right? Oh? You 151 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: think that wa that got you hot? Girl? You ain't 152 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: seen nothing. Yeah, that's just the beginning. That's just kissing. God. 153 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: That's a good girl. Girl. That ain't nothing but my 154 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:45,839 Speaker 1: grind right there, my grind game, girl, the grime game, 155 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: kissed game. Why we getting married? Watched this here? You 156 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: you immediately say I had no idea. He was inexperienced 157 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: as he was. You found out on your wedd night. 158 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: This was the wedding night it all come to a head. 159 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: You know, been at the dance. You haven't been at 160 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: the church. You didn't kissed in front of your mam 161 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: and them. You don't change your clothes, you don't had 162 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: your daddy dance. You're in the room and it's oval 163 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: foe got started. He said he had only had sex twice, 164 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: and his last girlfriend with hell sex from him for 165 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: religious regions. Oh okay, so na, see what happened? See 166 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: your man has only had church sex? What say that again? 167 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: What her man has only had church sex? See, they 168 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: didn't get it. They didn't have sex because they was 169 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: waiting until they got married. And then the girls, and 170 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: his from a girlfriend only had sex twice because she 171 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: was withholding for religious regions. So these is just people 172 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: he's seeing up at the church. Church sex way different 173 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: than club sex, how so please everything See church sex 174 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: ain't a lot of words in church sex because you 175 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 1: can't cussing with church sex. Club sex is, oh, you 176 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: all the words. It's a vulgarity. Church sex is we're sneaking. 177 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: Were supposed to be quiet. We ain't supposed to be 178 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: doing this, so you can't ask all the questions. You know, 179 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: whose is it? You know you can't be you can't 180 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: bring up no something, oh, blanking it blank. You can't 181 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 1: cuss while you're having church sex because you're not supposed 182 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: to be doing it anyway, so you ain't gonna amplify 183 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: the sin by cussing. But club sex we start with 184 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: the cussing. I've been to smack that and do that thing. 185 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: Get it up in this hill. When you get this, oh, 186 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna understand. See that's the difference. So he 187 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: just had church sex, so now and then as soon 188 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: as he get overheated. It was finished before it started. 189 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: I taught him all the positions and what turns me on, 190 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: but he ain't able to last long enough to try 191 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: to him. I got a high sex drive, and I 192 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 1: end up finishing on my own. This man twenty nine, 193 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight. He's already been four years. Yeah, I 194 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: ain't got four more of this hill. Steve Shannon helped me. 195 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come back with part three of this letter 196 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 1: because I have some actual help. I got something he 197 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: can try because you said you introspect him to talk 198 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: to a doctor or his friends. He can't even bring 199 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: this up to his friends. He's got to do something. 200 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 1: He fell us. I can't please my woman. And what 201 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: do you suggest I do? We're done, all right, we 202 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: want me to do it for you. We're gonna have 203 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 1: part three of this Strawberry letter coming up. Okay. The 204 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: subject is my husband needs to learn a few things. 205 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: We'll be back for part three coming up right after this. 206 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve. So this is part three 207 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: of Today's Struggleries. And I don't normally do this. I 208 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: needs to learn a few things. Yes see, she demanded 209 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: this man, the church dude. They with hell sex to 210 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: the night and it ain't good. It's been four years 211 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: of terrible sex, and she need helping. She trying to 212 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: show him all these positions and what turned her own 213 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: or he's upset about that too. In the letter, I 214 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: didn't mention he can do half the stuff he told 215 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: me he was going to do. I taught him all 216 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: I can about positions and what turned me on, but 217 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: he ain't able to last long enough to triumph. Damn talk, 218 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: I got a high sex drive, so I end up 219 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: finishing on my own. So I need him to some 220 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: help with his inability before this ruined a marriage, and 221 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 1: then talk to a doctor as his friends about ways 222 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: to improve sexually. Now hit a part. He blamed me 223 00:13:55,320 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: for being overly experienced and impatient with him. I was 224 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: celibate two years before the wedding, and I'm suffering through 225 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: four years of bad sex. This four years. This is horrible. 226 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: This is horrible. This is the most horrible thing I've 227 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: ever heard. Matter of fact, this is the most horrible 228 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. We've ever had. Four years of bad this 229 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: is probably don't worst damn stuff he let we have 230 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: ever had. Let me march this now and he mad 231 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: at her cause she too experienced. See he don't understand 232 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: see see he mad not because you know too much. 233 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: He had sex twice. We ain't got to get into 234 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: how many times you had it, but he only had 235 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 1: it twice. Let's not weary about the number of times 236 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: you had it. Don't even worry about that. But obviously 237 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: you wear more experienced to him, and he upset with it. See, 238 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: you know too much? Why I gotta put my foot 239 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: on the night stand and have my knee on the 240 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: bed and that hurts me. Star, Hey man, what is 241 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: your punk at heads talking about? Just put your damn 242 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: foot up there and get your knee over here. That 243 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: hurts me, stretch. So you come in here to workout hill. 244 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: You got to put in work. Man, Now, listen to me. 245 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: Let me give you a couple of suggestions. They have 246 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: a cream for men that he can buy and he 247 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: can use the cream and the cream numbs him so 248 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: where he's don't have to have it don't happen so fast. Yeah, 249 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: So you gotta be careful strong because that hand you 250 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: ain't got no feeling in it because you haven't put 251 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 1: it on with the cream that helps you have no feeling. 252 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: So you might want to try that. And just that's 253 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: the only suggestion I have for you all right, Steve, 254 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: thank you for that comments on today letter. 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