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Speaker 1: It's Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years. This

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Speaker 1: is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in ten

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Speaker 1: years this was a science experiment. No, it's just like,

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Speaker 1: let's just mess with everything and see if they can

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Speaker 1: manage to get people to continue listening. Fred's show is on. No,

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Speaker 1: I think that's what it is. I think that's what

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Speaker 1: it is. It's Radio Survivor. Guys, morning, everybody. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the latest edition of Radio Survivors, Tuesday, March forward. The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show is not Hi Kailin, good morning. Hi Jason Brown,

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Speaker 1: Hi Paulina, Hi Kiki, good morning. And you know, I

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Speaker 1: want to say show Biz Shelley. I wonder how long

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Speaker 1: it's going to be until she has her baby. I

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Speaker 1: wonder how long it's gonna be until I stopped trying

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Speaker 1: to say Showbiz Shelley. But she's on maternity to leave

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Speaker 1: Kiki filling in for show Bis Shelley. Today. The number

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Speaker 1: one is yesterday and and you won. You are one

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Speaker 1: and oh in the game, Yes I Am, which means

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Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty bucks is the price a day.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if it's if it's you who wins the money,

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Speaker 1: whoa I was thinking last night, because that's what I do.

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Speaker 1: I shod thinking about the show all the time. I

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Speaker 1: think about all of you every moment of every day.

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Speaker 1: But what would it be like if Kiki went undefeated?

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Speaker 1: I know, she wins one game and now I'm like

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Speaker 1: undefeated in the show with Shelley showdown me too.

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Speaker 2: That's how I was thinking last night too, Like what

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Speaker 2: would it be like? You know, what would you buy me?

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Speaker 1: Well? Yeah, I buy you?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Can we give her the money if she goes undefeated?

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Speaker 1: Can can Kiki have the money? It? Don't worry like that.

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Speaker 4: I'll splity with you.

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Speaker 1: I think I greeted that there's no way. There's no

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Speaker 1: way she goes undefeated.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean there's no way?

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Speaker 1: See how much money would that be? Approximate? Let me see.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do some math right now. I'm a calculator.

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Speaker 1: I'm a t I eighty two calculator. We don't know

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Speaker 1: what that is. If you don't know what a t

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Speaker 1: I AD two is, then I'm sorry. I can't hang

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Speaker 1: out with you upside.

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Speaker 4: Down and the boobs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so basically, three thousand bucks if you were if

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Speaker 1: you were to play sixty times, come on and I'm

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Speaker 1: estivating because you know she's out for Shelley's out for

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Speaker 1: three months, so that's approximately sixty shows ish or games

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Speaker 1: ish well, right, so then one hundred bucks, and then

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Speaker 1: so fit one hundred and then fifty nine times, so

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Speaker 1: around three thousand, it'd be three thousand dollars. I say,

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Speaker 1: if you go undefeated, we give you three thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I think we should, kayln listen, I'll send you

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Speaker 2: the questions.

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Speaker 1: If you split it with me, I'll send you.

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Speaker 5: The question Hold on heart, Okay, I'm going to sign you.

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Speaker 1: Let me say cheat. No, we can't shoot and do that.

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Speaker 1: Don't say that.

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Speaker 4: There no my bar. You're talking about this on the air,

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Speaker 4: breaking off a piece.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Well, we know it'll be taxed and whatever,

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Speaker 1: so by the time you see it'll be you know,

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Speaker 1: twenty five dollars. But still anything, he bro I'm down

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Speaker 1: for this. If you if you go undefeated, if you

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Speaker 1: don't lose one time, then you can have the money.

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Speaker 1: I feel because there's no way. There's no way.

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Speaker 4: Well I'm not losing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's go. Let's hurry up and get to

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Speaker 2: the game, because I'm not doing it. I'm not lose it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna text the boss right now. See you begin,

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Speaker 1: because I think that makes it way more exciting. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and there's an end, you know, there's like a defined end.

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Speaker 1: When shovich Shelley comes back, then it's over. So it's

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Speaker 1: not like, you know, we can't do the same thing

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Speaker 4: What you're thinking, man, I think.

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Speaker 1: For me, this is way more exciting. So that's what

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do. I just decided that, thank you, our

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Speaker 1: biggest stories of the day, we'll get to those. The

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Speaker 1: Kiki Showby's Kiki One hundred and fifty bucks is the prize.

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Speaker 1: In the show down, what are you working on? Kieva

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Speaker 6: Britney Spears, only for Brittany to be like, m I

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Speaker 6: don't think you could play me. Also, my heart is

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Speaker 6: with our sweet Dolly Parton today. I just I love

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Speaker 1: I'm said for her too. Yeah, I'm said for her

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Speaker 1: too sixty years. But we'll do the story in a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Kiki's going to my hometown this weekend. You're

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Speaker 1: going to Scottsdale, Arizona. Do you know where you're aren't you?

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Speaker 1: Is it this weekend?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, same thing.

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Speaker 4: We're close to each other.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, Yeah, maybe take my word

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Speaker 1: for it since I grew up there. But anyway, I

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Speaker 1: look for you. You're like, You're like, no, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to Phoenix, Okay, whatever You're going to here.

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Speaker 1: Like like most cities, it's uh, it's kind of like

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Speaker 1: they all kind of blend together. Okay, yet Phoenix, Scottsdale, Masa, Glendale.

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Speaker 4: Oh's and a spring training going on there too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is my.

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Speaker 4: In laws, all the baseball players and all the grown girls. Okay,

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Speaker 4: not me like licking my lips.

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Speaker 7: Excuse me?

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Speaker 1: Can you me relax?

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Speaker 4: I don't know why I just did that to her.

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Speaker 4: I took my tongue and I lifted my lips.

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Speaker 1: Well, hey, listen, remember Kiki's going to Phoenix, so you

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Speaker 1: you're going. Do you know where you're staying in Phoena?

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Speaker 1: I don't have say exactly, because we have psychos that listen,

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Speaker 1: some psychos that listen, but we have a couple of psychos.

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Speaker 2: We're doing an airbnb with a pool in the backyard, yes, okay?

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Speaker 1: And what kind of activities you have planned? Because you

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Speaker 1: to go when you go to my hometown Ish for

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Speaker 1: this trip. But here's the problem. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: winter time because it's warm there, and hey, what do

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Speaker 1: I do? Where do I eat? I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, no idea. I haven't lived there in

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Speaker 1: So I honestly, I have no idea where to tell

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Speaker 2: So we're doing like a brunch one day. We're doing

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Speaker 2: a day at some like indoor adult water park, which

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Speaker 1: There and an indoor is that like headonism? Water park

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Speaker 1: is like ever is everyone naked at this thing?

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Speaker 1: What is it? An indoor adult water bark?

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Speaker 2: So I don't know, but it's like they have cabana,

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Speaker 4: It sounds like a resort, but inside.

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Speaker 1: A beach club.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, so we'll do a day there just I

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Speaker 1: I think like a gigantic water slide and just naked grownups,

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Speaker 4: Now why do you hang out?

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Speaker 1: Well, you set an adult water park. I mean if

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Speaker 1: it's adult, if you have to put the word adult

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Speaker 1: specifying that whatever's going on kids shouldn't see.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm trying to make I'm trying to get you

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Speaker 2: the like the picture a bunch of women by a

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're going to like, yeah, you're going to a

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Speaker 2: day club. Yes, Sky Island Bungalow oh wait.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because in my mind I had like, it's a

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Speaker 1: lazy river there great will floedge for grown ups, like

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Speaker 1: and the next guy that comes down like you guys

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Speaker 1: gotta make out of it. I don't know, maybe this

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Speaker 1: is just my fantasy, but you're saying adult water park,

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Speaker 1: and immediately I'm going to, you know, the kind of

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Speaker 5: No, we will have on swimsuits just like kids aren't allowed.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, because it's a bar, you go just raight

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Speaker 5: to naked, Like, I don't forget you.

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Speaker 4: This looks nice.

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Speaker 1: I like my version of it. Then I like the

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Speaker 1: Kiki's going to an adult naked pory water park this weekend.

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Speaker 1: That's what I like.

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Speaker 4: Are you on the slide, this huge slide? You know

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Speaker 4: I'm not I'm too strong, all right, So you're doing that?

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Speaker 1: Are you hanging out with my mom? Because nothing would

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Speaker 1: surprise me more than if you went to Arizona and

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Speaker 1: then you wind up meeting up with mom of Fred

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Speaker 1: and you know, moving in on my inheritance.

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Speaker 2: I know, I can't tell you because you will try

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Speaker 2: to fly there. No, I can't tell you.

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Speaker 1: Why would I try to think I would try to intervene.

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Speaker 1: She couldn't hang out with my mom.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you would.

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Speaker 1: You talked to my mom probably more than I do.

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Speaker 4: You would try to get in the middle of our date.

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Speaker 4: And we can't have that.

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Speaker 1: Don't take my mom to be adult naked porny website,

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Speaker 1: water slide, wherever you're going.

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Speaker 4: Oh, she didn't want to set it up.

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Speaker 1: Set it up with me. She's a regular.

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Speaker 10: Here's my name at the door, she said, right, Oh

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Speaker 11: I actually am adopted, So twenty years later they adopted me,

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Speaker 1: Of the Day. By the way, the texture did mean germophobic,

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Speaker 1: the hours ahead, threatening the lower Mississippi River valley with

434
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Speaker 1: strong tornadoes. That'd be bad if you were at Marty

435
00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,600
Speaker 1: Grau and it was too windy. But then again, most people,

436
00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,639
Speaker 1: you know, take their shirt off anyway, so I just

437
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Speaker 1: wouldn't want to get slapped in a face with it

438
00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:04,720
Speaker 1: with beads or something. Just under eighteen point one million

439
00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,920
Speaker 1: people turned in or tuned in rather to ABC's telecasts

440
00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:11,320
Speaker 1: of the ninety seventh Academy Awards, a seven percent decreased

441
00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,760
Speaker 1: from decreased rather from last year's broadcast. Guys, I think

442
00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,840
Speaker 1: this is it. The Powerball and Mega Million's jackpots have risen.

443
00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,080
Speaker 1: America's two biggest lottery games are soaring. There was no

444
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,080
Speaker 1: grand prize winner in last night's Powerball drawing, pushing that

445
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:27,040
Speaker 1: jack pop to two hundred ninety five million dollars ahead

446
00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,240
Speaker 1: of the next drawing tomorrow. Ahead of that, there'll be

447
00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,879
Speaker 1: another chance to strike it rich with Mega Millions. Tonight's

448
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,800
Speaker 1: drawing stands at two hundred and fifteen million dollars with

449
00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,239
Speaker 1: a cash option just shy of one hundred and one

450
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Speaker 1: million bucks. I don't want to be greedy. I can

451
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Speaker 1: live on that. I can make it work, you know.

452
00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,679
Speaker 1: I mean, the billion dollars would have been nicer but

453
00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:50,440
Speaker 1: I can figure out the problem is one hundred and one.

454
00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:52,280
Speaker 1: We've done all the math on this a million times,

455
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 1: but one hundred and one million winds up being like

456
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Speaker 1: forty million after it's all said and done, because they

457
00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,639
Speaker 1: take so much, you know, in tax and then whatever

458
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Speaker 1: else you get tax, I think twice on it. So

459
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 1: but still I think I could make for the rest

460
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Speaker 1: of my life when I have left, you know, a

461
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 1: good probably fifteen twenty years. I could make the forty

462
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Speaker 1: million work. Oh yes, Oh, you know, I'm only planning.

463
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Speaker 1: I'm only planning to get to like the mid sixties.

464
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Speaker 4: Yeah, wait, hold on, what ye.

465
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Speaker 1: I'm only planning to get to the mid to late

466
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Speaker 1: maybe midle sixties, maybe seventy at best. And then if

467
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,359
Speaker 1: I run out of money, then I guess I'll I

468
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,360
Speaker 1: don't know what I'll do, but I'll figure something out.

469
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I could live on that forty million bucks.

470
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Speaker 1: Invest you know, invest some of it, you know, put

471
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Speaker 1: in the stock one never mind, I don't know what

472
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:38,960
Speaker 1: the hell I'm talking about, you know, put in the

473
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Speaker 1: stock market, flip it, reverse it, you know. I don't

474
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Speaker 1: know what I would do, but yeah, I think I

475
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Speaker 1: can make that work. Tattoos. How many people with tattoos?

476
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Speaker 1: Kiki has tattoo a tattoo? Who else in the room

477
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Speaker 1: has tattooed? Okay, okay, So I'm worried about you guys,

478
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Speaker 1: because using data from they said twin pairs, researchers have

479
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Speaker 1: found signs that tattoo inc may increase the risk of

480
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Speaker 1: skin and lymphoma cancers. It's because tattoo ink accumulates in

481
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Speaker 1: the lymph nodes, which are a crucial part of the

482
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Speaker 1: immune system, helping to fight infections and filter harmful substances

483
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Speaker 1: from the body. The researchers are really concerned the tattoo

484
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Speaker 1: ink may trigger chronic inflammation in the lymph nodes, which

485
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Speaker 1: over time could lead to abnormal cell growth and an

486
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Speaker 1: increased risk of cancer. I'm assuming this is are people

487
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Speaker 1: who have a lot of tattoos, like the woman that

488
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Speaker 1: who saw the guy at the naked place that just

489
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Speaker 1: call in a minute ago, that's got you know, he's

490
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Speaker 1: run out of places, so now he's got tattoos on

491
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Speaker 1: his you know, nether region. But yeah, I would I

492
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Speaker 1: would have guessed it would require a lot of ink

493
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Speaker 1: to get caught up in there. But I'm worried about you.

494
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Speaker 1: I know that came when you were thinking about extending

495
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Speaker 1: the tattoos like to the neck and face area, and

496
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Speaker 1: I just I'm worried about you doing that.

497
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Speaker 4: That's okay.

498
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 6: I've peed in a frat bathroom, so I have a

499
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Speaker 6: great immune system.

500
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Speaker 4: I'm good. Yeah, worry about it, you know what.

501
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Speaker 1: Forget about what I said about living a seventy I

502
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Speaker 1: lived in a frat house.

503
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Speaker 4: You're good.

504
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm solid, man, I'll probably live to be two hundred.

505
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Speaker 1: Give me some tattoos, man, let's do it. And I

506
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Speaker 1: respect people who enjoy tattoos and have them. I just

507
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Speaker 1: I think there are certain areas where I wonder, like

508
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Speaker 1: the neck area. I mean, that's gotta hurt, like a

509
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Speaker 1: tattoo on your throat, like right there. Actually, well, I

510
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Speaker 1: just I would think that'd be extremely painful.

511
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Speaker 4: But then you're like, ooh, he can like handle that pain.

512
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Speaker 2: It has to be paid for. I have one right

513
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 2: behind my ear and it was the worst. Yeah, it's

514
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Speaker 2: just bone there. It was terrible.

515
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Speaker 4: Oh wow, I see a music note, Thank you.

516
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Speaker 1: I saw it. Dude getting a tattoo one time. My

517
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Speaker 1: cousin is a tattoo artist. I guess he's he's one

518
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Speaker 1: of those people that I call a cousin, even though

519
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 1: we're not related at all. You have any of those, well, yeah,

520
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 1: my dad's best friends. I guess it's I guess it's

521
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Speaker 1: my dad's cousin's kid. I don't even really know, so

522
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: I guess we're related somehow, way way down the line,

523
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Speaker 1: except that I was adopted, so we're pretending. But this

524
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: dude's a tattoo artists, and I went there to Brooklyn

525
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 1: where he was doing tattoos at the time, and a

526
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 1: guy was getting he was finishing like a piece on

527
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Speaker 1: his back and it took weeks and weeks and weeks.

528
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,679
Speaker 1: Every Saturday he would come in and the dude was

529
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Speaker 1: crying like he's a big guy, very strong like big dude,

530
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Speaker 1: and there were tears streaming down his face as they

531
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Speaker 1: did parts of his back. Oh, because I guess it

532
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: was that painful, which makes me wonder, why is that

533
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Speaker 1: worth it right if it hurts that much? But I'm

534
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: not sure. Chipotlet fans are very upset because apparently now

535
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 1: they are weighing the meat in front of you before

536
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: they put it in your burrito or your bowl. No

537
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: more of this like scoop and maybe you know a

538
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: little extra no no, no, now, I guess we're weighing it,

539
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: which I understand why people don't love that, because it

540
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Speaker 1: feels like you're being I guess nickeled and dimed in

541
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Speaker 1: some ways. But a lot of places do this. A

542
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: lot of places weigh the meat or the protein or

543
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Speaker 1: whatever it is before they give it to you. I'm

544
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Speaker 1: trying to think of another example, but it's not uncommon.

545
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: If you go to like a barbecue restaurant, I think

546
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Speaker 1: they usually weigh it. If you go to a lot

547
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: of other places, you know, if you go to Whole

548
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: Foods and you get stuff off the salad bar or whatever,

549
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 1: they weigh that, and the more it weighs, the more

550
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 1: it costs. So I guess I don't really know. It

551
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: feels kind of cheap, But at the same time, I

552
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: don't think it's uncommon. A lot of places have preportion

553
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Speaker 1: stuff that they wait out ahead of time, so I mean,

554
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: but they have an actual scale in this example, and

555
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: it's on little Chipotle bar, and they like put your

556
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: bowl on the thing and then they pour it in

557
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 1: there until it's got the right number, and then they

558
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: move on.

559
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Speaker 4: Oh that's ridiculous.

560
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Speaker 1: I mean, but I think a lot of people do it.

561
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Speaker 1: Why you mad?

562
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Speaker 2: I would rather them just pre portion it because you

563
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: not like it. Already takes a long time to get

564
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Speaker 2: through a Chipotle line because you you always got somebody

565
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 2: who doesn't know what they want and five different boats

566
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Speaker 2: for ten years. Yeah, so can you imagine now every

567
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 2: time I want to scoop of this, now you gotta

568
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 2: weigh they put it on there like just pretty contry.

569
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Speaker 4: One piece to bring a Graham down or whatever.

570
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: Like I don't have.

571
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 4: Time for this.

572
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: I would like to know who at this point in

573
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Speaker 1: America doesn't know how to order at Chipotle, Like I

574
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, it's the same thing as not

575
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: knowing what your order at McDonald's is. I'm like, come on, guys,

576
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: like this we've been if you've been living here for

577
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: a year or two years, you've been you got to

578
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: know these things, like this is the kind of stuff.

579
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,719
Speaker 1: This is survival. You know. It's like you gotta know.

580
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: You gotta know what you're how to order at Chipotle.

581
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: You gotta know what your order at McDonald's is. I mean,

582
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: who's going into McDonald's and going man, I don't know.

583
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: You know, you're standing there staring at your menu.

584
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 4: When you're inside.

585
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Speaker 2: I feel like people judge off of how the meat

586
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 2: looks currently, right, So if you see that the steak

587
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 2: looks a little bit more fresher than the chicken, and

588
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 2: you're like, okay, you know what, I'll just have the

589
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 2: steak today. Or if the rice is like, you're not

590
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: as fresh as the other rice, you want to switch

591
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: it the beans.

592
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 4: I'm like, lady, please just come on.

593
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: That's a good point. Oh yeah, Like if they just

594
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 1: made the steak or the chicken and they're pouring it

595
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: in there right now, or they're replacing the thing, I

596
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 1: might be more likely to get that. That's good point.

597
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,439
Speaker 1: But I still we're not standing there scratching our you know,

598
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 1: chin going man, I don't know, veggies or tofu. Maybe

599
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: today it's gonna be the carnitas. Man, I don't really know.

600
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: And then you just take it forever. I don't that's unacceptable.

601
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Speaker 10: Yeah, Or when they have like five things that they're

602
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 10: like ordering five different bowls for five different people, reading

603
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 10: out the phone, like there's an app you pre order it,

604
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 10: so you're not doing this.

605
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Speaker 1: We live in a society we live in a society,

606
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: and yeah, now's not the time. The other day, I

607
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: was some place I was at, like a sandwich place,

608
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 1: and the person in front of me, right in front

609
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Speaker 1: of me. Now, granted the order was already in progress,

610
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: so I really couldn't complain, but she was ordering seven sandwiches,

611
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: so like it was her job to go get the

612
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: sandwiches for the office or whatever. Now again, if if

613
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Speaker 1: we had walked in at the same time and that

614
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 1: woman had been like, okay, have seven sandwich order, No,

615
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 1: what you do is you say to the guy, hey,

616
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: is it just you, and you go yeah, just me,

617
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: You go right ahead because you only have one sandwich,

618
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: so you just take a no. So I didn't really

619
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 1: complain because again we were like mid order, but I

620
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: had to stand there while they made seven sandwiches for

621
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 1: this lady and I just needed one, just one little sandwich.

622
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,239
Speaker 1: But we live in a society, people, and you need

623
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: to know what you're doing at the Chipotle line before

624
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: you get in the Chipotle line. And did we do

625
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: the story yesterday Calein did you do the story about

626
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: the little boy who called nine one one for the donuts?

627
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 4: Yeah?

628
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: Oh you did that.

629
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, But you can do it again because it's you.

630
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it, you know. If you

631
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: want to hear that one, go to the iHeart appened

632
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: and Calin did an excellent job apparently with that story.

633
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: And I don't remember it's National Sun'sday, it's Fat Tuesday,

634
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: it's oh, I always mess this up.

635
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 4: Potch potcheki.

636
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: Yes, I've only been saying this. It's a it's a

637
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 1: Polish thing, right, it means a European thing. I've only

638
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: been saying this for fourteen years and when I learned

639
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: what it was. But it's like a like a dumpling

640
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: filled with kind of anything, right, sweet savory doesn't matter.

641
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 13: Yeah, like a doughnut, like filled with just jelly or

642
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 13: scream cheese, whatever you want.

643
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 4: So I will be having a lot of those today.

644
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: But it's spelled p A c z K I yes,

645
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: so so it's punchke.

646
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 4: Polish people love the letter Z like we we just

647
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 4: it's like they have us in a choke hold with

648
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Speaker 4: the letter Z.

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Speaker 13: So anything when you see that, it'd be like you

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Speaker 13: sound like a so like the c Z makes like

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Speaker 13: a chim yep, yep, love it yep, punch ke say

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Speaker 13: punch punch.

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Speaker 1: K Well, then what does the A do?

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Speaker 13: So the A technically like kind of like in Spanish,

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Speaker 13: you know how there's an accent across letters like A.

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Speaker 13: So we have an accent that would make the A

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Speaker 13: it's like at the very bottom and make it a

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Speaker 13: little a little upside down. What is it like a

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Speaker 13: question mark?

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Speaker 4: Almost? And that A turns into oh so punch.

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Speaker 1: K okay, Wow, that was quite the education. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate them. I'm a few days behind him. I

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Speaker 1: do a leap on that. So sorry. Yeah, I've decided

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Speaker 1: to be fluent and polish because I think that's going

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Speaker 1: to come in really handy. Uh well, it actually kind

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Speaker 1: of would in Chicago. But day National Huga gee I

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Speaker 1: Day and National Pancake Day today as well. The entertainment report.

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Speaker 1: Kalin has that next we'll get some blogs, our audio

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Speaker 1: journals and stay go some group therapy on the show.

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Speaker 1: In about twenty minutes, Fred show Gaylin's.

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Speaker 14: Entertainment Report, and he's on the fread show Man.

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Speaker 4: This spuned me out so much. Yesterday.

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Speaker 6: Dolly Parton's husband Carl Dean, has passed away at the

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Speaker 6: age of eighty two, after nearly sixty years of marriage.

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Speaker 6: And for those who don't know, Dolly actually met Dean

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Speaker 6: the day she moved to Nashville at eighteen years old.

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Speaker 4: Last thing I want is a boyfriend.

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Speaker 15: I got it, you know, because I'm leaving two boyfriends

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Speaker 15: here and I kept saying, no, I'm going to Nashville.

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Speaker 15: And the very day I got to Nashville, I met Carldean.

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Speaker 15: And sixty years later, I'm still with Carl ding. You know,

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Speaker 15: he's quiet and I'm loud. We're funny. Oh, he's hilarious,

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Speaker 15: and I think one of the things that's made it

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Speaker 15: last so long through the years. We love each other,

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Speaker 15: we respect each other, but we have a lot of

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Speaker 15: fun and we never fought back and forth.

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Speaker 16: What do you think was the most important but sometimes

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Speaker 16: overlooked aspect of you and Carl's relationship.

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Speaker 15: Well, he was a homebody and that worked well for us.

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Speaker 15: He left go places if we were going to drive

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Speaker 15: across country or go where if we had planned a thing.

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Speaker 15: But boy, he never could wait to get home. He

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Speaker 15: doesn't even like to go out to the big dinners

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Speaker 15: or anything like that. So we even own anniversaries and

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Speaker 15: stuff like that, we usually stay home, make something special

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Speaker 15: or go to McDonald's to go somewhere. We want to

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Speaker 15: go to this comfortable yea, we will go to Mexican restaurants.

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Speaker 15: He does sitting in a booth and do that. He

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Speaker 15: loves that. You know, we'll go sit in a booth,

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Speaker 15: like if it's an anniversary or just sometimes on a Saturday,

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Speaker 15: we're just going. We know where to go when before

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Speaker 15: the crowd comes. He doesn't like big crowds. He's just

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Speaker 15: special to me and I just love him like he is.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I believe that was Jelly Roll his wife Bunny

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Speaker 6: talking by the way, if I could recognize the voice.

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Speaker 4: But a lot of people didn't know she was married.

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Speaker 6: And I love that for her because she was always

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Speaker 6: out and about and like she said, he was very

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Speaker 6: opposite of her, and it worked so much for them.

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Speaker 6: The pair got married two years later after they met,

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Speaker 6: when she was eighteen.

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Speaker 4: The rest was history, of course.

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Speaker 6: She also once said that she was surprised and delighted

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Speaker 6: while he was talking to her that he was looking

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Speaker 6: at her face instead.

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Speaker 4: Of her yallows, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: That would be hard to do with that woman right away,

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Speaker 1: and there's a lot going on there.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, and she said he seemed really interested in

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Speaker 6: finding out who I was and what I was about.

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Speaker 6: In a statement yesterday, she said, Carl and I spent

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Speaker 6: many wonderful years together. Words can't do justice to the

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Speaker 6: love we shared over sixty years.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.

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Speaker 6: If you didn't know, he actually inspired her classic song

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Speaker 6: Joe Lean after a flirty bank teller was talking to

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Speaker 6: him and she imagined the whole song and the rest,

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Speaker 6: like I said, was history.

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Speaker 4: So all right, pay Carl.

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Speaker 1: I knew she was married too, but I don't think

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Speaker 1: I've ever seen this man before. And that's got to

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Speaker 1: be hard to be to have a wife who's that

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Speaker 1: famous and that beautiful and talented and to stay behind

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Speaker 1: the scenes like that for sixty years, and they made

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Speaker 1: it work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Mayor, it's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 4: I love their marriage.

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Speaker 6: After internet trolls said Millie Bobby Brown was aging badly,

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Speaker 6: the Stranger Thing star fired back, saying she's like an

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Speaker 6: apologize for growing up. Millie, who's now twenty one, newly wide,

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Speaker 6: I should say, said I grew up in front of

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Speaker 6: the world, and for some reason people can't seem to

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Speaker 6: grow with me, and said they act like I'm supposed

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Speaker 6: to say frozen in time, like I should look the

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Speaker 6: way I did on Stranger Things season one, and because

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Speaker 6: I don't, now I'm a target. And she cited all

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Speaker 6: these articles that were criticizing her for the way she

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Speaker 6: was aging or talking about what work she may have

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Speaker 6: done to her face.

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Speaker 4: She said, this isn't journalism, this is bullying.

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Speaker 6: The fact that adult writers are spending their time dissecting

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Speaker 6: my face, my body, my choices. It's disturbing, and the

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Speaker 6: fact that some of these articles are written by women

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Speaker 6: even worse. And despite all the hate, she said, she

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Speaker 6: is not going to apologize for growing up.

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Speaker 4: She wants everyone to do better for young.

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Speaker 6: Girls who deserve to grow up without a fear of

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Speaker 6: being torn apart. Now, to me, she does look different,

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Speaker 6: but not in terms of aging.

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Speaker 4: She very much dyed her hair blonde and got a

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Speaker 4: specific haircut, and it's.

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Speaker 6: Obvious to me that she still really wants to play

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Speaker 6: Britney Spears in a movie about her. However, word is

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Speaker 6: that Brittany isn't on board with Millie playing her. Apparently

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Speaker 6: she doesn't see the resemblance and doesn't believe she has

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Speaker 6: what it takes to play her. After seeing an audition tape.

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Speaker 6: She's actually Britney is heavily involved in this movie. Now,

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Speaker 6: britt hasn't talked with Millie directly, but people are saying,

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Speaker 6: you know, if she was right for the role, she

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Speaker 6: would have already gotten it. And people are saying that

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Speaker 6: Milly is trying to use her father in law, John

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Speaker 6: bon Jovi's connections to help her get that.

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Speaker 4: Damn role, and I don't even think that's working.

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Speaker 6: Universal Studios, by the way, won the rights to produce

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Speaker 6: that movie and John m chu who did Wicked amongst

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Speaker 6: a lot of other amazing projects, has signed on to

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Speaker 6: direct it.

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Speaker 4: So the movie will be good.

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Speaker 6: We don't know when it's going to be out or

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Speaker 6: who's playing Brittany, but Milly is certainly trying with that.

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Speaker 4: New blonde hair.

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Speaker 6: By the way, if you missed any part of our show,

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Speaker 1: we want you to do. Good morning, everybody. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for having us song. We we love you, and thanks

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Speaker 1: for making us a part of your day. We'll come back.

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Speaker 1: We'll do blogs in just a second, stay or go,

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Speaker 1: we'll debate some relationship drama. Kiky show Biz Kiki. She

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Speaker 1: is one and one one for one, Yeah, I should

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Speaker 1: say not one and one one for one in the

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Speaker 1: Kiki showdown as she fills in for show Biz Shelley

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Speaker 1: and I promise her she can have all the money

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Speaker 1: if she goes undefeated. She would have to win sixty games. Yep,

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Speaker 1: we're going to do and no losses. Yes, but it

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Speaker 1: would be about three grand and I think she can

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Speaker 1: have it if she can win sixty in a row.

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Speaker 1: Jason shaking his head. No, I'm overriding you, Jason, I

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Speaker 1: have decided, so we'll see what happens in a little bit.

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Speaker 1: McCrae in Chicago. Tickets at seven fifty five. Also Creed

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Speaker 1: This is nine number two Jason of the Summer of

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Speaker 1: ninety nine and beyond festival. Win tickets to see Creed

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Speaker 1: at eight forty. I can look this up. So who

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Speaker 1: else is going to be there?

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Speaker 10: So the first night is nickelback, but the festival is

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Speaker 10: stacked every single like band I like knew what was

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Speaker 10: bringing back my like early two thousands, like energy.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, there's a cruise you can go on the

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Speaker 1: Summer of ninety nine and beyond cruise.

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, so live Daughtry, Tonic, Our Lady Piece, Lit,

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Speaker 10: three Doors down, seven dust Hinder, vertical Horizon.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm going so good. Yes, and fuel okay, Shimmer yeah.

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Speaker 5: And then someone I think it's van Halen Mammoth wv H.

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Speaker 5: I think that's Van Halen's son. Oh yeah, Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well hook me, give me a hotel room

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Speaker 1: in East Troy, Wisconsin, and we're going We're gonna go there.

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Speaker 1: He'll be at the Naked Adult Pool and I'll be

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Speaker 1: at the Summer of ninety nine festival, rocking out to

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Speaker 1: nickelback and lit like it's the greatest two days of

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Speaker 1: my life, which because it would be the greatest two

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Speaker 1: days of my life. But free tickets. Got those later

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Speaker 1: on this morning and all this week or at least

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Speaker 1: until tomorrow or is it all this week? You know?

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Speaker 1: A week? Okay? Good, because sometimes Jason, I have to

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Speaker 1: like read carefully, like Monday through Wednesday, and then Thursday

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Speaker 1: it's different. Oh, but then Friday. But the reason it's

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Speaker 1: different Thursday is because it's tate every hour. Yes, there's

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Speaker 1: a take a takeover, you know it.

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Speaker 10: Girl.

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Speaker 1: See I read the emails that you send from time

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Speaker 1: to time occasionally, but it's just so much easier when

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Speaker 1: you're standing across from me, just to ask you exactly.

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Speaker 1: I realized you took the time to write an email,

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Speaker 1: But Jason, what did it say? Yeah? What did that

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Speaker 1: email say? Also, we've got vacations with Amy with the

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Speaker 1: right one hundred truck Rered gets signed up a trip

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Speaker 1: a week, So every single Friday someone gets hooked up

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Speaker 1: with a trip twenty five hundred bucks to go towards

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Speaker 1: some kind of vacation wherever you want to go. Get

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Speaker 1: signed up at one O three five kiss FM dot com.

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Speaker 1: Tell us why you should get the trip. And you

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Speaker 1: know Amy Amy's if he usually doesn't stop there, so

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Speaker 1: who knows you could wind up going around the world

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Speaker 1: five times in a private I have no idea, just

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Speaker 1: it depends on whatever mood Amy is in. Get signed

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Wait, you know there are a lot

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Speaker 1: of hot freads. I don't know if there are.

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Speaker 4: Was kind of fine. Oh yeah he was.

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Speaker 2: I like a man and go to work. Yeah. He

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Speaker 2: beat up at his feet on the ground.

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Speaker 4: That's a good there.

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Speaker 1: You know that's on it. Fred's show is on of

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Speaker 1: morning everybody Tuesday. That one makes me laugh at each time.

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Speaker 1: March forward, It's a Fred Show. Hi Kalin, good morning,

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Speaker 1: Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina High show Biz Kiki, good morning.

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Speaker 1: You are one for one in the Showbiz Shelley Showdown

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Speaker 1: that you're filling in for Showbis Shelley because she's off

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Speaker 1: having a baby, which hasn't happened yet. I believe she

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Speaker 1: has to have the baby tomorrow for me to win

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Speaker 1: in Thursday, for you to win the bat Kalan.

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Speaker 4: Uh, yes, I believe so, which means you.

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Speaker 1: Have to pay me one hundred bucks and then if

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Speaker 1: I win, and then I don't have I have to

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Speaker 1: pig you ten if Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, I don't recall shaking on terms, but.

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Speaker 1: No we did. We totally did. You were I don't

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Speaker 1: know what you were you were thinking about, so I

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Speaker 1: know you were looking at you were listening to Taylor Swift,

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Speaker 1: or that you were a second. Yeah, we totally shook

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Speaker 1: on it, though it was very official. You signed an

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Speaker 1: AFFI David too, this said don't worry about him, belahemine

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Speaker 1: is here on the phone in the text eight five

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Speaker 1: five five nine one one oh three five. You can

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Speaker 1: call him text anytime. We'll get to Kiki the Kiki

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Speaker 1: Show Down, one hundred and fifty bucks, The Entertainer Report,

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Speaker 1: Good News stories, Uh, stay or go get a debate

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Speaker 1: and relationship drama with Haley And just a second, what

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Speaker 1: are you working on? Kiva? The Port the.

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Speaker 4: Chapel roone dua we did not know we needed.

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Speaker 6: Also a joke that producers really didn't want Conan to

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Speaker 6: tell at the Oscars, but he did. Anyway, I'll tell

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Speaker 6: you which one.

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Speaker 1: And you guys hate commercials, We went, we like them

902
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Speaker 1: because we get paid by them, but we hate them

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Speaker 1: too sort of. And uh, we're not playing any for

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Speaker 1: a long time. It's an hour. Commercial free starts right now.

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, they talk better than they excited. Tell me.

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Speaker 14: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like

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Speaker 14: running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs.

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Speaker 4: Kalin's got one go Yes, thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 6: So one of my greatest fears in life is asking

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Speaker 6: people for money that they right fully owe me. But

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Speaker 6: somehow I have put myself in situations endlessly where I

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Speaker 6: need to ask people for money, Like I always be

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Speaker 6: asking people for money.

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Speaker 17: So you ask people for money that owe me money,

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Speaker 17: It's like you way, what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Let's give you an example.

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Speaker 6: So, like I I'm very uncomfortable asking for money for myself,

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Speaker 6: but you know, I like ride for my people harder

920
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Speaker 6: than I'll have a ride for myself. So if someone

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Speaker 6: owes Jason money, I'll show up to the house with

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Speaker 6: a bath.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, pay up.

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Speaker 6: But if someone ows me money, I'm like, oh, it's okay,

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Speaker 6: I'll discover it.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: I don't know why, and so it's just very uncomfortable

928
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Speaker 6: for me and currently the situation that I'm dealing with.

929
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Speaker 4: I spoke about it the other day on the show.

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Speaker 6: I am planning this bachelorette party for one of my

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Speaker 6: best friends weekend. Rather I am her maid of honor,

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Speaker 6: and of course, like I'm planning this weekend, so I

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Speaker 6: need to put my card down for a lot of things. Fine,

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Speaker 6: no problem, I'm a grown woman. I'm happy to do it.

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Speaker 6: I want everyone to have fun. However, a lot of people. Actually,

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Speaker 6: one specific person I won't even say that. I'll say

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Speaker 6: there's one specific person who I have been trying to

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Speaker 6: get sixty six dollars from for what feels like an eternity,

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Speaker 6: and I've now asked three separate times.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if there's like a new way.

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Speaker 6: That I can ask, if there's like a song and

942
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Speaker 6: dance number, but each time it's very difficult for me.

943
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Speaker 6: Like I want to tear my skin off, I want

944
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Speaker 6: to walk into oncoming traffic.

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Speaker 4: I don't like asking for money.

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Speaker 6: But also like I make it so clear, and all

947
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Speaker 6: the messages, Hey message me privately, like I get it.

948
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Speaker 4: Times are really tough. I can work with you.

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Speaker 6: We can do payment plans if you just let me

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Speaker 6: know plans with people.

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Speaker 1: Are you a credit union? Like what?

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Speaker 18: No?

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Speaker 1: Like? No? No. Everybody knows the etiquette. Everybody knows the etiquette.

954
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Speaker 1: You are planning, you are fronting, and and everybody knows

955
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Speaker 1: that if you if you owe money, you need to

956
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Speaker 1: pay the money now, not later. And if you're agreeing

957
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Speaker 1: to go on a bachelorette party to Maine or wherever

958
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Speaker 1: the hell you guys are going lobster hunting or whatever.

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Speaker 4: You do, then that is what we're doing, lobster.

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Speaker 1: Catching or whatever it is. Then then you then you

961
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Speaker 1: got to know that's going to cost money, and you

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Speaker 1: have to be prepared to pay for it. And if

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Speaker 1: you don't have the money to go on the trip,

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Speaker 1: then you have to say I can't go, so that

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Speaker 1: people aren't becoming the bank and you're becoming the bank.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because you you front all

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Speaker 1: this stuff and then you go back and ask people

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Speaker 1: to pay you. Do you want me to call this

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Speaker 1: this person and say that I'm the collection agency.

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Speaker 4: Let's call him right now. Oh them on the air.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: And it's like if it's one of my friends that

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Speaker 6: are in the group, like I'll be like girl like side,

974
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Speaker 6: like I know you have the money, Like come on, please,

975
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Speaker 6: you're just ignoring my text. But it is not one

976
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Speaker 6: of my close friends. And so that's what's making it

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Speaker 6: so difficult.

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Speaker 4: And uh, she's.

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Speaker 6: Very important to the bride, so I and I don't

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Speaker 6: want to involve the bride, like I'm not going to

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Speaker 6: be like a tattle tale.

982
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Speaker 4: But it's getting a little sick.

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Speaker 6: I mean, sixty six dollars and there's gonna be other

984
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Speaker 6: payments that are going to be more than sixty six dollars,

985
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Speaker 6: much more.

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Speaker 13: And I'm like, ladies, please, like I hate this. I

987
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Speaker 13: hate this the whole like shaking my cup thing for

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Speaker 13: the money is so.

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Speaker 4: Like kills me. I'm tired of it. Like, let's be

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Speaker 4: big girls.

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Speaker 1: What if you did this starting to reupt you, Pauline,

992
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Speaker 1: What if you do this, Kalin? What if you were

993
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Speaker 1: to say the remaining amount of money? What if you

994
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Speaker 1: were to estimate like the remaining amount of money. Everyone's

995
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Speaker 1: gonna win? Is this thing next month? This month?

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Speaker 6: It is the last weekend in May, and I assume

997
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Speaker 6: there's more.

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Speaker 1: There's going to be more expense, right, there certainly will be. Yes,

999
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Speaker 1: how much do you think everyone's going to wind up owing? Total?

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Speaker 1: Five hundred bucks? One thousand bucks apiece? Like, how much

1001
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Speaker 1: do you think it's going to cost total by the

1002
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Speaker 1: time you're done?

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

1004
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Speaker 6: But the reason that I was trying to separate it

1005
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Speaker 6: is so that it doesn't seem so much and that

1006
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Speaker 6: you know, with someone we can use this paycheck for

1007
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Speaker 6: this payment.

1008
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Speaker 4: And another paycheck for another payment.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to like put it all into a

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Speaker 6: bundle and like ask people for that. I don't know,

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Speaker 6: I just feel like that's harder to do than like

1012
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Speaker 6: asking for little payments along the way.

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Speaker 1: I kind of feel like what my buddy did. He's

1014
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: actually he's a lawyer, so of course he was thinking ahead. Yeah,

1015
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Speaker 1: he's a smart guy, but what he did, and granted

1016
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Speaker 1: he has some dough but like on the bachelor party

1017
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Speaker 1: I went to recently, and it was the first grown

1018
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Speaker 1: up bachelor party I had been to, but he wanted

1019
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Speaker 1: all the points for not only like the Marriott Points

1020
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Speaker 1: or Hilton or whatever it was, but he wanted the

1021
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Speaker 1: credit card points like the miles. So he fronted all

1022
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Speaker 1: of the hotel rooms on his credit card, which was

1023
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Speaker 1: a law. I mean, I think I don't know how

1024
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Speaker 1: much it was. It was. I mean we're talking thousands

1025
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Speaker 1: of dollars. And then he put everything on his card,

1026
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Speaker 1: the whole weekend, everything, and then he sent us all

1027
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Speaker 1: a bill basically and was like, you each owe me

1028
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Speaker 1: this much and I need it in two weeks or

1029
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Speaker 1: less or whatever. And so I get that that's a lot,

1030
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Speaker 1: but you don't have to pay the credit card. I

1031
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Speaker 1: don't know how long your credit card has before there's

1032
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: interest on it. But my thing would be, I think

1033
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Speaker 1: you should just say, hey, everybody, I think it's you

1034
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Speaker 1: don't have to pay me till the end. But I'm

1035
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Speaker 1: guessing it's going to be about one thousand dollars a piece.

1036
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Speaker 1: I'm making this up, and that's going to be due

1037
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Speaker 1: within two weeks of the end of it. And then

1038
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: just charge everything to your card and that way it's

1039
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Speaker 1: one time, one bill, and you're not chasing everybody down

1040
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Speaker 1: for money. And then if you want and everyone's going

1041
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: to pay you, and if there's someone who doesn't, then

1042
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: you can go to the bride after the fact, after

1043
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Speaker 1: she's aware of how much everything costs, and be like, Yo,

1044
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: you know, lil Lucy over here, your old friend from college,

1045
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: low Lucy over here trying not to pay me, and

1046
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to send her to collections if you don't.

1047
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Speaker 1: But I guess it's just easier than trying to scrounge

1048
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Speaker 1: money out of someone. A bunch of it just less

1049
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: work for you.

1050
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just feel like my thing is it shouldn't

1051
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 4: have to be. It's difficult.

1052
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Speaker 6: I think it's like extremely disrespectful if I'm being completely serious,

1053
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 6: like I could not rest. I can't rest if I

1054
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 6: owe someone money, like I literally will think about it

1055
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Speaker 6: until I send it. And I think it's just hurts

1056
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Speaker 6: me that I've been so like communicative about being willing

1057
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 6: to work with people because I love my friend. I

1058
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Speaker 6: want her to have fun, and I think, you know, yes,

1059
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Speaker 6: I could put it all into one bill, but I

1060
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 6: think I'd still run into the same issue. And for me,

1061
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Speaker 6: I don't ever want to involve the bride. I think

1062
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Speaker 6: it would make her very uncomfortable to know what we're

1063
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 6: spending on her. It would be nice for her to know,

1064
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Speaker 6: but you know, she's not paying for basically anything.

1065
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Speaker 1: I just don't know how else to do it. Because

1066
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Speaker 1: people were staying on the text. They're saying, don't front money,

1067
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Speaker 1: and I get that. I get that, but I also

1068
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Speaker 1: don't know how else to do it in an organized way.

1069
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Speaker 1: And unfortunately, if you're the planner, I just I don't

1070
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Speaker 1: know how else to do it.

1071
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 2: I like a girls group right now for this trip

1072
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Speaker 2: that I'm going on, and the you know, the organizer,

1073
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 2: which like the you of the group, has been very

1074
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 2: transparent in the group.

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00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 4: Chat dummy chat about what's old. Right.

1076
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 2: So here's my suggestion is to get in the group chat,

1077
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 2: put hey, I've received money from Alison Keykey, Paulina Jason right,

1078
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Speaker 2: and then be like I'm still missing money.

1079
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Speaker 4: From put her.

1080
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: Say wait a minute. The only person he left out

1081
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: was me. Well, I paid, I paid you.

1082
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 2: Frank still owes me sixty six dollars and put it

1083
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 2: all in a group Yes, people, I'm telling you, girl,

1084
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 2: you gotta do it. Should I just say it's for

1085
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 2: bookkeeping purposes? Girls just putting it here for everybody.

1086
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 19: To see, shouldn't I message her primarily.

1087
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 4: Person, you got you six dollars. I don't play it

1088
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 4: by my money. I don't like I can't run, so

1089
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 4: I'm never a fraend.

1090
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 2: It's gonna be like, hey, I'll pay because I won't

1091
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 2: ever ask you for money. I'll just talk about you

1092
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: for twenty years. You want to pay me back sixty

1093
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: six good? But in this case, I really think you

1094
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 2: have to put her on blast in front of the

1095
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 2: other girls because she looks crazy being how close she

1096
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,359
Speaker 2: is to the bride too. I know who she is

1097
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 2: to the bride. That's insane that you that you're the problem.

1098
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 2: You should not be the problem.

1099
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: Oh, there's an app. There's an app calt.

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00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just about to bring that up. There

1101
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:28,479
Speaker 4: is an app.

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00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 6: But that's more helpful if like, multiple people are paying

1103
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 6: for stuff. If it's just one person, then it's it's

1104
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 6: just you pay that one person.

1105
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: I just think it sounds like you're gonna have an

1106
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: organizational nightmare if it's yeah, every week, hey I need

1107
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: this much and this much and this much and this much,

1108
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: and it all adds up to whatever it is. And again,

1109
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: it's messed up that you would have to front or

1110
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: the other thing you could do. I guess is say, hey,

1111
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,720
Speaker 1: I estimate this trip is gonna cost fifteen a thousand

1112
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: dollars a person or whatever. Everybody owes me a g

1113
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: and then I will give you an accurate coounting of

1114
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: how much we spent in the end, and if there's

1115
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: left over, then everybody, I'll give everybody money back or whatever,

1116
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: because that way, at least you're working off of and

1117
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: the money that's already there, as opposed to you having

1118
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: to front all this cash and then become a debt collector.

1119
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 1: Because I just think it's a big pain in the butt.

1120
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 1: And if you if it's sixty bucks here and eighty

1121
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: bucks here, and then you're gonna start justifying in your mind.

1122
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,959
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna let this sixty six go because

1123
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,760
Speaker 1: I still got to go get them for two fifty

1124
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: for the hotels or whatever. And I just feel like

1125
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: before long you're gonna have everyone's gonna owe you a

1126
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: little bit because people forgot or they're not paying, or

1127
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: they don't they don't want Just what a pain.

1128
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, But like the crazy I gotta say, everybody, raise

1129
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 2: your hand, if you pay me, Mary, raise your hand,

1130
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 2: if you pay the money.

1131
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 20: On God Okay, honestly, you need to have an intervention

1132
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 20: with the chief ass who's not paying you, right girl,

1133
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 20: and record it and put it on TikTok Live and

1134
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 20: everybody can see this is the person, this is the

1135
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 20: cheap skate.

1136
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 4: I'll just talk about it on the radio or when

1137
00:48:58,320 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 4: I think, yeah.

1138
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: You just accomplished the same thing. Yeah, you're right, Stay

1139
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: or Go. In two minutes after Sabrina fred Show, the

1140
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 1: Fread Show is on. It's stay or Go. All right,

1141
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: Haley is here for some relationship advice. Good morning, Haley, welcome, Hey,

1142
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: good morning, Hailey. What's going on? Fill us in with

1143
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 1: everything here? Because you know, again, the right thing to

1144
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: do when you're in a predicament in your relationship is

1145
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: to call the radio show. And I joke about that

1146
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 1: all the time, except you've got a bunch of different

1147
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,279
Speaker 1: perspectives here. You've got seventeen people on this show, so

1148
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: surely someone will give you advice. It's it's worthwhile. Probably

1149
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 1: not me, but maybe somebody else. Go ahead.

1150
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay. Well, I've been married to my husband for

1151
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 7: about three years and we don't have any kids. We

1152
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 7: both work full time and we make like okay money,

1153
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 7: but we don't have any like substantial savings or you

1154
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 7: know money saved up.

1155
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: Do you? Okayln's sixty salary.

1156
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 7: It's not me.

1157
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: Because I was going to handle this right now myself

1158
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 1: and shame you publicly. I was going to stone you

1159
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: in the square until you right exactly. Okay, So all right,

1160
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Continue, Yeah, Okay.

1161
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 7: So recently, my husband Sam brought up the fact that,

1162
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 7: like we should start saving more, and I agree, like

1163
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,760
Speaker 7: that makes sense, we should have you know, savings put away.

1164
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 7: So we decided we were going to like stop stop

1165
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 7: unnecessary spending, stop boring takeout, and just like even pause.

1166
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 7: We we normally have regular date nights, and we haven't

1167
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 7: been doing those for like the last couple of months now.

1168
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 7: So then here's where the problem comes in a little bit,

1169
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 7: after we have this conversation about savings beside to cut back,

1170
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 7: my husband comes home with a brand new sixty truck.

1171
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 1: Oh no he didn't. Oh wow, Oh no he didn't.

1172
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 7: So I'm extremely pissed that he didn't talk to me

1173
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 7: before making such a big urshes. And then I'm also

1174
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 7: just hurt that I was also saving I was also

1175
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 7: putting in to this and apparently we don't even have

1176
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 7: enough money for him to take me our usual date night.

1177
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,240
Speaker 7: But then he can go buy that's hugely expensive.

1178
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 1: New car, and you could argue, I mean, he could say, well,

1179
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: it's not that much more than a car I had

1180
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: before or whatever. But if you're trying to save money, uh,

1181
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: you know it developed like a nest egg or some

1182
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 1: savings or whatever, then pay the car off that you've got,

1183
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 1: as opposed to starting the clock over again, and then

1184
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: you can use the excess to save, you know. So

1185
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: for the people saying well, I don't know, I mean,

1186
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: maybe it didn't cost that much more, maybe he got

1187
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: a good deal or whatever, my thing would be pay that.

1188
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: You know, if in fact you're trying to save, then

1189
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: don't go out and go spend more money, you know,

1190
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: for the foreseeable future five years however long the loan

1191
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: is like, pay the car off that you have, and

1192
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: then you've got extra cats to save. But no, that's

1193
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: not what he wanted to do, and he didn't talk

1194
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: to you about this. He just went and did it.

1195
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 7: Right, So now I'm like, well, are we just savings

1196
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 7: so he could go buy sub truck?

1197
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 10: Now?

1198
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 2: Right?

1199
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 7: Could heep me into this?

1200
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what did you What did

1201
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 1: he say to you when I'm sure you said, oh,

1202
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 1: because I don't even care if you're saving or if

1203
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 1: you have if you're making a conscious effort to do this.

1204
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 1: I mean, I would imagine I'm not in a relationship,

1205
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: but if I would imagine if I were in a

1206
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 1: relationship where finances were involved, that that would be something,

1207
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 1: especially if there wasn't a lot of extra money and

1208
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 1: we were making a conscious effort to save. But I

1209
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: would imagine that's not something that you just go do

1210
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 1: on your own without talking to someone, Like if you're

1211
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: co mingling funds, I probably don't go buy a sixteenth

1212
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 1: thousand dollars car without consulting with you first. But so

1213
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 1: what does he say for himself?

1214
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, so we have a joint account. This was not

1215
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 7: you know, you can't argue, oh, with his money, he

1216
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 7: can do whatever he wants. Like, we put him to

1217
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 7: the same account and he just went and spent the money,

1218
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 7: and I told him, you know, this was not okay.

1219
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 7: Obviously they spends sixty thousand dollars without talking to me.

1220
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:27,879
Speaker 7: And he really didn't have a good answer. He's just like, well,

1221
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 7: you can't control me. And you know I needed a

1222
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 7: new car and you knew that, which I didn't. I

1223
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 7: don't think he did need a new car, but whatever,

1224
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 7: this is his resing and we're like.

1225
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 1: The wheels falling off the thing, like does someone steal

1226
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 1: the engine?

1227
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 18: Like?

1228
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: What what I mean? So he doesn't have a legitimate

1229
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: argument for.

1230
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 7: That, then No, you guys mentioned numerous times that he

1231
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,800
Speaker 7: would like to get a truck, but we've never talked

1232
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 7: in detail about going to get one. Anytime. It was like, yeah, okay,

1233
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 7: yeah maybe someday, Yeah, maybe when you need a new

1234
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 7: car or something. I had no idea he was going

1235
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 7: to go do it right.

1236
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 13: Wow, that's crazy though, to say you can't control me

1237
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 13: or tell me what to do. Sir, we are married.

1238
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 13: It's not about controlling you. It's about literally talking things over.

1239
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 13: It's a huge purchase and a really big deal and

1240
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 13: where is my date nights? Well?

1241
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: He does he show this kind of behavior normally? Like

1242
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: is he typically someone who only thinks of himself or

1243
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: is this kind of a rare occurrence.

1244
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 7: No, I was really surprised. I mean normally he doesn't

1245
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 7: really normally spend a lot of money. I do most

1246
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 7: of the shopping things, and I talked to him, if

1247
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 7: I'm going to make a big purchase, I don't think

1248
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 7: he's ever you know, probably laid a big purchase by himself.

1249
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 7: So no, this was really random.

1250
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? I mean, I know

1251
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 1: you're calling us to get feedback, but I mean, is

1252
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: this something where you're you're like, this was so inconsiderate,

1253
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:56,439
Speaker 1: Like we're cutting corners here and not focusing on things

1254
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 1: that like I don't know, trips together or date nights

1255
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: or this little thing, you know, and eating out and

1256
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: just small luxuries. We're cutting back on this stuff so

1257
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 1: that you can have a car. That's not what we

1258
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: talked about. Like maybe if you'd agreed to that, Hey

1259
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: I need a new car. You know my car isn't reliable,

1260
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: I got to get to work whatever. Okay, well we'll

1261
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 1: cut back on stuff so that you can you know,

1262
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: accomplish that. That's a reasonable conversation. I'm sure happens in

1263
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: relationships all the time. Or hey, we need a new

1264
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 1: air conditioner or whatever it is. But in this case,

1265
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,839
Speaker 1: he just went and did this that talking to you,

1266
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 1: I mean, is it something where you're thinking, I don't

1267
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: even know if I want to be with this.

1268
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 7: Guy, I mean, honestly yeah, because it's well, like I said,

1269
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 7: we don't make a ton of money, Like a sixty

1270
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 7: thousand dollars truck is not something I would have ever

1271
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 7: even considered. It's just way too much. So now he's

1272
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 7: crippling us financially just because he wanted a truck and

1273
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 7: didn't give me any opportunity to weigh in, Like this

1274
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 7: is going to affect us financially for literally years to

1275
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 7: compa songs. He's making these car payments, and I don't

1276
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 7: think it's fair to me. So I don't get to

1277
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 7: ever get take out, go out and get coffee, have

1278
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 7: date nights or whatever so that I can support this truck.

1279
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't blame you, Haley, I don't, but eight five

1280
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 1: five five nine one three five you can context the

1281
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 1: same number. I feel like this is a pretty relatable

1282
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: story because I do know in relationships where people are

1283
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: sharing funds that you know sometimes people have different priorities

1284
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 1: and disagree with how the money should be spent. And

1285
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 1: I do think that's the kind of thing that you

1286
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: want to establish before you marry somebody or get into

1287
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: a relationship where you're com mingling funds. Do you guys

1288
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,880
Speaker 1: have the same philosophy about money that The challenging thing

1289
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 1: here is it sounds like you do, and it sounds

1290
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: like normally he does the right thing, or at least

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Speaker 1: thus far, but in this case, he definitely didn't. And

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Speaker 1: I really don't know what you do. I mean, I

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00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 1: guess you could divorce it, I leave him whatever, but

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00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: I don't really know how you rectify this because he

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00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 1: did it already. This is kind of like that SNL skit,

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Speaker 1: Remember the SNL like the fake Lexus commercial where the

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00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 1: guy was like, look, honey, I bought you Alexis you

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00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: know it's decembert to remember or whatever, and she's like,

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00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: we're broke, and he's like, but it was a low

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00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: apor It's like APR like. And then it turns out that,

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00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 1: you know, his wife's messing around with the neighbor and

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00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 1: he borrowed the money to get in there. And it's

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00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: if you haven't seen it, I'm sure it's on TikTok

1304
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: or YouTube or whatever, but this sounds to me like,

1305
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: but at least that car was for her, Uh, this

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00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 1: car's for him, So I guess what prevents him from

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00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 1: saying you know what, I now I want a new watch,

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00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: or now I want this or that, because I guess,

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00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 1: I just I don't know how you correct this behavior.

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00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 1: I guess is where I'm going.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And well, I mean it's not like you can

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00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 7: just go return the truck as soon as he drove

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00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 7: it off the lot, so she's appreciated in value. There's

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Speaker 7: I'm just concerned, like I said, that now we're going

1315
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 7: to be in a bad spot financially for literally years.

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00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 9: Maybe he sets you guys back, and it's not like

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00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 9: you can go buy a new car and say, well, fine,

1318
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 9: you got one, I got one, because then that just

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00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 9: exacerbates the problem and now you've just got more debt,

1320
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 9: so you can't even really make it even per se.

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00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's really That's that's the stressful thing is there's

1322
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 7: really nothing I can do to fix this. So it's

1323
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 7: just like this is this a life I want? Do

1324
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 7: I want to have to?

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00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: You know?

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00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 7: Because like I said, we were cutting out basically any

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00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 7: little luxuries to quote unquote saves AKA apparently afford this truck.

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00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 7: So it's just do I want to have to live

1329
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 7: like that until this thing is payed off?

1330
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: Haley, I'm gonna take some phone calls, keep the radio

1331
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: or the iHeart app on it unless see what people say,

1332
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 1: Cause I do think there are people that can relate

1333
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: to this, and I'd be curious to hear how they

1334
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: handle it. But thank you for calling. Good luck.

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Speaker 7: Hey, thanks?

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00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. So eight five five one three five. Haley's calling

1337
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: stare Go because they were consciously they had decided as

1338
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: a couple consciously to save money. So they had some

1339
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 1: savings and they had agreed how they were going to

1340
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: do that, and they were going to cut back on

1341
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff. They did that, you know, date nights,

1342
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: and I thinks that probably would make them closer as

1343
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: a couple, things that they enjoyed doing together. And then

1344
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:01,959
Speaker 1: this guy goes out and buys a new car, brand

1345
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: new car, without consulting here, And it's like, wait a minute,

1346
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: I thought we were saving and it's not even like

1347
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: we were. We were having to cut back on luxuries

1348
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: in order to do this, and then you go do that.

1349
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: Micah him Michah, good morning, Good morning, Hia, good morning,

1350
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: thanks for calling, thanks for listening. You've been through this.

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00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, oh what happened?

1352
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, So.

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Speaker 19: My then boyfriend. I mean, I got engaged like a

1354
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 19: month and a half ago. But my boyfriend at the

1355
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 19: time we lived together, his car got stolen, so maybe

1356
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 19: a little bit of a different situation.

1357
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Speaker 3: But he went out and got.

1358
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 8: A Mustang, like a nice, like very expensive must It

1359
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 8: was giving like midlife crisis like scenario, and it was

1360
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 8: a payment that like I knew was stretching him, and like.

1361
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Speaker 19: We hadn't fully combined our finances yet, but we're on

1362
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 19: our way there. And I said to him multiple multiple times,

1363
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 19: like this is not a smart idea. You know, this

1364
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 19: is not a smart idea. He went and did it anyway,

1365
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 19: fast forward, he proposed, and then I was like, all right,

1366
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 19: we got to talk about the Mustang. And he actually

1367
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 19: he he lives, you know, because we talked it out,

1368
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 19: you know, and I was like, look, we've got to

1369
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 19: pay for a wedding coming out, like we have other priorities.

1370
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 19: He traded it in for something that was a lower

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Speaker 19: payment that.

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Speaker 7: He was still happy in.

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01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 19: And so my point is like, yes, i'd just been

1374
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 19: through this, but like I think, listening to the scenario, like.

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01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 7: It's her reaction to be like should I leave him?

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01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 19: Sounds like this didn't happen like in a vacuum like this.

1377
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 19: This wasn't the first time that she's he's given her

1378
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 19: reason to like question, like first of all, just being

1379
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 19: considerate of her trust to like all that kind of stuff.

1380
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 19: So I think if there was a really solid foundation

1381
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 19: of trust and communication, this wouldn't be like a stay

1382
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 19: or go question. But it sounds like there may be,

1383
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 19: isn't that And so therefore like a huge event like this,

1384
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 19: I don't know, I just think that needs to be evaluated.

1385
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 8: Like and she.

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01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 1: Uh, oh he cut off your phone now to pay

1387
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 1: for the Mustang? And what happens? Oh Michael, you went away?

1388
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 1: Oh now you're back again. Oh no, you you cut

1389
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: out because I think your I think your husband's trying

1390
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: to cut off your cell phone, uh, to pay for

1391
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: a water ski a jet ski. But what so do

1392
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: you feel like he learned from that? And do you

1393
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: feel like you know the behavior has been adjusted, like

1394
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: it won't happen again?

1395
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 19: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Like granted his dog had just died,

1396
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 19: seasonal depression was hitting hard, So I think the Mustang

1397
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 19: was like a sin product of a lot of other things. Okay,

1398
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 19: but no, we're we've got like some great communication going

1399
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 19: and yes, I think he learned his lessons.

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01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 1: Well good Hey Michah, I'm glad and thank you for calling.

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01:01:57,640 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: Have a good day.

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01:01:59,440 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 19: Thank you.

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01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 21: I love you guys, Thank.

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01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 1: You for listening to love you too. This is why

1405
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: I say all the time and again, the guy who

1406
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: is not in a relationship, it never is, gives the

1407
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 1: relationship advice. But I do think it's so important that

1408
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 1: when people get together that they're on the same page

1409
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 1: about you know, saving or whatever, because I think those

1410
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 1: are habits that are really hard to change. You know,

1411
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: people who are just used to just buying stuff worrying

1412
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,560
Speaker 1: about it later, and you know, get with somebody who's

1413
01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 1: really financially conscious and saves a lot. You know. I

1414
01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: feel like this is the kind of thing that you

1415
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: could run into. Sarah, Hey, good morning, good morning. Hi.

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01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: What do you think Stargo?

1417
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 7: I think she should go Why?

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01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 22: Because I think when somebody when you sit down and

1419
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 22: have a conversation and you come to an agreement and

1420
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 22: then they go ahead and do completely opposite of what

1421
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 22: you actually sat and talked about, it's going to continue

1422
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 22: to happen.

1423
01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was my question to her, is what prevents

1424
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: this from happening again. He already did it once and

1425
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 1: that was a big purchase. That's a lot of money.

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01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 22: Well, and not only that, it's like, okay, well she

1427
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 22: stayed this time, right, And it doesn't ever even have

1428
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 22: to be with money. It can be anything in a relationship, right,

1429
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 22: So I just feel like once it's like okay, I got.

1430
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 4: That wiggle room in.

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01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 22: Yeah, she's mad, but she'll get over it. Cool, we

1432
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 22: can move on. So unless they actually go and they

1433
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 22: work on their communication with somebody else, I don't think

1434
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 22: it's going to change. I think this could be the

1435
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 22: start of a much bigger issue. And finances in a

1436
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 22: marriage are huge in communication.

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01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree with you. Thank you, Sarah.

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01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 22: Yes, thanks, have a great day.

1439
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you too, thank you. Well, here we go this.

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01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: I knew this was coming. Hi Jen, Hi, how are you? Pagan?

1441
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 1: Good morning? So this woman called us stay or go

1442
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 1: and they were she's married, and they were in this

1443
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 1: relationship and they talked about saving they needed money in

1444
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 1: the bank and they didn't have any, and they were

1445
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: cutting back on all kinds of things. And then dude

1446
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: goes down and buys a brand new sixty thousand dollars

1447
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 1: car and she's like, wait a minute, I'm not going

1448
01:03:57,760 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: to Starbucks. We're not going on date nights, we're not

1449
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: taking trips together. We decided this together. And then you

1450
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: go out and spend a bunch of money. What do

1451
01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: you think, why, all of.

1452
01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 12: A sudden is he changing his character? She said that

1453
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 12: this is totally out of the ordinary for him and

1454
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 12: their marriage, and normally it sounds like, you know, they

1455
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 12: have pretty good communication, and then all of a sudden,

1456
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 12: he goes and does this behind her back to me

1457
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 12: is a clear cut sign that something else is going on,

1458
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 12: especially the fingerpointing. You're trying to control me. I've been there,

1459
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 12: done that, I've seen it, and I've had somebody do

1460
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 12: it to me. As soon as they start pointing the

1461
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 12: finger and making you the enemy, like you're trying to

1462
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 12: do something to hold them back, there's something else going

1463
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 12: on underneath there. So might not have gone as far

1464
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 12: as like actually meeting, but talking internet. You know, she

1465
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 12: needs to chin his phone, she needs to do something

1466
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 12: for sure.

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Speaker 4: Check that thought.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he's cheating. You're saying he's at least emotionally cheating.

1469
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 1: And the new girl's like, I don't like your car.

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01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: You better get a brand new truck or else. And

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Speaker 1: then he went out got himself.

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Speaker 12: A new rout the other girl all, yeah, I don't

1473
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 12: even think it's the other calf telling him that. I

1474
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 12: think it's just his ego of like, I can do

1475
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 12: what I want. And this is almost a catalyst of hey,

1476
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 12: this might kiss her off, but who cares. A husband

1477
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 12: doesn't do that. You know, he knows their situation, he

1478
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 12: knows what he told her. He's either trying to start

1479
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 12: something or he feels inflated by something else and now

1480
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 12: feels this sense of like entitlement that he can do

1481
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 12: this and nobody's going to tell him what to do.

1482
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 12: And as soon as that starts, there's something else underneath.

1483
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 1: Interesting. Thank you so much, Jeen, have a good day,

1484
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: no problem. And Zach, you've listening. Pauline, I don't you

1485
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: said it before, so I don't. I'm not calling you out,

1486
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 1: but I know that you've mentioned that you and Hovey

1487
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: have pretty different financial pass and attitudes about spending, and

1488
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 1: you guys have kind of gotten it together, but I mean,

1489
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 1: how do you how do you do it? And you've

1490
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: been together for a while now, I mean, does it

1491
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 1: come up well?

1492
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 4: It's more like how does hobby do it?

1493
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 13: Because I am the one, like you said, that buys

1494
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 13: and then thinks about it later. Yeah, yesterday I bought

1495
01:05:57,840 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 13: a new vacuum. Didn't need it, but in my head

1496
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 13: like I need to I'll figure out later.

1497
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 4: And him and I bump.

1498
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 13: Heads a lot because he's trying to be the one

1499
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 13: that saves and is responsible and he wants me to

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01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 13: get on board with that, and it is hard. It

1501
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 13: is like we've cut things out too just because I'm like,

1502
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 13: I don't wanna.

1503
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1504
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 13: I want to be more financially stable, but also I

1505
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 13: want to be more financially responsible and teach my daughter

1506
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 13: the same thing.

1507
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 4: And I'm I'm on board with that. But here's the thing.

1508
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 4: If I came home with a brand new truck or he.

1509
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 13: Did without consulting and it's all about talking to each other,

1510
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 13: and he took away my hooters or my muddy school's dates,

1511
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 13: then I would be there'd be hell to.

1512
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 4: Pay because like, at the end of the day.

1513
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 13: I look at it as like, Okay, so priority to

1514
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 13: you was getting this new car. You didn't talk to

1515
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 13: me about it, but you wanted this car. Like I

1516
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 13: look at underneath what's going on, Like, you know, is

1517
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 13: he acting out?

1518
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:42,480
Speaker 4: Is he trying to show me something?

1519
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 13: Is he trying to show me I'm the big man

1520
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 13: in the house, Like I don't know, there's something underneath that.

1521
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 1: It's super inconsiderate to do this, and don't take away

1522
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 1: her mane East ghost man. Not the seasons.

1523
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 4: I love my date night.

1524
01:06:53,960 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Hey Jane Jane, Wait are you Jane?

1525
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 3: I'm Jeneene.

1526
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: Well it says Jane, you might have I call you

1527
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: Jane anyway, So Jean Jane still be it Bellahamine whatever,

1528
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 1: God bless her. So she went fast, what you've been

1529
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 1: through this sadly, and and what's your experience?

1530
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 3: I just had a miscarriage and my act now I'm

1531
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 3: thank you. But what had happened was he went, he

1532
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 3: took the money to go by himself a vehicle and

1533
01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 3: not a vehicle but a four wheeler. And then later

1534
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 3: on down the road he did something similar and once

1535
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 3: that I didn't know about. And the thing ones that

1536
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 3: got me that she said, the big red, huge red

1537
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:42,720
Speaker 3: flag was when she said he was like, you can't

1538
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 3: control me. You know I'm going you know this, I'm

1539
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 3: gonna do what I want. That is manipulation. That is

1540
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 3: a big time red flag manipulation and without some type

1541
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 3: of therapy and him addressing his issues. But what he's

1542
01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 3: doing to her isn't fair. So by trying to gaslighter,

1543
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 3: that's basically a way of saying, I know what I

1544
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 3: did was wrong, but now I'm going to put it

1545
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 3: on you. This is a grown man that doesn't even

1546
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 3: want to be accountable. And you know, maybe he's never

1547
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 3: done anything like this before, but maybe now he's starting

1548
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 3: to show who he really is, because we're not talking

1549
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:22,200
Speaker 3: about a vacuum, you know, we're talking about sixty thousand

1550
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 3: dollars that is going to be able to hurt their

1551
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:27,160
Speaker 3: ability to have a date night, you know, just the

1552
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 3: little stuff. And he just didn't care, you know, and

1553
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 3: that is not the sign of an emotionally mature around

1554
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 3: a person. And you know, she has to ask herself,

1555
01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 3: do I want to, you know, try and see if

1556
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,280
Speaker 3: he's going to start being accountable. But with what he

1557
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:46,719
Speaker 3: said to her, I don't think he's anywhere near ready.

1558
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 1: But I didn't didn't tell you I've got it. Yeah,

1559
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 1: I've got it. And he should be more thoughtful about

1560
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:54,519
Speaker 1: what you're going through and not adding that extra stress.

1561
01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 1: But stead he's he's thinking about himself. Hey, Jeane Jane,

1562
01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. Oh bye, Thank you

1563
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 1: for calling, Thank you for listening. Geane Jane, love you. Yeah.

1564
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 1: I think she should divorce him, take take half the money,

1565
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: and then go buy yourself like a cyber truck or something.

1566
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 4: Yes, I like it.

1567
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:12,639
Speaker 1: You know, just something obnoxious, get it wrapped with pictures

1568
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:14,759
Speaker 1: of his face on it, or you know, dollar bills

1569
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 1: or I'm not sure, you know, just something something outrageous.

1570
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 2: Right, But this is why you always need a separate

1571
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 2: account on the side that he doesn't know about.

1572
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 4: They're not ready for that conversation.

1573
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 2: They let me just be clear, like she should extort

1574
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 2: money from them, and that's better them.

1575
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 4: You think I'm kidding.

1576
01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:35,519
Speaker 1: It makes perfect sense. Yet no, you guys are on it.

1577
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 1: I don't even know why. We just say that twenty

1578
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: minutes ago and end the segment. Kiki is up next.

1579
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:44,680
Speaker 1: Fread show City. I actually do. I do have a verner.

1580
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 1: I do have a burner.

1581
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:46,800
Speaker 4: You do you do?

1582
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 1: I've never used it, but I have one.

1583
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 4: I know you was sex in the show.

1584
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I s here that is so hand I say,

1585
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: how terrible we are.

1586
01:09:56,600 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 14: Fread's show is on Guys Morning, Tuesday, March four.

1587
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: It's a Fred Show. Hi, Kaitlin, Hello morning, Jason Brown,

1588
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 1: Paulina Hie show biz, Kiki, good morning. About to play

1589
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 1: the game one hundred and fifty bucks. You've played once,

1590
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,439
Speaker 1: you won once. We'll see how this goes In about

1591
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 1: ten seconds, Belahamine's here on the phone and the text

1592
01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:19,560
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll investigate.

1593
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 1: Maybe you've seen our tiktoks. Got many a viral TikTok. Kiki,

1594
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 1: make a viral video, Kiki every day. I'll never forget

1595
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 1: that suit who walked in the room one day. Hey,

1596
01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 1: I need you guys to make a viral video today. Okay,

1597
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 1: oh yeah, wait, we'll get right on that. We'll just

1598
01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 1: make a viral sure, why not the Fred Show? TikTok

1599
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 1: for that. My biggest stories of the day, the Entertainment

1600
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:42,600
Speaker 1: Report and fun Fact all this hour? What are you

1601
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: working on? Ok?

1602
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 6: A Guinness World record was broken at the Oscars, and

1603
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 6: I'll tell you what that.

1604
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 1: Was, Fred Show.

1605
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 14: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

1606
01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 14: Shelley in the show biz, showdown, show biz.

1607
01:10:56,200 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 13: Kicky, I had to get in the lab and make

1608
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 13: you an intro song. Okaye, three months?

1609
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 4: You know it's a long time.

1610
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 1: You know what, We've been wait for you to get

1611
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 1: in the lab for a long time. You like Rihanna

1612
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: over here, Paulina. A lot of people don't know that

1613
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 1: Paulina makes custom songs. She's a recording artist and a DJ.

1614
01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know this about Paulina. Perhaps

1615
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:20,240
Speaker 1: you've heard some of her work. But we've been hearing

1616
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:22,760
Speaker 1: for a very long time now about your return of

1617
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 1: the lab, and yet it hasn't happened.

1618
01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:26,640
Speaker 16: I want to make some time for the lab. I know,

1619
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 16: I way overdue. I am like Rihanna, okay, well we

1620
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 16: would appreciate that. DJ, mister DJ Fred show what whoa oh?

1621
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 1: What was that?

1622
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:38,320
Speaker 4: That was just your voice, your inner monologue?

1623
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 1: Where the hell did that come from? I don't know

1624
01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: what's going on. Oh you oh you push? You pushed

1625
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 1: the button with my voice as opposed to the DJ button. DJ. Yes, sir, Okay, Well,

1626
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:53,599
Speaker 1: Pauline is at the Helm. She's driving the ship today,

1627
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 1: so you know she's done a great job so far.

1628
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 4: Complimented me and here I go.

1629
01:11:57,640 --> 01:12:00,880
Speaker 1: We never we never know each We just it's like

1630
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 1: Jesus take the wheel each time DJ tell us about you.

1631
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,639
Speaker 18: You know, I listen to your show pretty much every morning.

1632
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 18: I listed for certain you know, little topics like what's

1633
01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 18: coming up next, you know, waiting by the phone and

1634
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 18: all of that. And I just feel like I could

1635
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 18: weir because the of the Young Lady is on. You know,

1636
01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 18: she leads, So I think I got a shot.

1637
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're taking you're taking advantage. DJ. Have a

1638
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,479
Speaker 1: vulnerable Kiki, is what you're saying. It's a wounded animal

1639
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:31,719
Speaker 1: that you see and you believe you can take our money.

1640
01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: That's what you think.

1641
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 18: Wow, yeah, man, Shelby and Shelley never lose, bro like,

1642
01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 18: so I gotta try now.

1643
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 7: I.

1644
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:42,840
Speaker 1: DJ, you you're making my day right now. Honestly, I'm

1645
01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 1: so glad you called and thank you for listening. Now

1646
01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:48,360
Speaker 1: here's the deal. And again, the company did not tell

1647
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:49,840
Speaker 1: me I can do this, But they don't tell me.

1648
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: They don't really do anything for me, So I'll do

1649
01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 1: whatever I want. This is what we're doing. If you

1650
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 1: win today, you get one hundred and fifty bucks. But

1651
01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 1: if Kiki never loses if she goes undefeated until sho

1652
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: Bin Shelley comes back. Whatever that money is, she can

1653
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,120
Speaker 1: have it, the whole thing, which we think is around

1654
01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:10,280
Speaker 1: three g's. But let's see how this goes. Five question

1655
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 1: Kiki versus DJ one hundred and fifty bucks. She's played once,

1656
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 1: she has won once. Let's see how day number two goes.

1657
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: You ready, I'm ready, ready, Okay, all right, Keiki, with

1658
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 1: all due respect, get the hell out, all right back

1659
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:24,760
Speaker 1: she goes to the sound boof, poof, she must leave

1660
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 1: the studio. Okay, here we go DJ. Question number one.

1661
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: Mark Zuckerberg dressed up as this Beautiful Things singer and

1662
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: performed for his wife for her fortieth birthday.

1663
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 18: Uh, I don't know that one. Pass on that one.

1664
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll pass on that one. Ben Affleck and his

1665
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 1: ex wife were spotted skipping to the Oscars and to take.

1666
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 4: Their whipping the Oscars.

1667
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: My apologies, okay. I was like, wow, they were skipping

1668
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 1: together to the as they were spotted together at the

1669
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: Oscars and we're taking their kids to excuse me, they

1670
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 1: didn't go to the Oscars and they took their kids

1671
01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:04,920
Speaker 1: to play paintball.

1672
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 7: Name.

1673
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 1: That was a very it's a very complicated question name

1674
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 1: Ben afflecks X and the mother of his.

1675
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:20,200
Speaker 23: Kids, Jennifer Lopez. Okay, okay. Britney Spears is Brittany is not?

1676
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 23: Is reportedly not on board with Millie Bobby Brown playing

1677
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 23: her in an upcoming biopic biopic however you want to

1678
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 23: say it, which Netflix show brought Milly to prominence.

1679
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:35,759
Speaker 7: Can you say that question again, please?

1680
01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 1: Britney Spears is reportedly not on board with Millie Bobby

1681
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 1: Brown playing her in an upcoming biopic, which Netflix show

1682
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 1: brought Milly to prominence.

1683
01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 4: Millie Bobby Brown, see, I can't.

1684
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 1: Mess around with these persons either, because I don't know

1685
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 1: what he get.

1686
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 6: I know, I don't want to help them to Yeah,

1687
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:57,840
Speaker 6: all right, we got two left, We got two left.

1688
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 1: We're good. We are so good right here, DJ, this

1689
01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 1: is gonna be great. Goldie Han's son jokingly said he's

1690
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:09,759
Speaker 1: worried that she loves Andrew Garfield more than him after

1691
01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:13,400
Speaker 1: they presented an award together at the Oscars, which superhero

1692
01:15:13,560 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 1: is Andrew best known for playing? Oh No, Captain America,

1693
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:26,559
Speaker 1: not that one. And finally, Brooklyn Beckham has a birthday today.

1694
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 1: Name one of Brooklyn's famous parents named Victoria or David

1695
01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 1: got that David Becka. Okay, my man, my man, I

1696
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:39,719
Speaker 1: need to give you a ding. I don't have the ding. Ready,

1697
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 1: hold on one moment for the ding in the hold on,

1698
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 1: there's the ding. One more dang. He got a five.

1699
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 1: He got a five, Kiki.

1700
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 4: Oh, he got no, really, he got a one.

1701
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 1: He got a one.

1702
01:15:55,760 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 4: One. Yeah, we might give you his name is.

1703
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 1: His name is dj.

1704
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 8: J.

1705
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:08,200
Speaker 1: He was talking a lot of smack and then he

1706
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: got a one. But let's see how this goes. You're

1707
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:15,640
Speaker 1: ready to show his kiky? I'm ready, DJ over here. Yeah.

1708
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: Mark Zuckerberg dressed up as this Beautiful Things singer and

1709
01:16:19,200 --> 01:16:21,960
Speaker 1: performed for his wife for her fortieth birthday.

1710
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:23,639
Speaker 4: My boom, Benson boom.

1711
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 1: Okay, there's one, Ben Affleck said his ex wife, And

1712
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry Ben Fleck. Who with Ben Affleck's.

1713
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 4: Ex Jennifer Lopez and a lot of the kids. I

1714
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:38,920
Speaker 4: forgot that Jennifer that he's still in love with.

1715
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:49,880
Speaker 2: Jennifer who Gardener Gardener Gardner, I'm.

1716
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:54,720
Speaker 1: Not, I'm not Jennifer Gardener. Jennifer Gardner is the porn

1717
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: star version. No, Jennifer Gardner. Oh my god, Okay, come on,

1718
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 1: all right, we have three left. You only have to

1719
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 1: get one of these. Britney Spears is reportedly not on

1720
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:06,600
Speaker 1: board with Millie Bobby Brown playing her in an upcoming

1721
01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: biopic biopic which Netflix show brought Milly to prominence.

1722
01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 4: Hmm, no, three white lotus?

1723
01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 1: Are you gonna say that every time you don't know

1724
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 1: an answer?

1725
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:23,679
Speaker 12: Okay?

1726
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 1: Anyway, all right, okay, you have to get You have

1727
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 1: to get one of these too, or I'm gonna regret

1728
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:33,120
Speaker 1: what I just did. Goldie Hans's son jokingly said he's

1729
01:17:33,200 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 1: worried that she loves Andrew Garfield more than him after

1730
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 1: they presented an award together at the Oscars, which superhero

1731
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:45,920
Speaker 1: is Andrew best known for playing. Oh God, oh no

1732
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:50,680
Speaker 1: one Spider Man. Oh that was a great guest. You

1733
01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 1: said it. That was good. And finally, just just kicky

1734
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:58,680
Speaker 1: one time, just say one thing and stop talking. Brooklyn

1735
01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 1: Beckham has a birth today name one of Brooklyn Beckham's

1736
01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 1: favorite parents, David Beckham. All right, all right, you wan

1737
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 1: no matter what, my man, DJ. You're a good guy.

1738
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 1: You can call any time. We love you, but you

1739
01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: have to say my name is DJ. I got showed

1740
01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: up on a showdown and you can't hang with Key.

1741
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,040
Speaker 1: I think we're gonna say you can't hang with Kick

1742
01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:23,719
Speaker 1: with the Yeah.

1743
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:26,360
Speaker 18: Okay, yep, I got showed up on the showdown and

1744
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,960
Speaker 18: I can't hang with Ki Keith And I thought I could.

1745
01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: DJ, I love you? Is this tone? This tone calling

1746
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 1: in the right?

1747
01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:36,599
Speaker 24: Man?

1748
01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 1: Are you tone? No? Okay? Maybe not all right? Hang

1749
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: on a second, DJ, hold like you stay right there,

1750
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: my man. You DJ can't hang with Kick cat man.

1751
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,160
Speaker 4: I was just taking a bag, bro like I love it.

1752
01:18:58,680 --> 01:18:59,679
Speaker 4: IM gonna play this forever.

1753
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:06,640
Speaker 16: It will o My god, you truly have to go.

1754
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't do this, yeah, thinking LI said scream

1755
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 4: my name.

1756
01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 1: Well, guys, Kiki's always calling me saying scream my name.

1757
01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:18,559
Speaker 1: It's weird. It's it's a weird thing. I'm I out

1758
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,640
Speaker 1: in public and she's like, do it, you know, and

1759
01:19:20,640 --> 01:19:24,000
Speaker 1: I and I do. But two hundred bucks is the prize.

1760
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 1: Two wins. You are two and zero in the game, Kiki.

1761
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 4: Come on three thousand here come baby.

1762
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 1: And if you win, if you never lose, if you

1763
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:35,760
Speaker 1: go undefeated, I will give you whatever that money is.

1764
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:36,640
Speaker 4: Okay.

1765
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 17: I hope this personal. Oh no, no, no, no, he said,

1766
01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:47,920
Speaker 17: I will give you the money. Yeah, no, Jason, I

1767
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:50,640
Speaker 17: don't know what you're defending these people for. No, absolutely not.

1768
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 17: You are giving them the company money. She gets the

1769
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:55,839
Speaker 17: company money. Waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted?

1770
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 17: In two minutes, We'll do it Fred's Show.

1771
01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:03,719
Speaker 14: Never been left waiting the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hi, Brianna,

1772
01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:04,439
Speaker 14: Welcome to the show.

1773
01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:05,400
Speaker 1: How are you Hi?

1774
01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 24: I'm good.

1775
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 1: How are you guys doing? Okay? Thank you so much

1776
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,280
Speaker 1: for being part of the program. Waiting by the phone,

1777
01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:13,400
Speaker 1: trying to figure out if you've been ghosted by this

1778
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: guy Seth? So set us up here. How did you

1779
01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:18,240
Speaker 1: meet Seth? Tell us about any dates you've been on,

1780
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: and then where things are now?

1781
01:20:19,560 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 24: Well, I met him on like Tinder, and you know,

1782
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:26,559
Speaker 24: we just recently went on a date and we were

1783
01:20:26,600 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 24: just planning to meet up for a drink, but we

1784
01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:32,919
Speaker 24: ended up like staying a long time and getting pretty drunk,

1785
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 24: and I mean, I had a great time, and I

1786
01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:38,280
Speaker 24: just don't know, I just never heard from him after that,

1787
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:40,479
Speaker 24: and I'm really bummed about it.

1788
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 1: Okay, so this date went well though, I mean you

1789
01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:45,720
Speaker 1: said you drank a lot. I mean, what was the

1790
01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 1: conversation good? I mean I don't know, tell us.

1791
01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:49,679
Speaker 18: A lot more.

1792
01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:51,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1793
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 24: No, it was really good, Like I had a great

1794
01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 24: time with him. We were laughing a lot, you know,

1795
01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 24: So I just I really don't.

1796
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:00,839
Speaker 7: Get like what happened.

1797
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:04,320
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, but you left the date, even though

1798
01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:06,400
Speaker 1: you drank a lot and whatever, you left the date

1799
01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:08,040
Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna hear from this guy again, We're gonna

1800
01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:08,599
Speaker 1: go out again.

1801
01:21:09,200 --> 01:21:09,320
Speaker 23: Uh.

1802
01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: You know that you thought the chemistry was good, you

1803
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 1: were attracted to him, you felt like he was attracted

1804
01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:15,919
Speaker 1: to you. I mean all these things. You're actually surprised

1805
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 1: that he didn't call you.

1806
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:20,160
Speaker 24: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, yeah, okay.

1807
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 1: All right, well that's where we come in. We're gonna

1808
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 1: call this guy, seth, get him on the phone. We're

1809
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,120
Speaker 1: gonna ask some questions on your behalf, and you know,

1810
01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:28,880
Speaker 1: hopefully we can straighten out whatever's going on. Maybe he's

1811
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 1: been busy, or you know, something came up, or who

1812
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 1: knows what, But the hope is we can set you

1813
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: up on another date and pay for that, and then

1814
01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:39,800
Speaker 1: you know, maybe things work better the second time, or

1815
01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:43,280
Speaker 1: they work as well or even better. Who knows what

1816
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:45,600
Speaker 1: could happen on a second date, right, Brianna.

1817
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 24: Yeah, I'm hoping.

1818
01:21:47,080 --> 01:21:48,880
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well hang on one second. We're gonna

1819
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 1: call him, gonna play one song, come back and do it.

1820
01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:52,680
Speaker 1: Stay there, let's see what's going on. Part two of

1821
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:55,880
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone right after Rose back in two

1822
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 1: minutes on the Fread Show. Don't move Rose, It's the

1823
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:02,000
Speaker 1: Frend Show. Good in morning. Hey, Brianna, welcome back. Let's

1824
01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 1: call this guy Seth. You guys, you met on Tyinder,

1825
01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:05,960
Speaker 1: you went on a date. You thought the date went well.

1826
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:08,599
Speaker 1: The problem is you haven't heard from him since the date,

1827
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:09,679
Speaker 1: and you want to know why.

1828
01:22:09,760 --> 01:22:11,360
Speaker 24: Yeah, I mean, I don't get it. I thought we

1829
01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:12,000
Speaker 24: had a good time.

1830
01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:19,639
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna call him now, good luck. Hello.

1831
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,400
Speaker 1: Hi's is Seth? Oh, yes, Seth, good morning. My name

1832
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:25,120
Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning

1833
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:26,519
Speaker 1: radio show, and I have to tell you that we

1834
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 1: are on the radio right now and I would need

1835
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:30,120
Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Said, okay if

1836
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 1: we chat for just a second. Oh yeah, that's okay.

1837
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: What's up? Okay, Well, thank you. We're calling on behalf

1838
01:22:36,280 --> 01:22:38,680
Speaker 1: of a woman named Brianna. I guess you met on

1839
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 1: Timder and you recently went on a date with her.

1840
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 1: Do you remember her? Man, Yeah, yeah, okay, Well she

1841
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:47,639
Speaker 1: called us and told us that she had a great

1842
01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:49,960
Speaker 1: time on the date. She admitted that you guys went

1843
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:51,639
Speaker 1: for drinks and that you had a lot of drinks.

1844
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:53,600
Speaker 1: But the date when well, she said it went for

1845
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 1: a while. So that's usually a pretty good sign. But

1846
01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:58,120
Speaker 1: she also says that she hasn't heard from you since

1847
01:22:58,160 --> 01:22:59,240
Speaker 1: the date. So what happened?

1848
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:04,639
Speaker 21: Yeah, so it started out all right, you know, Breannes,

1849
01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 21: she's really pretty things were going well, but our day

1850
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,879
Speaker 21: was the Saturday night that they took away TikTok and.

1851
01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 1: Odd, she just she's.

1852
01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 21: Acting like a crack addict. You need another head, you know,

1853
01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 21: like I know, another way to describe. It's just like,

1854
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 21: you know, she checked her phone at one point and

1855
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 21: she just screamed. I honestly thought somebody had died. But yes,

1856
01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:34,680
Speaker 21: TikTok just wasn't working on her phone anymore, you know,

1857
01:23:35,000 --> 01:23:37,679
Speaker 21: And I'm like, wait, why is she even checking TikTok

1858
01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 21: during the day?

1859
01:23:38,439 --> 01:23:40,639
Speaker 1: Is this not going the way I thought it was.

1860
01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:42,519
Speaker 4: Then all of a sudden, she's crying.

1861
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:43,320
Speaker 1: She's angry.

1862
01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:43,600
Speaker 3: You know.

1863
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:47,439
Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, you.

1864
01:23:47,360 --> 01:23:49,160
Speaker 21: Were sitting here at dinner and I'm just like, all

1865
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:51,320
Speaker 21: of a sudden, there's like she's going through these emotions

1866
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 21: and I'm I've I never had TikTok really, I've never

1867
01:23:54,479 --> 01:23:55,559
Speaker 21: really been on it too much.

1868
01:23:55,600 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 1: So it's not if I want a date with someone

1869
01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:03,200
Speaker 1: they look at their phone start crying. I'm assuming that

1870
01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:09,599
Speaker 1: some terrible thing just happened. And that's what happened, okay,

1871
01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:14,479
Speaker 1: like something like an actually an actual loss, like a death. Again,

1872
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:16,719
Speaker 1: it's a human being.

1873
01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 4: There was a whole funeral interest see it. Thank you.

1874
01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I had the same level of shock

1875
01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 1: when I looked at TikTok and it like started, it

1876
01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:28,520
Speaker 1: started like to act up, and I'm like, uh oh.

1877
01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:29,960
Speaker 1: And then I got that thing and I was like,

1878
01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:33,439
Speaker 1: uh oh, But I wasn't. I didn't start crying. I

1879
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:34,519
Speaker 1: was like, what am I going to do with the

1880
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:36,960
Speaker 1: fourteen hours a day I just got back? But I wasn't.

1881
01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't crying about it. If a woman cries in

1882
01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:43,760
Speaker 1: a first date, something very bad has happened. Actually, not

1883
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:47,560
Speaker 1: the loss of an app. That's exactly all right. Let me.

1884
01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:49,280
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that Brianna is here. I got

1885
01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: so tired up in this story and I'm so forgetful,

1886
01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:53,519
Speaker 1: But Brihanna is here. Brianna, you cried on the date,

1887
01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:55,519
Speaker 1: but you didn't mention that. And you cried on the

1888
01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:57,439
Speaker 1: date over TikTok you didn't mention that either.

1889
01:24:58,880 --> 01:25:02,320
Speaker 24: Is like, it's a huge part of my life and

1890
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:05,479
Speaker 24: I was really upset, you know, I.

1891
01:25:05,439 --> 01:25:08,960
Speaker 1: Mean, okay, but can you understand why this guy might

1892
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:11,160
Speaker 1: be like thinking that was an overreaction?

1893
01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:15,360
Speaker 7: No, I mean it's just you know, like I'm sure

1894
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 7: I'm not the only one that freaked out, like it

1895
01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:21,599
Speaker 7: was really gone.

1896
01:25:22,479 --> 01:25:24,960
Speaker 1: It was really gone. But I think if I if

1897
01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:27,120
Speaker 1: a woman cried or a man or whomever on a

1898
01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:30,080
Speaker 1: date that I'm on, whatever, whatever kind of date I'm on, well,

1899
01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:32,879
Speaker 1: I'm not trying. No, I'm just not I'm not limiting

1900
01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:35,640
Speaker 1: you know this scenario. If I'm on a date and

1901
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 1: someone cries, and in this case for me, it would

1902
01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:39,920
Speaker 1: be a woman, Okay, And I say, what are you

1903
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:42,040
Speaker 1: crying about? And she what are you? What are you

1904
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:45,640
Speaker 1: hysterically crying about? And she said the loss of TikTok.

1905
01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 1: I think I might say, well that seems aggressive.

1906
01:25:52,640 --> 01:25:55,840
Speaker 4: Yes, oh my god, where is the compassion right?

1907
01:25:55,840 --> 01:26:01,960
Speaker 1: Where humanity we need support these Okay, girl, this.

1908
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:05,880
Speaker 2: Is a safe space here between Jason and I, and

1909
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:08,400
Speaker 2: you were totally fine to cry over your act because

1910
01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 2: you guys men cry when their favorite football team loses.

1911
01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 2: I don't know if you okay, well, ever been cut

1912
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:16,639
Speaker 2: off and you can't get to your favorite shows? People

1913
01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 2: break down from.

1914
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:20,280
Speaker 1: It, I guess. So I guess my issue isn't the crying.

1915
01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,000
Speaker 1: It's the crying over that because a lot of people

1916
01:26:23,040 --> 01:26:24,719
Speaker 1: were shot. Kiki, are you okay?

1917
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:25,040
Speaker 8: No?

1918
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 1: All right?

1919
01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 2: Ye?

1920
01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:27,479
Speaker 4: Bad for this woman?

1921
01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:30,519
Speaker 1: Okay, Well how about this? Then seth she she had

1922
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:34,560
Speaker 1: this visual reaction, she was shocked, you know she. I

1923
01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:36,880
Speaker 1: don't know, she like a lot of people, I will

1924
01:26:36,920 --> 01:26:39,200
Speaker 1: say this, I guess I didn't really think it would

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Speaker 1: like really really go away. So I wasn't paying much

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Speaker 1: attention to where to find certain creators elsewhere. So there

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Speaker 1: was part of me that did feel a bit of

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Speaker 1: a loss because I was like, where am I going

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Speaker 1: to find these people? And is it going to be

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Speaker 1: the same, you know, because I don't know. I see

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Speaker 1: there's certain creators. I see their videos every day, so

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Speaker 1: I get that, but I don't know that I would

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Speaker 1: start crying and I have no problem with crying. But

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Speaker 1: let's just say that she, you know, had a big

1935
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Speaker 1: react to this seth. But you did sit there with

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Speaker 1: her for a while, so would you consider another date? Maybe?

1937
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Speaker 1: Now TikTok's back, we should be okay. I don't think like, uh,

1938
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Speaker 1: you know, aol is going anywhere or whatever. There's YouTube

1939
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Speaker 1: or something on the date, so she should be fine.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it and we'll try it again. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's that's all fair. I think, yeah, really

1942
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Speaker 1: one time thing. I think, yeah, she's nice and pretty.

1943
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Speaker 1: You know, I'll go on another date. This is wonderful.

1944
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Speaker 1: I'm a little surprised, but okay, so you know what,

1945
01:27:30,680 --> 01:27:33,040
Speaker 1: she had a big reaction. Everything is going to be okay,

1946
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Speaker 1: and you want to go out with her again, Brianna,

1947
01:27:35,760 --> 01:27:39,599
Speaker 1: you hear that we got another date going. That's great, Okay, good,

1948
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Speaker 1: so we'll get all your in. This is not very common.

1949
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Speaker 1: I think it's happened only a handful of times. I

1950
01:27:45,280 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 1: frankly did not my spidy senses did not see it

1951
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Speaker 1: happening here. But we're going to pay for another date

1952
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:53,479
Speaker 1: and then we're going to follow up with you in

1953
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Speaker 1: a few days and see how that date went and

1954
01:27:55,439 --> 01:27:58,439
Speaker 1: hopefully that was just a one time deal and everything's fine. Okay,

1955
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Speaker 1: you guys hang out one second, the Entertainer Report, the

1956
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Speaker 1: biggest stories of the day, and the fund Sect all

1957
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Speaker 1: on the way next back a three minutes on the

1958
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Speaker 1: Fred Show, Klin's Entertainer Report. He's on the Fread Show.

1959
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:15,280
Speaker 6: Conan O'Brien's joke writer once everyone who missed the comedic

1960
01:28:15,360 --> 01:28:18,080
Speaker 6: timing of his Oscars joke about the Drake Kendrick beef

1961
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Speaker 6: to know that it was just a pop culture reference.

1962
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Speaker 4: There's no ill intent. No Conan is not picking sides

1963
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Speaker 4: in the beef, which a lot of people think that

1964
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Speaker 4: he is.

1965
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Speaker 6: Skyler Higgley, who wrote the joke for Conan, says, and

1966
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Speaker 6: if you missed the joke, it was, he says, we're

1967
01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:32,720
Speaker 6: halfway through the show, so that means it's time for

1968
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Speaker 6: Kendrick to come out and call Drake a.

1969
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Speaker 4: Pedophile a lah halftime. He said.

1970
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Speaker 6: The idea that it's being taken as a real call

1971
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Speaker 6: out or taking sides in any way in the beef

1972
01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 6: is absurd. He said it was simply a reference to

1973
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Speaker 6: Kendrick's Super Bowl performance and a cultural moment of the

1974
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Speaker 6: past year. Higher ups actually tried to get Conan to

1975
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:55,120
Speaker 6: cut that joke as well, but there was one producer

1976
01:28:55,200 --> 01:28:58,519
Speaker 6: who was really fighting for it. And I mean, yes,

1977
01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:00,000
Speaker 6: it was written by his writer, but if he didn't

1978
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Speaker 6: want to say it, he wouldn't, so Conan obviously co

1979
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Speaker 6: signed it as well. Speaking of the Oscars, Conan made

1980
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Speaker 6: it very clear that he's not playing around with long

1981
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Speaker 6: acceptance speeches.

1982
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Speaker 4: But that didn't stop Adrian Brody.

1983
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Speaker 6: During his Best Actors speech Sunday night, he broke a record,

1984
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:17,759
Speaker 6: going on for five minutes and forty seconds. The Guinness

1985
01:29:17,800 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 6: World Records currently cites Greer Garson's nineteen forty three Best

1986
01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:24,960
Speaker 6: Actress acceptance speech as the longest in Academy history at

1987
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Speaker 6: five minutes and thirty seconds.

1988
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Speaker 4: This would mean that Adrian's now the longest.

1989
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Speaker 6: There is some debate going on because they don't have

1990
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Speaker 6: the audio of her full speech because it was so

1991
01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:35,920
Speaker 6: long ago and they only have like three minutes of

1992
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Speaker 6: it archived, but historians have written that hers was that long. Nonetheless,

1993
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Speaker 6: Adrian had people asleep in the audience. I'm sure Sunday night,

1994
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Speaker 6: I mean five minutes and forty seconds, I mean Jesus,

1995
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Speaker 6: And later that night Chapel roan. She did a duet

1996
01:29:48,760 --> 01:29:50,320
Speaker 6: that we didn't know we needed. She was joined on

1997
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Speaker 6: stage by Elton John for a duet of Pink Pony Club.

1998
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Speaker 6: She was the headliner at his thirty third annual Eights

1999
01:29:56,720 --> 01:29:59,759
Speaker 6: Foundation Oscar party. It was a watch party in West Hollywood,

2000
01:30:00,160 --> 01:30:02,439
Speaker 6: and she also did a cover of his song Your Song.

2001
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Speaker 6: Elton was actually a very early fan of Chapel. I

2002
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:08,519
Speaker 6: interviewed her when she was opening up for Olivia Rodrigo

2003
01:30:08,600 --> 01:30:10,519
Speaker 6: on the Guts Tour, right before she blew up. It

2004
01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:13,719
Speaker 6: was like seconds later, and I asked her if anyone

2005
01:30:13,840 --> 01:30:15,559
Speaker 6: has reached out saying they were a fan of hers,

2006
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Speaker 6: and she mentioned Elton, So he has been an early

2007
01:30:18,560 --> 01:30:20,920
Speaker 6: Chapel fan, and boy was he right. By the way,

2008
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Speaker 6: if you missed any part of our show, The Fred Show,

2009
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Speaker 6: you can search The Frend Show on demand on the

2010
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Speaker 6: free new and improved iHeartRadio app and then set us

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Speaker 6: as a preset.

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Speaker 4: Please Friend's fun fact Fred Fund.

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Speaker 1: Okay, did you know that tigers have striped skin, not

2014
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Speaker 1: your stripe fur? Oh? Really?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 19: What?

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Speaker 1: I swear that high? I swear that high, but yes,

2018
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Speaker 1: tigers have striped not just striped fur. And I guess

2019
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:07,400
Speaker 1: I never thought about that before, but I guess I

2020
01:31:07,479 --> 01:31:11,240
Speaker 1: thought most animals would have like skin like ours, you know,

2021
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Speaker 1: that's just one color and then the fur might be

2022
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Speaker 1: different colors or whatever. But no, no, tigers have striped skin,

2023
01:31:20,720 --> 01:31:26,040
Speaker 1: not just striped fur. I know you're blown away by this. Yeah,

2024
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Speaker 1: blown shook, absolutely shook. Kiki tomorrow on the show This

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Speaker 1: Kiki Showdown, we're doing animal effects now. That's where we're

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Speaker 1: at with this game Fread show next. Yeah, they talk

2027
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Speaker 1: better than.

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Speaker 14: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: It's like we're running in our diaries, except we say

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Speaker 1: them a loud. We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, take

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Speaker 1: it away.

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Speaker 4: Oh thank you so much, dear blog. So I know, Freddy,

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Speaker 4: You've talked about.

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Speaker 13: This like many of times here, and I've heard, you know, stories,

2035
01:31:59,760 --> 01:32:02,960
Speaker 13: but to be completely honest, I've never had like I've

2036
01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:05,200
Speaker 13: never seen it happen to a friend. It's happened to me,

2037
01:32:05,320 --> 01:32:06,719
Speaker 13: but I was like, oh, I see it happen to people.

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01:32:06,760 --> 01:32:08,400
Speaker 13: Maybe it's like one of those like fairy tale things

2039
01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 13: where like it might happen, and like, I don't know,

2040
01:32:10,680 --> 01:32:13,759
Speaker 13: it didn't really like hit me until my best friend

2041
01:32:14,400 --> 01:32:16,920
Speaker 13: mentioned the other day, he goes, oh, yeah, you know,

2042
01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:19,080
Speaker 13: I was gonna go out with and I won't name them,

2043
01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:21,240
Speaker 13: but I was gonna go out this couple, a married couple,

2044
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:24,200
Speaker 13: newly married, because like I think there are maybe five

2045
01:32:24,280 --> 01:32:28,920
Speaker 13: six months in he was no longer invited to something

2046
01:32:29,040 --> 01:32:31,600
Speaker 13: that he I guess maybe assumed he was invited to.

2047
01:32:31,720 --> 01:32:34,120
Speaker 13: I guess they made plans like prior, and I guess

2048
01:32:34,160 --> 01:32:36,519
Speaker 13: he had asked, like kind of like another friend, what's

2049
01:32:36,640 --> 01:32:38,920
Speaker 13: up with that? You know, why wasn't I invited? And

2050
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Speaker 13: it was a married couple's only kind of event.

2051
01:32:42,439 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was.

2052
01:32:43,160 --> 01:32:44,760
Speaker 13: About to go in there swinging and nothing to do

2053
01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:47,479
Speaker 13: with me. But I was so upset about that for

2054
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:49,720
Speaker 13: so many reasons. And I'm a married person. I'm a

2055
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:52,600
Speaker 13: married couple over here, and I would never even in

2056
01:32:52,720 --> 01:32:54,280
Speaker 13: my mind, like ever think of.

2057
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Speaker 4: Doing that to somebody.

2058
01:32:56,280 --> 01:32:58,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. No, it's a real thing. As

2059
01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:01,680
Speaker 1: a single guy, I think there are couples events that

2060
01:33:01,840 --> 01:33:04,160
Speaker 1: take place and I don't take it personally. Well, it's

2061
01:33:04,200 --> 01:33:06,240
Speaker 1: hard kind of not to, but I think I don't

2062
01:33:06,240 --> 01:33:10,479
Speaker 1: get invited because I would be like the odd man out,

2063
01:33:10,600 --> 01:33:12,280
Speaker 1: you know, I'd be like the third or fifth or

2064
01:33:12,400 --> 01:33:15,400
Speaker 1: tenth or whatever wheel or I guess tenth wouldn't make

2065
01:33:15,439 --> 01:33:16,840
Speaker 1: s it, you know, I'd be the eleventh wheel.

2066
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Speaker 13: But like, I just don't understand. Like to me, my

2067
01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:22,960
Speaker 13: friends first of all are my people. But if my

2068
01:33:23,080 --> 01:33:25,160
Speaker 13: friends can't come out with me and my husband and

2069
01:33:25,280 --> 01:33:27,280
Speaker 13: like have a good time or whatever, like are we

2070
01:33:27,360 --> 01:33:27,880
Speaker 13: really friends?

2071
01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:28,800
Speaker 4: Like I has nothing to do.

2072
01:33:28,840 --> 01:33:30,679
Speaker 13: I don't care if you're married single, if you're seeing

2073
01:33:30,720 --> 01:33:33,160
Speaker 13: eighteen different men, like I don't care if you're like

2074
01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:34,840
Speaker 13: the play a player, like I don't care what your

2075
01:33:35,000 --> 01:33:36,840
Speaker 13: status is. Like that has nothing to do with me

2076
01:33:36,960 --> 01:33:38,960
Speaker 13: wanting to invite you to my event or my dinner

2077
01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:41,120
Speaker 13: whatever it is, Like that's the place that you know

2078
01:33:41,160 --> 01:33:41,479
Speaker 13: what I mean?

2079
01:33:41,640 --> 01:33:43,639
Speaker 6: Like why are we treating marriage like it's some sort

2080
01:33:43,640 --> 01:33:45,960
Speaker 6: of elite club that like you need a membership too,

2081
01:33:46,200 --> 01:33:48,320
Speaker 6: like of chill, Like you decided to do that, and

2082
01:33:48,439 --> 01:33:51,040
Speaker 6: that's great for you. But a friend is a friend,

2083
01:33:51,200 --> 01:33:53,320
Speaker 6: Like you need new friends if people are doing that too,

2084
01:33:53,400 --> 01:33:54,160
Speaker 6: that's crazy.

2085
01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 4: It's so mean.

2086
01:33:55,479 --> 01:33:57,280
Speaker 13: And I saw like this TikTok, and I don't know

2087
01:33:57,400 --> 01:34:00,519
Speaker 13: this girl was talking about. I guess why married couples this? Yeah,

2088
01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:02,800
Speaker 13: I'm very curious. I am one mind you, but I

2089
01:34:02,960 --> 01:34:05,680
Speaker 13: never never thought of it this way. I guess it's

2090
01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:09,160
Speaker 13: married couples want to be around married couples because a

2091
01:34:09,240 --> 01:34:10,400
Speaker 13: it's the relatability part.

2092
01:34:10,600 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 4: But I guess like it's a secure kind of thing.

2093
01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:16,320
Speaker 13: So it's like I would invite a single person, which

2094
01:34:16,360 --> 01:34:18,679
Speaker 13: is really I brought flag on your marriage in my opinion,

2095
01:34:18,760 --> 01:34:22,000
Speaker 13: because what you're afraid that single person's gonna meddle in

2096
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:23,800
Speaker 13: your relationship and gonna come.

2097
01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:26,120
Speaker 4: I know, Yeah, I saw a video.

2098
01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:28,639
Speaker 1: I thought it was just because it was like it's

2099
01:34:28,760 --> 01:34:30,680
Speaker 1: couples and then a random.

2100
01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:33,040
Speaker 13: Dude, yes, or I saw like not even marriage, but

2101
01:34:33,120 --> 01:34:35,600
Speaker 13: like if like a couple that's dating does that.

2102
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Speaker 4: I was like, ma'am, what, like you don't want your

2103
01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:40,599
Speaker 4: homegirl around your man like that? That's a whole conversation.

2104
01:34:41,400 --> 01:34:42,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if that, I don't know if I

2105
01:34:42,960 --> 01:34:44,960
Speaker 1: agree with that. The other thing, this happens a lot

2106
01:34:45,040 --> 01:34:47,120
Speaker 1: too with and I've said this before over the years,

2107
01:34:47,120 --> 01:34:50,120
Speaker 1: but it happens with people with kids too, like my friends.

2108
01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:54,080
Speaker 1: All of my friends, like in one particular friend group,

2109
01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:57,120
Speaker 1: we all used to be single. Now everyone but me

2110
01:34:57,280 --> 01:34:59,680
Speaker 1: is married, and everybody but me has a kid. And

2111
01:34:59,760 --> 01:35:02,320
Speaker 1: I find out that like they hang out a lot,

2112
01:35:02,479 --> 01:35:05,080
Speaker 1: but they hang out, you know, the kid's birthday party,

2113
01:35:05,120 --> 01:35:07,599
Speaker 1: which is at the play place you know, or whatever,

2114
01:35:07,760 --> 01:35:09,479
Speaker 1: and it's like, well, we didn't invite you because we

2115
01:35:09,520 --> 01:35:11,479
Speaker 1: didn't think you wanted to go to a play place

2116
01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:13,920
Speaker 1: on a Saturday with a bunch of screaming kids, And

2117
01:35:13,960 --> 01:35:17,040
Speaker 1: they're right, I don't. But at the same time, if

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Speaker 1: that's the only way I'm going to see a lot

2119
01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:20,240
Speaker 1: of these people, then I guess I probably would go

2120
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Speaker 1: exactly that's your true you know, but that's more of

2121
01:35:23,640 --> 01:35:26,720
Speaker 1: like a lifestyle thing, I guess. But but yeah, I

2122
01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:28,720
Speaker 1: think that people with kids hang out with people with

2123
01:35:28,840 --> 01:35:30,960
Speaker 1: kids a lot, and I think that that couples don't

2124
01:35:31,000 --> 01:35:34,280
Speaker 1: necessarily invite like a third person to hang out with them,

2125
01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:37,639
Speaker 1: and I think so we miss out on stuff single people.

2126
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Speaker 6: When I was single, my friends like loved it because

2127
01:35:40,400 --> 01:35:42,760
Speaker 6: they wanted to pick my brain about dating and like,

2128
01:35:43,000 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 6: you know, talk all the things, which I mean single

2129
01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:47,080
Speaker 6: people don't always love when married people are like.

2130
01:35:47,200 --> 01:35:50,960
Speaker 4: I'm living vicariously through you. But I mean, I don't

2131
01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:52,120
Speaker 4: know that just that would hurt me.

2132
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Speaker 1: But yeah, I've gone on vacations though, like trips, weekend

2133
01:35:55,800 --> 01:35:57,920
Speaker 1: trips and stuff where I'm the like a married couple

2134
01:35:57,960 --> 01:36:00,599
Speaker 1: on me, I love it. No, and it's fine, I mean,

2135
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Speaker 1: you know, but it's funny because the wife will in

2136
01:36:02,760 --> 01:36:05,519
Speaker 1: this case, argued all weekend like I think I'm the

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Speaker 1: third wheel because basically this is like you two wanted

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Speaker 1: to go out and do something, but you couldn't get

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Speaker 1: even't think you get away with it unless I came,

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Speaker 1: and then I guess for me, I don't necessarily want

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Speaker 1: to invite someone to go on a trip with all

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Speaker 1: my friends unless the relationship kind of is going someplace,

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Speaker 1: because I do think if as a dude, if I

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Speaker 1: say to a woman i'm dating, let's go on a

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Speaker 1: trip first of all, or let's all go to dinner

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Speaker 1: with my friends, then I think what we're saying there is, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: let me introduce you to my friends because I'm serious

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Speaker 1: about you, And if I'm not, then I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's fair.

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Speaker 13: Agree, good point, good point, But you should still be

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Speaker 13: invited to the dinners, to the kids' birthday parties.

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Speaker 4: Listen.

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Speaker 13: As a married person was a child, I hate when

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Speaker 13: people treat it like jail or prison where they can't

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Speaker 13: see their friends anymore or want to invite other friends, Like.

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Speaker 4: That's me is so weird. Like yesterday, my husband he

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Speaker 4: went out with his.

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Speaker 13: Friends for his friend's birthday and he was like pacing

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Speaker 13: the house. I'm like, what time are you leaving? What

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Speaker 13: time are you leaving? And I'm like, you know what's

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Speaker 13: crazy too, is that your friends are single. I guess

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01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:09,080
Speaker 13: maybe in relationships technically, but they're like single and no kids,

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Speaker 13: and you're the guy that's married with kids, and yet

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01:37:11,760 --> 01:37:13,680
Speaker 13: your ass is going out more than they do. Like

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Speaker 13: that's to me crazy, Like maybe it's just me and

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Speaker 13: like the kind of wife that I am, because I

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Speaker 13: am okay with it, because I also.

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Speaker 4: I one thing about me is I love my alone time.

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Speaker 13: I I love being alone and I also love going

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Speaker 13: out with my friends, and like that's something I'm not

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Speaker 13: giving up.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm just I'm sorry, I'm not. Don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 4: You know, if my kid needs me, of course, like

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Speaker 4: my daughter will be.

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Speaker 1: Look, you're one year old. I need some alone time

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 13: So if you get sent for yourself, yeah, mommyan's a margarita,

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Speaker 13: so I'll be back. But yeah, exactly, I'm kind of

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Speaker 13: I just look at it like this is crazy, like

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Speaker 13: this isn't whatever, this isn't a present, like you can

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Speaker 13: go out with your friends and you should invite all

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Speaker 13: of your friends.

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Speaker 1: I'm also not sure as much if if I don't

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Speaker 1: get invited to stuff, and I do think the couples

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Speaker 1: and the kids thing is valid, but I'm also the

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Speaker 1: guy that wants to be invited to everything but may

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Speaker 1: or may not go, and I don't say that I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go and then that show up. I just mean

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Speaker 1: I tend I'm like you. I like my alone time

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Speaker 1: a lot, and I get in these modes where I don't,

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Speaker 1: you know, on the weekend or whatever, I just don't

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Speaker 1: really want to do anything. And so I think that's

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Speaker 1: part of it too, is that I probably stop getting

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Speaker 1: invited to stuff because people just assume that I wouldn't go.

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Speaker 1: And I guess I would like the option, you know,

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Speaker 1: I would like my friends to continue giving me the

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Speaker 1: option to go or not go. But I also wouldn't

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Speaker 1: blame them, Like if I invited someone to something five

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Speaker 1: times and they didn't go, I'd probably stop calling them,

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Speaker 1: not because I don't like them, but because I just

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Speaker 1: assume Fred's not coming.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's where you lose me if people say no enough,

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Speaker 6: I'm not inviting anymore.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, good point. It hurts my life.

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Speaker 1: I need to be invited though, I need to be invited. Okay, okay, I.

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Speaker 6: Know, but it's it's like the people that are doing

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Speaker 6: the inviting, like some people take it personally and it

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Speaker 6: hurts their feelings.

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Speaker 4: So then they stopped.

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Speaker 1: Well, you should not take it personally because I'm me

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Speaker 1: and I'm an introvert that can pretend sometimes. No, don't

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Speaker 1: take it personally. Just make sure you invite me, please.

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