WEBVTT - Best Of Dear Chelsea: Cat and Nat 0:00:01.120 --> 0:00:07.280 Hi, Good morning, Catherine, Hello morning. Does everybody want to 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:09.760 hear me sing? I don't think so. But I have 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:11.959 learned how to dance a little bit. What I've learned 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:14.120 is to just side step to the beat, like just 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:16.840 a two step. I can do that. So I'm going 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:19.200 to do that just for everything, and I'm not going 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:21.599 to try to get anything more complicated than that. You 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:24.840 know what, Chelsea, I'm just sorry, Catherine. I just want 0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:27.520 everyone to know that I'm drinking room temperature water right now. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:30.560 It's actually got a little bit of a coolness to it, 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.480 so it's palatable. But this is a real tough pill 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:34.240 for me to swallow. 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:35.440 She does not like the water. 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:37.959 I love my thermis in my car. I love my thermiss. 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:39.559 By the way, shout out to Wellie. They make the 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:42.280 best thermoces. I could put ice in my Wellie bottle 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:44.120 and it's ice three days later. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.200 Yes, can I tell you something. I have made yogurt 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:49.440 in my Wellie bottle. 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:53.640 Before you know what, Catherine, this is not something I 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:56.520 want to hear about. I says, right up, I'm surprised 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:57.760 you didn't say cottage cheese. 0:00:58.440 --> 0:00:59.600 I have made my own cheese. 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:03.920 Actually, I mean fucking Brad, you're way to bury the lead. 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:05.960 Being married to Catherine, She's. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:06.600 Up to no good. 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:08.360 I love fermented foods. 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:10.759 I had a military death on one of my planes 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.119 the other day and we stopped and they were transporting 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:19.119 a military bottle body and there were those a whole 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:22.800 ceremony outside the plane with like the military and their family, 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.360 which was sad because they were all crying, but it 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:28.800 was really sweet to see that. How they do that. Wow, 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:30.520 I was like, well, wait, I guess the airports aren't 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:32.320 that fucked up if they can swing this like you 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:34.800 know what. I mean. That really had some decorum and 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:38.080 some respect because I don't know what's happening with flights lately, 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:39.560 but something is way. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:42.679 Of One of my girlfriends got stuck at Burbank Airport 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:44.160 for like all of Christmas Day. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:48.240 Oh everyone did canceled all their flights. I mean, yeah, 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:51.559 it's been pretty brutal the travel situation. But I guess. 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:54.200 I have to tell you, Chelsea, we have not had 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.440 a question in a long time that's had as much 0:01:56.880 --> 0:02:01.360 totally varied feedback as Jesse from a weeks ago. She 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:03.680 called in and remember we talked to her like all 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:07.720 like the entire episode with Brookshields about her in laws 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.720 yelling at her on the rafting trip, and then we 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:11.160 kind of got it. 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:13.280 We discovered that out of the calls she seemed to be 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:16.560 she needed to do some work. Yeah, well we discovered 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:19.600 that early on, but we were trying to be respectful before, 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:21.679 at least I was before I told her. 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.640 Yeah, so the dishwashing. But we had people emailing and 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.520 being like, go get her girls, she did wrong, other 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.200 people being like, no, it was totally her in law's 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.160 fault for screaming at her, and I just thought it 0:02:32.200 --> 0:02:32.760 was really interesting. 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:34.120 I don't know if you've gotten damns about this, but 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:34.919 I've gotten a lot. 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:38.399 Of noot this I haven't. Yeah, that is interesting, Yeah, 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:38.839 I'm sure. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:42.640 Well it's very relatable situation, right, Yeah, it's tough with 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:43.160 in laws. 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:44.480 I think nobody doesn't. 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:48.040 Get married you don't have to deal with that's another reason, okay, 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:50.120 to put another perk to not being married. 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:52.200 I think, you know, her family's got some shit to 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:54.200 work out too, because if somebody's screaming at you about 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:56.480 dishes two years later they wanted something to be mad 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:57.320 at you about, you. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:57.799 Know what I mean? 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.799 Well, I think that's a really kind of icky thing 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:03.720 to do. If you're at someone's house and you make 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:06.480 a habit of nobody's supposed to ask you to help 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:08.920 at someone else's house, Like, it's not the onus is 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:09.440 not on them. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:10.160 You jump in. 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.760 You got it? Even I do it, and not even I, 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:15.280 because like I'm someone special, even I who doesn't know 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:18.120 how to wash dishes, I shouldn't be washing dishes. It's 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.760 worse when I do it. Yeah, I always get up 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.880 and try. Yeah, I try to make an effort because 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.040 it's manners. I mean, it's pretty basic. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:26.480 Yeah. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.200 But people were up in arms about Jesse. 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.920 Real people were up in arms once when I did 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:34.080 some poll about toilet paper whether it should be upside 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:37.520 down coming from them or coming from the top or 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.360 I was on the Drew Barrymore Show and we were 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:42.040 doing something and it was the biggest thing. I mean, 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:45.960 there were like fifteen thousand comments about people's opinions. And 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:49.080 I finally figured out that I prefer, because I had 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:52.280 never thought about it before, prefer it from the bottom, 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:52.760 you do. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:54.680 I don't want it from the top, top down? 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:55.720 Oh you do. 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.480 Interesting, We're just different in every way, Chelsea. 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:01.400 Well, yeah, so far, we have not found one similarity 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:04.760 except that we both are on this podcast. It's accurate, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:06.640 that's what we all in common. 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:13.200 Well, Chelsea, today we have some really exciting guests. 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:16.200 Okay, great, I can't wait. I can't wait to find 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:20.120 out who they are today. Yeah, we have my two 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:23.400 Canadian mom friends, Kat and Nat. These girls are two 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:26.760 hot fucking messes and I'm excited to have them on 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:30.880 because they're besties. And then they tore around well, they 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:34.480 tour around America too, at Canada, and they both have 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:37.839 a bunch of children and they talk a lot about motherhood, 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:40.560 parenting and I don't know what who turned me on 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:41.880 to them, but we're buddies now. 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:43.479 They have seven kids between them. 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:47.400 Oh that's better than me having them. Are you guys 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:48.080 ride sharing? 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:52.400 Yeah? You know, we always. She doesn't drive. She has 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:54.240 a car and a license, but she won't drive. I 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:57.839 don't drive in the highway, just in the city, only 0:04:57.839 --> 0:04:58.240 a few. 0:04:58.080 --> 0:04:59.800 Streets the city or the suburb. 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:01.359 No, we're in the city. 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:03.880 I like the city because it's short streets, lots of lights, 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.040 like everything's really fast and quick. But if you go 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:07.840 to the suburbs, you have to take the highway. I 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:08.520 don't go there. 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.840 Okay, this is Cat, I mean, this is sorry, this 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:15.000 is Catherine. Hi, and this is Cat and this is no. 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.120 Well wait you Cat, Nat and. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:19.800 Nat doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:22.520 Yeah, I basically just call them both Cat. 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:24.279 We can all three be Cat today. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:27.080 When they meet us, they're say your Cat and Nat, 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:28.159 even if we're not together. 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:30.920 Hi, Oh, I love you Cat and Nat. That's it. 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.560 So it's literally, it's it's totally fine. I mean, look 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:36.480 at us. I want to be confused too. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:40.520 I know it is very confusing because you guys do 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:43.640 really look a lot alike, but only from hanging out 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:46.280 with you. I know that Cat is more of like 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:49.239 a busy body, and Nat is a little bit lazier. 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:55.120 Yeah, she loves to vertically. I am no, horizontally. 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:59.279 They don't want to. They went on tour. Okay, let's 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:01.040 talk about the jet assist of you guys, so that 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:03.880 I want Catherine to be as familiar with me because 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:05.600 I don't even remember how I met you too. I 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:10.120 just know that we are friends now. But explain to Catherine, 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:13.000 explain the genesis of everything that you two do. You 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:16.440 guys went on tour as mothers basically right, you're talking 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:20.000 about mother all the time on your Instagram and how 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:20.720 nuts it is. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:22.320 First of all, it was a joke. 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:26.040 We decided to do a show as a joke because 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:29.599 no one invites us anywhere. So we were like, oh, 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:32.080 we'll make a party and we our first show. 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:32.599 You guys. 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:37.160 We threw for free, gave free drinks and free appetizers 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:40.680 for everybody. We wanted to host a party. We didn't 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:41.120 pay for it. 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:43.000 We found people to like sponsor it. 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.960 So we host a party in a theater and then 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:48.119 we go out to like go have a cocktail party 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:52.000 with everyone, and they mault like we get mauled. We 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:53.640 were like, oh, we were just here to hang out 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.599 and we couldn't get through the crowd. The security guard 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:58.480 basically took us and pulled us back inside. I was like, 0:06:58.920 --> 0:06:59.520 that was weird. 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:01.880 That was like, we just need an excuse to get 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:04.440 away from the seven kids and go and have a party. 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:07.440 And for our party, we wanted a dj, we wanted strippers, 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:10.760 we wanted flamenco dancers, we wanted dancing, we wanted drinking, 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.800 We want a champagne. So we just created a party 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:14.680 and then started selling tickets to it. 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:17.200 And then our agents were like, Okay, if you can 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:20.200 sell out like three more theaters, we'll talk about it 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:22.760 to our moment, okay, just kind of all came together. 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:24.480 We had a podcast, and I don't know. 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:26.600 We wrote a couple of books, and then Chelsea once 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:30.440 like commented on our Instagram and we died and the 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:33.800 people were text us you see the Chelsea's oh my god. 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.360 That I don't want to actually talk to her, like 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:36.920 I didn't want to. I'm like, don't say yes to 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:40.280 our podcast because that's pressure. And then because you're like 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:44.200 a real you're funny, We're I was funny and famous 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.880 or not us her and then it was more like 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:49.320 we're just shit shows and people liked that. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.280 And now we've seen Chelsea three times this year. One 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.600 we came to your show in Toronto. Two you met 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.120 us at the Sofa hus three were seeing you right now. 0:07:57.760 --> 0:07:59.920 Where do you guys live? And you live in Toron, 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:03.240 so so everyone knows they're Canadian? Yeah, but they tour 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:06.160 in America. So what was your agent for before you 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:08.240 decided to start? How did you even have an agent? 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:11.840 She emailed every person at WME and just said, you 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:14.560 know what, we're had in that and we need someone 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:16.720 to help us with deals, and they said, yes, it 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:17.040 was so. 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:19.080 Weird, but we did. We were doing like we were 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:19.680 doing videos. 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:22.240 We were doing the mom Troops videos and those were 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.360 videos in the car just like talking about what it's 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:25.040 like to be a mom. 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.120 We were doing what else did we do? 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:29.680 But not glorifying what it's like to be a mom. No, 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:31.640 they's all about how hard it is to be a mom, 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.319 just how demanding it is and all the disappointments and 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:35.720 that you're not going to win all the time, and 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.360 there's going to be a lot of failures and you're 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:39.360 going to feel like a failure and that all of 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:40.160 that is fine. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:42.440 Yeah, and that's exactly how we felt when we first 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:44.040 had our babies. We were just like, we thought this 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.360 was going to be so beautiful and it's actually not, 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:48.920 and nobody's talking about it. So let's just start doing 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:51.440 some videos. Because a lot of moms were like blogging 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:52.959 at the time, and we weren't going to sit down 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.120 and write, so we did videos. No one was doing videos. 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:57.600 Social media wasn't really a thing. And then everything just 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:59.319 came at the same time. Like we had been doing 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.560 live streaming through YouTube and the Facebook Live came, so 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.480 we turned it to Facebook Live. It's been a lot 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:07.600 of like chance and opportunity and saying yes, you know, 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.719 we were We went to a conference that we had 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.760 really no idea. We just kind of decided to go 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:15.040 and the Today Show was there and two producers they 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.160 found us walking in a hallway and they asked us 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:19.680 a question and then they were like, wait, will you 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:21.720 two come with us here? I'm like, yeah, sure, and 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:24.880 then we just went with them. And then it's actually. 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:27.320 Been a lot of women who because we really are 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.920 naive in this world of what we've been doing, and 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:33.320 it's really been women like you Chelsea and like the 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:36.240 Today Show, and people have just said like yes. 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:37.640 And they've they've just helped us. 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:39.440 And you know, when you open a door, like even 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:43.400 when you comment, that's what people see and they're like, oh, 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:46.000 she's looking at them. That means that they're worthy of 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.840 me looking at them. Unfortunately, it's sort of the way 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:51.360 it looks. And even when you don't think you're opening doors, 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:55.600 kindness goes so far and you you personally have opened 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.120 a ton of doors for us, and we know people 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:58.439 say yes because you've said yes. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:00.280 So I just think, you know, I see like. 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.079 Amy Schumer now comments and follows us, and I'm pretty 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.640 sure that that's probably because she saw you, you know 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:07.160 what I mean, that you did so that she. 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:08.480 Kind of took notice enough. 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:10.440 I just think a lot of women have been so 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:13.600 impactful in ways they don't know for us, because it's 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:16.080 really a lot of yeses. That's all we've really done 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:19.240 and stumbled and failed and gotten up, and some shows 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:22.440 are do shit and terrible and you're like, oh, that's 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:24.960 not my demo. But you can't let that hurt your 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.559 ego because we don't knock it out of every city. 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.680 But we figure out, we regroup, and we go back 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.600 to the place, you know what I mean. It's always 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:33.480 reverse correct, reverse correct. 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:34.199 It's kind of like that. 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:36.800 And what would you say that you feel like, thus far, 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:40.080 your biggest impact has been for other mothers. 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:42.040 I think it's like for women too. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.520 You know, we have a lot of young people who 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:46.120 follow us, like fifteen year old's, fourteen year olds who 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:49.320 wait in the parking lot after the show and sneak 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:52.120 into our shows to come see us. And I think 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.400 that right now it's our friendship for a lot of 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:57.800 people that brings the hope and that they find comfort 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:59.800 in our friendship even more than motherhood. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.440 Oh yeah, that's true, because that's honestly, that's what attracted 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:04.920 to me, to you, to the bestie vibe. I always 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.720 love bestie dynamic. 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.640 And I feel like we fuck up constantly, but we 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.199 pick each other up and it's because we may have 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:11.680 each other we can do what we do. 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:14.040 And I think that our friendship is really. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.000 And the young people are on TikTok, like if this 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:18.199 isn't us when older than I don't, I. 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:18.600 Don't want to be. 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:19.679 I love that. 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:21.800 Yeah, so it's sort of this weird. 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:23.760 You know, you don't have to give up your best 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:25.920 friend because you're an adult, and I think that's what 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:26.839 a lot of people think. 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.880 You have to grow up and lose your friendship. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.000 No, you just have to time your babies and families 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.160 together so that you're both on the same track. Because 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.439 I was asking them about their other friendships independent of 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:37.880 their own, because you both have separate groups of friends 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:41.199 that don't necessarily cross over to your. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:41.960 Cat or net. 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:44.880 Right, Yeah, that's right. Yeah, we have separate friendships. 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:46.960 We for sure planned a bunch of them though, like 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.679 we're like, don't you can't pull out, you know what 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.000 I mean, Like you're not pulling friends, but it's like. 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:54.120 You are staying in there. We planned the babies before 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:55.760 husbands had any idea what was happening. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.920 It's almost like your husbands are both just so inconsequential 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:02.040 in this dynamic. It's you know, I feel sad for them, 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:04.439 but I also feel like, you know, good. 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:07.560 They travel, they take care of the kids, they're not one. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:09.920 Yeah it's pick up time right now, and they check 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:12.280 off they're not working so they can pick up the kids. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.440 So they are also a huge reason. 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:16.720 They support our friendship and what we do, so we 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:19.040 are very They're not just sperm, you know what I mean? 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:24.079 Okay, well sure, sure we'll agree on that. Also, they 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.200 travel on a tour bus and I don't sleep in 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:28.920 the same bed because they don't. They're not down with that. 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:32.080 But that's more NAT than KAT right from what I remember. 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.480 Would you two sleep together, I would sleep in a 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.520 bed with anybody. I have no problems with that. I 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.640 I mean, I prefer well not if we're sleeping together. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:43.400 You won't this one over here, Fuck, you're gonna snuggle me? 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:46.400 My one friend I have one friend who always wants 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:48.120 to sleep holding hands, So I had to kick her 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:49.520 out of it. I go, you know what, I'm not 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:51.600 holding hands with you all that I was down to 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:53.480 sleep with you. She slept over my house the other 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:55.000 night and we woke up in the morning and there's 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:56.840 plenty of rooms for her to sleep in. And she 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:58.400 got up in the morning and she goes, I didn't 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.080 touch you. I didn't touch you. I'm like, yeah, that's 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.760 what the fuck is supposed to happen. Can't sleep with 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:06.280 me if you're gonna fucking hold my ann you're not 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.120 my boyfriend, you know. 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:10.920 Well, honestly, we always say, like, we have tried to 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.800 teach these seven kids to sleep independently on their own, 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:15.640 and then finally they learned how to sleep on their own, 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:17.760 and then you get your relationship, and now you're supposed 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:19.640 to share a bed again, Like it just doesn't make 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:21.800 sense for the way that we have learned how to sleep. 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:23.840 So yeah, I mean she does it too. We build 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:24.360 a wall. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:27.320 Between our husbands of pillows, and I don't want like, 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:29.719 maybe his feet might creep over like a hand my 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:31.679 cream over, but that's not gonna happen Between the two 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:34.240 of us independent sleeping, like like if I can. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:35.839 Have my own bed, I haven't had in my own 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:38.040 bed in a long time. Like someone's in you, on 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:40.280 you or wants to get in you at all times. 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:42.280 So you're like when you get your own bed, it's 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:43.360 like that's amazing. 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:44.120 Sare heaven. 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:46.680 So you want like Lucy and Ricky style, like two 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:47.679 beds in the bedroom. 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:51.439 So sometimes people will fly us out and we'll get 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.440 us two rooms, and then we get to the hotel 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:56.160 where like can we only use one room with two beds? 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:57.560 Like can we change that king to too? 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:00.680 That's the ultimate for all sleeping is to be in 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.640 the same room or the same house with a big group. 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:05.679 But everyone has their own privacy. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:09.280 Catherine, Why did Lucy and Ricky sleep in separate beds? 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:11.360 Well, I think it wasn't allowed for them to have 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:11.840 one bed. 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:14.440 Well, no, that was in that time era, like people 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:18.199 did that, people had separate sleeping arrangements. I'm not sure. 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:20.479 I guess why did that change? 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.120 I'm not sure. I don't know. 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:25.200 They were married, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, they made little 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:27.680 Ricky so because they were fucking smarter than us, I guess. 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:30.040 I mean that's what that's what needs to come back 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.600 in style if it should be retroactive. I think everyone 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.080 who has a child. I don't even have a child, 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:36.560 and I feel that way, but anyone who has a 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.720 child is definitely on board for separate beds. 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:40.240 Is your dog with you? 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:41.160 Yeah? 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.320 Yeah, I want them to, but they even reject me. 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:45.080 They don't want to say in the bed all night. 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.400 I have to leave the little doggy steps. So Bernice 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:49.520 will like humor me. She's like, oh, here we go. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:51.680 You know, she thinks I'm like assaulting her, so she 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.080 goes to her safe spot while I assault her, and 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.000 then I put her under the covers, like like we're 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.120 gonna do it. And I noticed that if I have 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:02.200 the confidence of her not leaving, she will remain. It's 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:04.600 when I look at her and like, you know, and 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.600 I'm worried about her leaving. Is when she leaves so 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:07.640 she can get five. 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:08.600 With your insecurity. 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:09.640 Yeah yeah. 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:13.320 And Burt has basically turned into some sort of limp biscuit, 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:15.960 so I can't. He's not getting into my bed because 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:18.680 he's frail now, so I have to respect that. No 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.760 more abuse, even though he's probably got that way from 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:24.760 my abuse anyway. So let's talk a little bit about 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.040 your friendship. Okay, we've talked about it before when you 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:29.000 guys interviewed me, but I think it's inspiring for a 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.800 lot of people that will be listening how your friendship 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:34.280 works and what the benefits to each of your lives 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:38.880 are by having such a close, fun, work friend relationship, Kat, 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:39.760 why don't you start? 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:41.400 I think for us it will. 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:43.200 Number one, It allows you to take sort of more 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:46.000 risks because when there's two of you losing and failing, 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:48.360 it's a lot, it's funnier and it's a lot easier 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:50.720 than when it's one of you. And I think that 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:54.400 when you're both in it together, there's no everything feels 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:55.720 fun that we do. There's nothing. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.680 We could be on a delay on an airplane for 0:15:58.720 --> 0:15:59.560 twelve hours and. 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:03.680