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Speaker 2: I'm John, This is Sophia, and this is the story.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend slept with another woman and claims I wanted

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Speaker 2: him to Very interesting.

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Speaker 3: Interesting logic there.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have to get to the bottom of this.

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Speaker 2: This comes from get Ready for It user three four

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Speaker 2: five nine eight seven four five eight seven, who says

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Speaker 2: my hands are shaking, so sorry if there are any typos,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'll be able to explain what

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Speaker 2: just happened. I'm in a hotel room now and everything

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Speaker 2: is falling apart, and I am just falling apart.

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Speaker 3: The hotel is falling up.

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Speaker 2: Everything the world is disintegrating. And hello everyone. Say hello

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Speaker 2: in the comments. Put where you're coming in from?

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Speaker 4: What city?

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Speaker 1: In time?

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Speaker 2: Put it in the comments. We're excited to see you all.

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Speaker 2: But back to the story. I live my boyfriend Jack.

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Speaker 2: We've been together for two years. The relationship has been good.

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Speaker 2: Sex is frequent.

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Speaker 3: I love when people in the red story is mentioned that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, we're all the time pretty good. We

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Speaker 2: say I love you often, and both of us participate

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Speaker 2: in the other's family functions. I don't have any major complaints,

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Speaker 2: and to my knowledge, he hasn't been unhappy and I

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Speaker 2: am deeply in love with him. I came home today

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Speaker 2: take the afternoon off. My boyfriend works nights, so is

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Speaker 2: often home during the day. I pulled in the drive. Guys,

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Speaker 2: can we put a put a ice you and icee

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Speaker 2: you in the comments? If you know what's about to happen.

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Speaker 2: Oh do we have an ICU animation?

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Speaker 5: Oh yes, we do, so get ready for our guys?

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Speaker 5: Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: Oh we don't. That's okay. Put the ICU in the comments.

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Speaker 2: In solidarity are fallen animation soldiers.

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Speaker 3: Just imagine and like like swirls and it's like.

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Speaker 2: I see you oooh nice. Honestly, I'm there, I'm there,

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Speaker 2: You're there, You're imagine. I'm with it improved correctly, which,

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Speaker 2: by the way, everyone congratulate Sophia because she got past

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Speaker 2: the current iteration of how.

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Speaker 1: What is the you completed?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was doing an in prov class at the

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Speaker 1: There we go.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations your work for your warm queen in the chats below,

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Speaker 2: But we will get back to the story. It doesn't

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Speaker 2: the day. I pulled in the driveway and his car

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Speaker 2: I parked on the street out front, like I always do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actually, real quick, real quick conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 1: W and the chap for Iley Sophia. What do you

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Speaker 3: I think Op is going to walk in all migraine

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the twenty dollars donation.

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Speaker 2: Crappy day at work, looking forward to seeing the live

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Speaker 1: Op just came home to an apartment.

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Speaker 2: We had a very long, elaborate setup which basically has

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Speaker 3: Caught in the act, of course, And of course he's

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Speaker 2: It's not what you think.

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Speaker 1: I was inspecting your uterus.

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Speaker 3: I actually I changed careerscologists.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to wait for the grain reveal.

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Speaker 3: But you know, I do home visits at my home.

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: I'm showing it for women, babe. I'm I'm really, I'm

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Speaker 3: You just don't understand. I really care about satisfying women.

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Speaker 2: God, oh my, I can't just think about yourself, baby, Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 2: donated two dollars, thank you very much. Yeah, I guess

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Speaker 2: I was in shock because I actually walked in the

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Speaker 2: naked and You're like, I need to get my suitcase. Move, move, move,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, JC, extra stinky Man. This is this

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Speaker 3: We need a stinky Man animation.

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Speaker 2: We do need a stinky man animation or someone made

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Speaker 2: a stinky Man T shirt.

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Speaker 5: In the in the discord, Yes, in the discord, Okay,

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Speaker 5: story time.

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Speaker 3: I would love to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got it for the end. By the way,

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Speaker 2: if you want to join the discord, it's probably in

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Speaker 3: In the shots. In the shot, I kind of love

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Speaker 2: Shot is great, Continue that it was great. Yeah, don't

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Speaker 2: I went to my closet and threw a bunch of

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, he literally.

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Speaker 1: Came up with some excuse.

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Speaker 2: I'm floored. I didn't say anything on the floor. Literally,

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Speaker 2: I didn't say anything. Left and came to this hotel.

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Speaker 2: We've discussed having a threesome in the past, and I

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Speaker 5: You know what else, you also said in the past

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Speaker 3: Maybe I was just listening to you.

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Speaker 2: Totally shout out to Yentel Deis with the five dollars

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Speaker 2: So exciting to catch you guys, so excited to catch you.

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Speaker 1: Welcome this stream, we.

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Speaker 5: Give us some waves in the chat.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Welcome, Welcome, do doo, do doo doo.

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Speaker 2: I told him I found the idea exciting, but we

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Speaker 2: So there you go.

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Speaker 7: Dang it.

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Speaker 2: He's been blowing up my phone ever since. He left

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Speaker 2: several voicemails and sent about a dozen texts. He said,

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Speaker 2: Butt, that is, I have no words.

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Speaker 3: I've got no I've gotten zero words.

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Speaker 1: I'm truly truly lost.

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Speaker 2: But shout out to Caitlin Herbert for the five dollars donation.

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Speaker 2: Uh love all of you, but have to go to class.

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Speaker 2: I'll be watching the replay once you're done. Caitlin, if

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Speaker 2: get the projector yeah and plug.

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Speaker 3: Start it up. Tell your whole class to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: Like and subscribe, yes, yes, everyone?

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Speaker 1: Actually? Uh everyone? Have you liked the stream yet?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Have you liked the stream about to happen? Out all

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Speaker 5: of you?

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Speaker 2: Because we have two hundred and sixty seven concurrent viewers.

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Speaker 2: But Riley, how many likes do we have? Actually? How

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Speaker 5: Second?

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Speaker 1: It ain't math, and the math is not mathy. I'm sad.

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Speaker 2: What, guys, Can we use our thumbs for good? Let's

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Speaker 2: do it like the stream. Let's get the okay fame

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Speaker 2: in here. But back to the story. We're almost to

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Speaker 2: the update, by the way. Yeah, I've been crying for

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Speaker 3: Well, then you should also still break up with him.

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Speaker 2: And the TLDR, we're getting into an update. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: TLDR is, I caught my boyfriend quote unquote in our

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Speaker 1: Woman doing it.

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Speaker 2: He claims that he was just trying to surprise me

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Speaker 2: with the threesome. I think he is lying. Yes, everyone

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Speaker 3: I honestly think it doesn't matter. I think if he's

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Speaker 2: Like, basically, the damage is already done. It's like, you

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Speaker 1: It's up.

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Speaker 2: They're dead. That is literally manslaughter. Yeah, this guy has

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Speaker 1: Yeah, either way.

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Speaker 3: So either way he's gone to jail.

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Speaker 2: This past everyway. Get those gains in, okay, oh Martin,

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Speaker 2: So Caitlin is getting her class to like the stream.

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Speaker 2: Oh Martin, just go around to the gym and just

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Speaker 3: You'd be like, so sorry to interrupt your set.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, can you like this dream I'm in the middle

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally, but can you get your thumb swool like

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Speaker 2: Maybe if I get some big protein. Yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think it's like it's this is a

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Speaker 3: Even if he thought, it really doesn't matter whether or

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Speaker 2: And it's like this doesn't even matter either, it still

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Speaker 2: I don't want it to be a surprise. Who would who?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sure there may be are like someone who,

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Speaker 3: There are certain things you don't want surprises about. No,

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Speaker 3: you know, surprise birthday is great, great, surprise three.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, like what the surprise would be Like they're

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Speaker 3: Also she wasn't supposed to be back from work. She

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Speaker 1: Yes, come on, this is this is insane.

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Speaker 2: Uh, Cass says prevorse, preverse, prevorse a million percent. Sarah

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Speaker 5: No, I don't. What else do I need?

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Speaker 3: I've been trying to get him to eat vegetables, and

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Speaker 2: So here's the here's the thing. So he does need

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Speaker 2: There, he needs big protein. Okay, that's that's what he needs.

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Speaker 2: No greens, no veggies, all big protein, nerdy by nature, excess.

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Speaker 2: If it was planned, why was the girl he was

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Speaker 3: Exactly? If she was expecting of resome, presumably she'd be like, hey, there, Sexy.

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Speaker 2: Join us mental gymnastics. And also, I'm so terrified because

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Speaker 2: Opie is questioning it. Yeah is question Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, he's gaslighting her to so much.

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Speaker 2: So Yeah, Cassis, Riley like efficiency exactly, it's more efficient

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Speaker 2: if you boot once a week.

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Speaker 5: I saved so much time.

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Speaker 2: You're so right exactly exacering and toxic zombie.

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Speaker 1: Uh field r. We're about to get into the update.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Opie came home, her boyfriend was inside of another woman,

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Speaker 2: and uh he is saying, hey, babe, it's a surprise threesome.

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Speaker 2: It's a surprise threesome. Yeah, we're about to find out

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Speaker 2: if that is the truth or not. You can put

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Speaker 2: your own opinions in the shit below, but let's get

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Speaker 2: into the update. By the way, this story.

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Speaker 1: Went down on my eighteenth birthday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, it's it's near and dear to John,

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Speaker 3: this means a lot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Also, Olivia Claire, I will respond after the story.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, there we go, Oh.

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Speaker 3: Jesse for Riley to eat his veggie.

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Speaker 1: That's right, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Now now he will eat one lime of bean.

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Speaker 1: Now one bean.

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Speaker 5: It's just hard to find vegetables around here when there's

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Speaker 5: so much like proteins.

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Speaker 3: Not true, dude, I eat vegetables every day.

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Speaker 5: You don't like be like, here you go, Riley, here's

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Speaker 3: You want me to go here?

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Speaker 4: Good dode.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna start like setting aside like a very small

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Speaker 5: Just give me right here, John.

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Speaker 2: I ask Riley the same thing, because he said, oh, hey,

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Speaker 2: get some overalls. Riley, you know what, if you want,

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Speaker 2: I will get into the update. If you want to

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Speaker 2: run and get me some over.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm getting into the overalls right now.

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Speaker 3: You can also read Jennifer B. Says this must have

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Speaker 3: been such an abusive relationship with so much gaslighting, because

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Speaker 3: fantasy threesome. Exactly, It does sound like there's so much

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Speaker 3: gas You just said it.

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Speaker 2: You just said the facts. My god, all right, big time.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get into the update where I was going

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Speaker 2: to get me some overalls. Let's do it, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 2: So firstly, thank you all for your comments and advice.

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Speaker 2: My gut knew that I had to end the relationship,

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Speaker 2: but I needed a kicking in the pants to actually

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Speaker 3: So what I'm hearing is that she can kick out

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe maybe do do do doo with whom I

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Speaker 1: She's close with the uncle.

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Speaker 2: I live there for free while attending grad school. It

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Speaker 1: I called my uncle and I told him the circumstances,

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Speaker 2: Of her boyfriend being inside another woman. And he called

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Speaker 2: Jack and told him he needs to find a new

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Speaker 2: place to live out. Get out of here, stinky, stinky man.

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Speaker 2: We need to fumigate this room because.

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Speaker 3: It's stinky, freaking stinky. You need to stage that room.

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Speaker 2: That's right, Get all the demons out of there. He

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Speaker 2: won't be a legal issue. He could maybe squat. I

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Speaker 3: In the shot, nah, I feel like if he's not

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Speaker 2: I probably can kick him out. Plus, what do you

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Speaker 2: even want to be in there? I don't know. But Sophia,

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Speaker 2: do you want to talk to the people while I

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Speaker 2: slip these overalls.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna put it on you, buddy.

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Speaker 3: I should talk to the people.

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Speaker 5: I saw someone had a bad day. What's up? What

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Speaker 5: You guys? Okay today?

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Speaker 3: Is it because it's super windy, because I'm I'm getting

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Speaker 5: Is because it's Thursday? Usually Thursdays are my favorite day

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Speaker 3: It's also PI day that should make you happy.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Pie Day.

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Speaker 2: Also.

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Speaker 3: I think it was Claire Olivia who asked, I would

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Speaker 3: absolutely wear ear rings if you sent them. However, I

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Speaker 3: So yeah, keep that in mind. But I will I

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Speaker 5: Cute.

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Speaker 3: What else are people saying?

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Speaker 2: Here we go algie suck.

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Speaker 3: I agree, Samantha, they do.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 3: In overall.

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Speaker 2: Checked out out. Okay, guys, I'm overalled, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: Laser shirts got sent home with a stomach bug.

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Speaker 3: I hate stomach bugs.

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Speaker 2: Guys, put a heart in the chat for laser Okay,

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Speaker 2: hearts in the chat. Hearts in the chat, hearts in

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Speaker 2: the shaft, And let's get back to the story. Ye

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Speaker 2: I haven't responded to Jack in any way since yesterday.

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Speaker 2: I returned to the apartment this afternoon after going to

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Speaker 1: Thankfully clear so far. Sorry, that's good.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Jack was there in the.

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Speaker 6: Apartment.

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Speaker 2: I was wonder say hey, Kimmily Jane for a ten

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Speaker 2: dollars ausy dollar donation. Shout out to you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Jack was there since he's at the apartment since he

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Speaker 2: spoke with my uncle. He knew that I was breaking

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Speaker 2: up with him and wanted him out. Good stinky man.

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Speaker 2: He immediately tried to argue with me, saying once again

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Speaker 2: Of course, I just ignored him as I went around

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Speaker 3: Ah, sir, you cannot be this stupid.

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Speaker 1: Stop trying to do this.

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Speaker 3: Stop digging yourself into a bigger hole.

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Speaker 2: Dude, Oh my god, what that is insane?

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Speaker 3: Huh.

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Speaker 2: Apparently he thought that having sex with her first would

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Speaker 2: make the threesome go smoother.

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Speaker 3: I think it would have been smoother if everyone was told.

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Speaker 5: That it was a threesome yeah, and looped up.

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Speaker 3: Informed consent everyone. I'm going to ignore that.

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Speaker 2: Riley tychy Man think he stinky.

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Speaker 3: Man said that I couldn't see it.

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Speaker 2: It's gone, yes, Bobby love me. I didn't even look

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Speaker 2: at him. I just kept packing. I'm proud of myself

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Speaker 2: that I didn't cry. I think I was past the

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Speaker 2: so that way, when the time came, they could both

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Speaker 2: totally focus on me. The final straw was when I

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Speaker 3: Wow, so now he's so he's he's he. He was

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Speaker 2: Somehow he has somehow the mental gymnastics like Sah planned

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Speaker 2: the addition he has he has done a quintuple backflip

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Speaker 2: Op is in the wrong. Oh my god. I stared

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Speaker 2: at him for a minute and I just started laughing.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't control it. I must have been laughing hysterically

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Speaker 2: for a full minute. He got angry, but finally shut

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Speaker 2: up and stopped trying to justify himself. I asked for

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Speaker 2: his key, and then I told him to leave good.

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Speaker 2: Get out of here, stinky man.

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Speaker 3: Get out of here.

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Speaker 1: I said that he could.

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Speaker 2: Call to a range of time to come and pick

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Speaker 2: up all of his things, but not to contact me

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Speaker 2: for any other reason. His parents live in the same city,

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Speaker 2: so I know he has somewhere to stay. He left

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Speaker 2: looking pretty forlorn.

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Speaker 3: Good right, I hope you're forlorn.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you should be. I didn't ask how long he'd

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Speaker 2: been cheating on me. Just knowing about this one incident

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Speaker 2: was enough. He's obviously not the person I thought he was.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like I even know him anymore. I'm

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Speaker 2: still sad, but I'm going to be okay. There's no

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Speaker 2: way I could keep someone like that in my life.

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Speaker 2: Thanks again for all the encouragement and motivation to end

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Speaker 2: it for good. I knew the truth in my heart,

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Speaker 2: but I needed to know I wasn't crazy. And ladies

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Speaker 2: and gentlemen, oh thanks Tillani for the ten dollars tip.

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Speaker 2: Watch you guys every day, first time catching the live

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Speaker 2: lots of lum from Samoa. Much love to you here.

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Speaker 2: That's right, and guys, we have a very tiny update.

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Speaker 2: Opie decides to end the relationship with her boyfriend to

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Speaker 2: move out and remains strong despite his continued attempts to

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Speaker 2: justify his actions and guilt tripper.

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Speaker 1: That is the end of the first story.

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Speaker 2: That's the end of the first story, So real quick

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Speaker 2: TLDR to everyone that just joined the chat, which, by

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Speaker 2: the way, for everyone, like all two hundred plus of

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Speaker 2: you that just joined, have you.

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Speaker 4: Liked have you liked it? Did you like it?

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Speaker 5: We are at have you done it?

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Speaker 3: Seems like you didn't like it?

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Speaker 2: Can we get half? Can we get halfway? Y'all get

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Speaker 2: half of you con point five of your thumbs?

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Speaker 3: Can we do it? Two twenty five?

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Speaker 2: Do it? Can we?

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Speaker 1: Let's do it?

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Speaker 2: But TLDR for everyone. So basically, Opie walks into the apartment.

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Speaker 2: It was all set up so she couldn't hear anything

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Speaker 2: that was going on. So she literally walks into the bedroom,

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Speaker 2: completely oblivious and her boy with a migraine. Thank you,

494
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Speaker 2: with a migraine that only got worse, That only got

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Speaker 2: worse boyfriend is inside another one, and he somehow tries

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Speaker 2: to pass it off as a favor, as a surprise

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Speaker 2: threesome for her. She does not stand for the BS

498
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Speaker 2: and does what you should do to any stinky man

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Speaker 2: and take out the stinky man trash and dump them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, ladies and gentlemen, rid of the stinky man in

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Speaker 3: your life.

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Speaker 2: Yes. So my question to you, Sophia, yes, and to

503
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Speaker 2: everyone in the chat right now is what should Opie do?

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Speaker 2: Now the relationship is over? What should she what should

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Speaker 2: she do? How does she heal?

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Speaker 3: Oh? How does she heal?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Hmm she.

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Speaker 5: Hmm.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question. I want to like. My first

511
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Speaker 3: thought was like she she goes on like a fun trip.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm, I like fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. My second thought was she should have a threesome,

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Speaker 3: but like everyone's unforumed. Yes, and then she texts her

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Speaker 3: boyfriend and is like suck it.

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Speaker 2: I had a my.

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Speaker 1: Face what if she does both?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 2: So here we go. It's a two part trip, right,

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00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 2: first part of the trip is like cabin solo re tree, Yeah,

521
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Speaker 2: finding myself like no phone, no distractions, just like inner Piece,

522
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Speaker 2: and then you just have massive back to back orgies

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Speaker 2: and inform your boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Of all of them.

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Speaker 2: I'm all on board.

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Speaker 3: Like like like minute by minute, the blow by blow.

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Speaker 1: By blow.

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Speaker 2: Making jokes on the street today, Tasha, Tasha Snyder says, can

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Speaker 2: you show up a little bit? Uh? Oh, you're all

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Speaker 2: good to Tasha Snyder of right there, she says, threesome

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Speaker 2: with his best friend and that girl. The raven says,

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Speaker 2: Ayahuasca journey to really go go deep into all those layers.

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Speaker 2: Cassandra also likes the threesome. Elizabeth Connolly a little bit

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Speaker 2: for me. Elizabeth Connolly says, allow herself to be upset

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Speaker 2: and angry, but don't do anything regretful, like damaging property.

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Speaker 3: That sounds like real advice.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like actual solid advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actual solid I think like she Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: find herself and then find the dicks.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, oh god.

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Speaker 2: You all are going crazy today.

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Speaker 1: And wait, what did we just happened?

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Speaker 3: Okay, we got a twenty five dollars tip from Tits McGee.

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Speaker 2: Tits McGee, Oh, my brother passed away in July, and

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Speaker 2: you guys have made the grief a lot easier. Sounds dumb,

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Speaker 2: but it's true. Takes my mind off things Tits McGee.

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Speaker 3: I was very happy to read your name.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I'm really.

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Speaker 4: Sorry for your loss.

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Speaker 2: Yes, our hearts are with you, and it is not dumb.

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Speaker 2: It is actually the most beautiful thing ever. And we

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Speaker 2: are all of us so grateful that we can even

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Speaker 2: give you a molecule of happiness and smiles and wonderfulness.

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Speaker 2: Please put some hearts in the chat for Tits McGee.

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Speaker 2: We love you, Yeah, we love you. We love you,

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Speaker 2: And a nine seven dollars donation from Aoki make it longer.

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Speaker 2: I work till four thirty. Well, there's only one way

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Speaker 2: to do that.

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Speaker 1: Donate to the stream. Donate, donate to the stream.

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Speaker 3: Are you I feel like what I'm hearing is that

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Speaker 3: you're working right now and you came on to donate

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Speaker 3: so that you you could come back after work.

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Speaker 2: That's true, or or to get to get the during

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Speaker 2: work stream. Oh yeah, and it's.

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Speaker 3: Like all right, if you're working, you're like I work

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Speaker 3: till four thirty. I need something to entertain.

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Speaker 2: Me power through. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, dude, I just realized we could put like two

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Speaker 5: t's for Tits Mickey. That was a missed opportunity.

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Speaker 2: You know, Riley, I'm disappointed in you, But I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: let this one slide I out of the graciousness of

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Speaker 2: my heart, I'm gonna just it's.

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Speaker 5: All good, thank you.

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Speaker 1: It is all good, dude.

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Speaker 2: But you know what else is great is this next story,

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Speaker 2: which it is you.

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Speaker 1: It's three sixty four s two.

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Speaker 2: And while you get that up, I will read where

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Speaker 2: is Sam the Lapiso bitch size Oh, Spiffy two gifted

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Speaker 2: ten dough gifted ten Little Silly memberships. Spiffy Tiffy, you

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Speaker 2: are a real one. Shout out to you, guys. If

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Speaker 2: you want to join the Little Silly there's a little

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Speaker 2: joint button down here. Or if you're like super active

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Speaker 2: in the chat, then someone awesome like Spiffy Tiffy might

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Speaker 2: come along. I just gifted to you. We love doing

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Speaker 2: that on this channel. So a cass. Sam is not

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Speaker 2: in the dungeon. Sam actually had a wonderful morning and day.

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Speaker 2: Oh the koala is down. Sam had a wonderful morning

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Speaker 2: and day and is going to be on very soon, okay,

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Speaker 2: and we're all going to read registers together. So if

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Speaker 2: you're not, we are going to have a full gang

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Speaker 2: stream today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah we will. We will be here.

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Speaker 2: And what else we got people in the comments saying

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Speaker 2: blessed Sam. Absolutely, they fired a coworker.

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Speaker 1: I liked it.

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Speaker 2: Who's who's the coworker fires man?

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Speaker 3: We got some You said you fired a coke O

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Speaker 3: liked it.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, what I'm so.

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Speaker 3: I thought I've misread that. I thought they said I

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Speaker 3: fired a coworker and I liked it. But it said

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Speaker 3: someone fired a coworker that they like.

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Speaker 2: Right, damn shout out to everyone firing people. Sam is

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Speaker 2: not fired, I promise jac.

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Speaker 3: I believe Sam was wearing overalls this morning. Oh that

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Speaker 3: might have been yesterday. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: We'll force them into a pair, don't worry.

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Speaker 3: Thank you laser Jerch for the five dollars tip. Thank

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Speaker 3: you guys for raising my spirits. Just started working at

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Speaker 3: a daycare, so I've been constantly sick. That is childcare.

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Speaker 5: Are you guys doing all right? Like you guys doing okay?

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Speaker 5: I'm worried for Chad. Chad, seems like they're having a

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Speaker 5: rough day. Let us know how you're doing.

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Speaker 2: Chat.

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Speaker 1: We're here for you.

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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 9: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I was reading Tasha Snyder's I keep wiping my

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Speaker 3: screen because I think something is on Sophia's face. Is

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Speaker 3: it my star?

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Speaker 1: It's the star. Ladies don't start.

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Speaker 3: I hear them from time to time for my skin.

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Speaker 2: That's right, and chout out to A Lisa for the

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Speaker 2: five dollars tip. I enjoy watching it work. I am

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Speaker 2: gonna listen to you guys on live. Absolutely we appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, get into the story.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into it. Would I be the a hole

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Speaker 3: for straight up leaving and ghosting my fiance after I

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Speaker 3: found out she cheated?

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Speaker 1: I'll say no, but we'll see.

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Speaker 3: We'll see. So livid Ocelot ninety two seventy four says, I, oh, anonymous, ta,

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Speaker 3: what's ta ta?

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Speaker 2: As?

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Speaker 3: I do not want this story to be associated with

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Speaker 3: my main what throwa? I just forget okay, I twenty

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Speaker 3: eight male, have found out that my fiance, thirty female

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Speaker 3: of two years, cheated on me. We've been together for

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Speaker 3: six years and in love with each other. At least

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Speaker 3: that's how it was for me. She's been acting more

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Speaker 3: distant and became more protective of her phone for the

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Speaker 3: last two.

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Speaker 2: Months and shout out to and say she had for

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Speaker 2: the ten dollars tip lives.

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Speaker 1: I was hid over today.

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Speaker 3: At first, I was not suspicious of anything, but the

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Speaker 3: doubt grew more and more inside me as the time passed,

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Speaker 3: especially after asking her if there was a problem since

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Speaker 3: she felt distant, she said there's no problem and that

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Speaker 3: was it. Okay, So I guess there's no problem.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I gave in and snooped on her phone to discover

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Speaker 3: she's been sexting a guy for the last two months.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so there is a problem.

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Speaker 2: Is a problem.

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Speaker 1: There is a problem.

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Speaker 3: Not with Brianna Martinez, who gave five dollars tip, thank.

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Speaker 2: You, Hey, we appreciate you.

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Speaker 3: I was devastated. That is fair. At the beginning of

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Speaker 3: our relationship, I clearly told her lying and cheating in

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Speaker 3: any form are the two unforgivable actions for me. Yet

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Speaker 3: she decided to cheat on me after five years of

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Speaker 3: a relationship and we had been planning the wedding. Why

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Speaker 3: would you throw that away?

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Speaker 1: Oh because they're stinky, stinky woman.

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Speaker 3: Stinky woman. Ah yeah, yeah, I'm not proud of that.

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Speaker 3: But I checked the old messages as well, but there

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Speaker 3: was no case of cheating other than this. Also, Rachel Hatchett,

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Speaker 3: h thank you for the five daughters. Sophia. You and

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Speaker 3: I are literally twins. Right now, I'm wearing a patch

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Speaker 3: star in the exact same spot. It just it's hidden

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Speaker 3: fashion in that area fashion. I've been thinking about it

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Speaker 3: for the last few days. I try to rationalize it

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Speaker 3: and told myself I cannot be leaving a six year

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Speaker 3: relationship because of a single mistake. But after having a

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Speaker 3: long talk with my older sister, I realized that I

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Speaker 3: should respect myself and leave. She was the run one

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Speaker 3: who portrayed the relationship, not me. We don't have any

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Speaker 3: shared assets and lease is in my fiance's name. I

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Speaker 3: have inherited a house, but it's in another city. Tomorrow,

681
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Speaker 3: I'm planning to just get important things from the house,

682
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 3: block her from everywhere, and just leave. I don't want closure,

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Speaker 3: to be honest. I just want to grieve the relationship.

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00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 3: I thought maybe I didn't love her, given that I

685
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 3: want to leave her right away, But it's not like that.

686
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 3: It hurts a lot. I tend to stress, eat, masturbate, doom,

687
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Speaker 3: scroll and spiral joints.

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Speaker 2: That's a long list.

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Speaker 3: And spiral into depression in these kinds of situations. I

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00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 3: have that experience from my early twenties. By going no

691
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 3: contact and returning back to the city where my family lives.

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Speaker 3: It will give me a circle that can support me.

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00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,719
Speaker 3: So would I be the a hole if I straight

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00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 3: up left and ghosted her without saying anything? And there

695
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 3: are some relevant comments and an update.

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Speaker 2: Well, I have an update for you, which is Tara

697
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Speaker 2: Newm donated five dollars earlier. I was watching a video

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Speaker 2: from last July and a comment mentioned, you guys need

699
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Speaker 2: a girl's perspective. So glad the worm Queen is here,

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Speaker 2: absolutely at.

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Speaker 3: You with the girls perspective.

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00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 2: That's all right to women's POV and silly used for

703
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Speaker 2: the ten dollars tip. Appreciate you and Klutzy Mouse appreciate

704
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: y'all watching and listening, helping a hard date not feel

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Speaker 2: so bad.

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00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 3: Everyone's having a hard day today, guys.

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Speaker 1: We are here for you today, and.

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00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 3: You guys are here for each other.

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Speaker 2: That's right, That's right, Sophia.

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Speaker 3: But what I'm here for is your take on this story?

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Speaker 1: My take?

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Speaker 2: Can we get a quick tal the r yes.

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Speaker 3: So basically, Op was in a I believe almost six

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00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 3: year relationship and they had been planning a wedding with

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00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 3: their partner and two months prior to when they posted this,

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00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 3: they noticed some suspicious activity going on from their partner,

717
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 3: and so they decided to check out the partner's phone

718
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,959
Speaker 3: and they found out that their partner was sexting someone else.

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Speaker 3: And they are going to make the decision to leave

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Speaker 3: the relationship without talking to their partner, so basically ghosting

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Speaker 3: their partner. And they're asking if they would be the able.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 2: So first question, is it okay if they were planning

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Speaker 2: a surprise threesome?

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00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: Does that make it okay?

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00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 3: Is it okay if they were sex thing to get

727
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 3: to know each other so the threesome was better?

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00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, they wanted to be less awkward, right, we heard

729
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 2: that last story. But okay, the real question question is

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Speaker 2: is it okay to ghost?

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Speaker 5: I'm very I'm very curious everyone ghosts or not.

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Speaker 2: In the comments, my take is as as Sam always says,

733
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 2: what would I actually do?

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Speaker 1: I think I would tell the person? What would John?

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Speaker 1: Do you know?

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Speaker 2: W W JD. We've never heard of that before. It's

737
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 2: very uncom never heard of before. Yeah, Riley's definitely never

738
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Speaker 2: heard of it. I would say I would tell the

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00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 2: partner and honestly probably tell them why, Like listen, you

740
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 2: messed up, you destroyed this relationship, Like like low key get.

741
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Speaker 1: Some satisfaction out of it.

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Speaker 2: Not like in a burned the earth, scorched earth type way,

743
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 2: but just like, hey, look you fed up. This is

744
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 2: exactly why now, you know, you know in case there

745
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: was any shadow of a doubt, and I'm gone, I

746
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 2: think it's a good thing to do.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 3: I agree? I was gonna say, I don't think ghosting

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Speaker 3: is the correct option.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, So we have Shelby Hillier that donated

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Speaker 2: five dollars. Finally caught a live stream, y'all making my

752
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 2: workday it's more bearable all. My mom is in the

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Speaker 2: hospital for heart failure and would appreciate some good vibes. Guys,

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Speaker 2: hearts in the chat. This is the support stream today,

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. All hearts in the chat for Shelby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sleepless Nights is also here twenty dollars donation. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I closed on my estro this Monday. There's been a

759
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 2: saga of Sleepless Nights getting your apartment, but our condo.

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Speaker 2: I'm already got this confirmed if the loan is approved.

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Speaker 2: Love everyone, keep being awesome, You keep being awesome. Sleepless Nights. Whoa,

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Speaker 2: and then and then Daddy Jess with a one hundred

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Speaker 2: and sixty three dollars and five cent donation.

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Speaker 3: To get us to an even even number.

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Speaker 2: We know that Daddy Jesse loves even numbers, and that

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Speaker 2: means we have another hour. Thank you, Daddy Jesse for

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Speaker 2: just giving love and more amazing content and good vibes

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Speaker 2: for the whole, the whole, little Silly Army, the worm Army,

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Speaker 2: the Okay fam.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, yeah, we're we're excited. We're excited to

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Speaker 2: keep going for another hour. And Riley, when you have

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Speaker 2: a second, I just want to read Daddy Jesse's comment

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Speaker 2: out real quick. Thank you more stream time for all

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Speaker 2: of the struggling okop fam.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Daddy Jesse, thank you.

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Speaker 3: That's what. Yeah, that's what you guys need, more of.

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Speaker 2: Us, more of us. You're welcome, all right, Shelley Yeah,

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Speaker 2: gets into what's it maybe quick tal dr before we

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Speaker 2: hop back in again.

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Speaker 3: T L d r Op was in an almost sixty relationship,

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Speaker 3: planning on getting married to their fiance and then they

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00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 3: start behaving. The fiance starts be hitting suspiciously for like

784
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 3: the past two months, so Opie looks at their phone

785
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 3: finds out that they have been sexting another guy and

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00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 3: they want to make the decision to basically ghost their

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Speaker 3: partner and call off the wedding without talking to them.

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Speaker 3: And and I agree, I think with you John that

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Speaker 3: that I don't think that is the best idea. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but mostly mostly one because I don't I think it's

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00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 3: I think it's just like more mature thing to like

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00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: communicate totally. And also I think if he doesn't like

793
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 3: let her know that one he's leaving her and why,

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00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: then she might keep like trying to contact him. And

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Speaker 3: so true, it's gonna be harder for him.

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Speaker 1: Let's get dinner her out of.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's gonna be like, hey, meet you see you Friday.

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Speaker 1: Are we going to the movies that we bought? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And shout out to Rachel Hatchet twenty dollars donation. Damn

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Speaker 2: okalop fam. I am so sorry for everything. All of

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Speaker 2: you are going through big hearts again, big hearts in

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Speaker 2: the chat.

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Speaker 1: It's all love today. It is a love stream today.

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00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 2: But I would love love this update to hear this update. Yeah.

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00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 3: Well first, that's some relevant comments. Oh okay, when Trosa

806
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,360
Speaker 3: says you should heavily consider to share them with important parties,

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00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 3: such as your ex's parents, Otherwise they might harass you

808
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 3: or spread vile eye that your ex might tell them

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00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 3: to save face. Remember that it's easier to explain your

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00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 3: side before people are filled with rage slash doubt about

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Speaker 3: your character. It really sucks to hear what you're going through.

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00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 3: I wish you the best of luck navigating at all,

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00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 3: and Opie says it might create legal problems, though I

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00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:40,760
Speaker 3: think they're talking about sharing screenshots of the the aforementioned.

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Speaker 2: Sexting right, which I don't You don't need to like

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Speaker 2: to share this.

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00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 3: Look at this your daughter sext again. Yeah, I don't

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00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 3: know if that is necessary, but yeah, maybe you can

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00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 3: keep the proof of I don't know. And then superb

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Speaker 3: trifle five thirt she says, I second all the comments

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Speaker 3: that call for you to keep screenshots as evidence. If

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Speaker 3: you do go ahead with ghosting, the likelihood is that

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Speaker 3: without explanation from you, she's going to play the poor

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00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 3: abandoned fiance and claim she has no clue why you

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00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 3: left this way, if you approve, she can't play the

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Speaker 3: victim and turn you into some sort of monster. I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't personally ghost I would have at least a conversation,

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Speaker 3: even if it was only to very firmly say I'm

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Speaker 3: leaving and I want nothing to do with you. Do

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Speaker 3: not contact me or my family, and then I would

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Speaker 3: make sure they know why. However, I can't judge you

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Speaker 3: for wanting to get out immediately. Not the a hole,

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00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: op says, I have the screenshot text. I do not

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Speaker 3: think she would be able to victimize herself here. That's good.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's true.

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Speaker 3: And then butterly Tea says, not the a hole. Sure

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Speaker 3: an explanation would explanation would be nice, but who cares

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00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 3: about being nice at this point. Also, I'm sure you

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00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 3: don't want to hear her excuses slash lies. Leaving this

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00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 3: way might be for the best. If you guys need

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00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 3: closure that can be done in the future. You can

842
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 3: only go from here. Good luck, and Opie says, yes,

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00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 3: the main thing is that I don't want to hear

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00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 3: lies and excuses. She cheated and that's it for me.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter why.

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00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,479
Speaker 4: And there is an.

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Speaker 2: Update wow well and also skintily nips updated us with

848
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Speaker 2: a ten dollars tip. Love you guys, okop show is life.

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Speaker 2: It's not a lack of love on your part. To Op,

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00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 2: it's not a lack of love on your part. Uh,

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00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 2: you love the person you thought your partner was. That

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00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 2: person isn't real cheating showed their true colors skintily nips.

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00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 2: I couldn't have said it better myself. Yeah, I really couldn't.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't have either.

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Speaker 2: That's right. And uh Kyle uh Dan o'bellow new little

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Speaker 2: silly Bomber. Welcome, Welcome to the family.

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Speaker 3: Welcome.

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Speaker 1: So do are we? Do we know?

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Speaker 5: OP is still maybe deciding on whether.

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Speaker 3: I have not decided, has screenshots of the texts, but

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00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 3: hasn't decided whether or not they're going to ghost their fiance. Interesting,

862
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 3: but I think the update will tell us more.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into it.

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00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 3: Let's get into it. Update. My first post was deemed

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Speaker 3: as spam for some reason, and I cannot boast on

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Speaker 3: the subreddit with the other count Firstly, I will not

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Speaker 3: spread screenshots on social media or anywhere. That's illegal and

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Speaker 3: a low blow, even if it does not contain sexual parts.

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Speaker 3: It's a private thing and I'm not planning to use

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Speaker 3: these unless she plays dirty. That's nice. One of my

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00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 3: sisters came early in the morning to talk to take

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Speaker 3: me after my fiance left for the work for work,

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Speaker 3: and we packed some small things. As the lease is

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00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,280
Speaker 3: in her name, I do not have furniture and stuff.

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00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 3: We packed clothes, accessory and other small and personal things.

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00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 3: Her car is an SUV type, so we're able to

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Speaker 3: fit most of the required things, thankfully. I couldn't take

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Speaker 3: the ring though, the ring like the one that oh presumab.

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Speaker 1: Gave her a ring and it's on her finger.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that is. I mean that's probably three months salary, right.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully it's not like from one of her family members.

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Speaker 3: Well, you'd probably have to You probably wouldn't be able

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00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 3: to ghost them if you wanted to ring back.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, that was a good point of not ghosting.

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Speaker 3: I left the keys under the flower pot and put

886
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 3: a sticky on the refrigerators. Oh so they are going

887
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 3: through with the ghosting. Sticky on the refrigerating saying I

888
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 3: know bye whoa, that's too bad.

889
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:30,919
Speaker 2: Bye bye.

890
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 5: I mean damn like kind of a bar like three words,

891
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 5: but like dude. One time I shared my Spotify playlist

892
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 5: with an X of mine and she left me and

893
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 5: she put she renamed the playlist bye. And then when

894
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 5: I logged in I was like, oh wow, she's gone now.

895
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

896
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, people just I think people need to communicate.

897
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: Can we put a thumbs down for Riley's X in

898
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 2: the chat?

899
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 11: Now?

900
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 5: I use Apple.

901
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 3: Thumbs up for I crave fried chicken. Thanks for the

902
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 3: twenty bucks. Been watching you for a year now. I'm

903
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 3: a college student working on my degree for concept art.

904
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: I struggle with finding motivation in life, but watching you,

905
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 3: guys make me. It makes me get up in the

906
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 3: morning broke, but hopes it helps.

907
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 2: Oh help, I crave fried chicken, good gravy. You're bringing

908
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 2: tears to an old man's eyes on this stream today.

909
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

910
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 5: I need a rocket share with those overall.

911
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: They're trying you know what?

912
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: Was this all a ploy to make me look older

913
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 2: so that way the prophecy can become true?

914
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? I feel like you look older in your overalls

915
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 3: and I look like a twelve year old in mine.

916
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 4: That is true.

917
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: That is very true. What is going on? Why am

918
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: I being incepted?

919
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 2: But do we have more?

920
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 3: We do? I have an okay story time about my overalls.

921
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: Actually, oh okay, story.

922
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 3: Jobs I'll tell at the other end. Sounds good, so

923
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 3: OPI has just left a sticky note saying I know

924
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 3: by fur their fiance and left. Drive took about seven

925
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 3: hours and we safely to the inherited house. On the ride,

926
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 3: I received countless messages and calls from unknown numbers, but

927
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 3: didn't answer. That's weird. Once we arrived at the home,

928
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,919
Speaker 3: eldest sister called me asking if we arrived. She told

929
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 3: my fiance not call. She told me the fiance called

930
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 3: her crying around three pm, and my sister told her

931
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 3: not to contact me. We know everything and if she

932
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 3: tries to paint me bad in any way, we would

933
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 3: not use only words but show solid proof to people.

934
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 3: Fiance requested to know where I am and speak to me.

935
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 3: My sister said I'm fine and she should not contact

936
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 3: me in any form. When fiance said we at least

937
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 3: deserve a closure, my sister replied, too bad. Suck it

938
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 3: up to the point.

939
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 2: That's right and shout out to Rachel Hatchet for the

940
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: twenty dollars. I feel like ghosting people doesn't help them

941
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 2: learn from their mistakes, so to try to do better

942
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 2: in the future. F in the chat for ghosting absolutely

943
00:45:58,360 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 2: f in the chat and great point.

944
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 3: I do think I don't like I agree that I

945
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 3: don't think ghosting is the solution, though. I don't think

946
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 3: you owe a person who's cheated on you like betterment

947
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 3: on their you know, like you don't have to help

948
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 3: them be better. But I do think just ghosting isn't

949
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 3: the thing the way to go.

950
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: And I agree and Becca Halberg for the little silly membership.

951
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 1: Appreciate you.

952
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 3: Where was too bad?

953
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 5: Check it up?

954
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 2: There we are suck it up.

955
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 3: Not exactly that, but that's how I would translate that

956
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,760
Speaker 3: idiom And and did the call. I still get calls

957
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 3: and messages from unknown numbers. In the end, her father

958
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 3: and mother called me. Surprisingly, my fiance came to clean

959
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 3: to them, and well, they hoped that I'd give her

960
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 3: a chance. They respected my decision. Okay, that's good. I

961
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 3: thanked them and wished them best of luck. Her father

962
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 3: told me he will be sending the rings money and

963
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 3: asked for and asked me for my bank accounts.

964
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 11: Okay, good god, sure you, Oh my god, fifty membership

965
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 11: the gifted memberships memberships go on left, right and center.

966
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:08,280
Speaker 2: My god, sure you keep thank you so much. Wow,

967
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 2: fifty new members That is crazy. That just started last stream,

968
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 2: Like we we would get like ten twenty, and then

969
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 2: people just start I think, correct me if I'm wrong,

970
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: If that, you might have done another fifty in the

971
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 2: last dream. And it's just been going off every sin nicon,

972
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:26,360
Speaker 2: hundreds of hundreds of little sillies joining up, joining the word.

973
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 3: Mommy, dude, you where Oh he actually sent the ring

974
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 3: money by adjusting to inflation. Oh so I got a

975
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 3: pretty decent amount of money. Oh my god, so he said,

976
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 3: the father almost father in law sent back the ring money.

977
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: But I guess, yeah, I just inflation when he bought it.

978
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 5: Dude, that's kind of a cool business plan.

979
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. If you can buy a ring and then make

980
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,720
Speaker 2: your partners cheat on you so that way their fathers

981
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 2: will pay you back the ring money with interest, flawless plas,

982
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: Now that's smart business.

983
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 3: But there's more. The house is in almost perfect perfect

984
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 3: condition as we renovated it before my mom passed away.

985
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 3: It's just incredibly dusty and dirty after not being used

986
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 3: since then. My three sisters will come this weekend and

987
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 3: will clean it together. Elds broke up with her girlfriend recently,

988
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 3: so she plans to live with me after her lease

989
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 3: ends in a few months.

990
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 2: Whoa seri again? One hundred dollars, tip a small push

991
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 2: towards it to our mark cheriokey Listen, listen, you only

992
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,320
Speaker 2: make the biggest moves.

993
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: The biggest move.

994
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 2: Sleep besides with another fifty membership donated.

995
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 3: Cheer Yuki and sleep a snides put put w's in

996
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 3: the chat w w.

997
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: In sh Oh my god, I'm beside myself.

998
00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 2: Wow, my goodness.

999
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 3: We need like we need like a glass of tea

1000
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,959
Speaker 3: and iced tea and a.

1001
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 5: Fan some some palm leaves too. Yeah, yeah, some grapes.

1002
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: You know what could be fun?

1003
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 2: Is it like if someone like donates fifty uh little

1004
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 2: sillies or something like that, some sort of like animation

1005
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 2: triggered by that where it's like boom, the earth is

1006
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 2: the tsunami of little sillies is coming in or something.

1007
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, gotcha, And it's like worms.

1008
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 2: The worm cano has exploded. That'll be our movie worm Cano.

1009
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, there's a worm animation coming. You heard

1010
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 2: it here first animation.

1011
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 3: That's very exciting.

1012
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: W' is the chat for worm this time?

1013
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 2: Some more there where were we?

1014
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? They're at the house that Op inherited.

1015
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 5: Op.

1016
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 3: He is about to start living with one of his sisters,

1017
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 3: which is great. She's been complaining about the rent prices

1018
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 3: for a while. My sisters are pretty much my only family,

1019
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 3: so I only informed them with some really close friends. Oh,

1020
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 3: I think, and some really close friends probably about the cheating.

1021
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 3: I'm planning on going to therapy after settling here. It

1022
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,280
Speaker 3: may sound weird how close I am with my sisters,

1023
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 3: but we grew up like that. Yeah. I can't imagine

1024
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:13,760
Speaker 3: being that close to one of my siblings.

1025
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 2: That's so strange. That's kind of unnatural.

1026
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:23,919
Speaker 3: He's on his phone. Oh my goodness. Anyway, he missed it,

1027
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 3: He missed it.

1028
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 2: Whatever, he's.

1029
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 3: Mentally here, chat for Sam. It's okay. We grew up

1030
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 3: with an abusive father and I was the only man

1031
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 3: and youngest one of all, oh, youngest one, and all

1032
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 3: of the physical and emotional abuse went towards me. Well,

1033
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,399
Speaker 3: we bonded with each other through trauma, and they tend

1034
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 3: to be a bit protective with me. I think that

1035
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 3: history is one of the reasons I just did not

1036
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: want to face my ex fiance. I thought I got

1037
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 3: over that, considering nothing happened since family therapy. Uh oh,

1038
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 3: since family therapy we took, but it seems to be there.

1039
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 3: I don't do you understand that sentence?

1040
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 1: Say it back time.

1041
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 3: I thought I got over it, considering nothing happened since

1042
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 3: family therapy we took, but it seems to Oh, I

1043
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 3: think it seems to still be there, like the trauma. Yes,

1044
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 3: I'll get into therapy as soon as possible to understand

1045
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 3: everything and resolve the problems. I will post if there

1046
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 3: are any updates, but I just hope there will not

1047
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 3: be any. I just want to have peace and grief

1048
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 3: right now, and there is. There are some relevant comments

1049
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: and a baby tiny tiny baby.

1050
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: Updates and a tiny baby update. Could you give a

1051
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: teal dr.

1052
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 3: For everybody that just joined the teldr. Op was in

1053
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 3: a almost six year relationship with their fiance and they

1054
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 3: were planning to get married soon.

1055
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 6: Uh.

1056
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,240
Speaker 3: And then two months prior to the post, Opie's fiance

1057
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 3: started behaving weirdly and suspiciously. So OPI looked at their

1058
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 3: phone and discovered that their fiance was sexting another man,

1059
00:51:55,239 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 3: and they decided to ghost their fiance and leave. And

1060
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:04,280
Speaker 3: now they've moved into a house that though was given

1061
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 3: to them by their recently deceased mother, and now they're

1062
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:09,240
Speaker 3: moving in with their sisters.

1063
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 2: Financially OPI is up. He got interest paid the ring.

1064
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 3: He also got money back from the dad for the ring.

1065
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:23,359
Speaker 2: He's actually swimming in money like Scrooge mcduckeran so relationship

1066
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 2: over finances.

1067
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, and theoretically he does have a girlfriend, so who

1068
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 5: knows what that financial situation was. So he's probably saving

1069
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 5: money too.

1070
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 3: That's sad.

1071
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 5: I thought he's on the off, you know.

1072
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, he doesn't have to pay for these women out

1073
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 2: of here constant least stealing from our hard earned cash.

1074
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 12: Oh, groomy hippie chick, they what one hundred dollars?

1075
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 3: I love you guys so much. I almost never catch

1076
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 3: the live so happy I did. You guys make up

1077
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 3: a huge part of my day.

1078
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 2: Groomy hippiechick, you are an amazing part of our day.

1079
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 2: My goodness, goodness, we are blasting our way to the

1080
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 2: next hour.

1081
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 3: It's really I don't know, blasting off. But let's blast

1082
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 3: into these relevant comments.

1083
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 5: Let's do it.

1084
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 8: Uh.

1085
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 3: Seeker of Light says, it sounds as if you're on

1086
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 3: the right path and have a good support system. Yay

1087
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 3: sisters for having your back. Good luck, Opie says, thank you.

1088
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 3: I didn't know what I would do. I don't know

1089
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 3: what I would do if my sisters weren't there. Inevitable

1090
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 3: Bunny one O nine says Opie. I'm so happy for

1091
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 3: you and good for you for getting out. I read

1092
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 3: your original post you message. Your message to her was perfect, short, sweet,

1093
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 3: and to the point. And for the people who weren't there,

1094
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 3: the message was I know bye.

1095
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: Greatest message ever. Yeah, greatest break.

1096
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,359
Speaker 3: Opie responds, thank you. I tried to keep it as

1097
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 3: short as possible. Many people said it would be weird

1098
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 3: to disappear without a simple note, so that's what I did.

1099
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 3: Usurpu says this was not an easy thing to go through.

1100
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 3: It's great that your family and her parents are supportive

1101
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 3: and understanding. She made the wrong choice and has to

1102
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 3: live with the consequences of her actions. Opie says her

1103
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 3: parents are incredible people. I'm glad they didn't push for

1104
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 3: anything further. And then a tiny, tiny baby update. M

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00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 3: Opie successfully leaves, supported by his sisters and surprisingly by

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00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 3: his fiance's understanding parents. He focuses on healing, plans for

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00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 3: therapy and appreciates the importance of family supports through difficult times.

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00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 3: That was more of a summary, but.

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00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 2: More of a summary, but I appreciate the support of

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00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 2: Corey B twenty dollars donation heading home from war.

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00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: Can need more of y'all from my commute.

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Speaker 6: Corey, We're here, We're here for we are here for

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00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 6: you and everyone else. And Pixie B with the donation

1114
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 6: link five dollars. Been listening to you guys for over

1115
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 6: a year. Really exciting to finally pop on the stream.

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00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 6: Welcome Pixie B and whose.

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00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 3: Seven wearing his overalls.

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00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: That's right, the famous red Mario.

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00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 6: OKAYOPI overalls, nothing else.

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00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:06,320
Speaker 1: U let's go about just going red overalls.

1121
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:07,760
Speaker 6: But I felt it would be too sexual.

1122
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 5: We got we gotta, we gotta warm the people.

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00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 6: Shira Yuki here without another one hundred dollars from Shira Yuki.

1124
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 3: I just saw it earlier.

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00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 6: I just saw it. Oh that is catching up.

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00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 3: O my god, so thank you Madison for the den

1127
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 3: box money for a worm money. I ever seen that movie?

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00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 3: It's also a book, How to Eat Friday.

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00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a movie.

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00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 3: You said it's a movie in a book. We had

1131
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 3: to read it in like middle school. I haven't no,

1132
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 3: but I had an okay story time about my overalls.

1133
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, story time. Let's let's dive into it got.

1134
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 3: So uh during the height of the pandemic, I went

1135
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 3: to get my COVID vaccine and I was wearing these overalls.

1136
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 3: I had cut my hair very short. I had like

1137
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 3: a full on, like you know, pixy cut, and I

1138
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 3: was wearing kind of like a like a striped big

1139
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,239
Speaker 3: shirt nice And I went in to uh go get

1140
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 3: my shot and I'm sitting down and the lady there

1141
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 3: is like, oh, how old are you? And I was

1142
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 3: like nineteen. I got nineteen.

1143
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 6: And she goes, what what you bury look old enough

1144
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 6: to be here on your own?

1145
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,879
Speaker 3: And I go yeah. She goes, I thought you were

1146
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 3: twelve and I was like, no, I'm nineteen. She's like no,

1147
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 3: and she keeps me. She goes like, you look twelve,

1148
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I'm not showed me that idea, you

1149
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 3: mean that I thought you were. She repeated it maybe

1150
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 3: ten times.

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00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 6: I mean, but I mean it has Looney Tunes on it,

1152
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 6: Like okay.

1153
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 12: But you would have to if someone tells you were nineteen,

1154
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 12: you don't have to repeat I thought you were twelve.

1155
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 6: I mean, what if they're buying Oh, I was gonna

1156
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 6: say alcohol tobacco products.

1157
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 5: I mean, is my mom.

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00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't care how you mom, I don't I

1159
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 6: don't care if a child is with their mom, I

1160
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 6: still think they should not be able to buy tobacco products.

1161
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 6: They called me old fashion.

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00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 3: Yes, oh, also, I mean this is kind of unrelated,

1163
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 3: but like I for the longest time at Costco, I

1164
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 3: wasn't allowed to like get samples without my parents' approval.

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00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 3: Why because so they have a thing where if you're

1166
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 3: like too young, they want to get your parents approval

1167
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 3: because you might have like an allergy, right, and so.

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00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 6: I can't have just gobbling peanut butter on.

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00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 3: The fourteen or something. And I was like, oh, can

1170
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 3: I get a sample? And they were like, do you

1171
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 3: have your parents approof? Like, is your mom here?

1172
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 6: Do you have your parents approval?

1173
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 2: I've never had their approof. I am my own mom.

1174
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 3: Trader Joe's. They would always give me stickers or lollipops,

1175
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 3: and I was like, I'm too old, but I'll take it. Also,

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00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 3: thank you Jesse for the ten bucks. Everybody looking so

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00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 3: good in their overalls.

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00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 2: That's overalls mostly the nights.

1179
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 3: I need those red overalls. Red's my favorite color. I'd

1180
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 3: wear them to bed.

1181
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 6: I mean we did think about remaking some of these.

1182
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 6: We only made what like two for like John and

1183
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 6: are they like yeah, they're sweatpants.

1184
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 2: They're actually the most exclusive merchant you've ever had, y

1185
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 2: just for us.

1186
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 4: You love the.

1187
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 3: Overalls, but I want like wide leg overalls because you,

1188
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 3: guys only make, you don't make. You have to make

1189
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 3: them like that.

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00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 2: We have to you have to make. The Worm Queen

1191
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 2: has decreed wide legs and legs only the thick thighs the.

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00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 3: Value Lily. This was when I was nineteen, so I

1193
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 3: don't look twelve anymore, hopefully. Okay, thanks?

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00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 6: All right, shall we get into this next story?

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00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 2: Alright, boys and girls, let's do it. So my wife

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00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 2: left me for another man. How do I move on

1197
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 2: after giving up everything for her? Well, let's find out

1198
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 2: there may or may not be a struggle for power

1199
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,920
Speaker 2: right now. Who will be in the phone? Is it

1200
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 2: the Worm Queen or is it the original Sam himself? Sarah,

1201
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 2: thanks for the twenty bucks.

1202
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 6: I have a story about my sister getting the kids

1203
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 6: menu at and I got the adult menu. Sobit your

1204
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 6: story to.

1205
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 2: Send it in guys, vote Sam or Worm Queen. Pooh

1206
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 2: will take it to the door. Queen ooh, will tell

1207
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 2: you commage below to de Sade. This is my saint.

1208
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 2: That big crap battles of history.

1209
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 3: Everyone's telling me, I look at least fifteen.

1210
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 2: We'll settle this off screen. John Reid, all right, So

1211
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,919
Speaker 2: a week ago my wife told me that she fell

1212
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 2: in love with another man. It was so unexpected and

1213
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 2: I didn't see this coming. She was the person who

1214
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 2: taught me what it is to what it means to

1215
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 2: be in love. I was married to a woman, Amanda,

1216
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 2: who I loved, but I wasn't in love with. I

1217
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 2: was with my wife for eight years. We got together

1218
00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 2: when I was twenty. We have a kid who who

1219
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 2: turns out? Who is turning five on Thanksgiving and shout

1220
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 2: out to Olivia Claire for the five our donation. Hi,

1221
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 2: friends have been to a story about my ex sexting

1222
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 2: over forty women when we were engaged. It seems fitting

1223
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 2: as the last story I put it in the.

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Speaker 5: Disc Olivia literally call us, yes, please be my friend

1225
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 5: on Discord and give me your number, and I will,

1226
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 5: I will, We were gonna call you. We're gonna call

1227
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 5: you friend Riley on Discord. We need that story.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, that's crazy.

1229
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 2: Wow.

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01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: When I met Marie, I was married and happy and

1231
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: she had a fiance.

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01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 2: Uh Mary through a wrench in that we formed a

1233
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 2: connection I never knew possible. I could talk to Marie

1234
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 2: for hours all day. She was extremely beautiful, the best

1235
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 2: looking women I have I had ever been with. One

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01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 2: of the hardest things to do was tell Amanda I

1237
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 2: was in love with another woman.

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01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, so he fell out of low super quick

1239
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 6: tailed the He fell in love with another woman and

1240
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 6: is now having to break that to his away. Yeah

1241
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 6: that's call me old fashioned look bad look, but you.

1242
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 3: Know it isn't a bad look, all right, Jen's not tragedies.

1243
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 6: First dream I've ever kind of been on time to

1244
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 6: all hail worm Green, Worm Green has been thrown only slightly.

1245
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 3: There was a scuffle.

1246
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 2: Worms rise, take it back your rightfle place.

1247
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:37,960
Speaker 6: Oh my God, had a poll. We could We could act.

1248
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 5: So, I mean I could, but I don't want to.

1249
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 2: Crash might bring everything down that we've ever known of love.

1250
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 6: Chase Amorrow, thanks for coming in.

1251
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 2: We appreciate you. So back to the story. One of

1252
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 2: the hardest things to do was tell Amanda I was

1253
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 2: in love with another woman.

1254
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: It crushed her.

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01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 2: She refused to sign the divorce papers and demanded we

1256
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 2: go to therapy.

1257
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 4: Oh shit, whoa.

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01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 2: Okay, wasn't I expecting that eventually she did give in?

1259
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 2: But that was hard seeing a woman I still care

1260
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 2: for so much be in so much pain.

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01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, he's a dick for letting it get

1262
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 6: that far. I mean the emotional cheating that you have

1263
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 6: to go through to be at the point of being

1264
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 6: in love with that person is and they love you back.

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01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 6: Whack whack city? Are you whacking off?

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01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: Are you ready for this?

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01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 9: What?

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01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 1: Love at first sight?

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01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 4: Nah?

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Speaker 6: Dude, it doesn't exist lust at first site? But you

1271
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 6: know what is love at first sight? And I believe

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01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 6: in Maggie t with the top Bucks. I'm thirty one

1273
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 6: and I still get the stare when I drink out

1274
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 6: in public. I've been denied alcohol after being idd you're

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01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 6: not alone.

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01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 3: Thank you?

1277
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 2: As a feel feel it feels good.

1278
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 3: It feels good to be supported the young looking gang.

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01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 4: Let's go.

1280
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 5: I'm apparently not part of it. Okay, poor guy, there

1281
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 5: we go.

1282
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 2: I've literally been in the bar and people will card.

1283
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 2: My girl friend turned to me like, you're good to go?

1284
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: Right before?

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01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 6: Was your daughter doing today, sir, she just turned forty.

1286
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 6: The beard, John, it's the beer, it's the beard. You

1287
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 6: wouldn't look like a chaerub if you had a no beard.

1288
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Maybe maybe we could pull up a

1289
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: baby John picture. Done? There there we go.

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01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 2: Goes on to say, she doesn't talk to me now

1291
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 2: unless it's about our kid, and that hurts.

1292
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 3: But yeah, what were you expecting?

1293
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 2: What were you expecting for her to be okay with it?

1294
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 3: Obviously he was expecting to be like, I'm in love

1295
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 3: with another woman, and she was like, ah, I've known

1296
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:38,919
Speaker 3: it all along.

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01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 6: And I love and support you.

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01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you must go and pursue your dream. Can I

1299
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 2: appreciate your wedding? But I did all of that for Marie,

1300
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 2: the new woman, for Marie. I even moved across the

1301
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 2: country from Virginia to Seattle because Marie wanted to be

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01:03:57,880 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 2: on the West Coast.

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01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 3: He left his children.

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01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 2: Yes, what a good man. I don't see my little

1305
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:09,360
Speaker 2: girl as much as I want to because she's still

1306
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 2: in Virginia. Despite all that she left. We had a

1307
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 2: great marriage. We had a great marriage, and I did

1308
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 2: so much to keep her happy and it wasn't enough.

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01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 6: Okay, Oh oh, wait, the new lady wasn't enough for.

1310
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 10: The low lady.

1311
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 2: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.

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Speaker 1: I did all this for Marie.

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01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 2: I even moved across the country from Virginia to Seattle

1314
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,320
Speaker 2: because Marie wanted to be on the West Coast. I

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01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 2: didn't get to see my little girl as much as

1316
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 2: I wanted to. She's still in Virginia despite all that

1317
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 2: she left.

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Speaker 6: I think.

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01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 2: So we had a great marriage and I did so

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01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 2: much to keep her happy, and it wasn't enough.

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Speaker 1: No warning. Last week I found out she is leaving me.

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Speaker 6: Wait wait, so so to be clear, til d R

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Speaker 6: I don't think I understand this yet. So I think

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Speaker 6: I may be wrong. But til dr op is wait

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Speaker 6: his old wife right?

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Speaker 1: No, no, sop.

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Speaker 2: So o.

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Speaker 1: He was, uh, you know in a marriage has a child.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's referring to old wife. The old wife. Then

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01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 6: he's like fell in love with another woman, with another

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Speaker 6: woman marine and now he's with new wife.

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01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:21,919
Speaker 2: Now he's with the new wife is leaving and then finished.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say he was with old wife. Let

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Speaker 2: you finish.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no, Sonia, Cherry, thanks for the ten bucks.

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01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 1: He's with new wife who dumped him.

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01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 6: Not now he's with new wife, but he was with

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Speaker 6: old he was he was with old wife. Now okay, yeah, okay,

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01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 6: I'm tracking. So basically, oh, this woman that he fell

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Speaker 6: in love with while he was married isn't going to

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Speaker 6: be loyal to him.

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01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 3: Didn't have loved for sight.

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01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 6: Also had a fiance. By the way, what that is crazy?

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01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 6: Never would have expected. It's almost like when you make

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01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 6: your bed, you have to sleep in it, she said

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01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 6: him down was like, listen, I met some someone else.

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01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 6: She's leap frogging. She's leap frogging.

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01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 3: She didn't you unmake You're about to sleep in it?

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01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 1: What, Sophia?

1350
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 2: Can you stop the truth? Can you stop unlocking the

1351
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 2: matrix before our very eyes right now? Because we have

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01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 2: some donations that just came in abandon eighteen yikes, that's

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01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 2: got to hurt. Also held up my wonderful people heart's hearts.

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01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:22,720
Speaker 2: Glad to have Okayop pushed the work absolutely abandoned. Do

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01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 2: we have anyone else that we missed? Producers Rachel Hatchett.

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Speaker 2: Rachel Hatchett, of course, twenty dollars.

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01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:27,680
Speaker 5: OMG.

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01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 1: I've heard this one before.

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01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 2: Op is completely delulu.

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01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 1: That's what it sounds.

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01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 6: I also appreciate when someone's like, yeah, I've heard this

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01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 6: one before, but I'm here for it. Here, I'm gonna

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01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 6: rewatch this here.

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01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 2: That's how hard the okay, okay, gang rocks.

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01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you are rock hard for us and we

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01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 6: love it rocking with what's.

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01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 3: That that the video? And they're like, I'm rocking with

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01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 3: you know, I don't know.

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01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 6: You have unformed thoughts sometimes, like we're desperately chrying.

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01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 2: Idea.

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01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 5: You know what else is unformed? What the rest of

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01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 5: the story. Well, we only have three hundred and sixty

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01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,160
Speaker 5: four likes and there are six hundred of you on YouTube.

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01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 2: Wow, and six hundred and sixty six total.

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01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:12,480
Speaker 6: Ooh, oh my goodness, you dastardly devils. You go like

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01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 6: the stream.

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01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 2: Let's let's get to the devil's number and put six

1378
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 2: hundred and sixty six likes on the YouTube.

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01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 6: Thank you?

1380
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 2: And he's like nah no.

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01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 3: Also, Brianna says, we have the same overalls. I'm where

1382
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 3: did you get them? Because I got the I.

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01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 2: Thrift of them, so he stole them from you?

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01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 9: Who?

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01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I were not there anymore. I woke up one

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01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 2: day with a legion of worms slithering out of my room.

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01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 2: Oh my God, but we have a story to continue,

1388
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 2: so Opie doesn't know what to do. We're getting into

1389
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 2: some edits right here, right here, edits uh. I am

1390
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 2: still involved in my daughter's life. For the hateful comments

1391
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 2: criticizing my parental decisions, I call her just about every day.

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01:07:57,840 --> 01:07:58,440
Speaker 1: Next edit.

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01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 2: I never cheated on Amanda. I broke things off before

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01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 2: I did anything romantic with Marie because I respected Amanda

1395
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 2: so much. I still care for her and she was

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01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:08,320
Speaker 2: my friend and still is the mother of my child.

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01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 6: I mean, at least he still cares for her. But

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01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 6: it's like, I don't know, it doesn't erase what he's done.

1399
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 1: Can you.

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01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 2: Can you fall in love without emotional cheating? No?

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01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 6: I don't think so. I don't think so, because like

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01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 6: he went immediately to her, he went immediately to her,

1403
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 6: So you can't fall in love without emotionally cheating. It's

1404
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:30,600
Speaker 6: like it's like you as soon as you see the

1405
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 6: emotions and you either have to break it off or

1406
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 6: like with a person, or you have to break it

1407
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 6: off with one person. You can't just keep going. It's

1408
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 6: it's whack.

1409
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 2: Whaxity wax city popular whacking.

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01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 6: Off as Yes, I love that Teo Dr John for

1411
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,480
Speaker 6: silver Clover and everyone new to the stream.

1412
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 2: Silver Clover and everyone knew. So basically, Danny Jesse once

1413
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 2: and that you know what that means, ladies and gentlemen,

1414
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 2: We're going for three three hours. Let's go.

1415
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank you, Daddy Jesse.

1416
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:20,799
Speaker 2: Daddy Daddy a TLDR for everyone. So basically, Opie was married,

1417
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 2: had a kid and found this amazing, beautiful woman, the

1418
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:26,640
Speaker 2: most beautiful woman he had ever seen. And then he

1419
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 2: goes to his wife and is like, Hey, I can't

1420
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 2: be with you because I'm in love with this other woman.

1421
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 2: So he goes with wonderful Marie, the new woman, and.

1422
01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 3: Leaves the state.

1423
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 6: Shocker shocker, Uh, it's not really a shock.

1424
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 2: The new woman leaves him. WHOA wasn't satisfied, It wasn't

1425
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 2: good enough. So now Opie is stuck back at square one.

1426
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:54,640
Speaker 6: Square zero because his old life doesn't want him, his

1427
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:56,679
Speaker 6: new wife doesn't want him, No one wants him.

1428
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 1: Nobody wants him.

1429
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 2: Loki deserved, but shot just anthem with the five five

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01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 2: five tip. Love you guys and your amazing personalities. You're

1431
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 2: being so much light to people's lives. Also, I made

1432
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 2: pottery and I want to make you guys okop.

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01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 6: Dude, all right, okay, I I had this idea. I

1434
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 6: haven't told everyone, but we should totally do mail time

1435
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,719
Speaker 6: with Okop and open up everything for our PO box.

1436
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 6: Oh my god, which goes into we have a po box? Yes,

1437
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 6: why don't you go submit it to us? I will

1438
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:30,280
Speaker 6: open it. Just don't send us anything too weird.

1439
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:30,839
Speaker 3: Please.

1440
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:33,720
Speaker 5: The fact that you said that is they're now going

1441
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:35,840
Speaker 5: to die. Why don't you say that you're asking them

1442
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:38,640
Speaker 5: to send something weird? Please send something weird to us.

1443
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 5: I want them to send something weird.

1444
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:43,720
Speaker 3: Send something weird to them, don't don't address it to me. Yes,

1445
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 3: but we can have like a mister Rogers type many.

1446
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 6: It would be so fun.

1447
01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 3: Get like a whole train that comes in and delivers it.

1448
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 6: Wise, baby, thanks for the five buckop. How long will

1449
01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,599
Speaker 6: your stream go for if we keep doing I mean

1450
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:02,440
Speaker 6: as long it goes forever. We never fin it goes forever. Yeah,

1451
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:05,679
Speaker 6: we will never stop, never stop. Yeah, well, on and stop.

1452
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:07,639
Speaker 6: Can't stop that, right, can't stop?

1453
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 2: All right, But ladies and gentlemen, yep, we have some

1454
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 2: relevant comments story. Let's get into it. This comes from

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01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 2: a bit.

1456
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: Of a grump Unfortunately, cheaters cheat. Now you know what

1457
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 1: you put a man to through.

1458
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:24,280
Speaker 2: I am sorry for your pain, but let it guide

1459
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 2: you to better choices in the future.

1460
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 6: That's such like top of the Mountain wisdom, use your.

1461
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 2: Pain and shout out to a man eighteen from becoming

1462
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 2: a little silly. We appreciate you today, Brown.

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01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:38,559
Speaker 3: I'd be a little bit concerned if I got a

1464
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 3: bunch of live.

1465
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:42,759
Speaker 6: Works that would be so funny.

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01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 3: Though it would be really funny worms on stream, we

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01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 3: would have to get those worms a little bit like

1468
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 3: bad for the worms to be shipped?

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01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I imagine those words.

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01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 2: But isn't it worse for them to be returned to

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01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:01,719
Speaker 2: their queen?

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01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 3: That's true.

1473
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 6: That's true. Every worm that is not with their queen

1474
01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 6: is a worm that is lost in this world.

1475
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: That is right.

1476
01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 2: Rachel Hatchett gifting five little silly memberships.

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01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:18,559
Speaker 6: Thank you you've been very consistently active. Truly the hatchet

1478
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 6: of justice, truly hatcheting her way into our hearts through

1479
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 6: our rib cages.

1480
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 1: Truly, it is sou.

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01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 2: Ouch with love, out with love. That's right. And seven

1482
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 2: Shadow says, why are we not to say hundred of likes?

1483
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 1: That's a great question.

1484
01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 6: That is a great question. Is such a great that's

1485
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:42,040
Speaker 6: a great question. What the frick frack patty whack you

1486
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 6: all hold asking.

1487
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 3: If they can send cookies. I don't know how food works.

1488
01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 6: Over, I don't know.

1489
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:51,680
Speaker 2: Send them them and we will see whatever you want.

1490
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,040
Speaker 6: We're gonna get the weirdest ship.

1491
01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 2: Like someone's gonna like send us a fish.

1492
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:57,880
Speaker 5: Someone's sending his cheese I'm there for.

1493
01:12:58,120 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 3: I think it's Bell Bell Con.

1494
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1495
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 6: I think it would be so fun, like the weird thing.

1496
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 6: The funnier it would be to open up on streams.

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01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah.

1498
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 6: We're gonna have to have like a top down view

1499
01:13:08,800 --> 01:13:09,799
Speaker 6: of everything where.

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01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 3: It's like I want one of those shirt because on

1501
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:13,880
Speaker 3: TikTok they used to do those shirts that had like

1502
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 3: really fun weird designs. It was like this shirt I

1503
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:18,760
Speaker 3: don't know. There was just like weird shirts. And I

1504
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 3: want one of those shirts that has like a fun

1505
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:20,759
Speaker 3: weird design.

1506
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:24,679
Speaker 6: I think those exist everywhere. You don't have to wait

1507
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 6: for whatever.

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01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 3: The man You're like, I want a shirt that has

1509
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:28,759
Speaker 3: a worm?

1510
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 2: All right, what do you want?

1511
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:34,040
Speaker 3: Oh? I want a shirt that has a worm and

1512
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 3: a fun catch raise and it's d and d related.

1513
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:41,759
Speaker 6: All right, you've heard the worm queen. Send your articles

1514
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:42,680
Speaker 6: of clothing.

1515
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:46,680
Speaker 2: And shout out to Renee for the one hundred and

1516
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 2: twenty nine Mexican Mexican dollars. Hello from Mexico, Pacos, I think,

1517
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:51,799
Speaker 2: Hello from Mexico.

1518
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:53,519
Speaker 1: I love your show. I lost it.

1519
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 6: Birthday, you say, happy birthday to be? Yeah, happy birthday,

1520
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:57,599
Speaker 6: Happy birthday, Renee?

1521
01:13:58,360 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 2: Right?

1522
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 1: Who and here is your gift?

1523
01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 2: Opie's response, Oh yes, ma'am sir. So this is the

1524
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:11,920
Speaker 2: response to cheeters cheat. Opie says, Yeah, I had no idea.

1525
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 2: She was that type of person who knew bro.

1526
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:18,640
Speaker 6: She showed you that you were just benefiting from her

1527
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 6: bad actions.

1528
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 3: You're that type of person.

1529
01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:21,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

1530
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:24,479
Speaker 3: You literally, you literally were that type of person and

1531
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:26,760
Speaker 3: got with a person who left her fiance for you.

1532
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:29,840
Speaker 3: It's a pattern, dude.

1533
01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 6: Oh, I have an okay story time about how someone

1534
01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 6: told me a story about a situation like this, an

1535
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:35,719
Speaker 6: okay story, okay.

1536
01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 3: Story story, and yeah, a metastory meta story exception.

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01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 2: We both made sure to end things with our significant

1538
01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 2: others before pursuing anything romantic. Unfortunately, she's been having an

1539
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:48,479
Speaker 2: affair with this guy for two months now.

1540
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:51,800
Speaker 3: My little violin.

1541
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 2: Yea, dude, I don't feel bad.

1542
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 3: I don't feel bad.

1543
01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 1: Feel bad? Do you feel bad?

1544
01:14:57,840 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1545
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:00,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know in the chat. If you feel bad,

1546
01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 2: please tell us, because we don't. Couldn't even give me

1547
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 2: the respect of ending things with me first. It's almost

1548
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:09,599
Speaker 2: like your own medicine. Bow.

1549
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:13,160
Speaker 3: I feel like he's like, I'm such a good person.

1550
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 3: I didn't cheat on my wife. I told her when

1551
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 3: I was leaving.

1552
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 2: I told her, hey, I'm going to leave you and

1553
01:15:18,960 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 2: our child.

1554
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, I have a question for you. I

1555
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 6: have a question for you and a question for the chat.

1556
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:27,639
Speaker 6: Would you rather your significant other be in love with

1557
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 6: someone else? Yes, but never be physical or cheat on

1558
01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:34,639
Speaker 6: you multiple times but not be in love.

1559
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 5: She don't you multiple times, but not be in love

1560
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:39,560
Speaker 5: with you, or the person.

1561
01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:41,240
Speaker 6: Not be in love with the person?

1562
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,800
Speaker 5: Oh, she don't you multiple times and not be in

1563
01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 5: love with you?

1564
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:46,679
Speaker 6: No, I would, I would.

1565
01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 3: I would dump them both ways.

1566
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 6: Okay, but which one would you rather?

1567
01:15:49,760 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 3: I'm not in love with me.

1568
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 6: Not in love with me? You would rather so you

1569
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 6: would rather than cheat on you?

1570
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 3: No, I would rather not be in love with me?

1571
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:00,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, be with you physically?

1572
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 6: Oh? Okay? So you like, you would rather the emotional cheating,

1573
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 6: or you rather the physical cheating over the emotional cheating.

1574
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 6: Rather than what do you do?

1575
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 2: What do you want?

1576
01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 6: Do you want physical cheating?

1577
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 1: Or she is creating her own third answer, do.

1578
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 6: You want physical or emotional cheating? Can only cheat one?

1579
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:19,760
Speaker 3: I thought? I thought the question was would you rather

1580
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:21,760
Speaker 3: your partner not be in love with you?

1581
01:16:21,880 --> 01:16:22,120
Speaker 9: No? No? No?

1582
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 6: Would you would you rather have physical or emotional cheating?

1583
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 6: And chat? Let us know? So? Basically neither. Like they

1584
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:31,040
Speaker 6: say they're in love with someone else but they've never

1585
01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 6: cheated on you, or they have cheated on you multiple

1586
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 6: times but they're still in love with you. I think, hey,

1587
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 6: it's not you can't say none of them.

1588
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:39,559
Speaker 2: You have to choose one. I think you can't say

1589
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 2: it either.

1590
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 3: I think emotional cheating because I'm breaking up with them

1591
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:46,599
Speaker 3: either way, but one way is STDs and the other

1592
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 3: way is not.

1593
01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:48,160
Speaker 1: That's true.

1594
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 6: What do you think John would rather hard? Hey, this

1595
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 6: is a sexual thing. You don't have to be hard

1596
01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 6: throughout this.

1597
01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 2: I guess I guess the physical cheating, because then it's like.

1598
01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 6: I think I would rather have the physical cheating. I

1599
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 6: would still break out that I think I would rather

1600
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 6: If I'm.

1601
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 3: Breaking up either way, I might as well not.

1602
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, all right. I was cheated on for three

1603
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 6: years straight. He didn't care. I got one way. He

1604
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:20,679
Speaker 6: didn't care about any of them. But he did buy

1605
01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:23,000
Speaker 6: the one chick's kid a Christmas toy. Took me a

1606
01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 6: long time to open my eyes. It's very specific. I've

1607
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 6: been caught in the act of cheating, but I was

1608
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 6: laying the d so good. My woman joined at David.

1609
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 3: You're just talking about the last story we read. That

1610
01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:40,719
Speaker 3: was the last story, so on the first.

1611
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:44,240
Speaker 2: Story for Sam and everyone who didn't wasn't here. Opie

1612
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 2: literally walked into her boyfriend inside of another woman, and

1613
01:17:49,560 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 2: he tried to pass it off as I was doing

1614
01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:55,639
Speaker 2: a surprise threesome for you and getting everything, coordinating everything.

1615
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 2: It was just warming up, just warming up.

1616
01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 6: That's crazy.

1617
01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 3: Rachel Hatchett, thanks for the twenty bucks. Which is worse

1618
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 3: to hook up with someone else and think of your partner,

1619
01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:06,679
Speaker 3: or hook up with your partner and think of someone.

1620
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 2: Else whoa the first one?

1621
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 3: The first one, which is worse.

1622
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 6: I mean, the first one is worse for sure, but

1623
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 6: they're both bad.

1624
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:23,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're literally hooking up with someone.

1625
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:26,400
Speaker 3: Who's the someone else I don't know, like friend from work,

1626
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 3: the pope?

1627
01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:29,759
Speaker 2: Whoa, there is someone on the stream.

1628
01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 5: You got a lot of friends from work, Sam, What

1629
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 5: are you trying to say, buddy?

1630
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, all.

1631
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 2: Right, I send Sam on to me. I will so true.

1632
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 2: Yeah so, Opie Bell conklingt Opie also says, so if

1633
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,839
Speaker 2: you fell in love with someone else and you realize

1634
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 2: you were never in love with your significant other, you

1635
01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:01,720
Speaker 2: would just ignore it. Flimsy Prize eleven to fifty responds, well,

1636
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 2: you put yourself in a position to fall in love

1637
01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 2: with someone else. But if I put myself in this spot,

1638
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:09,080
Speaker 2: I would go to a couple therapy to understand why,

1639
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 2: slash how I got to that point and figure out

1640
01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 2: how to co parent. If you have done therapy, you

1641
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 2: may have figured out how to let yourself be in

1642
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:19,839
Speaker 2: an emotional fair. How you let yourself be an emotional

1643
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:22,160
Speaker 2: fair without even realizing it. You might want to do

1644
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 2: some research into limerens interesting, what's really open heart?

1645
01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 6: Maybe do what's the other one of the Japanese Haiku expo.

1646
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:43,840
Speaker 3: I left my wife? Yeah, yeah, my new wife cheated

1647
01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:49,040
Speaker 3: on me. This is so very sad.

1648
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:52,720
Speaker 6: No this is I think we should not continue.

1649
01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 2: Sad boom, We got it.

1650
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:57,600
Speaker 1: We did it later And gentlemen, that w's in the

1651
01:19:57,680 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: chat for warm Queen Sophia.

1652
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 6: So and her unfinished thoughts.

1653
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:05,000
Speaker 2: That a new show coming to you?

1654
01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:08,639
Speaker 1: She starts something stopped to us the next thing.

1655
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:16,720
Speaker 3: Oh my god, prety established I have undiagnosed ADHD.

1656
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 2: You might want to do some research into limerence talked

1657
01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 2: to with a therapists and decide whether.

1658
01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:23,960
Speaker 5: Or not you were really in love with Marine?

1659
01:20:24,000 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 2: Wait?

1660
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:25,200
Speaker 3: What is limerens?

1661
01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 6: WHOA limerens describes the experience of having an uncontrollable desire

1662
01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 6: for someone, an obsession that consumes the limerent person's thoughts, feelings,

1663
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:39,760
Speaker 6: and behavior. It usually involves two people, the person who

1664
01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:44,440
Speaker 6: desires the other, the limerent, and the desired person the Limerence.

1665
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:46,040
Speaker 3: I love that, I asked, and it was right there.

1666
01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 5: How did you know that?

1667
01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:48,360
Speaker 6: How peky slayer?

1668
01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:50,879
Speaker 2: Thanks for that coming and clutch over here, My goodness.

1669
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,320
Speaker 2: Did you ever question why she wanted to live on

1670
01:20:54,360 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 2: the West Coast? I wonder if it was to control

1671
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:01,120
Speaker 2: or limit your interactions with your ex'es and daughter, or.

1672
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 3: It's because the West Coast is better.

1673
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:03,679
Speaker 6: The best Coast.

1674
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:09,560
Speaker 2: True, maybe said Oops, Opie. I still wouldn't call it

1675
01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 2: an emotional affair, but Amanda really wanted to do therapy

1676
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:15,040
Speaker 2: when I told her and try to make things work.

1677
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:17,800
Speaker 2: I go back and forth because when I told her,

1678
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:20,639
Speaker 2: she thought it was something. I go back and forth

1679
01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 2: because when I told her, she thought it was something

1680
01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 2: she did.

1681
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 1: Oh, that was something she did. She kept asking what

1682
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:27,840
Speaker 1: she did to.

1683
01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,040
Speaker 2: Do to make me unhappy, but it was nothing. She

1684
01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 2: was a great girlfriend, wife, and mother. Sometimes I wonder

1685
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:37,400
Speaker 2: if I just tried therapy would Uh would there would

1686
01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 2: be at.

1687
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: The very least be friends.

1688
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 2: It hurt her a lot that I didn't fight for

1689
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 2: a marriage, and once she realized I wasn't budging and

1690
01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 2: wasn't willing to try anything, she became cold to this

1691
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:48,679
Speaker 2: day and I want my friend back.

1692
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 4: We do have an update, h.

1693
01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 1: We do have an update, but a quick TALDR for

1694
01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 1: everyone who.

1695
01:21:55,080 --> 01:22:00,479
Speaker 2: Just joined the chat. So basically, Opie, Uh was in

1696
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 2: a marriage, had a child, met this new beautiful woman,

1697
01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 2: and then he's like, I'm in love with you and

1698
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 2: I need to leave my wife. I'm not emotionally cheating

1699
01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:11,639
Speaker 2: at all. He leaves his wife, gets with this new woman.

1700
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 2: New woman is like, hey, uh, I've been banging some

1701
01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 2: other dude for two months, so deuces and op is

1702
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:21,640
Speaker 2: just what was me?

1703
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:23,160
Speaker 1: I've done everything right?

1704
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:26,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, dude, he's really like like saying the whole story

1705
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 6: from that woe is me victim perspective, and he's totally

1706
01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:33,679
Speaker 6: like a victim of his own values that he brought

1707
01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 6: into his relationships.

1708
01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:39,559
Speaker 7: So this is a sticky icky man, sticky icky stinky man,

1709
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,320
Speaker 7: the stink max Stink.

1710
01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:47,000
Speaker 6: That's right, he is a trash man.

1711
01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:49,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's another that's another meter that we need.

1712
01:22:49,040 --> 01:22:52,759
Speaker 6: The stink stink commeter. How is this man?

1713
01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:53,759
Speaker 2: The stink commeter?

1714
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:57,240
Speaker 6: Sweetly, if you're gonna be back in forty minutes, just

1715
01:22:57,280 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 6: leave your computer open and keep us on. That's right.

1716
01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 2: Don't leave this by the way, everyone, you know some

1717
01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:04,799
Speaker 2: people are going to the gym, some people in your classroom.

1718
01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 2: Is just a friendly reminder. You need to go around

1719
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:08,760
Speaker 2: to everyone wherever you're at and let them know to

1720
01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:10,479
Speaker 2: like the stream or like.

1721
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:12,680
Speaker 3: You're watching the stream with headphones in and then just

1722
01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 3: start like laughing really loudly.

1723
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 6: And people will be like, oh, what are you listening to?

1724
01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're like, oh my god, the funniest stream ever.

1725
01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 2: What's the stream show?

1726
01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:24,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's I want to watch now too. I was

1727
01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:25,719
Speaker 6: the person that was over here.

1728
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 1: So guys spread some cheer and force everyone to watch.

1729
01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 6: Oh shut up, baby Godzilla, Baby, she's just there.

1730
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:43,880
Speaker 2: Baby there.

1731
01:23:44,320 --> 01:23:47,360
Speaker 1: Started? Yeah, well you know what else has started? Ladies

1732
01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:47,839
Speaker 1: and gentlemen?

1733
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 2: What this next? Up? Day?

1734
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:56,000
Speaker 1: So I'm finally starting to heal.

1735
01:23:56,200 --> 01:23:58,160
Speaker 2: I probably won't date for a long time, but I'm

1736
01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 2: starting to hang out with friends more. I was very

1737
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:03,160
Speaker 2: depressed for a month, and I still am. I have

1738
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:06,719
Speaker 2: tried to rekindle my friendship with Amanda the first wife,

1739
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 2: but she is not interested. She told me she still

1740
01:24:10,439 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 2: loves me even after everything, and she wishes she didn't.

1741
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 1: That hurt.

1742
01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:18,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, damn good. You should feel hurt, she told She

1743
01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 2: told me how I feel about She told me how

1744
01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:24,880
Speaker 2: I felt about Mary is how she felt when I

1745
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:28,960
Speaker 2: left her. We got sleep with Nights with a five

1746
01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 2: dollars tip. We are at six hundred people plus on

1747
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,080
Speaker 2: stream with four hundred and forty four likes.

1748
01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:35,759
Speaker 1: So if we don't like this video, then I won't

1749
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:36,599
Speaker 1: like you anymore.

1750
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 3: And that coming from Sleepless Nights is as good as.

1751
01:24:41,200 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 2: Yea your deathea.

1752
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 6: She speaks for behalf of the crew.

1753
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:49,639
Speaker 2: True, she is want to like you. Okay, you can't

1754
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:50,559
Speaker 2: sit at the table with us.

1755
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:52,599
Speaker 3: You can't sit with us. Why did you like? You

1756
01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:53,679
Speaker 3: almost had a good quote.

1757
01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:57,439
Speaker 2: So, guys, if you don't want the b you are

1758
01:24:57,479 --> 01:24:59,800
Speaker 2: really channeling me and girl right now because I.

1759
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:02,719
Speaker 3: You almost said like a mean girl reference.

1760
01:25:02,760 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 6: You can't say with us Bell conkling. Yeah, sure at

1761
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 6: two K, I will wear it over.

1762
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 5: But oh my gosh, you guys are Thursday, and I

1763
01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:12,679
Speaker 5: know it's Thursday, but chill.

1764
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 6: Out, thay, oh god, two K likes to be clear,

1765
01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:23,320
Speaker 6: two K likes, two K likes. Then I will just

1766
01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:24,400
Speaker 6: wear overall.

1767
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:27,840
Speaker 2: Not even stream easy, guys, you know what to do

1768
01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:33,720
Speaker 2: that she told me how I felt about Marie is

1769
01:25:33,760 --> 01:25:36,680
Speaker 2: how she felt when I left her. I reassured her

1770
01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:39,360
Speaker 2: that it wasn't her, it was me, and that Marie

1771
01:25:39,479 --> 01:25:42,080
Speaker 2: brought out something that I've never felt before, just just

1772
01:25:42,200 --> 01:25:44,080
Speaker 2: you know, twisting the knife, rubbing.

1773
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:44,479
Speaker 1: The salt in the moon.

1774
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:47,600
Speaker 3: I don't love when people say it's not you, it's me,

1775
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 3: because like, obviously it's you, you know av No, obviously

1776
01:25:52,400 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 3: it's the me, you know, So like for example, if

1777
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:57,840
Speaker 3: I were to say, it's not you, it's me. It's me.

1778
01:25:58,880 --> 01:25:59,600
Speaker 3: We know that it's me.

1779
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't like you and that's a me thing.

1780
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:04,280
Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I feel.

1781
01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:07,559
Speaker 2: I told her that she was a great wife and

1782
01:26:07,800 --> 01:26:10,439
Speaker 2: she she will find someone who loves her the way

1783
01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 2: that I loved Marie. Fuck, dude, this guy sucks. Why

1784
01:26:17,080 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 2: would you say that.

1785
01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:21,040
Speaker 3: I hope you find someone as much as I.

1786
01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:25,960
Speaker 1: As I loved the woman I dumped you for. I

1787
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:28,439
Speaker 1: have some fucking idiot guy.

1788
01:26:28,560 --> 01:26:29,599
Speaker 3: He's the mother of.

1789
01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:36,200
Speaker 2: Child child. Even after all that, she told me she

1790
01:26:36,240 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 2: doesn't want to talk to me unless it's about her

1791
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:42,679
Speaker 2: daughter and has ironically been more cold.

1792
01:26:43,240 --> 01:26:44,000
Speaker 6: It's not ironic.

1793
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:46,759
Speaker 3: That not ironic that that makes sense.

1794
01:26:47,720 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 2: The good news is is I started a new hobby.

1795
01:26:50,280 --> 01:26:51,799
Speaker 2: I've been going roller skating.

1796
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:57,760
Speaker 1: We formed this. We don't.

1797
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:02,080
Speaker 6: You're really tanning? Gary and girl? Oh you like roller skating?

1798
01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:07,679
Speaker 6: Uh ill? Oh dude, you see what you thought about

1799
01:27:07,680 --> 01:27:10,080
Speaker 6: it too much? You couldn't channel it anymore. You're back

1800
01:27:10,120 --> 01:27:12,599
Speaker 6: to your nerdy ways. Hey, we got some new people

1801
01:27:12,600 --> 01:27:16,000
Speaker 6: in the stream. Welcome TIDR.

1802
01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:22,720
Speaker 3: Thank you. Down is a lucky star that shines above

1803
01:27:22,760 --> 01:27:25,040
Speaker 3: the night sky. Sparkling with all its glory.

1804
01:27:25,200 --> 01:27:27,680
Speaker 6: That's really cute that we love you, we love you,

1805
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 6: we love you, we love you, but we might love

1806
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:37,240
Speaker 6: someone else even more. And I hope you find someone.

1807
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 3: I hope you find someone that loves you as much

1808
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 3: as we love.

1809
01:27:40,280 --> 01:27:45,280
Speaker 2: Sleepless Night, and that is we do love you.

1810
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:46,880
Speaker 1: To be clear, it's it's true.

1811
01:27:47,200 --> 01:27:50,080
Speaker 2: But for everyone who just joined so basically, OPI was

1812
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:52,960
Speaker 2: in a marriage with a child. OPI fell in love

1813
01:27:52,960 --> 01:27:56,120
Speaker 2: with a new woman, left God with a new woman.

1814
01:27:56,280 --> 01:28:00,559
Speaker 2: New woman proceeds to cheat in his face and leaves him,

1815
01:28:00,560 --> 01:28:03,080
Speaker 2: and he's just baffled. Why would this happen to me?

1816
01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:05,439
Speaker 2: I am such a I'm such a good person, and

1817
01:28:05,760 --> 01:28:07,920
Speaker 2: you know I don't deserve this. I didn't do anything wrong.

1818
01:28:08,439 --> 01:28:12,000
Speaker 2: And now op is continuing to deal with the fallout.

1819
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:14,840
Speaker 2: His wife is just getting more and more distant from him.

1820
01:28:14,880 --> 01:28:18,400
Speaker 2: He keeps saying the dumbest things possibly imaginable, like I

1821
01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:22,000
Speaker 2: hope you find someone like I love so And now

1822
01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:26,800
Speaker 2: now he's roller skating, I hope he like tears is

1823
01:28:26,800 --> 01:28:28,080
Speaker 2: growing at this point.

1824
01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:31,599
Speaker 3: God, why am I the one who has to chill?

1825
01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:32,439
Speaker 6: Dude?

1826
01:28:33,160 --> 01:28:37,719
Speaker 2: You want Sam's bad takes there? It is tears is growing.

1827
01:28:38,200 --> 01:28:39,800
Speaker 1: Bad takes.

1828
01:28:40,240 --> 01:28:43,000
Speaker 3: Let's go to take bad.

1829
01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 1: For bad takes. That's our show. Quadruple, quadruple that takes.

1830
01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 6: Take that take Morgan takes, Oh bad take Army. We're

1831
01:28:55,320 --> 01:28:58,400
Speaker 6: getting there, seven hundred bad takes only, baby, that's right,

1832
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:01,200
Speaker 6: get your get your friends in here. But ladies and gentlemen,

1833
01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:04,000
Speaker 6: we have some relevant comments.

1834
01:29:05,360 --> 01:29:10,080
Speaker 2: Slap beef Punch says there's nothing ironic about her coldness.

1835
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:13,120
Speaker 2: Goda love it. You're acting like it doesn't make sense,

1836
01:29:13,240 --> 01:29:17,040
Speaker 2: but it does. You don't give a single solitary shit

1837
01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:20,120
Speaker 2: about Amanda. You're just lonely and trying to convince her

1838
01:29:20,200 --> 01:29:23,439
Speaker 2: to let you use her until the next Marie just

1839
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:27,519
Speaker 2: comes along. Thankfully. You're the dumbass in this conversation. You

1840
01:29:27,600 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 2: showed your ass and she was smart enough to give

1841
01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:35,000
Speaker 2: it a great, big old kick, spanking spanking what we're

1842
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:37,640
Speaker 2: gonna Your ex wife is not a stand in for

1843
01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:41,000
Speaker 2: the star of your romantic life. She's your ex. She

1844
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:44,360
Speaker 2: doesn't even remotely care that you're lonely, and she shouldn't.

1845
01:29:44,720 --> 01:29:46,559
Speaker 1: She has her own life to live.

1846
01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:47,040
Speaker 3: True.

1847
01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:53,640
Speaker 2: Op Fire's back. Oh here we go again. That is

1848
01:29:54,280 --> 01:29:58,759
Speaker 2: to say, as I explained before I do care about

1849
01:29:58,760 --> 01:30:02,120
Speaker 2: Amanda more than anything. She was my friend.

1850
01:30:02,240 --> 01:30:04,120
Speaker 3: Well, not more than anything, more.

1851
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:08,920
Speaker 2: Than anything except for Marie, except for love. It wasn't

1852
01:30:08,920 --> 01:30:09,759
Speaker 2: more than anything.

1853
01:30:09,960 --> 01:30:13,839
Speaker 3: That's right, clearly, not more than anything clearly is.

1854
01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 6: A ten k and Riley spanks Sam ten K likes

1855
01:30:17,560 --> 01:30:21,680
Speaker 6: yeah absolutely, I actually have my old frat paddle in

1856
01:30:21,720 --> 01:30:26,160
Speaker 6: my room, so oh God, and no stones in turn.

1857
01:30:26,240 --> 01:30:30,360
Speaker 2: Thanks, but two notion donation love John's new channel. John

1858
01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:31,719
Speaker 2: just launched Oka Raps.

1859
01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:35,439
Speaker 6: It's pretty sick and he already had a viral video

1860
01:30:35,720 --> 01:30:39,639
Speaker 6: off and someone asked about other were more channels coming soon?

1861
01:30:39,720 --> 01:30:40,200
Speaker 6: We're getting there.

1862
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 2: We're getting there, get there, and Hannah Hurstad five donation.

1863
01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 2: Okop does God's work digging into depths and bringing us

1864
01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 2: the gold. Okop fan brightens my day after a hard year. Hannah,

1865
01:30:51,680 --> 01:30:56,320
Speaker 2: you brighten all of our Okay, made too many hard jokes.

1866
01:30:56,439 --> 01:31:01,519
Speaker 3: Sorry, we're sharing the old gospel words gossip straight to

1867
01:31:01,640 --> 01:31:02,799
Speaker 3: your gossip.

1868
01:31:05,640 --> 01:31:05,960
Speaker 2: Dude.

1869
01:31:06,040 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 6: That would be such a great church gossip. Uh channel,

1870
01:31:10,680 --> 01:31:12,639
Speaker 6: the Lord's got the Lord's gossip.

1871
01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:14,760
Speaker 5: But like that would be so hypocritical because we're like

1872
01:31:15,040 --> 01:31:15,800
Speaker 5: not supposed to do.

1873
01:31:15,880 --> 01:31:18,080
Speaker 6: But you said church gossip is like, oh yeah, but

1874
01:31:18,080 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 6: We're not supposed to do it, but you do.

1875
01:31:21,439 --> 01:31:24,639
Speaker 5: It's very frowned upon, but like it's something we're working

1876
01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:25,400
Speaker 5: on the church.

1877
01:31:25,479 --> 01:31:28,639
Speaker 2: Gossiping, we're working on frowning.

1878
01:31:31,200 --> 01:31:36,200
Speaker 3: Actually, gossip is a what's the word. It's like built

1879
01:31:36,200 --> 01:31:37,200
Speaker 3: into human.

1880
01:31:38,800 --> 01:31:43,360
Speaker 2: And then you can gossip into humans. It's a built

1881
01:31:43,360 --> 01:31:46,960
Speaker 2: into humans because.

1882
01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:52,840
Speaker 12: We created, we create bonds as humans prior to when

1883
01:31:52,880 --> 01:31:56,080
Speaker 12: we had big societies, and that's how we built a

1884
01:31:56,479 --> 01:31:57,400
Speaker 12: small society.

1885
01:31:58,240 --> 01:32:00,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, the society Sophia.

1886
01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:04,240
Speaker 6: If I'm arguing with Sofia, she will have all the

1887
01:32:04,320 --> 01:32:08,280
Speaker 6: form thoughts to just steamroll over me and she'll destroy me.

1888
01:32:08,520 --> 01:32:11,280
Speaker 6: But somehow, when she has open space, she takes like

1889
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:16,720
Speaker 6: five years. I just have to interrupt you and then

1890
01:32:16,920 --> 01:32:17,559
Speaker 6: that will just.

1891
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:24,879
Speaker 12: Say that's not true, and I'll go Actually, she's.

1892
01:32:24,640 --> 01:32:27,920
Speaker 2: The greatest feature on her Oh my god. But back

1893
01:32:27,960 --> 01:32:31,640
Speaker 2: to the story, so Opie says, I knew her for

1894
01:32:31,680 --> 01:32:33,800
Speaker 2: a long time. I try to stay friends with her

1895
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:37,280
Speaker 2: following our divorce. She isn't a new thing. She is

1896
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:41,320
Speaker 2: the one who rejected my friendship for years.

1897
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:45,000
Speaker 3: Interesting are you saying that Amanda. He's like Amanda rejected

1898
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:45,720
Speaker 3: me me.

1899
01:32:46,360 --> 01:32:47,599
Speaker 1: I am the victim here.

1900
01:32:48,439 --> 01:32:52,280
Speaker 2: I completely understand why But I didn't just decide out

1901
01:32:52,280 --> 01:32:54,640
Speaker 2: of the blue that I want to be friends. She

1902
01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:57,160
Speaker 2: knows I want to be friends with her. But the

1903
01:32:57,200 --> 01:32:59,680
Speaker 2: ball is in her court and she and has been

1904
01:32:59,720 --> 01:33:01,479
Speaker 2: there this it's not in.

1905
01:33:01,479 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 6: Our current court. You dragged your balls to the lady

1906
01:33:04,320 --> 01:33:06,920
Speaker 6: like one block over, dude, As soon as you're dragging

1907
01:33:06,920 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 6: your balls all around town, there are no balls to

1908
01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:11,320
Speaker 6: be in any court. The balls have been kicked out,

1909
01:33:11,439 --> 01:33:14,400
Speaker 6: no balls left, no balls left. Literally, yeah, Cassanda says,

1910
01:33:14,400 --> 01:33:19,519
Speaker 6: Oh Jesus, guy is trash ysh trashing man, spinky man,

1911
01:33:19,760 --> 01:33:22,880
Speaker 6: and shout to produce, produce, not pills. Five dollars tip

1912
01:33:23,040 --> 01:33:26,479
Speaker 6: love the overalls guys, of course, and shout out to

1913
01:33:26,479 --> 01:33:28,280
Speaker 6: you for being on our collings last time.

1914
01:33:28,280 --> 01:33:28,679
Speaker 1: That was fine.

1915
01:33:28,760 --> 01:33:30,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that was awesome, daddy Jesse with five dollars.

1916
01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:33,519
Speaker 2: What are each of your shirt sizes? Large?

1917
01:33:33,560 --> 01:33:39,559
Speaker 6: Small, large, riley large, bunch of large boys? Oh god,

1918
01:33:40,120 --> 01:33:40,920
Speaker 6: with small?

1919
01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:46,240
Speaker 1: But you know what we have that's really really large?

1920
01:33:46,680 --> 01:33:47,920
Speaker 6: A big old update.

1921
01:33:48,120 --> 01:33:51,400
Speaker 2: That's all right. Still this guy's still talking.

1922
01:33:52,720 --> 01:33:54,120
Speaker 3: Why does he have so much to say?

1923
01:33:54,320 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 5: That's so true.

1924
01:33:55,960 --> 01:33:58,720
Speaker 2: He's like just this.

1925
01:34:00,720 --> 01:34:01,040
Speaker 5: For me.

1926
01:34:01,640 --> 01:34:04,920
Speaker 6: He's like every update. People probably like every update. I

1927
01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 6: believe you guys have been like, this guy is stinky, right,

1928
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:11,160
Speaker 6: and he just gets stinkier. I imagine Reddit is also

1929
01:34:11,200 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 6: being like, this guy's stinky, so he must have some

1930
01:34:13,439 --> 01:34:17,000
Speaker 6: kind of like weird kinky thing just to get shot

1931
01:34:17,000 --> 01:34:19,120
Speaker 6: on by the Internet. Because why are you still updating?

1932
01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:20,559
Speaker 6: Everyone hates you truly.

1933
01:34:21,240 --> 01:34:23,840
Speaker 2: Tara Dexter says a few questions that I'm gonna answer

1934
01:34:23,880 --> 01:34:26,839
Speaker 2: real quick. Uh, just not going everything. Sure does mushrooms

1935
01:34:26,880 --> 01:34:29,320
Speaker 2: belonging everything? Sure? Do you guys like mushrooms? If so,

1936
01:34:30,040 --> 01:34:30,599
Speaker 2: do you put it?

1937
01:34:30,640 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 6: I love mushrooms, I do.

1938
01:34:32,400 --> 01:34:35,880
Speaker 3: I'm going to like certain mushrooms, but I don't. I

1939
01:34:35,960 --> 01:34:37,080
Speaker 3: like uncooked mushrooms.

1940
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:42,479
Speaker 6: I like the magic kind. Oh my, if the FBI

1941
01:34:42,600 --> 01:34:45,400
Speaker 6: is watching, I'm talking truffles.

1942
01:34:47,240 --> 01:34:48,559
Speaker 1: Those really are magic.

1943
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:49,760
Speaker 3: Legally that was a joke.

1944
01:34:49,800 --> 01:34:53,960
Speaker 6: That Legally that was a joke, and you can't prove anything, Roger.

1945
01:34:53,840 --> 01:34:55,920
Speaker 1: FBI man, thank you lawyers.

1946
01:34:56,560 --> 01:34:58,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, Kiba says humiliation fetish maybe.

1947
01:34:58,640 --> 01:35:02,000
Speaker 3: Oh this guy. Yeah, everybody's saying that about John Cena

1948
01:35:02,120 --> 01:35:06,720
Speaker 3: for going up naked humiliation, But I don't think how

1949
01:35:06,800 --> 01:35:07,720
Speaker 3: is he humiliated?

1950
01:35:07,920 --> 01:35:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, he's ripped saying see that was a form thought.

1951
01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:13,080
Speaker 6: He has so many lines.

1952
01:35:13,479 --> 01:35:17,679
Speaker 1: You there, you go, here's his form thought.

1953
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:19,120
Speaker 2: Let's get into this update.

1954
01:35:19,479 --> 01:35:20,559
Speaker 6: Let's hit it all right.

1955
01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:24,320
Speaker 2: So I am going through a really bad divorce where

1956
01:35:24,360 --> 01:35:25,960
Speaker 2: my wife cheated on me and.

1957
01:35:26,000 --> 01:35:28,320
Speaker 3: Wait, oh all right his second.

1958
01:35:29,880 --> 01:35:31,679
Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, don't keep going.

1959
01:35:31,720 --> 01:35:33,120
Speaker 1: But we'll try.

1960
01:35:33,560 --> 01:35:36,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I plan on staying single for a while.

1961
01:35:37,160 --> 01:35:40,519
Speaker 2: It's a lot of guys, is really girl? Yes? The

1962
01:35:40,600 --> 01:35:44,680
Speaker 2: thing is, I'm starting to develop a crush on this

1963
01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:50,320
Speaker 2: person I go bowling with you're joking, You're Joe ka serious?

1964
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:54,040
Speaker 2: I want to strike this guy down. I hope he

1965
01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:57,320
Speaker 2: gets a groin injury roller skating, I'm skating.

1966
01:35:57,360 --> 01:35:59,720
Speaker 3: I hope he gets a grin injury roller skating. I

1967
01:35:59,720 --> 01:36:00,799
Speaker 3: hope he's a corn injury.

1968
01:36:00,800 --> 01:36:04,479
Speaker 6: Bowling Yeah, put in the chat if you want this

1969
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:06,240
Speaker 6: guy to get a groin injury.

1970
01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:09,240
Speaker 2: I have been depressed and starting do activities to keep

1971
01:36:09,240 --> 01:36:12,240
Speaker 2: myself busy. And it's the first time I started having

1972
01:36:12,280 --> 01:36:15,200
Speaker 2: feelings for someone else, not the first time, the other

1973
01:36:15,280 --> 01:36:18,439
Speaker 2: time being feelings for someone who wasn't his wife. What's

1974
01:36:18,479 --> 01:36:21,080
Speaker 2: holding me back is I still love my ex.

1975
01:36:22,200 --> 01:36:25,320
Speaker 6: Oh my god, speaking of still loving your ex, Nicole,

1976
01:36:25,520 --> 01:36:27,840
Speaker 6: you with the twenty dollars tip, Sam, what happened with

1977
01:36:27,880 --> 01:36:29,040
Speaker 6: your girlfriend Arianna?

1978
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 2: Love you guys?

1979
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:32,240
Speaker 5: Where you've been?

1980
01:36:33,360 --> 01:36:37,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, dude, there's so much since then. Yeah, hey, someone

1981
01:36:37,120 --> 01:36:41,320
Speaker 6: in the chat, catch catch up. Y'all know basically everything

1982
01:36:41,320 --> 01:36:43,120
Speaker 6: about my love life so true.

1983
01:36:43,439 --> 01:36:46,840
Speaker 1: It's so true. What's holding me back is I still

1984
01:36:46,840 --> 01:36:47,559
Speaker 1: love my ex.

1985
01:36:47,640 --> 01:36:49,719
Speaker 2: I got a new job and we'll be moving from

1986
01:36:49,760 --> 01:36:53,759
Speaker 2: Seattle to Phoenix soon. So he's moving again. Oh my god.

1987
01:36:54,360 --> 01:36:57,639
Speaker 2: And guys, you you might have thought, well, this man

1988
01:36:57,760 --> 01:36:59,639
Speaker 2: really has nothing else to say.

1989
01:36:59,760 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it has there.

1990
01:37:01,680 --> 01:37:04,640
Speaker 1: Turns out he has a massive.

1991
01:37:06,360 --> 01:37:09,800
Speaker 3: It's just him talking about like going to different activities.

1992
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:13,120
Speaker 3: He's like I started, I started doing Machrome.

1993
01:37:13,720 --> 01:37:15,840
Speaker 1: I like someone I moved. I like someone I moved.

1994
01:37:16,200 --> 01:37:18,519
Speaker 2: Well, guys, I'm gonna start blasting through these updates, so

1995
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:22,799
Speaker 2: just bump, okay. I'll try to condense as much as possible.

1996
01:37:23,120 --> 01:37:24,960
Speaker 2: This is a good TLDR. Actually, I was with my

1997
01:37:24,960 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 2: first wife, Amanda for eight years and had a beautiful daughter. Unfortunately,

1998
01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:30,639
Speaker 2: unfortunately during our marriage, I fell in love with someone else.

1999
01:37:30,680 --> 01:37:32,800
Speaker 1: That woman ended up cheating on me and leaving me.

2000
01:37:33,240 --> 01:37:35,719
Speaker 2: I try to maintain a relationship with my first wife, Amanda,

2001
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:37,760
Speaker 2: because even though I realized I didn't love her. She

2002
01:37:37,800 --> 01:37:40,160
Speaker 2: was still my friend. Anyways, I was talking to a

2003
01:37:40,240 --> 01:37:43,000
Speaker 2: mutual friend and she told me that Amanda put herself

2004
01:37:43,000 --> 01:37:44,880
Speaker 2: out there and went on a date and has been

2005
01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:49,200
Speaker 2: talking to this guy. After we got off the phone,

2006
01:37:49,560 --> 01:37:53,080
Speaker 2: I called Amanda, but she didn't answer, so I texted her,

2007
01:37:53,560 --> 01:37:54,439
Speaker 2: we need to talk.

2008
01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:56,400
Speaker 6: Stop talking to other guys.

2009
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:59,040
Speaker 2: How dare you? I can leave you, but you can't

2010
01:37:59,040 --> 01:38:01,160
Speaker 2: do anything. Okay, Yeah, yeah, that's right.

2011
01:38:01,520 --> 01:38:03,080
Speaker 6: He sounds like the worst person.

2012
01:38:03,240 --> 01:38:06,559
Speaker 2: He does sound like the worst person, but Stefani is

2013
01:38:06,560 --> 01:38:07,000
Speaker 2: not the worst.

2014
01:38:07,040 --> 01:38:09,080
Speaker 6: For joining little silly thanks for joining to you if

2015
01:38:09,120 --> 01:38:10,840
Speaker 6: you want to become a little part of our private

2016
01:38:10,840 --> 01:38:13,559
Speaker 6: community here on YouTube. I want to see Tuesday stream

2017
01:38:14,320 --> 01:38:16,080
Speaker 6: which is on there and all the other past streams.

2018
01:38:16,080 --> 01:38:18,759
Speaker 6: Freaking come on little joint button right down there on YouTube.

2019
01:38:18,920 --> 01:38:20,760
Speaker 6: I have dated a fan. I got on a date

2020
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:21,639
Speaker 6: with one fan before.

2021
01:38:22,040 --> 01:38:23,520
Speaker 1: Really, so it's Riley.

2022
01:38:24,040 --> 01:38:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have not I in.

2023
01:38:29,479 --> 01:38:32,600
Speaker 3: This is sorry. I was gonna say committed relationship, not me.

2024
01:38:32,920 --> 01:38:36,200
Speaker 2: I thank you for speaking for me. I appreciate you.

2025
01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:37,759
Speaker 2: You're you're a worm of the people.

2026
01:38:37,920 --> 01:38:39,120
Speaker 3: I am a worm of the people.

2027
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:41,560
Speaker 2: I am the every worm, the every worm.

2028
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:45,760
Speaker 6: And four twenty. Sam is now taking girlfriend applications. Please

2029
01:38:45,800 --> 01:38:48,000
Speaker 6: send them into this discord channel. That's corrects.

2030
01:38:48,400 --> 01:38:50,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, but send like actual applications. I want

2031
01:38:50,760 --> 01:38:51,240
Speaker 3: your resumes.

2032
01:38:51,720 --> 01:38:55,240
Speaker 5: Send a link. I have a link ready, Yeah resume.

2033
01:38:55,320 --> 01:38:56,759
Speaker 6: Yeah for for girlfriend applications.

2034
01:38:57,800 --> 01:38:58,400
Speaker 2: I got you.

2035
01:38:58,479 --> 01:38:59,320
Speaker 5: I'll put in the discord.

2036
01:38:59,320 --> 01:38:59,920
Speaker 1: We gotta look at that.

2037
01:39:01,240 --> 01:39:04,280
Speaker 2: Amanda eventually calls back and I ask about our daughter

2038
01:39:04,360 --> 01:39:06,760
Speaker 2: or our daughter has spent the weekend at my parents' house.

2039
01:39:07,000 --> 01:39:08,519
Speaker 2: She told me she will come and pick her up

2040
01:39:08,560 --> 01:39:11,559
Speaker 2: in the evening. I told her this as a serious question.

2041
01:39:11,880 --> 01:39:13,920
Speaker 2: I asked her, are you still in love with me?

2042
01:39:15,040 --> 01:39:19,360
Speaker 2: She said, unfortunately. I love that answer so good.

2043
01:39:19,439 --> 01:39:21,960
Speaker 6: It's like you're like the biggest douchebag ever and I

2044
01:39:21,960 --> 01:39:23,240
Speaker 6: don't know why, but I do.

2045
01:39:24,280 --> 01:39:25,600
Speaker 1: She said that with an attitude.

2046
01:39:25,720 --> 01:39:27,839
Speaker 2: I said, then, would you think it's a good idea

2047
01:39:28,120 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 2: to date together right now?

2048
01:39:29,520 --> 01:39:31,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god, the audacity.

2049
01:39:31,680 --> 01:39:34,679
Speaker 2: She got angry and said that is none of my business.

2050
01:39:35,040 --> 01:39:38,440
Speaker 2: I told her, I'm coming to you as a friend. Okay,

2051
01:39:39,320 --> 01:39:41,800
Speaker 2: dating while still in love with me is not going

2052
01:39:41,840 --> 01:39:42,520
Speaker 2: to help.

2053
01:39:42,520 --> 01:39:44,879
Speaker 6: She said, believe me, I've tried.

2054
01:39:46,040 --> 01:39:46,439
Speaker 1: She said.

2055
01:39:46,439 --> 01:39:48,760
Speaker 2: Her therapist said it's time to put herself out there.

2056
01:39:49,200 --> 01:39:52,400
Speaker 2: I told her that her therapist sounds like a terrible therapist.

2057
01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:56,400
Speaker 2: How dare you date other people? Okay, only I can

2058
01:39:56,439 --> 01:39:59,200
Speaker 2: do that, this not me, but ok, you get what

2059
01:39:59,240 --> 01:40:02,559
Speaker 2: I'm saying. She told me to shut up. She said,

2060
01:40:02,760 --> 01:40:05,240
Speaker 2: do you know how this has impacted me? She said,

2061
01:40:05,360 --> 01:40:07,800
Speaker 2: I loved you and always tried to be a great

2062
01:40:07,840 --> 01:40:09,519
Speaker 2: wife for you, and that wasn't enough.

2063
01:40:09,920 --> 01:40:11,880
Speaker 1: I interrupted her on the phone and.

2064
01:40:11,880 --> 01:40:15,559
Speaker 2: Just said, Amanda. I then told her that I get

2065
01:40:15,560 --> 01:40:19,639
Speaker 2: it when Marie left my second wife. I couldn't even

2066
01:40:19,640 --> 01:40:23,479
Speaker 2: finish the sentence, and she said, You're such a fucking prick.

2067
01:40:23,760 --> 01:40:26,200
Speaker 2: She hung up and blocked me, and then blocked me

2068
01:40:26,360 --> 01:40:29,479
Speaker 2: on Facebook. Hell yeah, he.

2069
01:40:31,240 --> 01:40:34,320
Speaker 3: Tried to relate to her by bringing up the woman

2070
01:40:34,439 --> 01:40:35,400
Speaker 3: he left her for.

2071
01:40:35,840 --> 01:40:37,880
Speaker 2: Yep, yep.

2072
01:40:38,360 --> 01:40:39,880
Speaker 3: This guy sucks so much.

2073
01:40:40,280 --> 01:40:41,599
Speaker 2: He's just the dumbest.

2074
01:40:41,760 --> 01:40:45,280
Speaker 3: He's so supinky, He's so stupid.

2075
01:40:45,560 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 6: Henry Nason, thanks for the five buck tip. We appreciate,

2076
01:40:48,120 --> 01:40:48,720
Speaker 6: appreciate you.

2077
01:40:49,800 --> 01:40:50,240
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2078
01:40:50,320 --> 01:40:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to look out for her because she

2079
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:53,040
Speaker 2: is the mother of my child.

2080
01:40:53,360 --> 01:40:55,120
Speaker 3: Looking out for her and stop.

2081
01:40:56,800 --> 01:40:57,120
Speaker 6: Working.

2082
01:40:57,479 --> 01:41:00,760
Speaker 3: Well, looking out is like a blind.

2083
01:41:01,320 --> 01:41:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, they can't there we go. It doesn't happen form

2084
01:41:06,120 --> 01:41:07,240
Speaker 2: thoughts by Sophia.

2085
01:41:07,280 --> 01:41:08,000
Speaker 1: You're worm queen.

2086
01:41:08,280 --> 01:41:10,800
Speaker 3: I actually am good at improv.

2087
01:41:10,680 --> 01:41:15,120
Speaker 2: Just not that is true. That is true, but where

2088
01:41:15,160 --> 01:41:16,160
Speaker 2: she's becoming the master.

2089
01:41:16,240 --> 01:41:21,080
Speaker 6: Actually she did get to intermedia.

2090
01:41:21,880 --> 01:41:25,800
Speaker 2: Congrats in the chat again. Yeah no, no no, but

2091
01:41:25,840 --> 01:41:27,680
Speaker 2: we're putting Congress in the chat again for all the

2092
01:41:27,720 --> 01:41:30,000
Speaker 2: new hundreds of people that are here. Congrats in the chat.

2093
01:41:30,320 --> 01:41:34,599
Speaker 2: Congrats in the chat. Okay, all right, so uh opie

2094
01:41:34,960 --> 01:41:37,720
Speaker 2: another update. I copied and pasted her email response back.

2095
01:41:37,920 --> 01:41:40,240
Speaker 2: I appreciate your apology. I have a lot to say.

2096
01:41:40,720 --> 01:41:44,000
Speaker 2: I can't stand talking to you anymore. I've already spoken

2097
01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:46,719
Speaker 2: to your parents and they agree that all communications should

2098
01:41:46,760 --> 01:41:49,320
Speaker 2: go through them. I've said multiple times that I only

2099
01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:51,200
Speaker 2: want to talk to you if it's about our child,

2100
01:41:51,280 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 2: and you refuse to respect that facts. I don't think

2101
01:41:55,680 --> 01:41:58,840
Speaker 2: you realize or care, but your behavior since that person

2102
01:41:58,920 --> 01:42:02,280
Speaker 2: left to you has been nothing short of disrespectful. The

2103
01:42:02,400 --> 01:42:05,040
Speaker 2: impact this had on my mental health has been insane.

2104
01:42:05,439 --> 01:42:08,360
Speaker 2: Even though you don't care and don't tell me you do,

2105
01:42:09,160 --> 01:42:11,960
Speaker 2: saying you care doesn't mean anything. I'm gonna try to

2106
01:42:12,000 --> 01:42:15,240
Speaker 2: explain to you like I've tried explaining to you multiple times.

2107
01:42:15,320 --> 01:42:18,120
Speaker 2: But you always turn it back to yourself. I love you,

2108
01:42:18,360 --> 01:42:20,640
Speaker 2: I wish I didn't, and I don't know why you

2109
01:42:20,720 --> 01:42:22,439
Speaker 2: were the love of my life, and as dumb as

2110
01:42:22,439 --> 01:42:24,960
Speaker 2: it is, I wish you were still my husband. Every

2111
01:42:24,960 --> 01:42:26,960
Speaker 2: time I talk to you, it's a reminder of the

2112
01:42:27,040 --> 01:42:31,439
Speaker 2: life that I have lost. Please going forward, if you

2113
01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:35,479
Speaker 2: actually care about me, respect my boundaries. As hard as

2114
01:42:35,479 --> 01:42:37,760
Speaker 2: it was when that person left you, imagine if you

2115
01:42:37,800 --> 01:42:40,160
Speaker 2: had a child with her and had to talk to

2116
01:42:40,160 --> 01:42:42,519
Speaker 2: her every day as she explains that she couldn't make

2117
01:42:42,560 --> 01:42:45,200
Speaker 2: you happy. But this other man can. I'm not sure

2118
01:42:45,240 --> 01:42:50,160
Speaker 2: how to read yeah literal late God, can you not

2119
01:42:50,920 --> 01:42:53,120
Speaker 2: see one inch in front of your face?

2120
01:42:53,400 --> 01:42:53,679
Speaker 3: Mind?

2121
01:42:53,920 --> 01:42:56,479
Speaker 2: It's all it would take. I took everyone's advice, but

2122
01:42:56,560 --> 01:42:59,240
Speaker 2: I'm kind of hurt. My parents went behind my back

2123
01:42:59,280 --> 01:43:03,599
Speaker 2: and basically agreed to act as a liaison for communication. Bro.

2124
01:43:04,080 --> 01:43:06,960
Speaker 6: Yes, like when your own parents are against you, you're

2125
01:43:06,960 --> 01:43:08,200
Speaker 6: probably doing something wrong.

2126
01:43:08,280 --> 01:43:11,160
Speaker 2: You are probably doing something very weight because remember, there's

2127
01:43:11,160 --> 01:43:13,040
Speaker 2: a child involved, so they're probably also thinking about the

2128
01:43:13,080 --> 01:43:13,720
Speaker 2: great Kip too.

2129
01:43:14,720 --> 01:43:16,479
Speaker 1: They did all this without talking to me.

2130
01:43:17,040 --> 01:43:20,440
Speaker 2: To me first, to you, I'm trying to respect your boundaries,

2131
01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:22,519
Speaker 2: But what about being able to talk to my daughter.

2132
01:43:22,600 --> 01:43:24,519
Speaker 2: That has nothing to do with her boundaries, you idiot.

2133
01:43:25,080 --> 01:43:27,280
Speaker 2: Because of her blocking me from the phone, I haven't

2134
01:43:27,280 --> 01:43:29,880
Speaker 2: been able to talk to my daughter. It's already hard

2135
01:43:29,960 --> 01:43:32,040
Speaker 2: living so far and not being able to see my

2136
01:43:32,080 --> 01:43:34,680
Speaker 2: beautiful girl as much as I would like. I want

2137
01:43:34,720 --> 01:43:39,639
Speaker 2: to respect the boundaries she's placing, but I can't agree

2138
01:43:39,640 --> 01:43:41,800
Speaker 2: to do anything that will have me talk to my

2139
01:43:42,040 --> 01:43:43,000
Speaker 2: daughter less.

2140
01:43:43,400 --> 01:43:46,800
Speaker 6: Okay, I mean, but he's not going to be talking

2141
01:43:46,800 --> 01:43:48,439
Speaker 6: to his daughter less. He's just going to be talking

2142
01:43:48,520 --> 01:43:49,559
Speaker 6: to his ex wife.

2143
01:43:49,600 --> 01:43:52,120
Speaker 2: Last Yes, that's just an excuse, and you literally bulldozed

2144
01:43:52,120 --> 01:43:53,439
Speaker 2: through her like.

2145
01:43:53,439 --> 01:43:56,639
Speaker 6: You You're an idiot. You're just an idiot. And also,

2146
01:43:56,680 --> 01:43:58,320
Speaker 6: the discord is in the description if you want to

2147
01:43:58,360 --> 01:43:58,720
Speaker 6: check it out.

2148
01:43:58,800 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 1: Check it out, Amanda, am he clearly a narcissist. Great point.

2149
01:44:03,280 --> 01:44:05,840
Speaker 2: Another update. I didn't realize until last night. I had

2150
01:44:06,040 --> 01:44:09,559
Speaker 2: just moved into my new place and my neighbor was

2151
01:44:09,920 --> 01:44:13,519
Speaker 2: and and my neighbor she was taking me to drinks

2152
01:44:13,520 --> 01:44:16,280
Speaker 2: and she said, you don't open much, do you.

2153
01:44:17,000 --> 01:44:17,519
Speaker 1: I hope I.

2154
01:44:17,520 --> 01:44:20,519
Speaker 2: Can go back to the old me, the man I love,

2155
01:44:21,200 --> 01:44:25,200
Speaker 2: but my ex wife took something from me, actually said that.

2156
01:44:25,439 --> 01:44:28,679
Speaker 2: Sorry for clarity, shout out Renee for joining Little Sillies.

2157
01:44:28,680 --> 01:44:32,080
Speaker 2: We appreciate you and your donation from earlier. I hope

2158
01:44:32,080 --> 01:44:33,680
Speaker 2: I can go back to the old me. But my

2159
01:44:33,760 --> 01:44:36,599
Speaker 2: ex wife took something from me. Not that I took

2160
01:44:36,600 --> 01:44:41,640
Speaker 2: any thing from my ex wife. Yeah, I'm just I

2161
01:44:41,720 --> 01:44:44,839
Speaker 2: was more vulnerable than any other woman with her, including

2162
01:44:44,840 --> 01:44:48,160
Speaker 2: my first wife. Okay, she taught me what love is.

2163
01:44:49,400 --> 01:44:52,080
Speaker 2: I've made so many sacrifices for that woman, and she's

2164
01:44:52,120 --> 01:44:55,839
Speaker 2: still cheated. I've been keeping myself busy, but it hasn't

2165
01:44:55,880 --> 01:44:58,960
Speaker 2: been even been six months since this has happened. But

2166
01:44:59,080 --> 01:45:02,519
Speaker 2: when I make new friends like my neighbor, it's hard

2167
01:45:02,560 --> 01:45:05,679
Speaker 2: to let my guard down. I just want to ask her,

2168
01:45:05,880 --> 01:45:08,760
Speaker 2: why are you so nice? What's your end goal? I

2169
01:45:08,760 --> 01:45:11,960
Speaker 2: didn't do that obviously, but I missed the old me. Okay,

2170
01:45:12,600 --> 01:45:14,880
Speaker 2: oh my god, And there's more than I need to spout.

2171
01:45:15,479 --> 01:45:16,320
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sad.

2172
01:45:16,400 --> 01:45:19,720
Speaker 2: Are you serious going? Of course? Of course, I've been

2173
01:45:19,720 --> 01:45:21,840
Speaker 2: taking in a lot of people's comments, and I have

2174
01:45:22,400 --> 01:45:25,360
Speaker 2: something to say. Okay, most of the comments have been

2175
01:45:25,439 --> 01:45:26,400
Speaker 2: mean and hurtful.

2176
01:45:26,479 --> 01:45:29,520
Speaker 6: You're joking, he said that.

2177
01:45:29,520 --> 01:45:33,280
Speaker 2: That being said, I did this ambulance. I did decide

2178
01:45:33,360 --> 01:45:36,200
Speaker 2: to use it to self reflect and grow. Okay, I

2179
01:45:36,200 --> 01:45:39,479
Speaker 2: don't believe you. Well, here's here's Opie lay An out

2180
01:45:39,520 --> 01:45:42,360
Speaker 2: there case some common things I learned. People feel like

2181
01:45:42,439 --> 01:45:45,559
Speaker 2: I'm not taking accountability for what happened to Amanda, my

2182
01:45:45,600 --> 01:45:50,759
Speaker 2: first wife. I want people to know I take full responsibility.

2183
01:45:50,840 --> 01:45:53,160
Speaker 2: I have to learn that even though my intentions were

2184
01:45:53,240 --> 01:45:55,240
Speaker 2: in the right place, that doesn't change the hurt.

2185
01:45:55,640 --> 01:45:59,599
Speaker 1: Okay, people think I want Amanda back. Not true. All

2186
01:45:59,640 --> 01:46:01,960
Speaker 1: I did was call her and say will you have

2187
01:46:02,080 --> 01:46:02,439
Speaker 1: me back?

2188
01:46:02,560 --> 01:46:02,920
Speaker 9: Yeah?

2189
01:46:02,920 --> 01:46:05,320
Speaker 3: That's all I did was say do you still love me?

2190
01:46:05,600 --> 01:46:05,800
Speaker 2: Yes?

2191
01:46:05,960 --> 01:46:06,240
Speaker 6: Yeah?

2192
01:46:06,280 --> 01:46:07,840
Speaker 3: You probably shouldn't date anyone else.

2193
01:46:08,240 --> 01:46:08,880
Speaker 1: Let's do this.

2194
01:46:09,760 --> 01:46:12,040
Speaker 2: I want people to know that I do empathize with

2195
01:46:12,080 --> 01:46:14,559
Speaker 2: what happened. I care about her and want her to

2196
01:46:14,600 --> 01:46:17,679
Speaker 2: find someone. I just don't think it's healthy to date

2197
01:46:17,840 --> 01:46:19,320
Speaker 2: while in love with someone else.

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01:46:19,439 --> 01:46:21,360
Speaker 3: I just don't think it's healthy to have any sort

2199
01:46:21,360 --> 01:46:22,439
Speaker 3: of conversation with you.

2200
01:46:23,240 --> 01:46:23,519
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2201
01:46:23,880 --> 01:46:26,720
Speaker 6: Just I mean, she she knows what she needs. Like

2202
01:46:26,840 --> 01:46:28,439
Speaker 6: it sucks. She's still in love with him, but she

2203
01:46:28,560 --> 01:46:29,839
Speaker 6: knows she needs distance.

2204
01:46:30,040 --> 01:46:33,000
Speaker 3: And it's like therapist literally told her to get out there.

2205
01:46:33,960 --> 01:46:35,559
Speaker 6: God therapy for the wind.

2206
01:46:36,439 --> 01:46:39,439
Speaker 1: People think I abandoned my daughter. Not true. I'm doing

2207
01:46:39,680 --> 01:46:40,920
Speaker 1: my best to be in her life.

2208
01:46:41,120 --> 01:46:42,120
Speaker 5: Not ah.

2209
01:46:42,320 --> 01:46:47,080
Speaker 2: Still, I do take accountability for the pain I unintentionally caused, Amanda.

2210
01:46:46,760 --> 01:46:48,320
Speaker 3: You intentionally caused it, bro.

2211
01:46:48,800 --> 01:46:51,040
Speaker 2: I still care for her and what's best for her.

2212
01:46:51,160 --> 01:46:52,960
Speaker 2: I fell in love with another woman, and I wish

2213
01:46:53,040 --> 01:46:55,639
Speaker 2: I didn't. I was horrified when it happened.

2214
01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:59,880
Speaker 1: Right now, I just need someone in my cord.

2215
01:47:01,120 --> 01:47:04,519
Speaker 2: I need the comfort and healing. I hope this clears

2216
01:47:04,600 --> 01:47:08,120
Speaker 2: up any misconception before you comment on my post. Understand

2217
01:47:08,160 --> 01:47:11,280
Speaker 2: I take full, across full responsibility. I'm always looking for

2218
01:47:11,360 --> 01:47:12,960
Speaker 2: ways to grow as a person, and I can't be

2219
01:47:13,040 --> 01:47:15,080
Speaker 2: the father I want to be with my mental health

2220
01:47:15,120 --> 01:47:18,240
Speaker 2: on the gutter, and that is why I need comfort

2221
01:47:18,680 --> 01:47:22,200
Speaker 2: and doing things to help get me out of this, yeah, depression.

2222
01:47:22,240 --> 01:47:24,920
Speaker 3: She's like, everyone comfort me. I'm so sad.

2223
01:47:25,080 --> 01:47:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so sad.

2224
01:47:26,240 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 6: Yeah again the victim of mentality, Like that's that's all

2225
01:47:29,600 --> 01:47:33,120
Speaker 6: he has. I mean, like, I is there I would

2226
01:47:33,120 --> 01:47:35,719
Speaker 6: love to know in the chat, is there any part

2227
01:47:35,720 --> 01:47:38,200
Speaker 6: of you that feels bad for this guy? Because I

2228
01:47:39,160 --> 01:47:42,000
Speaker 6: put feels bad or not feels bad in the chat,

2229
01:47:42,120 --> 01:47:45,880
Speaker 6: Like I just don't feel bad. I just don't feel bad.

2230
01:47:45,920 --> 01:47:50,320
Speaker 6: There's like no, yeah, Aggie Whitson says, another symptom of narcissism.

2231
01:47:50,920 --> 01:47:51,320
Speaker 2: I think so.

2232
01:47:52,200 --> 01:47:56,080
Speaker 6: Rachel Hatchett, thanks for the five bucks. Leo fucking tried

2233
01:47:56,120 --> 01:48:00,320
Speaker 6: to warn y'all and then two buck tips. Sarah Aarons,

2234
01:48:00,360 --> 01:48:03,120
Speaker 6: I love my OKOP family. We appreciate it. Yeah, everyone's

2235
01:48:03,160 --> 01:48:06,240
Speaker 6: saying not at all. Can't for the wind? Did anyone

2236
01:48:06,360 --> 01:48:09,960
Speaker 6: give him like a like a all on Reddit?

2237
01:48:09,960 --> 01:48:10,400
Speaker 5: You think yeah?

2238
01:48:10,439 --> 01:48:11,360
Speaker 3: Did he get any comfort?

2239
01:48:11,400 --> 01:48:12,400
Speaker 6: Did he get any comfort?

2240
01:48:12,479 --> 01:48:14,400
Speaker 1: I mean from the relevant comments?

2241
01:48:14,640 --> 01:48:18,040
Speaker 2: No, we could take a little peak, but it seems

2242
01:48:18,120 --> 01:48:20,559
Speaker 2: like he got no support. Good.

2243
01:48:21,040 --> 01:48:23,080
Speaker 6: He does not deserve it. He does not deserve it.

2244
01:48:23,120 --> 01:48:25,400
Speaker 1: Does not But Sam, you know what we deserve?

2245
01:48:25,760 --> 01:48:26,719
Speaker 6: What do we deserve?

2246
01:48:26,960 --> 01:48:29,719
Speaker 2: Another story or calling?

2247
01:48:32,160 --> 01:48:34,280
Speaker 5: So I have something? I have something? So Olivia Claire

2248
01:48:34,520 --> 01:48:37,400
Speaker 5: posted something in our subrendit. We could read her suburd

2249
01:48:37,439 --> 01:48:39,719
Speaker 5: at first and then call her. Is she on the stream?

2250
01:48:39,800 --> 01:48:44,240
Speaker 5: She is on the stream, and can juicy, can we

2251
01:48:44,280 --> 01:48:45,760
Speaker 5: actually just call her?

2252
01:48:46,000 --> 01:48:48,200
Speaker 6: I think give let's do the line of what the

2253
01:48:48,600 --> 01:48:50,920
Speaker 6: title is? You read the title, let's just call it.

2254
01:48:51,000 --> 01:48:53,360
Speaker 6: Let's get it straight from the Okay horse's mouth for

2255
01:48:53,360 --> 01:48:55,760
Speaker 6: everybody who just turned into the stream. We're about to

2256
01:48:55,800 --> 01:48:58,439
Speaker 6: do a call in with one of our callers. If

2257
01:48:58,880 --> 01:49:01,320
Speaker 6: you want to be called Texas at four four zero

2258
01:49:01,560 --> 01:49:04,160
Speaker 6: fives or eight six five sixty seven, or join us

2259
01:49:04,160 --> 01:49:07,559
Speaker 6: in the discord and be friend Riley. The discord link

2260
01:49:07,840 --> 01:49:10,360
Speaker 6: is in the descriptions. Come be a part of our

2261
01:49:10,360 --> 01:49:11,479
Speaker 6: little okop family.

2262
01:49:11,520 --> 01:49:14,120
Speaker 5: Come Home's the one liner? Was I the a hole

2263
01:49:14,160 --> 01:49:16,799
Speaker 5: for leaving the stay after I call my ex sexting

2264
01:49:16,840 --> 01:49:19,680
Speaker 5: over forty women and trying to lie about it?

2265
01:49:20,439 --> 01:49:21,879
Speaker 1: That's right, this is from earlier.

2266
01:49:22,800 --> 01:49:24,320
Speaker 6: Was I the a hole for leaving?

2267
01:49:25,320 --> 01:49:25,559
Speaker 10: Man?

2268
01:49:25,760 --> 01:49:28,200
Speaker 6: I can't imagine a world where you are.

2269
01:49:29,560 --> 01:49:30,320
Speaker 2: Let's find out.

2270
01:49:30,640 --> 01:49:33,320
Speaker 6: Let's find out, Olivia. I'm very excited to call you.

2271
01:49:33,439 --> 01:49:33,920
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

2272
01:49:33,960 --> 01:49:35,639
Speaker 6: And also to hear how you found out?

2273
01:49:36,040 --> 01:49:38,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, truly, how do you find out all forty? Yeah?

2274
01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:40,720
Speaker 6: And also like, what's the suspicion? You know, what are

2275
01:49:40,720 --> 01:49:41,400
Speaker 6: you suspicious?

2276
01:49:42,280 --> 01:49:42,719
Speaker 2: Hello?

2277
01:49:43,680 --> 01:49:51,920
Speaker 6: You're with the okop Bam, John Samsofia, how are you amazing? Great?

2278
01:49:53,240 --> 01:49:53,679
Speaker 6: Riley said?

2279
01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:54,160
Speaker 2: One second?

2280
01:49:54,160 --> 01:49:58,599
Speaker 1: What we are getting geared up here? Ladies and gentlemen, good, good, hey, good?

2281
01:49:58,680 --> 01:49:59,320
Speaker 1: Can you hear us?

2282
01:49:59,360 --> 01:49:59,920
Speaker 6: You can hear us?

2283
01:50:00,360 --> 01:50:01,479
Speaker 8: Yeah?

2284
01:50:01,880 --> 01:50:03,639
Speaker 6: Okay, So who are you talking with?

2285
01:50:04,120 --> 01:50:04,320
Speaker 2: Oli?

2286
01:50:04,920 --> 01:50:05,679
Speaker 8: My name is Olivia?

2287
01:50:05,920 --> 01:50:09,599
Speaker 6: Okay, this is why I hear you? Wait, they said

2288
01:50:09,600 --> 01:50:11,439
Speaker 6: you can't hear can you guys not hear Cas?

2289
01:50:11,640 --> 01:50:12,600
Speaker 5: They can now they can know?

2290
01:50:12,760 --> 01:50:14,880
Speaker 6: All right, everyone can here right, let us know in

2291
01:50:14,920 --> 01:50:16,439
Speaker 6: the chat if you can hear Olivia.

2292
01:50:16,560 --> 01:50:18,200
Speaker 1: Yes, she deserves to be heard.

2293
01:50:18,400 --> 01:50:22,679
Speaker 6: So when did you start becoming suspicious.

2294
01:50:22,640 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 8: Of Okay, so, like probably about a month before I

2295
01:50:28,080 --> 01:50:31,920
Speaker 8: found out. So we we dated, we were engaged, and

2296
01:50:31,960 --> 01:50:34,679
Speaker 8: we dated for about two and a half years before

2297
01:50:34,680 --> 01:50:37,840
Speaker 8: we got engaged, and then we were engaged for two

2298
01:50:37,880 --> 01:50:40,680
Speaker 8: months before I found out. But that last month I

2299
01:50:40,760 --> 01:50:42,479
Speaker 8: was a bit suspicious that something was wrong.

2300
01:50:43,640 --> 01:50:46,160
Speaker 6: Okay, what made you suspicious?

2301
01:50:47,000 --> 01:50:50,439
Speaker 8: He was acting different. He was like being super distant

2302
01:50:50,479 --> 01:50:52,400
Speaker 8: and sleeping on the couch. Do we lived together at

2303
01:50:52,400 --> 01:50:54,760
Speaker 8: the time, and he was sleeping on the couch and

2304
01:50:54,760 --> 01:50:56,680
Speaker 8: staying up really late on the night. Said he like

2305
01:50:56,840 --> 01:51:00,000
Speaker 8: wasn't working the next day and that was really unusual

2306
01:51:00,200 --> 01:51:01,800
Speaker 8: for him until and he was on his phone, like

2307
01:51:01,880 --> 01:51:04,280
Speaker 8: hiding his phone, and I was like, Okay, something's weird.

2308
01:51:04,320 --> 01:51:07,200
Speaker 8: And I asked him about it a week out.

2309
01:51:07,600 --> 01:51:09,799
Speaker 6: Did he ever hide his phone before this moment?

2310
01:51:11,040 --> 01:51:14,200
Speaker 8: Not really? No, I had his password, but I had

2311
01:51:14,320 --> 01:51:16,200
Speaker 8: never really checked it because you know, there was no

2312
01:51:16,280 --> 01:51:18,000
Speaker 8: reason too. It's not that I didn't trust him at

2313
01:51:18,000 --> 01:51:22,120
Speaker 8: the time, so I never checked it. I never thought

2314
01:51:22,160 --> 01:51:24,439
Speaker 8: to check it, and I didn't check it. That's the

2315
01:51:24,479 --> 01:51:26,719
Speaker 8: thing is, I didn't actually go and snoop in his phone.

2316
01:51:27,479 --> 01:51:31,519
Speaker 8: I by accident found it. So he had come home

2317
01:51:31,560 --> 01:51:34,479
Speaker 8: from work after one really long day the day before

2318
01:51:34,640 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 8: and then he had to open that morning and it

2319
01:51:39,240 --> 01:51:41,240
Speaker 8: was like an hour drive. There was a new location

2320
01:51:41,360 --> 01:51:44,080
Speaker 8: for him, and so I, you know, he came home

2321
01:51:44,120 --> 01:51:45,439
Speaker 8: and said, I got to go to sleep, like I'm

2322
01:51:45,479 --> 01:51:47,559
Speaker 8: so tired. It was like seven pm. I was like, okay,

2323
01:51:47,640 --> 01:51:48,479
Speaker 8: I go to bed time.

2324
01:51:48,560 --> 01:51:51,759
Speaker 6: And he was not sleeping right, Oh.

2325
01:51:52,000 --> 01:51:56,800
Speaker 8: Well he wasn't well not yes, and no, okay. He

2326
01:51:58,320 --> 01:51:59,720
Speaker 8: so he went, you know, went to go to bed

2327
01:51:59,720 --> 01:52:01,479
Speaker 8: and about like I don't know. Forty five minutes to

2328
01:52:01,520 --> 01:52:03,280
Speaker 8: an hour later, I was like, I'm going to take

2329
01:52:03,320 --> 01:52:05,320
Speaker 8: a bath, like I just feel like it. And so

2330
01:52:05,720 --> 01:52:08,680
Speaker 8: I went to go grab clothes from our room and

2331
01:52:08,800 --> 01:52:11,360
Speaker 8: his phone light was lit up, but he was snoring

2332
01:52:11,360 --> 01:52:14,080
Speaker 8: and sleeping, and I was like, okay, well he has

2333
01:52:14,120 --> 01:52:15,960
Speaker 8: to work in the morning. I should set his alarm

2334
01:52:16,000 --> 01:52:18,439
Speaker 8: for him. I should you know, get his phone plunge

2335
01:52:18,479 --> 01:52:21,559
Speaker 8: in so that wasn't die overnight. Yeah, I was just

2336
01:52:21,600 --> 01:52:23,240
Speaker 8: trying to do that for him, And so I went

2337
01:52:23,280 --> 01:52:26,599
Speaker 8: to go do that and when I grabbed the phone,

2338
01:52:26,640 --> 01:52:28,320
Speaker 8: it was lit up and it was a dating app

2339
01:52:28,320 --> 01:52:30,240
Speaker 8: and it was open to like a new message.

2340
01:52:30,800 --> 01:52:32,880
Speaker 9: Yeah, oh what did.

2341
01:52:32,760 --> 01:52:34,479
Speaker 6: You What did you see? What was the message?

2342
01:52:34,760 --> 01:52:34,840
Speaker 2: Like?

2343
01:52:35,000 --> 01:52:38,080
Speaker 6: Was he just looking for friends on bumble bff or

2344
01:52:38,360 --> 01:52:38,680
Speaker 6: was it not?

2345
01:52:38,920 --> 01:52:41,160
Speaker 8: It was it was it was hilly, so it was

2346
01:52:41,160 --> 01:52:45,360
Speaker 8: definitely not for bumble bfs. It was just like, oh, message,

2347
01:52:45,479 --> 01:52:47,719
Speaker 8: like your new crush or whatever the little propt says.

2348
01:52:47,920 --> 01:52:49,960
Speaker 8: And he had fallen to sleep like before he sent

2349
01:52:50,040 --> 01:52:53,000
Speaker 8: a message, so it was just there, like it was

2350
01:52:53,080 --> 01:52:55,920
Speaker 8: just open. I was like, excuse me, Like, so I

2351
01:52:55,960 --> 01:52:58,120
Speaker 8: grabbed the sun I kind of look and I realized

2352
01:52:58,400 --> 01:53:02,240
Speaker 8: this entire profile outside of the pictures is fake. The

2353
01:53:02,280 --> 01:53:04,880
Speaker 8: whole thing he is lying about who he is, his

2354
01:53:05,000 --> 01:53:08,559
Speaker 8: name is, where he lived, everything. I'm like, what the

2355
01:53:08,560 --> 01:53:10,519
Speaker 8: hell is going on? So I wake him up, of course,

2356
01:53:10,520 --> 01:53:12,439
Speaker 8: and I'm like what the hell is this? And I'm

2357
01:53:12,439 --> 01:53:15,320
Speaker 8: freaking out. I'm like, like, you just looked me in

2358
01:53:15,400 --> 01:53:16,920
Speaker 8: the eyes last week and told me there was nobody

2359
01:53:16,960 --> 01:53:19,040
Speaker 8: else nothing was going on. Because I was freaking out

2360
01:53:19,120 --> 01:53:21,759
Speaker 8: the week prior, and he said, I promise you there's nothing.

2361
01:53:21,760 --> 01:53:23,720
Speaker 8: There's no one. I was like, okay, he told me,

2362
01:53:23,760 --> 01:53:26,280
Speaker 8: I was like overthinking. I was like, okay, maybe I

2363
01:53:26,320 --> 01:53:31,960
Speaker 8: am so so I confront him and I then found

2364
01:53:32,000 --> 01:53:34,840
Speaker 8: a hidden Snapchat account. She never used Snapchat before, so

2365
01:53:35,160 --> 01:53:38,280
Speaker 8: he had a Snapchat account with You were fine, like.

2366
01:53:38,240 --> 01:53:40,920
Speaker 6: You were fine with seeing like you were like, okay,

2367
01:53:40,960 --> 01:53:43,840
Speaker 6: like I can move past seeing this stuff on the

2368
01:53:43,920 --> 01:53:47,920
Speaker 6: dating app. But then you found a Snapchat like I

2369
01:53:48,040 --> 01:53:48,679
Speaker 6: was like, I.

2370
01:53:48,560 --> 01:53:50,160
Speaker 8: Mean, I was pissed, but it was kind of like,

2371
01:53:50,720 --> 01:53:52,400
Speaker 8: you know, like I'll talk to him tomorrow. But then

2372
01:53:52,439 --> 01:53:56,320
Speaker 8: I saw the Snapchat with the and he was stupid

2373
01:53:56,400 --> 01:53:59,280
Speaker 8: enough to save all the messages, and so I saw

2374
01:53:59,560 --> 01:54:02,599
Speaker 8: everything in these messages, and eventually he gave me his

2375
01:54:02,600 --> 01:54:04,639
Speaker 8: phone to look at. He's like, you know, I can't

2376
01:54:04,640 --> 01:54:05,960
Speaker 8: get out of this. You can just look at everything.

2377
01:54:06,120 --> 01:54:08,400
Speaker 8: But the worst part is how he framed it. After

2378
01:54:08,840 --> 01:54:12,040
Speaker 8: he framed it as he was struggling from a corn

2379
01:54:12,080 --> 01:54:16,120
Speaker 8: addiction and because he was struggling with that, and he

2380
01:54:16,160 --> 01:54:18,160
Speaker 8: had already had blockers on his devices because I had

2381
01:54:18,160 --> 01:54:20,120
Speaker 8: caught him watching porn in the past, and it was

2382
01:54:20,160 --> 01:54:23,960
Speaker 8: like a rule in our relationship that he wouldn't do that. Yeah,

2383
01:54:24,040 --> 01:54:25,840
Speaker 8: and we had already we had set that boundary before,

2384
01:54:25,880 --> 01:54:28,040
Speaker 8: like a year and a half prior, and he agreed

2385
01:54:28,040 --> 01:54:31,240
Speaker 8: to that. He agreed to that, He's like here using

2386
01:54:31,240 --> 01:54:33,800
Speaker 8: book blockers on my devices so that you know, I

2387
01:54:33,800 --> 01:54:36,480
Speaker 8: can't even get tempted. I'm like, okay, Like that's that's reasonable,

2388
01:54:36,520 --> 01:54:37,920
Speaker 8: that's fair, and I thought it was, and so I

2389
01:54:37,920 --> 01:54:40,240
Speaker 8: didn't check his stuff because I was trying to trust them.

2390
01:54:40,240 --> 01:54:42,560
Speaker 8: And he said that he was so desperate that he

2391
01:54:42,720 --> 01:54:45,320
Speaker 8: was he had done he had done this. I'm like, okay,

2392
01:54:45,360 --> 01:54:47,960
Speaker 8: but you've actively been doing this for how long? He

2393
01:54:48,000 --> 01:54:50,240
Speaker 8: had been doing it for four months? So when he

2394
01:54:50,360 --> 01:54:53,520
Speaker 8: proposed to me he was doing this, Oh my god,

2395
01:54:53,600 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 8: I was talking.

2396
01:54:54,360 --> 01:54:59,480
Speaker 6: To all other women while he literally on his knees proposing.

2397
01:54:59,560 --> 01:55:03,560
Speaker 6: He saw the other way than god, oh my god.

2398
01:55:04,200 --> 01:55:04,440
Speaker 5: Yep.

2399
01:55:04,480 --> 01:55:07,640
Speaker 8: There was at least forty and then I ended up

2400
01:55:07,680 --> 01:55:10,720
Speaker 8: because I'm a very you know, sympathetic person, and he

2401
01:55:10,800 --> 01:55:13,720
Speaker 8: fringed it as a problem and like made me believe

2402
01:55:13,760 --> 01:55:16,839
Speaker 8: he was suffering. I tried to stay, but the stipulation

2403
01:55:16,960 --> 01:55:19,360
Speaker 8: was you have to go to counseling, and then he's

2404
01:55:19,360 --> 01:55:22,120
Speaker 8: only I had to go to counseling, which I was like, no, like,

2405
01:55:22,240 --> 01:55:23,560
Speaker 8: you need to go to counseling, then we can do

2406
01:55:23,560 --> 01:55:26,200
Speaker 8: couples therapies until you figure your stuff out. But you

2407
01:55:26,280 --> 01:55:28,080
Speaker 8: need to figure yourself out, then we can do couple

2408
01:55:28,080 --> 01:55:31,000
Speaker 8: of counseling if you know, we get that far. And

2409
01:55:31,320 --> 01:55:34,120
Speaker 8: he stopped to go into counseling after two sessions. A

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01:55:34,200 --> 01:55:37,160
Speaker 8: few months later, I dumped him and then he went

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01:55:37,200 --> 01:55:40,080
Speaker 8: off on me, blamed me for ruining his life, ruining

2412
01:55:40,160 --> 01:55:45,280
Speaker 8: years of his life. Yeah, and I ended up just

2413
01:55:45,520 --> 01:55:47,200
Speaker 8: moving out of the state, moved to a newspake, got

2414
01:55:47,200 --> 01:55:49,560
Speaker 8: a fresh start. So I was like, I am not

2415
01:55:50,120 --> 01:55:52,120
Speaker 8: like I'm from Michigan originally, and I was like, I

2416
01:55:52,200 --> 01:55:54,760
Speaker 8: love Michigan, but I need a fresh start. I can't

2417
01:55:54,960 --> 01:55:57,520
Speaker 8: like I was only in that city instead of moving

2418
01:55:57,560 --> 01:55:59,880
Speaker 8: back home near my family for him because I had

2419
01:56:00,040 --> 01:56:03,120
Speaker 8: at him and started dating him, and yeah, it was

2420
01:56:04,080 --> 01:56:05,960
Speaker 8: he told his whole family that I cheated on him,

2421
01:56:06,040 --> 01:56:07,800
Speaker 8: which is a great detail.

2422
01:56:07,640 --> 01:56:09,880
Speaker 6: Which is literally I mean I ought to see. That's

2423
01:56:09,920 --> 01:56:11,920
Speaker 6: something that John and I have talked about on the

2424
01:56:12,000 --> 01:56:15,800
Speaker 6: show before, where it's like usually the person who's super

2425
01:56:16,160 --> 01:56:19,720
Speaker 6: moral in the relationship doesn't want to spread like information

2426
01:56:19,800 --> 01:56:22,560
Speaker 6: to like, oh he cheated, yeah, the truth because they

2427
01:56:22,600 --> 01:56:25,000
Speaker 6: want to protect the other person. But then the person

2428
01:56:25,080 --> 01:56:28,520
Speaker 6: that cheated, who has moral, you know, just just bad

2429
01:56:28,640 --> 01:56:31,560
Speaker 6: like bad morals, will then flip it and be like, oh,

2430
01:56:31,680 --> 01:56:34,000
Speaker 6: she cheated on me. So did they believe him?

2431
01:56:35,880 --> 01:56:38,440
Speaker 8: Well, his grandma did at least because she commented on

2432
01:56:38,520 --> 01:56:40,600
Speaker 8: like a Facebook post of mine when I like, because

2433
01:56:40,600 --> 01:56:42,880
Speaker 8: I don't really use Facebook that much, but i'll put

2434
01:56:43,000 --> 01:56:45,240
Speaker 8: big stuff like hey, I moved to an estate. I

2435
01:56:45,320 --> 01:56:48,360
Speaker 8: put that on there, and she commented and said like

2436
01:56:48,400 --> 01:56:50,360
Speaker 8: I hope you never come back to Michigan or something.

2437
01:56:50,840 --> 01:56:54,000
Speaker 8: And that's what led me to believe she told them something.

2438
01:56:54,040 --> 01:56:55,640
Speaker 8: And so I was like, I'm going to text his

2439
01:56:55,720 --> 01:56:57,360
Speaker 8: mom and I was like, hey, like and I like

2440
01:56:57,440 --> 01:56:58,800
Speaker 8: his parents a lot, so I was like, hey, like,

2441
01:56:59,080 --> 01:57:01,280
Speaker 8: at least sorry things work out with us, Like I

2442
01:57:01,360 --> 01:57:03,600
Speaker 8: love you guys, but and it kind of sucks, but

2443
01:57:04,640 --> 01:57:06,920
Speaker 8: I don't know what was said about me, but you

2444
01:57:07,000 --> 01:57:09,640
Speaker 8: know this, I deleted the comment, but it's still like

2445
01:57:10,200 --> 01:57:12,480
Speaker 8: kind of raised the red flag. And his mom was like,

2446
01:57:12,680 --> 01:57:15,040
Speaker 8: you know, I'm suspicious about this, like you sent such

2447
01:57:15,040 --> 01:57:17,040
Speaker 8: a sweet text. And so she told me that he

2448
01:57:17,160 --> 01:57:20,480
Speaker 8: had said that I like cheated in my new state

2449
01:57:20,720 --> 01:57:22,879
Speaker 8: because I have friends out here, so I visit frequently

2450
01:57:23,040 --> 01:57:26,320
Speaker 8: enough before I moved, and he said that I cheated,

2451
01:57:26,400 --> 01:57:28,360
Speaker 8: and I still even with that, I did not tell

2452
01:57:28,440 --> 01:57:30,200
Speaker 8: them the truth because I didn't want to.

2453
01:57:31,120 --> 01:57:31,760
Speaker 2: You're a good.

2454
01:57:31,720 --> 01:57:35,000
Speaker 6: Person, you're trying to protect That's yeah, I'm so sorry

2455
01:57:35,080 --> 01:57:37,080
Speaker 6: that happened. How are things for you in the new

2456
01:57:37,160 --> 01:57:39,160
Speaker 6: state though, They're great.

2457
01:57:39,320 --> 01:57:44,160
Speaker 8: I started a new jobs soon. I'm really excited about it.

2458
01:57:44,520 --> 01:57:47,800
Speaker 8: Congrats And yeah, and I have my own business now,

2459
01:57:47,920 --> 01:57:51,480
Speaker 8: so I make crochet like things and ear rings and stuff,

2460
01:57:51,480 --> 01:57:54,120
Speaker 8: which is why I asked Sophia kind of jewelry she likes, O. God,

2461
01:57:54,200 --> 01:58:01,480
Speaker 8: yet crocheting something for you guys, So I'm going to

2462
01:58:01,560 --> 01:58:03,800
Speaker 8: send that into But yeah, so things are super good.

2463
01:58:04,080 --> 01:58:05,480
Speaker 8: I'm much happier here.

2464
01:58:05,800 --> 01:58:08,480
Speaker 6: Yes, Spippy Tiffy says, glad you left Olivia. Yeah, oh,

2465
01:58:08,560 --> 01:58:11,160
Speaker 6: we are glad too. Something that I saw a couple

2466
01:58:11,200 --> 01:58:15,360
Speaker 6: of comments on and I'm curious about. So you basically

2467
01:58:15,440 --> 01:58:17,600
Speaker 6: set this boundary of like not watching porn and one

2468
01:58:17,600 --> 01:58:20,000
Speaker 6: of the reasons he said, like, oh, like I had

2469
01:58:20,080 --> 01:58:22,520
Speaker 6: to go and cheat because I couldn't watch porn. I'm

2470
01:58:22,600 --> 01:58:26,120
Speaker 6: curious if he went to you and was like, hey,

2471
01:58:26,880 --> 01:58:32,560
Speaker 6: I'm having these like urges, can I watch porn again?

2472
01:58:32,920 --> 01:58:35,280
Speaker 6: What would you say to that? And also, I'm curious

2473
01:58:35,320 --> 01:58:37,960
Speaker 6: about that boundary of not watching porn and like why

2474
01:58:38,120 --> 01:58:40,640
Speaker 6: you created that, and like what what some of the

2475
01:58:40,720 --> 01:58:41,240
Speaker 6: reasons were.

2476
01:58:42,720 --> 01:58:46,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, So, at least for me, I'm not super conservative,

2477
01:58:46,320 --> 01:58:48,400
Speaker 8: but I definitely grew up in a more conservative household.

2478
01:58:48,520 --> 01:58:51,400
Speaker 8: So that's one of those beliefs I just kind of took.

2479
01:58:51,520 --> 01:58:53,480
Speaker 8: I guess for my family, it's not a make or

2480
01:58:53,520 --> 01:58:55,880
Speaker 8: break for a relationship. But he said that it was

2481
01:58:55,920 --> 01:58:57,800
Speaker 8: a problem for him and he watched it too much.

2482
01:58:58,640 --> 01:59:00,920
Speaker 6: He agreed to it, which is, yeah, he's breaking the

2483
01:59:01,000 --> 01:59:02,320
Speaker 6: trust in the relationship.

2484
01:59:02,560 --> 01:59:04,720
Speaker 3: That was like I have a problem, and you were like,

2485
01:59:04,800 --> 01:59:05,680
Speaker 3: well let me help you.

2486
01:59:05,920 --> 01:59:08,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And so I was like, well, how

2487
01:59:08,280 --> 01:59:10,960
Speaker 8: about just don't watch it? And I offered to find

2488
01:59:11,000 --> 01:59:13,160
Speaker 8: a counselor for him when he first told me about it,

2489
01:59:13,800 --> 01:59:17,080
Speaker 8: and I was like, you know, I'll help you find

2490
01:59:17,120 --> 01:59:19,320
Speaker 8: someone because I can get that, Like, if you feel embarrassed,

2491
01:59:19,360 --> 01:59:21,440
Speaker 8: I understand that I will help you. There's nothing to

2492
01:59:21,480 --> 01:59:23,800
Speaker 8: be embarrassed about. Everyone goes through something that you know,

2493
01:59:23,840 --> 01:59:26,320
Speaker 8: they struggle with something, and so he framed it as

2494
01:59:26,360 --> 01:59:29,320
Speaker 8: an addiction, and there were start as he knows I struggled,

2495
01:59:29,440 --> 01:59:32,400
Speaker 8: not myself, but I as family members he struggled with addiction,

2496
01:59:32,520 --> 01:59:34,480
Speaker 8: and I went to the ends of the earth to

2497
01:59:34,640 --> 01:59:37,520
Speaker 8: like help them. And he knows that if he frames

2498
01:59:37,560 --> 01:59:40,880
Speaker 8: things a certain way, like I will, like I almost

2499
01:59:40,880 --> 01:59:42,760
Speaker 8: got held back in high school because my mom was

2500
01:59:42,800 --> 01:59:45,280
Speaker 8: really sick and part of it was from an addiction,

2501
01:59:45,640 --> 01:59:48,560
Speaker 8: and I ended up like missing school often to take

2502
01:59:48,600 --> 01:59:50,280
Speaker 8: care of her, bring her a doctor's appointments.

2503
01:59:50,800 --> 01:59:51,440
Speaker 9: And he knew that.

2504
01:59:51,960 --> 01:59:54,680
Speaker 8: He even said to me at one point, like, you know,

2505
01:59:56,240 --> 01:59:58,560
Speaker 8: because my mom ended up passing away when I was seventeen,

2506
01:59:58,800 --> 02:00:02,080
Speaker 8: and he said that you know, well, you know it

2507
02:00:02,240 --> 02:00:04,640
Speaker 8: was it was her addiction, and you know sometimes people

2508
02:00:04,680 --> 02:00:07,080
Speaker 8: with addictions need help, like you like used it against me.

2509
02:00:07,800 --> 02:00:09,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, discussed, and.

2510
02:00:09,320 --> 02:00:11,800
Speaker 8: I was like, look like, yeah, it's so gross, and.

2511
02:00:11,920 --> 02:00:16,000
Speaker 6: So I'm glad that you took out the trash and

2512
02:00:16,760 --> 02:00:19,080
Speaker 6: end of the relationship for so many reasons, Like it

2513
02:00:19,480 --> 02:00:21,480
Speaker 6: sounds like, I mean, not only did you violate the

2514
02:00:22,120 --> 02:00:24,600
Speaker 6: the trust in the relationship by cheating, but also like

2515
02:00:24,880 --> 02:00:29,120
Speaker 6: when you make an agreement with a partner, it doesn't

2516
02:00:29,200 --> 02:00:31,520
Speaker 6: matter what the agreement is, it's just that you both

2517
02:00:31,840 --> 02:00:35,880
Speaker 6: trusted each other to agree to it. And I think

2518
02:00:36,000 --> 02:00:38,960
Speaker 6: that is it, Like that's the indicator of whether the

2519
02:00:39,040 --> 02:00:41,560
Speaker 6: relationship is strong. It's like the trust in doing what

2520
02:00:41,680 --> 02:00:44,120
Speaker 6: you both say you're going to do. So I mean,

2521
02:00:44,160 --> 02:00:46,240
Speaker 6: I'm so sorry that happened to you, but I'm really

2522
02:00:46,280 --> 02:00:50,720
Speaker 6: glad that you are now happy in another state, thriving

2523
02:00:50,760 --> 02:00:54,560
Speaker 6: with a new business and making some of the crochet stuff.

2524
02:00:54,640 --> 02:00:56,760
Speaker 6: So excited to maybe open that on stream soon.

2525
02:00:58,160 --> 02:01:00,000
Speaker 8: Yeah, I can't. I'm also I am in a relationship

2526
02:01:00,080 --> 02:01:01,040
Speaker 8: hip now to you, and I'm very.

2527
02:01:01,000 --> 02:01:06,560
Speaker 6: Happy winning on all fronts Olivia, thank you so much

2528
02:01:06,600 --> 02:01:09,360
Speaker 6: for calling in. We appreciate you telling us your story.

2529
02:01:10,640 --> 02:01:11,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, thank you so much.

2530
02:01:11,560 --> 02:01:12,800
Speaker 2: Guys, you're the best.

2531
02:01:17,120 --> 02:01:18,200
Speaker 6: Take it out the track.

2532
02:01:18,440 --> 02:01:20,960
Speaker 1: W w oh Man.

2533
02:01:21,880 --> 02:01:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2534
02:01:22,080 --> 02:01:24,400
Speaker 6: I think like some of the people were asking, oh,

2535
02:01:24,480 --> 02:01:26,520
Speaker 6: like why would you agree to not like having like

2536
02:01:26,640 --> 02:01:29,000
Speaker 6: porn or whatever. I think it's like it's really up

2537
02:01:29,040 --> 02:01:30,680
Speaker 6: to the couple. That's what they agree to.

2538
02:01:30,920 --> 02:01:32,960
Speaker 2: But you just once you do it, you have to

2539
02:01:33,120 --> 02:01:35,680
Speaker 2: don't agree to something that you Yeah, if you disagree,

2540
02:01:35,960 --> 02:01:39,160
Speaker 2: then disagree, then disagree to it, and then break the trust.

2541
02:01:39,080 --> 02:01:41,720
Speaker 6: Exactly it's it's like, relationships are all about trust, and

2542
02:01:41,960 --> 02:01:44,760
Speaker 6: if you break the trust, even for a small thing

2543
02:01:44,960 --> 02:01:48,320
Speaker 6: or seemingly insignificant thing, like it hurts the relationship.

2544
02:01:48,360 --> 02:01:50,960
Speaker 2: He could have said like, oh hey, like honestly, in

2545
02:01:51,000 --> 02:01:53,880
Speaker 2: a relationship, that's like not really anything that I would want,

2546
02:01:54,280 --> 02:01:55,680
Speaker 2: And then you can discuss from there.

2547
02:01:55,760 --> 02:01:58,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean people hook like people sleep with other

2548
02:01:58,720 --> 02:02:03,280
Speaker 6: people in relationships, and like if they have an open relationship,

2549
02:02:03,840 --> 02:02:06,160
Speaker 6: that is fine because the trust isn't broken. As long

2550
02:02:06,200 --> 02:02:08,320
Speaker 6: as the trust isn't broken, it is a relationship. But it's,

2551
02:02:08,640 --> 02:02:11,400
Speaker 6: as Jellyba says, communication, if you want to change it,

2552
02:02:11,560 --> 02:02:12,560
Speaker 6: discuss exactly.

2553
02:02:12,720 --> 02:02:15,480
Speaker 2: I love how he also went from like like I

2554
02:02:15,560 --> 02:02:18,120
Speaker 2: need to stop drinking, so let me start using meth instead,

2555
02:02:18,320 --> 02:02:19,600
Speaker 2: Like just.

2556
02:02:19,760 --> 02:02:24,080
Speaker 6: Fucking crazy, fucking crazy. Oh man, but you know what,

2557
02:02:24,240 --> 02:02:27,720
Speaker 6: I'm addicted to? What this next story?

2558
02:02:27,800 --> 02:02:28,480
Speaker 2: Oh god?

2559
02:02:29,440 --> 02:02:30,400
Speaker 6: Who read it?

2560
02:02:34,880 --> 02:02:35,200
Speaker 3: Actually?

2561
02:02:35,280 --> 02:02:36,640
Speaker 5: I have an announcements make real quick.

2562
02:02:36,880 --> 02:02:37,520
Speaker 6: What's your announcement?

2563
02:02:38,280 --> 02:02:40,880
Speaker 5: I do have a link for ladies that are looking

2564
02:02:40,920 --> 02:02:45,200
Speaker 5: to shoot their shot for Sammy boy should drop it? Sure,

2565
02:02:45,680 --> 02:02:47,840
Speaker 5: all right, all right, I'll drop it. I'm dropping it

2566
02:02:47,920 --> 02:02:49,160
Speaker 5: into chat application.

2567
02:02:49,480 --> 02:02:51,560
Speaker 6: Someone on someone in the chat said we should do

2568
02:02:51,720 --> 02:02:56,640
Speaker 6: a live review of all the people that submit.

2569
02:02:56,760 --> 02:03:00,640
Speaker 5: Dude, it is a it is a top tier application.

2570
02:03:00,880 --> 02:03:02,680
Speaker 5: I will let you know that everyone will have a

2571
02:03:02,720 --> 02:03:05,240
Speaker 5: great time. There is psychology behind it, but it is

2572
02:03:05,320 --> 02:03:09,160
Speaker 5: top tier. Wow. I used it for I use it

2573
02:03:09,200 --> 02:03:11,400
Speaker 5: for my brother. He I wasn't sure if he's gonna

2574
02:03:11,440 --> 02:03:13,160
Speaker 5: date anyone, so it was gonna be like a candidate

2575
02:03:13,240 --> 02:03:16,400
Speaker 5: to day tate. And but it's from that so I

2576
02:03:16,480 --> 02:03:18,320
Speaker 5: will drop it in the in the chat. But we

2577
02:03:18,440 --> 02:03:21,360
Speaker 5: are looking at episode.

2578
02:03:22,320 --> 02:03:26,440
Speaker 2: Tell me, uh, three fifty two, three fifty two?

2579
02:03:29,040 --> 02:03:31,840
Speaker 6: What are you gonna do? All right, let's get into it. Also,

2580
02:03:31,880 --> 02:03:33,520
Speaker 6: if you don't liked the stream, like it?

2581
02:03:33,760 --> 02:03:34,320
Speaker 5: Where do you come on?

2582
02:03:34,560 --> 02:03:35,200
Speaker 2: What are you doing?

2583
02:03:35,440 --> 02:03:36,400
Speaker 9: You like it?

2584
02:03:36,920 --> 02:03:37,720
Speaker 2: Jesus weet?

2585
02:03:37,800 --> 02:03:38,000
Speaker 10: Do this?

2586
02:03:38,520 --> 02:03:38,720
Speaker 3: Yeah?

2587
02:03:39,000 --> 02:03:43,040
Speaker 6: So I nineteen female have a crush on my roommate,

2588
02:03:43,320 --> 02:03:47,200
Speaker 6: twenty female. I can't figure out if she actually likes

2589
02:03:47,280 --> 02:03:51,400
Speaker 6: me back or not, or it's just being friendly. Help

2590
02:03:53,560 --> 02:03:55,960
Speaker 6: And this comes from a user. My friend is a nightmare.

2591
02:03:56,920 --> 02:03:59,760
Speaker 6: Oh and they say I've lived with my roommate for

2592
02:03:59,800 --> 02:04:02,640
Speaker 6: over a year now. We met in high school a

2593
02:04:02,680 --> 02:04:05,200
Speaker 6: few classes, but we were never really friends. We worked

2594
02:04:05,200 --> 02:04:07,680
Speaker 6: on some projects together and that's it. I never really

2595
02:04:07,720 --> 02:04:09,040
Speaker 6: paid attention to her, but.

2596
02:04:09,280 --> 02:04:12,960
Speaker 2: She is smoking hot, oh gosh.

2597
02:04:12,720 --> 02:04:16,120
Speaker 6: And I obviously knew she was. And I obviously knew

2598
02:04:16,160 --> 02:04:18,240
Speaker 6: she was and acknowledged it. We ended up going to

2599
02:04:18,400 --> 02:04:20,680
Speaker 6: like acknowledged it as in like, oh, like like looked

2600
02:04:20,720 --> 02:04:22,320
Speaker 6: at it like you're smoking.

2601
02:04:22,000 --> 02:04:24,240
Speaker 3: Hard, I'm smoking hot, And I had to say it.

2602
02:04:24,600 --> 02:04:25,280
Speaker 2: I had to say it.

2603
02:04:25,840 --> 02:04:28,400
Speaker 6: We ended up going to the same college together, though,

2604
02:04:28,480 --> 02:04:31,280
Speaker 6: and decided since we know each other, we should room together.

2605
02:04:31,760 --> 02:04:35,760
Speaker 6: She's a and they were roommates. Ooh, intrigue. She's a

2606
02:04:35,960 --> 02:04:39,360
Speaker 6: very lovely roommate. But I've ended up developing a pretty

2607
02:04:39,720 --> 02:04:43,440
Speaker 6: huge crush on her after I started being in her company.

2608
02:04:43,520 --> 02:04:46,280
Speaker 6: Lot I'm a lesbian, fully out. My roommate knows this.

2609
02:04:46,960 --> 02:04:50,600
Speaker 6: The problem is I can't figure out if she's flirting

2610
02:04:50,680 --> 02:04:55,000
Speaker 6: with me or not. Please help me all this Some

2611
02:04:55,120 --> 02:04:59,200
Speaker 6: instances from the past year, in numbered order that stood

2612
02:04:59,240 --> 02:05:02,480
Speaker 6: out to me. Also for the chat, I'm curious, how

2613
02:05:02,520 --> 02:05:04,480
Speaker 6: do you know if someone's flirting with you? What is

2614
02:05:04,520 --> 02:05:08,520
Speaker 6: an indicator? Like, like, what are some golden rules of

2615
02:05:08,640 --> 02:05:09,640
Speaker 6: knowing if someone's flirting with you?

2616
02:05:09,760 --> 02:05:12,040
Speaker 3: I was actually just watching a TikTok about this girl

2617
02:05:12,120 --> 02:05:15,280
Speaker 3: being like sometimes people are naturally flirty and then there's

2618
02:05:15,360 --> 02:05:18,320
Speaker 3: intentional flirting, and she was like, just ask people if

2619
02:05:18,320 --> 02:05:19,960
Speaker 3: they're a naturally flirty person.

2620
02:05:19,920 --> 02:05:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like like, if someone is maybe flirting with you,

2621
02:05:22,960 --> 02:05:24,360
Speaker 2: asked them, are you flirting with me?

2622
02:05:24,560 --> 02:05:24,800
Speaker 6: Are you.

2623
02:05:26,840 --> 02:05:27,640
Speaker 1: That's what you're happening?

2624
02:05:28,000 --> 02:05:31,520
Speaker 6: Someone I saw on Dave he's like like if he's

2625
02:05:31,560 --> 02:05:32,960
Speaker 6: like feeling a vibe with someone, He's like, are you

2626
02:05:33,040 --> 02:05:34,160
Speaker 6: open to being hit on right now?

2627
02:05:35,400 --> 02:05:36,320
Speaker 2: Which is kind of a bar.

2628
02:05:36,520 --> 02:05:37,440
Speaker 1: That's kind of a bar.

2629
02:05:37,560 --> 02:05:39,200
Speaker 6: I did it once and it was effective.

2630
02:05:39,360 --> 02:05:39,880
Speaker 4: Are you open?

2631
02:05:40,080 --> 02:05:40,280
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2632
02:05:40,320 --> 02:05:42,120
Speaker 6: Like I was viving with this girl and I'm like, hey, like,

2633
02:05:42,200 --> 02:05:44,040
Speaker 6: are you open to being hit on right now? And

2634
02:05:44,240 --> 02:05:46,320
Speaker 6: she was like yeah, and I'm like and then I

2635
02:05:46,680 --> 02:05:53,320
Speaker 6: flopped kidding. Actually, well, I'm like, he said. Application number one.

2636
02:05:53,640 --> 02:05:55,760
Speaker 6: She said that we should make a list of each

2637
02:05:55,800 --> 02:05:59,120
Speaker 6: other's favorite orders from a bunch of places, so if

2638
02:05:59,160 --> 02:06:01,680
Speaker 6: we need to order for the other we can. That's cute.

2639
02:06:02,120 --> 02:06:04,520
Speaker 6: I said, sure, that's good. Over the past few months,

2640
02:06:04,520 --> 02:06:05,880
Speaker 6: when I had a lot of things do and my

2641
02:06:05,920 --> 02:06:09,920
Speaker 6: anxiety was acting up, she kept paying for my favorite

2642
02:06:10,040 --> 02:06:12,960
Speaker 6: order meals you usually we split money and getting me

2643
02:06:13,120 --> 02:06:15,760
Speaker 6: them with a very cute card telling me good.

2644
02:06:15,720 --> 02:06:16,240
Speaker 2: Luck and stuff.

2645
02:06:16,400 --> 02:06:18,760
Speaker 6: Flirting When I tried to do it back. She said, no,

2646
02:06:19,200 --> 02:06:21,640
Speaker 6: let me take care of you. Flirting, and my small

2647
02:06:21,720 --> 02:06:26,960
Speaker 6: gay self collapsed. Flirting or not put flirting or not

2648
02:06:27,400 --> 02:06:28,680
Speaker 6: in the chat flirting.

2649
02:06:29,920 --> 02:06:30,400
Speaker 3: Flirting.

2650
02:06:30,920 --> 02:06:32,040
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know.

2651
02:06:32,920 --> 02:06:37,080
Speaker 6: I'm gonna do a bad take here. I think, yes,

2652
02:06:37,600 --> 02:06:39,520
Speaker 6: I do that for Christian all the time, but I

2653
02:06:39,560 --> 02:06:42,160
Speaker 6: guess I am flirting with Christian. I am I am

2654
02:06:42,200 --> 02:06:46,680
Speaker 6: flirting too. Her baby niece came to visit once with

2655
02:06:46,760 --> 02:06:50,520
Speaker 6: their sister and she referred to me as Auntie's very

2656
02:06:50,800 --> 02:06:55,560
Speaker 6: special girlfriend. I freaked, but just laughed it off. Flirting

2657
02:06:55,640 --> 02:06:58,400
Speaker 6: or not for number two, talking about you, I talk

2658
02:06:58,440 --> 02:06:59,360
Speaker 6: about Christian all the time.

2659
02:06:59,480 --> 02:07:01,200
Speaker 3: Okay, we get it your love.

2660
02:07:03,000 --> 02:07:03,280
Speaker 2: All right?

2661
02:07:03,840 --> 02:07:08,360
Speaker 6: Three she gets me anything I say in passing I want,

2662
02:07:08,600 --> 02:07:11,280
Speaker 6: or circle in any catalog I have. We don't have

2663
02:07:11,320 --> 02:07:13,560
Speaker 6: a lot of money, but she keeps doing it because

2664
02:07:13,880 --> 02:07:16,480
Speaker 6: she says she wants me to be happy. So I

2665
02:07:16,560 --> 02:07:18,960
Speaker 6: started doing it, and now we're both kind of broke

2666
02:07:19,200 --> 02:07:22,200
Speaker 6: but have some sort of present buying standoff going on

2667
02:07:22,800 --> 02:07:26,920
Speaker 6: even currently flirting, flirting or not flirting for three flirting

2668
02:07:27,080 --> 02:07:30,160
Speaker 6: three for three flirting for or not flirting, flirting, flirting,

2669
02:07:30,200 --> 02:07:34,200
Speaker 6: flirting Sophia says flirting for two flirting. Fiona says flirting

2670
02:07:34,720 --> 02:07:39,080
Speaker 6: taranand says I don't I'm oblivious. Dia brit says flirting

2671
02:07:39,480 --> 02:07:41,440
Speaker 6: camp for the wind, not flirting.

2672
02:07:41,720 --> 02:07:45,440
Speaker 2: Oh, I disagree.

2673
02:07:45,840 --> 02:07:51,560
Speaker 6: Four She said I smell very very nice flirting and

2674
02:07:51,720 --> 02:07:53,920
Speaker 6: hug me once and didn't let go for a while,

2675
02:07:54,000 --> 02:07:57,200
Speaker 6: saying I smell like home and all things nice.

2676
02:07:57,240 --> 02:08:01,480
Speaker 2: Flirting if you just joined the chat.

2677
02:08:01,720 --> 02:08:04,760
Speaker 6: Basically, Opi is living with this girl she had a

2678
02:08:04,840 --> 02:08:09,720
Speaker 6: crush on, and she's unsure if the girl likes her back,

2679
02:08:09,840 --> 02:08:11,800
Speaker 6: and she's wondering if it's flirty or not.

2680
02:08:12,280 --> 02:08:12,680
Speaker 2: That's right.

2681
02:08:13,360 --> 02:08:16,120
Speaker 6: When we split for the summer the past few months,

2682
02:08:16,200 --> 02:08:19,200
Speaker 6: she texted me saying she misses the way I feel

2683
02:08:19,360 --> 02:08:23,040
Speaker 6: and smell with no regard for my gay hearts. Today

2684
02:08:23,320 --> 02:08:25,880
Speaker 6: I said you smell nice too, and she laughed about it.

2685
02:08:26,000 --> 02:08:27,240
Speaker 6: I never know how to respond.

2686
02:08:27,400 --> 02:08:31,840
Speaker 3: This girl's like blatantly flirting, and OPI's like, I just

2687
02:08:31,960 --> 02:08:32,600
Speaker 3: can't tell.

2688
02:08:33,960 --> 02:08:36,640
Speaker 6: Hi, Fionda, I'm glad I made you excited.

2689
02:08:37,080 --> 02:08:37,360
Speaker 2: Five.

2690
02:08:37,800 --> 02:08:41,040
Speaker 6: She once held my hand while we were walking outside

2691
02:08:41,400 --> 02:08:43,040
Speaker 6: and she wanted to pull me along.

2692
02:08:43,280 --> 02:08:45,000
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I have done that with my friends.

2693
02:08:45,280 --> 02:08:46,080
Speaker 6: I do that with Christian.

2694
02:08:46,400 --> 02:08:47,960
Speaker 3: I think that in this case it is flirting. But

2695
02:08:48,040 --> 02:08:50,480
Speaker 3: I do do that with my friends, so I that

2696
02:08:50,560 --> 02:08:52,720
Speaker 3: could go either way, but because of everything else, that's flirting.

2697
02:08:52,840 --> 02:08:56,200
Speaker 6: She didn't let go until she had to, and since then,

2698
02:08:56,440 --> 02:08:59,360
Speaker 6: whenever we go out, she holds my hand. I don't

2699
02:08:59,400 --> 02:08:59,840
Speaker 6: know if it's.

2700
02:09:01,360 --> 02:09:02,160
Speaker 1: Super platonic.

2701
02:09:03,240 --> 02:09:05,200
Speaker 6: Well, it's I mean, like I know, like in a

2702
02:09:05,280 --> 02:09:08,640
Speaker 6: lot of like Asian cultures, people hold hands platonically.

2703
02:09:09,400 --> 02:09:10,800
Speaker 3: Well, I hold hands platonically.

2704
02:09:10,960 --> 02:09:13,560
Speaker 6: But it's like like even like among like like men

2705
02:09:13,640 --> 02:09:15,960
Speaker 6: as well. Like I feel like it's less common.

2706
02:09:15,760 --> 02:09:16,600
Speaker 2: In like the US.

2707
02:09:16,760 --> 02:09:18,200
Speaker 6: Oh maybe I don't know, but it's like a like

2708
02:09:18,280 --> 02:09:20,120
Speaker 6: a thing like holding hands, crossing the street.

2709
02:09:20,000 --> 02:09:24,080
Speaker 2: Speak for yourself, common among women, all right. Six.

2710
02:09:24,840 --> 02:09:28,400
Speaker 6: I once fell asleep on my work and I woke

2711
02:09:28,520 --> 02:09:31,480
Speaker 6: up with my head in her lap, and she was

2712
02:09:31,640 --> 02:09:36,240
Speaker 6: watching her laptop and stroking my hair and I almost

2713
02:09:36,400 --> 02:09:39,400
Speaker 6: had a stroke. She just said I look peaceful, so

2714
02:09:39,520 --> 02:09:42,440
Speaker 6: she didn't wake me. She also cuddled me when I

2715
02:09:42,600 --> 02:09:45,000
Speaker 6: was upset about a bad quiz grade and held me

2716
02:09:45,160 --> 02:09:46,000
Speaker 6: until I felt better.

2717
02:09:46,200 --> 02:09:51,720
Speaker 2: Flirting flirt, super blatonic. Yeah, She's like, hey, you look tired.

2718
02:09:51,880 --> 02:09:55,959
Speaker 2: Let me I ate it in your in your sleep situation.

2719
02:09:56,280 --> 02:09:59,720
Speaker 6: I flirt with Christian all the time. Yes, I did.

2720
02:09:59,760 --> 02:10:02,320
Speaker 6: That's what I'm realizing. That's what I'm realizing. I don't

2721
02:10:02,320 --> 02:10:05,560
Speaker 6: think it's fake. I think this is real, real, super real. Seven.

2722
02:10:05,640 --> 02:10:07,560
Speaker 6: While drunk, she looked at me and said that I

2723
02:10:07,640 --> 02:10:13,560
Speaker 6: looked like I wanted to kiss her. That's definitely flirting.

2724
02:10:14,120 --> 02:10:16,760
Speaker 6: And when I panicked, she was like, I won't mind.

2725
02:10:17,080 --> 02:10:20,960
Speaker 3: Oh god, she told you that she wanted to kiss.

2726
02:10:21,040 --> 02:10:23,520
Speaker 6: But she was very wasted, and she forgot about it.

2727
02:10:23,720 --> 02:10:25,400
Speaker 6: I think so I never brought it up.

2728
02:10:25,440 --> 02:10:27,960
Speaker 5: She did not forget about She did not forget it.

2729
02:10:28,240 --> 02:10:29,560
Speaker 2: She did not forget drunk.

2730
02:10:29,960 --> 02:10:31,560
Speaker 3: Drunk words are sober thoughts.

2731
02:10:32,480 --> 02:10:37,240
Speaker 6: What is Flora husband due says she down bad? Anagraham

2732
02:10:37,320 --> 02:10:41,360
Speaker 6: says flirty mcflirtison miss killed it, says, but when you

2733
02:10:41,480 --> 02:10:43,920
Speaker 6: sleep with Christian, I have fallen asleep with Christian.

2734
02:10:43,960 --> 02:10:46,600
Speaker 5: Dude. Christian was in his bed for an hour, just

2735
02:10:46,720 --> 02:10:47,920
Speaker 5: like he was waking about.

2736
02:10:47,920 --> 02:10:48,400
Speaker 6: He missed me.

2737
02:10:49,360 --> 02:10:50,840
Speaker 1: That's right in all our ads.

2738
02:10:51,040 --> 02:10:54,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, he won't come on the show, dude, He says, have.

2739
02:10:54,120 --> 02:10:56,360
Speaker 1: To get ten million subscribers, so you guys need to

2740
02:10:56,440 --> 02:10:58,440
Speaker 1: do so, go do that, all right?

2741
02:10:59,280 --> 02:10:59,480
Speaker 2: Eight?

2742
02:10:59,840 --> 02:11:02,680
Speaker 6: Oh my god, these are They're each get progressively cuter.

2743
02:11:03,080 --> 02:11:03,680
Speaker 2: Is so hate.

2744
02:11:04,080 --> 02:11:06,680
Speaker 6: She referred to me by my name for a few months,

2745
02:11:06,720 --> 02:11:08,920
Speaker 6: but now she almost exclusively calls me baby.

2746
02:11:09,240 --> 02:11:09,480
Speaker 2: Dude.

2747
02:11:11,360 --> 02:11:15,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, she asked me about it was okay, and I

2748
02:11:15,320 --> 02:11:17,040
Speaker 6: was like, yeah, I go for it, and she was

2749
02:11:17,120 --> 02:11:19,760
Speaker 6: like thanks. But I always referred to my friends like this,

2750
02:11:20,000 --> 02:11:22,880
Speaker 6: but she doesn't. I do call people baby sometimes. I've

2751
02:11:22,920 --> 02:11:25,840
Speaker 6: never heard her call anyone else baby. She also occasionally

2752
02:11:25,880 --> 02:11:29,800
Speaker 6: calls me baby girl and cutie. Oh Cuty goes hard

2753
02:11:30,560 --> 02:11:33,520
Speaker 6: calls me cut all the time, and I say baby

2754
02:11:33,560 --> 02:11:35,800
Speaker 6: girl all the time to Riley girl.

2755
02:11:36,080 --> 02:11:42,440
Speaker 3: They're dating Edward. Yeah, Taylor, it's Sam and.

2756
02:11:42,520 --> 02:11:44,000
Speaker 2: Right, that's right. Nine.

2757
02:11:44,440 --> 02:11:46,800
Speaker 6: She said to me, why do you look so beautiful

2758
02:11:46,840 --> 02:11:50,000
Speaker 6: without trying after I rolled out of bed. I don't

2759
02:11:50,040 --> 02:11:50,680
Speaker 6: know what she meant.

2760
02:11:52,120 --> 02:11:53,640
Speaker 1: It's kind of it's hard to understand.

2761
02:11:54,320 --> 02:11:55,600
Speaker 3: God, you're so oblivious.

2762
02:11:56,040 --> 02:11:58,040
Speaker 6: She was sick a few months ago, so I took

2763
02:11:58,080 --> 02:11:59,839
Speaker 6: care of her and she called me her little angel

2764
02:12:00,120 --> 02:12:02,600
Speaker 6: and held my hand while sleeping. But she was so sick,

2765
02:12:02,680 --> 02:12:03,640
Speaker 6: I don't think it counted.

2766
02:12:04,720 --> 02:12:06,040
Speaker 3: It counts, Oh peace.

2767
02:12:08,960 --> 02:12:11,640
Speaker 6: She regularly sends me things that I like fandom. She's

2768
02:12:11,680 --> 02:12:14,200
Speaker 6: not even in a random post and says, thinking about

2769
02:12:14,320 --> 02:12:17,080
Speaker 6: me you or reminded me of you. She's also gotten

2770
02:12:17,120 --> 02:12:20,120
Speaker 6: into many of my interests as I have into her interests.

2771
02:12:20,360 --> 02:12:23,080
Speaker 6: Now we're saving up for a convention based on a

2772
02:12:23,240 --> 02:12:24,080
Speaker 6: joint interest.

2773
02:12:26,320 --> 02:12:31,320
Speaker 2: Oh, you're married, like they're in the like a cuter.

2774
02:12:31,280 --> 02:12:33,720
Speaker 6: Relationship than a lot of relationships out there.

2775
02:12:33,760 --> 02:12:34,280
Speaker 2: That is true.

2776
02:12:34,520 --> 02:12:35,080
Speaker 1: That is true.

2777
02:12:35,320 --> 02:12:40,160
Speaker 6: Twelve past Valentine's Day this year, she texted me saying

2778
02:12:40,520 --> 02:12:46,920
Speaker 6: you're my Valentine as a joke, and I said, okay,

2779
02:12:47,000 --> 02:12:49,480
Speaker 6: you're mine. She then gave me a stuffed animal. I

2780
02:12:49,520 --> 02:12:52,000
Speaker 6: had to scramble to buy her chocolates, and then we

2781
02:12:52,080 --> 02:12:54,040
Speaker 6: went to go eat at my favorite takeoff place.

2782
02:12:54,560 --> 02:12:58,200
Speaker 2: That's a freaking dated.

2783
02:12:58,640 --> 02:12:59,920
Speaker 1: This is a dinner.

2784
02:13:00,440 --> 02:13:03,200
Speaker 2: They're just exchanging food and words and pleasantries.

2785
02:13:03,440 --> 02:13:05,400
Speaker 6: Rachel Hatchet, thanks for the twenty bucks. I call my

2786
02:13:05,480 --> 02:13:08,640
Speaker 6: girl from Baby Girls. Specifically, I do call all of

2787
02:13:08,640 --> 02:13:13,040
Speaker 6: my friend's baby girl. Belle Conkling says, you're blind. Yeah,

2788
02:13:13,680 --> 02:13:17,080
Speaker 6: so yeah, okay. So then they went to a favorite

2789
02:13:17,080 --> 02:13:19,640
Speaker 6: take up place. A guy also gave me chocolates. Were

2790
02:13:19,680 --> 02:13:22,680
Speaker 6: friends while she was with me, and she said, don't

2791
02:13:22,720 --> 02:13:28,000
Speaker 6: steal my Valentines now, eh, thirteen we weren't close for

2792
02:13:28,080 --> 02:13:31,040
Speaker 6: our first birthday, freshly after becoming roommates. We were closer

2793
02:13:31,120 --> 02:13:34,280
Speaker 6: for my birthday, and she gave me a very expensive

2794
02:13:34,280 --> 02:13:37,280
Speaker 6: gift after working overtime at shifts, and she said, you

2795
02:13:37,400 --> 02:13:37,800
Speaker 6: deserve the.

2796
02:13:37,800 --> 02:13:40,160
Speaker 3: Best in a reship.

2797
02:13:40,280 --> 02:13:42,480
Speaker 6: Her birthday has just passed and I went all out,

2798
02:13:42,640 --> 02:13:44,920
Speaker 6: got her cake and presents, and we went out to

2799
02:13:44,920 --> 02:13:47,840
Speaker 6: eat at her favorite place. She hugged me very very

2800
02:13:47,960 --> 02:13:50,640
Speaker 6: tight after and said, I make her happy.

2801
02:13:51,040 --> 02:13:54,880
Speaker 3: I feel like Opie's friend thinks that they're in a

2802
02:13:54,920 --> 02:13:58,280
Speaker 3: relationship and Ope is just not caught up yet.

2803
02:13:58,920 --> 02:14:02,680
Speaker 2: Also, the fact that Ope remembers.

2804
02:14:02,360 --> 02:14:05,880
Speaker 6: All of these oh yes is so sweet and speaks

2805
02:14:05,920 --> 02:14:07,600
Speaker 6: to the fact that they're already in a relationship.

2806
02:14:07,960 --> 02:14:08,720
Speaker 3: In a relationship.

2807
02:14:09,560 --> 02:14:11,520
Speaker 6: Okay, we're not done. We're all a couple of a couple,

2808
02:14:11,560 --> 02:14:14,200
Speaker 6: more of a couple. More, two more, yeah, fourteen. She

2809
02:14:14,360 --> 02:14:16,880
Speaker 6: also regularly says, okay, it's a date every time we

2810
02:14:16,960 --> 02:14:18,880
Speaker 6: make plans, but that's a fairly common thing to say,

2811
02:14:18,960 --> 02:14:23,040
Speaker 6: so I don't know if she means it literally fifteen

2812
02:14:23,120 --> 02:14:25,800
Speaker 6: This doesn't count, but she looks at me very intensely sometimes.

2813
02:14:25,880 --> 02:14:27,600
Speaker 6: I don't know how to describe it, but it doesn't

2814
02:14:27,720 --> 02:14:30,360
Speaker 6: look very platonic, but maybe she just does this to everyone,

2815
02:14:30,440 --> 02:14:32,560
Speaker 6: so I don't know. She's a very intense person in general,

2816
02:14:32,720 --> 02:14:35,480
Speaker 6: and there is relevant comments.

2817
02:14:36,680 --> 02:14:36,880
Speaker 8: Day.

2818
02:14:39,320 --> 02:14:42,160
Speaker 3: Thank you Rachel for the five bucks. Oh like my

2819
02:14:42,320 --> 02:14:44,480
Speaker 3: actual girlfriend, not my girlfriend.

2820
02:14:44,880 --> 02:14:46,000
Speaker 2: So I see.

2821
02:14:46,760 --> 02:14:48,880
Speaker 3: I think I assume that you were you're talking about

2822
02:14:48,920 --> 02:14:49,960
Speaker 3: the prisoner I thought.

2823
02:14:50,200 --> 02:14:53,040
Speaker 6: I think maybe I assume not. I don't actually.

2824
02:14:52,840 --> 02:14:53,720
Speaker 2: Remember what I assumed.

2825
02:14:53,840 --> 02:14:54,960
Speaker 3: I don't think you assumed not.

2826
02:14:55,440 --> 02:14:58,200
Speaker 6: Okay, I assume whatever you think. I assume that you.

2827
02:14:58,240 --> 02:15:00,440
Speaker 3: Were dating, and that you call your girlfriend baby girl,

2828
02:15:00,560 --> 02:15:01,000
Speaker 3: baby girl.

2829
02:15:01,160 --> 02:15:04,120
Speaker 6: Jess Emma says, for the love of goodness, invite us

2830
02:15:04,120 --> 02:15:04,560
Speaker 6: to the wedding.

2831
02:15:05,000 --> 02:15:08,040
Speaker 1: I think all of them have a very reasonable explanation.

2832
02:15:08,600 --> 02:15:11,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, John's playing the Devil's.

2833
02:15:10,680 --> 02:15:13,480
Speaker 6: At Oh the only bad takes here on this podcast

2834
02:15:14,440 --> 02:15:18,760
Speaker 6: A yeah, okay. So for everyone who's just heard all

2835
02:15:18,880 --> 02:15:22,040
Speaker 6: those fifteen things, yeah, oh camp for the win. Not

2836
02:15:22,160 --> 02:15:24,760
Speaker 6: flirting one to eight, ten to twelve, fourteen to fifteen,

2837
02:15:25,160 --> 02:15:26,520
Speaker 6: flirting nine to thirteen.

2838
02:15:26,680 --> 02:15:29,160
Speaker 3: I so disagree. I think all of that was flirting.

2839
02:15:29,280 --> 02:15:30,800
Speaker 6: I want to know, do you think all of them

2840
02:15:30,840 --> 02:15:33,360
Speaker 6: are flirting? Which ones were the most flirtatious?

2841
02:15:34,000 --> 02:15:37,760
Speaker 3: I think some of them individually could be not flirting,

2842
02:15:38,000 --> 02:15:40,440
Speaker 3: but like you know, like if they were just holding

2843
02:15:40,480 --> 02:15:42,760
Speaker 3: hands and that was it, you could go either way.

2844
02:15:43,000 --> 02:15:44,600
Speaker 3: But altogether everything is flirting.

2845
02:15:44,760 --> 02:15:47,600
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, flirting or not. Put flirting in the chat.

2846
02:15:47,680 --> 02:15:49,880
Speaker 6: If you think she's flirting, put not in the chat.

2847
02:15:50,480 --> 02:15:53,280
Speaker 6: If they're not, let us know. So we have a

2848
02:15:53,280 --> 02:15:55,440
Speaker 6: little bit more before the update. This is all I

2849
02:15:55,520 --> 02:15:58,160
Speaker 6: can think of right now. If I'm forgetting anything, I mean,

2850
02:15:58,200 --> 02:16:01,040
Speaker 6: it's fifteen things. I'll probably edit post. My friend thinks

2851
02:16:01,080 --> 02:16:03,680
Speaker 6: she definitely likes me and think I'm being stupid and

2852
02:16:03,760 --> 02:16:08,360
Speaker 6: Oblivia's on pursis on purpose. I just think she's straight

2853
02:16:08,520 --> 02:16:10,760
Speaker 6: and doing this out of friendliness. So my friend asked

2854
02:16:10,800 --> 02:16:14,880
Speaker 6: me to post here and get a general consensus. She

2855
02:16:15,000 --> 02:16:17,480
Speaker 6: had a boyfriend in high school briefed by sexual and

2856
02:16:17,640 --> 02:16:19,360
Speaker 6: I'm afraid to ask her sexuality.

2857
02:16:19,560 --> 02:16:20,280
Speaker 2: What do you think so of you?

2858
02:16:20,480 --> 02:16:23,680
Speaker 3: She's bisexually, that's a bisexual.

2859
02:16:23,840 --> 02:16:26,160
Speaker 6: I don't want to be let down, but I want

2860
02:16:26,240 --> 02:16:27,080
Speaker 6: her to like me.

2861
02:16:27,960 --> 02:16:28,360
Speaker 3: She does.

2862
02:16:28,680 --> 02:16:31,120
Speaker 2: You're married so bad and shout.

2863
02:16:30,880 --> 02:16:34,600
Speaker 6: Out Rachel Hatchett for the fine gifted memberships. Rachel Hatchett,

2864
02:16:35,040 --> 02:16:37,920
Speaker 6: you're flirting with us right now. You've been flirting with

2865
02:16:38,080 --> 02:16:42,240
Speaker 6: us whole stream, and I keep avoiding her sometimes in

2866
02:16:42,320 --> 02:16:44,480
Speaker 6: her friendliness because I don't want false hope. I know

2867
02:16:44,600 --> 02:16:47,480
Speaker 6: I probably sound stupid and in denial, but I suffer

2868
02:16:47,520 --> 02:16:49,680
Speaker 6: from bad anxiety and I can't just go up and

2869
02:16:49,760 --> 02:16:52,560
Speaker 6: ask her unless I'm sure I don't want to lose her.

2870
02:16:52,879 --> 02:16:55,359
Speaker 6: Please help, and for everyone new to the stream the TLDR.

2871
02:16:55,920 --> 02:16:58,920
Speaker 6: I'm gay and my roommate keeps doing things that are

2872
02:16:59,000 --> 02:17:03,320
Speaker 6: towing the line between romantic and platonic. I don't know

2873
02:17:03,760 --> 02:17:07,760
Speaker 6: what she means. Advice needed, and there are some relevant

2874
02:17:07,760 --> 02:17:14,880
Speaker 6: comments and flirting or not? John, what do you think?

2875
02:17:15,760 --> 02:17:16,879
Speaker 1: Absolutely not flirting?

2876
02:17:17,560 --> 02:17:17,760
Speaker 2: Listen?

2877
02:17:17,879 --> 02:17:18,440
Speaker 1: Listen, listen?

2878
02:17:18,480 --> 02:17:22,760
Speaker 2: Okay, when you when you go to a wedding and

2879
02:17:22,920 --> 02:17:25,360
Speaker 2: you say I do, is that no different than a

2880
02:17:25,400 --> 02:17:26,080
Speaker 2: business meeting?

2881
02:17:26,560 --> 02:17:30,240
Speaker 6: So it is is just a legal affair.

2882
02:17:32,400 --> 02:17:35,800
Speaker 5: Exactly romance, no romance whatsoever.

2883
02:17:36,640 --> 02:17:39,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, So I asked you, John, what is romantic?

2884
02:17:40,160 --> 02:17:46,080
Speaker 2: Romantic is when you shake someone's hand, when you send

2885
02:17:46,160 --> 02:17:50,760
Speaker 2: someone the fact that I see why John loves work,

2886
02:17:50,879 --> 02:17:53,959
Speaker 2: so God, just in love with the grind.

2887
02:17:54,720 --> 02:17:55,160
Speaker 6: That's right?

2888
02:17:55,959 --> 02:17:57,119
Speaker 4: Flirting or nothing?

2889
02:17:58,360 --> 02:17:59,760
Speaker 2: I R T I N G.

2890
02:18:00,800 --> 02:18:03,520
Speaker 6: Elizabeth Conley says, I think it's rude. To yourself to

2891
02:18:03,640 --> 02:18:05,400
Speaker 6: not ask sexuality in the situation.

2892
02:18:05,680 --> 02:18:05,840
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2893
02:18:05,920 --> 02:18:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, Loki rude to the other person. She wants

2894
02:18:10,040 --> 02:18:11,160
Speaker 2: you just ask.

2895
02:18:12,400 --> 02:18:15,720
Speaker 3: I feel like it comes up, you know, like you're like, oh, yeah,

2896
02:18:15,879 --> 02:18:16,640
Speaker 3: I'm gay.

2897
02:18:17,120 --> 02:18:20,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, would you ever date like a girl like me?

2898
02:18:21,280 --> 02:18:21,480
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2899
02:18:23,120 --> 02:18:28,199
Speaker 6: So just do you like the heart stopper thing relevant comments? Yeah,

2900
02:18:28,840 --> 02:18:31,800
Speaker 6: you are living a fan fection fiction and my gay

2901
02:18:31,840 --> 02:18:36,000
Speaker 6: ass was cheering this entire post. I love hopeless lesbians,

2902
02:18:36,560 --> 02:18:39,760
Speaker 6: my people. You sound like my girlfriend and I before

2903
02:18:39,879 --> 02:18:42,960
Speaker 6: we realized we were dating, she would pet me and

2904
02:18:43,160 --> 02:18:45,520
Speaker 6: touch my hair, and our legs would touch together and

2905
02:18:45,560 --> 02:18:48,120
Speaker 6: she would brush it off as I have this affectionate

2906
02:18:48,160 --> 02:18:50,800
Speaker 6: with all my friends and she wasn't her lying ass.

2907
02:18:50,879 --> 02:18:53,720
Speaker 6: I love her anyway. I think you should ask her

2908
02:18:53,760 --> 02:18:55,640
Speaker 6: how she feels about you. I understand not wanting to

2909
02:18:55,680 --> 02:18:57,560
Speaker 6: mess this up as she sounds like a good and

2910
02:18:57,720 --> 02:19:00,600
Speaker 6: kind friend, but maybe broaching the subject allowing her to

2911
02:19:00,640 --> 02:19:03,640
Speaker 6: state her feelings or intended with help something like do

2912
02:19:03,720 --> 02:19:05,640
Speaker 6: you think will be in each other's lives for a

2913
02:19:05,720 --> 02:19:08,080
Speaker 6: long time? Or where would you like to imagine yourself

2914
02:19:08,120 --> 02:19:10,440
Speaker 6: in five or ten years? Or if you're close enough

2915
02:19:10,520 --> 02:19:13,760
Speaker 6: and comfortable asking, have you ever been with somebody besides

2916
02:19:13,920 --> 02:19:16,720
Speaker 6: guy she dated without it being weird. All those questions

2917
02:19:16,800 --> 02:19:19,280
Speaker 6: could open the door into maybe whether or not she's

2918
02:19:19,320 --> 02:19:21,920
Speaker 6: interested in being with you, or if she just sees

2919
02:19:21,959 --> 02:19:27,039
Speaker 6: you as a friend. To me, personally, this seems like flirting.

2920
02:19:27,480 --> 02:19:29,520
Speaker 6: This is all very cute, and I'm secretly rooting for

2921
02:19:29,600 --> 02:19:32,600
Speaker 6: you and sending the power of all lesbians to you. Yes,

2922
02:19:33,400 --> 02:19:35,480
Speaker 6: I promise it will work out the way it's supposed

2923
02:19:35,480 --> 02:19:37,520
Speaker 6: to if you're really great friends, like it seems that

2924
02:19:37,560 --> 02:19:39,040
Speaker 6: you are. Even if you admit that you think you

2925
02:19:39,160 --> 02:19:40,840
Speaker 6: have a crush on her and don't want to make

2926
02:19:40,879 --> 02:19:43,760
Speaker 6: things awkward, if she doesn't feel the same way, emphasize

2927
02:19:43,800 --> 02:19:46,440
Speaker 6: the importance of her friendship and presence in your life,

2928
02:19:46,680 --> 02:19:50,200
Speaker 6: then at least you could continue in amazing friendship. And

2929
02:19:50,320 --> 02:19:54,400
Speaker 6: Opie replied, my life my life of friends to lover

2930
02:19:55,320 --> 02:19:57,480
Speaker 6: and hit me up with your girlfriend. Well, I don't

2931
02:19:57,480 --> 02:19:58,000
Speaker 6: know what that means.

2932
02:19:58,160 --> 02:20:02,400
Speaker 3: My life is of friends to lovers a u AO three.

2933
02:20:02,480 --> 02:20:05,960
Speaker 3: It's fanfic. With au AO three, it's like alternate universe.

2934
02:20:06,160 --> 02:20:09,080
Speaker 3: So it's like if you have a like a fan

2935
02:20:09,720 --> 02:20:12,520
Speaker 3: fandom or something like let's say Avatar and a you

2936
02:20:12,560 --> 02:20:15,400
Speaker 3: would be like putting all the characters in an alternate universe,

2937
02:20:15,400 --> 02:20:16,720
Speaker 3: like they're all going to high school or something.

2938
02:20:17,200 --> 02:20:19,400
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, okay, so coming.

2939
02:20:19,280 --> 02:20:22,960
Speaker 7: At you with the fanfick knowledge, this person seems to

2940
02:20:23,080 --> 02:20:27,600
Speaker 7: say they're flirting, but I would like, I feel like, sure,

2941
02:20:28,280 --> 02:20:31,160
Speaker 7: all right, but all right, bad take, bad take, which

2942
02:20:31,400 --> 02:20:31,959
Speaker 7: not a bad take.

2943
02:20:32,040 --> 02:20:34,280
Speaker 6: Five bucks, thanks for the and a banana, Thanks for

2944
02:20:34,280 --> 02:20:35,840
Speaker 6: the five buck tip. We've seen you with the stream

2945
02:20:35,920 --> 02:20:40,640
Speaker 6: beautiful weather today in O'Reilly, North Carolina's I know where

2946
02:20:40,680 --> 02:20:40,879
Speaker 6: that is.

2947
02:20:40,959 --> 02:20:43,959
Speaker 3: Super windy here and I'm it's making me sneezy.

2948
02:20:43,879 --> 02:20:44,480
Speaker 5: North Carolina.

2949
02:20:44,560 --> 02:20:48,720
Speaker 6: So all right? To be fair, I feel like OP

2950
02:20:48,959 --> 02:20:51,400
Speaker 6: wants to be aggressively sure because they do live together.

2951
02:20:52,000 --> 02:20:55,080
Speaker 6: And I had a situation where a roommate liked one

2952
02:20:55,160 --> 02:20:57,520
Speaker 6: of the other roommates and it made it very awkward.

2953
02:20:58,080 --> 02:21:01,520
Speaker 6: It's yeah, it made it very awkward because you live together.

2954
02:21:01,640 --> 02:21:04,200
Speaker 3: I think there also might be besides your thing, there

2955
02:21:04,280 --> 02:21:06,880
Speaker 3: also might be like a fear as like a like

2956
02:21:06,920 --> 02:21:09,120
Speaker 3: a queer woman being like, I don't want this to

2957
02:21:09,360 --> 02:21:11,800
Speaker 3: like change the relationship exactly.

2958
02:21:11,720 --> 02:21:14,360
Speaker 6: Exactly, and even if you weren't, like even if it

2959
02:21:14,879 --> 02:21:17,000
Speaker 6: if you were, if it was like a straight relationship

2960
02:21:17,080 --> 02:21:18,600
Speaker 6: or whatever, and like you had a girl and a

2961
02:21:18,640 --> 02:21:22,200
Speaker 6: guy roommate saying that you have feelings and being unreciprocated

2962
02:21:22,840 --> 02:21:26,120
Speaker 6: can be. It just can be. It can make it weird, Yes,

2963
02:21:26,240 --> 02:21:28,560
Speaker 6: can make it weird. So I understand her reticence to

2964
02:21:28,720 --> 02:21:30,080
Speaker 6: like be one hundred percent sure.

2965
02:21:30,240 --> 02:21:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, is the roommate the a hole for not communicating

2966
02:21:35,280 --> 02:21:39,360
Speaker 2: and because op is less than this insane world of

2967
02:21:39,440 --> 02:21:40,520
Speaker 2: limbo right now, the a.

2968
02:21:40,640 --> 02:21:43,360
Speaker 6: Hole they're both like, they're both just trying to figure

2969
02:21:43,440 --> 02:21:44,320
Speaker 6: each other out.

2970
02:21:45,160 --> 02:21:46,080
Speaker 4: It's so cute.

2971
02:21:46,520 --> 02:21:48,520
Speaker 1: By the way, I was joking about it being platonic.

2972
02:21:48,640 --> 02:21:51,200
Speaker 6: It could be super super I think you were serious.

2973
02:21:51,320 --> 02:21:54,040
Speaker 6: I think it's a very bad take by John.

2974
02:21:56,280 --> 02:22:00,959
Speaker 3: John hatesk people, Dude.

2975
02:22:02,520 --> 02:22:10,879
Speaker 2: To cancel this podcast joking. Oh my god, John, she's

2976
02:22:10,920 --> 02:22:11,920
Speaker 2: really homophobic.

2977
02:22:13,400 --> 02:22:15,800
Speaker 1: My favorite comment you've ever said on this podcast.

2978
02:22:16,800 --> 02:22:17,800
Speaker 3: I am full joking.

2979
02:22:18,240 --> 02:22:20,400
Speaker 2: John loves I love the games.

2980
02:22:22,080 --> 02:22:26,640
Speaker 5: Oh, John's gonna clip that and he's gonna be like.

2981
02:22:28,600 --> 02:22:31,879
Speaker 6: John expose All right, let's get.

2982
02:22:34,840 --> 02:22:35,520
Speaker 2: So redditor.

2983
02:22:35,560 --> 02:22:37,879
Speaker 6: Okay, definitely not one to reign on the gay parade,

2984
02:22:38,040 --> 02:22:40,000
Speaker 6: but just throwing a couple of cautions out there. Buy

2985
02:22:40,080 --> 02:22:43,080
Speaker 6: female here. A lot of this list would apply to

2986
02:22:43,160 --> 02:22:45,680
Speaker 6: me and my very straight best friend. While it is

2987
02:22:45,840 --> 02:22:48,600
Speaker 6: incredibly possible that your roommate is also into you, it

2988
02:22:48,680 --> 02:22:51,280
Speaker 6: is possible she is not. I think communication is a

2989
02:22:51,400 --> 02:22:54,200
Speaker 6: wonderful idea to help soothe your cute gay heart. Just

2990
02:22:54,280 --> 02:22:55,720
Speaker 6: maybe do so in a way that will allow you

2991
02:22:55,800 --> 02:22:59,720
Speaker 6: guys to keep living together comfortably if somehow you're misreading signs.

2992
02:23:00,120 --> 02:23:03,080
Speaker 6: In my personal case, my boyfriend, my BFF knows that

2993
02:23:03,200 --> 02:23:06,600
Speaker 6: I was closeted for years and terrified of taking advantage

2994
02:23:06,640 --> 02:23:10,120
Speaker 6: of any of my friends with straight physical affection. She

2995
02:23:10,240 --> 02:23:13,040
Speaker 6: is super physical and affectionate with me, intentionally to let

2996
02:23:13,120 --> 02:23:15,360
Speaker 6: me know that my gayness is in no way an

2997
02:23:15,440 --> 02:23:18,400
Speaker 6: obstacle to our closeness. I just hate to see you

2998
02:23:18,560 --> 02:23:21,720
Speaker 6: lose a living situation you love, because all of us

2999
02:23:21,879 --> 02:23:25,760
Speaker 6: want your crush to be requited. Either way, Please post updates,

3000
02:23:25,920 --> 02:23:28,280
Speaker 6: wishing the very best to you both. Which is I

3001
02:23:28,360 --> 02:23:31,320
Speaker 6: feel like I'm very affection with my gay friends. Like

3002
02:23:31,400 --> 02:23:33,720
Speaker 6: my friend James, James who was on the stream, We're

3003
02:23:33,760 --> 02:23:35,560
Speaker 6: going to a naked spot together.

3004
02:23:36,000 --> 02:23:36,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it.

3005
02:23:37,200 --> 02:23:40,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so I think like I think, yeah, But

3006
02:23:41,080 --> 02:23:42,720
Speaker 3: also they're flirting.

3007
02:23:43,040 --> 02:23:45,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think they're also flirting. But I understand again,

3008
02:23:45,840 --> 02:23:49,640
Speaker 6: I understand the caution. I understand the caution, but throw

3009
02:23:49,760 --> 02:23:50,560
Speaker 6: caution to the wind.

3010
02:23:50,600 --> 02:23:51,040
Speaker 2: It's love.

3011
02:23:51,400 --> 02:23:53,280
Speaker 3: So Sheianna says that the gays love you.

3012
02:23:53,600 --> 02:24:02,480
Speaker 2: John, yay, thanks Gay, I'll never love you back. John says, incorrect,

3013
02:24:03,240 --> 02:24:04,440
Speaker 2: always rocket the gays.

3014
02:24:04,959 --> 02:24:10,840
Speaker 6: Hannah already says, Sam is just dating all of his friends. Yeah, baby, baby, Maybe.

3015
02:24:11,240 --> 02:24:13,400
Speaker 3: Sam and I are both like naturally flirty people.

3016
02:24:13,680 --> 02:24:16,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably that's true. Is that true? John? Yeah? Okay?

3017
02:24:16,840 --> 02:24:19,200
Speaker 6: Oh P replied, thank you so much. I'll definitely keep

3018
02:24:19,240 --> 02:24:22,879
Speaker 6: that in mind, redditor. Another editor says, two things here. One,

3019
02:24:23,320 --> 02:24:25,959
Speaker 6: she's totally into you. Just kiss her already. She's already

3020
02:24:26,000 --> 02:24:28,680
Speaker 6: waiting for you to to just be careful of dating

3021
02:24:28,680 --> 02:24:31,800
Speaker 6: your roommate. I and everyone here very much want things

3022
02:24:31,840 --> 02:24:34,360
Speaker 6: to work out for y'all, but really, things can go

3023
02:24:34,480 --> 02:24:36,880
Speaker 6: quickly south for a variety of reasons. I'm not saying

3024
02:24:36,920 --> 02:24:39,160
Speaker 6: don't go for it, but before you do, put together

3025
02:24:39,200 --> 02:24:41,720
Speaker 6: a relocation plan in case things go sideways.

3026
02:24:41,879 --> 02:24:43,160
Speaker 3: My god, they're psyching her out.

3027
02:24:43,440 --> 02:24:45,480
Speaker 6: Oh P replied, very good point, thank you. And then

3028
02:24:45,480 --> 02:24:48,560
Speaker 6: another person says, and there is a thick update coming soon,

3029
02:24:48,680 --> 02:24:51,640
Speaker 6: so just you wait. But another person says, if you're curious,

3030
02:24:51,640 --> 02:24:54,240
Speaker 6: about her sexuality. Just strike up a conversation about celebrity

3031
02:24:54,280 --> 02:24:56,960
Speaker 6: crushes or something, or have a movie night with hotties

3032
02:24:56,959 --> 02:25:00,480
Speaker 6: of all kind. Girl talk that shit out. Even as

3033
02:25:00,520 --> 02:25:02,240
Speaker 6: we lived in a progressive city, I had a lot

3034
02:25:02,280 --> 02:25:04,480
Speaker 6: of straight friends come out as gay by pan et

3035
02:25:04,520 --> 02:25:07,800
Speaker 6: cetera only after the left home. Don't fixate on someone's

3036
02:25:07,840 --> 02:25:11,240
Speaker 6: high school dating life. Everyone everyone's preferences of all in

3037
02:25:11,320 --> 02:25:14,240
Speaker 6: OPI replied, Hi, I know her celebrity crushes and the

3038
02:25:14,320 --> 02:25:17,240
Speaker 6: people she likes in media. They're both men and women.

3039
02:25:18,000 --> 02:25:20,280
Speaker 6: But I think I'll discuss with her as well. And

3040
02:25:20,440 --> 02:25:22,560
Speaker 6: another person says, you're already dating and you just don't

3041
02:25:22,560 --> 02:25:30,920
Speaker 6: realize it yet. And there is an update, So are

3042
02:25:30,920 --> 02:25:32,760
Speaker 6: you all ready for it? Are you ready for it?

3043
02:25:33,080 --> 02:25:35,280
Speaker 6: You're ready for it? Put ready in the chat if

3044
02:25:35,320 --> 02:25:41,520
Speaker 6: you're ready for it. So I was not expecting this

3045
02:25:41,680 --> 02:25:43,280
Speaker 6: many up votes and comments. Thank you so much for

3046
02:25:43,320 --> 02:25:44,920
Speaker 6: the nice words and advice. The fact that you guys

3047
02:25:44,959 --> 02:25:46,520
Speaker 6: are rooting for me makes me feel a lot better.

3048
02:25:46,560 --> 02:25:48,320
Speaker 6: I have no idea how to reply to everyone. I'm

3049
02:25:48,360 --> 02:25:52,440
Speaker 6: so overwhelmed, so I'll just make this one comment. Generally,

3050
02:25:52,800 --> 02:25:54,400
Speaker 6: people have told me just come out and ask her

3051
02:25:54,440 --> 02:25:57,320
Speaker 6: about her sexuality. I'm absolutely out to her.

3052
02:25:57,400 --> 02:25:59,280
Speaker 2: She knows I'm gay, and I say I'm so gay

3053
02:25:59,360 --> 02:26:01,439
Speaker 2: every single day in some context.

3054
02:26:01,840 --> 02:26:04,480
Speaker 6: She has not missed it. I've never talked about her

3055
02:26:04,560 --> 02:26:08,160
Speaker 6: sexuality explicitly, but she does call both male and female

3056
02:26:08,200 --> 02:26:10,800
Speaker 6: actors hot. But I thought it was for the memes.

3057
02:26:10,840 --> 02:26:12,560
Speaker 6: I think a lot of people call me and.

3058
02:26:12,680 --> 02:26:15,080
Speaker 3: Do that, but I don't. I don't think it's for

3059
02:26:15,160 --> 02:26:16,160
Speaker 3: the memes in this case.

3060
02:26:16,440 --> 02:26:21,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, asking her if she is serious is the way

3061
02:26:21,560 --> 02:26:24,360
Speaker 6: to go. But also, like I feel like you're good friends,

3062
02:26:24,440 --> 02:26:25,439
Speaker 6: like asking someone.

3063
02:26:25,360 --> 02:26:25,920
Speaker 3: I don't think it is.

3064
02:26:25,959 --> 02:26:28,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like sexuality stuff comes out.

3065
02:26:28,760 --> 02:26:32,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it just comes up naturally. Talk to someone

3066
02:26:32,160 --> 02:26:32,720
Speaker 1: long enough.

3067
02:26:32,920 --> 02:26:34,960
Speaker 6: Asking her if she is serious is the way to go.

3068
02:26:35,160 --> 02:26:38,040
Speaker 6: Once I have a read on her sexuality, then I

3069
02:26:38,040 --> 02:26:41,119
Speaker 6: will hopefully ask her out. We'll do this over text,

3070
02:26:41,160 --> 02:26:43,039
Speaker 6: though I'm too nervous to do it face to face.

3071
02:26:43,200 --> 02:26:45,280
Speaker 2: Do it face to face. That's okay.

3072
02:26:46,200 --> 02:26:49,640
Speaker 6: A bunch of new people, this stream all right for

3073
02:26:49,680 --> 02:26:52,800
Speaker 6: everyone who just joined the stream TLDR. Basically, Opie is

3074
02:26:52,920 --> 02:26:56,120
Speaker 6: gay and it is like oblivious and it has a

3075
02:26:56,200 --> 02:26:58,760
Speaker 6: crush on their roommate and unsure if the roommate is

3076
02:26:58,800 --> 02:27:01,400
Speaker 6: flirting back. We are all believe that the roommate is

3077
02:27:01,440 --> 02:27:04,119
Speaker 6: flirting back. We heard like fifteen really cute instances of them,

3078
02:27:04,320 --> 02:27:06,560
Speaker 6: and so OPI is, but they live together, so it's

3079
02:27:06,640 --> 02:27:09,879
Speaker 6: like what should happen? And so OPI is figuring out

3080
02:27:09,959 --> 02:27:12,800
Speaker 6: if they should ask out the roommate and we'll see

3081
02:27:13,120 --> 02:27:16,120
Speaker 6: so and they're both female. So I'm too nervous to

3082
02:27:16,160 --> 02:27:18,160
Speaker 6: do over to the face. I will update with tech

3083
02:27:18,240 --> 02:27:20,280
Speaker 6: screenshots once I have something. A lot of people have

3084
02:27:20,360 --> 02:27:22,960
Speaker 6: also pointed out that dating a roommate is shaky because

3085
02:27:22,959 --> 02:27:25,720
Speaker 6: what if you break up? And I agree, you're already

3086
02:27:25,760 --> 02:27:28,760
Speaker 6: dating exactly, but asking her is worth it. I think

3087
02:27:28,959 --> 02:27:31,080
Speaker 6: if I don't get a concrete read on her feelings,

3088
02:27:31,120 --> 02:27:34,080
Speaker 6: I will die. Thank you again for everyone's nice words.

3089
02:27:35,560 --> 02:27:38,840
Speaker 6: Signed as many people have called me anyway, so comment

3090
02:27:38,879 --> 02:27:40,920
Speaker 6: to and there again there's an update. So I think

3091
02:27:40,920 --> 02:27:44,520
Speaker 6: we're gonna find out whether they're dating or not. But

3092
02:27:44,640 --> 02:27:47,440
Speaker 6: we'll find out soon. So I've decided to take Red's

3093
02:27:47,440 --> 02:27:50,000
Speaker 6: advice and not text her about this. I'm gonna wait

3094
02:27:50,040 --> 02:27:52,600
Speaker 6: until dinner tonight. Then I'm gonna fully confront her.

3095
02:27:53,360 --> 02:27:57,560
Speaker 2: Yes, experience you love me or don't you?

3096
02:27:58,080 --> 02:28:01,760
Speaker 6: That being said, my friend saw this circulating on Twitter.

3097
02:28:02,560 --> 02:28:03,800
Speaker 10: U oh.

3098
02:28:06,840 --> 02:28:09,520
Speaker 6: And my crush has Twitter. So if she sees this

3099
02:28:09,600 --> 02:28:11,520
Speaker 6: before I have a chance to ask her myself, I'm

3100
02:28:11,560 --> 02:28:14,680
Speaker 6: gonna crawl into a hole dent right now. Comment three.

3101
02:28:15,120 --> 02:28:17,119
Speaker 6: It's almost time to talk to her. Please wish me luck.

3102
02:28:17,120 --> 02:28:22,600
Speaker 6: I'm going to keel over from anxiety. And finally the

3103
02:28:23,360 --> 02:28:27,040
Speaker 6: update to c whether she is dating her crush that

3104
02:28:27,160 --> 02:28:31,959
Speaker 6: she lives with or not. Fiona says, what's everyone eating

3105
02:28:32,000 --> 02:28:33,920
Speaker 6: for dinner? Let us know?

3106
02:28:34,080 --> 02:28:34,440
Speaker 4: I don't know.

3107
02:28:35,080 --> 02:28:36,160
Speaker 6: I'm eating this.

3108
02:28:38,000 --> 02:28:38,560
Speaker 2: This story up.

3109
02:28:38,600 --> 02:28:43,959
Speaker 6: Okay, So I nineteen female girlfriend of my twenty female roommates.

3110
02:28:45,840 --> 02:28:46,760
Speaker 6: We don't know. We don't know.

3111
02:28:46,840 --> 02:28:49,080
Speaker 2: It's like like like girl space friend.

3112
02:28:49,160 --> 02:28:53,840
Speaker 6: So hello. This is probably my last point in post

3113
02:28:53,959 --> 02:28:56,360
Speaker 6: I will make on Reddit about this. Probably I did

3114
02:28:56,440 --> 02:28:59,800
Speaker 6: not expect my r slash relationships post a blow up

3115
02:29:00,160 --> 02:29:02,519
Speaker 6: the way it did, and it's been a little overwhelming.

3116
02:29:03,280 --> 02:29:05,320
Speaker 6: My original post is here. It was removed because a

3117
02:29:05,360 --> 02:29:08,000
Speaker 6: lot of cross posting, and my updates were getting removed

3118
02:29:08,040 --> 02:29:11,039
Speaker 6: immediately as well. I'm not sure why. Anyway, I will

3119
02:29:11,080 --> 02:29:13,280
Speaker 6: copy and paste my update for whoever has not seen it.

3120
02:29:13,360 --> 02:29:17,280
Speaker 6: We're gonna find out whether they're dating or not. I said,

3121
02:29:17,440 --> 02:29:20,200
Speaker 6: we were going to talk over dinner. She came home

3122
02:29:20,240 --> 02:29:22,720
Speaker 6: and I made dinner, tried, and I said I wanted

3123
02:29:22,720 --> 02:29:26,400
Speaker 6: to talk to her, and she said and she was like,

3124
02:29:27,320 --> 02:29:32,960
Speaker 6: is it about the post? She saw the post on Twitter?

3125
02:29:34,520 --> 02:29:38,240
Speaker 6: And I was like, what posts and she was like,

3126
02:29:38,360 --> 02:29:40,720
Speaker 6: I already saw it. Send it to me on Twitter

3127
02:29:41,040 --> 02:29:45,520
Speaker 6: and I was like, oh no, anyway, it beat being

3128
02:29:45,560 --> 02:29:48,560
Speaker 6: awkward about it. We talked in detail about it. Oh no,

3129
02:29:49,720 --> 02:29:52,240
Speaker 6: We're from an area where if someone is out as

3130
02:29:52,360 --> 02:29:55,320
Speaker 6: into woman, everyone will know about it. That is why

3131
02:29:55,440 --> 02:29:58,080
Speaker 6: I didn't know whether she was by or not. And

3132
02:29:58,200 --> 02:30:05,880
Speaker 6: it turns out turns out turns out she is but

3133
02:30:07,040 --> 02:30:08,880
Speaker 6: into are they into each other?

3134
02:30:09,200 --> 02:30:09,640
Speaker 3: To each other?

3135
02:30:10,560 --> 02:30:13,240
Speaker 6: Million or has been figuring it out for the past

3136
02:30:13,280 --> 02:30:15,640
Speaker 6: few years. I honestly should have realized, considering how much

3137
02:30:15,680 --> 02:30:18,400
Speaker 6: she thirsts over women in media we consume. But I

3138
02:30:18,440 --> 02:30:20,360
Speaker 6: thought it was a joke. She says she likes both

3139
02:30:20,480 --> 02:30:23,800
Speaker 6: men and women, and that she's been trying she's been

3140
02:30:23,959 --> 02:30:27,520
Speaker 6: trying to flirt and put her feelings across to me.

3141
02:30:27,879 --> 02:30:29,959
Speaker 6: From the things I mentioned in the phone and the post.

3142
02:30:30,240 --> 02:30:32,440
Speaker 6: She also said my post sounded like a meme and

3143
02:30:32,520 --> 02:30:34,880
Speaker 6: she thought it was a joke until she realized that

3144
02:30:35,080 --> 02:30:38,879
Speaker 6: it was me and I can be dense. She did

3145
02:30:39,000 --> 02:30:41,200
Speaker 6: say I could have just spoken to her before going

3146
02:30:41,240 --> 02:30:42,560
Speaker 6: to Reddit, but why would I do that?

3147
02:30:42,720 --> 02:30:42,880
Speaker 9: You know?

3148
02:30:43,480 --> 02:30:46,360
Speaker 6: She also showed me her phone and her entire Twitter

3149
02:30:46,440 --> 02:30:49,480
Speaker 6: search history was keywords related to my post, where she

3150
02:30:49,680 --> 02:30:52,840
Speaker 6: was looking at the responses and laughing at them both

3151
02:30:53,080 --> 02:30:54,720
Speaker 6: on Reddit and Twitter.

3152
02:30:55,440 --> 02:31:04,959
Speaker 2: Anyway, we are formally than so much for your kind.

3153
02:31:04,840 --> 02:31:08,560
Speaker 6: Words and well wishes tld R. I have a girlfriend.

3154
02:31:08,800 --> 02:31:10,760
Speaker 6: Thank you all very much.

3155
02:31:11,080 --> 02:31:14,760
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go cutest story.

3156
02:31:14,560 --> 02:31:17,440
Speaker 6: Of so cute and Rachel Hatchett, you're cute for giving

3157
02:31:17,480 --> 02:31:20,160
Speaker 6: a ten bucks. Let's keep the stream going. How many

3158
02:31:20,240 --> 02:31:21,160
Speaker 6: hours are we at right now?

3159
02:31:21,520 --> 02:31:22,920
Speaker 5: We have thirty minutes left?

3160
02:31:23,000 --> 02:31:26,080
Speaker 2: Right, minutes left in the stream. Yep, yep, yep. Oh

3161
02:31:26,920 --> 02:31:27,400
Speaker 2: boy hey.

3162
02:31:27,600 --> 02:31:31,440
Speaker 3: Heart Stoppers style adaptation of the story asap.

3163
02:31:32,440 --> 02:31:35,199
Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, heart stopper. I don't know what that means.

3164
02:31:35,400 --> 02:31:36,440
Speaker 3: No, it is a show.

3165
02:31:36,680 --> 02:31:38,600
Speaker 2: It's a show, very cute show.

3166
02:31:38,720 --> 02:31:42,600
Speaker 3: It was adapted from a graphic novel about It's a

3167
02:31:42,840 --> 02:31:43,920
Speaker 3: gay little show.

3168
02:31:44,040 --> 02:31:44,720
Speaker 2: Gay little show.

3169
02:31:45,200 --> 02:31:46,879
Speaker 1: I love gay little show, gay little shows.

3170
02:31:47,440 --> 02:31:49,200
Speaker 6: Well that was super cute, but guess what we have

3171
02:31:49,320 --> 02:31:52,119
Speaker 6: more wholesome stories, because this is the wholesome story episode.

3172
02:31:52,320 --> 02:31:56,920
Speaker 6: Let's go so maybe uh we go look at that

3173
02:31:57,080 --> 02:31:58,600
Speaker 6: next story, let's do it.

3174
02:31:58,959 --> 02:31:59,720
Speaker 2: Whose turn is it?

3175
02:32:00,120 --> 02:32:05,520
Speaker 6: I think it may be Sophia's ohad three fifty two

3176
02:32:05,680 --> 02:32:10,360
Speaker 6: S two. Also, if we get no, I'm not gonna

3177
02:32:10,360 --> 02:32:12,560
Speaker 6: say it. I'm gonna say it. I was gonna say.

3178
02:32:13,280 --> 02:32:16,360
Speaker 6: I was gonna say, I don't know how to pronounce

3179
02:32:16,360 --> 02:32:19,800
Speaker 6: your name, Suhanna, so Hannah, Suhanna verdy? Am I not

3180
02:32:19,879 --> 02:32:23,400
Speaker 6: saying it right? Also, if you haven't liked the stream

3181
02:32:23,440 --> 02:32:27,120
Speaker 6: already like the stream. Also Kaylee and McKinnie, Kelly says,

3182
02:32:27,120 --> 02:32:28,879
Speaker 6: how did the date with the forty year old go? Sam?

3183
02:32:30,120 --> 02:32:31,400
Speaker 6: It was old news on.

3184
02:32:31,640 --> 02:32:32,640
Speaker 1: Brother keep up?

3185
02:32:32,720 --> 02:32:36,560
Speaker 5: We got eleven responses from that link I sent you already. Yes,

3186
02:32:37,400 --> 02:32:39,400
Speaker 5: it's it's good, It's really good.

3187
02:32:39,760 --> 02:32:41,560
Speaker 6: Oh my god. I was so excited to see. I

3188
02:32:42,280 --> 02:32:46,360
Speaker 6: desperately want to say I'm so excited to see. Also,

3189
02:32:46,400 --> 02:32:49,920
Speaker 6: if you want no, no, I'm just say it's not

3190
02:32:50,480 --> 02:32:50,840
Speaker 6: doing this.

3191
02:32:51,120 --> 02:32:51,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

3192
02:32:52,040 --> 02:32:53,959
Speaker 6: I was gonna say. I was gonna make like an

3193
02:32:54,080 --> 02:32:57,800
Speaker 6: only overalls, like if you want us to wear only

3194
02:32:57,920 --> 02:33:01,039
Speaker 6: overalls all of it? Yeah, at least me.

3195
02:33:01,040 --> 02:33:05,600
Speaker 5: And John, Yeah, John are you comfortable with that, He'll put,

3196
02:33:06,480 --> 02:33:07,440
Speaker 5: I'll put both straps.

3197
02:33:08,200 --> 02:33:10,720
Speaker 3: That was the least comfortable professional.

3198
02:33:11,280 --> 02:33:13,760
Speaker 5: Everyone wants you to do that, Sam, don't put, don't

3199
02:33:13,840 --> 02:33:15,280
Speaker 5: drag draw, I don't.

3200
02:33:15,320 --> 02:33:17,160
Speaker 6: I can't be the only one anyway if you.

3201
02:33:17,200 --> 02:33:22,960
Speaker 5: Drank last night by yourself. So bro, it was a

3202
02:33:23,040 --> 02:33:26,840
Speaker 5: long yeah, Bro, but I like and you can take

3203
02:33:26,920 --> 02:33:27,640
Speaker 5: this one for the team.

3204
02:33:28,760 --> 02:33:31,080
Speaker 3: But I've got a story for the team.

3205
02:33:31,400 --> 02:33:34,160
Speaker 2: Oh man, oh wait, no, this is here.

3206
02:33:34,200 --> 02:33:35,640
Speaker 6: We go, I'll get if we go, if we go

3207
02:33:35,879 --> 02:33:38,000
Speaker 6: to get to a four hour stream, I will wear

3208
02:33:38,320 --> 02:33:39,879
Speaker 6: just overalls for the rest of the.

3209
02:33:40,680 --> 02:33:41,200
Speaker 2: Of the stream.

3210
02:33:41,320 --> 02:33:42,200
Speaker 5: He just wants to strip.

3211
02:33:42,320 --> 02:33:43,840
Speaker 6: That's really what it is hot in here.

3212
02:33:44,280 --> 02:33:47,440
Speaker 3: It is hot. It's quite hot. Alrighty, So this is

3213
02:33:47,640 --> 02:33:52,440
Speaker 3: S two correct? Yes, okay. Today, you guys asked for wholesome,

3214
02:33:52,600 --> 02:33:55,400
Speaker 3: so I give you this wholesome tale of my stepdad.

3215
02:33:55,640 --> 02:34:00,959
Speaker 3: And this is okay. Pece submitted, Oh yes.

3216
02:34:01,040 --> 02:34:04,200
Speaker 6: It is from okop a ballroom blitz get thanks for

3217
02:34:04,320 --> 02:34:06,120
Speaker 6: the five bucks. Put a w in the chat for

3218
02:34:06,160 --> 02:34:10,640
Speaker 6: the lgbtqts and Kimberly Bell thanks for the five buck tips.

3219
02:34:11,280 --> 02:34:12,959
Speaker 6: Kimberly says, only thirty minutes.

3220
02:34:13,120 --> 02:34:19,760
Speaker 3: No, but this story is from caffeinated Carlita, let us

3221
02:34:19,800 --> 02:34:21,560
Speaker 3: know if you're here, caffeinated Carlita.

3222
02:34:21,720 --> 02:34:22,400
Speaker 4: Oh who.

3223
02:34:24,200 --> 02:34:24,880
Speaker 2: Sayuki?

3224
02:34:25,200 --> 02:34:27,120
Speaker 6: Thanks for the one hundred dollars tip. Another push for

3225
02:34:27,200 --> 02:34:30,080
Speaker 6: a longer stream because can't watch due to a movie day.

3226
02:34:30,280 --> 02:34:34,600
Speaker 6: Oh movie day in Satia. As a twenty five puck

3227
02:34:34,720 --> 02:34:41,200
Speaker 6: a dollar tip for only overalls, y'all are yea.

3228
02:34:39,680 --> 02:34:44,240
Speaker 3: If caffeinated Carlita, if you're here, let us know? All right? Okay,

3229
02:34:44,720 --> 02:34:47,280
Speaker 3: So when I was fifteen, my parents separated and they

3230
02:34:47,320 --> 02:34:49,560
Speaker 3: both moved out, and I got the family home. One

3231
02:34:49,600 --> 02:34:52,320
Speaker 3: of my older cousins moved in so I wouldn't be

3232
02:34:52,360 --> 02:34:55,040
Speaker 3: a kid alone. Oh okay, so they got the family hown.

3233
02:34:55,160 --> 02:34:58,360
Speaker 3: Another cousin moved in. A little time goes by and

3234
02:34:58,480 --> 02:35:02,400
Speaker 3: my mom meets this guy. Now, Jay is an amazing

3235
02:35:02,560 --> 02:35:06,360
Speaker 3: human being. He's kind, gentle, makes good money, has an

3236
02:35:06,400 --> 02:35:09,680
Speaker 3: engineering degree, and has two kids my age. He sounds great.

3237
02:35:10,320 --> 02:35:13,080
Speaker 3: My instant thought is this man's far too good for

3238
02:35:13,240 --> 02:35:16,920
Speaker 3: my mom. I love my mom, don't get me wrong.

3239
02:35:17,120 --> 02:35:18,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, but.

3240
02:35:20,040 --> 02:35:24,120
Speaker 3: Oh it's you amazing, This is yours.

3241
02:35:27,959 --> 02:35:32,680
Speaker 6: You have to call Aoki after right, Yeah, Oh my god, Aoki.

3242
02:35:32,760 --> 02:35:33,160
Speaker 2: Hell yeah.

3243
02:35:34,120 --> 02:35:36,240
Speaker 3: It's just that as a kid, you get the classiest

3244
02:35:36,280 --> 02:35:39,520
Speaker 3: system in your head, like, oh well, oh, classiest system

3245
02:35:39,600 --> 02:35:42,440
Speaker 3: in your head, like, oh, well, we're poor and he's not,

3246
02:35:42,680 --> 02:35:44,960
Speaker 3: so obviously my mom will not fit in and if

3247
02:35:45,000 --> 02:35:47,199
Speaker 3: she spends all his money, he won't like us anymore.

3248
02:35:47,280 --> 02:35:51,200
Speaker 3: All that kid stuff. So me and Jay's oldest s

3249
02:35:51,600 --> 02:35:54,320
Speaker 3: we decided they were not a good match and we

3250
02:35:54,360 --> 02:35:57,080
Speaker 3: wouldn't hurt their relationship. But we had decided to try

3251
02:35:57,200 --> 02:36:00,560
Speaker 3: and talk our respective parents out of the silliness. That

3252
02:36:00,760 --> 02:36:04,920
Speaker 3: didn't work. They loved each other. You love, Yes, my

3253
02:36:05,040 --> 02:36:07,800
Speaker 3: sister and I bonded trying to convince our parents not

3254
02:36:08,080 --> 02:36:12,200
Speaker 3: to date. So this was a reverse parents parent trap

3255
02:36:12,360 --> 02:36:14,800
Speaker 3: parent trap, but it didn't work because they got together.

3256
02:36:14,879 --> 02:36:20,320
Speaker 6: Asa Santos, thanks for the fifty cents, Riley making eyes

3257
02:36:20,400 --> 02:36:21,120
Speaker 6: glow in Brazil.

3258
02:36:21,240 --> 02:36:21,800
Speaker 2: Love you guys.

3259
02:36:23,879 --> 02:36:26,360
Speaker 3: So time goes on and I'm eighteen by this time

3260
02:36:26,440 --> 02:36:29,040
Speaker 3: and going to a culinary arts program. Did you go

3261
02:36:29,080 --> 02:36:29,680
Speaker 3: to the CIA?

3262
02:36:30,480 --> 02:36:30,600
Speaker 2: Oh?

3263
02:36:31,080 --> 02:36:32,080
Speaker 3: Is that culinary?

3264
02:36:32,959 --> 02:36:33,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3265
02:36:33,160 --> 02:36:38,400
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, life happened. I dropped out, lost my scholarships,

3266
02:36:38,480 --> 02:36:43,520
Speaker 3: and therefore lost my housing allowance. My roommates, oh, we're asked,

3267
02:36:43,720 --> 02:36:46,440
Speaker 3: and who stepped up to come and get me and

3268
02:36:46,560 --> 02:36:48,560
Speaker 3: my stuff out of the house before I came up

3269
02:36:48,640 --> 02:36:50,600
Speaker 3: late for rent and before they could steal too much

3270
02:36:50,640 --> 02:36:55,680
Speaker 3: from me. Jay all six feet eight of him, he's talking.

3271
02:36:55,720 --> 02:37:00,480
Speaker 3: Oh young man, I now call my brother and also water.

3272
02:37:00,720 --> 02:37:02,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, everyone's so tall.

3273
02:37:03,320 --> 02:37:05,080
Speaker 5: That's all my dad is. He's six eight.

3274
02:37:06,160 --> 02:37:06,879
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

3275
02:37:07,120 --> 02:37:13,600
Speaker 5: Anyways, he's big anyway, your dad, big daddy.

3276
02:37:15,560 --> 02:37:18,240
Speaker 3: I lived with my Oh oh. They hustled my stuff

3277
02:37:18,320 --> 02:37:20,560
Speaker 3: to a truck, and after N got my cat out

3278
02:37:20,600 --> 02:37:23,840
Speaker 3: of the crawl space, away we went. I lived with

3279
02:37:23,959 --> 02:37:25,760
Speaker 3: my mom and Jay for a while before I got

3280
02:37:25,800 --> 02:37:28,240
Speaker 3: on my feet again. During this time, they decided to

3281
02:37:28,320 --> 02:37:31,480
Speaker 3: get married, which by now I'm on board with. Like

3282
02:37:31,600 --> 02:37:34,440
Speaker 3: I said, he's an amazing dad and he's treated me

3283
02:37:34,520 --> 02:37:37,160
Speaker 3: as nothing less than his own child since the first

3284
02:37:37,240 --> 02:37:40,240
Speaker 3: day I invessed met him. So the wedding comes round

3285
02:37:40,320 --> 02:37:42,640
Speaker 3: and I'm the maid of honor. S is a bridesmaid,

3286
02:37:42,800 --> 02:37:46,600
Speaker 3: and N is the best man. Mom had dresses made

3287
02:37:46,640 --> 02:37:48,400
Speaker 3: for all of us that we got to design so

3288
02:37:48,520 --> 02:37:50,880
Speaker 3: they'd be what we wanted to wear and feel comfortable in,

3289
02:37:51,080 --> 02:37:55,440
Speaker 3: and J and N wore kilts. Very cute. Anyways, time

3290
02:37:55,600 --> 02:37:59,120
Speaker 3: for the toasts and speeches to preface there there was

3291
02:37:59,320 --> 02:38:02,039
Speaker 3: free on every table. Literally buy the bottle.

3292
02:38:02,360 --> 02:38:04,360
Speaker 2: Wow, that's awesome wedding.

3293
02:38:04,520 --> 02:38:07,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I was so nervous about my maid of

3294
02:38:07,560 --> 02:38:10,320
Speaker 3: honor speech. I'm a kid. I don't know shit about speeches.

3295
02:38:10,760 --> 02:38:14,440
Speaker 3: So I drank about three bottles of free wine. You

3296
02:38:14,560 --> 02:38:15,279
Speaker 3: were very nervous.

3297
02:38:15,400 --> 02:38:19,840
Speaker 6: Three bottles married, that's so much. Also, shout out a

3298
02:38:20,040 --> 02:38:21,879
Speaker 6: banana for the five bucks. Okay, I need to contribute

3299
02:38:21,879 --> 02:38:25,280
Speaker 6: a little extra for okop, only overalls and longer straight.

3300
02:38:25,400 --> 02:38:27,880
Speaker 6: That's right. If we get the four hours, I will

3301
02:38:27,920 --> 02:38:30,160
Speaker 6: do the rest and only overalls. That was a two thousand,

3302
02:38:30,400 --> 02:38:32,480
Speaker 6: but I guess you I did.

3303
02:38:32,600 --> 02:38:36,080
Speaker 2: I Yeah, I'll give it to them.

3304
02:38:37,040 --> 02:38:39,720
Speaker 3: My turn comes round and I'm drunk, not like slurred

3305
02:38:39,760 --> 02:38:42,760
Speaker 3: speech and falling over drunk, but like, that's impressive that.

3306
02:38:42,760 --> 02:38:44,080
Speaker 6: You're three bottles.

3307
02:38:44,200 --> 02:38:45,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, not falling over.

3308
02:38:45,480 --> 02:38:48,400
Speaker 3: Drunk, but like drunk enough. Now things are a little

3309
02:38:48,480 --> 02:38:53,240
Speaker 3: jumbled and foggy, but my speech basically goes mom, Jay,

3310
02:38:53,680 --> 02:38:56,440
Speaker 3: I know I haven't been a supportive of your relationship

3311
02:38:56,520 --> 02:38:59,039
Speaker 3: as I should have been. I see that you love

3312
02:38:59,120 --> 02:39:01,760
Speaker 3: each other, and I'm sorry I was such a cunt

3313
02:39:01,879 --> 02:39:07,560
Speaker 3: about the whole thing. Jay is the dad I've always wanted,

3314
02:39:07,760 --> 02:39:10,000
Speaker 3: And now I get a sister and a brother.

3315
02:39:10,320 --> 02:39:13,560
Speaker 6: Oh wait, so basically like the mom and Jay were

3316
02:39:13,600 --> 02:39:17,240
Speaker 6: getting together, and like Op was like, no, no, and

3317
02:39:17,320 --> 02:39:21,120
Speaker 6: so it's Jay's daughter and then realized that Jay was awesome. Yes,

3318
02:39:21,240 --> 02:39:23,760
Speaker 6: and they were great. It was awesome, but like didn't

3319
02:39:23,800 --> 02:39:27,000
Speaker 6: think their mom was awesome enough for j Yes, class.

3320
02:39:27,280 --> 02:39:32,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm so glad I have you guys. I love

3321
02:39:32,520 --> 02:39:33,320
Speaker 3: you all so much.

3322
02:39:33,600 --> 02:39:37,600
Speaker 6: Okay, you're so cute sweet. Also this is okay, Like,

3323
02:39:37,680 --> 02:39:40,720
Speaker 6: OKOPI fan right here. Yeah, put cute in the chat

3324
02:39:40,760 --> 02:39:42,920
Speaker 6: for you. Okay, cuty in the chat, cutie in the chat.

3325
02:39:43,080 --> 02:39:45,840
Speaker 3: I then jumped off the stage fully in a gown,

3326
02:39:46,160 --> 02:39:49,040
Speaker 3: leapt off the stage, ran out a door, and started drunk.

3327
02:39:49,080 --> 02:39:52,160
Speaker 3: White girl crying in the parking lot. Mom comes out,

3328
02:39:52,320 --> 02:39:54,560
Speaker 3: hugs me, tells me she loves me and she's proud

3329
02:39:54,600 --> 02:39:56,920
Speaker 3: of me. And I promptly threw up all over the

3330
02:39:56,959 --> 02:39:58,600
Speaker 3: back of what my uncle's trucks.

3331
02:39:59,000 --> 02:40:01,440
Speaker 2: Oh adorable.

3332
02:40:01,600 --> 02:40:04,199
Speaker 3: Mom helps me up and we all.

3333
02:40:06,560 --> 02:40:07,640
Speaker 2: It has happened.

3334
02:40:07,920 --> 02:40:11,520
Speaker 6: Daddy Jesse with the one hundred and eighty four and

3335
02:40:11,760 --> 02:40:13,240
Speaker 6: four cents, let's go.

3336
02:40:13,959 --> 02:40:16,200
Speaker 2: Riley' daddy isn't the only daddy that stands tall like

3337
02:40:16,280 --> 02:40:17,080
Speaker 2: a giant.

3338
02:40:17,160 --> 02:40:20,000
Speaker 6: Oh my god, yes, all right, that makes it the

3339
02:40:20,120 --> 02:40:23,480
Speaker 6: only overall stream. Well, and we'll get a little changed

3340
02:40:23,520 --> 02:40:26,680
Speaker 6: after this, after this, so here, how about this? How

3341
02:40:26,680 --> 02:40:30,279
Speaker 6: about this on this side? All of you only overalls

3342
02:40:30,320 --> 02:40:34,520
Speaker 6: at two thousand at five hour stream, you do only overalls?

3343
02:40:34,800 --> 02:40:38,800
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Insatia, thanks for the two hundred and four.

3344
02:40:39,000 --> 02:40:41,080
Speaker 6: I start a new job on Monday, and I'll probably

3345
02:40:41,120 --> 02:40:44,160
Speaker 6: miss your future lives. I need four hours, well, I think,

3346
02:40:44,240 --> 02:40:46,520
Speaker 6: And Satia, you're part of the Little Silly so you'll

3347
02:40:46,520 --> 02:40:48,280
Speaker 6: be able to see it after it goes live. Right,

3348
02:40:48,360 --> 02:40:52,320
Speaker 6: and sonya Cheri thanks for the five bucks. Oh man, wow, wow,

3349
02:40:52,440 --> 02:40:54,800
Speaker 6: y'all are the best? All right, no nip slips?

3350
02:40:54,879 --> 02:40:58,560
Speaker 4: Exactly where were we throwing up?

3351
02:40:59,040 --> 02:41:01,720
Speaker 3: Mom helps me and we go back in and there

3352
02:41:02,000 --> 02:41:05,959
Speaker 3: is Jay, arms open and a little weepy. He has

3353
02:41:06,040 --> 02:41:08,840
Speaker 3: a hard time telling people he loves them. He's older.

3354
02:41:08,959 --> 02:41:11,480
Speaker 3: It's harder for them to express feelings. They were raised differently.

3355
02:41:12,040 --> 02:41:14,680
Speaker 3: I say I love you, daddy, Jay, and he says

3356
02:41:14,879 --> 02:41:17,640
Speaker 3: you two kid and gives me the best dad bear

3357
02:41:17,760 --> 02:41:21,280
Speaker 3: hug known to man. Jay is my dad in every

3358
02:41:21,360 --> 02:41:24,720
Speaker 3: way that counts. He supports me and my kids emotionally.

3359
02:41:24,920 --> 02:41:27,240
Speaker 3: He loves us. He does all the things and dad

3360
02:41:27,400 --> 02:41:30,360
Speaker 3: slash grand oh a dad slash granddad is supposed to do.

3361
02:41:31,000 --> 02:41:34,039
Speaker 3: If I could have chosen my parents myself, I could

3362
02:41:34,080 --> 02:41:36,200
Speaker 3: not have done a good as good a job as

3363
02:41:36,280 --> 02:41:39,400
Speaker 3: my mom did. Finding Jay, I'm so glad he's my

3364
02:41:39,520 --> 02:41:42,240
Speaker 3: dad now. I'm thirty eight now, and I could not

3365
02:41:42,440 --> 02:41:45,200
Speaker 3: imagine my life without my mom and Jay's support and love.

3366
02:41:45,680 --> 02:41:48,440
Speaker 3: So thanks Jay for being the dad I needed.

3367
02:41:48,600 --> 02:41:50,720
Speaker 4: And love you, Daddy Jay, thing You're worth?

3368
02:41:51,560 --> 02:41:56,240
Speaker 6: Oh sweet, this is so freaking wholesome. Wait. Can we

3369
02:41:56,480 --> 02:41:57,680
Speaker 6: call Aoki right now?

3370
02:41:57,879 --> 02:41:58,039
Speaker 7: Yes?

3371
02:41:58,240 --> 02:41:59,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, and Aoki?

3372
02:42:00,120 --> 02:42:02,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is so cute.

3373
02:42:03,360 --> 02:42:09,560
Speaker 6: Belle Conkling really wants Riley to give me the paddle. No,

3374
02:42:15,000 --> 02:42:19,080
Speaker 6: call it, okay, okay, we're calling you right now. We

3375
02:42:19,200 --> 02:42:25,040
Speaker 6: need to know about Hello, Okay, Hey, how's it going.

3376
02:42:26,240 --> 02:42:26,960
Speaker 2: It goes good.

3377
02:42:27,120 --> 02:42:30,400
Speaker 9: I'm literally driving home from like two towns over from

3378
02:42:30,440 --> 02:42:31,040
Speaker 9: my new job.

3379
02:42:31,120 --> 02:42:31,640
Speaker 12: I started.

3380
02:42:31,879 --> 02:42:32,840
Speaker 2: Oh what's the new job?

3381
02:42:35,720 --> 02:42:37,000
Speaker 9: I rolled joints for a living.

3382
02:42:37,600 --> 02:42:41,959
Speaker 2: Let's let's go talk about it. That is hell? Yeah?

3383
02:42:43,120 --> 02:42:48,560
Speaker 2: So okay, okay, but I want to hear about daddy Jay.

3384
02:42:48,840 --> 02:42:50,160
Speaker 2: Is he's still that like?

3385
02:42:50,800 --> 02:42:54,440
Speaker 6: Is he still just amazing and awesome and and the

3386
02:42:54,520 --> 02:42:56,720
Speaker 6: best and can you tell me I want to hear

3387
02:42:56,800 --> 02:43:01,640
Speaker 6: a Daddy Jay story that illustrates how awesome he is.

3388
02:43:01,840 --> 02:43:04,440
Speaker 6: If you have any like stories that jump out in

3389
02:43:04,560 --> 02:43:09,480
Speaker 6: your mind, Okay, yes I do. So.

3390
02:43:09,840 --> 02:43:14,279
Speaker 9: The man is a Buddhist. He has practiced like taekwondo

3391
02:43:14,520 --> 02:43:17,200
Speaker 9: and a bunch of martial artist and he doesn't believe

3392
02:43:17,240 --> 02:43:21,320
Speaker 9: in violence. It's not his vibe. So instead of like

3393
02:43:21,800 --> 02:43:24,320
Speaker 9: being angry or taking it out on the people he

3394
02:43:24,440 --> 02:43:28,080
Speaker 9: cares about, once every couple of years or so, she

3395
02:43:28,200 --> 02:43:31,359
Speaker 9: picks a coffee mug out, drinks his coffee on the balcony,

3396
02:43:31,879 --> 02:43:34,440
Speaker 9: puts all his shitty, bad thoughts in the cup, and

3397
02:43:34,640 --> 02:43:37,480
Speaker 9: just wings that bitch against the fence. And then he

3398
02:43:37,640 --> 02:43:39,960
Speaker 9: goes out and cleans up all the little people.

3399
02:43:42,000 --> 02:43:44,480
Speaker 2: Wow, that is so sick, dude.

3400
02:43:44,680 --> 02:43:48,720
Speaker 6: That's what I'm the confidence and just like I don't know,

3401
02:43:49,240 --> 02:43:54,480
Speaker 6: cool manly manliness of a six eight dude just throwing

3402
02:43:54,560 --> 02:43:58,400
Speaker 6: a cup across the ground like it just that's amazing. Wow,

3403
02:43:59,120 --> 02:44:01,760
Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, all right, give us one more Daddy

3404
02:44:01,800 --> 02:44:02,280
Speaker 6: Jay story.

3405
02:44:02,480 --> 02:44:07,760
Speaker 9: Yeah, his proudest moment of me is the day I

3406
02:44:08,040 --> 02:44:11,800
Speaker 9: choke slammed my like six foot roommate into the oven

3407
02:44:11,840 --> 02:44:14,000
Speaker 9: hood lifted him off the ground with one hand by

3408
02:44:14,080 --> 02:44:16,320
Speaker 9: his throat and told him that if he ever spoke

3409
02:44:16,400 --> 02:44:20,480
Speaker 9: ill against my mom again, never find his body. And

3410
02:44:20,640 --> 02:44:23,960
Speaker 9: Nim tells that story happily to anyone who will listen.

3411
02:44:24,560 --> 02:44:27,760
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god, all are both lethal.

3412
02:44:27,920 --> 02:44:32,640
Speaker 6: Not only is Daddy Jay lethal, but you're lethal too.

3413
02:44:32,720 --> 02:44:34,800
Speaker 2: Do you have any martial arts training?

3414
02:44:36,120 --> 02:44:38,600
Speaker 9: No, I'm five foot one, but we're Irish, so we

3415
02:44:38,640 --> 02:44:39,400
Speaker 9: get really angry.

3416
02:44:39,959 --> 02:44:42,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, I restraint.

3417
02:44:42,440 --> 02:44:42,560
Speaker 8: Man.

3418
02:44:42,920 --> 02:44:47,400
Speaker 6: Well, we so appreciate you putting in your heartwarming story.

3419
02:44:47,480 --> 02:44:51,000
Speaker 6: It's amazing. And I and congrats on the new job,

3420
02:44:51,240 --> 02:44:52,160
Speaker 6: roll a joint for us.

3421
02:44:52,520 --> 02:44:52,720
Speaker 8: Yeah.

3422
02:44:53,480 --> 02:44:56,600
Speaker 9: I once I get my first paycheck, I'm actually going

3423
02:44:56,680 --> 02:44:58,359
Speaker 9: to send you some stuff to do it yourself.

3424
02:44:58,600 --> 02:45:02,440
Speaker 6: Oh oh my god, our po box is gonna be

3425
02:45:02,480 --> 02:45:02,959
Speaker 6: blowing out.

3426
02:45:04,800 --> 02:45:05,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3427
02:45:07,080 --> 02:45:09,400
Speaker 2: Oh man, Well, Ki, thanks so much.

3428
02:45:09,360 --> 02:45:14,400
Speaker 9: For calling in anytime you guys later, Lady.

3429
02:45:14,240 --> 02:45:19,400
Speaker 6: I go, oh, that's that is like so heartworse, so great.

3430
02:45:19,480 --> 02:45:22,840
Speaker 6: This is a wholesome episode. It's a wholesome, wholesome episode.

3431
02:45:23,000 --> 02:45:25,360
Speaker 6: And shout out Madeline Sharp for the ten bucks. I

3432
02:45:25,520 --> 02:45:28,920
Speaker 6: love listening to you guys. Hope y'all have a fab Friday.

3433
02:45:30,000 --> 02:45:33,640
Speaker 6: And who's reading the next one? I think it's my time,

3434
02:45:34,000 --> 02:45:36,360
Speaker 6: all right, and I'm just gonna change really quick while

3435
02:45:36,440 --> 02:45:38,760
Speaker 6: John is the cameras on John.

3436
02:45:39,360 --> 02:45:39,920
Speaker 2: Let's do it?

3437
02:45:40,440 --> 02:45:41,120
Speaker 1: And are we still on?

3438
02:45:41,200 --> 02:45:41,920
Speaker 5: Three sixty four?

3439
02:45:42,760 --> 02:45:48,000
Speaker 2: Yes, let's do it? U S three fifty two, S

3440
02:45:48,080 --> 02:45:50,560
Speaker 2: three here we go three fifty two.

3441
02:45:50,879 --> 02:45:53,840
Speaker 1: What you're gonna do when I'll read you this story

3442
02:45:54,080 --> 02:45:56,280
Speaker 1: right now? Okay? Sorry?

3443
02:45:56,400 --> 02:45:56,640
Speaker 2: S three?

3444
02:45:57,240 --> 02:45:58,000
Speaker 1: Yes? Cool?

3445
02:45:59,400 --> 02:46:03,119
Speaker 2: Why I became a substitute teacher and how it's going now?

3446
02:46:03,680 --> 02:46:07,760
Speaker 2: And this is also Okob submitted.

3447
02:46:09,720 --> 02:46:10,560
Speaker 5: The your name?

3448
02:46:12,440 --> 02:46:14,119
Speaker 2: Oh yike?

3449
02:46:14,720 --> 02:46:16,360
Speaker 5: What nobody right now?

3450
02:46:18,879 --> 02:46:19,440
Speaker 9: What do we have?

3451
02:46:19,600 --> 02:46:20,520
Speaker 2: Heredium?

3452
02:46:22,280 --> 02:46:23,839
Speaker 1: Oh yoinks.

3453
02:46:24,959 --> 02:46:31,760
Speaker 13: There's not much room despair? Oh God, Sophia, help mouse

3454
02:46:33,080 --> 02:46:37,680
Speaker 13: go to job. This comes from you.

3455
02:46:39,000 --> 02:46:41,640
Speaker 2: Bro Riley is abusic ist power of the switching bard

3456
02:46:41,720 --> 02:46:46,120
Speaker 2: right now, this comes from you.

3457
02:46:46,520 --> 02:46:48,560
Speaker 1: Two thousand, ub two thousand.

3458
02:46:48,640 --> 02:46:50,760
Speaker 2: If you're in the chat right now, please, I think

3459
02:46:50,800 --> 02:46:53,040
Speaker 2: that's I think that's Stella David Sell.

3460
02:46:55,240 --> 02:46:58,320
Speaker 6: Okay, lost a shadow pumpkin, thanks for the five gifted membership.

3461
02:46:58,640 --> 02:47:01,800
Speaker 1: Hey think shadow pumpkin. You are a bright pumpkin in

3462
02:47:01,879 --> 02:47:02,240
Speaker 1: my eyes.

3463
02:47:03,160 --> 02:47:09,080
Speaker 2: So when I twenty three female was sixteen, did I

3464
02:47:09,240 --> 02:47:11,640
Speaker 2: was put on how home bound Virtual Learning due to

3465
02:47:11,760 --> 02:47:15,279
Speaker 2: my health? No one told me when school play auditions

3466
02:47:15,320 --> 02:47:18,440
Speaker 2: were fake friends, I swear, so I missed them. Damn

3467
02:47:18,520 --> 02:47:21,360
Speaker 2: that sucks. However, I still wanted to be involved with

3468
02:47:21,440 --> 02:47:23,880
Speaker 2: a play, so I started showing up to rehearsals.

3469
02:47:24,440 --> 02:47:28,040
Speaker 1: Uh with my makeup kaboodle. Is that a thing?

3470
02:47:28,200 --> 02:47:31,480
Speaker 2: I guess. I guess that's like a like a pack,

3471
02:47:31,600 --> 02:47:34,400
Speaker 2: like a box. I was very much going through my

3472
02:47:34,560 --> 02:47:38,440
Speaker 2: makeup guru era intent on becoming a makeup artist. I

3473
02:47:38,560 --> 02:47:43,840
Speaker 2: secured that principal makeup artist baby woo uh. But due

3474
02:47:43,920 --> 02:47:47,320
Speaker 2: to the kid wranglers not doing their jobs, I stumbled

3475
02:47:47,400 --> 02:47:49,560
Speaker 2: into becoming a kid wrangler myself.

3476
02:47:50,560 --> 02:47:52,600
Speaker 6: I am, what is a kid wrangler?

3477
02:47:52,959 --> 02:47:55,720
Speaker 1: Does that mean like like you wrangle kids?

3478
02:47:55,879 --> 02:47:58,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, but thinking like mama mama duck type stuff like

3479
02:47:58,600 --> 02:48:02,360
Speaker 5: come on, let's go okay, like like you yes, me

3480
02:48:03,040 --> 02:48:04,440
Speaker 5: five minutes before the stream happens.

3481
02:48:04,560 --> 02:48:08,080
Speaker 2: Yes. Now, I can't really understand wrangling all the little

3482
02:48:08,440 --> 02:48:11,640
Speaker 2: theater kids together. So we were doing The Wizard of Oz,

3483
02:48:12,160 --> 02:48:15,119
Speaker 2: so we had several kids aged five to eleven, most

3484
02:48:15,160 --> 02:48:17,800
Speaker 2: of them eight years old. Kid wranglers were responsible for

3485
02:48:17,879 --> 02:48:20,440
Speaker 2: watching them and escorting them to the stage, as well

3486
02:48:20,480 --> 02:48:23,160
Speaker 2: as keeping them quiet when it wasn't their stage time.

3487
02:48:23,680 --> 02:48:26,240
Speaker 2: The direct The director announced there would be a contest

3488
02:48:26,320 --> 02:48:30,600
Speaker 2: between myself and the two other remaining wranglers. Interesting, okay,

3489
02:48:30,680 --> 02:48:32,760
Speaker 2: so all of the kid wranglers are have a chance

3490
02:48:32,840 --> 02:48:35,160
Speaker 2: to be in the show. Maybe it was voted on

3491
02:48:35,480 --> 02:48:38,040
Speaker 2: by the kids, that is cute, and they would decide

3492
02:48:38,080 --> 02:48:41,480
Speaker 2: who they thought was the best wrangler. I am competitive

3493
02:48:41,800 --> 02:48:46,959
Speaker 2: af so of course I wanted to win at any cost.

3494
02:48:49,240 --> 02:48:49,600
Speaker 9: Do do do?

3495
02:48:49,720 --> 02:48:49,880
Speaker 8: Do Do?

3496
02:48:51,000 --> 02:48:53,879
Speaker 3: Where was I win at any cost?

3497
02:48:54,200 --> 02:48:55,359
Speaker 2: When at any.

3498
02:48:55,320 --> 02:48:58,240
Speaker 5: Cost you're in the right spot. I just made a space.

3499
02:48:59,440 --> 02:48:59,880
Speaker 8: Oh you did?

3500
02:49:00,080 --> 02:49:00,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

3501
02:49:01,280 --> 02:49:03,320
Speaker 1: Oh, we were doing the Wizard of Oz. Do kids

3502
02:49:03,360 --> 02:49:03,840
Speaker 1: hearing them?

3503
02:49:03,959 --> 02:49:05,480
Speaker 2: The director right now is sid there'd be a contest

3504
02:49:05,520 --> 02:49:08,840
Speaker 2: between us and arrangey wranglers. So over the course of

3505
02:49:09,000 --> 02:49:11,400
Speaker 2: six weeks, I spent a lot of time with the kids,

3506
02:49:11,560 --> 02:49:14,880
Speaker 2: helping them run lines, doing their makeup during the final rehearsals,

3507
02:49:14,920 --> 02:49:17,520
Speaker 2: supplying them with jello, et cetera, et cetera, all of

3508
02:49:17,560 --> 02:49:20,880
Speaker 2: the essentials. There was one time I almost missed my

3509
02:49:21,040 --> 02:49:23,959
Speaker 2: ride home because I was still with one of the kids,

3510
02:49:24,080 --> 02:49:27,240
Speaker 2: eight female. Her mom had a family emergency and was

3511
02:49:27,320 --> 02:49:29,959
Speaker 2: running late, so I had walked to the football field

3512
02:49:30,040 --> 02:49:32,360
Speaker 2: with the kid to find her cousin. Her mom showed

3513
02:49:32,440 --> 02:49:34,080
Speaker 2: up as we got there, and I made it back

3514
02:49:34,240 --> 02:49:36,320
Speaker 2: just in time for my ride to see me. They

3515
02:49:36,440 --> 02:49:39,120
Speaker 2: thought that I had caught another ride. There was an

3516
02:49:39,280 --> 02:49:43,279
Speaker 2: issue with the kid. Eight female who had misbehaved. Often

3517
02:49:43,760 --> 02:49:46,920
Speaker 2: messed with my makeup after being told not to, which

3518
02:49:47,000 --> 02:49:50,920
Speaker 2: resulted in my blushes being destroyed. Tried to kiss one

3519
02:49:50,959 --> 02:49:53,560
Speaker 2: of the eleven year old boys and chasing him when

3520
02:49:53,600 --> 02:49:58,039
Speaker 2: he ran away, being loud when being told to quiet down, etcetera, etcetera.

3521
02:49:58,160 --> 02:50:03,199
Speaker 2: Sounds like rambunctious smite one. Her mother and grandmother walked

3522
02:50:03,240 --> 02:50:05,240
Speaker 2: in just as I was scolding her and telling her

3523
02:50:05,440 --> 02:50:07,600
Speaker 2: that if she didn't get in together, I would have

3524
02:50:07,720 --> 02:50:11,080
Speaker 2: to speak with the director. Her grandmother immediately came to

3525
02:50:11,200 --> 02:50:14,800
Speaker 2: her defense, as if I was some bullying bully abusing

3526
02:50:14,840 --> 02:50:18,200
Speaker 2: my power over a little kid. I explained that I

3527
02:50:18,240 --> 02:50:20,800
Speaker 2: absolutely adored the kid, but she had been destroying my

3528
02:50:20,879 --> 02:50:23,480
Speaker 2: makeup and messing with another kid. I told her that

3529
02:50:23,600 --> 02:50:26,680
Speaker 2: her granddaughter had the perfect personality for theater, and I

3530
02:50:26,800 --> 02:50:28,000
Speaker 2: didn't want to dim her life.

3531
02:50:28,360 --> 02:50:31,199
Speaker 1: That is like the best way you could possibly.

3532
02:50:31,080 --> 02:50:33,640
Speaker 3: She's got a rambunctious spirit perfect for theater.

3533
02:50:33,879 --> 02:50:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like that is the most like eloquent

3534
02:50:36,080 --> 02:50:39,640
Speaker 2: diplomatic way you could have ever said that. Yeah, however,

3535
02:50:40,160 --> 02:50:44,400
Speaker 2: her granddaughter's behavior was disruptive and unfair to the other kids,

3536
02:50:44,560 --> 02:50:46,880
Speaker 2: and if it continued, I would have to speak with

3537
02:50:46,959 --> 02:50:49,360
Speaker 2: the director. One of the crew backed me up about

3538
02:50:49,360 --> 02:50:53,200
Speaker 2: my makeup and the kid she tried to kiss ran

3539
02:50:53,320 --> 02:50:56,520
Speaker 2: by at one point and said, yes, and I don't

3540
02:50:56,640 --> 02:51:00,959
Speaker 2: want to kiss her vally, that's hilarious.

3541
02:51:01,640 --> 02:51:03,959
Speaker 1: Oh god, Riley's doing there is some decent.

3542
02:51:07,360 --> 02:51:08,320
Speaker 6: But they wanted it.

3543
02:51:09,560 --> 02:51:10,160
Speaker 4: Oh God.

3544
02:51:10,680 --> 02:51:13,400
Speaker 6: I lived for the okay bell for them.

3545
02:51:14,680 --> 02:51:17,400
Speaker 2: She scolded the kid and she and the mother took

3546
02:51:17,440 --> 02:51:20,240
Speaker 2: her home. I then went into the restroom and bawled

3547
02:51:20,320 --> 02:51:24,160
Speaker 2: my eyes out. Oh, thinking I had handled the situation terribly.

3548
02:51:25,000 --> 02:51:27,600
Speaker 2: The stage manager's wife happened to be working on I

3549
02:51:27,720 --> 02:51:30,800
Speaker 2: set piece nearby and had heard everything, including me crying.

3550
02:51:31,360 --> 02:51:33,720
Speaker 2: She told her husband everything she had heard, and he

3551
02:51:33,800 --> 02:51:36,000
Speaker 2: spoke with me the next day. He told me that

3552
02:51:36,080 --> 02:51:38,199
Speaker 2: I had handled it a lot better than he would

3553
02:51:38,240 --> 02:51:41,560
Speaker 2: have expected me to, and that sometimes things like that

3554
02:51:41,800 --> 02:51:44,280
Speaker 2: just happened when you work with kids. The kids don't

3555
02:51:44,280 --> 02:51:47,199
Speaker 2: hate me or anything. And later there was an incident

3556
02:51:47,280 --> 02:51:50,000
Speaker 2: where neither of the other wranglers were watching the kids

3557
02:51:50,120 --> 02:51:52,199
Speaker 2: while I did stage duties before the show.

3558
02:51:52,879 --> 02:51:56,520
Speaker 6: Uh, the wranglers sounds like it sounds like a Western

3559
02:51:58,200 --> 02:52:02,320
Speaker 6: there's room in ham for There's just like I'm just

3560
02:52:02,400 --> 02:52:05,360
Speaker 6: imagining like all of these wranglers just having lassos and

3561
02:52:05,440 --> 02:52:05,680
Speaker 6: be like.

3562
02:52:05,680 --> 02:52:07,400
Speaker 2: Come here, get over.

3563
02:52:08,480 --> 02:52:13,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, little bunky and giraft backpacks. Oh my god,

3564
02:52:15,240 --> 02:52:16,000
Speaker 1: do do do do doo?

3565
02:52:16,879 --> 02:52:17,000
Speaker 8: Uh?

3566
02:52:17,240 --> 02:52:18,480
Speaker 1: I did my stage duties?

3567
02:52:19,680 --> 02:52:26,920
Speaker 2: What Riley? Yeah say? She says fan service.

3568
02:52:28,280 --> 02:52:31,960
Speaker 1: The camera can't get enough of Sam. Oh my god,

3569
02:52:35,000 --> 02:52:35,320
Speaker 1: do do do?

3570
02:52:35,720 --> 02:52:35,760
Speaker 9: So?

3571
02:52:35,879 --> 02:52:37,160
Speaker 1: We had an extra wrangler for this.

3572
02:52:37,240 --> 02:52:41,400
Speaker 2: Reason, as I had to do lions makeup and touch

3573
02:52:41,440 --> 02:52:44,240
Speaker 2: it up because he because he only wanted me to

3574
02:52:44,840 --> 02:52:47,960
Speaker 2: uh sew up a tin man's pants think fix a

3575
02:52:47,959 --> 02:52:51,120
Speaker 2: Winkie costume on top of all the other kids make

3576
02:52:51,200 --> 02:52:54,720
Speaker 2: up every show. Uh. And the girl accidentally slammed the

3577
02:52:54,800 --> 02:52:58,840
Speaker 2: dressing room door on another kid, eleven male's fingers. Everyone

3578
02:52:58,959 --> 02:53:01,360
Speaker 2: swarmed him, but no notice that she was standing in

3579
02:53:01,400 --> 02:53:06,160
Speaker 2: the hall crying because she because she thought how he

3580
02:53:06,520 --> 02:53:09,760
Speaker 2: now hates her for hurting his fingers. Oh that is

3581
02:53:10,040 --> 02:53:12,960
Speaker 2: cute but also sad and shout shut up Pumpkin again

3582
02:53:13,280 --> 02:53:16,000
Speaker 2: for the two dollars donation hand doing a fist pump

3583
02:53:16,080 --> 02:53:16,400
Speaker 2: We love it.

3584
02:53:16,520 --> 02:53:17,640
Speaker 6: Thank you, shadow pumpkin.

3585
02:53:17,959 --> 02:53:19,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I told.

3586
02:53:19,760 --> 02:53:25,840
Speaker 5: Her he was Oh sorry, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

3587
02:53:28,520 --> 02:53:31,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Come on, guys, get your eyeballs off Sam and

3588
02:53:31,360 --> 02:53:32,199
Speaker 2: keep on on the story.

3589
02:53:32,280 --> 02:53:36,000
Speaker 3: Okay, we're listening to an okay, piece ebbitted story.

3590
02:53:36,600 --> 02:53:40,080
Speaker 2: Right, respect your fellow a little silly over there. Okay,

3591
02:53:40,200 --> 02:53:44,920
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen, right, Riley, and you know what, Riley

3592
02:53:45,000 --> 02:53:45,800
Speaker 2: is stoking the flame.

3593
02:53:45,920 --> 02:53:48,680
Speaker 1: So spray bottle for you. Spray bottle for you.

3594
02:53:50,520 --> 02:53:54,920
Speaker 5: I'm giving it to him. Okay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry,

3595
02:53:54,959 --> 02:53:55,320
Speaker 5: I'm sorry.

3596
02:53:55,440 --> 02:53:58,600
Speaker 1: Here we go. I told her he was crying because

3597
02:53:58,600 --> 02:54:00,000
Speaker 1: he was hurting. But he'll be fine.

3598
02:54:00,520 --> 02:54:03,400
Speaker 2: She didn't see him when he closed the door. Everything

3599
02:54:03,440 --> 02:54:07,200
Speaker 2: would be okay after all. After all of this, my

3600
02:54:07,360 --> 02:54:10,160
Speaker 2: own schoolmates were saying that one of the other wranglers,

3601
02:54:10,480 --> 02:54:12,760
Speaker 2: who spent a majority of the time flirting with a

3602
02:54:12,959 --> 02:54:18,320
Speaker 2: cast member, hopefully of their own age, would win the

3603
02:54:18,400 --> 02:54:22,840
Speaker 2: Best Wrangler award because the kids feared her, because she

3604
02:54:23,040 --> 02:54:27,080
Speaker 2: struck fear lots of children. We made it to the

3605
02:54:27,200 --> 02:54:29,280
Speaker 2: cast and crew after party, where a couple of the

3606
02:54:29,400 --> 02:54:32,440
Speaker 2: kids admitted to voting for the other wrangler because she

3607
02:54:32,879 --> 02:54:34,879
Speaker 2: was scary Hury.

3608
02:54:35,440 --> 02:54:36,879
Speaker 1: Then we got all of the.

3609
02:54:36,959 --> 02:54:39,560
Speaker 2: Best wrangler awards. We got to the best, we got

3610
02:54:39,680 --> 02:54:43,359
Speaker 2: to the best Wrangler award, thank you, and everyone started

3611
02:54:43,720 --> 02:54:47,199
Speaker 2: shouting the other wrangler's name. I have it on video,

3612
02:54:48,080 --> 02:54:53,039
Speaker 2: but the award was all Marius.

3613
02:54:53,160 --> 02:54:54,080
Speaker 3: The children love you.

3614
02:54:56,080 --> 02:54:57,240
Speaker 6: Of all the wrangles.

3615
02:54:57,400 --> 02:55:00,880
Speaker 2: O time. After the whole experience, I was inspired to

3616
02:55:01,600 --> 02:55:04,000
Speaker 2: pursue a career working with children.

3617
02:55:04,280 --> 02:55:05,800
Speaker 1: Oh that's so great, that's awesome.

3618
02:55:05,920 --> 02:55:09,400
Speaker 2: During the pandemic, the shortage of substitute teachers grew. I

3619
02:55:09,520 --> 02:55:12,840
Speaker 2: had already lost my job that paid so well four

3620
02:55:12,920 --> 02:55:16,360
Speaker 2: years later, and I'm I'm still salty about it. My

3621
02:55:16,480 --> 02:55:20,000
Speaker 2: aunt Mary, who is actually my third cousin biologically and

3622
02:55:20,280 --> 02:55:22,240
Speaker 2: my first cousin legally, but.

3623
02:55:22,280 --> 02:55:23,360
Speaker 1: We'll call her Aunt Mary.

3624
02:55:23,480 --> 02:55:27,240
Speaker 2: That is interesting, suggested that I become a substitute teacher

3625
02:55:27,560 --> 02:55:29,840
Speaker 2: in Alabama. You just need a high school diploma and

3626
02:55:29,879 --> 02:55:32,120
Speaker 2: a clean background check to get a sub license.

3627
02:55:32,280 --> 02:55:33,760
Speaker 1: So since I indeed had.

3628
02:55:33,680 --> 02:55:36,039
Speaker 2: A diploma and have not yet been caught by any

3629
02:55:36,080 --> 02:55:41,520
Speaker 2: of my felonies, winkie face, I qualified. Wait any of

3630
02:55:41,600 --> 02:55:42,200
Speaker 2: the felonies.

3631
02:55:43,200 --> 02:55:45,120
Speaker 1: She hasn't been caught front of her felonies.

3632
02:55:45,879 --> 02:55:48,400
Speaker 2: Oh man, wait, did you just.

3633
02:55:48,480 --> 02:55:50,920
Speaker 3: Imply that your cousin married another.

3634
02:55:50,720 --> 02:55:55,520
Speaker 5: Cousin who she heard Alabama. That's why she said no.

3635
02:55:55,600 --> 02:56:00,119
Speaker 3: No, because she said third cousin biologically, first cousin legally.

3636
02:56:00,160 --> 02:56:02,680
Speaker 2: She was saying that because she calls her aunt Mary

3637
02:56:02,920 --> 02:56:05,160
Speaker 2: instead instead of cousin.

3638
02:56:06,720 --> 02:56:10,040
Speaker 6: I'm a little confused, but I'm pretty sure ciavon Wormer

3639
02:56:10,520 --> 02:56:13,080
Speaker 6: is that intentional tug tip. I love you, guys, and

3640
02:56:13,160 --> 02:56:15,280
Speaker 6: love being a little silly. Thank you for everyone who

3641
02:56:15,400 --> 02:56:17,840
Speaker 6: or whoever gifted my membership. Let's go.

3642
02:56:18,200 --> 02:56:22,400
Speaker 2: If Marcia von Wermer is even if it's your real name,

3643
02:56:22,480 --> 02:56:23,039
Speaker 2: that's amazing.

3644
02:56:23,120 --> 02:56:25,440
Speaker 1: If you made that your name, that's equally amazing.

3645
02:56:25,600 --> 02:56:26,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, I love it.

3646
02:56:27,959 --> 02:56:30,560
Speaker 2: So this was all three years ago. It hasn't been

3647
02:56:30,600 --> 02:56:33,959
Speaker 2: the smoothest of rides, but it's the job I always

3648
02:56:34,000 --> 02:56:36,920
Speaker 2: come back to. I have a high school I'm familiar

3649
02:56:36,959 --> 02:56:38,840
Speaker 2: with and where the teachers and students know me, and

3650
02:56:38,840 --> 02:56:41,480
Speaker 2: I've established a great rapport with many of them. I've

3651
02:56:41,520 --> 02:56:44,080
Speaker 2: been called the fruitfly of subs though, because apparently a

3652
02:56:44,160 --> 02:56:49,080
Speaker 2: majority of the kids that I converse with, because apparently

3653
02:56:49,480 --> 02:56:52,400
Speaker 2: a majority of the kids that I converse with the

3654
02:56:52,520 --> 02:56:57,960
Speaker 2: most are LGBTQA. Plus they call her fruitfly.

3655
02:56:58,520 --> 02:56:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, what does that mean?

3656
02:57:00,400 --> 02:57:02,680
Speaker 3: Because it's like a like people call it.

3657
02:57:03,000 --> 02:57:08,480
Speaker 6: Oh, I get it now. Thanks Deanna, B and G

3658
02:57:08,879 --> 02:57:11,680
Speaker 6: for horny two bucks, horny jail for all of us.

3659
02:57:11,959 --> 02:57:14,640
Speaker 6: That is, it is getting to the dark times, the

3660
02:57:14,840 --> 02:57:16,480
Speaker 6: darkest of the dark times.

3661
02:57:17,480 --> 02:57:19,240
Speaker 2: There are also some of the kids who call me

3662
02:57:19,440 --> 02:57:23,680
Speaker 2: auntie or friend not sex. Look at the sign, look

3663
02:57:23,760 --> 02:57:26,119
Speaker 2: at it, show them Sophia loud and proud.

3664
02:57:26,320 --> 02:57:28,160
Speaker 5: Can we get no sex animation?

3665
02:57:28,520 --> 02:57:42,800
Speaker 2: Yea animation and then there could be a sex innovation. Yeah,

3666
02:57:43,360 --> 02:57:45,800
Speaker 2: to compliment, we must have both sides of the going

3667
02:57:45,840 --> 02:57:48,920
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen. There are also some of the kids

3668
02:57:48,959 --> 02:57:52,760
Speaker 2: who call me auntie or friend not friend friend. I

3669
02:57:53,000 --> 02:57:56,520
Speaker 2: still don't know how to feel about the majority of

3670
02:57:56,640 --> 02:57:59,320
Speaker 2: them telling me they think I look thirty five to

3671
02:57:59,440 --> 02:58:00,360
Speaker 2: forty two, But.

3672
02:58:00,920 --> 02:58:01,600
Speaker 1: What can I do?

3673
02:58:02,840 --> 02:58:06,000
Speaker 2: That's kids, That's true. It's not as easy as being

3674
02:58:06,040 --> 02:58:09,160
Speaker 2: a sub. There there are hard days, difficult days, and

3675
02:58:09,280 --> 02:58:12,200
Speaker 2: excruciatingly painful days where I end up crying in my

3676
02:58:12,320 --> 02:58:13,320
Speaker 2: car at the end of the day.

3677
02:58:13,480 --> 02:58:15,000
Speaker 1: Oh, but I love my job.

3678
02:58:15,480 --> 02:58:18,520
Speaker 2: There are also there are also good days and great days,

3679
02:58:18,600 --> 02:58:20,640
Speaker 2: and I wouldn't trade those for the world.

3680
02:58:21,200 --> 02:58:23,959
Speaker 1: I've graduated. I've graduated seniors stop.

3681
02:58:23,800 --> 02:58:26,240
Speaker 2: By and visit me when they visit their regular teachers,

3682
02:58:26,520 --> 02:58:28,760
Speaker 2: and I've had my heart tickled by students telling me

3683
02:58:28,879 --> 02:58:32,000
Speaker 2: that they're glad that they met me. Also sweet, I'm

3684
02:58:32,040 --> 02:58:34,320
Speaker 2: currently working on getting my degree to become a full

3685
02:58:34,360 --> 02:58:35,160
Speaker 2: time English teacher.

3686
02:58:35,280 --> 02:58:35,760
Speaker 1: Congrats.

3687
02:58:36,360 --> 02:58:39,400
Speaker 2: After that, I plan on getting my ESL certificate and

3688
02:58:39,640 --> 02:58:42,040
Speaker 2: I have and I will be learning Spanish and Creole

3689
02:58:42,400 --> 02:58:44,560
Speaker 2: as we have more than two Haitian students in the

3690
02:58:44,600 --> 02:58:48,800
Speaker 2: count in the county and that's more than enough justification

3691
02:58:48,920 --> 02:58:50,880
Speaker 2: for me to learn it. Also because one of my

3692
02:58:51,040 --> 02:58:52,920
Speaker 2: crew is Haitian and I would love to be able

3693
02:58:52,959 --> 02:58:55,520
Speaker 2: to communicate with her and her sister in their native language.

3694
02:58:55,840 --> 02:58:59,480
Speaker 2: I believe missing auditions was what happened, was what needed

3695
02:58:59,520 --> 02:59:02,560
Speaker 2: to happen for me to find my calling, and I

3696
02:59:02,680 --> 02:59:06,320
Speaker 2: have never looked back. Also, Riley, per my last story,

3697
02:59:06,640 --> 02:59:10,000
Speaker 2: I'm doing better in micro econ thanks to Google, but

3698
02:59:10,160 --> 02:59:11,320
Speaker 2: my English professor suck.

3699
02:59:11,440 --> 02:59:13,480
Speaker 1: So we'll see how things go.

3700
02:59:13,800 --> 02:59:13,920
Speaker 5: Now.

3701
02:59:14,080 --> 02:59:17,480
Speaker 1: That is a okop submitted story.

3702
02:59:17,600 --> 02:59:20,080
Speaker 4: Let's go love our peeps.

3703
02:59:20,320 --> 02:59:22,320
Speaker 5: That's I don't think she's here right now, but whenever

3704
02:59:22,360 --> 02:59:23,960
Speaker 5: she watched this, she's gonna be like, dang it.

3705
02:59:24,320 --> 02:59:26,800
Speaker 2: Right should have been here, should have been here, and

3706
02:59:26,920 --> 02:59:28,760
Speaker 2: if you do pop in here, let us know and

3707
02:59:28,879 --> 02:59:31,320
Speaker 2: call for for zero five to wight six five sixty seven.

3708
02:59:31,240 --> 02:59:33,400
Speaker 1: Or text us and we'll chat with you.

3709
02:59:33,640 --> 02:59:35,560
Speaker 6: Rachel had to thanks for the two bucks. Leave your

3710
02:59:35,600 --> 02:59:37,440
Speaker 6: thirsty fans alone, so.

3711
02:59:37,720 --> 02:59:42,160
Speaker 2: The uh no way. Maria van Wormer, it's my real name.

3712
02:59:42,520 --> 02:59:47,000
Speaker 6: Whoa literally it's so mad at the worm army since birth,

3713
02:59:47,480 --> 02:59:51,040
Speaker 6: the Lord to the Queen and shadow Pumpkin. Thanks for

3714
02:59:51,080 --> 02:59:52,880
Speaker 6: the one fifty three red hearts.

3715
02:59:53,160 --> 02:59:53,800
Speaker 2: We appreciate you.

3716
02:59:53,959 --> 02:59:54,520
Speaker 1: We appreciate it.

3717
02:59:55,840 --> 02:59:56,879
Speaker 6: Von O welma.

3718
02:59:58,320 --> 02:59:58,760
Speaker 2: W a.

3719
02:59:59,280 --> 03:00:02,640
Speaker 1: It's Wormer. Now for the queen.

3720
03:00:04,760 --> 03:00:06,200
Speaker 6: Man, should we do a call?

3721
03:00:08,080 --> 03:00:11,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got one. Yeah, it's kind of the DNA story.

3722
03:00:14,879 --> 03:00:16,280
Speaker 5: Let me pull it up and pull it up.

3723
03:00:16,600 --> 03:00:19,720
Speaker 6: Pull it up, pull it up, but it cut.

3724
03:00:21,320 --> 03:00:22,720
Speaker 2: So I want to see your gut.

3725
03:00:23,000 --> 03:00:27,560
Speaker 6: Uh pull pull So.

3726
03:00:30,600 --> 03:00:33,720
Speaker 5: Here it is am I the a hole for not

3727
03:00:33,840 --> 03:00:36,400
Speaker 5: wanting to do a DNA test because my father's side

3728
03:00:36,480 --> 03:00:42,440
Speaker 5: of the family are are renaissance people. Basically, her father

3729
03:00:42,560 --> 03:00:44,320
Speaker 5: has like over fifty children.

3730
03:00:45,600 --> 03:00:47,600
Speaker 6: Is that what it means to be a renaissance man?

3731
03:00:48,280 --> 03:00:51,000
Speaker 6: I did not the children.

3732
03:00:51,760 --> 03:00:54,960
Speaker 3: Damn, that's are.

3733
03:00:54,560 --> 03:00:56,800
Speaker 1: Just getting getting fun.

3734
03:00:56,879 --> 03:00:58,840
Speaker 5: Fact they have the same area code as me. So

3735
03:00:59,600 --> 03:01:02,959
Speaker 5: they might be from where I'm from. So if they

3736
03:01:03,000 --> 03:01:05,760
Speaker 5: have fifty brothers in a way, maybe.

3737
03:01:05,840 --> 03:01:09,440
Speaker 6: Maybe later Yeah, maybe you're related fifty. I want I

3738
03:01:09,520 --> 03:01:12,600
Speaker 6: want to know how you found out about your fifty siblings? Yeah,

3739
03:01:13,600 --> 03:01:15,039
Speaker 6: and have you even met all of them?

3740
03:01:15,240 --> 03:01:18,440
Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh wait, till that down right?

3741
03:01:22,040 --> 03:01:25,560
Speaker 10: Hi, everybody, Hello, what are we talking with?

3742
03:01:25,720 --> 03:01:25,959
Speaker 5: Hey?

3743
03:01:27,000 --> 03:01:28,439
Speaker 10: There should Dia Bright.

3744
03:01:29,959 --> 03:01:30,520
Speaker 2: Dia Bright.

3745
03:01:31,600 --> 03:01:35,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, that's what my that's what my show is. My

3746
03:01:36,520 --> 03:01:40,959
Speaker 10: screen name is your okay? Okay, well, thank.

3747
03:01:40,800 --> 03:01:44,560
Speaker 6: You for calling in, Dia Bright. So we have a

3748
03:01:44,680 --> 03:01:48,680
Speaker 6: question for you. How did you find out that your

3749
03:01:48,760 --> 03:01:51,160
Speaker 6: dad had fifty other children?

3750
03:01:52,600 --> 03:01:54,480
Speaker 10: Okay, we'll be a backstory.

3751
03:01:54,879 --> 03:01:55,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, hit us with it.

3752
03:01:56,000 --> 03:02:00,959
Speaker 10: My grandfather had sex with my grandmother and I found

3753
03:02:01,000 --> 03:02:04,959
Speaker 10: out I had my grandmother had seventeen children from ten different.

3754
03:02:05,520 --> 03:02:08,760
Speaker 6: From just this just them having sex with each other.

3755
03:02:10,200 --> 03:02:15,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, damn, Bramy. They're putting in work for real.

3756
03:02:16,440 --> 03:02:16,720
Speaker 10: Okay.

3757
03:02:16,840 --> 03:02:19,039
Speaker 2: My father is a twin Okay.

3758
03:02:22,040 --> 03:02:22,440
Speaker 9: And he.

3759
03:02:24,840 --> 03:02:28,959
Speaker 2: We wait, you're cutting out a little bit. We're losing here,

3760
03:02:29,040 --> 03:02:33,320
Speaker 2: We're losing uh, come back, don't lose me.

3761
03:02:34,080 --> 03:02:34,600
Speaker 6: Are you here?

3762
03:02:34,760 --> 03:02:35,000
Speaker 2: Still?

3763
03:02:35,200 --> 03:02:35,400
Speaker 6: Yeah?

3764
03:02:36,040 --> 03:02:36,240
Speaker 10: Yeah?

3765
03:02:36,680 --> 03:02:41,080
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, So all right, tell us a guy your

3766
03:02:41,120 --> 03:02:42,000
Speaker 6: father was a twin.

3767
03:02:43,560 --> 03:02:51,480
Speaker 10: Twin and they've seven times seven times. Yeah, but he

3768
03:02:51,879 --> 03:02:54,760
Speaker 10: but when I was younger, he had sex with my babysitters,

3769
03:02:54,800 --> 03:03:00,880
Speaker 10: my mom's, my mom's friends, acquaintances. My father and my

3770
03:03:00,959 --> 03:03:07,120
Speaker 10: twin his twin brother were danced for Elvis and was

3771
03:03:07,560 --> 03:03:08,920
Speaker 10: modeling back in the seventies.

3772
03:03:10,560 --> 03:03:11,000
Speaker 2: Do you know who?

3773
03:03:11,840 --> 03:03:14,760
Speaker 6: Wait, who danced for Elvis? Let's dance for Elvis.

3774
03:03:14,879 --> 03:03:19,320
Speaker 10: Yeah, my father danced for Elvis. Riley was from I

3775
03:03:19,440 --> 03:03:22,000
Speaker 10: lived in Nashville, North Carolina. But I'm not from Asheville,

3776
03:03:22,200 --> 03:03:24,800
Speaker 10: North Carolina. Was actually born in Arcadia, California.

3777
03:03:25,000 --> 03:03:25,960
Speaker 8: I see, I see.

3778
03:03:26,879 --> 03:03:28,840
Speaker 2: Wait so he just like.

3779
03:03:30,560 --> 03:03:33,000
Speaker 6: So your dad just hooked up with everyone that moved.

3780
03:03:37,280 --> 03:03:41,039
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Oh he danced when I was younger.

3781
03:03:41,120 --> 03:03:43,119
Speaker 6: But your dad danced for Elvis.

3782
03:03:44,280 --> 03:03:45,840
Speaker 10: Yeah, my father and his twin brother.

3783
03:03:46,120 --> 03:03:48,400
Speaker 6: Oh my so he could shake boy.

3784
03:03:49,600 --> 03:03:51,160
Speaker 10: Oh he's all right.

3785
03:03:51,400 --> 03:03:52,800
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

3786
03:03:53,200 --> 03:03:54,840
Speaker 6: And he was probably pretty hot too.

3787
03:03:56,400 --> 03:03:57,800
Speaker 10: In the seventies.

3788
03:03:57,920 --> 03:04:01,200
Speaker 2: Yes, content, Oh my god.

3789
03:04:01,360 --> 03:04:04,440
Speaker 6: Okay, So did you know this growing up that he

3790
03:04:04,640 --> 03:04:07,320
Speaker 6: was just you know, like prolific.

3791
03:04:08,640 --> 03:04:11,080
Speaker 10: Yes, I knew my father was a whore.

3792
03:04:13,480 --> 03:04:15,840
Speaker 2: When did you find that out? Like, how old were you? Yeah?

3793
03:04:17,920 --> 03:04:21,280
Speaker 10: Well, I was three years old. And he was having

3794
03:04:21,520 --> 03:04:26,560
Speaker 10: he had sex with my baby, bought me in my room, oh,

3795
03:04:26,879 --> 03:04:30,040
Speaker 10: physically lost me in the room while my mom was

3796
03:04:30,120 --> 03:04:30,480
Speaker 10: at work.

3797
03:04:32,040 --> 03:04:34,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Jesus Christ.

3798
03:04:35,240 --> 03:04:39,480
Speaker 10: My mom told me this. Sorry that when when I

3799
03:04:39,640 --> 03:04:42,680
Speaker 10: was when I was baking for six I was still

3800
03:04:42,720 --> 03:04:45,760
Speaker 10: in the tummy. She was six months pregnant. A girl

3801
03:04:45,840 --> 03:04:48,360
Speaker 10: called my called her I was a friend of prose

3802
03:04:48,400 --> 03:04:52,640
Speaker 10: and said, let my father know, let's call him ruff

3803
03:04:53,320 --> 03:05:00,840
Speaker 10: that I just had twins, Rusty, Rusty and Randy. They're

3804
03:05:00,879 --> 03:05:05,560
Speaker 10: both girls, but with Rusty and Nandy. Oh anyway, so

3805
03:05:06,320 --> 03:05:10,560
Speaker 10: my father is a huge alcoholic and drug user, et cetera,

3806
03:05:10,600 --> 03:05:14,959
Speaker 10: et cetera. But when I was in my teenage years,

3807
03:05:15,800 --> 03:05:19,880
Speaker 10: well before that, I was at my mom's my father's

3808
03:05:19,920 --> 03:05:23,959
Speaker 10: house when I was eight years old, and I heard

3809
03:05:24,879 --> 03:05:27,840
Speaker 10: a woman say to him he was married by he

3810
03:05:27,959 --> 03:05:31,600
Speaker 10: was married with another woman woman, by the way, I'm

3811
03:05:31,640 --> 03:05:33,400
Speaker 10: fixing to have your I'm going to have your baby.

3812
03:05:33,440 --> 03:05:35,879
Speaker 10: He's like, have an abortion, have an abortion. And he's

3813
03:05:35,959 --> 03:05:38,200
Speaker 10: like she's like, no, I'm not going to do that.

3814
03:05:38,800 --> 03:05:41,000
Speaker 10: And I was like, I was in the same damn room.

3815
03:05:41,720 --> 03:05:45,680
Speaker 6: Oh my god, So what's your relationship now with your father?

3816
03:05:46,600 --> 03:05:50,480
Speaker 10: I don't speak to him. He's an alcoholic and he

3817
03:05:51,480 --> 03:05:53,840
Speaker 10: drank himself to the point where he's in the wheelchair.

3818
03:05:53,920 --> 03:05:58,760
Speaker 6: Now, okay, well hopefully that's prolificness.

3819
03:06:00,080 --> 03:06:02,320
Speaker 10: My father told me at the age of fifteen, when

3820
03:06:02,400 --> 03:06:06,200
Speaker 10: he was drunk, that he had over fifty brothers and

3821
03:06:06,360 --> 03:06:09,440
Speaker 10: I had over fifty brothers and sisters. So and that

3822
03:06:09,720 --> 03:06:12,560
Speaker 10: my uncle was winning the winning the bet because he

3823
03:06:12,640 --> 03:06:14,080
Speaker 10: had sixty Ah.

3824
03:06:15,760 --> 03:06:19,880
Speaker 5: The bet that family reunion.

3825
03:06:19,959 --> 03:06:23,440
Speaker 6: Mostly, Yeah, have you met, like, how many of your

3826
03:06:23,760 --> 03:06:26,160
Speaker 6: your brothers and sisters have you met?

3827
03:06:27,040 --> 03:06:27,280
Speaker 10: Three?

3828
03:06:28,760 --> 03:06:29,040
Speaker 8: Wow?

3829
03:06:29,200 --> 03:06:30,280
Speaker 2: Bro, you got you got?

3830
03:06:32,000 --> 03:06:33,879
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you could be walking.

3831
03:06:34,000 --> 03:06:36,920
Speaker 10: The DNA test because I you know, my I don't

3832
03:06:36,959 --> 03:06:39,840
Speaker 10: want to scare my my street misty kids.

3833
03:06:40,160 --> 03:06:40,360
Speaker 9: Yeah.

3834
03:06:42,560 --> 03:06:44,600
Speaker 10: Yeah, I want to scare my three kids.

3835
03:06:45,440 --> 03:06:49,520
Speaker 6: And also like I feel I feel like you know,

3836
03:06:49,920 --> 03:06:51,880
Speaker 6: when when you do the twenty three and me stuff

3837
03:06:51,879 --> 03:06:53,840
Speaker 6: and you like people find out they're related to you,

3838
03:06:53,959 --> 03:06:56,120
Speaker 6: like they want to get in contact with reach out,

3839
03:06:56,320 --> 03:06:59,959
Speaker 6: you know, So it just open up a can of worms.

3840
03:07:00,440 --> 03:07:03,680
Speaker 10: Texting emails from people from like over sixty people saying Hey,

3841
03:07:03,760 --> 03:07:06,680
Speaker 10: I'm related to you or even my uncle, Hey, we're

3842
03:07:07,120 --> 03:07:12,000
Speaker 10: my cousins. Yeah, you know, my father, I don't want

3843
03:07:12,000 --> 03:07:12,680
Speaker 10: to know your father.

3844
03:07:13,320 --> 03:07:17,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, so all right, So so the question is should

3845
03:07:17,200 --> 03:07:18,920
Speaker 6: you do a twenty three and me test or not?

3846
03:07:20,040 --> 03:07:28,080
Speaker 6: Is that the question? Well, that's the question. Yeah, hello,

3847
03:07:28,760 --> 03:07:29,640
Speaker 6: do we use lose you?

3848
03:07:31,200 --> 03:07:31,800
Speaker 1: We'll never know.

3849
03:07:32,480 --> 03:07:33,520
Speaker 6: We may have lost her.

3850
03:07:33,800 --> 03:07:34,920
Speaker 10: Okay, there you are there.

3851
03:07:35,200 --> 03:07:35,400
Speaker 8: Hello.

3852
03:07:37,959 --> 03:07:40,640
Speaker 6: So the question is will you do a twenty three

3853
03:07:40,640 --> 03:07:42,720
Speaker 6: and me test or not? Like like like, that's the question.

3854
03:07:43,959 --> 03:07:45,200
Speaker 6: I would love to know from you two.

3855
03:07:45,280 --> 03:07:47,560
Speaker 10: But I'm probably going to mete and it's going to

3856
03:07:47,600 --> 03:07:49,920
Speaker 10: be probably more than twenty three and me because I

3857
03:07:50,000 --> 03:07:54,280
Speaker 10: want my kids to know because they're getting older, what

3858
03:07:54,480 --> 03:07:57,640
Speaker 10: genetic makeup so they.

3859
03:07:57,640 --> 03:07:58,400
Speaker 2: Have going on.

3860
03:08:00,640 --> 03:08:03,920
Speaker 10: But my grandmother showed my father, Hey, you can have

3861
03:08:04,000 --> 03:08:06,560
Speaker 10: sex with all these people and not be stuck with

3862
03:08:06,640 --> 03:08:07,640
Speaker 10: the kids. You know what I'm saying?

3863
03:08:09,600 --> 03:08:14,840
Speaker 2: What an insane like logic? Yeah, I have so many children.

3864
03:08:14,520 --> 03:08:19,160
Speaker 6: That Akamori says, you really should love. Bubble says, that'll

3865
03:08:19,200 --> 03:08:21,760
Speaker 6: be insane, but worth it. I mean, I think, like

3866
03:08:21,959 --> 03:08:25,720
Speaker 6: for your like, for your kid's sake, for the genetic makeup,

3867
03:08:25,879 --> 03:08:28,640
Speaker 6: like and understanding what you might be at risk for

3868
03:08:28,920 --> 03:08:31,200
Speaker 6: or not risk for. I think it could be good

3869
03:08:31,320 --> 03:08:33,680
Speaker 6: to do the DNA test, But I believe there is

3870
03:08:33,760 --> 03:08:39,040
Speaker 6: a way to not have to share that information to everyone. Like,

3871
03:08:39,080 --> 03:08:40,160
Speaker 6: I think you could do the DNA.

3872
03:08:40,480 --> 03:08:43,199
Speaker 10: Anybody knows that, please message.

3873
03:08:44,360 --> 03:08:46,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm pretty sure you can. So maybe you just

3874
03:08:46,200 --> 03:08:48,040
Speaker 6: do it without unless you want to meet, you know,

3875
03:08:48,200 --> 03:08:50,400
Speaker 6: meet the whole family and have a family reunion. But

3876
03:08:52,120 --> 03:08:55,400
Speaker 6: it might be a stampede. But I say go for it.

3877
03:08:55,640 --> 03:08:59,920
Speaker 6: But maybe, uh, don't share your DNA with everyone else.

3878
03:09:00,080 --> 03:09:03,440
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, I'm like your father who.

3879
03:09:03,400 --> 03:09:07,360
Speaker 2: Shared his DNA with everyone everyone everyone.

3880
03:09:08,000 --> 03:09:10,199
Speaker 6: Well, thank you so much for calling it and telling

3881
03:09:10,280 --> 03:09:12,760
Speaker 6: us your story. And I'm glad your dad has slowed

3882
03:09:12,840 --> 03:09:13,280
Speaker 6: down a bit.

3883
03:09:14,920 --> 03:09:16,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm not sure about that.

3884
03:09:16,800 --> 03:09:18,640
Speaker 2: What and a wheelchair?

3885
03:09:18,720 --> 03:09:21,720
Speaker 10: Still he's having sex with the people in the home,

3886
03:09:22,160 --> 03:09:25,720
Speaker 10: even with I had a girlfriend. The last time I

3887
03:09:25,800 --> 03:09:31,680
Speaker 10: know that. I talked to my brother, my half brothers.

3888
03:09:31,080 --> 03:09:31,560
Speaker 5: On a quitter.

3889
03:09:31,879 --> 03:09:35,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, okay, like what he did was awful,

3890
03:09:35,240 --> 03:09:36,920
Speaker 2: but man has rizzed.

3891
03:09:40,080 --> 03:09:44,360
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, there's no way I would do that.

3892
03:09:47,280 --> 03:09:50,600
Speaker 10: There's so many kids that need parents out there.

3893
03:09:51,200 --> 03:09:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, this guy was never around for me.

3894
03:09:54,280 --> 03:09:56,400
Speaker 10: But I mean there's so many kids. You know who

3895
03:09:57,040 --> 03:10:01,160
Speaker 10: who questioned Okay, who's my father? Yeah, I do that

3896
03:10:01,320 --> 03:10:03,560
Speaker 10: DNA test, and god, I hope.

3897
03:10:05,040 --> 03:10:08,119
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like that might be opening up too much,

3898
03:10:08,240 --> 03:10:10,480
Speaker 6: so do the DNA test, but don't share the DNA.

3899
03:10:11,760 --> 03:10:13,560
Speaker 6: Thank you so much for calling in and trusting us

3900
03:10:13,600 --> 03:10:14,800
Speaker 6: with your story. Really appreciate it.

3901
03:10:16,240 --> 03:10:18,480
Speaker 10: Yeah, I wanted to let you know that my girlfriend

3902
03:10:18,520 --> 03:10:22,879
Speaker 10: got me into OKOP about the way, and I've been

3903
03:10:22,959 --> 03:10:24,000
Speaker 10: addicted ever since.

3904
03:10:24,320 --> 03:10:25,960
Speaker 2: Let's go, Let's freaking go.

3905
03:10:26,480 --> 03:10:28,600
Speaker 6: Thank you being for being part of the worm army.

3906
03:10:28,840 --> 03:10:29,120
Speaker 2: Money.

3907
03:10:29,160 --> 03:10:31,440
Speaker 10: You guys are going to get a big, big thing.

3908
03:10:31,520 --> 03:10:34,480
Speaker 10: And Riley, I haven't forgot your your energy drinks.

3909
03:10:35,480 --> 03:10:36,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you so much.

3910
03:10:36,879 --> 03:10:39,240
Speaker 6: Submitted to our po box. Thanks for calling it. We'll

3911
03:10:39,240 --> 03:10:39,840
Speaker 6: talk to you soon.

3912
03:10:40,879 --> 03:10:41,160
Speaker 9: Thank you.

3913
03:10:41,360 --> 03:10:41,600
Speaker 2: Bye.

3914
03:10:42,080 --> 03:10:47,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's crazy. Wow, fifty fifty kids and his.

3915
03:10:47,560 --> 03:10:52,920
Speaker 2: Twin brother beat him at sixty in soro like stop

3916
03:10:53,320 --> 03:10:54,320
Speaker 2: and it's like stop.

3917
03:10:54,480 --> 03:10:59,920
Speaker 6: That's like sixty instances, Like imagine how much they were

3918
03:11:00,400 --> 03:11:01,240
Speaker 6: sling and wang.

3919
03:11:01,360 --> 03:11:06,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, having sex sixty times. That's crazy.

3920
03:11:10,840 --> 03:11:18,000
Speaker 6: Right, Oh, Big Protein Wild credits a bond. Thanks for

3921
03:11:18,240 --> 03:11:21,440
Speaker 6: the five dollars thirty cents. It's one ten am here,

3922
03:11:21,560 --> 03:11:23,720
Speaker 6: good night, little sillies. Well, thanks for joining us for

3923
03:11:23,720 --> 03:11:25,760
Speaker 6: the stream, and Gina, thanks for the twenty five bucks.

3924
03:11:25,800 --> 03:11:28,720
Speaker 6: I'm worming back into the stream Ai guys.

3925
03:11:28,959 --> 03:11:32,440
Speaker 3: Also Warmer it is your real name.

3926
03:11:32,720 --> 03:11:34,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's freaking awesome, legendary.

3927
03:11:35,440 --> 03:11:38,080
Speaker 6: But shall we get back into another story.

3928
03:11:38,480 --> 03:11:39,080
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

3929
03:11:39,680 --> 03:11:44,640
Speaker 6: Let's freaking go. I think Sophia, you need to read one.

3930
03:11:44,800 --> 03:11:49,200
Speaker 6: Oh I believe this is the third one in three

3931
03:11:49,200 --> 03:11:52,959
Speaker 6: point fifty two. This is the wholesome stream. I think

3932
03:11:53,600 --> 03:11:59,959
Speaker 6: one third, one eighth, three sixty eight blue ALKI y'all

3933
03:12:00,200 --> 03:12:05,039
Speaker 6: is going to traumatize Sophia. That was wild man, sweetly

3934
03:12:05,280 --> 03:12:09,360
Speaker 6: because that would mean there would would be more half siblings. Yeah,

3935
03:12:09,600 --> 03:12:14,600
Speaker 6: like so many, so many, Oh, Tara dexter, but not

3936
03:12:14,640 --> 03:12:16,840
Speaker 6: gonna lie sixty times is insane?

3937
03:12:17,240 --> 03:12:19,920
Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you. They agree with me.

3938
03:12:20,360 --> 03:12:22,040
Speaker 3: I don't think anyone didn't agree with you. You just

3939
03:12:22,080 --> 03:12:22,640
Speaker 3: said it weirdly.

3940
03:12:23,080 --> 03:12:26,400
Speaker 6: No, you're having sex sixty times. I don't think it's

3941
03:12:26,440 --> 03:12:28,360
Speaker 6: crazy if you have like a.

3942
03:12:28,400 --> 03:12:31,120
Speaker 3: Lot of girlfriend Oh oh, I thought I thought you

3943
03:12:31,200 --> 03:12:37,680
Speaker 3: meant like, wait, I just met period having sex sixty

3944
03:12:37,800 --> 03:12:39,400
Speaker 3: times over the course of a lifetime.

3945
03:12:39,879 --> 03:12:43,840
Speaker 6: Crazy Kimbily Jay and thanks for the two Australian bucks.

3946
03:12:43,879 --> 03:12:47,039
Speaker 6: Og Riley made me snort laugh in my silent office.

3947
03:12:47,680 --> 03:12:49,800
Speaker 6: What are you doing not telling your whole office about

3948
03:12:49,800 --> 03:12:51,800
Speaker 6: okop yeah, laugh like crazy.

3949
03:12:51,959 --> 03:12:54,080
Speaker 1: That's a whole workforce that could be liking this.

3950
03:12:54,240 --> 03:12:54,880
Speaker 4: Video right now.

3951
03:12:55,120 --> 03:12:58,440
Speaker 2: I would already like the stream, what the fuck come on?

3952
03:12:59,040 --> 03:12:59,880
Speaker 2: Like this stream?

3953
03:13:00,520 --> 03:13:03,680
Speaker 6: Like this stream? How long we have this stream left?

3954
03:13:04,160 --> 03:13:06,880
Speaker 5: We have forty five minutes left.

3955
03:13:07,160 --> 03:13:09,840
Speaker 6: We got time, We got time to hit me with

3956
03:13:09,920 --> 03:13:10,360
Speaker 6: this story.

3957
03:13:10,600 --> 03:13:16,280
Speaker 3: Ah right? Am I the am? I the a hole

3958
03:13:16,400 --> 03:13:19,360
Speaker 3: for divorcing my husband for putting a camera in our

3959
03:13:19,480 --> 03:13:27,080
Speaker 3: house to prove a point about me. Wait, I don't

3960
03:13:27,080 --> 03:13:30,040
Speaker 3: have the username. Hold on, it's from throwaway a high

3961
03:13:30,120 --> 03:13:34,360
Speaker 3: camera to who says It's been about a month since I,

3962
03:13:34,680 --> 03:13:38,160
Speaker 3: forty six female, found out my husband, forty seven male,

3963
03:13:38,560 --> 03:13:41,480
Speaker 3: had put a hidden camera in our living room to

3964
03:13:42,360 --> 03:13:44,640
Speaker 3: prove that I'm lazy and worthless.

3965
03:13:46,000 --> 03:13:49,280
Speaker 5: What WHOA, that's a very interesting reason to put in

3966
03:13:49,840 --> 03:13:50,280
Speaker 5: your house.

3967
03:13:50,520 --> 03:13:52,640
Speaker 6: I thought it would be. I thought a camera in

3968
03:13:52,680 --> 03:13:54,280
Speaker 6: the room would be like, oh, like, so I can

3969
03:13:54,360 --> 03:13:58,960
Speaker 6: take notes on you know, our sexy time, spicely sleep,

3970
03:13:59,160 --> 03:13:59,320
Speaker 6: you know.

3971
03:14:00,080 --> 03:14:02,560
Speaker 5: Thank you trust for the two bucks, your spicy sweet.

3972
03:14:02,560 --> 03:14:06,800
Speaker 6: I've filled out my application to dats out? Are people

3973
03:14:06,840 --> 03:14:07,320
Speaker 6: filled out?

3974
03:14:07,400 --> 03:14:07,720
Speaker 2: Actually?

3975
03:14:07,920 --> 03:14:10,080
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah we had fourteen. Last time I looked at

3976
03:14:10,080 --> 03:14:10,840
Speaker 5: We're like god.

3977
03:14:10,959 --> 03:14:14,520
Speaker 6: Shadow Bumpkin thanks for the five gifted memberships.

3978
03:14:15,120 --> 03:14:19,240
Speaker 3: Let's go alrighty. It was a small disguised camera hidden

3979
03:14:19,320 --> 03:14:21,920
Speaker 3: inside what looked like a charging block. He stuck one

3980
03:14:22,000 --> 03:14:25,320
Speaker 3: in a living room outlet. We have three kids sixteen female,

3981
03:14:25,400 --> 03:14:28,560
Speaker 3: fourteen male, and twelve female, who all have a bunch

3982
03:14:28,600 --> 03:14:31,960
Speaker 3: of chargers and such, so I did not suspect. The

3983
03:14:32,040 --> 03:14:34,400
Speaker 3: point my husband was trying to prove was that my

3984
03:14:34,560 --> 03:14:38,400
Speaker 3: administrative skills are not up to the super stay at

3985
03:14:38,440 --> 03:14:42,440
Speaker 3: home mom standards. He as a high earner, deserves.

3986
03:14:43,280 --> 03:14:44,920
Speaker 2: Yes, what what the fuck?

3987
03:14:45,400 --> 03:14:45,760
Speaker 3: Yikes?

3988
03:14:46,160 --> 03:14:50,920
Speaker 6: Your administrative skills interesting? Like, He's like, oh, you're not.

3989
03:14:51,400 --> 03:14:54,440
Speaker 6: You're not like helping out around the house to my

3990
03:14:55,879 --> 03:14:56,760
Speaker 6: desired rates.

3991
03:14:56,920 --> 03:14:59,640
Speaker 1: I think I need to hire a replacement for you.

3992
03:15:00,000 --> 03:15:02,360
Speaker 6: If you're such a high earner, fucking get someone else

3993
03:15:02,400 --> 03:15:04,000
Speaker 6: to do it. Yeah, pay someone else to do it,

3994
03:15:04,360 --> 03:15:07,400
Speaker 6: big money bag creature, Blaze says a divorce.

3995
03:15:09,080 --> 03:15:11,879
Speaker 3: This all started after a situation where my twelve year

3996
03:15:11,879 --> 03:15:14,959
Speaker 3: old needed a permission slip signed and forms filled out

3997
03:15:15,040 --> 03:15:17,680
Speaker 3: in order to go on a class trip. I admit

3998
03:15:17,800 --> 03:15:21,480
Speaker 3: that things happened and we missed the submission deathline. I

3999
03:15:21,560 --> 03:15:23,280
Speaker 3: had made a note to fill out the forms on

4000
03:15:23,360 --> 03:15:25,640
Speaker 3: another day, since it was a task I needed to

4001
03:15:25,720 --> 03:15:31,720
Speaker 3: be one hundred percent focus on wait why why interesting?

4002
03:15:32,320 --> 03:15:33,920
Speaker 3: But it became the start of a new month, and

4003
03:15:34,040 --> 03:15:35,959
Speaker 3: that's when I do most of the shopping and tracking

4004
03:15:36,040 --> 03:15:39,680
Speaker 3: of household bills slash subscriptions. I do daily cleaning, but

4005
03:15:39,760 --> 03:15:42,960
Speaker 3: we use a service for deep cleaningsh landscaping that I

4006
03:15:43,040 --> 03:15:47,160
Speaker 3: had to supervise. Long story short, my sixteen year old

4007
03:15:47,240 --> 03:15:50,360
Speaker 3: calls my husband after picking up her sister saying she

4008
03:15:50,560 --> 03:15:53,560
Speaker 3: was crying because she can't go on her trip. My

4009
03:15:53,680 --> 03:15:56,120
Speaker 3: husband drives to the school to beg them to let

4010
03:15:56,200 --> 03:15:59,200
Speaker 3: him fill the forms out in the office. Thankfully they

4011
03:15:59,320 --> 03:15:59,720
Speaker 3: let him.

4012
03:15:59,760 --> 03:15:59,960
Speaker 4: Sence.

4013
03:16:00,120 --> 03:16:04,880
Speaker 3: It was the same day I apologized profusely. My husband,

4014
03:16:04,959 --> 03:16:07,840
Speaker 3: who is a self employed as an h fact technician,

4015
03:16:08,120 --> 03:16:10,720
Speaker 3: laid into me about how he has so many calls

4016
03:16:10,760 --> 03:16:14,400
Speaker 3: a day but still handles the administrative aspect of his job,

4017
03:16:14,640 --> 03:16:19,720
Speaker 3: communications and bookkeeping. I yelled because his work is concentrated,

4018
03:16:19,800 --> 03:16:21,720
Speaker 3: while my work at home has a bunch of moving

4019
03:16:21,800 --> 03:16:24,400
Speaker 3: parts and emotional labor as well, and I do it

4020
03:16:24,480 --> 03:16:27,680
Speaker 3: all behind the scenes. He digs his heels in about

4021
03:16:27,680 --> 03:16:30,120
Speaker 3: how I wasn't as busy and needed to do easy

4022
03:16:30,240 --> 03:16:34,600
Speaker 3: things better. Quote unquote easy things. A week later, he

4023
03:16:34,680 --> 03:16:36,920
Speaker 3: picks a fight about me not going that day to

4024
03:16:37,040 --> 03:16:40,520
Speaker 3: mail checks out to OH, about me not going that

4025
03:16:40,640 --> 03:16:43,080
Speaker 3: day to mail checks out to his employees when I

4026
03:16:43,120 --> 03:16:45,360
Speaker 3: could have done it. The next day, he admits to

4027
03:16:45,520 --> 03:16:49,920
Speaker 3: the camera and starts citing proof of times I was

4028
03:16:49,959 --> 03:16:53,600
Speaker 3: on my phone, and that automatically equals goofing off.

4029
03:16:54,040 --> 03:16:56,800
Speaker 6: So he's like, I don't believe you're doing enough around

4030
03:16:56,840 --> 03:17:00,400
Speaker 6: the house. I installed a camera and I'm taking notes. Yeah,

4031
03:17:00,480 --> 03:17:04,280
Speaker 6: on every time you're on your phone. That is, there's

4032
03:17:04,320 --> 03:17:06,320
Speaker 6: no trust in this relationship. I think this is divorce.

4033
03:17:06,360 --> 03:17:07,160
Speaker 6: I think it's divorce.

4034
03:17:07,440 --> 03:17:11,160
Speaker 3: I think the camera stuff is whack and big no, no,

4035
03:17:11,440 --> 03:17:16,000
Speaker 3: whack city. But if he had not taken video footage

4036
03:17:16,000 --> 03:17:18,240
Speaker 3: of her, I would have been on his side. What

4037
03:17:18,879 --> 03:17:22,840
Speaker 3: I like, if he hadn't been recording her, which is horrible. Yeah,

4038
03:17:22,840 --> 03:17:26,520
Speaker 3: and I like, definitely leave. I think that she does

4039
03:17:26,680 --> 03:17:28,039
Speaker 3: need to be more on top of things.

4040
03:17:28,400 --> 03:17:30,879
Speaker 6: So what like a bit basically the six year old

4041
03:17:31,040 --> 03:17:32,560
Speaker 6: was like, oh, like, where's.

4042
03:17:32,560 --> 03:17:33,360
Speaker 3: Where's my form?

4043
03:17:33,480 --> 03:17:34,200
Speaker 6: Where's my form?

4044
03:17:34,760 --> 03:17:34,920
Speaker 4: Yeah?

4045
03:17:34,920 --> 03:17:36,640
Speaker 3: And she was like, I need one hundred percent focus

4046
03:17:36,760 --> 03:17:38,160
Speaker 3: on signing a form.

4047
03:17:38,400 --> 03:17:43,000
Speaker 6: M sound like she can't multitask? Yes, she also does deserve.

4048
03:17:42,800 --> 03:17:43,440
Speaker 4: To be recorded.

4049
03:17:43,440 --> 03:17:46,840
Speaker 3: Who no, no, no, no, absolutely not. Yeah again, if

4050
03:17:46,920 --> 03:17:50,720
Speaker 3: he had not done this wild crazy thing, I would

4051
03:17:50,720 --> 03:17:52,480
Speaker 3: have been like, oh yeah, she does need to be

4052
03:17:52,560 --> 03:17:53,080
Speaker 3: more into.

4053
03:17:52,959 --> 03:17:56,959
Speaker 6: Okay, question does it change bad take from Samah? Does

4054
03:17:57,000 --> 03:17:58,120
Speaker 6: it change if?

4055
03:17:58,560 --> 03:17:58,680
Speaker 2: Uh?

4056
03:17:59,280 --> 03:18:01,560
Speaker 6: He just has a ring camera and it's just and

4057
03:18:01,760 --> 03:18:02,920
Speaker 6: like that's just like something.

4058
03:18:02,720 --> 03:18:03,600
Speaker 2: That they have in the house.

4059
03:18:03,879 --> 03:18:04,880
Speaker 1: But he's looking at it.

4060
03:18:05,680 --> 03:18:08,200
Speaker 6: But but oh he hid the camera. But this is

4061
03:18:08,280 --> 03:18:11,000
Speaker 6: this is a this is an alternative scenario versus a

4062
03:18:11,120 --> 03:18:13,800
Speaker 6: ring camera, and he's like goes through it and he's like, well, see,

4063
03:18:13,879 --> 03:18:16,040
Speaker 6: like look when you went past here, you're just like

4064
03:18:16,160 --> 03:18:16,640
Speaker 6: you just saw it.

4065
03:18:16,680 --> 03:18:18,000
Speaker 1: Why would he be going through it though?

4066
03:18:18,320 --> 03:18:20,840
Speaker 6: Like he's like he's like I've been working all day

4067
03:18:20,840 --> 03:18:22,640
Speaker 6: and he's like, really have you? And then he's like,

4068
03:18:22,720 --> 03:18:24,920
Speaker 6: let's look at the ring camera and then I see.

4069
03:18:24,840 --> 03:18:25,480
Speaker 10: So he.

4070
03:18:27,080 --> 03:18:29,640
Speaker 2: Retroactively. He's not like coming through.

4071
03:18:31,320 --> 03:18:31,920
Speaker 6: It exists.

4072
03:18:32,160 --> 03:18:39,320
Speaker 1: It exists. And then he's like that is okay, maybe

4073
03:18:39,360 --> 03:18:40,040
Speaker 1: a little extra.

4074
03:18:40,440 --> 03:18:45,360
Speaker 6: But so John is for recording your partner. Wow, this

4075
03:18:45,560 --> 03:18:46,160
Speaker 6: is where we are.

4076
03:18:46,400 --> 03:18:49,880
Speaker 2: John hates the gaze. John is for recording your partner.

4077
03:18:50,040 --> 03:18:55,040
Speaker 2: I am innocent ladies and gentlemen, and he talks to

4078
03:18:55,120 --> 03:18:59,680
Speaker 2: the third person. Wow about this guy.

4079
03:19:01,440 --> 03:19:02,840
Speaker 1: Anyways, let's keep going.

4080
03:19:02,920 --> 03:19:04,240
Speaker 3: There's only a little bit left to the story.

4081
03:19:04,400 --> 03:19:06,720
Speaker 1: Rachel had just said she's not his employee yet. Yes,

4082
03:19:06,879 --> 03:19:07,520
Speaker 1: that's the energy.

4083
03:19:07,640 --> 03:19:10,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was on my phone researching meals. So this

4084
03:19:10,760 --> 03:19:13,400
Speaker 3: is she's explaining why she was on the phone. I

4085
03:19:13,520 --> 03:19:15,920
Speaker 3: was on my phone researching meals to fit my daughter's

4086
03:19:15,959 --> 03:19:19,560
Speaker 3: dietary restrictions while keeping her healthy as a ballet dancer.

4087
03:19:20,160 --> 03:19:22,959
Speaker 3: I was looking into subscriptions for frozen but healthy meals

4088
03:19:23,160 --> 03:19:24,800
Speaker 3: she and the rest of us could have on the

4089
03:19:24,840 --> 03:19:28,520
Speaker 3: go or at home. The fact he took offense to me,

4090
03:19:28,600 --> 03:19:31,800
Speaker 3: occasionally lying down when I was researching, or that I

4091
03:19:31,879 --> 03:19:34,440
Speaker 3: had taken a TV break before preparing dinner did it

4092
03:19:34,520 --> 03:19:36,520
Speaker 3: for me. He knew that my days are crazy. During

4093
03:19:36,520 --> 03:19:38,320
Speaker 3: the first days of the month, which was when the

4094
03:19:38,320 --> 03:19:41,440
Speaker 3: permission slipped tobacle happened, I kicked him out of the house.

4095
03:19:41,920 --> 03:19:44,280
Speaker 3: It's been a month and friends have been saying that

4096
03:19:44,400 --> 03:19:46,879
Speaker 3: I'm missing the fact that there are others out there

4097
03:19:47,240 --> 03:19:49,600
Speaker 3: who would not disregard the things I do to make

4098
03:19:49,840 --> 03:19:53,199
Speaker 3: being high earning possible. I ended up seeing an attorney

4099
03:19:53,320 --> 03:19:57,200
Speaker 3: and just filed for divorce. Oh, because I feel violated

4100
03:19:57,360 --> 03:19:58,199
Speaker 3: and devalued.

4101
03:19:58,440 --> 03:20:03,360
Speaker 6: Yeah yet, and Frederick Black nicked thanks for making us

4102
03:20:03,440 --> 03:20:07,960
Speaker 6: feel valued and unviolated with that twenty bucks. I appreciate you.

4103
03:20:08,240 --> 03:20:13,000
Speaker 6: We appreciate Yeah, I'll totally understand divorcing over this because

4104
03:20:13,040 --> 03:20:16,200
Speaker 6: it's just like, who fucking that's a crazy thing to

4105
03:20:16,320 --> 03:20:19,640
Speaker 6: do to take a camera, plant a hidden camera for

4106
03:20:19,760 --> 03:20:20,480
Speaker 6: a form for.

4107
03:20:20,600 --> 03:20:24,840
Speaker 2: Something so like if if they do something for if

4108
03:20:24,879 --> 03:20:27,840
Speaker 2: they do something that heinous for something so benign, what

4109
03:20:28,080 --> 03:20:31,880
Speaker 2: happens when she does a worse effect? Exactly?

4110
03:20:31,920 --> 03:20:32,760
Speaker 1: You know, what do they do?

4111
03:20:33,120 --> 03:20:34,960
Speaker 3: I think this is a conversation that you could have.

4112
03:20:35,080 --> 03:20:37,040
Speaker 3: You could be like, hey, like if you need me

4113
03:20:37,240 --> 03:20:40,120
Speaker 3: to do that, like let me know, because like we

4114
03:20:40,200 --> 03:20:41,960
Speaker 3: need to make sure that our daughter's getting these forms

4115
03:20:41,959 --> 03:20:42,400
Speaker 3: filled out.

4116
03:20:43,600 --> 03:20:46,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, And it's like it's like, all right, relationships are

4117
03:20:46,120 --> 03:20:49,560
Speaker 6: all about trust. Hey, everyone joining the stream TLDR. Is

4118
03:20:49,760 --> 03:20:54,760
Speaker 6: this fucking nincompoop put a camera in his wife's room

4119
03:20:54,840 --> 03:20:58,200
Speaker 6: to prove that she's not working hard and and just

4120
03:20:58,280 --> 03:21:00,080
Speaker 6: like what I think that did is it totally he

4121
03:21:00,160 --> 03:21:02,520
Speaker 6: violates the trust of the relationship. We've been saying on

4122
03:21:02,640 --> 03:21:05,480
Speaker 6: the stream again and again, relationships are all about trust,

4123
03:21:05,840 --> 03:21:07,720
Speaker 6: and like even if she was in the wrong for

4124
03:21:07,879 --> 03:21:10,200
Speaker 6: like maybe not paying attention to all the things, he

4125
03:21:10,400 --> 03:21:13,360
Speaker 6: was so much more wrong because it's like it's like

4126
03:21:13,760 --> 03:21:16,080
Speaker 6: it's it's like ten times worse than going through your

4127
03:21:16,120 --> 03:21:18,000
Speaker 6: partner's phone. Yeah, ten times worse.

4128
03:21:18,080 --> 03:21:18,800
Speaker 3: It's such a.

4129
03:21:20,360 --> 03:21:22,879
Speaker 2: Frederick has woken.

4130
03:21:27,040 --> 03:21:32,600
Speaker 6: Holy we've never seen Frederick on this dream before. Frederick Locknick.

4131
03:21:32,760 --> 03:21:34,880
Speaker 6: Am I saying your name right, because that is a

4132
03:21:35,000 --> 03:21:37,840
Speaker 6: great Frederick locknick Is. I think one of my favorite

4133
03:21:37,920 --> 03:21:41,959
Speaker 6: names to say right now. That's great Frederick, Frederick, Frederick,

4134
03:21:42,440 --> 03:21:45,680
Speaker 6: Frederick's tongue twist, Frederick Locke.

4135
03:21:46,680 --> 03:21:48,480
Speaker 5: I think that puts us at like two hundred new

4136
03:21:48,560 --> 03:21:49,800
Speaker 5: members for the Dream.

4137
03:21:49,959 --> 03:21:54,760
Speaker 6: My god, Frederick, you dug you dirty, dirty, dirty dirty dog.

4138
03:21:54,920 --> 03:21:56,560
Speaker 6: I want to pet you, and I want to do

4139
03:21:56,760 --> 03:21:58,200
Speaker 6: you know what do you pet a dog so well

4140
03:21:58,280 --> 03:21:59,480
Speaker 6: it starts scratching itself?

4141
03:22:00,080 --> 03:22:00,200
Speaker 2: Right?

4142
03:22:02,120 --> 03:22:02,240
Speaker 3: You know?

4143
03:22:03,480 --> 03:22:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

4144
03:22:03,720 --> 03:22:05,360
Speaker 6: I love when I was petting a dog. Do that

4145
03:22:05,480 --> 03:22:07,920
Speaker 6: thing one more time, bro, I'm not going to ask

4146
03:22:08,360 --> 03:22:11,680
Speaker 6: Y Riley's Yeah, are trying to pit me out too much?

4147
03:22:12,400 --> 03:22:13,560
Speaker 6: I'm covering my privates.

4148
03:22:13,840 --> 03:22:14,080
Speaker 4: Okay.

4149
03:22:14,160 --> 03:22:18,360
Speaker 3: Anyway, but back to this story right that I was reading,

4150
03:22:19,720 --> 03:22:23,240
Speaker 3: there's actually a lot of comments that are calling Ope

4151
03:22:23,400 --> 03:22:23,960
Speaker 3: the asshole?

4152
03:22:24,680 --> 03:22:27,199
Speaker 2: WHOA yeah, okay, whoa?

4153
03:22:27,959 --> 03:22:28,280
Speaker 5: All right?

4154
03:22:28,320 --> 03:22:31,320
Speaker 6: Really quick to everyone in the chat, is op the like?

4155
03:22:31,600 --> 03:22:33,360
Speaker 6: I want to really, I want to know. Actually, is

4156
03:22:33,440 --> 03:22:35,440
Speaker 6: Opie the ahole or not the a hole?

4157
03:22:35,480 --> 03:22:36,080
Speaker 2: In your opinion?

4158
03:22:36,360 --> 03:22:38,039
Speaker 3: Yeah? Should I read this comment?

4159
03:22:38,320 --> 03:22:38,720
Speaker 2: Go for it?

4160
03:22:38,840 --> 03:22:39,080
Speaker 4: Okay?

4161
03:22:39,120 --> 03:22:43,080
Speaker 3: So flat broke Economists says you're irresponsible to the point

4162
03:22:43,120 --> 03:22:46,160
Speaker 3: of casually delaying pay to other people. People depend on

4163
03:22:46,240 --> 03:22:49,120
Speaker 3: paychecks and to you, it's no big deal if their

4164
03:22:49,160 --> 03:22:51,960
Speaker 3: paychecks arrive a day later. And that's referring to not

4165
03:22:52,120 --> 03:22:54,280
Speaker 3: going that day to mail checks out to his employees

4166
03:22:54,360 --> 03:22:56,560
Speaker 3: when I could have done it the next day. Uh.

4167
03:22:56,680 --> 03:23:00,280
Speaker 3: And then to sixteen year old calling my has been

4168
03:23:00,280 --> 03:23:02,800
Speaker 3: after picking up her sisters saying she was crying. Your

4169
03:23:02,879 --> 03:23:05,680
Speaker 3: kids are aware of how irresponsible you are, and call

4170
03:23:05,800 --> 03:23:07,960
Speaker 3: the working parent to come to school and sort at

4171
03:23:08,000 --> 03:23:11,240
Speaker 3: the mess you created which was causing your child to cry.

4172
03:23:11,879 --> 03:23:15,640
Speaker 3: And finally they're really going in to be I do

4173
03:23:15,840 --> 03:23:17,800
Speaker 3: daily cleaning, but we use a service for deep cleaning

4174
03:23:17,840 --> 03:23:20,520
Speaker 3: slash landscaping that I had to supervise. They say, you

4175
03:23:20,720 --> 03:23:23,520
Speaker 3: inflate your duties by claiming you need to supervise the

4176
03:23:23,560 --> 03:23:26,360
Speaker 3: housekeeper and landscaper when you could easily be present and

4177
03:23:26,520 --> 03:23:30,720
Speaker 3: sign permission slips slash research diet friendly meals slash mail checks.

4178
03:23:30,720 --> 03:23:33,400
Speaker 3: At the same time, I have a housekeeper. She doesn't

4179
03:23:33,400 --> 03:23:36,440
Speaker 3: need any supervision. Sometimes she's at the house alone. Even

4180
03:23:36,840 --> 03:23:39,280
Speaker 3: I don't think you're wrong for filing divorce. I think

4181
03:23:39,320 --> 03:23:41,480
Speaker 3: it's not going to go the way you expect. I

4182
03:23:41,560 --> 03:23:44,680
Speaker 3: think you filing for divorce is finally doing something to

4183
03:23:44,720 --> 03:23:46,880
Speaker 3: help out around the house. Your kids will live with

4184
03:23:46,959 --> 03:23:48,920
Speaker 3: their dad, who will pay for their food and shelter

4185
03:23:49,120 --> 03:23:52,000
Speaker 3: and sign their permission slips on time. You will move

4186
03:23:52,080 --> 03:23:54,640
Speaker 3: in with your parents and pay him child support.

4187
03:23:54,800 --> 03:23:57,640
Speaker 6: Oh my god, they really Okay, so what we do?

4188
03:23:57,800 --> 03:24:01,560
Speaker 6: So we kind of I don't disagree, Yeah, with a

4189
03:24:01,640 --> 03:24:03,840
Speaker 6: lot of what's said here, right, I don't. I don't disagree,

4190
03:24:04,000 --> 03:24:06,400
Speaker 6: And I think what we said is like, yes, even

4191
03:24:06,560 --> 03:24:10,200
Speaker 6: if she is wrong in not really like doing all

4192
03:24:10,280 --> 03:24:15,760
Speaker 6: the responsibilities that she maybe should be doing. The filming

4193
03:24:16,080 --> 03:24:19,560
Speaker 6: the kid or sorry, filming the wife, yeah, is like

4194
03:24:20,240 --> 03:24:23,480
Speaker 6: is too far, And I think there need needed to

4195
03:24:23,560 --> 03:24:27,040
Speaker 6: be more of a conversation there. But maybe it was

4196
03:24:27,240 --> 03:24:29,800
Speaker 6: like maybe it was like there was a conversation. He

4197
03:24:29,920 --> 03:24:32,199
Speaker 6: was so fed up that he's like I just needed

4198
03:24:32,280 --> 03:24:35,880
Speaker 6: proof or whatever. But at that point, it's like you

4199
03:24:35,959 --> 03:24:38,400
Speaker 6: don't you just don't trust your wife anymore, and that

4200
03:24:38,640 --> 03:24:40,480
Speaker 6: like isn't isn't the relationship.

4201
03:24:41,120 --> 03:24:43,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the wa it just isn't working period.

4202
03:24:43,640 --> 03:24:47,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, So I think maybe updating it to everyone's the

4203
03:24:47,240 --> 03:24:49,720
Speaker 6: A hole. But I think I I let me know

4204
03:24:49,800 --> 03:24:52,280
Speaker 6: what you guys think. I still think the husband is

4205
03:24:52,400 --> 03:24:54,000
Speaker 6: more of the A hole than the wife.

4206
03:24:57,080 --> 03:24:57,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4207
03:24:57,800 --> 03:24:59,440
Speaker 6: And I don't think the wife is an A hole.

4208
03:24:59,480 --> 03:25:02,560
Speaker 6: I think she's just like just not there. Yeah, it's

4209
03:25:02,640 --> 03:25:04,920
Speaker 6: just like she's just like I think she's not mentally, Yeah,

4210
03:25:05,040 --> 03:25:07,160
Speaker 6: not mentally. I don't think it's a hole. She's just

4211
03:25:07,240 --> 03:25:10,760
Speaker 6: maybe like yeah, uh, not good at doing things yeah, or.

4212
03:25:11,120 --> 03:25:13,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like I think it's just a conversation they

4213
03:25:13,360 --> 03:25:17,720
Speaker 3: need to have about like who handles certain things and

4214
03:25:17,959 --> 03:25:20,800
Speaker 3: how can we make sure that you do these certain things? Yeah,

4215
03:25:20,840 --> 03:25:24,160
Speaker 3: Osenovic says, I think she probably struggles with mental ish

4216
03:25:24,320 --> 03:25:28,480
Speaker 3: like ADHD or depression because her husband's horrible. I think

4217
03:25:28,520 --> 03:25:30,440
Speaker 3: it could be like there is a chance, Yeah, but

4218
03:25:30,520 --> 03:25:33,160
Speaker 3: that doesn't excuse you not like like being a good

4219
03:25:33,240 --> 03:25:35,080
Speaker 3: mother friend. Yeah, do you have to kind of step

4220
03:25:35,160 --> 03:25:36,640
Speaker 3: up and like find ways that work for.

4221
03:25:36,680 --> 03:25:39,480
Speaker 6: You and if you have those things, you know, communicate

4222
03:25:39,480 --> 03:25:40,600
Speaker 6: with you, communicate with your.

4223
03:25:40,480 --> 03:25:42,600
Speaker 3: Partner and say you need I you know, like I

4224
03:25:42,640 --> 03:25:45,080
Speaker 3: have trouble remembering this stuff. If you could help me,

4225
03:25:45,200 --> 03:25:47,520
Speaker 3: like if we could work together to like maybe set

4226
03:25:47,560 --> 03:25:48,840
Speaker 3: reminders for me or something like that.

4227
03:25:49,240 --> 03:25:50,879
Speaker 6: I real the mahoney, thanks for the ten bucks. We've

4228
03:25:50,879 --> 03:25:52,400
Speaker 6: seen you in the stream a couple of times, So

4229
03:25:53,240 --> 03:25:54,080
Speaker 6: for coming.

4230
03:25:53,879 --> 03:25:55,879
Speaker 3: Through, just because it's not fair to the kids.

4231
03:25:56,120 --> 03:25:58,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, if they're not getting let's read some of the

4232
03:25:58,160 --> 03:26:00,320
Speaker 6: comments because I feel like like the chat is going

4233
03:26:00,360 --> 03:26:02,360
Speaker 6: off right now. So Jennifer B Says, I think everyone

4234
03:26:02,440 --> 03:26:05,600
Speaker 6: sucks here. Yes, the mom isn't the dad's employee, but

4235
03:26:05,680 --> 03:26:07,880
Speaker 6: she is in charge of managing the household and she

4236
03:26:08,040 --> 03:26:11,160
Speaker 6: is slacking in responsibilities. However, the husband did not react

4237
03:26:11,240 --> 03:26:14,040
Speaker 6: right agreed totally. Creature Explay says, I think she is

4238
03:26:14,240 --> 03:26:17,560
Speaker 6: only very slightly in a hole, like a little inattentive

4239
03:26:17,640 --> 03:26:19,800
Speaker 6: maybe with some of the mental stuff like ADHD, but

4240
03:26:19,959 --> 03:26:23,440
Speaker 6: he is awful and overreacted because like, at the end

4241
03:26:23,480 --> 03:26:25,800
Speaker 6: of the day, what really actually went wrong with what

4242
03:26:25,920 --> 03:26:26,120
Speaker 6: she did?

4243
03:26:26,240 --> 03:26:29,680
Speaker 3: She like like like she didn't fill out a form

4244
03:26:29,800 --> 03:26:31,480
Speaker 3: and he filled it out and it was fine.

4245
03:26:32,040 --> 03:26:36,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, so like nothing really nothing, irreversible nothing, and it

4246
03:26:36,320 --> 03:26:37,720
Speaker 6: may be like it gets to a point where it

4247
03:26:37,840 --> 03:26:39,200
Speaker 6: is irreversal and it is bad.

4248
03:26:39,240 --> 03:26:41,640
Speaker 2: But the other thing I was trying to understand was

4249
03:26:42,400 --> 03:26:46,000
Speaker 2: with like mailing out the paychecks. Was that like she said, oh,

4250
03:26:46,080 --> 03:26:51,720
Speaker 2: it would have been fine, like it is fred direct.

4251
03:26:54,640 --> 03:26:59,640
Speaker 6: Frederick, not even not even anything on that. Also, Frederick,

4252
03:27:00,000 --> 03:27:04,200
Speaker 6: thank you for sending a massive donation. If you want

4253
03:27:04,280 --> 03:27:07,959
Speaker 6: YouTube to not take a cut, send future donations through

4254
03:27:08,160 --> 03:27:14,160
Speaker 6: our through our little little donation link. But holy crap,

4255
03:27:14,280 --> 03:27:18,400
Speaker 6: like Frederick, I guess we're doing another.

4256
03:27:19,800 --> 03:27:21,880
Speaker 2: It's happening. Thank you so much.

4257
03:27:21,959 --> 03:27:25,160
Speaker 6: Also, I just love saying locknicked lock Frederick.

4258
03:27:25,800 --> 03:27:28,959
Speaker 5: Yep, we're at three hours and thirty minutes, so we're

4259
03:27:29,000 --> 03:27:29,879
Speaker 5: going to five.

4260
03:27:32,440 --> 03:27:36,160
Speaker 6: Half Comtisa says he's a control freak. Is there more

4261
03:27:36,200 --> 03:27:36,720
Speaker 6: to that story?

4262
03:27:37,040 --> 03:27:39,480
Speaker 2: Uh? No, that's it is not what?

4263
03:27:41,000 --> 03:27:41,280
Speaker 1: All right?

4264
03:27:41,280 --> 03:27:43,360
Speaker 6: I would have a question one, all right, if you

4265
03:27:43,440 --> 03:27:48,400
Speaker 6: were in the man's position, the husband's position, would you

4266
03:27:48,440 --> 03:27:50,920
Speaker 6: divorce your wife over this? And if you were in

4267
03:27:51,200 --> 03:27:54,560
Speaker 6: the wife's position, would you divorce your husband after this?

4268
03:27:54,680 --> 03:27:56,720
Speaker 6: I'm curious both of your thoughts.

4269
03:27:57,360 --> 03:28:02,720
Speaker 2: I if I was in the husband's position position. Definitely

4270
03:28:02,760 --> 03:28:07,160
Speaker 2: not because again it's like pretty innocuous things. I wasn't

4271
03:28:07,200 --> 03:28:09,680
Speaker 2: one hundred percent clear if the pay actually was late

4272
03:28:09,800 --> 03:28:11,600
Speaker 2: or if she was doing it like a little early

4273
03:28:11,800 --> 03:28:15,080
Speaker 2: or something that was unclear, but either either way still

4274
03:28:15,160 --> 03:28:20,600
Speaker 2: kind of innocuous. And then in the flip scenario, honestly,

4275
03:28:20,879 --> 03:28:24,280
Speaker 2: I like, if I'm actually predicting what I would have done,

4276
03:28:24,720 --> 03:28:27,600
Speaker 2: I don't know if I immediately would have gone for divorce,

4277
03:28:27,680 --> 03:28:31,720
Speaker 2: But now it's like recording like instantaneously. But maybe it's

4278
03:28:31,800 --> 03:28:35,760
Speaker 2: like the red flag detectors are now in like full activation,

4279
03:28:36,000 --> 03:28:39,440
Speaker 2: and even just like kind of looking for more confirmation

4280
03:28:39,720 --> 03:28:42,320
Speaker 2: of the control freakishness and all of those other things.

4281
03:28:42,520 --> 03:28:44,720
Speaker 6: Because it's really it's really hard to when you have

4282
03:28:44,879 --> 03:28:47,040
Speaker 6: like an open, honest relationship with a partner, it's really

4283
03:28:47,120 --> 03:28:49,040
Speaker 6: hard to peer into the mind and be like, oh,

4284
03:28:49,160 --> 03:28:51,320
Speaker 6: like if this happened, would I or would I not divorce?

4285
03:28:51,440 --> 03:28:54,959
Speaker 6: Because there's been so much history of in your own

4286
03:28:55,040 --> 03:28:58,120
Speaker 6: motally totally of it being good. But like I feel

4287
03:28:58,200 --> 03:29:02,040
Speaker 6: like filming your partner and camera it's just such a

4288
03:29:02,120 --> 03:29:06,360
Speaker 6: breach of trust and I can't even I can't even imagine,

4289
03:29:06,760 --> 03:29:11,120
Speaker 6: like I can't even imagine like wanting to continue in

4290
03:29:11,120 --> 03:29:13,440
Speaker 6: a relationship with something like that. Fiona, thanks for the

4291
03:29:13,520 --> 03:29:16,400
Speaker 6: three bucks. We've been seeing you being active in the chat.

4292
03:29:16,480 --> 03:29:18,280
Speaker 1: Thanks sending in your application.

4293
03:29:20,879 --> 03:29:24,440
Speaker 6: Oh man, but yeah, I think what is wrong with

4294
03:29:24,520 --> 03:29:26,080
Speaker 6: the chat is something wrong with the chat.

4295
03:29:27,640 --> 03:29:27,840
Speaker 2: Chat.

4296
03:29:29,120 --> 03:29:34,640
Speaker 6: Thanks for the five bucks. Yeah, I probably like I

4297
03:29:34,680 --> 03:29:36,800
Speaker 6: feel like it symbolizes a lot of distrust I buy.

4298
03:29:37,120 --> 03:29:40,160
Speaker 6: I think I might go for a devorce, maybe a conversation,

4299
03:29:40,240 --> 03:29:42,560
Speaker 6: but I would be like leaning towards it. Yeah, for sure,

4300
03:29:42,800 --> 03:29:47,920
Speaker 6: nothing else in the story that is it. But what

4301
03:29:48,080 --> 03:29:52,360
Speaker 6: we also have is another another dollar puplic and y'all

4302
03:29:52,360 --> 03:29:53,240
Speaker 6: are my favorite show.

4303
03:29:53,160 --> 03:29:54,600
Speaker 1: Favorite show, you my favorite pumpkin.

4304
03:29:57,240 --> 03:30:01,360
Speaker 2: But we got another story. Hey are y'all?

4305
03:30:02,720 --> 03:30:03,960
Speaker 1: I do have some sad news.

4306
03:30:04,240 --> 03:30:05,039
Speaker 6: What is your sadness?

4307
03:30:05,080 --> 03:30:06,520
Speaker 1: I am departing as of now.

4308
03:30:07,240 --> 03:30:11,959
Speaker 2: Oh but the stream does continue stream, it does continue,

4309
03:30:12,480 --> 03:30:13,760
Speaker 2: So thank you everyone.

4310
03:30:14,040 --> 03:30:16,200
Speaker 1: I will see you on the next stream tomorrow. And

4311
03:30:16,760 --> 03:30:17,400
Speaker 1: hearts in the chat.

4312
03:30:17,520 --> 03:30:20,560
Speaker 2: John going to see Kanye. I'm going to see Kanye

4313
03:30:20,680 --> 03:30:24,040
Speaker 2: and tie down the sign. Yeah, doing fun instead of

4314
03:30:24,200 --> 03:30:25,080
Speaker 2: being here at work?

4315
03:30:25,120 --> 03:30:25,440
Speaker 6: What am I?

4316
03:30:25,879 --> 03:30:26,480
Speaker 4: What am I doing?

4317
03:30:26,520 --> 03:30:29,400
Speaker 2: Abandoning fun? What are you talking about? That's what I'm

4318
03:30:29,440 --> 03:30:30,680
Speaker 2: saying this is fun.

4319
03:30:30,760 --> 03:30:33,840
Speaker 6: I'm abandoning people, but like there's gonna be some sick

4320
03:30:33,879 --> 03:30:34,840
Speaker 6: artists that John loves though.

4321
03:30:34,920 --> 03:30:35,959
Speaker 2: That's right, John, have.

4322
03:30:36,080 --> 03:30:36,680
Speaker 6: So much fun.

4323
03:30:36,800 --> 03:30:40,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, pop over. Well take the throne, queen.

4324
03:30:40,120 --> 03:30:45,240
Speaker 6: Worm, queen, take the throne. Yeah, say say bye John

4325
03:30:45,320 --> 03:30:46,760
Speaker 6: in the chat to give John some love.

4326
03:30:49,920 --> 03:30:51,280
Speaker 3: You didn't get it. I was singing.

4327
03:30:51,440 --> 03:30:57,280
Speaker 6: I was singing up close and personalbye, get to get

4328
03:30:57,640 --> 03:30:58,080
Speaker 6: zoom all the.

4329
03:30:58,080 --> 03:31:00,920
Speaker 3: Way zoom and me I was literally about to go

4330
03:31:01,120 --> 03:31:02,160
Speaker 3: grab a snack.

4331
03:31:01,920 --> 03:31:07,840
Speaker 6: And you don't get any snack, No snacks a yo. Yeah,

4332
03:31:07,840 --> 03:31:10,800
Speaker 6: everyone's saying bye John Bye. We're gonna get into a

4333
03:31:10,879 --> 03:31:14,640
Speaker 6: next story very very soon. And I guess I will

4334
03:31:14,680 --> 03:31:15,959
Speaker 6: read this because you read the last one.

4335
03:31:16,480 --> 03:31:16,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

4336
03:31:17,280 --> 03:31:19,360
Speaker 6: What episode are we on right now?

4337
03:31:19,560 --> 03:31:24,360
Speaker 5: The same one, which is three.

4338
03:31:23,480 --> 03:31:28,400
Speaker 6: Sixty eight husbands? All right, all right, we're getting into

4339
03:31:28,959 --> 03:31:33,400
Speaker 6: s two John, all right, Well, let's get into this

4340
03:31:33,520 --> 03:31:36,480
Speaker 6: next episode. So am I the a hole for thinking

4341
03:31:36,560 --> 03:31:39,920
Speaker 6: there's a hidden affair between my husband and best friend?

4342
03:31:41,800 --> 03:31:42,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, what did you do?

4343
03:31:43,520 --> 03:31:46,320
Speaker 6: I guess let's find out. So I, thirty one female,

4344
03:31:46,640 --> 03:31:50,160
Speaker 6: have a deep suspicion that there's something weird going on

4345
03:31:50,280 --> 03:31:53,600
Speaker 6: between my husband thirty three male and my friend Maria

4346
03:31:54,200 --> 03:31:55,200
Speaker 6: thirty female.

4347
03:31:55,200 --> 03:31:57,680
Speaker 5: Wait, didn't we read a story about a guy that

4348
03:31:57,840 --> 03:32:01,200
Speaker 5: left his wife for a woman named Maria Marie?

4349
03:32:01,400 --> 03:32:09,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I once left my wife since that day, okay,

4350
03:32:09,560 --> 03:32:12,000
Speaker 3: I had to slave away riding the.

4351
03:32:12,120 --> 03:32:17,879
Speaker 6: Store here right. Anyway, my husband feels like my husband

4352
03:32:18,000 --> 03:32:20,840
Speaker 6: feels I'm just seeing things and is mad at me

4353
03:32:21,160 --> 03:32:23,520
Speaker 6: that I do not trust him enough. Please tell me

4354
03:32:23,840 --> 03:32:25,920
Speaker 6: if what is going on is just in my head

4355
03:32:26,400 --> 03:32:30,280
Speaker 6: or if you also find the situation suspicious.

4356
03:32:30,520 --> 03:32:33,119
Speaker 3: Once again, we're doing is this flirting?

4357
03:32:33,440 --> 03:32:37,400
Speaker 6: Yeah? So suspicious or not? As soon as you see

4358
03:32:37,440 --> 03:32:41,800
Speaker 6: something suspicious? Yeah, su say sus yeah, put sus in

4359
03:32:41,840 --> 03:32:44,320
Speaker 6: the chase. I'm among us, Yeah, we do. We are

4360
03:32:44,360 --> 03:32:45,959
Speaker 6: going to play video games with you guys at some point,

4361
03:32:46,120 --> 03:32:47,840
Speaker 6: but sus in the chat as soon as you see

4362
03:32:48,080 --> 03:32:51,879
Speaker 6: something sus So. Marie and I have been best friends

4363
03:32:52,040 --> 03:32:57,000
Speaker 6: since college. Right, Maria is the possible flirtatious interaction the

4364
03:32:57,120 --> 03:33:00,800
Speaker 6: husband is having. She's always been outgoing. I am more

4365
03:33:00,800 --> 03:33:05,760
Speaker 6: of an introvert. Maria has always been promiscuous and loved drama.

4366
03:33:06,040 --> 03:33:08,240
Speaker 6: She had a lot of boyfriends slash hookups in college.

4367
03:33:08,480 --> 03:33:12,920
Speaker 6: She's also very beautiful and I always felt invisible when

4368
03:33:12,959 --> 03:33:15,480
Speaker 6: I was around her. I have some weight tissues. So

4369
03:33:16,200 --> 03:33:19,640
Speaker 6: is this subscurity or insecurity? Susser insecurity put in the chain.

4370
03:33:19,720 --> 03:33:20,840
Speaker 3: Now, it's a little insecure.

4371
03:33:21,440 --> 03:33:26,400
Speaker 6: Let's see right now. So she had so I always

4372
03:33:26,440 --> 03:33:29,240
Speaker 6: felt overshadowed by her. I was always very shy and

4373
03:33:29,360 --> 03:33:32,520
Speaker 6: my husband was the first person I ever dated. Maria

4374
03:33:32,680 --> 03:33:35,080
Speaker 6: always teased me that I had only been with one

4375
03:33:35,160 --> 03:33:38,720
Speaker 6: guy in my life. As we have grown older, Maria

4376
03:33:38,959 --> 03:33:43,199
Speaker 6: is still to be in a real long term relationship.

4377
03:33:43,240 --> 03:33:45,080
Speaker 3: Okay, why is she making comments on other people?

4378
03:33:45,120 --> 03:33:45,280
Speaker 8: Then?

4379
03:33:46,440 --> 03:33:49,080
Speaker 3: Who Maria? She's like, Oh, you've never been in it.

4380
03:33:49,320 --> 03:33:50,880
Speaker 6: I think, I mean it could just see a little girl.

4381
03:33:51,320 --> 03:33:52,959
Speaker 6: It was like, oh, you like, it's so cute. You've

4382
03:33:53,000 --> 03:33:56,680
Speaker 6: only been with one guy while I have been around town.

4383
03:33:57,200 --> 03:34:00,840
Speaker 6: I don't know, maybe a little bit of suss us

4384
03:34:00,959 --> 03:34:04,560
Speaker 6: with this. I feel that things have reversed now. And

4385
03:34:04,760 --> 03:34:07,440
Speaker 6: she keeps on telling me how lucky I am to

4386
03:34:07,560 --> 03:34:10,280
Speaker 6: have such an ambitious and reliable husband by my side.

4387
03:34:11,080 --> 03:34:12,240
Speaker 4: Good, okay, Okay.

4388
03:34:12,520 --> 03:34:16,920
Speaker 6: Around six months ago, my husband came to me and

4389
03:34:17,040 --> 03:34:19,960
Speaker 6: told me he felt Maria was trying to flirt with him.

4390
03:34:20,200 --> 03:34:22,240
Speaker 3: Mmmmmm, so he's brought it up.

4391
03:34:22,640 --> 03:34:26,640
Speaker 6: Also shout out that what I feel like that's a

4392
03:34:26,640 --> 03:34:27,680
Speaker 6: green flag for the husband.

4393
03:34:27,959 --> 03:34:29,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that he immediately told her.

4394
03:34:29,840 --> 03:34:31,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that's a green flag for the husband.

4395
03:34:31,720 --> 03:34:34,320
Speaker 6: Also shout out to Riley for doing our new transitions. Yeah,

4396
03:34:34,600 --> 03:34:37,000
Speaker 6: I feel like green flag for the husband. If you

4397
03:34:37,120 --> 03:34:40,440
Speaker 6: ever feel like someone is flirting with you, telling your

4398
03:34:40,480 --> 03:34:42,840
Speaker 6: partner immediately is the best.

4399
03:34:43,040 --> 03:34:43,800
Speaker 3: Tell your partner.

4400
03:34:44,320 --> 03:34:46,040
Speaker 6: Tell your partner if you think they're flirting with you,

4401
03:34:46,160 --> 03:34:47,600
Speaker 6: or do you think that's a good idea. Let us

4402
03:34:47,640 --> 03:34:49,360
Speaker 6: know if you think that's actually a good idea.

4403
03:34:49,440 --> 03:34:51,840
Speaker 3: Telling your partner, especially because it's her friend, I would

4404
03:34:51,879 --> 03:34:52,520
Speaker 3: be like, hey.

4405
03:34:53,360 --> 03:34:56,400
Speaker 6: You're flirting Bella coggling. Sam's been around town.

4406
03:34:56,520 --> 03:34:59,879
Speaker 3: I am not a slut dade slash James Sam.

4407
03:35:00,040 --> 03:35:01,160
Speaker 2: I mean maybe who knows.

4408
03:35:03,360 --> 03:35:04,439
Speaker 3: Scarlet Letter.

4409
03:35:06,520 --> 03:35:10,040
Speaker 6: So he does not like Maria but tolerates her.

4410
03:35:10,120 --> 03:35:10,320
Speaker 2: For me.

4411
03:35:11,520 --> 03:35:14,800
Speaker 6: During one of the dinner parties, Maria was acting very

4412
03:35:14,959 --> 03:35:18,240
Speaker 6: flirty around my husbands or.

4413
03:35:18,240 --> 03:35:19,320
Speaker 2: Not sus Let Hi nice.

4414
03:35:20,080 --> 03:35:23,680
Speaker 6: She was just laughing extra loudly at his jokes, complimenting

4415
03:35:23,800 --> 03:35:26,720
Speaker 6: his fitness and touching him on their shoulders and arms.

4416
03:35:27,640 --> 03:35:32,800
Speaker 6: Bro touch it, alright, s touch it? I actually, I

4417
03:35:32,879 --> 03:35:34,360
Speaker 6: mean there was a bunch of reasons. But I broke

4418
03:35:34,440 --> 03:35:37,680
Speaker 6: up with an ex for like constantly touching this other

4419
03:35:37,720 --> 03:35:42,360
Speaker 6: guy's arms and shoulders and also staying at his place

4420
03:35:42,400 --> 03:35:46,280
Speaker 6: a couple of times past midnight after we had talked

4421
03:35:46,280 --> 03:35:50,040
Speaker 6: about that would not happen. So a little bit of

4422
03:35:50,080 --> 03:35:50,560
Speaker 6: a boundary.

4423
03:35:50,959 --> 03:35:53,240
Speaker 3: Thank you, Barbie RT for the don bucks. I can't

4424
03:35:53,280 --> 03:35:54,240
Speaker 3: get enough of you guys.

4425
03:35:54,280 --> 03:35:57,440
Speaker 6: Thanks for the great energy watching from Tijuana. Yeah, I

4426
03:35:57,480 --> 03:35:58,640
Speaker 6: think touching is definitely sus.

4427
03:35:58,920 --> 03:36:01,480
Speaker 3: It is, and this was it is, especially in front

4428
03:36:01,520 --> 03:36:04,640
Speaker 3: of your partner. I mean, obviously back is bad, but like,

4429
03:36:04,920 --> 03:36:05,200
Speaker 3: come on.

4430
03:36:05,640 --> 03:36:07,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, also, all right, do you think it's sus or

4431
03:36:07,760 --> 03:36:11,160
Speaker 6: not to have your partner feed and the same guy

4432
03:36:11,680 --> 03:36:14,720
Speaker 6: that she was touching on all that same guy that

4433
03:36:14,840 --> 03:36:17,960
Speaker 6: she stayed up pasted at her his place past midnight,

4434
03:36:18,640 --> 03:36:24,480
Speaker 6: feeding him directly with a spoon. Feeding feeding sus or

4435
03:36:24,560 --> 03:36:24,960
Speaker 6: not us?

4436
03:36:25,680 --> 03:36:26,160
Speaker 3: Strange?

4437
03:36:26,360 --> 03:36:27,440
Speaker 6: What do you think, sus or not us?

4438
03:36:27,959 --> 03:36:28,800
Speaker 2: Sus? I think sas.

4439
03:36:28,959 --> 03:36:33,880
Speaker 3: I had a roommate's boyfriend who did that sus like

4440
03:36:34,320 --> 03:36:36,560
Speaker 3: to all of us, and we were like, this is strange, sus.

4441
03:36:36,800 --> 03:36:40,440
Speaker 5: In what scenario would feeding someone not be saus? I

4442
03:36:40,520 --> 03:36:43,800
Speaker 5: feel like like taste testing, like something you cooked like, here,

4443
03:36:43,920 --> 03:36:45,840
Speaker 5: get a taste of this. That's the only way, okay.

4444
03:36:46,000 --> 03:36:48,440
Speaker 3: But the problem was that he did it like I

4445
03:36:48,520 --> 03:36:51,240
Speaker 3: think taste testing is where you you grab the spoon.

4446
03:36:51,720 --> 03:36:54,760
Speaker 3: Why was he you know, yeah, feeding it?

4447
03:36:55,000 --> 03:36:57,080
Speaker 2: That's well, she was feeding it.

4448
03:36:57,320 --> 03:36:59,200
Speaker 3: Yeah you know, I know, I'm talking about my scenario.

4449
03:36:59,520 --> 03:37:03,080
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, whack. She was just laughing. So my husband

4450
03:37:03,680 --> 03:37:06,320
Speaker 6: told me that he felt uncomfortable with her behavior and

4451
03:37:06,400 --> 03:37:09,760
Speaker 6: asked me to talk to Maria. I was pissed off

4452
03:37:09,879 --> 03:37:12,440
Speaker 6: and talked to Maria. Yeah, which is good. So basically

4453
03:37:12,560 --> 03:37:15,440
Speaker 6: everyone TLDR for everyone to tune in the stream. Basically

4454
03:37:15,879 --> 03:37:19,440
Speaker 6: OP has a husband that she's very much in love with,

4455
03:37:19,720 --> 03:37:23,040
Speaker 6: and OPI has this friend that she's known since high

4456
03:37:23,080 --> 03:37:26,640
Speaker 6: school or college and is very flirtatious, has been around

4457
03:37:26,680 --> 03:37:30,400
Speaker 6: the block, and now the husband is coming to Op saying, hey,

4458
03:37:30,600 --> 03:37:33,080
Speaker 6: I think this woman, Maria is flirting with me and

4459
03:37:33,160 --> 03:37:35,560
Speaker 6: it's making me uncomfortable. And Maria has been touching his

4460
03:37:35,760 --> 03:37:38,640
Speaker 6: arms and laughing at the jokes really loudly.

4461
03:37:38,959 --> 03:37:39,199
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4462
03:37:39,320 --> 03:37:42,000
Speaker 6: Anyway, I was pissed off and talked to Maria. She

4463
03:37:42,160 --> 03:37:44,680
Speaker 6: got angry at me and said that she had known

4464
03:37:44,800 --> 03:37:47,680
Speaker 6: my husband for over a decade. He's like a brother

4465
03:37:47,800 --> 03:37:51,240
Speaker 6: to me. She felt my husband was trying to destroy

4466
03:37:51,520 --> 03:37:53,280
Speaker 6: our friendship because he did not like her.

4467
03:37:53,360 --> 03:37:54,920
Speaker 2: I felt she was genuine and let it go.

4468
03:37:55,600 --> 03:37:57,600
Speaker 3: No, she's lying to you, sus.

4469
03:37:59,200 --> 03:38:00,600
Speaker 2: Put it in, put it in, sus.

4470
03:38:01,120 --> 03:38:04,119
Speaker 6: Maria soon joined our gym because she wanted to take

4471
03:38:04,240 --> 03:38:07,640
Speaker 6: yoga classes with me. However, she spent more time in

4472
03:38:07,720 --> 03:38:10,240
Speaker 6: the weight room where my husband.

4473
03:38:10,000 --> 03:38:10,920
Speaker 4: Is us.

4474
03:38:12,640 --> 03:38:15,160
Speaker 3: Sus, get Maria out.

4475
03:38:15,000 --> 03:38:15,720
Speaker 4: Of there again.

4476
03:38:15,920 --> 03:38:18,920
Speaker 6: My husband made comments about how she's always half naked

4477
03:38:19,000 --> 03:38:23,800
Speaker 6: in the gym and asked him to spot her. Maria

4478
03:38:23,920 --> 03:38:26,240
Speaker 6: complained that my husband is being rude and unhelpful.

4479
03:38:26,320 --> 03:38:28,080
Speaker 2: He's like, he'll never spot me.

4480
03:38:28,200 --> 03:38:28,720
Speaker 4: What the heck?

4481
03:38:28,920 --> 03:38:31,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm asking to touch my hips and he won't

4482
03:38:31,800 --> 03:38:32,040
Speaker 3: do it.

4483
03:38:32,640 --> 03:38:33,840
Speaker 5: I get really heavy.

4484
03:38:34,360 --> 03:38:38,400
Speaker 6: I again, Yeah, that's squotterly heavy. Alex Elerod, thanks for

4485
03:38:38,520 --> 03:38:43,280
Speaker 6: joining our little sillies. That's our private community here on YouTube. Yeah.

4486
03:38:43,680 --> 03:38:45,760
Speaker 6: I again took her side and told my husband to

4487
03:38:45,840 --> 03:38:48,240
Speaker 6: be helpful and nice to her, and she is my

4488
03:38:48,520 --> 03:38:52,160
Speaker 6: best friend. Oh pie, you stop, you're pushing your husband

4489
03:38:52,200 --> 03:38:54,840
Speaker 6: in the arms of another. My husband said he would

4490
03:38:54,840 --> 03:38:58,520
Speaker 6: make more of an effort. I slowly started seeing them

4491
03:38:58,600 --> 03:39:02,240
Speaker 6: getting more and more friendly and working out together. I

4492
03:39:02,400 --> 03:39:05,640
Speaker 6: wanted to be cool, but I felt jealous. Is this

4493
03:39:05,760 --> 03:39:07,320
Speaker 6: of your own doing, that's your own fault.

4494
03:39:07,320 --> 03:39:10,800
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Your husband came to you said

4495
03:39:10,800 --> 03:39:13,200
Speaker 3: this girl was making you uncomfortable. You said, ignore it,

4496
03:39:13,920 --> 03:39:14,480
Speaker 3: help her out.

4497
03:39:14,600 --> 03:39:15,200
Speaker 5: But also I.

4498
03:39:15,200 --> 03:39:17,960
Speaker 6: Would just once again like to put a like a

4499
03:39:18,120 --> 03:39:22,240
Speaker 6: green flag for the husband every time, every time that

4500
03:39:22,360 --> 03:39:25,200
Speaker 6: he was like, like has been like, I feel like

4501
03:39:25,200 --> 03:39:28,560
Speaker 6: a boundaries being crossed. He is telling his wing, which

4502
03:39:28,600 --> 03:39:31,640
Speaker 6: is communication to the mac's final execution. PS three, thanks

4503
03:39:31,720 --> 03:39:34,360
Speaker 6: for the two bucks. Give Sophia a snack.

4504
03:39:35,400 --> 03:39:38,680
Speaker 2: No, she shall not eat. She eats stories.

4505
03:39:39,560 --> 03:39:41,360
Speaker 3: I do think a red flag Do you have a

4506
03:39:41,400 --> 03:39:42,040
Speaker 3: red flag on you?

4507
03:39:43,160 --> 03:39:43,760
Speaker 6: Red flag.

4508
03:39:45,800 --> 03:39:51,520
Speaker 3: Anyway? Red flag? Thank you? Red flag for op honestly

4509
03:39:51,800 --> 03:39:55,760
Speaker 3: not listening to her husband when he expresses feeling uncomfortable

4510
03:39:56,440 --> 03:39:57,240
Speaker 3: about this girl.

4511
03:39:57,680 --> 03:40:00,480
Speaker 6: And it's not even that like he personally feels ncomfortable.

4512
03:40:00,480 --> 03:40:02,080
Speaker 6: It's not even like, hey, like I just want to

4513
03:40:02,080 --> 03:40:04,680
Speaker 6: make sure you feel uncomfortable. It's like, yeah, Rebecca says,

4514
03:40:04,760 --> 03:40:06,080
Speaker 6: guys get sexually harassed too.

4515
03:40:06,240 --> 03:40:08,920
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I feel like he, I mean he is, and

4516
03:40:09,080 --> 03:40:11,520
Speaker 3: he's like, hey, I don't feel comfortable around her. Yeah,

4517
03:40:11,560 --> 03:40:12,680
Speaker 3: And he's not listening to her.

4518
03:40:12,840 --> 03:40:16,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, like when your friend starts actively flirting

4519
03:40:17,000 --> 03:40:18,760
Speaker 6: with your husband, your husband's going to be uncomfortable, but

4520
03:40:18,920 --> 03:40:21,920
Speaker 6: like you should, you should like Yeah, love, Bubble says,

4521
03:40:22,040 --> 03:40:25,240
Speaker 6: his little cry for help being ignored, ignored. So let's

4522
03:40:25,280 --> 03:40:27,600
Speaker 6: what Let's see what happens. Let's see what happens with

4523
03:40:28,480 --> 03:40:33,080
Speaker 6: this these this flirtatious friend and Opie's husband.

4524
03:40:33,160 --> 03:40:35,600
Speaker 3: So now, Ari says, I just got back and Sam's

4525
03:40:35,600 --> 03:40:37,039
Speaker 3: shirt is gone. What happened?

4526
03:40:37,320 --> 03:40:37,440
Speaker 2: Uh?

4527
03:40:37,800 --> 03:40:41,400
Speaker 6: Y'all? Y'all won the five hour stringer, that's why. So yeah,

4528
03:40:41,640 --> 03:40:44,760
Speaker 6: you took it from me. So now to what happened

4529
03:40:45,000 --> 03:40:48,440
Speaker 6: last weekend. Maria invited a bunch of her friends for

4530
03:40:48,520 --> 03:40:52,520
Speaker 6: a birthday party at our apartment. There were seven guests there,

4531
03:40:52,680 --> 03:40:55,760
Speaker 6: including my husband and I. Maria kept on pushing to

4532
03:40:55,879 --> 03:40:58,959
Speaker 6: quila shots on all of us. Eventually most of us

4533
03:40:59,080 --> 03:41:03,480
Speaker 6: got drunk. Maria was sitting next to my husband being

4534
03:41:04,080 --> 03:41:07,119
Speaker 6: very flirty with him, but I could see my husband

4535
03:41:07,160 --> 03:41:07,960
Speaker 6: was not reciprocating.

4536
03:41:08,120 --> 03:41:10,920
Speaker 3: Okay, this is when you go in and you say, Maria,

4537
03:41:11,040 --> 03:41:11,920
Speaker 3: get the heck out of here.

4538
03:41:12,280 --> 03:41:15,600
Speaker 6: So I didn't care. Maria insisted we stay back at

4539
03:41:15,640 --> 03:41:17,520
Speaker 6: her place, and my husband and I slept in the

4540
03:41:17,560 --> 03:41:20,760
Speaker 6: guest bedroom. The other three guests, who were coworkers, one

4541
03:41:20,800 --> 03:41:22,960
Speaker 6: guy and two girls, crashed on the sofa in the

4542
03:41:23,040 --> 03:41:25,320
Speaker 6: living room. I was drunk and the last thing I

4543
03:41:25,440 --> 03:41:28,240
Speaker 6: remember was my husband bringing me to the guest room.

4544
03:41:29,600 --> 03:41:32,640
Speaker 6: Oh no, I see you in the chat. If you

4545
03:41:33,000 --> 03:41:34,959
Speaker 6: might be afraid of where this is going.

4546
03:41:35,040 --> 03:41:36,160
Speaker 2: I see you in the chat.

4547
03:41:36,520 --> 03:41:38,920
Speaker 6: Also, if you haven't liked the stream, like this stream already,

4548
03:41:38,920 --> 03:41:41,280
Speaker 6: what do you do it? Anyway? When I woke up

4549
03:41:41,640 --> 03:41:44,960
Speaker 6: in the middle of the night, I was alone in bed.

4550
03:41:45,440 --> 03:41:48,000
Speaker 6: Oh noise, I was alone. I was alone.

4551
03:41:48,080 --> 03:41:51,440
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. I don't know.

4552
03:41:52,160 --> 03:41:54,480
Speaker 6: I was alone in bed. Oh no, oh no, I

4553
03:41:54,560 --> 03:41:56,240
Speaker 6: see who's in the chat? I see whos in the chat.

4554
03:41:57,040 --> 03:42:04,600
Speaker 6: I could hear some moaning noises from outside. I quickly

4555
03:42:04,640 --> 03:42:09,240
Speaker 6: started looking for my phone in the dark. In that process,

4556
03:42:10,240 --> 03:42:15,120
Speaker 6: I dropped something from the nightstand on the floor. The

4557
03:42:15,240 --> 03:42:20,120
Speaker 6: noises stopped, and I heard a door open and close outside.

4558
03:42:22,720 --> 03:42:24,840
Speaker 6: I quickly got up to see where my husband was.

4559
03:42:26,440 --> 03:42:31,520
Speaker 6: When I reached the hallway, I saw my husband just

4560
03:42:31,879 --> 03:42:37,920
Speaker 6: in his jeans with no shirt on. Why would he

4561
03:42:37,959 --> 03:42:38,720
Speaker 6: sleep in his jeans?

4562
03:42:38,760 --> 03:42:40,680
Speaker 3: I'm asking, why was it? Why was he in his jeans.

4563
03:42:42,680 --> 03:42:45,640
Speaker 2: Sus or not, sus put it in the chat, sus

4564
03:42:45,720 --> 03:42:46,680
Speaker 2: we bring jeans to bed.

4565
03:42:47,200 --> 03:42:50,880
Speaker 6: I asked him where he was, and he says he

4566
03:42:50,959 --> 03:42:52,520
Speaker 6: went to the restroom and asked.

4567
03:42:52,360 --> 03:42:56,039
Speaker 3: If I was okay, okay, could be true?

4568
03:42:56,440 --> 03:42:58,360
Speaker 6: I said yes, and he came and slept next to me.

4569
03:42:59,560 --> 03:43:00,480
Speaker 6: He was sweaty.

4570
03:43:01,280 --> 03:43:03,640
Speaker 3: Maybe he had a bad bathroom.

4571
03:43:03,800 --> 03:43:05,680
Speaker 6: Maybe yeah, maybe he was really forcing out of a

4572
03:43:05,800 --> 03:43:11,480
Speaker 6: big doochie sus or not, sus or not. I asked

4573
03:43:11,560 --> 03:43:13,880
Speaker 6: him where his shirt was, and he said the heater

4574
03:43:14,040 --> 03:43:15,119
Speaker 6: was too high. He fell hot.

4575
03:43:15,200 --> 03:43:17,160
Speaker 2: I mean, that's why he was all, you know, sweaty.

4576
03:43:18,240 --> 03:43:20,480
Speaker 6: His T shirt was on a chair next to the bed.

4577
03:43:21,320 --> 03:43:24,320
Speaker 6: I laid down, but I was barely able to sleep

4578
03:43:24,360 --> 03:43:28,520
Speaker 6: after that. I got up early and went into Maria's

4579
03:43:28,680 --> 03:43:30,480
Speaker 6: room and she was sleeping alone naked.

4580
03:43:31,000 --> 03:43:32,200
Speaker 3: Oh why okay?

4581
03:43:33,560 --> 03:43:34,880
Speaker 2: I man?

4582
03:43:35,760 --> 03:43:38,080
Speaker 6: I told her we were taking off, and she got

4583
03:43:38,240 --> 03:43:40,880
Speaker 6: up to see us off. I kept this all to myself,

4584
03:43:41,000 --> 03:43:42,720
Speaker 6: and we reached home and my husband went to take

4585
03:43:42,720 --> 03:43:48,520
Speaker 6: a shower. I immediately checked his phone. Antonette says, sus

4586
03:43:48,680 --> 03:43:55,320
Speaker 6: Barbie Artino, please know Danissa doll Nissa. Billio says, Sussenia

4587
03:43:55,480 --> 03:43:59,280
Speaker 6: vic dude, he cheated for sure. Scuria Raman says they fucked.

4588
03:43:59,640 --> 03:44:02,560
Speaker 6: Is there any way that they didn't hook up?

4589
03:44:03,200 --> 03:44:06,879
Speaker 3: I'm hoping. I'm hoping because he's been so like.

4590
03:44:08,080 --> 03:44:09,760
Speaker 6: What if he was just going to the bathroom and

4591
03:44:09,879 --> 03:44:11,199
Speaker 6: and it is jeans.

4592
03:44:10,959 --> 03:44:12,640
Speaker 3: And his jeans and she was.

4593
03:44:15,160 --> 03:44:17,520
Speaker 5: She sleeps that way, but there's.

4594
03:44:17,760 --> 03:44:22,320
Speaker 6: Sus he was still dressed to not sleep. Yeah, Piggy

4595
03:44:22,360 --> 03:44:23,920
Speaker 6: the Slayer says he could have been throwing up.

4596
03:44:24,360 --> 03:44:25,360
Speaker 3: That's what I was thinking.

4597
03:44:25,520 --> 03:44:29,560
Speaker 6: Maybe, Yeah, tld R again, can someone TLDR someone for

4598
03:44:30,280 --> 03:44:34,200
Speaker 6: for the people that haven't heard it. Souanna says her

4599
03:44:34,240 --> 03:44:36,560
Speaker 6: husband's too drunk. I feel like it wasn't consensual, but

4600
03:44:36,720 --> 03:44:42,680
Speaker 6: the moaning, the moaning, Yeah, I mean, what if what

4601
03:44:42,800 --> 03:44:45,280
Speaker 6: if it was the people on the couch.

4602
03:44:46,800 --> 03:44:48,720
Speaker 5: It was the moaning and then as soon as it

4603
03:44:48,840 --> 03:44:52,080
Speaker 5: hit the night stand it just completely stopped. And it's

4604
03:44:52,200 --> 03:44:53,880
Speaker 5: just too many things stacked up against him.

4605
03:44:54,440 --> 03:44:56,840
Speaker 6: Also, Fiona says, why is she sleeping alone naked? A

4606
03:44:56,840 --> 03:44:58,240
Speaker 6: lot of people sleep, a lot of people do.

4607
03:44:58,800 --> 03:45:02,240
Speaker 5: I'm recently discovered someone in my life does that, and

4608
03:45:02,320 --> 03:45:06,440
Speaker 5: I'm disturbed. On the school trip, my brother, I'm outing

4609
03:45:06,520 --> 03:45:07,040
Speaker 5: him right now.

4610
03:45:09,320 --> 03:45:12,400
Speaker 6: Antoinette trusts they probably can't. Well, let's find out what

4611
03:45:12,520 --> 03:45:17,880
Speaker 6: actually happened. I told her we were taking off and

4612
03:45:17,920 --> 03:45:20,800
Speaker 6: got her so anyway, UH looked his phone and couldn't

4613
03:45:20,800 --> 03:45:23,400
Speaker 6: find any messages between him and Rihea. I spent the

4614
03:45:23,440 --> 03:45:25,879
Speaker 6: whole day thinking about it, and finally confronted my husband

4615
03:45:25,920 --> 03:45:28,400
Speaker 6: regarding it at night. He was pretty angry at me

4616
03:45:28,640 --> 03:45:31,280
Speaker 6: and told me that he hates Maria and the only

4617
03:45:31,440 --> 03:45:34,440
Speaker 6: reason he tolerates Maria is because of me. I told

4618
03:45:34,520 --> 03:45:36,760
Speaker 6: him about the moaning noises and he said he also

4619
03:45:36,920 --> 03:45:39,240
Speaker 6: heard the same when he went to the restroom, but

4620
03:45:39,400 --> 03:45:41,040
Speaker 6: thought they were coming from the living room.

4621
03:45:41,560 --> 03:45:45,120
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, what if Maria was Oh, maybe it

4622
03:45:45,280 --> 03:45:46,240
Speaker 3: was coming from the living room.

4623
03:45:46,400 --> 03:45:47,879
Speaker 6: Well, there were people in the living room.

4624
03:45:48,800 --> 03:45:50,600
Speaker 3: But the thing is, there is a chance that he

4625
03:45:50,760 --> 03:45:51,920
Speaker 3: has not cheated on her.

4626
03:45:53,760 --> 03:45:56,920
Speaker 6: Manipulating Emily Burne says tild our wife is allowing best

4627
03:45:56,959 --> 03:45:58,720
Speaker 6: friend to harass husband after he told her about it

4628
03:45:58,800 --> 03:46:01,320
Speaker 6: multiple times, she now thinks they may have hooked up.

4629
03:46:01,959 --> 03:46:07,840
Speaker 6: Great tldr. Emily burns, Yeah, I think I.

4630
03:46:07,879 --> 03:46:10,400
Speaker 3: Think there is a possibility that he has not cheated

4631
03:46:10,480 --> 03:46:10,760
Speaker 3: on her.

4632
03:46:11,040 --> 03:46:14,440
Speaker 6: I think there is that possibility still, sus like, why

4633
03:46:14,480 --> 03:46:17,120
Speaker 6: would he be sweaty with his jeans on.

4634
03:46:17,320 --> 03:46:19,760
Speaker 3: He's with his jeans on.

4635
03:46:19,920 --> 03:46:22,160
Speaker 6: Nobody said he was going to the bathroom with his

4636
03:46:22,280 --> 03:46:24,280
Speaker 6: jeans on. I mean, he could have been sweaty because

4637
03:46:24,280 --> 03:46:26,160
Speaker 6: it was hot, and he put on the jeans because

4638
03:46:26,200 --> 03:46:27,480
Speaker 6: maybe he sleeps naked.

4639
03:46:28,160 --> 03:46:28,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

4640
03:46:29,360 --> 03:46:31,240
Speaker 2: I didn't want him to have cheated, Okay.

4641
03:46:31,160 --> 03:46:33,160
Speaker 6: But the good thing is I think something that shows

4642
03:46:33,200 --> 03:46:36,680
Speaker 6: that maybe he didn't cheat is his shirt was in

4643
03:46:36,800 --> 03:46:38,800
Speaker 6: the room, was in the room, and so he put

4644
03:46:38,840 --> 03:46:40,560
Speaker 6: on the jeans to maybe cover up.

4645
03:46:40,720 --> 03:46:43,360
Speaker 3: So oh yeah, maybe he sleeps with his boxers on

4646
03:46:43,480 --> 03:46:45,520
Speaker 3: and jeans to go to the bathroom.

4647
03:46:46,440 --> 03:46:48,920
Speaker 6: Shout out Mad Hattergal four for five for the five bucks.

4648
03:46:48,959 --> 03:46:51,960
Speaker 6: Good evening everyone, Hope you're well. Also, thank you Sophia

4649
03:46:52,200 --> 03:46:53,279
Speaker 6: for the kind words about.

4650
03:46:53,080 --> 03:46:54,000
Speaker 2: The key chains I posted.

4651
03:46:54,840 --> 03:46:55,120
Speaker 3: Lovely.

4652
03:46:55,640 --> 03:46:59,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, so what do you think? Is OPI husband cheating

4653
03:46:59,520 --> 03:46:59,680
Speaker 6: or not?

4654
03:47:00,360 --> 03:47:01,280
Speaker 3: There's a chance he's not.

4655
03:47:01,840 --> 03:47:02,680
Speaker 6: Is yeah, cheating or not?

4656
03:47:02,760 --> 03:47:05,760
Speaker 3: Put your chances that Marie's manipulating Ope.

4657
03:47:06,080 --> 03:47:09,119
Speaker 6: So he is still angry at me that I can

4658
03:47:09,160 --> 03:47:11,880
Speaker 6: accuse him of something so horrible and has told me

4659
03:47:12,040 --> 03:47:15,120
Speaker 6: that I am really that insecure. If I'm really that insecure,

4660
03:47:15,120 --> 03:47:17,320
Speaker 6: I should cut off my friendship with Maria. He also

4661
03:47:17,440 --> 03:47:19,720
Speaker 6: told me he was never going to be in the

4662
03:47:19,760 --> 03:47:22,560
Speaker 6: same room as Maria ever. Again, I have no idea

4663
03:47:22,600 --> 03:47:24,400
Speaker 6: what to do. On one hand, I know my husband

4664
03:47:24,400 --> 03:47:27,360
Speaker 6: would never cheat on me, but it's just impossible get

4665
03:47:27,360 --> 03:47:29,440
Speaker 6: to get the doubts out of my head. I keep

4666
03:47:29,520 --> 03:47:32,600
Speaker 6: on picturing my husband and Maria together in her bed.

4667
03:47:33,040 --> 03:47:35,120
Speaker 6: Am I the asshole for to confront my husband and

4668
03:47:35,160 --> 03:47:37,640
Speaker 6: accuse him of cheating just because of what I saw

4669
03:47:37,760 --> 03:47:40,120
Speaker 6: and not having any real proof? How do I know

4670
03:47:40,240 --> 03:47:42,600
Speaker 6: what happened? If I confront Maria an accuser? Is she

4671
03:47:42,800 --> 03:47:45,600
Speaker 6: also going to be equally mad hurt at me. I

4672
03:47:45,680 --> 03:47:48,760
Speaker 6: don't know her coworker's friends well enough to trust what

4673
03:47:48,800 --> 03:47:51,480
Speaker 6: they say. I just feel stupid for trying to push

4674
03:47:51,959 --> 03:47:53,760
Speaker 6: for friendship between my husband and Maria.

4675
03:47:53,879 --> 03:47:54,560
Speaker 2: Please help.

4676
03:47:55,080 --> 03:47:57,080
Speaker 3: I think you go to the people who are sleeping

4677
03:47:57,120 --> 03:47:58,840
Speaker 3: on the couch and you say, hey, did you guys

4678
03:47:58,879 --> 03:47:59,240
Speaker 3: hook up?

4679
03:47:59,640 --> 03:47:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

4680
03:48:00,160 --> 03:48:01,400
Speaker 3: I need I need to confirm.

4681
03:48:01,560 --> 03:48:02,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just heard moaning.

4682
03:48:02,879 --> 03:48:03,480
Speaker 3: I heard moaning?

4683
03:48:03,560 --> 03:48:03,680
Speaker 5: Was he?

4684
03:48:04,040 --> 03:48:04,959
Speaker 6: I don't, I don't care.

4685
03:48:05,040 --> 03:48:07,840
Speaker 3: I don't I'm not I'm not calling you out.

4686
03:48:07,879 --> 03:48:10,120
Speaker 6: I just gotta know a Emily, could you put a

4687
03:48:10,200 --> 03:48:13,480
Speaker 6: TLDR for everyone who just joined the chat because there

4688
03:48:13,640 --> 03:48:17,040
Speaker 6: is a thick update on this whole scenario.

4689
03:48:17,440 --> 03:48:20,880
Speaker 3: I think I'm on the the I'm on the opinion

4690
03:48:21,000 --> 03:48:23,240
Speaker 3: that Opie's husband.

4691
03:48:23,000 --> 03:48:25,680
Speaker 6: Has not cheatd I want to believe that he hasn't

4692
03:48:25,720 --> 03:48:28,680
Speaker 6: cheated because he's been so against this friend that Opie

4693
03:48:28,800 --> 03:48:32,200
Speaker 6: is jealous of, and Opie's keeps pushing the relationship with

4694
03:48:32,280 --> 03:48:34,680
Speaker 6: a friend, and like the husband's like, I don't really

4695
03:48:34,720 --> 03:48:37,640
Speaker 6: want to be anywhere near this friend that is basically

4696
03:48:37,720 --> 03:48:40,600
Speaker 6: harassing and flirting with me all the time. I feel

4697
03:48:40,640 --> 03:48:43,480
Speaker 6: like the only thing that we are certain of is

4698
03:48:43,680 --> 03:48:45,160
Speaker 6: we should definitely cut out Maria.

4699
03:48:45,280 --> 03:48:46,600
Speaker 3: I think Maria's got to go.

4700
03:48:46,959 --> 03:48:48,240
Speaker 2: Maria's straight to jail.

4701
03:48:48,800 --> 03:48:53,600
Speaker 6: But here's the update, So give me a lot has

4702
03:48:53,640 --> 03:48:57,160
Speaker 6: happened during the last month, and my mental health is

4703
03:48:57,200 --> 03:49:02,880
Speaker 6: at the lowest due to the betrayals. What, however, I

4704
03:49:03,040 --> 03:49:06,120
Speaker 6: think I know what happened last night. I am sorry

4705
03:49:06,160 --> 03:49:08,440
Speaker 6: for the long posts. So the day after my husband

4706
03:49:08,440 --> 03:49:10,960
Speaker 6: and I stayed at Maria's house for her party, I

4707
03:49:11,120 --> 03:49:14,160
Speaker 6: was unable to shake the feeling that something happened between them.

4708
03:49:14,680 --> 03:49:17,080
Speaker 6: I'm not proud, but I checked my husband's phone and

4709
03:49:17,280 --> 03:49:20,480
Speaker 6: all his messaging apps. Only I don't like that either

4710
03:49:20,560 --> 03:49:23,120
Speaker 6: we don't like that, we don't like that. I only

4711
03:49:23,240 --> 03:49:25,440
Speaker 6: found a Frederick Lachnik.

4712
03:49:25,800 --> 03:49:25,960
Speaker 8: Hey.

4713
03:49:26,000 --> 03:49:28,000
Speaker 6: I hate to say it like this, but the friend

4714
03:49:28,120 --> 03:49:31,640
Speaker 6: that also could be playing with herself too, And that's.

4715
03:49:31,480 --> 03:49:34,400
Speaker 5: Where the moments say that I was I saw your

4716
03:49:34,440 --> 03:49:34,880
Speaker 5: face that.

4717
03:49:37,040 --> 03:49:38,840
Speaker 6: Say. I did not even think about that.

4718
03:49:39,160 --> 03:49:40,960
Speaker 3: I didn't want to say it, but I was thinking should.

4719
03:49:40,720 --> 03:49:41,000
Speaker 6: Have said it.

4720
03:49:41,120 --> 03:49:41,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

4721
03:49:41,760 --> 03:49:43,640
Speaker 6: I only found a brief chat between my husband and

4722
03:49:43,640 --> 03:49:46,640
Speaker 6: Marie on Facebook messenger. Maria thanked my husband for coming

4723
03:49:46,760 --> 03:49:49,080
Speaker 6: to her birthday party and for such a great night

4724
03:49:49,960 --> 03:49:52,520
Speaker 6: that's whack. She sent him a photo of them hugging.

4725
03:49:52,560 --> 03:49:54,240
Speaker 6: At the end of the night, after I was asleep,

4726
03:49:54,560 --> 03:49:58,280
Speaker 6: my husband told Maria that I suspected that something happened

4727
03:49:58,320 --> 03:50:00,720
Speaker 6: between them and asked her to talk to me. Maria

4728
03:50:00,840 --> 03:50:05,000
Speaker 6: told him that she would talk to me. So Opie

4729
03:50:05,120 --> 03:50:08,200
Speaker 6: checked the OPI checked the phone again.

4730
03:50:08,640 --> 03:50:10,880
Speaker 3: I think, okay, that could go either way. That could

4731
03:50:10,880 --> 03:50:13,720
Speaker 3: be suspicious or it could be like, please tell my

4732
03:50:13,760 --> 03:50:15,320
Speaker 3: wife that we did not do anything because we didn't

4733
03:50:15,320 --> 03:50:16,520
Speaker 3: we could didn't do anything.

4734
03:50:16,600 --> 03:50:18,600
Speaker 6: Shout out to Mad Hatter Girl four for five for

4735
03:50:18,720 --> 03:50:20,720
Speaker 6: the five bucks. Good evening everyone, I hope you're well,

4736
03:50:21,040 --> 03:50:22,000
Speaker 6: oh wait, we already read that.

4737
03:50:22,200 --> 03:50:22,360
Speaker 2: Well.

4738
03:50:23,680 --> 03:50:26,440
Speaker 6: So Maria called me the next day and told me

4739
03:50:26,560 --> 03:50:29,120
Speaker 6: I was crazy and she would never think of doing

4740
03:50:29,160 --> 03:50:32,120
Speaker 6: such a thing. She sounded convincing, but I just couldn't

4741
03:50:32,240 --> 03:50:35,480
Speaker 6: shake the gut feeling that something happened. I told her

4742
03:50:35,520 --> 03:50:38,080
Speaker 6: why I suspected, and she called me crazy, and then

4743
03:50:38,200 --> 03:50:41,600
Speaker 6: my head was making up stuff that didn't exist. But again,

4744
03:50:42,120 --> 03:50:45,400
Speaker 6: Opie started by saying, there is betrayal, so where's the betrayal.

4745
03:50:47,520 --> 03:50:50,080
Speaker 6: I also mentioned that I saw her photo with my

4746
03:50:50,200 --> 03:50:52,600
Speaker 6: husband after I was asleep, and she should have kept

4747
03:50:52,880 --> 03:50:56,280
Speaker 6: her distance from him. I decided to distance myself from

4748
03:50:56,320 --> 03:50:58,840
Speaker 6: her as I no longer trusted her as a friend.

4749
03:50:59,080 --> 03:51:00,800
Speaker 4: Finally, cook Cube Forever.

4750
03:51:01,360 --> 03:51:03,640
Speaker 6: We also changed the times went to the gym so

4751
03:51:03,760 --> 03:51:06,080
Speaker 6: that we don't run into her. After a week or so,

4752
03:51:06,240 --> 03:51:08,800
Speaker 6: she messaged my husband on Facebook messenger that they should

4753
03:51:08,840 --> 03:51:10,960
Speaker 6: tell me the whole truth.

4754
03:51:11,120 --> 03:51:15,400
Speaker 3: M she's lying. I now, I'm like she's lying.

4755
03:51:15,600 --> 03:51:17,520
Speaker 6: She's starring up trouble, the whole truth.

4756
03:51:17,920 --> 03:51:19,240
Speaker 3: I feel like she's starring up trouble.

4757
03:51:20,560 --> 03:51:23,160
Speaker 6: My husband kept on asking her what she was talking about,

4758
03:51:23,440 --> 03:51:26,560
Speaker 6: but she kept on telling him that she felt guilty.

4759
03:51:27,000 --> 03:51:28,600
Speaker 2: Conspiracy theory conspiracy.

4760
03:51:30,240 --> 03:51:31,960
Speaker 3: She's stirring up trouble.

4761
03:51:32,560 --> 03:51:37,960
Speaker 6: Conspiracy theory. Okay, conspiracy theory. She likes a husband, wants

4762
03:51:37,960 --> 03:51:40,320
Speaker 6: to have a relationship with them, and it's trying to

4763
03:51:40,320 --> 03:51:41,560
Speaker 6: bring it's trying to break them up.

4764
03:51:41,640 --> 03:51:42,640
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I think so.

4765
03:51:43,200 --> 03:51:44,040
Speaker 6: Conspiracy theory.

4766
03:51:44,160 --> 03:51:44,880
Speaker 3: I agree.

4767
03:51:44,960 --> 03:51:46,120
Speaker 6: I think she's a stinky woman.

4768
03:51:46,160 --> 03:51:47,320
Speaker 3: I think she's a stinky woman.

4769
03:51:47,880 --> 03:51:49,920
Speaker 6: I think, Oh, the man is not a stinky man.

4770
03:51:50,040 --> 03:51:51,640
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think he's just a man

4771
03:51:51,760 --> 03:51:52,160
Speaker 3: trying to.

4772
03:51:52,160 --> 03:51:55,880
Speaker 6: Stinky baby Guyzella. Opie's husband was shirtless, and you know

4773
03:51:55,960 --> 03:51:57,520
Speaker 6: who else is shirtless? Sam?

4774
03:51:58,280 --> 03:52:01,240
Speaker 2: Baby god Zella, why are you comparing me? Back? I guess.

4775
03:52:02,960 --> 03:52:05,080
Speaker 6: We might like him. We might like him unless he

4776
03:52:06,120 --> 03:52:08,240
Speaker 6: Chris Olyne says Maria is a snake.

4777
03:52:08,400 --> 03:52:08,720
Speaker 8: She is.

4778
03:52:09,280 --> 03:52:11,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree, she is scary. Rabbins says am I

4779
03:52:11,920 --> 03:52:13,960
Speaker 6: allowed to use bad words. I think it's fine. I

4780
03:52:14,000 --> 03:52:17,360
Speaker 6: don't think he'll get banned, but you already have. Let's

4781
03:52:17,520 --> 03:52:23,320
Speaker 6: freaking go and see how this ends reality. So I

4782
03:52:23,960 --> 03:52:27,040
Speaker 6: oh my god, oh my god, oh my.

4783
03:52:27,120 --> 03:52:27,880
Speaker 3: God, oh my god.

4784
03:52:27,920 --> 03:52:32,960
Speaker 4: What okay, oh Sam's reading?

4785
03:52:33,440 --> 03:52:37,840
Speaker 6: Okay, sorry because it's skipped to the end. Ah, okay,

4786
03:52:38,080 --> 03:52:39,600
Speaker 6: all right, all right, we're gonna start from the beginning.

4787
03:52:39,840 --> 03:52:43,600
Speaker 6: So my husband kept on telling her what she was

4788
03:52:43,640 --> 03:52:45,880
Speaker 6: talking about, but she kept on telling him that she

4789
03:52:46,000 --> 03:52:49,440
Speaker 6: felt guilty. This is so crazy. My husband came to

4790
03:52:49,520 --> 03:52:51,720
Speaker 6: me and told me Maria was sending messages to him

4791
03:52:51,920 --> 03:52:54,400
Speaker 6: and he's not sure what she is inferring. Oh my god,

4792
03:52:54,440 --> 03:52:57,960
Speaker 6: he came to a green flag. He kept on assuring

4793
03:52:58,000 --> 03:53:01,200
Speaker 6: me nothing happened between them. That night, I told him

4794
03:53:01,600 --> 03:53:05,320
Speaker 6: that I read their secret chats on Facebook messenger, red flag,

4795
03:53:05,600 --> 03:53:09,040
Speaker 6: red Flag. He gaslighted me, calling me insecure that Maria

4796
03:53:09,200 --> 03:53:10,560
Speaker 6: was trying to play in my head.

4797
03:53:10,720 --> 03:53:12,640
Speaker 3: I don't think he's gaslighting you. I don't think he's

4798
03:53:12,640 --> 03:53:14,200
Speaker 3: gaslighting the truth.

4799
03:53:14,480 --> 03:53:16,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I finally.

4800
03:53:18,120 --> 03:53:20,880
Speaker 6: Maria, Yeah, did you cut her out of your life

4801
03:53:21,040 --> 03:53:23,360
Speaker 6: to get her? I finally decided to go to Marie's

4802
03:53:23,400 --> 03:53:27,240
Speaker 6: house and ask her what was going on. Maria initially

4803
03:53:27,320 --> 03:53:30,160
Speaker 6: kept on saying she did not want to talk about it. However,

4804
03:53:30,680 --> 03:53:35,120
Speaker 6: she finally broke and told me what happened. She told

4805
03:53:35,200 --> 03:53:38,240
Speaker 6: me that during the party, my husband kept on staring

4806
03:53:38,280 --> 03:53:41,680
Speaker 6: at her. After they realized I was too drunk, he

4807
03:53:41,760 --> 03:53:43,800
Speaker 6: took me to the bedroom and again I went back

4808
03:53:43,800 --> 03:53:46,000
Speaker 6: to the living room. At this point, he was sitting

4809
03:53:46,040 --> 03:53:49,640
Speaker 6: next to Maria and kept on touching her legs playfully.

4810
03:53:50,120 --> 03:53:51,960
Speaker 5: That doesn't she's all lying.

4811
03:53:52,160 --> 03:53:53,760
Speaker 6: I think she's lying. That doesn't feel like something she

4812
03:53:53,760 --> 03:53:56,040
Speaker 6: would do. Mad Hatter girl links for the five bucks.

4813
03:53:56,520 --> 03:53:59,240
Speaker 3: Because we also know that when op was during the party,

4814
03:53:59,600 --> 03:54:02,760
Speaker 3: she was like he specifically avoided her eye contact.

4815
03:54:03,040 --> 03:54:04,040
Speaker 6: I don't believe.

4816
03:54:04,200 --> 03:54:04,880
Speaker 3: I don't believe.

4817
03:54:05,000 --> 03:54:05,920
Speaker 2: I don't believe her.

4818
03:54:06,200 --> 03:54:06,960
Speaker 3: I don't believe her.

4819
03:54:07,040 --> 03:54:07,960
Speaker 6: Do you believe her or not?

4820
03:54:08,480 --> 03:54:09,280
Speaker 3: I do not believe.

4821
03:54:09,360 --> 03:54:11,480
Speaker 6: Maria was also very drunk and they decided to call

4822
03:54:11,560 --> 03:54:14,080
Speaker 6: it a night. In thirty minutes. Maria said that my

4823
03:54:14,160 --> 03:54:15,480
Speaker 6: husband followed.

4824
03:54:15,160 --> 03:54:16,280
Speaker 2: Her to her room.

4825
03:54:16,400 --> 03:54:19,520
Speaker 6: I don't believe her, and he started undressing her and

4826
03:54:19,680 --> 03:54:22,480
Speaker 6: they were intimate together. She told me that she was

4827
03:54:22,560 --> 03:54:24,800
Speaker 6: too drunk to consent to anything, and it felt like

4828
03:54:24,960 --> 03:54:25,480
Speaker 6: essay to her.

4829
03:54:27,280 --> 03:54:29,840
Speaker 3: Okay. If this is the case, horrible, horrible, horrible, and

4830
03:54:30,000 --> 03:54:33,000
Speaker 3: we hate the Opie's husband. But I don't know if I.

4831
03:54:33,600 --> 03:54:34,200
Speaker 2: I don't believe.

4832
03:54:34,280 --> 03:54:37,920
Speaker 3: I always want to believe the victim, but in this case,

4833
03:54:37,960 --> 03:54:38,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna need a little bit.

4834
03:54:38,960 --> 03:54:39,760
Speaker 2: I don't believe her.

4835
03:54:40,640 --> 03:54:43,320
Speaker 6: She kept quiet to keep peace, but it was bugging

4836
03:54:43,360 --> 03:54:45,680
Speaker 6: her from the inside. I asked her if she was

4837
03:54:45,800 --> 03:54:48,080
Speaker 6: sure she was too drunk that night, and she said

4838
03:54:48,120 --> 03:54:50,800
Speaker 6: that although she was drunk, she remembers all the details.

4839
03:54:51,480 --> 03:54:53,720
Speaker 6: I confronted my husband, but he kept on telling me

4840
03:54:54,080 --> 03:54:56,400
Speaker 6: that he was telling the truth and Maria never liked

4841
03:54:56,480 --> 03:54:58,960
Speaker 6: him and was playing me for a fool. He was

4842
03:54:59,080 --> 03:55:01,520
Speaker 6: so angry at me that he left the house and

4843
03:55:01,640 --> 03:55:04,840
Speaker 6: is currently living in a hotel nearby. All Right, to

4844
03:55:05,040 --> 03:55:09,280
Speaker 6: be clear, the husband has gone to Ope every single time,

4845
03:55:09,960 --> 03:55:12,800
Speaker 6: saying that Maria has kept on flirting with him and

4846
03:55:12,880 --> 03:55:15,400
Speaker 6: he is not comfortable with him. Yeah, and you have

4847
03:55:15,600 --> 03:55:17,600
Speaker 6: seen Maria flirt with him.

4848
03:55:17,920 --> 03:55:22,680
Speaker 3: And over and over, very uncomfortable with it, has said like, hey, please,

4849
03:55:22,760 --> 03:55:24,400
Speaker 3: can you get her out of our life? She's making

4850
03:55:24,480 --> 03:55:27,360
Speaker 3: me very uncomfortable. And now she's coming back and she's

4851
03:55:27,720 --> 03:55:29,880
Speaker 3: And also someone said in the chat like why would

4852
03:55:29,920 --> 03:55:32,640
Speaker 3: she have messaged him directly afterwards and been like, hey,

4853
03:55:32,800 --> 03:55:36,280
Speaker 3: what a great night? Yeah, which obviously everyone handles like

4854
03:55:36,920 --> 03:55:38,560
Speaker 3: a thing like a whole shout out.

4855
03:55:38,480 --> 03:55:42,040
Speaker 6: Matt Hattergal four for five for the five Gifted memberships.

4856
03:55:42,480 --> 03:55:46,680
Speaker 6: But yeah, I just I feel like I feel like

4857
03:55:46,840 --> 03:55:49,440
Speaker 6: she is lying and then she is using she is

4858
03:55:49,760 --> 03:55:53,960
Speaker 6: which is using scurity she's using Ope's insecurity against her. Yeah, yeah,

4859
03:55:54,000 --> 03:55:55,640
Speaker 6: Shelby says, I don't believe that at all. She goes

4860
03:55:55,680 --> 03:55:58,920
Speaker 6: from flirting to denying anything happen to accusing him of essay.

4861
03:55:59,160 --> 03:55:59,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

4862
03:55:59,760 --> 03:56:01,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, and Aggie WIT's an essay is not a joke,

4863
03:56:01,400 --> 03:56:02,920
Speaker 6: and accusing of people of it is hello shitty?

4864
03:56:03,000 --> 03:56:06,160
Speaker 3: If not true, yeah no, if true, obviously is horrible.

4865
03:56:06,320 --> 03:56:08,800
Speaker 3: I don't Yeah. If it's not true, that's a horrible

4866
03:56:08,840 --> 03:56:09,440
Speaker 3: thing for her to do.

4867
03:56:10,360 --> 03:56:10,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so.

4868
03:56:12,520 --> 03:56:15,680
Speaker 6: Let's keep going. Yeah, he's living in a hotel nearby.

4869
03:56:15,720 --> 03:56:17,960
Speaker 6: He keeps calling me and asking me to trust him,

4870
03:56:18,320 --> 03:56:20,280
Speaker 6: but I don't know how I can trust him now.

4871
03:56:20,560 --> 03:56:22,720
Speaker 6: I never expected him to do such a thing. Maria

4872
03:56:22,840 --> 03:56:25,160
Speaker 6: has also been trying to talk to me and asking

4873
03:56:25,520 --> 03:56:29,400
Speaker 6: me to be there to support her. However, I do

4874
03:56:29,560 --> 03:56:31,640
Speaker 6: not know if I can look at either of them.

4875
03:56:31,720 --> 03:56:34,080
Speaker 6: I'm just trying to cope with the situation and plan

4876
03:56:34,200 --> 03:56:35,680
Speaker 6: to go and live with my parents for a few

4877
03:56:35,760 --> 03:56:38,200
Speaker 6: days until my husband and I agree about our future.

4878
03:56:38,520 --> 03:56:40,200
Speaker 6: I know you all thought I was crazy in the

4879
03:56:40,280 --> 03:56:43,040
Speaker 6: previous posts, but I knew in my gut that something

4880
03:56:43,120 --> 03:56:45,480
Speaker 6: was wrong and never expected my life to suddenly come

4881
03:56:45,480 --> 03:56:48,080
Speaker 6: to this point. I don't think it's happening. I don't

4882
03:56:48,080 --> 03:56:49,760
Speaker 6: think it's happening, and I bet you all right, I

4883
03:56:49,840 --> 03:56:51,880
Speaker 6: want to know what all of y'all thought, think, like

4884
03:56:52,280 --> 03:56:54,840
Speaker 6: put your answers in the chat. There is no update,

4885
03:56:55,200 --> 03:56:57,560
Speaker 6: but I would like to read. I would like to

4886
03:56:57,600 --> 03:57:00,200
Speaker 6: read the comments from Reddit, because there's no way the

4887
03:57:00,280 --> 03:57:02,520
Speaker 6: only one that sees it. So macer Racer says, it

4888
03:57:02,520 --> 03:57:04,840
Speaker 6: would make sense if she had gone into the room

4889
03:57:04,880 --> 03:57:07,280
Speaker 6: with OPI and her husband because his shirt was already

4890
03:57:07,280 --> 03:57:09,960
Speaker 6: in the chair. Yeah, because he like, all right, this

4891
03:57:10,080 --> 03:57:11,960
Speaker 6: is what I think happened with the shirt at the situation.

4892
03:57:12,480 --> 03:57:15,080
Speaker 6: He was sleeping in the bed. Yes, he was sweaty

4893
03:57:15,120 --> 03:57:17,280
Speaker 6: because it was so hot in the room. Yes, he

4894
03:57:17,440 --> 03:57:19,720
Speaker 6: was sleeping just in his boxers. He didn't want to

4895
03:57:19,720 --> 03:57:23,000
Speaker 6: be indecent, so he put on his jeans, his jeans,

4896
03:57:23,040 --> 03:57:25,160
Speaker 6: but didn't feel like putting on his his shirt, which

4897
03:57:25,200 --> 03:57:27,200
Speaker 6: he left in the room. Yes, and then he went

4898
03:57:27,240 --> 03:57:27,880
Speaker 6: to the bathroom.

4899
03:57:28,000 --> 03:57:28,320
Speaker 2: Pete.

4900
03:57:28,560 --> 03:57:31,240
Speaker 6: And then the moaning that she heard was from the

4901
03:57:31,240 --> 03:57:33,000
Speaker 6: people in the living room, people in the living room,

4902
03:57:33,200 --> 03:57:35,280
Speaker 6: because she would have heard it more easily from the

4903
03:57:35,280 --> 03:57:36,720
Speaker 6: people in the living room, not if he was all

4904
03:57:36,760 --> 03:57:39,520
Speaker 6: the way in the room. With Maria, it would have

4905
03:57:39,560 --> 03:57:41,640
Speaker 6: been like much louder. It would have been much louder

4906
03:57:41,800 --> 03:57:42,280
Speaker 6: if it was.

4907
03:57:42,400 --> 03:57:44,360
Speaker 3: She also thought originally that it was from the people

4908
03:57:44,360 --> 03:57:44,920
Speaker 3: in the living room.

4909
03:57:45,040 --> 03:57:48,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly exactly, which I think it probably was. It

4910
03:57:48,120 --> 03:57:52,320
Speaker 6: probably was, But I want to hear what Reddit thinks, Riley. Dude,

4911
03:57:52,320 --> 03:57:54,760
Speaker 6: I'm gonna, uh, I'm gonna pull up some of the

4912
03:57:54,800 --> 03:57:59,160
Speaker 6: Reddit comments because like, yeah, so here I'm pulling.

4913
03:57:59,400 --> 03:57:59,920
Speaker 5: Here's a good one.

4914
03:58:00,120 --> 03:58:02,880
Speaker 6: Pulling it up right now, copy it in there. So

4915
03:58:03,600 --> 03:58:08,640
Speaker 6: all right, let's get into this. So, yeah, if you're

4916
03:58:08,680 --> 03:58:11,520
Speaker 6: looking for some honesty, this is from bands do nothing.

4917
03:58:12,800 --> 03:58:14,720
Speaker 6: Have you noticed that your friend's version of the story

4918
03:58:14,840 --> 03:58:17,480
Speaker 6: just so happens to make your husband look like the

4919
03:58:17,560 --> 03:58:21,160
Speaker 6: bad guy and her completely innocent and a victim After

4920
03:58:21,280 --> 03:58:23,680
Speaker 6: her messaging that they should come clean and that she

4921
03:58:23,760 --> 03:58:26,600
Speaker 6: feels bad, which one is it? Does she feel bad

4922
03:58:26,640 --> 03:58:29,040
Speaker 6: about what she did or was she just the victim?

4923
03:58:29,400 --> 03:58:32,840
Speaker 6: It smells bullshit. Yeah, her story is not even consistent.

4924
03:58:33,000 --> 03:58:36,040
Speaker 3: And also it's really weird for her to be like, like, oh, hey,

4925
03:58:36,040 --> 03:58:37,520
Speaker 3: we should come clean and he's like, what are you

4926
03:58:37,560 --> 03:58:38,080
Speaker 3: talking about?

4927
03:58:38,240 --> 03:58:41,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, Aoki says, fuck Maria, she's so full of shit.

4928
03:58:41,240 --> 03:58:43,520
Speaker 6: Her eyes are brown. Go talk to your husband and

4929
03:58:43,680 --> 03:58:45,240
Speaker 6: never talk to that hoo. Can you scroll down a

4930
03:58:45,240 --> 03:58:47,120
Speaker 6: little bit and see what everyone else is saying, and

4931
03:58:47,200 --> 03:58:49,640
Speaker 6: that that was the highest upvoted comment, so I think

4932
03:58:49,680 --> 03:58:53,040
Speaker 6: everyone agrees. I think another person says, you are conveniently

4933
03:58:53,120 --> 03:58:55,960
Speaker 6: believing Maria over your husband again. As others have mentioned,

4934
03:58:55,960 --> 03:58:58,320
Speaker 6: it's odd she'd thank him for a great night but

4935
03:58:58,440 --> 03:59:01,400
Speaker 6: then claim to you she was sexually assaulted. I don't know.

4936
03:59:01,480 --> 03:59:04,120
Speaker 6: It seems to me you'd rather believe the worst in

4937
03:59:04,200 --> 03:59:05,440
Speaker 6: your husband. Truth be damned.

4938
03:59:05,640 --> 03:59:08,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that. I don't think the relationship can

4939
03:59:08,080 --> 03:59:10,160
Speaker 3: come back, but I'm really hoping that the truth comes up.

4940
03:59:10,240 --> 03:59:13,840
Speaker 6: Barbie Artie says, the math ain't math, and yeah, agreed, agreed.

4941
03:59:14,000 --> 03:59:17,400
Speaker 6: I think I think she's totally she's totally just throwing

4942
03:59:17,440 --> 03:59:18,280
Speaker 6: op for a looser.

4943
03:59:18,360 --> 03:59:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4944
03:59:18,920 --> 03:59:21,640
Speaker 3: Oh, it would not make sense for the husband to

4945
03:59:21,880 --> 03:59:24,400
Speaker 3: over and over again be like, hey, I am not

4946
03:59:24,560 --> 03:59:28,280
Speaker 3: comfortable with Maria's behavior. She's flirting with me, coming to

4947
03:59:28,880 --> 03:59:31,680
Speaker 3: Opie every time, and then to like switch it up.

4948
03:59:32,240 --> 03:59:36,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I think like Maria is just using insecurity

4949
03:59:36,120 --> 03:59:38,520
Speaker 6: against her, you know, I think it's I think it's

4950
03:59:38,880 --> 03:59:42,960
Speaker 6: it's really really terrible yeah, so yeah, let us know

4951
03:59:43,080 --> 03:59:46,280
Speaker 6: what you think the husband should do in the situation, right,

4952
03:59:46,320 --> 03:59:49,800
Speaker 6: because he's really caught in a weird situation. Obviously, I

4953
03:59:49,920 --> 03:59:54,320
Speaker 6: think the op is being like manipulated by Maria. But

4954
03:59:54,360 --> 03:59:57,560
Speaker 6: what should the husband do in this situation? Let us know?

4955
03:59:57,800 --> 04:00:00,840
Speaker 6: But you know what I want to know about next

4956
04:00:01,160 --> 04:00:05,480
Speaker 6: this next story? Yeah, love Bubble says you should leave,

4957
04:00:05,880 --> 04:00:11,440
Speaker 6: and we're on three sixty eight s two what is Yeah,

4958
04:00:11,480 --> 04:00:15,320
Speaker 6: Susie Richuolia says Opie is self sabotaging.

4959
04:00:15,480 --> 04:00:16,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, facts and.

4960
04:00:16,520 --> 04:00:18,720
Speaker 6: Sophia, do you want me to get you a something eat?

4961
04:00:18,800 --> 04:00:19,080
Speaker 4: I would.

4962
04:00:19,840 --> 04:00:21,800
Speaker 6: I'm gonna get you some snacks. I'm gonna Sophia's gonna

4963
04:00:21,800 --> 04:00:24,120
Speaker 6: start reading this story solo while I get some snacks.

4964
04:00:24,400 --> 04:00:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna rear back.

4965
04:00:26,440 --> 04:00:30,640
Speaker 3: Who Hannah Benson wants me to sing the story. I

4966
04:00:30,720 --> 04:00:33,200
Speaker 3: feel like you don't. I don't think you really want that,

4967
04:00:33,400 --> 04:00:38,640
Speaker 3: Sam light Feet, Uh, well, we'll have a singing segment

4968
04:00:38,960 --> 04:00:43,880
Speaker 3: at another day. My husband forty two male is never jealous,

4969
04:00:44,000 --> 04:00:49,040
Speaker 3: and I thirty six female, am growing resentful. So Time

4970
04:00:49,120 --> 04:00:52,040
Speaker 3: travel Paradox says I've been married to my husband for

4971
04:00:52,120 --> 04:00:56,960
Speaker 3: twelve years, thirteen together, three kids. I thought they were saying.

4972
04:00:56,840 --> 04:00:59,320
Speaker 5: Thirteen kids together, Oh my my gosh.

4973
04:00:59,160 --> 04:01:04,480
Speaker 3: Thirteen years together but married twelve. He proposed six months. Oh,

4974
04:01:04,840 --> 04:01:07,880
Speaker 3: he proposed six months after we got together and told

4975
04:01:07,920 --> 04:01:10,960
Speaker 3: me he knew by the second date. That's so sweet.

4976
04:01:11,280 --> 04:01:14,520
Speaker 3: He is indeed very practical and rational. He's also very

4977
04:01:14,600 --> 04:01:18,839
Speaker 3: caring and kind and supportive. Just a really wonderful partner.

4978
04:01:19,440 --> 04:01:26,160
Speaker 3: Except for one thing. He doesn't get jealous, like at all.

4979
04:01:26,720 --> 04:01:27,600
Speaker 3: I feel like that's a good thing.

4980
04:01:27,640 --> 04:01:28,360
Speaker 2: That's okay.

4981
04:01:28,600 --> 04:01:29,560
Speaker 3: That seems like a good thing.

4982
04:01:29,800 --> 04:01:31,160
Speaker 5: Like he's secure about himself.

4983
04:01:31,320 --> 04:01:32,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's so bad.

4984
04:01:32,840 --> 04:01:33,360
Speaker 3: I hate it.

4985
04:01:34,280 --> 04:01:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh could he do this to me?

4986
04:01:36,280 --> 04:01:40,920
Speaker 3: I think that's a good thing. By that, I mean

4987
04:01:41,080 --> 04:01:43,560
Speaker 3: if someone flirts with me, he will just chuckle and

4988
04:01:43,760 --> 04:01:48,240
Speaker 3: move on, sometimes leaving me to deal with them alone. Well,

4989
04:01:48,320 --> 04:01:50,400
Speaker 3: that's all that as good. When his friend's father spent

4990
04:01:50,480 --> 04:01:53,160
Speaker 3: the entire night of his son's wedding hitting on me,

4991
04:01:53,400 --> 04:01:56,320
Speaker 3: he just said what a loser and moved on. I

4992
04:01:56,440 --> 04:01:58,840
Speaker 3: even had an ex write a poem and post it

4993
04:01:59,000 --> 04:02:03,920
Speaker 3: tagged me. Still, he just said, wow. Cool. And when

4994
04:02:03,960 --> 04:02:06,800
Speaker 3: I say how come you're not jealous, he says, why

4995
04:02:06,920 --> 04:02:08,560
Speaker 3: would I be? I trust you?

4996
04:02:09,120 --> 04:02:11,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is good. This is good.

4997
04:02:11,680 --> 04:02:15,040
Speaker 3: However, if someone's like hitting on your partner and like

4998
04:02:15,160 --> 04:02:17,960
Speaker 3: making them uncomfortable, you need to probably step in.

4999
04:02:18,160 --> 04:02:19,800
Speaker 5: I'll probably slide in and like make fun of it,

5000
04:02:19,960 --> 04:02:22,280
Speaker 5: be like, hey, you come here often, and then just

5001
04:02:22,400 --> 04:02:22,920
Speaker 5: take them away.

5002
04:02:23,120 --> 04:02:26,000
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, like get them out of that situation. But overall,

5003
04:02:26,080 --> 04:02:29,320
Speaker 3: I think this is this is good traits because he

5004
04:02:29,440 --> 04:02:33,680
Speaker 3: trust you. Last week I reached my boiling point. A

5005
04:02:33,800 --> 04:02:36,320
Speaker 3: month ago, there were some workers transferred to our department.

5006
04:02:36,440 --> 04:02:40,720
Speaker 3: Among them was my ex. We broke up amicably. He

5007
04:02:40,840 --> 04:02:44,200
Speaker 3: moved to a different state, and we kept very shallow contact,

5008
04:02:44,400 --> 04:02:47,120
Speaker 3: like once a year for a happy birthday text. When

5009
04:02:47,120 --> 04:02:50,440
Speaker 3: I went home, I immediately told my husband, also, thank

5010
04:02:50,480 --> 04:02:53,040
Speaker 3: you Shadow Pumpkin for the two bucks. Some people equate

5011
04:02:53,120 --> 04:02:58,800
Speaker 3: jealousy with love. That does seem like what's interesting. When

5012
04:02:58,840 --> 04:03:01,200
Speaker 3: I went home, I immediately told my husband and he

5013
04:03:01,280 --> 04:03:06,400
Speaker 3: said cool and then started talking about something else. I snapped,

5014
04:03:07,080 --> 04:03:09,880
Speaker 3: not my proudest moment, but I said, are you serious?

5015
04:03:10,200 --> 04:03:12,080
Speaker 3: I just told you I'm working with my ex I

5016
04:03:12,160 --> 04:03:14,880
Speaker 3: stayed with for years, and you don't care? He said,

5017
04:03:15,520 --> 04:03:17,200
Speaker 3: what do you want me to say? I know you,

5018
04:03:17,360 --> 04:03:19,960
Speaker 3: and I know you're extremely loyal. I know you'll never

5019
04:03:20,080 --> 04:03:22,920
Speaker 3: cross any boundaries. I completely trust you, So why would

5020
04:03:22,920 --> 04:03:26,320
Speaker 3: I be jealous? I mean, honestly's green flags greeno?

5021
04:03:26,400 --> 04:03:31,080
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like in a way,

5022
04:03:31,120 --> 04:03:33,080
Speaker 5: she's trying to get more attention out of him, and

5023
04:03:33,360 --> 04:03:34,800
Speaker 5: this is the way that she feels this is the

5024
04:03:34,880 --> 04:03:35,360
Speaker 5: right way.

5025
04:03:35,200 --> 04:03:35,440
Speaker 2: To do it.

5026
04:03:35,560 --> 04:03:37,040
Speaker 3: I think she needs Yeah, I think a little bit

5027
04:03:37,080 --> 04:03:41,040
Speaker 3: of therapy might be an order on her. On her side, now,

5028
04:03:41,160 --> 04:03:43,800
Speaker 3: I know I will never cross any boundaries. We've never

5029
04:03:43,880 --> 04:03:46,520
Speaker 3: had an issue in our relationship. Oh, that issue in

5030
04:03:46,560 --> 04:03:49,480
Speaker 3: our relationship. I'm crazy about my husband. He's the one

5031
04:03:49,520 --> 04:03:51,880
Speaker 3: and only. I have spent my life showing him how

5032
04:03:51,960 --> 04:03:54,360
Speaker 3: much I love him, because I really do. But being

5033
04:03:54,480 --> 04:03:57,200
Speaker 3: jealous I see it. Oh, but being jealous, I see

5034
04:03:57,240 --> 04:03:59,520
Speaker 3: it as an expression of love. So whoever said that

5035
04:03:59,560 --> 04:03:59,880
Speaker 3: in the chat?

5036
04:04:00,200 --> 04:04:00,320
Speaker 9: Right?

5037
04:04:00,760 --> 04:04:03,520
Speaker 3: And him being so cold and indifferent is making me

5038
04:04:03,680 --> 04:04:06,360
Speaker 3: resentful and I hate it. It just feels like he's

5039
04:04:06,360 --> 04:04:09,160
Speaker 3: taken me for granted. I'm hurt and he has been

5040
04:04:09,200 --> 04:04:12,480
Speaker 3: more affectionate than usual, but hasn't referred to that argument again,

5041
04:04:12,960 --> 04:04:15,280
Speaker 3: How do I navigate these feelings? It seems silly, but

5042
04:04:15,440 --> 04:04:17,760
Speaker 3: I am hurt and there are some relevant comments.

5043
04:04:18,120 --> 04:04:20,080
Speaker 5: Question, Yes, do you get jealous.

5044
04:04:21,160 --> 04:04:28,120
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, cool, ok, I ever gotten jealous? Yeah yeah,

5045
04:04:29,080 --> 04:04:31,280
Speaker 3: I think it's natural to get jealous sometimes. But I

5046
04:04:31,360 --> 04:04:37,200
Speaker 3: think that this is a little bit of silly. Yeah yeah,

5047
04:04:37,240 --> 04:04:40,200
Speaker 3: because she's literally like, oh, he's cold and indifferent. He's

5048
04:04:40,240 --> 04:04:43,240
Speaker 3: literally not. We've just learned that he's affectionate. All he's

5049
04:04:43,280 --> 04:04:45,240
Speaker 3: saying is that I trust you and I don't think

5050
04:04:45,280 --> 04:04:46,760
Speaker 3: that you're going to cheat on me, So I don't

5051
04:04:46,800 --> 04:04:49,920
Speaker 3: feel the need to like be all huffy and puffy

5052
04:04:49,960 --> 04:04:50,320
Speaker 3: about it.

5053
04:04:50,760 --> 04:04:51,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, is that such a bad thing?

5054
04:04:52,480 --> 04:04:52,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

5055
04:04:53,840 --> 04:04:53,880
Speaker 9: No.

5056
04:04:54,760 --> 04:04:57,680
Speaker 3: Also, yeah, Rachel Hatchett, thank you for the two bucks.

5057
04:04:57,840 --> 04:05:01,640
Speaker 3: Okay does and it needs therapy. But there are some

5058
04:05:01,760 --> 04:05:06,400
Speaker 3: relevant comments. So that boy says, I think when you

5059
04:05:06,440 --> 04:05:09,040
Speaker 3: say jealous, what you're asking what you're not asking for

5060
04:05:09,240 --> 04:05:12,600
Speaker 3: his What you are not asking for is him to

5061
04:05:12,720 --> 04:05:17,960
Speaker 3: express insecurity, but instead to display some form of territory protection.

5062
04:05:18,680 --> 04:05:20,560
Speaker 3: You want him to act a bit more aggressive in

5063
04:05:20,640 --> 04:05:23,160
Speaker 3: protecting what is his. Maybe talk to him from that

5064
04:05:23,240 --> 04:05:25,160
Speaker 3: point of view, Tell him you don't want him to

5065
04:05:25,240 --> 04:05:27,320
Speaker 3: cry and weep about how some guy is going to

5066
04:05:27,440 --> 04:05:30,320
Speaker 3: take you away, but rather just a bit of back

5067
04:05:30,400 --> 04:05:34,120
Speaker 3: off pal instead. I suspect this is related to wanting

5068
04:05:34,240 --> 04:05:35,640
Speaker 3: to feel protected by him.

5069
04:05:36,400 --> 04:05:39,240
Speaker 5: That's a really good point. Wanted to feel protected by him.

5070
04:05:39,320 --> 04:05:41,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and Opie says, thank you, that is exactly what

5071
04:05:41,600 --> 04:05:44,360
Speaker 3: I mean. There was one instance when someone was hitting

5072
04:05:44,400 --> 04:05:46,720
Speaker 3: on me quite aggressively and my husband just put his

5073
04:05:46,800 --> 04:05:49,520
Speaker 3: hands on my shoulders and said, hey, knock it off.

5074
04:05:50,040 --> 04:05:53,600
Speaker 3: He indeed stopped, and I was over the mood moon.

5075
04:05:54,000 --> 04:05:54,720
Speaker 3: So you are right.

5076
04:05:55,160 --> 04:05:59,640
Speaker 5: Oh, so she wants to kind of feel like more

5077
04:06:00,080 --> 04:06:02,680
Speaker 5: protected over and that's what she doesn't feel like is

5078
04:06:02,880 --> 04:06:04,400
Speaker 5: happening in her relationship.

5079
04:06:04,520 --> 04:06:07,200
Speaker 3: But I don't think I do. Yeah, I think that

5080
04:06:07,360 --> 04:06:11,720
Speaker 3: that is. I think they need to talk about that because, yeah,

5081
04:06:12,000 --> 04:06:13,480
Speaker 3: I need a little bit therapy.

5082
04:06:13,880 --> 04:06:17,240
Speaker 5: Can we give a TLDR for Sam Bony give it

5083
04:06:17,320 --> 04:06:18,120
Speaker 5: to me baby?

5084
04:06:19,000 --> 04:06:22,120
Speaker 3: Hey everyone, Yeah, there is an update, but Sam can

5085
04:06:24,600 --> 04:06:28,200
Speaker 3: Oh right, yeah, you have to out TLDR. Op is

5086
04:06:28,240 --> 04:06:32,520
Speaker 3: in a relationship with this guy and she is mad

5087
04:06:32,640 --> 04:06:37,680
Speaker 3: that he is not jealous when people are like flirting

5088
04:06:37,760 --> 04:06:38,760
Speaker 3: with her and hitting on her.

5089
04:06:39,120 --> 04:06:40,000
Speaker 2: Is this one still working?

5090
04:06:42,480 --> 04:06:43,040
Speaker 5: Need some help?

5091
04:06:43,760 --> 04:06:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

5092
04:06:45,520 --> 04:06:46,400
Speaker 6: Okay, wait say again.

5093
04:06:46,600 --> 04:06:50,040
Speaker 3: So basically, she's in a relationship with this guy and

5094
04:06:50,560 --> 04:06:53,360
Speaker 3: she's mad that he's not getting jealous when people hit

5095
04:06:53,480 --> 04:06:56,400
Speaker 3: on her. Uh, and she's She's like, why aren't you

5096
04:06:56,520 --> 04:06:59,040
Speaker 3: jealous of me? She thinks that he's not in love

5097
04:06:59,040 --> 04:07:01,480
Speaker 3: with her, but he says that he's not jealous.

5098
04:07:01,520 --> 04:07:01,760
Speaker 4: Wood.

5099
04:07:03,120 --> 04:07:05,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he says that he's not jealous because he

5100
04:07:05,360 --> 04:07:07,440
Speaker 3: trusts her and knows that she won't she does.

5101
04:07:07,440 --> 04:07:08,520
Speaker 2: Which is help.

5102
04:07:08,960 --> 04:07:12,880
Speaker 6: Yeah that's good. Yeah, that's good. But it sounded like

5103
04:07:12,920 --> 04:07:15,320
Speaker 6: she wanted to be like protected what she's shying?

5104
04:07:15,960 --> 04:07:17,080
Speaker 3: But I don't know if that great?

5105
04:07:17,160 --> 04:07:18,000
Speaker 2: Is that is that true?

5106
04:07:18,960 --> 04:07:19,120
Speaker 6: Well?

5107
04:07:19,240 --> 04:07:19,720
Speaker 4: It seems so.

5108
04:07:20,080 --> 04:07:20,800
Speaker 3: But there is an update.

5109
04:07:20,840 --> 04:07:23,000
Speaker 6: There is an update. Also, shout up, I'm again thanks

5110
04:07:23,080 --> 04:07:26,560
Speaker 6: for the one dollar tip. We are getting some snacks.

5111
04:07:27,040 --> 04:07:29,280
Speaker 3: I can't believe. Sam also stole my cookies. I just

5112
04:07:29,360 --> 04:07:29,960
Speaker 3: bought those, I.

5113
04:07:30,000 --> 04:07:32,040
Speaker 2: Did and I will replace them. Don't worry.

5114
04:07:32,160 --> 04:07:35,320
Speaker 6: Good all right, Hey we have someone from Kick found

5115
04:07:35,400 --> 04:07:37,960
Speaker 6: dead in Hollywood. Hey, thanks for Kick people.

5116
04:07:39,280 --> 04:07:39,720
Speaker 2: We love you.

5117
04:07:41,200 --> 04:07:45,280
Speaker 3: Okay, update, Hello again. So I just got a lot

5118
04:07:45,360 --> 04:07:49,600
Speaker 3: of messages, advice and yes, insults. It's okay, I see why.

5119
04:07:50,200 --> 04:07:52,120
Speaker 3: By the way, I just had a baby and someone

5120
04:07:52,200 --> 04:07:54,640
Speaker 3: told me that that is important as it might have

5121
04:07:54,720 --> 04:07:58,840
Speaker 3: added to my insecurities. That's true, pregnancy hormones or post pregnancy.

5122
04:07:59,600 --> 04:08:01,880
Speaker 3: I fall your advice and talk to my husband. I

5123
04:08:01,960 --> 04:08:04,720
Speaker 3: started by apologizing to him, and he said, it's okay.

5124
04:08:05,520 --> 04:08:07,520
Speaker 3: I just want to understand where this is coming from.

5125
04:08:09,080 --> 04:08:11,920
Speaker 3: So I explained, by jealous, I didn't mean him getting

5126
04:08:11,960 --> 04:08:15,800
Speaker 3: controlling or violent or even throwing a fit. I understand

5127
04:08:15,880 --> 04:08:18,800
Speaker 3: I expressed myself poorly. I meant I wanted him to

5128
04:08:18,880 --> 04:08:21,440
Speaker 3: show he cares enough to have a back off attitude

5129
04:08:21,600 --> 04:08:24,200
Speaker 3: when someone hits on me in front of him or

5130
04:08:24,360 --> 04:08:28,160
Speaker 3: just asks how is it at work? Him not caring.

5131
04:08:28,880 --> 04:08:31,120
Speaker 3: I took it as him taking me for granted and

5132
04:08:31,320 --> 04:08:34,640
Speaker 3: not loving me or finding me attractive. He was shocked.

5133
04:08:35,120 --> 04:08:37,000
Speaker 3: He laughed and said, how did you jump from me

5134
04:08:37,120 --> 04:08:40,360
Speaker 3: trusting you to me not loving you? Loel. He then

5135
04:08:40,440 --> 04:08:42,760
Speaker 3: explained his side. He said a lot. But here is

5136
04:08:42,840 --> 04:08:45,360
Speaker 3: the gist. I don't get jealous because I feel it

5137
04:08:45,480 --> 04:08:49,320
Speaker 3: is disrespectful to you. I don't say anything either, because

5138
04:08:49,360 --> 04:08:51,600
Speaker 3: I keep thinking you don't need my production. But I

5139
04:08:51,680 --> 04:08:54,400
Speaker 3: see your point in that I will change. But I'm

5140
04:08:54,440 --> 04:08:56,520
Speaker 3: not jealous because the notion of you betraying me is

5141
04:08:56,600 --> 04:08:58,880
Speaker 3: just foreign. I know you, and I know how much

5142
04:08:58,920 --> 04:09:01,800
Speaker 3: you love me. I believe me that is something I

5143
04:09:01,920 --> 04:09:05,560
Speaker 3: will not take for granted. There were many instances that

5144
04:09:05,640 --> 04:09:08,160
Speaker 3: cemented my trust for you. For example, when one month

5145
04:09:08,240 --> 04:09:10,880
Speaker 3: after we started dang dating, I saw turned down a

5146
04:09:10,960 --> 04:09:13,840
Speaker 3: guy who looked like a movie star, and we hadn't

5147
04:09:13,880 --> 04:09:17,000
Speaker 3: even talked about being exclusive yet. I didn't know he

5148
04:09:17,120 --> 04:09:19,880
Speaker 3: saw that. When you stood by my side when I

5149
04:09:19,960 --> 04:09:23,160
Speaker 3: lost my dad, when you sold your car because I

5150
04:09:23,240 --> 04:09:27,600
Speaker 3: needed an urgent surgery. Anytime you initiate sex, I'm singing

5151
04:09:27,680 --> 04:09:31,520
Speaker 3: inside the sweet notes I find randomly in my bag, etc.

5152
04:09:31,960 --> 04:09:34,840
Speaker 3: The point is I feel secure and comfortable. Do you

5153
04:09:34,920 --> 04:09:37,560
Speaker 3: have any idea how rare that is. I work with

5154
04:09:37,600 --> 04:09:40,440
Speaker 3: a lot of guys. I hear horror stories. While while

5155
04:09:40,640 --> 04:09:42,960
Speaker 3: there is me who can't wait to oh, while there

5156
04:09:43,040 --> 04:09:45,640
Speaker 3: is me who can't wait to finish, to go running

5157
04:09:45,840 --> 04:09:48,840
Speaker 3: back home to be with you. I told him about

5158
04:09:48,880 --> 04:09:52,000
Speaker 3: how he feels when I sometimes get jealous. He just laughed.

5159
04:09:52,160 --> 04:09:53,960
Speaker 3: He said, I always find it cute that you think

5160
04:09:54,000 --> 04:09:58,080
Speaker 3: I can see and be with someone else. I'm all yours, body,

5161
04:09:58,520 --> 04:10:01,800
Speaker 3: soul and heart. Oh there's a fly that.

5162
04:10:02,000 --> 04:10:05,480
Speaker 6: Is literally the best. Situation's so sweet.

5163
04:10:05,560 --> 04:10:07,640
Speaker 3: There there's more, there's more, It gets cuter.

5164
04:10:07,920 --> 04:10:11,400
Speaker 6: This is so ye, this is so wholesome. Yeah, this

5165
04:10:11,640 --> 04:10:13,440
Speaker 6: is shadow pumpkin green flag.

5166
04:10:13,960 --> 04:10:14,480
Speaker 2: Agreed.

5167
04:10:15,640 --> 04:10:18,560
Speaker 6: Also, I'm eating, I'm like munching on all right.

5168
04:10:18,600 --> 04:10:19,320
Speaker 3: Now their mine.

5169
04:10:20,240 --> 04:10:21,000
Speaker 2: You can have it after you.

5170
04:10:21,080 --> 04:10:23,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you finish the story, you get a cookie.

5171
04:10:23,040 --> 04:10:26,160
Speaker 2: If yeah, do you want a cookie?

5172
04:10:27,920 --> 04:10:29,960
Speaker 3: If you give a YouTuber.

5173
04:10:29,600 --> 04:10:32,120
Speaker 6: A cookie, he'll eat for a day.

5174
04:10:32,640 --> 04:10:33,960
Speaker 3: Oh No, I was doing like the if you give

5175
04:10:33,960 --> 04:10:34,960
Speaker 3: a mass of cookie, if.

5176
04:10:34,880 --> 04:10:36,440
Speaker 2: You get a Oh I thought it was like if

5177
04:10:36,480 --> 04:10:37,360
Speaker 2: you give a man of fish.

5178
04:10:38,480 --> 04:10:40,680
Speaker 3: He then said I had an ex who kept on

5179
04:10:40,800 --> 04:10:43,520
Speaker 3: flirting with guys and then would eventually cheat. It was

5180
04:10:43,640 --> 04:10:48,080
Speaker 3: nerve wracking. I was on edge, an anxious, worried. Now uh,

5181
04:10:48,920 --> 04:10:51,320
Speaker 3: I am at oh, but now I'm at peace. So

5182
04:10:51,520 --> 04:10:53,920
Speaker 3: me trusting you is me loving you and being at

5183
04:10:53,960 --> 04:10:56,320
Speaker 3: peace knowing that we can be an ocean apart. I

5184
04:10:56,520 --> 04:10:59,320
Speaker 3: know you will respect us. Now let me ask you

5185
04:10:59,360 --> 04:11:02,800
Speaker 3: about this act. Have you had any inappropriate conversations any

5186
04:11:02,840 --> 04:11:05,960
Speaker 3: one on one lunches slash dinners, any lines crossed? And

5187
04:11:06,080 --> 04:11:09,120
Speaker 3: I said no, no, no, of course, and he just

5188
04:11:09,200 --> 04:11:16,000
Speaker 3: smiled and said, I knew it. Ah, But I can

5189
04:11:16,080 --> 04:11:18,760
Speaker 3: see how you've been not been yourself lately, and I'm

5190
04:11:18,880 --> 04:11:20,920
Speaker 3: sorry if I did anything that makes you doubt how

5191
04:11:21,000 --> 04:11:23,200
Speaker 3: much I love you. I will work on that, I promise.

5192
04:11:23,680 --> 04:11:26,360
Speaker 4: Oh oh so cute.

5193
04:11:27,960 --> 04:11:34,360
Speaker 3: Oh no, cover up, Sorry, guys, it's giving me a

5194
04:11:34,400 --> 04:11:35,280
Speaker 3: little saucy.

5195
04:11:36,280 --> 04:11:36,400
Speaker 13: Uh.

5196
04:11:36,640 --> 04:11:38,600
Speaker 3: Then he got to the point of the part that

5197
04:11:38,720 --> 04:11:41,360
Speaker 3: I was avoiding. He said, given how and where I

5198
04:11:41,520 --> 04:11:44,120
Speaker 3: was raised and how my parents have been, he isn't

5199
04:11:44,120 --> 04:11:50,200
Speaker 3: that surprised. I mistook jealousy for love for contact. Said,

5200
04:11:50,600 --> 04:11:52,840
Speaker 3: for context, my parents have been together for years, but

5201
04:11:52,960 --> 04:11:56,520
Speaker 3: should have divorced years ago. It is a constant cycle

5202
04:11:56,640 --> 04:12:01,360
Speaker 3: of love and hate. Relationship. Used to even beat me

5203
04:12:01,560 --> 04:12:03,480
Speaker 3: and then say that it was because he loves me

5204
04:12:03,600 --> 04:12:05,720
Speaker 3: so much and is worried about what kind of person

5205
04:12:05,760 --> 04:12:06,120
Speaker 3: I will be.

5206
04:12:06,520 --> 04:12:07,360
Speaker 6: Oh horrible hot.

5207
04:12:08,520 --> 04:12:11,120
Speaker 3: So we talked about therapy. I will be going next week.

5208
04:12:11,280 --> 04:12:14,480
Speaker 3: He also suggested a couple counseling because he wanted to

5209
04:12:14,560 --> 04:12:16,840
Speaker 3: learn how to be a better husband. We also talked

5210
04:12:16,880 --> 04:12:20,960
Speaker 3: about different love languages, future plans, et cetera. He called Ma,

5211
04:12:21,280 --> 04:12:23,360
Speaker 3: his mom, and asked her to take care of the

5212
04:12:23,440 --> 04:12:25,440
Speaker 3: kids while we went on a date. We had dinner

5213
04:12:25,520 --> 04:12:28,000
Speaker 3: and then had ice cream. When we reached her home,

5214
04:12:28,080 --> 04:12:30,360
Speaker 3: I was laughing hard at his dad jokes. It's kind

5215
04:12:30,400 --> 04:12:32,920
Speaker 3: of his thing, so he suddenly hugged me along and

5216
04:12:33,000 --> 04:12:37,320
Speaker 3: said welcome back, Love. I missed you. I melted so

5217
04:12:37,440 --> 04:12:39,320
Speaker 3: now he's sleeping with his head on my lap. I

5218
04:12:39,400 --> 04:12:41,640
Speaker 3: wanted to thank you all for your advice, kind and

5219
04:12:41,760 --> 04:12:44,800
Speaker 3: even harsh words. I needed them to be honest. I'm

5220
04:12:44,800 --> 04:12:47,000
Speaker 3: still scared of therapy because I know how ugly it's

5221
04:12:47,040 --> 04:12:49,840
Speaker 3: going to get. Maybe this is why I've postponed it

5222
04:12:49,920 --> 04:12:52,400
Speaker 3: for so long. But my family and I deserve to

5223
04:12:52,480 --> 04:12:55,800
Speaker 3: have my own best version. So if that means slaying

5224
04:12:55,880 --> 04:12:57,360
Speaker 3: some inner demons, then I'll do it.

5225
04:12:57,560 --> 04:12:59,400
Speaker 4: Slay Queen Slave, Slay Queen sligh.

5226
04:12:59,400 --> 04:13:02,680
Speaker 3: And there are some relevant comments to finish his song.

5227
04:13:02,720 --> 04:13:03,400
Speaker 2: O kah Let's set it.

5228
04:13:03,840 --> 04:13:06,920
Speaker 3: Fluffled Potato says he sounds like a super nice person

5229
04:13:06,960 --> 04:13:09,520
Speaker 3: who loves Ope very much. I just can't shake the

5230
04:13:09,760 --> 04:13:12,840
Speaker 3: feeling that there's something unfair about him apologizing and promising

5231
04:13:12,920 --> 04:13:15,280
Speaker 3: to work on himself and take therapy to learn how

5232
04:13:15,320 --> 04:13:17,040
Speaker 3: to be a better husband. I mean, it's like what

5233
04:13:17,920 --> 04:13:20,480
Speaker 3: I get that everyone might benefit from therapy and self reflection,

5234
04:13:20,720 --> 04:13:22,840
Speaker 3: and he may have just been trying to make Ope

5235
04:13:22,960 --> 04:13:25,920
Speaker 3: feel better about her own toxic behavior. It just feels

5236
04:13:26,000 --> 04:13:28,400
Speaker 3: unfair for the person who's done no wrong to randomly

5237
04:13:28,480 --> 04:13:31,040
Speaker 3: take on blame and vow to make it but like, that's.

5238
04:13:30,920 --> 04:13:33,320
Speaker 6: Why he's like a tent miskilled. It says, that's he's

5239
04:13:33,320 --> 04:13:35,120
Speaker 6: a ten out of ten of man. That's why he's

5240
04:13:35,160 --> 04:13:37,040
Speaker 6: a ten out of ten man. Because he realized. He

5241
04:13:37,040 --> 04:13:38,920
Speaker 6: doesn't say like, oh, I was right and I know

5242
04:13:39,000 --> 04:13:39,760
Speaker 6: I did nothing wrong.

5243
04:13:39,840 --> 04:13:42,640
Speaker 3: He's like no, He's like, I will learn how what

5244
04:13:42,840 --> 04:13:43,520
Speaker 3: best works for you.

5245
04:13:43,840 --> 04:13:44,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

5246
04:13:44,160 --> 04:13:46,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, and it's not about being right or wrong. It's

5247
04:13:46,680 --> 04:13:49,000
Speaker 6: about doing what is best for your partner.

5248
04:13:49,120 --> 04:13:52,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. And then Op responds, I totally understand, and I

5249
04:13:53,080 --> 04:13:54,920
Speaker 3: told him that First of all, this was never an

5250
04:13:54,960 --> 04:13:58,200
Speaker 3: issue before. I addressed it once in thirteen years and

5251
04:13:58,280 --> 04:14:01,400
Speaker 3: occasionally got annoyed, but never made an issue. It was

5252
04:14:01,440 --> 04:14:05,320
Speaker 3: a long discussion. We had to stop sometimes for the kids, breastfeeding,

5253
04:14:05,320 --> 04:14:07,960
Speaker 3: et cetera. So I admitted I omitted much of it,

5254
04:14:08,520 --> 04:14:10,840
Speaker 3: but I told him he had no need to apologize.

5255
04:14:10,920 --> 04:14:13,240
Speaker 3: It was entirely my fault that I had that meltdown,

5256
04:14:13,640 --> 04:14:17,360
Speaker 3: whether it was a mixture of hormones, triggers, past whatever,

5257
04:14:18,040 --> 04:14:20,400
Speaker 3: I am to blame and I will work on my issues.

5258
04:14:20,600 --> 04:14:22,600
Speaker 2: That's amazing. He's so bad, that's amazing.

5259
04:14:22,680 --> 04:14:25,280
Speaker 3: He said he felt like he was doing not so

5260
04:14:25,400 --> 04:14:27,680
Speaker 3: good of a job of it. For a second, I

5261
04:14:27,760 --> 04:14:30,400
Speaker 3: suspected that he didn't love me with every fiber of

5262
04:14:30,480 --> 04:14:33,960
Speaker 3: his being. Oh, he said he felt he was doing

5263
04:14:34,040 --> 04:14:36,400
Speaker 3: not so good of a job. If for a second

5264
04:14:36,440 --> 04:14:38,440
Speaker 3: I suspected that he didn't love me with every fiber

5265
04:14:38,640 --> 04:14:39,000
Speaker 3: he was, just.

5266
04:14:39,080 --> 04:14:41,120
Speaker 2: Like, I just wanted to know that she's love.

5267
04:14:41,680 --> 04:14:44,520
Speaker 3: So he suggested counseling to understand how better, how to

5268
04:14:44,600 --> 04:14:47,920
Speaker 3: better communicate and learn each other's love languages. I know

5269
04:14:48,040 --> 04:14:51,120
Speaker 3: sometimes I think I must have been I know sometimes

5270
04:14:51,280 --> 04:14:53,760
Speaker 3: I think I must have been a saint in a

5271
04:14:53,840 --> 04:14:57,280
Speaker 3: past life to have him in my life. Now, why

5272
04:14:57,400 --> 04:14:58,240
Speaker 3: is it so cute?

5273
04:14:58,600 --> 04:15:00,760
Speaker 6: Is wife? You know?

5274
04:15:01,120 --> 04:15:02,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I just want to cuddle up with

5275
04:15:02,960 --> 04:15:06,440
Speaker 2: my wife. Just find someone come cuddled with besides Christians.

5276
04:15:06,960 --> 04:15:09,440
Speaker 5: Hey, guess what. Guess what, buddy, you got a lot

5277
04:15:09,440 --> 04:15:10,120
Speaker 5: of applications.

5278
04:15:12,280 --> 04:15:15,600
Speaker 6: That's so funny. Bell Congress is making my husband watch

5279
04:15:15,680 --> 04:15:16,200
Speaker 6: this tomorrow.

5280
04:15:16,880 --> 04:15:17,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

5281
04:15:17,640 --> 04:15:21,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, everyone's significant others should take an interest in your interest,

5282
04:15:21,080 --> 04:15:21,840
Speaker 6: in your interest?

5283
04:15:22,080 --> 04:15:22,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

5284
04:15:22,760 --> 04:15:23,200
Speaker 6: Is okay?

5285
04:15:23,280 --> 04:15:23,480
Speaker 2: Op?

5286
04:15:23,920 --> 04:15:28,360
Speaker 5: Yes, dude, we could literally double our audience.

5287
04:15:28,520 --> 04:15:31,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, come on, give me Is that it?

5288
04:15:31,600 --> 04:15:31,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

5289
04:15:31,960 --> 04:15:32,560
Speaker 4: Oh my god?

5290
04:15:33,000 --> 04:15:36,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, you can deserve that cookie. You deserve that.

5291
04:15:37,320 --> 04:15:41,120
Speaker 6: That's so cute. That's so cute, I mean total green flag. Also,

5292
04:15:41,280 --> 04:15:44,000
Speaker 6: I have a bubble bursting comment to make for everyone.

5293
04:15:45,320 --> 04:15:47,520
Speaker 6: A bubble bursting comment. All right, and you guys are

5294
04:15:47,560 --> 04:15:50,000
Speaker 6: gonna hate this. Are you ready? You're ready to get

5295
04:15:50,000 --> 04:15:53,120
Speaker 6: your bubbles burst? I learned this today. Yes, so one

5296
04:15:53,200 --> 04:15:57,280
Speaker 6: of my friends he basically like his name is idea

5297
04:15:57,400 --> 04:15:59,360
Speaker 6: soup on or Michael McBride.

5298
04:15:59,680 --> 04:16:01,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Michael. I was talking to him to this morning.

5299
04:16:02,720 --> 04:16:04,320
Speaker 9: Is you know it is it?

5300
04:16:04,560 --> 04:16:05,440
Speaker 5: Is it what I think it is?

5301
04:16:05,920 --> 04:16:06,040
Speaker 8: Uh?

5302
04:16:06,600 --> 04:16:08,520
Speaker 6: I don't no, no, no, no okay, I have no

5303
04:16:08,640 --> 04:16:11,680
Speaker 6: idea no no, no, no no no. He's a great

5304
04:16:11,720 --> 04:16:15,000
Speaker 6: creator anyway. Uh, I was talking in this morning and

5305
04:16:15,040 --> 04:16:17,320
Speaker 6: he does facts like basically make makes facts for a living.

5306
04:16:17,760 --> 04:16:21,280
Speaker 6: He told me that love languages are completely made up

5307
04:16:21,640 --> 04:16:25,720
Speaker 6: and have no scientific backing. He said it was made

5308
04:16:25,800 --> 04:16:28,200
Speaker 6: by some like random pastor they put it in like

5309
04:16:28,320 --> 04:16:31,000
Speaker 6: a book and it was has has no scientific backing,

5310
04:16:31,520 --> 04:16:35,400
Speaker 6: and uh the book flopped initially and then people just

5311
04:16:35,480 --> 04:16:38,360
Speaker 6: like found it and decided, oh that kind of sounds right,

5312
04:16:38,640 --> 04:16:40,720
Speaker 6: but they've done like the science on it, and it's

5313
04:16:41,200 --> 04:16:45,520
Speaker 6: it literally has like there's there's no correlation between love

5314
04:16:45,880 --> 04:16:46,720
Speaker 6: and the love languages.

5315
04:16:46,880 --> 04:16:49,520
Speaker 3: I'm sure that's true, but also I think it's fun.

5316
04:16:50,560 --> 04:16:52,800
Speaker 6: It's but it's something that he said. It's like but

5317
04:16:53,160 --> 04:16:55,880
Speaker 6: it's kind of like, uh, it's kind of like there's

5318
04:16:55,920 --> 04:16:59,480
Speaker 6: this story. There's this really interesting story of the true

5319
04:16:59,520 --> 04:17:04,680
Speaker 6: story of someone that got lost in the US and

5320
04:17:04,800 --> 04:17:06,840
Speaker 6: they were lost in the forest. And when they were

5321
04:17:06,880 --> 04:17:09,360
Speaker 6: lost in the forces, like in they're like like eighteen hundreds,

5322
04:17:09,600 --> 04:17:11,880
Speaker 6: they were like, we're never We're gonna die here, We're

5323
04:17:11,920 --> 04:17:14,040
Speaker 6: never gonna be able to get out. And then they

5324
04:17:14,160 --> 04:17:17,360
Speaker 6: found a map on the ground and they're like, oh,

5325
04:17:17,560 --> 04:17:19,400
Speaker 6: we're saved. We can use this map to get out

5326
04:17:19,400 --> 04:17:21,360
Speaker 6: of the forest. And so they they take the map

5327
04:17:21,400 --> 04:17:24,240
Speaker 6: and they used to they like start navigating and it

5328
04:17:24,360 --> 04:17:26,440
Speaker 6: takes weeks, but eventually they make it out in the

5329
04:17:26,520 --> 04:17:29,960
Speaker 6: forest and the person who finds them is like, oh

5330
04:17:30,040 --> 04:17:32,720
Speaker 6: my god, like how did you get out? And they're like,

5331
04:17:32,760 --> 04:17:35,400
Speaker 6: we thought all was lost, but we found a map

5332
04:17:35,800 --> 04:17:37,560
Speaker 6: and the guy takes the map and it's like, this

5333
04:17:37,680 --> 04:17:41,040
Speaker 6: is a map of Canada. You're in the US, And

5334
04:17:41,160 --> 04:17:43,000
Speaker 6: so it's like this idea is like even if you

5335
04:17:43,120 --> 04:17:46,600
Speaker 6: have like a wrong map, sometimes it actually is useful

5336
04:17:46,720 --> 04:17:49,480
Speaker 6: just to reference something and have a goal, and so

5337
04:17:50,400 --> 04:17:54,120
Speaker 6: a wrong map can sometimes even lead to a better relationship.

5338
04:17:54,200 --> 04:17:56,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like when you do the wrong math equation

5339
04:17:56,320 --> 04:17:57,160
Speaker 3: but you get the right answer.

5340
04:17:57,400 --> 04:18:00,840
Speaker 6: Yeah exactly, Yeah, you did the work wrong, but the

5341
04:18:00,920 --> 04:18:01,920
Speaker 6: right answer came anyway.

5342
04:18:02,880 --> 04:18:06,560
Speaker 5: It reminds me of I'm gonna get so much astrology.

5343
04:18:07,200 --> 04:18:10,120
Speaker 6: Oh where are astrology queens at?

5344
04:18:11,240 --> 04:18:11,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

5345
04:18:11,400 --> 04:18:13,080
Speaker 5: Where are you guys at? Actually, the more I learned

5346
04:18:13,080 --> 04:18:14,880
Speaker 5: about it, the more interesting it is. I've just been

5347
04:18:15,000 --> 04:18:18,800
Speaker 5: ignorant because it's bliss. But I mean, yeah, what happened

5348
04:18:18,880 --> 04:18:21,640
Speaker 5: nine months before your parents got together has adds a

5349
04:18:21,680 --> 04:18:24,040
Speaker 5: lot of context to who the person you are today is.

5350
04:18:25,080 --> 04:18:27,840
Speaker 6: Pamela Rojas says, what happened with the girl? Sam was

5351
04:18:27,920 --> 04:18:30,560
Speaker 6: so in sync with which who?

5352
04:18:32,240 --> 04:18:34,560
Speaker 5: There's been a few who who?

5353
04:18:34,640 --> 04:18:38,000
Speaker 6: Which one? Give me more info? Every more info? But

5354
04:18:38,640 --> 04:18:40,040
Speaker 6: you know what, I want more info on.

5355
04:18:40,520 --> 04:18:44,040
Speaker 5: This story, this next story three six nine.

5356
04:18:44,800 --> 04:18:47,560
Speaker 6: So that Barbie artist says, that's not the way to

5357
04:18:47,640 --> 04:18:52,480
Speaker 6: find your wife to ship on love languages. Probably not.

5358
04:18:53,000 --> 04:18:55,040
Speaker 6: I'm not shitting on it. I'm just saying the truth,

5359
04:18:55,800 --> 04:18:58,040
Speaker 6: the truth. What what what are we on?

5360
04:18:59,320 --> 04:18:59,720
Speaker 2: Airbase?

5361
04:18:59,760 --> 04:19:01,680
Speaker 6: Says Samuel a player. I'm not a player.

5362
04:19:01,920 --> 04:19:03,320
Speaker 5: I don't get he's not a player.

5363
04:19:05,000 --> 04:19:07,720
Speaker 6: What what three sixty eight s three three six nine,

5364
04:19:08,000 --> 04:19:14,040
Speaker 6: oh three six nine? Oh okay, jelly, the goose drink wine?

5365
04:19:14,080 --> 04:19:16,800
Speaker 2: What does that mean? Oh? Three six nine the goose

5366
04:19:16,880 --> 04:19:17,880
Speaker 2: drink wine. I like that.

5367
04:19:18,160 --> 04:19:20,000
Speaker 5: Oh I was doing. I was doing the Little John

5368
04:19:20,120 --> 04:19:21,120
Speaker 5: version all right.

5369
04:19:23,120 --> 04:19:26,480
Speaker 6: The woman I had a one night stand with gave

5370
04:19:26,600 --> 04:19:28,600
Speaker 6: me lunch and twenty dollars.

5371
04:19:29,280 --> 04:19:31,040
Speaker 3: This is the story that I wanted you to read.

5372
04:19:31,520 --> 04:19:32,400
Speaker 3: I picked this up for you.

5373
04:19:32,640 --> 04:19:36,560
Speaker 6: Oh thanks, I'm so excited. All right. A few nights ago,

5374
04:19:37,280 --> 04:19:45,680
Speaker 6: so fah, yeah, all right, A few nights ago I

5375
04:19:45,800 --> 04:19:50,480
Speaker 6: matched with this older woman on tip time. She was

5376
04:19:50,560 --> 04:19:53,560
Speaker 6: a lot older than me. I'm twenty one and she

5377
04:19:53,800 --> 04:19:56,760
Speaker 6: is thirty four. Oh man, it's not even as big

5378
04:19:56,800 --> 04:20:00,080
Speaker 6: of an age cap as fine. I wasn't looking for

5379
04:20:00,160 --> 04:20:03,360
Speaker 6: anything serious, just a casual hookup. I made it clear

5380
04:20:03,440 --> 04:20:05,440
Speaker 6: for her. The date went well. She said she's also

5381
04:20:05,520 --> 04:20:07,800
Speaker 6: not looking for anything serious. She's going through divorce and

5382
04:20:07,960 --> 04:20:11,800
Speaker 6: has no child. She has no child, Okay. We talked

5383
04:20:12,200 --> 04:20:14,360
Speaker 6: and then she invited me over to her place and

5384
04:20:14,560 --> 04:20:18,560
Speaker 6: we left the next morning I had to go to work. Bro,

5385
04:20:18,920 --> 04:20:24,440
Speaker 6: Why do you want me to read this huh, gosh, darn.

5386
04:20:24,920 --> 04:20:27,440
Speaker 6: She woke me up and said I could use her shower.

5387
04:20:27,920 --> 04:20:30,640
Speaker 6: She made breakfast for me. This was weird because usually

5388
04:20:30,680 --> 04:20:33,480
Speaker 6: when I have a one night stand, I am out

5389
04:20:33,600 --> 04:20:36,840
Speaker 6: of that place the next morning. Anyways, she invited me

5390
04:20:37,120 --> 04:20:41,680
Speaker 6: to have breakfast with her. Then I was about to leave.

5391
04:20:42,080 --> 04:20:45,520
Speaker 6: She handed me a lunch box and twenty dollars. She said,

5392
04:20:45,560 --> 04:20:47,400
Speaker 6: she had a great night last night, and I should

5393
04:20:47,480 --> 04:20:48,160
Speaker 6: travel safe.

5394
04:20:48,480 --> 04:20:49,800
Speaker 2: Is he about to go to school?

5395
04:20:50,560 --> 04:20:50,680
Speaker 9: Bro?

5396
04:20:50,960 --> 04:20:53,240
Speaker 6: I mean, I mean he is twenty three. You might

5397
04:20:53,400 --> 04:20:57,400
Speaker 6: still be in college. He's what twenty three? Twenty three?

5398
04:20:58,640 --> 04:21:02,280
Speaker 6: This she said that you had a great time. She

5399
04:21:02,400 --> 04:21:04,280
Speaker 6: trouble safe. I did want not want to take it,

5400
04:21:04,360 --> 04:21:07,040
Speaker 6: but she insisted. She then kissed me on my cheek

5401
04:21:07,080 --> 04:21:09,600
Speaker 6: and said, you are such a good boy.

5402
04:21:09,960 --> 04:21:12,840
Speaker 5: I would have taken that so differently. I'd be like, dude,

5403
04:21:12,880 --> 04:21:15,680
Speaker 5: you won't believe what just happened. I'm so happy I.

5404
04:21:15,760 --> 04:21:21,960
Speaker 6: Became a prostitutor. I got a lunch, give me camp

5405
04:21:22,040 --> 04:21:23,920
Speaker 6: for the wind says I would go back to her back.

5406
04:21:25,440 --> 04:21:28,480
Speaker 6: Aggie Wit said, said Opie is her kid now and

5407
04:21:29,000 --> 04:21:33,080
Speaker 6: she is definitely mommy. Yeah, yeah, oh my god.

5408
04:21:33,720 --> 04:21:34,440
Speaker 2: She kissed me.

5409
04:21:36,400 --> 04:21:39,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was awkward. Now I cannot stop thinking about her.

5410
04:21:40,400 --> 04:21:44,320
Speaker 2: The lunch was delicious, Oh and I didn't.

5411
04:21:44,840 --> 04:21:46,200
Speaker 3: But there is a funny update.

5412
04:21:48,280 --> 04:21:51,080
Speaker 6: She is a fantastic cook. She said that I don't

5413
04:21:51,120 --> 04:21:53,840
Speaker 6: need to return the lunch box. I could keep it.

5414
04:21:54,320 --> 04:22:00,080
Speaker 2: Wow, it's weird. It made me question my life. What

5415
04:22:00,200 --> 04:22:01,040
Speaker 2: the f am I doing?

5416
04:22:01,400 --> 04:22:03,600
Speaker 6: I haven't had a serious girlfriend for a long time.

5417
04:22:03,960 --> 04:22:06,440
Speaker 6: She was the first woman I've been intimate with in

5418
04:22:06,480 --> 04:22:07,000
Speaker 6: a long time.

5419
04:22:07,760 --> 04:22:07,960
Speaker 2: I know.

5420
04:22:08,040 --> 04:22:10,800
Speaker 6: I said I don't want anything serious even she said that,

5421
04:22:11,400 --> 04:22:13,160
Speaker 6: But I'm thinking about calling her.

5422
04:22:14,000 --> 04:22:15,280
Speaker 2: God help me.

5423
04:22:17,120 --> 04:22:18,720
Speaker 6: There is an update in some relevant comments.

5424
04:22:18,760 --> 04:22:20,560
Speaker 2: But what do you think?

5425
04:22:20,640 --> 04:22:22,880
Speaker 6: OHP should do? Should ope?

5426
04:22:23,080 --> 04:22:23,240
Speaker 8: Call?

5427
04:22:25,000 --> 04:22:25,320
Speaker 2: Call her?

5428
04:22:25,360 --> 04:22:25,400
Speaker 10: Not?

5429
04:22:25,480 --> 04:22:26,120
Speaker 6: Why would you call it?

5430
04:22:26,560 --> 04:22:26,920
Speaker 5: The deal?

5431
04:22:27,040 --> 04:22:27,160
Speaker 9: Bro?

5432
04:22:27,560 --> 04:22:30,120
Speaker 5: She's providing. She goes to you're a good boy and

5433
04:22:31,400 --> 04:22:33,880
Speaker 5: and gave you twenty bucks financially stable bro.

5434
04:22:34,440 --> 04:22:38,480
Speaker 6: Yeah keep that keep yeah, Robbie artist's Sam you wrote

5435
04:22:38,520 --> 04:22:39,280
Speaker 6: this at twenty one?

5436
04:22:40,320 --> 04:22:40,920
Speaker 2: Nah dog.

5437
04:22:42,840 --> 04:22:45,880
Speaker 6: Also, someone is trying to come over tonight. Not just

5438
04:22:46,120 --> 04:22:48,920
Speaker 6: a man friend? Wait is a YouTube? Power tonight? YouTube

5439
04:22:48,960 --> 04:22:50,960
Speaker 6: powers tonight? Fuck?

5440
04:22:51,000 --> 04:22:51,240
Speaker 3: It is?

5441
04:22:52,560 --> 04:22:57,880
Speaker 6: Sorry it is Yes, I see you at eight.

5442
04:22:58,160 --> 04:23:00,920
Speaker 2: I want to go to that. You have to keep

5443
04:23:00,960 --> 04:23:01,440
Speaker 2: on the stream.

5444
04:23:02,160 --> 04:23:04,800
Speaker 3: Seriously, I'm not allowed to go you have to stream.

5445
04:23:04,880 --> 04:23:07,320
Speaker 6: We can go after, we can go after the stream. Guys,

5446
04:23:07,640 --> 04:23:09,720
Speaker 6: we have we have more time, you have more time.

5447
04:23:09,880 --> 04:23:13,120
Speaker 5: YouTube stats yeah, sorry sorry, wrong button, all.

5448
04:23:13,080 --> 04:23:16,759
Speaker 3: Right, conspiracy the YouTube.

5449
04:23:16,400 --> 04:23:21,440
Speaker 6: Stands relevant comments. So newsboy Hank says, go with your gut.

5450
04:23:21,600 --> 04:23:23,760
Speaker 6: She sounds like a lot of fun. And then right

5451
04:23:23,920 --> 04:23:27,320
Speaker 6: he scored big time britent fryet. Let's hope Sam finds

5452
04:23:27,360 --> 04:23:30,480
Speaker 6: someone like that, an older woman that packs my lunch.

5453
04:23:30,720 --> 04:23:32,720
Speaker 3: So who called it that? Because they shouldn't be calling

5454
04:23:32,760 --> 04:23:34,960
Speaker 3: it that you did have an older YouTube.

5455
04:23:35,640 --> 04:23:37,000
Speaker 2: They're not supposed to use that pow.

5456
04:23:37,360 --> 04:23:39,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, teaching moment.

5457
04:23:39,800 --> 04:23:40,360
Speaker 2: Teaching moment.

5458
04:23:40,400 --> 04:23:42,080
Speaker 5: They didn't have a woman that gave you juice?

5459
04:23:44,160 --> 04:23:44,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, she can't.

5460
04:23:46,120 --> 04:23:47,240
Speaker 6: And she cooked us all steak.

5461
04:23:47,680 --> 04:23:50,480
Speaker 5: She was awesome. I miss her.

5462
04:23:52,760 --> 04:23:53,720
Speaker 3: Story because I want to tell you.

5463
04:23:53,840 --> 04:23:56,720
Speaker 6: No, I'm I can't like Sam.

5464
04:23:56,840 --> 04:23:57,560
Speaker 3: This is not important.

5465
04:23:57,800 --> 04:24:01,680
Speaker 6: Sorry story, No shame lies, says the unseen magical rule

5466
04:24:01,800 --> 04:24:04,480
Speaker 6: of the world dicktakes that you always return the toughware.

5467
04:24:04,520 --> 04:24:07,720
Speaker 6: You have to it was an actual lunchbox. LP response,

5468
04:24:07,720 --> 04:24:10,560
Speaker 6: It's an actual lunchbox, not even a touperware. And then

5469
04:24:10,640 --> 04:24:13,040
Speaker 6: no permit eight three six nine says she might not

5470
04:24:13,160 --> 04:24:15,400
Speaker 6: want her ex husband's lunchbox.

5471
04:24:15,040 --> 04:24:16,280
Speaker 2: Back, and then.

5472
04:24:17,960 --> 04:24:20,400
Speaker 6: Eagle strikes says that would actually be a hilarious twist.

5473
04:24:20,680 --> 04:24:23,400
Speaker 6: If she's effing random men and giving them something of

5474
04:24:23,480 --> 04:24:28,560
Speaker 6: her ex husbands as a parting gift, that's hilarious. And

5475
04:24:28,640 --> 04:24:31,200
Speaker 6: there is an update. There is an update.

5476
04:24:31,440 --> 04:24:35,120
Speaker 2: So I asked her out hey.

5477
04:24:36,080 --> 04:24:39,000
Speaker 6: She said she was flattered, but she's going through the divorce.

5478
04:24:39,400 --> 04:24:40,920
Speaker 6: She tried to reassure me that we are on the

5479
04:24:40,960 --> 04:24:43,120
Speaker 6: same page. I told her I really love her style.

5480
04:24:43,480 --> 04:24:45,760
Speaker 6: None of my girlfriends ever made lunches for me. I

5481
04:24:45,760 --> 04:24:48,960
Speaker 6: couldn't stop thinking about her since that day. And long

5482
04:24:49,040 --> 04:24:55,000
Speaker 6: story short, we're dating, eh and I get delicious lunches

5483
04:24:55,120 --> 04:24:58,840
Speaker 6: every time I spend the night at her place. Really

5484
04:24:58,880 --> 04:25:01,120
Speaker 6: good intimacy. I know she's way older than I am,

5485
04:25:01,480 --> 04:25:03,920
Speaker 6: but I don't care. I found a loving woman and

5486
04:25:04,000 --> 04:25:06,520
Speaker 6: that's all that matters. By the way, the picture of

5487
04:25:06,560 --> 04:25:09,040
Speaker 6: today's lunch she packed is on my profile.

5488
04:25:10,200 --> 04:25:13,440
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so the update is basically he shares the

5489
04:25:14,200 --> 04:25:17,840
Speaker 3: recipe to what she made him. That's chicken katsu and

5490
04:25:18,720 --> 04:25:22,760
Speaker 3: veggies and stuff. Yeah, so if you guys want that recipe,

5491
04:25:22,760 --> 04:25:23,480
Speaker 3: it's on Reddit.

5492
04:25:25,120 --> 04:25:28,360
Speaker 6: Also, I'm just texting the person that said story, well,

5493
04:25:28,440 --> 04:25:33,080
Speaker 6: yeah you should, story, you should, you should take over

5494
04:25:33,240 --> 04:25:36,560
Speaker 6: because I think I'm gonna have to leave it a

5495
04:25:36,600 --> 04:25:41,400
Speaker 6: little bit. Bell Conkling says I make my husband every meal.

5496
04:25:42,760 --> 04:25:48,960
Speaker 6: Rebecca says, dang chicken katsu. Barbie Artie says win Winmori says,

5497
04:25:49,000 --> 04:25:51,040
Speaker 6: I thought you guys were joking. Ov No, no, this

5498
04:25:51,160 --> 04:25:54,680
Speaker 6: is legit, legit jet It's on the Bell Conklin and

5499
04:25:54,760 --> 04:25:57,160
Speaker 6: deserve a Sin says boy toys are fun.

5500
04:25:57,400 --> 04:26:01,280
Speaker 2: White toy Casa says chicken sounds delicious.

5501
04:26:01,720 --> 04:26:03,000
Speaker 3: You still live in Detroit.

5502
04:26:03,160 --> 04:26:06,160
Speaker 6: Rebecca says she just casually made him Japanese cuisine.

5503
04:26:07,640 --> 04:26:08,520
Speaker 2: Hey, that's a win.

5504
04:26:08,680 --> 04:26:09,120
Speaker 3: Japanese.

5505
04:26:09,200 --> 04:26:12,280
Speaker 6: That's a win, all right, Worm Queen is gonna have

5506
04:26:12,360 --> 04:26:15,080
Speaker 6: to take over. I may join if y'all are still

5507
04:26:15,120 --> 04:26:17,040
Speaker 6: streaming in a little bit. Molly Thornton says, Sam, you

5508
04:26:17,120 --> 04:26:20,240
Speaker 6: need to shave your armpits. Why I used to shave

5509
04:26:20,400 --> 04:26:27,240
Speaker 6: in uh for swimming, but now dude, I'm pitless. I'm well,

5510
04:26:27,320 --> 04:26:30,240
Speaker 6: I got you anyway, all right, So he go hit it,

5511
04:26:30,320 --> 04:26:30,640
Speaker 6: go hit it.

5512
04:26:31,160 --> 04:26:33,480
Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for dumping a girl because

5513
04:26:33,520 --> 04:26:37,800
Speaker 3: she doesn't pay on dates. So this is from pure currency.

5514
04:26:38,080 --> 04:26:41,480
Speaker 3: Currency fifty six, twenty seven, who says, So, I've been

5515
04:26:41,520 --> 04:26:44,400
Speaker 3: friends with this girl named Miranda for a couple of years.

5516
04:26:44,680 --> 04:26:46,680
Speaker 3: We met at work, and she makes more money than

5517
04:26:46,720 --> 04:26:49,400
Speaker 3: I do, as she's in a senior position at our company.

5518
04:26:50,160 --> 04:26:53,080
Speaker 3: We always had this unspoken thing between us, and it

5519
04:26:53,200 --> 04:26:55,960
Speaker 3: was clear we both liked each other, extended eye contact,

5520
04:26:56,160 --> 04:26:58,840
Speaker 3: finding reasons to come up to each other's desks, and

5521
04:26:58,920 --> 04:27:02,280
Speaker 3: would always joke aroun doun a ton. We never flirted though,

5522
04:27:02,520 --> 04:27:05,200
Speaker 3: as we were both in relationships, but it was clear

5523
04:27:05,520 --> 04:27:08,840
Speaker 3: there was a spark. Well, in the last six months

5524
04:27:09,040 --> 04:27:11,600
Speaker 3: we both have become single and it was clear we

5525
04:27:11,680 --> 04:27:14,160
Speaker 3: both had feelings for each other. I decided to ask

5526
04:27:14,200 --> 04:27:16,520
Speaker 3: her out on a date back about a month back,

5527
04:27:17,400 --> 04:27:20,680
Speaker 3: and she was visibly excited and said yes. We went

5528
04:27:20,720 --> 04:27:23,000
Speaker 3: out to a restaurant that wasn't expensive for anything, and

5529
04:27:23,080 --> 04:27:25,720
Speaker 3: since I asked her out, I paid, but I noticed

5530
04:27:25,880 --> 04:27:28,960
Speaker 3: she didn't even offer to pay for herself. We went

5531
04:27:29,040 --> 04:27:31,600
Speaker 3: back to my place and hooked up after and it

5532
04:27:31,720 --> 04:27:32,400
Speaker 3: was great.

5533
04:27:32,480 --> 04:27:35,720
Speaker 5: Great question, yes, is this a red flag green floor

5534
04:27:37,400 --> 04:27:38,840
Speaker 5: that she didn't even offer to pay?

5535
04:27:39,240 --> 04:27:45,200
Speaker 3: I mean I always do the oh ah, the little dance,

5536
04:27:45,520 --> 04:27:50,040
Speaker 3: Oh wait a minute on at least on the first day.

5537
04:27:51,600 --> 04:27:53,480
Speaker 3: But I think because it's the first date, I don't

5538
04:27:53,520 --> 04:27:54,760
Speaker 3: think it's fully red flag.

5539
04:27:54,880 --> 04:27:57,680
Speaker 5: Call me old fashioned. I think the guy should always

5540
04:27:57,680 --> 04:27:58,240
Speaker 5: pay for the food.

5541
04:27:58,640 --> 04:28:01,000
Speaker 3: I don't. I think that is old fast and that's fair.

5542
04:28:01,040 --> 04:28:02,680
Speaker 3: I think it depends on like I don't you know,

5543
04:28:02,720 --> 04:28:05,160
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a problem necessarily, but I think

5544
04:28:06,120 --> 04:28:09,080
Speaker 3: that whoever invites someone on the date should pay.

5545
04:28:09,480 --> 04:28:10,520
Speaker 5: Okay, that's my.

5546
04:28:10,600 --> 04:28:13,040
Speaker 3: Thing, But I also have been on dates where the

5547
04:28:13,200 --> 04:28:16,720
Speaker 3: guy always paid and I would be like, let me

5548
04:28:16,880 --> 04:28:19,280
Speaker 3: venmo you and he was like, no, I won't even

5549
04:28:19,520 --> 04:28:23,040
Speaker 3: I'm blocking you on Venmo. So you know, sometimes you

5550
04:28:23,160 --> 04:28:27,960
Speaker 3: try and they don't let you. But anyway, well, I

5551
04:28:28,000 --> 04:28:31,360
Speaker 3: don't even know where I am. We went out to

5552
04:28:31,440 --> 04:28:33,920
Speaker 3: a restaurant that wasn't expensive or anything, and since I

5553
04:28:34,040 --> 04:28:35,800
Speaker 3: asked her out, I paid. Oh wait, is it that?

5554
04:28:36,880 --> 04:28:40,040
Speaker 3: Since then things have been awesome, hours long phone calls.

5555
04:28:40,200 --> 04:28:42,240
Speaker 3: She'd come over after work a couple times a week,

5556
04:28:42,680 --> 04:28:44,880
Speaker 3: and I honestly felt like I was in high school

5557
04:28:44,880 --> 04:28:46,880
Speaker 3: again because we were having so much fun in the

5558
04:28:46,920 --> 04:28:50,200
Speaker 3: honeymoon phase. The only issue has been that we've gone

5559
04:28:50,240 --> 04:28:54,600
Speaker 3: for dinner, drinks, the movies, mini golf, and not once

5560
04:28:55,320 --> 04:29:00,280
Speaker 3: has she offered to pay for even herself. Uh oh here,

5561
04:29:00,800 --> 04:29:02,720
Speaker 3: oh yeah, thank you, shout a pumpkin for the two bucks.

5562
04:29:02,880 --> 04:29:05,360
Speaker 3: Question why are men offended when I pay? I don't

5563
04:29:05,360 --> 04:29:06,360
Speaker 3: think they should be offended.

5564
04:29:06,520 --> 04:29:08,760
Speaker 5: No, I mean, if you're going to pay grade Yeah,

5565
04:29:08,800 --> 04:29:09,120
Speaker 5: I don't.

5566
04:29:09,160 --> 04:29:11,320
Speaker 3: I think it was weird if they're offended and it

5567
04:29:11,400 --> 04:29:13,680
Speaker 3: seems like they're insecure and they're probably not men that

5568
04:29:13,720 --> 04:29:15,400
Speaker 3: you want to be on dates with anyway.

5569
04:29:15,840 --> 04:29:17,400
Speaker 4: You don't, No, you don't.

5570
04:29:20,280 --> 04:29:24,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, wait, can you go down? I wanted to

5571
04:29:24,360 --> 04:29:26,320
Speaker 3: read some of the comments while we're at a pause.

5572
04:29:27,160 --> 04:29:33,360
Speaker 3: Take my snacks away. Oh, let's going okay, uh oh,

5573
04:29:33,440 --> 04:29:37,240
Speaker 3: these are all just about not unrelevant, but thank you.

5574
04:29:38,360 --> 04:29:42,080
Speaker 3: They're just about the blue stars for acne. Uh it's oh,

5575
04:29:42,200 --> 04:29:46,080
Speaker 3: Sulanna says, red flag if they're offended. Rebecca says men

5576
04:29:46,080 --> 04:29:48,160
Speaker 3: shouldn't be offended about that. I agree, I agree, I agree.

5577
04:29:50,400 --> 04:29:54,320
Speaker 3: But let's oh okay, Sheila or Sheila says why wait?

5578
04:29:54,480 --> 04:29:56,720
Speaker 3: Why does he want to not pay so much? Did

5579
04:29:56,800 --> 04:30:00,120
Speaker 3: they discuss simply because she makes more money than him? Yeah? Like,

5580
04:30:00,160 --> 04:30:03,760
Speaker 3: I'm not sure. I do think it's kind of I

5581
04:30:03,880 --> 04:30:06,760
Speaker 3: think that it is kind of weird that she's not

5582
04:30:06,840 --> 04:30:07,440
Speaker 3: paying at all.

5583
04:30:08,160 --> 04:30:09,600
Speaker 2: Really, but I don't know.

5584
04:30:09,640 --> 04:30:11,240
Speaker 3: It's like a different because some men are like, oh

5585
04:30:11,280 --> 04:30:13,600
Speaker 3: I want to pay all the time, so and it

5586
04:30:13,640 --> 04:30:17,000
Speaker 3: doesn't seem like he wants to do them. Yeah, from

5587
04:30:17,040 --> 04:30:20,720
Speaker 3: a me perspective, I do. I think. I like, sometimes

5588
04:30:20,760 --> 04:30:22,720
Speaker 3: I'll switch off, switch off.

5589
04:30:22,800 --> 04:30:25,600
Speaker 5: But like in this scenario, she is making more than him.

5590
04:30:25,880 --> 04:30:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

5591
04:30:26,640 --> 04:30:28,160
Speaker 5: Like dates, I feel that the guy should make it.

5592
04:30:28,200 --> 04:30:30,480
Speaker 5: But if your relationship is more serious, you can talk

5593
04:30:30,520 --> 04:30:32,880
Speaker 5: about like what kind of split. Yeah, if you have

5594
04:30:32,920 --> 04:30:34,880
Speaker 5: a house together, what kind of split that is? But dates,

5595
04:30:35,320 --> 04:30:36,920
Speaker 5: guys you got to cover that. Yeah.

5596
04:30:37,320 --> 04:30:38,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. It's kind of like,

5597
04:30:38,920 --> 04:30:40,560
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is giving red flag on

5598
04:30:41,000 --> 04:30:41,480
Speaker 3: whose end?

5599
04:30:41,600 --> 04:30:41,720
Speaker 2: You know?

5600
04:30:44,080 --> 04:30:46,640
Speaker 3: Multiple of those things were her idea, and it frankly

5601
04:30:46,720 --> 04:30:49,000
Speaker 3: grosses me out to no end when a woman isn't

5602
04:30:49,000 --> 04:30:52,440
Speaker 3: willing to carry her own weight. I don't know. So

5603
04:30:52,600 --> 04:30:54,960
Speaker 3: yesterday we went and grabbed some Thai food, and when

5604
04:30:55,000 --> 04:30:57,320
Speaker 3: the bill came, I asked her if we could split

5605
04:30:57,440 --> 04:30:59,120
Speaker 3: it because I had to spend a couple grand on

5606
04:30:59,200 --> 04:31:01,400
Speaker 3: my car this week, I could afford the bill. I

5607
04:31:01,560 --> 04:31:04,240
Speaker 3: was just testing her weird. She had a nerve to

5608
04:31:04,280 --> 04:31:06,120
Speaker 3: ask why we went out to eat that if I

5609
04:31:06,160 --> 04:31:09,920
Speaker 3: couldn't afford the bill. I don't love that. I don't

5610
04:31:09,960 --> 04:31:10,160
Speaker 3: love that.

5611
04:31:10,520 --> 04:31:10,760
Speaker 10: Yeah.

5612
04:31:11,240 --> 04:31:14,360
Speaker 3: I was flabbergasted and asked her if I'm just always

5613
04:31:14,360 --> 04:31:16,680
Speaker 3: supposed to pay for everything we do together. She said

5614
04:31:16,680 --> 04:31:18,800
Speaker 3: I was the man and she expects me to treat

5615
04:31:18,840 --> 04:31:22,640
Speaker 3: her like a lady. I was so engrossed out when

5616
04:31:22,680 --> 04:31:24,760
Speaker 3: she said that. I got up, paid for my food

5617
04:31:24,880 --> 04:31:27,440
Speaker 3: and left her there. The restaurant is like a five

5618
04:31:27,480 --> 04:31:29,760
Speaker 3: minute walk from my apartment, so she left her car

5619
04:31:29,840 --> 04:31:32,040
Speaker 3: at my place, and when she walked back to get

5620
04:31:32,080 --> 04:31:34,800
Speaker 3: the car, she started knocking on my door, but I

5621
04:31:35,000 --> 04:31:37,880
Speaker 3: just ignored her. She's called and texted a few times

5622
04:31:37,920 --> 04:31:39,680
Speaker 3: since then, but all I've told her was that I'm

5623
04:31:39,720 --> 04:31:42,080
Speaker 3: not a meal ticket and don't want to continue seeing her.

5624
04:31:42,640 --> 04:31:44,320
Speaker 3: She says I'm being an a hole and says I'm

5625
04:31:44,360 --> 04:31:46,840
Speaker 3: not a real man if it bugs me, and I

5626
04:31:46,960 --> 04:31:49,000
Speaker 3: left her in danger by making her walk back to

5627
04:31:49,120 --> 04:31:51,160
Speaker 3: my house alone, even though it was light out and

5628
04:31:51,240 --> 04:31:53,200
Speaker 3: I live in a very nice and safe area.

5629
04:31:55,120 --> 04:31:57,080
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, that's a red flag.

5630
04:31:57,160 --> 04:31:59,240
Speaker 3: That's a red flag. I told my friend what happened

5631
04:31:59,280 --> 04:32:00,920
Speaker 3: and he said, I'm over reacting and then I can

5632
04:32:01,000 --> 04:32:03,280
Speaker 3: afford to pay for dates. But it's the principle that

5633
04:32:03,400 --> 04:32:05,600
Speaker 3: matters to me, and it feels like I would be

5634
04:32:05,640 --> 04:32:09,759
Speaker 3: seen as a researcher resource to her and not a partner.

5635
04:32:11,640 --> 04:32:11,840
Speaker 9: I have.

5636
04:32:12,000 --> 04:32:14,240
Speaker 3: I have mixed feelings over there. I think it is

5637
04:32:14,280 --> 04:32:15,720
Speaker 3: a bit of a red flag that she's not paying

5638
04:32:15,760 --> 04:32:19,960
Speaker 3: for anything. But I also don't love his vibes of

5639
04:32:20,080 --> 04:32:22,240
Speaker 3: thee oh actually someone kind of said what I was

5640
04:32:22,280 --> 04:32:25,400
Speaker 3: thinking of, go up, Yeah, I uh Meser Racer says,

5641
04:32:25,440 --> 04:32:27,040
Speaker 3: I like switching off, but I don't like either of

5642
04:32:27,120 --> 04:32:30,520
Speaker 3: their vibes. Testing is always bad and she's being way backwards.

5643
04:32:30,600 --> 04:32:33,240
Speaker 3: I like the oh, you're not a real man unless

5644
04:32:33,280 --> 04:32:33,560
Speaker 3: you pay.

5645
04:32:33,680 --> 04:32:34,040
Speaker 2: I don't.

5646
04:32:34,800 --> 04:32:38,320
Speaker 3: I think it is a very nice thing when men

5647
04:32:38,560 --> 04:32:41,560
Speaker 3: like pay for a meal, but it's not like a given.

5648
04:32:41,720 --> 04:32:43,920
Speaker 3: I think it's like sweet. I don't think it should

5649
04:32:43,920 --> 04:32:45,000
Speaker 3: be expected though.

5650
04:32:45,080 --> 04:32:47,600
Speaker 5: And like you got to be people sometimes, because like

5651
04:32:47,640 --> 04:32:49,600
Speaker 5: he's kind of in a tough spot, and yeah, he

5652
04:32:49,960 --> 04:32:52,320
Speaker 5: should have tested her, but like he should have been like, hey,

5653
04:32:52,480 --> 04:32:54,920
Speaker 5: you don't mind, like I'm in a tough spot. You

5654
04:32:55,040 --> 04:32:57,440
Speaker 5: gotta be you know, it's got to be equal both ways,

5655
04:32:57,480 --> 04:33:00,200
Speaker 5: but majority of the way of the time, the guy

5656
04:33:00,240 --> 04:33:00,720
Speaker 5: should pay.

5657
04:33:01,200 --> 04:33:03,280
Speaker 3: I don't personally, I think it's I think it's in

5658
04:33:03,360 --> 04:33:05,360
Speaker 3: either or I think it's a swap.

5659
04:33:05,480 --> 04:33:09,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, whoever I'm with, just let you know you're not

5660
04:33:09,360 --> 04:33:09,960
Speaker 5: gonna have to.

5661
04:33:09,919 --> 04:33:11,600
Speaker 3: Worry about You're not gonna have to pay.

5662
04:33:11,800 --> 04:33:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, my car.

5663
04:33:13,040 --> 04:33:15,520
Speaker 5: Breaks now, And I'm like, hey, can I get to

5664
04:33:15,640 --> 04:33:16,560
Speaker 5: be really really rich?

5665
04:33:16,640 --> 04:33:17,000
Speaker 4: So I can?

5666
04:33:17,240 --> 04:33:17,520
Speaker 2: I can?

5667
04:33:17,720 --> 04:33:19,040
Speaker 3: I actually don't want to be really rich, but I

5668
04:33:19,080 --> 04:33:20,960
Speaker 3: want to be like, you know, comfortable enough where I

5669
04:33:21,000 --> 04:33:21,880
Speaker 3: can just be like, don't worry.

5670
04:33:21,960 --> 04:33:24,559
Speaker 5: But like with all my friends, you know, gotcha all

5671
04:33:24,600 --> 04:33:24,920
Speaker 5: a friend?

5672
04:33:24,960 --> 04:33:30,120
Speaker 3: Who oh, Frederick lachnicked, thank you for the hundred bucks. Wow,

5673
04:33:30,800 --> 04:33:41,120
Speaker 3: crazy Frederick Fredrick donated one hundred bucks. Frederick Frederick. Yeah,

5674
04:33:41,160 --> 04:33:42,960
Speaker 3: but what do you guys think, Like, do you think

5675
04:33:43,040 --> 04:33:46,160
Speaker 3: that do you believe that the man should always pay?

5676
04:33:46,759 --> 04:33:49,840
Speaker 3: Do you think it's a swap thing? Fiona says, what

5677
04:33:49,919 --> 04:33:52,399
Speaker 3: I've always done in previous relationships is if my partner

5678
04:33:52,440 --> 04:33:54,320
Speaker 3: paid for the last date, I'll pay for the next date.

5679
04:33:54,800 --> 04:33:59,120
Speaker 3: Can you go back up? I find that's the easiest

5680
04:33:59,120 --> 04:34:01,200
Speaker 3: way to make sure that's even I agree, that's what

5681
04:34:01,320 --> 04:34:03,840
Speaker 3: I do. I do that with my friends as well

5682
04:34:03,919 --> 04:34:05,680
Speaker 3: if they because I have a friend who's so sweet

5683
04:34:05,720 --> 04:34:08,080
Speaker 3: and she'll like we'll go out and she'll pay for

5684
04:34:08,200 --> 04:34:09,880
Speaker 3: my dinner or she'll pay for coffee, and I'm like,

5685
04:34:09,960 --> 04:34:10,320
Speaker 3: stop it.

5686
04:34:11,360 --> 04:34:13,720
Speaker 5: That's cute. But like, but like the person you're with,

5687
04:34:13,880 --> 04:34:15,480
Speaker 5: like they're a hard working queen, you gotta be like,

5688
04:34:15,480 --> 04:34:17,840
Speaker 5: you know what I'm gonna treat you. Don't worry about it.

5689
04:34:18,000 --> 04:34:20,440
Speaker 3: No, I think it's I think it's very lovely if

5690
04:34:20,480 --> 04:34:22,600
Speaker 3: you do that, like, it is not a problem if

5691
04:34:22,680 --> 04:34:24,440
Speaker 3: the like a guy wants to pay or something. I

5692
04:34:24,520 --> 04:34:27,520
Speaker 3: just think it's the expectation for me. If someone was

5693
04:34:27,680 --> 04:34:29,400
Speaker 3: like expected me to pay all the time, I'd be

5694
04:34:29,480 --> 04:34:34,960
Speaker 3: like that yeah yeah, but it is a yeah no.

5695
04:34:35,040 --> 04:34:36,880
Speaker 3: I think it's just like a what do you want

5696
04:34:36,919 --> 04:34:44,559
Speaker 3: in the relationship? It's communication, yeah, and final execution says

5697
04:34:44,840 --> 04:34:46,480
Speaker 3: I think the one who asked to go out should

5698
04:34:46,480 --> 04:34:46,919
Speaker 3: be able to pay.

5699
04:34:48,520 --> 04:34:51,440
Speaker 5: But like after the first day, what as all these

5700
04:34:51,480 --> 04:34:54,160
Speaker 5: women you are? What should the guy do?

5701
04:34:54,520 --> 04:34:55,400
Speaker 3: And Rebecca switch?

5702
04:34:55,720 --> 04:34:55,840
Speaker 9: Oh?

5703
04:34:55,919 --> 04:34:58,840
Speaker 3: Switch? I don't think the switch. But again, I've been

5704
04:34:58,960 --> 04:35:00,520
Speaker 3: in like I've been on dates for the guy just

5705
04:35:00,720 --> 04:35:02,200
Speaker 3: kept paying and I was like, please let me pay,

5706
04:35:02,200 --> 04:35:05,560
Speaker 3: and they said no, so it changes. Oh, thank you

5707
04:35:05,600 --> 04:35:12,160
Speaker 3: for the time, buck tip lindsay, yeah, okay, should.

5708
04:35:11,880 --> 04:35:13,440
Speaker 5: We move on to the next next story?

5709
04:35:14,800 --> 04:35:18,520
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Aggie Whitson. Also, gender roles leaves out the

5710
04:35:18,560 --> 04:35:21,079
Speaker 3: queer community a lot. Yeah, this is this is all

5711
04:35:21,480 --> 04:35:23,040
Speaker 3: for the straight people in the audience.

5712
04:35:23,120 --> 04:35:27,120
Speaker 5: Dude, actually in the queer community. How does that work?

5713
04:35:27,360 --> 04:35:29,800
Speaker 3: It's just whoever invites. I think it's usually whoever invites people.

5714
04:35:30,160 --> 04:35:31,880
Speaker 5: But after the first day, I understand the whole first

5715
04:35:31,919 --> 04:35:33,120
Speaker 5: day thing, but like, after the.

5716
04:35:33,080 --> 04:35:34,320
Speaker 3: First day, whoever sets it up?

5717
04:35:35,120 --> 04:35:37,360
Speaker 5: Really yeah, but let's say, like we usually hang out

5718
04:35:37,360 --> 04:35:40,760
Speaker 5: on Saturdays. It's just a common thing known between both

5719
04:35:40,840 --> 04:35:42,400
Speaker 5: of us. Who's gonna pay.

5720
04:35:43,160 --> 04:35:46,120
Speaker 3: I don't think it's not like you split based on generals.

5721
04:35:46,160 --> 04:35:51,360
Speaker 3: It's just you know, who's who's whoever wants to But yeah,

5722
04:35:51,440 --> 04:35:54,239
Speaker 3: I mean, if you guys in the chat, tell Riley

5723
04:35:54,640 --> 04:35:56,840
Speaker 3: your personal things, because let me.

5724
04:35:56,960 --> 04:35:59,359
Speaker 2: Know, I got to get on to the next story.

5725
04:36:01,480 --> 04:36:07,800
Speaker 3: S three, thank you alrighty, I twenty seven female am

5726
04:36:08,080 --> 04:36:12,160
Speaker 3: falling for my sister's twenty six female x twenty six male?

5727
04:36:12,759 --> 04:36:15,400
Speaker 3: Would it be unreasonable to date him?

5728
04:36:16,000 --> 04:36:16,040
Speaker 9: So?

5729
04:36:16,400 --> 04:36:18,600
Speaker 5: What a GIRLD code not to do that?

5730
04:36:19,160 --> 04:36:22,520
Speaker 3: Wait, I'm falling for my sister. Yeah, that's weird. I mean,

5731
04:36:22,560 --> 04:36:25,120
Speaker 3: it's also just sister code. Also, thank you, let's see

5732
04:36:25,120 --> 04:36:29,440
Speaker 3: Martinez for the four five bucks. Appreciate it. Yeah, No,

5733
04:36:29,560 --> 04:36:35,160
Speaker 3: that's weird. You should not be dating your siblings exes. Yikes, yikes,

5734
04:36:35,720 --> 04:36:40,719
Speaker 3: So throw ra fss e, says I twenty I already

5735
04:36:40,720 --> 04:36:44,640
Speaker 3: said that. So I'm in a pretty complicated situation. That

5736
04:36:44,680 --> 04:36:48,000
Speaker 3: does sound complicated. My sister Amy was dating Paul for

5737
04:36:48,080 --> 04:36:50,199
Speaker 3: two and a half years from when she was twenty

5738
04:36:50,240 --> 04:36:53,079
Speaker 3: two to twenty four. I wasn't too close to with him,

5739
04:36:53,200 --> 04:36:56,200
Speaker 3: but we got along well. Unfortunately, he cheated with her

5740
04:36:56,240 --> 04:37:03,320
Speaker 3: best friend, and this hurt my sister a lot. Oh cheter,

5741
04:37:04,919 --> 04:37:08,800
Speaker 3: Why would you want to be with a cheater? I

5742
04:37:09,000 --> 04:37:10,680
Speaker 3: was angry and hurt that he would do that to

5743
04:37:10,759 --> 04:37:14,560
Speaker 3: my sister sister. My sister became depressed and still has

5744
04:37:14,640 --> 04:37:17,320
Speaker 3: trust issues to the point that she's scared to date.

5745
04:37:17,520 --> 04:37:21,280
Speaker 5: Okay, so he also created trauma and a cheater and

5746
04:37:21,440 --> 04:37:22,280
Speaker 5: your sister's ex.

5747
04:37:22,520 --> 04:37:24,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I feel like there is there are other

5748
04:37:24,600 --> 04:37:26,640
Speaker 3: reasons than her him just being your sister.

5749
04:37:26,759 --> 04:37:28,640
Speaker 5: There's also other men of the world too.

5750
04:37:28,880 --> 04:37:32,359
Speaker 3: There's so many other men. There's so many other men. Recently,

5751
04:37:32,480 --> 04:37:34,680
Speaker 3: I went on a cruise with my friend and her boyfriend,

5752
04:37:34,759 --> 04:37:38,160
Speaker 3: third wheeling. He saw me on the bar, presumably the

5753
04:37:38,240 --> 04:37:40,960
Speaker 3: ex at the pool. He said hi, and I was

5754
04:37:41,400 --> 04:37:44,840
Speaker 3: very cold to him. I told him about myself, and

5755
04:37:45,000 --> 04:37:47,440
Speaker 3: to my surprise, he accepted accountability.

5756
04:37:48,120 --> 04:37:48,600
Speaker 2: He told me.

5757
04:37:48,680 --> 04:37:51,040
Speaker 3: The guilty feels to this day, and he's matured over

5758
04:37:51,080 --> 04:37:51,440
Speaker 3: the years.

5759
04:37:52,080 --> 04:37:56,320
Speaker 5: Conspiracy theory, what what what? They're both on a boat alone,

5760
04:37:56,400 --> 04:37:58,559
Speaker 5: they only know each other. He's just trying to get

5761
04:37:58,560 --> 04:37:59,120
Speaker 5: in your parents.

5762
04:37:59,280 --> 04:38:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it really mature. He wouldn't be going after his

5763
04:38:03,240 --> 04:38:04,000
Speaker 3: ex's sister.

5764
04:38:04,520 --> 04:38:04,680
Speaker 8: Yeah.

5765
04:38:04,759 --> 04:38:06,760
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know how much he's pursuing you,

5766
04:38:06,880 --> 04:38:08,760
Speaker 5: but if he had any respect for your sister, he

5767
04:38:08,800 --> 04:38:10,000
Speaker 5: would not pursue you whatsoever.

5768
04:38:10,240 --> 04:38:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. True, dad. I decided to let bygones and be

5769
04:38:16,480 --> 04:38:20,360
Speaker 3: got bygones, and him and I started hanging out as

5770
04:38:20,440 --> 04:38:24,879
Speaker 3: we were both third wheeling. We did excursions, shopping, et cetera.

5771
04:38:25,040 --> 04:38:28,000
Speaker 3: I didn't realize how strong our chemistry was. One night

5772
04:38:28,160 --> 04:38:30,320
Speaker 3: we both had a drunken mishap and hooked up.

5773
04:38:30,560 --> 04:38:38,640
Speaker 5: No oh, that's horrible, not cool, not at all.

5774
04:38:38,720 --> 04:38:42,080
Speaker 3: You're gonna give your sister more trauma. After that, the

5775
04:38:42,200 --> 04:38:44,160
Speaker 3: cat was out of the bag, and we hooked up

5776
04:38:44,200 --> 04:38:46,640
Speaker 3: a couple times. Stop the cat was in the put

5777
04:38:46,720 --> 04:38:47,480
Speaker 3: the cat back in the bag.

5778
04:38:47,640 --> 04:38:49,560
Speaker 2: Put the cat back, put it back.

5779
04:38:50,320 --> 04:38:52,560
Speaker 3: When I got back to him. Uh oh, when I

5780
04:38:52,640 --> 04:38:54,880
Speaker 3: got back him and I have been texting and we're

5781
04:38:54,919 --> 04:38:58,360
Speaker 3: considering taking things more serious. So stop.

5782
04:38:58,720 --> 04:39:01,120
Speaker 5: It sounds like he is actually interested in you or

5783
04:39:01,200 --> 04:39:02,880
Speaker 5: is he still using you? That's what I want to know.

5784
04:39:03,040 --> 04:39:04,640
Speaker 3: I don't know. He seems like he hasn't matured, and

5785
04:39:04,759 --> 04:39:05,960
Speaker 3: he sucks, and you also suck.

5786
04:39:07,400 --> 04:39:07,759
Speaker 4: That's all.

5787
04:39:08,480 --> 04:39:10,480
Speaker 3: I haven't talked to my sister about it, but I

5788
04:39:10,560 --> 04:39:13,199
Speaker 3: can tell he's changed and is a better person. Plus

5789
04:39:13,280 --> 04:39:14,280
Speaker 3: it's been a couple of years.

5790
04:39:14,960 --> 04:39:15,800
Speaker 4: You suck still.

5791
04:39:16,640 --> 04:39:20,000
Speaker 3: Uh. There are some notable comments. User one, this is

5792
04:39:20,080 --> 04:39:23,760
Speaker 3: a disaster just waiting to happen. Op, he says, I

5793
04:39:23,880 --> 04:39:28,200
Speaker 3: don't think so what. Wow, you are light, you are naive.

5794
04:39:28,280 --> 04:39:29,720
Speaker 5: What are you gonna do when you bring them home

5795
04:39:29,759 --> 04:39:31,480
Speaker 5: to your parents and your sister's there?

5796
04:39:31,840 --> 04:39:32,200
Speaker 3: Yikes?

5797
04:39:32,360 --> 04:39:36,399
Speaker 5: Family, your sister's still probably going through the stuff. I mean,

5798
04:39:36,440 --> 04:39:37,680
Speaker 5: it is a couple of years, but I don't know

5799
04:39:37,720 --> 04:39:40,520
Speaker 5: how long it takes to get through that. But like

5800
04:39:40,880 --> 04:39:43,720
Speaker 5: she found out that you you like he cheated on

5801
04:39:43,800 --> 04:39:47,759
Speaker 5: your sister that Oh dude, no, it's not gonna end good.

5802
04:39:47,960 --> 04:39:50,360
Speaker 3: No. I get what he did was bad, but I

5803
04:39:50,400 --> 04:39:52,800
Speaker 3: feel like as a society we don't give people enough

5804
04:39:52,880 --> 04:39:56,920
Speaker 3: grace to change. You're only saying that because you are hooking.

5805
04:39:56,680 --> 04:39:59,720
Speaker 5: Up with them, Rebecca says, stop thinking with your vagina.

5806
04:40:00,040 --> 04:40:07,520
Speaker 3: If she's like, oh, he's changed because I'm with him now, no, girl,

5807
04:40:07,680 --> 04:40:11,440
Speaker 3: he hasn't. A User one says, you can give people

5808
04:40:11,480 --> 04:40:13,560
Speaker 3: the grace to change without sleeping with them.

5809
04:40:13,720 --> 04:40:13,960
Speaker 2: True.

5810
04:40:14,720 --> 04:40:17,840
Speaker 5: Wait, sorry, sorry, the thing you just said that is

5811
04:40:17,919 --> 04:40:19,759
Speaker 5: giving me the like I can fix him.

5812
04:40:20,280 --> 04:40:20,520
Speaker 11: Yeah.

5813
04:40:20,919 --> 04:40:23,840
Speaker 3: Well no, she's like, I fix him even though he's

5814
04:40:23,880 --> 04:40:25,400
Speaker 3: literally just continuing the behavior.

5815
04:40:25,720 --> 04:40:27,160
Speaker 5: Oh dude, she's down bad.

5816
04:40:28,400 --> 04:40:28,520
Speaker 7: Uh.

5817
04:40:28,759 --> 04:40:31,520
Speaker 3: A User one continues, he broke his ex girlfriend's heart

5818
04:40:31,840 --> 04:40:34,160
Speaker 3: and gave her trauma by cheating on her with her

5819
04:40:34,240 --> 04:40:37,239
Speaker 3: best friend of all people. He's literally coming for everyone,

5820
04:40:37,360 --> 04:40:43,760
Speaker 3: like all the sisters close people. If my if like

5821
04:40:43,880 --> 04:40:47,000
Speaker 3: my partner cheated on me with my best friend and

5822
04:40:47,160 --> 04:40:49,400
Speaker 3: then after I was like getting over it, went and

5823
04:40:49,720 --> 04:40:55,079
Speaker 3: started dating my sister, I'd be like heck no, yeah mmmmmmm,

5824
04:40:57,680 --> 04:40:59,640
Speaker 3: and uh with her best friend of all people. Then

5825
04:40:59,680 --> 04:41:03,320
Speaker 3: comes years later and sleeps with her sister, of all people, exactly,

5826
04:41:04,200 --> 04:41:07,600
Speaker 3: if you truly changed and bettered himself as a person,

5827
04:41:07,720 --> 04:41:10,240
Speaker 3: he wouldn't be hooking up with his ex's sister. True

5828
04:41:10,840 --> 04:41:14,120
Speaker 3: cheaters are also chronic liars and players, and you fell

5829
04:41:14,240 --> 04:41:17,280
Speaker 3: right into his hands. And let's not forget the massive

5830
04:41:17,320 --> 04:41:21,000
Speaker 3: betrayal to your sister. And OP responds, was he just

5831
04:41:21,400 --> 04:41:22,640
Speaker 3: never supposed to date again?

5832
04:41:23,440 --> 04:41:27,039
Speaker 2: You're so he could day the point he could date,

5833
04:41:27,080 --> 04:41:28,680
Speaker 2: but just not you, Just not you.

5834
04:41:29,840 --> 04:41:32,280
Speaker 3: It wasn't like we intended for this to happen. We

5835
04:41:32,440 --> 04:41:34,240
Speaker 3: just had such a strong connection.

5836
04:41:34,400 --> 04:41:36,320
Speaker 5: No, no, no, you didn't have a strong connection. You

5837
04:41:36,360 --> 04:41:37,800
Speaker 5: guys were just stuck on a boat together.

5838
04:41:38,040 --> 04:41:39,760
Speaker 3: That's the only thing that you had in common was

5839
04:41:39,840 --> 04:41:41,160
Speaker 3: that he cheated on your sister.

5840
04:41:41,680 --> 04:41:43,320
Speaker 5: And you guys were on a boat for a week alone,

5841
04:41:43,360 --> 04:41:45,240
Speaker 5: and we're like, oh, maybe something can happen.

5842
04:41:46,280 --> 04:41:46,320
Speaker 6: No.

5843
04:41:46,520 --> 04:41:49,040
Speaker 3: User two says, my sister is my world. If she

5844
04:41:49,200 --> 04:41:50,800
Speaker 3: did this to me, I would cut her out of

5845
04:41:50,840 --> 04:41:53,680
Speaker 3: my life completely. Do you have no respect for her

5846
04:41:53,880 --> 04:41:56,360
Speaker 3: the pain she went through? You want to throw that

5847
04:41:56,440 --> 04:42:00,759
Speaker 3: all away from some guy that is a renowned cheater. Wow, Oh,

5848
04:42:00,880 --> 04:42:03,280
Speaker 3: he says, I wouldn't even consider that this If she

5849
04:42:03,360 --> 04:42:05,520
Speaker 3: still had feelings for him, but she doesn't anymore. That

5850
04:42:05,560 --> 04:42:06,640
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that she wasn't.

5851
04:42:06,520 --> 04:42:08,840
Speaker 5: Hurt by him, Yeah, exactly.

5852
04:42:09,640 --> 04:42:12,360
Speaker 3: Yikes. Wait wait can you go up a little bit?

5853
04:42:12,440 --> 04:42:12,960
Speaker 4: Oh yeah?

5854
04:42:14,200 --> 04:42:14,320
Speaker 10: Uh.

5855
04:42:15,360 --> 04:42:18,240
Speaker 3: Sharia Teston Davis says, I saw a quote somewhere that said,

5856
04:42:18,280 --> 04:42:20,760
Speaker 3: oh wait, this is never mind, this is from previous

5857
04:42:20,800 --> 04:42:23,600
Speaker 3: I thought that. Okay, Randy h says, my little sister

5858
04:42:23,640 --> 04:42:26,800
Speaker 3: slept with my boyfriend. Me and my entire family made

5859
04:42:26,840 --> 04:42:29,520
Speaker 3: it clear he was no longer welcome around and made

5860
04:42:29,520 --> 04:42:31,520
Speaker 3: it clear to Sis. We don't condone her.

5861
04:42:31,680 --> 04:42:33,680
Speaker 5: Please chext us. I want to know more.

5862
04:42:33,720 --> 04:42:34,600
Speaker 3: I want to know the story.

5863
04:42:35,160 --> 04:42:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but there is an update.

5864
04:42:38,080 --> 04:42:40,640
Speaker 5: I feel like she's just finding every single excuse that

5865
04:42:40,759 --> 04:42:42,239
Speaker 5: she can to be with this person.

5866
04:42:42,400 --> 04:42:44,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, which is it's so clearly not right.

5867
04:42:45,160 --> 04:42:47,120
Speaker 5: And I don't know what he what he physically looks like,

5868
04:42:47,160 --> 04:42:49,960
Speaker 5: but he's probably like physically attractive. Yeah, like she may

5869
04:42:50,040 --> 04:42:53,640
Speaker 5: have had a crush on him before she might yeah,

5870
04:42:53,720 --> 04:42:55,840
Speaker 5: whenever he was with her sister. Things like that.

5871
04:42:56,840 --> 04:43:02,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's messy, mesty, messy, messy, but there is a uptake.

5872
04:43:02,560 --> 04:43:06,120
Speaker 5: Also, is that kind of respectful to herself to be

5873
04:43:06,320 --> 04:43:07,360
Speaker 5: with someone like this?

5874
04:43:07,880 --> 04:43:09,960
Speaker 3: I don't think it is. It's they lack of self

5875
04:43:10,000 --> 04:43:10,880
Speaker 3: respect to Yeah.

5876
04:43:11,040 --> 04:43:11,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, like.

5877
04:43:13,120 --> 04:43:15,320
Speaker 5: Like he's a bad person. You could do better, yes,

5878
04:43:15,400 --> 04:43:16,200
Speaker 5: and find better people.

5879
04:43:16,400 --> 04:43:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

5880
04:43:16,840 --> 04:43:17,480
Speaker 4: I just hate that.

5881
04:43:17,600 --> 04:43:19,880
Speaker 3: She was like, was he supposed to never date? Like

5882
04:43:20,000 --> 04:43:21,400
Speaker 3: that is obviously not what they're saying.

5883
04:43:21,720 --> 04:43:24,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, she's just trying to beat around the bush.

5884
04:43:24,240 --> 04:43:27,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's an update. Oh boy, I decided to

5885
04:43:27,759 --> 04:43:35,399
Speaker 3: give him a chance. Well, he's still a disgusting cheater.

5886
04:43:35,600 --> 04:43:39,800
Speaker 3: Who could have thunk? Who would have thunk? You are stupid.

5887
04:43:40,040 --> 04:43:42,520
Speaker 5: You had all the contexts, You had all the contexts.

5888
04:43:42,560 --> 04:43:44,840
Speaker 3: It was a cheater, and then he cheated on you.

5889
04:43:45,360 --> 04:43:45,880
Speaker 3: Woe is me?

5890
04:43:46,759 --> 04:43:49,239
Speaker 5: You were on the sideline watching it happen.

5891
04:43:50,320 --> 04:43:53,680
Speaker 3: That's all you know. What fool me once? Shame on

5892
04:43:54,160 --> 04:43:59,320
Speaker 3: you fooled me twice. That's a shame on you. That's

5893
04:43:59,360 --> 04:44:03,280
Speaker 3: a shame on you because you're silly. You're silly.

5894
04:44:03,720 --> 04:44:04,360
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

5895
04:44:04,919 --> 04:44:07,320
Speaker 3: A few weeks ago, I decided to tell my sister

5896
04:44:07,440 --> 04:44:10,560
Speaker 3: what happened and what I was planning. She didn't take

5897
04:44:10,600 --> 04:44:14,000
Speaker 3: it well at all and has locked me and said

5898
04:44:14,040 --> 04:44:18,880
Speaker 3: I'm dead to her. I mean, shocker. That broke my heart.

5899
04:44:18,960 --> 04:44:21,160
Speaker 3: But I was optimistic as she continued to heal from

5900
04:44:21,200 --> 04:44:23,280
Speaker 3: the breakup and find someone knew she would get over it,

5901
04:44:23,919 --> 04:44:27,760
Speaker 3: perhaps even learn to be happy for me. When I

5902
04:44:27,880 --> 04:44:30,240
Speaker 3: was over his place last night, I noticed a bonnet.

5903
04:44:30,680 --> 04:44:32,920
Speaker 3: It was not mine, and I don't wear bonnets usually.

5904
04:44:33,520 --> 04:44:35,080
Speaker 3: That raised my suspicion.

5905
04:44:35,520 --> 04:44:39,040
Speaker 5: Interesting if he's if he's done something once beforehand, he

5906
04:44:39,320 --> 04:44:40,160
Speaker 5: might do it again.

5907
04:44:40,840 --> 04:44:41,040
Speaker 10: Hmm.

5908
04:44:41,200 --> 04:44:43,360
Speaker 5: Probably he's changed though, right, he's changed.

5909
04:44:43,440 --> 04:44:46,120
Speaker 3: You changed, You said he changed. You told us that

5910
04:44:46,200 --> 04:44:48,320
Speaker 3: he changed, and he changed.

5911
04:44:48,400 --> 04:44:48,520
Speaker 8: Right.

5912
04:44:49,919 --> 04:44:53,239
Speaker 3: That raised my suspicion. I didn't say anything and waited

5913
04:44:53,280 --> 04:44:55,480
Speaker 3: for him to fall asleep. I used the face I

5914
04:44:55,600 --> 04:44:57,480
Speaker 3: need to unlock it when he was sleeping.

5915
04:44:57,600 --> 04:45:01,440
Speaker 5: Actually, that's kind of crazy that that into a relationship

5916
04:45:01,720 --> 04:45:02,280
Speaker 5: sharing face.

5917
04:45:02,320 --> 04:45:05,000
Speaker 3: ID I think that she just used his like na,

5918
04:45:06,560 --> 04:45:10,240
Speaker 3: which is weird. Yeah, y'all, y'all have y'all messed up.

5919
04:45:10,320 --> 04:45:11,480
Speaker 5: That's a red flag.

5920
04:45:11,680 --> 04:45:13,680
Speaker 3: I went through his phone and it was bad. I

5921
04:45:13,800 --> 04:45:16,160
Speaker 3: woke him up and told him he's a disgusting person.

5922
04:45:16,600 --> 04:45:18,880
Speaker 3: I never felt so alone. I haven't even told my

5923
04:45:18,960 --> 04:45:20,440
Speaker 3: sister yet, but I want her to know that I

5924
04:45:20,480 --> 04:45:22,600
Speaker 3: fell for his lies and that I'm sorry too. A

5925
04:45:22,640 --> 04:45:26,280
Speaker 3: little too late. You will be so lucky if your

5926
04:45:26,320 --> 04:45:30,480
Speaker 3: sister forgives you because like, boo freaking who you knew

5927
04:45:30,560 --> 04:45:34,720
Speaker 3: what he did? You sacrificed your relationship with your sister

5928
04:45:34,880 --> 04:45:35,720
Speaker 3: for a cheater and then.

5929
04:45:35,680 --> 04:45:36,320
Speaker 4: He cheated on you.

5930
04:45:36,759 --> 04:45:39,280
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, she just wasn't thinking with the right head. No,

5931
04:45:39,960 --> 04:45:42,240
Speaker 5: you can't say that. What do you say to that?

5932
04:45:42,960 --> 04:45:45,080
Speaker 5: Because with guys, you're like, you're not thinking with the

5933
04:45:45,200 --> 04:45:47,360
Speaker 5: right head. What did girls say?

5934
04:45:47,680 --> 04:45:48,480
Speaker 3: I don't know what you mean.

5935
04:45:48,840 --> 04:45:52,200
Speaker 5: Oh, because like the our wanga langs are thought of

5936
04:45:52,320 --> 04:45:54,240
Speaker 5: his head, so we're not thinking with the right head.

5937
04:45:54,600 --> 04:45:56,400
Speaker 5: So I didn't know like what girls would say like

5938
04:45:57,400 --> 04:45:59,720
Speaker 5: to that. Anyways, she was, dude, she wasn't thinking with

5939
04:45:59,759 --> 04:46:01,400
Speaker 5: the right ahead store.

5940
04:46:02,560 --> 04:46:07,920
Speaker 3: Well, anyway, I get your point, and yeah she's not.

5941
04:46:08,320 --> 04:46:11,320
Speaker 3: Oh thank you Cliff for thinking that's so clever, thinking

5942
04:46:11,480 --> 04:46:14,920
Speaker 3: that funny that is, that's so clever.

5943
04:46:16,080 --> 04:46:17,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, cool, cool, Thanks.

5944
04:46:17,800 --> 04:46:20,720
Speaker 3: But yeah, no, she really was not thinking at all,

5945
04:46:20,960 --> 04:46:23,240
Speaker 3: and she ruined her relationship with her sister and that

5946
04:46:23,400 --> 04:46:25,280
Speaker 3: she's gonna have to live with that and hope her

5947
04:46:25,360 --> 04:46:26,200
Speaker 3: sister takes her back.

5948
04:46:26,400 --> 04:46:28,640
Speaker 5: Yeah do you I don't think this is her will

5949
04:46:28,680 --> 04:46:31,000
Speaker 5: take her back. I don't think so at least, Yeah,

5950
04:46:31,040 --> 04:46:32,840
Speaker 5: not not for a while she will have to find

5951
04:46:32,880 --> 04:46:35,600
Speaker 5: love with someone else and then like slowly build.

5952
04:46:35,440 --> 04:46:36,000
Speaker 2: That back with you.

5953
04:46:36,360 --> 04:46:42,600
Speaker 3: Yep, definitely, definitely, definitely, but that's the end of that story.

5954
04:46:42,960 --> 04:46:44,920
Speaker 5: Riley explained that Sophia's art.

5955
04:46:46,759 --> 04:46:49,600
Speaker 3: Thank you, I like kind of under I understood it,

5956
04:46:49,680 --> 04:46:51,400
Speaker 3: but I was like, is that what you were going for?

5957
04:46:51,520 --> 04:46:57,200
Speaker 3: And it was yeah, yeah, we are always there. But

5958
04:46:58,440 --> 04:47:00,960
Speaker 3: you know what, I don't know how to lead into this.

5959
04:47:01,200 --> 04:47:04,720
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we got another story. We also have thirteen.

5960
04:47:04,360 --> 04:47:06,320
Speaker 3: Minutes thirty extream.

5961
04:47:07,080 --> 04:47:10,000
Speaker 5: We're gonna go for five hours unless something crazy happens.

5962
04:47:11,200 --> 04:47:13,120
Speaker 5: We're gonna give you what you guys came here for.

5963
04:47:13,480 --> 04:47:17,440
Speaker 5: And that's another story. And Lindsay had become a member

5964
04:47:17,520 --> 04:47:20,480
Speaker 5: on iPhone. I don't know what's in our discord. Check

5965
04:47:20,520 --> 04:47:23,320
Speaker 5: out our discord, but someone please help out Lindsay. She's

5966
04:47:23,320 --> 04:47:24,600
Speaker 5: trying to become a little Silly's member.

5967
04:47:25,480 --> 04:47:30,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, Scarria, so true. All go to therapy, but you know,

5968
04:47:30,320 --> 04:47:31,680
Speaker 3: there were a lot of wholesome stories.

5969
04:47:32,080 --> 04:47:33,759
Speaker 5: We did go back earlier.

5970
04:47:33,800 --> 04:47:38,160
Speaker 3: If you need yeah, yeah, rewind it. Rachel Hatchet says,

5971
04:47:38,240 --> 04:47:41,240
Speaker 3: learn women's anatomy. Riley, women still technically have heads. Have

5972
04:47:41,320 --> 04:47:42,640
Speaker 3: you ever actually seen the clip?

5973
04:47:43,960 --> 04:47:49,120
Speaker 5: Not gonna answer. It was dark, but I know where

5974
04:47:49,120 --> 04:47:49,480
Speaker 5: it's at.

5975
04:47:50,520 --> 04:47:51,239
Speaker 3: He's looked it up.

5976
04:47:51,759 --> 04:47:51,960
Speaker 9: Yeah.

5977
04:47:52,160 --> 04:47:55,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well I'm just not, you know, clever with words

5978
04:47:56,000 --> 04:47:56,160
Speaker 5: like that.

5979
04:47:56,360 --> 04:47:57,200
Speaker 2: That was yah.

5980
04:47:57,240 --> 04:48:00,880
Speaker 3: I'm here to be educated, exactly right, to learn. Yeah,

5981
04:48:00,960 --> 04:48:02,800
Speaker 3: but let's learn about this next story. There we go.

5982
04:48:02,919 --> 04:48:03,840
Speaker 4: That was that was a smith?

5983
04:48:04,000 --> 04:48:06,800
Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, go back to Aoki's very wholesome story that Yeah.

5984
04:48:07,000 --> 04:48:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I loved your story.

5985
04:48:08,160 --> 04:48:13,520
Speaker 3: Oki. All right, I had the best first date, cap Riley.

5986
04:48:13,600 --> 04:48:16,079
Speaker 5: I'm coming after you, guys. O, Gabby, that's so sweet.

5987
04:48:16,919 --> 04:48:20,320
Speaker 3: I had the best first date. Then he deleted his account.

5988
04:48:21,360 --> 04:48:27,200
Speaker 3: Oh no, a conscious crisis, says I, twenty seven female,

5989
04:48:27,320 --> 04:48:30,360
Speaker 3: had the most amazing date of my life last night

5990
04:48:30,640 --> 04:48:33,399
Speaker 3: in the two years I've started looking since being divorced.

5991
04:48:34,320 --> 04:48:36,720
Speaker 3: We were meeting at a Thai food restaurant. He showed

5992
04:48:36,800 --> 04:48:39,120
Speaker 3: up with a bouquet of flowers. No one has ever

5993
04:48:39,280 --> 04:48:42,800
Speaker 3: done that for me before. I was so shocked and

5994
04:48:42,919 --> 04:48:46,239
Speaker 3: it was so touching. The conversation was smooth and enjoyable.

5995
04:48:46,919 --> 04:48:50,120
Speaker 3: We both couldn't stop smiling. When we finished dinner, he

5996
04:48:50,240 --> 04:48:52,120
Speaker 3: asked if I wanted to go get ice cream. We

5997
04:48:52,200 --> 04:48:54,160
Speaker 3: were both sober, so drinks were out of the question.

5998
04:48:54,800 --> 04:48:57,080
Speaker 3: We both are sober, so drinks were out of the question,

5999
04:48:57,560 --> 04:48:59,160
Speaker 3: but neither of us wanted to say goodbye.

6000
04:48:59,240 --> 04:49:00,840
Speaker 5: Yes, this is class sick first day.

6001
04:49:02,360 --> 04:49:04,480
Speaker 3: I love it. We got ice cream at a local

6002
04:49:04,560 --> 04:49:06,960
Speaker 3: shop and then sat in my car listening to our

6003
04:49:07,040 --> 04:49:09,880
Speaker 3: favorite songs. We stayed there for three hours in the

6004
04:49:09,960 --> 04:49:13,240
Speaker 3: parking lot until midnight. After they closed, we kissed and

6005
04:49:13,360 --> 04:49:16,400
Speaker 3: hugged a lot. It felt very natural. He gave me

6006
04:49:16,520 --> 04:49:18,560
Speaker 3: the best compliment and said he feels like I'm a

6007
04:49:18,640 --> 04:49:21,320
Speaker 3: very sweet human being and can tell that I'm genuine

6008
04:49:21,360 --> 04:49:24,919
Speaker 3: and caring. That compliment stood out to me since anyone

6009
04:49:24,960 --> 04:49:28,440
Speaker 3: couldn't compliment my looks, but it takes someone who's more

6010
04:49:28,520 --> 04:49:35,879
Speaker 3: invested to acknowledge parts of my personality. Hmmm, Ryle's got

6011
04:49:35,919 --> 04:49:37,000
Speaker 3: a thing about personality.

6012
04:49:37,240 --> 04:49:38,400
Speaker 5: I'll tell you guys about it later.

6013
04:49:38,800 --> 04:49:40,759
Speaker 3: He asked to see me again on Friday, but then

6014
04:49:40,880 --> 04:49:43,920
Speaker 3: followed up by asking if he could see me today instead.

6015
04:49:44,120 --> 04:49:47,960
Speaker 3: I said, absolutely, cutie. This morning I had a notification

6016
04:49:48,120 --> 04:49:49,920
Speaker 3: from my dating app, so I opened it up and

6017
04:49:50,120 --> 04:49:53,640
Speaker 3: saw that he had deleted his profile. I don't want

6018
04:49:53,640 --> 04:49:56,160
Speaker 3: to overthink or read into things, but is that typical?

6019
04:49:56,320 --> 04:49:58,160
Speaker 3: Should I ask about it or just wait to see

6020
04:49:58,160 --> 04:50:00,360
Speaker 3: if he says something, there is update.

6021
04:50:00,440 --> 04:50:04,320
Speaker 5: He probably deleted it because you guys are kind of thing.

6022
04:50:04,759 --> 04:50:06,320
Speaker 5: But like, how do you not have his number?

6023
04:50:06,880 --> 04:50:09,200
Speaker 3: I was about to say, I would say, all way,

6024
04:50:09,600 --> 04:50:11,520
Speaker 3: before I go on any sort of date, I would

6025
04:50:11,520 --> 04:50:12,039
Speaker 3: get the number.

6026
04:50:12,240 --> 04:50:15,440
Speaker 5: Yes exactly, Yeah, yeah, I'm.

6027
04:50:15,360 --> 04:50:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm thinking he deleted it because he likes her. But why,

6028
04:50:17,720 --> 04:50:19,440
Speaker 3: Like it seems like she doesn't have his number.

6029
04:50:19,520 --> 04:50:21,320
Speaker 5: I would have been so funny if you like, deleted

6030
04:50:21,360 --> 04:50:23,880
Speaker 5: because he likes her, forgot I don't have.

6031
04:50:26,560 --> 04:50:29,559
Speaker 3: But also he could just go back on it, deletes.

6032
04:50:29,280 --> 04:50:29,680
Speaker 6: All the thing.

6033
04:50:30,640 --> 04:50:32,200
Speaker 5: This just sounds like a scavenger hunt. You need to

6034
04:50:32,280 --> 04:50:32,640
Speaker 5: find him.

6035
04:50:32,680 --> 04:50:35,040
Speaker 3: You have to find him or else it's not true love.

6036
04:50:35,280 --> 04:50:38,079
Speaker 5: Exactly, Yeah, exactly. Also, it's kind of is it weird

6037
04:50:38,120 --> 04:50:40,720
Speaker 5: that the guy didn't give his information before the date?

6038
04:50:40,960 --> 04:50:42,600
Speaker 3: On the dating That's what I'm saying. I think I

6039
04:50:42,640 --> 04:50:46,360
Speaker 3: feel like they should have shared information before. Is this

6040
04:50:46,480 --> 04:50:48,320
Speaker 3: going to be available to no not members?

6041
04:50:48,880 --> 04:50:49,080
Speaker 4: Yes?

6042
04:50:49,200 --> 04:50:52,039
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, public for everyone, But there is an update,

6043
04:50:52,400 --> 04:50:55,920
Speaker 3: there is. Yesterday I made a post about having a

6044
04:50:56,040 --> 04:50:59,160
Speaker 3: great first date. The guy had deleted his online dating

6045
04:50:59,160 --> 04:51:02,440
Speaker 3: account afterward, and I was looking for opinions. I ended

6046
04:51:02,520 --> 04:51:04,680
Speaker 3: up removing the post because I was getting some comments

6047
04:51:04,720 --> 04:51:06,560
Speaker 3: telling me that he was going to ghost me and

6048
04:51:06,640 --> 04:51:10,120
Speaker 3: that it was a red flag. I got anxious slash

6049
04:51:10,200 --> 04:51:12,560
Speaker 3: annoyed because we had a second date plan and that

6050
04:51:12,680 --> 04:51:15,079
Speaker 3: was just not true. It will not let me comment

6051
04:51:15,200 --> 04:51:16,960
Speaker 3: on the old posts, so I'm sharing on a new

6052
04:51:17,000 --> 04:51:20,920
Speaker 3: one because people keep asking for an update. Yesterday, he

6053
04:51:21,080 --> 04:51:23,360
Speaker 3: picked me up since he lives close by great so

6054
04:51:23,759 --> 04:51:25,720
Speaker 3: so okay, wait, so it's not a red flag at all.

6055
04:51:26,000 --> 04:51:27,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're fine, You're good.

6056
04:51:28,080 --> 04:51:30,000
Speaker 3: He doesn't want to be on the dating app because.

6057
04:51:30,160 --> 04:51:32,199
Speaker 5: He wants you to be with you exactly.

6058
04:51:33,680 --> 04:51:36,160
Speaker 3: He ended up, Oh wait, I invited him. Wait no,

6059
04:51:36,320 --> 04:51:39,560
Speaker 3: I'm getting ahead. We went and got coffees and walked

6060
04:51:39,880 --> 04:51:41,840
Speaker 3: on a local trail until it got dark.

6061
04:51:43,720 --> 04:51:45,320
Speaker 4: They have to be like in their.

6062
04:51:47,000 --> 04:51:49,480
Speaker 3: I hope. So I invited him back to my place

6063
04:51:49,560 --> 04:51:51,280
Speaker 3: because I had baked homemade bread.

6064
04:51:51,520 --> 04:51:52,280
Speaker 8: What is this?

6065
04:51:52,560 --> 04:51:59,840
Speaker 3: Stop what you're making me feel alone? He ended up

6066
04:51:59,880 --> 04:52:02,280
Speaker 3: telling me that he deleted his profile because he really

6067
04:52:02,320 --> 04:52:05,440
Speaker 3: wants to focus on me and feels hopeful about us.

6068
04:52:09,000 --> 04:52:09,880
Speaker 5: Grid flog.

6069
04:52:11,240 --> 04:52:15,320
Speaker 3: He flags all around. He says he understands that there's

6070
04:52:15,360 --> 04:52:17,800
Speaker 3: a chance it might not work out, but he wants

6071
04:52:18,880 --> 04:52:21,000
Speaker 3: where I's what. He wants to focus on me and

6072
04:52:21,040 --> 04:52:24,120
Speaker 3: feels hopeful about us. He says he understands that, oh,

6073
04:52:24,440 --> 04:52:27,320
Speaker 3: but he doesn't want any distractions and wants to be respectful.

6074
04:52:28,440 --> 04:52:31,399
Speaker 3: We had a wonderful time together and ended up falling

6075
04:52:31,440 --> 04:52:34,120
Speaker 3: asleep on the couch watching movies. He invited me to

6076
04:52:34,240 --> 04:52:36,759
Speaker 3: come to his house on Friday, where he'll cook me dinner.

6077
04:52:37,040 --> 04:52:42,399
Speaker 3: WHOA after two years of terrible first dates, I'm very optimistic.

6078
04:52:42,560 --> 04:52:44,559
Speaker 3: I know people told me to watch for love bombing,

6079
04:52:44,680 --> 04:52:46,360
Speaker 3: but I've been in therapy for three years for an

6080
04:52:46,400 --> 04:52:49,120
Speaker 3: old abusive relationship and it really doesn't feel like that

6081
04:52:49,240 --> 04:52:53,120
Speaker 3: to me. Sometimes it's okay to be vulnerable and intentional.

6082
04:52:53,480 --> 04:52:55,720
Speaker 3: I think this guy is a very big green flag.

6083
04:52:55,800 --> 04:53:00,960
Speaker 3: Oh thanks everyone for your advice yesterday. Apologize for deleting

6084
04:53:01,000 --> 04:53:02,800
Speaker 3: the post, but I was starting to get worried and

6085
04:53:02,880 --> 04:53:05,000
Speaker 3: having bad thoughts. It was better to just cut it

6086
04:53:05,080 --> 04:53:06,759
Speaker 3: off before I self sabotaged.

6087
04:53:06,919 --> 04:53:09,800
Speaker 5: Wait wait wait wait what what it was better to

6088
04:53:10,520 --> 04:53:11,000
Speaker 5: cut it off?

6089
04:53:11,120 --> 04:53:12,440
Speaker 3: Like cut off the post?

6090
04:53:12,840 --> 04:53:15,520
Speaker 5: Oh gotcha, got relationship.

6091
04:53:15,600 --> 04:53:18,800
Speaker 3: The relationship is continuing and lick sel That is a

6092
04:53:18,880 --> 04:53:24,200
Speaker 3: male wife right there. No man'splaining or manipulating insight. Yeah,

6093
04:53:24,560 --> 04:53:26,520
Speaker 3: this is so sweet. See you guys wanted it wholesome.

6094
04:53:26,600 --> 04:53:27,080
Speaker 3: We give it to you.

6095
04:53:27,240 --> 04:53:27,720
Speaker 5: We give it to you.

6096
04:53:27,919 --> 04:53:30,000
Speaker 3: Is the wholesome stream with a little bit of trauma.

6097
04:53:30,360 --> 04:53:32,840
Speaker 5: They may be rare and far in between, but they're there.

6098
04:53:32,720 --> 04:53:36,239
Speaker 3: They're there, they exist. Wow, that was really really sweet.

6099
04:53:36,360 --> 04:53:38,920
Speaker 5: That was really really sweet. I saw someone said that

6100
04:53:39,000 --> 04:53:40,920
Speaker 5: they baked. They were like, Riley, I baked bread in

6101
04:53:41,000 --> 04:53:41,480
Speaker 5: the comments.

6102
04:53:41,560 --> 04:53:42,200
Speaker 4: That was hilarious.

6103
04:53:42,759 --> 04:53:43,800
Speaker 3: Riley, I bake bread.

6104
04:53:44,400 --> 04:53:45,160
Speaker 2: I make bread.

6105
04:53:46,720 --> 04:53:48,039
Speaker 4: This is so very sweet.

6106
04:53:48,800 --> 04:53:50,360
Speaker 5: What you're like dream first date?

6107
04:53:51,120 --> 04:53:52,120
Speaker 3: Dream first date?

6108
04:53:52,680 --> 04:53:56,880
Speaker 5: Yes, hmmm, it has to be an afternoon specific he's

6109
04:53:56,880 --> 04:54:00,559
Speaker 5: picking you up at two? Tell me you so bad

6110
04:54:00,560 --> 04:54:01,440
Speaker 5: at dates?

6111
04:54:02,000 --> 04:54:05,320
Speaker 3: I would? I like going to mediums, so that would

6112
04:54:05,320 --> 04:54:08,000
Speaker 3: be fun. I like going to the grove. I like outdoor,

6113
04:54:08,919 --> 04:54:10,720
Speaker 3: like outdoor things where I can walk around.

6114
04:54:11,000 --> 04:54:12,520
Speaker 5: If he invited you on a hike, is that a

6115
04:54:12,560 --> 04:54:12,960
Speaker 5: red flag?

6116
04:54:13,480 --> 04:54:15,920
Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I probably if I didn't know him, I

6117
04:54:16,000 --> 04:54:20,920
Speaker 3: probably wouldn't do hike first date, because you know that's dangerous.

6118
04:54:21,919 --> 04:54:24,400
Speaker 3: But if I did know him, a hike would be fun.

6119
04:54:24,400 --> 04:54:25,000
Speaker 3: I do like hikes.

6120
04:54:25,000 --> 04:54:26,760
Speaker 5: Okay, so you're going to the grove. Is he picking

6121
04:54:26,800 --> 04:54:27,680
Speaker 5: you up? Are you meeting him? There?

6122
04:54:27,720 --> 04:54:30,480
Speaker 3: He's picking me up, he's picking you up. Okay, okay, yeah,

6123
04:54:30,520 --> 04:54:32,200
Speaker 3: so you're there at the grove. We go to the grove,

6124
04:54:33,440 --> 04:54:37,120
Speaker 3: we get tacos, tacos. We get tacos, uh, and then

6125
04:54:37,720 --> 04:54:40,640
Speaker 3: we get something a sweet treat. And then we go

6126
04:54:41,280 --> 04:54:43,720
Speaker 3: brows Barnes and Nobles because they have the three story

6127
04:54:43,759 --> 04:54:44,360
Speaker 3: Barnes and Nobles.

6128
04:54:44,400 --> 04:54:45,600
Speaker 5: There is he getting you a book?

6129
04:54:45,720 --> 04:54:48,879
Speaker 3: He's getting me, he's getting me a book. Actually, had

6130
04:54:48,919 --> 04:54:51,600
Speaker 3: someone offered to buy me anything at the Barnes and

6131
04:54:51,600 --> 04:54:53,320
Speaker 3: Noble and I was like no, And I said no,

6132
04:54:54,120 --> 04:54:54,640
Speaker 3: who was that?

6133
04:54:55,280 --> 04:54:55,399
Speaker 9: Oh?

6134
04:54:55,480 --> 04:54:59,000
Speaker 3: This was this guy that I was almost seeing, but

6135
04:54:59,120 --> 04:55:00,320
Speaker 3: it didn't actually go in anywhere.

6136
04:55:00,480 --> 04:55:01,680
Speaker 5: Why didn't you get a free book?

6137
04:55:01,960 --> 04:55:02,200
Speaker 9: I know?

6138
04:55:02,520 --> 04:55:04,480
Speaker 3: I felt bad because you always paid. This was the

6139
04:55:04,520 --> 04:55:06,800
Speaker 3: person that always paid for everything. And I felt bad

6140
04:55:06,840 --> 04:55:08,640
Speaker 3: because I was like, you're literally paying for everything, and

6141
04:55:09,720 --> 04:55:11,080
Speaker 3: but I should have gotten my free book.

6142
04:55:11,320 --> 04:55:16,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Barnes and Noble, Noble, And then.

6143
04:55:17,840 --> 04:55:19,520
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't, I don't know.

6144
04:55:19,720 --> 04:55:21,919
Speaker 5: We walk around more stargazing.

6145
04:55:22,120 --> 04:55:24,840
Speaker 3: So we go to the beach and we stargaze. Yo,

6146
04:55:26,240 --> 04:55:27,080
Speaker 3: yeah that.

6147
04:55:27,080 --> 04:55:29,240
Speaker 5: Would be nice, classic classic.

6148
04:55:29,000 --> 04:55:31,400
Speaker 3: And then we cuddle. I love cuddling. I'm a big

6149
04:55:31,480 --> 04:55:33,840
Speaker 3: I'm a big speaking of love, lit, love languages, big

6150
04:55:33,880 --> 04:55:34,840
Speaker 3: physical touch person.

6151
04:55:35,000 --> 04:55:38,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, a bit a nice backscratch. Oh, it goes a

6152
04:55:38,840 --> 04:55:39,240
Speaker 5: long way.

6153
04:55:39,400 --> 04:55:41,760
Speaker 3: I So my aunt used to do this thing where

6154
04:55:42,120 --> 04:55:44,960
Speaker 3: like I didn't like she would yeah yeah yeah, and

6155
04:55:45,040 --> 04:55:46,280
Speaker 3: it feels so good. I love that.

6156
04:55:46,720 --> 04:55:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

6157
04:55:47,040 --> 04:55:48,800
Speaker 5: Oh wow, you've been doing that right now?

6158
04:55:48,919 --> 04:55:52,400
Speaker 3: Is great? Do that right now? Everyone do it? She

6159
04:55:52,400 --> 04:55:52,920
Speaker 3: feels good.

6160
04:55:53,919 --> 04:55:54,120
Speaker 9: Wow.

6161
04:55:54,520 --> 04:55:54,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

6162
04:55:54,800 --> 04:55:57,840
Speaker 3: But that's my perfect first state. But I also like

6163
04:55:57,880 --> 04:55:59,960
Speaker 3: when people like our spongor like like come up with

6164
04:56:00,160 --> 04:56:01,879
Speaker 3: things like it doesn't have to be that. Like if

6165
04:56:01,919 --> 04:56:05,120
Speaker 3: someone like just spent time coming up with something, I'd

6166
04:56:05,160 --> 04:56:07,600
Speaker 3: be like, oh my god, wow, this person is you know, cares.

6167
04:56:08,040 --> 04:56:08,240
Speaker 10: Yeah.

6168
04:56:08,640 --> 04:56:11,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I went on a date with someone. I don't

6169
04:56:11,000 --> 04:56:12,960
Speaker 5: think I've ever shared this, but it was. It was great.

6170
04:56:13,000 --> 04:56:15,400
Speaker 5: It was so great. So we went to a little

6171
04:56:15,440 --> 04:56:21,800
Speaker 5: germantown and then huh, it's in actually it's in Huntington Beach. Okay, yeah, yeah,

6172
04:56:21,880 --> 04:56:24,200
Speaker 5: she met me there. We went there to a little germantown,

6173
04:56:24,520 --> 04:56:26,360
Speaker 5: ate some German food, and then we got a little

6174
04:56:26,360 --> 04:56:29,360
Speaker 5: sweet treat after and then after that we went to

6175
04:56:29,480 --> 04:56:32,040
Speaker 5: a pier and we just like talked and I asked

6176
04:56:32,080 --> 04:56:35,040
Speaker 5: her these questions that I thought of like three days before. Yeah,

6177
04:56:35,080 --> 04:56:37,040
Speaker 5: like all these like little questions like what is the

6178
04:56:37,120 --> 04:56:39,880
Speaker 5: smallest thing that you absolutely love?

6179
04:56:40,320 --> 04:56:40,400
Speaker 9: Ye?

6180
04:56:40,560 --> 04:56:40,640
Speaker 8: Uh?

6181
04:56:40,960 --> 04:56:43,040
Speaker 5: And then I got a second date out of it.

6182
04:56:43,200 --> 04:56:43,840
Speaker 3: That's lovely.

6183
04:56:44,080 --> 04:56:44,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

6184
04:56:44,400 --> 04:56:46,800
Speaker 3: So actually my worst date, I think one of my

6185
04:56:46,840 --> 04:56:48,600
Speaker 3: worst dates was I went to a comedy show and

6186
04:56:48,840 --> 04:56:52,080
Speaker 3: it was the comedy was so bad and I like

6187
04:56:52,200 --> 04:56:54,160
Speaker 3: it actually made me like rethink the day and I

6188
04:56:54,160 --> 04:56:55,600
Speaker 3: actually I didn't go on a second day with this

6189
04:56:55,680 --> 04:56:57,440
Speaker 3: person because it was just it was so bad. Like

6190
04:56:57,759 --> 04:57:00,840
Speaker 3: the comedians were all like kind of like race homophobic

6191
04:57:00,919 --> 04:57:03,680
Speaker 3: and sexist. And I was like wow, because yeah, like

6192
04:57:03,759 --> 04:57:06,520
Speaker 3: I guess why not? And I was like so uncomfortable

6193
04:57:06,560 --> 04:57:08,719
Speaker 3: the whole time, and the person was like kind of laughing,

6194
04:57:08,759 --> 04:57:10,239
Speaker 3: and I was like are you laughing at the jokes

6195
04:57:10,360 --> 04:57:13,720
Speaker 3: or are you uncomfortable laughing? And then we went to

6196
04:57:13,759 --> 04:57:16,560
Speaker 3: a pier. That's why I'm bringing it up. We were

6197
04:57:16,640 --> 04:57:20,680
Speaker 3: just talking and it was so uncomfortable and just yeah, did.

6198
04:57:20,560 --> 04:57:21,640
Speaker 5: He not like get a vibe?

6199
04:57:21,720 --> 04:57:21,800
Speaker 9: Oh?

6200
04:57:21,919 --> 04:57:23,800
Speaker 5: Also on the pier, we were like kind of walking

6201
04:57:23,840 --> 04:57:25,800
Speaker 5: beside each other and we like bumped hands and then

6202
04:57:25,880 --> 04:57:27,480
Speaker 5: like she held my hand and they were just.

6203
04:57:27,520 --> 04:57:29,560
Speaker 3: Talking like the whole time at me, like just at me.

6204
04:57:29,919 --> 04:57:32,360
Speaker 5: I was like, was he not asking you questions?

6205
04:57:32,480 --> 04:57:32,680
Speaker 2: Back?

6206
04:57:33,919 --> 04:57:36,680
Speaker 3: It was like a it was like a like a

6207
04:57:37,000 --> 04:57:39,759
Speaker 3: what's the word? Like interview style?

6208
04:57:40,040 --> 04:57:43,320
Speaker 5: Oh I hate interview questions. I always assume things. I'm like,

6209
04:57:43,560 --> 04:57:45,840
Speaker 5: you look like you can handle a roomful of third

6210
04:57:45,880 --> 04:57:48,240
Speaker 5: graders are roomful, and they're like, how did you know

6211
04:57:48,360 --> 04:57:49,079
Speaker 5: what was a teacher?

6212
04:57:49,280 --> 04:57:50,280
Speaker 1: Or why do you think that?

6213
04:57:50,720 --> 04:57:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

6214
04:57:51,280 --> 04:57:53,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, are there any fun comments to read?

6215
04:57:54,600 --> 04:57:55,840
Speaker 5: All these people trying to ship us?

6216
04:57:55,960 --> 04:57:56,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

6217
04:57:56,200 --> 04:57:58,600
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, come on, guys, come on, come on.

6218
04:57:58,880 --> 04:57:59,960
Speaker 5: We lived together.

6219
04:58:00,200 --> 04:58:01,879
Speaker 2: Together together, we work together.

6220
04:58:03,080 --> 04:58:04,280
Speaker 3: Riley is like my brother.

6221
04:58:04,480 --> 04:58:07,640
Speaker 5: Now yeah, she's basically my sister. She yells at me, like,

6222
04:58:08,160 --> 04:58:09,560
Speaker 5: y go.

6223
04:58:11,080 --> 04:58:15,360
Speaker 3: Leave me alone. Oh, Cassandra says, I'd rather Rilly and Sam.

6224
04:58:16,120 --> 04:58:16,880
Speaker 6: Do what talk.

6225
04:58:18,520 --> 04:58:20,239
Speaker 5: We do have very interesting conversations.

6226
04:58:20,520 --> 04:58:23,320
Speaker 3: Katie Kate never did comedy shows as a day.

6227
04:58:23,440 --> 04:58:25,360
Speaker 2: Oh wait, I took or go to a comedy show

6228
04:58:25,560 --> 04:58:26,160
Speaker 2: and it was great.

6229
04:58:26,280 --> 04:58:28,960
Speaker 3: Okay, sometimes it's good. This comedy show was so expensed

6230
04:58:28,960 --> 04:58:30,240
Speaker 3: they did pay for it, so I didn't have to

6231
04:58:30,240 --> 04:58:30,560
Speaker 3: pay for it.

6232
04:58:30,680 --> 04:58:31,600
Speaker 5: Okay, Oh my god.

6233
04:58:31,680 --> 04:58:36,239
Speaker 3: It was expensive and bad, and I actually suggested doing

6234
04:58:36,280 --> 04:58:37,680
Speaker 3: something I was like, let's do a picnic and they

6235
04:58:37,720 --> 04:58:39,600
Speaker 3: were like, no, let's go to a comedy show. And

6236
04:58:39,640 --> 04:58:40,000
Speaker 3: it was bad.

6237
04:58:41,240 --> 04:58:42,160
Speaker 1: It was bad.

6238
04:58:42,800 --> 04:58:44,920
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, yeah, no, I went to a comedy show

6239
04:58:44,960 --> 04:58:46,440
Speaker 5: and I went there. She loved it. It was my

6240
04:58:46,480 --> 04:58:49,120
Speaker 5: first hinja I've ever been on. She loved it. Afterwards,

6241
04:58:49,200 --> 04:58:52,200
Speaker 5: we played Katan with Sam and his buddies and had

6242
04:58:52,240 --> 04:58:55,640
Speaker 5: a great time. It was so fun. Yeah, but I mean,

6243
04:58:56,320 --> 04:58:58,280
Speaker 5: all right, guys, we have like less than a minute

6244
04:58:58,400 --> 04:59:03,000
Speaker 5: left in the stream unless something crazy happens. But yeah,

6245
04:59:03,080 --> 04:59:06,120
Speaker 5: this is uh, it's been fun and great, fun and great.

6246
04:59:06,200 --> 04:59:07,640
Speaker 5: Got a little Riley and Sophia time.

6247
04:59:07,759 --> 04:59:09,440
Speaker 3: Yeah between us.

6248
04:59:09,640 --> 04:59:11,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is like, this is not what we look

6249
04:59:11,919 --> 04:59:13,920
Speaker 5: like outside of the stream. We actually don't talk to

6250
04:59:13,960 --> 04:59:14,919
Speaker 5: each other outside.

6251
04:59:14,600 --> 04:59:17,840
Speaker 3: Of this Katie Kate, did I mispronounce it? I hope,

6252
04:59:17,880 --> 04:59:18,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry if I did.

6253
04:59:19,280 --> 04:59:21,640
Speaker 5: Sophia never pronounces my name greatly. How do you say it,

6254
04:59:21,840 --> 04:59:25,280
Speaker 5: Katie key Keith, I'm try.

6255
04:59:26,280 --> 04:59:29,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you could phonetically put it in the chat,

6256
04:59:29,480 --> 04:59:32,280
Speaker 3: yeah yeah, or send us like a voice memo. Yeah, Oh,

6257
04:59:32,960 --> 04:59:35,079
Speaker 3: thank you, tin Arena for the five bucks.

6258
04:59:36,040 --> 04:59:38,400
Speaker 5: Riley go to the discord and oh I saw the

6259
04:59:38,480 --> 04:59:42,120
Speaker 5: emojis of you guys with Sam's nipples insane. If I

6260
04:59:42,600 --> 04:59:44,080
Speaker 5: join the discord, guys, I.

6261
04:59:44,120 --> 04:59:48,600
Speaker 3: Will not be going there. Wait wait, wait, oh my god,

6262
04:59:48,680 --> 04:59:51,680
Speaker 3: what's going on. I'm trying to find out if we

6263
04:59:51,720 --> 04:59:53,440
Speaker 3: can find what Katie's pronunciation is.

6264
04:59:53,759 --> 04:59:55,759
Speaker 5: Oh wait, let's just put it in you. I don't

6265
04:59:55,759 --> 04:59:56,480
Speaker 5: think she's put it in you.

6266
04:59:56,600 --> 04:59:58,400
Speaker 3: Okay, this is said. Sophia got my.

6267
04:59:58,520 --> 05:00:01,240
Speaker 5: Own nice I want to ship Sophie and Riley not

6268
05:00:01,280 --> 05:00:01,759
Speaker 5: gonna have him.

6269
05:00:01,919 --> 05:00:06,720
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, guys, sorry to burst the bubbles of the

6270
05:00:07,680 --> 05:00:08,360
Speaker 3: comedy shows.

6271
05:00:08,400 --> 05:00:10,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, Sofia sounds like me. I don't think she did.

6272
05:00:10,240 --> 05:00:10,640
Speaker 5: What's in the.

6273
05:00:10,640 --> 05:00:11,560
Speaker 2: Discord, Eardrea.

6274
05:00:12,040 --> 05:00:14,080
Speaker 5: What's in the discord? A lot of crazy stuff. Honestly,

6275
05:00:14,280 --> 05:00:17,120
Speaker 5: Riley would do wonderful with the woman about seven to

6276
05:00:17,200 --> 05:00:19,920
Speaker 5: eight years older and someone who's great with communicating. Plus

6277
05:00:20,000 --> 05:00:21,840
Speaker 5: bonus if she has an accent.

6278
05:00:21,919 --> 05:00:22,560
Speaker 3: She's an accent.

6279
05:00:23,120 --> 05:00:24,760
Speaker 5: I don't know if I can do an older woman

6280
05:00:24,840 --> 05:00:25,840
Speaker 5: that would Oh.

6281
05:00:25,840 --> 05:00:27,640
Speaker 3: She said, I got it right, So it is Katie Kate.

6282
05:00:27,800 --> 05:00:29,079
Speaker 4: Oh great, great great.

6283
05:00:30,400 --> 05:00:32,880
Speaker 3: I did work at Starbucks and so I had to

6284
05:00:33,160 --> 05:00:34,960
Speaker 3: I had to pronounce what I thought.

6285
05:00:34,960 --> 05:00:36,840
Speaker 5: You guys had to pronounce it wrong, so you guys

6286
05:00:36,880 --> 05:00:39,399
Speaker 5: would get pushed more on social media, like you were

6287
05:00:39,560 --> 05:00:41,960
Speaker 5: in naming, it's just.

6288
05:00:42,200 --> 05:00:45,079
Speaker 3: Hard to spell people's names. I I did this thing

6289
05:00:45,160 --> 05:00:48,760
Speaker 3: where I would like specifically ask people, like if they

6290
05:00:48,800 --> 05:00:50,440
Speaker 3: would tell me their name, I'd be like, oh, how

6291
05:00:50,440 --> 05:00:51,920
Speaker 3: do you spell that? Or if it was like an

6292
05:00:51,960 --> 05:00:54,600
Speaker 3: easy name but like had some you know, two different spellings,

6293
05:00:54,640 --> 05:00:55,919
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh, is it spelled this way?

6294
05:00:56,200 --> 05:00:57,320
Speaker 2: And people love that.

6295
05:00:57,640 --> 05:01:00,160
Speaker 3: People love it when you get their name right, all

6296
05:01:00,200 --> 05:01:00,600
Speaker 3: their name right.

6297
05:01:00,680 --> 05:01:02,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's like Del Carnegie, one of one.

6298
05:01:02,160 --> 05:01:04,040
Speaker 3: Yeah. If I wasn't sure, I'd always ask.

6299
05:01:04,960 --> 05:01:07,440
Speaker 5: Yeahske well, guys. That's it.

6300
05:01:08,120 --> 05:01:09,400
Speaker 3: That's the whole stream.

6301
05:01:09,560 --> 05:01:10,280
Speaker 5: That's the whole stream.

6302
05:01:10,640 --> 05:01:13,040
Speaker 3: Thank you for the seven thirty seven people that stayed

6303
05:01:13,120 --> 05:01:14,840
Speaker 3: to hear Riley and I yap.

6304
05:01:14,840 --> 05:01:17,880
Speaker 5: Yah appreciate it. You want to do it, you want

6305
05:01:17,919 --> 05:01:18,200
Speaker 5: me to do it?

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