1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm not kind of stuff. 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: I never told you protection of I Heart radio. And 3 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: so today, unfortunately, uh, we have to talk about abortion 4 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: and the recent overturning of a Roady Wade. It's not 5 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: unfortunate talk about abortion, but it's unfortunate that we have 6 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,959 Speaker 1: to talk about it because this right and so today's 7 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: date is June two. It really, I mean, it's been 8 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: a real it's been a real week in a real 9 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: couple of years. And also thanks shout out to Christina 10 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: who puts up with us being like, look, we're I'm sorry, 11 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: we're doing this last minute. We can about this, it's 12 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: not we can't not not talk about this. And christ 13 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: and A has been an amazing producer throughout with all 14 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: the ups and downs, with all the bad that we've 15 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 1: had to talk to and endure our feelings so often 16 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: without complaint. So thank you. You're a real one for sure. Yes, 17 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 1: And as of June, I'm sure everyone knows and there's 18 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: no surprise. We knew it was coming. The Supreme Court 19 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: decided to overturn Roe versus Wade, and there's a lot 20 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: of conversation that we have got to have. We will 21 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: continue to have and if you're upset that we'll continue 22 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: to talk about it. If you're upset that you have 23 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: figured out just now this last year, that we are 24 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: pro choice in every way and we think that women 25 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: have a right to their body and the autonomy of 26 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: their body, then you should have stopped listening to us 27 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: two years ago, to be honest, because if you're surprised 28 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: by this, sorry, I have noticed, Annie. I know we don't. 29 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: We're not We're not supposed to look and I'm not 30 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: reading them, but I've noticed that our reviews have gone 31 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: down a little bit because we've been very out as 32 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: of late. Um, we've been loud from the beginning from 33 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: all the elections since it's not been surprising. The host 34 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: before us have been very loud and adamant. So for 35 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: those who continue to be shocked that this is what 36 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: we do, so sad bye. That's how I feel about 37 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: right now. There is a lot of conversation about next steps, 38 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: what to do. We all got inundated with all of 39 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 1: the political fundraising, which made me want to throw my 40 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: phone up against the wall. Um, that's a whole different conversation, 41 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: and we'll come back to it, because I want to 42 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: come back to it. Um, we are in mourning for 43 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 1: the rights of a whole population that for fifty years 44 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: have been trying to push full equality and has still 45 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: have yet to reach there. Just a little bit. Again, 46 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: we're not surprised by the decision. We had our episode recently, 47 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: specifically about the late argument by Judge Alito, which is 48 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: still absurd. And I'm still confused because also we know 49 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: that several other recent decisions have overturned many things that 50 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: are completely shocking that our constitutional So I'm still confused 51 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: about that, including separation of church and state. Confused because 52 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: that's actually written in the original Constitution. So if we're 53 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: going to actually talk about the Constitution, why aren't we 54 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: keeping to that. Yeah, it's infuriating. Yeah, I think so 55 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: this is a We're kind of gonna go through our 56 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: own feelings and reactions to it. We're definitely going to 57 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: be talking about it in the future because right now 58 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: there's a lot of things that are uncertain. But we 59 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: did know it was coming, and I felt like that 60 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: was when I found out that day. It was one 61 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: of those things where I'm like, I knew this was 62 00:03:54,920 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: going to happen, and it hurt anyway, it hurt, hurt anyway. Um, 63 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: and I had people coming in to town to stay 64 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: with me that day, and uh, we just all talked 65 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: about it. They were all women, and one of them 66 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: is in nurse been on the show and was everyone 67 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: was so scared and so angry UM, and kept pointing 68 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: out the hypocrisy and we keep seeing it like the 69 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: Supreme Court keeps releasing these decisions, and I'm like, why, right, 70 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 1: why are you doing this? And I think that night 71 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: we watched a movie that was from the seventies and 72 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: I just had the thought of like, wow, at that 73 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 1: time there was Roby Wade and there's not anymore backtracking. 74 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: It's really like, well that doesn't exist anymore, and that 75 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: doesn't exist anymore. So wow, and yeah, I think when 76 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: I have to come back. The documentary that HBO has 77 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: apparently has like almost a hundred rating for from Rotten Tomatoes, 78 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: which is about the Jains, which has been mentioned before 79 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: part of our project. I have talked about it on 80 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: other episodes and it's quite funny because I'm like, as 81 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: we're all discovering it, we're talking about it. And it 82 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: was released and of course again it was a release 83 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: pre row versus way, which is actually how the Jain 84 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: Collective members who have been arrested would have been charged 85 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: up to a hundred and ten years in prison for 86 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: aiding in a betting abortion. That's a whole different conversation 87 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to have because there are so many 88 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: things happening with what we should do, how it should 89 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: be done. And I do want to come back to 90 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: another Monday. Many of dues and don't because I think 91 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: there's a lot of misinformation and miscommunication happening out there 92 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 1: that could be really dangerous, especially for our younger generation 93 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: who are seeking access and the older generation who don't 94 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: know how to provide. One of the big things, of course, 95 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 1: UH quit offering private options when it comes to abortions. 96 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: We do have that pill which we've talked about previously, 97 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: that is, say for abortion. Plan B is still out there. 98 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: Apparently if you go to Costco you can get up 99 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: to two UH per visit and you don't have to 100 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: have a membership f y I. We have seen companies 101 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: come out saying that we will provide for that. Of course, 102 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: the other side to that is we shouldn't have to 103 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: disclose that we need it as as a way of 104 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: getting that treatment. But you know, I guess at least 105 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: it's something. Of course, those are the same companies that 106 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:30,559 Speaker 1: are oftentimes donating to the anti abortion and anti choice people, 107 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: so that hypocritcy should be called out as well. And yeah, 108 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: we're looking at our own people when we say this, 109 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: because we haven't heard anything on our end, just saying 110 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: talking about the fact Missouri has gone so so right 111 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: that even the people who made that law. I know 112 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: one of the congresswomen who made that law was like, no, no, no, 113 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: I didn't intend it for this, and we're like, bet 114 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 1: you did this, and I said, I'm not going to 115 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: delete it. I said it, and she did as she 116 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: was like kind of shocked. How I didn't need for 117 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: that to happen. There's also the conversation that a lot 118 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: of the doctors and healthcare providers are scared to know 119 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: what to do, and a lot of people should say 120 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: just break the law, right law, And I get it, 121 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: I get it, But there's a lot of conversation of like, 122 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: we don't have that choice, we don't have that understanding 123 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: of what that truly looks like, yes, yes, I would, 124 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: I would say that would be amazing but I also 125 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: understand the stipulation behind that. There's so much. There's so 126 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: much again kind of like we just said, had Row 127 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: versus Way not gone through, the women of the Jain 128 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: collective that were arrested could have faced up to a 129 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: hundred ten years in prison. And yeah, the penalties for 130 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: a lot of the states are more for those who 131 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: are having an abortion than let's say, the rape was 132 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: part of the narrative than the rapist if they're convicted 133 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, yeah, I mean, it's just like it's 134 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: things that we talked about all the time on the 135 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: show that we know that we know to be true, 136 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: and it's still is like it's just for me, it 137 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: just feels like my stomach is in not my heart hurts, 138 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: and I just want to like scream at like this right, 139 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: this is injustice. But I know we're in the system 140 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: where women people who can get pregnant are undervalued, are 141 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: not our rights are not important, and this was an 142 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 1: outcome of that, And so we screaming at these people, 143 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: they're just going to be like whatever. I will say. 144 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: When I found out as I was reading what was 145 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: happening and the overturning, of course we've been waiting with 146 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: bated breath, especially as they are slowly overturning everything that 147 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: we've seen as of weight. I did have therapy that day. 148 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 1: M hm. It was a good day to have therapy 149 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: unless we really honest, trying to really hone in. There's 150 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 1: a couple of things I do want to add because 151 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: I haven't even talked about how I feel, but one 152 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: of the things that I've seen trending on Twitter and 153 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: on social media, and it started with the conservatives saying 154 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: we will adopt your baby and having a picture of 155 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 1: a couple which are typically white people who are like, well, 156 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: take your baby, which again is really hypocritical, and like, 157 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: there's thousands of kids in the foster care system that 158 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: you give notions about and have literally strong to the 159 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 1: side or flung to the side because you don't care 160 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: about the foster care system. You don't care to disassemble 161 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 1: the foster care system, which is not healthy for these 162 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: kids or the trauma that they're going through, and you 163 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: don't care in funding you know able to actually keep 164 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: them at home because you're like welfare is bad whatever. Okay, 165 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: I know that's a generalization, but just in my own 166 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: facing as a worker of the foster care child care system. 167 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: This is what I've seen, uh, and this is what 168 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: I've witnessed, and I've been seen it within my own 169 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 1: people like it, meaning my family. Okay, how for I've 170 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: seen that the Left have come back in ridicule of 171 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: that like this, this you know, will adopt a baby 172 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: as an adopted child, not the effect that you think 173 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: is giving. I have not really called anyone out yet 174 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: because I have seen people that I've known do it 175 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: as well, thinking that we're being funny. I'm like, remember 176 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: how I said previously that adoption is not a solution 177 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: to abortion. We all get that. We all understood that. 178 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 1: Now doing this as a satire not getting the solution 179 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: you're doing. As well as the fact that the recent 180 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: overturning of Native Native American Native Indigenous laws that have 181 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: been there to protect uh, the individuality and the sanctity 182 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: of Native lands and Native communities are being slowly overturned, 183 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 1: including the Indian Child Welfare Act possibly up for also 184 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: being overturned. It's not as cute as you think. It's 185 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: not funny, and it has a whole other implication for 186 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: us who have been adopted or who have been in 187 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: the system or have worked the system. It's not good stop. 188 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: Can I please request that stop? As a person of color, 189 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: as a woman who has come on here often talking 190 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: about children and working for childcarriage, child welfare, this is 191 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: not a good thing. Abortion of whatever the reason is 192 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: for it, as a personal decision. A fetus doesn't have rights, 193 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: so this is not a fully formed person. I have 194 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: had many of conversations. I understand loss when it comes 195 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: to stillbirth miscarriages. People feel lost and that is something huge, 196 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: and I get that even with people who have had 197 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 1: abortions they feel lost as well, and that's on them. However, 198 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: trying to twist this into child murder is so wrong 199 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: and so damaging and so gaslighting that it makes me 200 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: want to vomit. Let's just be real, honest, like this 201 00:11:55,320 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: whole moment of what's happening, it's terrifying. It's arifying because 202 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: they are undoing the little rights that were already given 203 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: to people who can be pregnant, but for so long 204 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: and still people of color, Indigenous people, black people, especially 205 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: those who identify as women who have uterus as all 206 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: of those have been persecuted and have not had those 207 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: same rights at all the entire time Row has existed, 208 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: Roan versus Wade has existed and have been put in place, 209 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: they still have not had that right. So you are 210 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 1: even undermining even more and sending a death sentence. Not 211 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: only that, and also causing putting them in a point 212 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:35,559 Speaker 1: of poverty that is going backwards. Because we know how 213 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: much it costs to get any kind of effective health care. 214 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: They took part of that away with High Amendment, which 215 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: is still I guess that it's not necessary anymore since 216 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: Roe v. Wade is taken off. I don't know. There 217 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: are so many things. There are so many things there 218 00:12:50,800 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: are I know we've talked about places in the world 219 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 1: that are dealing with similar things and with better outcomes 220 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: than what's happening here. And I have been heartened by 221 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 1: there are people who have been doing and are doing 222 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 1: an amazing, amazing work and are just pushing and pushing 223 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: and pishing, and I'm grateful for that. And there were 224 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: also a lot of protests in the wake of this, 225 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 1: and you went to rue right, I did, I did, 226 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 1: um I do want to put a caveat to that. 227 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: I did go to one. There was a moment of like, okay, 228 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: we need to go. Let's do this. I'm ready. But 229 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: we have talked about several organizations on here that you 230 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: need to be very very suspicious of, and unfortunately, one 231 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 1: of the sponsors of that protest was one of the 232 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: ones that I have called out before, UM that go 233 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: in and take away funds from state or local organizations, 234 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: which is not great. So you need to look for that. UM. 235 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: Also use the term women in enslavement. Those are really 236 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: big red flags justin f y hi. UM. They actually 237 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: said it while I was there, and I was like, oh, oh, 238 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 1: this is happening. Okay, this is again one of those 239 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: like there has to be a do adopt because I 240 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: didn't realize how bad it was and I'm sitting there 241 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: going this is this is not good. That's probably not good, UM, 242 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: because it's also typically it was said by a white woman, 243 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: excluding again that of the trauma, excluding the trauma of 244 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: black women, black people in general, and so we have 245 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: to be really really cognizant of this. We have to 246 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: remember unlike the nineteen seventies, and it should have been 247 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: because that's when it started. UM. We have to be intersectional. 248 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 1: This has to be intersectional because what it comes down 249 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: to is we didn't believe and I say we that 250 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: the black women who said previously, if all of us 251 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 1: don't have rights, none of us will. And it's come 252 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: to this point. It has come to this point, and 253 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: that this until we do is gonna be dismantled to 254 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: this point and it has I have a lot of 255 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: thoughts obviously when it comes to intersexuality, especially with this movement, 256 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: because this movement was started in part with black creators 257 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: and black activists, and then they're pushed out. So we 258 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: have to remember without them, this is not gonna work, 259 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: and we really need to get to the point of understanding. 260 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: They are the ones who understand how to go about 261 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: this and how to get changed because they're the one 262 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: that's been fighting the hardest and the longest from jump yep, um, 263 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: so beware that's what I was saying. Yes, no, that's great, 264 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: it's the excellent point. And I know it's um like 265 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: I have friends who are in uh gay relationships, have 266 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: been married and they're already like it's sad, right, sad 267 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: right now. The level of fear in general, the level 268 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: of morning that we are in, it's real. This is 269 00:15:55,720 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: why we cried in and to all those who are like, oh, 270 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: get over it. It's just what can happen. Literally the 271 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: last week we've seen what could happen. I was supposed 272 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: to try to put a positive spin on the protest 273 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: and I went all negative, as I do, but it 274 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: was you're right. We came together, um and there was 275 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: a massive amount of us and there's more this weekend 276 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: who are actually led by black women. Come but make 277 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: sure you're supporting and not taking over. I love that 278 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: and I was going to try to go to that one, 279 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: but it was amazing to see. I did love us 280 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: coming together. It's also the green wave which happened in 281 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: Argentina has obviously moved this way all over the world, 282 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: including the US. That's kind of what happened when we 283 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: were protesting on Friday, that many people came out in green, 284 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: ready to go. They didn't acknowledge where the green came from, 285 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: which I was a little upset by, but we do 286 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: want to acknowledge that it was Argentinian wave movement, and uh, 287 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: it was exciting to see. It was exciting to see 288 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: the amount of people coming out, the amount of people 289 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: really cheering this on, really having this loud Converse station 290 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: all over the country it was happening. There's so many 291 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: things that I hope that it does keep going. But 292 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: we have to make this where it's forceful that the 293 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: action has taken place. We're looking at Argentina, and we're 294 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: looking at Mexico and like Ireland to see how they 295 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:18,679 Speaker 1: have been able to push forward and hope that we 296 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: can get back there again. I guess we're looking back 297 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: into the nineteen seventies when it happened and hoping that 298 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: we can get back to that place and understanding that 299 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: and dismantling the system that is not working, that has 300 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: been set up to take away from what was supposed 301 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: to be democracy. It's not working. If it could be 302 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 1: this easy to just go ahead and throw away what 303 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: was supposed to be solidified so many years ago, through 304 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: all of this and then having nine people who are 305 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: not voted in to make decisions with impunity, without recourse, 306 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,639 Speaker 1: it feels it feels this is not democracy. It doesn't 307 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: feel right. Obviously, UM, there's a lot to be said 308 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 1: about what needs to happen. I am not a specialist. 309 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: I would love to have a law specialists come through 310 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 1: and talk to us what needs to happen, how this 311 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: can happen because there are so many things that be 312 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: floated out and spoken out, but the technicality of it 313 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: all is a little more difficult now today than it 314 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: should be. But yeah, it was really good to see 315 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: the amount of people coming together and trying to chant 316 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: this through and really hope that that we can be heard. 317 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, uh and and and we'll keep doing 318 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 1: it because that's the very little bit I know to 319 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 1: do right now outside of you know, helping organizations. Yes, yeah, 320 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:46,199 Speaker 1: and it has been rewarding to see I don't know, 321 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: like to commiserate with my friends and to see how 322 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: many people agree like it sucks that what we're talking 323 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 1: about is this terrible thing. Um, but it's comforting. And 324 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: I know, uh, we recently had an episode with Bridget 325 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 1: where we talked to out like the majority don't want 326 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: this overturned, and um, that's that's not nothing, right, Yeah, 327 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 1: and yeah, we we are going to keep talking about this, 328 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 1: I'm sure in the meantime, listeners, if you would like 329 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: to reach out with how you are feeling or how 330 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: you dealt with it, our resources we should shout out 331 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 1: anything like that. If you are the legal person we 332 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: need to bring in, let us, come on. Yes. 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