1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 4: Don't given them the bus busy. 5 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 5: Listening to. 6 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 6: Show to. 7 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 4: Joy. 8 00:00:50,040 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, Joy, you don't you love you? 9 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 4: Turn? 10 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 5: You gotta turn, got. 11 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 1: To turn the mouse to turn. 12 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 7: You probably got to turn mouth, turn out, turn the 13 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 7: water of the money up. 14 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 6: Come come on, you'll think, ah. 15 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 2: Huh, I sure will. 16 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 6: Good morning everybody you're listening to the voice, Come on, 17 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 6: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a 18 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 6: radio show. I have something, and it so describes how 19 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 6: I was living. It so captures the feelings that I 20 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 6: had about beginning on the pathway of my dreams. It 21 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 6: so describes how I felt when I was about to 22 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 6: attempt something. And I have some striking news for you. 23 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 6: It describes often how I feel still today to a degree. 24 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 6: So let me tell you what that is. Here's an 25 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 6: analogy that I've heard a couple of different ways, but 26 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 6: I've kind of, you know, fixed it around to where 27 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 6: I can drink it better, and I think it fits 28 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 6: my personality to describe it to people best this way. 29 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 6: I've talked often about the urgency of doing something with 30 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 6: your life. Of getting started today, of stopping the procrastination 31 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 6: and putting it off, and waiting on all your ducks 32 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 6: to line up in a row, and waiting until the 33 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 6: stars aligned themselves. If you're waiting on such a thing, 34 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 6: you're never gonna get started. I don't know too many 35 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 6: people who can say that all the ducks just lined 36 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 6: up in the row. 37 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 2: Things happen. Even when you get them lined up. 38 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 6: One of the ducks get out of line, or somebody 39 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 6: knock over the domino. 40 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 2: Something happens. But here's the point I'm getting at. 41 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 6: God has so many blessings available to you. You who's listening. 42 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 6: God has so many blessings available to you from where 43 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 6: you are right now. I don't care what you've gotten 44 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 6: yourself into or what you've done. God has so many 45 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 6: blessings that he can send your way. But you have 46 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 6: to do something. 47 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: See a lot of. 48 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 6: People just sit around and go man, I don't and 49 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 6: something always happening to you. You're always getting a break, 50 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 6: You're always doing this. You always do man, do nothing 51 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 6: come my way? Listen to me. If nothing ever comes 52 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 6: your way. You know why that is. It's because you're 53 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 6: not doing anything. I promise you you're not. Here's a deal. 54 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 6: God has all these blessings he wants to send you, 55 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,239 Speaker 6: but you got to give him something to work with. Now, 56 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 6: come on, God will bless you. God can touch people's 57 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 6: hearts on your behalf. He can move situations around for you. 58 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 6: He can align the stars. He can set the ducks 59 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 6: up in the row. But align the stars and move 60 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 6: people around, and touch people's hearts and set the ducks 61 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 6: up in the row. For what have you put forth 62 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 6: any effort? Have you made a single step in any 63 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 6: direction to do the right thing or go the right 64 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 6: way that he gives him something to put his finger on. 65 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 6: Come on, man, God can only bless you according to 66 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 6: your faith. If you have a little bit of faith, 67 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 6: give him that. Let him work with that. You know, man, 68 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 6: I didn't always start with these speeches you hear in 69 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 6: the morning. Now. I ain't always had these. I grew 70 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 6: to these. I stumbled my way to these. I messed 71 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 6: up my way to these. Here, I got it wrong 72 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 6: so many times to be able to sound like I 73 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 6: got some sense, I said it often. Failure is a 74 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 6: wonderful teacher. Do you know how many times I have 75 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 6: had to have failed to have what I have in 76 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 6: my head today. I'm telling you, man, it's a process. 77 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 6: People get mad at the process. You got to do 78 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 6: something to give God something to work with. He'll bless you. 79 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 6: But what you want me to bless If you ain't 80 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 6: putting forth any effort, you can get blessed from wherever 81 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 6: you are in your life, wherever your starting point is, 82 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 6: wherever you find yourself wound up, you can get it 83 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 6: back from there. I've done it, man, by the grace 84 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 6: of God, I've done it. I got over man. I 85 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 6: learned some things along the way. Because here's the deal. 86 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 6: As long as God keeps waking you up in the morning, 87 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 6: he ain't through with you yet. When he's done, you're done. 88 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 6: But if God still has a plan for you you 89 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 6: wake up in the morning, he still got some more 90 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 6: work for you to do. 91 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 2: You wake up in the morning. 92 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 6: So if you keep waking up, man, it's something that 93 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 6: God wants from you, would love to have from you, 94 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 6: and he can work with you, man, if you just 95 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 6: walk towards him a little bit. Here's the deal. I 96 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 6: know it's hard for the average person to start because 97 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 6: the fear of the unknown is incredible. 98 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: What if I fail? What if I don't get picked. 99 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 6: You know, one of the hardest things I ever did 100 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 6: was walking in to quit my job. 101 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: Oh man, let me tell you about that day when 102 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 2: I decided that I. 103 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 6: Was gonna be a full time comedian after winning an 104 00:06:55,000 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 6: amateur night one time, quitting your job, following your dream, 105 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 6: going for it despite all the nay says, it's like 106 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 6: stepping off a cliff. It's like actually just walking off 107 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 6: the edge of a cliff, hoping, hoping. Now not really knowing, 108 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 6: but hoping. Hoping is the bad basis of faith. I 109 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 6: stepped off that cliff hoping that my parachute would open 110 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 6: and allow me to drift down. See. I've never scott 111 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 6: dived before, but I would imagine part of the thrill. 112 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 6: And I don't know this because I'm not going to 113 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 6: scot Dive to find out. I think part of the 114 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 6: thrill for people is the danger part of throwing yourself 115 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 6: out a plane and how it feels to be free falling, 116 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 6: but the whole time they're free falling, having this exhilarating 117 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 6: over the top moment. You have got to believe, in 118 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 6: your heart of hearts, you have got to hope with 119 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 6: everything in you that when you pull this cord the 120 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 6: shoot opens or else. This ain't a good move at all. 121 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 6: But you've packed your shoot yourself. You've taken the lessons, 122 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 6: so you go ahead and you make the leap. Now, 123 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 6: the only thing about quitting your job and following your 124 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 6: dream is you ain't really been trained all that good 125 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 6: for this. You done packed your shoot, but you ain't 126 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 6: never opened it before. So I walked off this cliff, 127 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 6: That's what it was like. And you following your dreamers 128 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 6: like you walking off a cliff. Here's the part where 129 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 6: people don't never make the jump. They see somebody like 130 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 6: myself who jumped off the cliff and the parachute don't 131 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 6: open right away, and I hit a couple of rocks 132 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 6: on the way down. 133 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 2: I got my back cut up pretty bad. 134 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 6: They see that three years living in a car, man 135 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 6: he got it life toe down jumping off that cliff. 136 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 6: I ain't jumping off that cliff. But see, what you 137 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 6: don't understand is you don't know it, but eventually the 138 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 6: shoot will open. I'm at the parachute opening part. 139 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: Of my life. 140 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 6: Man were to SHOOTE then open, and I'm drifting and 141 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 6: I'm able to guide my chute over to Paris and glide. 142 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 6: I've glided over the African and seen what it looked like. 143 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: It's a slow ride down. 144 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 6: When the pass chute finally opened and my back didn't 145 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 6: heel too and the cuts that I had on me, 146 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 6: I remember now I know how. 147 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:23,959 Speaker 2: To stay away from the edge. 148 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 6: But the Paris chute then opened, and I'm enjoying my 149 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 6: life for the first time. I'm gliding, but I got 150 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 6: hit up against the rock. I can see more. I 151 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 6: get a chance to see more things. I get to 152 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 6: glide and see more parts of the world. I'm living 153 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 6: my dream. Your parachute is going to open, but I'll 154 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 6: tell you one thing for shore, It'll never open if 155 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 6: you don't step off that cliff. You got to step 156 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 6: off that cliff. God to get the passchute open for you. 157 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 6: But you got to jump, baby. That's the hard part, 158 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 6: ain't it? Now? 159 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: Question is the end of this story right here today? 160 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 2: When you jumping. 161 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 8: You're listening hard morning show. 162 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 6: Ladies and gentlemen. Can I have your attention please? And 163 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 6: the reason I'm asking for it is because when I 164 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 6: get it, I'm gonna do something with it. Now now 165 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 6: that I have your attention, here we go you're about 166 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 6: to be enlightened, a little bit frightened, educated, but then 167 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 6: sometimes a little miseducated. You're gonna be entertained, while at 168 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 6: the same time start the process of being interchanged. Then 169 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 6: we're gonna stimulate, but we're not gonna try to annihilate. 170 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 9: And in other. 171 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 6: Words, when you summer all this up and the words 172 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 6: of one of my dear, dear friends, the Steve Harvey 173 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 6: Morning Show is about to tare a mouth out And 174 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 6: the word is mouth mo ou f f mouth. That's 175 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 6: how we say it, that's how we s relly, welcome 176 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 6: to the show, Sureley straw Ben. 177 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 10: That is what we do. 178 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, good morning, let. 179 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 2: Her for real? 180 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 4: Good morning. What's happening crew? 181 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 6: Hey, Hey, hey, hey, Julia morning. You ain't like yet? 182 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 2: Mouth evil nephew, Tommy, have your mouth out? Hey, just 183 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 2: take it? 184 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, tongue and all gums all that's will that anything 185 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 6: in there? 186 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 8: Where do you have dental work? 187 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 6: Let more money? 188 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 9: Feeling you're gonna need some more work? 189 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 190 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you look good today, Steve. 191 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 10: You're feeling all right? 192 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 6: Hell? Yeah, you know, I feel pretty good man. I've 193 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 6: changed my attitude and I feel really great. I've taken everything, 194 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 6: everything that I used to have to do, I've turned 195 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 6: it around and said I get to do it. Has 196 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 6: made world of difference. My days are going much smoother. 197 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 6: I've implemented the thought process of gratitude and everything I do, 198 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 6: and I'm just watching God to see what he got 199 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 6: from me next, because He's always taking care of me. 200 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 6: And I lived my life in the expectation that there's 201 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 6: some greater things on the horizon, and I'm just watchful. Now. 202 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 6: What I always try to make sure I do now 203 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 6: is I try to give something for God to put 204 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 6: his finger on. You know, God can touch it for you. 205 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 6: I just try to give him something to touch. You know, 206 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 6: I put it. I got a lot of balls in there. 207 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 6: You know, he could take any one of them balls 208 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 6: he want to and just blow it up. 209 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: He was going to do that, but no, he did. 210 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 8: He did this, and it turns out it's better. 211 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 6: Surely. I can't really tell you how many times what 212 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 6: I wanted and what he gave me it was two 213 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 6: different things. 214 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:03,719 Speaker 2: Absolutely, how I. 215 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 6: Want it and how he gave it to me was different, 216 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 6: and it was way better than what I want. 217 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, because his thoughts are not our thoughts. 218 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 6: Man, such a blessing man to come to the realization 219 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 6: of how this actually works. Man, I wish I could 220 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 6: teach people how it works without sound and preaching, because 221 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 6: I'm not really qualified to do that. 222 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 2: But I wish I could share with people how it works. 223 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 6: Man. That's doable. But you can do that all the time. 224 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, coming up at thirty two minutes after 225 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 11: the hour, we'll hear from the nephew as he runs 226 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 11: that prank back right after this. You're listening Hard Morning 227 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 11: show right now, Nephew Tommy is here with run that 228 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 11: brank back. 229 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 8: What you got for its neph We're. 230 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 2: Going to run it back again. 231 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 6: Stolen car, let's go, goddam. 232 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 12: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach it. A Trevor Police Okay, yeah, 233 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 12: that's name, sir. You purchased a navy blue from a 234 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 12: used car lot dealership called car Lot. 235 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe six or seven months ago, am 236 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 2: I right? 237 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 6: Right? 238 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 13: It was six months ago? 239 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: Okay. 240 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 12: Now you've been paying notes on this car, I know, 241 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 12: for the last six months, and you know I hate 242 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 12: to be a burden of bad news. Actually, my name 243 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 12: is Detective Justin and I'm giving you a call to 244 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 12: let you know that the actual vehicle, this two thousand 245 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 12: and one Navy blueesh that you purchased, is actually a 246 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 12: stolen vehicle. And we've actually been looking for this car 247 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 12: for the last I've been pretty much close to a 248 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 12: year now, maybe a little over a year, we've been 249 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 12: looking for this. 250 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 2: I work in the Auto theft. 251 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 12: Division, and hold on, detective justin, sir, and I'm in 252 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 12: the Auto theft division here at the police department. 253 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 13: I think you got the wrong I think you got 254 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 13: the wrong guys man, because what was it? 255 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 12: No, sir, And I've done the trace on and I 256 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 12: know this is probably a shock to you, but we're 257 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 12: right on point with this thing. You've got a two 258 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 12: thousand and one Navy blue. You did buy it. You 259 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 12: did buy it at the car lot dealership, and that uh, 260 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 12: and it's the exact one that the license plate shirt 261 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 12: they do match up. And uh, I know this is 262 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 12: a bit of a shock to you, but your car 263 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 12: is actually a stolen car. So the dealership, sir, actually 264 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 12: sold you a stolen car. And I know you did 265 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 12: not know that. I know that it was not any 266 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 12: information that you already knew. And I know you thought 267 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 12: that you were just purchasing a legitimate car, but you 268 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 12: have a stolen car, mister Trevor. 269 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 13: No, no, I think you got the wrong first, because 270 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 13: this car is not stolen. 271 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 14: For real, this is sir. 272 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 12: I can go all day with you and try to 273 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 12: make you understand what's going on here, and I know 274 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 12: it's probably some some blurry information that's not clear to you, 275 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 12: but at the end of the day, your car is stolen. 276 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 12: I am gonna have to either get someone to come 277 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 12: out and impound it or you. 278 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 13: No, no, I think y'all might need to go back 279 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 13: over y'all records, man, because I think y'all real. I 280 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 13: think y'all got the wrong person, sir. 281 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 6: For real, I'm gonna tell you once and i'm gonna 282 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 6: tell you again. 283 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 12: You have a car that's stolen that I have to 284 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 12: have in my possession by the end. 285 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 2: Of the day. 286 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 13: Now, the end of the day, for real. 287 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 12: Man, you got sir, you have a stolen car, and 288 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 12: you're gonna need to bring that car into the police 289 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 12: station so we can get this thing rectified. 290 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 15: Man, for real, Man, hold on, let me talk about this. 291 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 13: Man. I don't know about all this. She's telling it 292 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 13: for real. 293 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 12: Sir, I understand what you're saying, but do you realize 294 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 12: you're talking to a police officer here. 295 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 2: I am detective. I am detective Justin. 296 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 13: I am who you are, man, I'm them. 297 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 2: Is no longer, sir. 298 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 12: We've had to actually shut them down for the time 299 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 12: being until we get quite a few cars rectified that. 300 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 12: I've got more than just your vehicle, Sir, that's been 301 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 12: that that has auto theft tied to its hold. That's 302 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 12: two things. Either you're gonna bring it to me or 303 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:20,239 Speaker 12: I'm gonna come get it now. 304 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 15: Which one do you want to do to You ain't 305 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 15: coming to get for real, sir. 306 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 12: I don't want to have this to have to get 307 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 12: go to a level of where it doesn't need to be. 308 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 2: But I need to get that car in my possession. 309 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 13: Okay, look, look, look listen while I'm telling you. 310 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 2: Okay, you listening, I'm listening, sir. 311 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 15: Okay, Look, unless somebody's gonna take me my three hundred 312 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 15: seventy seven and fifty two cents I've been paying for 313 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 15: the last six months, unless you're gonna tay me that, 314 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 15: give me back my trent in that get this man, 315 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 15: I ain't out here. What you're talking about for real? No, 316 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 15: it is a he's coming at me with man. I 317 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 15: worked too hard to be keeping up these notes like here, man, 318 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 15: I got that. Am I ready to take care? And 319 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 15: you come to I am like you trying to take 320 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 15: my car because something that happened before. 321 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 14: I bar it. I don't even know this is true. 322 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 15: Like I said, I thank you missed it. I think 323 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 15: you've got me missed over with somebody else. 324 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 14: What y'all just not coming in and me talking this. 325 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 13: I ain't heard nothing about this before, sir. 326 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 12: It's taking us a while to actually track down the 327 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 12: car and actually find out exactly where it was. I've 328 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 12: tracked this car for the last eight nine months, and 329 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 12: I finally found that you are the one that's actually 330 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 12: has it in your possession. It happens all the time. 331 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 12: It's an unlikely situation. But I got to get you 332 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 12: to bring it in and I'm. 333 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 15: I ain't bring it. You know what I mean, I 334 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 15: ain't bring it. I got coming to get me. Somebody 335 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 15: give me my three hundred seventy dollars fifty two cents 336 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 15: I've been paying for the last six months. 337 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 13: Trust in my back, sir. 338 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 2: I'm sure you're probably long gone by now. 339 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 14: It's probably that's what I'm something. 340 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,239 Speaker 15: Okay, then then y'all can need at least just come 341 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 15: with the money. 342 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 14: Come with the money. 343 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 12: I just don't get him, know, rossing somewhere on, sir, 344 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,199 Speaker 12: I'm not I can't sit here and negotiate with you. 345 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 2: I'm just a detail if that's on this actual case. 346 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 12: And I know it's a trying situation, but I am 347 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 12: going to have to send some officers out there that 348 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 12: that do this. 349 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 2: Type of thing. They pick up these cars and bring 350 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 2: them into the I wish you. 351 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 15: Would send somebody out here to get my car. But 352 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 15: if you came to go okay with me, you need 353 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 15: to find somebody. 354 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 13: Can no, you know. 355 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 15: You bring somebody out here if you want to, don't 356 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 15: bring somebody. 357 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 14: I got them. 358 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 15: I didn't like it to man, I'm working the great 359 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 15: ship count up in all the time. They gotta stay 360 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 15: and they took man, I'm working tot and try to 361 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 15: get this car. Man, So bring out here if you 362 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 15: want to for real. 363 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 12: Sure, hush, sure, sir, come, I gotta get you calm down, 364 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 12: ill me. 365 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 15: You told me about my car stolen, and y'all talking 366 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 15: about something to get. 367 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 14: It from me. 368 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 12: Sure, I know this is a surprise, and I understand that. 369 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 12: And you got a great you got an honest living, 370 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 12: an honest job, and understand that. But some people have 371 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 12: done some dishonest things. And that's what's happened here. 372 00:19:58,080 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 6: Somebody says, my. 373 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:03,159 Speaker 15: Fuck my problem right there? That is the problem was 374 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 15: a deal with when I first got it, write her problem. 375 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 15: Now I'm not understanding that. All I'm saying is is. 376 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 14: Your co with my car. 377 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 13: I'm gonna y'all, look, that's all I'm saying. 378 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 12: You know what, I don't want to go any further. 379 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 12: Can I say one more thing than you can? 380 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 6: I do that? 381 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 12: What this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 382 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 12: You just got pranked my your cousin Eric. This was 383 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 12: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 384 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 12: What you got prank by your cousin Matt trouble you? 385 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 14: All right? 386 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 15: Hey, I got even name the cigarette running? 387 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 2: All right, man, let me ask you something. 388 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 12: You gotta tell me, baby, what's the baddest radio show 389 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 12: in the land. 390 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 13: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 391 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 10: Okay, we'll be back. You're listening. 392 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 393 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: Time for us. 394 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 11: The c l O Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in 395 00:20:57,880 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 11: the building, ready. 396 00:20:59,200 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 6: For your question. 397 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 11: And it's Courtney and iHeart A listener says, I'm thirty 398 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 11: and dating a man that's thirty one, and he tells 399 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 11: me all the time that I'm his soulmate. He's all 400 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 11: into me in every way. He gives me baths and pedicures, 401 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 11: and he even will polish my toenails if I ask 402 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 11: him to. 403 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 8: He irons my. 404 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 11: Clothes for me daily, and he cleans up the kitchen 405 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 11: if I cook. We never argue, and if we ever disagree, 406 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 11: we settle it quickly. 407 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 2: Well, it's this letterful, listen. 408 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 11: He's so different than any other guy I've dated. My 409 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 11: daddy says he's soft and won't make a good husband. 410 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 11: How can my daddy make such a negative assumption. 411 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's better to be soft and feel soft. Well, 412 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: nothing says that the man is soft. 413 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 6: He's just soft to his daddy. Maybe her father's hard 414 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 6: and made may and he's a good husband. So he thinking, 415 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,439 Speaker 6: because this dude a hard, he must be soft. I 416 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 6: got lady, If you have no complaints, don't let your 417 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 6: father create one. 418 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,199 Speaker 1: This guy's a dream. 419 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 2: There you go ash, Well, can't say that, all right? 420 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 6: What I can't say that because somebody I was gonna say, 421 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 6: maybe you should ask your mom how happy she's been 422 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 6: with how she would feel with some treatment like that, 423 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 6: because your dad he ain't gonna do none of that. 424 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:27,719 Speaker 5: He that. 425 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Moving on Keinetra in Memphis Rights. 426 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,679 Speaker 11: I'm a forty two year old divorced woman and I 427 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 11: fell in love with the perfect guy, but I ran 428 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,920 Speaker 11: him away by being paranoid. I had a rough marriage 429 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 11: and my husband cheated, so I developed bad habits like 430 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 11: checking his phone and popping up at places he was 431 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 11: hanging out. I carried this behavior into my new relationship 432 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 11: and was always accusing my new guy of messing around. 433 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 11: I want a second chance with him, and I want 434 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 11: him to know that I changed. How do I start 435 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 11: the conversation with him? 436 00:22:59,560 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 2: Lugg? 437 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 6: You know what? 438 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 2: You know what? 439 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 6: What? 440 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 10: Boy? 441 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 2: I was tripping? 442 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 6: You know, you know it's so crazy, cause you know, 443 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 6: I know you a good man, but I'm so stupid. 444 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 6: I'd be just checking your phone and you know you 445 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 6: ain't even know. I'd be outside the bar waiting on you. 446 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 6: I'll be in your house and I just you know, 447 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 6: I've just been you know, but it was my ex. 448 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 6: He just made me his way. But and you know what, 449 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna do that anymore because I think I 450 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 6: found what I'm looking for. 451 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 4: You know. 452 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, it might work, but I doubt it. 453 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:39,959 Speaker 6: All right. 454 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 11: So Tony in the Bay Area says, I'm a thirty 455 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 11: three year old married man raising my two daughters while 456 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 11: my wife is in jail for sixteen months. She committed 457 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 11: credit card fraud, and I was clueless when she got arrested. 458 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 11: The problem I'm having now is that she only calls 459 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 11: us once a week if then she calls her mom daily, 460 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 11: and it ticks me off. Her mom said she's still 461 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,360 Speaker 11: ashamed to talk to me. But I don't believe that 462 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 11: she had a whole side hustle that I didn't know about. 463 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 11: So do you think she has a side due too? 464 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 11: Am I being a fool for waiting for her? 465 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 9: Wow? 466 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 2: Whoa a side? 467 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 4: Doude? 468 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 6: Yeah? 469 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 8: He wants to know. 470 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you don't know what. 471 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, but bruh, listen to me. Credit card there ain't 472 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 6: got nothing to do with the side, dude. She might be, 473 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 6: you know, honestly, just embarrassed. The mom could be right, 474 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 6: I don't know where you got the other dude. 475 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 11: From because she kept back from him, you know, she 476 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,360 Speaker 11: she more, she keeps secrets. 477 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 6: So he's okay, Well, well, well okay, okay, then go 478 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,959 Speaker 6: with that theory, you know, go with that theory and 479 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 6: see how that work out for you. Sometimes being parano 480 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 6: about stuff that you have no facts on it, it's 481 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:04,159 Speaker 6: a waste of time. It's like, why are you're tripping 482 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 6: yourself out about something that you don't even have the facts. 483 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 12: But uncle, if she lied about that, what he thinking 484 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,959 Speaker 12: is she probably has some most skeletons, That's what it is. 485 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 6: Well, excuse me, but nephew, tourmy. Because you lie about 486 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 6: one thing, don't mean that you lie about everything. 487 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 2: Well nothing when I lie, well nothing when I lie? No, 488 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 2: surely no, because. 489 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 11: You usually have you know, when you tell one tell 490 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 11: another lie another life. 491 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 6: But you I mean, I'm just saying this because you 492 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 6: lie about one thing, don't mean you're lie about all things. Now, 493 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,719 Speaker 6: if you want to accept the parent no her, and 494 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:49,120 Speaker 6: act on it, then go ahead. But the woman might 495 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 6: not have nothing to do with no other dude. She 496 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 6: called once a week. She in bad, She called her 497 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:58,479 Speaker 6: mama daily. How close once y'all before she went in. 498 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: Why not as close as he thought they were. 499 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 6: Why was you doing all this anyway? I mean, why 500 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 6: was she doing all this anyway? Something else is going on, bro, 501 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 6: And now you're thinking it's another dude in the picture. 502 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:17,119 Speaker 6: When she went to jail for credit card fraud, she 503 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 6: didn't go to jail with an accomplish. 504 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 2: That was a dude. 505 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 12: She went by herself. Maybe we need to see what 506 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 12: she was buying with the credit card. I mean, we 507 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 12: got hotels on it and a whole bunch of other stuff. 508 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 6: Yeah. See, you know, why don't we just letting mister 509 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 6: negativity here? 510 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: He's a person's raised raising two daughters. 511 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 2: I'm talking about. I don't know how I became negativity. 512 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 6: I'm negative. She just letting him ask all the little 513 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 6: negative asked questions so he can break up this family. 514 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 8: All right, we're moving We're moving on. 515 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,880 Speaker 2: I know you agree with him, Jay because you ignorant. 516 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 11: So. 517 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 2: Understands. 518 00:26:58,920 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 1: Let's get to this one. 519 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 11: Huntsville says, I'm fifty two and I recently met a 520 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 11: fifty five year old man on an online dating site. 521 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 11: He has never been married, and he is one adult child. 522 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 11: I am divorced and I have one child in college. 523 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 11: I bought a small house after my divorce, and he's 524 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 11: living in a one bedroom apartment. We both are teachers 525 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 11: and we're both Baptists. Other than that, we don't seem 526 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 11: to be on the same page. To be honest, I 527 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,160 Speaker 11: had hoped to meet a man that didn't still live 528 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 11: in an apartment. Am I focused on the wrong thing? 529 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 11: Should I get to know him anyway? 530 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 8: Clo? 531 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 6: I mean, you got every right to focus on what 532 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,359 Speaker 6: you want to foc on day your priorities. If you 533 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 6: want a man that's a home owner fifty two, then 534 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,160 Speaker 6: maybe that's one of your qualifications, and you can pass 535 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 6: up on a good man. If he ain't never been married, 536 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 6: maybe he ain't never had a reason by the house, 537 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 6: I don't know. Oh, he couldn't live with somebody. He 538 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 6: just said he ain't been married. You know, he ain't 539 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 6: leaving with nobody, you know? 540 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you, Clo. 541 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 6: You could ask mister negativity what he wanted to do 542 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 6: agat VERSI let everybody off, you know, let everybody just 543 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 6: break up. 544 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 10: You're listening. 545 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 8: Morning show. 546 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 10: Right now, Steve? 547 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: What does Jay have going on? 548 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 8: Now? 549 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: What is going on? 550 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 7: This road trip or reenactment of everybody who's gonna be 551 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 7: taking a road trip this summer summertime. Time for a 552 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 7: bunch of people to get in the car and ride, 553 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 7: and it will sound something like this. 554 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 6: What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna react. React. What 555 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 6: is it like when six grown people who work together 556 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 6: take a road trip? All right, everybody in bugle out? 557 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 6: All right, let me start the car. They're dinging right there. 558 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 6: Somebody ain't got their seat belt, I mine, all right, 559 00:28:55,800 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 6: all right, now we need a little driving music. Boy, 560 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 6: I like that. Did you hear what that hell from 561 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 6: Taylor Ships? 562 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 8: She did her country version? 563 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 2: Almost didn't like that girl no more? 564 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 8: Well, quite frankly, I'd like to hear some gospel music. 565 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 16: Like that. 566 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 10: Come on, Kirk. 567 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 9: Like, yeah, that's nice. 568 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, What's what happened to me? 569 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 9: Yeah? 570 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 6: So we're not listening there listening to nothing. We ain't 571 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 6: listening to nothing. 572 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 9: Hang silence, riding silence. Then let's just ride in silence. 573 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 7: I just have a question, Yeah, well, boy, are we well? 574 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 6: What you come for? 575 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 10: You want to play a game? 576 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 4: Play? What game? 577 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 17: Game? 578 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 5: You know? 579 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 8: We could sing the song ninety nine Bottles of Beer 580 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 8: that hell. 581 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 9: Can that's my cock? 582 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 2: Can we play that? You in the car? 583 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 6: You own? 584 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 2: Can we can we get something to eat? 585 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 6: You know what we just got in the car. 586 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I know I'm forgetting something. 587 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 2: Yes, to be quiet? 588 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 1: No, oh it's hot in here. Can you turn to an. 589 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 9: Air say this. I gotta say this. I'm gonna say it. 590 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 6: What I got. 591 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 2: The peek. 592 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 6: Said, damn it. Everybody else, get out to car. Just 593 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 6: open the damn con Wait wait, wait hey, wait a minute. 594 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 6: I'm your damn nephew up the door. No, everybody out, 595 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 6: I got I ain't everybody. 596 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 2: You're talking about you. 597 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 8: As much as I hate packing it, I. 598 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 6: Hate get out the car. Give me there. If you 599 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 6: did pack, that's right, get out. 600 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 2: I just so I got a gun. Get out, name 601 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 2: is actually. 602 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 6: Shoot somebody gonna. 603 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 2: Get out to the car. 604 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 6: Get out, tell me get out, drunk out, joint out, colin, 605 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 6: Charlie out. 606 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 10: I'm not walking in these heres. 607 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 2: You ain't got to walk. Take car. 608 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 12: They don't push me now, don't push you right now. 609 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 6: What happened now, that's all you. 610 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: Want to do is. 611 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 2: Musical. 612 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 4: He just drove off, all right? 613 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 1: Tell me called uber. 614 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,239 Speaker 6: I can't believe I'm not walking. Believe he put us 615 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 6: off the car. 616 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 8: This is supposed to be a fun road trip. 617 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:30,479 Speaker 4: What happened? 618 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 1: He do nothing together? 619 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 12: I know he better put them back up, lights on 620 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 12: to bring his hands back down. 621 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,959 Speaker 4: Here is he making a right on the highway? 622 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 12: Look, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, No, no, no, no, 623 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 12: I got I got it. I gotta say all no, 624 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 12: let me do this. Hold on, hold on, I got you. 625 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 1: I can't believe we're standing out here. 626 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: I got the back. 627 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm home. 628 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 2: Here we go here we hold on? 629 00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 12: Yeah, I fixed, I fixed, yeah, yeah, yeah. 630 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 6: You know you just left all us on the side 631 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 6: of the road. 632 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 4: Hello, hey, what. 633 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 6: You left us on the side of the road. 634 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 9: You're not coming back. 635 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 6: I can see you. 636 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 2: We got girls with it, Thank you, say with you? 637 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 2: Take care of them. Okay, this car ain't coming back. 638 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 9: There's ladies and heels out here that take the heels off. 639 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 4: And be barefoot on the street. 640 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 2: It was just way up after about four miles every flat. 641 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 12: Can I say this, when we took our stuff out 642 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 12: the cart, that black bag that you are your money 643 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 12: in it, that bag is out here with us. 644 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, y'all, what's happening? Give me. 645 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,760 Speaker 6: Time to let me have black Give me the black back. 646 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 6: Get the black back. We'll go a chance in the car. 647 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:11,040 Speaker 6: We'll put the bag here first, opening the door. If 648 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 6: I don't see the band, here go the bag. Throw 649 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:17,719 Speaker 6: it in the window. I promise you if you just 650 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 6: throw it in the window, throw it in the window. 651 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 6: Time I got time. 652 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 2: I got to throw the bag. So y'all, don't pull 653 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 2: this trick again. 654 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 4: Throw the bag. 655 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 6: And how about I open the bag and start counting 656 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,959 Speaker 6: and see how much already know what's in there? Throw it. 657 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 6: Throw the bag in the window first. You know what, 658 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 6: we can actually buy a car with this bag. 659 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 10: Tommy, I love it. You know what going on. 660 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 8: Let's get to counting. 661 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 6: It looks like a lot we've got. We've got one, two, 662 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 6: three before we've got five negroes on the side road 663 00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,959 Speaker 6: with a black bag. Look like it don't belong to him. 664 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 6: That's something shot anybody else up, I'm your ground waiting there. 665 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 2: Get the black ass on the ground. 666 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 12: Shut up, we'll sing a group. 667 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,919 Speaker 6: You got one more time, No man, one more time, 668 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 6: no man, Get your black ass on the ground. You 669 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 6: everybody down on the ground. Now, Yeah, there's a warning. Shot. 670 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: The next one goes in, you all right, hand me the. 671 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 6: Bag sat down? Hand me the bag? Is this the police? 672 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 6: You ain't got time of it? Hand me the bag. 673 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 7: Shot before. I don't want to go through that no more. 674 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,280 Speaker 7: Somehow we can't do a damn thing together. 675 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 6: We can't take a road trip. 676 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:54,240 Speaker 11: We ain't take a road trip at Oh you're listening 677 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 11: morning show. It is time now, guys, we're arounded. Would 678 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 11: you rather? This is the fourth of July Cookout edition. Okay, 679 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 11: so would you rather charcoal grill or gas grill? 680 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 12: Now? 681 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 2: I want to come on. 682 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 6: I use I use lump charcoal, which is actually good. 683 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 2: Uh huh, I don't. 684 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 6: I haven't used briskets in yet. 685 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 2: Why is she asking the cooking questions? 686 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 6: Know what we're talking about? 687 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 10: Attitude? 688 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 9: We're cooking mean? 689 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:31,359 Speaker 3: Would rather? 690 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 2: She didn't know what she asked. 691 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 6: To Charcoal? 692 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: Is coal or gas? 693 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 4: I want you shut up? 694 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,240 Speaker 1: Beef ribs or pork ribs? 695 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 8: Would you rather beef ribs or pork ribs? 696 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:53,800 Speaker 11: More food, Tommy, pork ribs, pork ribs, pork ribs. 697 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 6: And pork And when you put it on open fire 698 00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,920 Speaker 6: and you buy and you expose them to charcoal with 699 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 6: uh wood chips is no longer pork anyway, it's just 700 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 6: what is. It becomes a new meat. It's called Bobby C. 701 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 5: B O B B. 702 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,280 Speaker 10: Why like Bobby Brown? 703 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 6: Bobby b O B B. Why Bobby it's a whole 704 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 6: new meat. It ain't ain't even pork. No what I'm taking. 705 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 2: I don't really care for pork at all. 706 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 11: Uh huh. 707 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,839 Speaker 2: But when I mean, I'm telling you, just go down 708 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:30,640 Speaker 2: just like beef. 709 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 11: All right, this is the would you rather Fourth of 710 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 11: July cookout edition? Flats or drums? When it comes to 711 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 11: chicken wing, you like the flats or you like the drumstick? 712 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:41,839 Speaker 2: Which flat? 713 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 12: You don't do that on the four? If you cook 714 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 12: the whole damn wing, you don't do you don't break. 715 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 2: That up like that. 716 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 6: You got two different. 717 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 2: That's that's Super Bowl you talking about with flats and 718 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 2: drum This is the four. 719 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,440 Speaker 9: You cook the whole flat period. 720 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:58,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, he is telling the truth. 721 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 6: Oh here is. 722 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 10: I like flats. 723 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 8: I don't care what holiday it is? 724 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 4: All right? 725 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 11: Would you rather dry rub or lots of barbecue sauce? 726 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 2: You don't need sauce because because my my rub is 727 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 2: off the chad. 728 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 6: Now, if you're going to do a sauce jen Ira 729 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:28,240 Speaker 6: j e Inen, I are a dot com the hands 730 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 6: down best barbecue sauce in the world. In a bottle 731 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 6: Handira dot com barbecue sauce. Order the mild, the medium, 732 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,280 Speaker 6: and the hot, and Lord have mercy to prepare yourself 733 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 6: for the best barbecue. 734 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:44,760 Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now. 735 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 8: To get an endorsement. 736 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 2: It's better than Williams Brothers. And I thought that was better. 737 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 11: One last one, One last one. Spades or Dominoes. Spades 738 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 11: are dominoes or either one. 739 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 2: You can get hurt. 740 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 9: Spade. 741 00:37:56,280 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 6: Oh, you got to go spades because more black people play. 742 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:01,839 Speaker 6: That's some lady dominoes. 743 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 2: Now it's some later domo. 744 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 11: All right, you're listening morning show. All right, ladies and gentlemen, 745 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 11: get ready. We consulting an expert because we wanted to 746 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 11: know the real deal. Okay, Steve is here with his 747 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 11: breakup handbook. 748 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 6: All right, theesus things that you need to have in 749 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 6: mind after the breakup. Most of this is for fellas 750 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 6: because when we take a breakup hard, it's ugly. It's 751 00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 6: ugly out there. 752 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 2: Now. These are things from Steve. 753 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 6: Harvey's Breakup Handbook, How to act when you break up 754 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 6: all right. Now here's rule number one. You are allowed 755 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 6: only one drunk. 756 00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 9: Die. 757 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 2: You know how you call them up when you drunk? 758 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:06,800 Speaker 6: You only get to one and it sounds like something 759 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 6: like this, Hello is me? You know who me is? 760 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 2: Don't play with me? You know who me? 761 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 9: Don't play with my emotions is me? 762 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,400 Speaker 2: You? You know who me is? 763 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,600 Speaker 9: How many you get one? 764 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 6: Get one of them? All right? 765 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 2: Now here's the next rule. You are not allowed to 766 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 2: roll up. 767 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:43,280 Speaker 6: On your ex just cause you see the car parked 768 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,399 Speaker 6: outside the club, the restaurant, or church. 769 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:47,439 Speaker 2: Don't go one down. 770 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 9: You can't do that ship we broke up here. I 771 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 9: can't go in there if I see the you can. 772 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: Know you can't roll up over. 773 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 6: Lo Now I gotta say you do with church later on, 774 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 6: but just stay that stay out right. 775 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,760 Speaker 2: You can't roll up on them. 776 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 6: Oh that she is. 777 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,799 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go in now. Oh there he is. I'm 778 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:10,359 Speaker 2: going in there. 779 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 6: You can't do that car. 780 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,240 Speaker 2: Look at. 781 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 4: Legend. 782 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:17,319 Speaker 2: All right. 783 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:23,280 Speaker 6: Next one, y'all's favorite spot. It's off limits to both 784 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 6: parties for at least four months. 785 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 2: Nobody else over there. 786 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 8: You get to go to the. 787 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 6: Spot at least four months. 788 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 2: Keep it one hundred here's another one. 789 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 6: Okay, Texting your favorite song to each other is off limits. 790 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,160 Speaker 6: You can listen to it, you can cry to it, 791 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 6: You're playing over and over, but. 792 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:48,360 Speaker 7: You can't send it. 793 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 2: So I'm trying to move on. 794 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 7: And I'm killing you. 795 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:57,960 Speaker 2: Now listen to this, you. 796 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,760 Speaker 4: All all, y'all. 797 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:08,399 Speaker 6: Stuff, all possessions is collected at one time and one 798 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 6: time on. Anything that's left behind will be thrown away 799 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,800 Speaker 6: by both parties. You an keep coming over here. 800 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 2: Looking for stuff my red shirt. You can't keep coming 801 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 2: over here. 802 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,480 Speaker 6: I got comeing to you in the closet looking for 803 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 6: your tank top. 804 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 1: It real? 805 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 2: You ever hear the big one right here? 806 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:55,279 Speaker 6: Nobody is allowed to talk to each other's mama around. 807 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 2: And you can't be friends with mama. 808 00:41:54,200 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 1: Come home, good one. 809 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 3: I like it. 810 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 6: He was trying to pick up some greens and you 811 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,319 Speaker 6: in here talking rolling your eyes when I walk in 812 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 6: the door. Here's the next one. Okay, all parties, She 813 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 6: find a new church home. 814 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 12: Yes, but yeah, yeah yeah together. 815 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:19,600 Speaker 4: I love WI. 816 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 6: All your friends should be divided up equally except the 817 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 6: ones you hate. You can have him another one. No 818 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 6: posting a new pictures? 819 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you. 820 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 6: Know, like her naked on him dressed up like the 821 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 6: damn easter Brook. 822 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 10: The private. 823 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 6: What about I'm gonna do I'm gonna finish this one 824 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 6: all about old naked pictures? 825 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,359 Speaker 11: All right, Well, nephew, tell me has the frank fall 826 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,320 Speaker 11: coming up and we'll finish out seams break up rules 827 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 11: right after this. 828 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 8: You're listening morning show. 829 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 830 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,439 Speaker 11: four minutes after. 831 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today. 832 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 11: The subject he loves to mention his ex wife. Right now, 833 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 11: the nephew is here. Yeah, today's brank phone call? 834 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:27,760 Speaker 2: What you got for his nest? Hooking up at the daycare? 835 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 5: Really up. 836 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,799 Speaker 2: At the daycare? Run that if you would cat dog? 837 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 12: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to I'm trying to reach fred to. 838 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:44,920 Speaker 14: This is free and. 839 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 12: You don't know me. My name is line Liney. I 840 00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 12: know I wanted to call you. I've been looking for 841 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,520 Speaker 12: trying to get your phone number actually for like about 842 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,360 Speaker 12: the last about two weeks. 843 00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:57,920 Speaker 14: Now what do you mean by number four? 844 00:43:57,960 --> 00:43:58,240 Speaker 11: Baby? 845 00:43:58,239 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 14: Can you get on with it? Because I'm on Luve 846 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,839 Speaker 14: like I'm from Hear meet my lunch and I need 847 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:02,480 Speaker 14: to come on with. 848 00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:08,839 Speaker 12: Okay, Now is your your husband is uh? 849 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 14: What is your name again? 850 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:11,880 Speaker 6: My name is Linni Line. 851 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,879 Speaker 14: Okay, and you asking about my husband? Now what about Yes, 852 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:16,720 Speaker 14: that's my husband. 853 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 12: See the problem I'm having, miss Freedom, is that I 854 00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:26,760 Speaker 12: look through my wife cell phone about two three weeks ago, 855 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 12: and I found out that this actual phone number belong 856 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:36,120 Speaker 12: to your husband name, and he been text message. 857 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,439 Speaker 5: In her right down. 858 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 18: Stop stop, stop, wait a minute. 859 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:43,400 Speaker 12: Because but see let me finish though he been text 860 00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 12: messaging her different uh text message and stuff about he 861 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,440 Speaker 12: wanted to meet up with her, and and how she 862 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 12: looked the other day, and stuff like this here but 863 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 12: then but then even worse than this here is he 864 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 12: you know done, send some some some pictures of himself 865 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:04,359 Speaker 12: some naked pictures on the on the on the. 866 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:09,239 Speaker 14: Cell phone back. Please no, no, sir, not, I know 867 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 14: not because if anything, if he's texting anybody needs to 868 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 14: be an employer about a job. I know you're not 869 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 14: telling to me who is your wife? What's your name again? 870 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 14: What's your name? 871 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 12: My name is Lennie, and my my my wife name 872 00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,879 Speaker 12: is My wife name is Denise, Denise. 873 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 1: Denise Denise. 874 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 14: They ain't registering with me, don't. We pretty much have 875 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,719 Speaker 14: an opera relationship where we kind of communicate, and I 876 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,040 Speaker 14: don't know nothing about no Denise. 877 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:44,359 Speaker 12: Yeah, okay, do do your husband's last fold digits on 878 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 12: his phone is sixty eight twenty two? 879 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 14: Yeah, that would be the last or digit. 880 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 2: Okay. 881 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 12: See that's what I'm saying, ma'am. I'm not trying to 882 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 12: call you, you know. I mean, I'm disappointed in my wife 883 00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 12: because of these text messages and in these pictures and stuff. 884 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:01,719 Speaker 2: You know, I'm I'm the one. 885 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,799 Speaker 12: That's why I say, Okay, I need to call this 886 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,400 Speaker 12: man wife right here and see what you know? 887 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:09,000 Speaker 2: Do she even know it? 888 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,320 Speaker 14: I need you to waite a minute, back up and 889 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,200 Speaker 14: be quiet for me to look here. Okay, der niece, 890 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 14: you're lining Okay, where they supposed to? Ad minute? What 891 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 14: what you know? Because we used to go everywhere again 892 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,879 Speaker 14: when we go up, first of all, the don't work. 893 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 14: Let's let's go there. He does not work, Okay, So 894 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,359 Speaker 14: I don't know where it is when he got when 895 00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,279 Speaker 14: he generally when he leaves the house went together. Where 896 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:31,839 Speaker 14: did they meet? 897 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:32,600 Speaker 11: How? 898 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 14: How did they meet? Two weeks ago? You say, because 899 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:36,560 Speaker 14: I'm listening to you now, you got I don't know. 900 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,319 Speaker 12: I don't know if they meant two weeks ago. I'm 901 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:43,239 Speaker 12: just I just found him in the cell phone two 902 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 12: weeks ago. 903 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:44,760 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 904 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 7: Now. 905 00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,319 Speaker 12: You say, if you're saying he don't work, then evidently 906 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 12: it must be doing the day while you're gone or 907 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 12: something I don't do. 908 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 2: I mean you you say you on your lunch break 909 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 2: right now? 910 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:55,320 Speaker 10: Yeah? 911 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 14: Uh huh? And where is your wife right now? Do 912 00:46:58,280 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 14: you know where your wife feels right now? 913 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 12: Uh? 914 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 6: Well, she supposed to be at work right now. 915 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 14: And you know what, I just kind of he told 916 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 14: me he was gonna get in the tub. And when I 917 00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:11,880 Speaker 14: kind of back the tacondround, he used it, Okay, yeah, okay, 918 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 14: if I ain't have to go back in this hospital, 919 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 14: the baby, baby baby. See, yeah, where is your wife? 920 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 14: I need you to get We need to saw your wife. Bill. 921 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,800 Speaker 12: Well, see, my wife works at a uh at a No, 922 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,600 Speaker 12: wait a minute. Do y'all have do y'all have kids? 923 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,799 Speaker 14: Yeah? Yeah, we got kids. And that's my problem. That's 924 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:35,520 Speaker 14: why I'm so upset. I'm working all day. I get 925 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 14: up and soon in the morning to make sure I 926 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 14: got everything prepared for the whole day, got to get 927 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 14: the kids. And we have three kids, one two, and three. 928 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:47,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, is. 929 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 6: He the one? 930 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:52,360 Speaker 12: Because see do he because my wife works at a 931 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 12: at a daycare? 932 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 6: Do he drop him off at a daycare? 933 00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,839 Speaker 14: Don't start your baby. He's getting deeper if I get 934 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,359 Speaker 14: to this. What day care does your wife work at? 935 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:03,560 Speaker 7: Baby? 936 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,439 Speaker 14: Because I see, don't start me. Yeah he's dropping them off. 937 00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,279 Speaker 2: Okay, uh huh. 938 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 14: If you tell me the baby, just tell me if 939 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 14: from I swear liney. 940 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:17,600 Speaker 12: Now she's been at this place called children's academy. 941 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,760 Speaker 15: You lie. 942 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 14: You better not tell me this none working. It's want 943 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,839 Speaker 14: they're supposed to be watching our kids. 944 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 6: So you see, I'm. 945 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,359 Speaker 12: Already and see but see I'm already upsetting and been 946 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 12: upset about this here for the last I've been holding 947 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 12: it for the last two weeks. 948 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 6: I've been holding it. Ain't said nothing to Dene. 949 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 14: Why are you holding it? Why you should have been 950 00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 14: called me? 951 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 6: What the. 952 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,239 Speaker 14: When he get it? Let me tell you something. I 953 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 14: get up at four every morning and this I go. 954 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 14: I have to be the work for six thirty every 955 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,440 Speaker 14: morning I get to that damn Housemi, our slave. They 956 00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 14: did come on as slave for him. Try to make 957 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 14: said he feels good as a man. Although he's not working. 958 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 14: You know it wasn't this part. He got laid out. 959 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 14: But hey, I want him to feel good although he's 960 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 14: nocause you know y'all don't feel too good when you're 961 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,560 Speaker 14: not work. So I wanted him to feel good. I 962 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:14,719 Speaker 14: tell the kids, you know it's gonna be okay. 963 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 7: But I bet you this got that something is my wife. 964 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 6: Don't be you know she's my wife. 965 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 14: No wait a minute now, but wait a minute. See 966 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 14: I told you was ignorant, cause see you should have 967 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 14: been calling me long ago. Let me tell y'all you 968 00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:34,319 Speaker 14: eagnant too. See she's a burst of all because she 969 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 14: said she too. She said he raised that I'm not 970 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 14: a player game and with my house and he's sending 971 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,319 Speaker 14: her naked pictures. He ain't got to be showing up 972 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 14: no way, trust me, it ain't worth on. I was 973 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 14: just with him because he was a good man. I 974 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 14: guess mis dumb to. I was gonna ask you this 975 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 14: here because he's gonna ask what do you want to ask? 976 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,879 Speaker 14: What can you ask me? You just told me this here. 977 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 14: It's with your wife some name Denise. Yes, that's what 978 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 14: I said. And this is the that's watching the twins 979 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:09,920 Speaker 14: maybe we have twins. Do you hear me? 980 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:11,640 Speaker 2: Can I say something else to you? 981 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,720 Speaker 14: I don't need you to say the thanks? 982 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:15,359 Speaker 6: I can I say one more thing? 983 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,640 Speaker 14: What do you need to say? 984 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,280 Speaker 12: This is nephew, tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 985 00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 6: You just got prank by your husband. 986 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 4: Gerald. 987 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 14: Let me tell you something got to there to be 988 00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 14: pranking me. He needs to be trying to buy it. 989 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:37,520 Speaker 6: You know what. 990 00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:44,520 Speaker 14: This is. I'm gonnaea to ship when I get home, 991 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 14: gets non working. I ain't cooking the night. Let's tell 992 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:53,200 Speaker 14: the only thing that saves the situation it because first 993 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 14: of all, I'm a woman, so I want more information. 994 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 14: But the second thing is we need the job work. 995 00:50:58,640 --> 00:50:59,959 Speaker 14: I couldn't leave you word. 996 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:07,640 Speaker 12: I gotta answer you something, baby. What's badest radio show 997 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:08,800 Speaker 12: in the lane? 998 00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:14,800 Speaker 14: Definitely the Army? Remember what you know? 999 00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 2: Yes, sir? 1000 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 12: Come on, y'all, Come on, Ma'm just a. 1001 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:25,839 Speaker 14: Shock you play. 1002 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 10: I love though I love. 1003 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:30,640 Speaker 6: You know what. 1004 00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 1: You're stupid to you stupid to let me tell you man. 1005 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 2: The whole baby called me. 1006 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, see you stupid too, because that'd be yeah, 1007 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 6: that's what. 1008 00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:45,080 Speaker 2: I said, Denise. 1009 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:49,320 Speaker 11: Uh, I ain't registering with me, Denise at the last 1010 00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:49,799 Speaker 11: one bit. 1011 00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,360 Speaker 6: Just wait a minute, Wait a minute, wait a minute. 1012 00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:54,319 Speaker 6: He ain't take a little naked picture. He ain't got 1013 00:51:54,360 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 6: nothing to be showing. Oh, I guess I'm just stupid. Yeah, 1014 00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 6: it's both need that. It is las she needed. 1015 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:12,280 Speaker 11: That coming up the Strawberry letter, Thank you Nephew. Subject 1016 00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,840 Speaker 11: he loves to mention his ex wife. We'll get into 1017 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,959 Speaker 11: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1018 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 11: All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 1019 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:27,439 Speaker 11: you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, 1020 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,880 Speaker 11: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 1021 00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 11: and click submit Strawberry Letter. It's just that simple, and 1022 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,720 Speaker 11: we could be reading your letter live on the air, 1023 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 11: just like we're going to read this one right here, 1024 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 11: right now. 1025 00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,759 Speaker 6: Buckle up and hold on. Time is what we have here. 1026 00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 1: It's Strawberry lendin You're stupid, Thank you nephew. 1027 00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:55,440 Speaker 11: Subjects he loves to mention his ex wife. Dear Stephen Shirley, 1028 00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 11: I'm married to my high school sweetheart, but we have 1029 00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,400 Speaker 11: only been married married for four years. After high school 1030 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,759 Speaker 11: we went our separate ways and he was married for 1031 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:08,440 Speaker 11: twenty years and had three kids with his wife. I 1032 00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,320 Speaker 11: was married for thirteen years and I got a divorce 1033 00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 11: and was raising my two children alone. When I reconnected 1034 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:18,759 Speaker 11: with my high school sweetheart, we blended our families and 1035 00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 11: picked right back up where we left off in high school. 1036 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 11: We have lots in common and we share a lot 1037 00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 11: of old friends and memories. The only problem I'm having 1038 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 11: in the marriage is when my husband mentions how his 1039 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,719 Speaker 11: ex wife did things and he compares me to her. 1040 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,560 Speaker 11: He makes sure he always gives me credit as being 1041 00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,680 Speaker 11: better than his ex but I need him to stop 1042 00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:45,359 Speaker 11: mentioning her altogether. We were having a crab boil and 1043 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,840 Speaker 11: I peel the shrimp before adding them to the pot. 1044 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:49,399 Speaker 10: He told me he. 1045 00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: Likes the shrimp peeled. 1046 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:54,439 Speaker 11: He likes the shrimp peeled because Carol used to leave 1047 00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 11: the shell on. I don't need to know what Carol 1048 00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:02,160 Speaker 11: did with her shrimp. It's a non and hurtful, especially 1049 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,319 Speaker 11: when he does it in front of others. Some of 1050 00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:07,640 Speaker 11: his friends from his previous marriage are now my friends too, 1051 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,920 Speaker 11: and it's uncomfortable for them. If my husband mentioned his 1052 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:14,840 Speaker 11: ex wife in our conversation, I get that he spent 1053 00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:17,319 Speaker 11: twenty years with a woman so he got used to 1054 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 11: how she did things. But he and I need to 1055 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,080 Speaker 11: get settled into our own ways of doing things. He 1056 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 11: overheard me talking to my son and I told him 1057 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:28,239 Speaker 11: he's the spitting image of his daddy. My husband later 1058 00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:31,440 Speaker 11: told me that it sounds like I miss my ex husband. 1059 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 11: Why can't he understand that's how I feel when he 1060 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,680 Speaker 11: talks about his ex. How can I get him to 1061 00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:41,440 Speaker 11: stop bringing up his ex wife to me and others? Well, 1062 00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,480 Speaker 11: if I were petty, you know, if I were like 1063 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,520 Speaker 11: a petty and vindictive person, I would just tell you 1064 00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:52,879 Speaker 11: to mention your ex every time. He mentioned Carol, his 1065 00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:56,920 Speaker 11: ex every time, and maybe even in the bedroom, although 1066 00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,719 Speaker 11: I really wouldn't advise that one but me, you know, 1067 00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:01,799 Speaker 11: on how petty you want to get here? 1068 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:07,920 Speaker 1: Okay, get patty, Petty, Betty, Patty, betty. 1069 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,400 Speaker 11: You know you can make a context out of it 1070 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,279 Speaker 11: to see who could mention them the most. Okay, But 1071 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,560 Speaker 11: I'm not petty betty, So I say explain it to 1072 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,799 Speaker 11: him in a rational, calm way. You could start with 1073 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,239 Speaker 11: something like, you know, honey, remember when you overheard me 1074 00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:25,680 Speaker 11: talking to my son to our son about how much 1075 00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 11: he looks like his dad. 1076 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:28,120 Speaker 1: Well, you told me. 1077 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,840 Speaker 11: You know, you said it sounded like I missed my ex. 1078 00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:36,640 Speaker 11: That's what you said, but that wasn't the case, you know. 1079 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:41,320 Speaker 11: But guess what, I understand what you meant by that completely, 1080 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 11: because every time you mentioned Carol, your ex, I feel. 1081 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,840 Speaker 8: Like you're comparing me to her. And I think you 1082 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:48,720 Speaker 8: do that a lot. 1083 00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 11: You were with her for twenty years, I get that, 1084 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,760 Speaker 11: so you became accustomed to the way she did things 1085 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 11: so much so that it seems like you can't help 1086 00:55:56,719 --> 00:56:00,360 Speaker 11: mentioning it every chance you get, especially when we're around 1087 00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 11: our friends. At least I said that to my son, 1088 00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,879 Speaker 11: our son in private, when it was just the two 1089 00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,920 Speaker 11: of us and no one else. I'm bringing all this 1090 00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:09,719 Speaker 11: up because I don't think you realize how much you 1091 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,239 Speaker 11: mentioned Carol your ex to me. 1092 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 10: I mean, do you. 1093 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 11: Understand how that makes me feel? You're talking to your 1094 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 11: husband now, Do you understand that? And I hope that's 1095 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,759 Speaker 11: what it is, that you just don't really get or 1096 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,319 Speaker 11: realize what you're doing, and not the fact that you 1097 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 11: miss her like you accuse me of missing my ex. 1098 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 11: So I'm saying all this to say, please, let's be mindful, 1099 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:36,319 Speaker 11: let's be conscientious of what we say to each other 1100 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,120 Speaker 11: and how we say things, how we speak to each other. Please, 1101 00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,360 Speaker 11: we've been married for four years. We want this to 1102 00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,040 Speaker 11: last a long time till death, so it's not to 1103 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:47,920 Speaker 11: cause any more hurt feelings or misunderstandings. We both have 1104 00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,600 Speaker 11: moved on. Remember that's why we're together. That's how we 1105 00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,000 Speaker 11: got together in the first place. Because we've moved on. 1106 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,080 Speaker 11: Let's leave the past in the past. We have to 1107 00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,960 Speaker 11: do that, say something like that, Like I said, an irrational, 1108 00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:03,799 Speaker 11: calm manner. Don't go tit for tat with them, you know, 1109 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,399 Speaker 11: unless you absolutely have to. But I wouldn't do that, But. 1110 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 8: Just remind him. 1111 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:11,200 Speaker 11: Maybe he's you know, not thinking clearly enough, and you 1112 00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:13,600 Speaker 11: got to remind him. But if you need to get 1113 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:15,560 Speaker 11: Patty Girl gone and get Patty Steve. 1114 00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:21,640 Speaker 6: See, wow, I'm in total disagreement with you. 1115 00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 2: Shall ah this letter don't call for all that I 1116 00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:27,680 Speaker 2: think so. 1117 00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 6: Beautiful response, well thought out, everything like that. Here's the problem. 1118 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 6: High school sweethearts. He was married for twenty years, had 1119 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,880 Speaker 6: three kids. He was married for thirteen hand two. Y'all 1120 00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,720 Speaker 6: got back together, picked right back where we left off. 1121 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,640 Speaker 6: We got lots in commons. We share a lot of 1122 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:52,480 Speaker 6: old friends and memories. The only problem I'm having with 1123 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 6: this marriage here is what the letter is about. It's 1124 00:57:55,760 --> 00:58:00,760 Speaker 6: when my husband mentioned how his ex wife did and 1125 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:05,880 Speaker 6: he compares me to her. I have one question for him, 1126 00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:12,440 Speaker 6: why is she your ex? The fact that he keeps 1127 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:18,920 Speaker 6: mentioning her. We've got to dig into why she is 1128 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:24,840 Speaker 6: the ex because if you miss her and you keep 1129 00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:31,360 Speaker 6: mentioning her and you keep comparing you to her, maybe 1130 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:37,080 Speaker 6: he didn't want out, he just ended up out. Maybe 1131 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:41,280 Speaker 6: he's not mentioning her because he's just habit. Maybe it's 1132 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 6: a longing. I don't know, but I have a couple 1133 00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 6: of ideas for you when we come back, because this 1134 00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,120 Speaker 6: is crazy. Just keep mentioning her name. 1135 00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? 1136 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,120 Speaker 1: Carol? 1137 00:58:57,160 --> 00:59:00,960 Speaker 6: Steve? He told me, like shrimp peel, Carol used to 1138 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:01,840 Speaker 6: lead the shells on. 1139 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,760 Speaker 11: Well that part two of Steve's response coming up in 1140 00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 11: twenty three minutes after the. 1141 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 1: Hour, subject he loves to mention his ex wife. We'll 1142 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. 1143 00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 8: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 1144 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 11: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters, 1145 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:22,000 Speaker 11: subject he loves to mention his ex wife. 1146 00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,760 Speaker 6: This man keep bringing up his ex wife to his 1147 00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:29,360 Speaker 6: carried wife. Your husband mentioned how his ex wife did 1148 00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:33,880 Speaker 6: stuff and he compassed me to her. Now he makes 1149 00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,320 Speaker 6: sure he give you credit though, for being better than 1150 00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 6: his ex. But I need him to stop mentioning it. 1151 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 6: Haul together. Here was a good example. We having a 1152 00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:49,200 Speaker 6: crab bare crab boil, excuse me having a crab boil. 1153 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,320 Speaker 6: I peeled the shrimp before adding them to the pot. 1154 00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 6: He told me he likes to shrimp peel because Carol 1155 00:59:56,320 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 6: used to lead a shell on. I don't need to 1156 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:08,000 Speaker 6: know what Carol did. See well, here is just surely 1157 01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:10,240 Speaker 6: say get petty. I disagree with it, but he is 1158 01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:13,720 Speaker 6: a free one if you have to. He told me 1159 01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 6: he liked the shrimp peel because Carol used to leave 1160 01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 6: it on the shell. Then your response should be Harol 1161 01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:22,800 Speaker 6: always liked him off the shell, and that's why I 1162 01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:24,040 Speaker 6: figured you would too. 1163 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 11: That's petty sometimes, all right, Well let me try it. 1164 01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 6: It's annoying and hurtful, especially when he do it in 1165 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,160 Speaker 6: front of others. Some of his friends from the previous 1166 01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:38,959 Speaker 6: marriage are now my friends too, and it's uncomfortable for them. 1167 01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:43,400 Speaker 6: If my husband mentioned that his ex wife and our conversation, 1168 01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 6: if he is uncomfortable for them, if he mentions his 1169 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:54,840 Speaker 6: ex wife and our conversation, Sureley saying, mention yours too. Okay, 1170 01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:59,480 Speaker 6: Sureley says something that the man would say about a 1171 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,960 Speaker 6: woman in the conversation with a group of friends, and 1172 01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:03,280 Speaker 6: I'll give you her response. 1173 01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:04,840 Speaker 1: Oh, that's how you wear in your hair. 1174 01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:08,400 Speaker 11: Oh, I like to better when Carol, Carol, when she 1175 01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:10,600 Speaker 11: wore a hair, she used to have the bangs kind 1176 01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 11: of swooped to the side. 1177 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 6: Well, I wear my hair like Carol Mama. 1178 01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:21,560 Speaker 1: That's how I go to That's how I just started 1179 01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 1: right there. 1180 01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:28,360 Speaker 2: Try another one, Carol. 1181 01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:32,880 Speaker 1: Oh you got on those shoes. Oh Carol used to 1182 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:33,920 Speaker 1: wear red bottoms. 1183 01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:41,360 Speaker 6: Well you know, I get some red red bottoms, but 1184 01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:46,960 Speaker 6: you don't wear they don't come in your size. I 1185 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,520 Speaker 6: don't know who I insulted on that. 1186 01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 4: What you say. 1187 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:53,840 Speaker 6: You got too deep? 1188 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:55,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 1189 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:59,480 Speaker 6: I just try to hurt somebody. Okay, Now, who were 1190 01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:00,000 Speaker 6: in my shoes? 1191 01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 1: You're the husband who always compares his wife to wife. 1192 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:13,920 Speaker 6: No, you're doing the husband, and I'm showing her how 1193 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:14,520 Speaker 6: to come back. 1194 01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,520 Speaker 11: Okay, So you okay, now go okay. Yeah, So I'll 1195 01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:21,120 Speaker 11: just do the same one. Those aren't red bottoms. Carol 1196 01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:24,880 Speaker 11: always wore red bottoms, my ex Carol. 1197 01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:31,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, well Carol must have had more money because you're broke. 1198 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,520 Speaker 6: Ask I'm down here pay less. 1199 01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,560 Speaker 1: You're supposed to bring in her ex husband. 1200 01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:40,400 Speaker 2: Go ahead, Okay, all right? 1201 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:45,320 Speaker 11: What are these pancakes or waffles? Because when Carol cooked them, 1202 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:46,920 Speaker 11: I could always tell the difference. 1203 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,800 Speaker 6: Hell it never made hell no difference what I did 1204 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:56,720 Speaker 6: because I was naked cooking both of them. 1205 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,480 Speaker 1: Okay, now you're getting your legs. 1206 01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 2: Come on now, I'm ready. Okay, all right. 1207 01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:07,560 Speaker 11: All right, let's let's go see You want to go 1208 01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:12,000 Speaker 11: see that a comedy. Harold and I always liked, you know, thrillers, 1209 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:17,000 Speaker 11: shoot them up, stuff like that, murder mysteries, gangster stuff. 1210 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:25,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, like me and Harold like Poro. So we're gonna 1211 01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,480 Speaker 6: watch a little punk ass movie. You and Carroll, you 1212 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:32,479 Speaker 6: watch me and Hale was in here doing a table top. 1213 01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,720 Speaker 1: Wow, have you gained a little weight? 1214 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:42,120 Speaker 11: Carol has that same outfit and she it fit her 1215 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:46,080 Speaker 11: really nicely, you know, I like the way it fit 1216 01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:46,600 Speaker 11: her butt. 1217 01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,960 Speaker 6: It's kind of I don't know, because Harold kept all 1218 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:52,680 Speaker 6: my dresses on top of my butt. 1219 01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 2: So I don't even know. 1220 01:03:55,280 --> 01:04:00,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know. 1221 01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:04,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I don't even know if mine was fitting 1222 01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:05,520 Speaker 6: it now you know? 1223 01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:12,240 Speaker 1: Hell so crazy. Oh that's what kind of car you have, 1224 01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:17,000 Speaker 1: because you know Harold, you know he had a g Wagon. Carol, 1225 01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:19,520 Speaker 1: I mean, Carol had a g wagon. 1226 01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:22,520 Speaker 5: Thank you. 1227 01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:27,920 Speaker 2: Well, Hall, Hal had a herse. 1228 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:31,440 Speaker 10: Don't you forget it? 1229 01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:32,200 Speaker 2: Shot. 1230 01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:34,920 Speaker 6: He was doing me so hard, he was killing me. 1231 01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 2: I just crawled up in the back and he drive 1232 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 2: me to work. 1233 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:46,120 Speaker 11: So oh so we're going on vacation, honey after COVID okay, 1234 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:53,320 Speaker 11: oh uncommercial? Oh we always went on private, but okay. 1235 01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:54,760 Speaker 8: We must go commercial. 1236 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: She knew pilots and everything. 1237 01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:02,360 Speaker 6: Oh carro all did well. Damn. 1238 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:03,800 Speaker 2: Maybe I should have married Carol? 1239 01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:13,320 Speaker 5: All right? 1240 01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:13,800 Speaker 4: Thank you? 1241 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,840 Speaker 1: Yeah you did post your comments on today Struwberry Letter. 1242 01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:22,040 Speaker 11: Yeah, you gotta get petty with this when you do 1243 01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,720 Speaker 11: post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 1244 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,680 Speaker 11: f M on Instagram and Facebook, and please check out 1245 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,600 Speaker 11: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1246 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:33,560 Speaker 8: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1247 01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:35,160 Speaker 10: We're in the middle of. 1248 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:39,440 Speaker 11: This segment called I'm Becoming My Parents and Jay and 1249 01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,959 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey are letting us know that they're saying things to. 1250 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:43,720 Speaker 7: Their same thing. 1251 01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:48,200 Speaker 9: We haven't come up with nothing. You got scratch that wall? 1252 01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:50,880 Speaker 2: Scratch you betta say it? 1253 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:51,800 Speaker 1: Does that mean no? 1254 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:57,280 Speaker 2: Scratch that wall? 1255 01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1256 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:00,720 Speaker 6: They play right? 1257 01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:01,360 Speaker 9: How about this? 1258 01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:03,000 Speaker 7: I don't know if it could be done, but I 1259 01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:04,560 Speaker 7: damn there got beat to it. 1260 01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 2: What I thought it was gonna come up? 1261 01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:10,200 Speaker 9: I will beat all all the black office. 1262 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:11,720 Speaker 13: That. 1263 01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:19,480 Speaker 9: I will be all the black know we can go down. 1264 01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:21,040 Speaker 6: That. 1265 01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 2: You're standing in that refrigerator. Don't like your walk, so. 1266 01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:32,880 Speaker 1: I like, I got how's the time. 1267 01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:33,960 Speaker 6: Living on that? 1268 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:38,400 Speaker 9: No, you got to get in and get out. 1269 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 6: I like it. 1270 01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:43,560 Speaker 7: Jack. Somebody needs to tell me while all these lights 1271 01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,960 Speaker 7: is on, I need to know that that is me. 1272 01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:48,720 Speaker 6: That's my husband. 1273 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:50,800 Speaker 1: I need know. 1274 01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 9: Wow, all these lights is on again. 1275 01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:58,360 Speaker 8: We're becoming our parents. 1276 01:06:58,360 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 9: We love it. 1277 01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:01,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm tired cart Julian. 1278 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:08,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, this this is dedicated to color. 1279 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is Pat Boltner's love. 1280 01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 4: Huh. 1281 01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:18,480 Speaker 2: If you can hunt me, you can hear me. 1282 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:26,040 Speaker 7: Yes, you're about to make me cry. 1283 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:28,640 Speaker 1: If you can't hurt me, you can't hear me. 1284 01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:31,080 Speaker 9: Oma. 1285 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:34,720 Speaker 7: Oh this is one and Lee Brom's special. So my 1286 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:36,920 Speaker 7: Mama's the heavy, little heavy, you know, little. 1287 01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:38,080 Speaker 6: Heavy on the stocky side. 1288 01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:43,080 Speaker 7: So this is how pattern. Don't make me run after you. 1289 01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:50,440 Speaker 7: She couldn't run anyway, but don't make me run after you. 1290 01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:52,160 Speaker 2: You know you didn't want that. 1291 01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,040 Speaker 7: Let me gonna walk back here and take this because 1292 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:56,400 Speaker 7: it ain't gonna be nice. 1293 01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:06,080 Speaker 6: This one is dedicate to Shirley's mama, Miss Helen. Sit down. 1294 01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:11,800 Speaker 6: Everyone has seen you and you do it too much. 1295 01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:13,200 Speaker 9: You do it. 1296 01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:23,160 Speaker 11: Putting on show here up on that that line. 1297 01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:25,120 Speaker 10: We're becoming our parents. 1298 01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,439 Speaker 9: Definitely becoming our parents. 1299 01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:27,880 Speaker 2: All right, we'll be. 1300 01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:30,639 Speaker 11: Right back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1301 01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,920 Speaker 8: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1302 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:39,720 Speaker 11: All right, guys, it is time Steve for comedy roulette. 1303 01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:41,880 Speaker 10: You ready, Jay explain it again. 1304 01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:43,960 Speaker 7: Let me break this down. We have new listeners who 1305 01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:45,840 Speaker 7: don't have any idea what we're doing. 1306 01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:46,200 Speaker 9: Comedy. 1307 01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:50,840 Speaker 7: Very simple. Give us five subjects, five anything you want. 1308 01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:54,960 Speaker 7: Put them on the wheel. Yeah, spun the wheel. Well stop, 1309 01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,960 Speaker 7: just fun. Spun it around as in to be spun around, 1310 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:00,840 Speaker 7: as in spin. 1311 01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:06,280 Speaker 9: That's totally different. Right now, spun it around. Hit stop. 1312 01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:07,280 Speaker 9: We'll do the damn thing. 1313 01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:08,840 Speaker 1: Here we go, all right. 1314 01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:12,599 Speaker 11: Number one things you say to yourself when you're mad 1315 01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:17,240 Speaker 11: at someone, Like number two, you know it's time to 1316 01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:18,040 Speaker 11: go to the store. 1317 01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:19,479 Speaker 4: When dot dot DoD. 1318 01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:22,640 Speaker 11: Number three stuff you don't like to watch, but you 1319 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,200 Speaker 11: watch it anyway to keep them happy. 1320 01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:33,040 Speaker 10: You know we all know about that or him whatever. 1321 01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:36,759 Speaker 4: Number four. 1322 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:41,520 Speaker 11: Number four, you know she's not coming back. When okay, 1323 01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:45,080 Speaker 11: number five, people who never chip in. 1324 01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:47,639 Speaker 1: Come home. 1325 01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 10: Let's go kat, let's be. 1326 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:02,120 Speaker 11: Whoa it came on? 1327 01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:02,720 Speaker 10: Number one. 1328 01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,000 Speaker 11: Things you say to yourself when you're mad at someone. 1329 01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:13,800 Speaker 11: To you yourself when you're mad at someone. 1330 01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:16,360 Speaker 7: Oh, here's some things you say to yourself when you 1331 01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,040 Speaker 7: mad at somebody. I'm gonna let it go this time, 1332 01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:23,599 Speaker 7: but the next damn time, Oh, it's gonna be hell 1333 01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:25,360 Speaker 7: up on me. Hell it's gonna be hell. 1334 01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 6: This is one I always say to myself when I'm 1335 01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:29,080 Speaker 6: mad at other people. 1336 01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:30,280 Speaker 2: I'm trying not to go. 1337 01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:32,240 Speaker 1: Jail, and I'm doing my best. 1338 01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:35,800 Speaker 6: Say I'm doing my best right now, I'm trying not 1339 01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:36,439 Speaker 6: to go to jim. 1340 01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:37,240 Speaker 8: You're really mad. 1341 01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:38,360 Speaker 6: No, no, no, you're mad. 1342 01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:45,120 Speaker 7: Coordinates everything, you know what? 1343 01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 2: You know what? 1344 01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,840 Speaker 6: That's all right, drink that water, then I put up 1345 01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:49,040 Speaker 6: in that. 1346 01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:55,559 Speaker 1: Drink That all right? 1347 01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:58,160 Speaker 8: Things you say to yourself when you're mad at someone. 1348 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:08,559 Speaker 17: Steve, go ahead, you better go ahead on now, Jesus, 1349 01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:12,080 Speaker 17: that's all that is. 1350 01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:13,120 Speaker 2: Go ahead. 1351 01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:19,960 Speaker 7: Then you say to yourself when you're mad at somebody, Lord, 1352 01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:26,920 Speaker 7: please work with me, Jesus to work with any please, Father, Father, 1353 01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,080 Speaker 7: take me down so I don't kill them. 1354 01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:34,639 Speaker 6: That's why I always say that I'm always mad somebody. 1355 01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:36,799 Speaker 1: It's just something you said before to somebody. 1356 01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:38,200 Speaker 6: That's why your ass broke. 1357 01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:44,400 Speaker 11: Now, that's where you broke, right and hurt. 1358 01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:51,599 Speaker 8: That hurts you say it to yourself, you know what. 1359 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,280 Speaker 6: That's that's that's why I got another woman though. 1360 01:11:57,000 --> 01:12:03,559 Speaker 2: That's right here. I ain't got toping. This is tough. 1361 01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:08,439 Speaker 2: You say to yourself, which. 1362 01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 6: Your stupid. 1363 01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:14,599 Speaker 14: Sound, Just like did you say that it was too 1364 01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:16,000 Speaker 14: good jumps but it was long? 1365 01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:16,320 Speaker 5: Now? 1366 01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:20,519 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1367 01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:31,360 Speaker 6: Oh my god, I thought my mama was talking to me. 1368 01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:36,360 Speaker 4: Uh. 1369 01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:40,320 Speaker 9: Things you say to people when you're mad at him yourself? 1370 01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,840 Speaker 9: Just g ahead and die. 1371 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:47,879 Speaker 2: Don't get about hill about. 1372 01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:50,640 Speaker 5: All right? Come on? 1373 01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:51,040 Speaker 3: Take it? 1374 01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 2: No, no, no, you do. 1375 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:57,040 Speaker 10: Okay, I got Let's tell you this. 1376 01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:58,599 Speaker 1: It says a lot my family. 1377 01:12:58,880 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 2: I'm calling crime stop. 1378 01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:05,439 Speaker 6: They gonna get a tip today. 1379 01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:06,080 Speaker 5: You will. 1380 01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so glad that ain't bout that. 1381 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,920 Speaker 8: You're listening Morning Show. 1382 01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:23,840 Speaker 9: What if you on this ship. I'm trying to get 1383 01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:24,519 Speaker 9: his horn done. 1384 01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:26,760 Speaker 18: This is still four for July beginning, which means fire woods, 1385 01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:30,080 Speaker 18: which means somebody will sit the fire, somebody will lose 1386 01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,680 Speaker 18: a dumb somebody will somebody will set in hair on 1387 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 18: fight and yes, believe it or not, somebody will stick. 1388 01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:36,479 Speaker 5: A firecracker up there. 1389 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:38,200 Speaker 4: I'm not louding, I'm not mean enough. 1390 01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:41,280 Speaker 7: Somebody will stick a firecrack up there and blow that 1391 01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:44,720 Speaker 7: up to The song is dedicated to those books do 1392 01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:47,519 Speaker 7: that with firecrackers what they're. 1393 01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:53,360 Speaker 5: Doing, but you don't. 1394 01:13:55,280 --> 01:14:00,519 Speaker 3: Know the done sitting in the hot and I do 1395 01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:02,760 Speaker 3: love the dangers. 1396 01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:12,560 Speaker 16: On the sad Talma sulfi FiOS inside succiny. 1397 01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:19,519 Speaker 6: Of last mok up that dj it happens that don't 1398 01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:23,360 Speaker 6: stopping all for last. 1399 01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:25,040 Speaker 2: Staining rich. 1400 01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:33,680 Speaker 16: Eating Thats cool to hot Babyson in their bad in ths. 1401 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:34,880 Speaker 15: And house as to. 1402 01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:37,960 Speaker 6: See No listen to the. 1403 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:57,320 Speaker 16: FIA sides. 1404 01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:04,160 Speaker 15: Okay, look out, don't take your records. Okay, I gotta 1405 01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:05,120 Speaker 15: like it though, even. 1406 01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:07,640 Speaker 7: Though you're listening. 1407 01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:12,040 Speaker 11: Morning Show, it is time now, guys for a rounded 1408 01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:16,400 Speaker 11: would you rather. This is the fourth of July Cookout edition? Okay, 1409 01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:20,840 Speaker 11: so would you rather charcoal grill or gas grill? 1410 01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:26,280 Speaker 6: Come on now, I want to come on. I use 1411 01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:31,920 Speaker 6: I use lump charcoal, which is actually going I don't know. 1412 01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:35,880 Speaker 6: I haven't used briskets in there. Why is she asking 1413 01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:38,439 Speaker 6: the cooking questions? Know what we're talking about? 1414 01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:39,920 Speaker 4: Attitude? 1415 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:41,880 Speaker 6: Talking? 1416 01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:42,880 Speaker 7: Mean? 1417 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:47,200 Speaker 2: Would you rather what she asked? 1418 01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:53,960 Speaker 9: Or gas? 1419 01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:55,519 Speaker 4: I shut up? 1420 01:15:58,160 --> 01:15:58,719 Speaker 8: Or ribs? 1421 01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:00,960 Speaker 10: Would you rather be pork ribs? 1422 01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:01,679 Speaker 6: More food? 1423 01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:04,439 Speaker 2: Tommy, pork ribs? 1424 01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 6: Pork ribs, pork ribs and pork and when you put 1425 01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:12,959 Speaker 6: it on open fire and you buy and you expose 1426 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:16,920 Speaker 6: them to lump charcoal with uh wood chips, is no 1427 01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:22,240 Speaker 6: longer pork anyway? What is is because the new meat 1428 01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:23,719 Speaker 6: is called Bobby cut. 1429 01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:30,360 Speaker 10: D O B B white like Bobby Brown. 1430 01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:32,840 Speaker 6: Bobby d O B B. Why Bobby King. It's a 1431 01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:36,719 Speaker 6: whole new meat. It's it ain't even walk no more, kay, because. 1432 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:38,360 Speaker 2: I don't really care for pork at all. 1433 01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:40,679 Speaker 8: Uh huh, but I mean. 1434 01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:44,479 Speaker 2: Just go down just like beef. 1435 01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:48,120 Speaker 11: All right, This is the would you rather fourth of 1436 01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:49,719 Speaker 11: July Cookout edition? 1437 01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 8: Flats or drums? 1438 01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:54,040 Speaker 11: When it comes to chicken wing, you like the flats 1439 01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:55,800 Speaker 11: or you like the drumsticks, which flat. 1440 01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:57,200 Speaker 2: You don't do that on the four. 1441 01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:58,760 Speaker 6: If you cook the whole damn wing. 1442 01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:00,840 Speaker 2: You know, still you don't break that up like that. 1443 01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:01,679 Speaker 6: You got. 1444 01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,799 Speaker 2: Stuff that's that's Super Bowl you talking about with flax 1445 01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:07,400 Speaker 2: and drumming. 1446 01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:09,040 Speaker 6: This is the four. 1447 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:11,519 Speaker 9: You cooked the whole like flat, period. 1448 01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:14,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, he is telling the truth, he is. 1449 01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:18,880 Speaker 10: I like flats. I don't care what holiday it is, 1450 01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:19,720 Speaker 10: all right? 1451 01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:24,000 Speaker 11: Would you rather dry rub or lots of barbecue sauce? 1452 01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:25,120 Speaker 2: You don't need. 1453 01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:30,960 Speaker 6: Sauce because my my rub is off the chape now. 1454 01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:36,000 Speaker 6: If you're going to do a sauce jen Ira j 1455 01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 6: e Inyen. I are a dot com the hands down 1456 01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:48,519 Speaker 6: best barbecue sauce in the world in a bottle and 1457 01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:53,120 Speaker 6: Ira dot com barbecue sauce. Part of the mild, the medium, 1458 01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:56,040 Speaker 6: and the hot and Lord Hammers. To prepare yourself for 1459 01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,120 Speaker 6: the best barbecue. I'm telling you right now. 1460 01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:00,600 Speaker 9: To get in a endorsement. 1461 01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,360 Speaker 2: It's better than Williams Brothers. And I thought that was 1462 01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:03,840 Speaker 2: all right. 1463 01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:07,719 Speaker 11: One last one, one last one? Spades or dominoes. Spades 1464 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:08,400 Speaker 11: are dominoes? 1465 01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 6: Oh either one? You can get hurt. Spade, Oh you 1466 01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:15,439 Speaker 6: gotta go spades because more black people play. But there's 1467 01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:16,480 Speaker 6: some later dominoes. 1468 01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:17,280 Speaker 2: Now it's latest. 1469 01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:21,360 Speaker 11: All right, we'll be back at forty nine minutes after 1470 01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:22,840 Speaker 11: the hour to close out the show. 1471 01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:24,840 Speaker 1: In our last break of the day, right after day. 1472 01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:28,120 Speaker 8: You're listening hard morning show. 1473 01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we are our last break of 1474 01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:32,000 Speaker 1: the day. 1475 01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:35,920 Speaker 2: It's the last break up the day. 1476 01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:38,160 Speaker 16: Yes it is. 1477 01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:40,360 Speaker 9: What are you doing? 1478 01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:43,840 Speaker 1: It's been a good day though, a good day. 1479 01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:45,000 Speaker 8: Oh you weren't. 1480 01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:48,559 Speaker 11: No, we're so used to it now today I know. Okay, 1481 01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:51,880 Speaker 11: we're so used to it now. Don't spoil us and 1482 01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:53,080 Speaker 11: then try to take it away. 1483 01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:56,040 Speaker 6: Well, Jay started, and then he forgot how I did? Yeah? 1484 01:18:56,400 --> 01:18:57,000 Speaker 6: What started? 1485 01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:00,680 Speaker 2: It's the last break of the day. That's what you're 1486 01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:02,240 Speaker 2: old now, Jay? 1487 01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:03,240 Speaker 8: What's that? 1488 01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:03,880 Speaker 6: Jay? 1489 01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:05,640 Speaker 10: That doesn't move us? 1490 01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:09,519 Speaker 11: But it's been a good Thursday, good Thursday. Yeah, look 1491 01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:10,600 Speaker 11: forward to Friday and. 1492 01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:11,160 Speaker 6: Here we go. 1493 01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:12,920 Speaker 2: Let me do this. 1494 01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:18,799 Speaker 6: You know, I try to say things that are encouraging 1495 01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:21,799 Speaker 6: the people in my clothes remarks to give you some uplift. 1496 01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:27,880 Speaker 6: But what I want to tell you about is in 1497 01:19:28,040 --> 01:19:29,840 Speaker 6: your climb to success. 1498 01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:31,880 Speaker 2: And in your. 1499 01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:38,439 Speaker 6: Desire to become happy and whatever success is to you, 1500 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:41,000 Speaker 6: It doesn't matter to me. Everybody has to define it 1501 01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:46,960 Speaker 6: for themselves, just like everybody defines happiness for themselves. But 1502 01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:51,040 Speaker 6: if you're trying to build something, if you're trying to 1503 01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:57,600 Speaker 6: get yourself together, if you're trying to go places, I 1504 01:19:57,680 --> 01:19:59,920 Speaker 6: want to just put a couple of things in your head. 1505 01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:05,000 Speaker 6: You've got to be conscious of the people that you 1506 01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:09,439 Speaker 6: surround yourself with. You know, you've all heard the old 1507 01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:15,360 Speaker 6: saying birds of a feather flock together. Association brings on participation. 1508 01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:20,400 Speaker 6: This is just the bottom line truth. Somebody told me 1509 01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:25,599 Speaker 6: one time. They said, Steve, name your five closest friends. 1510 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:31,960 Speaker 6: Saw I named them. Then he said, describe them as people. 1511 01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:36,559 Speaker 6: And I described them and he said, thank you. He said, 1512 01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:38,400 Speaker 6: now I know what I need to know about you. 1513 01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:40,759 Speaker 6: I said, what do you mean by that? He said, 1514 01:20:41,160 --> 01:20:44,560 Speaker 6: If you name your five closest friends, and then you 1515 01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:49,320 Speaker 6: describe your five closest friends, you have just given me 1516 01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:54,639 Speaker 6: an overall description of you because you pick. You actually 1517 01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:58,080 Speaker 6: get to choose your friends, and you choose your friends 1518 01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:02,080 Speaker 6: for qualities that you like about them. You become friends 1519 01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:04,599 Speaker 6: with people because you have so many things in common. 1520 01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 6: You don't have friends where you have nothing in common. 1521 01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:10,960 Speaker 6: You wouldn't pick them as your friend, would you. 1522 01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:15,240 Speaker 2: No, you wouldn't. And so what happens is in that 1523 01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:17,760 Speaker 2: experiment he gave me, I said, wow. 1524 01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:21,240 Speaker 6: So I started really taking inventory and started thinking about 1525 01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:24,080 Speaker 6: the people that were around me, and I discovered something, man, 1526 01:21:24,479 --> 01:21:26,920 Speaker 6: that was some people around me that really weren't good 1527 01:21:27,040 --> 01:21:31,240 Speaker 6: for me. See, somebody sent me this one time. He said, 1528 01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:36,479 Speaker 6: A dead battery can't jump a dead battery. You gotta 1529 01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:39,400 Speaker 6: get away from people who can't charge your spirit when 1530 01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:44,559 Speaker 6: you need a jump. Uh oh, a dead battery can't 1531 01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:48,880 Speaker 6: jump a dead battery. Get away from people who can't 1532 01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:53,559 Speaker 6: charge your spirit when you need a jump. How many times, man, 1533 01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:58,280 Speaker 6: have you needed some uplift? How many times have you 1534 01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:01,479 Speaker 6: needed a word of encouragement and the person you turn 1535 01:22:01,640 --> 01:22:04,360 Speaker 6: to had nothing for you but more of the same. 1536 01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:10,920 Speaker 6: You need some new people. You can't build an empire 1537 01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:16,639 Speaker 6: when you surround yourself with bulldozers waiting to tear you down. 1538 01:22:19,880 --> 01:22:23,360 Speaker 6: Surround yourself with people who will give you bricks and 1539 01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:27,479 Speaker 6: mortar and build a foundation for success. You got to 1540 01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:30,080 Speaker 6: really get conscious of the people that surround you, because 1541 01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:32,880 Speaker 6: I'm telling y'all, man, they play a role in your life. 1542 01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:34,160 Speaker 2: As long as. 1543 01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:37,240 Speaker 6: They're around you and you are welcoming them in, they 1544 01:22:37,400 --> 01:22:39,880 Speaker 6: play a role in your life. And you may not 1545 01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:43,000 Speaker 6: even have paid it any attention. But little bit by 1546 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:46,400 Speaker 6: little bit, they either take a piece or they add 1547 01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:49,800 Speaker 6: a piece. So you've got to pay attention who's around you, 1548 01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:52,599 Speaker 6: because you can't build an empire when you surround yourself 1549 01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:56,479 Speaker 6: with bulldos, bulldozers waiting to tear you down. Surround yourself 1550 01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 6: with people who give you bricks and mortar and build 1551 01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:03,880 Speaker 6: a foundation for success. Check it. Just run a check, y'all. 1552 01:23:04,479 --> 01:23:04,920 Speaker 12: Just do this. 1553 01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:08,600 Speaker 2: Just just run inventory. 1554 01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,880 Speaker 6: Take a close look at the people you're associating yourself with. 1555 01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:16,640 Speaker 6: And sometimes, man, you just stay friends with people just 1556 01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:20,639 Speaker 6: a little bit too long, just a little bit too long, 1557 01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:25,200 Speaker 6: because some people have stopped being your friend a long 1558 01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:29,679 Speaker 6: time ago. But you're such a committed person, you're such 1559 01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:33,280 Speaker 6: a loyal person that you stay loyal to them long 1560 01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:36,720 Speaker 6: after they stopped being loyal to you. Somebody used to 1561 01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:39,479 Speaker 6: work for me taught me a valuable lesson, and I 1562 01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:45,720 Speaker 6: never forgot it. He said, Oh gee, loyalty has an 1563 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:50,360 Speaker 6: expiration date. I was telling this to my wife one 1564 01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:52,840 Speaker 6: time at Marjorie. She didn't like that, said she seek, 1565 01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 6: I don't like when you say that, And we were 1566 01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:57,080 Speaker 6: talking and talking to it, and so there was a 1567 01:23:57,200 --> 01:23:59,760 Speaker 6: few years went by. The other day I was talking. 1568 01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:04,240 Speaker 6: She said, you know what's Toeve, I finally understand what 1569 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:09,800 Speaker 6: you're saying. You're not saying that your loyalty has an 1570 01:24:09,840 --> 01:24:13,840 Speaker 6: expiration date. What you've been trying to tell me is 1571 01:24:13,960 --> 01:24:18,040 Speaker 6: people that I'm trying to stay loyal to have oftentimes 1572 01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:22,000 Speaker 6: stopped being loyal to me. But because I'm a kind person, 1573 01:24:22,520 --> 01:24:25,080 Speaker 6: I've tried to stay loyal to them when they're loyal 1574 01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:29,000 Speaker 6: to for me expired a long time ago. I said, 1575 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:33,280 Speaker 6: that's all I'm saying. I'm not talking to everybody. I'm 1576 01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:36,679 Speaker 6: telling you as a warning, be conscious of the fact 1577 01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:42,360 Speaker 6: that loyalty has an expiration date, and it usually ain't you, 1578 01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:50,240 Speaker 6: it's usually somebody else. Take an inventory, make sure all 1579 01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:53,800 Speaker 6: the people who once were loyal are still loyal. Make 1580 01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:56,840 Speaker 6: sure that everybody in your life that's a battery can 1581 01:24:56,960 --> 01:24:59,360 Speaker 6: charge you up when your spirit needs a jump. And 1582 01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:01,840 Speaker 6: make sure to the people around you that you're trying 1583 01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:05,880 Speaker 6: to build an empire around are not actually bulldozers trying 1584 01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:08,479 Speaker 6: to tear you down. Those are my closing remarks. 1585 01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:10,200 Speaker 2: Y'all have a great day. 1586 01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:24,080 Speaker 11: For all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, void wear prohibited. 1587 01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:27,639 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1588 01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:31,519 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. 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