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Speaker 2: I feel like we hear this a lot from our

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Speaker 2: match with forty women, send out forty messages and never

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Speaker 3: I mean, how many times can you write suck girl

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Speaker 4: That is so disappointing, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of letters to type.

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Speaker 5: More do what I do.

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Speaker 1: It's a bunch of games to be super Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Obviously it's easy to blame Brook for this because we

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Speaker 2: all know if she was still single and on the

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Speaker 2: dating apps, she'd be messaging back every dude who even

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Speaker 4: I've been a problem, honest to God.

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Speaker 3: Would not have had time for a full time job

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Speaker 3: if the dating apps had been around when I was single.

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Speaker 6: Because she is a charity dater and a generous that

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Speaker 6: is correct. But apparently there's another option out there for

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Speaker 6: single men to conceive that's even better than the apps.

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Speaker 2: And that's where our listener Caleb is at right now.

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Speaker 2: So Caleb, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Wait, like is as in it's a physical place?

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Speaker 1: Not really sure?

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Speaker 2: He just said he found another option, an alternative to

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Speaker 2: the dating apps that he likes even better. So, Caleb,

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Speaker 2: I really am interested to find out what you're doing

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, a little bit of backstory is I started

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Speaker 5: off on dating apps, and yeah, it is a real

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Speaker 5: challenge for guys. I heard like one percent of guys

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Speaker 5: match with anybody.

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Speaker 4: What only one percent of men get matches.

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Speaker 1: Wow, it's higher than I would have thought.

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Speaker 4: So that's still that's pretty wild.

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Speaker 5: Whether or not it is true, I have to clear

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Speaker 5: that's my experience. So I realized, Okay, I just got

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Speaker 5: to get out in the real world. Ok So, a

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Speaker 5: couple of weeks ago, I found this TV on craig list.

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Speaker 5: Looked like it was in a really.

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Speaker 4: Good shape, okay, and I bought it, and you bought

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Speaker 5: Yep, needed to be cleaned up. Took it home. Turned

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Speaker 5: that it was an Arby's digital Menuh.

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Speaker 1: I've seen this happen.

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Speaker 4: Wait what, I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: So you know when they print like the when you

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Speaker 2: go into an Arby's and the menu is on a

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Speaker 5: After like six years, they just sell them and they

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Speaker 5: get rid of them because they're old.

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Speaker 3: They're not actually TV screens. They're like they can only

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Speaker 3: show the Arby's menus.

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Speaker 2: It's oh, they look like an RB's menu.

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Speaker 3: It's so no matter what you're watching, you can still

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Speaker 3: kind of see the outline of the men.

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Speaker 4: Over the times of it.

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Speaker 2: Can you still smell the RBS that seeped into the

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Speaker 2: like electronics?

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Speaker 1: Guy, I just want to number two so bad right now?

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Speaker 3: Armies need screensavers, No, but most rustlers like like J boxes.

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Speaker 4: That makes sense, you just sell them. So you actually

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Speaker 4: now you're watching Arby's.

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Speaker 5: The heck I am. I tried to contacting the guy

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Speaker 5: again because I wanted to get my money back. He

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Speaker 5: completely blocked me, of course. Yeah, so I was so

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Speaker 5: to the dump. What belonged while it was there? It

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Speaker 5: turns out there's this lovely young woman right there who

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Speaker 5: is well shut out.

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Speaker 4: Your big hack is to meet women at the dock.

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Speaker 5: Look at you can't argue with the results.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it's a good dating hack.

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Speaker 2: I guess meeting women. I'm assuming she's just visiting the dump,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a order.

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Speaker 5: No, no, she was quite lovely.

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Speaker 3: Good okay, okay, how do you strike up a conversation

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Speaker 7: Like? Man?

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Speaker 4: Nice garbage?

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Speaker 5: Actually, she asked me, why are you throwing away his

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Speaker 5: brand new television?

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Speaker 1: A big flatster dud.

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Speaker 4: When my mom goes to the dump, she often brings

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Speaker 4: stuff home, a free for all, anything you want back.

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Speaker 5: People love it.

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Speaker 2: People like literally go okay, so you like gave her

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I wasn't gonna let anybody have that. But

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Speaker 5: once she asked about it, that was my opening to

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Speaker 5: tell her the story. Yes, she thought was just completely hilarious.

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Speaker 4: Did you love a woman who will laugh at your pain? Right?

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Speaker 7: Then?

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Speaker 5: She also needed some help, so then I started helping

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Speaker 5: So I got her number.

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Speaker 4: Wait, is the dump the only date? Because then you

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: No, not at all. No, No, I got her number

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Speaker 5: and I called her after So.

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Speaker 1: That would have been fun.

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Speaker 5: Well, if we went to Arby's, I'm gonna known exactly

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Speaker 1: Where'd you go?

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Speaker 5: We went out just for a couple of drinks, and

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Speaker 5: oh my gosh, she is so cool. She Yeah, she's

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Speaker 5: no basically the first person I met in real life

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you mean that you can go out

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you have a roomful of dolls and.

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Speaker 4: So you had a great time.

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Speaker 5: Oh we did. Oh my goodness, she cleaned up so nice.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I will say, if you're attracted to a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like it's the first woman that he's

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Speaker 4: So it does sound like the hermit that it's a pretty.

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Speaker 5: Low bar you can say, Oh you want. All I'm

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Speaker 4: So okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you thought that there would be another hangout

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Speaker 5: I really thought. So, I mean, it's not like the

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Speaker 5: craiglist guy who just completely blocked me. You know, she's

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Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like it Okay, well, yeah, we want

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Speaker 1: We'll come back.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call this garbage gal and see if we

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Speaker 2: can get her to agree Landsale Queen, Okay, whatever it is,

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Speaker 2: we'll hopefully get her to answer and get you a

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Speaker 2: second date update right after.

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Speaker 1: This thank you second date update.

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Speaker 2: You know, Caleb was just on with us telling us

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Speaker 2: how hard of a time he's been having matching online

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Speaker 2: go well today, I do have an alternative option for him.

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Speaker 2: Oh you do, because I saw a news article where

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Speaker 2: South Korea is offering foreign men thirty six thousand dollars

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Speaker 4: You'll get the money after the marriage.

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Speaker 2: Or with the money, plus, they'll give you all the

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Speaker 2: used rb TV screens that you can handle. South Korean

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Speaker 2: Arby's are the best.

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Speaker 4: I actually believe that. Oh my god, that sounds so good.

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Speaker 2: But before Caleb considers moving continents, he did meet a

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Speaker 2: woman here in real life, and Brook, you're probably the

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Speaker 2: best person to say how it happened, since your parents

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Speaker 2: conceived you at the dump, so tell his story.

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Speaker 4: We call that the Dufort Mall where I'm from.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 4: They met at the dump. That's kind of the end

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Speaker 4: of the story there. I don't know what. What did

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Speaker 1: You romanticized it so well, Brooke, thank you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean she was hauling stuff, he was

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Speaker 4: They're both throwing things into the big pile.

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Speaker 2: The bottom line is he was able to turn that

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Speaker 2: meet up into a first date officially, but after that

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Speaker 2: she's been kind of avoidant.

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Speaker 1: And Caleb, did we miss anything?

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Speaker 2: There was that romantic enough for you?

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Speaker 5: I felt like it was a little more romantic, but

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Speaker 3: Did you reach over and take the smudge dirt off

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Speaker 2: Because he's yeah, wait a second, that's not dirty.

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Speaker 1: No, this is getting more romantic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just call Rebecca for you keep going, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because we could go all day with this.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to dial.

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Speaker 5: Her number right now, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, shut up and let me talk. Here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Rebecca?

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Speaker 8: I Hi?

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Speaker 2: Uh, my name is jeff from a radio show called

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: I got it down there.

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Speaker 8: Oh, I don't know, but that sounds okay, I guess Wow.

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Speaker 4: That's exactly the best description of it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the whole show, good morning, we've all been wanting to.

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Speaker 1: Talk to you.

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Speaker 8: Well, I don't like to be on public radio, but

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Speaker 1: This isn't public radio. Brook listens to that trash.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely commercial radio.

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Speaker 2: We're doing a segment here, Rebecca. It's called a second

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Speaker 2: Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of

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Speaker 2: our listeners reconnect with you after you've gone out once before.

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Speaker 7: His name is Caleb, Uh Caleb.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, I'm dying to hear your like meet cute story.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're pretty sure we know the story, Brooke, because I.

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Speaker 3: Know we know the story, but I want to hear

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Speaker 3: what she thought when she saw him and the dump,

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Speaker 3: Like that's so unexpected.

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Speaker 8: I actually really like him. He seems so interesting and.

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Speaker 3: Okay when you're at the Dumper, when you guys were

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Speaker 3: at drinks, he was so interesting, like.

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Speaker 7: Both places at the dump me, he seems interesting. And

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Speaker 7: then I was like, I don't really go out with

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Speaker 7: then that I meet at the dump, but well.

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Speaker 1: That's refreshing, thank god. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I bet there's a lot of them though.

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Speaker 2: But let's let's just back things up for you. Rebecca,

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Speaker 2: because here's what we know from Caleb. He told us

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Speaker 2: the story and said, you two met at the dump,

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Speaker 2: you had a connection there, talked about used TVs and whatnot,

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Speaker 2: and then he ended up asking you out, and you

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Speaker 2: went out for drinks and had a nice time together.

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Speaker 1: That we did okay.

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Speaker 3: He said he was so impressed with how cool you were. Like,

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Speaker 3: I thought that was a really nice compliment.

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Speaker 8: That is really nice, and like I was like that

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Speaker 2: I totally was Okay, So clearly something has changed, at

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Speaker 8: So after my date was Caleb the next day and

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Speaker 8: I see Caleb?

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Speaker 2: Okay, his profile came up.

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Speaker 4: What it's weird? I feel like you just matched.

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Speaker 6: And then you're like, hey, yeah, if anything, it could

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I thought it was so great because then I would

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Speaker 8: and the more I read about him, it's just like,

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Speaker 7: Boring answers, you know, the branded answers like I go

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Speaker 4: I love that, I think, But why would that matter?

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Speaker 2: I said, You've already gone out with him, you know

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Speaker 3: So, and it also explains why he was having such

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Speaker 4: He is a terrible profile.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't watch anyone that does serious answers. You

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Speaker 2: Oh ohy okay, Well Caleb was supposed to wait, but

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Speaker 2: I guess I need to tell you, Rebecca that that's

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Speaker 1: He's been listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 4: What a not boring thing to do?

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Speaker 1: He's assertive.

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Speaker 8: Wow, you know sorry, I'm so, I don't understand.

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Speaker 5: How are you worried about my profile when we went

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Speaker 8: What's going on here, your boring profile. It just stuck

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Speaker 4: Oh no, oh, what was the most boring part of it?

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Speaker 1: We probably shouldn't recap it. I don't know. I think

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Speaker 8: So branded. It was like the same thing, like that

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's like the generic thing that

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, I'm still here. Everyone's talking about my crappy profile.

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Speaker 3: I I don't think you should take offense to it,

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Speaker 4: Profile makes him look like.

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Speaker 3: A total loser, but in real life he's awesome, And

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've heard of people like not wanting

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Speaker 1: But not after.

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Speaker 2: You should know him by this point, Rebecca, Like you've

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Were you bored when you hung out?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's funny.

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Speaker 6: That's funny.

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Speaker 8: You see the disconnect, right, you know, it's just the

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Speaker 2: It's burned in like the RB's menu on that TV screen.

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Speaker 1: Just can't get rid of it. You're perfect for each

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean we need to step back where I

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Speaker 5: Rebecca, this is so backwards for the way this kind

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Speaker 5: of thing always happened. We met in person, we were together,

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Speaker 5: see me. Come on, sweetie, come on, Rebecca.

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Speaker 2: Sweet Oh god, did you say sweety a lot inside

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Speaker 2: of your profile.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for my sweetie because of them.

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Speaker 2: All right, we're running out of time here, so at

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Speaker 2: this point I just have to offer Rebecca, we'll send

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Speaker 2: you out one more time with Caleb and we'll pay

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Speaker 4: God, I'm having such a hard time.

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Speaker 2: Just don't look at his profile before you answer. Just

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Speaker 8: I can't get over it. I just can't.

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Speaker 5: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: That is so funny?

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Speaker 5: The dating apps screw me. I didn't even meet you

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Speaker 5: on the dating app.

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Speaker 4: Think you need to go delete that profile.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to live at the dump from now.

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Speaker 1: But don't forget.

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Speaker 2: South Korea wants you six thousand dollars start a family

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Speaker 3: Time us in your pictures of Arby's in South Korea

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Speaker 3: because I want to see.

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Speaker 4: What they have on the venue.

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Speaker 5: You know, I know you guys are joking, but I

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Speaker 1: Rookie Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: How many people do you think heard this and went

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Speaker 2: right onto their dating profiles and started making alterations to.

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Speaker 1: Sound less boring? Caused it took it off. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how you make it sound sexier. I don't work out.

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Speaker 1: I'm a professional calorie and sineraider.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, that would be more attractive.

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Speaker 1: I already said it on my bio. It's I do say,

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Speaker 1: big foodie.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who would have thought to me, cute at

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Speaker 2: a city dump would not work out?

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Speaker 4: I actually did. I actually thought that this was going

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Speaker 4: to be a home run.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, dump, But now I want to go.

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Speaker 4: But the smell is overwhelmed.

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Speaker 3: Why Yeah, You're never going to know what that person

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Speaker 3: smells like until you get it out of That could.

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Speaker 2: Work to your benefit, though, Maybe do like a little

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Speaker 2: speed dating event at a city dump.

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Speaker 1: Alexis organized walk.

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Speaker 4: Just say the trunk of my car.

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Speaker 1: But I get it.

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Speaker 2: The dating world can feel like you're in a dump,

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Speaker 2: so if you want some help getting pulled out of it,

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Speaker 2: email the show. We'll call the person who's not calling

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Speaker 2: you back and go check out all of our second

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