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Speaker 1: one hit music station. Good morning, It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Um So, Jenna, you're born between nineteen sixty five and

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Speaker 1: nineteen eighty. That makes you Jen x so Rufio and

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Speaker 1: you have to? Okay, So I'm a hands on wife.

422
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 1: I love building stuff and everything, and my husband is

423
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 1: meant to that. But he's a major musician. He's really

424
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:11,879
Speaker 1: into that, so he has a massive vinyl collection. I

425
00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 1: buy um vinyls that I know he does not have,

426
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 1: but he is so big that he doesn't remember what

427
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 1: he has. So I'll buy a major tool and then

428
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 1: he knows, I know he's gonna see it, and then

429
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,679
Speaker 1: I'll sneak in and like a vinyl in there, so

430
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 1: he'll be like, oh, what'd you why'd you get that?

431
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well you got this vinyl record? He's like, no,

432
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 1: I did. And then you know, I'm trying to leave

433
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,880
Speaker 1: him there to see because you know he's just he's

434
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 1: gonna be stuck in A husband's always I twitch in

435
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:54,199
Speaker 1: his brains for you. Why not? I mean, why not?

436
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 1: My tools I dig, But I know he's not gonna

437
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: isn't worth it. He's like, Okay, there's no way, there's

438
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: no way that's going to happening away from an argument,

439
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: and that's it. I want. I bet you, Sheila, you

440
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: on a wet saw. Don't you? You have a wet saw? Right?

441
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 1: I have a wet saw. I have articulated saw. I'm

442
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 1: a lover to play. I just I just picked up

443
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 1: a micor saw. Oh. I mean we out here woodworking, Shela.

444
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 1: I'm getting a little tingling right now. I want you

445
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 1: to come over and build me a cabinet or something

446
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 1: like that. Come over and build me and my stuff. Yeah,

447
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 1: I gotta build the self. I gotta build a that's

448
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 1: my self care. But my husband's like really into music,

449
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 1: so I gotta seven it out, Sheila him. If you

450
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 1: come over, if you come over and hang out with me.

451
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 1: If I just get him some records, you'll forget about

452
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 1: under one. They got to be good ones. Now you're

453
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 1: worth it. Thank you, Shela. I have a great day. Absolutely,

454
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 1: were you with my wife? No? I was record shopping

455
00:22:55,240 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: for you. See look and then handing his own crap back. Erica, Hi, Hi,

456
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 1: So what do you do? How do you? How are

457
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 1: you concealing purchases from your your spouse or whatever. I

458
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,199
Speaker 1: don't do it. My sister does, and she tells me

459
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 1: about it, and she uh, close up and gets Crow

460
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 1: tries at jewel or Walmart wherever, and she does the

461
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 1: cash bag at the register. Oh so again it shows

462
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: up on the receipt like whatever. So do people really

463
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: go like line my line or do they just assume

464
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 1: that you'll see the credit card charge on that set? No,

465
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: just when she goes and gets Crow tries for the

466
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: house right right, so he'll see the charge, the one

467
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: total on the credit card on the bank. But he don't.

468
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: He's not looking like line my line. I'm okay, all right, Erica,

469
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 1: that's one. Thank you, have a good day. Cash bag

470
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: a gift card? Look at all this stuff? I don't

471
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,640
Speaker 1: know I don't know if we just helped a bunch

472
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 1: of people or what do we do one A three

473
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 1: to five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station.

474
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Speaker 1: Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Kyl. This is for you.

475
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: A word is trending today. It's called earthing. You're familiar

476
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: with earthing? Is it like grounding? Yep, the practice of

477
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 1: placing your bare feet on the ground for health purposes.

478
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: It's so what the earth has like? Ions? Oh my god,

479
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna tell us, tell us everything, you go, but

480
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 1: it's yeah, it's really oh no, no no, no, no, I

481
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: want you to tell us everything. The earth is charged

482
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 1: and so when you put your bare feet on it

483
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 1: and walk upon the earth, it's really good for you.

484
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: Now tell me what I want to call it grounding.

485
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: It balances you, it calms you. Everyone should be putting

486
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: their bare feet on this beautiful her. So what happens,

487
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: like you get the electricity from the ground. Yeah, I

488
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: think it's negative ions that the earth is charged with.

489
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: Let me look once. I'm yeah, Paulina and I hug

490
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: a tree. I almost want to melt on that day

491
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 1: about something. And then I was like, yeah, bare feet

492
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: on the ground Lecalin said, and then I was like,

493
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: hug this tree. The neighbors probably wanted to call the

494
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 1: cops on. I was looking for a Lulu song to

495
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 1: play as you were doing this, but I wanted to

496
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 1: play like building a mystery. But we don't have it.

497
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: We don't Twilight done. So. The Earth is negative charge,

498
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: emitting negative ions and electrons. These negatively charged ions and

499
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 1: electrons help detoxify our bodies from free radicals, heavy metals,

500
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 1: air pollution, and more. Amazing. Wow, the earthing treatment is unparalleled. Yeah,

501
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: tell us more so. Yeah. Experts say that being barefoot

502
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: can help your body absorb Earth's electrons and offer health benefits.

503
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: People who practice earthing every day say they have found

504
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: physical and mental health benefits. In a study published in

505
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: twenty twelve, researchers found that emerging evidence shows a contact

506
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 1: with the earth being outside barefoot or indoors connected grounded

507
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 1: conductive systems. Maybe a simple, natural and yet profoundly effective

508
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: environmental strategy against chronic stress, an STI function, inflammation, pain,

509
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: poor sleep disturb HRV whatever that is, and many common

510
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: health disorders, including cardiovascular disease. I don't know why this

511
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: was the song was a paddy. It's hard when you

512
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: live in a city though, you know, I can't just

513
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: walk around bare feet. You might get some like urin

514
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: on your feet or something. Yeah, you might get monkey

515
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: pucks that. Yeah, you can't just earth yourself to like

516
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 1: because there's dogs. It's like you're in concrete or you

517
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: gotta be like grass should be on like the actual earth.

518
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 1: Concrete that's like man made and put on top. But

519
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 1: it's awesome. You guys should try it. That's another thing

520
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:30,120
Speaker 1: I think about is that if I had a dog

521
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: in the city, Like I wear shoes around right in

522
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: the city, and then I come in my house and

523
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: take my shoes off. And I don't walk around my

524
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: house with my shoes off because God knows what's on

525
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: the bottom of them. Because you see people spit on

526
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: the ground. There's you know, stuff from automobiles, dogs, animals pee.

527
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 1: I like whatever it is. So I said, that stuff

528
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: is not walking around my house. Whence he get to

529
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: the smooth Yeah, it really does. I need to get

530
00:26:54,680 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: to the hook faster. Shout it. Oh my god, anybody, Okay,

531
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: thank you, come on, Jesus coming to grounds later on.

532
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: You get so many ions. Oh yeah, you'd be charged

533
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd be charged up for days. I

534
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: could power that guy's broadband internet neighborhood. You could. I

535
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: just put my foot on it. That's all I gotta do.

536
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: I'm so ioned up. You have no idea, girl, No,

537
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: but so my thing is so then you got a dog, right,

538
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: and your dog four little pause walking around on that

539
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: street all day, and then you bring the dog into

540
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: the house. I do know people to clean their dogs

541
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 1: feet with like little little uh wipes or something every

542
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: single time, but that would be a lot. And again

543
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: in my house, the dog is, you know, is on

544
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: the couch and the bad whatever. There's no place that

545
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: my dogs can't go if I you know, so I

546
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: would be constantly. I think you just have to let

547
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 1: that one go. Yeah, we keep a towel by the door,

548
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,959
Speaker 1: so we wiped their little piggies as what we say,

549
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: it's turn to the door. They'll like lift their little

550
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 1: pause up, they know, but only if it's like wet

551
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: or whatever outside, not like normal times. But I guess

552
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 1: like the grass in the backyard, I mean, maybe that's bad,

553
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: but like I think the city streets would be worse.

554
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: So I'd have to figure something out good for your

555
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: immune system. Yeah, I guess so Fred Show chicagom and

556
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: I heart radio station. It's the Fred Show. I made

557
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: this lemon pasta last night. I mean it was so

558
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: it was so delicious. I could have made it even

559
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: more lemony. I might make it again. Well, I think

560
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm developing a gluten problem, but still I'm still gonna

561
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: make it. It's delicious. I don't know what's going on

562
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: with me. Man, it feels like in the last maybe

563
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: like six months, I've aged. I just feel older all

564
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: of a sudden, like, and I think it's I think

565
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: I just have to work that much harder in my health, honestly,

566
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: and I've been doing better, but I used to get

567
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 1: away with a lot of crap. I think I know

568
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: it sucks, and sometimes you develop allergies and like you

569
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: can feel it in your joints some stuff if you're

570
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: eating things that you're allergic to or you have an

571
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: intolerance to. I almost brought you guys some of this lemon,

572
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: but the pasta wouldn't be that good, you know, the

573
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: next day, but the other made I made a nice

574
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: you guys eat pork. I made another pork loin different

575
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: kind this time. Grilled that thing. I grilled that thing up,

576
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: made sandwiches out of it. Oh my god, fantastic, fantastic,

577
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: something fantastic. No lemon pasta so simple manly, had olive oil,

578
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: some garlic, not some lemon zest in there, some lemon juice.

579
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: Stop sort of get that stew in over there, get that,

580
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: you know, sautang. Make some spaghetti. Put that spaghetti in there.

581
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: Kind of nudes spaghetti, oh like Cappellini, like angel hair

582
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: or spaghetti, regular spaghetti. So okay, it's called spaghetti. Well

583
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: there's thin noodles that are spaghetti. That's but a traditional

584
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: it was called. It's called spaghetti, says, I'm not gonna

585
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: argue with it. Just spaghetti, I know, seriously, is there

586
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: an picture the food? I just spaghetti is a pasta

587
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: of itself. And that's what it was. So I put it,

588
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: I mixed it all up. What do you I mean?

589
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: It is what I get really turned, that's what it was.

590
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So anyway, so I mixed it up

591
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: and I put it in there, and it was and

592
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: I put more lemon juice on it, and it was

593
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:27,239
Speaker 1: so good. That's great, sounds delicious. It was I just

594
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: I don't ask too many questions. I just really loved food. No,

595
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: but the way I described it as it just wasn't

596
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: a mountain to it, said brittle or whatever. I like

597
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: to know all the details. If it were angel here,

598
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: I would have said angel here if it were if

599
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 1: it were that, kind of has it what's it? Kind

600
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: of has the hole in the middle of it? If

601
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: it were that, I would have said that. No, it

602
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,719
Speaker 1: says a spaghetti. Who coatini is what it's called. It's

603
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: a spaghetti that has a hole down the middle of it.

604
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: I like, you know your noodles. This was spaghetti, just spaghetti. Yeah. Picture, No,

605
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: I didn't take a picture. I take a picture of

606
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: the sandwich though. Why were you left waiting by the phone? Hey, Dave, welcome,

607
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. How are you very well? Tell

608
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: us about this date with Andrea. I want to know

609
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: how you guys met, About any dates that you guys

610
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: have been on, and where thinks stand now? Yeah? Yeah,

611
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: so we've met. I met Andrea on Plenty of Fish.

612
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: We went out for a drink day. It went really well.

613
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: She's so hot. It really enjoyed my time with her.

614
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: She's beautiful, She was smart, she's interesting, you know, the

615
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: great conversation. The date went on for a few hours. Um,

616
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: she seemed really into it. We had several drinks, like,

617
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: it went really well. Uh, and we actually kissed at

618
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: the end of the day. Um. And then before she left,

619
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: we discussed seeing each other again. But unfortunately I haven't

620
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: heard from her. I haven't gotten any messages or calls

621
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: or responses to my chech so I'm not really sure

622
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: where things went wrong. I got great vibes from the

623
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: from the date, and I thought it went really well,

624
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: but I haven't heard from her. Yeah. I mean that's

625
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: tough because that all sounds good to me. I mean,

626
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: you know, you meet somebody on an app or a

627
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: website or whatever. You know, you go out on a

628
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: date and it might last two drinks tops. I mean,

629
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Speaker 1: that's if it doesn't go well one drink maybe, you know,

630
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: but this was a couple of drinks, long day, you

631
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: kiss at the end, you talked about seeing each other

632
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: again except nothing. Yeah right, yeah, and it seemed like

633
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: she was so interested in seeing me again. So yeah,

634
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Okay, I don't really know what happened.

635
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: All right, Well, that's where we come in, Dave. We're

636
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: gonna call Andrea and we'll see if we can get

637
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: her on the phone for you, and we'll ask these questions.

638
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: And I don't want you to say anything right at first,

639
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: but at some point you're welcome to jumping on the

640
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: call and hopefully we can straighten this out and set

641
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: you guys up on another date and pay for that.

642
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: All right, great, I'm gonna play one song and we'll

643
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: come back and do it. Hang on, Hi, thar right here,

644
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: Let's find out what's going on. Part two of Waiting

645
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: by the Phone. Three minutes away. The Fred Show is

646
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: on one h three five Kiss Out one three five

647
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. It's The

648
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: Fred Show, Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Hey, Dave, Hey,

649
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Andrea. You guys met on Plenty

650
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: of Fish. You went on a date, you felt like

651
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: it was really successful. You talked about going out again.

652
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: Except now you've reached out. She's not responding. She's ghosting you.

653
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: You want to know why? Right? Right? Yeah, all right,

654
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: let's call her now. Good luck, Dave. Well, Hi is

655
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: this Andrea? Yeah, Andrea, good morning, Thanks for answering Fred

656
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: from the Fred Show. I have to tell you the

657
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: whole curus here from one h three five Kiss FM

658
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: in Chicago, and we are on the radio right now,

659
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: and I would need your consent to continue with the calls.

660
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: It okay if we chat for a couple of minutes.

661
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: Oh sure, well, thank you very much. We're calling on

662
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Dave who you met on

663
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: Plenty of Fish. Do you remember you went on a

664
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,240
Speaker 1: date with him? Remember this guy? Yeah? I do? Okay,

665
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: So what's going on with that? Because he reached out

666
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 1: to us and told us about what he thought was

667
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: a successful date that you guys went on, and he

668
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 1: says he's been reaching out to see you again and

669
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: you're not responding. So what do you you know? He's

670
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: trying to get us to help try to put this

671
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 1: thing back together. What's going on? Listen? Really nice, It's

672
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: just that he's not really the kind of guy that

673
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: I can be serious with. What does that mean? Because again,

674
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: you say he was nice, he says the day the

675
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: date went well, there was some chemistry. I mean, what

676
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,879
Speaker 1: do you mean you can't be serious with him on

677
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: our date? I mean he told me he wanted to

678
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: quit his job to pursue his true calling. I thought

679
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: that was incredible, But then I found out what his

680
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: true calling was, and it wasn't becoming a school teacher

681
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: or joining the Peace Corps. He wanted to become a

682
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: professional tag athlete. Even yeah, like playing tag like the

683
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: kids game on the Yeah, those dudes are athletic. Man,

684
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: there is a thing. So did he tell you more

685
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 1: about it? Because it's an actual things I've seen it before.

686
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 1: Yet what did he tell you about? Yeah? Um, he

687
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: told me that it was called like World Chase Tag

688
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 1: and he wanted to drop everything for it and join

689
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: a team to playing professionally. And I thought he was kidding,

690
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: went home and I called it. I found out he

691
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: wasn't kidding. But I can't just go home and tell

692
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: my friends and family that I'm dating the leblond attack.

693
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: It didn't turn you on, Like he's gotten pretty athletic.

694
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: That's like park extreme, you're on. I mean that's really stretching,

695
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: professional athlete. I mean, that's really stretching. I'm not saying

696
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 1: that I could do it as well as they can,

697
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: but I'm mean, so, so, okay, does he have any

698
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: history doing this? I mean, has he made any money

699
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: doing it? Is he already well on his way? Does

700
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: he have sponsorships? I mean the guy wants to quit

701
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: his job to pursue this. I'm sure he must have

702
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: some kind of some kind of plan. No, just could

703
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: quit his job and doing the team. Hey, hey, Andrea

704
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 1: da By the way, Andrea, this is Dave Davis. It

705
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: like an Erican gladiators. You get like like a nickname

706
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: or somewhere do you go by Dah. I can't believe

707
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: that this is what you would not answer me about.

708
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: I mean I told you walk in world Chase Tag. Yeah.

709
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know what is not attractive about

710
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:45,720
Speaker 1: professional Chase Jack saying? Do you just hear that sentend?

711
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: This amount of athleticism, like it really takes a lot

712
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: of focus, and I you know that I'm like in

713
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: my absolute prime condition performing at my highest level with

714
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: Chase Tag. I mean, I don't really know what there

715
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: isn't to love about that. Okay, all right, let me

716
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: get this straight. Days, So you're in excellent shape. You're quitting,

717
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: you know, your your regular paying job to pursue this dream,

718
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: which I love. I love a guy that aspirations. You know,

719
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: you gotta love that world chase tag is the direction

720
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 1: you're going in. Um. And if you haven't seen this,

721
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: I actually have. It's on one million. Yeah and um

722
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 1: they have like there's like balanced beams and obstacles and

723
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: they put them in this like ring or this like

724
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 1: square box and they have to they have to avoid

725
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: each other for a certain period of time. Now, what's

726
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: your plan to make money? Can you make a lot

727
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,439
Speaker 1: of money doing this? Yeah? You know when I book

728
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: when I get booked for like tournaments and stuff. I

729
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: mean I could really be making a lot of money.

730
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: So again, like with the athleticism, the shape I'm in

731
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: and the amount of money that I could bring in

732
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: some money. Believe that I could get like, you know,

733
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,479
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars per events? How many events you gonna

734
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: do once you make it big? Like you I could

735
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: be you know, on multiple events today. So like that,

736
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: I just think that uh not, you know, well very

737
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: like go out with you. Yeah, I mean, look, this

738
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: is interesting. I've I've this is Ah, We've heard a

739
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: lot of different aspirations over the years on waiting by

740
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: the phone pro wrestling. Um, well, we've heard people lie

741
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: about being pro athletes before. Um, I've never heard this.

742
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. I'm saying that, like, this could be

743
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,879
Speaker 1: the next you know, this is the next big thing,

744
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: like the Yes, professional tag is the thing, could be

745
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: more money coming. Yes, So we don't even know how

746
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: professional tag is. It could be an Olympic sport one day,

747
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 1: just like breakdance, the Olympics. Olympic tag would be Epics. Andrea,

748
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 1: so you you're not here for a guy whose aspiration

749
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: seems a little uncertain, A lot of a lot of

750
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: a lot of an unanswered question since here. I mean, yeah, listen,

751
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: that's that's a thousand dollars if you're incredible, top of

752
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: the game, one of the people who are you know,

753
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: best in the league, even if plenty you know, you

754
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: don't even know. I am incredible. That's what I'm trying

755
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: to tell you. So you went home. So that's what

756
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: the ghosting was about. You went home and looked this

757
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: up and and sort of figured out what it was,

758
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: and you're like, no, I'm not I'm not here for

759
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: this journey with you. Yeah, I mean I had to

760
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 1: do my due diligence and I went home and I

761
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: researched it, and that people who are incredible make about

762
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars a month. You can't support a family

763
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: on that. You can't even support one person on that nowadays,

764
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: and you're getting paid to play a kids game. It's

765
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 1: not something I can take seriously. And basketball is a

766
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: kid's game. Football's a kids ga. But those are established

767
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: leagues and they make a lot of money. They had

768
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: to start somewhere. You know what I'm saying. What with

769
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: this man, This man has a dream man, he is

770
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 1: living it out. Okay, say that. It doesn't mean it

771
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: has to be her dream though, Like, doesn't mean that

772
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: she has to basically because you're gonna have to support

773
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: this guy a thousand bucks a month. Yeah, I don't

774
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: put your day job to support your dreams. Yeah, that's good.

775
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: I mean, like, that's a great point, Pauline. It would

776
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 1: be one thing if Dave were like, I'm gonna have

777
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: to work a lot these days because I have my job.

778
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: I gotta go to the gym to train for World

779
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: Chase Tag. Yes, and then I gotta go do World

780
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: Chase Tag all over the world, you know, because it's

781
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: World have to Chase Tag. Oh yeah, and sorry, I

782
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: may not be able to see you a lot, but

783
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: at least I can take care of myself. I mean,

784
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: that's one thing, but that's not what you're saying. You're

785
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: saying I'm putting it all on the line for World

786
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 1: Chase tag. Yes, absolutely, I'm thinking of the prowl and

787
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: together like that once I make it big, and I'm

788
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: gonna see these tournaments the world. Right, don't worry with me, Dave.

789
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: Don't worry about this one. Man. The girls will be

790
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,919
Speaker 1: chasing you soon enough. Man, you know they'll reverse there.

791
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: They will be there. I'm trying to see what. You

792
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 1: don't have to be running from these women no more.

793
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: They'll come to you, bro, Don't worry you got Yeah,

794
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 1: I think Jess would leave you in two seconds. But anyway, Um,

795
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: all right, look, so no second date then, Andrea, just

796
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: to be clear, no second no second date? All right? Well, look, Dave,

797
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: I do wish you well. I mean, I really do

798
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 1: appreciate a guy with dreams. I don't know how sustainable

799
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,919
Speaker 1: this is, but I wish you well, and I hope

800
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: that we'll see you someday on NBC or yeah, yeah

801
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: you will, and you will all be sorry. Hey, not me,

802
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: not me, remember me, Dave, remember Rufi. Yeah, Rufia will

803
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 1: be first in line for the chase tag line. If yes,

804
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: all right, thank you guys, best affected both of you.

805
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 1: Thank you. Three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit

806
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Um In

807
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: other sort of household news, and a new poll finds

808
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: that many Americans aren't only using their ring cameras quote

809
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: unquote surveillance cameras to keep the house safe, they're using

810
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: it to spy on their neighbors. Is that a thing?

811
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 1: I mean, you're the only one roof heel. I guess

812
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: you probably have like a town home, but I mean

813
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: cameras roof I mean, are you using it to do

814
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: like pointed towards your neighbor's house so you can see

815
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: what they're doing. Well, it's already pointed that way. But

816
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: when there's ruckists outside, because like the cops have been

817
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 1: called to my neighbors, not by us, but like within

818
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: their own home they got some stuff going on. I

819
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: guess we will like wake up in the middle of

820
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: the night and the first thing I do is run

821
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: of the cameras because I'm like, I want to see

822
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: what's going on. And then I'll see, like the cops

823
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: of the door they're getting to escort it out or

824
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 1: maybe like I don't know, the couples are fighting. There's

825
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 1: a couple that lives there. I don't know, but they

826
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,399
Speaker 1: fight like that they do. It's bad, like yeah, yeah.

827
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: My mom even said she's like, I don't know if

828
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: I could do it, and my mom could tolerate a lot,

829
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: but they're just they're a lot, and they're there's sweet

830
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,879
Speaker 1: people during the day, but I think that drinking gets

831
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 1: them at night and then they start fighting. It's awful,

832
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: it really is. And then they got grandma. There is

833
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: the whole thing. But um, no, the cameras point that way.

834
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: But ye oh yeah, I'll look at the cameras and

835
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: see like what went down, Like my cameras are pointed

836
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: at my property. Yes, but there's that one neighbor that

837
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 1: likes to take his dog for right on my lawn.

838
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: So that's like, you know, I spy on that guy

839
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: every time to see you know why my lawn it's

840
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: got a big yellow spot over there. But um, what

841
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: are you gonna do about it? Though? You're gonna see

842
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: this guy, No, go out there and be like what

843
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: are you doing? No, No, it's just it's just the

844
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: safety thing. I mean, it's like I said, it's all

845
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: pointed in my property. But Jess uses the cameras to

846
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: spy on me, like when she eats at work, like yesterday,

847
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: she's texting me and I'm just sitting on the couch

848
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 1: like Ashton's playing around, and she's just like she's like, yo,

849
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: why are you on your phone on the couch? And

850
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: that texts me back. I was like, that's funny. I

851
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing like looking at it,

852
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: like leave me alone, I'm looking at you. That takes

853
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: me back. I was like, yeah, because I'm on my phone.

854
00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: I'm on TikTok right now. Heave a camera in the house.

855
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: We got one for Prime Day. We put one inside

856
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: because Ashley likes to go downstairs by himself now and

857
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: when Jesse's upstairs or war upstairs, we could, you know,

858
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: turn on the camera like on the Elexa and be

859
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: like see what he's doing. Okay. It was funny too,

860
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 1: because like we put it there, he didn't know. And

861
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: then the first time he's playing downstairs and Jess's like,

862
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: what are you doing? He's just like like he's looking around,

863
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: like have you guys, though, ever recorded yourself by mistake

864
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: getting busy Because a lot of people, I know, they

865
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: have those indoor cameras they don't remember and then they

866
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 1: bang it out and it's a camera. Yeah, No, it's

867
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: just in our in our basement. We haven't done it

868
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: down there. No. But like I always forget, Like I'll

869
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: be downstairs and be like, oh, yeah, there's a camera

870
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: over Like no, I could say that you could see

871
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: the door to the bathroom. I'll be like, if no

872
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: one else's home, I'll just go in there. But like

873
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 1: in the bathroom, I'm like, oh, yeah, there's a camera

874
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: right there. I got an I hadn't thought about that.

875
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: I hadn't thought about spying on your significant other they're

876
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: doing yeah, now like are they yeah? Like are they well,

877
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if they're not doing stuff

878
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: that you asked them to do, right, why they're so

879
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: busy you know? Or what time do they know? I

880
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: didn't even think about that, you know how that could

881
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: be used against you. And it's also like like well,

882
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 1: we'll Jess will ask me later, like she'll get home

883
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: be like, oh, what did you guys do today and

884
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I went outside He's like, did you

885
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: watch as in the whole time? I was like yeah,

886
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: And she'll look at the cameras like, why are even

887
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: sitting over here? Ash's over there, like damn no. Um. Well,

888
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: they asked a thousand people who have home security cameras

889
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: wanting for admit they use the cameras to peek at

890
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 1: what their neighbors are up to. One in seven confess

891
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: getting an X rated show after catching a neighbor walking

892
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: around naked. So here's a question. So you were saying

893
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 1: that you use the camera and you can see which

894
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: neighbors let their dogs be in your yard. Yeah, so

895
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: you don't have a fence around your yard. We do,

896
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 1: but not the front yard. The front yard. So if

897
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm walking my dog, I don't know, I don't know

898
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: the etiquette about this because I don't live in like

899
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: a like a you know, community like this. But if

900
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm walking down the sidewalk in a neighborhood, it's just houses, houses,

901
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: houses everywhere, lying, you know, like a normal suburb. Right,

902
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: and my dog has to pee. It can't be in

903
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: your yard, pee in your yard? No, it could be

904
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: like it's just no, like this, This one particular guy

905
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: like I said, he likes to like pump fake like

906
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: he he like pretends to pick up dog pool but

907
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 1: does it like he's got a bag. Yeah, that's that's

908
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: this is the guy like he he'll the dog always

909
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: goes to the same tree, and I know it's his dog.

910
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: And then I come out and it's like the poop there.

911
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: Then I check the camera and then the guy's like

912
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 1: reaching down like like he's picking up poop with a bag,

913
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: but it doesn't pick it up. I'm like why he

914
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: had he's got the bag and everything's like why are

915
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: you then why wouldn't you pick it up? I just

916
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 1: see I could see if you didn't have a bag. Right,

917
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: It's like I don't know, like either I'll come back

918
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: and do it or God forbid, I'll forget. There's a

919
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: scene in the show Billions. I don't think you guys

920
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: have watched Billions. Um where what was his name? Paul Giamani?

921
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: He Um? He plays like a He's like the I

922
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: don't know, the attorney General for the Southern district Or

923
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: in New York and he's he's walking down the sidewalk

924
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: with his dog in New York. The other guy's walking

925
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: down the sidewalk and the dog poops and the guy

926
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: just keeps walking and Jiamatti is like, hey, pick that up.

927
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: The guys I don't have a bag. He's like, well,

928
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: then pick it up. And it's his scene where he

929
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: makes the guy actually take his hand and pick up

930
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: the dog poop and throw it away, because you know,

931
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: you can't just leave it there. It's disgusting. But wow, yeah,

932
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. My parents have one of those, um

933
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: whatever it is. It's spits the treats. At first it's

934
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: in the living room and I can log into it

935
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: and spit tree. I'm like, I'm not doing that because

936
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: it's it's it shines on their like couch, and I'm like,

937
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't with my luck to somebody's

938
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 1: birthday or something, and I don't. I just don't need it.

939
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: I don't need it, and so I'll feed the treats

940
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: to them myself. Hey Greg, how you doing, man? Yes, sir,

941
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: Hey Greg doing good? How are you doing, dude? Good morning.

942
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: How did the cameras in the house or or how

943
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: did cameras get you? Well, I had a camera, I

944
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: had a camera in my car. I have a camera

945
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: in my car, so if I'm get into an accident,

946
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:16,320
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's for purposes insurance, purposestem, it's me

947
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: and they can't say that they hit me, I hit

948
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: them or whatever. So what happens is is my camera's

949
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: working regardless all the time, working even if I'm not

950
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 1: in the car, like I'm at my apartment whatever, and

951
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: somebody bumps my car something like that. So I'll get

952
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: a notification on my phone like a text bunch or

953
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: come through it's and that it's a it's a whole thing, right.

954
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: And then one time I got kind of was a girl,

955
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 1: and then we got busy in the car whatever. We're

956
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: enjoying ourselves, and I completely forgot about the camera because

957
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: they didn'tn't think about it because it becomes like natural

958
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: for our life, you know. So I didn't really think

959
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: about the camera. So I got a notification and somebody

960
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,479
Speaker 1: bought my car something like that. I'm looking like, what's

961
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: going on here? They hit my car? Right, and then

962
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 1: my mom my mom meant the day, my mom goes

963
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: or spent the weekend with me. So work, I'm looking

964
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: trying to find out what's going on. Look on my laptop,

965
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to go through this footage and stuff like that.

966
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: And then I passed by. My mom goes, what was that?

967
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 1: And I'm like that was nothing, and like rewinding my

968
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 1: mom is like watching I just it was embarrassing to

969
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: my mother. To my Hey, my own business, mom. I'm

970
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: a grown ass man. I like that. Though. Someone bumped

971
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: your car. Oh yeah they did, Yeah, bumped your car.

972
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: Thank you, Greg. You have a great day. I love

973
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: I love you guys, and I love you waiting by

974
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: the phone. Man. It's awesome that I love. That's what

975
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: I look forward to. Its waiting by the phones. It's

976
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: funny to me. Thank you, Greg, appreciate you man. Have

977
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 1: a great dame. Have a great day. Yeah, Taylor's here.

978
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: Hi Taylor, good morning, Good morning, Hi guys. Hi Taylor.

979
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: So this is a friend of yours. They got caught

980
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: doing something with the camera. Yes, um, two months after

981
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: she married and her husband was out of town for

982
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: work and got a notification there was there was no

983
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: inside the house and she was supposed to be at

984
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: work and turned out kids and cheating on her husband,

985
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: and he saw them on the camera in your own home.

986
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:16,240
Speaker 1: She responsibly, exactly. Yeah, but sometimes like if the husband

987
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: sets all the cameras up. He doesn't give like the

988
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: wife access to the cameras. You know what I'm saying,

989
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: you gotta get You gotta give access to everyone. You know,

990
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: she might she might not have access to turn off

991
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: the cameras or move the cameras and stuff like that.

992
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,879
Speaker 1: So don't cheat or don't do it at home. I also, yes,

993
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: I highly recommend if you have these cameras, don't go

994
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: look at the footage, and you're not gonna feel good

995
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: about yourself. It doesn't look like you think it does, Taylor.

996
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe you do, but in my experience, I

997
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 1: don't look like I think I do. And so I

998
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,399
Speaker 1: like to just in my mind imagine that I look

999
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 1: like I'm glorious in that moment, just glorious, like a

1000
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 1: like a seasoned performer. But really exactly, that's not what

1001
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: it looks like. It certainly isn't have a good day.

1002
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling very funny that it's if I can

1003
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: give you one pro tip on it, it's don't do

1004
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,720
Speaker 1: that to yourself. You know, if you just this ignorance

1005
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: is bliss. Yes, of course you look like a pro,

1006
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: look like all those videos that you watch one h

1007
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one hit music station.

1008
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: Good Morning, It's the French show. It's funny you bring

1009
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 1: this up, Kalen, because I just saw this list on

1010
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: Reddit that was kind of a similar topic. But we

1011
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: may have to come back to this, but you were

1012
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: talking about an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm, yam that

1013
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: sort of identifies an unwritten rule that men and women

1014
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 1: may follow but not necessarily openly discussed, and the one

1015
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: that you were referencing. Oh yeah, So I was catching

1016
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: up on Curb RUFE. I totally forgot to finish the

1017
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: latest season, so I was catching up the other night

1018
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: and I was dying at the episode where Larry talks

1019
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 1: about how you men know subconsciously to stick their butts

1020
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 1: out when they hug so that their wieners don't touch

1021
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: each other. And I didn't know that was like an

1022
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 1: unwritten for guys, but it makes sense. And so some

1023
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: guy didn't follow the rule and his you know, member

1024
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: touched Larry's and he freaked out on him, and it

1025
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: was cracking me up. I didn't know. I don't know

1026
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: if I go out of my way to like arch

1027
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 1: to make sure, but I'm probably not hugging a man

1028
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: as closely as I'm hugging a woman. Maybe maybe, Yeah,

1029
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: But also, you know, I don't know. If you don't

1030
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: know a woman very well as a guy, you don't,

1031
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: you're not really tightly hugging you kind of follow. Yeah,

1032
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 1: I know. Whenever I hug people around here, they put

1033
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: their arms up. It's like you've got to follow the

1034
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: lead of the closeness of the hug. That as the woman.

1035
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: The woman gets to dictate the closeness of the hug. Yeah,

1036
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: because if a dude gets too huggy, then it could

1037
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: be a little it could be portrayed as not necessarily

1038
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: warm and a little creepy. Yeah, do you guys hug?

1039
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever seen yeah, guys hug. I

1040
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: had a shake up hug like yeah, but and the

1041
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: like I can't do that, and I don't get that

1042
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 1: whole thing right. I never get the handshakeing right, whether

1043
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: we're whether we're doing the clap and the hug and

1044
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: then if there's sometimes there's a handshake after there's a snap,

1045
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: and sometimes I don't. I also have to do like

1046
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: the up and down part. Yeah, like I might, I

1047
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: might do the handshake hug thing, but there's whatever steps

1048
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,320
Speaker 1: come next. That's where I give up. You need to

1049
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: play the curb music and have you try to do it.

1050
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, And there's no universal way because everyone does

1051
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: it a little differently. Yeah, is it like dancing, like

1052
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: somebody has to lead? Like in dancing, a man leads, right,

1053
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: the person leads. I feel like that. Yeah, men, like

1054
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: it's you stick your hand out, you're gonna do a handshake,

1055
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 1: you put your hand, you put your hand up, you're

1056
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: gonna do high five. You know what I'm saying. Oh yeah,

1057
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 1: my boyfriend had a side Like it's a game time decision,

1058
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: like which greeting or just a straight man. That's what

1059
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying to you. Is it like when I I'll

1060
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: do the handshake, hug or a handshake or a hug,

1061
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: but that then I'm done, Like I don't know what

1062
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: happens next. Some people you don't bring it in and

1063
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: the tap on the back people. Some people are are

1064
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 1: snapping afterwards. Some people do it another handshake afterwards. I

1065
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: don't I don't know which one it is. And sometimes

1066
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: when you straight men like do a handshake and agree

1067
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: on something, like you come to some sort of agreement.

1068
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: You guys hold each other's hand for a while. I'm like,

1069
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: look in each other's eyes for a couple of seconds.

1070
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 1: Romantic hayle. And that's another thing is some people like

1071
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: to really linger on the handshake. I give you a

1072
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: good solid that my dad always taught me good solid handshakes.

1073
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 1: Some people think it's too firm, but it's like you

1074
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: got to give somebody a good Nobody wants a wee

1075
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: handshake from anybody. And then I give you the handshake.

1076
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: I maybe give it like a pump, and then we're done.

1077
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: And then I kind of let my hand loose. But

1078
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 1: then you'll notice some men will hold your hand. Then

1079
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: you have to re engage. So you went numb, you

1080
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: went loose. You have to go straight man holding. Yeah,

1081
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, like why are you? I don't

1082
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: know when we're done with this. And then so now

1083
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: we're both locked in hands and I'm like when can

1084
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: I Now I don't know when to let loose because

1085
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: and then sometimes they'll like grab your shoulder or they'll

1086
00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,280
Speaker 1: grab like your elbow like this, you know it's grab

1087
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: your elbow. Yeah, like you that's like an old man thing.

1088
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 1: I don't care about that. It wouldn't. Some of these

1089
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,879
Speaker 1: little fancy handshakes, though, with the more like a dance

1090
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: routine like those are the ones that concerned me a

1091
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 1: little bit because I don't I don't know what. I

1092
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 1: don't keep up on all of those trends, you know

1093
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 1: what I mean. Well, I'm not one Canada or whatever

1094
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: the website that Jason poll that now, No, I just

1095
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: I just keep it simple. But I noticed that people

1096
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:30,240
Speaker 1: much cooler than me, you'll have much more elaborate routines.

1097
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,399
Speaker 1: I know, it just looks so cool. Should create one, Fred,

1098
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: me and you, we should create a handshake like we're

1099
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 1: on the team. You know that'll be cool. I mean

1100
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: we are on a team, like every team. Yeah, you

1101
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: know we're gonna make it bird noise. I can literally see.

1102
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm down for a show handshake that doesn't include any

1103
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: It's like that teacher that waits outside the hall before

1104
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 1: the students come in. You could be waiting by the

1105
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: door and each one of us has that story was

1106
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: very sweet. Teacher had a couple teachers did this nation wide.

1107
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,359
Speaker 1: They had different handshakes for each student and each day

1108
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: as they would come in, they would and I don't

1109
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 1: know how they remember all that because I can't remember

1110
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: whichever one's the Turndy one at the time, and that's

1111
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,479
Speaker 1: only one that I have to remember, and I still

1112
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: can't get it right. Anyway, we'll get back to this

1113
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: because that apparently, and I don't know. I don't think

1114
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: too much about it. Making sure my wiener doesn't touch

1115
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: another wing. I don't know that I even I don't.

1116
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I pushed his forward, like I feel

1117
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: like you guys just don't do any of that, you know,

1118
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: you kind of just lean forward. Yeah, you girls do

1119
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: it too, though. Girls stick their asses out when they

1120
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: hug sometimes, and they hug like from the top, like

1121
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: I see girls do like amy and they each other

1122
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: to you because no one's getting on top of you.

1123
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: But like girls like here, let me show you. Come here,

1124
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: I'll show you. And I guess we're making a video.

1125
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: Girls all we knew this. I often see girls hug

1126
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: like and U like there's nothing going on in the body.

1127
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: It's all shoulder hug. It's like it's like like I

1128
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: don't know, dainty or something. I gotta think about this one.

1129
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 1: I just like, if you're if you're comfortable well enough

1130
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: to hug someone then like it can be. I just

1131
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:10,760
Speaker 1: don't see honestly. Honestly, I don't see very many women

1132
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: going up and just and just horizontal horizontal embrace. You

1133
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 1: don't see that, you see it. I see it being

1134
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 1: kind of more of like a top up thing and

1135
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 1: the butt stick out a little bit, but it's gonna

1136
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: be on top. I kind of go in more like

1137
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 1: I when I hug like Frid or whatever, like, I

1138
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: feel like I'm more like under your pits. Like I

1139
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: don't do the whole on breaching. We can't get at

1140
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: I can't really. Yeah, I guess I guess what I'm

1141
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: saying is I don't see very many women hug like

1142
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: this and embrace. I see more like it's it is

1143
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: a little more distant from the bottom down and that

1144
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: because you're afraid of like your part touching. I think

1145
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: it's just a little daintier and a little a little

1146
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: less personal. Yeah, I do it because it's personal. Told

1147
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: I hug my mom like straight up, you know, but

1148
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 1: I don't huge you. You kind of um hold a

1149
00:57:58,120 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: little back when you hug, well, I don't want to

1150
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: wind up in HR. So I'm very I think it's

1151
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: natural though, to just kind of like do the little

1152
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: butt stick out like you know what I mean, Like

1153
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: when I hug you, Klin like I don't like lean

1154
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: my body into you, like we don't hold like I

1155
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 1: kind of do. I mean, but our movies are touching. Yeah,

1156
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 1: but that's it, just that, not the here. I don't

1157
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: think you're doing it for the reason that man might

1158
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: subconsciously do it. I don't think I do that, but

1159
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: I think you do it because it's like a full

1160
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: on embrace. It's more of like a it's that's very personal.

1161
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: You're really up in somebody. Yeah, right, it's a little

1162
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 1: more dainty. Yeah, it's a lot different for you for

1163
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 1: because you're such a tall guy. Yeah. Everyone, I feel

1164
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: like you get a lot of the side hug thing,

1165
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, you get a lot of sides right,

1166
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: Otherwise you're like you're buried in my chest basically under

1167
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 1: your arm, pa ie someone's binger. I usually put my

1168
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: head in like this. Yeah, I love hugging nuzzle. Yeah,

1169
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm a toucher. I'm a side hugger too. Yeah. Oh

1170
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't I do it all,

1171
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: but I I tap people and my mom says that

1172
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 1: means I'm uncomfortable with intimacy. She yells at me, but

1173
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 1: I really go like they're They're like, I'm here for you.

1174
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: But my Mom's like, don't you brook. She thinks it

1175
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: means I'm uncomfortable hugging and I'm trying to tell the

1176
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: person I love you. Oh wow, I know she really

1177
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: has her problem with my tapping. Well. And the reason

1178
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 1: that's interesting you bring this up is because I had

1179
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 1: just copied and pasted from Reddit this uh this list.

1180
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: A redditor posted, what are some unwritten rules that men have? Okay,

1181
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: so I'll go through some of these and then we

1182
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: can come back and do it later because we gotta go.

1183
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: But if a friend buys you a drink, you don't

1184
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 1: pay it back. You just buy the next round. These

1185
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: apparently are men's unwritten rules. That's a woman's rules. Rufio,

1186
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: who did buy me a drink one time? I remember

1187
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: exactly where I was. In fact, there's a plaque on

1188
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: the ground in theory it's off a Clark Street, isn't

1189
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: or Hubbard? Yeah, it's off a Hubbard. There's actually a

1190
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: plaque in the ground where he purchased a drink for

1191
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: me and handed it to me. Yeah, I was scared,

1192
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: and I was pretty convinced that it was either he

1193
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: stole it or it was like given to him, or

1194
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: there was something wrong with it. Oh, I paid for it,

1195
00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: because he's never paid for anything else. Fantastrick's Day. And

1196
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 1: then we went to some random person's house and we're

1197
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: standing in some random person's kitchen and I'm like, and

1198
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: it was like a forty dollars riberade. You mean to

1199
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 1: get home? I'm like, where the hell am I? Um,

1200
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: it's essential that we pee away the small bit of

1201
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 1: anything remaining in the bowl. Guys do that if there's

1202
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 1: anything like any residue. I'm trying to be like, not

1203
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: disgusting this morning, but if there's anything any residue in

1204
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: the in the toilet, because we could aim you know,

1205
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: oh somebody else's residue or even yours or whatever, but

1206
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: like you could you can try and use the aim

1207
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: to like like a hose. Yeah exactly, that is. That's

1208
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: a thing. Um, you don't hit another guy in the

1209
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 1: in the testicles, which with some guys. Remember when that

1210
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: people thought that was funny. That was a super homoerotic

1211
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: thing for a while, you go around and slap the

1212
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: bottom of your or the top of your hand, and

1213
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: it's like, why is this funny? Like not only does

1214
01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 1: it hurt, but why are you touching me? There? Uh?

1215
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 1: And these these are like my friends that we're doing that.

1216
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 1: That was a friend. Um, don't throw a friend under

1217
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: the bus to impress someone. That's kind of a universal rule. Um,

1218
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 1: don't use the urinal next to an occupied one. Yes.

1219
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: Is it the same with women if there's a stall. No,

1220
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,440
Speaker 1: some women don't follow that. I do, and I think

1221
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: it's really weird when someone would choose to come next

1222
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: to me in an open bathroom. Doesn't bother me? Yes,

1223
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,959
Speaker 1: you do it. Five urinals on the wall, there's only

1224
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: three available urinals. Yeah that's true. Yeah, that's true. There's

1225
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: three on the wall. There's only two of it. Unless

1226
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: it's like a very busy sporting event like I was

1227
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: at the Mavericks game and there's a line, yeah and

1228
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 1: everyone is filled, then you just have at that point.

1229
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: But if there's the option to have one in the middle,

1230
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 1: then you take the one in the middle, or you

1231
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: love the one. Stame. Don't roast a man in front

1232
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: of their kid. Well, that would be really scrue. Is

1233
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:50,919
Speaker 1: such a loser. That's my friends never come into the house.

1234
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: I would never until he's old enough to remember it.

1235
01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: You can have the last slice of pizza, you can

1236
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 1: have the last beer, but you can't have both. I've

1237
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: never really thought about that. Um, the unspoken man up

1238
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 1: and deal with it. Real men don't cry rules bus

1239
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: real man express emotions. I'm fine with that. Yes, these

1240
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 1: are supposedly unwritten man rules. Stand when you shake a

1241
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 1: man's hand or if a woman comes to the table, Yeah,

1242
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: I typically do, but if it's if someone's joining the group,

1243
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 1: I'll stand and I know them, I'll stand up to

1244
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 1: hug them or stand up to introduce myself. But like

1245
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: on a on a date, I don't get up every

1246
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: time the woman gets up. I think that's a little awkward.

1247
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 1: Oh initially though, do you like when she arrives? Yeah?

1248
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. But like technically every time you stand,

1249
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to stand, Like if you stand to go

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01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, I'm also supposed to. That's advocate, but

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01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: I think it's a little And then when you get back,

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01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to stand up again and do your chair.

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01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 1: I think that that's that can be a little time,

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01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 1: sam much. But I would like for you to stand

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01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 1: up if I'm seated. Yeah, if I'm seated and you

1256
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: and you ad I've I'm not just gonna not get

1257
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 1: my ass up and just stick my hand out. Sorry,

1258
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm eating bread right now. Um, come sit down. If

1259
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: he's flirting with her or him or they, then you

1260
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 1: don't interrupt. And when your friends crushes around, he's the

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01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: funniest Semigroup. Okay, maybe all right, we'll get back to these.

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01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm sure people that add some in a minute. On

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01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: Chicago Kiss FM and my Heart radio station, it's a

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01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 1: friend show. Think he is here come morning. You win

1265
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: the award for most energy. But that's that's two days in. Yeah,

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01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: talk to me. Talk to me in two months. It'll

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01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: be like, Yo, see your like Instagram story again. Here

1268
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: I'll early and like that'll change you think. So, I

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01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm gonna try. I'm gonna try as hard

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Speaker 1: as I can. That's all you can do. Yeah, try,

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01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 1: that's gonna say that that movie enthusiasm. You know, I

1272
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 1: remember the days you just to show up, you know

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01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: a way that was fifteen years ago. Oh man, Actually

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01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 1: I used to when I used to when I used

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01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: to when I used to start doing news. When I

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01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: started doing this, I would come to work and then

1277
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: fall asleep at my desk. Like it was a complete

1278
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: shock because I used before this, I would stay up

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01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 1: until like three in the morning. Yep. And then I

1280
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: started waking up at three in the morning. It was

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01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: it took a long time. And then there was an

1282
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 1: old timer in the hallway. He was like, the country

1283
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: music guy. You've been there for thirty years or something,

1284
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:31,919
Speaker 1: and he sees me all like, you know, wonky walking

1285
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 1: down the hallway. He's like, just so you know, this

1286
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 1: will never get easier, and it doesn't ever get easier.

1287
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: Yesterday I was nodding a little bit. Last night. I

1288
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: was like, what's going on? What's happening? But you know,

1289
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 1: whatever I gotta do, I'm gonna be up. Your body

1290
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 1: just doesn't want to do it. And that's what it's like.

1291
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 1: It's not about getting used to it. It's like it's

1292
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: it's unhealthy, like all aspects of your life will decline

1293
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 1: in the hell from a health standpoint. Oh okay, well

1294
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: that's fun, So that's exciting. You're already trying the contract,

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01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 1: all right, you already heard it for good. No, when

1296
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: when we were doing the thing during COVID and they

1297
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,919
Speaker 1: were like, can you guys started eight, you know, because

1298
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: nobody's awake in their car. I'm like, yeah, we get

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01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 1: started eight, right. I was like a new man, Like

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01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: it was unbelievable. I was a new man too, Yeah,

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01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: you were men. I found it. My therapist is like, wait,

1302
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: like ninety days, you're gonna feel like a different person.

1303
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: I felt like a different person. Get up at six

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01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 1: thirty instead of four. The whole man anyway, So welcome,

1305
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 1: though he's going to decline. That's going to be in

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01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: the trash. Yeah. Probably a small cocaine habit, but like

1307
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: a tiny one. It's not a big one. Why do

1308
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 1: you think the countertops are white? Oh that's just me.

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01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:47,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. One or three five? Kiss at M Chicago's

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Speaker 1: number one his music station. Good morning, it's the Fred Show.

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01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: What's up, Amanda? Good morning? Wow? Good morning Amanda? How

1312
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? How are you okay? So, Amanda,

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01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: it turns out we got thousands of Kissmas wishes Okay,

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01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: like literally thousands of submissions. Right, and Amanda and Maddie,

1315
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: her daughter, have been listening to our show Forever, Forever, forever,

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01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 1: And we didn't put it together until after we heard

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01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:17,200
Speaker 1: the story about Maddie's teacher. We didn't put it all

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01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 1: together because it was just such an amazing story that

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01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: it was you and it was Maddie. I mean if yeah,

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01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are amazing. In fact, we just

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01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 1: got your Christmas cards a minute ago that you sent us.

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01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 1: Tell me the story about Maddie and the stamp. Well,

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01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: tell us about Maddie first. So Maddie, Maddie is nine,

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01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: almost ten years old. She had dump syndromes, her fine

1325
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 1: motor skills just turned quite there yet to write her name.

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01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:46,919
Speaker 1: So her teachers last year, she has an amazing team.

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01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: But missasar Is her teacher, decided let's get her a

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01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 1: stamp so she can you know, she can own it.

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01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: She can still sign her name on her papers and

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01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 1: so put her names out there where she needs to

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01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 1: to give her little help and so amazing. We've met

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01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 1: her before, and but we just got the cards that

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01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 1: I was telling everybody about this, so thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: But it's it's it's miss Rogers, is Megan. This is

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01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:12,720
Speaker 1: the woman who were about to talk to right right, correct? Yeah,

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01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: and so tell me just quickly before we get Megan

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01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 1: on the phone, the role that these teachers have in

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01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:21,959
Speaker 1: your life, in Maddie's life as someone as you're raising

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01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,280
Speaker 1: a child with special needs. Um, oh, you're making a

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01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:31,080
Speaker 1: cry with that one. Maddie's team means the world just Um.

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01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 1: It's not always easy, but with her team behind her, um,

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01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 1: we've come so far. They are amazing. Um. Miss Rogers alone, UM, God,

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01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what us be without her. She's just

1344
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 1: so amazing and the role that she plays in Maddie's life,

1345
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 1: and she's brought Maddie so far, um, further than I

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01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: expected her to be at this point. And so we

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01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 1: are so thankful for Miss Rogers and her team, um,

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01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: and all they do to support us as parents and

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01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,320
Speaker 1: what they do for Maddie on the daily basis, because

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01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:10,520
Speaker 1: they go above and beyond what to do. Let me bring,

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01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: Let me bring Megan and hey Megan, good morning, Okay, Megan. Hi,

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01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 1: my name is Fred. I want to introduce myself and

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01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:21,520
Speaker 1: you're Megan. So it's great to meet you. Hi, good morning,

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01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 1: and the whole career is here today too. Now you

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01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:25,840
Speaker 1: don't know what we're doing here, right you have no

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01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 1: idea why we're talking. You're okay, um So, Megan. Amanda,

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01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:35,400
Speaker 1: Maddie's mom, wrote us a letter about you, and I

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01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 1: told us all about you and what an amazing teacher

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01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 1: you are and some of the things that you're going through. Amanda,

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01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:43,759
Speaker 1: would you mind reading the letter for all of us?

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01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: Here first shows here my Kissa Bush is for my

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01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 1: daughter's best education teacher, Megan Rogers at Milk Creek Elementary.

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01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 1: My daughters had her for the past year and a

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Speaker 1: half and in that time we've been able to see

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01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 1: just one of the meeting teacher, Missus Rogers is thank

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01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: you Trees. My daughter Mattie as one of her own,

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01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 1: celebrates her achievements to ride along with us and always

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01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 1: her biggest cheerleader and advocates. Mattie has Down syndrome and

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01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:11,799
Speaker 1: it was also diagnosed with a practie in kindergarten. Because

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01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:13,559
Speaker 1: of this, she has one to speech and then as

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01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:16,360
Speaker 1: a parent, it can be very hard. Since Megan became

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01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 1: her teacher, she's gone out of her way to learn

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01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 1: more science so she can't communicate with Maddie and for

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01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 1: that I will always be grateful. All this is especially

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01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: amazing because Miss Miss Megan is dealing with her own

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01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 1: issues at home. She originally had baby back at August

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01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 1: and since then he's been in the hospital twice with RSC,

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01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 1: which is where they are now, and at one point

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01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 1: he was even in the ico. With everything she has

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01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 1: going on, she still sends emails regarding my daughter, which

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01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: I would never have expected. She even me time to

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01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: be one of many special and ones to coaches and

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01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 1: say attends her students from the hospital. This is the

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01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 1: teacher in person she is. She her students as her

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01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: own and gives a thousand percent each day. I don't

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01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:57,760
Speaker 1: know where my daughter would be without her. With all

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01:09:57,760 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: of the hospital business and teacher Falary, I don't want

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01:09:59,960 --> 01:10:02,839
Speaker 1: to have to worry about buying Christmas prestas here. Being

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01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 1: able to do this help for this policy season will

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01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 1: be my way of telling her thank you for being

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01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 1: the best teacher I could have ever asked for my daughters.

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01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 1: She deserves more than I can ever give her. Megan

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01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:17,519
Speaker 1: truly is one namiliar Thank you for your consideration. Amanda, Wow,

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01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:21,679
Speaker 1: so u one an amazing story. And Megan, you're physically

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01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:24,719
Speaker 1: in the hospital right now. Yeah, I am currently sitting

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01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 1: in my friend's hospital room. Wow, with Beckett, So how

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01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 1: is he doing? Um, he's doing okay. We had a

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01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,599
Speaker 1: feeding to put in yesterday to help justice from nutrition

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01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 1: and Whatnotum, you know, but hopefully we're kind of making

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01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:40,800
Speaker 1: making some ground here. Wow. So you you got the

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01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: you know, this is challenge at home, and of course

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01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 1: we wish you the best, you know, with Beckett, and

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01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 1: I hope he gets better soon. And then you know,

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01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 1: you go to work every day and you're helping all

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01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,600
Speaker 1: of these children with special needs. I mean, tell me

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01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 1: about that, like, how how do you balance that? What

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01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 1: does that mean to you? Um? You know, it's been

1408
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 1: a lot. I have to be honest. I was only

1409
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:01,320
Speaker 1: back for about a week after maternity before you know,

1410
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:04,759
Speaker 1: his first hospital say, you know, but when I finally

1411
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 1: got back to them, it was back to being with

1412
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: my family and my second family at school. You know.

1413
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,839
Speaker 1: So even though I'm obviously physically here at the hospital,

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01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 1: it's so important for me to be a part of

1415
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,439
Speaker 1: their learning and make sure that, you know, they're still

1416
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 1: getting the best support that they can get. Well, I

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01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 1: can't be there with them, you know. Yesterday I got

1418
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 1: to base time with all of them, and it just

1419
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:26,640
Speaker 1: you know, I love the fact that I have the

1420
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 1: support from that second family at school while I'm going

1421
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 1: through all of this too. I don't know how you

1422
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:33,360
Speaker 1: find the energy for all of this. I mean, it's amazing.

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01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:35,840
Speaker 1: It's like it's like a superpower. You're a super I

1424
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: will tell you a human, but it's like the kids

1425
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 1: will give you that energy. They truly do well. Every

1426
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:43,600
Speaker 1: time we hear a story like this, it's like I

1427
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 1: feel like certain people were just born to do this job.

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01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 1: You know a lot of teachers, I feel like they

1429
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 1: were just set here to do it. And you sound

1430
01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: like one of those people, Meg, and like you were

1431
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 1: born for this. Yeah, I love it. It is, you know,

1432
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 1: the most amazing. I say, I would never change it.

1433
01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 1: So we do this thing called Chistmas Wish every year

1434
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 1: where people you'll send a story is just like this one,

1435
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: and we try and do a little bit to help

1436
01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: out during the holidaysca. I know it's a stressful time,

1437
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: and we teamed up with foot First this year and

1438
01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 1: they made this bigger and better than we've ever been

1439
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 1: able to do before. So we want to do a

1440
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 1: few things for you, Megan, because Amanda told us about you,

1441
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:18,719
Speaker 1: and we hope that this helps out with the holidays

1442
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:21,439
Speaker 1: for you. So we want to pay for all of

1443
01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: your Christmas presents, for Beckett and for everybody else. So

1444
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:27,800
Speaker 1: that's where we want to start. We want to give

1445
01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 1: you some money to help with the medical bills because

1446
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 1: I can only imagine that. You know, trips like the

1447
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 1: one you're enduring right now are not inexpensive. And you know,

1448
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 1: unfortunately teachers aren't paid the way that I think they

1449
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 1: should be, that we think they should be. So so

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01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: hopefully that that's helpful to you. We want to The

1451
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:47,840
Speaker 1: one thing that we that we heard from Amanda is

1452
01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 1: that included all of this has got to be something

1453
01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 1: for you. You know, we got to do something for

1454
01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,880
Speaker 1: you that's just for you, because it sounds like a

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Speaker 1: lot of what you do is for other people. So

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01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:58,600
Speaker 1: maybe like a I don't know, a spaw day or

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01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:00,880
Speaker 1: a staycation or something like that. Would that be an

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01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:06,000
Speaker 1: interest absolutely something like that. And then tell us about

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01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:09,599
Speaker 1: this this a therapeutic swing for your classroom. What's what's

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01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:12,879
Speaker 1: that all about? Um? So we have a lot of students,

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01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: you know, not only in my classroom but in the

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01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: program at our school, UM, who have some sensory needs.

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01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 1: And so you know, I've been working kind of over

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Speaker 1: the last couple of years, um to get a therapeutic

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01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 1: swing for our kiddos, so not only can they regulate

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01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:30,240
Speaker 1: those sensory needs, um you know, but some kiddos will

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01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,320
Speaker 1: work better if they're on that swing so that they

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01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:34,559
Speaker 1: can process their sensory needs while they're trying to get

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01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 1: their work done, um you know. But unfortunately they're they're

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01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 1: quite expensive, so it's bad. Yeah, I'm Megan, who knew

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01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:49,680
Speaker 1: or something I didn't know? Huh yeah, But we we

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01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 1: called doctors Clarin doctors Claren foot first and we asked

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01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 1: if we could buy you one. So we're gonna buy

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01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 1: you one of those two as well for your thank you.

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01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 1: Thank you. You'll make me and that's hard to do.

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01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 1: I've made a stone, okay, Megan, And you're you're h

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01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,800
Speaker 1: don't right. I feel a tingle that humans feel behind

1478
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: their eyes, but it's not it's not quite there yet,

1479
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: but notneth less. Megan. I mean, you sound like an

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01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:20,519
Speaker 1: amazing person, and I'm sorry for what you're going through

1481
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:22,000
Speaker 1: in the hospital right now with your son, but I

1482
01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 1: hope everything, um you know, gets better quickly and hopefully

1483
01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:26,640
Speaker 1: this makes the holiday is a little bit easier. And

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01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: and I just I love the fact that it was

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01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: it was about it was about the kids, it was

1486
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 1: about the swing. It wasn't about you the swing from

1487
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 1: it's just amazing people like you. I hope people hear

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01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 1: this and they're inspired because it is inspiring. You are

1489
01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 1: an amazing person, Amanda. And thank you for telling us

1490
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,080
Speaker 1: about Maddie and sharing Maddie with us as you have

1491
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: and our Christmas cards that we just got that I

1492
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: think miss Megan was behind that too. Come on, is

1493
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:59,640
Speaker 1: there anything you don't well, have an amazing holiday. Are

1494
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 1: best your family and to Beckett and and thank you

1495
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:03,640
Speaker 1: for sharing your story with us, just a little bit

1496
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 1: of it. And uh and I want to see this

1497
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:13,120
Speaker 1: two thousand dollars swing man. That's wild. Thank you so much.

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01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, this is amazing and so oh my gosh,

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01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,360
Speaker 1: I can't even I have no words. One or three

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01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:22,559
Speaker 1: five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. Good morning,

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01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. There's an Olklahoma mom who has

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01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 1: made her eighteen year old daughter signed a one hundred

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01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,639
Speaker 1: dollars per month lease in order to continue living at home.

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01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 1: And this is a big debate now on TikTok, the

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01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,840
Speaker 1: mom filled her daughter with the capsule when you're eighteen

1506
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 1: year old decides to stay at home, setting her up

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01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:44,839
Speaker 1: for success. So her TikTok sparked to firestorm or thousands

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01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,680
Speaker 1: of comments. Many of us is divided over whether the

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01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 1: mom was treating her daughter fairly. Um. After receiving all

1510
01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:53,599
Speaker 1: these hate comments, she had his mom took the TikTok

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01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 1: to post a response to video where she attempted to

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01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 1: explain why she made her daughter signed the least. The

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01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,560
Speaker 1: mom said, I was a single mom at sixteen. My

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01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 1: parents didn't set me up for success. I had to

1515
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 1: fight for every single thing I have. She went on

1516
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 1: to add that she doesn't want her children to depend

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01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:11,519
Speaker 1: on her for anything, and everything that she does prepares

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01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:15,320
Speaker 1: her children for the real world. Um. She says that

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01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: where they live, renters have to have proof of renter

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01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:19,639
Speaker 1: history when they're preparing to rent her by a home,

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01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 1: and that she made a legal lease agreement so her

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01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 1: daughter would have this rent her history. One hundred bucks

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01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 1: a month is the only bill that her daughter has

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01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:31,040
Speaker 1: to pay. She doesn't have a car payment, no insurance,

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01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:33,720
Speaker 1: no cell phone bill. I don't have an issue with

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01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 1: this at all, especially really, especially if she's saving the

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01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 1: money in an account somewhere that she intends to get

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01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 1: back to her daughter unbannounced to her. But even if

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01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 1: she doesn't, one hundred bucks a month to live there,

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01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,000
Speaker 1: you're eighteen years old. One hundred bucks a month, you

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01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:51,680
Speaker 1: don't pay for anything else eighteen, that's too low for

1532
01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:57,920
Speaker 1: my taste. I don't disagree with that. Yeah, she's a student.

1533
01:16:57,960 --> 01:16:59,439
Speaker 1: I don't really know the best. By the way, Martin

1534
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 1: never charged anything for rent, right, No, I paid it myself,

1535
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 1: and I paid her a lot more than a hundred dollars.

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01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: But I also had a car note, student loans like

1537
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 1: phone get there. Yeah, I always I don't believe in

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01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 1: living for free after the age of twenty one. I

1539
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: know she's only eighteen. Um, that was that you were saying?

1540
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:16,680
Speaker 1: Or did your mom said you have to pitch h

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01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 1: if you're gonna live here? My mom would never ask

1542
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 1: me for that. Wow? That on your own? Yeah? Right?

1543
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:22,320
Speaker 1: Oh No, I just feel like, I mean, I could

1544
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: either go run to an apartment or live here, and

1545
01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:26,400
Speaker 1: we were fine. And I actually didn't want to get

1546
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 1: a dorm or go away for college, so I stayed home,

1547
01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 1: and that was like kind of my personal choice at

1548
01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 1: the time my sister went away. I didn't um, but

1549
01:17:33,200 --> 01:17:35,839
Speaker 1: I said, once I'm done with this, I'm getting an apartment.

1550
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 1: So my last year of college at USC, I did

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01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 1: get an apartment in Bridgeport, you know what I mean.

1552
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 1: So that's when I started paying my own stuff. But

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01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 1: I've always had a car note. My mom made me

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01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:45,559
Speaker 1: go to jewel and get a job when I was sixteen,

1555
01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 1: so I always had income coming in. But I feel

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01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 1: like a hundred bucks and then she doesn't pay for

1557
01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: her car note, insurance, no cell phone bill, right, that's

1558
01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:56,600
Speaker 1: not one hundred dollars, like all three of those is

1559
01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:58,600
Speaker 1: a lot more. It's like triple. So that's why I

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01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:01,599
Speaker 1: have a problem with that price. Oh it'd be windy,

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01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 1: way more than that. Yeah, the car payment two three

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01:18:04,360 --> 01:18:09,040
Speaker 1: hundred bucks, insurance, insurance probably two three hundred bucks a

1563
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 1: month at least suffered bill one hundred bucks or eighty

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01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:14,439
Speaker 1: hundred bucks a month. I mean, you're talking and if

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01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 1: it's your mom paying all this, so probably a thousand

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01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:19,280
Speaker 1: bucks a month or mom's paying for her already, let's

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01:18:19,320 --> 01:18:23,680
Speaker 1: just say seven hundred bucks conservatively already, and then what

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01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:25,519
Speaker 1: I see the other day in one city the average

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01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: rent was like twenty three hundred bucks. And this wasn't

1570
01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: like a wild ass, this wasn't New York City. So

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01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:33,759
Speaker 1: I mean the hundred bucks a month, that's I agree

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01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 1: with you. I sort of wonder is that even really

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01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: enough to to in order to teach the lesson? Absolutely not,

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01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 1: because when she goes out on her own, whether it's

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01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 1: you know, when she's eighteen or twenty five, she's going

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01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:47,640
Speaker 1: to be in a shock, honey, to see how much

1577
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:49,880
Speaker 1: it costs to live, It costs to breathe right now.

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01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:51,599
Speaker 1: So you know, I know a bunch of people who

1579
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:53,840
Speaker 1: have lived with their parents to save money, to them

1580
01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 1: put a down payment on a house. Your parents set

1581
01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 1: them up. But I think that, like, for example, I

1582
01:18:58,000 --> 01:18:59,640
Speaker 1: think my parents would have done that for me. I

1583
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: fortunately didn't need that. But I also think that if

1584
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:04,840
Speaker 1: they had found out that I wasn't saving the money,

1585
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:07,320
Speaker 1: but I was living off of them rent free and

1586
01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 1: eating their food and whatever else, they would have been pissed.

1587
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 1: Because it's like the point of view, still being here

1588
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:14,920
Speaker 1: past a certain age, it should be able to save money, yeah,

1589
01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 1: so that you can go do something else. That to

1590
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: live for free so that you can go to you know,

1591
01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:22,160
Speaker 1: I don't know the club. The club all the time,

1592
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 1: I get to load the drinks of the sparklers on them.

1593
01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:27,360
Speaker 1: It's a bottle service. I've always been made fun of.

1594
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 1: I feel like for living at home. I'm not gonna

1595
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,559
Speaker 1: give names, but there's somebody very close to me at

1596
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 1: one point who would like really like drag me to

1597
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 1: hell for it, and I'm like, but like, my mom,

1598
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:39,560
Speaker 1: lets me live there, you know. And I'm not the

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01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 1: only one, Like, there's a lot of us too, And

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01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm thirty now by the time I was like, what

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01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:45,880
Speaker 1: twenty five, twenty six years old, Like I lived at home,

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01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:48,479
Speaker 1: but like so proudly because I feel like I was

1603
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 1: never ashamed of that, Like to me, like I think

1604
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:52,160
Speaker 1: I did the right thing. Like why am I going

1605
01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:54,960
Speaker 1: to go pay you know, Joe Schmo's mortgage on his

1606
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 1: building whatever, when I could just stay at my house

1607
01:19:57,400 --> 01:19:58,960
Speaker 1: where I do. I know I have it good there

1608
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,120
Speaker 1: and that that's a privilege. Truly think living at home

1609
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 1: for some people is a privilege. Now, we don't get

1610
01:20:03,040 --> 01:20:05,160
Speaker 1: me wrong, I know some family dynamics are different. You

1611
01:20:05,160 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 1: don't get along with your parents, it's unfortunate, your siblings whatever.

1612
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:10,720
Speaker 1: I understand that, and I'm not like putting those people

1613
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 1: down at all. If you have to get out of there,

1614
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:13,759
Speaker 1: you have to get out of there, and I understand.

1615
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:15,680
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is at that time, it's like

1616
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 1: I still say it actually today, Like if I wasn't

1617
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,800
Speaker 1: with my fiance, I would still be at MARTA's. Like

1618
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 1: she's got a backyard, so that's a beautiful blessing. She's

1619
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:26,519
Speaker 1: got a bathroom for me, two bedrooms, like you know

1620
01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I feel like if you can

1621
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 1: live at home and you can save that money, but again,

1622
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,600
Speaker 1: like you said, save that money, do something with it

1623
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:34,559
Speaker 1: and not be at the club with sparklers with miss

1624
01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:38,360
Speaker 1: nicky baby. Miss nicky baby, So she's expensive. She's expensive,

1625
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:40,559
Speaker 1: So if you're wasting your money on her, then that's

1626
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:43,320
Speaker 1: another issue. But what I'm trying to say is like

1627
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:45,000
Speaker 1: if you can save up, or you got a plan,

1628
01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 1: or you're trying to buy a house or whatever your

1629
01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:48,760
Speaker 1: goal is, Like you know what I'm saying, you're in

1630
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 1: school nine one h three five. Is this mom out

1631
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:54,439
Speaker 1: of pocket for charging her eighteen year old daughter a

1632
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 1: hundred bucks a month, you rufio, How can you say yes,

1633
01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:59,479
Speaker 1: a hundred bucks a month for an eighteen year old?

1634
01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 1: Say nowhere, they're here? That would be just the cell

1635
01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:04,920
Speaker 1: phone bill, But who knows what their cell phone? But

1636
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:07,240
Speaker 1: who knows the car? Maybe it's an old car that's

1637
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: already paid off, Like they paid five hundred dollars for

1638
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 1: a car. Doesn't say what kind of car they have.

1639
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:13,280
Speaker 1: But like charging an eighteen year old to live at home,

1640
01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:16,640
Speaker 1: that's that's ridiculous. And who knows what? We don't know

1641
01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:18,720
Speaker 1: where the money is going, if she's saving it, if

1642
01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:21,480
Speaker 1: she's if the who cares? She has to be accountable

1643
01:21:21,880 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: one hundred bucks. You gotta come up with a hundred bucks.

1644
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:25,880
Speaker 1: So if the kids got a job and staying out

1645
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 1: of trouble, you could stay at home all day. Like

1646
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 1: charging a chart that eighteen years old. Charging someone one

1647
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:35,200
Speaker 1: hundred dollars to stay at home, that's that's ridiculous. In

1648
01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 1: my opinion, one hundred bucks is and I'm with Pauline

1649
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 1: it certain sense. It's one hundred dollars is not nothing,

1650
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:43,000
Speaker 1: But one hundred dollars is a lot to one hundred

1651
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 1: dollars a lots funny. I'm it's a lot, but relative

1652
01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,760
Speaker 1: to what it costs to have a mortgage payment or

1653
01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:54,879
Speaker 1: red or even pay your own cell phone bill, car insurance,

1654
01:21:55,120 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: that's not enough. I mean, I understand what she's doing.

1655
01:21:57,600 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: She's like, look, you can't just live here for free.

1656
01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 1: You have to be I would make that's your child.

1657
01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 1: Like the lady said, she's a single mom and was

1658
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 1: never given anything. But when you have children, you're supposed

1659
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 1: to give them the best life possible, stuff that you

1660
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:11,640
Speaker 1: didn't have to experience. And if my child wants to

1661
01:22:11,640 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 1: stay at home till he's forty, he's gonna stay at

1662
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 1: home till he's forty. I don't care, Like that's my child.

1663
01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't believe you're gonna take care of your child

1664
01:22:18,280 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. You would be very disappointed.

1665
01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:24,200
Speaker 1: You would be very disappointed if Ashland stayed in your

1666
01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: home until he was forty. It all depends on what

1667
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:27,639
Speaker 1: he does with his life. You know what I'm saying.

1668
01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:29,720
Speaker 1: What would you want him pay a bill or something like, hey,

1669
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 1: pay the combat bill or the people's gas bills, because

1670
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 1: you know you want to pay all the bills. Your

1671
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:39,559
Speaker 1: kid would pay it. I think so you you would honestly,

1672
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:41,960
Speaker 1: let your son live in your house till he's forty,

1673
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:44,960
Speaker 1: regardless of what he's doing with himself. Yeah, I see, no, Beau,

1674
01:22:45,439 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 1: because what you're doing is you're essentially you're enabling You're

1675
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 1: enabling a child not to go out in the world

1676
01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 1: make something of him or herself. Well, if he makes

1677
01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:55,600
Speaker 1: a buntload of money, he wants to live at home,

1678
01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:58,640
Speaker 1: that's fine. Wasn't pay pay me? Well, that's well then

1679
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:00,720
Speaker 1: well then isn't there so some thing to be said

1680
01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:03,600
Speaker 1: about being an adult and branching out and being responsible

1681
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 1: for yourself somewhere other than your parents house. I mean,

1682
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 1: I just there's more to its than just moody. It's

1683
01:23:09,200 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 1: about independent, it's about teaching somebody to be self sustainable. Well,

1684
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 1: coming from my household and like the like the Asian background,

1685
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 1: the Filipino background, like kids stay with their parents until

1686
01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:22,160
Speaker 1: whatever they ready to leave. And if he's not ready

1687
01:23:22,160 --> 01:23:23,760
Speaker 1: to leave it, they's not ready to leave. That That's

1688
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: how it is. Of course, I would like my son

1689
01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:28,120
Speaker 1: to be successful and move on in his own and

1690
01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 1: do all the things that I did at a certain age.

1691
01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:32,160
Speaker 1: But if you know what I'm saying, but at what

1692
01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:34,519
Speaker 1: point is it is it I'm gonna chay to me.

1693
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 1: If he's stays in, if he is able, bodied and

1694
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 1: capable and stays in your house until he's forty, then

1695
01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 1: it's on you as the parent, that's on you that

1696
01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:45,439
Speaker 1: he isn't ready to leave. You got you gotta raise

1697
01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 1: your kids to be able to be independent and self

1698
01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 1: sustainable and to leave the nasty go out and do

1699
01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 1: the same thing that you did. And like, there's people

1700
01:23:53,240 --> 01:23:55,840
Speaker 1: in their twenties that can't even live on their own

1701
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 1: barely and then but they want to experience it, and

1702
01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 1: then they end up where back home at the parents

1703
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:04,200
Speaker 1: five years later because it's so freaking expensive to live

1704
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,760
Speaker 1: on your own and nobody's getting paid out there in

1705
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:11,920
Speaker 1: these streets. Amanda, Hi, Amanda, how you doing? Hi? Good morning, Hi,

1706
01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 1: good morning. This woman's getting killed on Twitter or just

1707
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 1: TikTok rather because she's making her eighteen year old pay

1708
01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:22,120
Speaker 1: her a hundred dollars a month lease and we're forgetting

1709
01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:24,120
Speaker 1: the part where her mom made an actual lease. So

1710
01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:27,320
Speaker 1: she's a tenant for one hundred dollars. You cannot be

1711
01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 1: a tenant anywhere for one hundred dollars such as she's

1712
01:24:30,439 --> 01:24:32,559
Speaker 1: establishing a renter her history so she can go out

1713
01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:34,920
Speaker 1: because otherwise, by the way, if if this weren't a

1714
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:38,280
Speaker 1: real lease and real money being exchange, then then then

1715
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:40,600
Speaker 1: that doesn't count and then her kid's never gonna be

1716
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 1: able to rent anything. But Amanda, what do you think? Um?

1717
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:47,080
Speaker 1: I agree with kind of ruvio in and you are

1718
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 1: you fred and call you that um coming from a

1719
01:24:51,640 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 1: Mexican American household. Um, our parents don't really want us

1720
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:59,600
Speaker 1: to leave, un know, they encourage us to, um, you know,

1721
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:02,880
Speaker 1: save her money, do well, like go to school. Like

1722
01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:05,040
Speaker 1: when I was in high school and in college, they

1723
01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 1: really didn't want me to work, but I had to

1724
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:10,920
Speaker 1: because it is expensive, um to get the nice things,

1725
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 1: nice clothes, your phone and stuff. But this mom should

1726
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 1: probably be charging her um you know, her living like

1727
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:21,120
Speaker 1: herself or her car or her car, no her insurance

1728
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:24,519
Speaker 1: and uh and then some you know, like give her

1729
01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 1: a bill, give her a couple of bills. She takes

1730
01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:30,240
Speaker 1: the shower, she used electricity WiFi, like, um, she's a

1731
01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:34,360
Speaker 1: you know, like she's a teenager now she's eighteen, and UM,

1732
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:36,920
Speaker 1: I know that there's some families that think eighteen. Okay,

1733
01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:38,599
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be out of my house. Yeah, don't,

1734
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:41,000
Speaker 1: but no I don't. I don't get that. I never

1735
01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:44,400
Speaker 1: got that either. But I think that when it's like, okay,

1736
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 1: when this one in particular, she's talking about being eighteen,

1737
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:48,920
Speaker 1: she's like, she's eighteen, she wants to stay here, I'm like,

1738
01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:54,519
Speaker 1: that's pretty young a child. But if you're not gonna

1739
01:25:54,560 --> 01:25:57,960
Speaker 1: pay for anything, then you you should have a job

1740
01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:00,360
Speaker 1: and you should at least be saving the money. Like

1741
01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:03,320
Speaker 1: if in fact, you're not gonna pay for anything, because

1742
01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:05,960
Speaker 1: at some point you do have to leave the house,

1743
01:26:05,960 --> 01:26:07,560
Speaker 1: and you do have to pay your own bills, and

1744
01:26:08,280 --> 01:26:11,400
Speaker 1: and if you're not paying rent, then where's the money going?

1745
01:26:14,160 --> 01:26:16,920
Speaker 1: Thank you? Nicky baby? Man, she'd take all the money.

1746
01:26:17,439 --> 01:26:20,639
Speaker 1: Thank you a man. They have a good day. Mickey

1747
01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:22,479
Speaker 1: baby got her hand out. Man. Guess what. She ain't

1748
01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:26,439
Speaker 1: living at home? Okay, she got a nice place River North. Hey,

1749
01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:32,559
Speaker 1: uh is it Carolina Caterina? Hi? How are you okay?

1750
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:36,280
Speaker 1: So this woman, eighteen year old daughter pay one hundred

1751
01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 1: bucks a month and people are pissed about this. Where

1752
01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:41,640
Speaker 1: do you think? Oh no, it's totally fair. When I

1753
01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:43,960
Speaker 1: graduate to high school and I was living in my

1754
01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 1: sister's house, which is a Mexican family. We all lived there.

1755
01:26:47,160 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 1: She told me, either you're gonna pay rent or you're

1756
01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:51,640
Speaker 1: gonna go to school full time. And guess what I did?

1757
01:26:51,960 --> 01:26:56,320
Speaker 1: I paid rent? Yeah? Yeah, and how much? How much

1758
01:26:56,439 --> 01:27:00,440
Speaker 1: was rent? By the way to live in her housekeeping?

1759
01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:03,400
Speaker 1: Three hundred dollars the world by world? Can you live

1760
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:07,599
Speaker 1: with three hundred bucks either, that's another thing, exactly exactly.

1761
01:27:08,080 --> 01:27:12,160
Speaker 1: And I'm thirty eight, so that was a long time ago.

1762
01:27:12,280 --> 01:27:15,640
Speaker 1: So three hundred dollars worth a lot. But you know

1763
01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 1: what I paid. My had my own cell phone, I

1764
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:20,880
Speaker 1: paid my own car note, and I actually, after a

1765
01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:23,479
Speaker 1: while where I was able to get established, I actually

1766
01:27:23,640 --> 01:27:27,320
Speaker 1: also took on my pap a WiFi bill for the house. Yeah.

1767
01:27:27,600 --> 01:27:30,000
Speaker 1: You know, I'll sell you right now if if I

1768
01:27:30,160 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 1: had turned eighteen and did nothing, nothing, and my parents

1769
01:27:33,479 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 1: would have made me pay them, because it would have

1770
01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:38,040
Speaker 1: been like get out of here, like do something. If

1771
01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:40,280
Speaker 1: you're gonna live here, fine, we're not even talking about

1772
01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:44,160
Speaker 1: not living at home. Live at home, but contribute because otherwise,

1773
01:27:44,240 --> 01:27:47,200
Speaker 1: what are you? When are you when? What's your motivation

1774
01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:49,800
Speaker 1: for making a life for yourself If you don't have

1775
01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:53,559
Speaker 1: to pay for anything exactly. Can I have something real

1776
01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 1: quick before you got what if I you that so rude?

1777
01:27:58,160 --> 01:28:03,760
Speaker 1: Cut you off? I mean more like to move on,

1778
01:28:04,479 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 1: you know, more like hey, more like we gotta you know,

1779
01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:11,400
Speaker 1: go on to the next thing. What did you want

1780
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:14,719
Speaker 1: to be sa? Yes, I've been listening to you guys since,

1781
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 1: you know, forever. I moved to Texas about seven years

1782
01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:21,560
Speaker 1: ago and I'm still listening to you guys. Thank you

1783
01:28:21,680 --> 01:28:23,840
Speaker 1: from her reading app So just let you know I

1784
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:26,120
Speaker 1: love you guys. Well, thank you so much. We appreciate you. Well,

1785
01:28:26,120 --> 01:28:27,840
Speaker 1: I thought you had a question, you just had a comment.

1786
01:28:27,880 --> 01:28:29,920
Speaker 1: What You're welcome to? Colin said that at anytime you one,

1787
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 1: um what part of Texas Austin, Austin Lucky. Yeah, I

1788
01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:38,479
Speaker 1: would listen to us if I were in Austin too.

1789
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:43,080
Speaker 1: I know what your option driving. That's very good. Yeah,

1790
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:44,760
Speaker 1: I used to work there, so I know I have

1791
01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:47,880
Speaker 1: a good day. Go to let me see where I

1792
01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 1: used to go. Go to, uh Magnolia Cafe. The place

1793
01:28:51,160 --> 01:28:54,479
Speaker 1: is delicious. In Austin, there's two locations you already know.

1794
01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:56,519
Speaker 1: I used to live by the one on Lake Austin Boulevard.

1795
01:28:56,560 --> 01:28:59,559
Speaker 1: Go to that one. Have a good day. YouTube, guys,

1796
01:28:59,600 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 1: please delicious, I'm gonna try it. I'm going in December.

1797
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 1: Are you just out here? Unfortunately? Not really? Michelle, Hi,

1798
01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:11,960
Speaker 1: How are you fine? How are you guys this morning?

1799
01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:14,839
Speaker 1: Very well? One hundred bucks is too cheap, says Michelle.

1800
01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:16,640
Speaker 1: You and Rufio can have at it. I'm gonna leave,

1801
01:29:16,680 --> 01:29:20,680
Speaker 1: I'll be back in ten minutes. Definitely too cheap. Not

1802
01:29:20,840 --> 01:29:24,439
Speaker 1: only is she establishing her renter's history. I mean that's

1803
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,799
Speaker 1: a benefit for her, But one hundred dollars at eighteen,

1804
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:31,519
Speaker 1: I moved out and I had to pay everything, my rent,

1805
01:29:31,880 --> 01:29:36,400
Speaker 1: my student loans, my car. Back then, when I started out,

1806
01:29:36,439 --> 01:29:38,519
Speaker 1: it was just just starting out with cell phones, so

1807
01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:41,200
Speaker 1: those cell phone bills were kind of high, so all

1808
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:44,240
Speaker 1: of that I was paying. So for her to city,

1809
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:47,800
Speaker 1: paying one hundred dollars a month and nothing else, how

1810
01:29:47,960 --> 01:29:50,519
Speaker 1: is that not I mean, she's eighteen, she's got to

1811
01:29:50,560 --> 01:29:54,160
Speaker 1: have some responsibility. How is that cheap? Yeah? I think

1812
01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:56,880
Speaker 1: that's too low. If she's trying to prove a point,

1813
01:29:56,960 --> 01:29:58,479
Speaker 1: that's too low, because when she goes down in the

1814
01:29:58,520 --> 01:29:59,640
Speaker 1: real world, it's gonna be a lot more than a

1815
01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:01,880
Speaker 1: hundred bucks. You're gonna be shocked. But at least. What

1816
01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:03,560
Speaker 1: she's saying is, if you want to live here, you

1817
01:30:03,680 --> 01:30:08,639
Speaker 1: have to contribute something, especially if sixteen I was able

1818
01:30:08,680 --> 01:30:11,000
Speaker 1: to get my first job. So I mean I had

1819
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:13,320
Speaker 1: been working since I was sixteen, and at that point

1820
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:16,640
Speaker 1: everything oh my tea, seas or everything. I was saying, um,

1821
01:30:17,439 --> 01:30:19,680
Speaker 1: not because I had to, but because well no, so

1822
01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:21,800
Speaker 1: harry about it, Mom, I got it, you know. Um.

1823
01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:28,599
Speaker 1: So it's just it's just a kids nowadays. Uman, listen

1824
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 1: to Yeah, you don't respect what they have. You gotta

1825
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:38,280
Speaker 1: do something to contribute something. Michelle, Thank you do something.

1826
01:30:38,720 --> 01:30:40,479
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. I gotta run. I'm

1827
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:45,160
Speaker 1: not cutting you off. I'm saying goodbye, okay, lady bye,

1828
01:30:45,720 --> 01:30:48,280
Speaker 1: uh this before you cut me up, cut you off,

1829
01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 1: cut you off? Hey, Kim, how are you good? How

1830
01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:56,759
Speaker 1: are you very well? This lady on TikTok is getting

1831
01:30:56,840 --> 01:30:58,640
Speaker 1: killed for making her eighteen year old daughter pay a

1832
01:30:58,640 --> 01:31:00,280
Speaker 1: one hundred bucks a month to live in her house.

1833
01:31:00,400 --> 01:31:02,920
Speaker 1: And I should add that she's not paying for her

1834
01:31:02,960 --> 01:31:05,559
Speaker 1: car insurance or cell phone bill. One hundred bucks a month,

1835
01:31:05,600 --> 01:31:09,160
Speaker 1: that's all it costs. What do you think I charge

1836
01:31:09,240 --> 01:31:11,880
Speaker 1: my nineteen year old one hundred dollars a month, and

1837
01:31:14,320 --> 01:31:18,000
Speaker 1: you can't go find anything for less than six hundred

1838
01:31:18,080 --> 01:31:22,439
Speaker 1: where we are. So he not only pays rent his

1839
01:31:22,640 --> 01:31:25,559
Speaker 1: car note which is almost three fifties, and he's got

1840
01:31:25,840 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 1: insurance and he pays his own cell phone bill. Do

1841
01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:33,440
Speaker 1: you have to do? You have to teach him responsibility

1842
01:31:33,560 --> 01:31:36,760
Speaker 1: at some point. He's not grade school. He's got a

1843
01:31:36,840 --> 01:31:39,960
Speaker 1: great full time job. He has a goal to lifts

1844
01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:44,160
Speaker 1: in the coast Guard. But he's living his life at

1845
01:31:44,280 --> 01:31:48,000
Speaker 1: nineteen hundred bucks a month is nothing. I know parents

1846
01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:51,759
Speaker 1: that charge five hundred dollars a month plus us abilities,

1847
01:31:52,400 --> 01:31:57,520
Speaker 1: So charging him one hundred dollars is nothing. It's introduction

1848
01:31:57,600 --> 01:32:00,400
Speaker 1: to the real world, right. It's yeah. When I was yes,

1849
01:32:00,680 --> 01:32:03,559
Speaker 1: when I was nineteen, I had I was raising him

1850
01:32:03,600 --> 01:32:07,280
Speaker 1: at nineteen on my own payment. It was hard. My

1851
01:32:07,439 --> 01:32:12,080
Speaker 1: parents went to help me do anything. So him being nineteen,

1852
01:32:12,240 --> 01:32:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm letting him live his life. He pays for all

1853
01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:18,160
Speaker 1: his own clothing. If he wants new boots, he goes

1854
01:32:18,200 --> 01:32:23,160
Speaker 1: and pays for it. He we made this agreement, he said, yeah, Mom,

1855
01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:25,760
Speaker 1: one hundred bucks, no problem. Here you go. What are

1856
01:32:25,760 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 1: you doing with one hundred bucks? Are you keeping it

1857
01:32:27,520 --> 01:32:30,479
Speaker 1: or will you give it back to him someday. Um,

1858
01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm actually using it because our rent went up and

1859
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:36,080
Speaker 1: I did have a conversation and he goes, no, I'm

1860
01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:38,720
Speaker 1: gonna help you out. Love one hundred dollars time. I liked.

1861
01:32:38,880 --> 01:32:41,280
Speaker 1: I like that too. Get he's contributing to the house.

1862
01:32:41,280 --> 01:32:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm a sweet kid. I love it. There you go,

1863
01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:46,320
Speaker 1: Thank you, Kim, have a good day. You give that

1864
01:32:49,439 --> 01:32:52,599
Speaker 1: uncle f uncle Fregnna teach him a few things. Uncle

1865
01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:55,120
Speaker 1: and Pauline, I gotta teach him. Yeah. I don't know

1866
01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 1: about me financial advice for me, but I think it's

1867
01:32:58,320 --> 01:33:00,400
Speaker 1: really funny how you're like the cheap do it I

1868
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:02,519
Speaker 1: know on the planet. But yeah, you're like all my

1869
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:04,920
Speaker 1: kids could live rent free and hang out me. Like,

1870
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:08,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not trying. I'm not trying to

1871
01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:10,760
Speaker 1: disparents out there that charge their kids rent, but like,

1872
01:33:11,840 --> 01:33:13,720
Speaker 1: like that's something you should be able to cover on

1873
01:33:13,840 --> 01:33:15,800
Speaker 1: your own, Like I shouldn't have to be taking one

1874
01:33:15,880 --> 01:33:19,120
Speaker 1: hundred dollars or three hundred dollars. Kid need it. I

1875
01:33:19,120 --> 01:33:21,679
Speaker 1: don't think they need the money. It's they're they're taking

1876
01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:24,640
Speaker 1: it because they're making they're holding their kids accountable. I

1877
01:33:24,680 --> 01:33:26,519
Speaker 1: don't think it's good you do. But what are you

1878
01:33:26,600 --> 01:33:29,000
Speaker 1: doing with the money. You put it towards rents, towards bills,

1879
01:33:29,040 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 1: towards whatever. That's stuff. That's that stuff that parents should

1880
01:33:32,160 --> 01:33:34,840
Speaker 1: be able to do for their kids. Alkmatically that all

1881
01:33:34,880 --> 01:33:36,720
Speaker 1: can though. Unfortunately, that's what I'm saying. That's why I'm

1882
01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:38,760
Speaker 1: not That's why I'm not dissing. I'm not dissing the

1883
01:33:38,800 --> 01:33:41,479
Speaker 1: parents that do that. I'm just saying every situation is different.

1884
01:33:41,520 --> 01:33:43,599
Speaker 1: That's why I said that. Love let me see Refield,

1885
01:33:43,680 --> 01:33:45,920
Speaker 1: let me see in fifteen years, sixteen years, let me

1886
01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 1: talk to you when when you god, I wish to

1887
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:52,080
Speaker 1: kill you out my house. No, we're gonna be gonna

1888
01:33:52,080 --> 01:33:55,960
Speaker 1: be best friends forever. Man. Oh that's my kids. Oh oh,

1889
01:33:56,280 --> 01:33:59,760
Speaker 1: this kid's gonna be enabled. Oh there's kids. I mean,

1890
01:34:00,000 --> 01:34:02,160
Speaker 1: this kid might be a bract like But if I'm

1891
01:34:02,160 --> 01:34:04,200
Speaker 1: able to afford that as a parent, then I mean,

1892
01:34:04,240 --> 01:34:06,559
Speaker 1: I'm trying to give my child the best life possible.

1893
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:08,439
Speaker 1: If he wants to go to school full time or

1894
01:34:08,560 --> 01:34:13,680
Speaker 1: whatever and do whatever and take not take the you know,

1895
01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:16,200
Speaker 1: paying for housing or paying for rent living somewhere. You

1896
01:34:16,240 --> 01:34:17,840
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, then I'm gonna do that. I

1897
01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:19,840
Speaker 1: would be okay with that. If my kid's going to

1898
01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:21,599
Speaker 1: school fight, I'm not saying he's gonna be a bum

1899
01:34:21,720 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 1: living at home till he's forty. You know what I'm saying.

1900
01:34:23,560 --> 01:34:27,160
Speaker 1: But you did actually say he said if my kid

1901
01:34:27,200 --> 01:34:28,800
Speaker 1: wants to live in a house till he's forty, that's okay.

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01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:30,360
Speaker 1: Well I didn't say what he's doing, like if he

1903
01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:32,840
Speaker 1: if he can't, if he's if he's got a job, great,

1904
01:34:32,880 --> 01:34:35,200
Speaker 1: but he still can't afford a house or whatever. Of

1905
01:34:35,240 --> 01:34:37,000
Speaker 1: course I'm gonna help money. He's gonna stay at home.

1906
01:34:37,240 --> 01:34:38,720
Speaker 1: Like I said, there's people that go out on their

1907
01:34:38,760 --> 01:34:40,439
Speaker 1: own in their twenties and then they end up back

1908
01:34:40,479 --> 01:34:42,640
Speaker 1: at their parents house in the thirties because it's too

1909
01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:47,240
Speaker 1: expensive to live out here anywhere. Well, I think if

1910
01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:50,519
Speaker 1: that's the case, and you as a parents still tried

1911
01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:55,040
Speaker 1: to instill financial responsibility and accountability and they still wind

1912
01:34:55,080 --> 01:34:56,880
Speaker 1: it back in your house, that's one thing I think.

1913
01:34:56,920 --> 01:34:58,720
Speaker 1: If you don't do any of these things and they

1914
01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:00,880
Speaker 1: wind it back in your house, it's more than likely

1915
01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:03,840
Speaker 1: because they were being frivolous or because they weren't being

1916
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:06,160
Speaker 1: financially responsible. And that's what I wanted up back in

1917
01:35:06,240 --> 01:35:08,400
Speaker 1: your house. Yeah, I mean, at what point does that end?

1918
01:35:08,680 --> 01:35:10,840
Speaker 1: Like like all these callers did, I did the same thing.

1919
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:12,840
Speaker 1: I had a job when I was fifteen. I didn't

1920
01:35:12,840 --> 01:35:15,240
Speaker 1: go to college. I worked. I had a good job.

1921
01:35:15,479 --> 01:35:17,160
Speaker 1: I paid all my bills, I paid my car note,

1922
01:35:17,200 --> 01:35:19,040
Speaker 1: I paid nine churance, I had my own cell phone bill.

1923
01:35:19,080 --> 01:35:21,559
Speaker 1: Like it's it was. It was super tough, even living

1924
01:35:21,600 --> 01:35:24,000
Speaker 1: at home for free. And lived at home right and

1925
01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:26,400
Speaker 1: I lived at home. So I don't want that same

1926
01:35:26,880 --> 01:35:29,240
Speaker 1: like like I said, I don't want if I have

1927
01:35:29,360 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 1: the opportunity to give my child a better life, Yeah,

1928
01:35:32,000 --> 01:35:33,760
Speaker 1: of course I want him to have responsibility. Of course

1929
01:35:33,760 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about financial things. But if if he

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01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:40,320
Speaker 1: doesn't need to do that because I have the benefit

1931
01:35:40,400 --> 01:35:42,639
Speaker 1: of having a good job and taking care of my child,

1932
01:35:42,680 --> 01:35:45,840
Speaker 1: then that's how it's gonna be. I well, fair enough,

1933
01:35:46,560 --> 01:35:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm getting a sect to me, it doesn't matter. Show

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01:35:49,960 --> 01:35:52,519
Speaker 1: one h three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit

1935
01:35:52,640 --> 01:35:54,720
Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Is there

1936
01:35:54,720 --> 01:35:57,360
Speaker 1: anything you guys are insecure about in your homes? Like

1937
01:35:57,439 --> 01:36:00,120
Speaker 1: if you have people over, is there anything that you

1938
01:36:00,240 --> 01:36:01,840
Speaker 1: think like, I got to make sure this has to

1939
01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:04,280
Speaker 1: be an order or I don't want this to happen,

1940
01:36:05,320 --> 01:36:09,120
Speaker 1: you know, when my friends are over family in the house. Yes,

1941
01:36:09,360 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 1: I mean the whole house. I put the work in.

1942
01:36:14,400 --> 01:36:17,080
Speaker 1: I hope it's okay to you know, the standards of people,

1943
01:36:17,439 --> 01:36:21,320
Speaker 1: like are you aware of are you aware of a

1944
01:36:21,439 --> 01:36:23,799
Speaker 1: problem in the house, Like sometimes we have a sewage

1945
01:36:23,800 --> 01:36:26,080
Speaker 1: issue and like, oh boy, you know whatever because I

1946
01:36:26,160 --> 01:36:30,679
Speaker 1: bring this up because um, seventy percent of people, according

1947
01:36:30,720 --> 01:36:34,400
Speaker 1: to this study, are worried that their house smells bad

1948
01:36:34,920 --> 01:36:37,880
Speaker 1: when they have guests over, that it would smell bad

1949
01:36:37,960 --> 01:36:42,360
Speaker 1: to others. Um. The average person spends almost two hundred

1950
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:44,680
Speaker 1: and thirty bucks a year on items to improve their

1951
01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:47,479
Speaker 1: homes a roma. The other thing about that, if you

1952
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 1: think about it, is if your house get smell bad

1953
01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:53,760
Speaker 1: and you're in it every day, you may not know that. Yeah,

1954
01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:55,240
Speaker 1: you don't know. You don't know if your house smells

1955
01:36:55,280 --> 01:36:58,720
Speaker 1: are not right? But doesn't every house have a sent anyway? Yes,

1956
01:36:58,840 --> 01:37:00,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, but it could be

1957
01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:02,880
Speaker 1: a bad one, right And that's the point though, is it?

1958
01:37:02,960 --> 01:37:04,560
Speaker 1: Like if you if you're smelling it every day, you

1959
01:37:04,640 --> 01:37:06,519
Speaker 1: may not recognize that it's not a good one. I'm

1960
01:37:06,560 --> 01:37:08,160
Speaker 1: insecure about that. It was a lot of things I

1961
01:37:08,240 --> 01:37:09,920
Speaker 1: feel about in my house, but that's one of them.

1962
01:37:10,000 --> 01:37:11,640
Speaker 1: When I was a little kid, I was told my

1963
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:14,240
Speaker 1: house smell like sauerkraut, and I'm not even Germans. I

1964
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:15,920
Speaker 1: was really confused about that. I was like, we don't

1965
01:37:15,920 --> 01:37:17,519
Speaker 1: even really eat that. I know what they're trying to say,

1966
01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:20,280
Speaker 1: because my mom makes certain foods that probably smell like that.

1967
01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:23,280
Speaker 1: Um So now I'm like lighting candles everywhere, you know

1968
01:37:23,320 --> 01:37:25,760
Speaker 1: what I mean. I'm very insecure about it. Incense just

1969
01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:28,160
Speaker 1: going like, I don't know. To me, I can see

1970
01:37:28,240 --> 01:37:32,400
Speaker 1: that one h three five is how you get ahold

1971
01:37:32,400 --> 01:37:34,320
Speaker 1: of the thread show. I think I'm more insecure about

1972
01:37:34,360 --> 01:37:35,920
Speaker 1: like if I go to someone's house I have to

1973
01:37:36,000 --> 01:37:39,519
Speaker 1: use their bathroom. I'm insecure that somehow I would break,

1974
01:37:39,640 --> 01:37:41,920
Speaker 1: that the toilet would break or something, and then I

1975
01:37:41,960 --> 01:37:43,960
Speaker 1: would be the one responsible for it. Like a diamond

1976
01:37:44,000 --> 01:37:46,320
Speaker 1: dummer is that the movie or like Get the toilet

1977
01:37:46,360 --> 01:37:48,880
Speaker 1: gets clogged and there's no plunger around like well, and

1978
01:37:48,960 --> 01:37:52,360
Speaker 1: I'm certainly not doing that. Yeah, Well, somebody, if I'm

1979
01:37:52,439 --> 01:37:54,160
Speaker 1: like dating someone and I'm at their house for an

1980
01:37:54,160 --> 01:37:55,760
Speaker 1: extended period of time, you know you got it? Do

1981
01:37:55,800 --> 01:37:58,799
Speaker 1: you got to yea and yeah, that's a valid concern

1982
01:37:59,040 --> 01:38:01,840
Speaker 1: that I would summarily there would be an issue and

1983
01:38:02,080 --> 01:38:04,960
Speaker 1: it would be my sort of stuff there, and I

1984
01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:06,200
Speaker 1: don't know, I mean, how do you deal with that?

1985
01:38:06,240 --> 01:38:08,160
Speaker 1: You're at someone else's house. Now, what if you don't

1986
01:38:08,200 --> 01:38:10,880
Speaker 1: have the proper tools to solve the problem, you know,

1987
01:38:11,040 --> 01:38:12,600
Speaker 1: then I mean you gotta go out there, and you

1988
01:38:12,640 --> 01:38:14,639
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta own it. You gotta be like I am,

1989
01:38:14,720 --> 01:38:19,519
Speaker 1: in fat human. Yeah, you just leave, Yeah, you bring

1990
01:38:19,560 --> 01:38:21,519
Speaker 1: the host. Didn't we have a waiting by the phone

1991
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:22,960
Speaker 1: where she took it out and put it in her

1992
01:38:23,000 --> 01:38:25,519
Speaker 1: bag first? Yeah, yeah, she took it out and put

1993
01:38:25,560 --> 01:38:26,960
Speaker 1: it in her back. And then there was another one.

1994
01:38:27,000 --> 01:38:28,519
Speaker 1: I don't think it was waiting by the phone maybe

1995
01:38:28,640 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 1: or just someone called and told the story that they

1996
01:38:30,240 --> 01:38:33,680
Speaker 1: put it in her in the cat's litter box. I

1997
01:38:33,760 --> 01:38:35,800
Speaker 1: read that somewhere that they took the poop out and

1998
01:38:35,840 --> 01:38:37,360
Speaker 1: then and then they were like it was the cat

1999
01:38:37,479 --> 01:38:39,200
Speaker 1: and the guys like my cat died like two weeks

2000
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:43,160
Speaker 1: ago or whatever, so it was her human stuff in

2001
01:38:43,280 --> 01:38:46,839
Speaker 1: the thing though. Oh yeah, but being a homeowner like obviously,

2002
01:38:46,920 --> 01:38:49,599
Speaker 1: like I said, I put in the work like design

2003
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:52,040
Speaker 1: wise and the furniture wise, I feel like I'm being

2004
01:38:52,160 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 1: judged and all of it. If someone comes over, you know, like,

2005
01:38:54,479 --> 01:38:57,040
Speaker 1: is it esthetically okay with the people that are there,

2006
01:38:57,080 --> 01:38:58,920
Speaker 1: even though they're just sitting in the kitchen, you know,

2007
01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:02,200
Speaker 1: and if it's clean, obviously we the house got to

2008
01:39:02,240 --> 01:39:05,120
Speaker 1: be clean. I feel so judged because growing up, my

2009
01:39:05,160 --> 01:39:07,200
Speaker 1: mom always said that was a reflection of you. So

2010
01:39:07,360 --> 01:39:10,040
Speaker 1: like having guests over, like I didn't understand why. You know,

2011
01:39:10,120 --> 01:39:12,160
Speaker 1: my uncle Roman was coming over and I had to

2012
01:39:12,160 --> 01:39:14,120
Speaker 1: clean the bathtub because he's not going in the bathtub,

2013
01:39:14,280 --> 01:39:16,680
Speaker 1: but you have to clean everything. So now Hobby and

2014
01:39:16,720 --> 01:39:18,559
Speaker 1: I when our parents are coming over, we're like scrubbing

2015
01:39:18,560 --> 01:39:20,719
Speaker 1: because you don't want to look like, you know, like scumbs.

2016
01:39:20,760 --> 01:39:23,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, sucums. I think that's the only

2017
01:39:23,200 --> 01:39:24,640
Speaker 1: thing I worry about is that my house would be

2018
01:39:24,720 --> 01:39:28,000
Speaker 1: dirty in a way that I somehow didn't know, usually

2019
01:39:28,120 --> 01:39:30,040
Speaker 1: like I missed a spot or something, you know, I

2020
01:39:30,080 --> 01:39:33,920
Speaker 1: guess that's that's yeah, that's what would worry me, well,

2021
01:39:33,960 --> 01:39:38,040
Speaker 1: I think, or yeah, the cleaning. Otherwise, I don't care

2022
01:39:38,080 --> 01:39:39,640
Speaker 1: if you don't like the stuff on my walls, or

2023
01:39:39,680 --> 01:39:41,360
Speaker 1: you don't like my foure or whatever. I don't. I

2024
01:39:41,400 --> 01:39:43,080
Speaker 1: don't really care about that you don't live there, but

2025
01:39:43,160 --> 01:39:44,720
Speaker 1: I guess I would be afraid that I would miss

2026
01:39:44,800 --> 01:39:47,280
Speaker 1: something obvious and that, you know, that somebody else would

2027
01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:50,200
Speaker 1: uncover it and be like, oh my god, this guy's disgusting.

2028
01:39:51,080 --> 01:39:53,920
Speaker 1: Um the smell. I don't worry about the smell too much,

2029
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:57,320
Speaker 1: but I also I burn candles all day. Yeah. Yeah,

2030
01:39:57,760 --> 01:40:01,160
Speaker 1: your house doesn't have a smell. No, that's good. Would

2031
01:40:01,160 --> 01:40:03,120
Speaker 1: you tell me if it did? Yeah, I probably would. Well,

2032
01:40:03,160 --> 01:40:05,320
Speaker 1: I mean every place has like a smell that like

2033
01:40:05,520 --> 01:40:07,880
Speaker 1: it's either the detergent or whatever. It kind of smells

2034
01:40:07,880 --> 01:40:09,479
Speaker 1: like the people that live there. But yours doesn't really

2035
01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:11,320
Speaker 1: have a smell at all, which is probably what you want.

2036
01:40:11,680 --> 01:40:14,360
Speaker 1: It just smells nice and clean. Like me, it's nice,

2037
01:40:14,520 --> 01:40:18,200
Speaker 1: nice and pristine clean. Don't open my closets though, that's

2038
01:40:18,280 --> 01:40:20,880
Speaker 1: I think that's a euphemism for my what's in my

2039
01:40:21,000 --> 01:40:23,800
Speaker 1: brain too? Yeah, I think my psychologist thinks the same thing.

2040
01:40:23,880 --> 01:40:26,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't open your closets, like my closet. Some of

2041
01:40:26,040 --> 01:40:28,280
Speaker 1: them were organizing, some of them. There's that one I got,

2042
01:40:28,360 --> 01:40:30,680
Speaker 1: the one closet that complete and total disaster. Of course,

2043
01:40:30,800 --> 01:40:33,599
Speaker 1: Rufio went and opened it right for a full tour

2044
01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:35,720
Speaker 1: of your house. But a full tour of my house

2045
01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:39,040
Speaker 1: doesn't include all the closets, roof, underwear, door too. I

2046
01:40:39,320 --> 01:40:41,479
Speaker 1: would have if you could have found it right full

2047
01:40:41,560 --> 01:40:44,479
Speaker 1: tour I can't. But that to remind me, a full

2048
01:40:44,560 --> 01:40:46,800
Speaker 1: tour of someone's house does not include the insides of

2049
01:40:46,840 --> 01:40:49,360
Speaker 1: that giving a full tour to everyone on Instagram because

2050
01:40:49,360 --> 01:40:51,360
Speaker 1: we were live, but we don't open closet tour that

2051
01:40:51,479 --> 01:40:53,760
Speaker 1: it's not part. I said, what's in there? You said,

2052
01:40:54,040 --> 01:40:56,040
Speaker 1: my messy closet and you opened it, and I was like,

2053
01:40:56,479 --> 01:40:58,400
Speaker 1: we didn't show it. We didn't show it to the people.

2054
01:40:58,640 --> 01:41:01,479
Speaker 1: You showed me personally because you opened it. I didn't

2055
01:41:01,520 --> 01:41:03,559
Speaker 1: open it. I don't even know what you're talking about.

2056
01:41:04,680 --> 01:41:08,320
Speaker 1: It didn't need to happen. Yeah, I mean, everything appears

2057
01:41:08,320 --> 01:41:10,240
Speaker 1: to be clean and organized, and then you got that

2058
01:41:10,320 --> 01:41:12,080
Speaker 1: one closet. This is a complete and total I just

2059
01:41:12,160 --> 01:41:14,120
Speaker 1: push everything into the closet that I don't want to

2060
01:41:14,160 --> 01:41:15,720
Speaker 1: deal with and then finally, one day I'll just deal

2061
01:41:15,800 --> 01:41:17,640
Speaker 1: with the closet. Right, but I haven't dealt with the

2062
01:41:17,680 --> 01:41:19,920
Speaker 1: closet yet, So have a seat on my couch. This

2063
01:41:20,000 --> 01:41:22,080
Speaker 1: is why I spent hundreds of dollars on therapy every week.

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Speaker 1: I think it makes perfect sense. Show