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Speaker 1: Okay, but we also have a little story story.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not comfortable attending my girlfriend's corporate party.

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Speaker 2: She has bedroom history with her coworkers. She got bedroom history,

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Speaker 1: They actually just went to IKEA one time.

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Speaker 1: Of course, of course, of course. Uh.

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Speaker 2: This is August fourteenth, twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 3: My male thirty one girlfriend female twenty seven, of roughly

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Speaker 3: Planning their usual annual company Christmas party, where employees and

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Speaker 3: to attend for an overnight stay, meal, party, open, bar,

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Speaker 1: Wow, it's a overnight's stay. That's a super swanky work.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do that yet I've never been to the

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Speaker 3: previous events due to a work commitment last year and

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Speaker 3: the year prior we were still quite a new couple.

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Speaker 3: So she works for a large nationwide recruitment agency and

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Speaker 3: each year a different cities office hosts and those not

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Speaker 3: us dating, on her first Works Christmas party, after a

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Speaker 2: From her office as a bit of a bucket list experience.

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Speaker 3: After thinking about it, I've said to her, I'd rather

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Speaker 2: Oh no, those are some heavy as whoa wait.

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Speaker 1: So she was like, do you want to come? And

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Speaker 3: Huh okay, I really honestly don't think any of this.

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Speaker 3: It was something that she had done prior to meeting me.

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Speaker 3: for me it is always something special, where she've views

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Speaker 3: This isn't an issue and has actually been good for

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Speaker 1: That's so messed up. Are you talking about that at work?

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Speaker 1: And they're like, hey, stifled tower.

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Speaker 3: The thought of shaking hands and making small talk or

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Speaker 3: We rarely argue, and have recently been talking about marriage

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Speaker 1: here of am I overreacting for feeling uncomfortable about her

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Speaker 2: But to interact with them having it being like a

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Speaker 2: But I digress. Let's get into these comments.

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Speaker 3: From merely dreaming it says, Honestly, I do think this

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Speaker 2: That's a good point. You know what else is going

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Speaker 3: I think we all know what's going to impact a reputation,

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Speaker 1: And well sorry, at least she's chill with her reputation.

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Speaker 2: You're demoting you because your husband's not cool.

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Speaker 1: It's just like he's an introvert.

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Speaker 3: if you tried not thinking of it as socializing. These

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Speaker 3: She is not asking you to be best friends with

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Speaker 3: I do understand not attending prior or future events as

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Speaker 3: and ultimately she's my girlfriend. Now, it's the attitude those

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Speaker 3: This is like HR needs to get involved because these

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Speaker 2: Hurt her reputation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is earlier.

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Speaker 3: It's like, she's like, if you don't come to the

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Speaker 3: I still have some reservations, but I realize it's important

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Speaker 2: And by the way, we will always fully support you.

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Speaker 3: Joining us live on YouTube every weekday at three PMPST.

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Speaker 2: Just tap our profile tabit So, I mean we're in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. The support structure, the support system is the team.

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Speaker 1: Stevia said do you want to come to this party

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Speaker 2: It's great. Yeah that's cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, everybody needs a little support sometimes true. I

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Speaker 3: Anyway, let's finish it off, Lisa al Gaib, there we go.

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Speaker 1: I said it wrong.

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Speaker 3: We've had some great discussions about careers, this passive sleep

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Speaker 1: Okay, freaking love.

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Speaker 2: Whoa. So they got philosophical.

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Speaker 1: They were like, women just don't have you know, the

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Speaker 3: And he's like, yeah, you're so right. You totally don't

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Speaker 1: He was like, what if we made out so that

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Speaker 2: To transfer some of my rights from my body and yours.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. I don't know if that's gonna work, but

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Speaker 1: Whoo h.

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Speaker 3: Laximum Effort says, what kind of a holes would talk

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna be with her long term, you'll need

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Speaker 3: It's like, you can't joke about it immediately, have to

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Speaker 1: It's like when dominance. Immediately It's like when ang goes

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Speaker 2: Co Oh, yeah, it's like it's such a good episode.

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Speaker 2: From what I know, the company is very much finance

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Speaker 1: I mean like, well, yeah, why did why do they

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Speaker 2: Come on, that's just what happens.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you go to France, and go to France, you

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Speaker 2: And then it's they can't stop.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which if you did that, you'd just break your neck.

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Speaker 3: You would die if you dive in. But it appear

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Speaker 1: Bring it up. Scrooge knows how.

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Speaker 2: To do it when he's a duck. No, he like

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Speaker 3: He knows the secrets to swimming in money. Yeah, he

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Speaker 2: Time for okop Relash.

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Speaker 7: I gave my friend five figures for her ivy of treatment,

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Speaker 7: They lit my pool on fire. They let the pool

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Speaker 7: on fire. Hey, I need I think twenty four hours.

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Speaker 7: You got a twenty four hour window to go for

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Speaker 8: The bigger the present, the longer the time you have

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Speaker 8: I mean I lent my roommate a fridge. Yeah right,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's because you had a mini amount of time,

445
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,159
Speaker 7: many amount of time. What you should have done two days?

446
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,880
Speaker 7: I had two days max. Two days. That's that's fair.

447
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,639
Speaker 7: You should have given her a five figure fridge and

448
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 7: then been able to can back up anytime. Which if

449
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 7: there's a five figure mini fridge, I didn't want to

450
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 7: see the FUTUREE video. They got smart fridges, but like

451
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 7: a five figure mini fridge would have to like missage

452
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 7: mini fridge mini right right. I had to be gold

453
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 7: like gold plate, don't have like a bi dat in

454
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 7: it or like something. I don't know, why would you

455
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 7: want to with your food? But like I'm like, what

456
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 7: are the all of the luxurious things?

457
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 5: A whole ecosystem within his.

458
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 7: With is equal luxury to me because I don't have one.

459
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 7: So you know, you could like buy one for like

460
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 7: eighty bucks. I could and do an attack, but then

461
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,680
Speaker 7: my asshole would be spoiled. So we got to keep it,

462
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 7: you know, keep to right on that note onto our story.

463
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 7: I female, thirty five, am infertile. A great opener.

464
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, damn, I think that's like is that our like

465
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 8: tinder pickup line.

466
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: That's the first thing.

467
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 5: I'm Bianca. I'm fertile. Yeah, and I have two cats

468
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 5: and enjoy long walks on the beach.

469
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 7: My ex husband and I tried everything to have kids,

470
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 7: but it just never happened.

471
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 8: I mean everything. Missionary Doggy, We did three sums, we

472
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 8: did four subs. We went in a zero gravity Actually

473
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 8: I heard zero gravity is harder for sperm to travel.

474
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 2: They get all they all walked about. Yeah, yeah, they.

475
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 8: Were worried about like astronauts having sex and space and

476
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 8: are like, do we need space condoms? But it turns

477
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 8: out you don't need space condoms because seamen can't can

478
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 8: travel on zero geez, wow, I.

479
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 2: Think I just found a life. Heck o, you boys

480
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 2: are trying.

481
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 5: To not wrap up, just going to fucking.

482
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 7: Rackets, go to face, simple.

483
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 5: Solution that anyone could do. How strong do they swim? Okay, well,

484
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 5: NASA forbids astronauts from having sex and space.

485
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,640
Speaker 2: Really yeah wow, oh I didn't know that.

486
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,479
Speaker 8: Because they don't want an unintended space pregnancy. And then

487
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 8: they're like.

488
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 7: What what goes wrong? Like the kid like what is Yeah,

489
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 7: what happens? Yeah, may be formed in space? Yea space

490
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 7: forms they probably they'd probably have to like emergency like

491
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 7: go get her and bring her back down.

492
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 5: Damn well, but meanwhile the dude just sits back.

493
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 8: Says anatomically and biologically, there are no known impediments to

494
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 8: human conception in space, but they are serious concerns.

495
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 5: They ain't trying to find out.

496
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 8: They are concerned microgravity reduces blood flow, but some says

497
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 8: it actually my aid sex.

498
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 7: The facts are we're not sure we're not sure, indecisive.

499
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 7: I guess what happened right after they couldn't have kids?

500
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 2: Sam?

501
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 7: What he divorced her? Nice classic move, like a true gentleman.

502
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 7: Your baby, you're not popping out babies, and you not

503
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 7: my baby?

504
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 5: What you said?

505
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 7: And then it gets even It gets even better, It

506
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 7: gets even better. Then he went and married someone younger

507
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 7: who was able to give him a kid.

508
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 5: She was fertile. Guess guess how fertile, Sam, how fertile baby?

509
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 5: Tell me?

510
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 7: Now they are expecting a second Child's that coach is cozy,

511
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 7: good gravy.

512
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 5: It's just as it's.

513
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 2: An agrarian Paris.

514
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 5: That ship is irrigated to the mouth.

515
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 7: Her vaginal canal is just I don't know for farming terminology.

516
00:24:53,440 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 7: It's holds its hold, it's seeded, seated. It's been good rainfall,

517
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,199
Speaker 7: at least twelve inches.

518
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 2: I was imagining in my mind that you know those.

519
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 5: Rows that they make, Yeah, you know, you know you

520
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 5: know how to make those row. You need a hoe

521
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 5: to make the rose. You know how to make the rose.

522
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 7: That's all we're saying. That's all we're saying. We're saying,

523
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 7: that's it. Farmer John coming in Harmer John coming back.

524
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 2: Now. It hurts like hell to see someone have what

525
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 2: I couldn't, which case.

526
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 8: She's infertile. He we heard in the opener that actually

527
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 8: probably should be your your tinder bio. Yo, I'm infertile,

528
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 8: ready to mingle. Dump your seat in me.

529
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 2: We need don't worry. Don't your seat in me. Don't

530
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 2: need to worry.

531
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 8: That's a jingle if I ever heard was Hey, that's

532
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 8: that's your Yeah, that's her.

533
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 7: Like your calling cards, every every granny, every guilf, that's

534
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 7: their that's their calling card.

535
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 5: Yo.

536
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: No teeth else, no problem.

537
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, take those dentures out, baby, give me some

538
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 8: sloppy toppy.

539
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:06,400
Speaker 5: Oh what those guns do? What those guns do? That's amazing.

540
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 5: That's all time classic. Yo. It reminds me of that.

541
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 8: There's a scene in Yes Man where like the neighbors

542
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 8: like eighty or ninety and and she's hitting on Jim Carrey.

543
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 5: Have you seen that scene.

544
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 7: I've seen the movie, I remember, and like's right after

545
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 7: you want to have some cookies and yes, say yes, yeah,

546
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 7: And she's like, do you want to go to the bedroom.

547
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 8: He has to say yes, Say guys, She's like, just relax,

548
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 8: takes up her pants and then you just see takes

549
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 8: off his pants and then you just see the guns

550
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 8: come out, and Carrie is loving it. You know, yo,

551
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 8: years of experience, no teeth, what more do you need?

552
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: Nothing?

553
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 5: Nothing?

554
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: Nothing?

555
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, granny got game.

556
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 2: Granny got game.

557
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 7: And Opie says, I get frustrated with myself sometimes and

558
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 7: with my family that also blames me for everything basically,

559
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 7: which makes for being infertile.

560
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 2: Like, how Bro, you gave me this?

561
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, gave me this, thanks genetics, like for my infertility. Literally, gosh, Microwaven,

562
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 8: that that that Microwaven, that Coachi, that Coachi. We come on,

563
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 8: Juck Cochie, hotter, fresh and ready in thirty seconds. God,

564
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 8: hot pockets, Hot pockets. There's a whole new meaning. No, man,

565
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 8: how many how many uh, how many giant jokes can

566
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 8: we make in one episode?

567
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 7: Let's find out as many as as you'll listen to

568
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 7: human Yeah attention, how many people this?

569
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

570
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 5: Hey, real ones, thanks for sticking around.

571
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 2: That's right.

572
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 5: I turned to my so, I turned to my friends

573
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 5: for support.

574
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 7: Actually Alisha, who's in the same infertility boat as me.

575
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 5: That's right. You know, we ain't get a wet in here.

576
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 2: Dry lands only.

577
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 6: Hey, we need some We need some people to maybe

578
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 6: help man these boats. The c man, we're on the

579
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 6: boat with no help.

580
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 8: Wow, good Samuel Donner, Ladies and gentlemen, I'm here on

581
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 8: that last night. Catch me at the comedy store if

582
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 8: you want more.

583
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 2: Now.

584
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 7: Alicia and her husband are currently trying for IVF, hoping

585
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 7: that it'll work. Which why op, he didn't try this?

586
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 5: Did they not? They must have? They must well, we'll

587
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 5: see it's if they didn't that is kind of stupid.

588
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 7: Now, at least I asked if I could help pay

589
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 7: for her upcoming IVF cycle.

590
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 2: So guess what she did.

591
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 5: Say, Well, if you're in the same infertility boat, you

592
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 5: got to you gotta.

593
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: Helf liked those holes, you know what I mean? Help

594
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 2: help out a hole?

595
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, help out a help out a hole holes, help out.

596
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 7: Holes, bros. Before Hold, Yeah, that was a whole hole

597
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 7: that I shouldn't go into. Okay, you're not being able

598
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 7: to get out. Yeah, man's digging himself a hole.

599
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: That's right.

600
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 7: So op, he agreed to write her a check for

601
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 7: twelve thousand dollars.

602
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 8: That's a lot of smack of room. That is not

603
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 8: that is not nothing like Clamsholls. In this boat, sticking

604
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 8: with the seat.

605
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 2: How far can't we go?

606
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 5: Hey, we're gonna go across the Pacific?

607
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 7: Baby, yeah, don't don't try miles nautical miles nautical miles.

608
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, do not worry. Yes, it's.

609
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 7: I really wanted to help her, and the money came

610
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 7: with no strings attached. Yeah, I'm like very just guy

611
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 7: coming with strings cat.

612
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 4: You know.

613
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 7: That's a sticky situation. I wrote the check and gave

614
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 7: it to her last week and she was very appreciative

615
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 7: of it.

616
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 5: Oh cool, we would hope. Imagine you're like twelve twelve.

617
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 2: Wow.

618
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's how some people in like the Mister Beast

619
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 8: videos like reactionally, I just get you.

620
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 5: I'm drinking. I'm about to give you a hundred thousand dollars.

621
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 2: Like thanks, what about a million?

622
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 5: Sick? Yeah dude, yeah, you're what I did anymore.

623
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: Now.

624
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 7: The very next day, I got a sudden message from

625
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 7: I got a sudden message from a mutual friend Carol

626
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 7: with a screenshot of the conversation she had with Alicia.

627
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 5: Oh shit, she is. She's sharing receipts, she shares.

628
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 2: Us, it's going down. The tea is being spilt. Turns

629
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 2: out she and Alicia were talking.

630
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 7: About the upcoming IVF cycle, and Alicia said that she

631
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 7: hoped the cycle could work because, quote, she didn't want

632
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 7: to end up divorced and having her husband GOI mary

633
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 7: someone younger and have a baby with them and another

634
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,479
Speaker 7: one on the way. That is so out of pocket,

635
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 7: especially for someone that's helping you, especially for someone who

636
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 7: needs help in their pocket. Mm.

637
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 5: And there's even there's even more to the quote, uh,

638
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 5: all of.

639
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 7: That while she's alone without a family at thirty five

640
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 7: years old.

641
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 2: Yo, that's just me, like.

642
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 7: For for a friend in a regular situation already already, yeah, yeah.

643
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 8: Like I'm cutting down in front. Ready, they're saying that

644
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 8: about me. That's fucking with the check.

645
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 7: In absurd, absurd. I was stunned, hurt. I knew she

646
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 7: meant me here, but I did not confront her. I

647
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 7: simply contacted my bank and I asked them to cancel

648
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 7: the check. Oh sweet, sweet revenge, No more money for you. No, no, no,

649
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 7: take those claims back, baby, that's right, put them in

650
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 7: your boat. That's right, sail away, say heal off, give

651
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 7: the seamen the orders to march back. In the evening,

652
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 7: Alicia called to ask why I had canceled the check.

653
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 5: Oh I wonder why, ha ha ha.

654
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 2: So I told her. She went back crap crazy, saying she.

655
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 5: Didn't mean it that way, and then you should have

656
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 5: sent it that in what way do you mean that?

657
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 2: Seriously?

658
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 5: Pretty explicit? I don't want to end up alone and

659
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 5: childless like you like, excuse me.

660
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 2: To be fair. That is a.

661
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 5: Some people prefer that maybe or.

662
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 8: Well no, she probably doesn't want to end up alone.

663
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 8: She's speaking her truth.

664
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And that she thought it was somewhat

665
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 7: of an inside joke between desperate.

666
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 2: And fertile women.

667
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 5: What inside jokes?

668
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 2: It's the desperate infertile women group.

669
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 5: You know what I'm going to speak on behalf of

670
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 5: all desperate infertile women. I don't think this is chill.

671
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 2: It's not okay, not like that.

672
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 7: Imagine Imagine they come back to like, hello, we are

673
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 7: we are the IVF and we have deemed that it

674
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 7: is acceptable to completely trash friends who give you twelve

675
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 7: thousand dollars for your IVM.

676
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 8: Any infertile women listening to the pod or listening wherever

677
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 8: you're listening, let me know. Maybe I'm out of touch

678
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 8: with all my infertile hose out here.

679
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 7: Maybe it's expected to it's customary to once you receive

680
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 7: twelve thousand dollars belittle your friend who does it? Yeah,

681
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 7: hey does it? We're wrong you not be aware of

682
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 7: these cultural norms. I'm you know, you know I'm not

683
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 7: aware of a lot. I'm mostly unaware. I'm walking through

684
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 7: life unconscious. So reprimand me instantly and vehemiently. If you

685
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 7: spank me, spak me mommies, yes, or I guess we

686
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 7: will spank me. See I guess the ivs, you know,

687
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 7: And then told maybe, but you know, I'll be your

688
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 7: little dirty slut kid.

689
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 5: Onto the start, and if mommy's mommies.

690
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 7: Come on and I already said that. Getting lightheaded. She

691
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 7: came over with her husband the next day, begging I

692
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:32,240
Speaker 7: write her another check, but I refused. Not today, Yeah.

693
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: Give me lost. An argument ensued, and her.

694
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 7: Husband thought that I wasn't being supportive of her like

695
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 7: she was throughout my struggles.

696
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 8: Doesn't sound like she was being very supportive, you know,

697
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 8: show pull up with show the receipts, the forty thousand dollars.

698
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 8: Check that Alicia gave that twelve thousand. But then you

699
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 8: can tell a lot of I'm like, it's got to

700
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 8: be yeah, yeah, you got a one up. Yeah you

701
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 8: can take that exactly. Let's make this whole world blind,

702
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 8: baby Hamma Rabbi, Wow, deep cut?

703
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 7: Okay, I guess I know it's a deep historical cut.

704
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 7: I know you're gonna have a Robbie that shit. I

705
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 7: don't know math, but I know one historical fact. That's

706
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 7: all my education you'll get from me.

707
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: Guys.

708
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 7: She left crying and we haven't talked since. Her husband

709
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 7: keeps reminding me while also repeatedly calling Carol a toxic snake.

710
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:28,240
Speaker 2: No shout out.

711
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 5: Carol for truth and she's a real one. She's a

712
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 5: real one.

713
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 7: Of the date of the next cycle, saying that if

714
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 7: I don't get the money, then there's no turning back.

715
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 5: I think that's the point, you know, consequences for those

716
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 5: actions exactly.

717
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: Some friends think I'm being oversensitive.

718
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 8: It's her money, bro, it's her money. I'm sorry, Like,

719
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 8: like she can do with her twelve grand, which she

720
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 8: wants to do with that twelve grand. Literally she wants

721
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 8: to give it, she can give it, she wants to

722
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 8: take it back, she can take it back. Where we

723
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 8: go on care uh oh, and technically it was never given.

724
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: That's true.

725
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 7: It wasn't even like the I guess she gave her

726
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 7: the check, but like it wasn't deposited.

727
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: Because she was able to cancel it get the funds back.

728
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: So so that just up piece of paper.

729
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 5: Carol's on my side saying I should tell them to

730
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 5: go to hell.

731
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: But I feel so bad about that.

732
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 5: Will feel bad? Open you don't feel bad?

733
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 2: What I've done? Might just damage our fifteen years of friendship.

734
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,320
Speaker 8: Oh okay, let's let's take a step back. Yeah, I

735
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 8: was gonna set back. Yeah, it will ever round fifteen

736
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 8: years as yet? But like, was that even a good

737
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,720
Speaker 8: friend to begin with? Also, like we say, with relationships,

738
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 8: how do you not know there? There has to have

739
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 8: been something in the fifteen years. She must have been

740
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 8: talking shit beforehand, yes, but all of all of her

741
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 8: toxic snake friends kept.

742
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 5: It, yeah, under under wraps. You never know, Carol, come

743
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 5: and clean for real?

744
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 2: Should we do? Uh?

745
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 7: Maybe I shouldn't have canceled the check, but I just

746
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 7: felt so offended by what she said about But I

747
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 7: just felt so offended by what she said about me

748
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 7: and how she basically mocked my unfortunate circumstances.

749
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 8: How could you not feel offended this this this lady

750
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 8: literally like shatting her for a full paragraph.

751
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,839
Speaker 5: Such such a like painful part of your life.

752
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah, it's like, you know, don't make nine

753
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 8: to eleven jokes. She just hit hit us with some

754
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 8: like like two nine to elevens, two nine to elevens.

755
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 2: I don't know.

756
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 5: She's like the equivalent of two nets.

757
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 2: Oh you gotta double mistakes, Yeah, double down guys. Yeah.

758
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 8: Also, isn't it crazy that then the like when I

759
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 8: think of nine to eleven like the two elevens like

760
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 8: twin towers.

761
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 7: I've literally never realized that before coincidence? New conspiracy podcast? Hmmm,

762
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 7: I think about al Gore did it on steal beams?

763
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 2: Let me see this?

764
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 8: How can does jet fuel melt seal beams? H I

765
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 8: don't even know the conspirat theory correctly.

766
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 2: And there's an update.

767
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 7: Hello again, Hello again, and thank you so much for

768
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:19,479
Speaker 7: all the support and compassion. Ge're welcome, You're welcome, OPI

769
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 7: I could have felt it through the screen. I have

770
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 7: decided that I'm going to be putting some distance between

771
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 7: me and Alicia Smart, laying it down things Things have

772
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 7: been rough lately and I think that distance is what

773
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 7: I need right now, especially for my mental health. After

774
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 7: reading some comments here, I now feel less. I now

775
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 7: feel less heavy and more relieved.

776
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 5: Good.

777
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, you don't deserve to feel bad at all.

778
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 8: No, you were about to do a really, really nice thing,

779
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 8: and seriously your friend was being But.

780
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 7: It doesn't change the fact that I'm It doesn't change

781
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 7: the fact that I still feel completely and utterly shocked

782
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 7: by Alicia's behavior. It's a shame having to come to

783
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 7: the realization that even those who are supportive of you

784
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 7: the most could cause.

785
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 2: You the most harm. Yeah.

786
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 5: Often, you know, sometimes it's really the people closest to

787
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 5: you that the most.

788
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 2: They got, they got the most dirty.

789
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 5: They got the dirty deats on you, dirty deats.

790
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 7: And by the way, I sent Carol a link to

791
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 7: this thread to see what her thoughts are, and she

792
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 7: just laughed.

793
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 8: Dude, Carol's laughing her ass off. Carol is a pig

794
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 8: and shit with this stuff. Carol, Carol's a real like

795
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 8: justice is being served, that's right.

796
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 7: She was kind of angry I used her real name,

797
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 7: but relieved that I used to throw away myself.

798
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:36,959
Speaker 5: Okay.

799
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 8: Also, we had no idea Carol was a real name

800
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 8: until then. OPI, So Carol, come on the show.

801
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 5: Carol, come on the show.

802
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,760
Speaker 2: We've already exposed to your name. That was already exposed.

803
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, Carol, if you're looking at this right now, yes,

804
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 8: dm us on Instagram. Yeah, and tell us that you're

805
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 8: the real Carol and we'll interview you.

806
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 2: That's right. Let's make it happen.

807
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 5: Let's do it.

808
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 7: If you thought this story was crazy, check out this

809
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 7: one right here where the parents stopped paying for IVF

810
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 7: because op was too poor.

811
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 2: Check it out here or link in the description.