1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Let's go. Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: full you, we got the strawbary letter. Thank you subject 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: my boyfriend's sex therapist or my boyfriend's sexy therapist. Okay, 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: dear Stephen, surely yeah, I am jealous of my boyfriend's therapist. 5 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: She's attractive, the same age as us and his type 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: as far as looks go. He is also drawn to 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: women who are supportive. He insists on seeing her every 8 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: two weeks to discuss issues. He is seeing her for 9 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: stress management because his business is struggling and he has 10 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: problems with addiction. I personally do not see any improvement 11 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: and is drinking because he still drinks heavily when he 12 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: is stressed over the business. I wonder what she does 13 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:46,919 Speaker 1: for him, and am I jealous um that she might 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: encourage or support him in ways that I can't. I 15 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: am jealous that she might encourage or support him in 16 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: ways that I can't. Am I wrong to feel threatened? 17 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: I believe men and women can't be friends without strong 18 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: sexual urges, and therapy requires a deep intimacy. I would 19 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: feel different if it were a man counseling him. What 20 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: are your thoughts? Is this more than just therapy, please help. Well, 21 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: you know I'm with you if you feel a certain way, 22 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: al right, it may not necessarily be true, but if 23 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: you feel this way, we of course have our intuition. 24 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: It could be something underlying and going on here, especially 25 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: if he keeps seeing her and he's not improving. I mean, 26 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: the whole point is for him to improve and you know, 27 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: distress and and get rid of some of his issues. 28 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: So if that's not happening, then yes, it is time 29 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: for a new therapist. And I would do, if I 30 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,919 Speaker 1: were you, do my due diligence and look for someone, 31 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: look for another therapist because um, and and let me 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: say this as well, just because she's beautiful and attractive 33 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: in his type does not mean that she's not doing 34 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: his job. I'm just going by what you said in 35 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: the letter. She's not doing her job. Um, it's not working. 36 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: So maybe he's caught up because she looks a certain 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: way or whatever and he can't and he's feel in 38 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: some kind of way. So if I were you, I 39 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: would get another therapist. There are thousands and thousands of 40 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: therapists out there. Uh, And you can just explain it 41 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: to him as you don't think this is working and 42 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: his problems are getting worse instead of better. Because that's 43 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: exactly what it sounds like. Your proof is right here 44 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: in this letter, and say I found another more reputable 45 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: therapist and maybe we should go take a look at him. Okay, 46 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: keyword in that sentence him all right, nephew, come on, 47 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: you want me to do it right now? Okay, I'll 48 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: tell you what you show. You want me to do 49 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: it right now. If I got a lot, I got 50 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: a lot built up. I got a lot because I 51 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: understand what this brother going. Okay, maybe you need a therapist. 52 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: So um, Okay, we don't have a lot of time. 53 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: We'll go to break right now and come back and 54 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: I'll let you have as much. Okay, okay, okay, all right, 55 00:02:54,680 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna all right. We'll be back at twenty three 56 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: after the hour with nephews answer to this letter. My 57 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 1: boyfriend's sexy therapist is the subject. Yes, all right, don't 58 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: forget Today at one thirty pm we will be discussing 59 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: this very letter for you. Okay. I'm sure you guys 60 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: have your own opinions. I like you know when you 61 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: hear our opinions, but I always love to hear from 62 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: the audience. So one thirty today, please join me for 63 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Live After show on Facebook. Alright, alright, nephew, 64 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: let's go. Uh. My boyfriend's Sexy Therapist is the title 65 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: of the subject of this letter. A woman wrote in 66 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: she's jealous of her boyfriend's therapist. He has to go 67 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: there because he's so stressed and he needs it for 68 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: stress management. His business is struggling, he has problems with addiction. 69 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: She the therapist, is attractive. She is the same age 70 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: as they are, and she is his type as far 71 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: as looks go. So the young lady, his girlfriend that 72 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: wrote the letter is jealous and she wants to know. 73 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: Um should she be jealous? Is there's more than just therapy? 74 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: P um? She would feel differently if it were a 75 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: man counseling him. And she thinks that men and women 76 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: can't be friends because of a strong sexual urges, especially 77 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: you know, if there's an attraction or both parties are attractive. 78 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: So what do you have to say? Now? Your man 79 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: is doing it with her every two weeks. And it 80 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: is a beautiful thing. It is a beautiful thing. It 81 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: is a stress reliever. What it's a stress relief they're 82 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: doing it. What Yeah, you know what women can't see 83 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: when somebody doing it. They're doing it people, they're doing 84 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: it every two weeks. And if you don't mind, can 85 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: you send me her number because I'm stressed too and 86 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: I need a number for some stress relief. All do you? 87 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: All I'm asking for is to send now. You didn't 88 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: send us the number when you wrote the letter helped 89 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,679 Speaker 1: a lot of people out. Yes, I need stress relief. 90 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: I'm going through something. I do radio in the morning, 91 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: I do a stage play at night. I'm trying to 92 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: get a sit I'm doing all. Will Packer won't call 93 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: me back. I'm stressed. Bentley Evans won't call me back. 94 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: John Singleton has not called me back. I'm stressed right now. Yes, 95 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: I need this. It's relieved to text every two weeks 96 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: from a beautiful woman, beautiful thing. I dropped out, That's 97 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. That's stress. That's stress. If I 98 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: drop out, it's stressed. By sending the number when you sit, 99 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: when you sent the letter, sending the number, you could 100 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: have helped some people and some people stressed over here? 101 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: What city are you in? What do y'all live? I 102 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: might fly down there. I want you know what if 103 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: I can actually fly down there every two weeks and 104 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: relieved this kind of stress, that's what I'm looking for 105 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: stress relieved. How long did Steve give Tommy's marriage right before? Yeah? 106 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: I got a problem with organized Ah, this is this 107 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: is what I mean. I'm stressed. Okay, can you help 108 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: a brother out here? I kind of agree with him 109 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: because to get better and it takes time. And that's 110 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: why he's constantly seeing her every two weeks. The good 111 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: work takes time. You're not gonna be cured instantly. How 112 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: long you've been seeing this lady? Get a new therapist? No, no, no, no, 113 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: he's putting the work in and you don't see a 114 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: change right away. Take time. That's why he's got to 115 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 1: see her constantly. He's working on his problem. First you 116 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: asked him, man, to go get help now because you 117 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: don't see the change right away. You got a problem. 118 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: He's working on his addiction. Okay, come on, the young one, Okay, 119 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: he's working on it. You have anything to add j 120 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: because I'm just listen to me. Please get a new 121 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: therapist for you, man, all right? Why the ladies don't 122 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: see it? Take time? We have to move on. Thank 123 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: you guys before we do it. Seriously, can you get them? 124 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: We gotta job, Tommy. Join me on Facebook Live today 125 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: at one thirty pm Eastern time. We're going to talk 126 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: about this particular strawberry letter.