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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: I like Charlie.

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Speaker 3: I like dumb its. I like stunning.

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Speaker 4: I like shunning.

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Speaker 3: I like a million dollar deals.

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Speaker 4: Where's my plan?

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Speaker 2: Did some stun?

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Speaker 3: I like those bless yeah, the ones that look like that.

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Speaker 4: I like going to the.

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Speaker 2: Teler I pulled Boxol in my watch.

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Speaker 4: I like Texest from my Excess.

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Speaker 3: When they want the second chance, I like pulling Nakelas

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Speaker 3: wrong and do what they say I can't. They call

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Speaker 3: me bo gotty, spice mommy some money a dinner money

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Speaker 3: I have to do.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Mom's bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: It's Erica, and we are good Mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: How was your birthday?

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Speaker 4: How was the Ruber? It was really fun. It was

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Speaker 4: really really perfect. It was just beautiful. I mean the

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Speaker 4: first day, the first day and a half was a

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Speaker 4: little rough. We thought we could like thug it in

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Speaker 4: Airbnb and like clearly werebougie as fuck. So we was

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Speaker 4: your not nice.

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Speaker 1: And side either.

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Speaker 2: It was nice, it was clean.

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Speaker 4: It was just small. It was away from everything. You know,

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Speaker 4: you traveled to like an island you want to be

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Speaker 4: on that you want to wake up and look at

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Speaker 4: the water, yeah or else? What's the point. And it

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Speaker 4: was like you know, you remember like Caribbean islands are beautiful,

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Speaker 2: There was like straight dogs, I mean they made even

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Speaker 2: someone's dogs.

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Speaker 4: They were darks.

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Speaker 1: Oh they were trade dogs.

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Speaker 4: Dirt roads. There was just nothing around us. So we scrambled.

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Speaker 4: We asked the guy like, first of all, they gave

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Speaker 4: us a unit that we didn't request and it was

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Speaker 4: clear because we could see it, and we're like, you know,

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Speaker 4: this is not we expected. And he was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'll switch you. I'm like no, and he wasn't trying

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Speaker 4: to give us our money back. But thank god, my

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Speaker 4: best friend's a jew. That bitch can finagle it anything.

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Speaker 4: And she disputed the charges with the bank. So we

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Speaker 4: stayed one night. We've been paying for the one night,

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Speaker 4: and we stayed. And then we went to the Renaissance

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Speaker 4: Resort and my other friend flew in and I thought

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Speaker 4: she was gonna be like, what the fuck did you

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Speaker 2: But we like hustled together.

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Speaker 4: I made a few phone calls and we ended up

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Speaker 4: staying at the Renaissance, which is perfect, and then we

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Speaker 4: went out. We met some guys, we went to the

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Speaker 4: after hours we found weed after hours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we found the after hours in the room. We

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Speaker 2: met a friend.

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Speaker 4: We had a good time. We had a really good time.

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Speaker 4: We like we was a cabana on my birthday. Danielle

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Speaker 4: was supposed to be like two sixty five. Danielle's Jewish

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Speaker 4: ash hustled it down to one hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: I can't travel with Danielle and a.

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Speaker 4: Bottle of champagne, okay. And then they just like and

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Speaker 4: it was like, you know, like I like to be

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Speaker 4: as naked as possible. It was topless. I was happy.

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Speaker 1: It looked amazing. It was flamingos.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, flamingos on the private island.

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Speaker 4: And if we had we not stayed the Renaissance, the

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Speaker 4: private island was like a hund undred and thirty dollars

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Speaker 2: But if you stay at the hotel's free.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you stayed on a private island.

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Speaker 4: No, So the private island was like a five minute

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Speaker 4: six minute boat ride from the resort.

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Speaker 2: Oh, but to go there you have to be and

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Speaker 2: so you would you go daily?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we could go daily. So we went a couple

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Speaker 4: The ship flew back. I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: in like a cave, a wild excursion to a natural pool.

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Speaker 4: It was awesome. We found all these bomb ass restaurants.

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Speaker 4: It was like a restaurant you actually eat. Your feet

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Speaker 4: are into the water like while you eat. Ooh. It

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Speaker 4: was really sexy. The men are sexy as hell. Seemingly

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Speaker 4: they're all like twenty three years old. Though.

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's not gonna work.

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Speaker 4: Even packed condoms, thinking oh yeah, this is gonna be

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Speaker 2: Gonna be my trip.

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Speaker 4: I got no play. It was our very calm, like

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Speaker 4: both my friends don't drink that much. They like turned

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Speaker 4: all right, bitch, time to go home.

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Speaker 2: So it was like a girl shiit.

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Speaker 1: It was really fun.

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Speaker 4: I had a really good thirtieth and I can't complain.

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Speaker 4: I'm really happy. I was really happy to wake up

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Speaker 4: in a group on my thirtieth. I missed love so

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Speaker 4: much though, because there's like flamingos and iguanas and cool

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Speaker 4: shit that I knew she would like appreciate. But other

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Speaker 4: like two more days.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it was nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like I got a tant. Your legs look darker,

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Speaker 1: your face looks the same color.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, I don't know how that works out. Dannelle

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Speaker 2: came out like a light skin blacker, all same color. Great,

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Speaker 2: your legs look darker, they look more like reddish.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, I thought I was gonna look like I

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Speaker 1: You do you look you look like you got a glow.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, you gotta glow. I loved all your photos.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, bitch, are these the picturess folders.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was the press folder photos I got. I

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Speaker 4: didn't get to all of my pictures photos, but I

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Speaker 1: I thought you from Danielle. I was like, that is

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Speaker 1: for sure. The pins photo, the sandy cheeks.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I gotta shoot the picture of her

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Speaker 4: trying to do it to me. Her fucking hands looks

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Speaker 4: like face. It's like baseballment. What the fuck is this?

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Speaker 4: It was the funniest shit I've ever seen that bad

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love those photos with like the sandy hands

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Speaker 2: I couldn't find any coconuts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, the only thing I didn't see

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Speaker 2: I forgot to find the coconut for the picture.

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Speaker 1: Could I didn't have a coconut. I could have been

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Speaker 1: a pineapple, those pineapple drink I don't know what I

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Speaker 2: I was shots, but everybody was really nice.

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Speaker 1: I got you a little gift. Okay, ignore this packaging.

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Speaker 1: It's really terrible.

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Speaker 4: You know how to give me a gift?

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Speaker 1: Oh my do sweet? I went bot you some makeup

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Speaker 1: because I don't know what else to get. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: makeups my life. I don't know if that's your color.

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Speaker 1: I tried my best I have the receipts so of it.

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Speaker 1: I think actually one is my color, okaya, like cover effects.

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Speaker 4: Only, Like a real friend is going to buy you

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Speaker 4: a foundation, Like nobody gives anyone foundation.

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Speaker 1: I was on Instagram looking at your photos, but I

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Speaker 2: Know if this is going to be her color.

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Speaker 1: Anymore.

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Speaker 2: So ittually looks like a matches. Oh, she looks like

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Speaker 2: it might work. Oh my god, but who knows because

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Speaker 2: my face is slider than the rest of my body.

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Speaker 2: But you wanted to match. Yeah, you want your neck

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Speaker 1: So if it's not, let me know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like all foundation matches when you put on powder.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 1: And then this is from the Aliyah macclas and I

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Speaker 1: I know you like these colors they're trying to sell me.

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Speaker 1: I was like, girl, this ain't my color.

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Speaker 2: This is like it looks like a bullet. Ooh, this

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Speaker 4: And I'm so happy because I just left my dark

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Speaker 4: lips that I got from the hair store for five

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Speaker 1: They said that it looks really good over a red too,

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Speaker 1: like a red underneath that over it, it's really good.

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Speaker 4: Oh, thank you. And then this is what I'm really

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's see what because Loki, I almost bought it

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Speaker 4: Ooh, I've I haven't had any fancy anything yet I've

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Speaker 4: to open it, it's like a kid's toy. Impossible. Oh

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Speaker 4: my god, I don't have a have you ever have

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: What is it? It's a glitter bomb? What girl?

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Speaker 1: It just it just you just put it on. It's

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Speaker 1: a never ending glitter like body. It's it needs to

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Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it. This is so yeah,

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Speaker 4: Its body glow.

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Speaker 2: It's really this is so cool, Rihanna. If you keep

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Speaker 4: Oh this is nice.

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Speaker 5: I like this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I figure, oh look, yeah, it's coming, it's coming.

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Speaker 1: But that's just how lot comes.

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Speaker 2: Out than my first fancy product. I'm very excited about it.

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Speaker 2: There you go, there you go.

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Speaker 4: Hey, hey, girl, had good friends. Get you makeing?

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Speaker 2: Wait look at the look at the glitter.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, oh thank you.

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Speaker 2: Welcome, very welcome.

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Speaker 4: I know you were dressed about thirty.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, at last, look flawless. Her lips

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Speaker 1: will be moisturized and her body will glow. That's all

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Speaker 1: that's important.

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Speaker 2: She'll look very young and sparkly.

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Speaker 4: I was actually very mature on this trip. I didn't

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Speaker 4: I it was just two very square squarer than me.

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Speaker 1: Girls. You read. I saw you're reading books. I did.

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Speaker 4: I'm reading this book.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you if you read it before agreements.

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Speaker 1: I've started that book five hundred times.

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Speaker 2: You didn't finish it.

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Speaker 4: My last trip, I started reading it.

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Speaker 1: It's because you know what it is. I always start reading.

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Speaker 4: On the plane, and then you forget when you're on

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Speaker 2: I need to delete it because Snapchat is thet thing

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Speaker 4: I use it sometimes, apparently I do when I'm drunk

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Speaker 4: me too.

448
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Speaker 1: Really yeah, I am sure we're not listening.

449
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Speaker 2: Yes, I was just at the park right here in

450
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Speaker 2: Bill Poem. Oh yeah, yeah, I know.

451
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Speaker 1: I'm really excited for that too. We just have to

452
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Speaker 1: find a place.

453
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Speaker 4: And Good Moms has like fifteen, Like how many followers

454
00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,119
Speaker 4: are I don't know, like a thousand less than me

455
00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:19,120
Speaker 4: and I've had Instagram for like seven years. Like we're

456
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Speaker 4: so popular, but we're popping.

457
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Speaker 2: We are popping.

458
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Speaker 4: And just as a reminder, well this won't make sense

459
00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,600
Speaker 4: to be a reminder on here. Well we're recording too,

460
00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:34,440
Speaker 4: but we're on Apple Podcasts, We're on SoundCloud, we're on iHeartRadio,

461
00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:38,200
Speaker 4: and we're on Spotify right right, Yes, and if you

462
00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,120
Speaker 4: need any questions, just flow to our website because they're

463
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Speaker 4: all listed on there too.

464
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you can also send us again your horries,

465
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Speaker 1: horror stories, horror stories like you know, like when you

466
00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:51,400
Speaker 1: were being a whore. You know, last time we talked

467
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Speaker 1: about really stepping up your horror stories. So if you

468
00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:56,320
Speaker 1: feel like they're not up to par, then you know,

469
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Speaker 1: maybe this weekend, take some time and go make some memories.

470
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Speaker 2: Honestly, make some more stories.

471
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Speaker 4: The first like five years of my twenties, I realized

472
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Speaker 4: that I was making decisions primarily on like, oh, this

473
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Speaker 4: will be a good story to tell. Probably got a

474
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Speaker 4: good decision, but now it's worth God knew then that

475
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,399
Speaker 4: I would have a podcast and I would have to

476
00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 4: talk about these things. But yes, uh, what is our topic? Today, Erica,

477
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

478
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,600
Speaker 1: I listened to Drake's album, which is not our topic today,

479
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Speaker 1: but I listened to part of Drake's album than most

480
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Speaker 1: of it.

481
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Speaker 2: It's like half Wrap, half.

482
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Speaker 4: R and B.

483
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Speaker 1: I only got to like track nine on the FU side.

484
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Speaker 2: How do you know which side is which side?

485
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Speaker 1: Because when I saw the track list online, it was

486
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Speaker 1: like side A side B. But then look at it,

487
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:53,800
Speaker 1: like three starts like it goes from ten and then

488
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Speaker 1: or twelve and then it restarts out. So I got

489
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Speaker 1: to add a ten song at a ten.

490
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Speaker 4: I'm just always so confused about like Wrap beefs because

491
00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 4: oh yeah, like talk Up is featuring jay.

492
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Speaker 2: Z, which is a good song, but like I thought

493
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Speaker 2: they didn't like, Oh God, it's so sucky.

494
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Speaker 1: Jesus.

495
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,120
Speaker 4: I always say this, and I just think you're crazy.

496
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Speaker 1: I hate his mouth.

497
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:16,480
Speaker 4: I don't lick those lips.

498
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Speaker 2: It's like it's like he's trying to push them out,

499
00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:20,440
Speaker 2: like he's trying to have duck face.

500
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Speaker 4: I don't see.

501
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Speaker 2: I think he's just impeccably. Like this is his album cover.

502
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Speaker 4: Stop, he looks beautiful.

503
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,719
Speaker 2: Look at those lines, look at those look at those waves.

504
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,399
Speaker 4: His mouth is so cute.

505
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Speaker 2: He's so he's too pretty for me.

506
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Speaker 1: I also feel like his eyebrows are too far apart

507
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 1: in the middle, like there's a really.

508
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Speaker 2: Large gap right here. We get micro blade those in

509
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Speaker 2: right here.

510
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Speaker 4: You're crazy. I loved Rake. He could do no wrong

511
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 4: in my eyes. So did you think that's good? Did

512
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Speaker 4: you see it?

513
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Speaker 1: Mindy's Mindy said it was terrible?

514
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 4: Mindy, Yeah, what the hell?

515
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 1: She was like, don't bother listening, it's terrible. And then

516
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Speaker 1: someone else in my friends said it was terrible too,

517
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 1: so I was like, what the fuck?

518
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not like super crazy about it, but

519
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:04,480
Speaker 2: it's probably for the bitches.

520
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Speaker 4: It's like because he's rapping half the time, and you know,

521
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 4: we're like when he'd be singing and shit, I like

522
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 4: both both. I mean, he admits to the baby. He

523
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 4: makes a line about the baby, which I guess it

524
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 4: was inevitable because push your Tea analad for him.

525
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Speaker 2: So he had to tell.

526
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Speaker 4: But I don't know. I enjoy him most. First of all,

527
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Speaker 4: I'm a sapio but is it sabio sexual? Yeah, Like

528
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 4: I really like people. I like people, and I think

529
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Speaker 4: he's safe. Sabio sexual is like a really intelligent person

530
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Speaker 4: right now. I thought it was like life, like being

531
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Speaker 4: attracted to somebody's mind. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think

532
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Speaker 4: that he oh yeah, well yeah, intelligent, I guess.

533
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Speaker 2: I just think that he's like he's willing to be

534
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Speaker 2: vulnerable and be honest and authentic, and that makes him

535
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Speaker 2: very attractive.

536
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Speaker 4: Like he's not a lot. He's not like afraid to

537
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Speaker 4: talk about his feelings, and to me, that makes a

538
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Speaker 4: man masculine if you can balance like being true to

539
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Speaker 4: your feelings and also being against it.

540
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,119
Speaker 1: But who, I'm sorry as a as a as someone

541
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 1: who was in a relationship with a robber for a

542
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Speaker 1: very long time. You can't believe these niggas and what

543
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Speaker 1: they say.

544
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 4: It sounds so twisted. It's half of them.

545
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: Don't live by the words that they say, don't do

546
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 1: the same. They don't do this ship, they say, to

547
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 1: his defense, is living the life that he says. I

548
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 1: don't know about his actions and what he does, but

549
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: you know he can talk about pulling out the may

550
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 1: bag and the rollie and.

551
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 4: All that ship.

552
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Speaker 1: But don't get it twisted, because Drake might not be

553
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Speaker 1: doing none of the work, the emotional work that he

554
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Speaker 1: claims to be doing on this.

555
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 4: Record, do we all are we all? Are we all

556
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Speaker 4: not walking contradictions?

557
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Speaker 1: Agreed? And I feel like it's harder for people in

558
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Speaker 1: his position because he's surrounded by yes men I'm sure

559
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Speaker 1: of I'm sure he has a she has. I'm sure

560
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:05,119
Speaker 1: he's a few real ones. But you you don't have

561
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: to talk, you don't have to work on yourself, and

562
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Speaker 1: everyone tells you how fucking great you are.

563
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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't know, I'm

564
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Speaker 4: not I don't know him.

565
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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I know I.

566
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Speaker 1: Very rarely believe anything these niggas say on a rap

567
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 1: verse because of personal experience.

568
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Speaker 2: First of all, your hates all rappers, clearly. I like

569
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Speaker 2: Donald Glover.

570
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 4: I love Donald Love, and I like Kendrick and I

571
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 4: like J Cole. He also seems authentic. Also, he's very sexy. Eh,

572
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 4: this is my this is my universal simple for sexy

573
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Speaker 4: likely lick. Yeah.

574
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, girl, you just like light skin men's

575
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Speaker 1: with beards. You said that on you said that on

576
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Speaker 1: last week's episode, which I went back and listened, and

577
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: I was like, true, and like you're affirming it right now.

578
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:55,880
Speaker 4: I know. I went with young I went with young

579
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Speaker 4: En somewhere like when he was out here, and these

580
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 4: two like little white teenagers were like, need.

581
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: To say a little white to.

582
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 2: That sounds terrible.

583
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 4: Sure, Mom came up to us. It was like, Hi,

584
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 4: excuse me, my girls think you look just like Drake.

585
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, back off, but clearly appetite.

586
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 4: Even though I talked all this ship on the last

587
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 4: episode about not having no type, not saying this and this,

588
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 4: and Naty like walking contradiction.

589
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Speaker 2: I love me a lights came brun No, I'm just kidding.

590
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: Well, speaking of uh, you know types, I'm going on

591
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Speaker 1: a Tinder date today with someone who's I can't say that.

592
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they've never really been my type.

593
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 2: I'm going on a date with an Asian man and

594
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Speaker 2: who was very attractive.

595
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Speaker 1: He's Taiwanese.

596
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Speaker 2: I didn't show him.

597
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Speaker 1: He's Taiwanese. And you know what Jimmy Li said when

598
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Speaker 1: I said way where he was from, she was like, oh,

599
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Speaker 1: he's the Niggas of Asians.

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Speaker 6: Okay, it's true, it's true. Oh shit, yeah, oh god

601
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Speaker 6: damn it, you don't do that.

602
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Speaker 4: Just yeah, well that first of all, we're gonna don't

603
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Speaker 4: come for me for saying that, because everybody came for

604
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 4: Lisa for saying Korean's for the niggas of Asian no Filipinos.

605
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Speaker 1: But you didn't mean it like that.

606
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: I know you didn't mean it like that.

607
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Speaker 1: You meant like he's the brother, He's the brother of

608
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Speaker 1: the Asians, like first he got the swag, he he'd.

609
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 6: Look like it.

610
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 4: I think that Asians and black people have a lot

611
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Speaker 4: in common, like like not even only just features, but

612
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Speaker 4: just I just think in general we do. I don't

613
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Speaker 4: know if I everything wants to acknowledge it on the

614
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,439
Speaker 4: Asian side, but I agree.

615
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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like they are They're an afterthought

616
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Speaker 1: when it comes to racial injustice in America.

617
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Speaker 4: But they.

618
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Speaker 2: All Indians, Indians, Asians.

619
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Speaker 1: It's always so focused on blacks and like Hispanics that

620
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Speaker 1: we forget about Asians.

621
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Speaker 2: I also want to reach that. I said last episode

622
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Speaker 2: because I read an Instagram the post and.

623
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Speaker 4: I was saying, like everybody came from Africa, but they

624
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 4: said no, like Africa, like black, dark skinned people are

625
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 4: like native.

626
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: To many places like Aborigines.

627
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 4: In Australia, and if you go to like the deep

628
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 4: deep mountains of like Asia, they have thick, coarse hair

629
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Speaker 4: and dark.

630
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Speaker 2: Skin, so basically like.

631
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 4: Melanin comes from like a native people, not necessarily just Africa.

632
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Speaker 2: So that was maybe not a smart comment that I made.

633
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 2: Oh you educated yourself. You didn't know, now you know.

634
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 2: And I just read that on Instagram, But it made

635
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Speaker 2: sense because Instagram is the urban dictionary.

636
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Speaker 4: Instagram is Ted history.

637
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Speaker 1: I don't have to listen to Ted Talk.

638
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 2: I have Instagram. Instagram said it's true.

639
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 4: So it is. Oh my god, this is gonna be

640
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 4: on overheard, La.

641
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 2: Do you have all that account Instagram?

642
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 4: Oh that account so funny. There's so many times I

643
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 4: want to write it because I've heard funny shit.

644
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 2: But then if you can just make sit up, because

645
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 2: I think they can't have that much. No, I think

646
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: it's real. Oh my god, there was something I overheard

647
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 2: meeting overheard one time.

648
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 4: We were in a car and two black guys were

649
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 4: driving by on bikes and they were like saying something.

650
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I wish I can remember.

651
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 4: It was like, yeah, then she said like black people

652
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 4: are the most athletic and best dancers, riding off on

653
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 4: their bikes.

654
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: Bikes away. Yeah. If you guys haven't heard of that account,

655
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: they have them all over the United States. They have

656
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 1: overheard La, they have overheard New York, overheard like Portland,

657
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: like they have a bunch of different ones And basically

658
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: it's just soundbites that people hear of, like different people's

659
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 1: conversations where people stay the weirdest, dumbest, truest.

660
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 4: I'm sure.

661
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes they would be like, yeah, that's yeah, that's true.

662
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 4: Do you like light skin guys? So are you like

663
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 4: against it?

664
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: Like, are you do you tend to gravitate more towards chocolate?

665
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 2: I have, I have to say I have an affinity

666
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 2: for chocolate men.

667
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: But no, but I but I start my dating career,

668
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: my dating career back in kindergarten. No, my first boyfriend

669
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: like was light skin, and I did. I always I

670
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: only like light skin guys for a long time. I

671
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 1: think maybe because there's a familiarity there. Oh, I don't know,

672
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 1: if it's because I don't know. Also, actually in high

673
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: school I did date a really dark skinned black guy,

674
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 1: and then I started dating a light skin guy after him.

675
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't, I don't know. But anyway,

676
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: the guy that I'm going to date with, he's Taiwanese.

677
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm actually looking forward to it because it's totally new experience.

678
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 4: He's bald, he's kind of short though he's five ten.

679
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 4: I'm five six, sat bad, just wear a little kid

680
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 4: in her any heels.

681
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: He's I think he does something photography, but he looks

682
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: like actually legit, like he has a career.

683
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 4: Okay, like not really.

684
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we'll see, we'll see how that goes.

685
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 4: Uh And.

686
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: Well, I told you that. So I took a page

687
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: from Mila's book while I was out of town. I

688
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: just I was in Florida this weekend doing home shopping

689
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: Network and I have a guy out there actually that

690
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: I met on Tinder and he's really really really fine

691
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: and he's a doctor, and you know, whenever I.

692
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: Go out there, like you know, we hit it up.

693
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: But this time I was just like, I'm just feeling

694
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: really weird about dating now and I just feel like

695
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: I deserve more.

696
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 2: And he hit me and I was like, what do

697
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: you want to do?

698
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: I was like, let's go get a drink and he

699
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: was like, you never drink in my house and I

700
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: was like no. I was like, don't assume even though

701
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: you should not. We don't fuck, but still I don't

702
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: assume that I'm going to come to your house, like

703
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: i'ven't seeing you in months. We don't ever like you barely,

704
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: we barely connect. I felt like a prostitute. I was like,

705
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: you could at least humor mere. Let's have a drink

706
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: so I need to eat. So I just really ghosted

707
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: him the whole trip. And then I was on the

708
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: phone with my boo out here and I asked him

709
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: straight up because Jamila was like, I asked my young

710
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: little young thing if he hooks up with girls all

711
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: the time, Like I just straight up ask him, And

712
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, you do, and you're reasoning behind it made sense.

713
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, so I can acknowledge, you know, my jealousy,

714
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: and I can reevaluate my expectations because that's what you know.

715
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: I'm working on this month and probably the rest of

716
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: the year, honestly, because it's way more than a month

717
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: long journey. Yeah, but like really avidly working on it,

718
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: like constantly. So I was like, you know what I'm

719
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: to what Jamila does, I'm gonna ask this Megga, So

720
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: he fuck anybody, because the Lord knows I haven't. It's

721
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: been a dry spell and he's run along with this relationship.

722
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: You know, he lives ten miles from me, so and

723
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: I was like, so, why have you had sex? And

724
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: he was like, he looked at me.

725
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 4: We're on FaceTime, so you go run that.

726
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm so that's how you do that.

727
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 4: The FaceTime is also the key because then you can

728
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,959
Speaker 4: look at them and see if they're lying, but then

729
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 4: they also can look at you when you're mad, so

730
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 4: that it goes both ways. Yeah, it was true because

731
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,479
Speaker 4: I'm really bad at hiding feelings.

732
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: So he was like.

733
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 4: I was like, so, have you slept with anyone?

734
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: And he was looked at me like confused and.

735
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 2: Like smiling at the same time, and he was like,

736
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, have you.

737
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: I was like no, and not because I don't want to.

738
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: I just haven't.

739
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,959
Speaker 2: And he was like oh, And I was like, well

740
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: was it good? And he was not expecting me to

741
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: like get deep in there, because I want to know that.

742
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: I was like, what was it good?

743
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 4: They have to have like be prepared if it was,

744
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 4: and he tried to dodge the question.

745
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, you know, it was with that

746
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: girl that I told you about before that I had

747
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: kind of like cut off.

748
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 2: She's white girl.

749
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, with the maca.

750
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: I think so Charlie's there and look lots of makeup.

751
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: She'd look like a lot of Okay, I couldn't really

752
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: tell them she's pretty though she made for far away.

753
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: I don't know wis she looks like really up close.

754
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: It was one he like suggested we could possibly like

755
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: have a threesome way yeah, yeah, but that she was

756
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: too jealous so it wouldn't happen. And I was like, well, anyway,

757
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: uh so.

758
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 2: It was her and I was like oh, and he

759
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, it was her, And I was like,

760
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: you didn't answer my question.

761
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 4: He's like what. I was like, was it good?

762
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 2: And he was like, I mean and yeah, it was.

763
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 4: It was good.

764
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: It was fine. It was good, and I was like okay,

765
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: and then we'd like changed the subject or then he

766
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: was like why are you having He asked me, why

767
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: aren't you having sex? And I was like, I just

768
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: have it. He's like, there's no one that's been like

769
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: wanting to and.

770
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I mean, I get my I have

771
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 2: people that are interested. I just found interested, like the

772
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: people have had sex with.

773
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: Like, I'm just it's not gonna yeah. And then I

774
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: was like, I'm just gonna be honest with him, I

775
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: feel jealous. I told him. I was like, I feel jealous,

776
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: and he's like jealous that I had sex with someone else,

777
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: or jealous that I've had sex and you have it both,

778
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: And it's exactly what I said. I not.

779
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: I said, I'll call you back.

780
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 4: I need to start swiping, and I did, and I

781
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 4: found I went on a Tinder date out there.

782
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 1: I found a guy. He seemed like cool, another another

783
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: he was like an analytical chemist. I'm like, what is

784
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: going on in Saint Petersburg floor? All these doctors's so

785
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: many doctors like I matched with a lot of doctors

786
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: out there. Met up with him. He seemed cool, was nice,

787
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: was cute.

788
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 2: He kind of reminded me of Broke Bay from episode when.

789
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 4: You When you told me that, I thought you meant

790
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 4: that he seemed broke. No, he actually he looked like

791
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 4: him sort of okay, but he's obviously smart.

792
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 2: He's not smart. Well, Broke Bay wasn't unsmart.

793
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 4: I mean not smart.

794
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: He's he has a career. Yeah, and I don't even

795
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: know if Broke Bay's broke. He just wasn't hygienically. He

796
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: wasn't cleaning his Mini Cooper or nails. No I don't

797
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: remember the nails, but I know his phone was pissy,

798
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: his cracked phone. So then okay, so then we're like

799
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: talking where it's going well, but I'm like, I can't

800
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:49,479
Speaker 1: get Broke Bay out of my head.

801
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna start calling him that that is so fucked up.

802
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: The other Bay former Bay.

803
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: We did stick with the nicknames, so we can keep trying.

804
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: Okay, no Chemistry Bay. That's where he started, and he

805
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: went and he traveled into Broke Bay. Okay, so he

806
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: traveled it so so reminded me.

807
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 2: Of him, just like his looks and like his the

808
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 2: way he like talked a little bit.

809
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: And uh, I was like tired. I had had a

810
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 1: show that I had like four shows that day and

811
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: I had slept like three hours, and I was like,

812
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm really tired. I think I'm gonna go back to

813
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: my room. He's like, I can drive you back to

814
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: your hotel. And he seemed harmless, so I was like,

815
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: all right, that's fine.

816
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 5: You may go.

817
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 4: No, I didn't know there's no temrasry with him either.

818
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 4: I didn't really feel it.

819
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 2: He's no camrashry big too. Yeah, yeah, I mean, so

820
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: wait we get out.

821
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: We walked out of it. We walk out of the

822
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: walk out of the restaurant, and I noticed that he's

823
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: severely pitching the toad that no one foot is dragging.

824
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 4: Mentioned one dragging. And when we were did you not

825
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,720
Speaker 4: notice that you got out the car we were sitting

826
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 4: the whole time.

827
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: No, we were walking to the car.

828
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: Again, I noticed this, But when you got there, he

829
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 2: was already sitting.

830
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was already sitting. And so then all when

831
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: we were sitting, we were talking about like I don't know,

832
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: we're talking about bodied things or something, and he was like, yeah,

833
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: one of my foots is bigger than the other.

834
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 2: He said that because I was a joke. And then

835
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 2: I said that I have a really bad I have.

836
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: A pet peet for like feet.

837
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 2: I don't like feet on me and I don't like

838
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: like ugly feet on me specifically.

839
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: So he took his shoes off in the restaurant to

840
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: show me that he has a nice feet, which I

841
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: thought was strange. But we now took and he was like,

842
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: my foot is bigger than the other. And I didn't

843
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: really I couldn't really tell until we went outside and

844
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 1: he was dragging one and I was like, this is

845
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: the meanest.

846
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 2: We've had meaner conversations.

847
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 4: But oh my god, he can't help that.

848
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: Okay, but what is he supposed to do the whole day?

849
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: Not still, there's no still. It's just I'm not it's

850
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: not for me.

851
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:48,919
Speaker 1: It's not for me. Yeah.

852
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: First, and then he had a big crack in his windshield.

853
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 2: And he's a doctor.

854
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 4: I guess he's a doctor.

855
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: He's an analytical chemist.

856
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 4: Which that was important.

857
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: I don't know what that does.

858
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 4: I mean, we all have our things that we can't

859
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 4: live with it. Actually, you know what he does.

860
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: He told me he like basically screens drugs before they

861
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: hit the market. And he was telling me about all

862
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: this animal testing that they.

863
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 2: Do on beagles dogs. Yes, why beagles, I don't know.

864
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 4: We need to look into that.

865
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: And that he was at a facility where they where

866
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 1: they hold beagles and like he went in there one

867
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: time and one time one of the beagles got out

868
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: if they like one of like the lady let the

869
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,959
Speaker 1: beagle out because she felt bad. But they breathe these dogs.

870
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: They don't go and find that they read them specifically

871
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: for this. First of all, I was like turned me

872
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: off to him. I was like, you're you're not. You're

873
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: like you don't care about He's like, so I think

874
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: it's bad, but like I don't see that part of it,

875
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: like out of.

876
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 4: Sight, out of mind. I was like, okay, I was

877
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 4: speaking of beagles. Erica also recently came to a epiphany

878
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 4: that everybody should should Okay, please tell.

879
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: Me if you can agree with this men over like

880
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, I don't think I'm gonna lower

881
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 1: it because this guy going on to date with this

882
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: thirty two, Like.

883
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 4: Thirty two, that's his dog.

884
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the one I sent you.

885
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 4: Oh now, I thought you cut that off since that

886
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 4: picture the.

887
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: One I sent you to.

888
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, the Taiwanese guy is the guy who said the

889
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 4: one you sent me today that the text about the

890
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 4: dog I'm going to show my Now girls, look, I'm like, okay,

891
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 4: go back to the Okay, okay, so lift okay.

892
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: So this started off because the guy that I date

893
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: out here, he has a dog that he shares with

894
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: his ex. And one day he his X was out

895
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: of town, so he's watching the dog and like I

896
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 1: hadn't seen him in a while. So I was like, hey,

897
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: you should come.

898
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: Over tonight, and he was like, well, I can't. I

899
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: was like why, He's like, because I have the dog.

900
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, what do you let me?

901
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 2: What do you mean you can't cause have the dog'

902
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 2: like the what fed the dog?

903
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: And come over?

904
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: Don't fucking share a motherfucker.

905
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 4: First of all, lesbians especially do this if you're sharing

906
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 4: a dog with your fucking ex and you think you're

907
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 4: going to tell the new bitch you're dating, I can't

908
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,399
Speaker 4: go anywhere because of my dog. Like, first of all,

909
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 4: fuck that dog, that's not even a human be Second

910
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 4: of all, give that dog to that bitch or take it. Okay,

911
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 4: there's one there's one of two options. You ain't going

912
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 4: Monday through Friday with this fucking dog. Also, he told her,

913
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 4: and I quote, yeah, she's really spoiled. Because I said, wait,

914
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 4: so you've.

915
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: Never like spent the night out of your house like

916
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 1: and like left your dog at home. He's like, no, no,

917
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: she's not that type of dog.

918
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 4: It makes me feel like you're stupid.

919
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,280
Speaker 1: I was like, do you like pussy?

920
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 4: Do you like pussy your shared dog with your ex

921
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 4: or do you want to get some pussy? Let me

922
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 4: think mindy the spoiled dog or some pussy. Yeah?

923
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: No, nigga.

924
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 2: First time I had a dog, I wasn't sharing it

925
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 2: with nobody.

926
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 4: It was just mine, and that bitch would easily go

927
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 4: on the kennel if I wanted to get some Okay, right,

928
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 4: I feed.

929
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: The dog, say night night, close the door, and I'm

930
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: now I'll be back in the morning. Like what Okay?

931
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: Like he's he probably gonna listen to it breastfeeding because

932
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: he listens to Uh.

933
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: He listened to our podcast from time to time. Still,

934
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: he actually listened to our last one about Expectation, and

935
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:05,439
Speaker 1: I definitely talked about him on there too. I said

936
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: that everyone annoys me, but I'm just saying, like, yeah,

937
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: you're sharing the dog with your ex which I think

938
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: is a little strange. Anyway, you know, I get the

939
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 1: they have a their they're really good friends, or their

940
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: their their friends still, which is fine. That's fine. And

941
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: I get that you grow an attachment towards a dog,

942
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: especially because you don't have a kid. That's That's what

943
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 1: I'm getting to is that I believe that men from

944
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: like thirty two till like I don't know, let's say

945
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: forty who are childless and who want children end up

946
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: getting dogs or have dogs and then treat them like

947
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: their children, like it's like they're it's it's in a

948
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: creepy way.

949
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: And I've noticed this more and more on Tinder.

950
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: I see these these specific age group post pictures of

951
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,919
Speaker 1: their dogs, a lot them with their dog on the beach,

952
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: or like their dog licking their face I like dog,

953
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: or even just a picture of their dog as like

954
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: an avatar.

955
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 4: I only have like five picture options, so you don't

956
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 4: need to put your dog. I don't give a fucking

957
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 4: kind of dog.

958
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: So then this guy today that I'm going on the

959
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: date with. He was but he's been out of town

960
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: or whatever shooting, and I was like, what are you?

961
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 1: What are your plans today? He's like, I'm just I'm

962
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: just really looking forward to just like chilling, hanging and

963
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: just chilling with my dog. I'm time for sure.

964
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 4: She canceled the date after that.

965
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,720
Speaker 1: Fun Tim and I just had this conversation with Jamie

966
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: last night.

967
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 4: Told me last night I was only sitting next to

968
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 4: this oh uh, I don't remember if you guys were listening,

969
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 4: like religious babe, And I was like, how are you?

970
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 2: He's like thirty four, and I was like, do you

971
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 2: have a dog. He's like no, here goes Erger.

972
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: He will soon.

973
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 2: I was dying laughing.

974
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: It's true they want children, but they don't have the

975
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: woman yet, and so they get the dog and then

976
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: they get.

977
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 2: Obsessed with the dog.

978
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 1: It's like, I get it, Like I love dog just

979
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: as much, maybe not as much as the next person.

980
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 1: I have a kid now, so dogs take like our

981
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: like second. Like I used to love dogs the moment

982
00:40:58,520 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: my child was born.

983
00:40:59,280 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 2: I had two pipples.

984
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: The time, I was like, get them out of the

985
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 1: fucking house. Yeah.

986
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 4: I got rid of my dog like a year later

987
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 4: that I have like seven years.

988
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 2: It was just too much to like walk a dog

989
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: and put it baby.

990
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 4: He's like.

991
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: Anyway, that's my theory.

992
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 4: I think that men over thirty four, if they have

993
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 4: dogs and no kids, they treat on my kids and

994
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 4: that's their whole world.

995
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 2: Which is an interesting concept.

996
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 4: But we now, I want to say back to what

997
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 4: you said about the date the doctor not wanting to

998
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 4: take you out. I don't know if suddenly I became

999
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 4: thirty and I'm just so mature now. But that guy

1000
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 4: who came out for last night, I only I see

1001
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 4: him eyeo blue Moon. He's really cute. But we have

1002
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 4: like we're cool, but the sexual chemistry is just so

1003
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 4: pop in and maybe because he's like surprises me because

1004
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 4: he's religious, and then he's not religious, he's just square.

1005
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 2: He's like a nerd, and but he never takes me anywhere.

1006
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 4: He never he's like, oh, I'll pick up some tai

1007
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 4: food and I'll bring a bottle of wine and some weed,

1008
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 4: and like at first, I was like, Okay, when I

1009
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 4: first got single, I was like, sounds good to me,

1010
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 4: but like after like eight times to that, I was

1011
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 4: just like, so yesterday, like I was a little annoyed

1012
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 4: with my young baby because he keeps calling me fucking friendly,

1013
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 4: like it's a bad thing, and I just just like

1014
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 4: I need some weeds. So I called him. He came

1015
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 4: over and.

1016
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: I was just like over it, Like you've never taken

1017
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 2: me anywhere.

1018
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 4: I don't know, like if it's because he's religious and

1019
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 4: he's not allowed to be seen in public with like

1020
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 4: non Egyptian women or something because his parents are really

1021
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 4: strict and he lives with them. Yeah, he lives with

1022
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 4: them and he's thirty four years old. But I was

1023
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 4: just like I just couldn't do it. I was just

1024
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,280
Speaker 4: like we made out. I got hot, and I was like, Okay,

1025
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 4: you gotta go, because I was just it does I

1026
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 4: think it has what I think it does. I'm just

1027
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 4: like in my head, I'm like, he's never even take

1028
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 4: any I'm like, oh, it's still getting so hot, it's

1029
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 4: never taking a newheer.

1030
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, get the fuck out, all right, bye.

1031
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just like, dude, are you dumb? I did

1032
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 4: you know? Normally I would just not free. Plus, he's

1033
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 4: not free no matter how you put it. I mean,

1034
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 4: you could judge me all you want. You could say

1035
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 4: I'm a prostitute, but any everybody knows ain't shit free

1036
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 4: in life.

1037
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 2: The pussy included.

1038
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 4: Like there's a there's a core, there's a you know,

1039
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 4: like like you have to court me, Like I want

1040
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 4: to go out at least like buy me three drinks.

1041
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 4: I like food a lot, like a lot a lot,

1042
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 4: like ill almost like somebody because they took me. You

1043
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 4: know what.

1044
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 2: You like this kind of food too too.

1045
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 4: I think I do love you, but I'm just like

1046
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 4: at this age, I don't know if it's this age

1047
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 4: just this time in my life.

1048
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 2: I'm just like over recreational hooking up.

1049
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: I swear to God, it's thirty thirty. There's like something

1050
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: that like clicks over and it's like me, I.

1051
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: Gotta have that.

1052
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 4: My pussy's pretty important.

1053
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 2: You're not so exactly exactly and that's why.

1054
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: And I after even I was more motivated to have

1055
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: sex after my La Boo told me that he had

1056
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 1: sex and I was like, I need to have sex.

1057
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: But then when that happened, when the guy was like, well,

1058
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: I can come over my house, I was like never.

1059
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: I think twenty nine year old Erica would have been like, okay,

1060
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 1: send me the address, right, but this song was like,

1061
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: you know, it's not even worth it. It's not even

1062
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: worth like.

1063
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 4: If you're too dumb to know the basic steps of one,

1064
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 4: two three, how.

1065
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: To if I've gone, if I've gone this long thirty

1066
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: days plus, maybe let me a little less without having sex.

1067
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna waste it on like some nasty ass

1068
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: mixed drink. You made me at your apartment and then.

1069
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 2: And then make me feel pressured to fuck because I'm here.

1070
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: I came, so I must want to fuck, you know what?

1071
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 4: Even last night I was like it was getting hot

1072
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 4: and I was like, damn, if I stop now, am

1073
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 4: I even gonna be a bitch, like we gonna get

1074
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 4: that horrible, deadly disease called blue balls.

1075
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 2: No, not the blue balls.

1076
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 4: And I almost apologized for it, but I was like, bitch,

1077
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 4: you don't got to do a motherfucking thing.

1078
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, you gotta go out

1079
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 2: your trouble. But also I just I haven't had sex.

1080
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 4: I turned thirty, and.

1081
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 2: I'm like in my head, I'm like, I'm not wasting

1082
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 2: my first thirty fuck on you.

1083
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 4: I have And also lowkey, I started to feel guilty

1084
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 4: because of the youngin and I know I don't need

1085
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 4: to feel guilty because we're not together, but I was

1086
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 4: starting to feel gilty because I knew I find was

1087
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 4: like I invited him over at a low key out

1088
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 4: of spite and I went to smoke, but I was

1089
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 4: just like this is stupid.

1090
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 2: I'm feel for this to get up right, and he's

1091
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 2: like fear bade me, and I came, so I didn't care.

1092
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, bye, right, I got what I needed.

1093
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: I think I think it's true. I swear like you know,

1094
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: you just start like re evaluating you what you want,

1095
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: and you know it's like you have like it's like

1096
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 1: a new chapter you have like this opportunity to like

1097
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: start over in a way, even though it's just another day.

1098
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: It's just another Yeah, everybody, you can start over every day.

1099
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: But I really it's true, it's true, but I really did.

1100
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: I really did feel different after thirty.

1101
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 4: I really really did.

1102
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: I think also because I was going through such a

1103
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: huge transition in my life, Like I me and my

1104
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 1: my ex had just broken up.

1105
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 2: I was suddenly a single pain.

1106
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: I was in my thirty birthday, I went to Belize,

1107
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 1: so I was in this beautiful environment where I was like,

1108
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: look at my life, Like my life, I am so blessed,

1109
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: Like why am I sitting around moping? Like I'm going

1110
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: to change shit starting today? And I really I feel

1111
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: like I really did. I mean, of course there's many

1112
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: stepbacks along the way, and it doesn't have to be

1113
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: thirty to do that.

1114
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 4: But you could change your diet, like you could change

1115
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 4: what you want to do whenever you want to do it.

1116
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think I started to. It sounds stupid,

1117
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 2: but I kind of began. I turned fucking I.

1118
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 4: Fucking turned thirty five seven days ago, and then I

1119
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 4: began to value myself.

1120
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 2: Mom seven days ago, my whole life change because my birthday.

1121
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 4: Another day on the calendar, and now I am a

1122
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 4: new woman. I am a saved Christian. But I do

1123
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 4: I just feel like a little bit like I have

1124
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 4: a little bit more like I'm a much smarter bitch

1125
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 4: than I was when I was turned twenty. Like there's

1126
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 4: so many things you're not gonna parsure me. I'm not

1127
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 4: gonna feel guilty of I don't want to fud.

1128
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 2: I don't want to fud. I could change my mind.

1129
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 2: You're not gonna get blue bottles and die.

1130
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 4: And like also like even like the young and like

1131
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 4: keep referring to me is friendly and questioning my loyalty.

1132
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 4: I'm like, you're young, and this is how I am.

1133
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 4: Take it or fucking leave it right, know, Like, and

1134
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 4: I don't feel any anything back, Like I don't feel

1135
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 4: bad about it. You know, this is how I am.

1136
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 4: And I noticed, like as much as I was trying

1137
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 4: to sound mature with my jealousy thing and say like

1138
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 4: you should ask because it like makes you, it does

1139
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 4: make you evaluate your jealousy, but honestly, it also just

1140
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 4: made me crazy.

1141
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,320
Speaker 2: And it also made me like great, No, I just

1142
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 2: it made me.

1143
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 4: It just made me. It's like cutting yourself. It was

1144
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 4: like I wanted to feel the pain, like I want

1145
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 4: to be hurt, so I cannot like it as much

1146
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 4: as I do, which is also not healthy. But you know,

1147
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 4: we're all dealing with our shit and trying to figure

1148
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 4: shit out. But I do feel more older in my head.

1149
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 4: I've never had so much thoughts a while making out

1150
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 4: last night, like should I do? Like this feels so good?

1151
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 4: Like fuck him? No care? Who cares if you do?

1152
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 2: Who cares if you just start? But I'm like, no,

1153
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 2: you don't really want to fuck, like you don't even

1154
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 2: focus on what's happening right now. This is like all

1155
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: in my head, like what about it?

1156
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 4: What about that? What about this? Like oh, just get up?

1157
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, as an observer looking in on

1158
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: your situation and knowing the history that you have, but

1159
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: the father of your child, and just that he hasn't

1160
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: been he's been very emotionally abusive to you, And not that,

1161
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 1: not that he's emotionally beyond sorry, not that I didn't

1162
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 1: say his name and I'll blur that out, not that uh,

1163
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: the other young bay, it's emotionally abusive, but him saying

1164
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 1: to you and saying you're too friendly, You're too friendly,

1165
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: Like it's kind of a little bit abusive. Yeah, you know,

1166
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: and you're anger like you know, like it's not like

1167
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: straight up abusive, but like especially if you know in

1168
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: your heart that you're not like it's basically like I said,

1169
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: I said, I said, is he calling you a home?

1170
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 4: Because that's what you're trying to get at. Are you

1171
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:01,760
Speaker 4: calling me friendly is a nice.

1172
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 2: Way of saying you are a ucci and you're easy?

1173
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, first of all, I am friendly. I'm a very

1174
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 4: friendly person. And hello, look it up at the dictionary.

1175
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 4: It is not a negative word. But when you're using

1176
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 4: it in a way that I know what you're trying

1177
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 4: to say, just say, just say it. Yeah that's how

1178
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 4: I feel like it. Yeah, you know what I mean.

1179
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: Like, and if I am, what's to say about you?

1180
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: Why are you here?

1181
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: Right?

1182
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 2: Exactly exactly?

1183
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 4: And you know, I know people have trust issues, as

1184
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 4: do I, but like, if I haven't given you a

1185
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 4: reason to not trust me you personally, then like, funk

1186
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 4: off with that bullshit, Like you're insecure and you're projecting

1187
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 4: on me and you might need to find a different bitch.

1188
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 4: So whatever.

1189
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: Jealousy is an interesting thing, but I'm going to weird.

1190
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 4: Are going to New York next week, so stay tuned.

1191
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully we'll have maybe a special guest or maybe

1192
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 2: a special you have some sort of skyscraper.

1193
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, we are taking a summer break, guys,

1194
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: because I'm going to Spain forever, and then after that

1195
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,399
Speaker 1: I have to go somewhere else and then somewhere else

1196
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: and then I'm coming back. And so basically our.

1197
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 2: Last episode will be fourth of July, okay, and our

1198
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 2: next episode will be August first.

1199
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,359
Speaker 1: So basically, from fourth of July to August.

1200
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 2: First, we'll be on the summer vacation like the kid.

1201
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: I mean, we'll still be chatting with you guys, obviously

1202
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,360
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Maybe we can do like a Insta stories.

1203
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because we'll be We'll be together at some point,

1204
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: but we just won't be on having any episodes.

1205
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 4: For about two or three weeks. But we have a

1206
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 4: lot of cool stuff coming in August. So don't cry,

1207
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:49,919
Speaker 4: don't weep. We will be back. This is happening. But yeah,

1208
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 4: you know, mama gotta have a life too.

1209
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 2: Jody Soma needs to have a life. Mama's going to Spain.

1210
00:50:54,480 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: I'm going to Barcelona, abisa Madrid and sends about question

1211
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: and I'm going to find me a Latin Danish love.

1212
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 4: Don't have too many expectations because I had the same

1213
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 4: expectations for look, I know, I can't have any really expectations.

1214
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 1: I've in each city.

1215
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: But you're like a lucky tindering beach.

1216
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:14,879
Speaker 1: I tried to tender.

1217
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 2: I feel like my tindering fingers are fading. They're fading.

1218
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: Although my my, my l a boo is going to

1219
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: be in a beista when I'm out there, so we're

1220
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: probably connected.

1221
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 2: I think I've dumped him by then, that fucking dog.

1222
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: Still I still like him. I do like him.

1223
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: I just feel like there's I just feel.

1224
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: Like he's really busy.

1225
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 2: I'm really busy and I it's hard dating with the kid.

1226
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 1: It's really hard, and I'm really realizing it because it's

1227
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 1: I really started to focus in on him and I

1228
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,720
Speaker 1: really want to spend more time with him, and it's hard.

1229
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: It's hard to do that when you're not ready for

1230
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: them to be introduced to your kid. So it's like,

1231
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: how do I how do I go out at night

1232
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: when you know I don't have anyone help me? Or

1233
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: like and also he doesn't have a car.

1234
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 4: I know, guys, I know, I.

1235
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 2: Don't even know this. So last night she told me.

1236
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: She told me, but I don't recall her telling any

1237
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 2: of that.

1238
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 4: But that car is shit, especially when you lived ten

1239
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 4: miles in LA.

1240
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: And it's not because he can't have a car, it's

1241
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 1: because he lives in on the west Side and it's

1242
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: in travel anywhere but the west Side. I don't know.

1243
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,320
Speaker 1: He said he X and him and had both had cars,

1244
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: then one then they broke up. Oh, then then they

1245
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 1: realized they were never using them, so they got rid

1246
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 1: of one. Then they broke up, but it was her car,

1247
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: so she took it, so now he's Carlos.

1248
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm happy you brought that up, because this is

1249
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 2: another no no. I think in dating or fucking it's

1250
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 2: called a finesse.

1251
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 4: I don't want to hear a lot about your ex

1252
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 4: at all. In fact, pretend like the bitch never existed,

1253
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 4: and pretend like you hate her honestly, like I don't

1254
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 4: care and I don't want. Okay, I always try to

1255
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 4: pretend like I'm not jealous. Obviously, I was like a

1256
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 4: young and set a comment to me when he was

1257
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 4: talking about me being too friendly, and he said, for instance,

1258
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 4: what if his ex so and so.

1259
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 2: First of all, you know he's like twenty seven years old.

1260
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 4: He just took place seven because he's he's a he's

1261
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 4: a cancer too, happy birthday, boo. Disregard all this shit

1262
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 4: I'm talking about you that that's just the case. He's listening.

1263
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 4: So he makes a comment to me, what if blah

1264
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 4: blah blah was hanging out with my best friend knowing

1265
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 4: it didn't end well, not that I was hanging out

1266
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 4: with any of his front like and I I was

1267
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 4: drunk and I was in a room when I texted

1268
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 4: him like.

1269
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 2: Look, I don't give a fuck about that girl. Don't

1270
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 2: mention her name again.

1271
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 4: I don't want to. I don't want you to bring

1272
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 4: her up. I don't care. Just like make up a name.

1273
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 4: I don't care.

1274
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:29,320
Speaker 2: I just it just annoyed this shit out of me

1275
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 2: because I feel like it's not the first time.

1276
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 4: First of all, they dated for like three months on

1277
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 4: Like that relationship was that's fucking real. He's like, yes,

1278
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 4: it was, it was real. I'm like, you're getting so defensive.

1279
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 4: It makes me feel like you like maybe you got

1280
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 4: a thing with It's bitch still like, maybe you got

1281
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 4: a thing that you got over.

1282
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't mind so much if like

1283
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: you talk about your ex, I don't want to know

1284
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: all the details.

1285
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 2: But in this situation, she kep up with the fucking

1286
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 2: posted on the ceiling.

1287
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: And then you know, actually recently he actually told me

1288
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: he had an epiphany because she came over.

1289
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, he does talk about her a lot, and it's annoying.

1290
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: He came over to bring the dog. She came over

1291
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,439
Speaker 1: to bring the dog because she was going out of town.

1292
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 1: And he said that she seemed in a really good mood.

1293
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: And he got the feeling that is that he's she's

1294
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: happy seeing and she's she's moving on and he's seeing someone.

1295
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 1: And he said, and I felt really happy about it.

1296
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: He's like, I felt good about it. And I was

1297
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:24,839
Speaker 1: like and he was like, and I was like, well,

1298
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 1: why do you feel good about it?

1299
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 4: I mean, you.

1300
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: Shouldn't feel good about it? But he was like, well,

1301
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,399
Speaker 1: because we're doing our thing. And then immediately got scared

1302
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, what what do

1303
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: you mean? What do you mean? And then he and

1304
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I'm gonna be honest if I

1305
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 1: when I when and if my ex starts dating someone,

1306
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be happy about it. I mean, I'm

1307
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 1: not happy. I was like, I'll probably be a little bit,

1308
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: I'll feel weird.

1309
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fucking lie and act like.

1310
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm all this so evolved person that the father of

1311
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: my child, that I've been with for seven years the

1312
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: day the day he tells me has a girlfriend, I'm

1313
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: not gonna feel weird.

1314
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,919
Speaker 4: Like I might not be mad, but very your at true,

1315
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 4: if you're moved on, you're not gonna it's gonna be less.

1316
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 2: It's gonna bother you less, bother me less, but it's

1317
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 2: still going to bother you. You think he was lying.

1318
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 4: I think he just mentioned it because it was on

1319
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 4: his mind, and that was his way of mentioning with

1320
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 4: how to bothering you, because sometimes peoplen't mention it because

1321
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 4: I want to talk about it. I don't.

1322
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: I think that he wasn't lying. I think he was

1323
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,479
Speaker 1: truly felt that way. But also maybe he was trying

1324
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: to tell me something. I don't know. I'm not good

1325
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: at reading in between the lines sometimes, Like maybe he

1326
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: was trying to tell me that he really like is

1327
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: happy with us.

1328
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:30,720
Speaker 2: Well, to me, that would be a good comment.

1329
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 4: Comments like that that are negative and you're like, comments

1330
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,439
Speaker 4: that are regarding you being over your ex are okay,

1331
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 4: Comments regarding that X was a bitch.

1332
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 2: Or okay anything anything like she was.

1333
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 4: A nice person.

1334
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 2: I really I don't want to hear.

1335
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he does that too.

1336
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 4: I don't.

1337
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 2: I don't like.

1338
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:47,439
Speaker 4: I don't.

1339
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:51,280
Speaker 1: I don't wish any negativity between I don't either.

1340
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 4: But just don't talk about it to me because I'm

1341
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 4: my pussy's not gonna get wet because I don't care

1342
00:55:58,840 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 4: about that bitch.

1343
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 2: Zero amounts, okay, zero, not even a little.

1344
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 1: I don't get After I went and stalked her Instagram

1345
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: just to confirm I'm cuter, right, No, Carol, Oh my god,

1346
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1347
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 4: That's the other thing that young is like, Oh she's

1348
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 4: so bad. I'm like, okay, so this is I think,

1349
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 4: really what it bothers me. It's the it's such a child.

1350
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 4: It's the girl that he posted on his Instagram like

1351
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 4: months ago, like months months ago, and I was like,

1352
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 4: why is he posting this bitch on the Instagram, Like

1353
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 4: he must really like the Instagram story. I hated it

1354
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 4: because we were like we were so cool, you know,

1355
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 4: like we're obviously we weren't together, we were talking, but

1356
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 4: I was just like, I hate her and I hate him.

1357
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 2: I hate this whole situation.

1358
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 4: Why is she on Instagram? I don't need to see

1359
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 4: the bitch so I think I like I. Ever since then,

1360
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 4: I haven't been deatta since I don't think she's cute.

1361
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 4: I don't think the relationship is see it was serious.

1362
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 2: It's not her fault.

1363
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: It's not it's his.

1364
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 4: So if you're listening into any other guy dating a

1365
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 4: new girl, don't mention that bitch at all. Remove all

1366
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:03,919
Speaker 4: post its, get rid of that dog. And I don't

1367
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 4: care about any stories unless I specifically ask you specific.

1368
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 2: Questions, which I will. I don't want to hear about it.

1369
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 4: I don't care because I'm the most important bitch in

1370
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 4: the world right now, and even if I'm not lie.

1371
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 1: Just why It's The funny thing is is that he

1372
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: does talk about her a lot, and I never ever,

1373
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: really ever talk about my ex with him. He doesn't ever.

1374
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 4: Ask because you know why, because he can't handle it.

1375
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 2: And if I did the same thing to that guy,

1376
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 2: if I said.

1377
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 4: Anything positive about my ex, because I guess there are

1378
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 4: things that are positive. Because if I guess I was

1379
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 4: with him for a four million years, he would have

1380
00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 4: an attitude. I know you would. So I just feel

1381
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 4: like return, do me.

1382
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 2: The same favor and shut the buba. Tell me how

1383
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 2: cute I am.

1384
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: I'm looking at the spider over here, and I'm oh,

1385
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: it's not even bothering you.

1386
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 2: It's really big though. It's like thick and black.

1387
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: Wait, Okay, we have to wrap up soon, but first

1388
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: let's talk about let's let's we.

1389
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 2: Have we have a question that we got and that

1390
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 2: I can't get because my phone is recording.

1391
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 4: Oh it's on our email. Yeah, it's in our email.

1392
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: Ok.

1393
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 2: I talk about something that's discontinue for everyone.

1394
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 1: Anyway. I don't know. I don't really know what our

1395
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: demographic is, if it's between like twenty and thirty. I

1396
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: know that there are some women out there that don't

1397
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: have kids that listen to us. And I really appreciate

1398
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: you because I don't think that we talk about just obviously,

1399
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: I think we're pretty relatable as far as just being women,

1400
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: not just women with children. But yes, thirty was like

1401
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 1: a turning point for me. But if you feel like

1402
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: you're really unhappy, in your life right now, or there's

1403
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: something you want to do, like don't wait till you're thirty,

1404
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: try to get that shit together before thirty. If you're

1405
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: twenty five, start now, don't wait till then, because why

1406
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: to what I'm just saying, like like for thirty was

1407
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: a really big turning point for me. But it doesn't

1408
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 1: have to be like if you can, if this is

1409
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: all you needed to hear to be like, okay, I

1410
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: need to start.

1411
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 4: Making that change, it's okay, Like you could grow up fast,

1412
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 4: you could, you could, like I wait, I would probably

1413
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 4: limited half of my list if I was smarter, like

1414
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 4: five years ago.

1415
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 2: Well, a lot of most of my twenties I lived

1416
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 2: with the belief that.

1417
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: Who cares I'm in my twenties because it's whatever, I'm

1418
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,439
Speaker 1: in my twenties, whatever I'm in my twenties, which you know, yeah,

1419
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 1: that's true.

1420
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 2: You gotta live with you gotta live like that a

1421
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 2: little bit.

1422
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: But then also like then you're hit thirty and they

1423
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 1: haven't done shit, and then you're like, oh no, oh,

1424
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: so you sound cute like I'm in my thirties. This

1425
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,439
Speaker 1: doesn't sound cute now, it doesn't it sound cute aymore.

1426
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not even.

1427
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 2: About it sounding cute. How does it make you feel and.

1428
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: It doesn't make you feel good?

1429
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 4: Is this necessary? Oh? Dick is a good dick? Okay, true,

1430
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 4: So we found it. This is anonymous. She named herself

1431
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 4: boring Betty, so that was very clever. Hi, ladies. After

1432
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 4: listening to last week's episode where you guys mentioned a

1433
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 4: boring horror story being submitted.

1434
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 2: I realized that I'm boring as fuck. This is called

1435
00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 2: self reflecting.

1436
00:59:58,240 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 4: This is good. This is good.

1437
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 2: I grew up in a super Southern.

1438
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 4: Christian household and never really had a hoe fase I

1439
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 4: didn't know any woman never had a hoe fase we've

1440
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 4: had enough for everybody. I have all of these thoughts,

1441
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 4: but acting on them is super scary. I'm not a virgin,

1442
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 4: but sex has never been enjoyable and I've never had

1443
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 4: an orgasm. Any suggestions for stepping it up, especially because

1444
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 4: I'm not his experience and I'm almost thirty and I've

1445
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:29,440
Speaker 4: never given head. Wow, Okay wait.

1446
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: A minute, that that's it.

1447
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 2: That's help, help, help, thank you.

1448
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: Okay. First of all, we are not judging you. There's

1449
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: a lot of heads I wish i'd never suck. Oh

1450
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 1: my god, me too, So you've probably dodged a bullet.

1451
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 4: Actually, it's better that you go into your four stage

1452
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 4: at thirty because you could be.

1453
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 7: Much more select them. However, you do need to get started.

1454
01:00:56,160 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 7: I'm curious as to where she lives now. I would

1455
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 7: say I only say that because you know, it kind of.

1456
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 1: Depending on where you live, and if it's a progressive

1457
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 1: place or where everybody knows everybody, it's a small town

1458
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: that plays a factor, and like, how much had you've given, Well,

1459
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: how much.

1460
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 2: Had you given?

1461
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 1: How open you're willing to be?

1462
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 4: How Like, if you know, just.

1463
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: Move, yeah, move, you might need to move. Inspect your

1464
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: wings a little. I mean, I don't know where you live.

1465
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 1: You might might live in second studio city, okay, right,

1466
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: who knows. But I would say it's hard for me

1467
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 1: to give advice on this because I started hoeing at

1468
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 1: such a young age. I really, honestly, like I had

1469
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 1: a strong desire for sex at a very strangely young age.

1470
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 4: And uh, the.

1471
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 2: Scorpio when you made you fully embraced.

1472
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was bad or my daddy

1473
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: issues or what, but like I for sure like wanted

1474
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: male attention in a sexual way young and I lost

1475
01:01:55,360 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: my virginity young. So I think as a how old

1476
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 1: is she? She's thirty thirty and her thirties almost thirty,

1477
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 1: almost thirty.

1478
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 4: I mean.

1479
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: There's no like I think, you just have to like

1480
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: kind of want to do it, want to try new things.

1481
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: You know, you have to just take baby steps. I

1482
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: would say, I think I even wrote this back to

1483
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: you because I told I told her we were gonna

1484
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: we were gonna acknowledge this and on this episode is

1485
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: that you know, don't try to like be this sex

1486
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 1: fiend off the bat because you won't feel comfortable. You

1487
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: have to kind of take baby steps, whether that's like

1488
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: you know, being a little bit more aggressive, putting his

1489
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: hand on your crutch, you know, if he's being shy,

1490
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: just go for it. Most men aren't gonna, like, aren't

1491
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 1: gonna say no no. I don't know, get what your

1492
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: d get out of your head because it's mostly a

1493
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 1: lot of in your head. Like if you have an

1494
01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 1: impulse physically and you're drodging.

1495
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 4: To someone, do it.

1496
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 2: You know, like you have a vagina. Men don't usually

1497
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 2: turn down women with vaginas. I mean, she's had sex,

1498
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:00,479
Speaker 2: so it's not like she has an ever head sass.

1499
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: But and as far as like the no orgasm thing, again,

1500
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: you gotta get out of your head because that's all

1501
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 1: in your head. Like I you know, I've never really

1502
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 1: had a problem with having organs.

1503
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 2: But I'm a squirter, if you must know.

1504
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: It's one of my many lovely traits. But I never

1505
01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: could do that until I got out of my head.

1506
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: Like one day, I just like, I don't know what

1507
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 1: it is. I relaxed and then suddenly like the floodgates

1508
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: opened and now I found a new trick, and I'm like, oh,

1509
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: that was all in my head. Like I mean, it

1510
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:30,919
Speaker 1: also plays a part in like who the fuck is doing?

1511
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 1: But I would say, just yeah, you have that moment

1512
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 1: where you feel like you're gonna pee, where you think

1513
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 1: you're gonna it's called you're gonna have an orgasm, just

1514
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 1: let it go, Let it go, like el yeah, and

1515
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 1: just kind of like not have super high expectations for

1516
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: what you're gonna receive and just kind of do masturbate.

1517
01:03:59,320 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 4: That's the question.

1518
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 2: That's the big thing. I was gonna say. I'm not

1519
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 2: a huge masturbator.

1520
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 4: I don't know why. I probably need to be. But

1521
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 4: I think once you start to masturbate and learn your

1522
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:13,400
Speaker 4: body more, it's easier to direct somebody and get out

1523
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 4: of your head a little bit more and just like

1524
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 4: release that like that expectation because you're like probably thinking

1525
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 4: too much because you haven't had a lot of sex,

1526
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 4: because I've done it and I've gotten a high and

1527
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 4: then like I'm overthinking sex and it's not to be

1528
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 4: over thoughts to be enjoyed.

1529
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 2: I would say masturbation is the first step.

1530
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: If you're not masturbating, I would say, get a go

1531
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: to the sex door, get a little toy, or if

1532
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: your fingers do the trick, then do that.

1533
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 2: Or get a massager, like I have plugs into the wall.

1534
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: Where do you get there?

1535
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 4: From nineteen ninety.

1536
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: Three, girl, I've ran my vibrator broke. I had a

1537
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 1: massager for my pregnancy and now it's my vibrator, so

1538
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 1: don't ever use it.

1539
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,920
Speaker 2: And actually, like the guy was like the guy that

1540
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 2: I see out of he was like, you should bring

1541
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 2: a vibrator.

1542
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't think you and bring my vibrator.

1543
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 2: It doesn't go, it doesn't move far like we need

1544
01:04:59,520 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 2: the next time.

1545
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I would say, spend a lot of time

1546
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: with yourself first, really like figure out what it is

1547
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: that feels good to you, because you're you're not gonna

1548
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 1: be embarrassed. You're by yourself. And that's how I actually

1549
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: I started the scorting thing because I was by myself

1550
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: really and I was like, oh my god, this feels

1551
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: so good. This feels so good, because normally I'd be like, oh,

1552
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:23,680
Speaker 1: I would be that girl like steps stop, soup stopping

1553
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: really yeah, And then I was like I just didn't stop.

1554
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 1: And then I was like.

1555
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 4: The craziest thing about masturbating. I think it probably stems

1556
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 4: from being young. There every times I remember like masturbating

1557
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 4: and then orgasming and then feeling weird about myself, like

1558
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 4: judging yourself. Yeah, so there's like also pre existing whatever

1559
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 4: you're like, however, you're whatever you're scared of.

1560
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 2: Also, like those things have been so deeply rooted inside

1561
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 2: of us.

1562
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:55,439
Speaker 4: Her Christian upbringing, Yeah, but you'll, you'll I'm not even

1563
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 4: remotely Christian upbringing, but I remember feeling like, oh, shameful,

1564
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 4: and you have to get out of that hole. You

1565
01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 4: have to change your whole thought process, your whole way

1566
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 4: of thinking and unlearn all that shit you learned in church.

1567
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:07,560
Speaker 4: But like this is bad, it is bad. It's just

1568
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 4: for reproduction, just for merit, it's just for this, because no,

1569
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 4: it's for enjoyment. And that's why we have vaginas. And

1570
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 4: also like honestly, once you do give head, you're gonna

1571
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 4: love it because it's fun like giving someone else pleasure

1572
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 4: is fun when you see that you have the power

1573
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 4: and they're like ooh ooh, I'm doing that.

1574
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 2: That's cool.

1575
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 4: And also no teeth, don't use teeth, and use your

1576
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 4: hands because that will help you.

1577
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, use both hands, one hand. You know, there's glide

1578
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 1: the hand up, bring them hand down, like let it

1579
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: your mouth, let it fall, follow your youth. But maybe

1580
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 1: also then do a little at the top, just like

1581
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 1: a little hand hand jobby thing.

1582
01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 2: Focus on the lick lick the tip a lot a.

1583
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 4: Lot, and the shaft.

1584
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah underneath. They don't be afraid of the balls. But

1585
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: you know that might be a little advance for you

1586
01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 1: right now, like.

1587
01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 2: Start as well, but don't feel ashamed. And also if

1588
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 2: you if you.

1589
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 4: Belong, are in a community of friends and whoever your

1590
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:08,600
Speaker 4: closest friends are who are like kind of Cristian and

1591
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 4: square two. Not too you're obviously not sure. You're reaching

1592
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 4: out for help, which is the first step. If you

1593
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 4: feel like you're gonna be judged, don't say shit, yeah,

1594
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,000
Speaker 4: or find friends that are hey, you found this high

1595
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 4: that you know, are not concerned about what your vagina

1596
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 4: is doing, because nine times out of ten, people who

1597
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 4: are judging it is because they're not sexually pleased and

1598
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 4: they're not happy and they wish they could do what

1599
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,080
Speaker 4: you're doing. Yeah, I found that, like people who talk

1600
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 4: shit and people are jealous because oh, look that bitch

1601
01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 4: and she tak me a good time and she's okay

1602
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 4: making the decisions she's making.

1603
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:39,720
Speaker 5: And you know, do you And if you want to

1604
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 5: be a little more sexual, be a little more sexual,

1605
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 5: and you know, maybe go to the strip club with

1606
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 5: some friends, or watch your porn or go to the

1607
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 5: swingers club.

1608
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: But that could be stub like, well, yeah, you're way

1609
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,919
Speaker 1: you're way ahead of it. But yeah, I would say

1610
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: I would say masturbation's the first step. Maybe some porn,

1611
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 1: although porn can make things same a little unrealistic. Although

1612
01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 1: I like porn.

1613
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 2: You find your porn, you know, you find the thing

1614
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 2: you gotta go to look at it to see what

1615
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 2: you like.

1616
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 1: You see what you like, but also know that it's

1617
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 1: all it's all a fake too, and you also well

1618
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 1: some of it, there's like a lot of homemade for now. Yeah.

1619
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: Also know that.

1620
01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 2: In sex there are no boundaries.

1621
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 4: There's gonna be some weird shit in the categories, and

1622
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 4: don't be yeah that too, but don't get overwhelmed.

1623
01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 1: Don't get overwhelmed. And also, when you do have sex

1624
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 1: with someone, don't be afraid to tell them, Hey, spread

1625
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 1: this a little bit more, Hey, keep doing that. Don't

1626
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 1: don't stop, you know what I mean, because that's gonna help.

1627
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 1: That's gonna let them know how to please you and you're,

1628
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: you know, guiding your body to an orgasm.

1629
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 4: And also don't be afraid to when you are pleased,

1630
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 4: let that person know like ooh that feels good, or

1631
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 4: encourage them make noises like there's no no one should

1632
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 4: be judging while having sex.

1633
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: Because you better believe someone in that congregation. The most

1634
01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: holiest of the holiest is probably the freakiest of the freaky.

1635
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 2: Amen, Ana Louliah. So Jesus ain't judging you, honey. Jesus

1636
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 2: made you, and he made your parts, and he made

1637
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 2: him for enjoyment.

1638
01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:14,400
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, let the choirs say amen, amen, I mean

1639
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 4: the congregation whatever.

1640
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:20,640
Speaker 2: Clearly I don't go to church often. Yeah, do you

1641
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 2: have any horries?

1642
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 4: Oh? Stories?

1643
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,320
Speaker 1: Well no, I can't think ofbody else the top of

1644
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:33,639
Speaker 1: my head because I'm sex deprived.

1645
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 4: Right now, I have one. Oh, okay, since I just

1646
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 4: came back from Aruba, this was not that horrid.

1647
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 2: It's just funny. Did I tell that's all right? Tell

1648
01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 2: me if I did. I went to the Bahamas last

1649
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:47,759
Speaker 2: summer with my entire.

1650
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 4: Family, like my daughter, my dad, my uncle, my aunt

1651
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:55,799
Speaker 4: her two daughters, and my grandma and my brother, and leave.

1652
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 2: It to Jamila to find some shit to get into,

1653
01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 2: because that's what I do best.

1654
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 4: Like, oh, I'm bored and I have seventeen babysitters. I'll

1655
01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 4: be back.

1656
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 2: So I found like I met up with a pool boy,

1657
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 2: because I.

1658
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,639
Speaker 4: Also know how to meet locals. If you're on vacation

1659
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 4: or going soon, take notes. Find the people at the hotel,

1660
01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 4: like she this pool boy. You can find say what's

1661
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 4: going on tonight? He will likely have things to do

1662
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 4: and he'll offer to come get you.

1663
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:21,559
Speaker 1: So whatever.

1664
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 4: I went out the night before with this local whatever.

1665
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 4: The next day, I went to the club. But they're like,

1666
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 4: I want to say, this huge resort. They had, like

1667
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 4: a noble they had a club. So we went to

1668
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 4: the club and it just happened to be a spell House.

1669
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 4: It happened to be a spell House wedding, which is

1670
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:40,800
Speaker 4: a Spellman girl and a Moorhouse man. And I went to.

1671
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 2: Clark So there's a hell of black people basically, so

1672
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 2: they were all in the club.

1673
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 4: I was like, I left my uncle because he's weird,

1674
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:49,640
Speaker 4: and I was like in the club, this guy cannects me,

1675
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 4: is by me, drinks the night. He's like, all, my

1676
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 4: girlfriend's over here, and I was like, oh really. He's like, yeah,

1677
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,639
Speaker 4: she wants to meet you. I'm like, make sure first

1678
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 4: because I don't need no problems. Finally I met her.

1679
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:01,719
Speaker 4: She was cool. They're like flirting with me. I was like, okay,

1680
01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 4: I just could be fine. But I was also I

1681
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 4: was probably in my I was almost thirty, so I

1682
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 4: was like taming down a little.

1683
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't come back to the room

1684
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 2: with us. We took a Mollie and I was like okay,

1685
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 2: but I was like I don't.

1686
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 4: Really don't want to have sex. I told him off

1687
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 4: the bat, like, I'm not really trying to have sex.

1688
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,679
Speaker 4: Then I'm down and have fun. I'll watch you guys whatever.

1689
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:21,479
Speaker 4: So he's then had we go and go to the room.

1690
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 4: I took a Mollie and they told me basically they

1691
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 4: weren't in a relationship, they were friends.

1692
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:27,599
Speaker 2: They just started massing around.

1693
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 4: But I could tell he was super anxious about her,

1694
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,640
Speaker 4: like he was super char he was like praising her

1695
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 4: the whole night.

1696
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 2: He was very excited.

1697
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 4: We ended up going to the strip club because I

1698
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 4: met the pool boy there and he told me about

1699
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 4: the ship club. I got wasted. We went back to

1700
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 4: their room. He was like aggressively like kissing her. I

1701
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 4: was like, hold on, please stop, I said, you need

1702
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 4: to relax. So I'm like, I'm like, let me show you.

1703
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,640
Speaker 4: Let me show you how to do this. So I

1704
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 4: like start kissing her like a movie it is. I

1705
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,800
Speaker 4: don't know what my life is a movie action. So

1706
01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 4: I'm like kissing her slowly. I'm like, you see, you

1707
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 4: see how this is kind of going. You see how

1708
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 4: gentle this is happening. He's like, oh guy. In fact,

1709
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 4: like the pool boy had come back to the room

1710
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 4: with us, and then he even probably like what the

1711
01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:11,600
Speaker 4: fuck have I gotten into? He left somewhere alongline, so

1712
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:14,320
Speaker 4: like I was like guiding his hands, like showing him

1713
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:18,720
Speaker 4: like gentle touches. I don't, honestly don't know. I don't

1714
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 4: think I oh, I couldn't remember. But I fell asleep, okay,

1715
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 4: you know, heartest fell asleep on fucking Molly. I don't

1716
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:30,120
Speaker 4: know how much molly they took. I rolled over the

1717
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 4: sun was out and looked over them. They're still fucking

1718
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 4: I looked at the clock, bitch. It was twelve thirty

1719
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 4: in the afternoon. I was like, oh my god, my

1720
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:44,439
Speaker 4: family's probably looking for me. And they're like what I said,

1721
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 4: does it's twelve thirty. He's like, oh my god, the

1722
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 4: wedding's at one. They start scrambling for their clothes. I'm like,

1723
01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:53,839
Speaker 4: where's my shit? I go outside.

1724
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,240
Speaker 2: I had like literally enough money because my hotel was

1725
01:12:56,280 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 2: really right next door, but it was too far to

1726
01:12:57,840 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 2: walk the Walk of shame like it was hot.

1727
01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 4: It was the Hamas I get back in the room,

1728
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 4: oh my god, we're supposed to take a family picture.

1729
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 2: Everybody's supposed to wear white. The entire family.

1730
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 4: The entire family is waiting in all white in the

1731
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 4: in the hotel, waiting for me. But apparently I'm such

1732
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 4: a wild card in the family. Nobody even yelled at me,

1733
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 4: and they just gave me the death stare. And my

1734
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:28,559
Speaker 4: dad was like, first of all, my dad's also crazy

1735
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:31,679
Speaker 4: as fuck. I mean, like this is cause i'm his person,

1736
01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 4: Like i'm him. He's like, hurry up, I get dressed.

1737
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:36,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, this is how you know you're well. When

1738
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 4: nobody called the police. Nobody like you didn't come home

1739
01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 4: the next night with your uncle that you left with.

1740
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 2: Nobody gave four fucks, So like, get your fucking white

1741
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 2: shot on.

1742
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:48,599
Speaker 4: I was so fucking hung over. You guys, we're taking

1743
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 4: it's beaming fucking home. We're all wearing white. We're too

1744
01:13:51,920 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 4: cheap to be like a photographer. We're just taking like

1745
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 4: we're having people take our family photo. On the resort,

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01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 4: I was sweating bullets. I like stopped, I was walking,

1747
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:03,960
Speaker 4: so I pulled over and I just started throwing up

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01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 4: in the bushes, and then I got back up.

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01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 2: And like to continue to take picture. I was like,

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01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:13,360
Speaker 2: oh my god, and like it was me trying to

1751
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 2: grow up, but I still really didn't grow up.

1752
01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:17,719
Speaker 4: I didn't have SAX, so it was yeah.

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01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 1: Okay, so I need to see this photo. We're gonna

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01:14:20,479 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 1: post it a good moms, that's a reference. This is

1755
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:28,240
Speaker 1: me looking now. We're gonna post and be like, listen

1756
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 1: to this episode if you want to know the story

1757
01:14:30,360 --> 01:14:33,759
Speaker 1: behind this photo I have. Everything is as it seems.

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01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 2: So that's my semi horia.

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01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 4: That's a pretty good one.

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01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

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01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 4: I'm still friends with her on Instagram and she's in

1763
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 4: New York and she's actually really popping, very successful. She

1764
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:46,479
Speaker 4: works like a huge company. She's like, she's you know,

1765
01:14:46,560 --> 01:14:49,240
Speaker 4: those smelling girls to do their thing. No, I don't

1766
01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 4: think they were ever together. He was too anxious.

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01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 2: I know what's gonna work out? Oh my gosh, But yeah,

1768
01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 2: that was what happened.

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01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 4: She's cool.

1770
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 2: Maybe we can go to dinner with her or something.

1771
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:00,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to send this one to her, so, like,

1772
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 2: I haven't talked about you.

1773
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 1: What do you want baby?

1774
01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 4: Oh?

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01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 1: Come on.

1776
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:11,559
Speaker 2: So that concludes our today's episode that was about we don't.

1777
01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 8: Really know thirties horis, masturbation, jealousy, and the blue balls

1778
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 8: is not a real disease about the rope China.

1779
01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 4: Bye bye fund this shill Cardio. I'm just in the

1780
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 4: chang by.

1781
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:36,800
Speaker 2: Just stop the book.

1782
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 4: What's his name? I need to die.

1783
01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 2: Neck n.

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01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 4: Done. Judge close thirty.

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01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:54,639
Speaker 1: Next note

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Speaker 4: The umbra bala ja lamba