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Speaker 1: second d date. You know, in my experience dating, I've
Speaker 1: found that there is one surefire way to impress the
Speaker 1: girl that you're out on a date with. Oh, this
Speaker 1: is gonna be good, and that is to complain about
Speaker 1: the bill. Complain to the wait staff, complain to the manager.
Speaker 1: Causes scene if you can, because that says a lot
Speaker 1: about you. It says that you're not gonna take anybody's crap.
Speaker 1: Nobody's getting over on you. And you know what that
Speaker 1: says if there's a long term relationship between you guys.
Speaker 1: If you're willing to stand up for being overcharged for
Speaker 1: a vodka kran now, you're gonna stand up for something
Speaker 1: bigger for her in the future. Women love it, we do.
Speaker 1: When you complain about the bill, you are dialed into us.
Speaker 1: And that's what John did his first date, right John, Yeah, sadly,
Speaker 1: this is a fact. Nicol and Dim in the restaurant. No, No,
Speaker 1: it's just it was a happy hour and well I
Speaker 1: thought it was happy hour, and so you know, it's
Speaker 1: just like the bill twice as much what I was expecting.
Speaker 1: So I wasn't like trying to be I'm not cheap.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I was just like trying to get what
Speaker 1: I was supposed to get your email. Sure sounds like
Speaker 1: you're cheap, John, Well, no, well I should have written
Speaker 1: it differently because it was just that. First of all,
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of you guys. I just have
Speaker 1: to say that I love the show. And second of all,
Speaker 1: as a fan of the show, you know that I'm
Speaker 1: not cheap. I'm a good person. Yeah whatever. Oh no,
Speaker 1: if you're a fan of the show, you know that
Speaker 1: you're probably a terrible person. Yeah, and you like the
Speaker 1: show because it's free, John, free entertainment. But if you
Speaker 1: went to a bar and the bill was twice what
Speaker 1: you were expecting, you wouldn't be a little confused. No,
Speaker 1: I would be confused. But if I was on a date,
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't say anything. I think you can ask
Speaker 1: without making a scene, Like what happened when the bill
Speaker 1: came Okay, so the bill shows up, and you know
Speaker 1: I took the bill because I was gonna pay. It
Speaker 1: was gonna be a gentleman. And I just opened it
Speaker 1: and we'd only been there for an hour and a
Speaker 1: half and it was like, but a lot more than
Speaker 1: I was expecting to pay. So I just called over
Speaker 1: the waiter and said, I think there's been a mistake
Speaker 1: with the bill. And I knew that I'd screwed up
Speaker 1: because next thing I know, like the managers there, and
Speaker 1: then the managers tell me that happy hour ended an
Speaker 1: hour before I thought. And it's even the explanations too long. Well,
Speaker 1: the fact that the manager had to come over and
Speaker 1: everything else makes it seems like a lot bigger of
Speaker 1: a deal. Is that why you feel like you're not
Speaker 1: getting a call back today? Well there was one other thing.
Speaker 1: Oh there's more to it. Okay, yeah, what happened? So
Speaker 1: about an hour in things are going real well. So
Speaker 1: I suggested that we should go get another drink, but
Speaker 1: at my place, all right, and bold move. I wasn't
Speaker 1: saying like, let's go to my place to hook up.
Speaker 1: I was saying, like, let's just go have another drink.
Speaker 1: I mean, I would hope if you wanted to right
Speaker 1: there you go. I was hoping that at least admit
Speaker 1: it John, So did this happen before or after you
Speaker 1: challenged the bill? This was pre challenging of bill. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you said let's go back to my place? And
Speaker 1: she said what she said? I'm sorry, I don't do
Speaker 1: that on first day. I mean it was cool. I
Speaker 1: think everything was going well besides those two things, like
Speaker 1: we were laughing a lot. Can I ask where you
Speaker 1: met this girl? We met at at a club. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, and an hour into the date. There's no
Speaker 1: way an hour into a day a guy I met
Speaker 1: at the club is asking me back to his house. No,
Speaker 1: that wasn't the day I met her. I met her
Speaker 1: at a club like a week before, and then we
Speaker 1: went out about a week later. And that's when I
Speaker 1: asked her back to my place. Oh, I see, what's
Speaker 1: her name? By the way, her name is Denise. Denise. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you said let's go back to my place. She
Speaker 1: said no, I don't really do it on the first date.
Speaker 1: And then you said, okay, that's fine. But you know
Speaker 1: what's not fine, this bill? They overcharged me. That's a
Speaker 1: good way to make a first impression, John, Well, everybody
Speaker 1: else went well? Was she noticeably upset after all that stuff?
Speaker 1: I could tell that things were off. You know when
Speaker 1: you're like you feel the vibe like you've lost her.
Speaker 1: That's how I felt. What did you like about her
Speaker 1: so much that you want to do a second date
Speaker 1: update to ask her out again? If you already sort
Speaker 1: of know why you screwed up. So the thing that
Speaker 1: was really cool and surprising about her? And I know
Speaker 1: this is going it's not horrible, but she's gorgeous, like
Speaker 1: like model good looking. But she's also like hilarious. And
Speaker 1: I didn't think that she would be so funny, like
Speaker 1: when I met her at the club and like she
Speaker 1: was like making fun of me. I was making fun
Speaker 1: of her, but like in a fun way. She's really cool.
Speaker 1: So did she make fun of you after you know,
Speaker 1: the ask her back and the building? No? And so
Speaker 1: I think that's where I thought that she was kind
Speaker 1: of upset about how I reacted. How many times have
Speaker 1: you tried to get ahold of her since your date?
Speaker 1: I have called her three times and you haven't heard
Speaker 1: anything back. Nothing as you honest, I called three times
Speaker 1: and I texted about two others. Oh, so you've tried
Speaker 1: a bunch, so you don't take a hit very well
Speaker 1: to you. I just really liked this girl. She's really cool.
Speaker 1: Denise is really cool. I wouldn't do this with just anybody. Okay,
Speaker 1: So do you want to apologize to her for what
Speaker 1: you did? Well? I already did apologize when we were
Speaker 1: at the restaurant. I apologize like after the manager left,
Speaker 1: and I mean, I guess I'll apologize again, but really
Speaker 1: I just want a second chance. Okay, Okay, we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. All right, cool? Thanks a Hi, guys, looking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning date. John is on the phone
Speaker 1: with us right now. He wants us to call a
Speaker 1: girl named Denise today because she's not calling him back
Speaker 1: after they went out. He met her at the club
Speaker 1: they went out for a date. He says, part of
Speaker 1: the reason he thinks he's not getting a call back
Speaker 1: is because at a certain point during their date, when
Speaker 1: the bill came, he complained about it because he thought
Speaker 1: it was still happy hour. When happy hour, it ended
Speaker 1: so much so that the manager had to come over
Speaker 1: and they discussed the bill, and he thinks that that
Speaker 1: was a major turnoff because it got weird after that point.
Speaker 1: All right, John, before we called Denise, and you apologize
Speaker 1: to her for that incident and see if you can
Speaker 1: get a second date. I think it'd be a good idea.
Speaker 1: Actually if I call the bar that you went to
Speaker 1: as well, so that I can apologize to them for
Speaker 1: your behavior. Would you like me to do that too? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why not? Let's do it. Let's just say sorry to
Speaker 1: everybody that was involved in your horrible date, John, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: no bleed. Let's call everyone. Okay. Were you humiliated when
Speaker 1: the manager came over to talk to you? Of course,
Speaker 1: because it was at the end of the date. It
Speaker 1: was horrible. I just wish it I hadn't even said it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's when you look at it and you're like, all right, whatever,
Speaker 1: it's like twenty five fifty bucks more than I was
Speaker 1: planning on spending. Might as well just suck it up.
Speaker 1: All right? Well, I'm gonna dollar phone ub right now.
Speaker 1: Get her on the phone and get your second date. Update. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Can I speak to Denise? Please? Hey, Denise?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Okay, what's going on? I'm calling you
Speaker 1: because we recently got an email about you from somebody
Speaker 1: who listens to our show. I'm sorry, what's going on here?
Speaker 1: I don't understand. It's a segment we do on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. Okay, John asked us
Speaker 1: to give you a call and find out what went
Speaker 1: wrong on your date because I guess he's tried to
Speaker 1: get a hold of you a few times and you
Speaker 1: won't call him back. Okay, I'll tell you what John
Speaker 1: told us, because we talked to him and he says
Speaker 1: he thinks that you're not calling him back because of
Speaker 1: a moment at the end of your date when he
Speaker 1: complained about the bill and like the manager had to
Speaker 1: come over, and he says he felt really stupid after
Speaker 1: that point. Oh now he lost to me before that?
Speaker 1: What did he do before that? I mean, guys, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I want to talk about this. Was
Speaker 1: it where he asked if you wanted to go back
Speaker 1: to his place and you said no? He told you
Speaker 1: a lot about our date? Apparently he did. He told
Speaker 1: us all about it because he's really curious what he
Speaker 1: did wrong and why you don't want to go out
Speaker 1: with him again. I wouldn't blame you if you didn't
Speaker 1: want to go out with him. I'd feel like, an
Speaker 1: hour into the date and he's asking to go back
Speaker 1: to his apartment. It sounds like a booty call almost.
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't even want to be there after
Speaker 1: the first fifteen seconds of talking. Now on what you
Speaker 1: didn't like him that like that soon into the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that doesn't make any sense to me, because you hung
Speaker 1: out with him for an hour or so still and
Speaker 1: had drinks with the guy. If you didn't want to
Speaker 1: be there at all, why didn't you leave earlier? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I guess I've felt kind of stuck like
Speaker 1: I needed to keep going through with it. So you
Speaker 1: were looking forward to it, and then fifteen second con
Speaker 1: send to the date, he turned you off? Yeah, so
Speaker 1: what happened? Um? So I walked into the restaurant and
Speaker 1: I had butterflies because I was excited to see him
Speaker 1: again and he was already there. He hit a table
Speaker 1: for us, and he had pulled out the chair for me.
Speaker 1: He told me I looked beautiful. He kissed me on
Speaker 1: the cheek. Wait, we sit down and I asked him,
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, you know, how's it going? How
Speaker 1: you been? And he answered, oh god, he says, this
Speaker 1: is gonna sound bad, but I forgot your name? How
Speaker 1: did he not know your name? I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: We had talked for like an hour, and I laughed.
Speaker 1: I thought he was kidding. Yeah, but he wasn't joking. No,
Speaker 1: he because, no, I'm serious. And he said, look, how
Speaker 1: I saved you in my phone. And he showed me
Speaker 1: his phone and he had saved me in his phone
Speaker 1: as hot girl from the club. I have done that
Speaker 1: before too. Yeah, and you'll be like texting with somebody
Speaker 1: like I have no idea what her name is. I
Speaker 1: hope she says that at some point. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know any girl that wants to be known as
Speaker 1: the hot girl from the club. Yeah. No, I don't
Speaker 1: think it's that bad of an I mean, yeah, but
Speaker 1: if the guy's sitting down with you on a date
Speaker 1: and then has to go, hey, I know we've been
Speaker 1: talking back and forth, planned this whole date, but I
Speaker 1: don't know your name at all. He doesn't care about
Speaker 1: your name. He did. So what did you say to
Speaker 1: him after you found out he didn't know your name?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't. I felt a little like
Speaker 1: hot off cars. It's like, oh okay, cool, Well, I'm Denise.
Speaker 1: I don't didn't know how to respond. I wanted and
Speaker 1: be mad. Were you just like disappointed because you really
Speaker 1: had this crush on this guy and then he didn't
Speaker 1: even have enough energy to put into knowing your name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was really looking forward to this date and then
Speaker 1: that's how it starts. And from then on I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I guess I'll just order a bunch of drinks and
Speaker 1: have him paid for it. Girl. Yeah, it's a good
Speaker 1: way to do it. You didn't care about the bill.
Speaker 1: Can you put the tab under Denise please named Denise
Speaker 1: and all caps. Wouldn't you like to just tell him though, like, Hey,
Speaker 1: this is why I didn't call you back, was because
Speaker 1: you didn't know my name. Maybe in the future you
Speaker 1: should know somebody's name before you got with him. I mean,
Speaker 1: I just figured maybe that's something he should know. But
Speaker 1: the good thing is he knows it now because he's
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening. Yeah, Denise, I couldn't
Speaker 1: hear you at the club. It was really loud. That's
Speaker 1: why I didn't. I'm so sorry. I swear I just
Speaker 1: couldn't hear you that night. I was too embarrassed to
Speaker 1: ask you that night what your name was, and I
Speaker 1: should just ask then, Yeah, when you put me in
Speaker 1: your phone and ask me my name and put it
Speaker 1: in your phone, you don't go an entire week. And
Speaker 1: then I think it's funny to show me that you've
Speaker 1: given me the nickname hot girl from the club. Well,
Speaker 1: I was just trying to be honest until you I
Speaker 1: thought it was kind of funny. I thought, would you
Speaker 1: think it was a compliment? I put you in this
Speaker 1: hot girl? Just a second? Hot girl? What did you
Speaker 1: want though? Dease? He's not going to put in very
Speaker 1: smart intellectual woman first. I mean, it's not like it
Speaker 1: didn't come up in conversation when we're at the club.
Speaker 1: We told each other our names, and I mean, I
Speaker 1: am more than just a person with a body. I
Speaker 1: don't want to didn't mean it means something about him
Speaker 1: that that's all he's thinking about. That he couldn't remember
Speaker 1: my name from the conversation, but all that he remembered
Speaker 1: was what my body looked like. Okay, okay, so that's
Speaker 1: all I knew at that moment about you. I'm really
Speaker 1: really sorry. And if I had had the chance to
Speaker 1: put in a different sort of thing after our date,
Speaker 1: I swear that I would have put in the most
Speaker 1: amazing woman I've ever met, or the beautiful girl who
Speaker 1: I'm lucky to have gone on a date. D that's
Speaker 1: pouring it on a little thick, don't you think, John?
Speaker 1: Give him some credit to nice? And then you couple
Speaker 1: that with everything else that happened that night. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess you're right. A lot of stuff did happen. Everything
Speaker 1: else was good, John, John, you forgot her name, You
Speaker 1: yelled at the white stuff about the bill, and then
Speaker 1: you invited her back to your place an hour into
Speaker 1: the date and she said, no, Okay, Look, I admit
Speaker 1: it wasn't like the best date. That was like incredibly
Speaker 1: unlucky one. The fact that I misunderstood what time happy
Speaker 1: hour was, that's just like bad luck. I also I
Speaker 1: heard her name, I just couldn't like hear it well
Speaker 1: enough at the club. That's bad luck. The only one
Speaker 1: that's actually my fault is asking her too soon to
Speaker 1: go to my plate responsible ate for Denise, Would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with John?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I don't know. Come on, just
Speaker 1: give him another shot. Now that he knows your name
Speaker 1: and he knows not to yell at waiters is to me.
Speaker 1: I mean, it would be really hard for me to
Speaker 1: start over on this time. Do you want to give
Speaker 1: him a shot, though, and see if you can do it.
Speaker 1: I promise that you'll get to know the real meat,
Speaker 1: that you'll have a wonderful time. I'll be a total gentleman.
Speaker 1: I just I think that you should give me another chance.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna pay for the date so he can't
Speaker 1: complain about the bill. That's my job at this point.
Speaker 1: We won't even go to a happy hour against my
Speaker 1: better judgment. Bit, Fine, we'll do it. You'll go out
Speaker 1: with John again. Yeah, awesome job. God, I can't believe
Speaker 1: we're celebrating a response like fine, congratulations John, you got
Speaker 1: a second date. Thank you guys. Denise promise you will
Speaker 1: not regret it. We'll send you and whatever her name
Speaker 1: is out again and let me know everything goes okay.
Speaker 1: Broken Jupil in the morning. H