WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: What’s Your Name?

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<v Speaker 1>second d date. You know, in my experience dating, I've

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<v Speaker 1>found that there is one surefire way to impress the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you're out on a date with. Oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna be good, and that is to complain about

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<v Speaker 1>the bill. Complain to the wait staff, complain to the manager.

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<v Speaker 1>Causes scene if you can, because that says a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you. It says that you're not gonna take anybody's crap.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's getting over on you. And you know what that

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<v Speaker 1>says if there's a long term relationship between you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're willing to stand up for being overcharged for

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<v Speaker 1>a vodka kran now, you're gonna stand up for something

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<v Speaker 1>bigger for her in the future. Women love it, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>When you complain about the bill, you are dialed into us.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what John did his first date, right John, Yeah, sadly,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a fact. Nicol and Dim in the restaurant. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it was a happy hour and well I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was happy hour, and so you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like the bill twice as much what I was expecting.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wasn't like trying to be I'm not cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I was just like trying to get what

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to get your email. Sure sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're cheap, John, Well, no, well I should have written

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<v Speaker 1>it differently because it was just that. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a huge fan of you guys. I just have

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<v Speaker 1>to say that I love the show. And second of all,

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<v Speaker 1>as a fan of the show, you know that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not cheap. I'm a good person. Yeah whatever. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a fan of the show, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably a terrible person. Yeah, and you like the

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<v Speaker 1>show because it's free, John, free entertainment. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>went to a bar and the bill was twice what

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<v Speaker 1>you were expecting, you wouldn't be a little confused. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be confused. But if I was on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably wouldn't say anything. I think you can ask

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<v Speaker 1>without making a scene, Like what happened when the bill

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<v Speaker 1>came Okay, so the bill shows up, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>I took the bill because I was gonna pay. It

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna be a gentleman. And I just opened it

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<v Speaker 1>and we'd only been there for an hour and a

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<v Speaker 1>half and it was like, but a lot more than

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<v Speaker 1>I was expecting to pay. So I just called over

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter and said, I think there's been a mistake

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<v Speaker 1>with the bill. And I knew that I'd screwed up

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<v Speaker 1>because next thing I know, like the managers there, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the managers tell me that happy hour ended an

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<v Speaker 1>hour before I thought. And it's even the explanations too long. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that the manager had to come over and

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<v Speaker 1>everything else makes it seems like a lot bigger of

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<v Speaker 1>a deal. Is that why you feel like you're not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back today? Well there was one other thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh there's more to it. Okay, yeah, what happened? So

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<v Speaker 1>about an hour in things are going real well. So

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<v Speaker 1>I suggested that we should go get another drink, but

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<v Speaker 1>at my place, all right, and bold move. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>saying like, let's go to my place to hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying, like, let's just go have another drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would hope if you wanted to right

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<v Speaker 1>there you go. I was hoping that at least admit

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<v Speaker 1>it John, So did this happen before or after you

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<v Speaker 1>challenged the bill? This was pre challenging of bill. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you said let's go back to my place? And

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<v Speaker 1>she said what she said? I'm sorry, I don't do

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<v Speaker 1>that on first day. I mean it was cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>think everything was going well besides those two things, like

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<v Speaker 1>we were laughing a lot. Can I ask where you

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<v Speaker 1>met this girl? We met at at a club. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, and an hour into the date. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>way an hour into a day a guy I met

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<v Speaker 1>at the club is asking me back to his house. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't the day I met her. I met her

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<v Speaker 1>at a club like a week before, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>went out about a week later. And that's when I

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<v Speaker 1>asked her back to my place. Oh, I see, what's

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<v Speaker 1>her name? By the way, her name is Denise. Denise. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you said let's go back to my place. She

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<v Speaker 1>said no, I don't really do it on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you said, okay, that's fine. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's not fine, this bill? They overcharged me. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good way to make a first impression, John, Well, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>else went well? Was she noticeably upset after all that stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell that things were off. You know when

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<v Speaker 1>you're like you feel the vibe like you've lost her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I felt. What did you like about her

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<v Speaker 1>so much that you want to do a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update to ask her out again? If you already sort

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<v Speaker 1>of know why you screwed up. So the thing that

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<v Speaker 1>was really cool and surprising about her? And I know

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<v Speaker 1>this is going it's not horrible, but she's gorgeous, like

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<v Speaker 1>like model good looking. But she's also like hilarious. And

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think that she would be so funny, like

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<v Speaker 1>when I met her at the club and like she

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<v Speaker 1>was like making fun of me. I was making fun

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<v Speaker 1>of her, but like in a fun way. She's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So did she make fun of you after you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the ask her back and the building? No? And so

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's where I thought that she was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of upset about how I reacted. How many times have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to get ahold of her since your date?

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<v Speaker 1>I have called her three times and you haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>anything back. Nothing as you honest, I called three times

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<v Speaker 1>and I texted about two others. Oh, so you've tried

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch, so you don't take a hit very well

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I just really liked this girl. She's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Denise is really cool. I wouldn't do this with just anybody. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So do you want to apologize to her for what

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<v Speaker 1>you did? Well? I already did apologize when we were

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant. I apologize like after the manager left,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean, I guess I'll apologize again, but really

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<v Speaker 1>I just want a second chance. Okay, Okay, we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, cool? Thanks a Hi, guys, looking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning date. John is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us right now. He wants us to call a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Denise today because she's not calling him back

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<v Speaker 1>after they went out. He met her at the club

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<v Speaker 1>they went out for a date. He says, part of

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<v Speaker 1>the reason he thinks he's not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 1>is because at a certain point during their date, when

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<v Speaker 1>the bill came, he complained about it because he thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was still happy hour. When happy hour, it ended

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<v Speaker 1>so much so that the manager had to come over

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<v Speaker 1>and they discussed the bill, and he thinks that that

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<v Speaker 1>was a major turnoff because it got weird after that point.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, John, before we called Denise, and you apologize

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<v Speaker 1>to her for that incident and see if you can

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<v Speaker 1>get a second date. I think it'd be a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually if I call the bar that you went to

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<v Speaker 1>as well, so that I can apologize to them for

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<v Speaker 1>your behavior. Would you like me to do that too? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Why not? Let's do it. Let's just say sorry to

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<v Speaker 1>everybody that was involved in your horrible date, John, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no bleed. Let's call everyone. Okay. Were you humiliated when

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<v Speaker 1>the manager came over to talk to you? Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was at the end of the date. It

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<v Speaker 1>was horrible. I just wish it I hadn't even said it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when you look at it and you're like, all right, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like twenty five fifty bucks more than I was

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<v Speaker 1>planning on spending. Might as well just suck it up.

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Well, I'm gonna dollar phone ub right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Get her on the phone and get your second date. Update. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Can I speak to Denise? Please? Hey, Denise?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Okay, what's going on? I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because we recently got an email about you from somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who listens to our show. I'm sorry, what's going on here?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. It's a segment we do on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the Second Date Update. Okay, John asked us

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<v Speaker 1>to give you a call and find out what went

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on your date because I guess he's tried to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you a few times and you

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<v Speaker 1>won't call him back. Okay, I'll tell you what John

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<v Speaker 1>told us, because we talked to him and he says

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks that you're not calling him back because of

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<v Speaker 1>a moment at the end of your date when he

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<v Speaker 1>complained about the bill and like the manager had to

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<v Speaker 1>come over, and he says he felt really stupid after

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<v Speaker 1>that point. Oh now he lost to me before that?

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<v Speaker 1>What did he do before that? I mean, guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I want to talk about this. Was

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<v Speaker 1>it where he asked if you wanted to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to his place and you said no? He told you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about our date? Apparently he did. He told

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<v Speaker 1>us all about it because he's really curious what he

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<v Speaker 1>did wrong and why you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again. I wouldn't blame you if you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him. I'd feel like, an

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<v Speaker 1>hour into the date and he's asking to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to his apartment. It sounds like a booty call almost.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't even want to be there after

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<v Speaker 1>the first fifteen seconds of talking. Now on what you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like him that like that soon into the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make any sense to me, because you hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with him for an hour or so still and

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<v Speaker 1>had drinks with the guy. If you didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be there at all, why didn't you leave earlier? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I guess I've felt kind of stuck like

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to keep going through with it. So you

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<v Speaker 1>were looking forward to it, and then fifteen second con

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<v Speaker 1>send to the date, he turned you off? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Um? So I walked into the restaurant and

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<v Speaker 1>I had butterflies because I was excited to see him

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<v Speaker 1>again and he was already there. He hit a table

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<v Speaker 1>for us, and he had pulled out the chair for me.

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<v Speaker 1>He told me I looked beautiful. He kissed me on

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<v Speaker 1>the cheek. Wait, we sit down and I asked him,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, you know, how's it going? How

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<v Speaker 1>you been? And he answered, oh god, he says, this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna sound bad, but I forgot your name? How

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<v Speaker 1>did he not know your name? I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We had talked for like an hour, and I laughed.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was kidding. Yeah, but he wasn't joking. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he because, no, I'm serious. And he said, look, how

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<v Speaker 1>I saved you in my phone. And he showed me

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<v Speaker 1>his phone and he had saved me in his phone

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<v Speaker 1>as hot girl from the club. I have done that

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<v Speaker 1>before too. Yeah, and you'll be like texting with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>like I have no idea what her name is. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she says that at some point. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know any girl that wants to be known as

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<v Speaker 1>the hot girl from the club. Yeah. No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's that bad of an I mean, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>if the guy's sitting down with you on a date

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<v Speaker 1>and then has to go, hey, I know we've been

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<v Speaker 1>talking back and forth, planned this whole date, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know your name at all. He doesn't care about

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<v Speaker 1>your name. He did. So what did you say to

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<v Speaker 1>him after you found out he didn't know your name?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I can't. I felt a little like

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<v Speaker 1>hot off cars. It's like, oh okay, cool, Well, I'm Denise.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't didn't know how to respond. I wanted and

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<v Speaker 1>be mad. Were you just like disappointed because you really

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<v Speaker 1>had this crush on this guy and then he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even have enough energy to put into knowing your name. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was really looking forward to this date and then

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<v Speaker 1>that's how it starts. And from then on I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'll just order a bunch of drinks and

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<v Speaker 1>have him paid for it. Girl. Yeah, it's a good

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<v Speaker 1>way to do it. You didn't care about the bill.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you put the tab under Denise please named Denise

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<v Speaker 1>and all caps. Wouldn't you like to just tell him though, like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is why I didn't call you back, was because

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't know my name. Maybe in the future you

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<v Speaker 1>should know somebody's name before you got with him. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just figured maybe that's something he should know. But

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<v Speaker 1>the good thing is he knows it now because he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening. Yeah, Denise, I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear you at the club. It was really loud. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I didn't. I'm so sorry. I swear I just

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't hear you that night. I was too embarrassed to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you that night what your name was, and I

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<v Speaker 1>should just ask then, Yeah, when you put me in

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<v Speaker 1>your phone and ask me my name and put it

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<v Speaker 1>in your phone, you don't go an entire week. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I think it's funny to show me that you've

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<v Speaker 1>given me the nickname hot girl from the club. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to be honest until you I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was kind of funny. I thought, would you

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<v Speaker 1>think it was a compliment? I put you in this

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<v Speaker 1>hot girl? Just a second? Hot girl? What did you

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<v Speaker 1>want though? Dease? He's not going to put in very

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<v Speaker 1>smart intellectual woman first. I mean, it's not like it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't come up in conversation when we're at the club.

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<v Speaker 1>We told each other our names, and I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>am more than just a person with a body. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to didn't mean it means something about him

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<v Speaker 1>that that's all he's thinking about. That he couldn't remember

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<v Speaker 1>my name from the conversation, but all that he remembered

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<v Speaker 1>was what my body looked like. Okay, okay, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>all I knew at that moment about you. I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry. And if I had had the chance to

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<v Speaker 1>put in a different sort of thing after our date,

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<v Speaker 1>I swear that I would have put in the most

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<v Speaker 1>amazing woman I've ever met, or the beautiful girl who

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<v Speaker 1>I'm lucky to have gone on a date. D that's

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<v Speaker 1>pouring it on a little thick, don't you think, John?

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<v Speaker 1>Give him some credit to nice? And then you couple

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<v Speaker 1>that with everything else that happened that night. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you're right. A lot of stuff did happen. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>else was good, John, John, you forgot her name, You

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<v Speaker 1>yelled at the white stuff about the bill, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you invited her back to your place an hour into

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<v Speaker 1>the date and she said, no, Okay, Look, I admit

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like the best date. That was like incredibly

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<v Speaker 1>unlucky one. The fact that I misunderstood what time happy

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<v Speaker 1>hour was, that's just like bad luck. I also I

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<v Speaker 1>heard her name, I just couldn't like hear it well

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<v Speaker 1>enough at the club. That's bad luck. The only one

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually my fault is asking her too soon to

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<v Speaker 1>go to my plate responsible ate for Denise, Would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on a second date with John?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it. I don't know. Come on, just

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<v Speaker 1>give him another shot. Now that he knows your name

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<v Speaker 1>and he knows not to yell at waiters is to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it would be really hard for me to

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<v Speaker 1>start over on this time. Do you want to give

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<v Speaker 1>him a shot, though, and see if you can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise that you'll get to know the real meat,

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<v Speaker 1>that you'll have a wonderful time. I'll be a total gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I think that you should give me another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna pay for the date so he can't

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<v Speaker 1>complain about the bill. That's my job at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>We won't even go to a happy hour against my

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<v Speaker 1>better judgment. Bit, Fine, we'll do it. You'll go out

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<v Speaker 1>with John again. Yeah, awesome job. God, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>we're celebrating a response like fine, congratulations John, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Thank you guys. Denise promise you will

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<v Speaker 1>not regret it. We'll send you and whatever her name

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<v Speaker 1>is out again and let me know everything goes okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Jupil in the morning. H