1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone on The Fred Show Tomorrow Morning. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: We do it every day. Why did somebody get ghosted? 3 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: Will investigate Stay or Go, Will debate some relationship drama, 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: three hundred bucks, Which SHOWVI is Shelley in this showdown? 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 2: And more. 6 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: It's The Fred Show Tomorrow Morning on the radio and 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: the iHeart app live and catch up anytime. Search for 8 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: the Fred Show on demand. Fred's show is on Good 9 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: Morning Everybody, Monday, August eighteenth, The Fred Show is here. Hi, Kaylin, 10 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Hi, Paulina, Hey, Hi, Kiki, 11 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: Good morning. 12 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 2: Shob Is Shelley's here? 13 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: Belahamine on the phone and the Texas down today, So 14 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: let's just sending. That's a work around here, shocking eight 15 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: one o three five. You can call us. You can 16 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: find us at all of the socials as well. Fred 17 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 1: Show Radio. Search for the Fred Show all those things. 18 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: We'll get to the biggest stories of the day, headlines, 19 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: the fun fact and the entertainer reports coming up. 20 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 2: What are you working on? 21 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: Kay? 22 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 4: I will tell you who reunited with the judge that 23 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 4: prosecuted them in the early two thousands. Also, Will Smith 24 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 4: talks about for the first time what happened after the 25 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 4: infamous slap. 26 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: We're still talking about that. 27 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 5: Apparently I don't want to, but. 28 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 6: I have to. 29 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: Okay, it's your obligation, must it must be done as 30 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: a true journalist that you are. It's exhausting on Kiki's court. 31 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: EA's next butt a ball girl. Close your legs. 32 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 2: It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court. All rise, The 33 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: Honorable Kikileik is here. Judge Kiki, if you would present 34 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 2: your case, all. 35 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 7: Right, let's get into the courtroom. The gavel has been hit, 36 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 7: it says Judge Kiki. Am I wrong for skipping my 37 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 7: sister's baby shower? So my younger sister is pregnant with 38 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 7: her fifth child by her second husband, and she's living 39 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 7: back at my parents' house. Her ex is a deadbeat, 40 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 7: her current husband can't hold a job, and my parents 41 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 7: have basically been carrying her financially for years. 42 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 6: We're talking school. 43 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 7: Fees, medical bills, lawyer bills, you name it. Now she's 44 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 7: having another baby and expects yet another baby shower. 45 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 6: My ma is upset that I. 46 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 7: Won't help decorate or hosts like I've done in the past, 47 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 7: But honestly, I feel like going would just be me 48 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 7: co signing her irresponsible choices. My parents are supposed to 49 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 7: be enjoying retirement, not raising her kids and paying her bills. 50 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 7: I love my niece and nephews, but enough is enough. 51 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 7: Someone in the family has to draw the line. And 52 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 7: it looks like that person is me. So am I 53 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 7: a jerk for refusing to go to the baby shower? 54 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: First of all, how many? How many baby showers? Do 55 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 2: you know? How many crib? 56 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 7: Mean? 57 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: I guess you need another crib because you go, But 58 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: I mean, don't you have enough stuff by now? 59 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 6: I would think so, like what happened to maybe number 60 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 6: four stuff? 61 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 8: Hey? 62 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: How about baby number one? Baby number one's in college? 63 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 2: Now you know? Yes, what do you think? Kiki? 64 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 7: Well, you know y'all get mad at me when I 65 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 7: don't have sympathy for people who make terrible decisions in life. 66 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 7: Damn well, take all the smoke on this one, because 67 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 7: I do not think she is wrong. At some point, 68 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 7: when you are not financially where you need to be, 69 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 7: you need to close your legs because I'm let me 70 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 7: take something when my money is funny. I don't even 71 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 7: have the urge to do what you do to make 72 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 7: babies like I don't even come one talk to nobody. 73 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 7: I'm not in a joyful spirit. You you know, you 74 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 7: go through a hard time. I understand that you went 75 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 7: through a bad divorce. I understand that it's okay to 76 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 7: move back sometimes you have a husband. 77 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 6: Okay, somebody need to go to work and keep a job. 78 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 7: And then and if you can't keep a job and 79 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 7: you can't go to work, then you need to stop 80 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 7: having children because who's paying for this? And then the 81 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 7: poor parents? You know, and I have I come from 82 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 7: a family of my sister. You know, she loves her 83 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 7: grandchildren down she'll do anything for her grandchildren. But if 84 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 7: I was to ever see one of my siblings taking 85 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 7: advantage of her in her retirement, I'm absolutely gonna speak up. 86 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 7: You should it's not the pay, it's not our parents' 87 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 7: responsibility to raise your children. Loud, but you know it's 88 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 7: that's not fair to do. 89 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: It's Yeah, maybe she should have used some of that 90 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: money she barred from her parents and gotten some birth control. 91 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 6: Hello, I mean that's responsible, that's real. Listen. I've always 92 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 6: said this too. 93 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 9: Like if you are not in a good place, like 94 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 9: I think having a child maybe isn't the best decision 95 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 9: we're making right now right. 96 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: I was always saying that she's always she always walking 97 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: around saying, hey, you you don't look like you're in 98 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: a spot for this. 99 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 9: You don't look as a mother. I can tell you firsthand. 100 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 9: It is expensive. It is hard. It is everything you 101 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 9: can think of. Okay, it is beautiful, but it is hard. 102 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 6: And I also feel like maybe she should. 103 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 9: Work on picking her man correctly, Like, I think that's 104 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 9: another thing. 105 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 6: We got to work out with this girl. 106 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: Hello, you guys are the journey though eight five five 107 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: five nine one three five. You have to call it 108 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: today because the text is down because we've got to 109 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: pay the bill. 110 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 2: I guess, but we call now. I don't. 111 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 1: I don't think that's unfair. I really don't. And I 112 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: know that accidents happened. I realize that it's possible, very 113 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: possible to have a kid when you're not when you're 114 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: as you would say, when your money is funny mm hmm. 115 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: But I mean, when we're on the fifth one. Come on, 116 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: at what point do we need to take responsibility for ourselves? 117 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: It was probably four kids ago, you know, when we're 118 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: not having our parents pay our bills, what is this? 119 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: Dude? Doing who's knocking you up? Why is he not 120 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 2: doing this? 121 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel terrible for these kids, honestly, because 122 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 1: there's no accountability here. You know, I'm sure their quality 123 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: of life is affected by the fact that that the 124 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: resources aren't there. And now you got grandma and grandpa 125 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: having to pay for all this, and then I guess, 126 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: you know, another baby shower, so we're it's just more 127 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: people enabling I'm with you, Kiki. I'm sorry, but you know, 128 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 1: you can call up here and you can say what 129 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 1: you want, but this stuff does happen, but it doesn't 130 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: happen five times. 131 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 7: Right, and you're at home with our parents. They have 132 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 7: worked hard to enjoy their retirement and I'm sure they 133 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 7: love having the kids there, but they should not be 134 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 7: taken on the financial burden of raising your children. You know, 135 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 7: they should be enjoying themselves, going on vacations, going you know, 136 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 7: to travel and do things, not raising your kid paying 137 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 7: for school fees and oh my goodness, it just seems 138 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 7: like you're just irresponsible and everybody in the family is 139 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 7: like enabling this because they keep having parties for these kids. 140 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 6: That you keep bringing it to the family financially supporting 141 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 6: and so. 142 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: Your point earlier, Kiki, there are two adults involved here, 143 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 1: right right, So if one needs to stay and raise 144 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: the kids, understandable because now you've got five of them. 145 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 1: But well, what's the other person doing? 146 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 2: Like? 147 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 1: And I mean clearly they're good at making babies. So 148 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: and where are his parents? Where are you're in laws? 149 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: Maybe you can stay over their house a couple of months, yeah, Alison, 150 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: good morning, Alison there Hi, Hey, Alison Keky's court. So 151 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 1: just to recap here, this woman is on you know, 152 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: working on child number five. Well, she already worked on it. 153 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: It's already done, it was worked on, it's on the way. 154 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: There's another baby shower, another baby shower, except this woman 155 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: who who is reaching out to judge Kiki is like, 156 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: I don't think I should have to support this because 157 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: my parents support this whole family, we've all been supporting this. 158 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: What do you think. 159 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 8: I completely agree that it's irresponsible for her to continue 160 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 8: to have children, but I also think that once that 161 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 8: child is born and grows up, they might feel some 162 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 8: type of way about the sister not attending her baby shower. 163 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 8: And she went to all the other kids baby showers, 164 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 8: you know what I mean? 165 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 6: My niece nephew type get that. 166 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, because if my aunts didn't go to mind, 167 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 8: but once all my other siblings, I'd be like, you know, 168 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 8: she kind of stringled out. 169 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying, Alison, But almost nobody who 170 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: is at my mom's baby shower for me is still 171 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: in the picture. Dad's not even in the picture. So 172 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I think she has she has a right 173 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: to be frustrated by this. 174 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 2: I agree. 175 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: I guess that the sentiment of this child coming and 176 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: and you sort of not celebrating that. At the same time, though, 177 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 1: I can understand why everybody in the family is exasperated. 178 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: It's like, especially when it's her parents having to pay 179 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: for all this, and I guess in some ways the 180 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: rest of the family too is supplementing this behavior. And again, 181 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: I'll say it again, I know that this stuff just 182 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: happens sometimes, but how many times has it happened and 183 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: you're not able to be responsible about it and provide 184 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: for it before you come up with another way? 185 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, that is true, But then I also think she's 186 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 8: looking out for her parents. Then it is just going 187 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 8: to stress the parents out more if she's not going 188 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 8: to help them at all because then they're going to 189 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 8: have to do it all by themselves. 190 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: Well, and these poor parents and what are they supposed 191 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 2: to do? 192 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: You know? 193 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't have to go back to work. 194 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 2: This is I know, it's terrible. Alison. Thank you, have 195 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,439 Speaker 2: a good day. Love you. 196 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: Normally I wouldn't I'm not sure that I would do this, 197 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: but but I would really like to hear from Hadley. 198 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: Now, Hadley is ten years old. 199 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: Hadley, All, Hi, Hedley, Hi, Hi? Now you are ten 200 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: years old. Now you you heard this and you feel 201 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: and kind of way about it? Now? 202 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: What did you want to say? Hadley? 203 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 10: I want to just say that I think it's okay 204 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 10: that she skipped out on this one because this is 205 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 10: their first kid. They they should have gone to the 206 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 10: other ones. And if you're financially not okay and you 207 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 10: have your parents helping you, you shouldn't be able to 208 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 10: have another baby and then have another baby shower, you 209 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 10: know what. 210 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: That's exactly right, Cadley, that is fantastic. Yeah, Now you 211 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: is your mom there with you? Or did you just 212 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 1: are you listening about yourself? You just called on your own. 213 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 10: My dad's here with me. 214 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 2: Can I talk to your dad? Yeah, let me talk 215 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 2: to your dad. 216 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: Hello, dad, I just want to I want to give 217 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 1: you a random A plus that is a ten year 218 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: old that knows what's up. 219 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: Random applause is fantastic. 220 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: How happy were you to hear that from your ten 221 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: year old? You shouldn't have a baby unless you can 222 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: afford it. How happy did that make you? 223 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 2: Oh? 224 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 3: When I heard that, I was like, I have anything to. 225 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 2: Worry about them. This sounds good to me. That's right. 226 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: You could start planning your retirement because your daughter, Hardley 227 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: knows what's up. Hey, thank you, guys, have a great day. 228 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 3: Thank you. 229 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 2: All right. 230 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,439 Speaker 1: That's the kind of responsible Yeah, that's the kind of 231 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: responsibility we need to hear it in today's youth. 232 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: Just you know what I mean. 233 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 9: It's more responsible than our own girl over the day, 234 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 9: our own old girl. 235 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you remember that, Hadley, You remember that you called 236 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 1: up here and said that, Okay, hey Rebecca, good morning, 237 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: Good morning, Rebecca. You got to follow up a ten 238 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: year old who just educated all of us. But what 239 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: would you like to say in. 240 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 3: Tiki scored, I would just like to say that I 241 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: will hardly agree with Tiki. I have actually found myself 242 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: in a position I am forty, married for almost twenty years. 243 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 3: I have a fourteen year old son, and I felt 244 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 3: pregnant recently, not expected, but you know, with the economy 245 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 3: in today's age, it's really expensive to raise children, and 246 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 3: I don't know how anybody can do five children. That 247 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 3: is outrageous. It's ridiculous to think and expect your parents 248 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 3: and your family members to help you raise these kids nowadays. 249 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 3: And so, you know, my husband and I had to 250 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 3: sit down look at our finances and can we give 251 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: the life we want to give to our fourteen year 252 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: old if we have a second child. Now I also 253 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: have medical conditions, and it was like, do we want 254 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 3: to put myself through that just to risk you know, 255 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 3: my life and the baby's life. So, you know, ultimately 256 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 3: we came to the decision that it wasn't for us, 257 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 3: you know, because my health problems and financially, we didn't 258 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: think we could give our fourteen year old the life 259 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 3: he you know, deserves to have. So, you know, like 260 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 3: tough decisions do have to be made, but we were 261 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 3: very responsible and knew that like it just wasn't in 262 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 3: the future for us. It's not in our plans, and 263 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 3: it's about time that woman was sat down by family 264 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 3: members and she's informed of how stressful this is for 265 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 3: the rest of them. 266 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: Well, Rebacca, I said, that's a heavy situation. And I 267 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 1: you know, I respect you Colin and sharing your story. Uh, 268 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: you know, I hope your health is okay and uh 269 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 1: and all of that. But yeah, I mean, it's uh, 270 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: it's it's a responsibility when you pull that thing out. 271 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: So uh, Rebecca, thank you the day glad you called. Yeah, 272 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I all I can say is every time 273 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: my sister, you know, asked my parents for something, I'm 274 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: just thinking, this is my inheritance. Okay, you know every time. 275 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: Every time, it's every single time, it's you know, what 276 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: do you buy those kids? 277 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: Now? Mom? 278 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: You know that's that's coming out of my piece, you 279 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And that's all I'm thinking. 280 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 7: You're not wrong when my brothers keep having kids, I 281 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 7: do add it up and. 282 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 6: What's left forlox, you know what I'm saying, Like, come on. 283 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: No, I'm kidding, But you know it's whenever my mom 284 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: is with Polly, it's just like a total free for all, 285 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: you know, and all the stuff that we never got 286 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: to do, like we went to somewhere recently went to 287 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: a bowling alley and Pollie's like, I want to play 288 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: video games and my mom's just whipping out twenties like 289 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: it's nothing. I'm like, where were those when I was 290 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: ten years old? You wouldn't give me nothing. And every 291 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: time I see this little girl come back with all 292 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: these little tickets and all this stuff, I'm like, you know, 293 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: I could retire earlier, but no, they know probably had 294 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: to play the little game, so I understand. But I 295 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 1: think when it comes down to Kiki, is that you know, 296 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 1: how many times do you have to do do you 297 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: make decisions that affect your family before? And I know 298 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: these things happen, and what are you supposed to do? 299 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: But like maybe address alternatives like birth control or abstinence. 300 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, I really don't know what the answer is, 301 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: but like, how many times do you get to have 302 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: other people fulfill your obligations before they have a right 303 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: to just say I can't help you anymore, Like it's 304 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: time for me to retire, It's time for me. I 305 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,719 Speaker 1: already did this, you know. If I'm her parents, I'm like, 306 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: I already raised you guys, and now I'm raising for 307 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 1: your kids. I can't do five right. 308 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 7: And when do you start to feel some type of 309 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 7: self accountability, like when do you feel bad? 310 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 6: You know, when do you apologize? 311 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 7: When do you get up and try to go get 312 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 7: a job to help out with all the children you're creating. 313 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: I don't understand all right, well, Kiki Clusy Ladies Caitlin's 314 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:15,599 Speaker 1: Entertainer Report and he's on the Bread Show. 315 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 4: The national judge who prosecuted Jelly Role in the early 316 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 4: two thousands has now partnered with the country singer to 317 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 4: support at risk youth. Judge Jim Todd is now serving 318 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 4: as a special prosecutor for violent and gang related juvenile offenders. 319 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 4: His experiences have driven him to advocate for positive change 320 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 4: and mentorship and having similar experiences Jelly Roll, you know, 321 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 4: feels a similar kind of passion for giving back to 322 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 4: the community and troubled kids. Together, they are working to 323 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 4: provide a guidance and a support system to these young people, 324 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 4: aiming to break the cycle of crime and offer hope 325 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 4: for a better future. Will Smith was a guest on 326 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,359 Speaker 4: the All the Smoke podcasts and he got super emotional 327 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 4: while he was talking about what happened the night after 328 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 4: the infamous moment when he slapped Chris Rock. 329 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 5: At the Oscars. 330 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 4: And I believe this is the first time he's spoken 331 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 4: about that night itself. 332 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 11: Right, Man, that was a horrific night to you for me. 333 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, I made the real ones who understood I'm 334 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 12: gonna stand up for my wife whether I'm right or 335 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 12: wrong in any place. 336 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: So I understood that what you. 337 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 12: Say, nobody can't make me think that anything. 338 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 2: You did was wrong. Let me tell you one of 339 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 2: the worst because I was right there. 340 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 11: And I get home and my nephew nine years old. 341 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: His name's Don He. 342 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 11: Is the sweetest kid in the world, you know. Him 343 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 11: and my sister live with me, and I'm sitting we 344 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 11: got these bean bags in the kitchen. I'm sitting in 345 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 11: the kitchen and he's sitting between my leg and he's 346 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 11: holding the oscar. 347 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 5: And he goes, why you hit that man, Uncle Will? 348 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh. 349 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 11: Him, And it's like, you know, I'm gonna be crying. 350 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 11: Somebody got a tissue and it was I got one, 351 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 11: I got money, And it was like, I say, I 352 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 11: knew y'all was Miami, right. 353 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 2: You can't explain it to him. He stayed up late. 354 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 11: Wait, the funk, will you know? And it was like, 355 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 11: you know, I can, I can do all the justifications forever. 356 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 6: He won't understand. 357 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: He can't. 358 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 2: You know, I. 359 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: Don't know, guys, and you I mean, come for me 360 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: if you want. But I know what was that. I 361 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: felt like I was in a saloon or something. Literally, 362 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: there's tumble weeds going down the street or whatever. It's 363 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: a it's a doll's, it's a draw at dawn. 364 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I mean. Come for me. But I 365 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 2: I'm all for. 366 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: Defending the honor of your partner and if it comes to, 367 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: you know, needing to protect that person physically, I'm all 368 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: for that too. But Chris Rock is a comedian and 369 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: he addressed something that's been out there for a very 370 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: long time and that no one has dispelled. You know, 371 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: that they have an open kind of thing going on. 372 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know that it's okay just to 373 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: go start swinging on people in that setting. Maybe it's 374 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: something that you handle privately, but I guess I'm not 375 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 1: one hundred percent sure that I don't agree with that 376 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: take where it's oh, you know, I defend you because 377 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: that's your wife, and defend your wife even if you're 378 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: I don't know guys. 379 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, that was the host of the show saying that. 380 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: So I hope that Will is taking more responsibility than that. 381 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 4: I think the comment that ticked him off was about 382 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 4: her alopecia. But again, it's not an excuse to go 383 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 4: up and smack someone who's doing their job. 384 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 5: I mean, handle it later. 385 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 4: But it was an interesting take on, Like I had 386 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 4: to try to tell my nephew why I did it, 387 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 4: and I couldn't give him a reason. 388 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't remember the joke was it about it? 389 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: I didn't, I can't remember. 390 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, she has alopecia, it was, yeah, yeah, the reason 391 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 4: I thought it was about them being swingers, but uh, that's. 392 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 5: Usually the joke to that's just what it is. So 393 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 5: I don't believe. 394 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 2: I mean, I get it, I get it. 395 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm not sure that that was the right 396 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: thing to do there. 397 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 398 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 4: No, he very clearly was like going through something in 399 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 4: addition to whatever takes him off, because that was that 400 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 4: was a wild thing to see. 401 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 5: But I thought that was an interesting tid. 402 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 4: But it looks like despite their divorce, sam Ascari still 403 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 4: has Britney's back. He took a shot at Kevin Federline 404 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 4: when he was asked about his upcoming memoir, where Kevin 405 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 4: talks about all kinds of things, of course, including his 406 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 4: relationship with Brittany and their children. 407 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 5: Kevin was married to britt from two. 408 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 4: Thousand and five to two thousand and seven and they 409 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 4: share two kids together. And when asked what he thinks 410 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 4: about this upcoming book, Sam who settled his own divorce 411 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 4: from Britney last May, simply responded, so it would be 412 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 4: the first book that would tell you how to be 413 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 4: a professional father, which was a slight shady dig a' lah. 414 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 5: Having Brittany's back. 415 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 4: The memoir You Thought You Knew will be out October 416 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 4: twenty first and focus on quote fame, fatherhood and the 417 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 4: private cost of public life. And lastly, Real Quick Weapons 418 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 4: won the weekend for the second week in a row 419 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 4: at the box office with twenty five million. Freakier Freakier Friday, 420 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 4: which is a title to say I, came in second. 421 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,159 Speaker 4: Nobody Too opened but came in at number three. The 422 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 4: Fantastic Four First Steps and The Bad Guys Too came 423 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 4: in fourth and fifth, respectively, and then Sydney Sweeney's Americana 424 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 4: made five hundred thousand dollars. 425 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 2: Dollars at least that American Eagle does. 426 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 5: Right, she has good jeans. 427 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 4: But from she only premiered in one thy one hundred 428 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 4: and ten locations. I should be specific, but she came 429 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 4: in sixteenth five hundred dollars. Guys, Well that's about we're 430 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 4: in comparison to the rest of the movies. It's giving 431 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 4: five hundred sixteenth place. But again it wasn't open in 432 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 4: every location. I have to who have set that? 433 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 1: But which means that two people attended, because that's how 434 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: much it costs to go to a movie. Yes, Freudian, Wow, 435 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: the Fred Show is on Fred's Fun Fact. 436 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 9: Fred's one. 437 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: So much I changed my mind. Well, I'll tell you 438 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 1: the other one. It was a fruit fact. The strawberry 439 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: is the only fruit that has the seeds on the 440 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: outside of the fruit. Not that good. I changed my mind. 441 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: I feel a lot of pressure to impress Kiki with 442 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: the fun fact every day, like checking up with a 443 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:32,479 Speaker 1: better one. Did you know that Tupac was the first 444 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,959 Speaker 1: US artist to have an album reached Billboard number one 445 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: while still in prison. It was his third studio album, 446 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: titled Me Against the World, that hit number one while 447 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 1: he was in prison. That was a long time ago, 448 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 1: but it seems very common now that artists are in prison, 449 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 1: so I'm sure will happen again, potentially more Fred show 450 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: next right here.