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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on the Juble Show.

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Speaker 2: Maddie is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: She's been dating her boyfriend Connor for three years, but

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Speaker 2: now she thinks that something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Maddie, sorry,

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way, But

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Speaker 2: what's up. Why do you think Connor's cheating?

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Speaker 1: Well, Connor and I have been together for three years,

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Speaker 1: and we moved in together after a year, and it's

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Speaker 1: kind of been a little bit of a struggle financially

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Speaker 1: because we were both fresh out of college, you know,

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Speaker 1: trying to make ends meet. But I feel like we

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Speaker 1: really have a very close relationship, even in the hard times,

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Speaker 1: and you know, even when we find ourselves in a fight,

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Speaker 1: Connor will just say something dumb or silly and it

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Speaker 1: just kind of goes away, which I feel like is

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Speaker 1: our white flag moment. I think, honestly, everything's been pretty

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Speaker 1: easy with us. And before Connor, I had a string

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Speaker 1: of horrible relationships. The last three guys they beat it

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Speaker 1: actually cheated on me.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm sorry, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I walked in on one with another girl, like

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Speaker 1: it just fit's a lot, and I hope that that's

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Speaker 1: not like making me nervous, because I'm still guarded, you know,

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Speaker 1: with all of that, and Connin knows my past, like

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Speaker 1: he knows. He's really been cool with making me feel

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Speaker 1: at ease whenever I feel like something might be happening,

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Speaker 1: you know. But lately, like the last three weeks specifically,

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Speaker 1: it feels like he's been hiding something for me and

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Speaker 1: he won't talk about it.

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Speaker 4: What kind of things is he hiding from me or

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Speaker 4: what kind of thing is he hiding from you?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. He's just been getting home late,

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Speaker 1: like he has this weird schedule. He's been like having

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Speaker 1: these weird hours at work and it's either way early

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Speaker 1: or super late.

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Speaker 3: And then when I asked, he says, oh.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just a weird schedule.

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Speaker 3: But never been like that.

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Speaker 1: But then one day I was like, oh, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to co op to your job and have lunch

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Speaker 1: and he said he's not there, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: where are you? And he said he had some meeting

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Speaker 1: in town. I don't know. I don't want to think

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Speaker 1: the worst, and I was trying to just ignore what

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Speaker 1: he was saying because maybe it was just a meeting,

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Speaker 1: you know, and that was it. And maybe he does

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Speaker 1: have a really really weird schedule lately, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But then I saw some text messages from the girl

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Speaker 1: named Isabelle. I have no idea who that is. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I saw one of these texts from Isabelle and it

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Speaker 1: said meet me there at three looking forward to seeing

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Speaker 1: you again. And three o'clock is in kind of works

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Speaker 1: and no one named isabel works at his office, and

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Speaker 1: my mind is just kind of going crazy, like I

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Speaker 1: can't let it go. And so then I saw the text,

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Speaker 1: obviously from Isabelle, and I asked, okay, who is that?

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Speaker 1: And he got really short about it, which he never

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Speaker 1: does things like that, and he said, oh, it's just

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Speaker 1: a work thing because and I was like, well, where

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Speaker 1: is she from because she's not from your office. He said, oh,

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Speaker 1: she's just a wrap from another district. And that sounds

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Speaker 1: like it could be legit, but it's just the way

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Speaker 1: that he said it. It just sounded like he was

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Speaker 1: making crap up, like right on the spot. And he's

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Speaker 1: always been a horrible liar. So I'm just hoping that

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Speaker 1: you guys can help to ease my mind. Because I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's just me, because I've been hurt

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Speaker 1: too many times. I just I don't want to go

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know if I'm just making things up, but I just

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Speaker 1: want to know. I need to know.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like he should know that your brain

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Speaker 4: is wired to go there at this point. I mean,

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Speaker 4: at some point you're going to have to just trust

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Speaker 4: and all of that. But good for you to ask

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Speaker 4: him about the text message. I don't like how he

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Speaker 4: responded to you, though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, I don't like it either.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's see if we can figure it out. You

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Speaker 2: already told us about grocery store. He's a rewards card

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Speaker 2: member at So we'll play a song come back, and

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Speaker 2: then call him and pretend to be from the grocery

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Speaker 2: store and say that every single month, we choose one

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Speaker 2: lucky customer who gets free flowers deliver from our flour

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Speaker 2: old department, and we'll see if he sends them to

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Speaker 2: you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: Place, I'll come back and get your sketch heeter. Next.

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Speaker 6: If you're just joining us for today, is to catch

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Speaker 6: a cheater.

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Speaker 2: Maddie is on the phone, and she thinks that her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend of three years, Connor, might be messing around. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and pretend to be from

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Speaker 2: the grocery store that he's a rewards card remember, and

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Speaker 2: say that every single month, we choose one random person

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Speaker 2: who gets flowers delivered from our Florida department absolutely free,

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Speaker 2: and see if he sends them to his girlfriend, Maddie

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Speaker 2: or to somebody else. But first, Mattie, why don't you

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Speaker 2: catch us up on why you are suspicious that he

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Speaker 2: might be cheating?

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Speaker 1: Sure? You know he's been working really weird hours or

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Speaker 1: before it was normal hours, like he a really routine schedule.

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Speaker 1: And I caught him texting this girl Isabelle, who I

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Speaker 1: don't know, and he says that she's from work, but

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of her before, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: what this think. I'm adding up.

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Speaker 6: You ready for us to call on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 6: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is Gorbel calling from I was looking for

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Speaker 2: our rewards card member named Connor.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, let's see.

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Speaker 2: Hey Connor, please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations.

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Speaker 2: You're this month's big winner.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what do I win?

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member, totally random,

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Speaker 2: who gets free flowers delivered from our flooral apartment. You've

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Speaker 2: just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box

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Speaker 2: of chocolates or candy, and a card to be delivered

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Speaker 2: to anybody that you want within the fifty United States

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Speaker 2: of America. Absolutely free. It's a three hundred and sixteen

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Speaker 2: dollars value. So thank you very much. Congratulations, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I actually don't know how well time that is?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Really great? Sounds great, that's wonderful.

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Speaker 2: The first thing I will need will be a first

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Speaker 2: and last name of the lucky recipient.

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Speaker 5: That's for Maddie.

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Speaker 6: M add And would you like a card included with it?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 6: What would you like to say on the card?

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Speaker 5: How about I love you? Things are going to get better, promise.

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Speaker 6: Okay, it never gets easier. Tell you that much you

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Speaker 6: get in trouble being a wandering eye or something.

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Speaker 5: I think that's a little personal. Get the flowers.

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Speaker 2: Sorry about that, Well, you can't get the flowers actually,

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Speaker 2: because this is actually Jewbil from the Jewbil Show.

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Speaker 6: It's a radio show. Yeah, we're all here, I'm Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 6: and I'm Victoria, and.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment call to Catch a Cheater, where

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Speaker 2: if you think your significant other might be sleeping around

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Speaker 2: you try to see who they send flowers too. And

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Speaker 2: your girlfriend Maddie is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Hi, what's this about?

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Speaker 1: Stay cheating on me?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, god no.

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Speaker 1: Not being really weird and and why haven't you been

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Speaker 1: at work? Like what what's with your weird schedule? And

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Speaker 1: you're just I'm kind of freaking out.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, god god, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm

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Speaker 5: I'm so sorry. I know you have a history here.

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Speaker 5: I'm the last thing I would ever want to do

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Speaker 5: is bring that up for you. Who's what?

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Speaker 1: No, Connor, I saw the text messages from somebody named Isabelle.

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Speaker 5: Who is she? I'm I'm not I'm not seeing her,

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Speaker 5: but I I I have been. I've been kind of

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Speaker 5: hiding things. The truth is I got laid off about

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Speaker 5: a month ago, and I really, yeah, I really didn't

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Speaker 5: want to, like, I don't stress you out anymore. I mean,

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Speaker 5: we have so much, really can't keep up with as is,

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Speaker 5: and I really just wanted to keep making sure that

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Speaker 5: So I've been out the last couple of weeks just

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Speaker 5: I've been on more interviews than I think I've ever

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Speaker 5: been before. I mean, this last week alone, I ended

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Speaker 5: it's just been so pactic.

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Speaker 1: So you're not cheating, No, no, no, no, not at all.

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, Okay, we've been.

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Speaker 5: Well. Actually that that's the big part of the reason

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Speaker 5: why things are going to get better. I thought she

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Speaker 5: was gonna I was hoping to tell you soon starting well,

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Speaker 5: I mean technically I did yesterday. Isabelle's my new boss.

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Speaker 5: Not only that, I mean she the position that I've

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Speaker 5: got now, it's it pays a lot more. H The

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Speaker 5: texts were for a final interview for that position, and I've.

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Speaker 6: Got it correct.

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Speaker 1: Connor. Why wouldn't you feel comfortable talking to me about this?

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't know. I thought you'd be mad at me.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Connor. I'm not your ex me and I

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Speaker 3: needed you to feel comfortable talking to me about things.

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Speaker 3: That's a big deal for you to hire that from me.

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Speaker 3: That's a really big deal. And I'm not even upset

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Speaker 3: that you lost your job. I'm just I'm kind of

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Speaker 3: pissed that you hide it from me because now we're

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't want you to worry. I'm not your

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Speaker 5: ex I really didn't want you to think I was

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Speaker 6: Hey, that's cool. You're both not each other's excess. And

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Speaker 6: it sounds like you don't cheat each other nicely.

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Speaker 4: Well, sometimes you need to reminder, you know.

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know that you can come

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Speaker 1: to me with these things. You know, I know you

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Speaker 1: want to protect me, but you don't need to go

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Speaker 1: through this stuff alone. The word team.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 5: I'll do my best. Oh, I think at this point

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Speaker 5: I know you more than just flowers.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's okay, Well you are getting a new job

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Speaker 2: that pays a lot, so maybe some jewelry. Okay, Well, congratulations, Mattie.

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Speaker 2: At least you know he's not cheating.

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Speaker 1: God, I'm relieved. And I knew he's just such a fire.

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Speaker 1: I knew something was going on.

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Speaker 6: You gotta trust yourself.

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Speaker 5: I am a really fire.

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Speaker 1: The jewell shows to catch a cheater