WEBVTT - Episode 130: V-Card Revoked (ft Saige) 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:04.880 That ship. Now it's lip service. I'm Angela Yee. I'm 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:08.280 Stephanew Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire, I'm Lauriae. So this 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:11.119 is a lip service. First, we have an update, and 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:13.720 our update is with Sage. Now, Sage was on here 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.280 before she was a virgin. How old were you? Sage? 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:19.200 Twenty four? Up until I was twenty four, I was 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:22.440 a virgin? All right, what's up? It's lip service. I'm 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:26.280 Angela Yee. I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Lauri Viale. I'm Sage. 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.560 Now stage is our special guest host today, and there's 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:31.280 a reason for that. But we got Slim thug it here. 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.279 What's up, Slim? Thus, we have a lot of surprises 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:37.080 for you. Now Sage is here because she's a virgin. 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:40.600 This is the first version that's ever been howd you 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:44.840 How old do you think? That's a trick question? Hey? 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:52.040 What good question? Um a good guy? Aren't you writing 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:56.639 for marriage? No, that's everyone's first question. Yeah, that's our 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:58.600 first question, because I don't know. I want to get married. 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:04.120 Do it not? Three as well? Make sure it's a 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.280 right guy. I just don't think it counts. I just 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:09.080 don't think it'll be a difference. You know, if I 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:10.760 look at you to be my wife or whatever, I 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.480 wouldn't say, oh, you was a virgin. I'd rather you 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:15.880 have sex, don't be a virgin. So you're not impressed 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.320 by her rigidity, and ain't that I impressed. I want 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:21.160 you to have I want you to get over there, 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.880 I want you to you know, have some experience or whatever. 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:27.319 But she does other stuff right stage, everything except to 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:30.120 have sex. And that also means I've never had any 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:32.880 type of sex. I've given a head, I've got oral 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:36.800 sex or yeah, but as far as having a penis 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:40.200 in my vagina in my ask, never happened. So it's 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:42.720 in your ass. You would still be a virgin though, right, 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:46.360 I don't like cong but because you're vagina, your hyman 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:49.280 would still be intacted. I think just her vagina is 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:52.280 a virgin, she's not a virgin. Her mouth is definitely 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:55.160 not all right. So for the guys out there, what 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.240 would you tell them about having sex with the virgin? 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:01.640 How should you go about it her? Yeah, I guess so, 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:03.320 I guess you got to open it up man with 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:07.040 your fingers something. But you've had fingers, You're not many 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:13.360 how many fingers sometimes, I don't know. I think two 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:21.240 or three exactly. Sex yourself. You might go all the 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:24.400 way with it. No, you'll be fine. If you're at three, 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:26.960 you can take a dick. It's not that she can't 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.919 take a dick. She just child out bleeding. Yeah, but 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:32.720 when if I haven't gotten fingered in a couple of 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:35.720 weeks or whatever. Every time that I get fingered again, 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:39.400 you snapped back clothes. Yeah, I feel it so regards 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:42.560 it bleeds. No, no, no, no, you're fine. So do 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:46.120 you use toys? No, I've never might be open to it, 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:51.000 but just I'll get you in. She needs some bigger 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.560 than that. She needed one that don't go in. No, 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:55.280 she need a bigger one so that when it's time 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:57.520 to slide it in, you know, that way you can 0:02:57.560 --> 0:03:01.040 bust you on Hyman. Well, nobody don't believe you already 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:04.919 didn't need to a freaking toy. I don't. I don't 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.079 think you should. These guys are anyone. I don't think 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:09.240 you should think a toy that's a dick. I think 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:11.600 you should use a vibrator. Yeah, if you want to 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:15.040 use a toy, use vibrator, like just something small. Not 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:17.960 why would you. I don't know, But then what's the 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.560 purpose because I mean, you can even use something small 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.040 in the anyway, right, you're just saying just to experience 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:24.720 more if you want, if you want to use a toy. 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.440 I don't think you should suck yourself with a dick. 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:31.760 I think ye, so says, what's the point have you? 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:33.920 How close have you come to actually having sex? Has 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:36.200 there been a time where he was right there about 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:38.440 to put it in and then he was like no, yeah, 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.920 well there have been times that just naturally a penis 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:45.320 has been super close to going into me, and like 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:49.720 I've had penises grace my vagina, right, but never grace 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:55.560 it like grays. You know, there's a lot there's saying, 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.040 know what you could do things with the penis on 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:02.320 the vagina what I'm actually putting it in. There's a 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:06.040 lot you can do. But has a guy ever liked 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:09.480 on you? It's nice? Not jerked off on me? No, 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:18.960 you know, off on me? Like no, you know, I'll 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.880 keep you posting when that happen. Do you feel like 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.880 you're almost ready to have sex now? Yeah? For sure? 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:28.039 I do think I am Are you dating somebody? Like? 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:32.080 Are you dating someone? No? Let's sell your virginity. No, no, 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.479 I'm gonna go funding about funds like you can sell 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:42.320 you for I think some money. You know what you 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:51.800 guys dot org stage back splash. Okay, but you know 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:54.039 one of the biggest struggles of being a virgin is 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.960 I mean, actually there there's a bun just you. It's 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:59.359 like the opposite of what you think. Almost. So so 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.919 many people on life know that I'm a virgin, and 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:04.280 so everyone's like, for example, I saw and like two 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:05.760 weeks ago, and she was like, Sage, are you gonna 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:07.839 tell us when you lose your virginity? And I was like, yeah, 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:10.840 of course, I get that all the time. So I'm 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:15.200 almost like reverse. People have this respect for me almost 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.720 for being a twenty three year old virgin, right, So 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.760 the day that I lose it, it's like I have 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:22.200 to disappoint all these people, Like so many people are 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:25.120 happy for me like this reverse. Don't think of it 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.000 like that. You gotta think of it. I lost my 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:31.600 virginity at three. Yeah, she's just not going to be 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:37.320 that interesting anymore once she loses her virginity. When I 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.800 have sex, I think I'm just gonna I'm not gonna 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.719 get turned out, but I think I will like sex 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:44.479 a lot. Okay. So last time you saw a stage 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.800 she was up here. She was a virgin and now 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.479 she has ding ding ding ding lost her virginity. She 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:54.520 got fucked. I definitely did, or maybe she sucked him. 0:05:55.560 --> 0:06:01.560 Either way the difference, I'm still new. You don't know yet. 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.680 We'll teach you later. Okay. All right, so you promises 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:06.400 that you would come back and update us and tell 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:10.400 us how it went. So we're all years okay, So 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.360 it's been so long for all of us, and said 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:16.440 I was a virgin until I was twenty four. Actually, 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:17.880 you know what, I think it was about to turn 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:21.960 twenty four. Anyway, it was almost a year ago. Um, 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.840 do you want to know how it happens? I want 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:27.880 to know how details? How did it happened? What made 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.000 you to the side, Like, okay, this is the day 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:31.840 or this is the time. Was your hymen already broken? 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:34.640 Did you believe did it hurt? Because sometimes it brings 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:38.600 some horseback riding and so yeah, right, so it was 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:42.520 that's a good question. And it was the guy to um, 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:44.560 I just he was my high school boyfriend. We did 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:49.320 totally separate things in college. Data different people all that, Um, 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.400 I was having sex. He definitely was, UM, but I 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:54.120 always kind of had in the back of my head 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.679 that he like, he just cared about me the whole time. 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.920 And we had a conversation maybe this time last year, 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.960 an event that brought us together, and he said something about, 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.560 you know, you're just scared to let me like you, like, 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.440 really like you, and you're scared to let yourself be vulnerable. 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:12.400 And I he said, like you and not love you. 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:14.640 You know, he's been in that way because I never 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.320 really let myself like him or let him really like me, 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:19.400 because I always kind of had a wall up. And 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:21.800 then that got to my head and eventually we started 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:24.320 talking and then so I kind of knew that it 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:26.400 was going to happen at some point, but we needed 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.320 to get that. Yeah, get to that point, so you 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:32.200 knew you was gonna give him some less Um. I 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.640 knew that I was actually considering him more than I 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.840 ever had since high school. And that's nice because that's 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.960 somebody you are very familiar with, you know, and comfortable 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:45.679 at least around, that you trust because did jaff around before, 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:50.560 they around before, like and do anything when Yeah, yeah, 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.280 he's the first person I gave head to. So he's 0:07:53.320 --> 0:08:01.080 the first everything. Yeah, I think he was the first 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.760 person to go down to me. Maybe that the first 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.360 guy to finger me because I met him a little 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:08.080 later in high school and I guess before that, right, 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:14.680 but already. But to answer your question, I woke up 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:16.920 like we were getting to that point where I thought 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:18.600 we were going to have sex, or maybe I was 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.600 thinking about it, and it was a conversation we sort 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:24.080 of had um And then I woke up on that Saturday. 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:26.400 It was a Saturday night, and I said, this is 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.600 the last day that I wake up as a virgin. 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:34.560 I just kind of knew then, and that's how it 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:36.599 happened that night. I just decided, like, I'm going to 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.600 do it tonight. And then he actually ended up saying 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:41.559 some things that I had wanted to hear, kind of 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:44.520 like how the universe aligns for you. And then I 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:48.120 was like, all right, great, this is what happen, just 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:51.120 things about where we were as far as like me 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:54.400 having other relations with other guys, him having relations with 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:56.600 other girls. Like I wasn't going to do it until 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.400 I knew that I was the only one who was 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:01.559 talking to um agamy. Yeah, I think she would have 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:03.520 got a period later that night. She would have not 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:07.440 that was what I was gonna say, Like, you woke 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.599 up deciding I'm not going to wake up a virgin tomorrow. 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:14.160 Would if that night something would have went wrong, he 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:16.640 would have stud you up or something. Would you still 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:18.959 have a lot of fair vicinity that week? I don't 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:21.600 think I would have even thought woke up thinking that 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.079 if I thought he would stand me out. Okay, Okay, 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:27.400 now I'm just saying, how do you figured that? Actually? Yeah? Who, 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:38.720 I'm ready to get crash. That would have suck. She's like, Um, 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:41.040 if you look in him a text like baby I 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:45.079 want to fuck? Imagine that would like you had a 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:50.400 version that first time day was to make love? Yeah 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:53.360 that's true. Actually, you want to know something really funny? Um, 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.600 this should just be embarrassing for me, probably not for him. 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.240 But before, like I kind of knew it was going 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:00.160 to happen, he didn't. I didn't say, you know, this 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:01.520 is going to be the night we have sex. I 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:05.440 didn't verbalize that to him. But um, I wanted this song. 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:07.959 I think it's called I Love You and Me or 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:09.600 You and Me? Do you know who sings that song? 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:11.440 Can you sing it to us? It's a print song. 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:15.440 I wanted that song playing, so I went on I 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:18.080 want on iTunes and I made your I bought it 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:25.720 put you scored, you scored the sex Like, yeah, I 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:27.360 had that song playing. I just kept like kind of 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:31.480 replaying it for what you hadn't moved. He was like, 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:36.240 but changed the song. That's really great, you go, So 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.760 now you guys have a song. Yeah, I did, and 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:41.000 we've never listened to the song ever since. I just 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:45.920 knew I wanted to lose my virginity that song. That's special. Crazy. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:49.560 That's how it's supposed to happen. It's supposed to be fate. 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:52.920 You were supposed to put like four songs, then put 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:56.080 that song, and then put like more songs, because that 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:58.880 would just seems like you forced for that song to 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:01.840 be your virginity song. It wasn't even like that. He like, 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.480 he was still relaxed, un chill. He wasn't even questioning 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.839 why I was replaying How many times did this song 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:11.360 play before it was over? I don't know. I was 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:14.560 a virgin, like, I don't even I was like, this hurts, 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:16.440 this hurts because you weren't relaxed. Did it eat you 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.839 out first? Um, I don't remember, to be honest, what 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:23.560 days come on? So he didn't. He probably could have, 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:27.000 so he didn't. He didn't ganger you first. Yeah, I'm sure, 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.280 but like I don't remember it played by play anymore. 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.160 It's been so many times since then. Time. I still 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:36.240 remember when I lost my VIDI yeah, what was age 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:39.280 going on stage? No? I remember the whole night, but 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:42.679 did It's not like I remember, didn't use a con 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.440 Did he use a condom? Oh? Hell yeah, of course. 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:48.040 But it hurt. Yeah, it hurt, but it wasn't It 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:51.600 wasn't terrible. But also since then, I mean even now 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.440 it's been like I said, almost a year. Certain positions 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.439 will still hurt me. Certain positions still hurt me. To 0:11:57.160 --> 0:12:00.559 positions still hurt me. Why does that happen? Because the 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:04.400 muscle and the closes, you know, it gets back tight 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:07.520 and then when you're in certain positions, if it's big 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:10.280 or whatever the case, it's going to feel a little 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.280 bit uncomfortable. Sometimes it feels like it's hitting like the something. 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:19.320 Have you que something? Uh? No, But quefing will happen 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:22.320 like after you know, that's when you que. Sometimes it 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:26.719 happens that's embarrassing. I always think it's embarrassing. One mentions that, 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:30.200 like it's such a normal thing. That's not normal. You 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.520 think it's not normal. I think it's normal. He said, 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:36.240 it's not. If you're like in the air and there's 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:40.680 it's a certain position, it's just being like that's making air. 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.960 Because sometimes if a guy in the middle of having sex, 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:46.080 if he like takes it out all the way and 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:50.880 then makes it but it's not just not our fault 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:52.920 normal thing, like, oh I just have sex. It was 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:56.960 a queef like, yeah, it's not everything. I was going 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:58.520 to say that the thing. I'm gonna say the same thing. 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:00.280 It's been a while, but you know, it's the worst 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:03.160 because sometimes like if it does happen, it sounds like 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.719 you farted. It's so embarrassing and you're like, oh, I 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:09.920 que because you have to announce it something. You can't 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:14.240 say anything. Yes you do, Yes, you have to say something. 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:22.320 I don't know, you don't know, No, you don't what 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:26.160 do you do? Oh my god? If I quief, I 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.200 have to be like, sorry, that was a queen. Just 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:32.920 to be clear, that's gonna that was not a part. 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:44.240 Everybody wait, waits everybody yeah, everybody am game bang, you're 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:48.360 definitely quef doing a game bangh, my god, I didn't 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:51.400 really bleed. No, I also thinking about it, like I 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:56.400 had gotten fingered, and like, I guess just gotten fingered 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:58.760 and getting meat now, but not like getting meat NOWT 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:01.920 like change whether you bleed. But I didn't bleeve that 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.400 when I lost my virginity. But my best friend, she 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:11.720 said she bled like somebody that was dying, So I 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:15.760 guess everybody's differently. She ruined. It's a crazy story. I 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:19.400 don't want to really get into it, but she ruined everything, 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:22.760 like she was bleeding like crazy. But she was a kid. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:28.360 She was really young, and she was really younginity it 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:32.520 was very moist like there was a lot of moisture, 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.240 you know, like he ate my pussy to like came 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:40.560 and we used lube. Like it was very moisty. So 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:44.240 I didn't it was nice. It didn't hurt. It was 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:48.000 it was like, oh, I gotta Paris in me right now. 0:14:47.600 --> 0:14:52.359 That I was terrible, Like yeah, like, but I definitely 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:56.440 got fingered a few times. But my boyfriend and my 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:58.840 virginity didn't know what the funk he was doing. Oh. 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:05.800 He was a very gentle yeah, that's nice. It's like, yeah, 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:07.880 that was my little boyfriend that lived around the corner 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:12.520 for me. Um. Yeah. So he put it in with 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.120 like no type of preparation and it was dry because 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.880 I was not ready. I didn't know it was I 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:22.080 bled my himing broke. It wasn't a lot of blood though, 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:23.640 it was like you know, it was a little bit 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.240 of blood and then it was over really quick and 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:29.720 then that was it. Aint not in you know, abutely 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:31.360 like what about you know, it did not feel good. 0:15:31.360 --> 0:15:34.440 I hate didn't bleed, but you did. The dancer, Yeah, 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:36.880 she probably broke her him in doing a split or something. 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:39.960 Long time ago. Could that have been? And I was 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:41.720 in ballet when I was a little girl. That's probably 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:46.520 probably been a long time. I bled. I didn't like 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:51.120 it wasn't like but I was bleeding. Yeah, so sat talon. 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:53.240 Did it take until you liked it? Because I'm sure 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:55.240 you didn't like it the first time like that. Yeah, 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:57.000 I didn't hate it. It's not that I didn't like 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.600 it or liked it so much. Like I was telling 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:03.320 before that the question, you know, was it so great? 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:05.680 How was it? I don't like that question so much 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:07.480 or at least in the beginning, because I just felt 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:10.320 like everyone wanted me to say I loved it was 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.360 so good, and in reality sex is it takes work. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.200 And that's what I've learned. Maybe not for everyone. I 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:20.400 know someone was saying before, how maybe it depends on 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:24.440 who you're having sex with, But now sex is really 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:27.600 good for me, and I think it's just a matter 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:32.760 of like learning what your partner likes right right, and communicating. 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:35.600 That's what we were what we were speaking about it earlier, 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:37.800 and that's what you said, like you have to communicate, 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:41.360 and I said, the best sex you could ever have 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:45.320 is sex with good communication. You guys can connect them 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:54.800 follow you know, that's that's communicadicated. Do you feel like 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:57.040 you could have sex with nobody else but him for 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:59.480 the best of your life? Now, that's a really good question. 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:02.000 And I don't know. Like that was when my fears 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:05.560 why I didn't want to have sex with him, because 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:08.560 at first he was kind of like, well what happens 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:10.240 because I did not want to be in a relationship, 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:12.560 and he was like, well, what happens if we have sex? 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:14.040 Because we were kind of talking about it, we knew 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:15.840 we carrid about each other, and I was like, I 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.679 don't know. I can't tell you that I'm definitely not 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:19.560 gonna have sex with anyone else in my life. I 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:21.840 probably will. And then I got to the point where 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:25.520 I just decided to date because feelings just got more 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.160 involved in everything. Um, And now I don't really think 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:30.359 about that, But I used to think I cannot just 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:32.080 have sex with one person in my life. I need 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:33.879 to experience a bunch of people. So I don't know. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:36.120 I guess I just see where my relationship goes. And 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:39.960 I'll tell you one thing, when when you start experiencing 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:46.119 different men, it's a big difference from guy to guy image. Yeah, 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:49.240 so if you're happy where you are, stay right where 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:52.280 you are. But once you start dipping around, you're gonna 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:54.800 be like, but don't you think that something like that 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:56.479 means that you shouldn't be with the person you're with 0:17:56.600 --> 0:18:00.359 if you were to like sex, love and sex to 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:03.320 someone and not even really that's what I'm thinking. If 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:05.320 you have if you're having sex and you like it, 0:18:05.480 --> 0:18:07.480 to stay there because you might end up having sex 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:09.000 with the next person and been like, oh, this is 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.000 track and it's to really love sex with somebody that 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:15.640 you don't really like have feelings more like that too, though. 0:18:15.840 --> 0:18:18.640 But but there are people who are really just great 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.680 at sex that you like. So I know some men 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:26.639 that are really good about sex. That's what they do 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:30.960 and that's all they're good for. Now, you told your 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:33.639 parents about this and everything? Oh yeah, I think I 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.600 texted my mom maybe even that night. I told my 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:38.959 dad the next day, my brother. I'm close to all 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:42.320 of them, so yeah, they all definitely knew. I think 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:44.840 if you're gonna try somebody else, you should try somebody 0:18:44.880 --> 0:18:46.760 that one of your home girls has been with. That's 0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:49.199 gonna tell you. Listen, this guy right here, this is 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:53.119 the best sex ever in the world. Amazing. This this 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:58.719 sex is incredible. This is really sex. That's the only 0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:02.000 way the person first stuff. How many there's a couple 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:04.639 of guys out there, you know, there's I mean, girls 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.080 have guys that you know, they're just not important. They're 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:11.320 just yes, come on, you don't. I don't want nobody 0:19:11.359 --> 0:19:16.320 to suck my good sex. No, I GI know somebody 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:18.159 that I would be. I would love for you to 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:19.920 have sex with that person. You know exactly what I'm 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:22.960 talking about. I love it, and I would so good 0:19:23.480 --> 0:19:26.280 like he would, he would give you the he would 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:31.239 give you sex, like would be right there. But if 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:39.000 I mean no, this person is good for everybody. She 0:19:39.119 --> 0:19:42.200 never been I've never been with this person, but everybody 0:19:42.240 --> 0:19:44.040 that I know that has been with this person says 0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:48.479 the same thing for everybody. No, no, no, it's not 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:52.000 the person you're thinking. You don't know him personally. There's 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:55.000 a lot we don't know who she knows what I'm 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:57.840 talking about, you know, Angela doesn't know who we're talking 0:19:57.880 --> 0:20:00.600 about any of that. But if you guys want me 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:08.120 to introduce on him, right, But but what makes him 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:11.800 so good? Um, he's just all right. This is the 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:16.480 thing with him with this person, it's that, Um, he 0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:20.360 when he gets a woman, he has a thing. It's 0:20:20.400 --> 0:20:25.600 like electricity to connect with the other person's body. And 0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:29.120 it's not only my body. Like I've seen him having 0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:32.400 sex with other women in front of me. And you know, 0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:36.520 he just knows women. He knows, he knows what to do. 0:20:36.920 --> 0:20:40.600 He's like an expert. He's an expert. See that's awesome, 0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:42.719 and that's amazing. And I'm sure sex is amazing with him, 0:20:42.760 --> 0:20:44.240 But I don't think I could besides the fact that 0:20:44.280 --> 0:20:46.080 I'm in a relationship. I don't think I could get 0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:50.480 over the fact that he does this to every You'll 0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:57.240 be fine, you know. But the thing is, even with him, 0:20:57.280 --> 0:20:59.640 he even has that kind of aura that you love 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:01.879 him it you don't. You don't want to put you 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:03.640 don't want to put no ties to him, you don't. 0:21:04.080 --> 0:21:07.640 It doesn't even matter that he slept around, because he's 0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:10.879 just that person, you know, like he's just he's a 0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:16.880 good person. He's a nice guy. Yeah, great guy. Yes, 0:21:17.040 --> 0:21:19.040 I mean, like if you're gonna but to just be 0:21:19.359 --> 0:21:21.600 just you know, to give it a try with somebody 0:21:21.600 --> 0:21:23.840 else and to like have that question mark, because that's 0:21:23.880 --> 0:21:34.160 what it is with God with no feelings involves Now, say, 0:21:34.440 --> 0:21:37.800 have you had an orgasm? Yeah? When how long did 0:21:37.800 --> 0:21:42.200 that take it? Together? Um, I don't know, maybe like 0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:44.680 maybe a month or so, I'm not sure. But I 0:21:44.760 --> 0:21:46.480 had to work for it though, right, Yeah, you have 0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:49.920 to work for it. And and it's all about the communication. Also, 0:21:50.000 --> 0:21:52.920 because I don't know my boyfriend. He's not been in 0:21:52.960 --> 0:21:57.199 another relationship besides when we were together in high school. 0:21:57.480 --> 0:21:59.560 But he's had sex with a lot of girls, for sure. 0:22:00.119 --> 0:22:02.600 But it's a lot I don't know, But I just 0:22:02.720 --> 0:22:05.120 know I know enough of the girls he said sex 0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:09.520