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Speaker 2: sixth through the twenty eighth. It's Wednesday, which means morality Monday.

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Speaker 1: You know. I scour the internet.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: I don't get enough credit.

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Speaker 2: I don't think for the amount of time I spend

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Speaker 2: looking at ridiculous websites, and it's going through Reddit, all

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Speaker 2: the all the weirdness on Reddit and all the weirdness

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Speaker 2: all over the place. I don't get enough credit for it,

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Speaker 2: I don't think. But I stumbled upon a few things

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Speaker 2: that I don't even know. I don't even know what

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Speaker 2: which what I want to do. But some of these

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Speaker 2: are just I mean, it's just like like, for example,

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Speaker 2: this one was this an overreaction about me ordering DoorDash

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Speaker 2: while babysitting. So this is a I guess a girl

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Speaker 2: saying I ordered DoorDash while babysitting because I hadn't eaten

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Speaker 2: since lunch and was getting a headache, and they were

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Speaker 2: two hours late, the kids were asleep, the food was

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Speaker 2: left on the porch, and I stepped outside for ten

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Speaker 2: seconds to grab it. So this is what happened. There's

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Speaker 2: a text message between the mom and the babysitter. Great,

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Speaker 2: we're taking the ten thirty train. She'd be home by

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Speaker 2: eleven thirty. Sorry, I thought we'd be done by now,

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Speaker 2: no problem. And then here comes a text from the mom. Hey,

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Speaker 2: our ring camera showed someone at the door. Was something delivered?

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Speaker 2: And she says, yes, I hadn't eaten, so I ordered

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Speaker 2: door Dash And here's the response. Okay, we'll talk about

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Speaker 2: it when we get home, but I'm really concerned that

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Speaker 2: you would do that without asking first. I would never

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Speaker 2: be okay with a stranger coming to the door while

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Speaker 2: my kids are sleeping. I really wish that you would

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Speaker 2: asked me before doing that. Please check to make sure

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Speaker 2: that the storm door is locked and the chain is

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Speaker 2: locked as well, since you opened them both. I get

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Speaker 2: that you were hungry, but it's more about the fact

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Speaker 2: that someone was coming to the door without my knowledge

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Speaker 2: and that you left the kids in the house alone

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Speaker 2: while you grabbed it. If something had happened, it really

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Speaker 2: makes me nervous. You could have eaten from the cabinet.

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Speaker 2: This is my home and my kids, and I need

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Speaker 2: to be able to fully trust who's there. We'll talk later.

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Speaker 2: Double check the doors, girl, so you can't okay. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what this girl was supposed to This wasn't

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Speaker 2: even my choice for morality Monday, but I'm reading this

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Speaker 2: going what was this girl supposed to do? First of all,

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Speaker 2: you're two hours late. Second of all, you're saying, go

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Speaker 2: through the cabinet so I can go through your stuff

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Speaker 2: and just eat your food without it. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: guess I could have texted you and said, hey, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you cui. Suppose you could have been like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to order some food.

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Speaker 1: Is that open?

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Speaker 4: I mean no, I don't want to pop tart like

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Speaker 4: I want a meal.

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Speaker 3: And I don't understand this, like yes, okay.

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Speaker 4: She could have asked, Mom, hey, are you fine if

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Speaker 4: I order food or whatever she could have.

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Speaker 3: I'm being honest. I babysit.

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Speaker 4: I sometimes will do that, but now as being the

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Speaker 4: mom and the parent, like I order my babysitter. I

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Speaker 4: have a babysitter now, by the way, and I love

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Speaker 4: her so much I'm never losing her, and I order

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Speaker 4: her door dash.

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Speaker 3: She came over.

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Speaker 4: Yesterday for three hours and guests who ordered McDonald's I

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Speaker 4: did for us.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't as you should, thank you.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't the best meal, but I was like, hey,

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Speaker 4: you know, let's let's all ell something. And I always

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Speaker 4: offer my sitters or whoever's there, I'm gonna order you food.

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Speaker 3: What would you like?

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Speaker 1: Yes, my sister does.

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Speaker 3: I'm aware. I love that.

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Speaker 2: She'll text a babysitter ahead of time and say, hey,

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Speaker 2: we're ordering Chick fil A for the girls. Do you

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Speaker 2: want that? Or we're ordering yeah, this or that? What

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Speaker 2: would you like? You know, whatever, so that there's food there. Baby,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, these babysitters and it's sunny. It's not

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Speaker 2: an easy job, you know, a one year old in it.

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Speaker 2: But I will say, my sister goes out at like

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Speaker 2: seven o'clock. The girls go to bed at like seven

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Speaker 2: seven thirty, and so like you know, they do bath,

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Speaker 2: they do dinner, the babysitter comes over. You know, made freaks.

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Speaker 2: The one year old freaks out when Amanda leaves. Pauline

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Speaker 2: thinks it's funny. And then she puts them to bed.

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Speaker 2: You know, that's five minutes of hysteria. Puts them to bed,

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Speaker 2: and then eats the Chick fil A and gets paid

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Speaker 2: twenty five dollars thirty dollars an hour, yes, to make

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Speaker 2: sure that they don't like chocolate anything, which again you're

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Speaker 2: providing a service. And she's responsible and she's reliable, and

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that she doesn't deserve that, but it's

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Speaker 2: a good gig.

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Speaker 1: I don't want it. I don't want it gig.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I used to be a babysitter and

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Speaker 5: a nanny. In my day, we didn't have door dash shows.

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Speaker 5: Usually they got me a pizza and they always said

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Speaker 5: I could eat whatever. But in my experience, like obviously

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Speaker 5: the parent is correct in saying that she has boundaries

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Speaker 5: or whatever. I think the way she spoke to her

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Speaker 5: was very like shameful. She could have handled it differently.

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Speaker 5: I also think for the babysitter standpoint, girl, you're gonna

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Speaker 5: have more problems because I babyset for families that would

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Speaker 5: leave me like novels of like you can't do this.

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Speaker 5: We're watching you and it's like it's not a comfortable situation.

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Speaker 5: It's not worth the money.

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Speaker 2: But it's not like she invited the stranger in for tea,

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Speaker 3: I'm dramatic foot Yeah, the benefit of.

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Speaker 1: The person left.

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Speaker 2: She went to get the food, locked the door, like

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Speaker 5: I mean, these people are watching your children, you should

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Speaker 5: treat them with kindness and respect.

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Speaker 1: What if an Amazon delivery had shown up?

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Speaker 3: You ordered that the mailman like a girl.

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Speaker 1: If you mailman is.

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Speaker 2: Showing up at ten o'clock at night, this maleman work

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Speaker 2: at astronomer, like what are we doing here?

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Speaker 1: Like what what what are we doing?

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Speaker 6: I'd ask you for permission to get door dashed, like girl,

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Speaker 6: knock it off these kids in his house?

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Speaker 3: Children?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't I don't know what she was supposed.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I suppose she It's ridiculous. I guess she

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Speaker 2: could have texted the mom and been like, hey, you

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Speaker 2: know right, like right even as I say that right now,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, she handled the problem herself, and she

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Speaker 2: paid for it too, which I might even argue that,

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Speaker 2: you know, that might be again a courteous thing for

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Speaker 2: the for the mom to say, hey, I'm sorry we're late.

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Speaker 2: You know, have you eaten dinner? Like either have something

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Speaker 2: from the kitchen or or you know, can I order

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Speaker 2: you something or can I, you know, bring you minutes

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Speaker 2: an hour later. She's already two hours later, so that

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Speaker 2: seemed considerate to begin with.

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Speaker 5: Yes, itsually, and the mom could say, hey, listen, i'm

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Speaker 5: a little kooky. So my first kid, second kid, whatever,

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Speaker 5: I have, I have anxiety. Hey next time, could you

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Speaker 5: just let me know or I can order you something beforehand?

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Speaker 3: She could say that in passing when she gets there.

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Speaker 2: I suppose she could have said that like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: was all surprised to see the ring camera go off

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Speaker 2: at ten o'clock at night, Like I wouldn't just ay,

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Speaker 2: no problem, no problem at all, and by way, I'll

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Speaker 2: pick you back. Yeah, but can you just let me

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Speaker 2: know when you're gonna do that, just because I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be surprised when someone's knocking on the door

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Speaker 2: at ten o'clock at night. I suppose you, I suppose.

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Speaker 6: You were on time to come get your kids. There

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Speaker 6: would be no surprise. I don't want to be surprised

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Speaker 6: with two extra hours of work.

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Speaker 2: That's true, true, Jerry, Jerry, don't worry.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, love me get to the show.

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Speaker 2: By the way, thank you man, thanks for thanks for

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Speaker 2: being part of the show. So what what happened here? Like,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know what this girl was supposed

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I totally agree. I mean I get

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Speaker 7: that stragger coming to the door. But you know, how

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Speaker 7: is that different? You know, before you know, Hubert DoorDash

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Speaker 7: whatever was around h you know, people you order pizza,

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Speaker 7: Chinese food, you know, to the door, and you know

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Speaker 7: they were still you know, straggers coming to the door.

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Speaker 7: I mean I guess that they should have you know,

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Speaker 7: maybe texted her. But you know she's hungry, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I'm allowed to rummage through your home to find

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Speaker 2: smash you scrounged for food, right, Like I mean, but

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Speaker 2: I can't order door dash that drops at the door

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Speaker 2: and someone, Yeah, that's weird. Jerry, thank you, have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Man, thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you too, appreciate it. There's something the.

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Speaker 2: Kids he's able to never know either, is I remember

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Speaker 2: Friday nights, and this was usually when we had to

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Speaker 2: weekend the parents are divorced, and there wasn't a whole

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Speaker 2: five thirty I was on the phone with the Dominoes guy.

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Speaker 2: And this is when you'd call the actual store. Now

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Speaker 2: this was in the nineties, guys, this wasn't that long ago.

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Speaker 2: But you'd call that you'd look up the phone number

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Speaker 2: for the Domino's nearest you, and then you'd call the

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Speaker 2: domino store and that someone answered the phone, and you'd

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Speaker 2: order a pizza and give them your address, and then

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Speaker 2: with the pizza. And it was usually the same kid

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Speaker 2: Don or whatever. The kid Don would be a weird

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, Chad, you know or whatever, Oh, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know, order the pizza. And then the guy who

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Speaker 2: delivered the pizza was usually a guy that you knew

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Speaker 2: because I don't know. But the kids you TAKEE will

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Speaker 2: never understand that when you were on a first name

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Speaker 2: basis with it with the pizza delivery people, because now

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Speaker 2: you don't know who's going to show up at your house.

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Speaker 2: So I suppose there's that it is a little weird

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Speaker 2: when you think about him. I would do a lot

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Speaker 2: of DoorDash. Let's say I ordered a DoorDash five times

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Speaker 2: a week. That's five different people at my front door

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Speaker 2: in the course of a month. That's twenty randoms at

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Speaker 2: my door. Like one of them is an ex murderer

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Speaker 2: for sure, they just have chosen not to murder me yet.

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Speaker 2: And the joke has been told a million times and

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Speaker 2: It's like, don't talk to strangers, don't get into stranger's car.

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Speaker 1: So this one.

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean to really do this one, but morality

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Speaker 2: it was irresponsibile. She did something wrong. What was she

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Speaker 9: If you have now ordered door Dash before, then you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I agree with Kaitlin. I would never babysit

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Speaker 2: I won't babysit for these people anymore. This was actually

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Speaker 3: Through that hiring Cockenzie.

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Speaker 1: You have a great day. Thank you for listening.

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Speaker 3: You're true.

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Speaker 9: You guys have a great one.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to uh Pittborough, North Carolina.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I've been to pitt Borough this time of year especially, No,

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Speaker 1: Doone going on?

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Speaker 3: Well I did hear that on this show.

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Speaker 2: just haven't changed my number. Oh independent woman, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna I am my sister who's thirty seven years old.

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Speaker 2: My parents still pay for Herselfhere.

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Speaker 3: You're too loud.

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Speaker 2: This was the other one though, that your mom still

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Speaker 3: No, I pay for it, but I'm on the plan.

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Speaker 3: I'm not getting off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on Saturday. That I get. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: I've never paid a cell phone bill in my life.

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Speaker 1: Say your parents put yourself one bill too?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, every day, Jason, I love you, but you don't

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Speaker 1: Do you pay car insurance? Yes? They do, Okay, good

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Speaker 2: There would be hundreds just falling out of my car

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Speaker 3: He yeah, look at he said, Yeah, I got that

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Speaker 2: Only I need to honor and pay your student loans

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Speaker 1: Without student loans, it's not going to walk. You can't

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Speaker 3: He puts the maximum mount his four oh one carry.

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Speaker 2: My maximm won't be able to tell me anything when

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Speaker 3: You tell me nothing.

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Speaker 1: Hey Nicole, good morning, Hey, Hey, good morning, he Nichols.

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Speaker 1: You have three kids, and you would never do what

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Speaker 8: I mean typically I always have like a family member babysit,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you got you have to either either

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Speaker 2: if I'm gonna be there for six seven hours or

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Speaker 2: ever long I was, you know, I don't know you

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Speaker 2: I probably need to eat something.

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Speaker 8: Well, exactly when I was, when I was more concerned

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Speaker 3: Because she leaves her kids for two hours.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Nicole, have a good day.

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Speaker 7: What? Right?

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Speaker 2: I've never heard of such a thing? Does your bathroom

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Speaker 2: Like? Why can't I am in your home? I'm staying tonight,

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Speaker 6: You couldn't do it after seven o'clock in her house.

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Speaker 2: I do this all the time. I'm the only one there,

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Speaker 2: such a thing. You lock the back. This is in

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Speaker 3: Ef Well, how do you think I know they locked

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Speaker 2: How do you think I know that it's I had

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Speaker 1: But I'm just it's like, I've never heard of such

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Speaker 3: That's insane.

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Speaker 2: You want to see me whip it out and peeing

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Speaker 2: Our liver level doing it, Like did you expect us

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Speaker 2: to do it? Because I mean, I'm not going to

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