1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer, an iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, episode 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: three of season thirteen, gaddets, I have to say this 3 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: is this was hands down my favorite episode. And I'm 4 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: a little jealous that we did not get rat Pack 5 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: Night when I was on it last year because I'm 6 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: obsessed with Frank Sinatra. I love all of his songs. 7 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm a huge, huge, huge fan. I have 8 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: a really good Frank Sinatra story that I feel like 9 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: I just need to share. I've told you before. Yeah, 10 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: So one of my someone that I worked with in 11 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: the music industry, older, older gentleman, he said he had 12 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: the best Frank Sinatra story, and so he told me, 13 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: and I just remember this being so cool. So he 14 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: was at a restaurant when he was in I think 15 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: it was like high school or something, and he was 16 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: on a date and he sees Frank Sinatra in this 17 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: bar in New York, and so he goes over to 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: Frank's table and he's like, oh my gosh, I'm such 19 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: a big fan, like Frank, You're just amazing, and I 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: mean just just saying all this stuff to Frank Sinatra 21 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: and he's like, you know, I'm on a date. And 22 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: I would just be so cool because the girl had 23 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: walked away to the bathroom, so it could be so 24 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: cool if you could just, you know, maybe come over 25 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: to the table and pretend that you knew me. And 26 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: Frank just looks up and it's just like dead pan 27 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: staring at him, gives him no reaction whatsoever, not like 28 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: a oh, hey, nice to meet you, or like hi, yes, sure, 29 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: not a problem, or even like an f off, like 30 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: just I mean, like nothing. So then he's like, uh, 31 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry to interrupt your meal, like apologies, Sir Sinatra, 32 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: like you know, and goes back to his meal and 33 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: his lady comes back, and so when they were wrapping 34 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: up the dinner, Frank comes over, comes over to the 35 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: table and he's like, I'm just going to make up 36 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: his name, but he's like Freddy, good to see you 37 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: a long time. He's like, how you been kid, and 38 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: he's like it was just just astounded that he that 39 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: he did that, and he just like ended up talking 40 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: to them for a good like five minutes, and his 41 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: date was just so impressed that he She's like, how 42 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: do you know Frank Sinatra. He's like, oh, you know, 43 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: we go way back. 44 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 2: I've been funny if he said his girlfriend or the 45 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 2: person he's on the date with. 46 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 3: God, he's so rude. Went up to speak to him. 47 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: He just doesn't say, I know, right, But I just 48 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: ever since Sountu and I'm like, I love his music 49 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,839 Speaker 1: and he's so good. But to start the show of 50 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: the rap Pack theme, Robin Think came out singing fly 51 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: Me to the Moon, and I mean, he is just 52 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 1: such an amazing crooner, you know, like he's amazing. It's 53 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: what they're called, like that type of singers like Michael Buble. 54 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 3: Oh right, okay, yeah, yeah, yes, he's excellent. 55 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean so so, so good. So I just 56 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: what we're What was your thought of the opening? 57 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 3: What was my thought of the opening? I was exciting 58 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 3: when it was rat packne and opening. 59 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 2: The opening's always good regardless of the theme. But yeah, 60 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: Robin Robin was good. 61 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: So the first up to perform was Coral Clues, where 62 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: I grew up on the East Coast. Class ring goes 63 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: through cards saying she's the luckiest lady in the world, 64 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: and she's saying lucky a lady, which I loved at first, 65 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure. I'm like the spin she put on 66 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: it first, I'm like, do I like that? And I'm like, no, 67 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: it's pretty cool. I like how she made it her 68 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: own and she's got an incredible voice, and like everyone said, 69 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: she's definitely the front runner for sure vocally, I think, 70 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: and do you think that? I do. I think she's 71 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: a very strong vocalist. She's definitely a singer. 72 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 3: I think do you have thought Aunt was better? 73 00:03:59,440 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 4: Oh? 74 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: Really, Well, let's talk about kral first because we've got 75 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: to go in the order. 76 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 3: Yes, we the with Korl. The clue they were given 77 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 3: away was the big blue z. 78 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 2: On our leg, weren't they yeap, which, to be honest, 79 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: didn't really help me because I still didn't know have 80 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 2: a clue who it was. 81 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: The guesses were all the guesses. 82 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: The guess is Jenny said Rachel. 83 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: Rachel Ziegler, Rita said Kamila Mendez, and Robin said Victoria Justice. 84 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 3: Did you think any of those? 85 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: I would probably go with Victoria Victoria Justice. Kimila Mendez 86 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: is a really good guest too, But that one is 87 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: surprising me. I just I really don't know, but I 88 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: honestly think that she I do think she's definitely a singer. 89 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: I'd be shocked if she wasn't. 90 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 2: Non of the clues I got you Yep, grew up 91 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 2: in Niece Coast class class ring ghost. 92 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: No, I'm not really good when it comes to guessing people. 93 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm just always like, everyone sounds great and I think 94 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 1: I recognize that voice, but I don't really know. But 95 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: then the second up to perform was Aunt girl Group 96 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: Lollipop ex clue. I knew from the girl group right 97 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: away who it was. Oh did you Yeah? Yeah, I 98 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: knew right away because of the yeah that girl group clue, 99 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: and because of everything that she was saying, and then 100 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: her packages of you know, she's of all I mean 101 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: literally of all the things that she said. She had 102 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: to hide and be fearful and she couldn't speak out 103 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: and she's now speaking out and owning her. So I 104 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: was like, oh, I know exactly who this is because 105 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: I just saw documentary about it all. Oh really, Yeah, 106 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: So I did guess that one, but we can't say 107 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: who it is just yet. Yeah. Guess is though were 108 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: Rita Ris aid Charlie. 109 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 3: She had worked with Charlie okay. 110 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: Robin said Aubrey, O'Day, and Ken said mel B, which 111 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: I thought maybe she was already on the show. 112 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 3: It was a strange one, but. 113 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: Ken is kind of the wild card then after that, 114 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 1: but I thought her song was great. I always you know, 115 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: I kind of had an idea that she was a 116 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 1: singer as well, but now you know, girl group again 117 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: just really sealed the deal for me. Third up to 118 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: perform was Papa Rozzo, Italian changed his last name for 119 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: a stage name in a band, and he's saying that's 120 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: a more by Dean Martin. I love him. He's probably 121 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: my favorite singer in the group. But I still think 122 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: Quarrel stronger, and I still think it's Matthew Lawrence. 123 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 2: I do, even with the stage cleared monsters on screen 124 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 2: aren't so scary. 125 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, why who do you think it is? 126 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 3: I think Ken's guess is a good one, Michael Sarah. 127 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: I also think if it's Michael Sarah, like wow, because 128 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: I just would never I don't know, I mean. 129 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 2: Did they change so he only changed these last name right, 130 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: which means the guess of Matthew Lawrence. 131 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: I don't know many Italians are called Matthew. 132 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 1: Oh really No, there's more Michaels than Matthew's. 133 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: Absolutely, yeah, Okay, a lot more that kind of threw 134 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: me a little bit on the on the Matthew Lawrence one, 135 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 2: just because it's never never heard an Italian called Matthew. 136 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 3: Plenty of Michaels. What were Robin's guess, Cole Spros. 137 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: I don't know much about Cole Sprouse, so I'm not 138 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: really sure. But the good news is that we're going 139 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: to continue hearing Paparazza because he's moving on to the 140 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: final six. And Coral and Aunt did a battle and 141 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: this is probably the song that I would have saying 142 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: My Way by Frank Sinatra. I didn't that was really bad, 143 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: But the night I thought Aunt was better on My Way. 144 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: I thought I liked her vocally better on My Way. 145 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: And then the one who won the battle was Chorl 146 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: and Aunt is going home. And then the final guesses 147 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: again were Evan, Rachel Wood, Melby, Charlie and Aubrey O'Day 148 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: and the last clue was world record. Again I knew 149 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: at this point, but Aunt was revealed and is Aubrey 150 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: O'Day And she went through it with the Diddy stuff. 151 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 3: Oh that she Yeah, she. 152 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 1: Was in that girl band that he put together. Oh wow, yeah, yeah, 153 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: she was in She was in Danity Kane, so he 154 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: put all those people together, and she was also doing 155 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: she was in the documentary with the Puff Puffy documentary 156 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: post so I mean, and then it kind of like 157 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: all the clues kind of came together once I knew 158 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 1: it was her. Yeah, for sure, it absolutely made sense. 159 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: We unfortunately though, couldn't get Aubryo dat. I don't believe 160 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 1: she's doing press and honestly for good reason, like good 161 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: on your girl, just to kind of protect your peace 162 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: and you're and you know, because listen people would ask 163 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: about it, and I think that's a I think that's 164 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: brave on her to go on the platform, do her thing, 165 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 1: be amazing, inspire a lot of people, and then bow 166 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: out of anything else from there, you know what I mean? 167 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 2: Like good, I agree, because I would take the shane 168 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 2: away from what experience and how good she was exactly. 169 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: So instead we invited the Queen of Mass Singer, Tory 170 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 1: Spelling on the show. She has been on four versions 171 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: of The Mass Singer and we cannot wait to talk 172 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: to her about her experience on the show. And of 173 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: course I always have to throw in some life questions 174 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: because you know, what's kind of crazy is because Tory, 175 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: like I grew up watching nine O two and No, 176 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: so to say, like and welcome on my friend, Tory, 177 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: like my little girl heart that like had her doll. 178 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: I mean I had all the dolls, did you really? Yeah? 179 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 1: I was a huge Nino two and no fan. So 180 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: the fact that it's like I had them all, like 181 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: every single one of them, Donna, you know now that 182 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 1: I'm like kind of friendly with like Jenny gar Than 183 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: you know Tory, I'm like, is this cool? 184 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 3: What was the guy's name, Jason Priestley. 185 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was Ashville. I just saw his wife at 186 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: an event for a big ol hug and I'm like. 187 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 3: This is so cool. Looks so cool. Guy. 188 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's great. Anyways, we digress. Let's get on Tori Spelling, 189 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: my friend on the show. There she is and all 190 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: her glory. 191 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 4: Now I get both of you. 192 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: Sure do? 193 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:38,839 Speaker 3: Hi? 194 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 4: Alan, Hello, I'm great. How's Alexa? She hates you? Huh? 195 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: She she's not a fan of Alexi? I mean, yeah, 196 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: she's not a fan of Allen. 197 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't use it often. 198 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 4: I don't think that's the reason. 199 00:11:54,960 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. No, Okay, so we are 200 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: so excited to have you on this week's Unmask and Unwine, 201 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: because girl, you're like the queen, the actual queen of 202 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 1: the Mass Singer, because you've done four different mass singers 203 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: I have. I love that and I'm also slightly jealous 204 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: because the experience that I had on the show it 205 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 1: was the best ever. So I'm like, I feel like 206 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,559 Speaker 1: if they were ever to call me, I'd be like 207 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: absolutely because it's so fun. 208 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:32,079 Speaker 4: So did you know they're in like every single country 209 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 4: and like different places in different countries, Like there's one 210 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 4: in Spain, there's Barcelona, and there's Madrid, Like you could 211 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 4: you could literally do mass singers all over the world. 212 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: Well, and I think what's interesting is you make a 213 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: really good livelihood. Well yeah, and you were exactly and 214 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: you were the you were the first season of the 215 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: Mass Singer here in the US, you were the unicorn. 216 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: You got obviously eliminated in a week five. But when 217 00:12:56,520 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: they did. Was this show somewhere else before it came here? 218 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: Or is this the I don't know the origin of 219 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: the show. 220 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 4: The origin is it was in Japan. 221 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: Japan. That's I think, right, you're actually territory, You're you're 222 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 1: You're right. Next time, remember my friend Julia told me 223 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: about that. But so obviously you had like a somewhat 224 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: of a concept, but were you hesitant to sign up 225 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: for the first season here in the US. 226 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 4: So I did not see the news that it was, 227 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 4: you know, originally in Japan and they redid it, reimagined 228 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 4: it here. I had no idea what I was getting into. 229 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 4: Like with everything in my life, I said no multiple times, 230 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 4: and then like the third time it came back around, 231 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 4: I was like, let me just go take a meeting 232 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 4: with them, and they were lovely and I was like, 233 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 4: I'm not a singer, it was and they were like, 234 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 4: it's not about that, you know, it's just entertainment. And 235 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 4: you're a performer, like you know, and you'll put your 236 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 4: soul and passion into and it's just about that. And 237 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 4: I was like, okay. So I had no idea what 238 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 4: I was signing up for. I'm glad I was the 239 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 4: og like the first season, because if they had called 240 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 4: me like season two, I would never have done it 241 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 4: because it's crazy like and then it started to trickle out. 242 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 4: So then once I picked Unicorn, like a week before 243 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 4: we started rehearsals or something. I remember someone they sent 244 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 4: to me sorry. My team sent to me. Ryan Reynolds 245 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 4: was the unicorn in the Japanese version version, and they 246 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 4: were like is this a concern? And everyone talking They 247 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 4: were like, no, no, no, it's fine. I mean he's saying 248 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 4: the sun will come out tomorrow and had like a 249 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 4: plastic unicorn mask totally different but and a good voice 250 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 4: but whatever. So then I started to see it and 251 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my gosh, and I got to 252 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 4: tell you. They didn't tell me anything. They didn't tell 253 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 4: me who was on the panel. I didn't know who 254 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 4: the host was. It was Nick Cannon. It wasn't until 255 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 4: I was literally on set and I heard them announcing 256 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 4: like we have so many people masked like grantmy award winners. 257 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: I was like what. 258 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 4: Academy like it was everything and I was like, oh 259 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 4: my god. And then they're like and go. 260 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: Live right, Yeah what I'm curious, So you said something? 261 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: Why do you always say no? What? First? 262 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 4: Well, this knew me that we've talked about in my 263 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 4: second chapter. Now I'm starting to say yes. But before 264 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 4: it was just the fear of failure. It was like, 265 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 4: well if I say no, then. 266 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 267 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 4: It was performing in front of a live audience. It 268 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 4: was singing at a young age. Someone had told me 269 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 4: I was tone deaf, which I'm happy to report I'm not. 270 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 4: And so it was all that combined that just kept 271 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 4: me from reeling I can't do it. I can't do 272 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 4: it because I didn't want to fail myself. 273 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: Right. 274 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you had something you had to 275 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: prove though too, because of because I imagine you had to 276 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: always kind of prove yourself because your dad was the 277 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: creator of nine O two and zero, and so they're 278 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: probably like, oh, she just was given the show. It's like, no, 279 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: you actually auditioned, and you know you didn't get the 280 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: part that you actually auditioned for. Am I correct in that? 281 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm putting air quotes up for those that 282 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 4: can't see this because it's a podcast. I chose to 283 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 4: audition because I didn't want to just be given a role. 284 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 4: But let's face it, my dad gave me the role. 285 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 4: But it's what I you know, in hindsight as an 286 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 4: adult now looking back, I'm like, wow, you know what. 287 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 4: I was given that role with a couple of lines, 288 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 4: But I blessed you. But I went on to create 289 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 4: a character that people loved and did really well at it, 290 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 4: so I have to cut myself a little break. But 291 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 4: it was from birth. It was from birth that like, oh, 292 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 4: it's the rich girl, she's not gonna be nice. There 293 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 4: was all those like precancy notions of what I would be, 294 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 4: so I had to overcompensate, so I thought to be 295 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 4: everything that they thought I wasn't and then some and 296 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 4: so the pressure was just, oh my gosh, I could 297 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 4: never win at anything because I put so much pressure 298 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 4: myself to be more than expected or anything in my 299 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 4: mind right. 300 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 1: And so then doing the masked singer, then that's got 301 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: to feel great to have that mask on to then 302 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: just be tory. 303 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 4: It was life changing. It was one of the best 304 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 4: experiences in my life because there wasn't that pressure because 305 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 4: stepping out on the onto that stage, if I didn't 306 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 4: have the mask, immediately everyone's going to be like, okay, 307 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 4: let's see m h. And it was cooll. 308 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: It's almost like dancing with the stars, right, because so 309 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 1: you're so out there on dancing the Stars, people know 310 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 1: it's you, but with this it's like they don't and 311 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 1: you can. 312 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 4: It was so much better hearing the judges critiques and 313 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 4: comments afterwards. I felt so empowered and embraced and seen 314 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 4: yet unseen. 315 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, why did you choose the unicorn? 316 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 4: So it was the first season, so they had, you know, 317 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 4: sketches and different characters lined up, and I said to them, 318 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 4: you know, me being me, I was like, you know, 319 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 4: I'll do whatever you guys want. Of course, have you 320 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 4: thought about a unicorn? And they were like, no, but 321 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 4: we're open to that, and I said, okay, the unicorn 322 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 4: means a lot to me. I have five kids and 323 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 4: I'd like to show them and being where I come 324 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 4: from that you can be magical in your own sense. 325 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 4: You can do whatever you want to do. It's something 326 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 4: my kids and I we always talk about the unicorn 327 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:57,479 Speaker 4: for years. It was something that transcended past what people 328 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 4: perceived to be set views of animals. It was something 329 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 4: that could be anything, really and I love that. And 330 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 4: then they kind of transformed it into this unicorn like 331 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 4: queen that they made her because they're like, you're the 332 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 4: queen with five kids. So in my unicorn beautiful costume, 333 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 4: they had sewed in inside all five my kids' names, 334 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 4: and so I in the pockets so I could reach in. 335 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 4: There was a pocket I could reach in and just 336 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 4: touch them the whole time, if I got nervous? 337 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 2: Were you nervous when you were so when you said 338 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 2: juels Joanna, because you can hear other people singing, can't you? 339 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 2: And obviously you're yeah, by trade, you're not a singer. 340 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 2: So were you nervous when you could hear other people's voices? 341 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 2: And did you start to doubt yourself or were you 342 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 2: just roll with that snowbee completely confident. 343 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 4: I'm so disarmed with their accent, I can't hear anything else. 344 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 4: I'm so like, I'm blushing. Lucky girl. 345 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: I know I got really lucky, but honestly, I've been 346 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: I was through the ringeratory, you know what I mean. 347 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: So it's like God finally was like, let me just 348 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: give you a Prince Charming with an accent, so. 349 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 4: You know what, she finally deserves it, Like see after 350 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 4: all of this, Yes, okay, I was so nervous. I'm 351 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 4: the type so when I commit to something, I full go, 352 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 4: full force. So you know, they were like, you can 353 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 4: do as much or as little rehearsing as you want. 354 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 4: I was like, I'll take anything you give me. So 355 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 4: the night before I was in there, I was in 356 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 4: the studio like I was rehearsing, I was kept going, 357 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 4: kept going over over. So the next day, yes, it's 358 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 4: in your earpiece and my dressing room over it was 359 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,400 Speaker 4: Johnny Osmond and he was singing the Greatest Showman and 360 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 4: I was like, screwed. Oh my god. It was like 361 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 4: it plummeted me because I was like, I think I'm 362 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 4: on next and. 363 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's tough. 364 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 4: Any walk out there and they give you the countdown 365 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 4: and it's live, and it was just like that moment 366 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 4: where you're like, well. 367 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: Here, you're good. 368 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 4: You're good to the neighborhood. 369 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: Here it goes nothing. Tory, we have had so many conversations. 370 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 1: We've had very similar relationship issues, and I'm curious from 371 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: all the time and the heartache and everything you went through, 372 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 1: is there. Where are you at with And I know 373 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: you know it all ends up happening the way it 374 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: happens and the timing of everything. Do you ever look 375 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: back and say I wish I would have left sooner. 376 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 4: I mean we've discussed that and yes and no, yes, 377 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 4: because no, I'm gonna go with no. I don't believe 378 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 4: in regrets. I don't believe in coincidences. I believe your 379 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 4: timing is your timing, your journeys, your journey bet are good. 380 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 4: If I had left sooner, it wasn't the trajectory I 381 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 4: was on. Was it was supposed to happen the way 382 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 4: it happened. Yeah, Do I semi wish I'd loved sooner? Yeah, 383 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 4: because you know, the kids saw a lot of stuff 384 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:24,159 Speaker 4: they shouldn't have seen, just you know, the fights, it 385 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 4: got more. We couldn't keep it apart from them, and yeah, 386 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 4: it was it was just toxic. But you know that 387 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 4: was the timing that was meant to be. 388 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, yeah, I know I often sometimes 389 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: think about that, but I'll go to that same thing, 390 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: that same place. You're left with no regrets by the 391 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: time that you do leave because you tried so as 392 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 1: hard as you did. It's kind of where I was 393 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: sit with, you. 394 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 4: Know, I tried so hard. I really did. Yeah, No, 395 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 4: explored every avenue I could until it just. 396 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: When I think, because I mean, I'm sure people ask 397 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: you the same thing. Like a lot of times, most 398 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 1: of my dms are how did you know when to leave? 399 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 1: And you know what? You know, am I going to 400 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: be okay? And you know I've I would ask those 401 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 1: same questions to the people that walked it before me, 402 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: you know, am I going to be okay? You know? 403 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 4: What is it? 404 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 1: What is it going to look like? And how do 405 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: I leave? And for me, my answer is always like, 406 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: you're going to know when it is time to leave, 407 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: Like you, nobody can tell you the answer, and so 408 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 1: what is it for you? When people ask that same 409 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 1: question to you. 410 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 4: Everybody told me me to leave. You told me to leave, yeah, 411 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 4: and I kept saying, you know. 412 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: No, I said leave for you. Remember, I was like, yeah, 413 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: don't leave for any other thing, leave for you. 414 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 4: It was undeniable. The night it just all exploded, and 415 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 4: it was you know, it all exploded. He was not 416 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 4: sober at the time. He is now he's doing great. 417 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 4: Proud of him. But he put up an Instagram post 418 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 4: that the next day he took down and said, you know, 419 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 4: he told the world like we're divorcing and give us 420 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 4: And to me. As horrific as that was, because the 421 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 4: older kids saw it and begged him to take it down, 422 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 4: I thought, this is my help, this, this is it. 423 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 4: The world knows now and they've all speculated for years. 424 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 4: But for some reason, it gave me that courage and 425 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 4: it was like and other things transpired that night that 426 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 4: I couldn't turn my back to, but it was that 427 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 4: was it, and I didn't look back. And I might have, 428 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 4: you know, if I had left sooner when everyone said leave, leave, leave, 429 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 4: And if I had left, maybe I would have gone back. 430 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 4: Maybe it wouldn't have worked out. So it was my time. 431 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 4: And I think you're right when you tell people that 432 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 4: you will know in your heart and soul like this 433 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 4: is it and you don't want to go waiver back 434 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 4: and forth, not with children. So when it's right for you, 435 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 4: that's it. That's the moment. 436 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, And like you said, I mean, now it seems 437 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 1: you guys are on a you know, good co parenting 438 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: as good as it can be. What is the best 439 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: thing that helps because right now I have seasons, you know, 440 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 1: I've talked about this where I've up and down good 441 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: seasons of co parenting. Right now we're on the downward 442 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: spiral of like a bad season. Sorry, but you get it, 443 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 1: you know. So it's like, what do you do in 444 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: those moments, Like what is your best tip for keeping 445 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: a co parenting situation kosher and and good? Obviously you know, 446 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,719 Speaker 1: we do things for the kids, but I mean when 447 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: it comes to the two adults. 448 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 4: You know, I am not a reactive person. I think 449 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 4: that's a good thing. So I try to anything that 450 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 4: comes my way same way I did in our relationship. 451 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 4: I had to often when he would say something, I 452 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 4: would have to kind of navigate, like, Okay, how do 453 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 4: I respond? Take a beat. He could hear it this 454 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 4: way because his brain hears things differently than how someone 455 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 4: in my situation hears it, So it's kind of navigating 456 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 4: it that way. The good news is we're not in 457 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,439 Speaker 4: the same house anymore, so a lot of times this 458 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 4: happens over tex so I really have a moment to 459 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 4: sit with it and know how to respond or get 460 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 4: in the phone on the phone with him, and it's 461 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 4: easier than face to face and confrontation where that freaks 462 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 4: me out. Confrontation, But it's a lot easier now that 463 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 4: there's not that I don't want to see sexual connection, 464 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 4: but tension that just adds the boy and the girl 465 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 4: dynamic or the partner dynamic. That's different. It's just straight 466 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 4: you know, parents, We take the whole other layer out 467 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 4: and it seems to work a lot better. 468 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, back to Massinger, who would you love? To do 469 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:58,400 Speaker 1: you still watch the show? 470 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 4: By the way, I go in and out. 471 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 1: In and out. Yeah. Is there someone that you would 472 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: love to see on the show that hasn't been on yet? 473 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: I mean there's been so many. Or is there a 474 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: song that you'd want to like go back or like 475 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: what you know? And if there's like an All Star, 476 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 1: would you go back? 477 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,360 Speaker 4: I mean noo, yeah, Oh gosh. I'm trying to remember 478 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 4: my fourth song I was really excited about and I 479 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 4: didn't get to it, but I'm trying to remember what 480 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 4: it was. 481 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: I feel like you had it real easy though, because 482 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 1: now in mass like you can't ra sing any of 483 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 1: the songs people have sang, so like all the songs 484 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 1: that I wanted to sing, I mean, there's a whole 485 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 1: list of songs you're not allowed to sing. So it's 486 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 1: like being on the first season you just had you 487 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 1: had a whole library of songs to choose from. 488 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 4: This is true. I will say though, I picked my 489 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 4: first song this is my fight song because it resonates 490 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 4: with me and my kids. And then after that they 491 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,959 Speaker 4: would give me songs that they write recommended and they 492 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 4: thought was good, you know, worked well with my voice. 493 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 4: If I had it over again, I would have been more. 494 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 4: I would have stuck to my guns about what meant 495 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 4: something to me. You know. Oops, I did it again 496 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 4: by Britney Spears. They thought it was fun and cute 497 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 4: and like it was the Virgin from Nino Tona was 498 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 4: singing this. It wasn't my jam. So I would go 499 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 4: back and really try to do songs that I felt 500 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 4: passionate about, like fight songs. I think I would have 501 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 4: gotten further. 502 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. Well, Toy, we love you. 503 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on and always always good to connect. 504 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 4: I love you, Nice to see you, Good to see you. 505 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 1: B