WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Snacks & Secrets

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<v Speaker 1>Second. D you know there's something that I learned in

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<v Speaker 1>boy Scouts that I've applied into my dating life. Interesting, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not what you're probably thinking, which is I can

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<v Speaker 1>tie a slip knot with my tongue. It's ABP. Always

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<v Speaker 1>be prepared, all right, And I really think people can

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<v Speaker 1>take that motto into their regular lives too. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a it's a good thing to know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're pregnant, bring a hospital bag everywhere you go

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<v Speaker 1>because you never know when that baby's going to come

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<v Speaker 1>shooting out of it typically how it works. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good idea. Or when you're at work, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know when you're going to be fired. Now is

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<v Speaker 1>it happening now? Oh no, we're at I'm just saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But that goes for dating too. And one of our listeners, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>was extra prepared for his He didn't even realize that

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<v Speaker 1>he was strapped. So Ben, welcome to the show. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going, guys man. We'll get into what you

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<v Speaker 1>were packing in just a second, But first, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you want the deets on the girl that you met?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about her? Yeah, yeah, so I met this

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Terry. We actually met online. Sorry, did you

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<v Speaker 1>say Terry or carry Harry? Now? I heard Harry. I

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<v Speaker 1>heard Harry. I think Terry Terry. You spell it for

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<v Speaker 1>us peg r r Harry Okayrry? Oh y, he said Terry. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So where did you meet Terry? We met online? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought her profile and I just thought she was really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and she also had this joke and her bio that

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<v Speaker 1>was really cute and funny. So that's sure. Can't just

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<v Speaker 1>tell us that without telling us a joke. It already

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<v Speaker 1>sold me. I don't care what it is. Y'all probably

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<v Speaker 1>think it's stupid. I thought it was hilarious. All her

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<v Speaker 1>bio was was I'm intelligent, but she spelled intelligent wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny. And then you put in like fanasies like

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<v Speaker 1>ha ha okay, yeah right, so that wasn't just an accident.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it funny that you have to put the haha

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<v Speaker 1>because they know there's gonna be just so you know

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<v Speaker 1>that wrong? So you reached out to her then, yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So we chatted a little bit and then we actually

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to like meet up on a date, and we

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<v Speaker 1>actually both knew this restaurant. It was a really fancy

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant that we had never been to, but we both

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<v Speaker 1>independently kind of always wanted to go there. I have.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a foody spot, ye person, I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>a fancy restaurant for a first date. Yeah, super fancy

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<v Speaker 1>and also super hard to get a table that makes

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<v Speaker 1>you look good though, if you're able to slide in

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<v Speaker 1>actually get a reservation, how did you do it? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they actually don't take reservation. That's the problem those places.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the ones that loved to watch you wait for

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<v Speaker 1>three hours side? How bad do you want to mom? You?

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<v Speaker 1>So did you show up early then or what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do to get your you guys a table? We

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<v Speaker 1>showed up kind of like on the early side, and

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, well, they're at the table, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a fifty minute wait for a table, like

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<v Speaker 1>an hour. I mean, I feel like that's to be

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<v Speaker 1>expected on one of those like super popular places. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like on our first day, what do you do? Just

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<v Speaker 1>sit on the bench and like that's not enough time

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<v Speaker 1>to like do something else. I can get a child's

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<v Speaker 1>menu and color that inway. What did you decide to

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<v Speaker 1>do there? Ben, Well, we talked about it and we

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<v Speaker 1>were both like not that long. It was a nice day,

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<v Speaker 1>so we hung out outside. Did we we suck it out?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good idea, that's awesome. How did that go?

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<v Speaker 1>It went well. The only issue was that since we're

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<v Speaker 1>both so excited to eat at this restaurant, that we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really have a lot of food that day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to say space, you're like hungry before they

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<v Speaker 1>call your name, and like, we've already gone through the menu.

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<v Speaker 1>We know exactly what we wanted. But luckily I stuck

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<v Speaker 1>my hands in my pocket and I realized I had

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<v Speaker 1>two granola bars. Oh is that where you were strapped

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<v Speaker 1>with the Yeah, he always be prepared. Yeah, it was perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when I brought out I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, look what I have. And you should have

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<v Speaker 1>even look in her eyes. He looked at me like

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<v Speaker 1>I was a savior because we were so starving. Yea perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a prince charming night and shining armor moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Come into the rescue. You gotta seriously, so at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you not even need to go into the

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<v Speaker 1>dinner anymore? Or do you actually go into We're well,

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<v Speaker 1>we ain't the granola bars and then time flew by,

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<v Speaker 1>and next thing we knew and they call their names,

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<v Speaker 1>so we got great. So how did dinner go? Dinner

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<v Speaker 1>went great. The food was literally incredible. You'll have to

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<v Speaker 1>go to play. I'm so happy. And the conversation was

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<v Speaker 1>also good. Everything was just going really well. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a little expensive, but we both knew it was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be expensive. Did you did you cover the bill or

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<v Speaker 1>did you agree to split it since it was a

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<v Speaker 1>place you both wanted to go? I actually covered the bill,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm kind of regretting, but you know, now he's

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. Everything sounds really good. How did everything end?

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<v Speaker 1>So we got our check and you know, the things

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<v Speaker 1>we're going well. So we ended up actually just walking

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<v Speaker 1>around this really nice park that was in the area,

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<v Speaker 1>and we walked in. I was like, hey, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to my place? So we get a

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<v Speaker 1>drink or something, and he was like, yeah, sure, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>down a lot of time together, she said yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were feeling the vibe correctly, yeah, which good

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Yes. So is this a situation where she

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<v Speaker 1>ended up staying the night? No, but there was a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I okay, why is she not calling you back? That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm calling you guys, I don't know. Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. I guess we have more work to do,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll try and get prepared. Oh yeah, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have granola bars, Jeffrey, please share. Let's all reach into

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<v Speaker 1>each other's pockets and see what. Then when we come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Terry for you and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up date. Okay, all right, thanks guys, All right, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second. One of our listeners, Ben went into his

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<v Speaker 1>first date with a secret weapon in his pants. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did, not just one, but two of them, and

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<v Speaker 1>his date, Terry was thrilled about it, talking about granola

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<v Speaker 1>bars left over from the last time that Ben wore

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<v Speaker 1>those clothes. Good thing, they never aspire, I mean, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're kind of nice when they're a little warm. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it did save them while they were waiting fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to get a table at a very popular restaurant. So

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<v Speaker 1>that helped kicked off a really fun date night that

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately ended back at Ben's place. Now, Terry did not

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<v Speaker 1>stay the night, but Ben did anything more happen now,

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<v Speaker 1>just the cans and then we said good night pretty much. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any talk of future plans while you were

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<v Speaker 1>on the date. I mean, it just seems like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were vibing so much. She'd be like, Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>have this you know, musical artist I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>see you. Should come with another food place. Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, let's meet up again, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was just like yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely definitely. And then

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<v Speaker 1>next Gean, I knew she was gone. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely definitely should be a confirmation, but I guess it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah. Let's just call Terry and we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>what she has to say. It's weird that she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back after everything, so let's just give it

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. Here we go. Okay, oh all right, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Terry. It's hey Harry. My name is Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling because we're wondering were you recently at a

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<v Speaker 1>fancy restaurant stealing silverware? Um? Yeah, okay, so oh we

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<v Speaker 1>got you. Please. Yes, I was at a fancy restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, I did not steal any silverware, Jeff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we may have the right girl for something else,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe because there is somebody that I think you may

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<v Speaker 1>have gone out with named Ben who's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you. Huh remember that? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do remember that. Okay, Okay, So we spoke to Ben

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<v Speaker 1>about your date, and on our end, things sounded really great. Wow, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is interesting. Yeah, and that's kind of what we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing right now. It's called a second date update. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help Ben out, to figure out the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why he's not getting a call back and maybe help

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<v Speaker 1>fix whatever. If there is a problem with Ben. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, maybe there's not, Maybe you just haven't had time. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just a little weird for me because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what his situation is. But whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you could just please tell him I'm out, You're out. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean that rude. I just that's where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at with this. Okay, that's fair. You're allowed to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>But is there a reason why? Because he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about the date to night, about you know, going out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner with you and waiting outside with a granola

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<v Speaker 1>bar surprise, and his last impression was a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>kiss and then you left. Look, everything leading up to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner it went really really well. It was just back

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<v Speaker 1>at his house. That was the issue for me, So

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't get a lot of details from that point.

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<v Speaker 1>Is is it like really gross and messy or something. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not too clean, I mean, basically odd. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the restroom and I noticed that the shower

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<v Speaker 1>curtain was completely closed. And I wasn't snooping or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just pink to see if it was clean

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<v Speaker 1>or you know how behind the shower because I want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure no one's in there. Yeah. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was judging to see if he'd clean out the drain. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, was it really gross? It was not

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<v Speaker 1>gross at all? Oh, it was there were the bathtub

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<v Speaker 1>was packed. It was covered in kids' toys, like I'm talking,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, alligator things that spit stuff out of their mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>and rubber duckies and and little mermaid dolls and just

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<v Speaker 1>every bath story that you could think of from when

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<v Speaker 1>you were like three. Wait, does he have kids? Does

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<v Speaker 1>he not tell you that? Or something? That's exactly my point.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean to me, that only means one of two scenarios. A,

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<v Speaker 1>you have kids and you just weren't honest with me

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Did you ask him? No? But we spoke

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<v Speaker 1>about our feelings. What's option number two? Number two? You

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<v Speaker 1>play with that? Roy? Like? What adult does that? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that an option? I was afraid you're going to find

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<v Speaker 1>like another like female shampoon stuff. But this is worse.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know I could see, like, Okay, let's say,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say he is a single dad, Like maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>just hard to start with, or maybe you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to bring your kids into your dating life. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no other kids stuff in the house. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know which one it is one or

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<v Speaker 1>two or maybe a secret option three? And we can

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<v Speaker 1>actually ask him right now because Ben's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? Yeah, Hi, Terry, it's Ben. Okay, Ben, did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear what she said? Yeah? Yeah, Terry, I just

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<v Speaker 1>gotta tell you you got it all wrong. Those were

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<v Speaker 1>not by toys O two. Cross that one off the list.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're saying? You don't play with the

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<v Speaker 1>rubber ducky? No? No, I don't play of the rubber duckies.

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<v Speaker 1>My neighbor's kids do they come over and use my

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom all the time? That's creepy? Oh, no, Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>should explain my neighbor's uh, their their bathroom is broken.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, they use my bathroom. All A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people use my bathroom. Why wait, now, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people use your bathroom, Ben, like so often that they

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<v Speaker 1>would bring all their children. It sounds a little fishy, honestly, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I yeah, I don't know what I'm even

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<v Speaker 1>saying right now. You don't know what you're saying. Ah boy, Yeah, Terry,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta come clean. I I have four kids. You

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<v Speaker 1>have four? Kun? Oh? Ben? Is that why you had

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of snacks in your pockets? Because I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was so weird you say that, Jeffrey, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the only one here that randomly finds food in my

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<v Speaker 1>pockets children. I could pull out four bags of goldfish,

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<v Speaker 1>probably out of my coat right now. You're hiding goldfish

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<v Speaker 1>from well. I don't want her cocket, dude. Then why

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you just tell her that? Because I know that

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<v Speaker 1>she would have said no to the date if I

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<v Speaker 1>told her I had the kids, so I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wait, that's absolutely not true. There are all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of people in this world. If you are a single,

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<v Speaker 1>eligible bachelor, who has four children, and you put yourself

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<v Speaker 1>out there, You're going to find a lot of girls

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<v Speaker 1>that want to date you. What do they have children

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<v Speaker 1>or not? This is a good we could do a

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<v Speaker 1>test ride here. Alexis, would you date a guy with

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<v Speaker 1>four kids? No? I mean you kind to think too,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a different age then Alexis like, she's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to find someone her age that has four children. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, Ben, why would you want to date

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who wouldn't want kids around? That feels like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, kind of a bad dad choice, not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you a bad dad, just like just people like you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just like the choice. You know, like you would want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with someone who is excited about your children.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, d She does have a point, bro, were

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<v Speaker 1>you going to meet him one by one? There's another

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<v Speaker 1>that's another neighbor. I mean, Ben, uh, Look, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that the biggest deal here is just a surprise. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know about it. I mean, looking back on it,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why that would be a bit of a shocker.

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<v Speaker 1>Understand that was so count you could be like a

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<v Speaker 1>hot dad. But you know, if you look on the

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<v Speaker 1>bright side here, Terry, at least you didn't have five kids.

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<v Speaker 1>That didn't tell you. I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend who has a lot, she says, after three,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even know the difference. I don't count. That

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<v Speaker 1>makes this the perfect time to add Terry, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on a date with Father of

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<v Speaker 1>the Year? Ben? We will pay for it. No, no kid,

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<v Speaker 1>we will pay for it. I mean I have a

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<v Speaker 1>single friend. She's a single, panent mom of three. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you guys would have more in comment. Okay, we still

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<v Speaker 1>have an opportunity for another day. Then would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a date with Terry's female friend

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<v Speaker 1>who has three other kids? It's just one date? Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>It's one date? I mean you never know, like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>this is the kids met stuff that happens in the universe.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe use your bath, Ben, I don't really date people

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<v Speaker 1>with kids. Actually, it's kind of a red flag for me.

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<v Speaker 1>What's a red flag? Oh? Is that what you hid?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't date people with kids? Are you? I have

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<v Speaker 1>enough for my own I don't need more. On top

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<v Speaker 1>of it. That is not broke and Jeffrey in the morning, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all know who's going to be winning

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<v Speaker 1>Father of the year. Yeah, you know, I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have my boat. Shocking, shocking? What was it

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<v Speaker 1>about him? And that just can't pinpointed. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start with hiding your children. Yeah, you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>show up to accept the award. How is saying that

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<v Speaker 1>he is not dating people that have kids? I get though,

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<v Speaker 1>once you have four children, it's like, do I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to add more on the list of responsibilities that

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<v Speaker 1>I have here? So I don't necessarily blame him for

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<v Speaker 1>turning down the date with the random girl he's never

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<v Speaker 1>met before with three kids. But the upfront about your children. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is a little bit of a strange double standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, and his lie his life that he

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to pull off that it was the neighbor's

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<v Speaker 1>children coming over to use his bathtub? How is that

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<v Speaker 1>a better lie? That was actually the most disturbating. Yeah,

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