1 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 1: Well, you know, the world may seem like it's getting 2 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: darker and the voices of deception louder, but there is 3 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: still hope. God's always at work and He's raised up 4 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: people for this very moment. Well, today's guests are pioneers 5 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: in Christian media. They're here to share how to stand 6 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: firm on truth no matter the circumstances. But before we 7 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: get to that, journey around the table is April Simons. 8 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 1: How are you? 9 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 2: I am doing great. I'm glad for this todays. You know, 10 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 2: I heard a tape from my dad, a tape from 11 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 2: my dad in nineteen seventy eight, and he was talking 12 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 2: about fake news. Really you go, Daddy bay cool? So 13 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: your dad was John, That's right, isn't that something? 14 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: He was way ahead of it. 15 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: I had to rewind it and make sure. 16 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 1: A candle. How are you? 17 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: I am just so delighted to be here. 18 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 4: And today I've been thinking about the word restoration, which 19 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 4: we'll hear something about restoration means better than original. When 20 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,479 Speaker 4: God restores something, it's better than the original. 21 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 3: So we'll hear about that today. I'm sure I love that. 22 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 5: Dorothy, Hello, Hello, doing really good? And you know what 23 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 5: with God all things are possible. 24 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 6: He is our. 25 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 5: Everything, and he reveals himself daily that I've given us 26 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 5: the hope that we need for today and tomorrow. That's 27 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 5: good in future. 28 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, Oh, doing so good. 29 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: See that smile, I mean, Dorothy smiles so big. 30 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. I have them, four of them, three of the 31 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 5: three of them three months, one year old, and a 32 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 5: two year old. And oh, my goodness, the joy of life. 33 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 7: Truly, truly, you guys talked about it. 34 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 5: Forever, and now I get to experienced. 35 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: It's wonderful met and this one right here, Rachel has 36 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: giving me those joys, haven't you. Yeah. 37 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 6: Two little boys, yep. 38 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: One of them with blue, crystal blue eyes and one 39 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: of them with dark brown eyes. 40 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 6: Very different. That's like you and your sister. Yeah, that's 41 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 6: we're opposite. 42 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 43 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 6: Maybe one more, but we don't know when, but not 44 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 6: right now. 45 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 8: Nothing to announce, right. 46 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 6: Sure, he's still thinking about it. 47 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: Cindy Murdock, how are you. I'm doing great, of course, 48 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: mentioneding grandchildren. Yeah, just returned from this from South Carolina 49 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: with the new baby, South Carolina and the hills of 50 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: North Carolina. 51 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 9: Yeah. 52 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and little Princess into our lives with all our 53 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 1: little boys, and now it's great. We love her dearly 54 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: and had the blast of my time. 55 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 6: That's awesome. 56 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: But we're so glad to have Alan and Corey Huntsberger 57 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 1: at the table. Welcome you, to thank you all the 58 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: way from cold, cold Canada. They are trail blazers in 59 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: Christian media, from starting Christian radio in Canada fighting censorship. 60 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: They're here to share their own story inspire us to 61 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: stand strong in our faith. Alan, you have a career 62 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: in Christian media. 63 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: You know. 64 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: My late husband Marcus Lamb used to say, if you're 65 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: called to do that, you're going to have to really 66 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: have the ability to persevere in some of the darkest 67 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: times because the Bible says that he's the prince and 68 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: power of the air and so when you put the 69 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: good news of the Gospel through those airwaves, it's not 70 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: like he just says, Sarah claps his hand, good job, Alan. 71 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: So it's a battle, isn't it. 72 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 10: Yeah. In fact, my spiritual father used to tell me. 73 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 10: He says, Alan, I don't think the devil likes you. 74 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 10: And I said, I think that's a good thing, right, 75 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 10: He said, yeah, that is a good thing. 76 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: It's a good thing. So just quickly kind of go 77 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: through some of the pioneering that you did early on 78 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: there in Canada. 79 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 10: Yeah. Well, in the early pioneering when I was a 80 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 10: youth pastor. I happened to be a youth pastor here 81 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 10: in the States and in Martinsville, Indiana, drove by our 82 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 10: radio station. The Holy Spirit told me to drive in, 83 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 10: and I'm going, why would I do that? So I 84 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 10: drove around the block three times and finally I said, Okay, 85 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 10: Holy Spirit, I'll go in there. So I went in 86 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 10: there and the reception said can I help you? And 87 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 10: I'm going, Dad, can she help me? And bottom line, 88 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 10: before the end of the day was all over, we 89 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 10: had a fifteen minute radio program where young people in 90 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 10: the youth group could come on the radio and say 91 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 10: why they love God and family. Because I was in 92 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 10: the early seventies when a lot of kids were you 93 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 10: criticized as being draft jodgers and all that kind of 94 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 10: thing with the Vietnam War. So that's how I got 95 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 10: started in radio. And then we moved back to Canada. 96 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 10: We thought we were going to go back there to be 97 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 10: pastor of a church, but really what God called us 98 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 10: back there to do was to start Christian radio and 99 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 10: I remember the day that my wife and I received 100 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 10: the vision of starting Christian in radio and Christian schools 101 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 10: and stuff, and I was like, sure, no problem. And 102 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 10: then I find out, well, it's against the long Canada. 103 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 10: I have a Christianity that is crazy suning and because 104 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 10: our premiere of our province when I was a child, 105 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 10: would be preaching on Sunday. So I couldn't fathom that. 106 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,799 Speaker 10: But then I found out that there's been a law 107 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 10: since nineteen twenty one in Canada that you could not 108 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 10: have Christian radio Christian television in Canada. So censorship started 109 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 10: way back then. 110 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so how did that change? Was it an 111 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 1: overnight change? 112 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 10: Yeah? I wish I thought it was going to be overnight. 113 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 10: It was God, we need radio yesterday. But it took 114 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 10: fifteen years joining that. 115 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: Wow, fifteen years perseverance. 116 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: It is so some people would have gone up and 117 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: given up and gone home, like after one or two years. 118 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 10: Well about the thirteenth year, I was about ready to 119 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 10: give it up, and one of my pastor friends at 120 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 10: a pastor's meeting stood up and said, Alan's been fighting 121 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 10: for Christian radio and we haven't been praying for him, 122 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 10: so we need to go to his house and pray 123 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 10: for him. And I can still see my brother and 124 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 10: the Lord flat out on his stomach, hands before God, 125 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 10: praying God help us. And I remember that kind of 126 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 10: like rebirthed it right and gave it back to me. 127 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 10: And then two years later God did a miracle with 128 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 10: the legal authorities and we got Christian radio. 129 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 6: Wow. 130 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: Well, Corey, of course is your son, Yes, And now 131 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: they do they do a program together called Talk Truth 132 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: Talk right, that's right, Talk Truth. So Corey, you're raised 133 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: in this and you kind of see the miracles that 134 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: are happening, and yet you had an interesting and I 135 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: think it's going to encourage some of you that are 136 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: watching today, those of you that are watching right now, 137 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: that you're really believing for someone in your family that 138 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: has gone astray and maybe they're not serving the Lord, 139 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: maybe the don't want to have anything to do with God, 140 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: and you've just been praying for them. Well, I want 141 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: you to be encouraged today. And in fact, there's a 142 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: number coming on the screen, and I would love for 143 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: you to just call and just give the first name 144 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: of whoever that is, son, daughter, husband, wife, and uncle, cousin, coworker, mom, dad, 145 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: whoever it is that you're concerned about, because we want 146 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: to We're going to pray for them. We have wonderful 147 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: prayer partners that pray over all the prayer requests that 148 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: come through that number. So just right here at the 149 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: beginning of the program, call and give us that first name. So, Corey, 150 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: you're raised by this wonderful Man of God. 151 00:07:58,200 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: You didn't think that at the time. 152 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 11: That's what I'm saying, and that's what I've been saying, 153 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 11: is you know about my story is like you don't 154 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 11: understand when you're covered and your family covers you, and 155 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 11: you're born and raised in a Christian home and you 156 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 11: go to church and you know you you grew up 157 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 11: that way, so you think this is life right, and 158 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 11: you don't realize how amazing God is and how much 159 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 11: He covers you and protects you until. 160 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: You walk away and you decided to do that. About 161 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: how old were you when that happened? 162 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 7: College? 163 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 6: So college? 164 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: So you basically you said something earlier that was I 165 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: don't think I've ever heard anybody say I didn't want 166 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: any Basically, I didn't want anything to do with God 167 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: or for him to have anything to. 168 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 6: Do with me. 169 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 10: Yeah, Well, I don't think. 170 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: Don't don't pray that, don't pray that. Okay, go ahead, Corey. 171 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 7: Well, I will say this. 172 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 11: When I went to college, I wanted nothing to do 173 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 11: with God, but I could not deny that God existed exactly. 174 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: Okay. 175 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 11: I've seen way too many miracles. I went on the 176 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 11: Mercy ships and did I had dts, you know, and 177 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 11: saw things in Africa that you just are one hundred 178 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 11: percent God. 179 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,359 Speaker 7: Doing miraculous science and wonders. 180 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 11: So I always knew God existed. I just wanted nothing 181 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 11: to do with him. 182 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: And that was because you wanted to kind of experience 183 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: things that you had never been able to experience before 184 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 1: I did. 185 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 11: And I was angry. I was angry at the church. 186 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 11: I was angry at the way Christians would react. 187 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 7: To one another. 188 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: Well, I'm angry at how some Christians treated your dad. 189 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 11: Absolutely, people that said that they're your friend and they 190 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 11: love you, you know, and then stab you in the 191 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 11: back when it doesn't go the way they think it 192 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 11: should go. 193 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 7: That really turned. 194 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 11: Me off of the church and how a lot of 195 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 11: Christian people act. 196 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: And so you went off to college and you just 197 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: kind of, if you will, just kind of put God 198 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: on the shelf and said, I'm not going to have 199 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: anything to do with you right now. 200 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, absolutely anything. 201 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: I know you're there, I know you exist, but I'm 202 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: going to do my own thing. 203 00:09:58,400 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 6: And what did you do? 204 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 11: I got into everything and anything, you know, con artists, 205 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 11: dealing from stores of drugs, alcohol, everything, partying, the whole thing. 206 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 11: Everything I wasn't allowed to do is growing up. And 207 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 11: it was fun for a while, super fun, super fun. 208 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: Because what does the Bible say about that that sin 209 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: is is good for a CD? 210 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 7: There a season? 211 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, so okay, So how long did that go on? 212 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 7: Like a couple of years, my first three years of college? 213 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: And so then what happened? Did you spiral? 214 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 7: I did? 215 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 11: I spiraled and it just wasn't fun anymore. And you know, 216 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 11: I just didn't want to live anymore because nothing filled 217 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 11: those gaps. 218 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 7: That I was searching to be filled. 219 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 11: Alcohol didn't, the party and didn't the money didn't fill 220 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 11: the emptiness I was feeling. I felt empty and nothing 221 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 11: could fill that spot. 222 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: So Alan, did you know that Corey was going through this. 223 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure you were praying. What would you say to 224 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: parents or friends or family that are watching that you know, 225 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: know there's something wrong, there's something going on. How would 226 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: you encourage him right now? 227 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 10: We did. There'd be times we call him up on 228 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 10: the phone, and when we would hang up, my wife 229 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 10: and I would say to each other, he's hungover from 230 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 10: what happened last night, and we would pray for him. 231 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 10: I would say that what you got to keep doing, 232 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 10: no matter what is loved them. Yeah, you just got 233 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 10: to love them, you know. I mean they might say 234 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 10: all kinds of bad things about you, but you need 235 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 10: to love. 236 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 7: Them, you know. 237 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: And you did that. You went once a month right 238 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: to see him, and I think he wouldn't even let 239 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: his friends meet you. But you kept loving him. 240 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 6: You kept putting love into. 241 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 7: Action, right. 242 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 10: I was so grateful that God, God worked a miracle. 243 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 10: God knew that Corey was going through that I was 244 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 10: in Toronto, he was in Springfield, Missouri. 245 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: Wow. 246 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 10: And with the job that I had with Crossroads Christian 247 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 10: Community Communications, I was able to go to Saint Louis 248 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 10: once a month, which was a couple hours away from 249 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 10: spring you know, Springfield, and so I'd make sure it 250 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 10: was on a Friday or Monday, and we'd spend the 251 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 10: weekend together. He never introduced me to any of his friends. 252 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 10: He never introduced me to show me where he lived. 253 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 10: Nothing to do with the college. 254 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: So you didn't want dad come into your apartment, right? 255 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, no, absolutely not. 256 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: And so you know you're in this kind of dark place. 257 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: But what did it mean to you looking back that 258 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: your dad still let you know, although you know he 259 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 1: would agree with your lifestyle, but that he loved you 260 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: through all of that. 261 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, it's really taught me a lot of how God 262 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 11: loves me. 263 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 7: He really was a reflection. 264 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 11: You know, we can go our separate ways from the Lord, 265 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 11: but God never stops pursuing us. He never stops loving us. 266 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 11: And I saw that through my dad and how he 267 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 11: treated me. He knew I wasn't fooling anybody, and he accepted. 268 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 10: Me for who I was. 269 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 1: Okay, so your final year of college, something happened. Tell 270 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: us about it. 271 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 7: Finally year of college. 272 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,959 Speaker 11: I'm totally at my worst and I'm in my apartment, 273 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 11: Hi drunk, whatever pills you get at the at the 274 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 11: gas station, whatever I could get my hands on, and 275 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 11: I have a gun in my mouth and I'm about 276 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 11: to pull the trigger because I was it was over. 277 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 7: Why even live anymore? 278 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 11: And I hear this voice say, Corey stop right before 279 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 11: I squeeze the trigger, and I looked around the apartment. 280 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 11: There was nobody there. So I went back to putting 281 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 11: the gun in my mouth, pulling the trigger, and right 282 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 11: before I did again, Corey stop. 283 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 7: So I stopped. And I realized this is this must be. 284 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 11: That God thing that I used to hear about three 285 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 11: years ago. And I said, okay, God, I'm not missing around. 286 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 11: If you're real, you need to prove to me that 287 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 11: you are real. 288 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 10: And he did. 289 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 7: He showed up. 290 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: How do you show up? 291 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 11: I got a chance to go hear a speaker preach 292 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 11: and it was at college and they brought in someone 293 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 11: to talk and I didn't even know what he said. 294 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 11: I just went up to the front and because that's 295 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 11: what Christians do, go up to the altar and I 296 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 11: stood there. 297 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 7: Even then, I didn't even really know how. 298 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 11: To pray anymore, because it's like I had nothing to 299 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 11: do with it. And I went home that night not changed. 300 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 11: I go with the second night, do the same thing. Nothing, 301 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 11: And I go to the third night and as I'm 302 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 11: driving to the college, I'm thinking. 303 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 7: Lord, don't test me in this. You're ticking me off. 304 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 11: I am not leaving that altar until you change me. 305 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 7: I'm not leaving. 306 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 11: I don't care if they kick me out. I'm going 307 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 11: to sit outside the front door. I am not leaving 308 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 11: alter until you changed me. And so the speaker spoke. 309 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 11: I went down to the altar and all I knew 310 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 11: how to pray. 311 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 7: Was change me, change me, change me, change me. That's 312 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 7: all I could say. 313 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 11: And I'd stop into a check and I said, am 314 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 11: I changed? No, I still want to go party. I 315 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 11: still want to go mess it up with the boys. 316 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 11: So I said, change me. Don't take me off, Lord, 317 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 11: change me. I mean it, I'm serious. And then something happened. 318 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 11: I felt the presence this, this is like honey, warm honey, 319 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 11: just like falling from the top of my head down 320 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 11: my body. 321 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 10: And it was changed. 322 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 7: My voice was changing. 323 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 11: It was now like change me, change me, mar change me. 324 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 11: And I stopped and I said, am I changed? And 325 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 11: I heard his voice and his voice said, yes, You're changed. 326 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 11: I went home that night, went to sleep, woke up 327 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 11: the next day. No desire for alcohol, no desire for drugs. 328 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 11: Haven't stolen anything from a store or lit or stole 329 00:15:56,240 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 11: God totally changed me completely without having to do rehab, 330 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 11: without having to do all these steps because he knew 331 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 11: I needed him to show up in a way that 332 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 11: never seen him show up for me before. 333 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: So it was the supernatural thing. So when you woke 334 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: up the next morning, did you still feel change and 335 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 1: delivered and set free? 336 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 10: Yeah? 337 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 11: What I felt was it wasn't. I felt a weight lifted. 338 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 11: I felt the emptiness of my heart filled. 339 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 7: I was joyful. I couldn't explain it. 340 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 11: And the funny part is I went back to the 341 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 11: because it was a week long the pastor speaking, I 342 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 11: went back and he right before they started speaking, you know, 343 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 11: doing the message, he said, we want anybody that God 344 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 11: changed your life. 345 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 7: We want you to come on down and just. 346 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 11: Share what the Lord has done this week before we 347 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 11: get going. And the auditoriums full, fifteen hundred two thousand 348 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 11: students are there, and he said, anybody, And there was 349 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 11: this one guy sitting in front of me and he 350 00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 11: looked at me. 351 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 7: He must have seen me the night before, and he's 352 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 7: just kind of nudged. And I was still a bit 353 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 7: of a thug back then. 354 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 11: I was like, turn around, you know, turn around, and 355 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 11: he did it again, and so I got up and 356 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,120 Speaker 11: I went down to the front and the speaker gave 357 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 11: me a microphone, and so in front of two thousand students, 358 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 11: he said to me, so, what happened to you? 359 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 7: What happened to you? 360 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 11: I said, I came here three nights asked the Lord 361 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 11: to change me. Nothing happened except for last night. All 362 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 11: of a sudden he changed me. 363 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 7: And now I'm changed. 364 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 1: Wow. 365 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 11: And then I let go and I went back and 366 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 11: then God did a move there like something happened in 367 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 11: the auditorium, and so he said, can we can we 368 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 11: get Corey to come back down here? Corey, can you 369 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 11: come back down? So I go back down and he said, 370 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 11: tell us again, what happened? I said, I came to 371 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 11: the altar. I asked God to change me. I told 372 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 11: the devil. I don't need your drugs. I don't need 373 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 11: your money, I don't need your lies, I don't need 374 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 11: your parties. I don't need anything but Jesus. 375 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 7: All I need is Jesus. And that's what I said, 376 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 7: And that's what happened. 377 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 11: And so the pastor sends up saying, that's an amazing story. 378 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 7: If anyone else feels that way. 379 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 11: And you feel right now you need Jesus, why don't 380 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 11: you come at the altar. And that night the Lord 381 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 11: did a move and everyone came up the altar. There 382 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 11: were two thousand students left at the altar. 383 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 7: And he says on the microphone, and Corey's going to 384 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 7: pray for you. I don't know how to pray. I 385 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 7: just learned how to pray, like. 386 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: Severely, got into the altar. 387 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 7: But here's the point. 388 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 11: The point is is God is always pursuing his kids. Yes, 389 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 11: doesn't matter what stage of life you're in. It doesn't 390 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 11: matter how old you are, it doesn't matter. God is 391 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 11: always on the move, slowly pursuing your Did. 392 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 8: You see a change in him? 393 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 10: Oh? Yeah, you know, you know when God returns right, you. 394 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: Could see it even like in his eyes. 395 00:18:56,440 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 10: Yeah, you know. And then of course is even now. 396 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 10: I mean I see it even more now with talk truth, 397 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 10: because you know, he'll I'm wanting to step back and 398 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 10: push him forward and he'll say, come on, Dad, I 399 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 10: want you to share. 400 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 11: You know. 401 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,920 Speaker 10: It's like, oh my goodness, he's wanting me to share, 402 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 10: you know, because. 403 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: A lot to share. 404 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 10: Yeah, there were times in his life. 405 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: I want to say, I want you to hear this. 406 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 1: You have you still have a lot of wisdom to 407 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: impart and you still have a lot to share. You're 408 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: still very young in everything that you've learned all these years. 409 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 1: God's wanting to use you as well with Corey. Okay, 410 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: so that's that's the word the Lord. 411 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 10: Well, when when he says that to me, it's it's amazing. 412 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 10: When he and I are talking to somebody and ministering 413 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 10: to them, and we're ministering to them together, it's like 414 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 10: I'm in the clouds. Yes, I am actually in the 415 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 10: clouds because he has din and he has so much 416 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 10: talent and so much you know ability, now, you know. 417 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 10: Can we argue, yes, yes, Can we disagree yes, you know, 418 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 10: And there's times that we go sometimes we don't even 419 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 10: say I'm sorry anymore. The next time we meet each other, 420 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 10: it's like nothing happened, you know, we just carry on. 421 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 6: You just don't take offense. 422 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 10: No, we don't take offense because. 423 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: You love him that much and you love him. 424 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 11: Yes, yeah, and both our hearts are in the right place. 425 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 11: We just have creative differences, I guess. 426 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 10: Well, and we have we have strength that God gave 427 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 10: that's in the genes. 428 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 1: So there you go. 429 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,119 Speaker 2: You know, I appreciate that you didn't give up and 430 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 2: I heard a pastor say the other day, I'm going 431 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 2: to love my kid no matter what. My door's always 432 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 2: open for him. And you see, God did the exceedingly 433 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 2: abundantly in your life. And I heard somebody else say this, 434 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 2: your grandmother's prayers are still working. So shout out to 435 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 2: you for keeping on keeping on. And I know there's 436 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 2: people watching that are just about it that place where 437 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 2: I don't think it's going to happen. Nothing good is 438 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 2: going to come with my child. 439 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: They're getting too far gone. 440 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 2: What would you say to that one parent that feels 441 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 2: like giving. 442 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 1: Up right now? 443 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 10: Well, the Bible says, you know, train up a child 444 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 10: in the way you should go, and when he's old, 445 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 10: he'll not depart. The problem is, the Bible doesn't say 446 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 10: how old old is. 447 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 6: I could be old old. 448 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 10: You have no idea. 449 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: You still wanted to be alive to see exactly you 450 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: want to. 451 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 10: Be alive to see it. But that that's not the problem. 452 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 10: The promise is when he gets old, yeah, it'll change. 453 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 10: And I believe that with all my heart. You know, 454 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 10: you just have to you just have to be willing 455 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 10: to allow the Holy Spirit the book. 456 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 4: You know, Corey, you said something about the hole in 457 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 4: your heart, and we try to fill that before we 458 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,479 Speaker 4: know the Lord. With all of the things you did, 459 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 4: the drugs, alcohol, everything and what it does, it makes 460 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 4: a whole get bigger. And that hole can only be 461 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 4: filled by God. And when you brought God into that 462 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 4: place in your heart, you didn't need anything else. Yes, 463 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 4: And I just love the way you kept loving him. 464 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 4: I think that parents need to have a self landing 465 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 4: that's filled with love for the day when that child 466 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 4: does come back or come home, there's a self landing 467 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 4: for them. 468 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 3: I an thank you for that. 469 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,919 Speaker 8: I think it's cool that you encountered God in that 470 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 8: way and surrendered to him at the altar, Because could 471 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 8: you imagine if you hadn't all of those other two 472 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 8: thousand young kids a couple of days later, like how 473 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 8: your yes affected their destiny? How many lives have you 474 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,919 Speaker 8: impacted just from that one moment. 475 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:38,439 Speaker 10: Yeah? 476 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 7: Absolutely. 477 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 11: And I also got to say that God knows us, 478 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 11: he knows our heart, he knows I was being stupid 479 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 11: in college. And here's what's great about God. He protected 480 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 11: me from doing something so dumb. Yes, I couldn't recover 481 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 11: from it. 482 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,040 Speaker 1: So true. You know, Alan, when you heard that and 483 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure at some point you told your dad that 484 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 1: you got so discouraged that you had a gun. Yes, 485 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: when you heard that, that had to just shock you 486 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: to think that he would get to that point. 487 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 10: Not really, because the same thing happened to me when 488 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 10: I was twenty. Really, I thought that I had screwed 489 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 10: up so bad in my Christian life that there was 490 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 10: nothing left. And I went to a canyon at four 491 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,919 Speaker 10: o'clock in the morning, and alls I would have had 492 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 10: to do was let myself go. And I was standing 493 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 10: at the canyon, and Corey knew about this standing at 494 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 10: the canyon, and believe it or not, God did not 495 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 10: say don't jump. God said, Alan, there's going to be 496 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 10: better days ahead. 497 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: And that's what you needed to hear. 498 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 10: Yeah, and I walked away. See, all of his life 499 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 10: he lived under the shadow of me. 500 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 3: Lots of expectations. 501 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 10: Yes, So when you think about that on any child, yeah, right. 502 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 10: And I think those of us that are in the 503 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 10: ministry have to realize that you just got to love them. 504 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 10: I think the parable of the prodigal son is named wrong. 505 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 10: I think it needs to be the parable of the 506 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 10: loving Father, because the father had two sons and both 507 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,880 Speaker 10: of them needed the father's love. 508 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 6: That's right, that's so good. That's so good. 509 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: Well, we're going to pray with you on you to 510 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: stay right there. I'm gonna take a little break when 511 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: we come back. We're going to price to stay right there. 512 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 12: Imagine facing a storm so vast it threatens to engulf 513 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 12: everything you've built. Would you falter or would you find 514 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 12: strength you never knew. 515 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 1: You had when a hurricane is tearing through your life. 516 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: Jesus is the peace that steals the waters of your soul. 517 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 12: This is a tale of navigating life's fiercest tempests and 518 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 12: discovering that sometimes the most profound truths are born in 519 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 12: the heart of the storm. Your copy now at joonylamb 520 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 12: dot com slash shop. 521 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone. When we do want to pray with you, 522 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: especially those of you been watching and you can relate 523 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: to Corey's story and maybe you've never prayed, or maybe 524 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 1: you have prayed before, but you're not where you need 525 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: to be with the Lord Corey. Will you take a moment, 526 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 1: address them and get them to pray with you, and 527 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: we'll repeat after you. 528 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 11: Absolutely, God is real, He loves you, and he desires 529 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 11: to have a relationship with you. He knows you better 530 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 11: than you know yourself or even your parents know you. 531 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 11: He knows your heart, he knows your mind, he knows 532 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 11: your dreams, and he wants. 533 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,479 Speaker 7: A relationship with you. 534 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 11: Let's pray, Heavenly Father, Heavenly Father, come into my life, 535 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 11: my life. 536 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 7: Forgive me of my sin. 537 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: Forgive me my sin. 538 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 7: Wash me clean, marsh clean. Let me know who you are. 539 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 6: Let me know who you are in Jesus name Jesus. 540 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 1: And you know it's that simple. Always talk about my 541 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 1: grandpa praying at nineteen at a tulin' di meal on 542 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: a Monday morning at the water fountain in Greenville, South Carolina. 543 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 1: And he didn't know anything about God or how to pray. 544 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: He just said, God, if you're there, I need you. 545 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: And God transformed his life and change the trajectory of 546 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 1: our family. I know somebody was sitting stable April, your dad, 547 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: same thing. 548 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 7: God. 549 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: He prayed a simple prayer, invited the Lord, and changed 550 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 1: his life. And he wants to do that for you. 551 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: For those of you that prayed that prayer, I want 552 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: you to go to the phone right now and let 553 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: us know that because we want to pray with you. 554 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: And also I'd love to send you. The Gospel of 555 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,360 Speaker 1: John is a great place to start in the Word 556 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: of God. And it's a new day for you, just 557 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 1: like it was for Corey. God has so much more 558 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 1: for you. While we're out of time. I want you 559 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 1: to remember that God is in the business of restoration 560 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 1: and healing and deliverance. 561 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 6: He wants to do that for you today. 562 00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: He still saves the loss, restores relationships every situation, and 563 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 1: all you have to do is call on the name 564 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: of the Lord. Just say Jesus, I need you now, 565 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 1: and I promise you he will show up again. If 566 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: you prayed that prayer, call the number on the screen, 567 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:17,880 Speaker 1: or if you just need prayer today. We have prayer 568 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 1: partners that are standing by ready to pray with you. 569 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: I want to thank Alan and Corey for joining us. 570 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: For more information, you can visit them online at go 571 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 1: talktruth dot com and is always make sure to followus 572 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 1: on all social media. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for 573 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: full episodes exclusive content. Let us know how table Talk 574 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 1: is touching your life. We love hearing from you. You 575 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 1: can also listen to the Johnie Table Talk podcast, available 576 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: now on all major platforms. But I want to thank 577 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 1: you so much for watching. I want to think most 578 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 1: of you that you stopped, you sat down, you listened, 579 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,120 Speaker 1: and God has opened up your heart and you know 580 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 1: that He has a future for you and all you 581 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: have to do is surrender and say yes. He's just 582 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: looking for your yes. And I'm just going to tell 583 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 1: you in the days ahead, there are going to be 584 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: doors that are going to open that have been closed, 585 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: and there are going to be opportunities that you've wanted 586 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 1: that God's going to bring across your path. And it's 587 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: going to be because of your obedience and surrendering your 588 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: heart and your life to Him. And I'm excited about that. 589 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for watching. Thank you ladies, Thank 590 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,439 Speaker 1: you Alan and Corey. Love you guys and appreciate you 591 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 1: being here today, and. 592 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 10: We love you. 593 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: I'm excited about what all God has for you. The 594 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: best is yet to come. We'll see you next time. 595 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 9: By bye for today. 596 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: Well, you know many parents know the heartbreak of loving 597 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: a prodigal child, watching from a distance as they make 598 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 1: pain choice is wondering if they'll ever return home. Well, 599 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: today's guests have been in that place and are here 600 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: to share how release and control and trusting God can 601 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 1: be the key to true healing. But before we get 602 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: to that, join me around the table is a very 603 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: eloquent doctor Doug Wise. This is a subject that is real, 604 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: it's near and dear to your heart. 605 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 13: Yes, I mean, I've seen so many parents in churches 606 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 13: who have prodigal parents, even pastors who it's kind of 607 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 13: like they're in a secret pain and they're kind of 608 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 13: bleeding quietly. 609 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 14: And this is a huge topic. I'm glad we're talking 610 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 14: about it. 611 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: We're going to pray for them to be set free, 612 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 1: release those kids and see them come to Jesus. 613 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 14: Amen. 614 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 13: But also even if they come back, the parents still 615 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 13: have to heal. Yeah, it's real pain that. 616 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 5: They go through, right, Dorothy Need, how are you feeling great? 617 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:47,160 Speaker 6: Good? 618 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 10: Yes? 619 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 6: Sitting between you guys. 620 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: I know that you and I both have friends that 621 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: we've seen, you know, have sons and daughters that. 622 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, track, it's such a hord horror topic. 623 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 5: But the amazing thing is that nothing is too hard for. 624 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 1: God, you know, and it's it's I've. 625 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 5: Just listened to so many stories that and I've been 626 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 5: encouraged through their walk, and so I'm excited about what 627 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 5: we're getting here today. Because I know it will help 628 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 5: and set somebody free. 629 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, here's my girl, Rachel amb Brown. 630 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 2: How are you. 631 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 6: I'm good. 632 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: You know you're sitting around the table right now, that's. 633 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 6: Ready to say. 634 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 8: I have two little boys, and I always joke around 635 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 8: with my oldest Judah and I and I say we 636 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 8: always be Mommy's baby, and. 637 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 6: He'll say, okay, I'll always be. 638 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 8: And I said, even when you're taller than me and 639 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 8: stronger than me, someday will you be my baby? 640 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 6: And he said, I will always be your baby. 641 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 642 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 8: And I can't imagine as a mom or a parent 643 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 8: having to walk through something like this, and I hope 644 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 8: that I never do. 645 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 6: But we're going to learn today. 646 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: You can get an emotional thinking about it, but at 647 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: the end of the day, you train him up, but 648 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: he has to make a choice, and you can't take 649 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 1: responsibility for his choices. Yeah, it's like I couldn't take 650 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 1: responsibility for your choices. You had a little moment, you 651 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 1: kind of veered off and came. 652 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 10: Back right a little. 653 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 6: I think you're all right, see the word, like. 654 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm doing well? Thank you? You know. 655 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: It makes me think about my mom and dad with 656 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: my two brothers who were prodigal sons and prodigal brothers. 657 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: But through the years they went through a lot of hardship, 658 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: but through the years they came to know Jesus Christ 659 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 1: as their savior. Yeah, and I'm rejoicing that they were 660 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: welcomed back wonderfully and happily back. And we got at 661 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:37,239 Speaker 1: the table Harvey and Darlene Johnson, who have dealt with 662 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: a prodigal We're going to tell your story. So so 663 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 1: thankful for to have you here today. Thank you, thank 664 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: you for having the bravery and the courage to share 665 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 1: your story. Well, surrendering to God's timing as a parent 666 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: can be incredibly challenging, especially when you want your child 667 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: make choices that lead them down the wrong path. Well, 668 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 1: Harvey and Darling Johnson are here to share a beautiful 669 00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 1: message of hope for parents facing these challenges. You know, 670 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: your story is not, Darlene, an overnight story. This is 671 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: a long journey that you were on with your son. 672 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: But take us back to growing up. What was he 673 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: like as a little boy and growing up did you 674 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: ever think you'd be in these type of circumstances. 675 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 6: Not at all. He was a wonderful child. 676 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 15: He was a mama's boy, of course, and just he 677 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 15: would sit and play for hours. 678 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 6: He never cried much. 679 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 15: He was I would say, if you could have a 680 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 15: perfect child, he was close to perfect. 681 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 1: And so what happened? When did the turn happen? Did 682 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: he get in the wrong crowd? 683 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 6: What it was in? 684 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 15: Yes, he did, and it was in his early teens, 685 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 15: fourteen fifteen years old, getting with the wrong crowd and 686 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 15: of course being mama, you know, I'm always there trying 687 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 15: to bell him ount. 688 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 1: So was there was there church? God element a part 689 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: of your family at that point? Was yeah? So would 690 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: he go to church? 691 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 6: She did? 692 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 15: Yeah, he did, And he seemed to adapt well in 693 00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 15: any situation. He was a follower and he wanted to 694 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 15: be accepted that he once he got in with the 695 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 15: wrong crowd, he just got lured in and it was 696 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 15: like there was nothing we could do, nothing we could say. 697 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 15: It was a twenty four to seven heartache that never stopped. 698 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 1: Did you ever talk about it like at church or 699 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 1: did you ever tell anybody just keep it and. 700 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 15: Not because back then that was a long time ago. 701 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 15: You don't talk about it. You sweep it under the 702 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 15: rug and you deal with it. So there was a 703 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 15: lot of shame and guilt because I didn't want anybody 704 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 15: to know. You know, it's still around other parents and 705 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 15: their kids are doing great, and then there's your son. 706 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: So is this a common thing that happens with parents 707 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 1: to shame beget. 708 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 13: Absolutely When you have a prodigal you can't be proud 709 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 13: to talk about them, and you don't want anybody asking 710 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 13: you questions about them, So you move from the first 711 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 13: pew to the fifth few to the last pew, and 712 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 13: oftentimes you will leave church because you don't want people 713 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 13: to be asking you questions about the worst pain that 714 00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 13: you've ever experienced. 715 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 8: And has a mommy probably want ever attack your kids? 716 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 13: Yeah, you don't want to shame them either, but yeah, so, 717 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 13: but this is a huge problem and there's nothing out 718 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 13: there for them other than we'll pray for your little Bobby, okay, 719 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 13: And they don't realize that this is trauma, this is hurt, 720 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 13: this is grieving. Twenty four to seven, You know, for 721 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 13: your helpless and. 722 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 14: You are helpless. You are helpless as a parent. 723 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 5: So Darling, you know, was mentioning that you know she 724 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 5: would help and help I mean, was she not supposed 725 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 5: to let them hit rock bottom? 726 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 14: Now I'll let her answer that. 727 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 13: Now, what do you think now, now that you've gone 728 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 13: through the materials, would you have done it differently had 729 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 13: you had that twenty years ago. 730 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,240 Speaker 15: Yes, the first time he got arrested, I would probably 731 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,239 Speaker 15: let him set in jail. Okay, i'd be the second time, 732 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 15: because I think you show grace and mercy a little bit. 733 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 15: Everybody makes mistakes, but after about the third, fourth, fifth time, 734 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 15: and people trying to tell you constantly. 735 00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: It's hard to let go so hardly. 736 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 6: But what if he changes this time? 737 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 8: So do you think parents that are trying to help 738 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 8: their kids are actually enabling them and prolonging? 739 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 13: Yeah, let's talk to someone who did it for twenty 740 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 13: six years professionally. 741 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,399 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, all right. 742 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: So let's just tell everybody what happens. I love this 743 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 1: part of the story. Yeah, table talks in this story. 744 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: That's your watch here right now. Okay, So take us 745 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,760 Speaker 1: back to that morning you were watching the show. 746 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 15: I had been through a lot of healing classes at 747 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 15: church small groups and doing great, but it was like 748 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 15: there was something missing. I wanted more. God, show me 749 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,360 Speaker 15: what has happened here. It's just like something was missing. 750 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 15: So I got up this morning and of course I 751 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,840 Speaker 15: watched Joni Table Talk every morning. And my mentor called 752 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 15: me that morning and she was right after COVID and 753 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 15: she said, Darlene, are you watching Joni? And I said, 754 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,760 Speaker 15: I'm turning it on now. She said, there's a doctor 755 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 15: Doug wiss On there that has just written a book. 756 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 15: You really need to consider ordering this. I think this 757 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 15: will help you. And so imediate Leah. I got online. 758 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 15: I ordered the book, the work book and the DVD 759 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 15: and so took myself through the class and I was amazed. 760 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 15: I mean it was like Jesus jumped off the pages 761 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 15: in this book. 762 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: I know you the book of course, the Prodigal Parent Process, 763 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 1: Doug you wrote, and then the DVD's almost four hours 764 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 1: and he takes you through each like almost like you're 765 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: in accounting session. And then you've got the work book. 766 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: But what was it about this product? The Prodigal Parent 767 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 1: processes again for the parents to understand their role in 768 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,440 Speaker 1: all this. And yes, we we want to pray for 769 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: your children, and we'll do that, and there's a number 770 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: coming up on the screen you can call and leave 771 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: their name. We're going to pray for them. But what 772 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: was it about this that helped you so much. I 773 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 1: know there were several parts. 774 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 15: Of it, well it was like you had a counselor 775 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 15: there in the room explaining what you had been through. 776 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 15: But it was it was like Jesus was talking to me. 777 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,439 Speaker 15: In the first chapter when we learn about God being 778 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 15: the first prodigal parent, that really hit me because he 779 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 15: didn't chase his children, he didn't run after them, He 780 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 15: allowed them free will. I learned the power of free will. 781 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,879 Speaker 15: That was the first thing. And then of course every 782 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 15: chapter gets deeper and deeper, and it touches on the 783 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,920 Speaker 15: marriage the siblings, and it was the most amazing teaching 784 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 15: that I have ever been through. 785 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 1: So what about the trauma aspect? I know he talks 786 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: about that, and this. 787 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,759 Speaker 15: Is what when I got to that part, and I 788 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 15: had been in Christian counseling, and I knew God that 789 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 15: I diagnosed myself because it had never been mentioned to 790 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 15: me about the grief, the trauma much less PTSD than 791 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 15: never entered my mind. But every symptom was me. And 792 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,799 Speaker 15: I realized what had happened to me. And I mean, 793 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 15: it was so emotional, but it was so beautiful too 794 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 15: to finally have an answer. And I thought God, if 795 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,720 Speaker 15: I'm suffering this and I'm understanding this, how many more 796 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 15: of me is they're out there that don't know this? 797 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,319 Speaker 1: How did you? Was there a prayer that you pray 798 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: to release or surrender at some moment as you're going 799 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,239 Speaker 1: through this process. 800 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 15: I think I prayed through the entire book, just asking 801 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,880 Speaker 15: God to show me, to give me revelation. So I 802 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 15: started having revelation after revelation, and it was like the 803 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 15: Bible came to life for me. And I've never had 804 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,399 Speaker 15: that happen because, like you said, doctor Doug, people say 805 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 15: I'll pray for you, and that's wonderful. 806 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 14: But more than that, but when I. 807 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 6: Go home, I need healing. How do I heal from this? 808 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:45,240 Speaker 13: Yeah, Harvey, what happened after your wife went through this process? 809 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 13: Did she become how did she become different? And how 810 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 13: did the marriage become different? 811 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 10: Naturally? 812 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 16: Our marriage got better and better and better. Is she 813 00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,359 Speaker 16: went through these courses and she learns that it's just 814 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,439 Speaker 16: like you do teaching. You learn from teaching. And she's 815 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 16: just been a phenomenal job trying to educate herself and 816 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 16: share share her problems with other people and griefs well. 817 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,760 Speaker 1: And she absorbed the truth that she was hearing. Yes, 818 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 1: I know, I do like that. When I'm on the 819 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 1: table we've got people, I feel like I just is absorbed. 820 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 1: Then I want to share and help everybody learned so much. 821 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 1: It touched you so much and impacted you so much. 822 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,280 Speaker 1: You went to your pastor's wife. And what happened? 823 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:31,879 Speaker 6: I did. 824 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 15: They had a prodigal and I introduced this to her 825 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 15: and she went through the teaching and she was amazed, 826 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 15: and she spent a ministry all of her life and 827 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 15: she said, Darling, this has revolutionized my thinking. And I 828 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 15: said me too. I said, I think we need to 829 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 15: launch a small group. 830 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,400 Speaker 14: And what happened? How many people shut up? 831 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 6: Forty three three small? 832 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,840 Speaker 13: I want to launch a small group of forty three people. 833 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 8: That just shows you that need. 834 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 15: That kept coming in And I was like, how many 835 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 15: of may is there out there? 836 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 6: And they're just that's just here in one church? 837 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 838 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 10: Wow, you know. 839 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 6: So it was very emotional. 840 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: So so Doug, take a moment, if you will, and 841 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: just talk to that parent that has carried the load 842 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 1: of that prodigal, and we're going to talk a little 843 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,279 Speaker 1: bit about the sibling in just a moment, because that's important. 844 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 1: But the parent that has shame and guilt if I've 845 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 1: done this, if I done that, that's what that is. 846 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:31,360 Speaker 1: From the enemy. 847 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 6: He is the accuser. 848 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 1: He is the one that accuses you and tells you 849 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: you came up short and you didn't know. 850 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 6: There's no perfect parent, that's for sure. But this will 851 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,400 Speaker 6: set you free. What you're going to share it? 852 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 13: Yeah, absolutely, you know, because Christians we have this kind 853 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 13: of like cause and effect when it comes to parent 854 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 13: We think if we do everything right that our kids 855 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,879 Speaker 13: are guaranteed to come out right. 856 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 14: That's not true. It's free will. 857 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,399 Speaker 13: God was perfect and he got poor results, okay, and 858 00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 13: so and then there's these awful parents who end up 859 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 13: having this as a radical transformation in Jesus and becomes 860 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 13: a world changer. 861 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,440 Speaker 1: So yeah, these parents that aren't even saved. 862 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 14: Mine wasn't saved. 863 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,799 Speaker 1: When they they haven't, they meet somebody who tells them 864 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 1: about Jesus. It transforms to your life and the parents 865 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 1: to do it. 866 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:14,439 Speaker 7: That's right. 867 00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 13: So you don't get credit either way, but don't take 868 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 13: credit for their poor decisions. Okay, that's on them, and 869 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 13: this prodigal process is on them one hundred percent. Read 870 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,760 Speaker 13: Romans one and you'll find out what I'm talking about. 871 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,800 Speaker 13: So please, if you need help with the false guilt, 872 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,880 Speaker 13: if you're feeling ashamed, you not only get the product, 873 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 13: give us a call and let's pray for you, because 874 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 13: you don't need to be alone. Starter group being a group, 875 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,360 Speaker 13: I mean the group process. How was that when you 876 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 13: were in that you already went through material? How is 877 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 13: that for you and your continued healing? And how much 878 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 13: healing did you see in these other people? 879 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:48,279 Speaker 6: Oh? It was amazing. 880 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 15: And one thing that we do at the end of 881 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 15: our teaching is we bring in, because we have access 882 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,439 Speaker 15: in our church to recovery, we bring in I'll bring 883 00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 15: my son in, a couple of his friends, maybe a 884 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 15: couple of ladies that have gone through recovery. We have 885 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 15: a celebration at the end of the class celebrating the 886 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,800 Speaker 15: prodigals that have come home, and we give the group 887 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,879 Speaker 15: an opportunity to ask them questions. 888 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:11,760 Speaker 6: And that was real. 889 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 15: Powerful because you've got a parent sitting there that their 890 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,759 Speaker 15: child is still out there. So to be able to 891 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 15: look at that child that was a prodigal that came 892 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 15: home and be able to ask them a question, it's 893 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:24,040 Speaker 15: real powerful. 894 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 10: And you guys. 895 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,800 Speaker 13: I mean, how does it feel to have other people 896 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 13: praying for your prodigal? You know, because you guys do 897 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 13: that as well we do. And then when they come 898 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 13: home what happens to the group. 899 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,320 Speaker 15: Oh, it's amazing because I encouraged them to have a 900 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:41,560 Speaker 15: James five sixteen prayer partner throughout the teaching and we 901 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,880 Speaker 15: exchange cards with a prodigal's name. So for twelve or 902 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 15: sixteen weeks, you've got someone praying standing in the gap 903 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,759 Speaker 15: for your prodigal, calling that name out loud, and that's 904 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 15: so important. 905 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,360 Speaker 1: That's so good. Well, we've got to hear about Chad. 906 00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 1: So you finally, you finally released him to God. And 907 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: that's what we're talking about today. We're talking about do 908 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 1: you really trust God with that son or daughter or 909 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: that grandchild. I know I've seen calls today from grandmother's 910 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: calling about their grandchildren. They're very concerned. But have you 911 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: really released them to God? Because that's the key right there. 912 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:20,920 Speaker 1: And it's so hard to do. And I can say this 913 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,800 Speaker 1: as a mother, it's so hard to release and believe 914 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 1: God's to do what only he can do. But you 915 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 1: finally did that. Tell us about the incident around that 916 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 1: when you finally said no, it was the first time 917 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,319 Speaker 1: you ever said no to Chad. 918 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 6: Sure he was in his recovery. 919 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,359 Speaker 15: He had gotten real sick and they had taken him 920 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,439 Speaker 15: to a nearby hospital and he called me one night 921 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 15: and he said, Mom, I'm at the hospital. 922 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 6: You need to come get me. And I said, what's wrong? 923 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 15: And he said, I'm broke out from head to toe 924 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,920 Speaker 15: and I think I'm dying. Will you please come get me? 925 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,840 Speaker 15: And for a split second I was almost like, oh 926 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,759 Speaker 15: my gosh, I've got to go get him. The two 927 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:55,879 Speaker 15: kids had walked out of the bedroom and were sitting 928 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 15: on the floor and I looked at them and they 929 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 15: were crying, and I thought, no, how much longer do 930 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 15: we have to live like this? And I said, son, 931 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 15: I am not coming to get you, and he was 932 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,880 Speaker 15: irad on the phone and I'm going to die. And 933 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 15: I said, listen, you're at a hospital. If anything happens. 934 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:20,239 Speaker 1: When you talk about manipulation, right, the manipulation, manipulator, of manipulator, 935 00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 1: And I woke up. 936 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,040 Speaker 6: And I may not pass it. 937 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 1: I may. 938 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 6: I woke up and I was at the hospital. 939 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 15: I had had a mental breakdown, thinking that if I 940 00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 15: didn't go get him. It would be my fault. That's 941 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,520 Speaker 15: how much guilt that I carried in this. 942 00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: But you didn't. But you didn't go get him. 943 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 15: Didn't go get him, and he got out, went back 944 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 15: into the program. 945 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,440 Speaker 1: Back in to see you would have just delayed. 946 00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 6: I would start to hear him. 947 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: So what happened when he went into the. 948 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 6: Pro he was miraculously healed. 949 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,399 Speaker 15: His counselors called me and said, miss Johnson, you need 950 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 15: to come visit your son. Because I told him I 951 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 15: wasn't coming to visit him. There was a lot of 952 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 15: anger involved in this. And they called me again, said 953 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 15: miss Johnson, we really think you need to come visit 954 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 15: your son. There's been an Apostle Paul transformation. And I 955 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 15: was like, yeah, all right, but I'm going to go 956 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 15: one more time. 957 00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 6: So I load up the kids and here we go. 958 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 15: I pulled up that day and he was standing at 959 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,080 Speaker 15: a picnic table and it was like there was a 960 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 15: glow around him, and I thought, something looks different. So 961 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,359 Speaker 15: he hands me a letter in an envelope and he says, Mom, 962 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 15: when you get home tonight, read this. And it was 963 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 15: a letter of forgiveness. And we never even thought about 964 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:32,759 Speaker 15: forgiving each other. It was so bad by then. But 965 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 15: I read the letter that night and it was so toxic. 966 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 15: The relationship at that point. Well, you know, I was codependent. 967 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,799 Speaker 15: We were you know, I was his enabler and I 968 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 15: was controlling, and it was it was just a mess. 969 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:49,319 Speaker 1: So you start reading the letter, what happened broke because 970 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,240 Speaker 1: kind of thing City says to you in there. 971 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,359 Speaker 15: Just asking me to forgive him for specific things. Thank 972 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 15: you for taking the children. You know, God has touched 973 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,920 Speaker 15: my life. You know his kids. I had his children. 974 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,840 Speaker 15: You were full time caregiver. 975 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 6: We were a full time for several. 976 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,840 Speaker 1: Week because the mother. The mother had addictions, she was awful. 977 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,800 Speaker 1: He had all his issues, and so you had taken 978 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:12,839 Speaker 1: on the two grandchildren. 979 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 6: Yes, Harvey had a business to run. 980 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,800 Speaker 15: I had a career, and we didn't know anything about daycare. 981 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 15: And we thought, you know, we were dreaming and planning 982 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 15: our future. And then all of a sudden, I get 983 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,120 Speaker 15: a phone call that the kids had been taken to 984 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 15: DHR in Mississippi. 985 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,960 Speaker 6: So I look at Harvey and I go, what do 986 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:31,359 Speaker 6: we do? 987 00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 15: And he says, go get those babies, go get them, 988 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 15: we'll figure it out. 989 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:35,840 Speaker 10: Wow. 990 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,279 Speaker 15: So I went and got the children came home and 991 00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 15: became mother instead of grandmother. 992 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 1: You know, I think about when you took Chad to 993 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 1: the rehab place or the place where you dropped him off. 994 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 1: The thing that spoke to me too was when you 995 00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 1: drove away, you saw those crosses and you made a 996 00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:00,479 Speaker 1: commitment to God. You were releasing him right, You weren't 997 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: going to pick it up anymore. 998 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 3: You gave him totally to God. 999 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: He laid it at the cross. 1000 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:06,160 Speaker 6: I did. 1001 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,239 Speaker 15: He laid him at the cross, and it was basically 1002 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,720 Speaker 15: a prayer that said, God, help me, and help us, 1003 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,279 Speaker 15: and take my son. You gave him to me, I'm 1004 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 15: giving him back to you one hundred percent. And on 1005 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 15: the drive home, I started seeing crosses and that got 1006 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 15: me back in church and started my recover. But he 1007 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 15: did look at me and say, Mom, when you go home, 1008 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,840 Speaker 15: start your recovery. And I said to him, there's nothing 1009 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 15: wrong with me except you. 1010 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 6: That it was that bad. It was that bad, but there. 1011 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 1: Was a lot that God needed to do in your 1012 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,960 Speaker 1: heart and your life. I mean, you finally opened up 1013 00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,279 Speaker 1: and let God begin to do this work in you. 1014 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: Because you know, as parents done, people don't realize or 1015 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,600 Speaker 1: these parents are even watching don't realize some of the 1016 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 1: trauma they've gone through that they need to release and 1017 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:55,719 Speaker 1: be healed from. 1018 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:56,319 Speaker 10: U's right. 1019 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,080 Speaker 13: And so yeah, in the parent product, the anger, work 1020 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,880 Speaker 13: with stuff and looking at you know, even the marriage 1021 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,680 Speaker 13: because you blame each other, you know, for what's going on. 1022 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,320 Speaker 14: And then also the repairing of the siblings. 1023 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,760 Speaker 13: You know, you could talk about that for a second, 1024 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:14,880 Speaker 13: you know, because there was this other child too that 1025 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 13: was watching everything. 1026 00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:17,200 Speaker 6: Tell us about your daughter. 1027 00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 15: Have a daughter, Amber, and she's precious, and she sat 1028 00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,440 Speaker 15: back and watched all of this, but she never said anything. 1029 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:27,720 Speaker 15: I had no idea the rejection she suffered, the trauma 1030 00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 15: she suffered, because. 1031 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,399 Speaker 1: You're focusing all your attention on this problem over here. 1032 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 15: Yeah, all my tension day and night is a twenty 1033 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,760 Speaker 15: four to seven trauma. 1034 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:37,320 Speaker 6: I mean it never stopped. 1035 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,080 Speaker 1: And Harvey, was that debilitating for you to watch her suffer? 1036 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:41,520 Speaker 5: Well? 1037 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 14: Absolutely, yes. 1038 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,040 Speaker 3: You probably felt helpless at times how to help her? 1039 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 16: Right, I wasn't enabled or enabling her to enable actually yeah, 1040 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:59,319 Speaker 16: but to save my marriage. I'd argue with her, but 1041 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 16: it didn't do it. You know, you always want went 1042 00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 16: over look. I kept telling her what when he falled 1043 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 16: down out in the middle of Highway nine. 1044 00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:09,399 Speaker 14: He ate out there. 1045 00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 16: Just let him get up herself and dust his bridges 1046 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 16: off and get home with his life. 1047 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,200 Speaker 1: That's kind of a Southern way of saying it is 1048 00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 1: that the truth, That is the truth. He just let 1049 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 1: him fall down in highway Nanny and end up and. 1050 00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 6: Pull the breeches out. 1051 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 13: You know, in the scripture, the father never left his 1052 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 13: own house and chased his son, and that's a hard 1053 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 13: thing to do. 1054 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 1: He was always looking for him to be believed. 1055 00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:39,440 Speaker 13: But he didn't get involved. And it's okay for it 1056 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,279 Speaker 13: to be that way. And men tend to know that 1057 00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,320 Speaker 13: intuitively because we're men. 1058 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 14: Especially if it's a son that's a parker. Now if 1059 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:46,719 Speaker 14: it's a girl, it switches. 1060 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 13: He's the one going out and rescuing her and you say, no, 1061 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 13: you need to let her fall. 1062 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 9: No, no, no. 1063 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,439 Speaker 13: It's a cross gender thing because when you're a dad, 1064 00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:56,880 Speaker 13: you can do anything for your little girl, and your 1065 00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 13: mom you can do it through your baby boy, right, 1066 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 13: and so it it works both ways, and so but 1067 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 13: it is. It causes intention in the family, causes attention 1068 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 13: to marriage because your daughter not only was dealing with 1069 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,840 Speaker 13: her pain, she was watching you being pain and watching 1070 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,239 Speaker 13: you not have enough energy for her, and she was 1071 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,080 Speaker 13: watching the little tips you guys going through and thinking, Dad, 1072 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 13: come on, you know, help here, you know, because Mom's wrong. 1073 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,839 Speaker 1: So she got to share these feelings and emotions with 1074 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,400 Speaker 1: you that had gone on for years, and God was 1075 00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,560 Speaker 1: able to open up your heart in her heart for 1076 00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: reconciliation and just a talk that needed to happen. 1077 00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 6: And this just happened a year ago. 1078 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 15: So we're twelve years and I'm twelve years into my recovery. 1079 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 6: Wow. 1080 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 15: And so I had been to visit her in Birmingham 1081 00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,479 Speaker 15: and was driving home and when I left, she called 1082 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,360 Speaker 15: me and she said, Mom, can I have a transparent 1083 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,920 Speaker 15: conversation with you about what has happened to me the 1084 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:52,840 Speaker 15: last few years? 1085 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 6: And I said, sure you can. 1086 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 15: So she began to open up and say things to 1087 00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 15: me that she said, you know, I love you. 1088 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 6: You've been a wonderful mom. 1089 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 15: But I feel visible, invisible, and I mean it was amazing. 1090 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,400 Speaker 15: We were on the phone for an hour and the 1091 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,799 Speaker 15: only thing I said when we before we hung up, 1092 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,280 Speaker 15: I said, I don't even know what to say, except 1093 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,560 Speaker 15: will you forgive me? Because I'm not who I used 1094 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:17,799 Speaker 15: to be? 1095 00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,200 Speaker 1: Would she say. 1096 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,239 Speaker 15: She said, of course I will. I love you and 1097 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,719 Speaker 15: you were a good mom, but I just missed you. 1098 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 1: Wow. So what does it do for a child when 1099 00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:28,000 Speaker 1: you're able to say that? 1100 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,239 Speaker 13: In the parent pradical process, we talked about the you know, 1101 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 13: the in the parcical story, there's the other brother, right, 1102 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:39,400 Speaker 13: and he saw Dad cry, he saw Dad on the 1103 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:43,480 Speaker 13: porch pacing, and they go through their own process of 1104 00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:46,439 Speaker 13: grieving and pain, but they lose a percentage of their 1105 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:50,640 Speaker 13: parent in the process, and so it's very normal for 1106 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:52,480 Speaker 13: that to happen. I'm glad that she was mature enough 1107 00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 13: to share a heart with you and to make you 1108 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,200 Speaker 13: aware of that. 1109 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:56,920 Speaker 14: That's beautiful. 1110 00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: Well, you know, there may be somebody watching right now 1111 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 1: you just kind of stop to watch because you're you're 1112 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,960 Speaker 1: kind of dealing with the situation with your son or daughter, 1113 00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 1: And I just want to say that the first and 1114 00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,120 Speaker 1: most important decision that you can make is to invite 1115 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,520 Speaker 1: Jesus into this process. And how does somebody do that? Doug, 1116 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:14,680 Speaker 1: you take a moment, well. 1117 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:19,400 Speaker 13: You know, you might yourself like pull have pulled away 1118 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,680 Speaker 13: from God, or you might be that prodigal who someone 1119 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:25,480 Speaker 13: shared the show with you. If you are that prodigal 1120 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 13: You can come home right now. You don't have to 1121 00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 13: do this to your mom or dad anymore. You don't 1122 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,719 Speaker 13: have to do this to the Father God. Just say 1123 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,880 Speaker 13: this prayer with me, say Jesus, Jesus, forgive me of 1124 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,640 Speaker 13: my sins. I accept your death as full payment. 1125 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:39,799 Speaker 6: I accept your death. 1126 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 14: I make you Lord right now. 1127 00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:44,320 Speaker 10: In Jesus. 1128 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:45,320 Speaker 1: Statement Jesus. 1129 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,400 Speaker 13: And if you said that prayer, call the number and 1130 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,160 Speaker 13: screen you would to get a couple of things for you. 1131 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,880 Speaker 13: But it's so important. And if you have a prodigal 1132 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 13: don't be alone. Let people pray with you and walk 1133 00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 13: with you and be in community. Because wasn't that the 1134 00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,040 Speaker 13: most healing thing when you had other people who knew 1135 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,160 Speaker 13: your story. There was no shame when you walked in 1136 00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 13: the room, and when they walked in the room, their 1137 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,600 Speaker 13: head was up, it wasn't down. And they were among 1138 00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:09,160 Speaker 13: friends and you were praying for one well, and. 1139 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 6: There were other groups that were starting. 1140 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,920 Speaker 1: I did want to mention while we're talking about the 1141 00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,759 Speaker 1: prodigal parent process is the book. Here's the DVD has 1142 00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:21,400 Speaker 1: almost four hours of Doug teaching, counseling through each chapter 1143 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: and taking you through the process along with the word book. 1144 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,080 Speaker 1: So for a one time gift of ninety nine dollars, 1145 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,719 Speaker 1: you can get all three. The book is twenty if 1146 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 1: you just want to get the book, but I recommend 1147 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 1: that you get all of it. You told me the 1148 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 1: DVD was the most impactful thing for you. I mean 1149 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:39,200 Speaker 1: all of it, but that really did. 1150 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,279 Speaker 15: It really did, because it was like you have a counselor, 1151 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:46,760 Speaker 15: a trained Christian counselor in the room with you speaking 1152 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:50,080 Speaker 15: to you, and it brought it more to life and 1153 00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 15: more real and it was very impactful. 1154 00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,600 Speaker 1: So in closing, how is Chad today? 1155 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:55,719 Speaker 6: He's amazing. 1156 00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:59,040 Speaker 15: He's an entrepreneur, he owns his several businesses. 1157 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:03,799 Speaker 6: And Harvey and I work for him. That's amazing. 1158 00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,880 Speaker 1: You and Harvey work for him. Now, well you should 1159 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: and he should pay you. Well, that's awesome. And so 1160 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 1: there's hope today. And you know what, it was a 1161 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 1: twenty six year walk of believing God till she finally said, Okay, God, 1162 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna trust you. And that's what the Lord's saying 1163 00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:26,359 Speaker 1: to many of you today. We are out of time, 1164 00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:29,480 Speaker 1: but don't you remember that your family is part of 1165 00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,800 Speaker 1: God's design no matter the struggles you face. 1166 00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 6: He invites all. 1167 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:37,560 Speaker 1: Who are weary and burden to come to Him for rest. 1168 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,400 Speaker 1: That scripture says, coming to me all you that labor 1169 00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 1: and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 1170 00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,880 Speaker 1: He wants to give you that rest today in knowing 1171 00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,440 Speaker 1: that you can trust Him. And of course, when you 1172 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,759 Speaker 1: surrender your family and your relationships, said the Lord, he 1173 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:56,880 Speaker 1: brings healing and peace like no other. It's a peace 1174 00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:00,279 Speaker 1: that passes all understanding. And if you're watching today and 1175 00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,840 Speaker 1: you need prayer, you're dealing with your prodigal now's the 1176 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:04,600 Speaker 1: time to go to the phone and call. We'd love 1177 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: to pray with you. Also, if you prayed that prayer 1178 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:10,919 Speaker 1: of salvation with doctor Doug, you can call and we'll 1179 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,440 Speaker 1: send you the Book of John, the Gospel of John. 1180 00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,000 Speaker 1: It's a great place to start in the Bible. Get 1181 00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 1: a Bible that you can understand. Start reading that, and 1182 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:22,319 Speaker 1: we're excited about what God has for you in the 1183 00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,880 Speaker 1: days of head. You're not alone any longer. You have 1184 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,680 Speaker 1: Him with you to help you through any situation of life. 1185 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,279 Speaker 1: I do want to thank Harvey and Darling Johnson for 1186 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,320 Speaker 1: joining us today. Be sure you pick up a copy 1187 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:36,319 Speaker 1: of The Prodigal Parent Process material. You can get it 1188 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: at Jonilamb dot com slash Prodigal Parent. You get the book, 1189 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,800 Speaker 1: you can get all three along with the four hours 1190 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 1: of teaching and for a gift of ninety nine dollars. 1191 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 1: As always, make sure to follow us on all social media. 1192 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:55,040 Speaker 1: Subscribe to our YouTube channel for full episodes, exclusive content, 1193 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:57,920 Speaker 1: and let us know how table talk is touching your 1194 00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 1: life because we love hearing from you. Of course, you 1195 00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,120 Speaker 1: can also listen to the Joni Table Talk podcast, available 1196 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: now on all major platforms. I want to thank you 1197 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,080 Speaker 1: so much for watching. Thank you darling. Now you get 1198 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 1: to watch a table talk with your own testimony. I do. 1199 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,239 Speaker 1: Is that exciting? Make sure you call everybody hand I 1200 00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 1: was going to say, as a result of you doing groups, 1201 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,399 Speaker 1: there have been others in other states that have picked 1202 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 1: up and started doing groups, and I'm excited about that 1203 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:23,920 Speaker 1: as well. 1204 00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 6: I'm excited. 1205 00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,080 Speaker 15: And the recovery center that he graduated from has now 1206 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 15: launched a counseling for parents of prodigals because the impact 1207 00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:33,480 Speaker 15: is so profound. 1208 00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,239 Speaker 1: When we went over to space, amazing does that bless you? 1209 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:36,840 Speaker 14: It does? 1210 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,480 Speaker 13: That was what the vision God gave me. Wouldn't give 1211 00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,200 Speaker 13: me this stuff was like this. This has been church 1212 00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 13: churches everywhere. Yeah, have to have a group. 1213 00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,440 Speaker 1: I know you loved a group that God wants to 1214 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 1: use you and some of you. You can do a 1215 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,839 Speaker 1: group in your church and be a blessing. Hey, thank 1216 00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:53,279 Speaker 1: you for watching. We'll see you next time. 1217 00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:57,120 Speaker 9: Bye bye for today.