Speaker 1: The second date of dates. Most women have their own
Speaker 1: unwritten rules they set down for a first date. Now,
Speaker 1: Alexis might not agree because these rules I found online
Speaker 1: were written by men, but I think they're still pretty good.
Speaker 1: Like that, you think that number one always be willing
Speaker 1: to pay for half? Should I stop there? Or do
Speaker 1: you want me to? I didn't even get to don't
Speaker 1: drink too much? The best dates of sober date Man?
Speaker 2: Why find this? Why would Alexis want to remember?
Speaker 1: Anyway? We have a woman on the phone, Nam Katrina,
Speaker 1: who has her own unwritten rule for dates that she
Speaker 1: brings someone along on her first one every time. Wow, Katrina,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: I think I'm more amazed that you can find someone
Speaker 3: to come with you every time, you know, like once
Speaker 3: or twice as a friend. Then I'm like, girl, I
Speaker 3: am not going on your eighth first date.
Speaker 2: Don't even want to go on their own dates?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: Well, if you would pay for half of the meal,
Speaker 1: then people would be more than excited to hang out
Speaker 1: with you. And if you have a third you can
Speaker 1: triple it. You can split by three. There you go,
Speaker 1: But uh, we want to learn about you and your
Speaker 1: dating life, Katrina, so tell us. Who do you like
Speaker 1: to bring along on your dates with you? Like a friend?
Speaker 5: Honestly, I like to ask my mom to come.
Speaker 1: Oh god, why psychok No, hold on before you say anything.
Speaker 1: I love moms.
Speaker 2: If a girls shout up with her mom on a date,
Speaker 2: I'd be so happy. No, you would not. That would
Speaker 2: give me a hug.
Speaker 1: I'll get your approval.
Speaker 2: For a first date. Why would you do that?
Speaker 5: Well, I have my mom kind of creep in the background.
Speaker 5: It's not like she's sitting with us or anything like,
Speaker 5: just to make sure that, like the vibes are right
Speaker 5: and that I'm safe and you know, you never know.
Speaker 1: Some going to make sure your form is right on
Speaker 1: the kiss too, so some moms in You mean, she's
Speaker 1: just like a random person at the bar. Do you
Speaker 1: introduce her to your dates?
Speaker 5: No, spot on, She's just a random per it's not
Speaker 5: at the bar.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's better.
Speaker 2: It's better, it's better, that is I mean, it's okay.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, girl, I'm glad you're here. I'm glad you listen.
Speaker 2: That feels unhealthy to me.
Speaker 1: Really, Brooke doesn't want to let her children leave the
Speaker 1: house until they're thirty years old.
Speaker 2: I mean, I say that, but I don't really want
Speaker 2: that to happen, just.
Speaker 1: Like you know, Brook is definitely going to be on
Speaker 1: the first dates with But hold on, let me just
Speaker 1: cut a steak really quickly, and then you guys continue.
Speaker 2: So I'm guessing the mom went on this one.
Speaker 1: We're being so judging here. We haven't even heard the
Speaker 1: date yet. Tell us about what what you guys did.
Speaker 1: And this guy that you went out with, Well.
Speaker 5: To start at the beginning, this guy Jeremy, I met
Speaker 5: him on I know you're gonna roll your eyes. I
Speaker 5: met him on gender.
Speaker 1: But that's way better.
Speaker 2: Than the first thing you started this.
Speaker 1: We're gonna try not to judge. Keep going. You met
Speaker 1: him online, all right, Well we got.
Speaker 5: On gender, and honestly, we hit it off pretty quick,
Speaker 5: but like it kind of seems stagnant, like it wasn't
Speaker 5: going anywhere. Like we talked for a few weeks, but
Speaker 5: most just talked about food, like we're both just big footies.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, nice, Okay, so yeah, but it felt like
Speaker 3: it was kind of stalling where you say.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I sort of just had to be like, hey,
Speaker 5: are we going on a date or are we just
Speaker 5: going to sit here and like talk about food that
Speaker 5: we're not ever going to keep together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, some guys do need that. They need that
Speaker 1: extra push to be like, hey, ask me out already.
Speaker 5: Right and after a matter of week, I'm gonna say
Speaker 5: something like I am that girl.
Speaker 2: So assertive and then bring your mom. I love it
Speaker 2: the first part.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. We do this segment to find out
Speaker 1: what things you love and what things you don't. We
Speaker 1: got to figure out what Katrina did for her date here. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Katrina, where did you and your mom go?
Speaker 5: Okay, well he suggested sushi?
Speaker 2: Love that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I chose the restaurant because I knew where
Speaker 5: it was my mom and I've been there before, so
Speaker 5: that was also helpful.
Speaker 2: And so you're excited about this date.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm all in. I'm ready to go. And
Speaker 5: so I end up carpooling there with my mom and
Speaker 5: we get there like a little early, obviously because I
Speaker 5: don't want to get busted, But I have mom posts
Speaker 5: up at the bar and he and I meet up
Speaker 5: and everything's pretty normal at this point.
Speaker 3: Can I ask, like, when you're separated from your mother,
Speaker 3: are you guys like secretly meeting in the bathroom at
Speaker 3: any point are you giving each other signals.
Speaker 2: On the date?
Speaker 5: Not necessarily. I mean there was one point when like
Speaker 5: I got up to go to the bathroom and like
Speaker 5: I definitely did just one quick check in with her.
Speaker 1: Okay, you guy's risky.
Speaker 2: I look so much like my mom. If someone saw
Speaker 2: me talking, you know, a million.
Speaker 1: Percent totally, Yeah, the date would probably leave you for
Speaker 1: your mom because it sounds like if you only checked
Speaker 1: in with your mom once, the date must have been
Speaker 1: going pretty well.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean we were making quick work at the
Speaker 5: sushi menu. We did it all, from sushi to sashimi
Speaker 5: to seaweed salad. We had a little bit of everything.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're leaning in on the body connection, you guys.
Speaker 5: Have, yes, definitely, So like it was pretty chill.
Speaker 1: How does a mom date end?
Speaker 2: Like does she watch you?
Speaker 1: Guys? I'm being serious.
Speaker 2: Because he can't walk her to the car because it's
Speaker 2: her mom.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like my mom has the keys, Yeah.
Speaker 6: Right now, Well.
Speaker 5: We went outside and yes, I have to get in
Speaker 5: the car with my mom, so like I have to
Speaker 5: finesse this. So im like, hey, this was great, and
Speaker 5: I like gave him a big kiss, but like he
Speaker 5: kind of did seem a little surprised by that.
Speaker 1: You initiated it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, again, I am that girl.
Speaker 2: That's rare in front of your mom.
Speaker 1: Was it in front of your mom? Did you see?
Speaker 5: I mean yeah, she was like lurking in the background, lurking.
Speaker 2: Okay, and what do you mean? He seems surprised by
Speaker 2: the kiss. How so?
Speaker 5: I don't know, Like I kind of just threw it
Speaker 5: out there. It was quick. He was kind of like,
Speaker 5: looks like he was reeling a tiny bit.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 6: We did just eat a bunch of sushi.
Speaker 5: That could be on me.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was weird for him because his dad was
Speaker 1: also there juke box. The mom's over by the bar. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the grandparents are in the car outside. Everybody's watching.
Speaker 2: It happens. I will love it so hard, honestly.
Speaker 1: I really hope not, but maybe it will. If we
Speaker 1: come back, they'll call Jeremy for you and try and
Speaker 1: get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 5: Thank you hold on.
Speaker 1: Updates if you're just joining us for the second date update.
Speaker 1: We're on the phone with Katrina, whose first date would
Speaker 1: be an absolute nightmare for most of us in this room,
Speaker 1: but for her, it's totally normal to bring along her
Speaker 1: mom as the third wheel, just make sure that everything's
Speaker 1: going right. As far as we can tell, her date,
Speaker 1: Jeremy did not know that her mom was even there
Speaker 1: the whole time, watching, peeping in on their first kiss. Katrina,
Speaker 1: did you hold your finger up to give mom a
Speaker 1: count down so that she knew the kiss was about
Speaker 1: to happen? It would have been kind of romantic.
Speaker 4: Well, I think.
Speaker 5: Everyone was caught off guard by the kiss, Mom included.
Speaker 2: For some reason.
Speaker 3: I just imagine your mother in the window of that
Speaker 3: sushi restaurant just banging on it, saying, wait.
Speaker 2: To go, honey.
Speaker 5: Well, thank god that didn't happen.
Speaker 1: Okay, But after the date, your mom did approve of him?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, definitely okay, and.
Speaker 2: We never asked either.
Speaker 3: Have you talked to him since I know that you
Speaker 3: said the kiss took him off guard?
Speaker 2: But maybe have you heard anything?
Speaker 5: Eh? No, That's why I'm calling you. It's been awkward.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's up, weird, and hopefully we can
Speaker 1: help smooth things over. We're about to call your boy
Speaker 1: here and hopefully turn Katrina and Jeremy into the power couple.
Speaker 1: Katrami got a nice ring to it.
Speaker 2: Did we need to dial her mom in on the
Speaker 2: other line.
Speaker 1: I'm sure she's watching through one of the windows of
Speaker 1: the studio. I'm gonna dial him right now. Let's do it.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, is this Jeremy?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Who's this? Uh?
Speaker 1: We're we're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey, Jeremy, how are you doing up?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 6: Hey?
Speaker 1: Quite the talker.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So a tough nut to crack, jeff maybe.
Speaker 1: But hopefully we can because we're trying to help out
Speaker 1: one of our listeners with this segment we're doing called
Speaker 1: a second Date Update. Basically, you went out with a
Speaker 1: girl named Katrina the other night to a sushi restaurant,
Speaker 1: and we're trying to kind of pick your brain about it.
Speaker 6: Uh, yeah, that was a scam.
Speaker 2: What what did you say? Scam?
Speaker 1: Like you scammed her?
Speaker 6: No, No, I think she's got some kind of operations
Speaker 6: is running.
Speaker 1: Can you please elaborate because we have no idea what
Speaker 1: you're talking about.
Speaker 3: She did not allude to any sort of scam when
Speaker 3: we talked to her.
Speaker 7: It was a date, right, Well, all right, we went
Speaker 7: to a sushi restaurant, We ordered a ton of food.
Speaker 6: Okay, so at the end, the bill came, and you know,
Speaker 6: I have a policy. I'll pay for the first day
Speaker 6: usually more than that.
Speaker 4: I just think it's the right thing to do. Although,
Speaker 4: I mean, we had a big night. We ordered a
Speaker 4: lot of food. So the guy came and she put
Speaker 4: down her card too, and I would say, all right,
Speaker 4: thank god that one I don't have to pay for
Speaker 4: this all. But two that that's nice of her to,
Speaker 4: like I said, I'd get it. But then she threw
Speaker 4: out her card, so I was like, all right, that's
Speaker 4: cool for birth Yeah, that's.
Speaker 1: Really considerate, Alexis. It is a nice thing. Guys appreciate
Speaker 1: that and like that about women.
Speaker 3: Whatever.
Speaker 1: I mean, consider it for next time.
Speaker 2: Get my card, Jeff. She says, oh, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: So sorry, Jeremy.
Speaker 4: Keep going, well, but hold on because the bill came
Speaker 4: and I got my card back, and I saw I
Speaker 4: had still been charged for everything.
Speaker 6: And I had a quick moment of what's happening. And
Speaker 6: then he turned to her and said, and here's your
Speaker 6: loyalty card.
Speaker 2: What oh, so that's her.
Speaker 1: Favorite sushi play?
Speaker 2: Wait, so like she threw it down.
Speaker 3: So like, if you order ten rolls to give the
Speaker 3: eleventh free or something like that type of deal.
Speaker 2: Is that what you mean?
Speaker 6: She was getting some kind of like reward points for
Speaker 6: all the money I just spent.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, that's a scam.
Speaker 2: Like why wouldn't she throw it down? Like you're eating there?
Speaker 2: You don't have a loyalty card.
Speaker 1: It's weird that she would get all the benefits from
Speaker 1: their meal together that he paid for. She should have said, hey, here,
Speaker 1: if you want, you can join.
Speaker 2: Someone buys me Starbucks. It's so hard for me not
Speaker 2: to put my rewards, are right, I don't know that
Speaker 2: that's a scam. I bet she just didn't even think
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: How much was it? How much was the bill that
Speaker 1: you paid? She has got to be a hundred or so.
Speaker 6: I think it was closer to like two hundred bugs.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I.
Speaker 6: Say it's the scam because I just suddenly got a
Speaker 6: flash of her taking like every internet guy to this
Speaker 6: one place and like racking up art.
Speaker 2: I'm racking up the free California rolls and nobody.
Speaker 1: Even knows you're gonna You're creating a little monster in
Speaker 1: our studio.
Speaker 2: My friends right now. I'm sorry. That is a big accusation.
Speaker 1: It is weird that none of that came up when
Speaker 1: we talked to her so much.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you she doesn't even think about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she just takes money from guys and gets the
Speaker 1: rewards for herself. Okay, we need to clear this up
Speaker 1: and actually have Katrina on the line. She is on
Speaker 1: the phone already, by the way, Jerry, wanting to talk
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 2: Does it feel less scammy?
Speaker 6: What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how this segment works. We have them listening
Speaker 1: quietly and then have them jump in.
Speaker 2: That feels normal.
Speaker 5: Okay, sir, respectfully, what are you talking about? Like I'm running.
Speaker 5: You suggested sushi. I suggested the restaurant.
Speaker 2: Oh, she got you.
Speaker 6: Wait a minute, wait, you just said you picked the place.
Speaker 5: You picked sushi. So what I was going to talk
Speaker 5: to you for weeks on the off cans you would
Speaker 5: land on sushi even though I told you pick absolutely anything.
Speaker 6: Wait wait a minute, just answer me. Yes, you have
Speaker 6: you taken other Internet dates to that same place?
Speaker 5: Oh? Quite frankly, that is none of your business. And
Speaker 5: you know that's where my mom and I like to go.
Speaker 5: It's our favorite restaurant, she and I.
Speaker 1: So yeah, because you get all the free food there
Speaker 1: comes on you guys, Jeffery, you really think that she
Speaker 1: is going to spend hours talking to men.
Speaker 3: Then hours going out on terrible dates with them, like
Speaker 3: it is not worth Like I can't imagine all of
Speaker 3: that energy being worth whatever you end up getting.
Speaker 1: I guess I do, see, Brooks, you can be running
Speaker 1: a tighter scam than this to get them in. Maybe
Speaker 1: you need to like streamline this.
Speaker 6: Six thank you.
Speaker 2: The reward is not worth the efforts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, maybe I'm to buy some gift cards too.
Speaker 1: Next time you're there.
Speaker 6: You keep saying it's not worth it, then why would
Speaker 6: you bother putting down your card.
Speaker 5: You offered to pay, I said thank you because that
Speaker 5: is the appropriate response, And then I brought my loyalty
Speaker 5: card down. I'm not going to let one hundred and
Speaker 5: sixty bucks, like one hundred dollars bill go without like
Speaker 5: just putting points on my card like you're paying for anyway,
Speaker 5: Like why not it?
Speaker 1: So you said you and your mom go there? Did
Speaker 1: you use the loyalty points from this date on the
Speaker 1: next time that you and your mom went an ate there?
Speaker 2: Why would it matter?
Speaker 1: I'm just curious.
Speaker 5: I always use my loyalty card when we go and
Speaker 5: eat there. And yeah, we went there like a week
Speaker 5: or so after the date that he and I had,
Speaker 5: so like technically probably, but I had a lot of
Speaker 5: points on that card.
Speaker 1: You paid for several meals.
Speaker 2: You guys, you bought her mom dinner. Yes, I don't
Speaker 2: know why he's.
Speaker 3: So upset about this. Still, I totally you don't see
Speaker 3: an issue with this.
Speaker 5: Here's the thing, after hearing the way this man feels
Speaker 5: about me because I'm apparently a scam artist, let me
Speaker 5: just pull the curtain all the way back. Let's get
Speaker 5: real right now. Sure, the week or so after when
Speaker 5: I went there with my mom was not even the
Speaker 5: most important time that I went there with my mom.
Speaker 5: I think the most note for the time is the
Speaker 5: fact that my mother was there when we were on
Speaker 5: the state in the first place. She was at the bar.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know if Jeremy knew that that's not
Speaker 1: a real bomb you think it is.
Speaker 5: Sure she was just watching to make sure that I
Speaker 5: don't get I don't know, murdered.
Speaker 3: And then.
Speaker 1: Jeremy, you gave off Do you feel like you maybe
Speaker 1: gave off some murdery vibes when you matched with her online?
Speaker 2: Her mom was going to save her.
Speaker 6: You thought I was going to murder you in the
Speaker 6: sushi restaurant.
Speaker 1: Maybe not in the restaurant, but maybe in the parking lot. Probably, Yeah,
Speaker 1: after you pay the bill, ob Yeah, they need the
Speaker 1: loyalty points.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think the more important point is did you hear
Speaker 2: that her mom was there?
Speaker 6: I don't even understand your mom is chaperone your days?
Speaker 5: Your Yeah, because there's a bunch of weirdos on the internet,
Speaker 5: so you have to be careful.
Speaker 1: People the internet weird you. Well, it's so romantic at
Speaker 1: this point, I just have to ask if you two
Speaker 1: would like to go out on another date. Moms and
Speaker 1: parents all invited, and Jeremy, we're going to pay for
Speaker 1: it this time.
Speaker 2: We'll give you your own punch card. Yeah.
Speaker 6: What do you think, Jeremy, This is like more twisted
Speaker 6: than I even imagine.
Speaker 1: There's no scam here. We'll pay for everything.
Speaker 6: Let her go out with their mom. I'm done, but
Speaker 6: they would.
Speaker 2: Like to do that.
Speaker 1: So the royalty points are running low, though, So who's
Speaker 1: going to pay for that?
Speaker 6: You guys? Will You already said you were going to
Speaker 6: give me a guest card.
Speaker 1: No, you're running a scam on us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I don't know. She's really good at it, though,
Speaker 2: I'm still okay with that.
Speaker 1: I know, four hundred.
Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Wow, it's been a while since we've had fireworks like
Speaker 1: that happened between two of our callers, and this time
Speaker 1: it was all because of using a loyalty card on
Speaker 1: a date.
Speaker 2: Wow, is it really that bad?
Speaker 1: The whole time I recently was on a date and
Speaker 1: they asked me ify the loyalty card. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, look up my number and it was
Speaker 1: a whole process and they did, though they found it.
Speaker 1: The bad part about it is that she didn't say
Speaker 1: she was using a loyalty car. Yeah, she made it
Speaker 1: seem like she was going to pay for the date,
Speaker 1: but then was like, oh, by the way, you're paying
Speaker 1: for everything and I'm taking all the points. She should
Speaker 1: have just been like, hey, they have a loyal program here,
Speaker 1: I'm a part of it. If you want to, you know,
Speaker 1: you can sign up.
Speaker 2: But scam artist over a loyalty card.
Speaker 1: I don't know, jeff we get why Brooke is so
Speaker 1: offended by this because she's a staunch advocate of loyalty card. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got thirty seven in her purse right now. It's
Speaker 1: not everyone.
Speaker 3: If I know that I'm going to go back there
Speaker 3: in five years, I will still keep my loyalty number.
Speaker 1: Is that really loyalty?
Speaker 6: Brook?
Speaker 1: If you have every single grocery store.
Speaker 2: If I'm gonna save ten cents, it is worth it, Touning.
Speaker 2: I love a good coupon.
Speaker 1: Remember you can listen to all of our second dates
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Speaker 1: you can always email the show. We'll call that person
Speaker 1: who's not calling you back.