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Speaker 1: All right, So it's Bethany and Brynn and this is

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Speaker 1: mo embarrassment. So we were in the pool this weekend

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Speaker 1: and I was talking to Brent about a couple of

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Speaker 1: things that happened, and I gave her my perspective because

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Speaker 1: I know it all, and then she gave me her perspective,

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Speaker 1: and I was kind of shocked by her perspective on

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Speaker 1: some things that I think are clear as day. So

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you a couple of things that

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Speaker 1: happened that I've talked to you guys about I've talked

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Speaker 1: about on TikTok. People have really related, moms have related,

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Speaker 1: moms of tweens have related. And then Brinn's going to

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Speaker 1: give me her perspective on the topic, so you can

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Speaker 1: see what a tween is thinking. It's sort of like

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Speaker 1: a she said, she said. So last weekend, I was

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Speaker 1: invited to a party by a friend of mine who

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Speaker 1: I know in the Hamptons, who lives really close and

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Speaker 1: they have a daughter who Brinnan notes she happens to

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Speaker 1: The mom invited me and said, if you and Brynn

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Speaker 1: there'll be a lot of adults there. We'll have drinks

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Speaker 1: and food, et cetera. So what kind of in fairness

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Speaker 1: We were both invited, but they were letting me know

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Speaker 1: that goes all in. They do candy trucks, and they

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Speaker 1: to look forward to. Brynn would never miss it now.

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Speaker 1: So I was tired that day and I was going

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Speaker 1: to look cute and go with her, but instead I said,

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Speaker 1: She's I said, just I'm sitting here outside. Just text

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Speaker 2: In two days.

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Speaker 1: And I show up and I walk into the party

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Speaker 1: And there was another mom who had another Brin and oh,

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Speaker 1: know where my child is. I'm in a big house,

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Speaker 1: And I go up and I'm like, hi, briand Hi,

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Speaker 3: Said, I did half of it? You really did you

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Speaker 1: I said did you do everything? Like?

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Speaker 3: No, I did like half? You didn't do that?

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Speaker 1: I was like no, no, But what was your face

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Speaker 1: So I asked the bad question of did you do everything?

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Speaker 1: Say, so, why was the sight of mate?

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Speaker 3: It was kind of just because I didn't know you

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Speaker 1: Your face was like horrified and terrorized. Yeah, I was scared,

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Speaker 1: But what were you scared of? Exactly?

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Speaker 3: No, because like you weren't supposed to go, and then

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Speaker 1: It was jarring. Yeah, but there were like fifty parents there.

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Speaker 1: But still so you didn't let's be honest, did you

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Speaker 1: It was kind of like whoa? But what was So

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Speaker 3: Yes, but no, because then when we were by the

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Speaker 3: Later you came up to me. It's like, wait, were

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Speaker 1: When? Did I ask you about food or not yet?

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Speaker 1: I didn't ask you about food yet.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to say hi, like or like you like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah? And I was like over there and I thought no,

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Speaker 1: First, at my friend's house, she was in the pool

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Speaker 1: You were in the hot tub, and I saw your

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Speaker 3: I didn't really care about that. Okay, we were going.

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Speaker 1: Wait, you were in the hot tub and I came

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Speaker 3: Yes, And then I thought when you were coming over.

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Speaker 3: I thought, oh, no, is she mad at me because

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Speaker 3: my god, that's the one. We got a love shit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened what she's trying to describe is,

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Speaker 1: I was asking a very basic question. She was very mad.

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Speaker 1: And I was like I don't know why, I why

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Speaker 1: talk about her friend's thing, and I said Brinn come here,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, such cute shoes, which was very weird

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Speaker 1: And she told me why did you and why did

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Speaker 3: Because I wanted to like distract you or like make

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Speaker 3: that when she was maybe I shouldn't yell you guy,

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Speaker 1: When have I ever yelled at you in a public place,

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Speaker 3: Never you've like been like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You thought I was mad at you, Yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: It would have been like a subtle, like intense reprimanding

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Speaker 1: you were at the pool before. So you cut me

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Speaker 1: off at the past by complimenting my shoes, which was

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Speaker 1: total bs because you know those shoes and like, I

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Speaker 1: know we bought them together at Love Shot, right, but

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Speaker 1: explain to them how you did it. Go tell them

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Speaker 3: You were like came here and I was like okay.

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Speaker 3: So I was like slowly going out, I was looking

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Speaker 3: You no, because I thought you were gonna do both

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Speaker 3: Because I think it was a new boogie. I didn't

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Speaker 2: To know, all right.

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Speaker 1: So then we are at this party and they have

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Speaker 1: and I say, what do I like? What do I

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, No, I had pizza. I had. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I had pizza, and I was like okay. And then

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Speaker 1: no one else is eating my pizza. I had one pizza.

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Speaker 1: I'm just speaking to you, like I'm not on the

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Speaker 1: That was a no, no no, because you.

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Speaker 3: Started like rearranging the table and putting the pizza, like

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Speaker 1: I was like no, because there was a main food

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Speaker 1: Why was that not allowed?

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Speaker 3: No? It was just like you can't move it around,

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Speaker 1: Well, I didn't move anything I put it.

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Speaker 3: It was just like back away from it.

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Speaker 1: Why why am I supposed to back away from it?

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Speaker 1: So you're not embarrassed, yes, but why were you embarrassed

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: It was just like not mm hmm, but why what

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Speaker 3: I was just feeling like no, because you're rearranging it.

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Speaker 1: What was I rearranging?

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Speaker 3: You're like rearranging the table and moving I did.

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Speaker 1: Not rearrange one thing. I put a box down.

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Speaker 3: On the side, I know, but that was rearranging.

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Speaker 1: I just put a box down on a table at

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Speaker 3: I know, but I was like pretty caught off guard

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Speaker 1: Why why live your life? I'm living mine.

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Speaker 3: What you were talking to me? And you were like,

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, by the way, another news

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Speaker 1: splash a boy my child, which is not gonna fly.

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Speaker 1: She's an overstayer. The imitation said till seven. It was

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Speaker 1: I'm like, get your ass, we're moving, we're leaving. We're

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Speaker 1: not that no, And so at that point I was like,

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Speaker 1: what do I do to mom? Do not tick the pizza?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: But but I was right there. It wasn't like I

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Speaker 3: You pulled up your phone on Instagram to take a picture.

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Speaker 1: Oh hold on, back up, No, no, no, there's a

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Speaker 1: I said, let's it wasn't Instagram, It's just a regular

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Speaker 3: You were gonna be like, hey, guys, me and the

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Speaker 1: So I said, take a picture of me. No, that's

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Speaker 1: when that that's when it escalated. I go, will you

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Speaker 3: That was very extreme, though, because I thought it was

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Speaker 3: none of this is extreme.

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Speaker 1: That was very Oh that was extreme. Like putting a

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Speaker 1: did you want me to put the box of pizza?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You're supposed to leave it and walk

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Speaker 1: She didn't let me take it and it went in

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Speaker 1: the garbage. That piece of pizza. No one, it's a

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Speaker 3: I don't know to tell you, mom. But when we

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Speaker 1: You thought I was.

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Speaker 3: People were like looking, my friends were near, so I

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, so do you am I embarrassing?

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Speaker 3: No, it's just like the fact that.

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Speaker 1: Just tell me truth of all the parents, what.

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Speaker 3: My embarrassing parent are not? No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: But you're embarrassed at me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like exactly. That's how it works.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: Wait, on a one to ten, you don't have to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I like embarrassing parents.

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Speaker 1: But just not your own.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So on a one to ten, the most embarrassing parent

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Speaker 3: What am I You're like a six and a half seven.

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Speaker 1: So fairly embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: No, but like, because that's just going from my perspective,

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Speaker 3: like I don't have to ask my friends how embarrassing anymore?

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Speaker 1: Well, when I wanted to bring balloons to your concert, that.

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Speaker 3: That thought, Oh my god, that was not You sent

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Speaker 3: me a picture of it beforehand. It was like a

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Speaker 3: and no one brought flowers.

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Speaker 1: But what about the fact that I asked you ahead

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Speaker 2: That was nice?

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Speaker 3: That was good. I was happy with that. I know

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Speaker 3: I would have literally if you came in with the basket,

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Speaker 3: I would have walked away.

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Speaker 1: Pretend you don't know.

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Speaker 2: Ye