WEBVTT - Get Good With Money (How-To Monday)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, ba fan, we got another throwback episode for you.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, happy throwback Monday. We're going to make that

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<v Speaker 1>a thing, Okay. In this how to episode, we dug

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<v Speaker 1>up from the archives of Brown Ambition. We are talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how to finally Get Good with Money. We talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Tiffany's groundbreaking New York Times best selling book Get

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<v Speaker 1>Good with Money, that continues to fly off the shelves. Y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>She sells probably more books in a single week three

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<v Speaker 1>years after her book launch than most authors will sell

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<v Speaker 1>in their first year. Okay, let that sink in. That

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<v Speaker 1>is the force of nature that Tiffany is. And how

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<v Speaker 1>good this damn book is?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>On this episode, we're going to talk about the core

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<v Speaker 1>principles of financial wholeness that she covers in the book.

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<v Speaker 1>I even take the financial Wholeness quiz to see how

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<v Speaker 1>whole I am. And plus we ask and answer a

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<v Speaker 1>question should you drain your savings to pay off debt?

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<v Speaker 1>All of this and more in this episode of b

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<v Speaker 1>a throwback.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Hey, hey, we're back. We're black, We're blue bound,

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<v Speaker 3>am bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>We're having a book, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>What we are having a book? So I have to

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<v Speaker 3>give you guys the epic. Hey, Hey, hey, oh my gosh, Mandra, yes, this.

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<v Speaker 2>Is your week. My baby's here, my reel's.

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<v Speaker 3>Here, Oh my, go's a book. I know it feels

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<v Speaker 3>surreal because I went into Barnes and Nobles today and

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<v Speaker 3>at first I didn't see it and then I saw

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<v Speaker 3>it and I was like, you know, I do not

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<v Speaker 3>explain it, but I'll just say this that eleven or

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<v Speaker 3>twelve years ago whatever, like my first book, One Week Budget,

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<v Speaker 3>which I self published, came out. I went to Barnes

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<v Speaker 3>and Nobles and because a friend of mine was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I got a new camera. Do you have pictures? And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like no, He's like, you want pictures. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I guess. So my roommate at the time,

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<v Speaker 3>because you know sisters broke, I was living in a room,

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<v Speaker 3>so literally roommates at the time. Lauren was a budding

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<v Speaker 3>makeup artist and I was like, Lauren, Ricky bought a

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<v Speaker 3>camera and he said he wants to take pictures, and

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<v Speaker 3>he said, bring my books to Barnes and Nobles. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know what he had in mind. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to bring my favorite almost church dress but

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<v Speaker 3>looks on professional dress. Can you do my face, and

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<v Speaker 3>she was like, sure, I don't know why we didn't

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<v Speaker 3>do faces at home, but we did it in the

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<v Speaker 3>bathroom at Barnes and Nobles. And I got dressed in

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Bar's not even in the car, just in the nasty bathroom. Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I came out and put like eleven books

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<v Speaker 3>on the shelf, and Ricky with his new big camera,

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<v Speaker 3>proceeded to snep and I'm ever thinking. I didn't even think, like,

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<v Speaker 3>is this allowed? It wasn't because the manager comes over

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<v Speaker 3>and says, you can't do that, you cannot do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like what. So Ricky and all his brazenness, says,

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<v Speaker 3>keep posting. So he's like, what we'll leave. I'm so like,

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<v Speaker 3>just imagine what we'll leave. I'm sorry, okay. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I have these pictures and I cannot wait because I'll

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<v Speaker 3>be posting on my social the epic how it started.

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<v Speaker 3>And yesterday I went to well, today I went to

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<v Speaker 3>Barnes and Nobles with my book legally on the bookshelves

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<v Speaker 3>and legally taking pictures to how it's going. So I

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<v Speaker 3>can't wait to put up side by side. You can

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<v Speaker 3>see my locks are way longer. I got you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a few extra pounds on my booty. But my book

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<v Speaker 3>is on this shelf for real this time, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>my face on it. It just it still hasn't hit

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm not gonna lie. It still feels like I

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<v Speaker 3>put my book on the shelf, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But you walked in there and it was just someone

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<v Speaker 1>else put it on their tip.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know, I know, I did know the lady

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<v Speaker 3>I asked her. I was like, am I allowed to

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<v Speaker 3>push these to the front because they had them on

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<v Speaker 3>like the third sholf. I was like, yeah, I'd like

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<v Speaker 3>it right here eye level. She was like, yes, Wait

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<v Speaker 3>are you the author? I said I am, And she

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<v Speaker 3>was like, well you sign them. I'm like, am I allowed?

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<v Speaker 3>She said yeah. She said, as a matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 3>let me go get stickers because we actually have stickers

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<v Speaker 3>that say autographed. That was like, oh, oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>So she was so awesome. Shout out to Laura of

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<v Speaker 3>Barnes and Nobles in Clifton, New Jersey. I signed the

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<v Speaker 3>books there and she took pictures of me signing the books.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, she asked me if she could post them

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<v Speaker 3>to our so to their social I said absolutely, and

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<v Speaker 3>I brought my friend Rihanna with me. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 3>did a whole photo shoot, we did video, we did boomerangs,

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<v Speaker 3>we did girl I went live, I did all the things. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>but it just like it's so crazy because it's been

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<v Speaker 3>such hard work. I mean, y'all know I work hard,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's a different level of hard work. Pushing out

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<v Speaker 3>this book. It was a different level. And yet this week,

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<v Speaker 3>because this is launch week, it's a very important week.

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<v Speaker 3>This week determines, you know, you're going to make New

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<v Speaker 3>York Times bestseller. This week determines a lot like do

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<v Speaker 3>people want to work with you again? It's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like very few books do poorly in the first week

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<v Speaker 3>and then go on to greatness. Like you know, this

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<v Speaker 3>kind of sets the tone. And yet I'm going into

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<v Speaker 3>this week feeling really calm because my team and I

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<v Speaker 3>have already done like the work. We've already sold thousands

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<v Speaker 3>of thousands and thousands of books already, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>just think the audience is ready. Honestly, I encourage you

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<v Speaker 3>to go into Barns and Noble put my book in

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<v Speaker 3>the front, because don't let them play you if my

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<v Speaker 3>book is not on the new Because there's like there's

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<v Speaker 3>a section that says new nonfiction. If it's just in

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<v Speaker 3>the regular finance or business section, be like, cis, this

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<v Speaker 3>is a brand new book. It needs to be here

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<v Speaker 3>because some of the Barnes and Nobles can decide where

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<v Speaker 3>they want to put it. But if you know, if

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<v Speaker 3>you ask, they will put it in the new section

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<v Speaker 3>because it deserves to be in the new section so

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<v Speaker 3>people can see. But yeah, it just feels like surreal

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<v Speaker 3>because you know what, Like what's best of all is

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<v Speaker 3>that it's a good book. And I'm usually hard on myself,

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<v Speaker 3>you know me, Man, I'm like, yeah, I guess, like,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's a good book. I feel really proud that,

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<v Speaker 3>like I wrote something that's actually good and it's going

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<v Speaker 3>to be really helpful and it's really just going to

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<v Speaker 3>transform people's lives. Like it's a good book. And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Tiffany, well done. I don't know the last

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<v Speaker 3>time I told myself well done. And I can honestly

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<v Speaker 3>say not the marketing, not that, but like the book itself,

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<v Speaker 3>I can honestly say, Tiffany, job, well done.

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<v Speaker 2>Snap.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the content matters, right, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just selling because I mean, of course, it's

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<v Speaker 1>selling because you're a marketing genius and Dreamcator Nation has

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<v Speaker 1>always had your back and all of that. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>when the product is good. It's good, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like where opportunity and preparation meet, that's when the real

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<v Speaker 1>magic happens. And I'm so excited. I get to watch

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<v Speaker 1>it all from my comfy chair and no pressure from land.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yo, baby, what will we do if it makes

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<v Speaker 3>any time?

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<v Speaker 2>Best?

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<v Speaker 3>So? Like, what will we do? Imagine?

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<v Speaker 1>I've been waiting for you to tell me where I

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<v Speaker 1>need to show up and how many confetti poppers to bring,

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<v Speaker 1>and like what's kind of champagne.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't like? So I can drink it by myself?

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't. I don't even know what I would. I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I just it's like my mind can't conceive. Like I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I said the Free School.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Oprah is listening in somewhere, or the

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<v Speaker 1>intern who works for the book people at Oprah Inc.

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<v Speaker 1>Or at Harpo and uh and own, Like, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all put a sticker on this book if she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>had a personal finance book in a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and a very long time ever, maybe not since

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<v Speaker 2>David Bach or.

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<v Speaker 1>Susie your Come. This has Oprah Oprah, don't let respeach

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<v Speaker 1>you to this girl, don't let respeech you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oprah is a Oprah's favorite thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We need the Oprah's Book Club to take notice because,

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<v Speaker 1>especially at this moment in our country, people have been drugged,

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<v Speaker 1>especially black and brown people have been.

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<v Speaker 2>Dragged through it this year.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is at a great self to the

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<v Speaker 1>hearts of you know a lot of people who are

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like we have been left behind by this financial

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<v Speaker 1>system and we have been left behind in so many ways.

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<v Speaker 1>And Tiffany, this book is like the great equalizer.

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<v Speaker 3>You know. Somebody that like I was on this podcast

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<v Speaker 3>called it. I think it's the root. It's lit. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a literary podcast. And these just these two sisters who

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<v Speaker 3>love reading and books. And one of them gave me

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<v Speaker 3>like the best compliments. She was like, girl, first are one.

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<v Speaker 3>I cried. I'm like what, She's like, what finance book

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<v Speaker 3>makes you cry? Not like a cry and a hopeless

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<v Speaker 3>but like, oh my god, it's for me. And she

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<v Speaker 3>told me She's like, this is not nobody's finance book, Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, it's equal parts memoir because you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>share my story because I want to normalize the financial

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<v Speaker 3>drama and trauma. It's okay, we've all been through it.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, equal parts guide because it's an actual step

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<v Speaker 3>by step this is how you fix, maintain, grow whatever

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<v Speaker 3>wherever you are financially. And she said equal parts self

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<v Speaker 3>help because it really does help you look at where

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<v Speaker 3>you are and learn not to judge yourself and to

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<v Speaker 3>be gentle and to give yourself space and grace to

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<v Speaker 3>grow and learn. And when she said that, when she

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<v Speaker 3>said like memoir guide and self help, I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what, She's right. She's like, I've never read a

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<v Speaker 3>finance book like this before. Tiffany. She's like, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>sitting with your sister girl, Who's like, all right, girl,

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<v Speaker 3>this is the weekend. We're gonna get our lives together.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's walk through it together. And I just that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted. I wanted a safe space for our women,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like b a listeners, a safe space for

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<v Speaker 3>you to go to grow when it came to your finances.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just like, yeah, to just hear from women

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<v Speaker 3>that it was intended for, saying like that's exactly how

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<v Speaker 3>I felt, you know, ye like it just just I'm like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>it just feels I don't even know, like it just

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<v Speaker 3>feel so so good and right. I mean, and also too,

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<v Speaker 3>I've been working with doctor Green. Doctor Green is a

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<v Speaker 3>miracle worker because I'm just in such a better space

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<v Speaker 3>now because I can actually feel you know, remember I

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<v Speaker 3>remember I was feeling less like a few so I

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<v Speaker 3>can actually think, I know, and that's what it's feeling like.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh my gosh, like my synapses are waking

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<v Speaker 3>up again. I'm like, I feel things, but it just

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<v Speaker 3>feels it just feels like really good. I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm like Tiffany, it's okay to say you're

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<v Speaker 3>proud of yourself, and I am, and just everybody that's

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<v Speaker 3>made it happen, the budgetest, the boosters that I tapped into.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know me, I don't believe in gurus and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna pretend to be your guru. And if

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<v Speaker 3>I'm getting information from someone who, you know, I think

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<v Speaker 3>is an expert in a space, then I believe that

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<v Speaker 3>they should get their shine. So I made a space,

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<v Speaker 3>like I made it my business to reach out to

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<v Speaker 3>people within the Brown Ambition financial like world to say, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>you know I trust you when it comes to this.

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<v Speaker 3>Tony Moore sister Georgetown graduates. I think she got her

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<v Speaker 3>master's and laws. She's my attorney and she does my

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<v Speaker 3>she's joined my estate plan. Like, girl, you are a

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<v Speaker 3>bad mambajama. And I don't want to pretend like I

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<v Speaker 3>know a state plan other than like the basics. Can

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<v Speaker 3>you help to pour into me so I can pour

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<v Speaker 3>it to the people and then I share this is Tony,

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<v Speaker 3>my budget needs to booster for this chapter. She's going

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<v Speaker 3>to be giving us advice along the way, and so

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<v Speaker 3>certainly you hear my voice, but they're boosting opportunities where

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<v Speaker 3>Tony jumps in with her expertise, and you'll see that

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<v Speaker 3>throughout the book. But that was intentional because I want

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<v Speaker 3>you the reader to know that no one has all

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<v Speaker 3>the answers, including me, especially me, and that and I

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<v Speaker 3>also do really believe like sharing the wealth because like

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<v Speaker 3>Sandy's in the book, Courtney from the Ivy Investor, Kevin

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<v Speaker 3>from Building Bread, Angelie who I love my cfps in

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<v Speaker 3>the book, you know we love Nativa the Frugal Credit

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<v Speaker 3>Nisa Kara the frugal feminista with her mindset stuff, ash

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<v Speaker 3>Cash with his mindset stuff. I really pulled out, like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, like just some amazing people and like

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<v Speaker 3>because you don't see their picture. What I love is

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<v Speaker 3>there's gonna be so many women who are not going

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<v Speaker 3>to realize, like I put all these brown people in

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<v Speaker 3>this book. Girl, that's right, you learn it from brown

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<v Speaker 3>folks today. Okay, let's get into.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get into what people are going to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of this book.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually went to ge God with Money dot

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<v Speaker 1>com and I took the financial Wholeness checklist quiz that

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to quiz a quiz.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you want to take the quiz, you can.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go to gg WM. That stands for Get

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<v Speaker 3>Good with Money, so ggwmquiz dot com. So if you

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<v Speaker 3>want to take the quiz that me and Mandy are

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<v Speaker 3>about to talk about, you can go and take the quiz.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like two minutes, you get your results, you get

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<v Speaker 3>your life, and then I send you like a checklist

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<v Speaker 3>like via email to keep with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I actually did the checklist to see how

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<v Speaker 1>financially whole am I and I thought for sure like

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<v Speaker 1>I've been talking to you for over five years once

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<v Speaker 1>a week, I should definitely be one hundred percent financially whole,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm only eighty percent whole. Okay, that's not only

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, that's great, only eighty percent and it

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<v Speaker 1>might be more like seventy five, but I give over four.

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<v Speaker 2>I give myself a full check.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's walk through. We'll walk through each of these

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<v Speaker 1>and then I will reveal where I am falling short.

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<v Speaker 1>But the basics right budget building. So with budget building,

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<v Speaker 1>what are we talking about here? And how in the

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<v Speaker 1>book does the wholeness checklist sort of play into the

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<v Speaker 1>overall message in the book.

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<v Speaker 3>So in the book I really lean into not just

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<v Speaker 3>like you know what you're missing, you know, but like

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<v Speaker 3>how do you fix it? How do you get there?

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<v Speaker 3>And so I want it to be clear like for

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<v Speaker 3>budget building, like it literally says like I have a

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<v Speaker 3>written and at least partially automated like transfer savings bills,

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<v Speaker 3>et cetera personal budget, and you have the necessary checking

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<v Speaker 3>and savings accounts to support my budget. That part is

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<v Speaker 3>really important because you ask people do you have a budget?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have? Is it written? Is it partially automated

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<v Speaker 3>is it?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have do you have the appropriate appropriate amount

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<v Speaker 3>of bank accounts? Okay? Sis? And you don't really fully

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<v Speaker 3>have a budget that's sustainable. And so the book teaches

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<v Speaker 3>you how to create this sustainable at least partially automated budget,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, because you know, like I said, people don't

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<v Speaker 3>really know what they don't know when it comes to like,

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<v Speaker 3>so what should my budget really look like? So that's

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<v Speaker 3>what you learn in the book. But I'm assuming that's

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<v Speaker 3>what you got to check on.

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<v Speaker 2>That you got that I gotta check.

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<v Speaker 1>And my favorite part of my budget is the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that I only had to do it once and then

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<v Speaker 1>I just automatically, Yes, like when I get my paycheck

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<v Speaker 1>or any income, I have automatic transfers going where they

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<v Speaker 1>need to go, so that when I look at my

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<v Speaker 1>checking account, it's just money that I know I can spend,

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<v Speaker 1>which is my favorite way to budget because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like spreadsheets.

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<v Speaker 2>All that much.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but number two new to budget, so save like

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<v Speaker 1>a squirrel, which I love this. I just picture a

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<v Speaker 1>squirrel eatings and ramen.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe a noodle budget got a beating this year.

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<v Speaker 1>This past year, noodle budgets have been beat. But you're

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<v Speaker 1>very specific about saying not just saving for three months

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<v Speaker 1>of necessary expenses I eat your noodle budget, but doing

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<v Speaker 1>it in an online only savings account.

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<v Speaker 2>Why online only in particular.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, because when your savings is next to your your

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<v Speaker 3>regular checking at your brick and mortar bank, it's so

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<v Speaker 3>easy to make that transfer, and it makes your money

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<v Speaker 3>too convenient that an online only savings account one you

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<v Speaker 3>get higher interests typically, I mean, you know, we know,

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<v Speaker 3>like interest rates are not the greatest right now for

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<v Speaker 3>savings accounts, but most importantly, it makes your money inconvenient.

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<v Speaker 3>If you were at Target, everybody's safe and you're like, oh, Target,

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<v Speaker 3>I want this blender even though I have a blender,

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<v Speaker 3>but this blender is a red blender, and you're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>checking accounts assists, you know we're empty. Stop your saving, says,

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<v Speaker 3>we have money, but we're supposed to be saving for

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, emergencies or save e for our house.

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<v Speaker 3>If your savings account is with your checking at the

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<v Speaker 3>same bank, that transfer is going to take seconds. If

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<v Speaker 3>it's at an online only bank, you're looking at minimum

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<v Speaker 3>twenty four hours the next day, sometimes up to seventy

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<v Speaker 3>two hours, depending if there's a holiday or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 3>online only savings makes your money inconvenient, and inconvenient money.

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<v Speaker 1>Get saved absolutely. I got to check for that hut.

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<v Speaker 1>Digging out of debt number three. So you're either debt

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<v Speaker 1>free or you have a clear picture of what and

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<v Speaker 1>who you owe the money too. And not only that,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've written down the components of each debt, like

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<v Speaker 1>how much you owe interest rates. I love how you

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<v Speaker 1>the first part of this one you think, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm debt free, but then you're like, that's not all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be like, do you have a written down?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know this?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know that?

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<v Speaker 2>And you're like, yeah, no, yes, yeah. So I've also ooh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is another one.

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<v Speaker 1>So not just that you you know you're digging out

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<v Speaker 1>of debt, but also you've identified and use a debt

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<v Speaker 1>paydown plan or online bill tool through your bank to

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<v Speaker 1>automate your payments. I did get a check for this

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<v Speaker 1>because all I have is my mortgage.

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<v Speaker 3>Good. And so here's the thing, Like, so first time

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<v Speaker 3>people debt free, that's great, but if you're not debt free,

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<v Speaker 3>you still can check this off. If you have you

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<v Speaker 3>are on you have a plan, and I show you

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<v Speaker 3>multiple types of plans, like you can use the snowball

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<v Speaker 3>method the avalanche method. I like the mix of the two.

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<v Speaker 3>But I even have this debt sheet in the book

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<v Speaker 3>that I give you in the back of the book.

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<v Speaker 3>But also the book comes with this toolkit that's available

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<v Speaker 3>at gig gods money dot com alongside the book, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I you know, I give you the template and

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<v Speaker 3>the resources to lay out your debt so you can

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<v Speaker 3>see them. And as long as you have a plan

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<v Speaker 3>to pay them off, and that plan is semi automated,

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<v Speaker 3>then you can check this off. I don't like when

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<v Speaker 3>it's like you can't check it off because I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>debt free. Well, sis, I have a mortgage. IM I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not not gonna check off this part because you know

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<v Speaker 3>thirty years from now, you know that's when of my

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<v Speaker 3>mortgage will be paid off. I'm like, no, as long

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<v Speaker 3>as you have a plan in place and a clear

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<v Speaker 3>picture of your debt, you can check this off as yep.

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<v Speaker 3>So now, Mandy, I see, okay, you're at thirty percent,

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<v Speaker 3>You've got your budget savings and your your you at

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<v Speaker 3>least have a debt.

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<v Speaker 1>Plan, yes, and next one score high credit. So making

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<v Speaker 1>sure you have you know where to get So you've

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<v Speaker 1>requested and received a copy of your free Fyco credit

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<v Speaker 1>report and your score, which you can get a free

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<v Speaker 1>credit score from just about anywhere these days, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>that you have at least a seven forty. Why seven

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<v Speaker 1>forty FIGHTO credit score?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is that so important?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, seven forty is the beginning of what's called typically

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<v Speaker 3>perfect credit, right, So it's not I mean eight. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>when it comes to FICO, we know the lowest is

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<v Speaker 3>three hundred, highs is a fifty, But seven forty is

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<v Speaker 3>the beginning of when you can get the best interest rate.

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<v Speaker 3>Like when you go for a mortgage, the literally the

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<v Speaker 3>banker will ask you do you have a seven forty

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<v Speaker 3>or better, because that's the number that you start to

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<v Speaker 3>get like, oh okay, well then you qualify for the

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<v Speaker 3>best interest rate. Anything below then, you know, doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 3>you won't get a good interest rate. You won't get

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<v Speaker 3>the best that's out there. So I tell people instead

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<v Speaker 3>of trying to stretch and reach for an eight to fifty,

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<v Speaker 3>which is great, but guess what, typically my seven forty

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<v Speaker 3>and you're a fifty will get me the same interest rates.

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<v Speaker 3>So seven forty is is just it's more than good enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I typically use Discover Scorecard to get your fighto, but

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<v Speaker 1>like every banks all offer them now, so it's really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course you can use you know, tools like

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<v Speaker 1>to get a credit score estimate through credit Carma or

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, but credit score card is my jam

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<v Speaker 1>and I am over seven forty.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, though, yeah, I don't think about it as much.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very stressful with the credit, you know, before

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<v Speaker 1>I got the mortgage. But these days I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you know, just good to have it if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever need an emergency loan or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, your credit score is really it's just something

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<v Speaker 1>to be maintained because you're gonna when you finally get

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<v Speaker 1>around to needing it, or needing to apply for credit

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<v Speaker 1>or something where they check your credit. It's it's like currency,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like the tipt the best.

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<v Speaker 3>So she said in the book that which I love.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, credit is like girl, I'm gonna need you

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<v Speaker 3>to know me before you need me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the way credit works. Absolutely. Okay, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not forty percent. Okay, fine, Fie, learn to earn or

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<v Speaker 1>increase income.

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<v Speaker 2>What's this one all about?

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<v Speaker 3>So if twenty twenty taught us nothing else, is that

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<v Speaker 3>we have to not that you have to be making

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<v Speaker 3>money from multiple sources, but you should know how to

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<v Speaker 3>that way. If you have to pivot to a different

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<v Speaker 3>source of income you can, or increase a secondary or

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<v Speaker 3>a third source of income, you can. So I want

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<v Speaker 3>you to identify ways you can contribute value to your job.

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<v Speaker 3>If you have a job and feel confident you can

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<v Speaker 3>leverage them to ask for a promotion or raise, I

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<v Speaker 3>teach you how to do that in the book. This

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<v Speaker 3>is a chapter I pull in Sandy because Sandy is

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<v Speaker 3>like the queen of side hustles, but not just that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, Sandy's been in HR for years, so she

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<v Speaker 3>really helped me to lean into this chapter to teach

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<v Speaker 3>you how best to ask for a raise and promotion

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<v Speaker 3>and how to prepare ahead of time. Right or also too,

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<v Speaker 3>if you already have multiple streams of income, you know

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<v Speaker 3>how to maximize them, or you know how to maximize

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<v Speaker 3>a skill set, so you can have multiple streams of

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<v Speaker 3>income and you have a plan of action. If you

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<v Speaker 3>desire to make more money, it's really important that you

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<v Speaker 3>know how to earn more. It's not all about budgeting

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<v Speaker 3>and saving. Learning to earn is critical.

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<v Speaker 1>This one's my favorite, and I give myself a big check.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I did go into the pandemic with a newborn,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I think I was one month back on

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<v Speaker 1>the job before I asked for promotion in a race.

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<v Speaker 2>It just felt right. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>Something about the something about that they wouldn't have seen

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<v Speaker 1>it coming, just kind of made me want to do it, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are they gonna do? I just came back from

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<v Speaker 1>Matt leave, but let me let me see what they

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<v Speaker 1>have going on. No, I think this is great and

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<v Speaker 1>building the confidence to ask, So I will definitely be

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<v Speaker 1>checking out that chapter because it's so so important.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>And also just so you know, the first five are

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<v Speaker 3>like the super foundational foundation of personal finance, so like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like the the basics budgeting, savings, debt, credit,

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<v Speaker 3>learn to earn. Now we're going to go into the

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<v Speaker 3>next tier, which is the next five.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't it be scary if I like didn't have any

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<v Speaker 1>of the top five.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not necessarily true, you know how we are. We're like,

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I love the checklist. I know, no, but you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I like that you call it the financial

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<v Speaker 1>wholeness checklist, because yeah, I mean you and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people don't think about all this stuff at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time. You know, they may have one aspect of

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<v Speaker 1>their their finances, you know, checked off, and think that

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<v Speaker 1>they're good. But but really, when you get down and

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<v Speaker 1>ask these questions, kind of like when you go to

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor and they start asking you very specific questions

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, well, there's more than just did

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<v Speaker 1>I wake up? Today's a lot there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>other things that could be going wrong. Okay, but now

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<v Speaker 1>we're into the intermediate level. Number six, Invest like an insider.

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<v Speaker 1>What's this one all about? How do you invest like

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<v Speaker 1>an insider?

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<v Speaker 3>So insiders know that you investment fall and falls into

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<v Speaker 3>two major tiers, retirement and wealth. You're really not saving

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<v Speaker 3>for retirement. Women always say this. It's really you're investing

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<v Speaker 3>for retirement and investing for wealth. So the difference is this,

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<v Speaker 3>when you invest for retirement, you are saying, I'm setting

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<v Speaker 3>aside money and investing it so I can maintain my

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<v Speaker 3>current lifestyle when I'm no longer working when you and

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<v Speaker 3>so it's literally about you and only you later on

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<v Speaker 3>in life. Investing for wealth is different. It's about improving

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<v Speaker 3>your lifestyle now currently and leaving money for airs, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's what now. Investing for retirement should happen no

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<v Speaker 3>matter what. Investing for wealth happens after you have the

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<v Speaker 3>foundational things like budgets, say that all that stuff. But

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<v Speaker 3>investing for retirement happens no matter what, because no matter what,

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<v Speaker 3>your eighty year old self is going to need to eat,

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to need a safe place to live, it's

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<v Speaker 3>going to need medicine, it's going to need transportation. You

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<v Speaker 3>see what I'm so like, retirement is really not optional,

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<v Speaker 3>but investing for wealth kind of is.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. I give myself a check. I love my I

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<v Speaker 1>love my four one K and but I will say

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<v Speaker 1>the past five year old three years especially, I have

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of fun taking the next step beyond

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<v Speaker 1>just like the target date fund, you know, index fund

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<v Speaker 1>investing style and actually investing for wealth. And that's been

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<v Speaker 1>it's been new territory.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And just if you guys are listening, you forgot, like,

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<v Speaker 3>don't forget this is that gg w M quiz dot

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<v Speaker 3>com for could Get Good with Money quiz if you

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<v Speaker 3>want to take the quiz, like, hold up, let me see,

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<v Speaker 3>because I would love if you could like tweet us, Instagram, us,

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<v Speaker 3>email us like what your you know what your your

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<v Speaker 3>score is?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, use the hashtag gg W M O N E

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<v Speaker 1>y g g W money Yes, loves it all right,

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<v Speaker 1>O my ooh. My second favorite, Get Good with Insurance

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<v Speaker 1>number seven.

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<v Speaker 3>This is where this is where I like, at first

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<v Speaker 3>before when I was writing this book, this is where

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<v Speaker 3>I did it. I was not I was. I was

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<v Speaker 3>eighty percent because my insurance and you'll see like this

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<v Speaker 3>is where I was shaking, but now I'm good Anjelie

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<v Speaker 3>got me all the way together. This is a chapter

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<v Speaker 3>that I had Angelie really weigh in on because it's

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<v Speaker 3>insurance is not just health insurance. You have to think

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<v Speaker 3>about life insurance, potentially disability and property and casualty insurance.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you think of like home and artum So

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<v Speaker 3>are you adequately covered? Do you know the need? So

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<v Speaker 3>the reason why I was eighty percent when I first

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<v Speaker 3>started the book is because I thought I was well insured.

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<v Speaker 3>Angelie was like, yeah, girl, you're insurance like a twenty

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<v Speaker 3>seven year old. I'm like, that's when I got my

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<v Speaker 3>life insurance. You's like, exactly, this life insurance is enough

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<v Speaker 3>to protect your twenty seven year old self, but not

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<v Speaker 3>your forty forty one year old self. And so this

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<v Speaker 3>chapter I think is really great for people who are

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<v Speaker 3>like I did it. I'm good. I'm good. It's like,

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<v Speaker 3>are you sis, how's your insurance looking? Insurance is as

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<v Speaker 3>a risk management tool, you know, are you managing risks

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<v Speaker 3>in your life? Like are you managing risks against your assets,

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<v Speaker 3>against your life, against your earning potential, against your property.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think this is gonna be a really great

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<v Speaker 3>chapter for.

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<v Speaker 2>Folks love it.

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<v Speaker 1>This was the one I finally got together when I

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<v Speaker 1>had the baby. It was like I left the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I have to get some life insurance.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I have a reason. And I will say the

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<v Speaker 1>pandemic kind of threw me off because it was like

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<v Speaker 1>the people literally they come to your house and they

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<v Speaker 1>do like a or you go there sometimes, but they

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<v Speaker 1>do like a physical you know your example, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think he took blood. It was like four in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I got to really early appointment. It's

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<v Speaker 1>solid blur. But finally got it done back in August,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's the most common question I see

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<v Speaker 1>is how much is enough for life insurance?

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<v Speaker 2>For me, it was ten x.

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<v Speaker 1>I just used that rule of thumb ten x my

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<v Speaker 1>household income, and you know, luckily got approved. In all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, where's the best because people may not know

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<v Speaker 1>where to start shopping for an insurance policy. And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, we're talking about life insurance, but also just

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<v Speaker 1>do you have enough home insurance? Do you have enough

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<v Speaker 1>property insurance?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>So making sure that you're covered for those types of

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<v Speaker 1>things is important too.

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<v Speaker 3>So one of the one of my favorite sites that

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<v Speaker 3>that I mentioned in the book is a policy Genius,

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<v Speaker 3>because policy genius is not just going to help you

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<v Speaker 3>look for health insurance. You can just you can literally

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<v Speaker 3>take a quiz and it'll let you know, like, ooh girl,

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<v Speaker 3>you gotta pat what about kik Kiki the King in

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<v Speaker 3>do you have put insurance? You know? Some policy genius

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<v Speaker 3>is actually going to show you where you have like

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<v Speaker 3>plugs or holes in your insurance and make suggestions for you.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's when there's also select quote. That's another one.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's selective. Yes, that's another one that I

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<v Speaker 3>like and so like just getting with it. When it

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<v Speaker 3>comes to insurance. You know, if you're not working with

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<v Speaker 3>a financial planner like I was, you know, taking one

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<v Speaker 3>of those quizzes to see, like, you know, do I

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<v Speaker 3>have enough insurance is a great place to start. So

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<v Speaker 3>you could slowly but surely start plugging those wholes because

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<v Speaker 3>the older you get, the more critical insurance become, especially

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<v Speaker 3>if you have dependence, especially children.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, love it. Okay, three more, I'm not seventy percent

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<v Speaker 1>so far. Okay, grown rich, grow richish, increase your networth.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is when you know how to calculate your network,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what tiffany.

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<v Speaker 3>So your net worth is what you own all your assets.

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<v Speaker 3>Mine is what you owe all your liability. So the

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<v Speaker 3>owning things put money into your pocket, the owing things

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<v Speaker 3>take money out. So assets versus liabilities. That is what

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<v Speaker 3>net worth is. And so you have to know how

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<v Speaker 3>to calculate it, which I show you how to identify

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<v Speaker 3>your assets, to identify your liabilities. Actually have a net

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<v Speaker 3>worth worksheet in the book. It's also in your Get

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<v Speaker 3>Given Money like toolkit like I told you, that's available

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<v Speaker 3>where the book is available on get goodwith Money dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a toolkit there, I mean a worksheet there, and

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<v Speaker 3>you'll want you to like, if you don't have positive

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<v Speaker 3>net worth, you should be learning how to increase it,

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<v Speaker 3>and even if you do, how to increase it by

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<v Speaker 3>increasing assets and decreasing liability liabilities.

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<v Speaker 2>Loves it this one. I cheat.

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<v Speaker 1>I use one of those money management apps which has

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<v Speaker 1>all the information between my husband and myself and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's a really pretty chart that we watch go up

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<v Speaker 1>and down and it kind of shows your net worth

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<v Speaker 1>net worth, which yeah, I love it. And also thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about if you have a mortgage. I was always thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of a mortgage as oh, this is a huge hit

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<v Speaker 1>to my net worth, but then you forget.

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<v Speaker 2>About the asset side of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know, so your praised home value is the asset. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you factor in and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh yay.

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<v Speaker 3>People people always get that message. They're like, it is

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<v Speaker 3>a house and acid are liability. I was like, it's

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<v Speaker 3>really both. Like you said, like the value of your

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<v Speaker 3>home is the is the asset, and then the mortgage

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<v Speaker 3>you have out on that home is the liability. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah that's yeah, That's why so many folks got

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<v Speaker 1>burned during the housing crisis because they their home was

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<v Speaker 1>not worth the amount of money they had taken out

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<v Speaker 1>against it, so their debt they just owed more than

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<v Speaker 1>the house was worth. So that's the nightmare situation. Luckily

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<v Speaker 1>not happening here. Okay, networth, Okay, two more, Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>this is obviously we're down to the last two. We

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<v Speaker 1>can probably figure out where Mandy has some work to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But number nine, pick your money team financial professionals. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is where you have.

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<v Speaker 2>So how do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Define what's your money team, Tiffany, Because we get asked

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<v Speaker 1>about you know, financial planners, but what else? Who else

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<v Speaker 1>is on your ideal money team?

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<v Speaker 3>So it depends on where you are in life. So

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<v Speaker 3>at the very least, I say, every single person needs

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<v Speaker 3>an accountability partner. It could be your work mom. It

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<v Speaker 3>could be your bestie, It could be your spouse, your partner,

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<v Speaker 3>it could be your sister, your brother, your uncle, cousin, whoever.

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<v Speaker 3>I do believe that money is a team sport and

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<v Speaker 3>if you work on it with someone, and when I

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<v Speaker 3>mean work on it, not like they have to be experts,

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<v Speaker 3>but just like, okay, I'm doing my budget this week?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you going to do yours this week? Okay? I'm saving. Yay,

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<v Speaker 3>that's good. Okay. You know, someone to keep you motivated,

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<v Speaker 3>someone to help normalize the process because they're going through

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<v Speaker 3>it as well, someone to encourage you, you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes someone even to set the example because maybe they're

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<v Speaker 3>better at something else than you when it comes to

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<v Speaker 3>their finances. So accountability partner across the board. And I

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<v Speaker 3>always know y'all know, I have the Dreamcatchers group on

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<v Speaker 3>Facebook Dreamcatchers Live Richer with the Budgetnista, and I tell people,

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<v Speaker 3>if you don't know anybody in real life that you

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<v Speaker 3>can get an account get to be your accountability partner.

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<v Speaker 3>You can always find one in that group. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>half a million of us in there, all working on

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<v Speaker 3>our finances together, so that's for sure. But then there

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<v Speaker 3>are people like a certified financial planner. You know, this

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<v Speaker 3>is someone who typically they say you should have about

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<v Speaker 3>two hundred and fifty thousand dollars of assets to invest

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<v Speaker 3>before it kind of makes financial sense. So you might

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<v Speaker 3>not need one, but that's someone just to keep in mind.

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<v Speaker 3>An insurance broker, Now this you might not need, but

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<v Speaker 3>if you're someone like me who I have several businesses,

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<v Speaker 3>so I have an insurance broker. Shout to you, David,

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<v Speaker 3>because you know, with my businesses and then my personal life,

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<v Speaker 3>like I have to have someone who was looking at

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<v Speaker 3>my insurance collectively to see. Like the other day, David's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>if we twitch to travelers, we can save you and

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<v Speaker 3>Superman three thousand dollars a year. I was like, let's

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<v Speaker 3>do it. You know, and estate planning attorney. You may

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<v Speaker 3>or may not need one, but I wanted to put

0:32:21.520 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 3>it out there. What I love about in the book

0:32:23.600 --> 0:32:27.320
<v Speaker 3>is that I explain who these people are, whether or

0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:29.000
<v Speaker 3>not you may or might not need it, how much

0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 3>they typically get paid, if it makes sense, and how

0:32:31.520 --> 0:32:33.959
<v Speaker 3>they're usually paid and less but not least a CPA

0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:37.400
<v Speaker 3>has Certified public accountant. You don't necessarily need one because

0:32:37.520 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 3>you might do your own taxes if you've got a

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 3>simple ten forty easy you know, turbo tax is fine,

0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:47.720
<v Speaker 3>you know. So I just share in this particular part

0:32:47.760 --> 0:32:50.640
<v Speaker 3>of the book, these are just like, hey, here's who

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:55.080
<v Speaker 3>you might consider and why, but make the best choice

0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 3>for you when it comes to picking your money team.

0:32:57.920 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think that so for me, the one that

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:03.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I need an insurance broker. I do

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:05.520
<v Speaker 1>have a CFP that I work with every once in

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:07.560
<v Speaker 1>a while. Helen's probably like, you haven't called me in

0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:10.800
<v Speaker 1>a minute, what's going on? But for me, this is

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:13.400
<v Speaker 1>it's sort of a combo between nine and ten, which

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:16.120
<v Speaker 1>is leave a legacy about estate planning. I don't feel

0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 1>like I've gotten my estate planning down the way that

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I or you know what, even just to have a

0:33:21.240 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 1>professional look at my look at my stuff and say, yeah, okay,

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:27.840
<v Speaker 1>you've got a plan because I don't have a plan

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:31.200
<v Speaker 1>like written down. I've got my beneficiaries checked off. I

0:33:31.240 --> 0:33:33.920
<v Speaker 1>got my little life insurance. But I just really want

0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:36.280
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that my family is yeah, is set

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:39.640
<v Speaker 1>up and my legacy is my financial legacy lives on.

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 1>So let's talk about number ten leading a legacy.

0:33:43.040 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 3>So about that for you. Here's why I am ninety

0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 3>percent as well. Like I think that people don't get,

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.600
<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm all the way transparent, like I am

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:54.800
<v Speaker 3>working on. I probably was one hundred percent before because

0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:58.480
<v Speaker 3>financial hollness is very fluid, right, So I could have

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 3>been one hundred percent before because I didn't need a

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:04.680
<v Speaker 3>trust before. But I've grown my assets have grown to

0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:07.320
<v Speaker 3>a space in the place where I need a trust now,

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 3>so I'm no longer one hundred percent. I'm ninety. So

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm working on a trust now with Tony Moore, my attorney,

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:16.680
<v Speaker 3>My husband, and I are so with leaving a legacy

0:34:16.680 --> 0:34:19.960
<v Speaker 3>of state planning. This is when you've identified and completed

0:34:20.480 --> 0:34:23.239
<v Speaker 3>the components of an estate plan, so that is potentially

0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 3>a will, trust, beneficiaries on your accounts, you know, and

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 3>you have executed, signed, and funded your state plan. Tony,

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:34.759
<v Speaker 3>which oddly enough told me that Mandy people will work

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:36.799
<v Speaker 3>with her for six months to do a trust and

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 3>then not put the stuff into trust and funded. She's like,

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 3>so you paid all this money for me to make

0:34:41.560 --> 0:34:43.719
<v Speaker 3>your trust. But it's almost like they're afraid of they

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:45.680
<v Speaker 3>create the trust or the will that the next day

0:34:45.680 --> 0:34:46.719
<v Speaker 3>they pass away.

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:49.000
<v Speaker 2>You know, It's true.

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 1>It's all this is so wrapped up in the emotions

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:55.240
<v Speaker 1>behind death. That's why it's for me, even just getting

0:34:55.280 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 1>life insurance, I have to stop myself from thinking about

0:34:58.960 --> 0:35:01.319
<v Speaker 1>the reason I'm getting this so if I die, but

0:35:01.600 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna.

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:05.200
<v Speaker 2>Die and mite not for my baby. Like yes, it's

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:06.080
<v Speaker 2>really it's hard.

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 1>The emotions of it are really hard to unpack. You

0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:11.080
<v Speaker 1>have to kind of like compartmentalize it all exactly.

0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 3>And so like I just honestly like, financial wholeness is

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 3>my love language. Like here's what because people ask me,

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 3>like what is because so the book is called Get

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:24.760
<v Speaker 3>Good with Money, Ten Simple Steps to Becoming Financially Whole,

0:35:25.120 --> 0:35:27.720
<v Speaker 3>and so like folks ask me, like, what is financial holeness?

0:35:27.719 --> 0:35:29.759
<v Speaker 3>That is when these ten components that I just went

0:35:29.800 --> 0:35:33.680
<v Speaker 3>over really like kind of work together as a team

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:39.080
<v Speaker 3>to create the strongest financial foundation possible. It means that

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:43.319
<v Speaker 3>when pandemic and quarantine and these things happen, not that

0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 3>you won't have any financial trauma or drama, but that

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 3>you won't be shocked like rock to the core like

0:35:49.960 --> 0:35:52.799
<v Speaker 3>maybe you otherwise would have been, because you have these

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:55.479
<v Speaker 3>things in place, and it's not something that you're gonna

0:35:55.520 --> 0:35:57.440
<v Speaker 3>You're not gonna do this in six months or in

0:35:57.480 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 3>a year. These are going to be things that you

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:03.239
<v Speaker 3>slow grow too. And what will happen is as your

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:06.920
<v Speaker 3>life grows, things will look different. So financial homeness for

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:09.560
<v Speaker 3>your twenty one year old self is different than financial

0:36:09.560 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 3>homeness for your forty year old self. Like I said before,

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:16.360
<v Speaker 3>when I was twenty seven, my estate planning I was

0:36:16.400 --> 0:36:19.719
<v Speaker 3>fine because I had all I didn't really have much

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:22.719
<v Speaker 3>of in the way of assets, but the assets I

0:36:22.760 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 3>did have, like I had a life insurance policy and

0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:28.920
<v Speaker 3>my bank accounts, my mom and my sisters and my

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:31.000
<v Speaker 3>father were the beneficiaries and all of that. That's the

0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:33.760
<v Speaker 3>state planning for a twenty something year old with no children,

0:36:34.120 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 3>you know, and no major assets. That was fine. So

0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 3>what's so great about financial holness is that it grows

0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:42.280
<v Speaker 3>up with you that as you grow up, you start

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:44.359
<v Speaker 3>to realize that you can look back and say, oh,

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:48.680
<v Speaker 3>my insurance, like I just got good with insurance, because

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:52.239
<v Speaker 3>my insurance before was fine, but now I'm married, I've

0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:55.080
<v Speaker 3>got a bonus daughter, I've got nieces and nephews, I've

0:36:55.080 --> 0:36:58.680
<v Speaker 3>got additional businesses. So as a result, my insurance had

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:01.160
<v Speaker 3>to grow to meebe where I us. And so financial

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 3>homeless just know that you're ever evolving. And why I

0:37:05.320 --> 0:37:09.360
<v Speaker 3>like financial holeness versus financial freedom is that many financial

0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:15.000
<v Speaker 3>freedom to seem so it was not inclusive, right, So

0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 3>with financial freedom, typically people say like kind of like

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:20.680
<v Speaker 3>they have like this money set aside and it allows

0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 3>them not to work anymore. And that's great, But are

0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:27.799
<v Speaker 3>you fully insured? I wasn't. Do you have an estate plan?

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:30.239
<v Speaker 3>It doesn't address that, you know what I mean? Like,

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:33.000
<v Speaker 3>do you have your like your financial team set up?

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:35.239
<v Speaker 3>So maybe you have a budget and you're saving, but

0:37:35.440 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 3>just because you're financially free. Because I was financially free,

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:43.759
<v Speaker 3>but I was not financially whole. There's more protection and

0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:47.920
<v Speaker 3>your ability to maintain where you are with financial holeness.

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 3>And I would say financial freedom is for a few people,

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:53.400
<v Speaker 3>but financial hollness is literally for everyone.

0:37:53.600 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 1>So if this is just a tiny nugget of what

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:58.279
<v Speaker 1>the book is like, I can't wait to get it

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:02.640
<v Speaker 1>to my cousin myself. I don't know what the audiobook,

0:38:02.640 --> 0:38:03.879
<v Speaker 1>even though I talk to you every week. I feel

0:38:03.880 --> 0:38:05.399
<v Speaker 1>like the audiobook's probably really good.

0:38:05.800 --> 0:38:09.640
<v Speaker 3>You know. There's a clip that we were posting and

0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:11.920
<v Speaker 3>I was so nervous to listen to it because I

0:38:11.960 --> 0:38:13.880
<v Speaker 3>was like, oh good, because you just don't know how

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:16.400
<v Speaker 3>you sound. I'm like, was I sounding stupid? You know?

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:19.520
<v Speaker 3>Was I talking too fast? Da? Da? So they gave

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 3>me this clip of like I'm telling the story like

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 3>of one of my first financial lessons because my sister

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:26.480
<v Speaker 3>Tracy was like, and if you I mean, if you

0:38:26.520 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 3>know sisters, they don't care anything about your feelings. Like

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:31.840
<v Speaker 3>my sisters were literally like that picture of you on

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:33.560
<v Speaker 3>the cover of your book, it's cute, but you're smiling

0:38:33.600 --> 0:38:35.800
<v Speaker 3>too hard. Girl. I'm in gums. I'm like, tell Jesus

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.800
<v Speaker 3>because he made my smile. You tell Jesus. Like literally,

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:40.719
<v Speaker 3>That's what was happening in the WhatsApp. In the group chat,

0:38:41.000 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 3>my sisters were going back and forth about is it

0:38:43.080 --> 0:38:44.800
<v Speaker 3>too gummy? It is? I was like, I'm here, I

0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 3>can read, I can see you. But that's sisters, you know,

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:49.759
<v Speaker 3>so I don't you know your sisters are going to

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 3>tell you like it is, especially Tracy. So when she said,

0:38:53.120 --> 0:38:54.919
<v Speaker 3>did you listen to the audio version like that clip

0:38:54.960 --> 0:38:58.040
<v Speaker 3>they sent you? And I was like, cause she's my papulocist,

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:00.520
<v Speaker 3>And I was like I was waiting for her to, like,

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 3>you know, crack a joke and be like, Si, you

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.040
<v Speaker 3>sounded terrible, but it is what it is, because she'll

0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:06.319
<v Speaker 3>say something like that and she was like it was good.

0:39:06.360 --> 0:39:09.040
<v Speaker 3>I was like, Okay, She's like no, She's like, you

0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:10.319
<v Speaker 3>know how like I hear you talk all the time,

0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:12.400
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like nobody cares. And I heard that story

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:14.640
<v Speaker 3>so many times and I'm like, nobody cares. She's like,

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:16.560
<v Speaker 3>I listened to the whole thing, like I leaned in.

0:39:17.160 --> 0:39:19.640
<v Speaker 3>I was like, what a nice.

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Word on the New York Times Bestseller's list quote sister

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Tracy had nothing mean to say about it.

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:30.319
<v Speaker 3>I was like, what, She's like, no for else good?

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:32.319
<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know, just being nice. She looked

0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 3>at me like, girl, why would.

0:39:33.440 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I just be seriously if you got some audible credits

0:39:37.960 --> 0:39:38.920
<v Speaker 1>knocking around like I do?

0:39:39.480 --> 0:39:42.640
<v Speaker 3>But I ordered like I did because I had like

0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 3>four credits and it was like one credit. So I

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:46.600
<v Speaker 3>got it cause I was like I want to hear it.

0:39:46.680 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 3>So yes, for sure, though, but if y'all want to

0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:51.120
<v Speaker 3>help me, you know, make it to the Mayor Times,

0:39:51.480 --> 0:39:53.680
<v Speaker 3>then they don't count audible. You should certainly use your

0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:56.320
<v Speaker 3>audible credit. They don't count audible. They only count like

0:39:56.360 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 3>the hardcover books. And like, you're kidding, I don't think

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:01.920
<v Speaker 3>this that is, but I still say get it for

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:03.840
<v Speaker 3>you know, like if you got a free credit, I

0:40:03.840 --> 0:40:04.880
<v Speaker 3>still say, you know, get it.

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Then you have both.

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:08.680
<v Speaker 1>Then you can take it in the car with you

0:40:08.800 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 1>or on your walks and you come back home with

0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:12.560
<v Speaker 1>your cup of coffee and then you keep reading, you know,

0:40:12.960 --> 0:40:16.480
<v Speaker 1>the real book. It's like get Good, Get Good, a

0:40:16.600 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 1>symphony us on that.

0:40:19.320 --> 0:40:20.920
<v Speaker 3>But if you guys are wanting to get it should

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:24.040
<v Speaker 3>be in the show notes. But certainly go ahead to

0:40:24.239 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 3>get Good with money dot com. One of the things

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:29.640
<v Speaker 3>that I'm committed to doing is that we try to

0:40:29.640 --> 0:40:33.440
<v Speaker 3>do a rotation of like I showcase a black bookstore

0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 3>at the top of the page, so you can, like

0:40:35.680 --> 0:40:37.200
<v Speaker 3>you can order from all those other places, and I

0:40:37.239 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 3>have all the logos like at Amazon and Bonds and

0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:41.719
<v Speaker 3>Nobles and targeting all those places, but at the very

0:40:41.840 --> 0:40:44.680
<v Speaker 3>very top, I say, want to support a black bookstore.

0:40:44.840 --> 0:40:47.000
<v Speaker 3>So the one that's currently there, depending when you're listening.

0:40:47.040 --> 0:40:49.319
<v Speaker 3>But if you're listening like the week of pub date three,

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 3>three thirty two, two thousand, we'll give me two thousand,

0:40:55.680 --> 0:40:59.600
<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty one. What's currently showcase is bookstore in my

0:40:59.640 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 3>hometown called Source of Knowledge. It's an amazing black owned

0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:06.480
<v Speaker 3>bookstore Newark and Manny, the story is so amazing, So

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:08.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, Newark is totally like gentrifying, like trying to

0:41:08.560 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 3>be Brooklyn and this black owned bookstore. The woman who

0:41:12.000 --> 0:41:15.400
<v Speaker 3>owns it. Nobody wanted to buy anything in Newark, not

0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:17.759
<v Speaker 3>any business owners. She bought the building years ago for

0:41:17.800 --> 0:41:21.320
<v Speaker 3>pennies because no one Newark, we don't want it. Now

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:25.800
<v Speaker 3>that downtown Newark is like beautifying itself. I mean, big

0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 3>hotels and all these things are coming to downtown Newark.

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 3>They tried to buy hers. They bought all the other

0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:33.680
<v Speaker 3>little mama pop stores around her, and she was like, nope,

0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:36.960
<v Speaker 3>I want source of knowledge, black bookstore that carries black

0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 3>books to be in the middle of all of that.

0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 3>And they're like, what about this, nope, what about that? Nope.

0:41:41.080 --> 0:41:42.799
<v Speaker 3>They even tried to buy the air right so they

0:41:42.800 --> 0:41:45.160
<v Speaker 3>can build on top of her, can you imagine? And

0:41:45.200 --> 0:41:48.239
<v Speaker 3>they weren't able to mm hm. And so it's so

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 3>like she's just it's just like the woman who's there.

0:41:51.520 --> 0:41:54.000
<v Speaker 3>They have African masks in there. I used to go

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 3>in there in college and you could just discover so

0:41:56.120 --> 0:42:00.440
<v Speaker 3>many amazing books. I have never seen more black children

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 3>on books, and in that bookstore, I didn't even know

0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:05.600
<v Speaker 3>all these black children's books existed. She's got children's book,

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:09.560
<v Speaker 3>adult books, romance novels, everything. Like it's just so I

0:42:09.560 --> 0:42:12.279
<v Speaker 3>say all that to say, it's currently right at the

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 3>top of my page. If you want to support a

0:42:14.680 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 3>local a black on bookstore, and I do a rotation.

0:42:17.239 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 3>Before that, I had Mahogamy Books, which is I think,

0:42:19.800 --> 0:42:21.600
<v Speaker 3>get what they're based at it, but they're an amazing

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:24.320
<v Speaker 3>bookstore as well, And so I'll just be doing a

0:42:24.400 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 3>rotation probably like every month or maybe every quarter, just

0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 3>to show kids a black owned bookstore so they get

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:32.120
<v Speaker 3>some shine over there. But yeah, this has just been

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 3>like I said, it's been an awesome experience and just

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:39.440
<v Speaker 3>the way it's been rolling out, you know, like go

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:43.440
<v Speaker 3>to get Goodwi money dot com to support take the quiz.

0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:46.960
<v Speaker 3>There's a toolkit that's there, high key, low key. You

0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 3>don't have to pay to get the tool kit. Every

0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 3>it's like you're gonna make people pay. I'm like, girls,

0:42:49.800 --> 0:42:51.000
<v Speaker 3>it's just part of the book, you know. Me. I

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<v Speaker 3>love a free like in the tool I do because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like the toolkit has all of the resources

0:42:57.400 --> 0:43:00.120
<v Speaker 3>that I listened in the book by chapter. Like if

0:43:00.160 --> 0:43:03.040
<v Speaker 3>I say I have my favorite banks, I list my

0:43:03.080 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 3>favorite banks. If I say my favorite ways to get

0:43:05.480 --> 0:43:07.880
<v Speaker 3>your credit report, I list them there. So that's like

0:43:07.920 --> 0:43:11.320
<v Speaker 3>that's what's in the toolkit. So I mean it doesn't

0:43:11.400 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 3>kind of make sense without the book, but certainly you know,

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:14.680
<v Speaker 3>you can stick your head and if you want to

0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:21.160
<v Speaker 3>take a look, look see. But yeah, the baby is born.

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:26.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh and please leave a review five stars. I'm not

0:43:26.080 --> 0:43:31.400
<v Speaker 3>allowed to say that, but it starts. And please, please please,

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 3>when you physically get your book, to post it on

0:43:34.239 --> 0:43:37.280
<v Speaker 3>social and to tag me so I can reshare it. Please,

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:40.319
<v Speaker 3>like just you know, Tiffany, I got my book and

0:43:40.360 --> 0:43:43.719
<v Speaker 3>tag me. And so my promise is this, once I

0:43:43.760 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 3>get to five hundred reviews on Amazon and Bars and Nobles,

0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:50.399
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to do a free mini book club. We'll

0:43:50.440 --> 0:43:53.640
<v Speaker 3>pick a chapter collectively together, we'll read it and then

0:43:53.680 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 3>we'll have like a session like a you know, a

0:43:55.480 --> 0:43:57.799
<v Speaker 3>jam session one night, like a two hour session going

0:43:57.840 --> 0:43:59.719
<v Speaker 3>over that chapter. So that is my gift to you.

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 3>Once I get to five hundred reviews on Amazon and

0:44:02.640 --> 0:44:04.680
<v Speaker 3>on Barns and Nobles, we'll do a book club for free.

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:06.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I mean, I just know I got

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:09.480
<v Speaker 1>teary eyed when Molly Moore came in the mail. So

0:44:09.600 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 1>I can't eaven and I can't wait till Rio is

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<v Speaker 1>big enough to where I trust him to not rip

0:44:13.760 --> 0:44:17.279
<v Speaker 1>the pages and he can actually read it because that's

0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 1>on the way.

0:44:17.920 --> 0:44:21.640
<v Speaker 2>Top of the bookshelf. But yes, I am.

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:23.960
<v Speaker 1>I am going to contact and if you guys too,

0:44:23.960 --> 0:44:26.359
<v Speaker 1>like Tiffany said, contact your local bookstores and ask if

0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:28.600
<v Speaker 1>they have it, and ask your library.

0:44:28.560 --> 0:44:31.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, ask your library if they have it. I'm I'm calling.

0:44:31.520 --> 0:44:33.799
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm gonna call my my local bookstore and see

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:34.480
<v Speaker 1>if they've got it.

0:44:34.560 --> 0:44:35.359
<v Speaker 2>And then I'm gonna go.

0:44:36.480 --> 0:44:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get in the cart to night try and

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:38.520
<v Speaker 1>go find this. Damn.

0:44:39.440 --> 0:44:41.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling Barns and Nobles has it? Just ask them.

0:44:41.760 --> 0:44:43.480
<v Speaker 2>You got me out here in the streets go.

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:45.399
<v Speaker 3>To local Barns and Nobles saying, hey, I'd like gack

0:44:45.440 --> 0:44:46.880
<v Speaker 3>it with money. Thanks.

0:44:47.200 --> 0:44:49.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm gonna say it very loud. Excuse me.

0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:54.799
<v Speaker 1>There's a best selling book that I'm good about by

0:44:54.840 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Tiffany Alice. Well, seriously, okay, this was so fun. I

0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:01.719
<v Speaker 1>can't believe this is my we finally talking about the book.

0:45:01.719 --> 0:45:04.000
<v Speaker 1>It's launching this week. You guys, go to get Good

0:45:04.040 --> 0:45:06.400
<v Speaker 1>with Money dot com. Buy a book, and don't just

0:45:06.440 --> 0:45:09.319
<v Speaker 1>buy one, buy one for a friend. College is you know,

0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:11.640
<v Speaker 1>college graduations coming up? I can see this being the

0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:14.080
<v Speaker 1>book that you don't just give to a college grad once,

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:16.719
<v Speaker 1>but they carry it through them, through with them through

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:19.520
<v Speaker 1>the next couple decades of their life. Even I'm gonna

0:45:19.560 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>put this book in my estate plan.

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 3>You maybe just text me that her purchase of the

0:45:24.080 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 3>of the of the audio version, m Mandy. I just

0:45:27.040 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 3>love at the bottom that you are clearly listening to

0:45:29.560 --> 0:45:33.920
<v Speaker 3>Harry Potter, and because it shows you what she's listening to. Curly, Oh,

0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:36.560
<v Speaker 3>I am going to call me out like that, look

0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:39.479
<v Speaker 3>at listen to Harry Potter. Well by get good money.

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:41.480
<v Speaker 3>She's like, I'm an adult, but a kid, but an adult.

0:45:41.520 --> 0:45:43.600
<v Speaker 1>But I listened to Harry Potter to go to sleep

0:45:43.640 --> 0:45:46.400
<v Speaker 1>at night. It puts me at ease, don't it's my meditation?

0:45:46.600 --> 0:45:46.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:49.680
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, look, I was like, what's this

0:45:49.719 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 3>at the bottom Harry Potter?

0:45:51.560 --> 0:45:52.000
<v Speaker 2>Interesting?

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<v Speaker 1>I have all seven don't Okay? All right, Well, I'm

0:45:55.360 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 1>just I'm I'm just I can't stop gassing you up

0:45:57.600 --> 0:45:59.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's like, how often do you get to gas

0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:02.839
<v Speaker 1>up your friend for their huge book that's coming out.

0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:06.719
<v Speaker 1>So if it's annoying to you listeners who can love it,

0:46:06.800 --> 0:46:07.120
<v Speaker 1>thank you.

0:46:07.200 --> 0:46:08.080
<v Speaker 2>So I mean thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Tiffy, Yeah, thank you, thank you, and congrat.

0:46:31.040 --> 0:46:37.360
<v Speaker 3>Now it time to booster break or booster break or

0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:43.560
<v Speaker 3>booster break? Are you going boost? Are you going to break?

0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:46.600
<v Speaker 3>You won't boost, You're gonna break.

0:46:46.920 --> 0:46:50.279
<v Speaker 1>I can hear rer all he's having a ball.

0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:55.319
<v Speaker 3>Oh manager, are you gonna booster or are you going

0:46:55.360 --> 0:46:56.440
<v Speaker 3>to break?

0:46:56.800 --> 0:46:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I have to do a break because George is up

0:46:59.040 --> 0:47:05.120
<v Speaker 1>to no good. Georgia, you saved us and now you're

0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:08.840
<v Speaker 1>trying to undo it. Well, lixten, I will keep this brief,

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:14.920
<v Speaker 1>but essentially in Georgia, Georgia Republicans passed a sweeping voter

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 1>law that pretty much is a new form of Jim

0:47:20.000 --> 0:47:23.360
<v Speaker 1>Crow in a way. It has restricted voting access in

0:47:23.400 --> 0:47:27.920
<v Speaker 1>the state. It's making it more difficult to bring proper identifications,

0:47:27.960 --> 0:47:31.920
<v Speaker 1>so it's increasing the voter identification requirements for absentee voting.

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:36.680
<v Speaker 1>It's sorry, absentee balloting. It's limiting drop boxes. Those were

0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:39.239
<v Speaker 1>the really cool, you know drop boxes you could use

0:47:39.239 --> 0:47:41.799
<v Speaker 1>in the pandemic to save your life, to stay in line.

0:47:42.560 --> 0:47:47.080
<v Speaker 1>And they are expanding the state legislator's power over elections.

0:47:47.200 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>So it actually makes Georgia. This is according to the

0:47:50.040 --> 0:47:54.000
<v Speaker 1>new York Times, the first major battleground to overhaul its

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:58.799
<v Speaker 1>election system since last year's presidential contest. So it's ironic

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.239
<v Speaker 1>that everyone raise Georgia, especially if you were, you know,

0:48:02.360 --> 0:48:05.360
<v Speaker 1>voting Democrat and wanted a certain election outcome. You know,

0:48:05.440 --> 0:48:09.319
<v Speaker 1>Georgia went blue for the first time in decades, and

0:48:10.360 --> 0:48:13.000
<v Speaker 1>it just goes to show you it doesn't matter. It

0:48:13.040 --> 0:48:15.360
<v Speaker 1>does matter who the president is, don't get me wrong,

0:48:15.560 --> 0:48:17.839
<v Speaker 1>but it matters even more to pay attention to what's

0:48:17.880 --> 0:48:21.839
<v Speaker 1>happening on your state Capitol hill and your state legislature.

0:48:22.000 --> 0:48:25.040
<v Speaker 1>So if you're listening and you're from Georgia, make noise.

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:28.280
<v Speaker 1>You know, even though this law has passed, it's being widely,

0:48:28.400 --> 0:48:32.360
<v Speaker 1>widely disputed, So make some noise. Voting rights groups like

0:48:32.400 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Stacy Abram's Fair Fight Action that I've been supporting for

0:48:35.600 --> 0:48:38.200
<v Speaker 1>a long time, they are out there making noise, and

0:48:38.239 --> 0:48:43.000
<v Speaker 1>they're asking businesses to withdraw support of certain candidates and

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:47.360
<v Speaker 1>certain legislators who have voted for this particular piece of legislation.

0:48:47.840 --> 0:48:49.840
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's really really terrifying. This is not the

0:48:49.880 --> 0:48:53.000
<v Speaker 1>direction that I think we should be going. Voting should

0:48:53.000 --> 0:48:55.759
<v Speaker 1>be getting easier, it should not be getting harder. It's

0:48:55.800 --> 0:49:00.400
<v Speaker 1>really just a very thinly veiled effort to sup press

0:49:00.960 --> 0:49:04.720
<v Speaker 1>votes that are not convenient to a certain political party.

0:49:04.800 --> 0:49:07.480
<v Speaker 2>So wanh wanh wanah. But that's my break.

0:49:08.239 --> 0:49:11.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, I saw that. I was like, thankfully Stacey Abrams.

0:49:11.120 --> 0:49:15.040
<v Speaker 3>You know, she is very clear and understanding what this is.

0:49:15.200 --> 0:49:19.880
<v Speaker 3>They're calling these like Jim Crow laws basically, and so yeah,

0:49:20.320 --> 0:49:23.640
<v Speaker 3>so I had an original boost, but it's it flew

0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:27.120
<v Speaker 3>the coup because you know, brains in eighty. So instead

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:29.280
<v Speaker 3>I am going to boost one of my favorite Instagram

0:49:29.320 --> 0:49:32.960
<v Speaker 3>accounts because he does these cartoons. So the guy's name

0:49:33.000 --> 0:49:36.839
<v Speaker 3>is a vision poet, right vision v I s io

0:49:36.960 --> 0:49:40.120
<v Speaker 3>n Poet p O e T. So his Instagram account,

0:49:40.600 --> 0:49:43.479
<v Speaker 3>he is a poet from Philly, and I'm as someone

0:49:43.480 --> 0:49:45.160
<v Speaker 3>where around the same age. It's because like the stuff

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:46.560
<v Speaker 3>that he talks about, I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, I'm

0:49:46.719 --> 0:49:50.319
<v Speaker 3>those times. So he does poetry, but that's not what

0:49:50.400 --> 0:49:53.600
<v Speaker 3>makes his Instagram accounts so great. He's got this animated

0:49:53.640 --> 0:49:56.840
<v Speaker 3>series that he's created that he calls Trash Trashed or

0:49:56.920 --> 0:50:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Piece instead of masterpiece, but trash trash or Peace Theater

0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:04.840
<v Speaker 3>where he tells stories about his trash youth, meaning like

0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:08.120
<v Speaker 3>when he was basically like you know, a terrible boyfriend

0:50:08.360 --> 0:50:11.360
<v Speaker 3>or like you know or just like him and his friends,

0:50:11.360 --> 0:50:16.040
<v Speaker 3>but they are hilarious and the fact that they are

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:20.040
<v Speaker 3>animated and he's made them, I just to me, it's

0:50:20.080 --> 0:50:22.280
<v Speaker 3>like much watch must watch EV. I think he posts

0:50:22.280 --> 0:50:25.720
<v Speaker 3>like a new one every Sunday. When I say hilarious

0:50:26.120 --> 0:50:29.439
<v Speaker 3>and like the most buttoned up people I will see

0:50:29.480 --> 0:50:31.719
<v Speaker 3>like in the comments or liking I'm like you watch too.

0:50:32.200 --> 0:50:34.480
<v Speaker 3>It's not like he's it's not like he's got like

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:37.080
<v Speaker 3>a thousands well he does have thousands of them, but

0:50:37.160 --> 0:50:39.439
<v Speaker 3>not like hundreds of thousands of followers or anything like that.

0:50:39.760 --> 0:50:44.600
<v Speaker 3>But he is hilarious like these because you're like, oh

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:47.439
<v Speaker 3>my god, I remember those times. What it's just really good.

0:50:47.440 --> 0:50:48.920
<v Speaker 3>And like I said, I think they he drops a

0:50:48.960 --> 0:50:51.000
<v Speaker 3>new one every Sunday. You're definitely gonna go down a

0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:53.719
<v Speaker 3>rabbit hole and watch all of them. He's really really,

0:50:53.760 --> 0:50:55.759
<v Speaker 3>really funny, and it just kind of takes you back

0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:58.600
<v Speaker 3>for me anyway, since you know, I was I'm forty one.

0:50:58.640 --> 0:51:00.680
<v Speaker 3>Like like I said, he's the way the things that

0:51:00.719 --> 0:51:03.480
<v Speaker 3>he talks about like so reminiscent. So if you're in

0:51:03.520 --> 0:51:05.920
<v Speaker 3>my age range, I think you'll find true delight in

0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:08.800
<v Speaker 3>them as you shake your head. So that is my boost.

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:11.360
<v Speaker 3>You know. Sometimes I like give them shouts to Instagram

0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:14.879
<v Speaker 3>and accounts that, you know, bring a little joy, you know.

0:51:14.920 --> 0:51:17.320
<v Speaker 1>To anyone who's followed by the budget needs to request

0:51:17.360 --> 0:51:20.880
<v Speaker 1>love and Tiffany mais okay.

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:22.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh they followed. Yeah, so I didn't know that, but

0:51:22.200 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 3>like yeah, and I really yeah, he's just when I

0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:28.840
<v Speaker 3>say hilarious, you watch and you are just a giggling like,

0:51:28.840 --> 0:51:30.759
<v Speaker 3>oh my gosh. And usually about like maybe like three

0:51:30.840 --> 0:51:32.440
<v Speaker 3>or four minutes, maybe five minutes, I don't even know,

0:51:32.440 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 3>but they're just really really well done, funny, yeah, just hilarious.

0:51:37.080 --> 0:51:38.880
<v Speaker 3>So I just encourage you if you're just looking for

0:51:38.920 --> 0:51:41.359
<v Speaker 3>like a little space away. He has serious stuff on there,

0:51:41.680 --> 0:51:43.520
<v Speaker 3>you know, which is great, you know, indulge, but you know,

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:46.960
<v Speaker 3>if you need a little breakaway, I suggest you do.

0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:50.800
<v Speaker 3>You go ahead and do all that, and if you

0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:54.919
<v Speaker 3>have not already, head to your local brown Brownson Noble.

0:51:56.440 --> 0:51:57.719
<v Speaker 2>Can you imagine, I know.

0:51:59.440 --> 0:52:01.960
<v Speaker 3>To your local Barns And oh this is what I

0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:04.759
<v Speaker 3>remember my real boost. I just wanted to give a

0:52:04.760 --> 0:52:07.640
<v Speaker 3>boost to doctor Green, just like the breakthroughs I've been

0:52:07.680 --> 0:52:10.080
<v Speaker 3>having and I'll share them. Like like, it was a

0:52:10.120 --> 0:52:11.920
<v Speaker 3>really good lesson that I learned in our last session,

0:52:11.920 --> 0:52:12.960
<v Speaker 3>and I want to share it with you guys. You know

0:52:12.960 --> 0:52:14.640
<v Speaker 3>how I like to share because I think it's gonna

0:52:14.640 --> 0:52:17.759
<v Speaker 3>be so helpful for someone. That's what my boost was.

0:52:17.800 --> 0:52:20.480
<v Speaker 3>But so i'll share it, you know, you know, next week.

0:52:20.560 --> 0:52:24.720
<v Speaker 3>But just like I just see and feel the growth

0:52:24.880 --> 0:52:26.680
<v Speaker 3>she gave me, like a standing ovation, I mean via

0:52:26.719 --> 0:52:29.120
<v Speaker 3>zoom because I shared with her something that I did

0:52:29.160 --> 0:52:31.279
<v Speaker 3>and she was like, just a minute ago, you was

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:32.960
<v Speaker 3>afraid to do this small thing. Now look at you

0:52:33.000 --> 0:52:36.239
<v Speaker 3>over here doing big things, Tiffany. And so I've just

0:52:36.280 --> 0:52:38.600
<v Speaker 3>been growing so much and just like just the power

0:52:38.640 --> 0:52:40.840
<v Speaker 3>of asking for help, whether it's therapy or coaching or

0:52:40.880 --> 0:52:43.800
<v Speaker 3>in between. And like I said, I can't wait to

0:52:43.840 --> 0:52:45.680
<v Speaker 3>share the lesson because it was so profound for me

0:52:45.719 --> 0:52:47.759
<v Speaker 3>and I know that someone's gonna get great value from it.

0:52:48.160 --> 0:52:50.040
<v Speaker 3>So I'm going to make myself a nope so my

0:52:50.080 --> 0:52:52.920
<v Speaker 3>brain does not forget again. But yeah, that's that's it

0:52:52.960 --> 0:52:53.200
<v Speaker 3>for me.

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:54.600
<v Speaker 2>I loves it.

0:52:54.640 --> 0:52:56.560
<v Speaker 1>And Mental Health Awareness Month is coming up.

0:52:56.640 --> 0:52:57.120
<v Speaker 3>I feel it.

0:52:57.320 --> 0:53:02.480
<v Speaker 2>We need to make that a moment. Okay, Well, congrats tive.

0:53:02.680 --> 0:53:05.319
<v Speaker 1>This is You're only gonna get your book launch, your

0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:11.319
<v Speaker 1>first book launch, major published book launch week once, I think, right,

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:14.040
<v Speaker 1>So I hope you find some time to enjoy it,

0:53:14.080 --> 0:53:17.160
<v Speaker 1>even though I know you're working so so hard this week.

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Just let me know if you need me to hype

0:53:19.200 --> 0:53:20.799
<v Speaker 1>you know where you want me to show up with

0:53:20.840 --> 0:53:25.160
<v Speaker 1>the confetti, the champagne that i'll drink myself we need.

0:53:26.600 --> 0:53:29.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm so so proud of you the same, amazing so much.

0:53:29.280 --> 0:53:31.719
<v Speaker 3>Go to keigos money dot com money.

0:53:37.680 --> 0:53:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, what a fun throwback. If y'all haven't gotten your

0:53:40.160 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 1>copy of Get It with Money? Like what and how? Okay,

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:46.520
<v Speaker 1>no judgment, but police run and go buy it. But

0:53:46.560 --> 0:53:49.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean it has been sold hundreds of thousands of times.

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Tiffany's book is such a corner so in a financial goodness.

0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:54.799
<v Speaker 1>I love that I get to brag on her when

0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:57.880
<v Speaker 1>she's not here, because y'all know I will always stand

0:53:57.920 --> 0:54:01.279
<v Speaker 1>for my girl. And don't forget Brian ambition. We are

0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:03.840
<v Speaker 1>on three times a week now Monday, Wednesday and Friday

0:54:03.880 --> 0:54:06.759
<v Speaker 1>wherever you get your podcasts. We'll see you next time.

0:54:06.880 --> 0:54:09.919
<v Speaker 1>Ba fam