Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions.
Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, friend,
Speaker 1: or a terrible throatful guess what you've got decisions? All right,
Speaker 1: we are back at it again, giving y'all hoes some advice, okay,
Speaker 1: or non hoes like me. Maybe you're a non hole
Speaker 1: like me, But this week we are talking about getting
Speaker 1: the ick. So we're gonna start real quick with this
Speaker 1: letter and get deep into it. Vibe. Hey, ladies, I've
Speaker 1: been listening to your show on and off since high
Speaker 1: school and I love you. Wy the fuck you was off? Baby,
Speaker 1: Calm down, I'll be twenty five in a little under
Speaker 1: a month and I need some advice, so I'll jump
Speaker 1: right in. I started dating this guy and everything was perfect.
Speaker 1: He's a tall, dark skinned, handsome man who is college educated,
Speaker 1: entering his career, family oriented, super considerate, big old dick,
Speaker 1: the whole package. About a month ago into dating, I
Speaker 1: found out that he doesn't shower every day. When I
Speaker 1: brought it up, he said it's because he's a man
Speaker 1: and has sensitive skin and showering often dries it out.
Speaker 1: Nigga invested some set of feel.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. The sensitive skin tea would have
Speaker 2: been I'm like, okay, I ought to believe that some.
Speaker 1: Set of feel okay. I had to address this twice.
Speaker 1: It wasn't until I pointed out that I had a
Speaker 1: bit that I had been avoiding sex with him that
Speaker 1: he finally started showering more often. Trust me, I definitely
Speaker 1: see an improvement, but I'm not gonna hold y'all. I
Speaker 1: already got the ick, and I hate it. I love
Speaker 1: everything else about him, but his lack of hygiene has
Speaker 1: really turned me off. I'm trying to accept that he's
Speaker 1: changing his ways for me, but it's hard. He doesn't
Speaker 1: even look as handsome to me anymore, and I feel
Speaker 1: like I shouldn't have to tell a grown ass man
Speaker 1: about showering in the first place. After getting the ick,
Speaker 1: I decided to expand my options because I still wanted
Speaker 1: to fuck, just not him. I started dating another guy
Speaker 1: who is also great, college educated in his career, family oriented, tall, brownskin,
Speaker 1: and a gentleman. Plus the physical chemistry is amazing, probably
Speaker 1: the best sex I've ever had, definitely the biggest dick who. However,
Speaker 1: I suspect he might be a scammer. In addition to
Speaker 1: his office shop. I asked him about this since I'm
Speaker 1: from Florida and I know scammerdy. I asked him about
Speaker 1: it since I'm from Florida and I know scammers, but
Speaker 1: he insists he's not. I just don't have any solid proof,
Speaker 1: just the gut filling. So here are her questions. Question one,
Speaker 1: Should I give Guy one a chance? Or should I
Speaker 1: cut him off and just focus on Guy Too? Or
Speaker 1: should I just say fucking and cut both these niggas off?
Speaker 1: For context? If it matters, Guy one is thirty one,
Speaker 1: Guy Too is twenty seven. Thanks in advance, I know
Speaker 1: you're gonna make me laugh. Sincerely, a hole stuck between
Speaker 1: two dicks?
Speaker 3: Does Guy number one stink? She didn't mention him sinking.
Speaker 1: She said that, well, he doesn't shower, and it's made
Speaker 1: her not want to even happen. I feel like she
Speaker 1: didn't say it, but I feel like there's something there.
Speaker 1: But there's something there that's turning her off. And it
Speaker 1: might be the smell or just the clo I don't
Speaker 1: want to lick you in your ass if you don't
Speaker 1: go on two days without showering, like she doesn't give
Speaker 1: me lick me ask? I mean well, it doesn't necessarily.
Speaker 1: I mean, who knows. I didn't get enough details, but
Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily seem like she enjoys the fact that
Speaker 1: he doesn't shower, and to me that that leads me
Speaker 1: to believe maybe there's a sense of smell or just
Speaker 1: even knowing psychologic mind.
Speaker 2: You guys are gross. There's always a little something where
Speaker 2: you got to check them on it. But showering feels
Speaker 2: like the thing they should be able to figure out.
Speaker 2: Like I feel like a guy may not change their
Speaker 2: sheets enough. You gotta remind him that. Like men just
Speaker 2: be a little lazy, but shower, especially when you're coming
Speaker 2: to see me or we're seeing each other. I feel
Speaker 2: like that's a common courtesy.
Speaker 1: To be clean. For sure.
Speaker 2: I feel like you might have to sensitive skins. He
Speaker 2: led with I'm a man, which means he just don't
Speaker 2: like doing it. Gunplay just had a video come out
Speaker 2: said that he ain't showering three d's because he an't
Speaker 2: want to.
Speaker 1: You saw that. That's crazy. They put that on the
Speaker 1: shade so crazy. That is insane. I mean, I guess
Speaker 1: between the two you then okay, I mean clearly, for me, girl,
Speaker 1: just keep dating. I don't think you like none of
Speaker 1: these niggas, and I don't think you have to settle
Speaker 1: with either of them. That would be my answer in
Speaker 1: terms of you asking what you should do with who
Speaker 1: you should date, I just think you should keep dating.
Speaker 1: You're really not into either of these men. I think
Speaker 1: even you thinking that the second one is a scammer,
Speaker 1: that's gonna be an itch if you have a gut
Speaker 1: feeling that he.
Speaker 2: Not just says college educated, but what kind of degree
Speaker 2: is it? He's the Nigel boy is selling them bit
Speaker 2: because if it's communications hone. I'm at a Nigerian nigga
Speaker 2: who told me after four dates he did have read
Speaker 2: he worked in it. And I was like, did you
Speaker 2: always want to do that or like? He literally was like,
Speaker 2: I mean I didn't want to do it, but I'm
Speaker 2: now I'm so good at it. He was like, it
Speaker 2: just you know, the degree fell in my life.
Speaker 1: What are some icks in dating previous men that have
Speaker 1: got you to like not even want to continue dating them? Like,
Speaker 1: and you too, boy, have been some previous X Like
Speaker 1: for me, I'll start. I really don't like a condescending man.
Speaker 1: So someone who is overly confident thinking he know everything
Speaker 1: he's saying, but I know he wrong, and he's not
Speaker 1: willing to change his because he just dead ass wrong.
Speaker 1: That gives me an ick. And then also someone who
Speaker 1: overly talks about doing something and his actions don't match up.
Speaker 1: So like someone who's like, Ooh, I'm gonna take you here.
Speaker 1: I have this really dope place and we a month
Speaker 1: and a half in and you ain't done it. There
Speaker 1: was a guy that recently did that, and I didn't
Speaker 1: care how big his dick was, how good he a pussy.
Speaker 1: I literally was like, I'm so turned off by you.
Speaker 1: He kept promising to take me to get oysters for
Speaker 1: a month and a half, bitch. They are a dollar
Speaker 1: per half hour, So it's not even a money thing
Speaker 1: at this point. It is the fact that you've said
Speaker 1: that you were gonna do something multiple times and you
Speaker 1: did it that I was just like, you not even
Speaker 1: a nigga. Do you know what I think that is?
Speaker 2: I feel like when men do that, they just have
Speaker 2: too many people in their ulster at the moment. I
Speaker 2: actually think there's no other excuse in that.
Speaker 1: Like, right, it's just if you could ask to come over,
Speaker 1: you could take me out to oysters, like to me then,
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. You're over promising and under delivering.
Speaker 1: You're constantly saying you're gonna do something and you're not
Speaker 1: doing it. I don't think it necessarily even has to
Speaker 1: be a roster thing, because if you're constantly wanting to
Speaker 1: see me and come over and do these things, nigga,
Speaker 1: why you keep bringing up oysters? But nigga, you want
Speaker 1: to come over at ten o'clock at night, right, And
Speaker 1: so to me, don't even bring up the oysters if
Speaker 1: you want a whole different type of arrangement with me,
Speaker 1: because at this point now I'm so disgusted that you
Speaker 1: kept bringing up these goddamn oysters. Then now I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in even you coming over to my house.
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in being with you because you you
Speaker 1: a liar. Like I really don't like liars or someone
Speaker 1: who's just diarrhea at the mouth saying some things that
Speaker 1: they're not even trying to do. I don't want someone
Speaker 1: to sell me false dreams or hopes or whatever the
Speaker 1: fuck that is the quickest way to like, just give
Speaker 1: me the ick. I will also say something else for
Speaker 1: niggas with hair I don't care what you gotta do,
Speaker 1: how good you look in the braids, the dreads, the twisties.
Speaker 1: If I go to hug you and that hair stinks, bruh,
Speaker 1: And I know you got dreads, and I know you
Speaker 1: be keeping up with your shit. I love a motherfucking
Speaker 1: with hair. But if we are having sex or I'm
Speaker 1: laying down and your head and I gotta turn around
Speaker 1: and your fucking hair stinks like, that's something that will
Speaker 1: make my pussy prune up and dry, and I I
Speaker 1: don't know if I even want to hug you anymore.
Speaker 2: I've actually heard the same thing that girl heard. I
Speaker 2: remember telling a dude like, you should wash your hair,
Speaker 2: and he was like, yeah, ruins the locks, nigga.
Speaker 1: You don't care that that and and stink breath, those
Speaker 1: are my icks. You could be fine as fuck. You
Speaker 1: gotta whisper in my ear and that shit is hot
Speaker 1: and sank. I don't want you anymore. So those stank hare.
Speaker 1: A lot of the scammer dudes have sank breath because
Speaker 1: of the venears. You got to learn how to use them.
Speaker 1: Stank care are for real, sank uh sank breath. Also,
Speaker 1: the golds they use, I mean if you, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: certain jewelry in your mouth, so stank care, sank breath,
Speaker 1: and over promising and under delivering. Those are my icks.
Speaker 1: What are some of y'all's ex I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of someone that came to mind. Oh,
Speaker 2: I feel like I've met a lot of men that
Speaker 2: try to.
Speaker 1: Tell me they're better than they are.
Speaker 2: Like, for example, a first date thing, they'll just start
Speaker 2: telling me about all these book or some shit or
Speaker 2: some great habits they have, and then you start dating
Speaker 2: them and you.
Speaker 1: Never fucking see it. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 2: If you read ten books on the first day, Like yeah,
Speaker 2: just like be a casual person, right, we all read
Speaker 2: once in a blue Maybe you're an avid reader. I'm
Speaker 2: right in the middle. I'm moderate, right, maybe a book
Speaker 2: a month. And I just find that, like, I love
Speaker 2: when men are who are people. Even women too are
Speaker 2: who they are from the jump yep. That really has
Speaker 2: been an itck for me. For men and women too,
Speaker 2: it's so annoying, like, oh my god, I work out here,
Speaker 2: I don't eat car especially men that tell me they
Speaker 2: don't drink. I've experienced this too, I know. I feel
Speaker 2: like I'm on a roll with this, but it keeps
Speaker 2: coming up. I don't drink, but then you have a
Speaker 2: drink with me three days later, Like, what the fuck
Speaker 2: are you talking about?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Occasionally, so then don't say you.
Speaker 2: Don't drink, right, you don't drink often, say you like
Speaker 2: to drink a certain settings, Like that's fine.
Speaker 1: Is there a way that someone can give you the
Speaker 1: ick and you can get past it? Or does an
Speaker 1: itch normally mean it's time to go? Like this girl
Speaker 1: literally said she has the inch to where she wasn't
Speaker 1: even sexually attracted to this man anymore. Do you think
Speaker 1: there's a way that you can address an inch and
Speaker 1: get past it? Or do you think that once someone
Speaker 1: gives you an ick it's over for that person? And
Speaker 1: well if you two, do you think once you get
Speaker 1: the ick as a man like by a woman?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What couldn't your little women do that make you? Oh?
Speaker 1: I have a list too, if you want me to share, So.
Speaker 3: I immediately I think about a story where I was
Speaker 3: dating this girl. An ex girlfriend of mine had a
Speaker 3: little brother. He looked at me like a big brother.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: I had been broken up with this girl for years,
Speaker 3: maybe like three years later, her little brother h hissed
Speaker 3: me up, like, hey, I'm going through something. I need
Speaker 3: to talk to you. I'm in a new relationship though,
Speaker 3: so this is my ex girlfriend's little brother and I'm
Speaker 3: telling the girl that I'm with now like hey, like
Speaker 3: he needs to talk to me. I was always a
Speaker 3: bigger brother in his life. I want to go do it.
Speaker 3: And she was like, nah, I'm not cool with that,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I'm gonna fucking do it, and
Speaker 3: I literally broke up with her behind this Just that
Speaker 3: feeling of control.
Speaker 1: Unnecessary oh an unnecessary controlling. I get that. I get
Speaker 1: that this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you an't need to be going over there and
Speaker 2: have a Sunday dinner. But absolutely we make connections with
Speaker 2: people that all the time.
Speaker 1: Now, this comes from BuzzFeed for the women listening, I
Speaker 1: did want to provide you a list. This is from
Speaker 1: men in which they say these are the things that
Speaker 1: they get X from women. So and let me know
Speaker 1: you agree or not. Okay, So this is what men
Speaker 1: get the x FL can I guess, Well, there's a list,
Speaker 1: let me get if you agree. Well, I don't know
Speaker 1: the whole list is no, I want to see if
Speaker 1: they come up. I don't know, double backing on the text.
Speaker 2: Let's see if text something about cleaniness and texting is
Speaker 2: going to come up, and I think it's going to
Speaker 2: be something with you said on the text, like just
Speaker 2: like over over over texting like hello, and I think
Speaker 2: there's going to be something about money and expectations.
Speaker 1: Let's see. Well, the number one is is no reciprocation
Speaker 1: of efforts, so pretty much you know them constantly having
Speaker 1: to text first, them constantly setting up the dates, and
Speaker 1: you not really showing them the same interests. This one
Speaker 1: is big rude and demeaning attitudes like aggressively rude or demeaning.
Speaker 1: I know, like one of the things for me is
Speaker 1: and that will give me an itck. If we are
Speaker 1: at a restaurant, absolutely and you treat the bartender or
Speaker 1: server like shit, absolutely, that is an inch that I
Speaker 1: don't think I can look past. I don't think I
Speaker 1: can look past that either. Another one which is really
Speaker 1: interesting is a woman with no hobbies. People who cannot
Speaker 1: amuse themselves usually demand your full attention, making you unable
Speaker 1: to practice your own hobbies. Also, an overly negative person.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not all days are good, but people who complain
Speaker 1: about every detail, even if their day would be considered
Speaker 1: amazing by most. Most are a pain that I can't
Speaker 1: deal with people like that, you know, like where every
Speaker 1: time you call somebody and fucking hell is happening in
Speaker 1: the life, you know. I really believe that they circulate that.
Speaker 2: Like, for example, there could be someone that can call
Speaker 2: my phone and says they just got in a fight,
Speaker 2: and I'm be like, oh my god, girl, what bitch? Right,
Speaker 2: There's another person that'd be like, oh my god, those
Speaker 2: number ones.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I do feel like that drama like finds you because
Speaker 2: you enjoy it. It's something that just keeps you going.
Speaker 2: And I think sometimes unfortunately, I believe it's a social
Speaker 2: media thing. I believe it's a Twitter spirit thing.
Speaker 1: All of it.
Speaker 2: The camaraderie of hating things has brought out that negative attitude.
Speaker 2: People just wake up angry after looking at something or
Speaker 2: and then they push it onto you or they enjoy
Speaker 2: debating all the time, and that's not a way I
Speaker 2: like to connect.
Speaker 1: Ye same. I think this one's interesting because when we
Speaker 1: think of dating, we think of in person. However, a
Speaker 1: lot of people on dating apps and this guy said
Speaker 1: that an ick for him prior to even getting on
Speaker 1: a date with a woman is when their dating profile
Speaker 1: is a list of qualities they want in a man
Speaker 1: doesn't say anything about what they're like or what they bring.
Speaker 2: To a because I've seen it on the back end,
Speaker 2: you must be a non smoker.
Speaker 1: I don't like this. I don't like that, and fifty
Speaker 1: fifty fucked off. And then this is an interesting one.
Speaker 1: This is an ick from another user. He said, women
Speaker 1: who think they need to cut down every other female
Speaker 1: they see. It's repulsing to bring up what a woman
Speaker 1: is wearing, to bring up their TACKI hair or what
Speaker 1: they're saying. Just to constantly put down other women is
Speaker 1: also an ick. And I want to share one more
Speaker 1: because you've said this. In another uh male that we
Speaker 1: went over, a man actually said if they only have
Speaker 1: guy friends, claims other women are too much drama. Coincidentally,
Speaker 1: it's always involved in drama and loves gossip, always talks
Speaker 1: about haters and fans. Who one said that, Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: an ick if a woman, which is kind of playing
Speaker 1: off what I just said. If you constantly just want
Speaker 1: to talk down on women and only have male friends,
Speaker 1: you may kind of be the problem. And I'm interested
Speaker 1: by that. But girls like to act like bitches hate them.
Speaker 1: They do, they do, they do, And I love that
Speaker 1: mann noticing like, bitch, there might be something wrong with you.
Speaker 3: Sure you know, because at first it might come off like, oh,
Speaker 3: like she's just that cool, you know what I mean
Speaker 3: to somebody who don't got the wisdom, But then you
Speaker 3: eventually learn. To me, I'm surprised a woman having bad
Speaker 3: money happens is not on there, because that's that's gonna be.
Speaker 1: An ick for me in what way?
Speaker 3: If you if you like constantly putting yourself in a
Speaker 3: position where you need money for me, like always because
Speaker 3: it's like, oh the shopping always come first or whatever,
Speaker 3: Like you're always doing big on the bill, and it's
Speaker 3: like and now you have nothing.
Speaker 1: Left for yourself, like you still got shit to do.
Speaker 1: Bill spread response financial response ability as an adult. But
Speaker 1: absolutely turn me off from a man as well, like Nigga,
Speaker 1: wasn't you just out with your homeboys? What you mean
Speaker 1: you can't pay your phone?
Speaker 2: To be honest, I think excessive spending period like when
Speaker 2: you date men with money, like women dating men with
Speaker 2: money like sometimes they be it just feels ridiculous. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and you're like, is this a show? Off for you?
Speaker 1: Is it for me? Like? What is it with girls?
Speaker 2: I can completely understand because we start our shopping addiction early.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Now Amazon has taken it to a new place where
Speaker 2: I could my addiction is a clique that just says
Speaker 2: by now not even add the car now.
Speaker 1: She brought up our our whorehive member brought up that
Speaker 1: she expressed her ick with this guy and he did
Speaker 1: start to change. Is there is there a like have
Speaker 1: you guys brought up an ick with someone and got
Speaker 1: past it? Or that they changed and you didn't like them,
Speaker 1: or was it too late?
Speaker 3: Actually, every I've ever brought up they never fixed it.
Speaker 3: And that's ah, they never fixed it.
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I'm kind of think wed thing that
Speaker 1: I got fixed.
Speaker 2: I did think this one was. Oh my ex boyfriend
Speaker 2: was old. Day was really not considerate of He grew
Speaker 2: up Jehovah's witness of birthdays or holidays, which is ironic
Speaker 2: because we talked about that a few weeks ago. But
Speaker 2: the holiday part was fine, but the birthday part wasn't
Speaker 2: because I feel like he couldn't figure out a way
Speaker 2: to acknowledge big moments because it really wasn't the holiday thing.
Speaker 2: It was like, oh, you don't know how to celebrate.
Speaker 2: He definitely was able to step that up. He like
Speaker 2: looked at it from a point where it wasn't me
Speaker 2: trying to be vain and I need you to do
Speaker 2: this for me more than he was like, oh yeah,
Speaker 2: like I need to show up for you.
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that leans more into the
Speaker 1: compromises and sacrifices than the icks. No, no, no.
Speaker 2: My ich was that he literally would not okay, like
Speaker 2: Mandy I would write him, oh my god, we just
Speaker 2: did this awesome, Like another friend would be sending me
Speaker 2: flowers for something. My birthday would come around like things
Speaker 2: were just not adding up, Like he didn't know how
Speaker 2: to be excited for me, and I couldn't understand what
Speaker 2: it was, which was why when he surprised me at
Speaker 2: our show the thing that was twenty nineteen, that was
Speaker 2: a big deal because I thought he was going on vacation.
Speaker 2: He was like, oh no, I realized, like I need
Speaker 2: to do that. I think sometimes I don't know if
Speaker 2: it was in his particular case, but men don't know
Speaker 2: how to celebrate women.
Speaker 1: When they're insecure. They don't know that they don't want
Speaker 1: to give your flowers all the time. I you know,
Speaker 1: I just read this thing.
Speaker 2: It may have been on Twitter where a woman got
Speaker 2: a three hundred thousand dollars job offer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no it was three times. No, it wasn't three
Speaker 1: hundred thousand, it was three three times his money. So yeah,
Speaker 1: just got a got a salary three times her man's salary.
Speaker 1: And they were engaged. He gave yeah, they were about
Speaker 1: to get married, and he was like, that would make
Speaker 1: me insecure in this relationship. I don't want to be
Speaker 1: with a woman who makes three times more than me,
Speaker 1: and gave her the ultimatum, either you take the job
Speaker 1: or we don't get married. And she called off the
Speaker 1: wedding to keep the career. But I think that, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I think she Do you think she called
Speaker 1: it to keep?
Speaker 2: I would I really think you broke up with somebody
Speaker 2: because you realize that wasn't for you, Like because someone's
Speaker 2: going to threaten her and say, oh you.
Speaker 1: Chose work over, Yeah, get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 1: That would be anck And I'm glad that she chose
Speaker 1: to leave that mom. And you know what's crazy.
Speaker 2: You think about getting married and it's like it becomes
Speaker 2: so we you know what I'm saying, like we this
Speaker 2: we that like someone making three times more in your household.
Speaker 1: And you don't look at it as a WI when
Speaker 1: y'all are to get married.
Speaker 2: I don't know if we discussed this, but I saw
Speaker 2: a video recently where a woman said, if someone makes
Speaker 2: drastically more like double or triple, they should be taking
Speaker 2: on more of the bills. And honestly, I kind of agree.
Speaker 2: I don't believe that for regular datings situations, but in
Speaker 2: a marriage, like I don't know, let's just say you're
Speaker 2: I hate bringing your name up, but it's only when
Speaker 2: I could think of Nicki Minaj because her husband, I
Speaker 2: don't know what he does, but like maybe he managed
Speaker 2: this with sex offender, that's what he does. I don't
Speaker 2: want to like bring this shit up, like but I'm saying,
Speaker 2: I don't know if he's what work he's in. But
Speaker 2: she's such a fucking you know, megastar, super rich, Like
Speaker 2: why would you be fifty to fifty with this person? Like, yeah,
Speaker 2: your money should be blended together. I definitely think there's
Speaker 2: room for that to make sense. But yeah, like if
Speaker 2: I was making three times my man was making I'd
Speaker 2: be like, okay, baby, well I'm gonna put some more
Speaker 2: and mortgage.
Speaker 1: What the fuck like, let me get the job. You
Speaker 1: got that insecure? Oh you could have rode their way
Speaker 1: before we get out of here. I did want to
Speaker 1: go over the list of it's that women share that
Speaker 1: they have about guys. Let's do it, and these are there,
Speaker 1: which is crazy. Mine was lying over mundane things instead
Speaker 1: of being direct for the sake of not being confrontational
Speaker 1: men men who can't do anything for themselves. A lot
Speaker 1: of times this is mama boys, but she's She's saying
Speaker 1: basics like laundry, washing, dishes, and basic cleaning. So I
Speaker 1: know we talked about having the shower. I agree. I
Speaker 1: don't want a man who don't know how to make
Speaker 1: a bed, do his own laundry, or do any of that.
Speaker 1: And let's okay, cool, maybe you haven't made if you
Speaker 1: can afford that, cool, But to just go without having
Speaker 1: to do that, I don't know. This is crazy because
Speaker 1: this is very similar to what the men said, jokingly
Speaker 1: putting others down and then saying it was a joke.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't like that either. I
Speaker 1: don't like someone who constantly has to be negative. And
Speaker 1: then this is so much women, poor control over their anger,
Speaker 1: cruelty to animals, oh, littering, and lack of respect for
Speaker 1: the planet over your anger. Yeah, I feel like the
Speaker 1: other ones are ship We all know you, like Doug.
Speaker 2: If I've dated somebody that's rude to fucking animals, people
Speaker 2: like duh. But I'm saying like that was an interesting one.
Speaker 2: I mean the littering was interesting because I don't think, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I've seen men do that.
Speaker 1: I hate it. I've seen people do that same, So
Speaker 1: you know, bring that up when I see that all
Speaker 1: like casual, because I'm that that wouldn't be if you
Speaker 1: have a pizza in your hand.
Speaker 2: We live in New York, so this is what I
Speaker 2: see a lot. You have a pizza in your hand
Speaker 2: and you dropped that plate. I'll be telling people right
Speaker 2: in their face. And I live in the Lower East Side,
Speaker 2: where people love to get fucking flushed. I'd be like,
Speaker 2: you ain't see that. Josh Cat over there every time.
Speaker 2: I'm man hates when I do that.
Speaker 1: I want to say a lot of these aligned with
Speaker 1: the same someone being super negative, getting annoyed or agitated
Speaker 1: and not telling me why, lack of communication, and yet
Speaker 1: again on both lists are being rude to wait staff
Speaker 1: for any service jobs that seems to be an itch
Speaker 1: and a red flag across the board.
Speaker 2: You always wonder, too, how someone can do it when
Speaker 2: we all know it's fucked up. And the only thing
Speaker 2: I can boil it down to is pride and ego.
Speaker 1: I feel like, or literally, people.
Speaker 2: Know they're not supposed to do that, but they feel
Speaker 2: very powerful because they feel like if they're being served,
Speaker 2: there's just like I feel like that's.
Speaker 1: What it is. Yeah, but it makes you a ship personal. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, where does it like?
Speaker 2: We all know this is something that someone wouldn't like,
Speaker 2: and I'm trying to think where does it come from.
Speaker 1: I'm just I never have that kind of demeanor, but
Speaker 1: I've seen it. I've seen it.
Speaker 2: When I'm out at random bars and people get too
Speaker 2: drunk and they get like ridiculous. Also they're not getting checked.
Speaker 1: And here's the.
Speaker 2: Thing, men and women, when you're on a date with
Speaker 2: someone that's doing something you don't like to someone else
Speaker 2: when another person is involved.
Speaker 1: I'm bringing it up, why'd you talk to her like that? Exactly?
Speaker 2: Why did you say this like you have to? Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's an embarrassing embarrassment for me for you to be
Speaker 2: speaking to a waitress. I'm a woman and I'm fucking
Speaker 2: what the fuck?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, you know when the last time that happened to
Speaker 2: me was an Uber driver got into Uber with this dude.
Speaker 2: He was asking the dude to cauld He changed the
Speaker 2: music and the guy was like, Okay, wait till I stop,
Speaker 2: and I can do the bluetooth.
Speaker 1: So why you can't stop right now? Because he not?
Speaker 1: And actually I don't want to hear the music. Can
Speaker 1: you turn up one ouse seven point three? That's all
Speaker 1: I want to hear. Whatever you got on now? Hell
Speaker 1: now I do? What is the what? Yeah? Like Nigga,
Speaker 1: Obviously that's the one. I think that's the main one.
Speaker 1: That's the main one. And that is when you're right.
Speaker 1: I don't think you get overseeing someone be disrespectful to
Speaker 1: someone else. Because I listened to jab be by now
Speaker 1: I'm turned off by you. It speaks to who you
Speaker 1: are as a person in your character.
Speaker 2: Also, like knowing that you are taking some sort of
Speaker 2: pleasure because people like to show off when they talk
Speaker 2: down to someone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't like that, because who are you
Speaker 1: shown up for that, especially if we're addressing that. Most
Speaker 1: people do not like that because that's not the way.
Speaker 1: Do you think that's for me? That's crazy you say
Speaker 1: that's for me.
Speaker 2: You know what, I will say this to anyone listening
Speaker 2: the most. I've met some of the most beautiful women
Speaker 2: that are the most insecure. I've got homegirls with helloplastic
Speaker 2: surgery that still hate themselves. Not homegirls. But you know, bitches,
Speaker 2: I just know right. I will tell you that quiet
Speaker 2: confidence men and women take you so far. I've met
Speaker 2: some very wealthy men that don't act like it, and
Speaker 2: it is so impressive to me when someone learns how
Speaker 2: to not use the things they have or the way
Speaker 2: they look to gain popularity for attraction or draw people
Speaker 2: into them. It's some weird ass shit to me when
Speaker 2: you start doing that extra extra shit and it doesn't
Speaker 2: display power at all. I'm not excited by you. I
Speaker 2: don't think you're masculine. You're really like a lame And
Speaker 2: now I'm in the group chat talking about you and
Speaker 2: how I just tricked on you for this.
Speaker 1: Dinner, but you we and you lame as fuck. Anyways,
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