1 00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:04,359 Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions. 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, friend, 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: or a terrible throatful guess what you've got decisions? All right, 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: we are back at it again, giving y'all hoes some advice, okay, 5 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: or non hoes like me. Maybe you're a non hole 6 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: like me, But this week we are talking about getting 7 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: the ick. So we're gonna start real quick with this 8 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: letter and get deep into it. Vibe. Hey, ladies, I've 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: been listening to your show on and off since high 10 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: school and I love you. Wy the fuck you was off? Baby, 11 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: Calm down, I'll be twenty five in a little under 12 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: a month and I need some advice, so I'll jump 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: right in. I started dating this guy and everything was perfect. 14 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: He's a tall, dark skinned, handsome man who is college educated, 15 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: entering his career, family oriented, super considerate, big old dick, 16 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: the whole package. About a month ago into dating, I 17 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: found out that he doesn't shower every day. When I 18 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: brought it up, he said it's because he's a man 19 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: and has sensitive skin and showering often dries it out. 20 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: Nigga invested some set of feel. 21 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. The sensitive skin tea would have 22 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: been I'm like, okay, I ought to believe that some. 23 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: Set of feel okay. I had to address this twice. 24 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: It wasn't until I pointed out that I had a 25 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: bit that I had been avoiding sex with him that 26 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:34,119 Speaker 1: he finally started showering more often. Trust me, I definitely 27 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: see an improvement, but I'm not gonna hold y'all. I 28 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: already got the ick, and I hate it. I love 29 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: everything else about him, but his lack of hygiene has 30 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: really turned me off. I'm trying to accept that he's 31 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: changing his ways for me, but it's hard. He doesn't 32 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: even look as handsome to me anymore, and I feel 33 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: like I shouldn't have to tell a grown ass man 34 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: about showering in the first place. After getting the ick, 35 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: I decided to expand my options because I still wanted 36 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: to fuck, just not him. I started dating another guy 37 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: who is also great, college educated in his career, family oriented, tall, brownskin, 38 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: and a gentleman. Plus the physical chemistry is amazing, probably 39 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: the best sex I've ever had, definitely the biggest dick who. However, 40 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: I suspect he might be a scammer. In addition to 41 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: his office shop. I asked him about this since I'm 42 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: from Florida and I know scammerdy. I asked him about 43 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: it since I'm from Florida and I know scammers, but 44 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: he insists he's not. I just don't have any solid proof, 45 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: just the gut filling. So here are her questions. Question one, 46 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: Should I give Guy one a chance? Or should I 47 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: cut him off and just focus on Guy Too? Or 48 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: should I just say fucking and cut both these niggas off? 49 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: For context? If it matters, Guy one is thirty one, 50 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: Guy Too is twenty seven. Thanks in advance, I know 51 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: you're gonna make me laugh. Sincerely, a hole stuck between 52 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: two dicks? 53 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 3: Does Guy number one stink? She didn't mention him sinking. 54 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: She said that, well, he doesn't shower, and it's made 55 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: her not want to even happen. I feel like she 56 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 1: didn't say it, but I feel like there's something there. 57 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: But there's something there that's turning her off. And it 58 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: might be the smell or just the clo I don't 59 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: want to lick you in your ass if you don't 60 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: go on two days without showering, like she doesn't give 61 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: me lick me ask? I mean well, it doesn't necessarily. 62 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: I mean, who knows. I didn't get enough details, but 63 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily seem like she enjoys the fact that 64 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: he doesn't shower, and to me that that leads me 65 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: to believe maybe there's a sense of smell or just 66 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: even knowing psychologic mind. 67 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 2: You guys are gross. There's always a little something where 68 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 2: you got to check them on it. But showering feels 69 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 2: like the thing they should be able to figure out. 70 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 2: Like I feel like a guy may not change their 71 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 2: sheets enough. You gotta remind him that. Like men just 72 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: be a little lazy, but shower, especially when you're coming 73 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: to see me or we're seeing each other. I feel 74 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 2: like that's a common courtesy. 75 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: To be clean. For sure. 76 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: I feel like you might have to sensitive skins. He 77 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: led with I'm a man, which means he just don't 78 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: like doing it. Gunplay just had a video come out 79 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 2: said that he ain't showering three d's because he an't 80 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 2: want to. 81 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: You saw that. That's crazy. They put that on the 82 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: shade so crazy. That is insane. I mean, I guess 83 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: between the two you then okay, I mean clearly, for me, girl, 84 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: just keep dating. I don't think you like none of 85 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: these niggas, and I don't think you have to settle 86 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: with either of them. That would be my answer in 87 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: terms of you asking what you should do with who 88 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: you should date, I just think you should keep dating. 89 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: You're really not into either of these men. I think 90 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: even you thinking that the second one is a scammer, 91 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: that's gonna be an itch if you have a gut 92 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: feeling that he. 93 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 2: Not just says college educated, but what kind of degree 94 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: is it? He's the Nigel boy is selling them bit 95 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: because if it's communications hone. I'm at a Nigerian nigga 96 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 2: who told me after four dates he did have read 97 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 2: he worked in it. And I was like, did you 98 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 2: always want to do that or like? He literally was like, 99 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: I mean I didn't want to do it, but I'm 100 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 2: now I'm so good at it. He was like, it 101 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: just you know, the degree fell in my life. 102 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: What are some icks in dating previous men that have 103 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: got you to like not even want to continue dating them? Like, 104 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 1: and you too, boy, have been some previous X Like 105 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: for me, I'll start. I really don't like a condescending man. 106 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: So someone who is overly confident thinking he know everything 107 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: he's saying, but I know he wrong, and he's not 108 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: willing to change his because he just dead ass wrong. 109 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: That gives me an ick. And then also someone who 110 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: overly talks about doing something and his actions don't match up. 111 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: So like someone who's like, Ooh, I'm gonna take you here. 112 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: I have this really dope place and we a month 113 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 1: and a half in and you ain't done it. There 114 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: was a guy that recently did that, and I didn't 115 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: care how big his dick was, how good he a pussy. 116 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 1: I literally was like, I'm so turned off by you. 117 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 1: He kept promising to take me to get oysters for 118 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: a month and a half, bitch. They are a dollar 119 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 1: per half hour, So it's not even a money thing 120 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: at this point. It is the fact that you've said 121 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: that you were gonna do something multiple times and you 122 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: did it that I was just like, you not even 123 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: a nigga. Do you know what I think that is? 124 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: I feel like when men do that, they just have 125 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: too many people in their ulster at the moment. I 126 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: actually think there's no other excuse in that. 127 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: Like, right, it's just if you could ask to come over, 128 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: you could take me out to oysters, like to me then, 129 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. You're over promising and under delivering. 130 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: You're constantly saying you're gonna do something and you're not 131 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: doing it. I don't think it necessarily even has to 132 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: be a roster thing, because if you're constantly wanting to 133 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,679 Speaker 1: see me and come over and do these things, nigga, 134 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: why you keep bringing up oysters? But nigga, you want 135 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: to come over at ten o'clock at night, right, And 136 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: so to me, don't even bring up the oysters if 137 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: you want a whole different type of arrangement with me, 138 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: because at this point now I'm so disgusted that you 139 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: kept bringing up these goddamn oysters. Then now I'm just like, 140 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: I'm not interested in even you coming over to my house. 141 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: I'm not interested in being with you because you you 142 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: a liar. Like I really don't like liars or someone 143 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: who's just diarrhea at the mouth saying some things that 144 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: they're not even trying to do. I don't want someone 145 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: to sell me false dreams or hopes or whatever the 146 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: fuck that is the quickest way to like, just give 147 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: me the ick. I will also say something else for 148 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: niggas with hair I don't care what you gotta do, 149 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: how good you look in the braids, the dreads, the twisties. 150 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: If I go to hug you and that hair stinks, bruh, 151 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: And I know you got dreads, and I know you 152 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: be keeping up with your shit. I love a motherfucking 153 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: with hair. But if we are having sex or I'm 154 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: laying down and your head and I gotta turn around 155 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: and your fucking hair stinks like, that's something that will 156 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: make my pussy prune up and dry, and I I 157 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: don't know if I even want to hug you anymore. 158 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 2: I've actually heard the same thing that girl heard. I 159 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 2: remember telling a dude like, you should wash your hair, 160 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 2: and he was like, yeah, ruins the locks, nigga. 161 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: You don't care that that and and stink breath, those 162 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: are my icks. You could be fine as fuck. You 163 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: gotta whisper in my ear and that shit is hot 164 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: and sank. I don't want you anymore. So those stank hare. 165 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: A lot of the scammer dudes have sank breath because 166 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: of the venears. You got to learn how to use them. 167 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: Stank care are for real, sank uh sank breath. Also, 168 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: the golds they use, I mean if you, oh yeah, 169 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: certain jewelry in your mouth, so stank care, sank breath, 170 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: and over promising and under delivering. Those are my icks. 171 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: What are some of y'all's ex I don't know. 172 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of someone that came to mind. Oh, 173 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 2: I feel like I've met a lot of men that 174 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 2: try to. 175 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: Tell me they're better than they are. 176 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 2: Like, for example, a first date thing, they'll just start 177 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: telling me about all these book or some shit or 178 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 2: some great habits they have, and then you start dating 179 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: them and you. 180 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: Never fucking see it. I don't give a fuck. 181 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 2: If you read ten books on the first day, Like yeah, 182 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 2: just like be a casual person, right, we all read 183 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 2: once in a blue Maybe you're an avid reader. I'm 184 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 2: right in the middle. I'm moderate, right, maybe a book 185 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 2: a month. And I just find that, like, I love 186 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 2: when men are who are people. Even women too are 187 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 2: who they are from the jump yep. That really has 188 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 2: been an itck for me. For men and women too, 189 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 2: it's so annoying, like, oh my god, I work out here, 190 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't eat car especially men that tell me they 191 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: don't drink. I've experienced this too, I know. I feel 192 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 2: like I'm on a roll with this, but it keeps 193 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 2: coming up. I don't drink, but then you have a 194 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 2: drink with me three days later, Like, what the fuck 195 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: are you talking about? 196 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 3: Oh? 197 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: Occasionally, so then don't say you. 198 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: Don't drink, right, you don't drink often, say you like 199 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 2: to drink a certain settings, Like that's fine. 200 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: Is there a way that someone can give you the 201 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: ick and you can get past it? Or does an 202 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: itch normally mean it's time to go? Like this girl 203 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: literally said she has the inch to where she wasn't 204 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: even sexually attracted to this man anymore. Do you think 205 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: there's a way that you can address an inch and 206 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: get past it? Or do you think that once someone 207 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 1: gives you an ick it's over for that person? And 208 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: well if you two, do you think once you get 209 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 1: the ick as a man like by a woman? 210 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 2: Yeah? 211 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: What couldn't your little women do that make you? Oh? 212 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: I have a list too, if you want me to share, So. 213 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 3: I immediately I think about a story where I was 214 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 3: dating this girl. An ex girlfriend of mine had a 215 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: little brother. He looked at me like a big brother. 216 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: Right. 217 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 3: I had been broken up with this girl for years, 218 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 3: maybe like three years later, her little brother h hissed 219 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 3: me up, like, hey, I'm going through something. I need 220 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 3: to talk to you. I'm in a new relationship though, 221 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 3: so this is my ex girlfriend's little brother and I'm 222 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 3: telling the girl that I'm with now like hey, like 223 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 3: he needs to talk to me. I was always a 224 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 3: bigger brother in his life. I want to go do it. 225 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 3: And she was like, nah, I'm not cool with that, 226 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 3: and I was like, I'm gonna fucking do it, and 227 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 3: I literally broke up with her behind this Just that 228 00:10:59,080 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 3: feeling of control. 229 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: Unnecessary oh an unnecessary controlling. I get that. I get 230 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 1: that this. 231 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you an't need to be going over there and 232 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 2: have a Sunday dinner. But absolutely we make connections with 233 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: people that all the time. 234 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: Now, this comes from BuzzFeed for the women listening, I 235 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: did want to provide you a list. This is from 236 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: men in which they say these are the things that 237 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:31,599 Speaker 1: they get X from women. So and let me know 238 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: you agree or not. Okay, So this is what men 239 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: get the x FL can I guess, Well, there's a list, 240 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: let me get if you agree. Well, I don't know 241 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: the whole list is no, I want to see if 242 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: they come up. I don't know, double backing on the text. 243 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: Let's see if text something about cleaniness and texting is 244 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 2: going to come up, and I think it's going to 245 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 2: be something with you said on the text, like just 246 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 2: like over over over texting like hello, and I think 247 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 2: there's going to be something about money and expectations. 248 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: Let's see. Well, the number one is is no reciprocation 249 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: of efforts, so pretty much you know them constantly having 250 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 1: to text first, them constantly setting up the dates, and 251 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: you not really showing them the same interests. This one 252 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: is big rude and demeaning attitudes like aggressively rude or demeaning. 253 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: I know, like one of the things for me is 254 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: and that will give me an itck. If we are 255 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: at a restaurant, absolutely and you treat the bartender or 256 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: server like shit, absolutely, that is an inch that I 257 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: don't think I can look past. I don't think I 258 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: can look past that either. Another one which is really 259 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: interesting is a woman with no hobbies. People who cannot 260 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: amuse themselves usually demand your full attention, making you unable 261 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: to practice your own hobbies. Also, an overly negative person. 262 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: Absolutely not all days are good, but people who complain 263 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: about every detail, even if their day would be considered 264 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: amazing by most. Most are a pain that I can't 265 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: deal with people like that, you know, like where every 266 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: time you call somebody and fucking hell is happening in 267 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 1: the life, you know. I really believe that they circulate that. 268 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 2: Like, for example, there could be someone that can call 269 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 2: my phone and says they just got in a fight, 270 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 2: and I'm be like, oh my god, girl, what bitch? Right, 271 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 2: There's another person that'd be like, oh my god, those 272 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 2: number ones. 273 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 274 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 2: I do feel like that drama like finds you because 275 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 2: you enjoy it. It's something that just keeps you going. 276 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 2: And I think sometimes unfortunately, I believe it's a social 277 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 2: media thing. I believe it's a Twitter spirit thing. 278 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 1: All of it. 279 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 2: The camaraderie of hating things has brought out that negative attitude. 280 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 2: People just wake up angry after looking at something or 281 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: and then they push it onto you or they enjoy 282 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 2: debating all the time, and that's not a way I 283 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 2: like to connect. 284 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: Ye same. I think this one's interesting because when we 285 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: think of dating, we think of in person. However, a 286 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: lot of people on dating apps and this guy said 287 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 1: that an ick for him prior to even getting on 288 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: a date with a woman is when their dating profile 289 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: is a list of qualities they want in a man 290 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: doesn't say anything about what they're like or what they bring. 291 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 2: To a because I've seen it on the back end, 292 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: you must be a non smoker. 293 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: I don't like this. I don't like that, and fifty 294 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: fifty fucked off. And then this is an interesting one. 295 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: This is an ick from another user. He said, women 296 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: who think they need to cut down every other female 297 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 1: they see. It's repulsing to bring up what a woman 298 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 1: is wearing, to bring up their TACKI hair or what 299 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: they're saying. Just to constantly put down other women is 300 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: also an ick. And I want to share one more 301 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: because you've said this. In another uh male that we 302 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: went over, a man actually said if they only have 303 00:14:55,160 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: guy friends, claims other women are too much drama. Coincidentally, 304 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: it's always involved in drama and loves gossip, always talks 305 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: about haters and fans. Who one said that, Yeah, it's 306 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: an ick if a woman, which is kind of playing 307 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 1: off what I just said. If you constantly just want 308 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: to talk down on women and only have male friends, 309 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: you may kind of be the problem. And I'm interested 310 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: by that. But girls like to act like bitches hate them. 311 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: They do, they do, they do, And I love that 312 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: mann noticing like, bitch, there might be something wrong with you. 313 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 3: Sure you know, because at first it might come off like, oh, 314 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 3: like she's just that cool, you know what I mean 315 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: to somebody who don't got the wisdom, But then you 316 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 3: eventually learn. To me, I'm surprised a woman having bad 317 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 3: money happens is not on there, because that's that's gonna be. 318 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: An ick for me in what way? 319 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 3: If you if you like constantly putting yourself in a 320 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 3: position where you need money for me, like always because 321 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 3: it's like, oh the shopping always come first or whatever, 322 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 3: Like you're always doing big on the bill, and it's 323 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 3: like and now you have nothing. 324 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: Left for yourself, like you still got shit to do. 325 00:15:56,920 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 1: Bill spread response financial response ability as an adult. But 326 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: absolutely turn me off from a man as well, like Nigga, 327 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: wasn't you just out with your homeboys? What you mean 328 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: you can't pay your phone? 329 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 2: To be honest, I think excessive spending period like when 330 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: you date men with money, like women dating men with 331 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: money like sometimes they be it just feels ridiculous. Yeah, 332 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 2: and you're like, is this a show? Off for you? 333 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: Is it for me? Like? What is it with girls? 334 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 2: I can completely understand because we start our shopping addiction early. 335 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 336 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 2: Now Amazon has taken it to a new place where 337 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 2: I could my addiction is a clique that just says 338 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 2: by now not even add the car now. 339 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: She brought up our our whorehive member brought up that 340 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: she expressed her ick with this guy and he did 341 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: start to change. Is there is there a like have 342 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: you guys brought up an ick with someone and got 343 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: past it? Or that they changed and you didn't like them, 344 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: or was it too late? 345 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 3: Actually, every I've ever brought up they never fixed it. 346 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 3: And that's ah, they never fixed it. 347 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I'm kind of think wed thing that 348 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: I got fixed. 349 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 2: I did think this one was. Oh my ex boyfriend 350 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,479 Speaker 2: was old. Day was really not considerate of He grew 351 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: up Jehovah's witness of birthdays or holidays, which is ironic 352 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 2: because we talked about that a few weeks ago. But 353 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 2: the holiday part was fine, but the birthday part wasn't 354 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 2: because I feel like he couldn't figure out a way 355 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 2: to acknowledge big moments because it really wasn't the holiday thing. 356 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 2: It was like, oh, you don't know how to celebrate. 357 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 2: He definitely was able to step that up. He like 358 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 2: looked at it from a point where it wasn't me 359 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 2: trying to be vain and I need you to do 360 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 2: this for me more than he was like, oh yeah, 361 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 2: like I need to show up for you. 362 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that leans more into the 363 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 1: compromises and sacrifices than the icks. No, no, no. 364 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 2: My ich was that he literally would not okay, like 365 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 2: Mandy I would write him, oh my god, we just 366 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 2: did this awesome, Like another friend would be sending me 367 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 2: flowers for something. My birthday would come around like things 368 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: were just not adding up, Like he didn't know how 369 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 2: to be excited for me, and I couldn't understand what 370 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: it was, which was why when he surprised me at 371 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 2: our show the thing that was twenty nineteen, that was 372 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 2: a big deal because I thought he was going on vacation. 373 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 2: He was like, oh no, I realized, like I need 374 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 2: to do that. I think sometimes I don't know if 375 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 2: it was in his particular case, but men don't know 376 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 2: how to celebrate women. 377 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: When they're insecure. They don't know that they don't want 378 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 1: to give your flowers all the time. I you know, 379 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 1: I just read this thing. 380 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: It may have been on Twitter where a woman got 381 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 2: a three hundred thousand dollars job offer. 382 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, no it was three times. No, it wasn't three 383 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: hundred thousand, it was three three times his money. So yeah, 384 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 1: just got a got a salary three times her man's salary. 385 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: And they were engaged. He gave yeah, they were about 386 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 1: to get married, and he was like, that would make 387 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: me insecure in this relationship. I don't want to be 388 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: with a woman who makes three times more than me, 389 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: and gave her the ultimatum, either you take the job 390 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: or we don't get married. And she called off the 391 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 1: wedding to keep the career. But I think that, yeah, 392 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean I think she Do you think she called 393 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: it to keep? 394 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 2: I would I really think you broke up with somebody 395 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 2: because you realize that wasn't for you, Like because someone's 396 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 2: going to threaten her and say, oh you. 397 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 1: Chose work over, Yeah, get the fuck out of here. 398 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 1: That would be anck And I'm glad that she chose 399 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: to leave that mom. And you know what's crazy. 400 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 2: You think about getting married and it's like it becomes 401 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:34,439 Speaker 2: so we you know what I'm saying, like we this 402 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 2: we that like someone making three times more in your household. 403 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,199 Speaker 1: And you don't look at it as a WI when 404 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: y'all are to get married. 405 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 2: I don't know if we discussed this, but I saw 406 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 2: a video recently where a woman said, if someone makes 407 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: drastically more like double or triple, they should be taking 408 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 2: on more of the bills. And honestly, I kind of agree. 409 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 2: I don't believe that for regular datings situations, but in 410 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 2: a marriage, like I don't know, let's just say you're 411 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 2: I hate bringing your name up, but it's only when 412 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 2: I could think of Nicki Minaj because her husband, I 413 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 2: don't know what he does, but like maybe he managed 414 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,880 Speaker 2: this with sex offender, that's what he does. I don't 415 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 2: want to like bring this shit up, like but I'm saying, 416 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if he's what work he's in. But 417 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,719 Speaker 2: she's such a fucking you know, megastar, super rich, Like 418 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 2: why would you be fifty to fifty with this person? Like, yeah, 419 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 2: your money should be blended together. I definitely think there's 420 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 2: room for that to make sense. But yeah, like if 421 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: I was making three times my man was making I'd 422 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: be like, okay, baby, well I'm gonna put some more 423 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 2: and mortgage. 424 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: What the fuck like, let me get the job. You 425 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 1: got that insecure? Oh you could have rode their way 426 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 1: before we get out of here. I did want to 427 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: go over the list of it's that women share that 428 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: they have about guys. Let's do it, and these are there, 429 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: which is crazy. Mine was lying over mundane things instead 430 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: of being direct for the sake of not being confrontational 431 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: men men who can't do anything for themselves. A lot 432 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 1: of times this is mama boys, but she's She's saying 433 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: basics like laundry, washing, dishes, and basic cleaning. So I 434 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: know we talked about having the shower. I agree. I 435 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: don't want a man who don't know how to make 436 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: a bed, do his own laundry, or do any of that. 437 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: And let's okay, cool, maybe you haven't made if you 438 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 1: can afford that, cool, But to just go without having 439 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: to do that, I don't know. This is crazy because 440 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: this is very similar to what the men said, jokingly 441 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: putting others down and then saying it was a joke. 442 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I don't like that either. I 443 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 1: don't like someone who constantly has to be negative. And 444 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 1: then this is so much women, poor control over their anger, 445 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: cruelty to animals, oh, littering, and lack of respect for 446 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 1: the planet over your anger. Yeah, I feel like the 447 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: other ones are ship We all know you, like Doug. 448 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 2: If I've dated somebody that's rude to fucking animals, people 449 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: like duh. But I'm saying like that was an interesting one. 450 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 2: I mean the littering was interesting because I don't think, oh, 451 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I've seen men do that. 452 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 1: I hate it. I've seen people do that same, So 453 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: you know, bring that up when I see that all 454 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 1: like casual, because I'm that that wouldn't be if you 455 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: have a pizza in your hand. 456 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 2: We live in New York, so this is what I 457 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 2: see a lot. You have a pizza in your hand 458 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,719 Speaker 2: and you dropped that plate. I'll be telling people right 459 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 2: in their face. And I live in the Lower East Side, 460 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 2: where people love to get fucking flushed. I'd be like, 461 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 2: you ain't see that. Josh Cat over there every time. 462 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 2: I'm man hates when I do that. 463 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: I want to say a lot of these aligned with 464 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:45,719 Speaker 1: the same someone being super negative, getting annoyed or agitated 465 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 1: and not telling me why, lack of communication, and yet 466 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: again on both lists are being rude to wait staff 467 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: for any service jobs that seems to be an itch 468 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: and a red flag across the board. 469 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 2: You always wonder, too, how someone can do it when 470 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 2: we all know it's fucked up. And the only thing 471 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,439 Speaker 2: I can boil it down to is pride and ego. 472 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: I feel like, or literally, people. 473 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 2: Know they're not supposed to do that, but they feel 474 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 2: very powerful because they feel like if they're being served, 475 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 2: there's just like I feel like that's. 476 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 1: What it is. Yeah, but it makes you a ship personal. Yes, 477 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm saying, where does it like? 478 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 2: We all know this is something that someone wouldn't like, 479 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 2: and I'm trying to think where does it come from. 480 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 1: I'm just I never have that kind of demeanor, but 481 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 1: I've seen it. I've seen it. 482 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 2: When I'm out at random bars and people get too 483 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 2: drunk and they get like ridiculous. Also they're not getting checked. 484 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 1: And here's the. 485 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 2: Thing, men and women, when you're on a date with 486 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 2: someone that's doing something you don't like to someone else 487 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 2: when another person is involved. 488 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 1: I'm bringing it up, why'd you talk to her like that? Exactly? 489 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 2: Why did you say this like you have to? Yeah, 490 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,399 Speaker 2: it's an embarrassing embarrassment for me for you to be 491 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 2: speaking to a waitress. I'm a woman and I'm fucking 492 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:00,359 Speaker 2: what the fuck? 493 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? 494 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 2: No, you know when the last time that happened to 495 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 2: me was an Uber driver got into Uber with this dude. 496 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 2: He was asking the dude to cauld He changed the 497 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: music and the guy was like, Okay, wait till I stop, 498 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: and I can do the bluetooth. 499 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: So why you can't stop right now? Because he not? 500 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,880 Speaker 1: And actually I don't want to hear the music. Can 501 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: you turn up one ouse seven point three? That's all 502 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: I want to hear. Whatever you got on now? Hell 503 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 1: now I do? What is the what? Yeah? Like Nigga, 504 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: Obviously that's the one. I think that's the main one. 505 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,120 Speaker 1: That's the main one. And that is when you're right. 506 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 1: I don't think you get overseeing someone be disrespectful to 507 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,959 Speaker 1: someone else. Because I listened to jab be by now 508 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 1: I'm turned off by you. It speaks to who you 509 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: are as a person in your character. 510 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: Also, like knowing that you are taking some sort of 511 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: pleasure because people like to show off when they talk 512 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 2: down to someone. 513 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't like that, because who are you 514 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: shown up for that, especially if we're addressing that. Most 515 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 1: people do not like that because that's not the way. 516 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: Do you think that's for me? That's crazy you say 517 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: that's for me. 518 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 2: You know what, I will say this to anyone listening 519 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 2: the most. I've met some of the most beautiful women 520 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 2: that are the most insecure. I've got homegirls with helloplastic 521 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: surgery that still hate themselves. Not homegirls. But you know, bitches, 522 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 2: I just know right. I will tell you that quiet 523 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 2: confidence men and women take you so far. I've met 524 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: some very wealthy men that don't act like it, and 525 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 2: it is so impressive to me when someone learns how 526 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 2: to not use the things they have or the way 527 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 2: they look to gain popularity for attraction or draw people 528 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 2: into them. It's some weird ass shit to me when 529 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 2: you start doing that extra extra shit and it doesn't 530 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,479 Speaker 2: display power at all. I'm not excited by you. I 531 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: don't think you're masculine. You're really like a lame And 532 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 2: now I'm in the group chat talking about you and 533 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 2: how I just tricked on you for this. 534 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: Dinner, but you we and you lame as fuck. Anyways, 535 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: if you have a question that you want to hear 536 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 1: us answer and the topic you want us to dissect. 537 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: Make sure you email us at decisions pod at gmail 538 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: dot com and baby, we will see you here next week. 539 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: Fill all your tears.