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Speaker 1: Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, thank you for tuning there for a new

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Speaker 1: episode and we talked back. The show dedicated to you

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Speaker 1: Dreamers and chases. Girl, Wake your ass up, it's your girl,

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Speaker 1: aj what's up town, Sleepy? Oh God, I swear ass up.

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Speaker 2: I've been burning the candle and both ends. Bitch. I literally, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I just got off the plane from LA going to

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Speaker 2: one of my very very very good friends baby shower,

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Speaker 2: and I just feel like I'm just like trying to

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Speaker 2: show up for everybody in a real way. And Auntie tired.

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Speaker 1: Better take some rests, Better lay that ass down.

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to get my kouchie wed at six o'clock

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Speaker 2: and I think I'm gonna cancel.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to be using it? You know you

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Speaker 1: played on using it this week. I need to go

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Speaker 1: ahead and make that appointment.

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Speaker 2: Man, they gonna have to get it how it is,

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Speaker 2: get it, how you live money together. I don't know

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Speaker 2: i''re gonna be calling you stubby porcupine a little stubby

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Speaker 2: was again.

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Speaker 1: I was at the house. This was hot and it

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Speaker 1: was raining crazy this weekend, bitch, I heard thunder like

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Speaker 1: I've never heard thunder before. My bedroom flashed red as

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Speaker 1: if a fire was outside the window. That's how crazy

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Speaker 1: this thunder was. Oh wow, it's some shit going on

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Speaker 1: in this world. Ain't like you couldn't tell me that.

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Speaker 1: The next day, I was going to be driving outside

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Speaker 1: and it would be like a big ass crater in

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Speaker 1: the road. Yes, because it sounded like it hit something

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Speaker 1: like it was so close. Man, that's scary.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like in the Southeast we get worse

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Speaker 2: thunderstorms anywhere in the country.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like when I lived in the Midwest,

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Speaker 1: I don't recall ever hearing thunder, like they would have

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Speaker 1: a little mini tornadoes and shit like that. Like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't recall hearing thunder for many years until I

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Speaker 1: came back to South Carolina. It's weird.

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Speaker 2: And that shit be so powerful to shake the whole room, just.

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Speaker 1: Like the whole house shook.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know when it's raining, though, I don't be

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Speaker 1: doing shit. You know, you can't talk. You got to

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Speaker 1: turn it all the lights off. You can't gotta be silent.

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Speaker 2: My great grandma used to have us she was so

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Speaker 2: old in country. We had to turn off the lights,

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Speaker 2: be quiet, let the lord do his business, and she

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Speaker 2: would cover up the mirrors with towels.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy old.

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Speaker 2: Country shit right there. Baby, I don't know what I

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Speaker 2: was like, Grandma, what the fuck is that for? That's

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Speaker 2: what I wanted to say. It was not my grandma

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Speaker 2: was my great grandmother. She was born in nineteen oh two.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you're just supposed to be quiet when it's

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Speaker 1: thunder and it's.

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Speaker 2: Just one of the lord doing his business.

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Speaker 1: Whatever they got going on at that door. But have

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Speaker 1: you ever heard the saying that, you know, when it's

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Speaker 1: sun outside and it's raining, the devil was beating his

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Speaker 1: white behind the door, behind a door like the ship

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Speaker 1: that people from the door apart.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I always hear, the devil was beating his wife.

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Speaker 2: She and I get there get a wife? And I

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Speaker 2: know all these bitches out here still single, and the

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Speaker 2: devil got a wife. How is that possible? How did

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Speaker 2: he bag a bitch?

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of women out here with devils for

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Speaker 1: men right now? What are you talking about? And vice versa.

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Speaker 1: It's somebody out here for everybody. Girl. I just got

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Speaker 1: off the phone. My seventy year old cousin. She was

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Speaker 1: calling me asking how to change her location on Facebook,

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Speaker 1: and I actually told her to come on the show,

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Speaker 1: right this bitch of seventy still out here looking for

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Speaker 1: a low one. She's looking for a booth thing and

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Speaker 1: she was trying to update her me too. Look, she's

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Speaker 1: a Gemini too. This is one of my favorite like relatives.

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Speaker 1: She stayed with me for some time. I lived in

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Speaker 1: Atlanta too, cause she work on film. She's a seamstress

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Speaker 1: so and she's like the family historian. But I just

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Speaker 1: got off the phone with her and she was saying,

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Speaker 1: how bitch, we kind of doomed, Like we got to

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Speaker 1: hurry the fuck up right now and find a husband,

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Speaker 1: because bitch, I'm not trying to be seventy on a

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Speaker 1: dating website. And she said, the men be out, the

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Speaker 1: ones who are sort of available, be outside with young

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Speaker 1: boy clothes on, pants hanging off the ass, like these

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Speaker 1: are sixty seventy year old men. She's saying. I was like, girl,

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Speaker 1: maybe you need to get a white guy. She was like, no,

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Speaker 1: they just alcoholics. They want to party all the time.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, if not, then, girl, I don't

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Speaker 1: know what she said. She trying to pop some pussy.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying like she sound and she still looks

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Speaker 1: really good too. She went to Seattle for her birthday time.

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Speaker 2: What they going to Big Wisz tournament? Like, what are

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Speaker 2: they doing?

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Speaker 1: Now? You know the white men, them old white men

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Speaker 1: be wold, they be on coke, still on the yard, chilling, disrespectful. So, yeah, girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be seventy out here still looking

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Speaker 1: for love. That shit right there. Me neither. And she

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Speaker 1: said all the women she knows is in her same predicament.

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Speaker 4: Mmmm.

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Speaker 1: So when these.

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Speaker 2: Niggas said we're gonna dialoge, they might be onto something.

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Speaker 1: Not me, y'all, bitches, because I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not claiming that shit. I'm gonna have my somebody

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Speaker 2: before the end of twenty twenty three period.

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Speaker 1: Yep, let's go ahead and to clear that right now already.

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Speaker 2: I won five hundred dollars in the tork contest over

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Speaker 2: the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Alright, a baby show it was.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't technically a tortu contest. It was like where

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Speaker 2: you put the balls. It was the golf balls in

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Speaker 2: the Kleenex box. You had to tie it around your

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Speaker 2: waist and shake the balls with your butt. You had

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Speaker 2: to shake them out the box, and whoever got them

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Speaker 2: out the box first, it wasn't it wasn't a monetary

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Speaker 2: prize at first. But this is actually the guy he

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Speaker 2: was like trying to talk to me at the baby shower.

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh, I got five hundred dollars on it.

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Speaker 2: He put it up there because I wasn't even participating.

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Speaker 2: They drugged me up there because of how big my

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Speaker 2: butt was. That's how I kind of went like, nah,

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Speaker 2: you got to participate. So then after they made me,

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Speaker 2: he came up there with the five hundred dollars like,

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Speaker 2: here go this for the winner, and baby I won

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Speaker 2: that thing. I shook them balls out quick, like five

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Speaker 2: hundred shit, y'all should have let with that. We get

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Speaker 2: this money real quick.

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Speaker 1: Was the container under the cheeks of like on your waist,

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Speaker 2: So it was like no, cuz it was on like

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Speaker 2: right on the fullness of my ass, like right at

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Speaker 2: the fullest part of your butt, sitting right there, and

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Speaker 2: tied them around and you had to shake it off,

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Speaker 2: shake them out.

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Speaker 1: That's foolishness.

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Speaker 2: Balls was going in about two point five seconds. I

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Speaker 2: had all them balls out that box. Don't play with

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Speaker 2: me ither bit just said it disqualified your ass.

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Speaker 5: It ain't fair, equalized opportunist.

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Speaker 2: I shared the money though, because there was this other

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Speaker 2: girl who felt like she won, but on the video

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Speaker 2: she did not. But I still gave her some of

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Speaker 2: the money because I wasn't even expecting no money.

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Speaker 1: You know, right, all paid forward good sport in the

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Speaker 1: turkathon at the damn baby shower.

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Speaker 2: At the baby shower, it was fun.

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Speaker 1: So let's get in the stupid internet newest chowd. So listen,

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Speaker 1: we all see what the fuck is going on with

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Speaker 1: Keiki Palmer and her baby daddy. Honey, Okay, what's her

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Speaker 1: baby daddy name? Darius Jackson?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I thought Darius Jackson.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, you better not say Derek Jackson, not the nigga

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Speaker 1: who was playing his wife.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you're tripping.

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Speaker 1: Darius Jackson is Keky Palmer is thee of the father

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Speaker 1: of her son. That's his name. Okay, So if you've

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Speaker 1: been living under a rock, Key Palmer went to Usher concert.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she actually filmed, but she was filmed

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Speaker 1: getting serenaded by Usher and she had on a little

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Speaker 1: risque little number. You know, it looked like maybe like

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Speaker 1: a BOOSTI a type top with a shared dress over it,

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Speaker 1: so the cheeks was out. Honey, Okay, she just had

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Speaker 1: a baby. She didn't have that ass before the baby.

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Speaker 1: Now she got a little ass back there. She's probably

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Speaker 1: feeling more secure about that ass, all right. She wanted

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Speaker 1: to show it off at the Usher concert. She was

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Speaker 1: recorded ended up on the blogs and her baby daddy,

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Speaker 1: missus Darius Jackson. Instead of him contacting her directly like

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Speaker 1: bitch you tripping, he takes it to social media by

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Speaker 1: reposting the video and saying, you're a mom. What was

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Speaker 1: the whole the little thing? You're a mom something? Basically,

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Speaker 1: have a little respect. You're mom now, right, not your

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Speaker 1: wife or girlfriend. You're a mom. So to me, he

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Speaker 1: was trying to shame the mother of his child publicly.

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Speaker 1: We could probably all agree that they kind of shamed

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Speaker 1: each other, right because if he has these certain standards,

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Speaker 1: But you made her a baby mom and staid a wife.

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Speaker 1: It could have been Kiki's choice. Who knows, you know,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is. I almost thought maybe they're not even

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. We just really speculating a lot. Maybe they're

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Speaker 1: not even together. She didn't really respond back to him.

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Speaker 1: She just posted her little dance video. You want to

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Speaker 1: act up, I'm about to link up. That's what her

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Speaker 1: And I'm proud, yes, you know, because it would have

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Speaker 1: been real hard for me, bitch not to say nothing

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Speaker 1: to that nigga publicly. Also, but I did come across

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Speaker 1: another video. This was from like may Or some They

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Speaker 1: were on a podcast together, and he had asked Kiki,

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Speaker 1: what would she do if somebody was coming at her

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Speaker 1: like this person was coming as summer Walker about Low

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Speaker 1: Beach wearing little me Shane. He he was like, I

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Speaker 1: would act like she doesn't even exist, Like you're not

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Speaker 1: about to get me, you know, off my off my shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would be like that ain't even him. He got

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Speaker 1: a twin. She was like, we'd have to talk about

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Speaker 1: that in a closet, but I would never.

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Speaker 4: Publicly embarrass her.

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Speaker 1: You are yourself and your partner or the son or

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Speaker 1: the father of your son, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So it was kind of clout chasing ish on his end.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because did we know Darius

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Speaker 1: Jackson prior to being Kiki Palmer's baby daddy, Absolutely fucking not.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 2: You know, he allowed his insecurities to show. We all

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Speaker 2: got him, right, we all got insecurities, and he let

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Speaker 2: his get the best of them publicly. And unfortunately for him,

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Speaker 2: he's with someone who people watch, you know, people watch

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Speaker 2: what she has going on. So now you just get

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Speaker 2: the burnt of every bitch in a mirror, every black

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Speaker 2: bitch in America who has something to say. So, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I I could listen, I feel I feel him and

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Speaker 2: I feel her. You know, I can see both sides

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Speaker 1: No, So Charlottee, look, Charlamage said, it's us just fault

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Speaker 1: I still got a Nintendo one and Nintendo sixty four.

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Speaker 1: read right quick his list of you know, dudes and

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Speaker 1: or something respectful. It's weird. Uh, I am not soprised.

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Speaker 2: You saw that, No, but why is up he telling

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, it tells to because in his mind though

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Speaker 1: realize with narcissists, right. I don't want to just put

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Speaker 2: She's a twenty six year old surfer, right, she's a

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Speaker 2: surfer chick, yes, which is you're trying to like free

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they need to break up. But even though I

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Speaker 1: Mean it was listed, it sounds like everything she's done though,

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Speaker 1: it just sounds like she said, he said, my boundaries

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Speaker 2: Probably fucked up and was like, took a picture bent

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Speaker 1: What probably didn't happen. We were taking a picture. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Well, whatever he said, he said, these boundaries were created

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Speaker 1: Right, man, you would like to think so the things

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Speaker 1: You just need more backstory. I need her to post more. Okay, Right,

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Speaker 2: Just break up. Yeah, they gotta be done now because

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Speaker 1: Stupid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wow.

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Speaker 2: Obviously I don't agree with violence againing against anyone, but

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he ain't pay his honey bun fee for protection.

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Speaker 1: Get him his role at the lunch table, right.

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Speaker 2: With that couple of noodles. Motherfucker got stabbed up behind

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Speaker 1: It's the same sentence, right, That's why I said, I said,

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Speaker 2: I still I'm still waiting on somebody to go and

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Speaker 1: Where isn't he might be already dead?

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Speaker 4: Where is he?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: Remember, white guy did try to get at his ass

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Speaker 1: You know what saying violate good people? It's so mean,

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Speaker 1: Nobody looking for us.

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Speaker 2: Right and that and that definitely brings us to our topic.

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Speaker 2: We got a great guest on and we're going to

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Speaker 6: We'll be right back, Okay, y'all, we are back, and

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Speaker 6: today we have a guest with us.

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Speaker 2: You can hear him every morning in Charlotte on Power

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Speaker 2: ninety eights, No Limit, Larry in the Morning, Mad House

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Speaker 2: Number one is Wild and out. Yea, I f TV's

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Speaker 2: joking off is barbieon.

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Speaker 4: I think you, Joe, thank you for having good time.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you, thank you. I appreciate it. Love

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Speaker 4: talking to you ladies.

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00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you was when we talked back before, I

436
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 2: was it was like our first years, like during the pandemic.

437
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 1: It was inside that was the house delayed reactions.

438
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 4: I asked me a question, I answered ten seconds later.

439
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: Yes, the good old days, right, ghetow days.

440
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 4: Were good.

441
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 1: I had a good week, man, I had a good week.

442
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 4: What happened?

443
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: I've been letting a lot of ship go lately?

444
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: Right?

445
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

446
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 7: Like what?

447
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 2: I feel good?

448
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: I feel light?

449
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 4: You feel like getting the weight off your shoulders?

450
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 2: Yes, full places things man, duh. Nigga I've seen a

451
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 2: post on Instagram almost made me cry. That ship was like,

452
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 2: will you let your favorite nigga go? Because you want

453
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 2: to be married and have a baby and you know

454
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 2: you ain't gonna get that from him.

455
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 4: And he already his Oh too far, he already married.

456
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 4: My bad, my bad?

457
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: How was my weekend? What did I do?

458
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 4: What happened.

459
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: I just been working. It was real, real, real, extremely busy.

460
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 2: So that's I've been working and trying to play at night.

461
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 2: This is too much.

462
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: Down.

463
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 2: We finished recording. I promise you I'm going to.

464
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 1: Sleep. That's my favorite.

465
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 2: Essential.

466
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 1: Like you'ple be on the internet talking about Fox sleep.

467
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: Get this man, you'all gonna die?

468
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 4: Who said that? One thing I'm gonna do?

469
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 2: Get your reds.

470
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 8: I will pass out anywhere. You might have to wake

471
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 8: me up at one point during this. Okay, I'm back, y'all.

472
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 1: So today you know what I want to talk about,

473
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: and I think you might have mentioned it in one

474
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: of our previous episodes, like in our stupid Internet news

475
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: Suki Hannah. And it's not really about Suki Hannah, right,

476
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: It's more so about consent. I know y'all have seen

477
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: like a lot of her posts are a lot of

478
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: the things, uh in the blogs, the ship going on

479
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: with yk Osyrus and what's the dude Nli Chopper? You

480
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

481
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 2: And then she was on Candy and that guy I

482
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: don't know what his name was, it was his name

483
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 2: is DJ A one, Yeah, which was very wild to me,

484
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: right insane, Right, But not uncommon. Let's just say that

485
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 2: period when the.

486
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: Last time my niggas smack your ass in the club,

487
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 1: never not asking a club like within the last five years.

488
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, here's the thing. And even like with me and

489
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 2: you know, like they'll give you a hug, but then

490
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 2: their hand just kind of go.

491
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 1: A little too low.

492
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, watch yourself. Really, yeah, it happens, especially

493
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 2: when people have been drinking alcohol.

494
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: Smaller the back, yeah, real low, small my back. He

495
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: didn't give you no.

496
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 4: Again.

497
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 8: But when I'm out, like nobody women don't grab I

498
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 8: don't know, they don't act the same towards men the

499
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 8: way men act towards women, which is dudes are crazy.

500
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 8: You said in the last five years, I would think,

501
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 8: what especially with how the club is now, when you're

502
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 8: out men normally with other guys, like it's almost the

503
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 8: dudes want to do all the TikTok dances with the dudes,

504
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 8: and the girls want to work and dance on each

505
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 8: other like I don't.

506
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: Know, na like. And then when I turned around after

507
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 1: he's smack me on the ass, he was like this.

508
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 2: Like, what's your problem going to do?

509
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 4: What's wrong? Sir?

510
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: First of all, I keep that my fucking heat under

511
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 1: my seat. I want you to be real careful, but

512
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm not about to die because you're smacking in the ass.

513
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: But like, and I'm looking like an adult too, I'm

514
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 1: not looking like And that's another part of the conversation,

515
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 1: right women, men singing that women invite a certain energy

516
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: because of how they dressed, so how they carry themselves. Dog,

517
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: I don't we have my ass out, so why are

518
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: you touching it?

519
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 2: I remember a time. This is when I was living

520
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 2: in Europe and we're in the club and this guy

521
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 2: was really drunk, and I mean he came and grabbed

522
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 2: my ass and just grabbed a hefty palm full of

523
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: it like he knew me and just tugged on it.

524
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: And I turned around and I mushed him so hard

525
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: in his face that he hit the floor, like he

526
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: went all the way down. Here y'all, this man jumped

527
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 2: up so fast. I ain't never seen nobody get up

528
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: in embarrassment so fast. He jumped up that quick, and

529
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: his homeboys ran over. They was like, oh, I'm sorry,

530
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. He's drunk. He drunk, he drunk,

531
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: and he just walked off like like nothing happened like

532
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 2: so weird. It was the weirdest exchange ever.

533
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 1: Because they used to getting away with that type of shit.

534
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 8: So I've never unwillingly or without permission grabbed a woman's

535
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 8: ass while we're dancing or let.

536
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: Me think, no, yeah, me too while.

537
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 8: But I never like just walked up on a woman

538
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 8: and grabbed the ass and not knowing who she was.

539
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 8: It could be like a homegirl or something. You know,

540
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 8: if you know him, you play around or whatever, but

541
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 8: a woman already, but you just even then, if you've

542
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 8: been intimate with him and you're not really rocking like that,

543
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 8: no more, you can't just walk up to it.

544
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 4: Remember when you can't do that?

545
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: But let me tell you just the other day, all right,

546
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: I couldn't find my keys to get into my salon.

547
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: So one of my male friends that works in the building,

548
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: he came outside to help me, and he was looking

549
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: under my seat to find my keys, and while he

550
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: was bent over, I grabbed his hips and I started throwing.

551
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: He was like what.

552
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 2: He was like, now, see, if I would you, it

553
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:51,719
Speaker 2: would have been a problem.

554
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: Now you can't.

555
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 2: And I was like, damn, you're right, I'm sorry. I

556
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 2: thought it was funny. But it's different because I don't

557
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 2: really have a dick, you know. That's why I feel like.

558
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: You could get one dick in the store.

559
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: Let a lot of detachable dicks, brown black ones cost mortal.

560
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 4: Wow. Is explicit about the store.

561
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: Charged the wage.

562
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: Flat, Right, y'all, this conversation is supposed to be serious.

563
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 2: I don't know why we invited. I told y'all before

564
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 2: we started, supposed to be like a serious But.

565
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: Y'all know we can't be serious.

566
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 8: Y'all, y'all did it that whole situation with Cyrus, he

567
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 8: was wrong. Let's just go ahead put it out. He

568
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 8: was absolutely wrong, period.

569
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: He was just crying online about how Drake don't funk

570
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: with him no more.

571
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 8: But I also asked that question question that I asked

572
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 8: for us, even though he was wrong. But if he

573
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 8: were Drake, or if he was somebody of higher status

574
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 8: and he did that, would it have been the same conversation.

575
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, So people think that sexual harassment only happens

576
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: on the workplace, It could happen anyways. I can call

577
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: the police at any time to report it, right, But

578
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: let's just think about a job setting that nigga that

579
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: you like from the office. Of course he could grab

580
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: your ass like say whatever, exactly because there's been a

581
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: level of consent given for that. For that men don't

582
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: know until they know though, right right, God in the

583
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: middle of them on a panel of some sort and

584
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: you coming up grabbing and apparently she had already like said,

585
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: like some little slick, I'm just playing talk to her

586
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: ship in character. But she is a fucking mom right

587
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: like this is this.

588
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: Is this is her alley, this is her person.

589
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: This is the thing that she has chosen to do,

590
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: you know, entertainment for the samement. But I know I

591
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: have a love hate relationship with Suki as fart. I

592
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: mean the character right, because she'll post like a lot

593
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: of inspirational shit. She'll post books and stuff she's reading,

594
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: like shit I'm into. I'll see to her story. I

595
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: have unfollowed like five times dog and I refollow her

596
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: because I know she's much more than what we see, right,

597
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: So that's why I don't give up on her.

598
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 4: I don't really follow her like that. I know of her.

599
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 8: We used to believe it or not, We used to

600
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 8: talk often on Twitter. I mean, so before she became Sukian.

601
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 8: This is when she was just, you know, regular schmuckler,

602
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 8: and she wasn't that person's just a regular conversation.

603
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 4: She was funny.

604
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 8: We will talk about comedy stuff like that. But in

605
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 8: this situation, it's just like, I get it that he

606
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,479
Speaker 8: was wrong. I'm not taking that from him. But if

607
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 8: he was somebody else, if he was if it was

608
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 8: one of the other two dudes on the panel, would

609
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 8: she had been.

610
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: Well, let's get into what consent is then, right, So

611
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: what does consent actually look like? So this is just

612
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: from rain dot org and it's the topic of the

613
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: thing is what does consent look like? What is consent?

614
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: Consent is an agreement between two participants to engage in

615
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 1: sexual activity. No, they won't actually have an intercourse, but kissing,

616
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: throat grabbing, all that kink shit like that is activity. Okay.

617
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. A verbal and

618
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: affirmative expression of consent can help both you and your

619
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: partner to understand and respect each other's boundaries. Okay, consent, Okay,

620
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: go ahead.

621
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 2: I ain't never been like about the have sex and

622
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 2: they be like, excuse me, I would like to have

623
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: your consent right now for the pussy is that okay?

624
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: No, But what if a nigga say, can I take

625
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 1: your panties off?

626
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: Girl?

627
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: That is okay, can I do this? And you like, yes,

628
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: can I do this?

629
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 4: But that's how I.

630
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: I want my consent to be, like you hold me

631
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: by my nikelup against the wall.

632
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 3: No, I like that.

633
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 8: To write, but it's somebody that you want to do it.

634
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 8: Though it's somebody that you want to do it. There's

635
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 8: been moments where I've been like, I mean, you know,

636
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 8: let me know when you want me to stop. That's

637
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 8: my way of being like, Okay, we're about to do

638
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 8: some freaking ship, right, but you know, if you don't

639
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 8: want me to stop, I'm gonna keep going, right. But

640
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 8: if you want me to stop but you don't want

641
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 8: this done, all right, cool, I won't do it. But

642
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 8: in the same sense, y k O Cyrus came up

643
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 8: to you and was like, trying to do that.

644
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: That long way you book, It's okay. I'm convinced you're

645
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: not hear me in my fucking mouth.

646
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 2: Boy, If you don't get that's my whole.

647
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 4: Thing is why k O Cyrus, That's why it's a

648
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 4: big deal.

649
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 2: Roger, welcome to me and just grabbed me by my

650
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: neck and kiss me. I probably would be like, I don't.

651
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: Know now to check my out, my outweigh that next

652
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: crab like you.

653
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 4: Can get the check antors, but you can still be like.

654
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no, I'm talking about drake

655
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: trick like I don't want to drink that much.

656
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 4: I'm on the budget. Well, I'm the type of nigga

657
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 4: I gotta ask. I can't just that's a salary.

658
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: I'm drink money, drink got violation money I got.

659
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 2: I can't believe showing.

660
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 4: That I'm down. You offended easily. People shut up. They

661
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 4: get on my nerves. God.

662
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: So the next part is says, it says, how does

663
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: consent work? Okay? When you're engaging in sexual activity? Consent

664
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: is about communication, okay, and it should happen every time

665
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: for every type of activity. So getting choked kissed at

666
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: a panel like he should have asked, can I kiss you?

667
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 4: Okay?

668
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,720
Speaker 1: Consenting to one activity one time does not mean someone

669
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: gives consent for other activities or for the same activity

670
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: on another occasion. For example, green to kiss some one

671
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: doesn't give that person permission to remove your clothes. Having

672
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: sex with someone in the past doesn't give that person

673
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: permission to have sex with you again in the future.

674
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 1: It's important to discuss boundaries and expectations with your partner

675
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: prior to engaging and sexual behavior. So she has she's

676
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: this character, right, she dresses a certain way. She's very very,

677
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: very provocative. Right. So the the things that we've seen

678
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: in the month of June alone, right, the different the

679
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: guy on Candy coated, how he I mean, he was

680
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: hot and bothered, his voice started, he was breathing, and

681
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 1: she likes.

682
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:40,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, he showed her.

683
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: Right there, you know, sexual harassment.

684
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, but she she just took it astride.

685
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 2: And I think she's probably been handling guys like that,

686
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 2: probably has had to often. But I feel like it's because.

687
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: Of the time she's noticedly uncomfortable.

688
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: But I think it's because of the music that she creates.

689
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: Men feel like they.

690
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 8: Get a past saying how they how many unwanted picture

691
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 8: fucking lots.

692
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 2: When we was in New York, we got a dick

693
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: FaceTime called wait what it was just an in his hand.

694
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: Grandma China sat in the back.

695
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 2: You would who was back there. I'm not even looking

696
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 2: at the dick. I'm looking at this arounding, It's like, nigga,

697
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 2: where are you China cabinet in.

698
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: The bag the bronx.

699
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 2: They clearly was this is New York, this is a

700
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: New York number. I didn't know this person at all.

701
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: They must have seen on my story that we were

702
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 2: in New York filming with Charlamagne and called and then

703
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: we set you on your Facebook. I don't know.

704
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: I don't even put.

705
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't know how they were

706
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: able to access me in that way, but it.

707
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: Might have been somebody you knew.

708
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 2: And then what did you say?

709
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 4: Were built different like that?

710
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm about to hang up. She's like, no, finish.

711
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 4: He did too old, nasty nigga.

712
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 7: He's like, okay, oh god, I'd be a lot nasty guy,

713
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 7: nasty on the loan.

714
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 4: But was that consent? That was consented?

715
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: And listen it was consented and I was acting like

716
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 2: I was disgusted, but I was like, I'm hanging out.

717
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: Now come.

718
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 4: Who was holding it back? That's what I want to know. Listen,

719
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 4: once it comes here, you.

720
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: Finish your hunt.

721
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 4: Listen, that's it.

722
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 8: Once it's there, it's there, and holding his back? Man,

723
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 8: don't you better not coming here. You better go get

724
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 8: a snack.

725
00:37:56,280 --> 00:38:06,439
Speaker 2: I'm not a snack. This is the serious conversation in Okay, listen,

726
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 2: let me. Let's talk about stealthy. Who is that stealthy?

727
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: People don't recognize it. Stealthy is when you consent to

728
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 2: sex right as a woman with a condom, and then

729
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: during lies the condo and then proceeds without telling them.

730
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: That's rape.

731
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 2: That's right to me.

732
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's happened to me, and I straight cut a

733
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: nigga off.

734
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 4: That's like you.

735
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: Often people don't consider that rape. They're like, okay, she

736
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,760
Speaker 2: consented to sex. The condom doesn't change it. It does

737
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 2: doing that oftentimes taking yes during.

738
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like again, you can get a little extra wet,

739
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: Like wait a minute, it was nice, but where's the condom?

740
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 4: You know what?

741
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 2: Sometimes you can't even tell that they've taken the condom off.

742
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 4: Oh he's not girthy.

743
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 2: Snorted. But women will like and then with the condom

744
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 2: and then not know the condom has been removed until

745
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,240
Speaker 2: the man is like coming on her, where is the condom?

746
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 4: So what's the point? Why did you do that? Just

747
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 4: to pull out?

748
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 8: Like, first of all, if I'm if we ain't got

749
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 8: no condom. All, I'm gonna just go ahead and get

750
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 8: ready of a boy, the plan be because it ain't

751
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 8: I'm not pulling that.

752
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 2: First of all, women don't want to just be popping

753
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 2: playing bes.

754
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 4: Your b because you got seventy two hours. You don't

755
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 4: just have the popping. We can go through.

756
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 2: You still got to eat.

757
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry what I had one of

758
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: my friends put on me. He he would have Plan

759
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: b's on deck, and he's put Plan BES and drinks.

760
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 4: Oh whoa, whoa, whoa.

761
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 2: Now if that woman is allergic to one of those

762
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 2: ingredients in the plan bet, and now now you got a.

763
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 4: Charge, why you put it in the drink? You take

764
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 4: the Plan B after.

765
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 2: I'm saying the next day for breakfast here baby drinking?

766
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 4: Oh god, that's what I want to know.

767
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: Because men have no integrity. I always be saying that

768
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: A lot of men, a lot of men, majority of men,

769
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: some major most of you, a lot of you.

770
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 4: I like to think I'm a nice, upstanding young man,

771
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 4: but but you know.

772
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 1: You got some creepy friends, don't you. You hang you

773
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,439
Speaker 1: know some niggas that be on this type of time.

774
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 4: Shout out to all my homeboys. No, I mean I know,

775
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 4: I do, I do.

776
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 2: I do know some creepy so your friends, because I

777
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 2: feel like they should be ostracized my friends, but.

778
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 8: I know some creepy men, right the people that circle

779
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 8: that I hang it's small anyway, but the guys that

780
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 8: I hang, I don't hang on no dudes that do

781
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 8: no stuff like that because of who I am. Like

782
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 8: if you're associated with me, I'm not a celebrity by

783
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,359
Speaker 8: any means, but people know who I am. So if

784
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 8: I hang with this guy and you know he doing this,

785
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 8: he doing that, the women, he does this the women,

786
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 8: then I'm going to be associated with that. So I

787
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 8: keep myself away from ship like that and be like youah, no,

788
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 8: I don't. I don't fool with him like that. So

789
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 8: the guys and I rock with and I've been knowing

790
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 8: them since like elementary.

791
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: Right, So that's just like Trey songs. You know, he

792
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: has that ten million dollars lawsuit right now for flipping

793
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: that white girl's breast out while his friends sat right

794
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: there like this guy fall online. I know he was, like, man,

795
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: I would have immediately immediately walked off from that nigga

796
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: like that would have been it what you know what

797
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because I ain't going to jail with you.

798
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: That's how Why did you just walk up to a

799
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 2: woman and feel like it was?

800
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: He was taking a picture with him and he snatched

801
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 1: dress out on camera, Like what is that?

802
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 8: But that tells you how thirsty dudes are off of

803
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 8: cloud also, because the dude's still right there, he's with

804
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 8: Trey Songs. He's like, that's my meal ticket right there,

805
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 8: my meal plan. So I'm gonna be like I might

806
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 8: say something to him afterwards, but if you his real friend,

807
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 8: you could be like, hey, Brona, cut the camera off,

808
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 8: y'all get good?

809
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, now that thing was a hy kosis and tuki hana.

810
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,399
Speaker 1: Now there was some other men at the table right

811
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: and they just kind of looked away.

812
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 4: They kind of looked.

813
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: Away and act like they didn't see what they what

814
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 1: was going on, and they just kind of left her

815
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: out on an island by herself.

816
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 2: But she didn't really protest in a way that made

817
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 2: them feel like they needed to defend her.

818
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 1: I felt like, I think that sometimes when those type

819
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 1: of situations happened, the women freeze up, especially if you

820
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,399
Speaker 1: are somebody who's been abused before, and so it could

821
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: be childhood trauma, you know what I'm saying, Like when

822
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 1: that thing happened. Sometimes some shit happens is so outlandis's

823
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: like you can't believe.

824
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 4: It, especially in the moment with people around, you.

825
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: Know, like you don't want to embarrass him, Like that's

826
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: so weird that you're even thinking about still embarrassing him

827
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: too and embarrassing yourself at the same time. So I can,

828
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: I can. I can imagine what she was feeling and

829
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: why she didn't react how I would have, because I

830
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: would have cleared the whole motherfucking table with my fore.

831
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 4: Arms equipment chokes that through the table.

832
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 2: I probably would have fell backwards in the chair and

833
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 2: then embarrassed myself even more, probably honestly, you.

834
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: Know, going back like that.

835
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: But here in defense of the men at the table,

836
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 2: how can they defend you if they don't even know

837
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: that you need defense in this moment, you know, like

838
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 2: you know what's wrong, Like you know, their faces knew

839
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 2: it was wrong. Looking at the video, they looked was perverse.

840
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: But she does perverse ship in her music a lot.

841
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 2: She was just on stage with Drew Skie grabbing at his.

842
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: Ass going.

843
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 2: He just had two women eating her ass on stage,

844
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 2: but they probably asked first. It didn't look like they asked.

845
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 8: That's the same thing said when she was when she

846
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 8: was on stage with Drewski. I'm like, is that sexual assault?

847
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 4: Right?

848
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 2: So so how can they know this? This perverse behavior

849
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 2: is one that we need to defend you in, you know.

850
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: So that's my defense of those people because it's like,

851
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 2: this is cringey. But I don't know if she like it.

852
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 8: You know, it's a catch twenty two because it's still

853
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 8: a woman. If you're a man, you and you see

854
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 8: another man walk up on a woman like.

855
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,440
Speaker 1: That, as a man and they've never engaged before, right,

856
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: as a.

857
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 8: Man, you should be like, hey, hey, what you're doing.

858
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 8: Even if they would have just said something a.

859
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 1: Young boy like we're talking about forty year old men

860
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: sitting there, Nobody going to correct this young that's the thing.

861
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. And it's y

862
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 4: k O cyrus. Come on, let's just it's he's.

863
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 1: Probably cool, Like like just said, we all lame in somebody.

864
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 2: He might be cool in some.

865
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: People, but to me, no, he's just a kid. To me, Like, yeah,

866
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: he's a child who needs some correcting.

867
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 4: Who's Cyrus cool?

868
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 7: Too?

869
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: I ain't got fans.

870
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 2: He got popular for a reason, right, someone liked it.

871
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 4: He got fans after the song that he had what

872
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 4: six years ago?

873
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 3: Right?

874
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 4: Since then, YK Cyrus, I'm.

875
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 2: Sure there's a y K O Cyrus poster or screen

876
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 2: saver somewhere in the world.

877
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 4: If you still put posters on your wall, explains your

878
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 4: fan base.

879
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 2: Kids don't have posters anymore. I don't know any young people.

880
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 4: No, I don't know.

881
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 2: My friends ain't had like a big ass Lebron James sticker.

882
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 4: What's that thing called?

883
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 2: It's like a life size sticker fat head?

884
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 4: Yeah? I was like, yeah, as a poster.

885
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's a y K Cyrus fat head somewhere

886
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 2: in America.

887
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: So okay, ain't nobody praying that dog, not even Ali.

888
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 4: Let's be clear, Cirrus ain't printing a fair head of himself.

889
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all not gonna do y K so bad mistake,

890
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 2: Get you get your He apologized too.

891
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, she accepted his apology. Also, she was like, you know,

892
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: she want to move on with her life.

893
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 4: She honestly, it was just it was a playful moment.

894
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: In his mind right now, he definitely wanted to have sex.

895
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sure he wanted to have sex with her.

896
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 2: You know, she's got a very strong sexual energy, and

897
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: maybe that's what made him feel like that. But I

898
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: think he was thought it was playful. Yeah, I don't

899
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: think it was.

900
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 4: I don't think it was I'm trying.

901
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to rape her in front of everybody, like

902
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 2: I thought. I think in his head he was just

903
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 2: being place. I love neck grabs, but if I didn't

904
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 2: invite you to come grab my neck and kiss me

905
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 2: in the mouth, holding up against the wall and lifting

906
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,439
Speaker 2: me up off my feet, Jesus.

907
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 4: Grabbing niggas next?

908
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Okay, this conversation is supposed to be serious.

909
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: I was about to say what I like?

910
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 2: Okay, what's the people that ride the horse question me

911
00:46:55,920 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 2: on the questrian Okay, and I'd definitely be fucking riding

912
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 2: and holding the.

913
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 1: Nigga neck choking.

914
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 2: I like it. Do you'll have a safe word?

915
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: No? And usually they beat down, grabbed you. Maybe don't

916
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: grab your hand and make you choke them harder. Oh yeah,

917
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: that's what I like.

918
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 4: Grab me grabs. Men don't like Jordan know.

919
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 2: Jordy gonna push the.

920
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 4: Ship out of choke. You ain't gonna to where I

921
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 4: can't breathe. You ain't got to do all that. But

922
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 4: you grab them in a little.

923
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 1: Bit if you breathing.

924
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 2: If you're breathing, and it's not a joke, Oh my god.

925
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 8: Maybe I'm trying to see what my grip because I

926
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 8: like these two fingers right here, you.

927
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 4: Get right off.

928
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: No, see that right there is different. I've had somebody

929
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: choke me right there during sex, and that leads us

930
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 1: to the next part of this. You can change your

931
00:47:54,719 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: mind at anytime, like that is a that's a what's

932
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: this thing right here? Holy yog and look at their

933
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: eyes like I'm crying. Could you do?

934
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 2: You gotta if you're participating in sex, that could potentially

935
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 2: kill you, right because choking you can die. You have

936
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: to have like a safe word or a safe gesture.

937
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 2: You can't just because doing like this, he'd be like

938
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 2: she like it, and meanwhile you're dying.

939
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 8: I Safe words a thing, yes, because it's like if

940
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 8: you do something that you don't and it's like, Okay,

941
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 8: that's enough, just hit the nigga.

942
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 4: I'll just be why Because if you're choking and you

943
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 4: got a safe word.

944
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 2: But if y'all have them like really aggressive, like like

945
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,720
Speaker 2: close to violent sex, they may confuse your gesture.

946
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 1: I want to say that I'm actually into that. I

947
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 1: kind of wasn't until that moment or that person, right,

948
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't not like it, But

949
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 1: don't try to kill me. Y'll squeezing that little the

950
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: skinny piece like that, that's wild to me.

951
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 8: I've had somebody female tell me it's just like I'm

952
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 8: in the choking can you choke me?

953
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 4: Just to scare me a little bit? And I'm like what, Like,

954
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 4: what the what does that mean?

955
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 2: Like I want to almost die a little bit, but

956
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: not for real.

957
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 4: You won't see the start you want.

958
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 2: Like first of all, they said, when you and you're

959
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: asphyxiated like that, it is mind blow. Yeah, yeah, I.

960
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: Will never know.

961
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 2: People have literally died like that, but it's usually self

962
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: inflicted asphyxiation while they're jacking yourself.

963
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 4: What's my man name?

964
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 8: That he was jacking off and he put like the

965
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 8: belt around his neck and died. David Carodene, Yeah, the

966
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 8: Kung Fuu series. That's how he died in the hotel room.

967
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: In La.

968
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 2: He was pretty much hung itself.

969
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 4: Yeah.

970
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, he tied tied the belt around his neck, put

971
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 8: it on the shower rod, and he was going to work.

972
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 4: And they found that nigga just like that.

973
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,760
Speaker 2: In his hand, the recipiece. Now he came in. He went.

974
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:00,439
Speaker 3: For your.

975
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,320
Speaker 4: Brilliant That was so dark. I love it.

976
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 1: Okay, So they say you can change your mind at

977
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: any time, right. Uh, it says you can withdraw consent

978
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: at any point if you feel uncomfortable, and y know

979
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,919
Speaker 1: this is not just exclusive to women, right, because we'll

980
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: get into that as well.

981
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 8: Right.

982
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: So one way to do this.

983
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:30,320
Speaker 4: Exactly.

984
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: One way to do this is to clearly communicate to

985
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: your partner that you are no longer comfortable with this

986
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: activity and wish to stop. Withdrawing consent can sometimes be

987
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: challenging or difficult to do verbally, so nonverbal cues we

988
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: just talked about that, right, can also be used to

989
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: convey this. The best way to ensure that all parties

990
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: are comfortable with any sexual activity is to talk about it,

991
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: check in periodically, and make sure everyone involved consents before

992
00:50:56,400 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: escalating or changing activities. Now that's a lot. The one

993
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 1: I don't get right is Okay, you've consented. Y'all are

994
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 1: in the middle of it. Condom on, condom may not

995
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,280
Speaker 1: be on, like he's in there. What I know about

996
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 1: men is that testosterone is a motherfucker right. Sometimes men

997
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: aren't even there anymore when that testosterone kicks seriously, and

998
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: you like literally gotta wait for it to go down

999
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: for them to be okay. That's why sometimes you can

1000
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: see a difference in a man after he leaves and

1001
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 1: stuff after he comes, after he ejaculates, like it's the

1002
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 1: whole different person, you know what I'm saying.

1003
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 2: Sometimes even before they come, they turn into.

1004
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: That because the climate rising exactly so now you're asking

1005
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: somebody to stop right in the middle of that. I

1006
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: can see how that can turn into a bad situation.

1007
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 4: In the middle of no.

1008
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: And that's another thing we can talk about.

1009
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 4: I don't think I've ever in the middle, not in.

1010
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 1: The middle of SX NO.

1011
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 2: I have told someone like, damn, it is over already,

1012
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 2: but never stop.

1013
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 4: So so we done. That can happen. It's happened to

1014
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 4: all of us, the best of us.

1015
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 2: Juice juice, no want, no juice come out with some

1016
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 2: with a lie like sometimes it's just that good you're

1017
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 2: so excited.

1018
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 8: It's just when you get it, it's like, oh damn,

1019
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 8: my bad. I've apologize plenty of taps.

1020
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 1: Sorry, I never had sex with somebody tell me, like

1021
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: for the first time, and you, well, you two and

1022
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:44,399
Speaker 1: you immediately regret it, like maybe you didn't really want

1023
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 1: to do it initially, you just kind of did it

1024
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: to get it over with.

1025
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, have you done that. I'm trying to

1026
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 2: think I didn't want to do I don't know if

1027
00:52:57,719 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 2: I just kind.

1028
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: Of extra pressure, right, So you're not in a situation

1029
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: where you might want to have sex with this guy

1030
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 1: and maybe not today, like you're still maybe wanting to

1031
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 1: get to know I feel.

1032
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 2: Like when I was in my early twenties and I

1033
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 2: was just getting outside for real, I have felt like

1034
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 2: pressured and just kind of like conceded just because it

1035
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 2: was like so all right.

1036
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:20,760
Speaker 1: Here here here, yeah, why you want hair pussy anyway?

1037
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 2: Right, And then it was just like I'll take it

1038
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 2: to see, like I ain't even really want to give

1039
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 2: him nothing like that.

1040
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: And there probably wasn't any verbal consent at all. Right,

1041
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,240
Speaker 1: you just go through with it. And I've been definitely

1042
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 1: been in that situation. I just don't talk to him again.

1043
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: Not gonna say them like that's happened a lot, but

1044
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't talk to the person. I didn't talk to

1045
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: the person again.

1046
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 4: So y'all don't have some pressure sex.

1047
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely. I think a lot of women can relate

1048
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 2: to that.

1049
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 1: Because I think that men think that when a woman

1050
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 1: is saying no, she's saying yes. Sometimes Oh hell no.

1051
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 4: Not for me, no means no. You tell me no.

1052
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 8: You ain't even got to say it twice. I'm not

1053
00:53:58,600 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 8: even going to ask you a second time. You say

1054
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 8: know at any point? All right, cool, I'm gonna lay down.

1055
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 8: We can sit here and watch TV.

1056
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 4: What you wanna do? You want to talk? Oh, I

1057
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 4: can go home.

1058
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 8: But no, once I hear the word no, that's it,

1059
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 8: that's it, because you're not gonna sit there and say

1060
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 8: you told me no and I kept going or I

1061
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 8: kept doing something else.

1062
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 2: And sometimes men be mad when you tell him no too.

1063
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be mad, but I'm not gonna show you

1064
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 4: when I leave I'm getting wrong. When I leave, I'm.

1065
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 1: Gonna kick your Like y'all got group chairs, I'm.

1066
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:32,720
Speaker 4: Gonna be in a group chair like Nigga.

1067
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:35,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember I did a nigga like that. I didn't.

1068
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 2: The vibe wasn't what I wanted to be that night.

1069
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 2: He wasn't very nice. He was acting like a jerk

1070
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 2: a little bit. I was staying with him. We went

1071
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: to his house and I went to sleep and I

1072
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 2: snore and he I woke up. I woke myself up

1073
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 2: and I saw he was looking at me and like,

1074
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 2: he ain't give me no pussy and you ain't here

1075
00:54:57,880 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 2: keeping a nigga away.

1076
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,760
Speaker 1: I had you. I had to get out of my house.

1077
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 4: Oh my god, get out.

1078
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:10,760
Speaker 2: That was the look on his face.

1079
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 5: I was like, I'm sorry, who is this allan fucking

1080
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 5: grizzly bear bitch?

1081
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 2: That that didn't bring no pussy away her? But got him?

1082
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 2: Or no, I did it, but it just wasn't that

1083
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 2: particularly night.

1084
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 1: Like man need to wait, Like sometimes we like you,

1085
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 1: we want to do it too, but you know, you

1086
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta play the game. Sometimes sometimes I don't

1087
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: mind waiting.

1088
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 4: I think I'm a waiter.

1089
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 2: You can't you can't not show me an exceptional time

1090
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 2: and then assume that just because I'm here with you.

1091
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 4: Now, that's the crazy part, because I did all of this.

1092
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 4: I showed you this. We had a great time, but

1093
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 4: she did have a great time.

1094
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 2: I didn't even have a good time.

1095
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what intimacy is. Intimacy is everything leading

1096
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: up to sex. So that's where consent kind of comes.

1097
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 1: Do like you wou feel like energy, y'all talk about that.

1098
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: When we get to the house, I want to such

1099
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: and such such, maybe she'll engage a little bit, so

1100
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: you know exactly, And that takes us to enthusiastic consent, right,

1101
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: what that looks like? H Enthusiastic consent is a newer

1102
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: model for understanding consent that focuses on a positive expression

1103
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 1: of consent. Simply put, enthusiastic consent means looking for the

1104
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: presence of a yes rather than the absence of a no.

1105
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: Enthusiastic consent can be expressed verbally or through non verbal

1106
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:45,320
Speaker 1: cues such as positive body language like smiling, see that

1107
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, maintain eye contact, and nodding. These cues

1108
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 1: alone do not necessarily represent consent, but they are additional

1109
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: details that may reflect consent. And so it says what

1110
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: it looks like asking permission before you change the type

1111
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 1: or degree of sexual activity with a phrase like is

1112
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 1: this okay, confirming that there is a reciprocal interest before

1113
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: initiating any physical touch. Why Herosirius did not do that right?

1114
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: Letting your partner know that you can stop at any time,

1115
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: periodically checking in with your partners, such as asking is

1116
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: this still okay? I don't know about that, Providing positive

1117
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: feedback when you're comfortable with activity, explicitly agreeing to certain activities,

1118
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:37,439
Speaker 1: either by saying yes or another affirmative statement like I'm

1119
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: open to trying so cues nonverbal verbal cues.

1120
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 8: I don't know that non verbal cues work anymore in

1121
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 8: today's in this era, I don't think that works. I

1122
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 8: want to I want to have that movie consent the.

1123
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 4: Way they do it in the movies. They'd be like, hey,

1124
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 4: let's get out of here. You know what that means.

1125
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 4: You know what that means. Let's get out of here. Okay,

1126
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 4: all right, da, that don't mean that though.

1127
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 2: Let's get out of here just doesn't mean like in

1128
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 2: the movies, you do yeah, But in real life she

1129
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 2: might be like, I don't feel safe in this place.

1130
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 4: It's the way. That's the way non verbal cue.

1131
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: That comes with that.

1132
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 2: That Then she was like, let's get out of here,

1133
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 2: and it's some niggas over there fighting.

1134
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 4: That don't mean she want to fuck yeah, okay, okay,

1135
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 4: but if she like, but you're right, you're absolutely right.

1136
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 4: It's the moment. It's the way that she says.

1137
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 8: It is if y'all are sitting there having a good

1138
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 8: time talking and things are going smooth, and y'all looking

1139
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 8: at each other, give me each other a glassy eye,

1140
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 8: and then she just.

1141
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 4: Like that, Okay, y'all want to get out of here.

1142
00:58:59,280 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: Damn.

1143
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 4: It's a.

1144
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: All right. So it says what consent does not look

1145
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: like okay, refusing technology, No, a partner who was disengaged,

1146
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 1: non responsive, or visibly upset, assuming that wearing certain clothes, flirting,

1147
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: or kissing is an invitation for anything more. Uh, someone

1148
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: being under the legal age of consent as defined by

1149
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: the state. We understand someone being in incapacitated because of

1150
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: drugs or alcohol, pressuring someone into sex sexual activity, or

1151
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: by using fear or intimidation. Let's get into that right way, right.

1152
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 2: Can I just say something about the clothes?

1153
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 3: One?

1154
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 2: I agree and disagree with that one because I remember

1155
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 2: this was years ago, nine three five. I went with

1156
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 2: this guy and he brought his cousin, his sister, and

1157
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 2: some other girls. Right, and one of the girls had

1158
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 2: on a T shirt. Remember when got Milk was real

1159
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 2: popular and it said god dick question mark, and niggas

1160
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: was walking up like, yeah, I got dick, and they

1161
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 2: was holding their dicks and stuff like that, like not

1162
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 2: pulling they dick out, but like grabbing themselves. And she's like,

1163
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 2: these niggas is real disrespectful.

1164
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: They really what you thought, And it's okay, let me

1165
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 1: not say that.

1166
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 2: Why you got on the shirt? Requestion if niggas got dick,

1167
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 2: and they're mad when they say, yes, I have dick

1168
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 2: for you right here, right, so they shouldn't sometimes you're

1169
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 2: clothes Kim Warren, Yeah, Kim Warren't I wanted attention. If

1170
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 2: you don't want niggas to come grab their dick telling

1171
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 2: you they got dick, don't ask.

1172
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: But I feel like, okay, in a club where there's

1173
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: two hundred let's say it's a club where there's I

1174
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: don't know, two hundred men, right, two hundred women, it's

1175
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: probably going to be a small sample size of those

1176
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: guys who actually walk up and say, God dick. Why

1177
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: does the all the other men know better?

1178
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 2: But y'all, because they don't want a bitch that will

1179
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 2: walk around with a shirt that's asking, do you got dick?

1180
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 4: Right, my lady ain't coming out of the house with

1181
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 4: no shirt talking about got dick.

1182
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: I'm right here, got no dick obviously, because she's asking

1183
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: she couldn't have.

1184
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 2: A man at home and wear that out.

1185
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 4: But even some some stuff.

1186
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 8: If it's if my lady coming out with me, I

1187
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 8: don't want you to look too crazy. I don't care

1188
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 8: what you wear. It's not that I'm controlling. I don't

1189
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 8: care what you wear, but you know that when you

1190
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 8: go out with your significant other, you don't want to

1191
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 8: wear no shit that's gonna draw attention to you from

1192
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 8: other people.

1193
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 4: And I gotta fight.

1194
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 8: I'm getting into it with another guy because he walked

1195
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 8: up on you and said something crazy or grabbed you

1196
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 8: or did something.

1197
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 4: And I'm like, it's not that it's your fault, but

1198
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 4: it's like, okay, that's a little too.

1199
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: It's too I've seen the post like that recently. It

1200
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: was a woman though, right, y'all might have seen it.

1201
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: She was saying how a man isn't insecure if he's

1202
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 1: telling you what not to wear and what you know,

1203
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: So it's your favorite slippery slope, right, Because if what

1204
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship where I got into a

1205
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: argument because I wear leggings like everybody wears. Why do

1206
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 1: you think I'm going to get different attention if I

1207
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 1: walk around with overalls on, like, it's gonna be the

1208
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: same shit, my nigga.

1209
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 4: You can see ass and anything.

1210
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying. You're gonna see it regardless,

1211
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: So what's the problem. But she was saying, like calling

1212
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: a man insecure for being concerned about how you're presenting

1213
01:02:10,720 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 1: yourself at the house. Oftentimes, these guys who have women

1214
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: who dress overly provocative. You met them like that. You

1215
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: probably met them in the club too. Now you're mad

1216
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: that they still dressed like that going to the club,

1217
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: like you met her when that got dick she exactly exactly,

1218
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 1: So now you're trying to change her exactly. Now you're

1219
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 1: mad because she's still outside.

1220
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 2: I don't want you dancing at that club. No, bro,

1221
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 2: all my whole boys can come see you anytime. They won't.

1222
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 4: It's like Dayton stripper almost.

1223
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I talking about playing.

1224
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 4: You can't come on home, man, You know where you're married.

1225
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 4: I'm gonna take care of you.

1226
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: No, she likes stancing exactly. She likes dress plating. So

1227
01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 1: who are you and.

1228
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 4: Well, y'all a male stripper? I've always women?

1229
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 1: Oh god, no, man, let me tell y'all my first

1230
01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: experience with a stripper.

1231
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 3: Y'all.

1232
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 1: I was fresh out of high school. One of my classmates,

1233
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 1: I don't know who, which one aunt got us a.

1234
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 2: Stripper and graduate yes, well wait, yes, this is graduation

1235
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 2: high school.

1236
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 1: Yes, girl, you again, you know. And we was like

1237
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 1: at a little well they weren't serving alcohol, but it

1238
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 1: was like a little club downtown Charleston. So we got

1239
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 1: this stripper. He's the famous stripper in the South. You

1240
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: ever heard of this dude? Jasmine? Okay, he had like

1241
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: a little curly here.

1242
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 2: Guy, I'm saying, we're talking about male stripper.

1243
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, but his name is Jasmine.

1244
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: Yes, his name was Jasmine. He had like a little

1245
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: curly here, and he was a seasoned, a season stripper. Girl.

1246
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: He not have it between everybody fucking leg bouncing around,

1247
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 1: bounce around. And he smelled. He did not smell good. Okay,

1248
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: I know he had cheesy bits. Okay, he did not

1249
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: so nice and he was putting his face between he

1250
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 1: kissed me on my mouth.

1251
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 4: Oh he did me?

1252
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: He did me? He sorry, and I'm like, I'm ready

1253
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 1: to go. I was driving, everybody had to go. Well

1254
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 1: who rode with me? Like I'm out?

1255
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 2: Man?

1256
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: I was so disgusted. So I don't like male strippers,

1257
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: not like crazy.

1258
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 2: So that was the experience. That was your feeling, that

1259
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 2: gorgeous story.

1260
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 1: Not to say I like female strippers, but I could

1261
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 1: deal with that a little bit better, Like I don't

1262
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 1: even want no percolating ass dude.

1263
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 4: Anyway, I can't stand y'all, I.

1264
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: Smashed the stripper before now because one of my friends

1265
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 1: is he danced at some point in his life.

1266
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 4: Well, I guess that.

1267
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 1: No, I didn't, so I guess he's not a stripper, right, But.

1268
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 2: Bolo is a very attractive male dancer who I don't know.

1269
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:00,440
Speaker 2: You know, I have a feeling about mal day answers

1270
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 2: like that wouldn't be something I would be interested in.

1271
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 2: But you know, there are some exceptions. Bolo would be

1272
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 2: one of them.

1273
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 1: I don't know who is yeah, Bolo Fie, I don't know.

1274
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:16,959
Speaker 4: I don't know if I was a data stripper.

1275
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 1: But I'm definitely smashed on her.

1276
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 4: I one, I have, I bust one down. I mean

1277
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 4: it was that's she knew what it was. That's what

1278
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 4: she was known for. That's what it was like, all right, cool,

1279
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm here, you're here.

1280
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 2: I got the forty dollars.

1281
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:34,959
Speaker 4: Free.

1282
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: She was free.

1283
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 4: She likes you, yea, she likes that's but you you

1284
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 4: already that fucking the game up.

1285
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 2: You'll like, like, I don't paying for.

1286
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:49,640
Speaker 4: Sex, Like that's the dumbest shit I've heard in my life.

1287
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 4: Paying for sex is so stupid.

1288
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 1: And it is not stupid. It's investment.

1289
01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 4: What You're losing money in this investment.

1290
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm started down in this investment, Like for.

1291
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 4: Real, I ain't a burning made of me because I

1292
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 4: ain't see it return.

1293
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 3: You know.

1294
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: But if you if you in a situation where, damn man,

1295
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 1: she hasn't been working out, I want to I want

1296
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: to be in a get money mode. You might need

1297
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 1: to strippers. She might be your muse, and that's the investment.

1298
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: Now all of a sudden, you hit that pussy in particular.

1299
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:23,919
Speaker 1: Now all these opportunities are opening.

1300
01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:24,000
Speaker 2: Up for you.

1301
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 4: No, No, ain't no opportunities open. Because I was busting

1302
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 4: down the striper. No, getting I ain't telling nobody.

1303
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:33,800
Speaker 1: This is manifestation we're talking about.

1304
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 8: No, I ain't telling nobody. Me and Cinnamon over here

1305
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:41,439
Speaker 8: doing our things. Not gonna let it happen.

1306
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 2: Stupid, I'm not Cinnamon.

1307
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: Y'ah listen uh consenting sexy Okay, that's actually the name

1308
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: of this episode. It's very sexy. Like if you say,

1309
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 1: can I take your pennies off? Can I do this?

1310
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 1: Can I do that? And she's like yes, yes, yes,

1311
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: or you saying it to him.

1312
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 2: It's nice, you know, So I mean, can I take

1313
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 2: your pennies off?

1314
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 3: Sir?

1315
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 4: That's not sexy? Can I take yours off?

1316
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: That's off?

1317
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 4: It's not sexy? Put my jaws off? Be an adult.

1318
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 2: So a woman is down on her knees and she's

1319
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 2: looking up at you with like some like puppy dog guys.

1320
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 2: Can I put yours off? Please? And then put my

1321
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 2: mouth on you?

1322
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 4: I'm ana let her do it.

1323
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that sounds sexy though, No, not at all.

1324
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be I'm gonna let you do it, But

1325
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 4: in my mind, I'm like, what are you doing? Come

1326
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 4: on now? You know, while we're here, he's.

1327
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 1: Be embarrassing bitches.

1328
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 2: Man you already on your put my draws off and

1329
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 2: shut off?

1330
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 4: What wrong with you?

1331
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 1: Are you ruining it?

1332
01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:53,040
Speaker 4: Fly them up.

1333
01:07:56,520 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: To be naked so I know what something and why

1334
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:02,800
Speaker 1: you got clothes on? What's happening.

1335
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 4: On? Basketball sorts and nothing else?

1336
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 1: Listen so our target market, I like to say always,

1337
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:20,680
Speaker 1: it's just like women in her twenties for the most part,

1338
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: just listen, you know, learn vic curiously through us. You

1339
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,839
Speaker 1: don't have to go through the dumb ship. My advice

1340
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:29,960
Speaker 1: for younger women do not put yourself in closed setting,

1341
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:33,360
Speaker 1: in a closed setting with the man, if you are

1342
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: not interested in engaging with him in that way, that's

1343
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 1: the best way to do things right. Keep ship public,

1344
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: meet him out somewhere. Maybe you don't even want to

1345
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 1: ride with him yet, you don't even want him picking

1346
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 1: you up yet. Just to make sure you're safe, because

1347
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: that testosterone is a motherfucker and sometimes lines get kind

1348
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: of blurry and he may have missed where you didn't consent,

1349
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Just so just be safe and.

1350
01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 2: Basically just make niggas date you. You know, like girls

1351
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 2: being relationships with men that they ain't never been on

1352
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:04,759
Speaker 2: a date. They just chill, chill.

1353
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: That's it.

1354
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 2: We come through and chill and their whole relationship been chilling. Chill.

1355
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:10,640
Speaker 4: I don't know what a date look like.

1356
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 2: Don't know what a date look like.

1357
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 4: The girls in their twenties, they different. They the new niggas.

1358
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: Mmmm.

1359
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 4: They treat us like we just why are you?

1360
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:23,639
Speaker 1: You know? Why?

1361
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 4: Excuse me?

1362
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 1: Women in there? You know why?

1363
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 4: See what happened was not that I have, but I've

1364
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 4: seen it and it's just.

1365
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 2: I heard the story about it.

1366
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:39,680
Speaker 4: From what I heard, It's just.

1367
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 8: That there are because of the era, the time that

1368
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:47,679
Speaker 8: we're in now, women are women at the forefront of stuff.

1369
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 4: They at the forefront.

1370
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 8: Women they holding the rap game down right now, you

1371
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 8: got women that are you got podcasts, you have everything

1372
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 8: where right.

1373
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 4: Women's voices are being heard now.

1374
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:00,760
Speaker 8: But a lot of them are making that and they're

1375
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 8: running with it, and they're intimidating men or they're making

1376
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 8: it seem like, well, you're not good enough for me

1377
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 8: because I can do all this on my own, not

1378
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 8: that a man wants you to feel less than or

1379
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 8: feel like you can't do it. But also if you

1380
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 8: are dating a man, include a minute. These young girls,

1381
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 8: they're like I don't need you for nothing, but that's

1382
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 8: all I want from you.

1383
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 4: That's all I want to get from.

1384
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 2: Sofas, washing machine driers.

1385
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 1: H motherfucker.

1386
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 8: So it's I mean now and just talking in twenty

1387
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 8: twenty three is a lot of us. I'm not older,

1388
01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 8: but I'm in my thirties. Like it's the younger girls.

1389
01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 8: They just they don't give a ship about what you do.

1390
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:46,720
Speaker 8: They want you can you? Can you fly me out?

1391
01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:49,640
Speaker 8: Can you pay a bill? Can you have sex with me?

1392
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 8: Can you give it to me?

1393
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 4: What I want? The younger girl?

1394
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 2: So it's just like, oh, looking for commitment, you're saying,

1395
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 2: hell no, No, was we looking for commitment when we were?

1396
01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: I was, man, I stay out, man, listen. I stayed

1397
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:04,679
Speaker 1: in a if not a relationship, but situationship for sure.

1398
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: And I actually regret it and not saying I want

1399
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:09,560
Speaker 1: to be outside like that, right, I actually regret like

1400
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,719
Speaker 1: wasting time with the wrong people in my twenties, because

1401
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: your twenties should be for fire niggas when they don't

1402
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:20,760
Speaker 1: act right, Okay, it's not for consistent and just compromise

1403
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: all goddamn.

1404
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 4: Time, right right, right?

1405
01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, But you are you're trying

1406
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 1: to find your.

1407
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:29,240
Speaker 2: Husbands at twenty five and baby, once I got out

1408
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 2: of that savage tied nigga, no.

1409
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: To tied nigga.

1410
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 4: I tell my daughters. I'm like I tell my daughters now,

1411
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 4: don't get no relationship. Explore life. You don't know nothing

1412
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 4: right now.

1413
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 8: You're not gonna really know nothing about life until you

1414
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 8: hit twenty twenty one, so don't get me there. At

1415
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 8: twenty twenty one, that's when you start experiencing stuff on

1416
01:11:58,080 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 8: your own for the first time.

1417
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:00,760
Speaker 4: So it's like you don't even know what you want

1418
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:01,720
Speaker 4: really until.

1419
01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:04,320
Speaker 1: You exactly Those guys you fucking in your twenties, they

1420
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 1: probably can't even see you. Excuse me, you know what

1421
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 1: I mean, they definitely gonna be and they might. And

1422
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:13,600
Speaker 1: that's why. That's why men, you want to be the

1423
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 1: best man possible, because you don't want your child to

1424
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: run into that nigga like you. Okay, if you're not

1425
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 1: a good man, I'm a man, that karma gonna get

1426
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 1: your ass. Because if a woman ain't never made you cry,

1427
01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:25,400
Speaker 1: your baby gonna make you.

1428
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 4: Cry because a woman made me cry.

1429
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:32,600
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a helpless feeling. It's gonna be a

1430
01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 1: helpless feeling when when when tyrone get ahold of that

1431
01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:44,840
Speaker 1: ass and and now you're battling dick. Yes, you can't

1432
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: even get her to act right no more because she

1433
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 1: get an act right. To one of my guy friends,

1434
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 1: like he would punish his daughter she was in college,

1435
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 1: he would like if he didn't, if she wasn't doing

1436
01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 1: what he wanted or something, he'd take money away, he

1437
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:02,240
Speaker 1: take resources away. I'm like, you better stop doing that

1438
01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: because if you don't get it to her, she's gonna

1439
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 1: figure it the fuck out right.

1440
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 4: For dollars easy to come back.

1441
01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: That's another thing. Y'all been to stop with that forty

1442
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:17,160
Speaker 1: dollars ship because it's inflation. And we talked back, Okay,

1443
01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: it is.

1444
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:23,639
Speaker 4: A snack, a snack, it ain't that's.

1445
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 1: That even a snack now, Like there's boxes of variety

1446
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:29,599
Speaker 1: packed chips cost more than forty dollars at this point

1447
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:31,839
Speaker 1: what store yards trapping a costco?

1448
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 4: Y'all want lifetime supply ship.

1449
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 1: Y'all is fucking sexy.

1450
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 2: All right, We'll be right back with him, yoid from Birdbie.

1451
01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 4: Easy way to say this, but fucking your standing it.

1452
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:07,240
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So tell us about the SIMP story.

1453
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:11,639
Speaker 4: Oh man, I was a professional. Simple.

1454
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:15,480
Speaker 8: After I got after me and my my ex wife separated,

1455
01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 8: I was like, I'm back outside.

1456
01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 4: What's up? We're doing whatever? You know, you feel like

1457
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 4: you can feel like you got it.

1458
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,200
Speaker 8: I know they won't me. They'd been waiting for me

1459
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 8: to get back in the streets. No, they're not waiting

1460
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 8: for you. I'm out here.

1461
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 4: I'm trying to find love. Oh god, hey, what do

1462
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 4: you need?

1463
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,519
Speaker 8: I gave a girl a damn payment for a car.

1464
01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:39,759
Speaker 8: Her car had gotten something's wrong with it, needing inspection

1465
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:40,439
Speaker 8: breaks or something.

1466
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1467
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 8: She was going to get another car, so I gave

1468
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 8: her damn payment for that car. But while this car

1469
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:47,800
Speaker 8: was messed up, I'm ubering her to work every day

1470
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 8: every morning and then going to pick her up from

1471
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:56,280
Speaker 8: work every day, Like I mean, complete semptation. It was

1472
01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:59,479
Speaker 8: just I was I was like, yo, what are you

1473
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 8: doing to get nothing in return? Like I wasn't trying

1474
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:04,000
Speaker 8: to do it to get no get no buns or

1475
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 8: get y'all.

1476
01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 2: Wasn't even having sex yet, damn nothing.

1477
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:17,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm got girl, good, good, it'll come. Nothing came,

1478
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, like and then she stopped

1479
01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:21,640
Speaker 4: talking to me.

1480
01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, after that made this major investment?

1481
01:15:25,360 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 4: What something like, bro, what are you doing?

1482
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 1: I need to see a picture of her?

1483
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 4: She was said one be like, hey, bro, you call it?

1484
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 2: Thanks you at the water, you know, like that's the

1485
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:45,840
Speaker 2: size anyway to get your ass out there.

1486
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:46,799
Speaker 4: And water cardio.

1487
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:52,080
Speaker 1: You just give me that pussy. Now, come on, everyone

1488
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:52,679
Speaker 1: is beautiful.

1489
01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 4: It's just some of y'all are beautifully challenged.

1490
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 2: I was super so so what happened? It was just

1491
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 2: like one day she just stopped responding, stopped calling, stop something.

1492
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 8: You don't do nothing for me, like she hit me

1493
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 8: with it. You don't do nothing for me when it

1494
01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 8: comes to my feelings, like when it come to other people.

1495
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 8: I tell you that I want you to stop doing this,

1496
01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 8: stop doing that, stop talking this person, stop talking to

1497
01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 8: that person.

1498
01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 4: We're not even together. We're not even together, and she.

1499
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 2: Ain't gave you nothing yet.

1500
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:25,440
Speaker 1: She was fucking you up emotional. What is a master manipulator?

1501
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 1: Sounds like dark psychology to me?

1502
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 4: Right and after that happened, I was so mad at myself,

1503
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 4: like what are you doing? What are you doing?

1504
01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 8: You know good in Hellwell, you don't need to be

1505
01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 8: doing this for nobody, especially if they're not your cheek.

1506
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: Did she ask you to do these things or were

1507
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 1: you voluntaring?

1508
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:41,559
Speaker 4: She didn't, I was doing.

1509
01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, she actually wasn't taking advantage. So we we always say,

1510
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:48,840
Speaker 1: you know, a simple.

1511
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:50,679
Speaker 4: Say yes, it's taking advantage.

1512
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 1: No, but if she needs to help, it's not though, right.

1513
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:56,080
Speaker 2: But if she had, if she knew all along that

1514
01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 2: she had no real intentions with this man.

1515
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 4: And she was taking it, that is again she was

1516
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:03,320
Speaker 4: taking advantage of my heart and.

1517
01:17:03,360 --> 01:17:06,760
Speaker 2: Then your good heart. Yeah, and then she was like,

1518
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 2: you keep talking to that girl, so that's the reason enough,

1519
01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:11,559
Speaker 2: and you stop giving me money.

1520
01:17:11,640 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 8: So by looking for right on Father's Day one year,

1521
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:22,320
Speaker 8: I took her out on Father's Day like it was

1522
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 8: on something.

1523
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:30,719
Speaker 4: Hell no, I'm getting I'm triggered. Yeah, I'm triggered. Man. Okay,

1524
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 4: say everybody.

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01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:44,479
Speaker 1: Gardening, you listening, bitch, fuck you, bitch.

1526
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:46,839
Speaker 4: Random, look bitch.

1527
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 1: Fifty five.

1528
01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:54,559
Speaker 3: She bro.

1529
01:17:57,840 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 1: That's another thing we can talk to the young ladies like,

1530
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 1: you can't ask for things after you give the pussy.

1531
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's kind of gonna be

1532
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 1: kind of hard once a man gets what most of

1533
01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,840
Speaker 1: the time. They want, they the end goal. Even if

1534
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 1: they like you and they do want they have genuine

1535
01:18:14,040 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 1: intentions for you, They want a relationship whatever they want

1536
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 1: that pussy first and foremost you give it up. You

1537
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:24,280
Speaker 1: ain't like motivation, Yeah, to do anything for you. I

1538
01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 1: don't know unless he actually fuck with you. I have

1539
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:29,080
Speaker 1: a thing, I say, a theory I have There's only

1540
01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 1: two men that actually want to be around you, and

1541
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 1: that is somebody who genuinely loves you and a nigga

1542
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 1: who ain't fucked yet. That's it, that's all.

1543
01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:38,639
Speaker 2: Or genuinely likes you too.

1544
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but after the pussy time time likes and go

1545
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 1: away Like we be chasing, they chase us, and then

1546
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:48,679
Speaker 1: we give the pussy up and somehow they don't even

1547
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 1: have to be like the CUCI may not be bad,

1548
01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 1: maybe you really don't like her personality, but you still

1549
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:54,839
Speaker 1: want to fuck. That's why I said men don't have integrity.

1550
01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 1: We FriendZone niggas that we don't want to have sex

1551
01:18:57,880 --> 01:18:59,639
Speaker 1: with and we don't like like that. We're friend zone

1552
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:01,679
Speaker 1: a matter fucking then friend zone.

1553
01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 8: We will You know her character before you get the draws,

1554
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,240
Speaker 8: because especially if it's at the point where she's making

1555
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:11,720
Speaker 8: you wait then you get to know her, and if

1556
01:19:11,760 --> 01:19:13,479
Speaker 8: you don't like her before you get the draws and

1557
01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:15,600
Speaker 8: just leave that alone. That's what you still want it

1558
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:17,680
Speaker 8: to though, But that's your fault at that point. If

1559
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:19,680
Speaker 8: I don't like you and I don't like who you

1560
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 8: are as a person, nine times out of ten, seven times,

1561
01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:25,360
Speaker 8: I'm not gonna want.

1562
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 1: One time.

1563
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 4: If you do give it up and it's good, a

1564
01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 4: nigga will do anything.

1565
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:39,960
Speaker 2: Well, maybe she's not that bad. You know, you start

1566
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 2: changing your mind about a.

1567
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:43,599
Speaker 4: Nigga will do anything for you could be ugly.

1568
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm just illusion about there being bad pussy out here.

1569
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:49,360
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know what. Maybe that's another episode.

1570
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 2: To go a whole bad pussy.

1571
01:19:53,280 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 8: What absolutely bad sex, bad sex, not necessarily bad, but

1572
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 8: definitely women get that band.

1573
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:05,000
Speaker 4: I've had bade Oh.

1574
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:10,200
Speaker 2: My god that like oh my pillow. Princess just lay there.

1575
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 4: Not even that.

1576
01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 8: She did a whole eight count like yes dancing and

1577
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:18,479
Speaker 8: it was just like she was literally on top of me,

1578
01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 8: hit me with the body road and doing all kind

1579
01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:21,200
Speaker 8: of ship.

1580
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, what the fuck is going on right now?

1581
01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on, but why didn't you

1582
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:27,559
Speaker 2: just correct her and give her direction.

1583
01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 4: I didn't like it. I didn't like what you have

1584
01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 4: to show.

1585
01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:31,720
Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to show maybe the last man like

1586
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:33,879
Speaker 1: like right now, you have to show.

1587
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:36,799
Speaker 2: Her how you're dick, because often women are just fucking

1588
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 2: you the way she fucked the last nigga.

1589
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 4: That's true, but if he tolerated that, and.

1590
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:52,920
Speaker 2: Sometimes Robot saying, my last nigga, Derek used to like

1591
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 2: that ship.

1592
01:20:55,280 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 1: Excuse me so much.

1593
01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:04,719
Speaker 8: No, don't necessarily ride because for men, you it's certain

1594
01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:07,720
Speaker 8: things that pleasure you differently when you have a sex.

1595
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 4: Some dudes, some girls might ride a certain way, but

1596
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 4: do might not like that.

1597
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:16,680
Speaker 2: You gotta ride me like, okay, but that's why you

1598
01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:17,679
Speaker 2: gotta give direction.

1599
01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:21,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, you do. But at some point niggas like you grown,

1600
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 4: you should be you should know.

1601
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Like men want the virgin hole, right,

1602
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:30,000
Speaker 1: so y'all want something. But oftentimes, like some women, some

1603
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:32,880
Speaker 1: women aren't that experience or they just been used to

1604
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 1: some basic as sex. They're not They're not.

1605
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:38,759
Speaker 4: Good who women not, y'all. I'm talking about the women who.

1606
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:41,640
Speaker 1: They probably really thought they had some good ship going on,

1607
01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 1: they really loved it.

1608
01:21:49,000 --> 01:22:00,680
Speaker 4: You don't get your d Yeah, she wants nothing here.

1609
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 1: She was all in the shoulder.

1610
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:03,639
Speaker 2: Kill with the shoulder.

1611
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: She was all up here.

1612
01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:08,760
Speaker 4: It's a pleasures.

1613
01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 1: She probably choking him to.

1614
01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:20,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm literally looking at her like what is

1615
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:20,800
Speaker 4: going on?

1616
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:22,680
Speaker 1: Just scooting a little bit.

1617
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:25,120
Speaker 4: I said, let's make a video, but that a music video.

1618
01:22:29,320 --> 01:22:31,840
Speaker 1: Yoh, I cannot, man, we got to get the fuck

1619
01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 1: this this is supposed to be about.

1620
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:38,360
Speaker 2: I can see you ain't gonna say to that babbage pussy.

1621
01:22:39,760 --> 01:22:41,639
Speaker 4: In the bedroom. I don't.

1622
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 2: It's it's gonna be a woman listening like damn, I'll

1623
01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 2: be doing that a count all the time.

1624
01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 8: He's not gonna tell you. He's not gonna tell you

1625
01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 8: because I didn't say nothing to her. He's gonna talk

1626
01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 8: about you later in.

1627
01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: His group chat. Oh my god, when I had this

1628
01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 2: robot pussy.

1629
01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:04,599
Speaker 1: George the George.

1630
01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:08,760
Speaker 4: Her name on my phone is Breezy because she was

1631
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 4: dancing like Chris Brown.

1632
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,719
Speaker 2: I'm sticking out that I've never had sex with somewhere

1633
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 2: and they got some whack ass name from me and

1634
01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 2: their phone like, oh that's so painful.

1635
01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:29,719
Speaker 4: Then so triggered.

1636
01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:34,280
Speaker 2: What if a nigga got a whack name for you

1637
01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:37,240
Speaker 2: and your phone and their phone because of your six Like.

1638
01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:51,439
Speaker 3: Damn no, bam, that's what he said. Liars what he is,

1639
01:23:52,439 --> 01:23:53,240
Speaker 3: that's what he is.

1640
01:23:55,920 --> 01:23:59,040
Speaker 4: I've done that. I got names in my good bro.

1641
01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:03,120
Speaker 1: Man your shirt.

1642
01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:12,000
Speaker 2: We do that to Big Geez Big g Nigga always

1643
01:24:12,040 --> 01:24:12,439
Speaker 2: got her.

1644
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 4: She's a hard bottom man. We do the same thing. Yeah,

1645
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:21,559
Speaker 4: her name was Breezy.

1646
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:31,600
Speaker 2: And look, Burbie, tell everybody where they can find you.

1647
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:33,519
Speaker 2: What's next for you? All that good stuff.

1648
01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:37,360
Speaker 8: Y'all can find me on social media on Instagram is

1649
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:41,919
Speaker 8: I'm just Burpie b u r P I e uh Twitters,

1650
01:24:42,000 --> 01:24:44,160
Speaker 8: I am burplee TikTok, I am Burpie.

1651
01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:51,599
Speaker 4: Facebook, y'all still use that. I do comedian for real people,

1652
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:54,800
Speaker 4: people you know in real life, my mama and my friend.

1653
01:24:56,360 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 1: That's why I got off of the real Facebook Facebook dating.

1654
01:25:02,080 --> 01:25:05,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, get somebody else to do it. Y'all can catch

1655
01:25:05,960 --> 01:25:07,200
Speaker 4: me on tour. I'm on tour right now.

1656
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:09,479
Speaker 8: My man, mister bank shot that we're not Brother's tour.

1657
01:25:10,400 --> 01:25:13,000
Speaker 8: We're coming to your city here, surely Atlanta, you're up next.

1658
01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:17,080
Speaker 8: Uh that's you know, listen to in the morning and

1659
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 8: Charlotte and surrounding areas.

1660
01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:32,040
Speaker 9: You may consent finn Fellas straight up for real talk.

1661
01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:36,120
Speaker 1: All right, y'all listen. So if you enjoyed this episode,

1662
01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:38,920
Speaker 1: please tune in every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app wherever

1663
01:25:39,040 --> 01:25:41,880
Speaker 1: the fuck you get your podcast at. This is your

1664
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:46,000
Speaker 1: co host, A J Holiday two point oh on the grams.

1665
01:25:46,040 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 2: What's up, Tam, y'all, It's me Official Tam Bama. On Instagram,

1666
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Speaker 2: y'all followed me. I love y'all. Remember speak now.

1667
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Speaker 1: And never hold your peace. Do so, you know